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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jake, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you hello, How are you doing? Okay? Man,

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Speaker 1: trying to help you out here with this woman Kendall.

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Speaker 1: So what's going on with Kendall? We got to know

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Speaker 1: kind of the whole backstory. How did you meet? Tell

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Speaker 3: We've met on Hinge, so once we match there, I

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Speaker 3: asked her off for drinks and we went out and

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Speaker 3: had a couple drinks, not too many, had a lot

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Speaker 3: of fun, good conversation, talked about all kinds of stuff.

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Speaker 3: She seemed to be having a good time too. I

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Speaker 3: thought we had a good vibe, but now I haven't

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Speaker 3: heard anything.

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Speaker 1: Back from her. Yeah, they they tend to think there

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Speaker 1: was a good vibe. Yeah that we hear that enoughful

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Speaker 1: lot up. But really though, and I asked the question

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Speaker 1: almost every time, like, I need you to really to

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Speaker 1: like look deep within your soul. Okay, I need you to,

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Speaker 1: like I need some self awareness, which I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: you don't have it, Jake, but it tends to be

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Speaker 1: lacking in this segment. Did anything happen anything weird, any

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Speaker 1: sort of You look back on this and you honestly

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Speaker 1: believe that it was a successful date, and you really

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Speaker 1: walked away thinking, I'm gonna hear from this woman again.

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Speaker 1: We're going out again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I said, like two drinks tops and lots

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Speaker 3: of laughing, and I thought it was a good time

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call Kendall. You'll be on the phone

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Speaker 1: at the same time. We're going to ask her some questions,

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Speaker 1: and you know, the hope here is that we can

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Speaker 1: straighten things out, figure out why she hasn't responded to you,

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Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date and pay for it. Okay, great,

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Speaker 1: let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.

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Speaker 1: Hey Jake, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Kendall.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you recently met on a hinge or you matched.

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Speaker 1: You asked her out for drinks, you went out, you

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Speaker 1: had a great date, you felt like everything went well.

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Speaker 1: You were excited to see her again. You've reached out,

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Speaker 1: you've texted, called whatever she's not responding to. You you

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Speaker 1: feel like you're being ghosts you want to know why. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that'd be great to know why. Okay, let's call it

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Speaker 1: right now. Good luck. Jake, Hello hisus Kendall. I Hey Kendall,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and I have to

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Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now,

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Speaker 1: and I would need your appermission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Is it okay? If we ch have for just a second,

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Speaker 1: I need consent to talk. Yeah, okay, good, perfect, Thank you. Well,

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Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of a guy who I guess

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Speaker 1: you matched with recently on a Hinge, one of the

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Speaker 1: dating apps. His name is Jake. Do you remember Jake?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right? Is that so you remember him or

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Speaker 1: you remember him and it's not really fondly.

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Speaker 2: I remember him?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So that's okay. Why the hesitation then, because we

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Speaker 1: just talked to him a second ago. He reached out

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Speaker 1: figure out why maybe you're ghosting him. It sounds like

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Speaker 1: you are in fact ghosting him, but he described a

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Speaker 1: great date, So where's the disconnect.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of surprised, he doesn't know. Yeah, it seemed

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Speaker 1: He doesn't seem to know, So what what happened? That's

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Speaker 1: your side of the story.

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Speaker 2: It was really.

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Speaker 5: Awkward, So it was.

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Speaker 2: It was Oh.

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Speaker 5: Gosh, it was not long into the date at all

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Speaker 5: when he starts asking me like if i'd be up

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Speaker 5: for a threesome?

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Speaker 1: Oh oh he left that part out. It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, well how could you forget that

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Speaker 1: uh little tidbit? So okay, you guys are sitting there,

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Speaker 1: I mean he look like you thought he would. I mean,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but fine is like you know, twenty thirty minutes.

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Speaker 1: Right, and then how does one transition into, you know,

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Speaker 1: Me and my friends? Should you know, do the deal? Like,

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Speaker 2: Well, it wasn't smooth. I don't think you can do

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Speaker 6: This dude's last name, and he's already like like people

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Speaker 6: like it's just like literally like how do you feel

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Speaker 2: And how do you feel about the Resung's Like yeah,

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Speaker 1: Did you at least get a picture? I mean, did you?

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Speaker 1: Because I what I probably would have done, is Kendall,

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, No, I was just honestly, like I was

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Speaker 2: Just kept getting worse.

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Speaker 1: Was it a man or of woman that he was

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Speaker 4: Oh, it was a woman, and he already had somebody

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Speaker 1: Woman with somebody? Like does he have a girlfriend and

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Speaker 1: he's out recruiting or like what what's that about.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's what he makes it sound like, because he

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Speaker 4: keeps talking about his friend Tracy, who He's like, Oh, this.

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Speaker 2: Would be somebody I have her in.

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Speaker 4: Mind and everything, and it's just it's insane to me

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Speaker 4: that you would you would not only talk about this

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Speaker 4: on the first date, but then like, obviously there's someone.

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Speaker 2: Else that you're really attracted to and you're letting me

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Speaker 1: Well, we should get some answers right now. I forgot

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Speaker 1: to mention that Jake is here. I'm extremely forgetful. I

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Speaker 1: often get caught up. I forget Jake. What Yeah, what

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know, I know what you were after,

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Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to talk or anything. I wasn't suggesting

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Speaker 3: we do that, just like first date banter, like finding

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Speaker 1: First state banter, like what's your favorite company? Do you

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Speaker 1: who's Tracy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And who is Tracy?

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Speaker 2: Ja?

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Speaker 1: She's just a.

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Speaker 3: Friend and she's not like a girl. I'm not romantic

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Speaker 1: She's just a friend. Yeah. I was gonna say, is

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Speaker 1: she aware of the event that you're planning? Has she

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Speaker 1: received the EV on this is she rsv P? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Did the calendar invite?

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Speaker 2: Like? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: Is she aware that you're out of here propositioning people

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Speaker 1: with her? Involved? Your friend Tracy.

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Speaker 3: It's not like something it's not making a big deal

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Speaker 3: out of It's not something that I'm like, actually planning.

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Speaker 3: I'm just sort of getting to know this person.

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Speaker 1: They have websites for this dude. I mean, huh what.

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Speaker 1: I respect him.

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Speaker 7: He's getting right to the point. He's making his intentions clear,

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Speaker 7: so that way she knows what he's into.

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Speaker 1: Like, people need to do this more, I will say, sure,

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Speaker 1: I tend to be pretty direct to I've not asked

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Speaker 1: anybody for this. I regrettably, maybe I could start, but no,

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Speaker 1: I tend to be pretty direct as well. And if

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Speaker 1: it's not for you, it's not for you. And I

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Speaker 1: don't feel bad about that. But if you're trying to

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Speaker 1: you should probably focus on them and only them and

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Speaker 1: not your proclivities. On the first date.

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Speaker 3: I did, we talked all about it.

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Speaker 2: It's not the.

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Speaker 3: We talked about a million other things.

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Speaker 7: He found out a favorite color, you know, he just.

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Speaker 1: What is your favorite color, Jake, Tracy's favorite color? That

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Speaker 1: we know we do not get the favorite color. All right,

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Speaker 1: So we're in third grade. We are very it's quite

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Speaker 1: clear that we're not intern right, I certainly hope. Okay, look, Kendall, uh,

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Speaker 1: I'll ask the question. I think I know the answer.

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Speaker 1: But are you interested in another date? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: We can invite Tracy. You know what. I'll pay for

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Speaker 1: that too, honestly.

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Speaker 2: Okay, uh, yeah, I'm gonna roll with no shocking.

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Speaker 1: But since Kiki respects him so much, this is great.

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Speaker 1: I'll just maybe we'll get Tim and well, you know,

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Speaker 1: then that's there's threes a party. I'm not into three subs.

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Speaker 7: Maybe it ain't enough room for all at where I'm going?

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Speaker 1: Where are you going? Where are you going to hear

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Speaker 1: more about the destination? What is the destination? Where are

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Speaker 7: It's not enough room for another person, and so no,

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Speaker 7: I'm not interested, but I would like somebody to be

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Speaker 7: upfront tell me.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, it's weird stuff. It's on aer Kiki. I

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Speaker 1: have a feeling that people will be very upfront with you.

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Speaker 1: Everyone Kick would like you to be upfront with her

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Speaker 1: on ak Yeah all right, well uh, Jake, I'm sorry, man,

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Speaker 1: it's not gonna work out. Maybe i'd slow roll those plans.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's more of a second date conversation.

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 1: I just like I like to be direct, like you yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you were and a hey you you swung, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you whift and it's okay, you know what. That's

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Speaker 1: all right. I'm not I'm not gonna hate on that,

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Speaker 1: but it's not for Kendall. Kendall, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, Jake, best of luck to you as well. Thanks.

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Speaker 1: Calin has the Entertainment Report. ITA's next on The Fred Show.