Speaker 1: Rooking jew bowls a second date up today. I have
Speaker 1: found that a great place to meet women is in
Speaker 1: a very empty parking garage. Yeah, they like him. We
Speaker 1: just creep up from behind him and be like, Hey,
Speaker 1: who boo, what's up? That's actually where Monica, who's on
Speaker 1: the phone with us today and wants to do a
Speaker 1: second eight update, met the guy that she went out
Speaker 1: with and wants us to call today. Monica, how are you? Hey?
Speaker 1: I'm great. How are you good? So you met the
Speaker 1: guy that you want us to call today in a
Speaker 1: parking garage? What's his name? First of all, his name
Speaker 1: is Joe. His name is Joe? And how does that happen?
Speaker 1: How did you guys meet in the parking garage? Did
Speaker 1: he stock you from car to car? Or yeah? Him?
Speaker 1: And while I, being the absent minded girl that I
Speaker 1: sometimes am, had lost my car in the garage, I
Speaker 1: could not, for the life of me remember where I
Speaker 1: parked it. We've done that sucks? Or you saw him
Speaker 1: and then planned it the old damsel in distress. Oh, creative,
Speaker 1: I'd probably made it more often. But no, he saw
Speaker 1: me kind of wandering around and it was obvious that
Speaker 1: there was something wrong. You know that I was lost
Speaker 1: or something had happened, and so he you know, he
Speaker 1: was just being kind. He's asked if I was okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I told him I was fine. But then I
Speaker 1: couldn't find my car and he was like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: let me help you. I mean, this is a big garage.
Speaker 1: I'll take way less time after there's you know, two
Speaker 1: of us looking. So I lose my car in the
Speaker 1: parking garage all the time, Like I have to a
Speaker 1: plan for it, like an extra hour because I know
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be looking for my car forever. How long
Speaker 1: did it take you to find it? It took like
Speaker 1: fifteen to twenty minutes. He found me like halfway through
Speaker 1: my search. So okay, once he was there, we definitely
Speaker 1: got it done faster. And did you like strike up
Speaker 1: great conversation when you were looking for the black sedan
Speaker 1: or well, he was just really charming about it, Like
Speaker 1: he like ran all the way across the garage and
Speaker 1: was like calling out like play numbers of cars. But
Speaker 1: I told him that were similar to mine, and he
Speaker 1: was actually who found my car. So it was really helpful.
Speaker 1: Oh so you found your car and then blocked your
Speaker 1: driver's side door and was like, you don't get to
Speaker 1: get in the car unless you let Papa take you
Speaker 1: out on a date. That's how it happened in my head.
Speaker 1: Is that how it happened? Your head is definitely in
Speaker 1: more of a movie situation. Yeah, he's pretty chill. I
Speaker 1: mean we just, you know, we kind of chatted a
Speaker 1: little bit, and I obviously was very thankful, very grateful.
Speaker 1: I mean I kind of just I don't know, I
Speaker 1: thought he was really cute, so I kind of just
Speaker 1: threw it out there, you know. I said, you know,
Speaker 1: you're probably seeing somebody and he said, no, I'm not.
Speaker 1: Do you want to have coffee? And I was like, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: that sounds great for making the first move on that.
Speaker 1: So how was coffee? How was the actual date that
Speaker 1: you went on? Coffee was wonderful. We had so much
Speaker 1: more in common than I would have expected. We talked
Speaker 1: a lot and just I mean he made me laugh
Speaker 1: like crazy. He's very sarcastic, and it called me out
Speaker 1: of my stuff. So that was you know, I like
Speaker 1: a guy who's honest, who can kind of tur back
Speaker 1: and forth, and coffee is always like a safe date.
Speaker 1: Did just in case you need to, like get out
Speaker 1: quick because it's not going well. Did you guys stay
Speaker 1: for a while? Yeah, we see it for like an hour.
Speaker 1: And I liked that he threw out coffee too, and
Speaker 1: not like a bar or drink or something, you know.
Speaker 1: I like that it seemed like he really wanted to
Speaker 1: get to know me. Like that's where you go to
Speaker 1: get to know somebody, You go to a bar drink
Speaker 1: to go home with them. So his intentions were good.
Speaker 1: So is that all you guys did get coffee? And
Speaker 1: we just got coffee that day? We were there like
Speaker 1: an hour and we're kind of wrapping things up and
Speaker 1: I just threw it out there, said, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: do you want to see each other again? And he
Speaker 1: said definitely, that sounds great. I'll give you a call.
Speaker 1: You're you're my hero, Monica. You were the one that
Speaker 1: approached him to go to coffee in the first place.
Speaker 1: Now you're protein for the second date. Well, and I
Speaker 1: hope that like didn't throw him off, Like do you
Speaker 1: think that could throw a guy off? Like being cute,
Speaker 1: we're pretty lazy as a whole. Any of the work,
Speaker 1: we'd really appreciate it. And how long has it been
Speaker 1: since you've heard from him two weeks. Two weeks. Any
Speaker 1: awkward moments on your date at all? I mean, besides
Speaker 1: the fact that I'm obviously kind of lame and couldn't
Speaker 1: find my car in the first time. Second time was great.
Speaker 1: I mean we even laughed about that, Like I don't know,
Speaker 1: I'm super thrown off because the way that we last
Speaker 1: think it was so casual, like yes, I will definitely
Speaker 1: give you a call, like there was no you know,
Speaker 1: game playing going on, right, And have you heard anything
Speaker 1: from a medal? No? I gave it a week, you know.
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, so I just throw a
Speaker 1: text out there like, hey, you know, I've got some
Speaker 1: time this week if you want to plan a day
Speaker 1: to get together, let me know. And I heard nothing back,
Speaker 1: like not even like you know what, I changed my mind,
Speaker 1: which you know at the end of the day, like
Speaker 1: we went on one date, like I'm not going to
Speaker 1: be crushed forever. But I don't know. I need help.
Speaker 1: I need help figuring this out because if I did
Speaker 1: something wrong, then I think I have the right to
Speaker 1: know right right, And you sell like a confident woman
Speaker 1: who's somewhat self aware. I feel that way, Thank you. Definitely,
Speaker 1: there you go. That's really nice to you to say, all, yeah,
Speaker 1: what if we call him and he answers the phone
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, is Joe there? And He's like,
Speaker 1: I can't talk right now. I'm in a parking garage
Speaker 1: watching this chick again. I will thank you profusely because
Speaker 1: Myra was way on cool. Play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: get him on the phone, and find out why he's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. All right, thank you? Okay, hang
Speaker 1: on brooking Jubil in the morning if you're just joining
Speaker 1: us for the second date. Update. Monica is on the phone.
Speaker 1: She wants us to call a guy named Joe today.
Speaker 1: They met in a parking garage when she was having
Speaker 1: trouble finding her car from that turned into a coffee date.
Speaker 1: Says that that a wonderful time. Can't think of any
Speaker 1: awkward moments. At the end of the date, he even
Speaker 1: said that he wanted to see her again, but she
Speaker 1: hasn't heard from him in about two weeks. Or about
Speaker 1: to call him and find out is there a reason
Speaker 1: that he's not calling her back? Monica, I think I
Speaker 1: figured it out, Okay, I think that you are yet
Speaker 1: another victim of the parking lot. Cassanova. I read about
Speaker 1: this guy in the USA today. He travels around from Chica,
Speaker 1: I'll go Atlanta, Los Angeles, now Seattle. Did you read
Speaker 1: about him in the crime? Yes? Yes, He goes to
Speaker 1: parking garages all over the country, hits on women, takes
Speaker 1: him out for coffee, and then leaves him in the dust. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean that I'm gonna be the victim of a crime.
Speaker 1: I guess this is the crime. I want to be
Speaker 1: a victim of a good point. He just just left
Speaker 1: you high and dry. Didn't even take your panties, did he?
Speaker 1: It was a coffee day. It's usually what he does.
Speaker 1: That's what the parking lot casanova does. Everybody knows, yes,
Speaker 1: according to Yestery Today. But anyway, that's what I think.
Speaker 1: You're still unsure obviously. So we're gonna call him right now,
Speaker 1: see if we can get him on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out why he's not calling you back. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hey, can I speak to Joe please? Yeah, Joe?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry, what from Jewbil from brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. The radio program? What's that?
Speaker 1: It's a radio show? Have you not heard of us? No,
Speaker 1: I haven't. So you wait, you're a radio show as stagients. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well yes I am not. I'm a person. My name
Speaker 1: is Jebil, I'm here with the show. It's me, Brooke,
Speaker 1: Jose and Lydia and we're calling you because you recently
Speaker 1: went out on a date with one of our listeners
Speaker 1: and they emailed us to see if we could get
Speaker 1: you on the phone. Okay, And and her name is Monica. Wait,
Speaker 1: Monica called you, guys, Yes she did. She emailed us
Speaker 1: because she said she went out on a date with you,
Speaker 1: had a great time. At the end of your date.
Speaker 1: You even said that you want to see her again,
Speaker 1: but you haven't called her back, and she's tried texting
Speaker 1: you and calling you. So she wanted to see if
Speaker 1: we could get you on the phone and find out
Speaker 1: if there was a problem with Monica. U. Yeah, there
Speaker 1: was a problem, which was really too bad because cool girl, Okay,
Speaker 1: can you tell us? Can you tell us what the
Speaker 1: problem is so that we can let Monica know. Well,
Speaker 1: to be honest, she said something that I just couldn't
Speaker 1: look past, and I kind of thought about it afterwards,
Speaker 1: and I just thought, now I just can't spend any
Speaker 1: more time with this girl. What did she say? Well,
Speaker 1: so I am a new father, I have a four
Speaker 1: month old daughter, and thanks, yeah, thanks a lot. But
Speaker 1: I didn't tell Monica about my daughter when we met
Speaker 1: in the we've met in the parking lot. I don't
Speaker 1: know how much she told you. Yeah, she told us,
Speaker 1: She told us all that. So she didn't know yet
Speaker 1: a kid. No, No, she did not know. She doesn't know.
Speaker 1: And basically I don't bring it up right off the bat.
Speaker 1: You know that I have a daughter. I'm not with
Speaker 1: her mother. We had a fast thing. It was kind
Speaker 1: of a mistake, if you ask me. But you know,
Speaker 1: and I look at my daughter and I go, well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't I think of a mistake because my baby's beautiful, right,
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm taking care of her. I'm doing
Speaker 1: my thing. So normally I would think, like, you're not
Speaker 1: trying to date because you have a four month old,
Speaker 1: But you went out on a date with Monica, so
Speaker 1: that's obviously not the case. Yet I've gone on a
Speaker 1: couple of dates actually, and I do this thing. It's
Speaker 1: kind of I kind of kind of take the temperature
Speaker 1: of the group of I'm with if I see another
Speaker 1: kid inside of wherever we're at, I'll say something like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, look at that kid. Do you like kids?
Speaker 1: Or something like that. And this little boy came in
Speaker 1: and he was with his parents, and I said to Monica,
Speaker 1: I said, oh, that me, little boy's cute or something
Speaker 1: like that, and just to kind of see what she
Speaker 1: would pay, and she said something like, oh, I sure
Speaker 1: hope he doesn't sit over here. And I was like
Speaker 1: kind of confused by that. I was like, oh why,
Speaker 1: and she was like, well, you know, kids were really
Speaker 1: loud and like they make a bunch of noise, so
Speaker 1: she was making true facts. She was true points. Sure
Speaker 1: he might have been, but you know, I could just
Speaker 1: tell from her tone that she's just not in the kids,
Speaker 1: and I just knew that, like I wouldn't be able
Speaker 1: to just have my daughter around her. Joe, did you
Speaker 1: ever specifically ask her point blank do you like kids?
Speaker 1: Don't you like kids? Well? No, I didn't ask to that,
Speaker 1: but I could just tell from her reaction to the
Speaker 1: little boy that she probably doesn't like kids, which was
Speaker 1: just really too bad because she's so awesome. Hey, Joe, No,
Speaker 1: and like, Joe, real quick, since you didn't ask her
Speaker 1: that question. Why don't we actually have you ask her?
Speaker 1: Because Monica is on the other line listening right now.
Speaker 1: What yep, how did you not tell me that you
Speaker 1: have a kid. We talked about our families for like
Speaker 1: twenty minutes. You guys have her on the She's been
Speaker 1: listening four times. She just talked to you right there. Actually, Joe,
Speaker 1: how did you tell me? I mean, why didn't you
Speaker 1: say something? Well, first of all, it was it's a
Speaker 1: first date, and I don't know, I don't feel the
Speaker 1: need to bring it up. But what I did bring up,
Speaker 1: like just trying to ask you kind of taking your
Speaker 1: barometer on like how you feel about kids. Ye, on
Speaker 1: a date, on a nice like date where we were
Speaker 1: like having a nice conversation at this year, was so
Speaker 1: quiet and chill, and I obviously didn't want like something
Speaker 1: interrupting that. That's all I was saying. I was saying
Speaker 1: that we were enjoying our time in our conversation and
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be distracted by anything else. Well,
Speaker 1: it seemed pretty clear though, Monica that you think kids
Speaker 1: are just like little breaths, and like, I just don't
Speaker 1: want my daughter to be around that you know, I
Speaker 1: didn't have her around that. I can't believe you would
Speaker 1: say something like that. You didn't tell me that you
Speaker 1: had a daughter. I wasn't being sensitive to the fact
Speaker 1: that you might have a kid. So yeah, I gave
Speaker 1: you an honest thinking about kids in that moment at
Speaker 1: that coffee shop with that kid who was already like
Speaker 1: screaming about wanting that frosted cookie out of the case. Joe,
Speaker 1: don't you think that's kind of an unfair barometer. I mean,
Speaker 1: you probably had the same feeling about kids before you
Speaker 1: had your own. No, I didn't, actually, like, I've always
Speaker 1: really loved kids, and I always knew I wanted to
Speaker 1: ask kids. I do want You never asked me if
Speaker 1: I wanted kids. Okay, you know what, guys like this
Speaker 1: whole thing, you guys laughing in the background, her kind
Speaker 1: of barking at me, like this is one of the
Speaker 1: reasons why, first of all, I don't listen to radio.
Speaker 1: Any other reason why I didn't call her back because
Speaker 1: I didn't want to deal with this, you know, like
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with any of this like
Speaker 1: negativity and like, well, this is your whole I'm doing.
Speaker 1: You didn't say something you've put yourself in this position,
Speaker 1: and the fact that you didn't call me back or
Speaker 1: even say anything like, hey, listen, I don't think this
Speaker 1: is gonna work because you didn't give me a chance.
Speaker 1: I think this is actually a good sign for everybody involved.
Speaker 1: First date and you're already arguing about who wants kids
Speaker 1: and who does, which really to me says that you
Speaker 1: guys are perfect for each other and should probably continue this. Joe,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with Monica? We will pay for it. No, No, thank you,
Speaker 1: I don't need your offer. Thanks a lot, but no thing.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, Monica. Would you like to try
Speaker 1: to convince Joe to go out with you? No? Absolutely not.
Speaker 1: Do I seem like a girl who's going to convince
Speaker 1: some jerk who apparently judges people based on no truth whatsoever.
Speaker 1: I mean, I honestly like feel sorry for his daughter
Speaker 1: at this point, because I know we hope that he
Speaker 1: can find you know. I'm wanting you to hear this anymore, guys,
Speaker 1: I'm out of here, see you later, Joe. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: there you go, Monica. That escalated quickly. That's what you
Speaker 1: get when you meet somebody in a parking garage. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just never know. I don't know, Jewel. Maybe you
Speaker 1: were right, Maybe he is just a parking garage cast
Speaker 1: pears about him. I think I like Honestly, I think
Speaker 1: I liked that answer better. So I think I raised
Speaker 1: the last ten minutes and pretend let's go with that,
Speaker 1: because I'm so curious. You got it. You're happy you
Speaker 1: didn't give that guy your panties, right, broken Jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning,