1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for using a broke guy 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: to pay for drinks? If someone's offered me free stuff, 3 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: you better believe I am accepting it. Are they offering 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: free stuff or are they just I don't know, Maybe 5 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: we'll see. Okayop, My friend Grace invited me to a 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 1: board game bar to play and have drinks with her, 7 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:21,240 Speaker 1: her boyfriend, and one of their friends, Nick, Nick Nick 8 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 1: Nick Nick. We had to get drinks and pairs, Grace 9 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 1: going with her boyfriend. Meanwhile, Nick and I stayed at 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: the table and vice versa. So Nick and I had 11 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: plenty of time to talk just the two of us. 12 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 2: Oh. 13 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: Nick started the night telling us about his recent career change. 14 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: He decided to quit his previous job, go to a 15 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: coding boot camp, and he got a job as a 16 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: developer one or two months ago. He was very proud 17 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: of himself and his new salary and told me his 18 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 1: new salary multiple times. Smooth, Nick, smooth, yeah. 19 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: Really just laying it on lights. 20 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: He never asked me what I do for work, but 21 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: talked about his new job quite a lot, occasionally saying sorry, 22 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: you don't understand that, hahaha, I am a smart developer. 23 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 2: You wouldn't get it here, poor bro and cultured. 24 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: During the entire evening, I never told him I had 25 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: been working as a software engineer for the past four 26 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 1: years because he never asked. Honestly, I found it a 27 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: bit entertaining. When it came to the drinks, he invited 28 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: me to every single one. Don't worry about it. It's 29 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: not a problem with my developer salary. Huh, like you 30 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: know Sharon and the wealth. 31 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: That's cool. You let of pay for it. Oh yeah, exactly, 32 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 2: nothing wrong. I told him multiple. 33 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: Times he doesn't have to pay for me, but he insisted, 34 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: all right, I see nothing wrong with it. 35 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 2: Sovera. 36 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: At the end of the night, when we were saying 37 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: our goodbyes, he took out his phone to send me 38 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: a friend request on Facebook. My job is listed in 39 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: my profile, so that was But he realized that I'm 40 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: a software engineer. Boom. He asked me if it's true 41 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: that I'm a software engineer, and I answered yes. He 42 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: asked me why I haven't told him and why I 43 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: let him believe I was a cashier like Grace used 44 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: to be, which I never that, and why did I 45 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 1: let him pay for everything when I probably earned more 46 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: than him. I told him he never once asked me 47 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: and it was his fault. He assumed he could have 48 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: simply asked me about my job, but he only wanted 49 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: to brag about his. But if he wants me to, 50 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: I can pay him back for the drinks. He was 51 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: angry and said I made a fool out of him. 52 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: I think actually he did that, not me, But now 53 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: Grace and her boyfriend are on his side too, saying 54 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: that it would have cost me nothing to tell him 55 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: early in the evening and I only kept it to 56 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 1: myself for my own entertainment. Well, I did find it entertaining, 57 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: but I don't really feel like I did anything wrong. 58 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: Am I the A hole? 59 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: I think the answer here not the a hole? No, no, dude, 60 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: I mean like, if he's got he is not asked. 61 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: He's like, oh no, like you don't have to do it, 62 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: and he insisted multiple times that's on. 63 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 2: You, bro. You wanted to be the big head and 64 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 2: be the big shot. 65 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, maybe be a little less braggadocious. 66 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 2: There you go.