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Speaker 1: So is that all you guys did get coffee? And

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hey, can I speak to Joe please? Yeah, Joe?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry, what from Jewbil from brook

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show? Have you not heard of us? No,

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Speaker 1: Jose and Lydia and we're calling you because you recently

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Speaker 1: it seemed pretty clear though, Monica that you think kids

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, Monica. Would you like to try

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Speaker 1: there you go, Monica. That escalated quickly. That's what you

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Speaker 1: you just never know. I don't know, Jewel. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: because I'm so curious. You got it. You're happy you

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Speaker 1: didn't give that guy your panties, right, broken Jubil in

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