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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jane Kramer, an Imheart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, Hi, hey youy you you're remote live from

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Speaker 2: the field, Jana Kramer.

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Speaker 3: We miss you on.

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Speaker 2: The count last time, remote, ladies. Yes, it's a I'm

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Speaker 2: ready to come home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this one feels like a long one.

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Speaker 3: This one has been a long one.

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Speaker 2: And I think you know what's hardcat is because I

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Speaker 2: think back, so the one in January was you know,

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Speaker 2: it was just a ten day shoot, right, and then

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Speaker 2: the other one was like a week you know, so

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Speaker 2: I haven't really had the one where I lead the film.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, since you haven't had the three week or in

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Speaker 1: a while in a while, but.

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Speaker 2: This was really like three and a half, yeah, because

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Speaker 2: I had to come up to go do the Keenlin

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Speaker 2: come Back. So it's it's been more, it's been longer,

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Speaker 2: and it's I feel like it should not have been

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Speaker 2: a sixteen days shoot, like they should have maybe made

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Speaker 2: it a little bit longer, given you know, some of

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Speaker 2: the circumstances and stuff and the the things out of

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Speaker 2: control like horses. Right, so the horse isn't going to

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Speaker 2: hit its mark the first time quite possibly any of

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Speaker 2: the times, you know, so.

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Speaker 1: Well that would be so frustrating.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think what was like the craziest piece of

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Speaker 2: it is like these aren't really picture horses. These are

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Speaker 2: race horses that have raced in races, like legitimate races.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, you want me to get on that

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Speaker 3: thing and and gallup like that?

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Speaker 1: To do that?

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Speaker 3: Catherine?

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait tell us you wouldn't do that when we

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Speaker 1: were because.

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Speaker 2: I was pregnant, uh with Roman on the on the

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Speaker 2: horse movie The Last Horse.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, that one I would met

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Speaker 1: when we were at the your wedding.

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Speaker 2: Oh I wouldn't let go of us. Those horses I

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Speaker 2: would love to gallop on. Oh I thought you couldn't

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Speaker 2: want to get on them. Oh no, because they were neutered,

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Speaker 2: because I was like, what if I fall off and

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Speaker 2: I break my ankle?

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Speaker 1: That's where you was okay anyway, but you did ride

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Speaker 1: the horse.

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Speaker 2: I did, but like they held onto it, which I

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Speaker 2: was like, why are they helding onto these walking horses?

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Speaker 3: But you know that's fine walking horse.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's what it was. You were the one that

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Speaker 1: was sweet Jack. He was like the low rider.

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Speaker 3: He was the shrimp horse, and I was like that

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Speaker 3: guy's my guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Okay, So anyway, so you've been on horses,

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Speaker 1: galloping on racing horses.

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Speaker 2: But it was one of those things where it's like

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Speaker 2: they're like, all right, get up on the horse, no goat.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I've I've been on this horse for ten minutes.

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Speaker 2: I haven't got like this is and this isn't like

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Speaker 2: a movie horse that is trained to just be chill.

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Speaker 2: And I mean even so it's a horse, you know,

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Speaker 2: like and uh it, let's just say I have an

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Speaker 2: amazing horse double She's wonderful. She's a real life jockey

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Speaker 2: and she was great because I think they also realized

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Speaker 2: that this was a very Again, these are not picture horses.

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Speaker 2: These are race horses, and I didn't have the time

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Speaker 2: to actually train on this English saddle. And like, I

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Speaker 2: know Western quite well, and I also know, you know,

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Speaker 2: a horse that is neutered and a lot chiller than

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's terrifying. Jam of the jockey.

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Speaker 2: So we did a lot of walking scenes and then

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Speaker 2: it was basically oh and then we do this one

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Speaker 2: where it's it's called like a Poorman's or something where

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Speaker 2: I'm on a truck. So to get the feel of

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Speaker 2: like the hair blowing. And so I'm on the back

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Speaker 2: of a truck and I'm sitting on this apple box,

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Speaker 2: which is like a that's what we call them, said,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's actually what it's called, but

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Speaker 2: it's just a box. And I'm sitting out in the

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Speaker 2: back and Haley's like, all right, now ride and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: in the back of a car's lean forward. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: this looks like a really bad porn video, like the

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Speaker 2: back of a thick.

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Speaker 1: I'm never gonna not be able to think about that now.

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Speaker 1: And I watch this movie, They're like, ride it.

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Speaker 3: What scene is?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 3: Yes, that is?

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Speaker 2: That is a movie magic, but it's which interesting is

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Speaker 2: They were also saying, how that is how Toby maguire filmed. Uh,

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Speaker 2: he was on a barrel for what movie was that?

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Speaker 2: The horse was Seabiscuit. Oh, same thing he was. It

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Speaker 2: was a barrel. And then you know they have the

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Speaker 2: race horses or the actual body doubles do right, the

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Speaker 2: full one that seems safer. And here's the thing too,

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Speaker 2: And I was I was telling Haley this because I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm all about being a team player and getting the

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Speaker 2: shot and doing it. But there was a point where

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Speaker 2: it is everyone is rushing and we are losing daylight,

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Speaker 2: and we needed to get this scene because we were

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Speaker 2: we were getting off of this farm and the horses

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Speaker 2: are getting spooked because everyone's like, all right, come on.

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Speaker 2: It's like, you can't yell around horses. You cannot have

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Speaker 2: that that kind of energy because they sense. That's why

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Speaker 2: they're you know, equine therapy for a reason, because they're

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Speaker 2: very they help calm you down. And and these horses

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Speaker 2: are spooked and they're like hard, get on, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm freaking, this is, this is and then you're gonna

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Speaker 2: let them. You're not letting go of this horse, like

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Speaker 2: because even Gina was like, this is the horse is

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Speaker 2: spooked and it might shot out, and I was like

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Speaker 2: if if it shots out, I'm I'm breaking my back

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Speaker 2: because I'm jumping off these things.

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Speaker 1: Oh god.

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Speaker 2: But anyways, okay, but yeah, we got we got the ride.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we got the we got the shots, and

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Speaker 2: now we're on the nighttime scenes and so yeah, two

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Speaker 2: more days and then I'm home.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I miss you. I miss you. Guys. So excited

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Speaker 3: anything going on, y'all's world, world world.

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Speaker 1: Not really, It's like end of school, just trying to every.

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Speaker 3: Day is a theme.

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Speaker 2: Every day's a special snack, every day, hot day for Jason. Oh,

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Speaker 2: we had that yesterday silly hat day, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know what's silly?

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Speaker 3: Let me gime in.

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Speaker 1: We don't really do those so well. I mean, like

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Speaker 1: the school does, but my kids just are never really interested. Thankfully.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Love wasn't into it. I'm like, thank god. I was like,

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Speaker 2: you're sure you don't want a silly hat? I'm willing

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Speaker 2: to participate. She's like, Mom, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, when they've hit that, it's like nice, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't have to worry about it so much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Meanwhile, Legend's like it's camping day and I was like, okay, Bunny, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, we have a flash light and blanket day tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I remember those.

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Speaker 3: Should we have a flashlight? But Mom's of Amazon.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, okay, Well gosh, guys, I mean the updates,

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Speaker 2: I just don't have any. Well, mine might be an update,

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Speaker 2: plus wine about it, so I'm holding it.

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Speaker 1: I know. I'm like, isn't updates become what it sticks

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Speaker 1: in our mind because we want to whine about it?

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Speaker 2: Well, for those that really want to know, I still

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Speaker 2: have not started my period. I am on like day,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, eighteen whatever I can, let me, let

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Speaker 2: me go to my flow app right now. So flow

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Speaker 2: says what does what does flow say? And it goes

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Speaker 2: another pregnancy incoming? No, I'm seventeen days late.

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Speaker 3: So that's fun.

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Speaker 1: So are we?

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Speaker 2: I texted Nate and I said, hey, hey, buddy, so

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Speaker 2: should I be concerned?

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Speaker 3: Am I in full on menopause? You know?

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Speaker 2: Someone did text me that the poll ups are could

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Speaker 2: be an issue and you've had like fibroid stuff before.

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Speaker 3: Are we nervous about that?

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Speaker 2: Well? What he had said, and it sounds very technical

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Speaker 2: and very it always does, you know. I said, hey, buddy,

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Speaker 2: I took a pregnancy test on the podcast It's negative

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Speaker 2: live And he basically said that sometimes with testosterone, because

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Speaker 2: I take testosterone, it can stop your period. And he goes,

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Speaker 2: and then so I texted him yesterday. I was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: still you know, no period? Kind of freeing out a bit,

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Speaker 2: have some stomach cramps and he said, I said, should

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Speaker 2: I take my testosterone? Because I'm also getting tired from

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Speaker 2: not doing the testosterone, And so he's like, do the testosterone.

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Speaker 2: He's like, but when you get back, we're going to

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Speaker 2: get you some progesterone. And progesterone and estradal is what

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Speaker 2: I'm going to use to kickstart your period again. But

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it's so to me, I'm like, but why

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Speaker 2: just kickstart me feels like the equivalent of being on

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Speaker 2: a racehorse without guidance. Yeah, I'm not trying to do

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Speaker 2: for this whole moment, I'm just like, I know and if.

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Speaker 1: I mean, could it just be perimenopausal stuff?

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Speaker 2: Like maybe, because I mean, like, why did I have

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Speaker 2: it for twelve days the last time? I've never had

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Speaker 2: a period that long. But then I start to, you

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Speaker 2: know me, kat I start to go something else really wrong,

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Speaker 2: like is there something?

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Speaker 1: But I'm forty one.

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Speaker 2: I have to remember that this is this is it

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Speaker 2: now and women start to have your regular periods.

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Speaker 1: It kind of starts to get a regular for a

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Speaker 1: lot of people. So to me, that would be besides

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Speaker 1: my first thought of you being pregnant would be probably

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Speaker 1: just some peri minimals been a pause of stuff. Everyone

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Speaker 1: it you know, takes a couple of years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your sleep schedules off too. It's like your body

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Speaker 2: doesn't know what is night and day. I mean, there's

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Speaker 2: so many things that can go into this.

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Speaker 1: The testosterone would make sense so too, because you had

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Speaker 1: just started taking it again. Yeah I did, so that

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Speaker 1: would definitely make sense.

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Speaker 3: So tbd.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, that's that's my only thing, and I'm ready

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Speaker 2: to come home. So let's jump into wine about it.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Go girl. Okay, I have a theory and I just

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Speaker 2: need to know if it's true or not. So I'm

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Speaker 2: nervous that I'm doomed in my marriage.

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Speaker 1: Shall me start there? No?

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Speaker 2: Wait, so I can't have You're nervous you're doomed in

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Speaker 2: your marriage? I mean only and then they're going to

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Speaker 2: grab that for sure. I think that I didn't mean it.

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Speaker 2: It's like, can there be So I would say, I'm

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Speaker 2: an outgoing person, but I recharge so much on my own.

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Speaker 2: So that's like introverted, right, And so we all know

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Speaker 2: that I'm not a huge fan of like hosting people like, well,

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Speaker 2: certain people I am, some certain people I'm not. But

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Speaker 1: not an insecurity, but I'm like, I don't have a

436
00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 1: pool at my house and I don't have anything fun

437
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 1: at my house. I'm like, I mean we can play games,

438
00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,080
Speaker 1: like come over and play games, you know, and and

439
00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 1: I should do more of that probably, but like, and

440
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,760
Speaker 1: I think that's where we kind of got in it

441
00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:06,399
Speaker 1: with you too, because it was like, oh, we'll just

442
00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,400
Speaker 1: go to Jani's house. She's got the pool, she's got

443
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: the fun stuff.

444
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:10,800
Speaker 3: But I love it too, though, to have like the

445
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 3: place that I go to, and I.

446
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,639
Speaker 4: Think for us for a good solution to all of

447
00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,720
Speaker 4: this kid's party in two weeks, right.

448
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:24,879
Speaker 1: But I think it's yeah, no, But seriously, it's recognizing that, like, Okay,

449
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 1: I am a homebody. I don't love to host. I

450
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,359
Speaker 1: would love. It's not that I don't want you in

451
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,399
Speaker 1: my home. It's not that like that's fine, but like

452
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 1: I would rather go to your house. If I'm just

453
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,040
Speaker 1: being completely honest, I would rather go to Cramer's. I mean,

454
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 1: I've never been to your home at all, but that's okay,

455
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 1: weird haven't been to mine?

456
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:45,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, because how she was posed to me by a

457
00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:48,120
Speaker 2: mutual friend and they're like, oh, you know because Nick

458
00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,439
Speaker 2: and Kat's house is so cute or something, and I

459
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 2: was like.

460
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 1: Who who was that that's been to my house?

461
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 2: Isn't that funny that people are listening probably will go

462
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 2: what I know?

463
00:20:58,800 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 1: And that funny? It's why?

464
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,879
Speaker 2: But then, and that's what's crazy, because we've also been

465
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,520
Speaker 2: to like a million cities together and we have you know.

466
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 1: There's another aspect of this to where this doesn't really

467
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:10,680
Speaker 1: have to do with you, but it kind of does.

468
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 1: When we were all doing cards. We were all over

469
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 1: the world, and at the beginning, I offered my house

470
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: several times, but I was the furthest away and no

471
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 1: one took me up on it.

472
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 3: Well, and at home, everyone was.

473
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 1: Like, oh, well, maybe we'll go to Jana's because it's

474
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 1: so Then I was like, totally, it makes sense, it's closer.

475
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 1: So I never offered again.

476
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:32,679
Speaker 2: Well here is not like for sure, Yeah, like logistically

477
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,639
Speaker 2: we're not as close as like the home people like

478
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 2: at home, everyone lives within ten minutes of each other,

479
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 2: Like I'm a solid thirty.

480
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,919
Speaker 1: Right, and that's what people have to understand. We're not

481
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 1: me and you were definitely not close to each other.

482
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 2: Jana is because I see her backyard.

483
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:48,640
Speaker 3: Exactly if she ever moves.

484
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 2: You know. It's like right when I came up, do

485
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,680
Speaker 2: I got to find new friends that have no you know.

486
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 4: We're going to have a solution because because I need you.

487
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 4: Yeah no, no, no, I like you friends replacing you. But

488
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 4: I'm yeah, yeah, but.

489
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 1: Don't cave up on me, is what I'm saying. Don't

490
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:02,399
Speaker 1: live up.

491
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 2: So that's where I got with this, because even Pamela

492
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 2: and I like had this exchange where she was like,

493
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 2: I just feel like I haven't seen you, and she

494
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:10,919
Speaker 2: was going to be in an event that I was

495
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 2: going to be.

496
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 3: I didn't end up going the same Yeah, and.

497
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 2: The book I oh you said what she did the

498
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 2: cookbook one?

499
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 3: And I said the cook.

500
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, I just got uncomfortable fast.

501
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

502
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so she.

503
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 2: Did, I do not get invited to the other one.

504
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 2: I don't know what the other one is, so we'll

505
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 2: go No.

506
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 3: I wasn't either, so us three were excluded.

507
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 1: We'll go back to that off okay, okay, yeah.

508
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 2: So I was like, you know, hey, I was like,

509
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 2: are you going to be there? I will be excited

510
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,119
Speaker 2: because I just also was like, who's going to be there?

511
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,320
Speaker 2: I don't know who's invited. That's always and I'm kind

512
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:47,640
Speaker 2: of like outskirt invited.

513
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 1: So I did know that she invited our whole group though,

514
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 1: said something to me.

515
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 3: Which one cook the cookok Kara Clark.

516
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: Yes, she told me she really wanted our group blah

517
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, and then not everyone good her book.

518
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,640
Speaker 2: But yes, So then Pamelin was like, I just kind

519
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 2: of like miss you. She was, well, she didn't say

520
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 2: kind of, She's like I miss you. I feel like

521
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 2: I've kind of like been like tucked away and I've

522
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: been going after my goals. And I was like, and

523
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 2: so I just wrote, I sent her a voice note

524
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 2: back and I said, I just want you to know

525
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 2: I like I can speak for me at least, like

526
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 2: I feel the same way. We're all grinding, we're all hustling.

527
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 2: We're all friends that are entrepreneurs, which is like we're

528
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 2: all building businesses and trying to take shows and movies

529
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 2: and podcasts and like just trying to freaking build something

530
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 2: for our families. And like, I love one thing I

531
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 2: can say the good of this, because I started to

532
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 2: get sad too. I was like I just miss like

533
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 2: hanging out and how easy it is. And after Scotland especially,

534
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 2: like we all just like, oh we're so cozy and

535
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 2: we got to live together, and I was like, this

536
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 2: is really fun, Like we should Melrose place this lifestyle

537
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 2: and like, let's all do this. You know. I wish

538
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,239
Speaker 2: that interest rates weren't so high because I would think

539
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 2: about moving closer. But like I told Pam, I was like,

540
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 2: I the one thing that I love about this is

541
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 2: I don't feel like we're less friends because I'm not

542
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 2: seeing you, you know, and like hugging your neck, I

543
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 2: feel like voice memoing kind of makes me feel connected.

544
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,719
Speaker 1: But like, well, I have to remember for my I

545
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:17,400
Speaker 1: have to remind myself that, especially Jana, I think about

546
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 1: this a lot actually, that that is one of your

547
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 1: love languages. Like I know that. I know that when

548
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 1: I can't come over or whatever that is, it is

549
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 1: hard on you and it's hurtful. And I try to

550
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: remember that and then I miss it too, Like I

551
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 1: absolutely miss it too, you guys.

552
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 2: I'm only crying because I'm really tired, so I kind

553
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 2: of actually wanted to cry this whole time, but I've

554
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 2: been trying to lock it up because.

555
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: It's sad, because we are it is. It is like

556
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 1: even being the homebody that I am, like, I'm still

557
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 1: sad about it. I don't want anyone to think that

558
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: I don't think about it, that I'm not sad about it,

559
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: even though there may be those moments that I'm in

560
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 1: a place where I'm like, I just can't do it tonight.

561
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: I can't. I gotta be home. I got it, you know.

562
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 1: And that's a lot of coping stuff too, you know,

563
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 1: as we go through all of this, but it's so

564
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 1: interesting you bring this up because I've been thinking about

565
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:09,360
Speaker 1: it a lot lately. And it's summer. We're gonna have

566
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: more time, We're gonna have pool parties at Jana's house.

567
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: We're not gonna be upset then yours and you're not

568
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: a house.

569
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: And I have a baby that's about to turn too,

570
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 2: so like it's cheesy, yes, like that's part of it.

571
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 3: Is like I've been so.

572
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: Tacket one down.

573
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: Well just hard.

574
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 5: It's like I don't want to be like not inviting

575
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 5: people over, but you Cris, I'm so frecking tired. It's

576
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 5: like I don't see my husband. I have help most days,

577
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 5: but like only until like four or five, and so

578
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 5: I'm doing every bedtime, every dinner, like you know, and

579
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 5: so like of course I want people around, Like I'll

580
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 5: be honest, like I love my neighborhood because I can

581
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 5: just walk and it's like impromptu play dates in a

582
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 5: driveway or whatever. But then I get back home and

583
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 5: I'm like, gosh, that was so good for my soul

584
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 5: to like plug it into a community. But the thought

585
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 5: of like packing everyone up and driving thirty and then

586
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 5: it's really fun with a two year old until it's not.

587
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 5: And then you're driving home and I'm usually by myself,

588
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 5: and then I've got three tired kids trying to do

589
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 5: bedtimes and everything's late, and it's like I don't want

590
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 5: that to be the reason I don't see people. And

591
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 5: then I'm like I don't want people to also think

592
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 5: I just don't want to have people over. Like there

593
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 5: is a family that we hang out with like more

594
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 5: often because they're in a different stage of life and

595
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 5: they come over and that's great, but it's like not

596
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 5: you guys, you know, like it's just not the ease

597
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 5: of what we have, Like I can I don't have

598
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 5: to be cute, I don't have to be buttoned up.

599
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 5: I don't have to pretend like everything is great. That's

600
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 5: like the core friendship. I just I don't know, I

601
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 5: just feel like we're all in the season.

602
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think for myself that, like I keep

603
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 1: reminding myself when I think about it, like it takes intentionality,

604
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 1: it takes making it happen, And I think I am

605
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: speaking for myself. I can get very lazy about that.

606
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: I can want to send that text and say, hey,

607
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: what are the dates, let's do this whatever, But then

608
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: when people don't respond or don't pick a date, then

609
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 1: it's like okay and just kind.

610
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 3: Of let it like our youugre group the last few

611
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 3: because it's like yeah.

612
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: And actually stay on Yeah, And that's usually how a

613
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: lot of things happen, honestly, when I'm you know, like, okay,

614
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 1: let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do it, so

615
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: let's be better about it because I think that, Hey,

616
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: I'm excited for summer. I think summer is going to

617
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 1: be it's going to be busy, but it's also going

618
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: to be easier. It gets easier in the summer. Yeah.

619
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's just like having that, like you said,

620
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 2: intentionality behind it, because I was just talking with Alan

621
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 2: about that too, where it's like we need to be

622
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 2: more intentional about date nights and having it and having

623
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: that connection because when we actually go when we finally

624
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 2: went on that one a couple of weeks ago, it

625
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 2: was how much we were so much more connected. And

626
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 2: obviously we're connected as friends and stuff, but there's something

627
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 2: to be said to have that fun and that connection

628
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 2: time with everybody, and Chris and I get it. On

629
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 2: Mother's Day, we went to a farm and I mean,

630
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 2: there was other couples there at this farm, and I

631
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: didn't I said maybe two words.

632
00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 3: Because I'm chasing.

633
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 2: He's of everywhere, you know, I'm chasing from one side

634
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: to the other side of the farm, like having him

635
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 2: to not kill himself, you know, and picking up all

636
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 2: this random stuff. So I get I get it, But yes,

637
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 2: yate to pool parties.

638
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: Yes, and you're really in it right now. Like I

639
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: wouldn't go to anyone else's house with that age. It's

640
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: because then you're worried about that. That was the hardest

641
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: because I'm not literally chasing after him and someone else's

642
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 1: home making sure they don't kill themselves or break something.

643
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought, but this is this is also the fun.

644
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 2: This is actually where you and I became best friends

645
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 2: in the Jolie and love being so tiny at the

646
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 2: same time. So I was like, I can bring Lyon

647
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 2: girl to you more easily because your house is.

648
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: Babyproof, maybe not mine. Mine is dog proof.

649
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 2: There's a headline Jamie Lee Curtis reveals movie set remark

650
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: that made her get plastic surgery at twenty five. I

651
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 2: regretted it immediately. She shares the painful reason she first

652
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: decided to get plastic surgery. So the Oscar winner at

653
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 2: sixty six, I had a new interview that she had

654
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 2: plastic surgery at the age of twenty five after receiving

655
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 2: criticism criticizing comments about her appearance from a cinematographer on

656
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: the set of the nineteen eighty five film Perfect. He

657
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I'm not shooting her today. Her eyes

658
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: are baggie And I was twenty five, so for him

659
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 2: to say that, it was very embarrassing, Curtis said on

660
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: sixty Minutes Soon. So as soon as the movie finished,

661
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 2: I ended up having some plastic surgery. To be told

662
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 2: that at twenty fo oh, I mean yeah, has anyone

663
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 2: ever made a comment that stuck with you? I know

664
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 2: Catherine knows mine because this is around that I was

665
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 2: twenty years old and I was a Red Bull was

666
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 2: at twenty or nineteen. I think it was nineteen, and

667
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 2: I was working for Red Bull. I would be doing

668
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: private parties in Los Angeles. So I would come to

669
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 2: the private party and I'd bring the Red Bull, which

670
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 2: I never drank because I didn't drink caffeine, but yay

671
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 2: go red Bull. Here have a drink, and I'd pour

672
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 2: it in with like the vodka.

673
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 3: I don't know.

674
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 2: However, they made the drinks and it was at a

675
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 2: plastic surgeon's house and he was like I asked him.

676
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 2: I was like, all right, so if there's one thing

677
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: that like I would that you would do to me, Like,

678
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 2: what would it be? Like, stupid girl? And he goes, oh,

679
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 2: your nose, hands down. And ever since then, I have

680
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 2: wanted I've always been I never one time was insecure

681
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 2: about my nose until that plastic surgeon told me that

682
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 2: I needed to get a nose job. I haven't, obviously,

683
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 2: but I'm always Catherine nose. Any picture, I'm like, no,

684
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: my nose looks bad in that? Oh no, I don't.

685
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 2: Can they make my nose with photos? If anyone I've

686
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 2: ever worked with it?

687
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,479
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's fine except for if she thinks her

688
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: nose doesn't look good.

689
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 3: She's also stunning all the time, which.

690
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: Drives me crazy because I'm like, I can't pick these

691
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: photos for you because I don't see the issue. I

692
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 1: see nothing wrong with your nose. I genuinely can't decide

693
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: when you think your nose looks bad or not because

694
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: I don't see it.

695
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 3: I've wanted a nose job my entire life. So we

696
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 3: all know that.

697
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 2: If anyone ever made a comment to you about it, Yes,

698
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 2: when I worked with kindergarteners, kindergarteners, would the principle say

699
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 2: something to you. No, the kindergarteners, they're so honest, Yeah,

700
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 2: they were all and I was younger, So like, imagine,

701
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: now we've got another like twenty plus years of growth

702
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 2: on this schnas. I'm like, who even knows what how

703
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 2: big they would think it is? Now I've always wanted

704
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: it just a little center right here?

705
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 3: Actually do it? Yeah?

706
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, really, it's like a it's a high probability.

707
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 3: For me really still to this day. Yep, oh yeah,

708
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 3: more so because again I don't notice that I just sautiful.

709
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: You really, I truly don't.

710
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 2: For me, it's the width. It was just a tiny

711
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: bit normal. But then I struggle, much like it's like

712
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 2: you struggle, like we didn't when we talked about the boobs,

713
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: because it's like, this is the way God made me.

714
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: I look like.

715
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: I think part of it is I look like my

716
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: dad so much. And I don't mean it's like bad,

717
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: it's just like I don't look like a dude either,

718
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 2: you know, So that's tricky for.

719
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: Me, you would do well. I had a teacher tell

720
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: me I was flat, which I was in high school.

721
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: Excuse me, Yeah, it was a woman tea. She just huh,

722
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: she's that kind of like yeah, And I already wanted

723
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: a boob job but didn't get it. And then that

724
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: just made me think, this doesn't have to do with

725
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: plastic surgery. But remember when I was like my heaviest

726
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: and we were at your house at a pool party

727
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: and Jolie was like, you got a baby in there.

728
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: I was like, it's time to lose weight. And I

729
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: literally looked at her and I go, oh, honey. I

730
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: was like, there's not but like it looks like it,

731
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: like totally like cause you were like, I'm so sorry,

732
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, I've gained weight. I'm in a swimsuit.

733
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: It looks like that. I have a.

734
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 2: Discussion with her to be like, we don't talk to

735
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 2: people about and it's just the innocence of a child,

736
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: but it is so But anyway, but I was.

737
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: Like, hey, it helped me go, you know what, I

738
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: probably should lose some weight, but I haven't done Yeah,

739
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: I haven't done plastic surgery.

740
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 2: I think if I did it, I would regrets it,

741
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: but it sounds like, yeah, Kristen, you I would not

742
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: regret it.

743
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, like really would be excited. Yeah.

744
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 2: Actually I also I'm trying to think of I used

745
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 2: to get Oh. I almost just want to say his

746
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: full name, just because he was such a little but

747
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 2: in elementary school, I had one that used to call

748
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 2: me Carpenter's dream flat as a board. Yeah, Bobby, I

749
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 2: won't say his last name, but he also he took

750
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: a binder.

751
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: Oh, the old binder thing as a board, and.

752
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, Bobby. I hope Bobby is a

753
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 2: better man today. I hope Dan is too.

754
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 3: For that matter.

755
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 2: Oh yo, hey guys, have you guys been following the

756
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 2: Eric and Lyell Menendez resentencing?

757
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 3: No, not really, you haven't. Did you guys watch Monster?

758
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 1: I started it and could not finish it why, I

759
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: just I don't know. The documentary thing is hard for me.

760
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: Like I love thrillers and I love all that, but

761
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:01,479
Speaker 1: like that one just was I don't know.

762
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 3: Did you watch the documentary?

763
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: I started it, didn't finish it, Okay.

764
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 2: But then so there's a documentary, then there's the Monster

765
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:09,760
Speaker 2: one that Oh.

766
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: No, sorry, I actually think I started both of them.

767
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: And didn't kind of eather up them because I think

768
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 2: too they portrayed certain things in differently.

769
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh huh, yeah, I had heard that.

770
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 2: What do you think about them potentially getting parole for them?

771
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: So that's where we're at as they make it parole, right.

772
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: It's the judge re sentences saying that they making the

773
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: brother brothers eligible for parole and possible freedom. Now when

774
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,439
Speaker 2: that is who knows. But you know, Lyle's fifty seven,

775
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: Eric's fifty four, they've served I mean, I don't know

776
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 2: most of our lives. Yeah, because it was around the

777
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 2: time of the O. J. Simpson, which is why they're saying,

778
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 2: you know, is it with their thirty five years, but

779
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 2: you know for the slaying of their of their mom

780
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 2: and dad, saying that they they've been there since nineteen

781
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 2: ninety six. So but they said that there was sexual

782
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 2: assaults and some there's you know, there was evidence in

783
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 2: some saying maybe they were just trying to use that

784
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 2: to get out, you know, to get out of the case.

785
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 2: So I'm just curious, do you think they served enough

786
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: time or is it something where they should stay in.

787
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: Here's my thing, how many people are in jail for

788
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: committing heinous crimes like that that were probably sexually assaulted

789
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: or treated some way when they were a child, that yes,

790
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: probably caused this to happen. But if we went and

791
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: let everybody out that does these terrible things because terrible

792
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: things were done to them, you don't stop what is

793
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: still can happen. So I struggle with that a lot

794
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: because I have empathy or yeah, I have empathy for

795
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 1: that and that that was done to them, But also,

796
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: can you let them out if they're if they're able

797
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: to commit a crime like that. I don't know, I

798
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: don't I just I bet you the numbers are staggering.

799
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: If people who have been sexually assaulted, who are in

800
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 1: jail from killing people, m hmm, I would agree some

801
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: sort of like sort of abuse. I'm sure it is

802
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: literally staggering. So and then if I start letting everyone out, but.

803
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 2: My fear would be who would then use that as

804
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: a scapegoat to then kill someone They don't?

805
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, like yeah, like they you know so often I

806
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:32,280
Speaker 1: can't imagine. It's very slow. Yeah, it's interesting and it's sad,

807
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: and it breaks my heart. You know that so many

808
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: of these people have gone through that and it's caused

809
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 1: them to get to this place.

810
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 3: But you did commit the act of still.

811
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: Committed the crime, so you I don't know, you gotta

812
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 1: do the time.

813
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, they also have to just live with themselves so much.

814
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 3: It's tricky too, because like.

815
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 2: I don't even know if I want to say this,

816
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,240
Speaker 2: because I just feel like it just opens the gates.

817
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 2: But it's like, you know, it's Christians, right, there's redemption

818
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 2: and there's forgiveness and there's all of these things. So

819
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 2: it's like not that there's ever excuse to take someone's

820
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 2: life ever. But then you also have these young boys

821
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 2: that if that is what was happening to them their

822
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 2: entire life, to want to do that enough to have

823
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,240
Speaker 2: the freedom, whether that meant that you went to jail

824
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 2: and that still was freedom is such a dark place

825
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 2: that I can't even fathom. Yeah, for sure, how you

826
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 2: process or how you can even I mean, that doesn't

827
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like everything is like tricky

828
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 2: to say. We talk so much like we're just friends

829
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 2: and so, and then I forget there's gonna be a

830
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 2: million opinions, but it is, you know, if you believe

831
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 2: in that, and there has been so many success stories

832
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 2: of people that have been in prison and have like reformed, yeah,

833
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: and and have served time and so don't they allow

834
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,319
Speaker 2: like don't we always preach or not always preach, but

835
00:37:55,400 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 2: second chances and change and what maybe God is doing

836
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 2: and for them.

837
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: There, Yeah, tricky, that's that's a hard one, ladies.

838
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 2: I know we were running out of time, right, kit Kat,

839
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,680
Speaker 2: you gotta go, So I say we save our listener

840
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 2: advice and we add two onto next week because they

841
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 2: are this one is a juicy one, and uh we

842
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 2: had another one that will add on to it. So, ladies,

843
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 2: next week I'll be on the.

844
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: Couch with you, yay.

845
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 3: And next week we're gonna party.

846
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sending a text one of them really bad

847
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: at guards can't do that, Okay, everyone's I can't.

848
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 3: Okay, bye, and everybody gets quiet again and nobody.

849
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 2: That's Sarah Brice Like She'll be like, we should go

850
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 2: to New York and I'm like, okay, great, how about

851
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: these days?

852
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 3: Well I really can't. Oh yeah, she has a good

853
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 3: she has the want.

854
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 2: Way.

855
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 1: Let's go on a trip that me and you were

856
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: the only one I ever truly Yeah the trip

857
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 3: All right, I got a love,