1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for us the clo Here 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: we go. This one is from Cecil in Saginaw, Michigan. 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: Cecil Rights. I'm a seventy year old bachelor and I 4 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: swore i'd never get married, but now I'm in love 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: with a younger woman and she's threatening to leave me 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: if I don't get my act together. See I have 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: another problem too. I have a very controlling daughter and 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: she will be wealthy after I pass away. She's my everything, 9 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: and I know she will fight over my assets, especially 10 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: because she thinks my girlfriend is only with me for 11 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: the money. She suggested I get a prenup if I 12 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: decide to marry this woman. 13 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 2: What should I do? 14 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: Cl Well, go on and get a prenup. It depends 15 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 3: on how much younger this woman is. But if you 16 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 3: seventy damn near everybody you meet me younger as could be, 17 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: that covers a wide range of people, Cecil. 18 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 4: And so I'm as assuming that she is quite younger. 19 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 3: And your daughter's a little bit aggravated by it, and 20 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 3: I think you can understand that. But your daughter is 21 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 3: your everything. So if the woman really loves you for 22 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 3: your love and not for your money at this age, difference. 23 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 3: She would understand that you want to leave everything to 24 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 3: your child, and so that makes sense. But she's threatening 25 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 3: to leave you if you don't get yourself together. How 26 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 3: she wants either one or two things. She wants you 27 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 3: to get your daughter under control, or she wants you 28 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 3: to handle your business and hand it over to her. 29 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 3: Those are the only two things I could think. She's 30 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 3: telling you to get yourself together. 31 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 4: She gonna leave you. 32 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 3: And then the words of someone. I don't know whether 33 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 3: this phrase came from, but the two words are by 34 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 3: and Felicia, and you can apply those And because I'm 35 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 3: pretty sure, yeah, I understand that you got you got, 36 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: you could do you could you can get somebody else. 37 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 4: That's good, brother. 38 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: All Right, we're moving on. 39 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: Tabitha, and Philly says, I'm a thirty four year old 40 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: married woman and I need your advice. My husband works 41 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 1: downtown and I work from home. On Friday, I ran 42 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: to the dry cleaners and I saw my husband's car. 43 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: I expected him to be in the cleaners, but instead 44 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: his assistant was inside at the counter. She told she 45 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: turned bright red when she saw me, and I told 46 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: her to give me the car keys and Colin uber 47 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: my husband was very upset and asked me to apologize 48 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: to his assistant. I told him that would never happen. 49 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: Do you think I overreacted about this? 50 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: Well, you didn't know why the assistant had the car 51 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 3: down there the cleaners was obviously to pick up some cleaning. 52 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 3: I must assume me he wasn't down there. They wasn't 53 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 3: at a hotel. He gave it a car to go 54 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: down there to pick up it's dry cleaning. You done 55 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 3: came in all gangster, get an uber, Give me the 56 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: damn car keys. Now you got what you wanted. You 57 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: got the car keys. Now your husband on set? What 58 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 3: did your husband do? 59 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 5: Turn? 60 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 3: Well, you be scared to somebody? Wife walk in? You 61 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 3: got the keys? 62 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, sound like a white woman, Right, like white woman. 63 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 4: I know one thing she got asking that you uber? 64 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 4: Promise that. 65 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 3: Wasn't no argument about the keys. She handed her that 66 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: kyd and got right in it. 67 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: What you're saying, you think the wife overreacted. 68 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 3: I do, but I also understand her position. But she 69 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 3: jumped to the conclusion without note of the proof other 70 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 3: than she had the keys to the car. 71 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 2: She should apologize. 72 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: Yes, all right, here we go, but don't happen right, yeah, 73 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:11,119 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on, Molly in Tupelo, Mississippi says, I'm 74 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: a twenty nine year old single mother and my boyfriend 75 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: of five years just moved in with a guy I 76 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: slept with last year. I slept with a guy while 77 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: my boyfriend was deployed last year. He works with a 78 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: guy now and they decided to be roommates so my 79 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: boyfriend can save up to buy a house. My boyfriend 80 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: can't live with me because my son's father won't allow it. 81 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 1: Do I tell my boyfriend that I had sex with 82 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: his roommate or pray it never comes up? 83 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 4: Better, get to pray out. 84 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: Don't walk that information in the door that you slept 85 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 3: with him while he was deployed. You know, listen to me. 86 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 3: There's a saying that everything comes to light. 87 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:00,479 Speaker 4: That's not true. 88 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 1: That's just not true. 89 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 4: So don't start bringing everything to the light. 90 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 2: Turn that damn light off right. 91 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 3: Sometimes sometimes in our lives, and all of us have 92 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 3: benefited from it. 93 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 4: There's a thing that we all been from. 94 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 3: Benefit from, called grace, and but by the grace, somehow 95 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 3: some things are not allowed to be known about you, 96 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 3: And that's some grace and favor you should be the 97 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 3: beneficiary of that as long as you can. 98 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 4: Don't walk nothing in there and tell it that they 99 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 4: don't know. 100 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 3: And these are some famous words. Shut your damn mouth. 101 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 3: I don't know who that quote is. 102 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 5: From, but shut your damn mouth is one of my 103 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 5: I don't know who the tribute that to, but I 104 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 5: love it. 105 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 3: Man. 106 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: All right, all right, here we go. All right, one 107 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: last one, Shay, you have one. 108 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 5: No, I just I just wanted to add to what 109 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 5: he's saying about shut your damn mount. 110 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 4: It's very important. 111 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 5: If you have information that somebody doesn't know, don't give 112 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 5: it to them. 113 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 2: Just willy nilly, What the hell. 114 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 4: Would you do that for? 115 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 2: That is just stupid, That's all I had to say. 116 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 4: That's dumb as hell. 117 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 2: They don't know, and I mean they don't know, and 118 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 2: you're telling them. Damn that's dumb. 119 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 4: That is just dumb. 120 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: This is where we went through many man, but why and. 121 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: Who all deployed in Tupelo. But honesty. 122 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 1: Some people believe in honesty. You know they want the. 123 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: True honesty is stupid. 124 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 4: Honesty. 125 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 2: It's way overrated. All right, we got we gotta go. 126 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to The Hardy Morning Show.