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Speaker 2: Evan is on the phone today for our first Day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second date. But first, Evan, how long has it
Speaker 2: vin since you heard from Ruby?
Speaker 3: It's been about four days?
Speaker 4: Okay, that's too bad. Yeah, have you hit her up
Speaker 4: a bunch in that time?
Speaker 3: I did try a couple of times. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 3: want to overdo it, but reached out and definitely got nothing back.
Speaker 5: Okay, And you feel like that's weird, Like you feel
Speaker 5: like four days is a long time?
Speaker 4: Did not hear from her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're kind of hitting it off, so it is
Speaker 3: it's out of the ordinary.
Speaker 4: Well, tell us about your date.
Speaker 3: Well, Ruby and I went to Rooftop Bar and you know,
Speaker 3: it had the best view of the city. It was
Speaker 3: it's her idea. Actually it was super cool. Well, you know,
Speaker 3: I can't really beat it for our first daid. Just great,
Speaker 3: great place to grab drinks, shared a charcoterie board, and
Speaker 3: you know our conversation was just really easy, natural. The
Speaker 3: vibe was laid back and plenty of kind of flirty moments.
Speaker 3: She's hilarious, you know, we're making each other laugh the
Speaker 3: whole night, and they were just sparked, you know, the
Speaker 3: kind of can't bake. We ended up taking a walk
Speaker 3: after and because we were both a little buzzed, and
Speaker 3: before we said good night, there are a few kisses
Speaker 3: and yeah, you know, it's just a kind of date
Speaker 3: you'd never want to stop.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, why do you think you're hitting? Ghosted?
Speaker 3: Then? Honestly really confused. You know, we were texting NonStop
Speaker 3: for two days after, so things are you know, they
Speaker 3: felt promising and then nothing, it just stopped.
Speaker 4: So wait, you went on the date and you ended
Speaker 4: up hearing from her after the date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, after the date for about two days and.
Speaker 4: Then it stopped.
Speaker 2: Right Could it be something you texted?
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I mean I don't think it was.
Speaker 3: I did text her a pick of me, like in
Speaker 3: the bathroom with a towel on as a tease, like
Speaker 3: I thought it would be harmless.
Speaker 2: Okay, is that the last time you heard from her?
Speaker 3: I believe so.
Speaker 4: Hard trip and if I got ghosted after that.
Speaker 3: She was teasing me about having ABS, so I just
Speaker 3: decided to show her. You know, I don't know, maybe
Speaker 3: it was too much. It wasn't like a pick or anything.
Speaker 4: You know, do you have abs?
Speaker 2: Or was joking around me and like check out mine,
Speaker 2: but you don't have them?
Speaker 3: You know I have abs? Yeah, I mean I just
Speaker 3: wanted to prove myself.
Speaker 4: Okay, that could be it. So was a selfie, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Mean if you stop talking to you right after that,
Speaker 2: then that probably it probably has something to do with that.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was
Speaker 3: that bad or racy or anything.
Speaker 5: But what did you say when you send the picture
Speaker 5: of yourself in a towel?
Speaker 3: Nothing much, just I think it's put like a little
Speaker 3: blurble like you know, here proved or something like along
Speaker 3: those lines.
Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll see if we can help you out
Speaker 2: with then then. I mean, it just kind of strange
Speaker 2: that wild stop talking to you right after that, so
Speaker 2: that might be the reason. But we'll play a song
Speaker 2: come back and see if we can get you a
Speaker 2: second date. In your first day follow up.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first day follow up,
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Evan is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So we're about to
Speaker 2: call her and see if she tell us why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting him and hopefully get him a second date. But first, Evan,
Speaker 2: why don't you break down your date for us one
Speaker 2: more time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had a lot of great moments on our dates.
Speaker 3: Barks flew, everything was perfect, sought, we had a connection,
Speaker 3: and you know, two days after the date, I've not
Speaker 3: heard from her.
Speaker 5: And the last thing that you sent her was, let's
Speaker 5: not forget this part, a picture of yourself in the
Speaker 5: bathroom and a towel.
Speaker 3: I did send her my ab.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, are you ready to see if that's
Speaker 2: the reason you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. I'm gonna call her right now. Hi,
Speaker 2: Mas speak to Ruby. Please, Hey Ruby, how are you?
Speaker 2: This is a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 4: Hi Ruby, my name is Nina.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jubeil. How are you.
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 7: I'm good.
Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show? Before I have dope.
Speaker 2: Thank you? Well, what if I told you that you
Speaker 2: were the star of a first eight follow up? Right now?
Speaker 6: Oh god?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got an email about you from somebody that
Speaker 2: you're ghosting, and they don't know why. You know, who
Speaker 2: would emails.
Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan.
Speaker 2: You're a very smart ruby. Evan told us about your date,
Speaker 2: said that he really liked you, thought you guys had
Speaker 2: an awesome time, but you texted for a little while
Speaker 2: after and then you just ghosted him, and he wants
Speaker 2: to know what's up? Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 7: I mean, like, look, I really I thought Evan was
Speaker 7: great and we had an amazing time. But then after
Speaker 7: my date, my friend showed me something and it just
Speaker 7: it kind of killed the vibe for me.
Speaker 4: Okay, what was it?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 7: So I tested my friend a picture of Evan when
Speaker 7: we were on the base because she wanted to look
Speaker 7: like And then the next night she sends me a
Speaker 7: picture of him with some other girl, like literally the
Speaker 7: night after we went on the date, and then she
Speaker 7: was at another bar and they were making out.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, you've got it wrong.
Speaker 2: That's Evan. He's actually on the phone and wants to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 6: Oh my god. I mean, like, yeah, okay, I knew.
Speaker 6: I guess I knew this was coming. Oh man, hi.
Speaker 3: Hi, Uh look you've got it all wrong.
Speaker 6: It's not no, no, no, Evan. You are literally in
Speaker 6: the picture.
Speaker 7: I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you
Speaker 7: were just right there, you know.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, Yeah it happened, but it's not what you think.
Speaker 3: Like she's she's someone I've been cooking up with for
Speaker 3: a while, and I was I was going to tell
Speaker 3: her it was over because I wanted to focus on
Speaker 3: you that night, and I just I didn't get to
Speaker 3: it yet.
Speaker 2: So you were, oh with someone else right after your
Speaker 2: date making out with her?
Speaker 3: Technically, yeah, Egan, you were just with.
Speaker 6: Me and then you just go and make out with
Speaker 6: someone else.
Speaker 7: I mean, I understand people date multiple people, but it
Speaker 7: just it felt.
Speaker 6: Wrong to me.
Speaker 3: I swear, I swear I'm done with her. I'm not
Speaker 3: seeing anyone else. I like you. I was going to
Speaker 3: tell her that the next day, but it was like,
Speaker 3: it wasn't like that anymore, Like you're the one that
Speaker 3: I want to date.
Speaker 4: Did you tell her that?
Speaker 3: I told her?
Speaker 5: I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of
Speaker 5: the dude that I just want to date with, mixed
Speaker 5: like messing around with somebody else again, Like she said,
Speaker 5: I get people are dating other people, but if I
Speaker 5: don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either.
Speaker 4: I just would have too many questions.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like are you just saying that like you want
Speaker 6: to date me? Or like did you hook up with
Speaker 6: her that night? You know, that's just how it ful
Speaker 6: to me.
Speaker 3: Did you hook up her? Yeah, but it was it
Speaker 3: was just like a last like last round type of thing.
Speaker 3: I swear I told her about you at that point,
Speaker 3: and that was the last time.
Speaker 2: You told her after you hooked up.
Speaker 8: You're not hooked up with her after you told her
Speaker 8: about me, Like seriously, No, I told her about you
Speaker 8: after I hooked up with Herful Okay, so you hooked
Speaker 8: up with her after you told her about me?
Speaker 3: Like seriously, No, I hooked up with her and then
Speaker 3: I told her about you, like it's but but that's
Speaker 3: because things felt so different with you, Like we've been
Speaker 3: on one date. It's a like I cheated on you
Speaker 3: or anything. I was just I was trying to do
Speaker 3: the right thing.
Speaker 7: I mean, it would have been her if you told
Speaker 7: her before and didn't.
Speaker 6: Hook up the way.
Speaker 3: Okay, I get that, but it was, you know, it
Speaker 3: was just kind of desperate. Instead, I didn't get to
Speaker 3: see you, and you know, I was just trying to
Speaker 3: break things off and it didn't go as smoothly as
Speaker 3: I hoped it would.
Speaker 7: I mean, if we were to date and you didn't
Speaker 7: see me, you can't hook up with other people.
Speaker 3: Like, I'm not trying to do that. I swear.
Speaker 5: It's kind of tricky because he kind of does have
Speaker 5: a point. He is trying to do the right thing,
Speaker 5: like he didn't cheat on anybody, and she's out of
Speaker 5: the picture now.
Speaker 2: Ruby, would you like to go on a second date
Speaker 2: with Evan? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7: I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need
Speaker 7: to know about?
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, well yes, but I want to text
Speaker 3: them and let them know I'm not available via text.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to meet up with them. I will
Speaker 3: show you the text.
Speaker 2: What do you think, Ruby, It sounds like serious?
Speaker 7: I mean, like honestly, we did just go in one
Speaker 7: date and it was like a really really good date.
Speaker 7: But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my
Speaker 7: friends send me more pictures of you out with other women.
Speaker 6: You're gonna wish that I was just ghosting you.
Speaker 3: It will be very promise you'll never see that again.
Speaker 3: I don't want to to ever meet that side of
Speaker 3: you again.
Speaker 6: Okay, sure, all right, we'll go out again.
Speaker 4: Are you happy?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Thank you, You're welcome.
Speaker 6: You wise.
Speaker 2: First date, fallow up