WEBVTT - Second Date Update: C'est La Spit

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date takes a big man to admit

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<v Speaker 1>when he's made a mistake. I made a mistake. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm finally a big man. Yes, Unfortunately I never make mistakes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah about you. Kind of hard for guys like me

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<v Speaker 1>to admit being wrong if we never are? Am I right? Jose?

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<v Speaker 1>That must be yeah? I mean, but you know, one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Galen, says that he's confident enough to

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<v Speaker 1>confess to an air that he made Okay, not only

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<v Speaker 1>did he mess up, but his date actually called him

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<v Speaker 1>out on Honestly, I'm a little jealous that you're more

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<v Speaker 1>of a man than I am. I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>teach me your ways? Is that cool? Yeah? I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>here o'bi one for this for sure. Oh is that

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<v Speaker 1>a star? That's a star Wars joke? Put the force

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<v Speaker 1>all over this. But a right, did you mess up? Or?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean your date called you out on it? Jeff said,

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<v Speaker 1>So it sounds like you were forced to. I was

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<v Speaker 1>forced to, But yeah, I could have tried to continue

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<v Speaker 1>the lie. Okay, tell us a little bit about this

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<v Speaker 1>girl we met online. Her name's Stephanie. She's super cute,

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<v Speaker 1>She's so sweet. We talked a little bit on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>we really hit it off. Okay, okay, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>end up doing for your meetup? So there's a there's

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<v Speaker 1>a French restaurant that I've been meaning to try, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I supposed to be very romantic. Yes, choice on

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<v Speaker 1>the French food. I mean, obviously you wanted to impress

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<v Speaker 1>her if you're you're picking a romantic place like you're

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<v Speaker 1>set in the moon, like you're in it. Yeah, that's right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right. So how was it? The restaurant was really nice,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, you know, I was really excited about just

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<v Speaker 1>having a romantic evening with her. And then the day

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<v Speaker 1>of the day came around and I get a day

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<v Speaker 1>from my Google calendar seeing that I have dental surgery

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<v Speaker 1>the next morning. Oh no, yeah, at least it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the same day. Yeah, like how early the next morning,

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<v Speaker 1>first thing in the morning, and I had gotten an

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<v Speaker 1>email from the office saying that I couldn't eat for

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen hours. Yeah, why didn't you reschedule the date or

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<v Speaker 1>do something different than out to dinner? I was worried

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<v Speaker 1>that if I canceled it last minute. You tons of

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<v Speaker 1>people take that personally, and it's kind of to turn off.

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<v Speaker 1>You're absolutely correct her, like you've talked for weeks. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you tell her, oh my god, I have dental surgery,

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<v Speaker 1>sounds sketchy. If someone like, oh, I forgot about a

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<v Speaker 1>surgery I have in the morning, I'd be like, yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't forget. Yes, it looks a little bit irresponsible

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<v Speaker 1>that you can't juggle your own schedules right, And then

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<v Speaker 1>it would be a bad look for me, you know that.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you tell her when you when you

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<v Speaker 1>got to the restaurant. Did you tell her that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't be able to eat or anything. No, because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want her to be freaked out or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I did was and also I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>taste the food at the restaurant. So I just had

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<v Speaker 1>this idea in my head. Well, I'll taste the food.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put it in my mouth. I'll pretend that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like chewing it, and if I don't digest it, I

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<v Speaker 1>should be cool. And I'll just distract her in a way,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I was pointing at stuff. I like,

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<v Speaker 1>dropped my napkin under the table times where did you know, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's over there? Oh my god? Look at the ceiling

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<v Speaker 1>real quick. So gross. Wait where did you spit out too? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean bits of it. We're under the table. You

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<v Speaker 1>should have just done it in front of her. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that's how the French do it. She has to

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<v Speaker 1>have known that you were spitting your food out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean eventually she caught on and she she called

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<v Speaker 1>me out. At first, I try to deny it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we got into like an argument about it, standard

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<v Speaker 1>ground brown. Why would you deny it? It was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a freak thing. Like my initial reaction was just

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<v Speaker 1>like deny, deny, deny, And she's the smart person, and

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<v Speaker 1>she she realized what was happening. Yeah, So finally I

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I'm so sorry. I have dental surgery tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>I got an email from the offense frame that I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't eat for eighteen hours, but I didn't want to cancel,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, well, I don't think that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Eighteen hours SS like a long time, and I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure that's what the email said. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like she said, oh, just pull it up, and I did,

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<v Speaker 1>and sure enough the email said eight hours instead of

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<v Speaker 1>so you did it for nothing? No, No, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to starve myself for eight weeks, that's what it says.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, it was hours my mistake. You must have

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<v Speaker 1>felt like such an idiot in that moment. Hey, well

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little bit strong. That's how he would feel.

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<v Speaker 1>You felt that way? Am I wrong? I felt so stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I ordered another meal. You have better have

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<v Speaker 1>tip this waiter who had to clean up everything that

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<v Speaker 1>you did so much money? I did, I did. I

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<v Speaker 1>gave a very nice tip. Oh my god. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>able to get things back on track? Did she think

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<v Speaker 1>you were funny or was she just grossed out? Either?

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<v Speaker 1>She was a little like sturred obviously, but we did

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<v Speaker 1>have a nice conversation like to end the meal, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I drove her home. I kissed her on the cheek,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I texted her In the next couple of

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<v Speaker 1>days she didn't respond. And now, you know, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>concerned that, for obvious reasons, that I've messed things up

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<v Speaker 1>with bro. It just seems like you're very unorganized, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and it's like, oh, I I can't do

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<v Speaker 1>this when I'm gonna lie about it. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's simply that she was spitting food out on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. I mean, sure, all of those things maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, how can you come back from that? It

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<v Speaker 1>is so bad? Yet I think we can do it, though,

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<v Speaker 1>Think I'll believe in us. Okay, so gross. You sit tight,

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<v Speaker 1>Galen and order a fourth meal for yourself in the meantime,

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<v Speaker 1>because we're going to play a song. We'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll call Stephanie for you and try and

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<v Speaker 1>get a second date up date. Okay, thank you, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>at Brooke and Jeffrey dot com. A romantic candlelight, French dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>exotic wines, beautiful table claws seriously, and a silk napkin

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<v Speaker 1>filled with half chewed chicken. All wrong, just so gross.

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<v Speaker 1>Small glimpse into Galen's actual date with man because he

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<v Speaker 1>forgot that he had dental surgery the following morning. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't the only problem. Yeah, you're right, what other

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<v Speaker 1>problems were there? Broke misread the email that said wait

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<v Speaker 1>eight hours, not eighteen hours. He totally could have eaten

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<v Speaker 1>his meal. That was the main thing. He didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to tell her that he had forgotten because he thought

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<v Speaker 1>it might make him look bad. So he decided to

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<v Speaker 1>try and half chew some of the food so we

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<v Speaker 1>could still get the flavor and spit it out without

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<v Speaker 1>her seeing. Unfortunately, she caught on, pointed out his air

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<v Speaker 1>and told him, no, you dummy, it's only eight hours

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to wait before dental surgery. And he

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<v Speaker 1>admitted that he's right. Let's give him a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of credit that he's right. Sorry, he admitted that he's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You just can't help yourself, can't. You can't bring yourself

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<v Speaker 1>to say the word wrong. He was right to admit

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<v Speaker 1>that he was wrong. That was a big move on

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<v Speaker 1>his cart. And I salute you for that, Galen, Thank you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate at least somebody has. I mean, what can

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<v Speaker 1>we say to her that's a real positive of your date,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because like obviously we don't really want to

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<v Speaker 1>linger on the chewed food for too long. For sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we connected because both of our mothers are

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<v Speaker 1>school teachers, and so that was like a really nice

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<v Speaker 1>kind of connection that we made, all right, Okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>felt like she was out with the child. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we can lead with that where we get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and we'll see if she has anything

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<v Speaker 1>else to say, and hopefully we can get you another

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<v Speaker 1>date here. Okay, please, thank you? All Right, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is it Stephanie. Hey, stephan I'm glad we got you. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>this is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Hey, Stephanie, Oh my god. Hi, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you might know us. What's going on? Well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the question I want to ask you. Yeah, what's going on? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so tell us what's going on with your dating life?

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<v Speaker 1>Is not a whole lot disappointing? Well, it could be

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more right now, Yeah, because we actually have

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who's very interested in seeing you another time.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember going out with Galen the other day? Ah, Galen? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just say I'm so excited to hear her

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<v Speaker 1>said of the story. Yeah, what could he have said?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, he told us a lot about the night.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that you guys bonded over the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>both of your moms are school teachers. That's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>We did a huh. Yeah, it sounds like you had

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of like connection leading up to day date too,

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<v Speaker 1>like we did. We met online, we talked a few weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>He seemed sweet. Um, I don't know what else there

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<v Speaker 1>is to say. I mean, that part was good, okay

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<v Speaker 1>is the part that was not so good? When he

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<v Speaker 1>made a little oopsie daisy about his dental surgery. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>he did talk out okay? Oh yeah, the way we

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<v Speaker 1>all laughed at him. Yeah. Oh, I guess after the day,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I started thinking about things. And while he's sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of a mess. I mean the food on

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<v Speaker 1>the floor, he was being all shady with it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew something with that. Can you tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>was that? Like? Like you're you're sitting at a nice

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<v Speaker 1>French restaurant with lovely linens and well exactly, and they

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<v Speaker 1>bring out the bread with that olive oil or the

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<v Speaker 1>fresh bread, pepper and everything, and every few minutes he

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<v Speaker 1>would like point over my shoulder like some painting or

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<v Speaker 1>mirror or light fixture and be like, oh, isn't that

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<v Speaker 1>really nice? And I I love him? And then I

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<v Speaker 1>turned back and I beieve that he was like dribble,

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<v Speaker 1>dribble came out. No, I didn't need to know that. Finally,

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<v Speaker 1>when he fasted up, it was like he didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>a long how long he needed to fast for. He

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<v Speaker 1>got eighteen hours. It's eight hours. Yeah, but I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>physical coordinator. And he started to argue with me. That's

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<v Speaker 1>probably just because he was embarrassed. I mean, honestly, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet he was just offensive because he was embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>You would be. I would be mortified if I was

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<v Speaker 1>in his position. Yeah, and he did admit that he

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<v Speaker 1>made a mistake to you. He did, Yeah, eventually I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think he's like the guy for me,

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<v Speaker 1>because this should be a fun, gets no you thing,

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<v Speaker 1>And between the food and like the scatterbrain demeanor, it

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<v Speaker 1>just turns heavy so fast. Well, yeah, I know he

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<v Speaker 1>might seem to little bit scatterbrain, but I'll tell you this, Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 1>He is organized and thorough enough to dial all the

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<v Speaker 1>numbers to a radio station, correct all of them in

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<v Speaker 1>a row, and stay on the line quietly this entire

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<v Speaker 1>time waiting to talk to you. That takes discipline. And

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<v Speaker 1>now Galen be there. I'm here, Hey, hey, Stephanie, what's up? Hi? Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Galen U. I heard what you said. And it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of wild. You're like blaming me for everything we blaming

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<v Speaker 1>you for? What else is there to be blamed for.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't even add any new information, Galen, it was

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<v Speaker 1>all saying, if I'm being honest, like, the reason I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to keep this like whole ruse up is because

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<v Speaker 1>you're like so perfect. I didn't want to like mess

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<v Speaker 1>things up by like canceling the data or whatever. So

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<v Speaker 1>part of the reason I had to spit my food

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<v Speaker 1>out and whatnots because I'm that dedicated to this working out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I know it's so sweet, but then you

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<v Speaker 1>should have enough respect for me to just tell me

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<v Speaker 1>the truth because this was a first date and I

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<v Speaker 1>know you're all about first impressions, but it's never good

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<v Speaker 1>to start out with a lie. Well, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he would have lied to you if you weren't so

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful and put together. We are not We are not

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<v Speaker 1>blaming her, not doing that. No, I'm not doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm just trying to explain why are you

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<v Speaker 1>so pretty? Yeah, Galen, it's a romance of blaming. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but what you need to do is lead into what

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot you are and beg you need to beg

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<v Speaker 1>her for a second chance, Like why do you even

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<v Speaker 1>deserve one? Yeah, that's who gets all the ladies, the

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<v Speaker 1>big idiot. You guys, you heard the story. I am

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<v Speaker 1>a big idiot. All I can ask is your forgiveness

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<v Speaker 1>and that you just text me the night before, like

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<v Speaker 1>if we eat go on another day, just to remind me.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want me to remind you if we

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<v Speaker 1>go on another date? Are you worried about another surgery? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>just so remind me that we're going out, because obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not all organized and smart like you. You know, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds has to aggressive. I got I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to applaude. I mean I did? I did?

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<v Speaker 1>You did? Yeah? No, you didn't, Galen, you said it

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<v Speaker 1>was her fault. I didn't say it was your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>We share the mistake together. What are we looking at?

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's seventy percent your fault, thirty percent exactly. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting zero credit for my creativity in hiding the bite

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<v Speaker 1>taking for quite a long time before you found out,

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<v Speaker 1>because he cares, I think definitely. Do you think it

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<v Speaker 1>was at least creative the way that he tried to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, high it was definitely creative her casting. She's

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<v Speaker 1>in love. What is wrong with you too? Today we're

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<v Speaker 1>in a fun move. Okay, dressed. Now that the sparks

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<v Speaker 1>are flying, there's a great time to ask Stephanie, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out on another date with Galen?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Man, Stephanie. We will pay for it and will

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<v Speaker 1>remind him. Um no, why would you make him feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad like that, Stephanie, that you've done. It used to

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<v Speaker 1>be a soft pass, but now it's hard. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>very smart college I mean, Galen, I don't do want

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<v Speaker 1>to try and save this for yourself. Yeah. If I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being honest here, if somebody can admit their faults, then

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have time for it. Okay, okay, yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is your chance, Stephanie to admit them. No. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that's a dig deep here. Yeah, I really digg. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so sorry. Thank you for apologizing. That was really

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<v Speaker 1>big of you. And if you'd like to further apologize,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you my venmo and you can pay for

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<v Speaker 1>half the meal when we're off. Oh, what a generous offer. Opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey and Jeffrey in the morning. Brook. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>say that you love love, but it's pretty obvious that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. And I'm not trying to make here, but

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<v Speaker 1>out of everybody on that call, that just happened, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the one that needs to apologize the most. Please

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<v Speaker 1>enlighten me, Jeffreys. I ran the numbers. Yeah, I ran

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<v Speaker 1>the numbers. And did you realize over thirty six percent

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<v Speaker 1>of our second dates fail to get another date because

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke brings up valid points and things make logical sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever this is dating? Okay, it's not supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>logical or reasonable or even fair. All right. Dating is

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be based on raw motions, carnal instincts. Lust.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why everyone's still single. No where's lusty. Brook, I

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<v Speaker 1>made a lot of dump choices. Okay, yeah, exactly. Young

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<v Speaker 1>people mess up. That guy could not know you were

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<v Speaker 1>being sarcastic. He really thought that you supported him. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it takes some experience to figure out my sense of humor. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm sorry for Brook. Taller listeners out there up, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'm not sorry. I'd like to do an air quote. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not using him correct. The sarcasm isn't coming, you

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<v Speaker 1>say for some reason. But if you ever want to

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<v Speaker 1>get a second date. Update. Maybe Brooke won't ruin it

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<v Speaker 1>for you. There is We will always call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who's not calling you back. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.