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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's get to it, Tony, mister Levi's just

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Speaker 3: speaking out about how many times you should.

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Speaker 2: Wash your jeans.

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Speaker 1: Yes, this came up the other day.

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Speaker 4: And when it comes to denhim, I feel like there's

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Speaker 4: so many tips inside out by themselves, delicate, gentle cycle air,

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Speaker 4: dry them whatever it may be.

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Speaker 1: That this one was kind of crazy. You never wash

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Speaker 1: them at all?

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Speaker 3: Nor Okay, I can't do that because I have stained.

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Speaker 4: I'm really excited about his cuffed jeans jeans. I can't

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Speaker 4: see him over the table. Yeah, let's see that stretch.

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Speaker 4: Wow at that ankle, your legs, you your ankle leg hair?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I just did a fresh.

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Speaker 1: You do the whole body with the razor.

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Speaker 2: I did the whole lego.

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Speaker 1: How much time to spend this shower?

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Speaker 2: Actually shoes?

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Speaker 1: Let me see your shoes.

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Speaker 3: It's not the shower, it's on a towel in the back.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to close the blinds because it looks ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: In case anybody's watching.

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Speaker 1: A towel in the bathroom. It's a whole yoga session

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Speaker 1: with the razor.

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Speaker 2: Back to the stonewash jeans.

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Speaker 4: Well, speaking of the bathroom, this is where this story

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Speaker 4: is headed. So the CEO of Levi Strauss, so Charles Berg,

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Speaker 4: is basically saying that you should. He wanted to clarify

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Speaker 4: so when he said never wash them at all, it's

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Speaker 4: not really what he meant.

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Speaker 1: He meant spot clean.

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Speaker 4: So if you were to spill a little curry or

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Speaker 4: something like that, just spot clean where you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe have a stake, or if they get super gross,

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Speaker 1: you shower with them on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah down for that? Are you down for them?

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Speaker 1: Sounds worse to me because they get thick. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like how would you even peel them off afterwards?

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Speaker 4: But he says that this makes it so that they

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Speaker 4: keep their shape and they won't shrink.

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Speaker 1: And you go into the let's picture that for a second.

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Speaker 2: That's the takeaway.

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Speaker 3: The CEO of Levis says, shower with your jeans on

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Speaker 3: to clean them. And just so I'm clear, why don't

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Speaker 3: we wash them?

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Speaker 5: I think I don't understand why why did they die?

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Speaker 5: Like I mind, I'm really stiff when I wash them.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like it though, like they feel.

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Speaker 2: Stiff when they are like cardboard waist.

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Speaker 1: I can't what do you mean by stiff, like stiff.

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Speaker 4: Like cardboard, like hard of detergent?

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Speaker 1: Are you guys?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: No, but some denim is stiff actually, and it gets stiffer.

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Speaker 3: But when my belly sits around on top of stiff jeans,

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Speaker 3: I get in a sad state.

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Speaker 2: And you don't want that.

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Speaker 4: I just switched to that that detergent that's like really

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Speaker 4: good for the environment.

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Speaker 1: That's a like a sheet. You guys tried that yet?

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Speaker 2: We should?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, really, I need to get the brand.

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Speaker 4: I forget, but it's it comes and it's just like

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Speaker 4: a piece of paper. Yeah, it's like a piece of

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Speaker 4: paper and you throw it in there and now you

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Speaker 4: don't have to buy like the big bottles of plastic.

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Speaker 2: And send the link to because then that's the step and.

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Speaker 4: It's been a game changer, and it washes our clothes

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Speaker 4: so well, and it's we love.

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Speaker 2: It all right. There you have it.

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Speaker 3: That's your takeaway, showering your jeans. Let me grab Mike

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Speaker 3: on the phone. Now I'm not quite sure I understand this,

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Speaker 3: but Mike is on the line here and says that

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Speaker 3: his girlfriend agreed to not marry him, but be his

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Speaker 3: nephew's godmother.

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Speaker 2: Is that accurate? Is that right?

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Speaker 6: That is right?

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Speaker 3: But I'm trying to understand the what of the what here?

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Speaker 3: So you wanted to marry her?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we own our own house together. We live off

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Speaker 6: Melrose and we and we have a dog together. And

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Speaker 6: I just feel like being my nephew's godmother is a

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Speaker 6: lot more serious. It's like a life commitment too, And

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Speaker 6: you're ready to make that we own the house together,

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Speaker 6: we might as well just you know, be married.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're saying, Hey, if you're willing to be

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Speaker 3: my nephew's god mother, you should be willing to be

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Speaker 3: with me for life.

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 6: We always talked about being together for a life. She's

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Speaker 6: a couple of years younger than me, and she's in

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Speaker 6: school and that's her excuse, is that she wants to

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Speaker 6: wait till she's done with school. And I know it's

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Speaker 6: probably only another year if everything goes to plan.

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Speaker 2: Well why can't you wait?

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Speaker 6: I love her so much, man. I don't know if

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Speaker 6: you've ever felt like that this is your person in

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Speaker 6: your life?

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Speaker 7: Ryan, But.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, have you felt that?

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Speaker 2: Ryan?

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Speaker 3: Way to put it on me? Uh So, Mike, listen.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna take airtime of MIC's to talk about mine.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I say love is patient, right, love

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Speaker 1: is patients say it's blind, yeah, and they say love

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Speaker 1: is kind.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They say a lot of things about love. Come up

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Speaker 2: with that.

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Speaker 3: Get that whole full source, all right. So my view

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Speaker 3: on this, Mike, is good news. She wants to be

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Speaker 3: the godmother. That's a sign she's willing to commit into

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Speaker 3: your life and your circle and your family. That's for

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Speaker 3: a long time.

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Speaker 2: So give her a beat.

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Speaker 3: Like school is stressful and it's the beginning, give her

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Speaker 3: a beat to get through it. I could see myself

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Speaker 3: saying that back when I was in school.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think she just wants to have the

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Speaker 1: timeline be right.

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Speaker 3: So Mike, be patient, give her a beat. This is

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Speaker 3: a good that she wants to be the godmother.

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Speaker 2: And good luck, Mike.

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Speaker 6: I appreciate your advice. I listen to your show every day.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Gay, Thanks brother.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't you think it's a good signs like if

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Speaker 3: she don't want to be with him, she wouldn't accept

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Speaker 3: the offer exactly.

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Speaker 1: I think it'd be worse if she was like, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be the Godmother.

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Speaker 3: Love is patient and kind. Love does not envy or boast.

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Speaker 3: It is not arrogant or rude. Nope, it does not

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Speaker 3: insist on its own way. It is not irritable or resentful.

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Speaker 3: It does not rejoice it wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.

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Speaker 1: You re recited these and at our It's the Bible.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Corinthians thirteen.

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Speaker 5: Don't you find it interesting that the first thing it

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Speaker 5: says is love is patient.

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Speaker 3: I find it interesting that somebody googled that and throw

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Speaker 3: it up on my screen so fast. Yeah, somebody walking

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Speaker 3: around with that. That's you're gonna have a great day.

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Speaker 3: Somebody's looking after you. You know, we're talking about taking

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Speaker 3: us with you wherever you go. You can also listen

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Speaker 3: on a smart speaker. I was reading it Dallas, Maverick's

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Speaker 3: owner Shark Tank billionaire Mark Cuban said one of the

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Speaker 3: best business ideas for young entrepreneurs is to become an

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Speaker 3: expert on Alexa WHOA, so you can charge people good

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Speaker 3: money to train them on how to best utilize the

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Speaker 3: voice assistant. So there you go. But you know, if

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Speaker 3: you're talking to Alexa, tell them to listen to one

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Speaker 5: Now, really good you could learn other things and teach

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Speaker 5: people those things.

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Speaker 3: So you could go to school to learn all the

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Speaker 3: device translations and the advice handbook, Like.

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Speaker 5: My parents are always asking me how to work Postmates

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Speaker 5: and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I do know, right, all right, you

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Speaker 1: just hire somebody.

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Speaker 3: So you're saying, go to school to learn all of

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Speaker 3: the functions of apps and devices and installations and things

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Speaker 3: like that, right, yeah, Well that's what Mark Cuban just said.

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Speaker 5: That was the whole story, right, But he's saying just

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Speaker 5: with Alexa, and I'm saying this could go much further.

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Speaker 2: I could go much further. You're right.

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Speaker 3: You could teach Tanya's parents to use Postmates and Insta cart.

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Speaker 3: It could be so fun. Ah here's Mel, Hey Mel

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Speaker 3: on line nine this morning. Mel, how are you doing.

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Speaker 10: I'm good.

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Speaker 3: So you say you matched with your guy friend on

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Speaker 3: bumble tell me.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, So I saw my friend on Bumble and I

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Speaker 10: swipe right because I thought it was like funny and

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Speaker 9: So now like I saw him and there's kind of

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Speaker 10: Tension between us because like I didn't know if he

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Speaker 10: I'm not really like sure how to go about this?

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Speaker 2: No, what do you think, Tanya? She's clapping air clapping.

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Speaker 5: Because I matched with tubs on dating apps of awkward?

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Speaker 5: Do you know that I saw you or I saw

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Speaker 5: you on there?

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Speaker 1: And then what you do?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 5: I swiped yes, because I feel like it's not nice

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Speaker 5: to swipe no on somebody that you know.

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Speaker 1: It's like rude.

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Speaker 4: Wait, wouldn't you want to swipe no one a coworker

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Speaker 4: if you didn't want to date them?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 1: I think it's funny, like I saw you on Why.

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Speaker 3: Did you guys match? Let's find a microphone? What what

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Speaker 3: matched you?

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Speaker 2: Guys? I don't remember if we match or not, but

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Speaker 2: I know I did.

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Speaker 1: Think it's just like a bumble.

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Speaker 9: I thought, yeah, oh yeah, it's on bumble, But like

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Speaker 9: I just matched him because I knew him and thought

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Speaker 9: it was funny.

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Speaker 1: That's what I did.

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Speaker 3: But are you saying that the bumble may be indicating

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Speaker 3: you should take him beyond the friend zone?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: I think that's what the whole point is.

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Speaker 7: But I think when you see someone you know, you

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Speaker 7: kind of just.

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Speaker 9: Like ha.

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Speaker 10: But I'm not sure he's on like that phase with me.

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Speaker 2: Like you would be with him.

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Speaker 1: I think that sends a mixed message.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think you're both on bumble looking to bumble. Bumble.

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Speaker 4: Bumble it up if you're gonna bumble it, But if

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Speaker 4: you're not wanting to bumble, then don't bumble.

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Speaker 3: But she's on bumble and he's on bumble together bumbling,

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Speaker 3: so bumble yourselves out.

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Speaker 10: I guess. I mean he's cute.

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Speaker 1: So you're not understanding what she's asking.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Tanya, I understand this much more than you do.

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Speaker 5: She's saying she did it as like a ha ha

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Speaker 5: jokey joky, and she feels like the guy she works

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Speaker 3: what did you like about Tanya when you swiped.

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Speaker 2: Let's just right now, do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me just ask Sysany then for these nothing's

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Speaker 2: In your mind?

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Speaker 1: True?

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Speaker 3: What's the first thing you noticed about me? Do you

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Speaker 3: I think maybe you should tell them the first thing

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Speaker 3: is who's your celebrity crush?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't love it.

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Speaker 1: I don't love it either.

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Speaker 2: This is my least favorite hack this week.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But then what if you're they say something Now

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Speaker 4: You're like, I'm never going to compare to Jennifer Lopez

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'd rather talk about favorite foods and you know,

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Speaker 3: you don't really do a long You do like one

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Speaker 3: Do you know a Texter tuonist? I like the word

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Speaker 3: I know people that are very lazy to text back,

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I wouldn't know what it means.

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Speaker 5: I question mark my text, like you know how you

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Speaker 4: I think it's like a textra tunist being a textra

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Speaker 4: And I didn't really think about it so much until

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, I'm not what you be.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, mom telling you no, I did it because I

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Speaker 1: Keep getting more CC.

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Speaker 4: Well, you're stopping like you're about to give us the

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Speaker 3: It's direct, it's kind, it's thoughtful, it's clear, it's simple,

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Speaker 2: It's the right message. Don't you agree with me?

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Speaker 3: Pat, I'm just not so sure. Hi, and welcome. Nice

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Speaker 3: to meet you, Pat. Thank you for writing into us.

453
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Speaker 2: How are you?

454
00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:24,200
Speaker 11: I'm good.

455
00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,480
Speaker 2: I'm just not so sure. We should find out why.

456
00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:32,560
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like she really respectfully kindly said

457
00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:34,879
Speaker 3: I'm not into it, you know, like the words she

458
00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:36,399
Speaker 3: chose were the right words.

459
00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:40,760
Speaker 1: Walk us through the date, well.

460
00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:46,920
Speaker 11: I mean we we had some drinks, you know, and

461
00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:52,520
Speaker 11: we talked, We resonated with each other. We we got

462
00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:56,840
Speaker 11: along with each other, you know, everything, other sparks were flying. Yeah,

463
00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:03,000
Speaker 11: everything felt right in the date itself. So there was

464
00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:06,640
Speaker 11: never a moment where where it was awkward or where

465
00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,439
Speaker 11: there was a joke that didn't land. You know, we

466
00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:11,359
Speaker 11: just we did. We got along great and there was

467
00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,439
Speaker 11: chemistry and and everything. You know, I can't think of

468
00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:18,560
Speaker 11: it of a of a time where it wasn't working.

469
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Speaker 2: But let me.

470
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Speaker 3: Hone in on the detail of the end of the night.

471
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Speaker 3: Can you give me the last ten minutes in not

472
00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:27,880
Speaker 3: ten minutes, but like sum it up?

473
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Speaker 11: Uh, I mean, yeah, like I had to uh you know,

474
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Speaker 11: I had to get up a little early, so you know,

475
00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,359
Speaker 11: we didn't go deep into the night or anything like that.

476
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Speaker 11: I let her know that that I was getting up,

477
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:45,399
Speaker 11: you know, early, and she, uh, you know she was.

478
00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,080
Speaker 11: I mean, she probably was ready to hang out more.

479
00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,680
Speaker 11: It felt like, so you know, I'm the one who

480
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:50,920
Speaker 11: kind of cut the date a little short.

481
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Speaker 3: By the way, was that your stomach the crowd or

482
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 3: that was not my stomach? Oh okay, somebody's stomach crowd

483
00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,919
Speaker 3: and I heard it. I could have been mine. I

484
00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:02,480
Speaker 3: didn't feel it, but someone is mine speaks pat So

485
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:11,240
Speaker 3: you think that maybe she got sort of disenchanted because

486
00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 3: you needed to close up the night.

487
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 2: Great to do so the next day.

488
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Speaker 11: I mean, now that you're saying it, I guess I

489
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 11: never really considered that. I didn't that it wouldn't make

490
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Speaker 11: sense to me.

491
00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,119
Speaker 3: But maybe nothing else that makes sense at all that

492
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 3: you can think of, Like nothing went. There's just no

493
00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,480
Speaker 3: no weirdness, nothing, nothing that you can think of.

494
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:33,879
Speaker 11: No, okay, no, it felt very romantic to me, you know,

495
00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,200
Speaker 11: i'd been in a long relationship. Uh you know, in

496
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,639
Speaker 11: early twenty twenty two, I hadn't dated for a while,

497
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 11: so I was a little rusty. But you know, I

498
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 11: came out very I came out excited. She was receptive

499
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:48,720
Speaker 11: to it. I wasn't over.

500
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Speaker 3: She says to you, I'm sorry, I just don't think

501
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 3: we're a match. But I wish you all the best.

502
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 3: I love what she said, knowing she doesn't want to

503
00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,240
Speaker 3: go out again. So if you what her name is,

504
00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 3: Chris Kristen, is that right?

505
00:20:58,800 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 2: Okay?

506
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 3: So if you hold on, we'll get Kristen to see

507
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 3: if we can talk to christ. I'm gonna tell her

508
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 3: she did the right thing if she didn't want to

509
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 3: go out with you.

510
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:08,119
Speaker 6: Okay.

511
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,719
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying that.

512
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Speaker 11: I'm just saying I would love to know what went wrong.

513
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 2: Got it?

514
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 3: I know that, But I'm just saying, like, if anybody

515
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,399
Speaker 3: needs to know how to say, I'm not interested. I

516
00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:22,199
Speaker 3: feel like she said it right. Sure, Okay, Pat, just

517
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,359
Speaker 3: hold on, take a deep breath. There, we'll come back.

518
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 3: Let's find out why. Fine, let's find out why.

519
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 1: Maybe it was the way he said it.

520
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 3: So I want to get right into talking to Kristen here,

521
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,199
Speaker 3: she's agreed to come on the air. It's a second

522
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 3: date update. Pat went out with her, said everything was perfect.

523
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,360
Speaker 2: What was the word he used. He said that sparks

524
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 2: were flying, The sparks were flying, chemistry and all the

525
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:47,600
Speaker 2: jokes landed.

526
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 3: But he had to sort of rushed the end of

527
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 3: the day because he had something to do the next day.

528
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 3: And he thinks that maybe that made her not want

529
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Speaker 3: to go out again, or that.

530
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 1: Changed made her disenchanted the energy.

531
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Speaker 3: So let me get Pat on the phone. Pat, we've

532
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 3: got her to be very quiet. Let's see what we

533
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 3: can find out about why she sent you that text

534
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 3: saying I'm sorry, I just don't think we're a match,

535
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:11,920
Speaker 3: but I wish you all the best. Hold on Pat Okay,

536
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 3: Thanks Kristin, thank you so much for holding on. Ryan Seacrest,

537
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,199
Speaker 3: Disney Antania. You're on the air with us. Appreciate you staying.

538
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 9: No worries.

539
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 3: So we're calling about a guy named Pat that you

540
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 3: met on bumble and went out with.

541
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Speaker 2: How that date go?

542
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 11: It's so weird.

543
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,640
Speaker 9: So I was actually just thinking about him.

544
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 2: What were you thinking?

545
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 9: I don't know. I mean, it's a long story that

546
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 9: basically someone I work with brought in crumble cookies and

547
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Speaker 9: that made me think of him?

548
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: Why?

549
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 9: Sorry, why are you.

550
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 8: So?

551
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 3: The short story is we have been our services have

552
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 3: been engaged to find now how the date went?

553
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 2: And what does the rumble cookie have to do with him?

554
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 9: I guess it doesn't really. It just sort of made

555
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 9: me think of him because of my thought process when

556
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,920
Speaker 9: we were on the date.

557
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 2: How was the date? Did you have a good time

558
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 2: with that? Was he a good guy?

559
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 7: Yeah?

560
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 9: It was? It was really good. I had a great time.

561
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,400
Speaker 2: And what was the highlight of the date in your mind?

562
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 7: I don't know.

563
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,719
Speaker 9: I think we just like we got along really well

564
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 9: and like I would have loved to, you know, have

565
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Speaker 9: a longer date than we had because we were just

566
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Speaker 9: like having easy conversation and yeah, and why did.

567
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Speaker 2: It not go as long as you wanted to go?

568
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 2: What happened?

569
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Speaker 9: So basically he had to go home and go to

570
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Speaker 9: bed because he gets up at like five to work out.

571
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 9: But it was a Friday night, so he and I

572
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 9: just have completely different lifestyles.

573
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Speaker 2: Got it?

574
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: So everything went great? You liked the guy he was,

575
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 3: everything was fantastic on the day. You found him attractive?

576
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, how did. What were the words that he used

577
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 1: when he ended the date? Do you remember good night?

578
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 8: No?

579
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: I want to know how he ended it.

580
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Speaker 9: I mean he just sort of was like, I've had

581
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 9: a really great time and I hate to cut it short,

582
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,120
Speaker 9: but I have to get up really early tomorrow for

583
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 9: like my workout, like I'll you know, I'll text.

584
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 2: You got it. And then your response to that was.

585
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Speaker 9: I mean, I don't really feel like I had. I

586
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 9: didn't know what to say other than you know.

587
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Speaker 1: Okay, it's very abrupt, have a good workout, Kristen.

588
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: Would you want to go out with Pat again?

589
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 9: Think so?

590
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 2: Just because he had to go work out on a

591
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 2: Saturday morning.

592
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 9: Like, our our lifestyles are so different. I just don't

593
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,239
Speaker 9: think that we're a good match because of that.

594
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 2: I guess what's the difference in your lifestyle?

595
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 9: I mean, I don't wake up at five am on

596
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 9: a Saturday to go work out, and I think I

597
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 9: probably indulge a it more than he does.

598
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 2: Like very direct, he's per disciplined.

599
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:32,959
Speaker 9: Yeah he yeah.

600
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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like the fact that he couldn't even just like

601
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 4: break the one rule for the first day or at

602
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 4: least push his workout one time.

603
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 9: Yeah, it just felt very rigid for me, and like

604
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 9: that's not how I live my life at all.

605
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 3: All right, well, Kristen, I want to tell you that

606
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 3: Pat has asked us to find you today to talk

607
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 3: to you about this. Pat is the one that engaged

608
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 3: our services, and Pat is on the phone. Now, Pat,

609
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: do you understand now why she sent you the text?

610
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I don't think we're a match, but I

611
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 3: wish you all the best.

612
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 11: Yeah, you know, I do. Actually, I do understand it,

613
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 11: and I can be a little bit call it over

614
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 11: disciplined when it comes to that.

615
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 3: She called it rigid stuff. But rigid is what she said.

616
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 3: But Pat, why can't you if you're like vibing? Here's

617
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 3: the thing I don't understand, bro, If you're vibing with someone,

618
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 3: it's hard to meet somebody you're on the apps. You

619
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 3: were frustrated with the apps, you told me, and you

620
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 3: weren't even going to pursue the apps. Then you meet

621
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 3: like this perfect woman and now you've got to go

622
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 3: work out at five o'clock. At five o'clock on a Saturday,

623
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: it seems, Yeah, you don't interested.

624
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 11: I understand how that how that must seem. So you know,

625
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 11: I mentioned that I that I got out of a

626
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 11: breakup in twenty two and it was a pretty long

627
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 11: relationship and it was a pretty significant heartbreak, And I

628
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 11: think what kind of kept me from becoming depressed, for

629
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 11: lack of a better word, was to have you have

630
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 11: a routine, you know what I mean, to have that

631
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 11: like you.

632
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 2: So that's fair. But here's the thing that's fair. But

633
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 2: here's the thing.

634
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 3: You may not be opening the door to meeting someone

635
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 3: to help heal your heart or get past what you're

636
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 3: going through if you don't break that routine every once

637
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 3: in a while with somebody that deserves your affection. And

638
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 3: that's what I feel like is happening here with Kristin.

639
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 3: I feel like she kind of you guys vibes. It's

640
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 3: tough to vibe, bro it is it is so Kristin,

641
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 3: you've been very quiet since we started talking to Pat.

642
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 3: Is there any chance after hearing Pat you think you

643
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 3: guys could just start over again and try this?

644
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 1: Yeah?

645
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 9: I wish, but I just I don't think it'll work.

646
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 9: Like you know, it's because it's not even just like

647
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 9: the workout. It was like like I got a burger

648
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 9: and he got a keemoa salad and then I got

649
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 9: wine and he got water. Like I was ready to

650
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 9: go out that night.

651
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, look, I feel like we tried. We're

652
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 3: going in circles. Well, Pat, listen, bro respect on a

653
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 3: healing heart. No one has a weaker heart to me

654
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 3: going through a breakup. So I respect, I do respect

655
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 3: the discipline. Blow it off every once in a while

656
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 3: to give yourself a shot.

657
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 6: You know what I mean, Pat, Yeah, I get it.

658
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 2: Appreciate you.

659
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, fine, thank you, Kristin. Good luck to you too,

660
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 3: and thank you for coming on with us. We really

661
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 3: appreciate you chatting with it.

662
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 4: Thank you.

663
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 6: Okay, thanks, love it.

664
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 3: Thanks.

665
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: I don't know about you, but I felt like I

666
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: was struggling to help.

667
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: No, I mean obviously, well we can't force it.

668
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 2: No, that we were like I was, I was there,

669
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 2: I was like in the huddle, won't.

670
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 4: Come when she was bringing up all the other stuff,

671
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 4: part of all the other parts of the day.

672
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: I get that too.

673
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, then it got to be she she kind of

674
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 3: wasn't into him.

675
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not that's annoying.

676
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 2: I do understand now.

677
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 3: That is tough though to not I mean, break will

678
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Speaker 3: work out her on a Saturday morning five to give

679
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Speaker 3: yourself a chance.

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Speaker 5: Exactly what I do understand if she's just like we

681
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 5: just have very different the way we live our lives.

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Speaker 1: Like I think we've all been there totally fair.

683
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 3: But me personally as a spectator, I wish they would

684
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 3: have given each other one more shot.

685
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: So that'll be a void for me.

686
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 3: Time for our hometown hustler Friday morning, see Christ with

687
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 3: you spotlighting somebody. This guy here, Rob Smith, I mean

688
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 3: he's in Long Beach. He was an aerospace recruiter in

689
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 3: El Segundo, so I don't know is he going out

690
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: the audition astronauts? And now he's got his own alley

691
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 3: Cat Deliveries company, And it's something you might want.

692
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: To use, especially if you're in the LB. Hometown hustler,

693
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 2: let's go. I'm a hustle bad Yeah. People who hustle,

694
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 2: I celebrate them.

695
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 3: I founders, entrepreneurs, hustlers. It's not startups. It's not easy

696
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 3: to do. And especially if you find something you love

697
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 3: to do and you can make it work for yourself,

698
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 3: you deserve to be on the air with us and

699
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 3: talk about it. That's what I can get. All the

700
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 3: free publicity you can get right here. Rob Smith, our

701
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 3: hometown hustler in Long Beach. Congratulations Bro, Thank you Ryan.

702
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 7: Huge Fansi's ninety eight point seven star in the afternoon.

703
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 3: No way, that's amazing with Foxy Lisa Fox and I

704
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 3: used to host the afternoon show there.

705
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Speaker 7: Correct.

706
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Speaker 2: Wow.

707
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 3: She used to call me. The show was called I

708
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 3: think it's called Ryan for the ride home or something.

709
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 3: She used to call me for the ride, Yeah, exactly.

710
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 3: So when we'd be out when whatever, we hung out

711
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 3: a lot, and she'd be like, we'd be in a

712
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 3: while and she'd be like, for the ride. What are

713
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 3: you going to have for the ride? What time should

714
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 3: we go for the ride? Who's coming for the ride?

715
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 2: Ever became my name?

716
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 3: Makes me want to talk to her if you want

717
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 3: to track her down for for the ride in the

718
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Speaker 3: next few minutes, because while Rob's here, he used to listen.

719
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Speaker 3: All right, Rob, you're our hometown hustler brother. I love,

720
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 3: all right, this is what I love. So you are

721
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 3: an aerospace recruiter, elsiegun do what were you doing?

722
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

723
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 7: So I would look for talent for like Boeing Northrop

724
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 7: and trying to place them. I would onboard them, help

725
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 7: them with their health insurance, and we had it and

726
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 7: just tried to find the connection to the to the puzzle.

727
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 3: That seems like a hard job, it was pretty fun.

728
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 6: You know.

729
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 7: It was a challenge just trying to find the right

730
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Speaker 7: connection to the plug. And I kind of use.

731
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Speaker 2: That on what I do now, all right, and that's

732
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: what I want to talk about.

733
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 3: So after you moved to Long Beach, you went through

734
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 3: a breakup, a separation and a divorce, and you didn't

735
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Speaker 3: have your apartment after that, and so I think you

736
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 3: were really trying to make ends meet, right.

737
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: That's how you came up with this company. Tell us

738
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Speaker 2: about that.

739
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Speaker 7: Yeah, So how it happened was I was on my bike,

740
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 7: you know, a small little BMX bike, doing food deliveries

741
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:40,239
Speaker 7: for a big competition delivery app, and I said, why

742
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 7: don't I do this for myself? And I built it

743
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 7: in twenty nineteen. Then we had the pandemic. I was

744
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 7: able to buy a car, and then I said, why

745
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 7: don't we do groceries And there was such a huge

746
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Speaker 7: need for that, elderly people that didn't want to go allow,

747
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 7: people that were compromised, and we just built you know,

748
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 7: we do everything we do airports, shuttles. We do groceries

749
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Speaker 7: Amazon returns. I always say the answer is no unless

750
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 7: you ask. But the difference between us is we don't

751
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 7: take anything from the business or mark up your item.

752
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 7: We just charge a flat feed. But we donate twenty

753
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 7: percent of our sales to feed clothing house or I

754
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 7: have people saying, hey, Love, can you help me out

755
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 7: with rent? Hey Love, we don't have groceries. I fund

756
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 7: that out of my sales and pocket and through donations,

757
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 7: and we do a lot of community outreach and give that.

758
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Speaker 3: You have a real, beautiful heart and the fact that

759
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 3: you were struggling you start your own business. You're working hard.

760
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 3: I mean you're on your feet. This is like real work,

761
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 3: and you're meeting new people, doing different things, taking on

762
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: real tasks, and then donating twenty percent of your weekly

763
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 3: sales going into the community for good.

764
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Speaker 1: Great.

765
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Speaker 2: I love that, bro, I love it. This is the

766
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 2: editgy we need, you know, this is spirit we need,

767
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 2: and it.

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00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 7: Goes and it goes further than I'm a Commissioner for

769
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 7: Economic Development with the City of Long Beach. I'm on

770
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 7: the board for the DLBA Downtown Long Beach Alliance for Safety.

771
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 7: I'm really about community, and that's what I love about.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 7: I get crazy requests, you know, but I feel if

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Speaker 7: I'm the right connection to the plug where I have

775
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 7: a resource for it, I'm able to fill it and

776
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 7: bless those people so they don't struggle like I did

777
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 7: when I was starting out.

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Speaker 2: Awesome.

779
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 3: So if you want, if you're in the Long Beach

780
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 3: area or even not, and you want to check out

781
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 3: his companies called Ali Cat Deliveries.

782
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: Okay, it's in Long Beach and he will come.

783
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 3: His company will move furniture, ride share, pick up pets,

784
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 3: for appointments, everything, just he says, just got to ask.

785
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 2: We'll say, yes, that's sure. Well, thank you, Bri.

786
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 3: I also really appreciate you listening for so many years.

787
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 3: I feel like we've never met, but we probably know

788
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 3: each other quite a bit now right.

789
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 7: I feel like I know you forever.

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00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: Uh Marcus, at least a fox is online nine. We're

791
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: trying to get her on nine. Yes you're not answering.

792
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 3: Oh well, Rob, you can't say we didn't try. Maybe

793
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 3: should call back. We have your number. If she calls back,

794
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 3: we'll get you to say.

795
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Speaker 7: I appreciate you so much and keep up the good

796
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 7: work yourself.

797
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 3: Thanks brother Rob Smith, our wholetown hustling love me. If

798
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 3: you want to nominate somebody that's doing it hustling out

799
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 3: here in La, nominate them at KISSFM dot com slash

800
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 3: Hustler can't wait to get them on the air next Friday.

801
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,399
Speaker 2: Leanne, how are you doing?

802
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 10: I'm good?

803
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 3: How are you I'm doing great? Thank you so much

804
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,760
Speaker 3: for asking. So I started these new like segments twice

805
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 3: a morning where it's about like it's just a wellness

806
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 3: tidbit that I suspect things that I read or see

807
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 3: or try and subscribe to, and I think they're helpful

808
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 3: for everybody.

809
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 2: So earlier today it was this way you should do.

810
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 3: There's eight words you should try and achieve every day, sleep, eat, listen, forgive, chat,

811
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:52,959
Speaker 3: except relax and exercise and those letters spell self care.

812
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,760
Speaker 3: It's one of those an acronym, So just eight words

813
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 3: every day. Try all right, now, how can I help you?

814
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 11: Well?

815
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 10: No offense, Ryan, That's very brilliant, But I think this

816
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 10: one is more of a question for Sythany. My five

817
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 10: year old is in a group of about eight or

818
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 10: nine kids from school and they always play together, and

819
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 10: so of course we have playdates with the other groups,

820
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 10: and you know the moms, and everyone's invited to birthday

821
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 10: parties and the only issue is that one of the

822
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 10: moms is just the worst.

823
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Speaker 11: I mean, she is absolutely awful.

824
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 10: She she's loud, she bosses the kids around, she bosses

825
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 10: us around. She bought me around my own house, and

826
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 10: you know, she gets really personal, she asks personal questions

827
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 10: really loud, she puts people on the spot, and like

828
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 10: she's just trying to start arguments all the time, and

829
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 10: none of none of us can stand her.

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00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 11: She's just a lot.

831
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Speaker 10: And so one of us brought up the idea of

832
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 10: not inviting her anymore. Then we're all like, but the

833
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 10: kid is the one who's really punished, And I know

834
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 10: that's not fair. But for a while now we've just

835
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 10: been dealing with it, and it's it's getting worse, and I.

836
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 6: Don't what are we supposed to do.

837
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 3: I suggest if somebody gets with the kid and says,

838
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 3: run away from your parents and move in with you,

839
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 3: you can't do that.

840
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 2: I just quit.

841
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this.

842
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 4: Look, I have not had to experience something like this yet,

843
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,320
Speaker 4: and I hope I don't.

844
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 2: But so.

845
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,959
Speaker 4: The kids are friends and they're going to stay friends.

846
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 4: Is looking that way, right, Like their their buddies and

847
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 4: that's not so.

848
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Speaker 10: But I mean part of the reason their friends is

849
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 10: because they get to do these things together. I not

850
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 10: don't want to exclude anybody.

851
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 4: I think it's a matter of having a conversation with

852
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 4: the mom, maybe just one on one. One of you,

853
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 4: all moms has to volunteer to have that conversation with her.

854
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 4: I don't think you ambush her because then she'll feel attacked.

855
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 4: But I think it's I think it's a conversation that

856
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 4: you just need to have that you're feeling away from her,

857
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 4: and it could be very civil, but you don't want

858
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 4: to get You don't want to have to get to

859
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 4: a point to where she's not invited or she's not included,

860
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 4: and we want to be able to all hang out

861
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 4: and do all this. But you know, the way she

862
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 4: speaks to the kids sometimes is offensive, or the way

863
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 4: she treats us as offensive.

864
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 3: And it is it more the way she treats the

865
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Speaker 3: kids or is you guys find her annoying as an adult.

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Speaker 10: I mean it's both, But like I'm always more kids

867
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 10: than I am for myself.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes the annoying stuff you just have to deal with.

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Speaker 2: I think as an adult, not your problem, you know

870
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Speaker 2: what I mean.

871
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,359
Speaker 3: It's like just deal like you can deal with her

872
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 3: annoying right habits to you. It's with the treatment of

873
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 3: the kids you should sort of.

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00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,319
Speaker 4: And I think at that point you have a you

875
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 4: have a right to say something. So she shouldn't be

876
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 4: speaking to your to your children a way that you

877
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 4: don't find respectful, so that, in my opinion, deserves a conversation.

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00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 3: You're right exactly, like like, throw her a plum and

879
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 3: she'll throw back a peach.

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00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: I don't really understand what Ryan means by that, but yeah,

882
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 4: it's like say, like, do it in a nice way,

883
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:08,879
Speaker 4: and she'll throw you back.

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00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: I think he means sendrand you mean that.

885
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 3: I mean give her a plumb and she'll give you

886
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 3: a peach. I don't mean extending all the branch. It's

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00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 3: not what I mean when offered. When offered a plumb,

888
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,280
Speaker 3: I return with the peach again.

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00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,760
Speaker 1: Can you repeat it over and over again? It doesn't

890
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Speaker 1: make it.

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00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 3: I'm saying, it's all in the delivery of sweetness, and

892
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 3: then she will sweetly respond to you by offering you

893
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 3: a white peak.

894
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: That makes a little bit more sense. But I mean, please,

895
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: oh yeah.

896
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: If I have to explain it, it's not worth I

897
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: hope we helped you a little bit.

898
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 10: Is that part of the self care thing? I really

899
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 10: like offer.

900
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 3: And she'll return with a peach. Okay, good luck, thanks

901
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 3: so much. I think as an adult you kind of

902
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,760
Speaker 3: just got like here, life's too short to let parents

903
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 3: annoy me. I just they can annoy you. But who

904
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 3: don't sleep over that? No, but the child treat me.

905
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:09,399
Speaker 2: That's another thing.

906
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 4: Exactly if you step in and start saying things to

907
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 4: my kid, uh uh.

908
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 2: When one throws to me a peach, I returned to

909
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:18,240
Speaker 2: him a plump.

910
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: Oh, you said it wrong, saying.

911
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 2: Okay, it's the same thing. It's it's a fruit for fruit.

912
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 3: But you understand it's all about sweet, sweet sweet, and

913
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 3: if you deliver it the right way, you will get

914
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 3: the right response.

915
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: Like sewing your oats.

916
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 3: Not sewing my oats, none of that. Not crying over

917
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 3: spilt milk, none of that. It's what I said. When

918
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 3: one throws me a peach, I return them a plum.

919
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 3: I just write it down.

920
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 2: Try it.

921
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 5: I'm going to try that later, and I'm going to

922
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 5: see if it confuses other people.

923
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: Okay, well, okay, great, I hope it doesn't.

924
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: Is a plumber prune? Yes it's not.

925
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 2: Prune is dried?

926
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 3: Well.

927
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 4: I bought plums at Costco the other day and then

928
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 4: on the other side it was in Spanish and said, prune.

929
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 2: Dry prune. I think it's a dried big fat raisin.

930
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: Prune is a dried plum.

931
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 3: See, very confusing, but that's not We don't give someone

932
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 3: a dried plum, giving the fresh, plump plum.

933
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 1: That's what I bop. Then I said, prune on the back.

934
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 2: You're buying prunes, boy, what You're at that stage already?

935
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 4: I was buying plums on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

936
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:30,760
Speaker 2: What is everybody talking about.

937
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 4: It's the hottest workout trend right now on TikTok and

938
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 4: it's called the cozy cardio. All right, So think of

939
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:43,879
Speaker 4: not necessarily those really intense classes that you might take,

940
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 4: but more of a leisurely pedal on a stationary bike

941
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 4: rather than the intense peloton classes that are offered, or

942
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 4: like strolling on the treadmill instead of sprinting. But you

943
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 4: can do all of this in your robe, even your slippers.

944
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 2: That's the part of it.

945
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 4: You don't actually have to put on the workout clothes

946
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 4: if you're just gonna hop on your Nordic track and

947
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 4: just walk for five miles.

948
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 3: But I thought this was like something where you wear

949
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 3: your slippers and you have those little pedal boxes and

950
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,439
Speaker 3: you sit there on your chair.

951
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: You can do that as well.

952
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 4: You can do that as well where they have the

953
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 4: little the pedals under your desk. I want to get

954
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:18,439
Speaker 4: one of those, by the way.

955
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 2: No, no, you like this idea cozy pedaling cozy.

956
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 4: I like the idea of if you're gonna be a

957
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 4: little lazy and maybe want to watch some TV, or

958
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 4: scroll on your phone or do whatever, why not try

959
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 4: to at least get a workout in.

960
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 3: But not take the place of the workout, which is

961
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 3: what these people are saying.

962
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 5: No, No, I think that this is like a bridge

963
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 5: to get people back into their workout routine. Like I

964
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 5: think it's it's for people that aren't necessarily on their

965
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 5: workout routine. They want to, but they're too intimidated and

966
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 5: they just it's too much to do.

967
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 2: It not take the place of the workout.

968
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:51,760
Speaker 1: I think it does take the place.

969
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 4: The girl who started this trend sort of speak on TikTok,

970
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 4: was really feeling a lot of anxiety when she would

971
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 4: work out, or she would feel like she would hit

972
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 4: a plateau and like not really get any further. And

973
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 4: she wanted to take away that toxic pressure of being

974
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 4: in a crowded gym or you don't mean like you

975
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 4: have to look a certain way to get your workouts

976
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 4: in and et cetera. So she has this little treadmill

977
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 4: in her living room and she'll just watch The Bachelor

978
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 4: or you know, Love Island for her.

979
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:24,959
Speaker 2: If that works for her, it works for you, that's great.

980
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 10: Not for me.

981
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 3: No, I need the toxic stress. I need the endorphin rush.

982
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 3: I want to go in there and I want to

983
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 3: self torture. I need all of that to come out

984
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 3: feeling the way I do. I go in loathing myself,

985
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 3: I come out loving myself. I need that back and forth.

986
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 2: That's for me.

987
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 3: This this soft, pedaling, cozy cardio, it would not get

988
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 3: me where I needed to get me, and I'd be

989
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 3: more depressed.

990
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: I don't like the gym and so and it's like,

991
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,799
Speaker 1: look no, but it's it's it's like if you're two.

992
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 5: If you don't want to go to the gym, you

993
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 5: don't want to go to these classes, it's better than

994
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 5: just doing nothing.

995
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 3: But I'm saying I need the toxic torture so that

996
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 3: I can come out on the other side feeling better

997
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 3: about myself.

998
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 4: Do you remember when I went bringing up Remember when

999
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 4: I brought up the soft girl life a few weeks ago.

1000
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 2: I do remember that week.

1001
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 4: So it kind of falls into that same category of

1002
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 4: just really not wanting to give one hundred percent but

1003
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 4: still being.

1004
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:20,919
Speaker 1: Able to get by.

1005
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 3: But I think that for me it wouldn't work because

1006
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 3: I need to again you heard it, like, I need

1007
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 3: to get into that headspace of I hate I almost

1008
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 3: hate this, so I love this.

1009
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 4: For me, it would because I get so sad sometimes

1010
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 4: when I see that I was watching TV for three

1011
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 4: hours and I was like, man, I really should have

1012
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 4: done something else.

1013
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 2: So exactly, So, go to one of those camps.

1014
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 3: You go to the boot camps yourself, You go for

1015
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 3: those torture classes.

1016
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I go to those all the time. Yeah.

1017
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 2: All right, Well, everybody, look, whatever your think is for

1018
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:57,959
Speaker 2: you great real quick.

1019
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 3: So you know, TikTok has all these trends blah, blah

1020
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 3: blah blah blah, And a question is are they good

1021
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 3: for you or not? Some seam totally unsafe and obvious,

1022
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 3: but some seam okay, I'm gonna run through some A

1023
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 3: dimple maker? Have you seen this trend? The dimple maker?

1024
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,879
Speaker 3: Apparently this is some device you can get that gives

1025
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 3: you dimples. It leaves impressions on the muscles and fat

1026
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: pads in your cheek.

1027
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 2: But is it safe?

1028
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: I am in shock.

1029
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 2: What do y'all think? Think that dingle maker is safe?

1030
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:28,399
Speaker 2: Back room?

1031
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 5: No?

1032
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 8: I don't think so.

1033
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 3: It's not safe. It's no, it's not safe, definitely not safe.

1034
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 3: The indentation does not last long, and overuse could cause

1035
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 3: nerve damage and lip paralysis.

1036
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: Don't do ito.

1037
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 3: These are TikTok trends safe for unsafe. Banana botox Supposedly

1038
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 3: you rub the inside of an old banana peel on

1039
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 3: your face. You leave it for twenty minutes yourns. They

1040
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 3: say it's going to tighten your pores and reduce inflammation

1041
00:44:58,360 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 3: like botox.

1042
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 2: Wow, is it safe? Back room?

1043
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 1: Well, it doesn't seem like it'll hurt like botox.

1044
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 11: Does.

1045
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 3: It is safe, but it doesn't do bupkus It doesn't

1046
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 3: do anything for your face.

1047
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 1: You're just rubbing old banana peel.

1048
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 3: I can waste twenty minutes, all right. Next one TikTok

1049
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 3: trend safe for unsafe castor oil in your belly button.

1050
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 3: TikTokers are putting drops of castor oil and their belly button,

1051
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 3: claiming it dissolves cysts, cures digestive issues, and clears your

1052
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 3: colon up all just.

1053
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,919
Speaker 1: By doing that. It can't It can't work.

1054
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 3: First of all, is it safe? It is safe, but

1055
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 3: it doesn't work. Okay, so it's a waste again.

1056
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1057
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 5: I used to put castor oil on my eyelashes to

1058
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 5: make them longer and thicker, and it did not work.

1059
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,479
Speaker 2: I used to wear some Oregon oil for my hair.

1060
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 2: You thought about that?

1061
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I used to use that.

1062
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 3: Yes, why do you stop? I like tasting it too.

1063
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 3: It taste but like a nutty ew. I like nuts

1064
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 3: and I like nutty oil. Why is that so that

1065
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 3: for your for your hair?

1066
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 1: Not gross?

1067
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 2: I don't like it at all? Okay?

1068
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1069
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: Who likes black liquorice?

1070
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 4: I don't like black.

1071
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 2: I don't like I can stand it.

1072
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: Gift basket of black. No, I don't like black liquorice,

1073
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: big basket of black liquor.

1074
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 3: Finally, TikToker trends safer and safe coffee Enema, No believe

1075
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 3: the brewing coffee and putting it down there is a

1076
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 3: deep detox and will help with weight loss.

1077
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 1: Please just get on the treadmill.

1078
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 2: Would you do it? If it did?

1079
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: No, I would rather take a laxative than do anything

1080
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 1: like this.

1081
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you it's not safe. And three people

1082
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 3: have died doing let's skip that.

1083
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: Oh, most these trends are just not real. So there

1084
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 2: you have it.

1085
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of.

1086
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 3: People are talking about this and it is these well,

1087
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:13,240
Speaker 3: the list, the growing list of unexpected service charges.

1088
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 2: Right when it comes to especially restaurants, Sistey, what do

1089
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 2: you have.

1090
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 4: It's like the undisclosed gratuities, the convenience fees that they

1091
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 4: they call them health insurance fees. They've slowly kind of

1092
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 4: been making their way onto our bills when you go

1093
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 4: to restaurants. I don't know if you've noticed them. When

1094
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 4: you go to pay the bill, and most of the time.

1095
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 3: Fishing to gratuities, right, they're saying health insurance charge.

1096
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: And it's not much.

1097
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 4: Sometimes it'll just be like two dollars here, three dollars there,

1098
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 4: and so of course we just, you know, we pay it,

1099
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 4: because what are you gonna do.

1100
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: Right, You can sit there and argue it at.

1101
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,720
Speaker 4: The end of your meal, but it all starts adding

1102
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 4: up if you go out to restaurants a lot or whatever,

1103
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 4: and so customers are now starting to fight back and

1104
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 4: many of us are just kind.

1105
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 1: Of want explanations.

1106
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 4: So there is a Google spreadsheet that any one this

1107
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 4: is awesome can access, and it's a Reddit group that

1108
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 4: has taken it upon themselves to create the spreadsheet, and

1109
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 4: they update it regularly and they basically tell you they

1110
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 4: track which restaurants are charging the additional fees that it's

1111
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 4: supposedly for, and whether or not tipping is also still

1112
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 4: expected at that restaurant, et cetera. And we don't need

1113
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 4: to sit here and call anybody out. But there are

1114
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 4: more than one hundred restaurants currently on this Google spreadsheet,

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Speaker 4: and it's growing like it continues to be updated daily,

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Speaker 4: and it's everywhere all over southern California, from downtown LA

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Speaker 4: to the west side the Valley.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's got so many restaurants on their houseating.

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Speaker 3: So there's one that says uh Health and Happiness surcharge

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Speaker 3: to cover employees' health insurance, and then employee comment on

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Speaker 3: the spreadsheet says, we didn't get health insurance exactly.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, I.

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Speaker 3: Guess like if you've seen those charges, you could just

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Speaker 3: ask right like, yeah, can you tell me exactly? Or

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Speaker 3: us the server like is this really? Is this what

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Speaker 3: you're getting? Or you know what happens here, and you

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Speaker 3: get the real story.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, because a lot of these restaurants could be sneaky

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Speaker 4: about it and they're not actually getting their employees that

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Speaker 4: they're not.

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Speaker 1: Going to take it off. Like let's say you question them,

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Speaker 1: They're not going to say, okay, well we'll just take

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Speaker 1: that off. Might you think?

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Speaker 3: Well to keep you that, I'd probably still like to

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Speaker 3: know if it says health insurance that that employees getting

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Speaker 3: the health insurance, you'd like to know that, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: if you're paying it?

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Speaker 2: Oh right? T one or two point seven kiss FM.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna do it for us.

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Speaker 1: That was fine, man, Yay.

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Speaker 3: I think a Mexican night is in order. I'm craving

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Speaker 3: some soft tacos and tortillas.

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Speaker 1: Oh nice?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever told I've ever.

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Speaker 3: Told you that I have been the recipient of fresh

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Speaker 3: homemade tortillas that I help make. I can't take full

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Speaker 3: credit for making the moment I do help make them.

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Speaker 3: It's the best way to put I'm having the craving.

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Speaker 3: I'm having the craving.

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Speaker 2: Have a great weekend.

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Speaker 3: Before we go back room, What did we miss this

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Speaker 3: morning while we were busy over here?

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Speaker 8: Well, I've been complaining about my contact, So I'm so

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Speaker 8: excited I get to take it out now and fix

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Speaker 8: it because there's something in.

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Speaker 1: My line, oh so annoying.

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Speaker 3: You know, I work contact. You probably realize its Makaida

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Speaker 3: for twelve thirteen years. There's nothing in my mind. I'm

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Speaker 3: not a doctor or an ophthalmologist, but there's nothing in

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Speaker 3: my mind that seems safe about putting our finger into

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Speaker 3: our eyes twice a day.

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Speaker 1: But I hate wearing glasses, so I am dealing with it.

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Speaker 2: Really, we'll take a look.

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Speaker 1: Can you wear glasses next week? I want to see

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Speaker 1: you in glasses?

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Speaker 8: Okay, my eyes are so bad that when I wear glasses,

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Speaker 8: my eye looks so small.

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Speaker 2: What are you minus? Minus? What?

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Speaker 1: Negative seven?

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Speaker 2: I was negative six five nine five. Joey's a competition

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Speaker 2: with me.

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Speaker 3: I don't have heights, so I want to go with

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Speaker 3: eye strength or worse.

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Speaker 1: You're fighting over the worst eyesight.

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Speaker 2: Literally, I don't have the worst, but I have pretty close,

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Speaker 2: pretty close.

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 2: My gosh, I need a weekend. Good Bye, everybody. Thanks

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Speaker 2: for listening on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to

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