WEBVTT - Marriage and Pleasure

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<v Speaker 1>It's time time, time to wake up instantially and Charlott

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<v Speaker 1>mean the doctor to practice club bitches, the voice of

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<v Speaker 1>the culture. People watch The Breakfast Club for like news,

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<v Speaker 1>to really be tuned in. It's one of my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>shows to do, just because y'all always keep you one, honey,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all keep your Really. They might not watch the news,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're on Twitter, they're on Facebook, they're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're listening to The Breakfast Brother gets your ass getting

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<v Speaker 1>pick up the mother mother phone and dial. This is

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<v Speaker 1>your time to get it off your chat. Whether you're

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<v Speaker 1>man or blast, you want to hear from you on

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. So you but have the same energy. Yeah, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? Yeah? This shit boy? You dog? You dog?

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<v Speaker 1>You dog? What's up? You dog? And you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. You know what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up with y'all? Man? What's up? What's what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? As we use Charlotte mane envy, what's up happening? Brother?

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<v Speaker 1>Since you've been and you've been sober for forty days

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<v Speaker 1>on the days, La, I've been cleared for the day. Congratsman,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you appreciate it. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>we can gratulating the one it? Wow, I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>should we go off? What you gotta tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>you was sold off for? Twenty days? Get off? See

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<v Speaker 1>you see what I'm saying, y'all just like congratulations, don't

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<v Speaker 1>even have congratulations. He's trying to stop himself, to stop masturbating. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a long way, man, Like, it's been really hard for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure hard it's been. It's been a long forty

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<v Speaker 1>days and you know, I'm you know, just let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask you a question. If you hear that if you

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<v Speaker 1>use another guy's hand the masturbated, that relapse, that is

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<v Speaker 1>that cool? You know? That does that? Does account? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it. I'm just saying you can get

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<v Speaker 1>a start from another guy. I wouldn't count, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say that, bro, So I shouldn't do that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Well yeah, go on, man, Charloman makes your offer,

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<v Speaker 1>you bet? Except hello, my boy was handing with I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not blood No, I mean, I'm playing I'm playing them.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm nothing. Okay, what's up in the day?

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<v Speaker 1>Just say both that drength doesn't matter. Hey, um, he's

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<v Speaker 1>real so so Emby, I wanted to pick your brain, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>Like really, I'm trying to get into the real estate

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<v Speaker 1>game a little bit more, I'll be sure and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that a little bit right now. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>probably got about like ten fifteen rocks, like just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of off to the side, and I'm trying to see

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<v Speaker 1>which way to kind of jump in that. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. Are you from I'm from the Power

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<v Speaker 1>from Okana. He from Oakland, Okay, the Bay area? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Just eat email me all right? Uh Caesar and dj

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<v Speaker 1>m v A Gmail all right? And and um, I

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<v Speaker 1>try to hit you after the show and told you

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<v Speaker 1>what your options are and everything like that. How's your credit?

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<v Speaker 1>So it's gonna be about seven hundred about next month?

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<v Speaker 1>I played off seven hundy by next mon, what don't

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<v Speaker 1>hit this month? Brother? Okay, Yeah, you're good six eighties, good,

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<v Speaker 1>six eighty. You could get some stuff done and you

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<v Speaker 1>got a good job. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>to the side. Yep. We can make some things happen

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I get a lender on the phone for you.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find you some props. You be good money, you said,

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<v Speaker 1>season and who see you said? Season, MVY or season

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<v Speaker 1>and DJ sees it in DJ N mail. Brother, all right, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this Jay? Jay? What's up? Getting off your chess? Bro? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to tell y'all man a little what

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<v Speaker 1>y'all doing? Man, y'all keep a trick, keep it real

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<v Speaker 1>every day. Hey, we appreciate nice to the point. That's

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<v Speaker 1>all you got. No, man, I want to shout out

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<v Speaker 1>well as I'm on the bigger ridal space in the world. Man. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>shout out the Instagram jays kids, so j A y

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<v Speaker 1>s K. I is old. Man. Y'all follow me, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know with everybody know me in the city? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, brother, Hello, who's this? Hi? This is Jessica.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you yet your chess? I listened to you

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<v Speaker 1>guys every morning, but I need to get something off

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<v Speaker 1>my chest this morning. UM. I'm a nurse and I

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<v Speaker 1>love what I do. UM, but I need to put

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<v Speaker 1>on blass. Some of my night co workers, UM, they're

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<v Speaker 1>just very unhappy people and I just don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>they would want to be nurse. Is if there's that

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<v Speaker 1>miserable right. I can't stand being around unhappy people and

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<v Speaker 1>people that complain about everything. But don't do anything about it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're so unhappy tor situation. You know what, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not even complaining, it's just a whole vibe like

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<v Speaker 1>they don't say hi, not nice. Have you ever thought

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe it could be you? Maybe they're happy on

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<v Speaker 1>another shift when you're not around. She sounds happy yet, Nah,

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's like the twenty four seven, whether I'm there

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<v Speaker 1>not there, they're just always just an unhappy group of

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<v Speaker 1>people and not putting it very nicely. Well you avoid

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<v Speaker 1>the unhappy absolutely well. Thank you guys, Thank you so much. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>have a go on, get it off your chest eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred five A five one on five one. If you

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<v Speaker 1>need to vent, hit us up right now. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club the morning, wake up, wake up. You're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get it off your chest or blas. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear from you on the Hello. Who's this? Hello? They?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your name? Bro? Oh my god, bro? I got

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<v Speaker 1>through all. My name is Will Well, what's up? Getting

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<v Speaker 1>up for chas? Will person up? NBA? What's up? And god? Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good? What's up? My guy? How are you? Mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? I'm black and you know what I'm saying, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what's on the same out freaking everything, y'all. Dude, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all s for race. Y'all a part of my everyday routine.

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<v Speaker 1>And um man, y'all motivated me. Y'all have y'all make

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<v Speaker 1>every day easier to keep going. Thank you, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>that way about y'all, I'm he serious. Hello, who's this ail?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Hey Ariola, Hey, get it up, Ario Loveterio,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Ariel. I'm sorry, y y'all for years. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>we're so old. I'm not. I said we old because

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<v Speaker 1>you've been trying to call it for a year. Honey,

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<v Speaker 1>I have so out of calling from Orlando, Florida. I

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<v Speaker 1>moved here from Jane Bill three years ago. Um, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to call y'all, dja envy. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>been giving you on Instagram because I have a homeboy who,

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<v Speaker 1>like you, do music and he really doing. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is seen minutes Pro. He has a project out is

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<v Speaker 1>called Warm Night Ful Heart. And then I have another

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<v Speaker 1>homeboy named Kendall when he goes to text only and

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<v Speaker 1>he has a project out called Legalized Millanem. And he

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<v Speaker 1>also has a dope at I mean dope call called

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<v Speaker 1>Pam Grier and it is really really dope. Where we

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<v Speaker 1>gonna listen? You didn't listen to both of them on

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<v Speaker 1>Apple Music. Fact only is F A K K S

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<v Speaker 1>and then only and then eminence pro is E M

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<v Speaker 1>I M E T E P R O. Okay, how

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<v Speaker 1>much you paying you for promo? Nothing like these? My

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<v Speaker 1>boys have been frantat little schools. Okay, Well, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for calling mamma. Yes, I've been trying to call y'all

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<v Speaker 1>for years. I'm so excited and I'm gonna learn at

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<v Speaker 1>Orlando Regia Medical Center, so I can't show that to you,

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<v Speaker 1>Harry out, Thank you, Rick, Good morning, Rick Yo, Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>man bro Yo, So celebate. You've been in the New

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<v Speaker 1>York ta arable very long time. Man came here in suise.

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<v Speaker 1>New York Heads has been allowed to you. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to undermine any more New York team. Man. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't underline the next You don't underline anymore. Man, we're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to the next. Man. You're not allowed to say that. Well, first,

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<v Speaker 1>can ask can I? Can I ask you a question?

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<v Speaker 1>Can ask your questions to the New York Knicks up?

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm in New York. I can say that. I

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<v Speaker 1>can ask you another question, can ask you another question

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<v Speaker 1>to the New York giants up, No, they don't. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>never gonna be that you crazy? Okay, Well, well, one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>one thing I will say about New Yorkers, and I

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<v Speaker 1>love New York. A lot of y'all are very delusional.

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<v Speaker 1>We all so much. Why don't we break your New

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<v Speaker 1>York if you are New Yorker? Now, I love New York.

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<v Speaker 1>I paid taxes here, but I am a Dallas Cowboys fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Good try Rick such a bad person. Get it on

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<v Speaker 1>your chest if you need to. N hit is up now.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the Breakfast Club going bad person, the breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>club pointing. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest

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<v Speaker 1>in the building, Yes, sir, andre Iguadalla, Welcome back, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good to be back. Man. You should be somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>relaxing after that long ass season, but you are here

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<v Speaker 1>promoting your new book. First book, first one, first six

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<v Speaker 1>six many memoir WI now, man, I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>just good timing, especially with the run we've been on.

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<v Speaker 1>We were kind of the poster child in the league

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<v Speaker 1>as far as you know, people really loving us and

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<v Speaker 1>what we did for the game and then being on

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<v Speaker 1>the oppositie of that and it hate you for having

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<v Speaker 1>too much success. So um, just for me, it was

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<v Speaker 1>more therapeutic. And I had a lot of young kids,

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<v Speaker 1>young guys in the league asked me for advice, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of surprising. You know, you get people that

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<v Speaker 1>look up to you, but you're still playing. It's still

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<v Speaker 1>you're still competing against them, So all those things, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>for like, it's kind of a way to get back

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<v Speaker 1>to the because it's a new age athlete coming up,

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<v Speaker 1>especially for the black athlete. You know, we're being exploited

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<v Speaker 1>more than ever ncuba Au and kind of how I

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<v Speaker 1>navigated through the whole thing, it's kind of like there's

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<v Speaker 1>no navigational tools for guys to kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>get to the league. They're kind of being pimped throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the whole process from you know age a laban when

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<v Speaker 1>they're phena. Let's talk about the navigation part you were saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we get exploited a lot, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us have sons and daughters that want

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<v Speaker 1>to play basketball and it's a tough process. So what

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<v Speaker 1>do you suggest that people do you know, because the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing we know is AAU and high schooling to

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<v Speaker 1>the college, and is we never get anything. Well, I've

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<v Speaker 1>had many conversations and my son plays ball. It's funny,

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<v Speaker 1>he's that Duke camp now, you know. And he grew

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<v Speaker 1>up different than I did. He grew up different than

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<v Speaker 1>we did and right, And the one thing I give

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<v Speaker 1>to the kids and the parents that grew up similar

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<v Speaker 1>to the way we did is you gotta do it

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<v Speaker 1>for fun. You got to do it because you love it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I always say, these kids nowadays are living their parents'

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<v Speaker 1>dreams and that's what always derails them. Or no matter

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<v Speaker 1>where they get either they don't make it, the parents

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<v Speaker 1>derail them. Another reason why they didn't make it, or

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<v Speaker 1>when they do make it, parents are the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>they're having mental issues or they're spending all the money,

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<v Speaker 1>or they're going broke, or they're having all the family

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<v Speaker 1>problems is because you know, they did it for all

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong reasons. So for me, it's like listen, just

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<v Speaker 1>let the kid's gonna make it or not make it, regardless,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you have nothing to do with that, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>can't support them as a parent, and that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>help them mentally. But you know, there's there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things that we can do differently, and exploiting the

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<v Speaker 1>kid is that's the worst reason to get them into

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<v Speaker 1>the sports. So creating our own spaces, we talk about

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot. And I even look at colleges and

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<v Speaker 1>and I look at you know, just imagine if we

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<v Speaker 1>had one star leave an HBCU forty million dollars. Slaves

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<v Speaker 1>spoke about that in that book. What if the Fat

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<v Speaker 1>Five all went to a historically black university or college

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<v Speaker 1>instead of going to Michigan and it changed the course

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<v Speaker 1>of history. You know, they did it with black socks

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<v Speaker 1>and black nikes. They could have changed the course of history.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just talking to one of the interns.

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<v Speaker 1>She was talking about you was talking about, say, I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I would have took a visit to Howard. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Black people, we haven't tendency to think white ice is colder, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's just the way we see it. Like we

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<v Speaker 1>grow up, you know, growing up out saw Michael Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>the Fat Five, I was like they were like gods

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So it was like, you think that's the

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<v Speaker 1>only way that you can go to make it. And

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<v Speaker 1>David West, close teammate of mind, he's trying to change

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<v Speaker 1>the trajectory or the course of what we can do.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got the he got a league where instead of

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<v Speaker 1>going to college through the NCUBA, you can go through

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<v Speaker 1>this league where they give financial services as far as

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<v Speaker 1>financial education. You can actually make money off your likeness.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a different avenue. They give you a percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of your jersey right right, right right, But they're teaching

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<v Speaker 1>you all these twols as well, because that's one thing

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<v Speaker 1>I talk about in the book is we all were

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<v Speaker 1>exported in an NCUBA, especially if you went to a

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<v Speaker 1>big school. I went to the University of Arizona, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember seeing the report the larger schools in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of revenue basketball team pat to the school. We were

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<v Speaker 1>number two. And the reason why this the athletic department

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<v Speaker 1>ran was because of the basketball team. And then it

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<v Speaker 1>was funny. I would go to practice and then the

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<v Speaker 1>volleyball coach would be like, coach, you know, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>got car blanche on the practice time. I know who

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<v Speaker 1>pays the bills around here. But I would go a

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<v Speaker 1>week when I had like ten dollars and I had

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<v Speaker 1>to make ten dollars last food for that week. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like, and you an athlete, My jersey was in

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<v Speaker 1>the store, like number twenty four was in the store.

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<v Speaker 1>I would think it would feed y'all, just to keep

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<v Speaker 1>y'all healthy. Well, they change the rules now where they

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<v Speaker 1>getting limited food? When I was there, you only got

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<v Speaker 1>food on game days or they got food sometimes at

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<v Speaker 1>the practice whatever. But other than that, you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>was on and then but you got the head of

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<v Speaker 1>the NC double A. You know, you can look at

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<v Speaker 1>the salary right now. He's a millionaire, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it's just a system in how it's been

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<v Speaker 1>so far. Now people saying that the Warriors are over,

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<v Speaker 1>that the dynasty is over. What do you think you

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<v Speaker 1>got two men? Dawn? Maybe next year Claire and be

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<v Speaker 1>back soon. Katie would be back to form if he signs.

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<v Speaker 1>But he'll be back to form, okay, but um, hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be back. He might be out all next year.

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<v Speaker 1>But we saw what we did in the finals. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we just right there and we were like, really we

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<v Speaker 1>had three guys break something and we still had an opportunity,

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<v Speaker 1>were one possession away. From pushing it to a game seven,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll be fine. Um, big free agency this summer,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll be at all right, we have more with

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<v Speaker 1>andre Iguadallas when we come back. Don't move. It's to

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Go morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club was still kicking it with andre Iguadalla from

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<v Speaker 1>the Golden State Warriors. Charlemagne. Did the Warriors organization take

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<v Speaker 1>any blame for having the Katie or shouldn't because you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking the book about you know, we're sacrificing in your

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<v Speaker 1>body so for these organizations. So that's a really good question.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think his injury was the reason before the

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<v Speaker 1>other of the other injury because the way the body

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<v Speaker 1>set up, the Calves should have went out first before

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<v Speaker 1>they Achilles. So that was like an active guy like

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<v Speaker 1>the Achilleses just gonna go out. Don't matter if he

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<v Speaker 1>was injured before that or not. But I talk about

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<v Speaker 1>in the book, you know, what's your body worth? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>all I hear is play one of years longer than

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<v Speaker 1>you can. But at the same time, it's like y'all

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<v Speaker 1>want to have a certain lifestyle when I'm done playing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know them knees go quick, so you don't you

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<v Speaker 1>don't think the Warriors had any responsibility with maybe pushing

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<v Speaker 1>Katie out there too soon. That's a tough part too,

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<v Speaker 1>you think about it. We have a really good training staff.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'll give credit work credits due our training

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<v Speaker 1>staff was one of the best in the world, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like they got them back. The tough thing

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<v Speaker 1>is when you're an athlete and you're hurt, everybody's looking

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<v Speaker 1>at you sideways, and then being his teammate is harder

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<v Speaker 1>because everyone's feeding stuff in our head when Katie coming back,

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<v Speaker 1>When Katie coming back, and the fact that it's the finals,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that whatever happened to more because he put

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<v Speaker 1>that team together, it seems like, and then nobody ever

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<v Speaker 1>gave him a chance again, which seems weird. We were

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about that about that this morning, and like

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<v Speaker 1>we were huge fans of market Players. He was ultimate

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<v Speaker 1>players coach. That that was. I mean, he pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>put that team together, like that's that's what we first

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<v Speaker 1>started hearing about the Warriors, and then it was like

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<v Speaker 1>he got let go in the nor of a team,

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<v Speaker 1>gave a shot and I'll talk about it in the book.

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<v Speaker 1>As far as he was like one of my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>coaches of all times, it was like, come in, compete,

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<v Speaker 1>play hard, But I feel like this the politics of it, man.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you say politics, what do you mean? I

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<v Speaker 1>know they used to be upset because he was too religious.

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<v Speaker 1>They said, did he make y'all go to church? That

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<v Speaker 1>was a rumor that he made. He didn't make us

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<v Speaker 1>go to church like he offered it to us. And

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<v Speaker 1>we all went as a team because we got a

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<v Speaker 1>team bunch of believers, so we went to church like

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<v Speaker 1>we were going to church regardless. But it was the politics.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you know how it is when once they

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<v Speaker 1>want you out, they're gonna find something. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>one particular issue was from what I heard, was his

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<v Speaker 1>views on ginger or marriage or what the Bible said

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<v Speaker 1>on your sexuality. And our head of our business who

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<v Speaker 1>he just went to the Hall of Fame. He was

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<v Speaker 1>the brains behind All Star Weekend. Like this dude, he

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<v Speaker 1>created the All Star Weekend brick wells like genus business

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<v Speaker 1>and he's gay. So there was conflicts with that that

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<v Speaker 1>was wide spread everyone was talking about that, and it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone mentioned it to me. It was like when people

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<v Speaker 1>can express themselves, but are you allowed to express yourself

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't agree with it, you should accept it

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<v Speaker 1>because we should accept each other. But it's like we're

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<v Speaker 1>afraid to really say our beliefs now, Like you may

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<v Speaker 1>not believe in something, but you know you still embrace that,

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<v Speaker 1>or you have respect for them, or it's as long

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<v Speaker 1>as you don't dispect them or judge them. Correct. It

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<v Speaker 1>was that on top of you know, he might have

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<v Speaker 1>issues with ownership. That was that was a crazy part,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he didn't have a group relationship with the ownership

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<v Speaker 1>and that's not gonna work. That ain't gonna never work.

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<v Speaker 1>But no other team picked him up. Think about it,

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<v Speaker 1>not one other team. Well, it just shows crazy. It

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<v Speaker 1>just shows how in line the ownership group is. They

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<v Speaker 1>all together, they care about one thing money at bottom line.

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<v Speaker 1>You think Mark Jackson's black ball, I do, yes, really, yes, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>But we appreciate you for joining us. Yeah, pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the book. Six men and Katie and Clay coming back

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<v Speaker 1>next year? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Kad two.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Katie's coming back. I hope he does I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we wanted to come back prior to the injury?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you think he was leaving a going I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a hard part of two. It's like every day

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<v Speaker 1>we had to deal with that, like the whole year

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<v Speaker 1>you had to deal with it. Is Katie coming back?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, man, like, man, I hope, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like what you want me to say. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, it's like, you know where they're smoked. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a fire, so it's like, well, who's putting out these reports?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it fake? You don't know what's what? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the drama, the NBA. They're going to the Knicks though,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I heard. I don't know. Man, I personally

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<v Speaker 1>think y'all gonna strike out. Yeah, I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. It's Andrew Iguadolla. It's to Breakfast Local Morning, DJ, Envy,

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>caught your parents having sex at or how your kids

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<v Speaker 1>ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from

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<v Speaker 1>Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and

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<v Speaker 1>Waxes played an audio have you ever been caught by plenty? Plenty?

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<v Speaker 1>I got called plenty. I gotta called my mom's grandmoms brothers.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was with my friend. It was two o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. I was just saying I was in

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<v Speaker 1>a room with a door that was in locks. My

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<v Speaker 1>son comes in because I guess he heard some noise.

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<v Speaker 1>All I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I

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<v Speaker 1>am calling my mom. Good did your friends say? He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, he was like, you should have yelled at

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<v Speaker 1>him so he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>was in shocked. So we're asking eight hundred five five

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five. One of my kids have never walked

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<v Speaker 1>in and caught us, but my daughter has texted us

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<v Speaker 1>and said, guys, I'm still up. Guys, you checked your

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<v Speaker 1>text during sex. Now this was after when we checked in.

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<v Speaker 1>You can see the text was like, guys, I'm still up.

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<v Speaker 1>The next morning she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you

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<v Speaker 1>doing the daddy last night? He was making so much

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<v Speaker 1>noise of what he was in. Yeah, have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>caught your parent type of sex? I think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>never walked in on them, but I've heard them, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house. My

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<v Speaker 1>room was all the way on the third floor, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door was closed,

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<v Speaker 1>and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound like it

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<v Speaker 1>was fun, though. What conversation did you hear? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>sound like they were having sex, but you know how

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<v Speaker 1>like you're tired and you don't really feel like it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have

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<v Speaker 1>caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used

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<v Speaker 1>to have a ranch style house in a monk's corner,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, you walk in the door and you

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<v Speaker 1>peek in and you see them under the covers, and

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<v Speaker 1>you just back away because you know, you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my

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<v Speaker 1>kids had never call me, simply because I'm not poor

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<v Speaker 1>and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all

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<v Speaker 1>those who can't afford locks to get your money up. King,

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<v Speaker 1>I hate your kids would have never caught you if

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<v Speaker 1>you wasn't a Paul asked me, who could have afford locks.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, some people out there that could have afford

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<v Speaker 1>locks that blocks on that door, Well, then lock the

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn door in. It's just that simple. Let's go to

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<v Speaker 1>the full hous. Hello, who's this from Houston? I'm from Calli,

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<v Speaker 1>but I live in Houston. What's up? What's going on

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<v Speaker 1>with you? What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my

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<v Speaker 1>parents having second boy. It wasn't my parents. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like my mom's and her boyfriend. I was like nineteen,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't really like to do, but I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>knocked on the door, like hey man with like is

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<v Speaker 1>it cool? Like I got to ask you a question

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<v Speaker 1>that She's like, Oh, I'm like I saw just by Wow. So, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that

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<v Speaker 1>you had that image in your head forever? Was he

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<v Speaker 1>putting it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, like it sounds like like it. See Charlemagne,

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<v Speaker 1>you always gotta ask that man, what a question down? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>Mommy gotta have a life too, bro. I'll feel you

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<v Speaker 1>on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was making noise. She was moaning, Yeah, Broda,

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<v Speaker 1>I had knock on the door to kind of break

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<v Speaker 1>it up real quick. I don't know if you rap o,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and just

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<v Speaker 1>the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents having sex.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious. Hello, who's this? Good morning? This is Ricardo

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<v Speaker 1>Hanley Junior from YANCS. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man, you ever

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<v Speaker 1>walking on your parents having sex? That was about Ricardo

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<v Speaker 1>Haley SENI you're putting it down. Ye Na, I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>never seen pops old mom get it in. But I

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<v Speaker 1>got a one year rold. I was giving my shorty

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<v Speaker 1>some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was putting that paint in. But I'm saying at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time, you know, like cool man, this is all.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you stop me? Did you stop though? Yeah? Nah?

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<v Speaker 1>I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him

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<v Speaker 1>to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta tell you how to tell him? Like, look

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<v Speaker 1>where you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling.

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<v Speaker 1>My g was too because I need a babysitter. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my good an eye brother? Hello, who's this? They

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<v Speaker 1>ain't nsha you tout your parents having sexy? Your kids

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<v Speaker 1>caught you. I put my pans, So what happened? You

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<v Speaker 1>sound mad too? Right? And my mom was on her

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<v Speaker 1>knees and then she looked me in my eyes. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait, you was under the bed. Why my my mom?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what they were doing here. My

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<v Speaker 1>mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad, I'm like black

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<v Speaker 1>called him daddy, And I see what she would say

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<v Speaker 1>all that day. You sound wild incestual right now. And

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to see that because you actually hit under

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<v Speaker 1>the bed. And what if that man would have pulled

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<v Speaker 1>What if that man would have pulled out and let

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<v Speaker 1>that let that stuff fall towards the coverence, and you

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<v Speaker 1>just happened to be looking up for the hold on, charlomne.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me let me let you know something. First of all,

0:22:56.760 --> 0:23:00.040
<v Speaker 1>and you're playing the ten dog and you heady, and

0:23:00.280 --> 0:23:02.960
<v Speaker 1>we're an apartment build. Our wolf is really thinning. You're

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<v Speaker 1>getting stupid noises. You want to be like, wait, hold on,

0:23:05.680 --> 0:23:08.040
<v Speaker 1>what's going on? You? No? You mind your business that's

0:23:08.040 --> 0:23:10.720
<v Speaker 1>that goddamn boogeyman your parents keep telling you about, and

0:23:10.840 --> 0:23:16.040
<v Speaker 1>that little pollo. Well, you saw the boogeyman that night.

0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:18.359
<v Speaker 1>He was boogeing all over your mama, wasn't it. I

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<v Speaker 1>was so traumatized, like, oh my god, like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was your daddy. That was your mama was

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<v Speaker 1>saying too. And when your dad was, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, why are y'all so crazy? Y'all crazy?

0:23:38.520 --> 0:23:41.639
<v Speaker 1>It's so crazy. What's listen? It's so crazy. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>wonder why I'm crazy. It's your fault. There's no moral

0:23:46.000 --> 0:23:49.879
<v Speaker 1>of the story. These are the stories. Lock lock the

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn dog, your pole ass before lots. Ain't that expensive, bro?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? No, man, lock the goddamn dog. Buy some

0:23:57.920 --> 0:23:59.520
<v Speaker 1>locks for your door, and locked the door before you

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<v Speaker 1>do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair

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<v Speaker 1>up behind the door. Something I can in. Put a

0:24:04.280 --> 0:24:07.400
<v Speaker 1>chair behind the door. I've done that before. Just put

0:24:07.440 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>the chair just so it makes noise so you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on, so they can't sneak up on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when you was Paul. Huh, that's a pole all right.

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<v Speaker 1>We got more coming up next with a Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>We have Jill, Marie Jones and the creators Old Monogamy here.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome guys, Good morning morning. Yeah, it's been two seasons

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<v Speaker 1>of monogamy so far, right, Yeah, yeah, this is our

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<v Speaker 1>second season. And there's this swap therapy, yes, that you

0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:40.800
<v Speaker 1>guys do on monogamy to help in your relationships and

0:24:40.880 --> 0:24:45.080
<v Speaker 1>your marriages. Swap therapy. It's basically when you swap spouses

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<v Speaker 1>in an effort to get distance from a relationship, to

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<v Speaker 1>get a perspective on it, to heal it. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like sanctioned infidelity basically. Well, it's it's more about mirror,

0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:56.640
<v Speaker 1>isn't Yeah. I think yeah, it's more about looking into

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<v Speaker 1>a mirror and saying the reflection of it that I

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<v Speaker 1>see is actually who I want to be. Yes, I'm

0:25:02.720 --> 0:25:07.720
<v Speaker 1>also too characters that think a certain way, um, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they go into the experiment and realize it was

0:25:11.880 --> 0:25:15.359
<v Speaker 1>better at home. They just didn't appreciate it. But then

0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:18.520
<v Speaker 1>there's also two characters that saw what they thought they

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<v Speaker 1>saw and then end up finding something new about I

0:25:26.520 --> 0:25:28.960
<v Speaker 1>always say that monogamy should have a question mark at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of it. I always say the well of

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<v Speaker 1>what is monogamy? Can one person be your everything? And

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<v Speaker 1>should they? Should they be? For example, and what we

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<v Speaker 1>were just talking about, if there was a space where

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<v Speaker 1>my husband could feel attracted to a woman and feel

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<v Speaker 1>free enough to come and tell me and we're sharing

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<v Speaker 1>that together. Put that lesson the fact that he goes

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<v Speaker 1>out and steps out. I mean, it's the secrets and

0:25:52.160 --> 0:25:54.040
<v Speaker 1>you're not giving a platform to be who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>If he's attracted to someone, tell me, babe, let's talk

0:25:56.840 --> 0:25:59.120
<v Speaker 1>about is that real life for you? It's real life? Okay,

0:25:59.200 --> 0:26:05.040
<v Speaker 1>so it's it's now got ana be attracted to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a man can be attracted to another woman, but

0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:10.240
<v Speaker 1>you don't. You're not gonna let them go sleep with

0:26:10.280 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>the other people? Do some people what they shoose? That's

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<v Speaker 1>the point is like, do you feel free enough that

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<v Speaker 1>you could come to your wife and say babe, or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, any man or any godless of what happens

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<v Speaker 1>after that. Yeah, Like, do you is there a space

0:26:22.080 --> 0:26:24.119
<v Speaker 1>where you can be who you are? Because we have

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<v Speaker 1>this idea that you get married, you're not attracted to people,

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:29.480
<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't feel things now there's nothing wrong with honoring

0:26:29.520 --> 0:26:32.120
<v Speaker 1>your commitment, because we do honor that, but honor who

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:34.480
<v Speaker 1>you are as a human, Like we're not dead. We

0:26:34.600 --> 0:26:36.800
<v Speaker 1>feel people were connected to people, were attracted to people,

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<v Speaker 1>So let there be space for that and maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that'll cut down the lies and the deception. Really, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't think, like I've never thought that that

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<v Speaker 1>was a problem being attracted to another woman or a

0:26:46.160 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 1>woman saying another guy's attractive. That's never a problem. Is

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<v Speaker 1>when you actually go act on that and sleep with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, everybody talk about it on the table real

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that's what I mean. Do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you feel like that it's okay to put that

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<v Speaker 1>on the table in your relationship that that you can

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<v Speaker 1>you I'm not gonna sit around a lust over woman

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:07.680
<v Speaker 1>be like, y'all I want to hit that, but I

0:27:07.760 --> 0:27:09.600
<v Speaker 1>might be like, oh, she's pretty up. My wife would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, yo, he's handsome, that's cool. So do you

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:15.080
<v Speaker 1>fight your thoughts if you're exactly because maybe your head,

0:27:15.320 --> 0:27:17.720
<v Speaker 1>do you stop yourself from thinking that? How do you

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:19.960
<v Speaker 1>fight it? Or do you about what you're gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>so that you know is at the right time? Is

0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:24.480
<v Speaker 1>it the you know, is it the is he? How

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<v Speaker 1>far should I go when I when I speak about this?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and a certain women that we both can

0:27:29.480 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 1>agree all bad. Like you might see Angela Bassett and

0:27:32.000 --> 0:27:34.399
<v Speaker 1>you and your wife and be like y'all right right

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<v Speaker 1>yeah both for y'all be like that right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about y'all relationship though, as creators of

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<v Speaker 1>this show, I want to know what is your relationship like?

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<v Speaker 1>And what are your thoughts because watching this show, watching

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<v Speaker 1>monogamy and seeing the aftermath of the whole swap therapy

0:27:49.160 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 1>and uh, seeing the different relationships and you know, the

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:54.639
<v Speaker 1>struggles that people have been having in their marriages. What

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:56.080
<v Speaker 1>made you guys come up with this? And what is

0:27:56.119 --> 0:28:00.719
<v Speaker 1>your real relationship like? That's that's all love that. How

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<v Speaker 1>we first came up with it was basically in the bed, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were The husband annoyed me something like he was

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<v Speaker 1>handling business on the phone. I was like, babe, like

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<v Speaker 1>we have to stop, and he said something like, well,

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:20.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure your perfect dude would put down his phone

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<v Speaker 1>and something filling the blank. So it kind of startsed

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<v Speaker 1>up that were your perfect woman, would you know would

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<v Speaker 1>allow you to do this on the phone, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I kept talking about it, and we're like, well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what would that look like if we evolved that into

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<v Speaker 1>something else? Could we be with other people and our

0:28:37.119 --> 0:28:39.800
<v Speaker 1>marriage withstand that, withhold that, let's hold it. Would we

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 1>be okay? If he and I were put it in

0:28:42.640 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>two separate environments for two months? Could we maintain the

0:28:45.960 --> 0:28:48.000
<v Speaker 1>integrity of our two month? Wasn't there at first? We

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:50.960
<v Speaker 1>didn't know that at first, but we just we're thinking

0:28:52.160 --> 0:28:54.640
<v Speaker 1>came we didn't? We have not tried it? How think

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<v Speaker 1>you guys should know? I was about to say, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm love you guys so much. I don't want to Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like maybe it wouldn't be a bad

0:29:04.600 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 1>idea to see what that's like because the show now

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<v Speaker 1>where you're putting this an ecosystem, well, because we feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I felt like traditional marriage is dying. So what

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:18.480
<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to do was put a different spin

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<v Speaker 1>on on what marriage could be. And I just felt

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<v Speaker 1>like marriage doesn't not have to be what the box

0:29:26.480 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 1>that we put in. I felt like we've put it in.

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<v Speaker 1>There's always a good idea to get a perspective to

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<v Speaker 1>self reflect, and I don't think we do that enough

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<v Speaker 1>in relationships. Um intimacy into me you see is about

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<v Speaker 1>like really going deep, and that's the point of marriage.

0:29:39.720 --> 0:29:43.760
<v Speaker 1>So we wanted to create this, this specialized environment where

0:29:43.840 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 1>couples could do that. And I feel like marriages would

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:49.320
<v Speaker 1>survive and thrive if we actually started to look at

0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:51.480
<v Speaker 1>a lot of our pain points, things that we don't

0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:53.479
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about. For you, jim Y Jones, has

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<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on a marriage change if I'm doing if

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing two seasons of monogamy, have you have your

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:02.040
<v Speaker 1>thoughts changed? You know, like I don't know if I'll

0:30:02.040 --> 0:30:05.120
<v Speaker 1>ever get married, I mean just by choice, you know,

0:30:05.440 --> 0:30:07.640
<v Speaker 1>but maybe if he's worth it, you know, he has

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:09.880
<v Speaker 1>to come with something, you know, like not marriage for

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.600
<v Speaker 1>the take of just saying you know what marriage because

0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:16.840
<v Speaker 1>you went to write and so I mean, I love

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<v Speaker 1>the exploration of this. I could never do it, you

0:30:21.520 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 1>know in my life. You know it's scary about marriage

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:26.040
<v Speaker 1>to me is that I have a lot more friends

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<v Speaker 1>who are unhappily married and happily married. Yeah, and I know, Wayne,

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<v Speaker 1>way right, Why do you think that is? Like? Why

0:30:34.520 --> 0:30:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I think it is that I don't think you ask

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<v Speaker 1>the right questions when you're dating people, Like, it's crazy

0:30:42.400 --> 0:30:44.560
<v Speaker 1>to me that I have friends that they're in like

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<v Speaker 1>two year relationships and they don't even know if the

0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:49.520
<v Speaker 1>guy wants kids, if she wants kids, Like I mean,

0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:52.000
<v Speaker 1>they're not having like the right conversation. So then they

0:30:52.040 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 1>are in these relationships that end up lasting, lasting, lasting,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're like three years in and then like, what's next. Okay,

0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:00.680
<v Speaker 1>well society says marriage is next. Right, then they proposed,

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:03.080
<v Speaker 1>and they are in this marriage, but they don't really

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:05.640
<v Speaker 1>ask the right questions. They're not really getting to know

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 1>the real person. I agree, that's what I think. And

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<v Speaker 1>I also think there's problems that you have when you're

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<v Speaker 1>dating that you think if you get married. Same thing

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:15.800
<v Speaker 1>with kids. It's crazy that Brian White's character on our

0:31:15.840 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 1>show I actually relate. I didn't know that I would

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 1>related to this character. I was like watching I was like,

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:23.760
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, like I relate. That's that was me

0:31:23.840 --> 0:31:27.200
<v Speaker 1>in my twenties, Like I was saving like dudes that

0:31:27.640 --> 0:31:31.280
<v Speaker 1>didn't even ask to be saying that. I was just like,

0:31:31.680 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 1>I will help you. I will help you through it,

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 1>you know. But I didn't realize how emasculating that can be.

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:40.320
<v Speaker 1>On the flip side. They say, a great woman can

0:31:40.440 --> 0:31:44.400
<v Speaker 1>make a man great, so you don't want to do

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<v Speaker 1>but I would think I was absolutely you feel supported.

0:31:52.160 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 1>If you do it in a way that he does

0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:57.000
<v Speaker 1>not feel supported, then you're not You're not making him great.

0:31:57.080 --> 0:32:00.200
<v Speaker 1>You always making him dependent. Say it again, what yours?

0:32:00.240 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 1>You're making him depend? And that then he takes you

0:32:03.040 --> 0:32:05.160
<v Speaker 1>for granted after a while, and then you're just doing

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>these things and then and then you start feeling like, damn,

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I done did all this? And then right and think

0:32:10.800 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 1>anything exactly what both are fair? Well? I think men

0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 1>only say that when the woman starts storing it up

0:32:16.880 --> 0:32:18.600
<v Speaker 1>in their face. When the woman starts stowing in their

0:32:18.640 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 1>face everything she's done for him, then the man might say,

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't ask you to do all that. Well,

0:32:22.520 --> 0:32:24.600
<v Speaker 1>but I think you appreciate the support if it's real

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 1>genuine support. I guess the question is, is it's a

0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:29.240
<v Speaker 1>real genuine support? All right? We got more with the

0:32:29.320 --> 0:32:32.000
<v Speaker 1>creators Old Monogamy and Jill Marie Jones, who Don't Move

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<v Speaker 1>is the Breakfast Low good morning, everybody is DJ Envy

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<v Speaker 1>and jul Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>We have Jill, Marie Jones, and the creators Old Monogamy.

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<v Speaker 1>Here the best advice I got when I was getting married,

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<v Speaker 1>Samian Bernard shout out to her. Um. She said to me,

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<v Speaker 1>let it be okay for your husband to say no, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And that really hit me that because you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever whatever that it should be because the ideas that, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you love me, you will do blame and if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, then there's an absence of love, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's unfair. I think sometimes that we put on people.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a hard time with it. We're saying I

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<v Speaker 1>had a hard time with saying he did. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think of a reason why I would say no

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<v Speaker 1>to my wife. Exactly. I don't even married. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on my wife for twenty one years, been married for

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<v Speaker 1>five okay, so um, for me, it was it would

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<v Speaker 1>be things that would just be something I couldn't do

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<v Speaker 1>or outside of what I what I needed to do

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment, or or outside of outside of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that we needed to do even as a couple.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would try, I would, you know, in the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of our relationship, I would always say yes, yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>yes yes, And then but then, but then resentment builds

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<v Speaker 1>up because you don't feel like you know, maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>it's really on me. I often think that men aren't

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<v Speaker 1>given the space to know what they want and to

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<v Speaker 1>ask for it. I know we've struggle with that. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very clear on what I want, and I'll say, honey,

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<v Speaker 1>I need this, this and this, Like, do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's okay to say I need this and that

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<v Speaker 1>you and that need will be mad. Yes. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>very expressive person, so you know, I have no problem

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<v Speaker 1>saying exactly how I feel. And I think going to

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<v Speaker 1>therapy the past few years is definitely let me be

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<v Speaker 1>able to convey my feelings a whole lot better. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think the biggest arguments me and my wife have

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<v Speaker 1>nowadays are about the kids, and I would even call

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<v Speaker 1>them arguments, they're just healthy debates. Now. When I have

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<v Speaker 1>discussions with my friends, one of the main things that

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<v Speaker 1>comes up is sex and not having enough sex in

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<v Speaker 1>their relationships. And I've heard people say, listen, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>with you know, we've been together. We haven't had sex

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<v Speaker 1>in two months. We haven't had sex in this amount

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<v Speaker 1>of time. I don't know what's going on in this relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>So what makes you want to run towards that? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But I've heard people say that a lot, like as

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<v Speaker 1>they get into especially in marriage, like he sleeps on

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<v Speaker 1>the couch, or he's sleeping in the basement and watching TV.

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<v Speaker 1>He's watching porn. I called him doing that. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>miserable friends, and you know, and I get a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of ask you questions about it, And I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is a really common problem that people have where they're

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<v Speaker 1>sex drives don't align and don't know why is he

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<v Speaker 1>cheating on me? Is he not interested in me anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he not attracted to me? So? Is that something

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<v Speaker 1>that's ever been that's not it can never be the woman?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it happens both ways, because I've definitely had

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<v Speaker 1>guys say and then I think what happens is you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even want to initiate it because you get turned down.

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<v Speaker 1>So then now I don't even feel like doing it anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>and then y'all both end up not having You have

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<v Speaker 1>to create a culture of closeness and you have to

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<v Speaker 1>really really consciously do that, like for your for your marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>like that has to be almost like an appointment. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I go back to for us. We have a

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<v Speaker 1>scheduled time that we do that schul schedule for me spontaneous, okay, soutaneous,

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<v Speaker 1>you missed a few. The penetration for me starts mentally

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<v Speaker 1>and emotionally, so we can get that cracking at any point.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just saying we make a conscious point to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Some guys, when they have sex, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>even care about all that. They just least most women exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but men too, I mean I mean married men. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm assuming you got married because you want something

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<v Speaker 1>beyond just the physical flash for indication right time, not always.

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<v Speaker 1>I said this yesterday. I feel like the best sex

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever had is definitely what my wife, and it

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<v Speaker 1>is because of the emotional, spiritual connection. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>remember those physical the physical altercations. I have a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Like, No, I don't mean

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<v Speaker 1>like outside your marriage, but I do mean within the marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>within the person that you're Yeah, sometimes you just want

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<v Speaker 1>some times you just want to go at You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to because the emotions are already there. It's always

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<v Speaker 1>going to be there. Yeah. Yeah. Would you say the

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<v Speaker 1>best sex you've ever had has been with somebody you

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<v Speaker 1>did love. Yeah. Wait, I was over here, like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the best sex you ever had has been with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>you're in love with? Or can you have great sex

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody you're not in love with? Oh? I have

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<v Speaker 1>a different type of great sex. There's this varying degrees

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<v Speaker 1>of great text I think, Yeah, yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>keep really, um, you know what I love Like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what's crazy is that I've been you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a family member that has not been in the

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<v Speaker 1>best health or whatever. So I've been like really like

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<v Speaker 1>that's been on my soul and then also to just

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<v Speaker 1>work and stuff. So I've been just about Jill, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But like about three weeks ago, I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm ready for my person again. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not that I'm actively looking, but I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm baby now I'm your persons please. But um, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a person who just likes my person, Like I just

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<v Speaker 1>want the one person right when of the time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I would answer that to say, like, yeah, probably

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<v Speaker 1>the best sex that I've ever had is because I

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<v Speaker 1>love them. Yeah. It marriages that times a hundred yes

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Yeah, that's what marriage, That's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're making love your wife feel like I'm making

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<v Speaker 1>a little my wife like a different feeling. Has cheating

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<v Speaker 1>ever helped a marriage? I think it can, which kind

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<v Speaker 1>is like friends that they were better after. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>what happens is space opens up where you start getting

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<v Speaker 1>authentic and honest about what you need and what you feel.

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<v Speaker 1>And that goes back to what I was just saying

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<v Speaker 1>in the demanding that you don't give ourselves permissions often

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<v Speaker 1>for the first first time ever, because that's what makes

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<v Speaker 1>it so real and juicy, is when you can just

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<v Speaker 1>show up fully as who you are, so give me

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<v Speaker 1>all of you, the good, bad, and the ugly. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not condoning that you should cheat and stay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not condoning you know, domestic vines or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I am creating a space where we could be

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<v Speaker 1>fully who we are. That to me is power and love,

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<v Speaker 1>social second chances to be allowed or sometimes third four

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<v Speaker 1>fifty sans. I mean it depends situation, but yes, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>and nopened up by it if you're which is what

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<v Speaker 1>the in the monogamy in our TV show Some Pipes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it opens opens people. Because but if it doesn't,

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<v Speaker 1>if if it's just if that is an absolute deal breaker,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think it's the deception and the betrayal that

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<v Speaker 1>comes along with Yeah, but that is so hurtful, it's embarrassing. Though.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I would think that the cheating is easier than

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<v Speaker 1>having that conversation. Yeah, sometimes the cheating allows you to

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<v Speaker 1>have the conversation. It does. That's what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think do you think that when people cheat,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe some people cheat, that is that a cry

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<v Speaker 1>for help in the relationship that they're in or is

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<v Speaker 1>that just just their being guys or girls just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do I think it means, I usually think is

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<v Speaker 1>for ego. You know what I'm saying, Like, we have

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<v Speaker 1>wounded egos, we have fragile egos. You know, we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to fill off. We're trying to we're trying to fill

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<v Speaker 1>our cups with something that's just not going to e

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<v Speaker 1>feel because the cup got a hole in the bottom.

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<v Speaker 1>So I tell you fix that wounded ego, then you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do things like want to cheat. Do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like your marriage has helped you feel that? Move? Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're being when you're when you have a good

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<v Speaker 1>marriage and you're being the good husband. And what's a

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<v Speaker 1>good marriage and a good husband? I mean me doing

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm supposed to be doing. Like I was a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>I was out there running the speech. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Everything now was moving. So when you stop

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<v Speaker 1>doing that and you start really committing to your wife

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<v Speaker 1>and committing to your kids, there's nothing more fulfilling. Like

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<v Speaker 1>that's when you have a beautiful legal instead of a

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<v Speaker 1>wounded eg Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wonder what is that?

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<v Speaker 1>What makes you get to the point where you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to commit to this woman? Men, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>answer to that one? Is that growth? It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>living life and like learning, like because I'm definitely not

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<v Speaker 1>who I was in my twenties, Like you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't pay me to go back there. Yeah, I hear you,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think five and January fourth, Yeah, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it's growth, And I think it's just just realizing, like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the closest person to you, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>person that you go to. People get to that point

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<v Speaker 1>the point I started feeling when you knew this was

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<v Speaker 1>the person, I started feeling like a sucker. I started

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<v Speaker 1>feeling disloyal, I started feeling like a liar, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, And like that's not things that I

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<v Speaker 1>can do. I can't live with those kind of feelings,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. How I'm more loyal to

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<v Speaker 1>my homies, but I am my woman, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like just my best friend, right, how I'm

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<v Speaker 1>more loyal than them and won't lie to them and

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<v Speaker 1>keep one hundred with them, but doing that to her, Like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a good feeling for me. All right? We

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<v Speaker 1>got more with the creatives of Monogamy and Jill Marie

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<v Speaker 1>Jones who don't move as the Breakfast Loure more than

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<v Speaker 1>everybody is DJ Envy and Ngula Yee, Charlomagne the guy

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<v Speaker 1>we all the breakfast Club. We have Jill Marie Jones

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<v Speaker 1>and the creators of Monogamy. Here is it also a

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that I might lose what I have too? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes guys get to the point where they're like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>she might really leave? This time? Was right looking fine?

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<v Speaker 1>Had for me? How did I get to the point

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<v Speaker 1>where Charlotte is talking about right? Um? For me and you,

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<v Speaker 1>it was about it was about the support. It was

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<v Speaker 1>aout the support that I got from you. It was

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<v Speaker 1>about that you felt me, and you were me, and

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<v Speaker 1>you were inside me, and you were everything that I had.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn it, let me write this that next time I

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<v Speaker 1>get asked that question. That's what happened. I mean me too.

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<v Speaker 1>I kissed him on our first date. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>just went in he was talking, and I just I

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<v Speaker 1>knew you. In lines like that, I can see why,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what? Else? For me, she was my wife

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<v Speaker 1>and my father. Like watching my father and my mother

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<v Speaker 1>get a divorce and how he got it. They got

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<v Speaker 1>divorced because he was cheating, and watching how that ruined

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<v Speaker 1>my family. I didn't want to do that to my family, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? You think you do have

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<v Speaker 1>to if your partner has some type of sexual as

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<v Speaker 1>you call it, devancy, Right, do you think you should

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<v Speaker 1>make the effort to try even if you're it's not

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<v Speaker 1>something you're you've ever really considered or been into, if

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<v Speaker 1>it isn't hard for you, know I mean if, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it depends it depends on how long it's your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, in some ways you got to support

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<v Speaker 1>your partner, right, as long as it's nothing harmful to you,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe something you never envisioned yourself trying. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely think I suggest that you explore with your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the point of marriage, like really going to other

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<v Speaker 1>dimensions sexually. If I don't think Maggie should explore that

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<v Speaker 1>with Carson, I mean she couldn't buy it. He Hie's husband.

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<v Speaker 1>Well what is it you? I'm not going forward? You say,

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<v Speaker 1>But he's still right though. Whether it's sadism, sadism, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stupid. Is that sadism is when you inflict you

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<v Speaker 1>get pleasure, pain, pain, pleasure from right and to the

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<v Speaker 1>point where it's to the pinks detrimental, it's danger. You got?

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<v Speaker 1>You all men a slight say this story right? Probably?

0:44:08.280 --> 0:44:12.600
<v Speaker 1>So you got do you take it a little to

0:44:12.640 --> 0:44:15.000
<v Speaker 1>the extreme, like I said, my character can no longer

0:44:15.040 --> 0:44:19.279
<v Speaker 1>have children? Extra extreme? Yeah? But the question why are

0:44:19.280 --> 0:44:21.040
<v Speaker 1>you flinching? Like these are real sex scenes you're doing.

0:44:21.280 --> 0:44:25.120
<v Speaker 1>You're just saying I was like, Maggie would like do that?

0:44:27.719 --> 0:44:31.480
<v Speaker 1>Where would Maggie go? So Maggie likes a little choking,

0:44:31.560 --> 0:44:35.560
<v Speaker 1>but she don't want to Maggie doesn't know a light choke.

0:44:36.239 --> 0:44:38.600
<v Speaker 1>Let's just say I'm just so happy this season too,

0:44:38.800 --> 0:44:42.120
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like Maggie finally has her voice. She

0:44:42.200 --> 0:44:43.960
<v Speaker 1>has a lot of hurt on her on her name

0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:47.960
<v Speaker 1>because she made sweet sweet love to her husband before

0:44:48.000 --> 0:44:52.000
<v Speaker 1>the experiment, and then she caught a connection and the

0:44:52.120 --> 0:44:55.160
<v Speaker 1>experiment and she's pregnant and she doesn't know who the

0:44:55.280 --> 0:45:01.200
<v Speaker 1>baby daddy is. Right, that's Maggie, right, connect not now

0:45:01.280 --> 0:45:05.360
<v Speaker 1>one we having to really explain that yet. Right, I

0:45:05.440 --> 0:45:07.480
<v Speaker 1>need to start watching monogamy. But even more I think

0:45:07.520 --> 0:45:09.840
<v Speaker 1>that y'all need to do a monogamy after show. What

0:45:10.000 --> 0:45:15.360
<v Speaker 1>y'all do? I'm serious, show a little ya do an

0:45:15.360 --> 0:45:17.560
<v Speaker 1>after show like open it up to other couples and

0:45:17.719 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>relationships and the conversations that just to starting now with

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:29.600
<v Speaker 1>my wife. We don't do that, but we do at

0:45:29.600 --> 0:45:32.880
<v Speaker 1>this corner. This is the Capitalcorns. We're not married, just

0:45:33.040 --> 0:45:35.719
<v Speaker 1>the married charm over there having a life. I like dating.

0:45:35.760 --> 0:45:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I feel like marriage is the

0:45:37.680 --> 0:45:39.880
<v Speaker 1>be all end all, but I could be with somebody

0:45:40.400 --> 0:45:43.600
<v Speaker 1>yeah forever and not get married. Happens, right. I can

0:45:43.800 --> 0:45:46.480
<v Speaker 1>say that there was definitely a transition from making love

0:45:47.040 --> 0:45:49.799
<v Speaker 1>as you know boyfriend girlfriends who husband and wife? Yes,

0:45:49.880 --> 0:45:54.400
<v Speaker 1>indeed very different. It was just yeah, somebody told me

0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:57.040
<v Speaker 1>when I'm gonna say because it was a famous but

0:45:57.080 --> 0:45:59.400
<v Speaker 1>they were like, don't get married to ruin your whole relationship.

0:46:00.120 --> 0:46:03.920
<v Speaker 1>You can't stop talking a miserable I mean it, I

0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:06.759
<v Speaker 1>mean it really. Yeah, but it's also the most life affirming,

0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 1>life giving. It's the thing. If it's the right person,

0:46:10.440 --> 0:46:12.839
<v Speaker 1>it's the right person to look at. And I think

0:46:12.840 --> 0:46:14.520
<v Speaker 1>a lot of relationships look at what they don't have

0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:17.040
<v Speaker 1>anymore as supposed to what they have. Now, yeah, they

0:46:17.120 --> 0:46:20.520
<v Speaker 1>don't have any more. It's supposed to what they don't. Yeah,

0:46:20.560 --> 0:46:23.440
<v Speaker 1>Like relationships free you, they should, they should free you,

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:25.839
<v Speaker 1>should be a mirror for you to grow into your

0:46:26.000 --> 0:46:30.040
<v Speaker 1>most expanded self. It shouldn't be constrictive and you focus

0:46:30.160 --> 0:46:32.799
<v Speaker 1>on what you're getting. But we do spend too much

0:46:32.800 --> 0:46:35.399
<v Speaker 1>on what we don't get. Yeah, I think we're saying

0:46:35.400 --> 0:46:37.200
<v Speaker 1>the same thing that you just said, like like I

0:46:37.320 --> 0:46:39.800
<v Speaker 1>come with a lot, and and you should in the

0:46:39.880 --> 0:46:42.920
<v Speaker 1>most beautiful way. So add to that, so like if

0:46:42.960 --> 0:46:45.439
<v Speaker 1>he's worth it, right, I'm down. And also I also

0:46:45.560 --> 0:46:48.359
<v Speaker 1>think you get miserable when people don't learn how to fight.

0:46:48.560 --> 0:46:50.200
<v Speaker 1>You have to learn how to fight, well, don't you

0:46:50.280 --> 0:46:52.000
<v Speaker 1>think so? In a marriage, like you have to or

0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:54.480
<v Speaker 1>any relationship. Yeah, you know you're gonna get as arguments.

0:46:54.520 --> 0:46:57.000
<v Speaker 1>You have to be productive and that yeah healthy. Yeah,

0:46:57.160 --> 0:47:01.560
<v Speaker 1>like sometimes you know, are arguments had not been helped

0:47:01.760 --> 0:47:04.080
<v Speaker 1>They weren't. Yeah, so we had to really work on that.

0:47:04.239 --> 0:47:06.040
<v Speaker 1>I think you forget that that's your friend. Yeah, you

0:47:06.080 --> 0:47:08.520
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. Yeah, you think you guys are

0:47:08.520 --> 0:47:12.000
<v Speaker 1>on the same team. Yes, but we are that same thing.

0:47:12.120 --> 0:47:14.440
<v Speaker 1>If it's worth it, and I feel like I decide

0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:16.600
<v Speaker 1>to do it, let's do it. But if I decide

0:47:16.640 --> 0:47:18.960
<v Speaker 1>not to do that's okay too. Yeah, you can be

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:21.840
<v Speaker 1>happy with without the institution of marriage, you know what

0:47:21.920 --> 0:47:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean. I think you know if you're happy within yourself.

0:47:24.440 --> 0:47:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Monogamy Season twos out now. You watch it on you

0:47:29.280 --> 0:47:32.360
<v Speaker 1>MC dot tv, dowload the app, or go through Amazon

0:47:32.520 --> 0:47:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Prime just so ya know. You can get a free

0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:38.440
<v Speaker 1>seven day trial. Yeah that's so true. It'll bring up

0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 1>some great conversation between you and your booth. So I

0:47:41.400 --> 0:47:44.480
<v Speaker 1>love like watching it with friends of mine that are coming.

0:47:44.760 --> 0:47:47.279
<v Speaker 1>Debates will happen because I literally i'm watching it. I'm

0:47:47.280 --> 0:47:52.440
<v Speaker 1>like this because it sparks conversations. All too need to

0:47:52.440 --> 0:47:54.520
<v Speaker 1>host the after show. I agree, we're gonna do that.

0:47:55.000 --> 0:47:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Your wife are coming from your words. Craig Ross Junior,

0:47:58.960 --> 0:48:03.480
<v Speaker 1>Karen Walter Ross, Jill, Marie Jones. Yea, thank you for coming.

0:48:03.520 --> 0:48:08.480
<v Speaker 1>It's the breakfast club having us. Thank you. I was

0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:11.399
<v Speaker 1>going to donkey. This is a Donkey of the Decker

0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:27.080
<v Speaker 1>Devil Breakfast Club. Yeah, don't hear the Dave goes to

0:48:27.120 --> 0:48:30.640
<v Speaker 1>a New jerseyman named Richard Decker. Let's call him Dick.

0:48:30.920 --> 0:48:33.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, Dicky short for Richard, so we'll call him

0:48:33.080 --> 0:48:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Dick Decker. Now we really need to see if Dick's

0:48:35.840 --> 0:48:39.000
<v Speaker 1>origin starting Florida, because man, on the scale of one

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:41.520
<v Speaker 1>to Florida, the level of stupidity and this man's story

0:48:41.640 --> 0:48:44.880
<v Speaker 1>is absolutely pohokey. I've never been to po Hookey in Florida,

0:48:44.920 --> 0:48:47.040
<v Speaker 1>but it's ranked the worst place in Florida, so I'm

0:48:47.040 --> 0:48:49.120
<v Speaker 1>just assuming it has to be pretty bad. And when

0:48:49.120 --> 0:48:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I hear what Dick Decker was arrested for, I have

0:48:51.600 --> 0:48:55.200
<v Speaker 1>to think to myself, wt F, what the Florida? All right,

0:48:55.239 --> 0:48:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry Florida, but you all have reached the level

0:48:57.040 --> 0:48:59.200
<v Speaker 1>of crazy that when we hear certain stories, we say

0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:01.640
<v Speaker 1>to ourselves, oh, he must be from Florida. When I

0:49:01.719 --> 0:49:03.320
<v Speaker 1>told the story to the room this morning. It was like,

0:49:03.360 --> 0:49:06.560
<v Speaker 1>what had happened Florida. No, Dick Deckie is not from Florida,

0:49:06.640 --> 0:49:10.279
<v Speaker 1>He's from New Jersey, but he's just pulled a Florida move. Now, unfortunately,

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:12.600
<v Speaker 1>there's no news report for this story yet, and I'm

0:49:12.680 --> 0:49:15.720
<v Speaker 1>highly disappointed because I love when it's news reports about

0:49:15.840 --> 0:49:19.280
<v Speaker 1>nutass news like this scene. According to the New Jersey Herald,

0:49:19.760 --> 0:49:23.600
<v Speaker 1>Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, wanted to have sex,

0:49:23.880 --> 0:49:26.840
<v Speaker 1>and I guess there was some fine things on a

0:49:26.960 --> 0:49:29.879
<v Speaker 1>farm in Jersey that caught his eye. Oh. Yes, parts

0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:33.080
<v Speaker 1>of Jersey definitely have farmland. In Sussex County is one

0:49:33.080 --> 0:49:35.680
<v Speaker 1>of those places. People work on these farms, they live

0:49:35.760 --> 0:49:38.640
<v Speaker 1>on these farms, and Dick Decker was in the need

0:49:38.640 --> 0:49:42.200
<v Speaker 1>of some sexual healing. So what Richards started doing, Okay,

0:49:42.280 --> 0:49:46.640
<v Speaker 1>what Dick started doing is sending messages to farms and

0:49:46.840 --> 0:49:50.279
<v Speaker 1>horse stables in Sussex County asking if he could have sex. Now,

0:49:50.320 --> 0:49:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I know y'all think that sounds creepy, and you should,

0:49:52.840 --> 0:49:55.920
<v Speaker 1>because it is a random person calling you just asking

0:49:56.040 --> 0:49:59.040
<v Speaker 1>for sex. But look, it gets worse because see the

0:49:59.120 --> 0:50:04.560
<v Speaker 1>people Decker was calling or animal caregivers. And when he

0:50:04.719 --> 0:50:07.160
<v Speaker 1>was asking to have sex, he wasn't asking to have

0:50:07.239 --> 0:50:09.800
<v Speaker 1>sex with the animal caregivers. He was asking if he

0:50:09.840 --> 0:50:13.359
<v Speaker 1>could have sex with their horses and cows. They can't

0:50:13.440 --> 0:50:15.640
<v Speaker 1>make this kind of stuff up. I'm reading this in

0:50:15.719 --> 0:50:18.960
<v Speaker 1>the New York Post right now. Dick Decker, thirty one

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:22.080
<v Speaker 1>years old, began sending the messages to Sussex County farms

0:50:22.120 --> 0:50:24.840
<v Speaker 1>and horse They was in twenty eighteen asking the animal

0:50:24.920 --> 0:50:28.760
<v Speaker 1>caregivers if he could have sex with their cows and horses. Question,

0:50:29.000 --> 0:50:31.600
<v Speaker 1>do you think Dick Decker is a vegan? Okay, I'm

0:50:31.640 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 1>thinking of sexy vegan from last week. He was a

0:50:34.040 --> 0:50:35.960
<v Speaker 1>vegan who was sleeping with his dog. But people don't

0:50:36.000 --> 0:50:38.120
<v Speaker 1>eat dogs in America, so that don't count. But if

0:50:38.160 --> 0:50:41.040
<v Speaker 1>you were vegan having sex with cows and horses, something's

0:50:41.080 --> 0:50:44.040
<v Speaker 1>not adding up all right now. Dick Decker didn't take

0:50:44.080 --> 0:50:48.440
<v Speaker 1>the rejection kindly. He called these animal caregivers and asked

0:50:48.480 --> 0:50:51.120
<v Speaker 1>for consent to sleep with their cows and horses. He

0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:53.840
<v Speaker 1>was rejected by the farmers. So what did Dick Decker do?

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Dick Decker sent threats back and placed homemade metal spikes

0:50:58.440 --> 0:51:01.680
<v Speaker 1>on their driveways. To damage their cars. In one case,

0:51:01.719 --> 0:51:03.960
<v Speaker 1>he threatened to beat a farmer's wife with a wooden

0:51:04.080 --> 0:51:08.160
<v Speaker 1>stick when denied permission to fornicate with their horses and cows,

0:51:08.400 --> 0:51:11.160
<v Speaker 1>and several of the property owners reported their tires have

0:51:11.239 --> 0:51:14.719
<v Speaker 1>been damaged by spikes. And when he was arrested and

0:51:14.840 --> 0:51:17.200
<v Speaker 1>police searched his home and he found a homemade twenty

0:51:17.239 --> 0:51:21.760
<v Speaker 1>two caliber gun, arrows would explosives attached metal spikes similar

0:51:21.840 --> 0:51:24.440
<v Speaker 1>to those used at the farms and posters of the

0:51:24.520 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 1>Chick fil a Cow. I'm not making this stuff up people.

0:51:28.160 --> 0:51:30.400
<v Speaker 1>You know what, It's time to play a game of

0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:40.920
<v Speaker 1>gus What Rice today now? Richard Dick Decker for thirty

0:51:40.960 --> 0:51:44.080
<v Speaker 1>one years old, Sussex County, New Jersey called farms and

0:51:44.200 --> 0:51:46.920
<v Speaker 1>after animal caregivers if he could have sex with their

0:51:47.000 --> 0:51:50.320
<v Speaker 1>cows and horses, and when he was rejected, resorted to violence.

0:51:50.640 --> 0:51:57.480
<v Speaker 1>Just what Rice today? Angelie, I will definitely without a hesitation,

0:51:57.600 --> 0:52:02.480
<v Speaker 1>say he is Oldtown road white. No, actually, old time

0:52:02.520 --> 0:52:05.560
<v Speaker 1>rod would be black door right? Well not the remix? No, yes,

0:52:05.840 --> 0:52:09.200
<v Speaker 1>you gotta sit the remix dj V. Richard Dick Decker,

0:52:09.400 --> 0:52:12.520
<v Speaker 1>thirty one years old, Sussex HNY, New Jersey called farms

0:52:12.560 --> 0:52:14.120
<v Speaker 1>and asked the animal care givers if he could have

0:52:14.200 --> 0:52:16.440
<v Speaker 1>sex with take cows and horses. When he was rejected,

0:52:16.600 --> 0:52:21.840
<v Speaker 1>he resorted the violence, Johns, what rights? This one's a

0:52:21.920 --> 0:52:24.480
<v Speaker 1>tough one. Okay, that's what's a tough one. I take

0:52:24.520 --> 0:52:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you try to throw me off? Come on, I got

0:52:30.080 --> 0:52:34.200
<v Speaker 1>him away. I gotta away. I gotta go white. You

0:52:34.320 --> 0:52:36.440
<v Speaker 1>know you know I'm ask Stephen Stephens, the white man

0:52:36.480 --> 0:52:41.040
<v Speaker 1>in the room. Stephen Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, Sussex,

0:52:42.640 --> 0:52:44.719
<v Speaker 1>called farms and after animal care gives if you could

0:52:44.719 --> 0:52:46.960
<v Speaker 1>have sex with day cows and horses. When he was denied,

0:52:47.000 --> 0:52:50.360
<v Speaker 1>he resorted the violence. Guess what right today? Stephen the

0:52:50.400 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 1>white damon? He was white, but we don't claim him.

0:52:53.600 --> 0:52:55.279
<v Speaker 1>We gave him up in the racial draft of two

0:52:55.320 --> 0:53:01.479
<v Speaker 1>thousand and nine. Okay, right, this is christ I would

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:04.120
<v Speaker 1>like Stephen the white Demon, dj MP and Angelie to

0:53:04.200 --> 0:53:10.960
<v Speaker 1>know that they're all correct. Richard Dick Decker is Caucasian.

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something. The male ego is fragile

0:53:13.360 --> 0:53:15.960
<v Speaker 1>as it is, but the white male ego, who the

0:53:16.080 --> 0:53:19.200
<v Speaker 1>white male ego is fragile is eggs. That's probably why

0:53:19.239 --> 0:53:21.680
<v Speaker 1>eggs are white. Because white men have sex with chickens,

0:53:21.880 --> 0:53:23.759
<v Speaker 1>all right, and then they have the white eggs, all right.

0:53:23.840 --> 0:53:26.000
<v Speaker 1>The entitlement and the privilege that comes with being a

0:53:26.080 --> 0:53:28.600
<v Speaker 1>white male when you don't get your weight, even if

0:53:28.600 --> 0:53:31.399
<v Speaker 1>it's because someone told, you know, Dick, you can't put

0:53:31.440 --> 0:53:33.960
<v Speaker 1>your Richard and my horses and cows. The level of

0:53:34.160 --> 0:53:36.560
<v Speaker 1>entitlement one must have to think that they are wrong

0:53:37.080 --> 0:53:39.239
<v Speaker 1>for this, and for you to resort to violence. The

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:41.160
<v Speaker 1>story really made me think of vanilla icens. You know,

0:53:41.320 --> 0:53:44.560
<v Speaker 1>vanilla licenses, those white male domestic terrorists who shoot things

0:53:44.680 --> 0:53:47.040
<v Speaker 1>up because they haven't dealt with their trauma properly, so

0:53:47.120 --> 0:53:49.279
<v Speaker 1>they just redistribute that pain to other people. Don't raise

0:53:49.320 --> 0:53:51.840
<v Speaker 1>your hand, Stephen, you're scaring me, all right. The rejection,

0:53:52.160 --> 0:53:54.759
<v Speaker 1>the rejection that white men feel from not getting laid

0:53:55.200 --> 0:53:58.040
<v Speaker 1>usually results in violence. Stephen. Put you don't raise your hand.

0:53:58.040 --> 0:53:59.839
<v Speaker 1>You raise your hands twice? Okay, this is y other

0:53:59.840 --> 0:54:02.400
<v Speaker 1>than other reason why Stephen, the white demon our cameraman

0:54:02.480 --> 0:54:04.600
<v Speaker 1>scared the hell out of me? All right? Please let

0:54:04.719 --> 0:54:08.759
<v Speaker 1>Kathy Griffin give Richard Dick Decker the biggest Hea Hall.

0:54:09.080 --> 0:54:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Please give this giant jar of male the biggest he

0:54:11.719 --> 0:54:19.560
<v Speaker 1>haw Dick Decker. Hello, my name is Dick, and I

0:54:19.600 --> 0:54:22.200
<v Speaker 1>would like to have sexual relations with your horse and

0:54:22.360 --> 0:54:26.359
<v Speaker 1>your cow. Are they're available around seven thirty tonight too.

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:31.160
<v Speaker 1>Definitely sound like our camera guy has done that before.

0:54:31.239 --> 0:54:34.880
<v Speaker 1>But anyway, thank you for that dog kay Today. Now

0:54:35.080 --> 0:54:37.560
<v Speaker 1>this guy Dick Decker in his room with a big

0:54:37.640 --> 0:54:40.000
<v Speaker 1>bottle of Jergon's Chick fil A posts on the wall

0:54:40.360 --> 0:54:42.200
<v Speaker 1>getting off to the Chick fil a cow. Can you

0:54:42.320 --> 0:54:45.279
<v Speaker 1>imagine what is wrong with the world? What rong when

0:54:45.320 --> 0:54:47.200
<v Speaker 1>you were thinking of that man watching old Runs and

0:54:47.239 --> 0:54:50.200
<v Speaker 1>mister Edge just whacking watching the Kentucky Derby just going

0:54:50.239 --> 0:54:58.920
<v Speaker 1>at it. Oh my goodness. All right, keep it lock.

0:54:58.960 --> 0:55:01.040
<v Speaker 1>We have more coming up now. It's the Breakfast Club,

0:55:01.360 --> 0:55:07.960
<v Speaker 1>The Breakfast Club. It's DJ m vy Angela Yee, Charlomagne

0:55:08.000 --> 0:55:09.520
<v Speaker 1>the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got some

0:55:09.520 --> 0:55:14.160
<v Speaker 1>special guests in the building, Carlie Red and Chad braver Man.

0:55:14.360 --> 0:55:17.960
<v Speaker 1>Welcome guys. Hey, trying to figure out what these bondage

0:55:18.000 --> 0:55:21.520
<v Speaker 1>cuss is crazy because they plastic, you can pop y

0:55:22.760 --> 0:55:26.800
<v Speaker 1>silicone actually silicone all right for people getting into it

0:55:26.840 --> 0:55:29.000
<v Speaker 1>because you can get them off on your own, don't

0:55:29.239 --> 0:55:31.080
<v Speaker 1>get Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. We played with

0:55:31.120 --> 0:55:33.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of lip service, a lot of toys from

0:55:33.360 --> 0:55:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Doc Johnson on lip service. Just fy. A lot of

0:55:35.560 --> 0:55:37.919
<v Speaker 1>people walked away from that show happy for sure. For sure,

0:55:38.400 --> 0:55:42.319
<v Speaker 1>Young Ami got herself some new toys up there as well. Yes,

0:55:43.840 --> 0:55:51.000
<v Speaker 1>with with you, I'm seeing there's no keys. He's testing

0:55:51.040 --> 0:55:56.239
<v Speaker 1>out the product, the handcuffs scale. You know what I'm saying,

0:55:56.280 --> 0:55:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Cause you gotta really trust the parson. You can slide

0:55:59.160 --> 0:56:01.799
<v Speaker 1>on for so you can like slide them off, get

0:56:01.840 --> 0:56:03.400
<v Speaker 1>them off easy if you need to, so you're not

0:56:03.480 --> 0:56:05.600
<v Speaker 1>relying on someone else. I thought you should probably be

0:56:05.719 --> 0:56:07.880
<v Speaker 1>sleeping with someone you don't trust. I know what that was?

0:56:07.920 --> 0:56:12.719
<v Speaker 1>All these toys? Some people do it every day, right, Yeah,

0:56:12.760 --> 0:56:15.640
<v Speaker 1>you're right. Why you got all these toys with you today?

0:56:15.920 --> 0:56:18.360
<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Well, as you guys know, I did

0:56:18.440 --> 0:56:22.120
<v Speaker 1>a deal with Johnny Johnson and I'm happy. And um,

0:56:22.200 --> 0:56:26.520
<v Speaker 1>where does that go? Charlie? The tryst TST TST? What

0:56:26.719 --> 0:56:29.680
<v Speaker 1>is this? It's pleasurable for a guy and a woman.

0:56:30.120 --> 0:56:34.920
<v Speaker 1>The two things right here scimulates the couturius and this

0:56:35.200 --> 0:56:37.399
<v Speaker 1>right here you can put the penis through right there

0:56:37.760 --> 0:56:40.120
<v Speaker 1>so or you can just have the girl use it.

0:56:40.239 --> 0:56:42.600
<v Speaker 1>It's different, and you didn't have any kind of trust

0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:46.680
<v Speaker 1>you want. Yeah, but the stimulation is through every you

0:56:46.760 --> 0:56:50.080
<v Speaker 1>have your own toys. No, explain what the carly redline

0:56:50.160 --> 0:56:52.640
<v Speaker 1>is from that. I don't know if he knows. But

0:56:52.760 --> 0:56:55.919
<v Speaker 1>I got the mold done. Yeah, I got the mold done.

0:56:56.000 --> 0:57:01.200
<v Speaker 1>So your vagina of my vagina and my ass your vagina. No,

0:57:05.120 --> 0:57:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I know, you just gonna say that, is it weird

0:57:08.680 --> 0:57:11.080
<v Speaker 1>to you that people are having sex with you? Well,

0:57:11.200 --> 0:57:13.759
<v Speaker 1>actually they're not having sex with my insides. But yeah,

0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:18.440
<v Speaker 1>it's imaginable, but it's exted. It's just very very similar.

0:57:18.520 --> 0:57:21.400
<v Speaker 1>It's almost just like me. Yeah, I mean, you know, yeah,

0:57:21.400 --> 0:57:23.280
<v Speaker 1>it's part of the fantasy, you know. So I mean,

0:57:23.480 --> 0:57:25.400
<v Speaker 1>like I think that, like what she did is cool

0:57:25.440 --> 0:57:28.120
<v Speaker 1>because she's like definitely one of the most mainstream people

0:57:28.160 --> 0:57:30.240
<v Speaker 1>to ever do a product like this. So, I mean,

0:57:30.360 --> 0:57:32.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's we talked about it, like it's uh,

0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:34.960
<v Speaker 1>it's part of the fantasy that someone can like bring home.

0:57:35.080 --> 0:57:36.840
<v Speaker 1>So if they see carly Red, they know carly Red.

0:57:36.920 --> 0:57:39.120
<v Speaker 1>But now this is like just an extra, an extra

0:57:39.200 --> 0:57:40.840
<v Speaker 1>part of it. How did you How did it feel

0:57:40.840 --> 0:57:43.200
<v Speaker 1>to you, Carly Like did you test yourself and then

0:57:43.240 --> 0:57:46.400
<v Speaker 1>test the product to make sure it felt similar. No,

0:57:46.800 --> 0:57:49.479
<v Speaker 1>I literally I literally got the mode and I haven't

0:57:49.520 --> 0:57:52.760
<v Speaker 1>tested it the inside of it yet, but um, it

0:57:52.800 --> 0:57:55.240
<v Speaker 1>should be outwood in the next like the next couple

0:57:55.240 --> 0:57:58.320
<v Speaker 1>of months, next couple of months. Call me stupid motiv vagina.

0:57:58.480 --> 0:58:00.960
<v Speaker 1>So I went to the Doc Johnson in offices and

0:58:01.320 --> 0:58:04.640
<v Speaker 1>basically they put a mold on me, like, um, like clay.

0:58:04.800 --> 0:58:06.640
<v Speaker 1>Kind of yeah, it's kind of like almost like a wet,

0:58:06.720 --> 0:58:09.760
<v Speaker 1>silly putty put out. No, it doesn't go inside, it

0:58:09.800 --> 0:58:12.200
<v Speaker 1>just goes outside. Because that beauty of vagina. I don't

0:58:12.200 --> 0:58:16.240
<v Speaker 1>know if y'all know, but the beauty of vagina the inside, inside, inside,

0:58:16.320 --> 0:58:19.400
<v Speaker 1>that's true. Actually some people would disagree. The beauty and

0:58:19.640 --> 0:58:22.600
<v Speaker 1>the uniqueness is sometimes on the outside as well. I mean, actually,

0:58:22.640 --> 0:58:24.920
<v Speaker 1>we make the inside I think even better because we

0:58:25.000 --> 0:58:26.520
<v Speaker 1>can texturize it and we can do a whole bunch

0:58:26.520 --> 0:58:28.200
<v Speaker 1>of different stuff on the inside. So it's not the

0:58:28.280 --> 0:58:31.240
<v Speaker 1>inside of a vagina that you okay, No, it's the outside.

0:58:31.280 --> 0:58:34.040
<v Speaker 1>It's the look you know of the vagina that is

0:58:34.160 --> 0:58:36.120
<v Speaker 1>that is perfectly cast it off of carly. But the

0:58:36.200 --> 0:58:39.040
<v Speaker 1>inside is like textured and different things that we do

0:58:39.160 --> 0:58:40.640
<v Speaker 1>like that when you're holding right, there as a certain

0:58:40.720 --> 0:58:43.000
<v Speaker 1>texture on the inside that's going to be different from

0:58:43.040 --> 0:58:44.680
<v Speaker 1>like Carly's or some of the other ones that we

0:58:44.800 --> 0:58:48.160
<v Speaker 1>do is just based off of that's that's actually not

0:58:48.480 --> 0:58:57.280
<v Speaker 1>a vagina, that's just a hole vagina shaped person for

0:58:57.800 --> 0:58:59.880
<v Speaker 1>certain customers that just kind of want to use the

0:59:00.040 --> 0:59:02.400
<v Speaker 1>product for other purposes but not necessarily a little like

0:59:03.080 --> 0:59:05.959
<v Speaker 1>stimulate sex with a vagina. But you all vaginas feel

0:59:05.960 --> 0:59:09.280
<v Speaker 1>different to you, Like just say you had your eyes closed,

0:59:09.320 --> 0:59:13.080
<v Speaker 1>could you tell you know your wife's vagina as opposed

0:59:13.080 --> 0:59:16.120
<v Speaker 1>to somebody else's. Do our all vagina is different? That

0:59:16.280 --> 0:59:17.840
<v Speaker 1>is such a good question we should ask them in

0:59:17.920 --> 0:59:21.080
<v Speaker 1>that contract contractedly obligator to say yes to that. I

0:59:21.200 --> 0:59:24.920
<v Speaker 1>think my wife's vagina, but I didn't know. I mean,

0:59:24.960 --> 0:59:28.000
<v Speaker 1>there's definitely different feels, you know, and there's definitely different looks.

0:59:28.240 --> 0:59:31.840
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean, I feel like, you know, tight vaginas.

0:59:32.840 --> 0:59:35.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you got a loose vagina. Drive vagina,

0:59:36.120 --> 0:59:41.240
<v Speaker 1>drive vagina. I think when you're emotionally connected to a person,

0:59:41.280 --> 0:59:44.080
<v Speaker 1>that's spiritually connected to a person, spiritually connects to a person,

0:59:44.120 --> 0:59:47.000
<v Speaker 1>that makes the vagina that much better. Because I don't

0:59:47.040 --> 0:59:49.640
<v Speaker 1>even honestly remember any other woman I've had sex with

0:59:50.000 --> 0:59:51.640
<v Speaker 1>or how it felt. And I'm just being I'm being honest,

0:59:51.680 --> 0:59:55.240
<v Speaker 1>like just with sex with my wife, you know that feeling.

0:59:55.320 --> 1:00:00.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember anything with other woman. Carli answer, what

1:00:00.200 --> 1:00:04.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of toys do you use? I use? Um if

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<v Speaker 1>you had to recommend something for all the women listening. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you just do? I love the Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so what does that? What does that do? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the room. It acts like a numbing and it

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<v Speaker 1>um you know, it's great for the gag reflects. So

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, you could take it all the way down. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I love the trist Okay. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>basically a bag that you kind of put together of

1:00:38.120 --> 1:00:41.200
<v Speaker 1>things that are your favorite toys from Doc Johnson. Okay,

1:00:41.720 --> 1:00:43.680
<v Speaker 1>and what Chad put together? Wait? What is this though?

1:00:44.120 --> 1:00:46.880
<v Speaker 1>Why do you have? The two sided? Publican is my

1:00:47.000 --> 1:00:51.680
<v Speaker 1>favorite too? What is the two sided? What's this? That's

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<v Speaker 1>the main tweeze? I think right? Yes? Or have someone

1:00:56.720 --> 1:00:58.600
<v Speaker 1>help you with it? Right? You know you can use

1:00:58.680 --> 1:01:01.080
<v Speaker 1>it with a partner as well. Can test that later

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<v Speaker 1>because of the texture in it, and also you can

1:01:03.640 --> 1:01:05.320
<v Speaker 1>that has like a pressure gauge on it, so you

1:01:05.360 --> 1:01:06.800
<v Speaker 1>can kind of like squeeze it when you're using it

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<v Speaker 1>as well, saying is blues. You can pretend you're getting

1:01:08.880 --> 1:01:17.240
<v Speaker 1>tough by avatar facts. That's future can be about pre

1:01:17.400 --> 1:01:20.440
<v Speaker 1>order Carly Red's mold. Yeah, you can go on to

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<v Speaker 1>doc Johnson dot com and you can go on to

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<v Speaker 1>Carly's product and you can and you can put your name.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all playing though holiday season, this is little. I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>I like sex toys. I don't much. I enjoy them,

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<v Speaker 1>like me and my wife sex toys. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>what do you use me? I use just a vibrator,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like the use vibrator. Though I use it,

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<v Speaker 1>be careful you don't want to hack into it. I

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<v Speaker 1>love you your wife. What kind of who else would

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<v Speaker 1>I be using? Man said, I don't know this man.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, but women do tend to use sex toys

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<v Speaker 1>more than men. Yeah, I would say men get intimidated

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes by sex toys. And we've discuss that too. In

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom. Sometimes guys are a little like, oh, what

1:02:03.240 --> 1:02:05.360
<v Speaker 1>you need a toy for? When I'm here? But I'll

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<v Speaker 1>see Charlomagne's using the perfect products. Like if a guy

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<v Speaker 1>were to ask me, I would say, use a vibrator

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<v Speaker 1>or something small or something that you can bring into

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<v Speaker 1>bed and not be intimidated by. And then the ring

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're talking about like a c ring, right, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>when you put on the clotars. Yeah, but it goes

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<v Speaker 1>on on you, right, what ring goes on the clutars?

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<v Speaker 1>What ring? I mean you just sit there, You just

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<v Speaker 1>let it sit. Are you talking about like a we

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<v Speaker 1>vibe or something like that. It's kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>little clip. Yeah, okay, yeah, so that's a different product.

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<v Speaker 1>But like a c ring is something that I would

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<v Speaker 1>tell someone to definitely use as well, because like a

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<v Speaker 1>guy can wear it. It's not intimidating. It delivers pressure,

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<v Speaker 1>it delivers pleasure to the guy, but you know, definitely

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<v Speaker 1>to the girl as well. I saw something, yea, this

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<v Speaker 1>is that this boom? Yeah, this is a liquid vibrator.

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<v Speaker 1>It's um you just put it on and it buzzes

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<v Speaker 1>so without even it's like a cream, but without even

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<v Speaker 1>using a vibrator really, so it's a cream. You put

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<v Speaker 1>it on the clitars. Yes, if you put some on

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<v Speaker 1>your lips, you will feel it like it will start

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<v Speaker 1>to vibrate your lift up your lips. It won't plump

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<v Speaker 1>up a little bit on. Don't too much. I did

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<v Speaker 1>this a little Yeah, No, it's good. Try it. It'll

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<v Speaker 1>vibrate your lips. It'll start to vibrate your lips. You'll

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<v Speaker 1>feel we're gonna start shaking. Don't, don't do too much,

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<v Speaker 1>but you'll definitely start to feel like the tingling sensation.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we have more with Carle read when we

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<v Speaker 1>come back. Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club the Morning Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>all the Breakfast Club. We have Carly Red and Chad

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<v Speaker 1>Braverman here. Now, Carly, we can't not we can't have

1:03:44.240 --> 1:03:45.680
<v Speaker 1>you up here. And I ask you about loving hip

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<v Speaker 1>hop and what's happening. So, yeah, I thought you gave that.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you was doing it. Nah, I'm stilling, damn

1:03:52.000 --> 1:03:54.919
<v Speaker 1>still Saints Centers when I was fourth season on Saints

1:03:54.960 --> 1:03:57.080
<v Speaker 1>of Ciniers and still I love and hip hop nine

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<v Speaker 1>years damn nine long nine. Now let's talk about this

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, last time you were engaged and then

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't happen. So what's your relationship status? Now? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>by myself, Okay, I'm having a relationship with my toys exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>How can you be your relationship with all this back?

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<v Speaker 1>He accused you of cheating though, No, he never accused

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<v Speaker 1>me of cheating, which I found him cheating, okay, because

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<v Speaker 1>he was saying usually it's a person that accuses you

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<v Speaker 1>is a person that's doing it. I found him cheating. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I Actually the girl sent me a DM of her

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<v Speaker 1>in my bedroom. That's disrespectful. Can't use your toys? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy though, man, really having no reason to cheat

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<v Speaker 1>on you because you can take you with John anyway

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to exactly, No, but that's the ultimate because

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<v Speaker 1>you can't do not add No, she sent me a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of her in my bed naked. Wow, that is

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<v Speaker 1>so disrespectful. So what was your reaction when that happened?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you do immediately? You'll see it the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of it, aren't you know? I can't really get into it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Okay. I didn't know if this was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play out on the show or this is because this

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<v Speaker 1>is real life, right, that happened in real life. So

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<v Speaker 1>what about his claims about money bag Yell? When people

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<v Speaker 1>were trying to say that you were dating him I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't even know, money bag. I was

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<v Speaker 1>on Faith m was on Live and you were and

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<v Speaker 1>I clicked in, like, hey bro, whatever whatever, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was that's right. Never seen him a day of my life,

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<v Speaker 1>never talked to him a day in my life. Nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So let me ask you this, So rules

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<v Speaker 1>of being in a relationship, right, would you do that? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>say you're in a relationship, you're engaged. Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe I'm not gonna click in on certain people's

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<v Speaker 1>lives because we're already over with. Okay, so that was

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<v Speaker 1>done already, but he was trying to fix it at

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<v Speaker 1>the time. He was trying to fix it though. But

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<v Speaker 1>you can't fix being in your bed. Yeah, that's that.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't get another woman pregnant, Like what you can't

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<v Speaker 1>you do throughout the whole bed and move out like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I never I've never been back to our house. We

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<v Speaker 1>got the house together. Now here's something we discussed for

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<v Speaker 1>Seanta Waynes, and I'm hoping you can help me with this. Chad.

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<v Speaker 1>She was saying that she uses um dildos and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when I have sex with a different person,

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<v Speaker 1>am I supposed to use a new dildo or do

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<v Speaker 1>I just rinse that one off and use it on

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<v Speaker 1>the next person. What's the etiquette there? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I would say use a new one, um, But

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<v Speaker 1>I think honestly, it depends on what the material the

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<v Speaker 1>product is, because like, for instance, if you're buying something

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<v Speaker 1>that's made out of silicone, it's not a porous material,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can clean it completely, you can disinfect it,

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<v Speaker 1>you can it's like brand new every time you do

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<v Speaker 1>clean it. So for me, I would use. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you would say that the company that makes sex to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean I wanted to buy new ones every time.

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<v Speaker 1>Sanitarily you can. If it's why the name Doc Johnson

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<v Speaker 1>Um company started in nineteen seventy six. Johnson at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, was the second most popular surname, right, But

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<v Speaker 1>it really wasn't. I mean I don't know. My dad,

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<v Speaker 1>who started the company says that's not the case, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It was just Johnson's a really popular name. And then Doc.

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<v Speaker 1>These used to be called Merritle aids back on the day,

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<v Speaker 1>so there's a family business. Oh yeah, wow, car these

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<v Speaker 1>vagina if they won't call these vagina and the sex

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<v Speaker 1>you can go on doc Johnson dot com. Um and

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<v Speaker 1>uh go right out there, you know, search like Carly

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<v Speaker 1>Red and uh get right to the product. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the true callie got three hundred grand for her vagina

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<v Speaker 1>sex toys. Sex toys is big, I see your holidays got,

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<v Speaker 1>mister Vicious. And I'm talking about like actual sex dolls? Yeah, right?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that big now? And is that expensive? It's a

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<v Speaker 1>they're expensive. It's a pretty big business. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't do it. Actually, we do more of like the

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<v Speaker 1>strokers and the things that we have here. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's getting more and more popular, and they're they're coming

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<v Speaker 1>down in price. Like before they used to be like

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<v Speaker 1>five grand right for like a doll. Now you can

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<v Speaker 1>get one for like maybe a thousand bucks or something.

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<v Speaker 1>When you when you throw off in the do where's

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<v Speaker 1>it go? You got clean it up? Is there like

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<v Speaker 1>a little pouch? There's an exit route? All right? It's

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<v Speaker 1>not something you could pull out of it. I would

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<v Speaker 1>think and clean and then put it back in. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that would make sense. There's basically just like

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<v Speaker 1>an exit route, so like you can just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>clean it through there. I mean, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with I've never used a doll and

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<v Speaker 1>I've never we don't make them. With the strokers, I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you can literally flip the thing inside out

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<v Speaker 1>and clean and clean it properly. There's a stroker. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a stroker. Okay, Well, thank you guys for joining us,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having website one more time. Doc Johnson

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<v Speaker 1>dot com thought I was gonna get out of here

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<v Speaker 1>about that. It's an undisclosed amount, I guess at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. I can't talk about different contracts.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it out No, but it's it'll be out like within.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just asking because I was thinking, like, right, you

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<v Speaker 1>could have a line called Vicious, because when you got

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<v Speaker 1>caught with the guy or whatever and they said it

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<v Speaker 1>was a nine half due though, you replied back vicious.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just think that'd be a dope brand for

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<v Speaker 1>Envy to half like that Vicious. That would be good. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that name. It could be like a first

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<v Speaker 1>name vicious by Rashawn, These guys a vicious. Yes, would

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<v Speaker 1>you ever mold yourself? No? You should? You know you

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<v Speaker 1>should get now. Jason Derillo is hot right now? If

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<v Speaker 1>you saw that some cats I bought off right here,

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't mold yourself. Mold myself? Three hundred grand Collie

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<v Speaker 1>got undisclosed the mouth for Safari. You're a money guy,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, But thousand dollars pays for the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the kids college. You want to get eight hundred, nine

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<v Speaker 1>hundred thousand dollars. You think he's worth more than Carly?

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<v Speaker 1>Get out of here. Question would you mold yourself? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have that kind of penis right button? Because wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of penis do you need? I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>like a big penis. I don't have a peters. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think nobody would want to buy yah. So maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he could do like a big we ever molded somebody

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<v Speaker 1>pocket racket. He could do the pocket racket more six

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<v Speaker 1>inch dildos than we do ten inch. I'm seven inches

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<v Speaker 1>three fourth eight When just one pocket ever molded somebody's

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<v Speaker 1>rare end. Yeah, we probably molded over a thousand formers

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<v Speaker 1>in the industry over who was to get a mold?

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<v Speaker 1>How long would it take to get back? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get via a birthday present? Now, oh, Christmas present.

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<v Speaker 1>We're back by Christmas next to me number one? If

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<v Speaker 1>I can get it back before Christmas. In order to

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<v Speaker 1>give Envia a birthday present, I will get my ass

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<v Speaker 1>out of the real material. Like you want a working

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<v Speaker 1>model is joke. I'm not joking. He's rare. And I'll

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<v Speaker 1>see a Browns as I'm going to you put it

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<v Speaker 1>on the table and his would be like a gaping hole.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah we can do that. Yeah, we appreciate you. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Have no ask for me. Man, That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I've died. It's carly Red Chadd. We're gonna talk to

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<v Speaker 1>Chad for Christmas. Better not breakfasting for business. The Breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>Club the Morning, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>caught your parents having sex at or have your kids

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<v Speaker 1>ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from

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<v Speaker 1>Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and

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<v Speaker 1>Waxes played audio have you ever been caught by plenty plenty?

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<v Speaker 1>I got called plenty of that. I gotta called my

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<v Speaker 1>mom's grandmom's brothers. So with my friend two o'clock in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, I was just saying I was in a

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<v Speaker 1>room with a door that was in locked. My son

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<v Speaker 1>comes in because I guess he heard some noise. All

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<v Speaker 1>I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>my mom. Good did your friends say? He was like?

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, you should have yelled at him so

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<v Speaker 1>he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I was in shock.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're asking eight hundred five five one oh five.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my kids have never walked in and caught us,

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<v Speaker 1>but my daughter has texted us as the guys, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still up. Guys, you checked your text during sex. Now

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<v Speaker 1>this was after when we checked in. You can see

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<v Speaker 1>the text up was like, guys, I'm still up. The

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<v Speaker 1>next one she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you doing

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<v Speaker 1>the daddy last night? He was making so much noise

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<v Speaker 1>up it sound like he was in Yeah. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever caught your parent type of sex? I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I never walked in on them, but I've heard them,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>My room was all the way on the third floor,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door

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<v Speaker 1>was closed and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like it was fun, though, what conversation did you hear?

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<v Speaker 1>It sound like they were having sex, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>how like you're tired and you don't really feel like it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have

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<v Speaker 1>caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used

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<v Speaker 1>to have a ranch style house, you know, a monk's corner,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, you walk in the door and you

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<v Speaker 1>peek in and you see them under the covers, and

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<v Speaker 1>you just back away because you know, you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my

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<v Speaker 1>kids have never called me simply because I'm not poor

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<v Speaker 1>and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all

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<v Speaker 1>those who can't afford locks to get your money up.

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<v Speaker 1>King I right, your kids would have never caught you

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<v Speaker 1>if you wasn't a Paul asking me who who could

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<v Speaker 1>have afford locks? I'm writing, some people out there that

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<v Speaker 1>could have afford locks, have locks on that doors, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then lock the goddamn door in. It's just that simple.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to the full hous. Hello, who's this Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>It's DJ from Houston. I'm probably CALLI but I live

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<v Speaker 1>in Houston. What's up, brother? What's going on with you?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my parents having

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<v Speaker 1>to take boll It wasn't my parents. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>my mom's and her boyfriend. Damn. I was like nineteen,

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<v Speaker 1>I really like to do. But I'm like, I knocked

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<v Speaker 1>on the door, like, hey man with like is it cool?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I gotta ask you a quasure that. She's like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like I saw just by Wow. So dude, you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that you

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<v Speaker 1>had that image in your head forever? Was he putting

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<v Speaker 1>it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know like it sounds like like it see Charlotte Mane.

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<v Speaker 1>You always gotta ask that man what you mean? Question down? Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Mommy gotta have a life too, Bro, I'll feel you

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<v Speaker 1>on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was

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<v Speaker 1>but she was making noise. She was moaning. Yeah, Bro, Damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I did knock on the door to kind of break

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<v Speaker 1>it up real quick. I don't know if you rap, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>but that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and

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<v Speaker 1>just the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents

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<v Speaker 1>having sex. I'm serious, Hello, who's this? Good morning? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Ricardo Henley Junior from Yanks. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you ever walked in on your parents having sex? That's

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<v Speaker 1>about Ricardo Haley Senior putting it down. Yea, I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>never seen pops old mom get it in, but I

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<v Speaker 1>got a one year role. I was giving my shorty

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<v Speaker 1>some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know

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<v Speaker 1>I was putting that pain in. But I'm saying at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time, you know, like cool, man, this is love,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Did you stop? You stopped though? Yeah? Nah.

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<v Speaker 1>I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him

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<v Speaker 1>to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta tell you to tell him, like, look where

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<v Speaker 1>you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling.

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<v Speaker 1>My g too, because I need a babysitter. Man, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I brother, Hello, who's this? They ain't Nicia?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you cut your parents having sexy? Your kids caught you.

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<v Speaker 1>I put my pans. So what happened? You sound mad too, right?

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<v Speaker 1>And my mom was all and then she looked me

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<v Speaker 1>in my eyes. Wait wait wait, you was under the bed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the my my mom, I want to know what they

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<v Speaker 1>were doing here. My mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like black called him daddy. And I see why

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<v Speaker 1>she would saying, hold that day, you sound wild incestual

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and you wanted to see that because you

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<v Speaker 1>actually hit under the bed. And what if that man

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<v Speaker 1>would have pulled What if that man would have pulled

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<v Speaker 1>out and let that let that stuff fall towards the

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<v Speaker 1>conference and you just happened to be looking up for

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<v Speaker 1>the hold on, Charlomagne. Let me let me let you

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<v Speaker 1>know something. First of all, and you're playing the ten

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<v Speaker 1>doll and you had these we're an apartment build. Our

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<v Speaker 1>walls is really sading. You're getting stupid noises. You want

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, wait, hold on, what's going on here? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you mind your business. That's that goddamn boogeyman your parents

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<v Speaker 1>keep telling you about, and that little part as the

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<v Speaker 1>book man. Hello, Well you saw the boogeyman that night.

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<v Speaker 1>He was book get all over your mama, wasn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so traumatised, like, oh my god, like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. And that was your daddy, that was your

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<v Speaker 1>mama was saying too. And when your dad was oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, oh my god. Why are y'all so crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all crazy? It's so crazy. What's there? Listen, it's so crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't wonder why I'm crazy. What's more, it's your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no moral of the story. These are the stories. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>lock the goddamn door, your pole ass lots. Ain't that expensive, bro?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? No, man, locked the goddamn door. Boy, some

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<v Speaker 1>locks from your door and locked the door before you

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<v Speaker 1>do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair

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<v Speaker 1>but behind the door something lock in. Put a chair

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<v Speaker 1>behind the door. I've done that before. Just put the

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<v Speaker 1>chair just so it makes noise so you know what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on, so they can't sneak up on you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>when you was, Paul, huh. That's when you was a pole.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. We got more coming up next. At a

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne

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<v Speaker 1>the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now it's time

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<v Speaker 1>for that positive notes pressing positivity. Please listen man the

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<v Speaker 1>positive note. Accept responsibility for your actions. Be accountable for

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<v Speaker 1>your results. Take ownership of your mistakes. Breakfast club potition

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<v Speaker 1>you don't finish