WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: One “Tiny” Problem

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jew bowls a second date up today. I have

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<v Speaker 1>found that a great place to meet women is in

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<v Speaker 1>a very empty parking garage. Yeah, they like him. We

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<v Speaker 1>just creep up from behind him and be like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>who boo, what's up? That's actually where Monica, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us today and wants to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second eight update, met the guy that she went out

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<v Speaker 1>with and wants us to call today. Monica, how are you? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm great. How are you good? So you met the

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<v Speaker 1>guy that you want us to call today in a

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<v Speaker 1>parking garage? What's his name? First of all, his name

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<v Speaker 1>is Joe. His name is Joe? And how does that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys meet in the parking garage? Did

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<v Speaker 1>he stock you from car to car? Or yeah? Him?

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<v Speaker 1>And while I, being the absent minded girl that I

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes am, had lost my car in the garage, I

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<v Speaker 1>could not, for the life of me remember where I

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<v Speaker 1>parked it. We've done that sucks? Or you saw him

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<v Speaker 1>and then planned it the old damsel in distress. Oh, creative,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd probably made it more often. But no, he saw

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<v Speaker 1>me kind of wandering around and it was obvious that

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<v Speaker 1>there was something wrong. You know that I was lost

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<v Speaker 1>or something had happened, and so he you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>was just being kind. He's asked if I was okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I told him I was fine. But then I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't find my car and he was like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me help you. I mean, this is a big garage.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take way less time after there's you know, two

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<v Speaker 1>of us looking. So I lose my car in the

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<v Speaker 1>parking garage all the time, Like I have to a

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<v Speaker 1>plan for it, like an extra hour because I know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be looking for my car forever. How long

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<v Speaker 1>did it take you to find it? It took like

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen to twenty minutes. He found me like halfway through

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<v Speaker 1>my search. So okay, once he was there, we definitely

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<v Speaker 1>got it done faster. And did you like strike up

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<v Speaker 1>great conversation when you were looking for the black sedan

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<v Speaker 1>or well, he was just really charming about it, Like

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<v Speaker 1>he like ran all the way across the garage and

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<v Speaker 1>was like calling out like play numbers of cars. But

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<v Speaker 1>I told him that were similar to mine, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was actually who found my car. So it was really helpful.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so you found your car and then blocked your

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<v Speaker 1>driver's side door and was like, you don't get to

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<v Speaker 1>get in the car unless you let Papa take you

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date. That's how it happened in my head.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that how it happened? Your head is definitely in

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<v Speaker 1>more of a movie situation. Yeah, he's pretty chill. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we just, you know, we kind of chatted a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, and I obviously was very thankful, very grateful.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I kind of just I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought he was really cute, so I kind of just

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<v Speaker 1>threw it out there, you know. I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably seeing somebody and he said, no, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to have coffee? And I was like, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds great for making the first move on that.

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<v Speaker 1>So how was coffee? How was the actual date that

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<v Speaker 1>you went on? Coffee was wonderful. We had so much

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<v Speaker 1>more in common than I would have expected. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>a lot and just I mean he made me laugh

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy. He's very sarcastic, and it called me out

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<v Speaker 1>of my stuff. So that was you know, I like

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who's honest, who can kind of tur back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth, and coffee is always like a safe date.

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<v Speaker 1>Did just in case you need to, like get out

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<v Speaker 1>quick because it's not going well. Did you guys stay

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<v Speaker 1>for a while? Yeah, we see it for like an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>And I liked that he threw out coffee too, and

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<v Speaker 1>not like a bar or drink or something, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that it seemed like he really wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get to know me. Like that's where you go to

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<v Speaker 1>get to know somebody, You go to a bar drink

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<v Speaker 1>to go home with them. So his intentions were good.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that all you guys did get coffee? And

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<v Speaker 1>we just got coffee that day? We were there like

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<v Speaker 1>an hour and we're kind of wrapping things up and

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<v Speaker 1>I just threw it out there, said, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to see each other again? And he

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<v Speaker 1>said definitely, that sounds great. I'll give you a call.

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're my hero, Monica. You were the one that

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<v Speaker 1>approached him to go to coffee in the first place.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're protein for the second date. Well, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hope that like didn't throw him off, Like do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that could throw a guy off? Like being cute,

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<v Speaker 1>we're pretty lazy as a whole. Any of the work,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd really appreciate it. And how long has it been

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<v Speaker 1>since you've heard from him two weeks. Two weeks. Any

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<v Speaker 1>awkward moments on your date at all? I mean, besides

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that I'm obviously kind of lame and couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find my car in the first time. Second time was great.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we even laughed about that, Like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm super thrown off because the way that we last

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<v Speaker 1>think it was so casual, like yes, I will definitely

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<v Speaker 1>give you a call, like there was no you know,

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<v Speaker 1>game playing going on, right, And have you heard anything

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<v Speaker 1>from a medal? No? I gave it a week, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, so I just throw a

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<v Speaker 1>text out there like, hey, you know, I've got some

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<v Speaker 1>time this week if you want to plan a day

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<v Speaker 1>to get together, let me know. And I heard nothing back,

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<v Speaker 1>like not even like you know what, I changed my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>which you know at the end of the day, like

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<v Speaker 1>we went on one date, like I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be crushed forever. But I don't know. I need help.

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<v Speaker 1>I need help figuring this out because if I did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong, then I think I have the right to

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<v Speaker 1>know right right, And you sell like a confident woman

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<v Speaker 1>who's somewhat self aware. I feel that way, Thank you. Definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go. That's really nice to you to say, all, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what if we call him and he answers the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, hey, is Joe there? And He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't talk right now. I'm in a parking garage

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<v Speaker 1>watching this chick again. I will thank you profusely because

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<v Speaker 1>Myra was way on cool. Play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>get him on the phone, and find out why he's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. All right, thank you? Okay, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on brooking Jubil in the morning if you're just joining

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<v Speaker 1>us for the second date. Update. Monica is on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants us to call a guy named Joe today.

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<v Speaker 1>They met in a parking garage when she was having

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<v Speaker 1>trouble finding her car from that turned into a coffee date.

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<v Speaker 1>Says that that a wonderful time. Can't think of any

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<v Speaker 1>awkward moments. At the end of the date, he even

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<v Speaker 1>said that he wanted to see her again, but she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't heard from him in about two weeks. Or about

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<v Speaker 1>to call him and find out is there a reason

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<v Speaker 1>that he's not calling her back? Monica, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>figured it out, Okay, I think that you are yet

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<v Speaker 1>another victim of the parking lot. Cassanova. I read about

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<v Speaker 1>this guy in the USA today. He travels around from Chica,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go Atlanta, Los Angeles, now Seattle. Did you read

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<v Speaker 1>about him in the crime? Yes? Yes, He goes to

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<v Speaker 1>parking garages all over the country, hits on women, takes

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<v Speaker 1>him out for coffee, and then leaves him in the dust. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that I'm gonna be the victim of a crime.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess this is the crime. I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>a victim of a good point. He just just left

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<v Speaker 1>you high and dry. Didn't even take your panties, did he?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a coffee day. It's usually what he does.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what the parking lot casanova does. Everybody knows, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>according to Yestery Today. But anyway, that's what I think.

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<v Speaker 1>You're still unsure obviously. So we're gonna call him right now,

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can get him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out why he's not calling you back. All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hey, can I speak to Joe please? Yeah, Joe?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm sorry, what from Jewbil from brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning. The radio program? What's that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show? Have you not heard of us? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. So you wait, you're a radio show as stagients. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well yes I am not. I'm a person. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jebil, I'm here with the show. It's me, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>Jose and Lydia and we're calling you because you recently

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>and they emailed us to see if we could get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone. Okay, And and her name is Monica. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>Monica called you, guys, Yes she did. She emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>because she said she went out on a date with you,

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time. At the end of your date.

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<v Speaker 1>You even said that you want to see her again,

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<v Speaker 1>but you haven't called her back, and she's tried texting

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<v Speaker 1>you and calling you. So she wanted to see if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get you on the phone and find out

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<v Speaker 1>if there was a problem with Monica. U. Yeah, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a problem, which was really too bad because cool girl, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell us? Can you tell us what the

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<v Speaker 1>problem is so that we can let Monica know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, she said something that I just couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>look past, and I kind of thought about it afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just thought, now I just can't spend any

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<v Speaker 1>more time with this girl. What did she say? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so I am a new father, I have a four

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<v Speaker 1>month old daughter, and thanks, yeah, thanks a lot. But

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell Monica about my daughter when we met

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<v Speaker 1>in the we've met in the parking lot. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how much she told you. Yeah, she told us,

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<v Speaker 1>She told us all that. So she didn't know yet

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<v Speaker 1>a kid. No, No, she did not know. She doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>And basically I don't bring it up right off the bat.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that I have a daughter. I'm not with

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<v Speaker 1>her mother. We had a fast thing. It was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a mistake, if you ask me. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I look at my daughter and I go, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't I think of a mistake because my baby's beautiful, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I'm taking care of her. I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>my thing. So normally I would think, like, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to date because you have a four month old,

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<v Speaker 1>But you went out on a date with Monica, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's obviously not the case. Yet I've gone on a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of dates actually, and I do this thing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of I kind of kind of take the temperature

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<v Speaker 1>of the group of I'm with if I see another

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<v Speaker 1>kid inside of wherever we're at, I'll say something like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, look at that kid. Do you like kids?

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<v Speaker 1>Or something like that. And this little boy came in

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<v Speaker 1>and he was with his parents, and I said to Monica,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, that me, little boy's cute or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, and just to kind of see what she

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<v Speaker 1>would pay, and she said something like, oh, I sure

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<v Speaker 1>hope he doesn't sit over here. And I was like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of confused by that. I was like, oh why,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, well, you know, kids were really

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<v Speaker 1>loud and like they make a bunch of noise, so

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<v Speaker 1>she was making true facts. She was true points. Sure

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<v Speaker 1>he might have been, but you know, I could just

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<v Speaker 1>tell from her tone that she's just not in the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just knew that, like I wouldn't be able

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<v Speaker 1>to just have my daughter around her. Joe, did you

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<v Speaker 1>ever specifically ask her point blank do you like kids?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you like kids? Well? No, I didn't ask to that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I could just tell from her reaction to the

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<v Speaker 1>little boy that she probably doesn't like kids, which was

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<v Speaker 1>just really too bad because she's so awesome. Hey, Joe, No,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, Joe, real quick, since you didn't ask her

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<v Speaker 1>that question. Why don't we actually have you ask her?

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<v Speaker 1>Because Monica is on the other line listening right now.

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<v Speaker 1>What yep, how did you not tell me that you

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<v Speaker 1>have a kid. We talked about our families for like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes. You guys have her on the She's been

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<v Speaker 1>listening four times. She just talked to you right there. Actually, Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you tell me? I mean, why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>say something? Well, first of all, it was it's a

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<v Speaker 1>first date, and I don't know, I don't feel the

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<v Speaker 1>need to bring it up. But what I did bring up,

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<v Speaker 1>like just trying to ask you kind of taking your

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<v Speaker 1>barometer on like how you feel about kids. Ye, on

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<v Speaker 1>a date, on a nice like date where we were

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<v Speaker 1>like having a nice conversation at this year, was so

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<v Speaker 1>quiet and chill, and I obviously didn't want like something

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<v Speaker 1>interrupting that. That's all I was saying. I was saying

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<v Speaker 1>that we were enjoying our time in our conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be distracted by anything else. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it seemed pretty clear though, Monica that you think kids

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<v Speaker 1>are just like little breaths, and like, I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>want my daughter to be around that you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have her around that. I can't believe you would

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<v Speaker 1>say something like that. You didn't tell me that you

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<v Speaker 1>had a daughter. I wasn't being sensitive to the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you might have a kid. So yeah, I gave

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<v Speaker 1>you an honest thinking about kids in that moment at

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<v Speaker 1>that coffee shop with that kid who was already like

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<v Speaker 1>screaming about wanting that frosted cookie out of the case. Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you think that's kind of an unfair barometer. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably had the same feeling about kids before you

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<v Speaker 1>had your own. No, I didn't, actually, like, I've always

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<v Speaker 1>really loved kids, and I always knew I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask kids. I do want You never asked me if

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted kids. Okay, you know what, guys like this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, you guys laughing in the background, her kind

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<v Speaker 1>of barking at me, like this is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>reasons why, first of all, I don't listen to radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Any other reason why I didn't call her back because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to deal with this, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to deal with any of this like

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<v Speaker 1>negativity and like, well, this is your whole I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't say something you've put yourself in this position,

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<v Speaker 1>and the fact that you didn't call me back or

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<v Speaker 1>even say anything like, hey, listen, I don't think this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna work because you didn't give me a chance.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is actually a good sign for everybody involved.

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<v Speaker 1>First date and you're already arguing about who wants kids

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<v Speaker 1>and who does, which really to me says that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are perfect for each other and should probably continue this. Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Monica? We will pay for it. No, No, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need your offer. Thanks a lot, but no thing.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, all right, Monica. Would you like to try

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<v Speaker 1>to convince Joe to go out with you? No? Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I seem like a girl who's going to convince

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<v Speaker 1>some jerk who apparently judges people based on no truth whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I honestly like feel sorry for his daughter

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, because I know we hope that he

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<v Speaker 1>can find you know. I'm wanting you to hear this anymore, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out of here, see you later, Joe. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go, Monica. That escalated quickly. That's what you

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<v Speaker 1>get when you meet somebody in a parking garage. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just never know. I don't know, Jewel. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>were right, Maybe he is just a parking garage cast

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<v Speaker 1>pears about him. I think I like Honestly, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I liked that answer better. So I think I raised

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<v Speaker 1>the last ten minutes and pretend let's go with that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm so curious. You got it. You're happy you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't give that guy your panties, right, broken Jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,