WEBVTT - Public Display Of Affection 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:08.680 Hey, everybody, welcome to Gee Did you get the name 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:09.760 of the show already? 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:10.320 I didn't. 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:13.280 I was trying to do something else and you jumped 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:18.560 in there and you rescued me. Yeah, when I didn't 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:22.560 really need the rescuing this time. Yeah, usually just let 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:23.000 me drown. 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:26.880 You didn't need the life wrapped. 0:00:27.560 --> 0:00:31.320 Yes, hey everybody, if you didn't know, welcome to the podcast. 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:37.360 Amy and TJ. Here another episode and another daughter that 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:38.720 Robok has sent. 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.839 Away to Europe. Why do you keep sending your children 0:00:41.840 --> 0:00:47.279 to Germany? Sending away? Wow, that sounds awful. You did no. 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:50.800 They begged me to go, and I said, okay, yes, 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:54.400 no my youngest, my seventeen year old, and Elise it 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:58.800 is her mid winter break, and so she opted to 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:04.240 go to ball Me a warm Berlin. Her older sister 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:08.240 Ava is there studying abroad, and so she just just arrived. 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:09.800 Well, I joke about it, because we did. 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:12.399 We started an episode not too long ago, and obviously 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:14.480 that episode was one that a lot of people talked 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:16.960 about because we had gotten into I hate calling it 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.759 a fight whatever. We aired out an argument we were 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:22.240 having and you had just dropped her off. Then that 0:01:22.319 --> 0:01:24.440 wasn't long ago and now here, we are recording another 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:27.400 and you just shipped another kid off to Germany. 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:30.000 You know what's crazy. It was almost exactly a month ago. 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:32.120 I know, and I'm just gonna ignore it, but ship 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:35.959 them all. The funny thing is, so I was pretty emotional, 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:38.920 as I pointed out when Ava went off, because she's 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:41.399 gonna be gone for five months, and then Annalise is 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:46.039 only gone for a week. But this is the beginning 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:50.440 because she is going to go to college yeah next fall. 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:52.960 And so now, for whatever reason, when I dropped her 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:54.640 off at the airport, and this is the first time, 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:57.760 by the way, she's ever flown by herself overseas, I mean, 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:59.640 it is a big deal. I don't think a lot 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:01.000 of us have teen year old so I was worried 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:02.320 to nurse for her, but I don't know, I just 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:06.560 got super emotional. I couldn't stop crying yesterday, probably because 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:09.760 we had a little bit of a snaffoo that set 0:02:09.800 --> 0:02:12.119 me off, maybe too off. 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:14.239 You get all the way to the airport, you drive 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:19.000 from Manhattan to JFK, which is the farthest airport from 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:20.400 If you're going to do it, that's the one you 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:22.440 don't want to fly it off lovely airport. Love you 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:24.639 just takes a while to get to You drive her out, 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:25.880 you were very excited to get there. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:30.120 You drop her off. Yep, you leave said airport, and 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:31.520 then you get a call. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:34.680 I get a frantic phone call from Annalie's saying, Mom, 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:35.600 I forgot my. 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:38.639 Passport, which is the only thing you need if you're 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:39.560 flying out of the country. 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:44.000 You can replace everything else except for your passport. 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:44.520 Yeah. 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:47.400 So it's so funny, like I knew the answer. But 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:50.000 as I'm pulling back around to get her and she's sobbing, 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.360 I call my dad, who is a world traveler. I 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:56.399 was like just checking, like, there's no way we can 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.799 get her out of this country and back in without 0:02:59.800 --> 0:03:02.960 a port. He was like, absolutely not, and so yes, 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:05.320 we had to drive an hour and a half that's 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:09.120 how long it takes since traffic back into Manhattan, and 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:11.240 the whole time on the phone with Delta trying to 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:14.040 rebook her. As she she pulled herself together, and I 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:16.440 actually was proud that I didn't freak out either, because 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.200 normally I think I would get upset with her, but 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:21.200 she was so she was so mad at herself, there 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:24.120 was no reason to be to add on to pylon. 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:26.679 So I tried my best to say, it's okay, you're 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:28.760 going to get on another flight. It's going to be fine. 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:30.960 So you know, it's fine. She just ended up like 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:33.120 the last row on the plane, in a middle seat, 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:36.000 and she was fine. She's seventeen, fine, she's fine, and 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:36.520 she made it. 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:39.760 When these things happen, it's she's going to appreciate that 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:41.720 she made the mistake now because it's going to be 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:45.680 a more important time that she will never ever leave 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:46.440 that passport. 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:49.000 She will never forget her passport again. And it's funny 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:50.800 because and I actually kind of kicked myself a little 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:53.440 bit as a mom, we have been able to travel 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.800 a lot, and she's she and her sister have both 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:58.720 been I've really tried to have them be self sufficient independent. 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:00.960 I don't pack them when they were little, so I 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:04.960 don't even ask. This is the first time she forgot 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:07.480 her passport. But as a mom, I was kicking myself. 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:09.920 I should have said, do you have your passport? 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.960 We are a great mom, And of all the things 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:17.000 I see you do, there's worse things you could do. 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:21.919 So forth, oh wow, I was waiting for next No, 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.760 but I do take part responsibility. I am the adult, 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:28.240 and I should have asked her, do you have your passports? 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:30.840 I did not, lesson learned. She got there, she's fine. 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:33.640 They reunitedah Be and her sister and everything's gonna be great. 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.440 But the reason she's going anywhere this week is because, 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:38.480 and I guess a lot of people are not familiar 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:38.680 with this. 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:39.240 I had to learn. 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:40.600 You had to learn this as well. 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:43.160 But kids here in New York get a they call 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:47.480 it officially a mid winter recess. So your child, her 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:51.400 school sameIn is in a in public school up here, 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:55.760 so they get a midwinter recess and then a spring recess. 0:04:55.800 --> 0:04:58.279 So that's traditionally what we're used to a spring break 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.039 for most of us in the country. So Sabine's got 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:03.280 two months she's off this week. We're looking at her 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:06.360 right now and looking at us recording this podcast because 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:07.960 she has nowhere to go because she's on break. 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:09.239 Well, so we put them to work. 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:12.400 So she's been working helping us with this. But yours 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:15.560 order at least her school is set up to where 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:18.440 her spring break is a month away. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.520 It's a month away, so it's so ridiculous. So you 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:23.839 have to have one break where you know you have 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:25.560 to figure out what you're going to do with them 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.279 or where you're going to ship them off, as you 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:32.400 like to say, you do no usually I travel with them, 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:35.120 but no now, and then in another month she has 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:35.960 another break. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:39.160 It's a lot, and these little parents sometimes do complain. Look, 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:41.560 school is, yeah, you want your kids in school, but 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:42.760 also a lot of people use it. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:44.800 If you have a week that you have to find 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.480 something to do with your kids, that can be tricky. 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:50.120 And then you get a week and it's only a 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.120 month or two months apart. 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.599 It's tricky. I didn't grow up like this. You didn't either. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:58.880 We had Labor Day, we had Thanksgiving, we had two 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:03.840 weeks at Christmas, had Easter or Good Friday. I should say, 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:06.520 we had spring break. I think we had MLK. 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:10.080 That was it, because I think down well, I was 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.159 going to say down South, you actually were in school 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.120 before Labor Day. So yes, you got Labor Day off, 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:17.000 but by the time, yeah, by the time Memorial Day 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:21.000 was there, you were opposite. And now our kids don't 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:23.520 get off until the fourth of July, basically. 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:25.080 And it's I look, it's a great thing here in 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.919 New York. It's just obviously much more diverse city. So 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:32.520 you out for the Jewish holidays, you out for Eed, 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.520 you're out for I mean it's a federal holiday now. 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:39.520 But Juneteenth you throw that in there, you yam kfor 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:42.240 is in there. But you have all of these thing 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.600 kids are out of school so much so the mid 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:46.680 winter recess is a tricky one. And I was looking 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:48.760 for something to do with Sabine. We begged her, like, come, 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:51.799 let's get out of town, let's do something everything. Nope, 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:53.839 I just want to hang which is fine. I guess 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:54.359 that's cool. 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:57.960 I mean that's great. It's just, you know, it's tough 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:02.680 for parents. Look when we had very demanding jobs, it 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:03.760 was all the trickier. 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:07.680 Sweetheart, we still have a demanding job. I don't know 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:08.840 what your experience is. 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:11.280 It's a little less demanding. 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:14.160 And I was, you know what, I hear what you're saying, 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.560 and I get what you're saying. But man, in a 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:19.880 lot of ways, we had so much of a support 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:22.800 staff around us to be in a position now that 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:24.840 we're doing. If folks see us, and they will see 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:28.720 some of this. We are sitting in a reading nook 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:34.320 in the apartment with a laptop, a sleeping dog, and 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:36.840 an eleven year old who has a mintway to recess 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:38.640 on the floor in front of us. 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:40.560 What do you call that light we have? It's a 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.360 really cheap ring light that we got on Amazon. 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:46.080 Ring light with my phone. This is our setup. We 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.040 had to do all of it. We had to prepare content, 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.480 we have to research. So I get what you're saying. 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:54.320 But man, the support we don't have, Oh, correct support staff. 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:55.680 Excuse me, I heart, we love you. 0:07:55.680 --> 0:07:57.560 You all are great and supporting. 0:07:58.240 --> 0:07:59.760 No, but I hear what you're saying. It was just 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:02.360 more schedule and we had to be somewhere. Now it's 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:04.160 kind of on us. So the pressure is on us. 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:07.200 But you can accommodate kids and dogs in a way 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:09.040 you couldn't if you were going into the studio. 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:11.760 But we already with midwinter recess. I guess some kids 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:14.400 love it. I thought, well, why in the world do 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:17.240 they do this? Would they do this? It started simply 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:20.040 about forty five years ago. They just wanted to save 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:22.520 some money for a week. There was a kind of 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.760 a I guess an oil and energy crisis. They were 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:26.600 looking for a way to cut back, so they took 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:28.440 a week off. They made a deal with the teachers 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.520 Union to save tens of millions of dollars by being 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:33.880 off for a week, and it has the test of 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:34.600 Time's still. 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:36.360 Here always about money, isn't it? 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:36.760 Oh wow? 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.560 It all everything goes back to that. It's just that's 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:41.760 not surprising at all, and the fact that we're still 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:44.079 doing it also is not surprising at all. 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.680 What we're looking for thinks, Look, your child is gone. 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.400 My child didn't want to go anywhere. Still, I don't 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:53.880 understand why. But if you're looking for something parents in 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:56.440 New York, we got a good option for you. 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:57.640 Take them to the movies. 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:02.120 We got a movie for you. You gotta see. Yes, yes, yes, 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:05.000 it was not a movie that maybe would have been 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:07.959 on your radar if you had read any reviews. But 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:12.119 that does not deter us because we're the two who 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.120 I love. A thirty percent or lower Rotten Tomato score, 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:18.680 it usually is entertaining, So I'm not deterred by a 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:22.880 bad review or two. Madam Webb. We saw it this 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:26.160 weekend and I would say we had one of the 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:31.200 best movie experiences we've had, I would think in the 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:33.360 last few months, and we see a lot of movies. 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.800 Well, our problem, essentially, our problem but we are very much. 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:40.880 We don't go to a theater unless it's a horror movie. Correct, Right, 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:43.599 So we have a whole schedule for the rest of 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:46.680 the year for horror movies include what's the Imagine Area? 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:47.400 Oh it cannot wait? 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:48.199 Wait for that one? 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:49.960 Evil Teddy Bears? What could be better? 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.520 But we are not We don't even almost look at 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:54.120 other movies if it's not a horror movie. 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.760 Correct. The only reason this one one? And again, I 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:58.160 love the Marvel. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:01.280 Movies and I love superhero movies, but this one wasn't 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:03.960 on my radar to watch just because it just wasn't interested, 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:06.439 wasn't into it. That's fine, not a big deal. When 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:10.960 I started reading so much about this consensus of just 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:13.959 how bad the movie was, like, what in God's name 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:14.280 is going? 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:18.520 I got curious? You sent me. I remember on text 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:20.720 the reviews and some of the headlines, and they were 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:25.040 some of the worst headlines I've ever seen about a movie. 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:28.160 And that made us both say, hell, yeah, let's go. 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:30.920 I need to see this movie. 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:32.920 And it was a curiosity. 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:37.520 So it's much credit to look Dakota Johnson and Sidney Sweeney. Right, 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:39.920 these are talented a whole a lot of talented people 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.480 in the movie. And so this is not an indictment 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:44.600 of any way or even making fun. Look these people 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:46.880 put in their heart and their sweat and their effort 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:49.920 into this movie, the product whatever it's being talked about 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:50.760 the way it's talked about. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.760 But we went and enjoyed it. 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:54.920 Yes, we went, and it got our attention because of 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:58.000 negative headlines, but we actually enjoyed the experience as take 0:10:58.040 --> 0:10:58.960 a time a good. 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:02.360 Way to put it. We were entertained from start to finish. 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:03.040 Whole time. 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:06.600 We had an absolute blast. I actually took some lines 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:09.760 and put them in my notes in my folder to 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:12.160 bring back up to you in silly moments, because we 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:14.520 just it was. It was that good, and so I 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.679 would just say, sometimes you can appreciate things that you 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:19.760 wouldn't think you could, and this is one of those. 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:21.800 That's a very good way to put it. So we 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:24.280 had a blast doing that, and we got to have 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:29.960 while we were there. I guess we were We were 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:32.760 eating and drinking in a way that we weren't able 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:35.199 to do in January. I'm not we weren't drinking heavily, 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:37.439 but I'm saying that to say that we were able 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:42.400 to at this theater. Have a beer, yes, yep, So 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.680 we weren't intoxicating in such a way that had any impact. 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:48.480 I was watching the film. But the point there being 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:49.280 it's February. 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:49.520 Now. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:53.960 We got through January, a dry January, completely dry. Tell 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.480 me at the end of January, you gave a little 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:59.040 bit of an update, but as far as your health 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.040 after January. 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:05.080 So I lost six and a half pounds in the 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:08.160 month of January, and I actually weighed myself this morning 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:11.800 because I wanted to make sure I was truthful, and 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:15.000 it's the same. I kept it off, so that's amazing. 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:19.120 That was a huge health benefit. Other than that, I 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:25.079 think maybe I slept better and had extra energy in 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:28.240 the morning, but I don't usually lack in either of those, 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:31.920 so it's hard for me to gage well energy Like 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:34.120 I popped out of bed. I mean, okay today, maybe 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:39.319 I didn't. Today was the exception, but mostly okay, fine. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.040 It takes me about twenty or thirty. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.679 There is nothing you have ever done in the am 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:49.120 that qualifies as popping out of bed. 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:53.600 Nothing, but if you compare it to you, you've been 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:59.400 up since four, so you're like raring to go. I 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:04.480 didn't even know you got out of bed today. That's true. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:06.880 I woke up. I'm like, wow, where did he go? 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:09.800 And it was only six o seven, So we are. 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:14.600 I could put a bullhorn to your ear scream that 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:18.560 there's a fire, and you would barely crack your eye open. 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:22.360 Now it's just because you're dramatic all the time. And 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:29.680 I'm like, eh, there he goes again, yelling fire. I 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:32.240 what you're saying? Okay, fine, I had extra energy. So 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:33.520 how about you? How do you feel? 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:37.040 It's been great? And you can you can testify on 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:40.559 my behalf here. I just have not had an interest 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:44.600 in drinking lately. No, I have not at all, and 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:47.640 it's great. Clearly, I feel better. 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:49.720 I sleep better, in better health. 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:52.920 It makes the running easier. But it's just you get 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:55.240 into a habit or a routine for thirty one days 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.319 of not drinking, and then February one came. 0:13:57.800 --> 0:13:58.160 Whatever. 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.640 But now it's going a little longer than I thought. Yeah, 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:03.000 and I've just the alcohol is not appealing to me. 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:07.040 Both of us have. I would say at least I 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:11.160 would say maybe a sixty to seventy percent decrease in 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:16.360 what our experience had been. So I mean, I would 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:18.400 say for short. Now. I did have a glass of 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:22.600 wine on February one, just because I wanted to. But 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:26.120 it's been really awesome. I have not You start to 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:28.640 create a habit and then you just don't go to it. 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:31.000 Like we go to club Soda. We go to you 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:35.640 got your little Cranberry club Soda concoction and you go 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:37.960 to that. A lot are now just red bull And 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:40.240 is it because I said little because. 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:42.760 Well she caught it too, Savine is looking as she 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.560 caught it to you have your it was cute spritzer thing. 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:46.960 I mean it is a spritzer. 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:48.760 I was trying not to say sprinzer because I know 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:50.320 that doesn't sound very manly. But you have a little 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:54.680 cranberry spritzer pans alcohol which you keep have kept up, 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.240 which is great. It's refreshing, it does. 0:14:57.440 --> 0:15:01.080 Yeah, that is going really really well for us. Right now, 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:01.720 what else? 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:02.680 Haven't you use any weight? 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:04.960 By the way, Oh yeah, you remember in the first 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:07.600 two weeks I dropped eight pounds. 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:07.880 Easy. 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:09.840 Men are so annoying like that. 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:10.800 That's the way we're annoying. 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:13.040 Well, it's just one of many ways. But it's just like, 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:16.000 oh my gosh, I worked out for I walked for 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:19.080 ten minutes and I lost three pounds. That's how we thought, yeah, 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:19.560 men do that. 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:22.280 And then after we get done walking, we have a 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.880 little cranberry and club soda cocktail. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:27.800 It's a little spritzer, a little spritzer. 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.240 Half marathon is coming up in a few weeks. We 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:41.280 started something this year. We didn't mean to, but we 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:43.240 kind of fell into it and now it's a routine 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:46.120 and it's a habit of running every single day. It 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:49.520 is here we are mid February. We have run every 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:50.360 single day this year. 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:52.680 It's pretty awesome. I've never done that in my life. Hella, 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:56.680 we must say our former guest Hella convinced us or 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:58.480 tinn't convinced. He was just telling us how great it 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:00.480 was for him to have what he called a streak 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.000 where he runs at least two miles every day. Now. 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:05.600 His caveat is also that he has to run outside. 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.160 We have not adhered to that because it has been 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:11.000 brutally cold. There's been a few snowstorms actually here in 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:14.880 New York City. And so I logged last week and 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.760 this is definitely a record for me. Twenty six miles 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:22.080 on the treadmill, not all at once, but for a week, 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:25.000 and we actually ran again this morning. We have not 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:29.240 run outside in since we were in New Orleans, which 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.080 was what a couple of weeks ago. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:32.880 You haven't? 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:36.840 Oh you did? Oh you did? I have not. 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:38.880 I didn't think about it. I did. Just remember you 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:40.680 did a couple of times. 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:43.000 I was like, knock yourself out. I am not doing that. 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:45.600 So I was on the treadmill and I've we've developed 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:51.720 some strategies, just mostly it's distraction because being on a treadmill. 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:53.840 I did. We did eight miles. 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:54.360 I didn't. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:56.280 I did eight miles. Yeah, what happened to you? 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:56.760 I quit? 0:16:58.000 --> 0:17:01.120 That's not funny, and that's not honestly, that is so 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.200 rare for you. You are not a quitter, Oh I 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:04.359 got you are not a quitter. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:05.120 Absolutely. 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:08.679 I I hate treadmill running, and the most I can 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:12.000 four or five. But I just feeling it that day 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:15.919 I stopped. I actually quit, left one building, went to another. 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:17.480 I say, you know what, I'm going to finish up 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:19.720 and run these last four. I ran two. 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:22.240 So I'm sitting, I'm sitting on the treadmill. This is 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:24.600 our at our apartment gym, and I'm running and all 0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:26.200 of a sudden he just gets off, gets his keys. 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:27.880 I'm like, what are you doing. He's like, I'm done, 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:29.400 and I was like what he was I'm going home. 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:32.240 I was like, you are. And we weren't in a fight, 0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:33.720 so I knew he wasn't mad at me, and I 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:35.080 was like, Okay, I'm gonna let him do his thing. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.680 But it's fair to think maybe, like I did, I say, 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:39.960 was it something? I said, I'm not really sure what happened. 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:42.280 So I just kept running and I finished the eight miles. 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:44.400 It was awful, but I did it. And then I 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:46.280 checked in with you and you're like, yeah, I went back, 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:47.879 ran two miles and said f this. 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:52.119 Yeah, it's just I hate, hate, hate the treadmill. But 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:53.560 this is a part of We have to get it 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:55.600 in because we are a few weeks away. 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:57.399 Four weeks yeah, four weeks away, thinks. 0:17:57.440 --> 0:17:59.639 So we have a very strict routine when it comes 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:01.760 to running. But even on the off days, according to 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:04.919 the training schedule, we still go down and we always 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:07.160 get two miles in. And yeah, hell us a deba. 0:18:07.240 --> 0:18:10.320 If you don't know him, look him up. Hellas a 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:12.440 debate we had him on. He has run every single 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:13.640 day since twenty. 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:15.520 Sixteen, seventeen, I think seventeen. 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:17.800