1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: It's time time, time to wake up instantially and Charlott 2 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,319 Speaker 1: mean the doctor to practice club bitches, the voice of 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 1: the culture. People watch The Breakfast Club for like news, 4 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: to really be tuned in. It's one of my favorite 5 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: shows to do, just because y'all always keep you one, honey, 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: y'all keep your Really. They might not watch the news, 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: but they're on Twitter, they're on Facebook, they're you know, 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: they're listening to The Breakfast Brother gets your ass getting 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: pick up the mother mother phone and dial. This is 10 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chat. Whether you're 11 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: man or blast, you want to hear from you on 12 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. So you but have the same energy. Yeah, Hello, 13 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: who's this? Yeah? This shit boy? You dog? You dog? 14 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: You dog? What's up? You dog? And you know what 15 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. You know what's up? 16 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: What's up with y'all? Man? What's up? What's what's up? 17 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: What's up? As we use Charlotte mane envy, what's up happening? Brother? 18 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: Since you've been and you've been sober for forty days 19 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: on the days, La, I've been cleared for the day. Congratsman, 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you appreciate it. I don't know why 21 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: we can gratulating the one it? Wow, I mean, you know, 22 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: should we go off? What you gotta tell me what 23 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: you was sold off for? Twenty days? Get off? See 24 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying, y'all just like congratulations, don't 25 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: even have congratulations. He's trying to stop himself, to stop masturbating. Yeah, 26 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: a long way, man, Like, it's been really hard for me. 27 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure hard it's been. It's been a long forty 28 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: days and you know, I'm you know, just let me 29 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: ask you a question. If you hear that if you 30 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: use another guy's hand the masturbated, that relapse, that is 31 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: that cool? You know? That does that? Does account? Yeah? 32 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: You can do it. I'm just saying you can get 33 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: a start from another guy. I wouldn't count, right, Yeah, 34 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: I can't say that, bro, So I shouldn't do that. Okay, 35 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: all right? Well yeah, go on, man, Charloman makes your offer, 36 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: you bet? Except hello, my boy was handing with I'm 37 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: not blood No, I mean, I'm playing I'm playing them. 38 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: You know, I'm nothing. Okay, what's up in the day? 39 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: Just say both that drength doesn't matter. Hey, um, he's 40 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: real so so Emby, I wanted to pick your brain, bro, 41 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: Like really, I'm trying to get into the real estate 42 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: game a little bit more, I'll be sure and stuff 43 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: like that a little bit right now. And so I 44 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 1: probably got about like ten fifteen rocks, like just kind 45 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: of off to the side, and I'm trying to see 46 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: which way to kind of jump in that. You know 47 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Are you from I'm from the Power 48 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: from Okana. He from Oakland, Okay, the Bay area? All right? 49 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: Just eat email me all right? Uh Caesar and dj 50 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: m v A Gmail all right? And and um, I 51 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: try to hit you after the show and told you 52 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: what your options are and everything like that. How's your credit? 53 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: So it's gonna be about seven hundred about next month? 54 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: I played off seven hundy by next mon, what don't 55 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: hit this month? Brother? Okay, Yeah, you're good six eighties, good, 56 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: six eighty. You could get some stuff done and you 57 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: got a good job. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got fifteen 58 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: to the side. Yep. We can make some things happen 59 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: to you. I get a lender on the phone for you. 60 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 1: We'll find you some props. You be good money, you said, 61 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: season and who see you said? Season, MVY or season 62 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: and DJ sees it in DJ N mail. Brother, all right, Hello, 63 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: who's this Jay? Jay? What's up? Getting off your chess? Bro? Man, 64 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to tell y'all man a little what 65 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: y'all doing? Man, y'all keep a trick, keep it real 66 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: every day. Hey, we appreciate nice to the point. That's 67 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: all you got. No, man, I want to shout out 68 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: well as I'm on the bigger ridal space in the world. Man. Okay, okay, 69 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: shout out the Instagram jays kids, so j A y 70 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: s K. I is old. Man. Y'all follow me, man, 71 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: you know with everybody know me in the city? Man, 72 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: all right, brother, Hello, who's this? Hi? This is Jessica. 73 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: How are you yet your chess? I listened to you 74 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: guys every morning, but I need to get something off 75 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: my chest this morning. UM. I'm a nurse and I 76 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: love what I do. UM, but I need to put 77 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: on blass. Some of my night co workers, UM, they're 78 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: just very unhappy people and I just don't know why 79 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: they would want to be nurse. Is if there's that 80 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: miserable right. I can't stand being around unhappy people and 81 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: people that complain about everything. But don't do anything about it. 82 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: If you're so unhappy tor situation. You know what, it's 83 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: just not even complaining, it's just a whole vibe like 84 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: they don't say hi, not nice. Have you ever thought 85 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: that maybe it could be you? Maybe they're happy on 86 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: another shift when you're not around. She sounds happy yet, Nah, 87 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: It's it's like the twenty four seven, whether I'm there 88 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: not there, they're just always just an unhappy group of 89 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: people and not putting it very nicely. Well you avoid 90 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: the unhappy absolutely well. Thank you guys, Thank you so much. Yeah, 91 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: have a go on, get it off your chest eight 92 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: hundred five A five one on five one. If you 93 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 1: need to vent, hit us up right now. It's the 94 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: breakfast club the morning, wake up, wake up. You're trying 95 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: to get it off your chest or blas. We want 96 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: to hear from you on the Hello. Who's this? Hello? They? 97 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: What's your name? Bro? Oh my god, bro? I got 98 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: through all. My name is Will Well, what's up? Getting 99 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: up for chas? Will person up? NBA? What's up? And god? Bro, 100 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: it's good? What's up? My guy? How are you? Mom? 101 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: Oh my god? I'm black and you know what I'm saying, Um, 102 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: what's on the same out freaking everything, y'all. Dude, Man, 103 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: y'all s for race. Y'all a part of my everyday routine. 104 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: And um man, y'all motivated me. Y'all have y'all make 105 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: every day easier to keep going. Thank you, thank you 106 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: that way about y'all, I'm he serious. Hello, who's this ail? 107 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Hey Ariola, Hey, get it up, Ario Loveterio, 108 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: Oh Ariel. I'm sorry, y y'all for years. Oh my gosh, 109 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: we're so old. I'm not. I said we old because 110 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: you've been trying to call it for a year. Honey, 111 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: I have so out of calling from Orlando, Florida. I 112 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 1: moved here from Jane Bill three years ago. Um, but 113 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: I've been trying to call y'all, dja envy. I've been 114 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: been giving you on Instagram because I have a homeboy who, 115 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: like you, do music and he really doing. His name 116 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: is seen minutes Pro. He has a project out is 117 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: called Warm Night Ful Heart. And then I have another 118 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: homeboy named Kendall when he goes to text only and 119 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: he has a project out called Legalized Millanem. And he 120 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: also has a dope at I mean dope call called 121 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: Pam Grier and it is really really dope. Where we 122 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: gonna listen? You didn't listen to both of them on 123 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: Apple Music. Fact only is F A K K S 124 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: and then only and then eminence pro is E M 125 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: I M E T E P R O. Okay, how 126 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: much you paying you for promo? Nothing like these? My 127 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: boys have been frantat little schools. Okay, Well, thank you 128 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: for calling mamma. Yes, I've been trying to call y'all 129 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: for years. I'm so excited and I'm gonna learn at 130 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: Orlando Regia Medical Center, so I can't show that to you, 131 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: Harry out, Thank you, Rick, Good morning, Rick Yo, Good morning, 132 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: man bro Yo, So celebate. You've been in the New 133 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: York ta arable very long time. Man came here in suise. 134 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: New York Heads has been allowed to you. You're not 135 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: allowed to undermine any more New York team. Man. You 136 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: don't underline the next You don't underline anymore. Man, we're 137 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: trying to the next. Man. You're not allowed to say that. Well, first, 138 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: can ask can I? Can I ask you a question? 139 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: Can ask your questions to the New York Knicks up? 140 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: But I'm in New York. I can say that. I 141 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: can ask you another question, can ask you another question 142 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: to the New York giants up, No, they don't. I'm 143 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: never gonna be that you crazy? Okay, Well, well, one thing, 144 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: one thing I will say about New Yorkers, and I 145 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: love New York. A lot of y'all are very delusional. 146 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: We all so much. Why don't we break your New 147 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: York if you are New Yorker? Now, I love New York. 148 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: I paid taxes here, but I am a Dallas Cowboys fan. 149 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: Good try Rick such a bad person. Get it on 150 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: your chest if you need to. N hit is up now. 151 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: It was the Breakfast Club going bad person, the breakfast 152 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: club pointing. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. 153 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest 154 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: in the building, Yes, sir, andre Iguadalla, Welcome back, sir. 155 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: It's good to be back. Man. You should be somewhere 156 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: relaxing after that long ass season, but you are here 157 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: promoting your new book. First book, first one, first six 158 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,839 Speaker 1: six many memoir WI now, man, I think it was 159 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: just good timing, especially with the run we've been on. 160 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: We were kind of the poster child in the league 161 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: as far as you know, people really loving us and 162 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: what we did for the game and then being on 163 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,319 Speaker 1: the oppositie of that and it hate you for having 164 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 1: too much success. So um, just for me, it was 165 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 1: more therapeutic. And I had a lot of young kids, 166 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 1: young guys in the league asked me for advice, and 167 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: it's kind of surprising. You know, you get people that 168 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: look up to you, but you're still playing. It's still 169 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: you're still competing against them, So all those things, uh, 170 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: for like, it's kind of a way to get back 171 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: to the because it's a new age athlete coming up, 172 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: especially for the black athlete. You know, we're being exploited 173 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: more than ever ncuba Au and kind of how I 174 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: navigated through the whole thing, it's kind of like there's 175 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: no navigational tools for guys to kind of you know, 176 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: get to the league. They're kind of being pimped throughout 177 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: the whole process from you know age a laban when 178 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: they're phena. Let's talk about the navigation part you were saying, 179 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: you know, we get exploited a lot, you know, and 180 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: a lot of us have sons and daughters that want 181 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 1: to play basketball and it's a tough process. So what 182 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,599 Speaker 1: do you suggest that people do you know, because the 183 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 1: only thing we know is AAU and high schooling to 184 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: the college, and is we never get anything. Well, I've 185 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: had many conversations and my son plays ball. It's funny, 186 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: he's that Duke camp now, you know. And he grew 187 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: up different than I did. He grew up different than 188 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 1: we did and right, And the one thing I give 189 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: to the kids and the parents that grew up similar 190 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:13,559 Speaker 1: to the way we did is you gotta do it 191 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,079 Speaker 1: for fun. You got to do it because you love it. 192 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: And I always say, these kids nowadays are living their parents' 193 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: dreams and that's what always derails them. Or no matter 194 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: where they get either they don't make it, the parents 195 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: derail them. Another reason why they didn't make it, or 196 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: when they do make it, parents are the reason why 197 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: they're having mental issues or they're spending all the money, 198 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: or they're going broke, or they're having all the family 199 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: problems is because you know, they did it for all 200 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: the wrong reasons. So for me, it's like listen, just 201 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 1: let the kid's gonna make it or not make it, regardless, 202 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: Like you have nothing to do with that, Like you 203 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: can't support them as a parent, and that's going to 204 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: help them mentally. But you know, there's there's a lot 205 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: of things that we can do differently, and exploiting the 206 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: kid is that's the worst reason to get them into 207 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,680 Speaker 1: the sports. So creating our own spaces, we talk about 208 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 1: that a lot. And I even look at colleges and 209 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,599 Speaker 1: and I look at you know, just imagine if we 210 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: had one star leave an HBCU forty million dollars. Slaves 211 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: spoke about that in that book. What if the Fat 212 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: Five all went to a historically black university or college 213 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 1: instead of going to Michigan and it changed the course 214 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: of history. You know, they did it with black socks 215 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 1: and black nikes. They could have changed the course of history. 216 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: And I was just talking to one of the interns. 217 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 1: She was talking about you was talking about, say, I 218 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: wish I would have took a visit to Howard. Well. 219 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: Black people, we haven't tendency to think white ice is colder, right, 220 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 1: But that's just the way we see it. Like we 221 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: grow up, you know, growing up out saw Michael Jordan, 222 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: the Fat Five, I was like they were like gods 223 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: to me. So it was like, you think that's the 224 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:38,839 Speaker 1: only way that you can go to make it. And 225 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: David West, close teammate of mind, he's trying to change 226 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: the trajectory or the course of what we can do. 227 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: He's got the he got a league where instead of 228 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: going to college through the NCUBA, you can go through 229 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: this league where they give financial services as far as 230 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: financial education. You can actually make money off your likeness. 231 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 1: It's just a different avenue. They give you a percentage 232 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: of your jersey right right, right right, But they're teaching 233 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: you all these twols as well, because that's one thing 234 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: I talk about in the book is we all were 235 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 1: exported in an NCUBA, especially if you went to a 236 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: big school. I went to the University of Arizona, and 237 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: I remember seeing the report the larger schools in terms 238 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: of revenue basketball team pat to the school. We were 239 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 1: number two. And the reason why this the athletic department 240 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: ran was because of the basketball team. And then it 241 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: was funny. I would go to practice and then the 242 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: volleyball coach would be like, coach, you know, you guys 243 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 1: got car blanche on the practice time. I know who 244 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: pays the bills around here. But I would go a 245 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: week when I had like ten dollars and I had 246 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: to make ten dollars last food for that week. It 247 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: was like, and you an athlete, My jersey was in 248 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: the store, like number twenty four was in the store. 249 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: I would think it would feed y'all, just to keep 250 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: y'all healthy. Well, they change the rules now where they 251 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: getting limited food? When I was there, you only got 252 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: food on game days or they got food sometimes at 253 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,319 Speaker 1: the practice whatever. But other than that, you know, he 254 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: was on and then but you got the head of 255 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 1: the NC double A. You know, you can look at 256 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: the salary right now. He's a millionaire, you know. So 257 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: it's just it's just a system in how it's been 258 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: so far. Now people saying that the Warriors are over, 259 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: that the dynasty is over. What do you think you 260 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,719 Speaker 1: got two men? Dawn? Maybe next year Claire and be 261 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: back soon. Katie would be back to form if he signs. 262 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: But he'll be back to form, okay, but um, hopefully 263 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: he'll be back. He might be out all next year. 264 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: But we saw what we did in the finals. You know, 265 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: we just right there and we were like, really we 266 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: had three guys break something and we still had an opportunity, 267 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 1: were one possession away. From pushing it to a game seven, 268 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 1: so we'll be fine. Um, big free agency this summer, 269 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: so we'll be at all right, we have more with 270 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: andre Iguadallas when we come back. Don't move. It's to 271 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Go morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is 272 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the 273 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club was still kicking it with andre Iguadalla from 274 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: the Golden State Warriors. Charlemagne. Did the Warriors organization take 275 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: any blame for having the Katie or shouldn't because you're 276 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 1: talking the book about you know, we're sacrificing in your 277 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: body so for these organizations. So that's a really good question. 278 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 1: I don't think his injury was the reason before the 279 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: other of the other injury because the way the body 280 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: set up, the Calves should have went out first before 281 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: they Achilles. So that was like an active guy like 282 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 1: the Achilleses just gonna go out. Don't matter if he 283 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: was injured before that or not. But I talk about 284 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: in the book, you know, what's your body worth? You know, 285 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: all I hear is play one of years longer than 286 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: you can. But at the same time, it's like y'all 287 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: want to have a certain lifestyle when I'm done playing. 288 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: You know them knees go quick, so you don't you 289 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: don't think the Warriors had any responsibility with maybe pushing 290 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: Katie out there too soon. That's a tough part too, 291 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: you think about it. We have a really good training staff. 292 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 1: You know, I'll give credit work credits due our training 293 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: staff was one of the best in the world, and 294 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: I feel like they got them back. The tough thing 295 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: is when you're an athlete and you're hurt, everybody's looking 296 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: at you sideways, and then being his teammate is harder 297 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: because everyone's feeding stuff in our head when Katie coming back, 298 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: When Katie coming back, and the fact that it's the finals, 299 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying that whatever happened to more because he put 300 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: that team together, it seems like, and then nobody ever 301 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: gave him a chance again, which seems weird. We were 302 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: just talking about that about that this morning, and like 303 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: we were huge fans of market Players. He was ultimate 304 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: players coach. That that was. I mean, he pretty much 305 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: put that team together, like that's that's what we first 306 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: started hearing about the Warriors, and then it was like 307 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: he got let go in the nor of a team, 308 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: gave a shot and I'll talk about it in the book. 309 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: As far as he was like one of my favorite 310 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: coaches of all times, it was like, come in, compete, 311 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: play hard, But I feel like this the politics of it, man. 312 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: And when you say politics, what do you mean? I 313 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: know they used to be upset because he was too religious. 314 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: They said, did he make y'all go to church? That 315 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: was a rumor that he made. He didn't make us 316 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: go to church like he offered it to us. And 317 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: we all went as a team because we got a 318 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: team bunch of believers, so we went to church like 319 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: we were going to church regardless. But it was the politics. 320 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: And then you know how it is when once they 321 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: want you out, they're gonna find something. And then you know, 322 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: one particular issue was from what I heard, was his 323 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: views on ginger or marriage or what the Bible said 324 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: on your sexuality. And our head of our business who 325 00:15:58,280 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: he just went to the Hall of Fame. He was 326 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: the brains behind All Star Weekend. Like this dude, he 327 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: created the All Star Weekend brick wells like genus business 328 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: and he's gay. So there was conflicts with that that 329 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: was wide spread everyone was talking about that, and it's interesting. 330 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: Someone mentioned it to me. It was like when people 331 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: can express themselves, but are you allowed to express yourself 332 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: that you don't agree with it, you should accept it 333 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: because we should accept each other. But it's like we're 334 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: afraid to really say our beliefs now, Like you may 335 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: not believe in something, but you know you still embrace that, 336 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: or you have respect for them, or it's as long 337 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: as you don't dispect them or judge them. Correct. It 338 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: was that on top of you know, he might have 339 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: issues with ownership. That was that was a crazy part, 340 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: Like he didn't have a group relationship with the ownership 341 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: and that's not gonna work. That ain't gonna never work. 342 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: But no other team picked him up. Think about it, 343 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: not one other team. Well, it just shows crazy. It 344 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: just shows how in line the ownership group is. They 345 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: all together, they care about one thing money at bottom line. 346 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: You think Mark Jackson's black ball, I do, yes, really, yes, absolutely, 347 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: But we appreciate you for joining us. Yeah, pick up 348 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: the book. Six men and Katie and Clay coming back 349 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 1: next year? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Kad two. 350 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: I think Katie's coming back. I hope he does I 351 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:15,359 Speaker 1: mean we wanted to come back prior to the injury? 352 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: Did you think he was leaving a going I didn't know. 353 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 1: That's a hard part of two. It's like every day 354 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 1: we had to deal with that, like the whole year 355 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: you had to deal with it. Is Katie coming back? 356 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 1: It was like, man, like, man, I hope, so yeah, 357 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 1: like what you want me to say. But at the 358 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: same time, it's like, you know where they're smoked. There's 359 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: a fire, so it's like, well, who's putting out these reports? 360 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 1: Sometimes it fake? You don't know what's what? You know, 361 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 1: it's the drama, the NBA. They're going to the Knicks though, 362 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: that's what I heard. I don't know. Man, I personally 363 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: think y'all gonna strike out. Yeah, I agree with you. 364 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 1: All right. It's Andrew Iguadolla. It's to Breakfast Local Morning, DJ, Envy, 365 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, 366 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 1: if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever 367 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: caught your parents having sex at or how your kids 368 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from 369 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 1: Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and 370 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: Waxes played an audio have you ever been caught by plenty? Plenty? 371 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 1: I got called plenty. I gotta called my mom's grandmoms brothers. 372 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 1: So I was with my friend. It was two o'clock 373 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 1: in the morning. I was just saying I was in 374 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 1: a room with a door that was in locks. My 375 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: son comes in because I guess he heard some noise. 376 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:22,119 Speaker 1: All I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I 377 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: am calling my mom. Good did your friends say? He 378 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: was like, he was like, you should have yelled at 379 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: him so he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I 380 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 1: was in shocked. So we're asking eight hundred five five 381 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 1: one oh five. One of my kids have never walked 382 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,719 Speaker 1: in and caught us, but my daughter has texted us 383 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:40,439 Speaker 1: and said, guys, I'm still up. Guys, you checked your 384 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: text during sex. Now this was after when we checked in. 385 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 1: You can see the text was like, guys, I'm still up. 386 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: The next morning she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you 387 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 1: doing the daddy last night? He was making so much 388 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 1: noise of what he was in. Yeah, have you ever 389 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: caught your parent type of sex? I think so. I 390 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: never walked in on them, but I've heard them, and 391 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house. My 392 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 1: room was all the way on the third floor, so 393 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door was closed, 394 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound like it 395 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: was fun, though. What conversation did you hear? I don't 396 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: sound like they were having sex, but you know how 397 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: like you're tired and you don't really feel like it. 398 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No, 399 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have 400 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 1: caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't 401 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used 402 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: to have a ranch style house in a monk's corner, 403 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 1: and you know, you walk in the door and you 404 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 1: peek in and you see them under the covers, and 405 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 1: you just back away because you know, you know you're 406 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 1: seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my 407 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 1: kids had never call me, simply because I'm not poor 408 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all 409 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:44,719 Speaker 1: those who can't afford locks to get your money up. King, 410 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,239 Speaker 1: I hate your kids would have never caught you if 411 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: you wasn't a Paul asked me, who could have afford locks. 412 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 1: All right, some people out there that could have afford 413 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: locks that blocks on that door, Well, then lock the 414 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: goddamn door in. It's just that simple. Let's go to 415 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: the full hous. Hello, who's this from Houston? I'm from Calli, 416 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: but I live in Houston. What's up? What's going on 417 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: with you? What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my 418 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: parents having second boy. It wasn't my parents. It was 419 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: like my mom's and her boyfriend. I was like nineteen, 420 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: I ain't really like to do, but I'm like, I 421 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: knocked on the door, like hey man with like is 422 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 1: it cool? Like I got to ask you a question 423 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: that She's like, Oh, I'm like I saw just by Wow. So, dude, 424 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: you didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that 425 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: you had that image in your head forever? Was he 426 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 1: putting it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I 427 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 1: don't know, like it sounds like like it. See Charlemagne, 428 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: you always gotta ask that man, what a question down? Listen, 429 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: Mommy gotta have a life too, bro. I'll feel you 430 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was, 431 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:54,719 Speaker 1: but she was making noise. She was moaning, Yeah, Broda, 432 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: I had knock on the door to kind of break 433 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,040 Speaker 1: it up real quick. I don't know if you rap o, 434 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and just 435 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents having sex. 436 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: I'm serious. Hello, who's this? Good morning? This is Ricardo 437 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,959 Speaker 1: Hanley Junior from YANCS. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man, you ever 438 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,160 Speaker 1: walking on your parents having sex? That was about Ricardo 439 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 1: Haley SENI you're putting it down. Ye Na, I ain't 440 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 1: never seen pops old mom get it in. But I 441 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,439 Speaker 1: got a one year rold. I was giving my shorty 442 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm 443 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 1: talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son. 444 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know, 445 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,479 Speaker 1: I was putting that paint in. But I'm saying at 446 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 1: the same time, you know, like cool man, this is all. 447 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 1: Did you stop me? Did you stop though? Yeah? Nah? 448 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him 449 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 1: to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah, 450 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,120 Speaker 1: you gotta tell you how to tell him? Like, look 451 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 1: where you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling. 452 00:21:56,200 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: My g was too because I need a babysitter. Man. 453 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: Oh my good an eye brother? Hello, who's this? They 454 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 1: ain't nsha you tout your parents having sexy? Your kids 455 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 1: caught you. I put my pans, So what happened? You 456 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 1: sound mad too? Right? And my mom was on her 457 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: knees and then she looked me in my eyes. Wait 458 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: wait wait, you was under the bed. Why my my mom? 459 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,399 Speaker 1: I want to know what they were doing here. My 460 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 1: mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad, I'm like black 461 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: called him daddy, And I see what she would say 462 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: all that day. You sound wild incestual right now. And 463 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,920 Speaker 1: you wanted to see that because you actually hit under 464 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: the bed. And what if that man would have pulled 465 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,919 Speaker 1: What if that man would have pulled out and let 466 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: that let that stuff fall towards the coverence, and you 467 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 1: just happened to be looking up for the hold on, charlomne. 468 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: Let me let me let you know something. First of all, 469 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,040 Speaker 1: and you're playing the ten dog and you heady, and 470 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 1: we're an apartment build. Our wolf is really thinning. You're 471 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: getting stupid noises. You want to be like, wait, hold on, 472 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 1: what's going on? You? No? You mind your business that's 473 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: that goddamn boogeyman your parents keep telling you about, and 474 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: that little pollo. Well, you saw the boogeyman that night. 475 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 1: He was boogeing all over your mama, wasn't it. I 476 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 1: was so traumatized, like, oh my god, like, oh my god. 477 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: And that was your daddy. That was your mama was 478 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: saying too. And when your dad was, oh my god, 479 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: oh my god, why are y'all so crazy? Y'all crazy? 480 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: It's so crazy. What's listen? It's so crazy. I didn't 481 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 1: wonder why I'm crazy. It's your fault. There's no moral 482 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 1: of the story. These are the stories. Lock lock the 483 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: goddamn dog, your pole ass before lots. Ain't that expensive, bro? 484 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: All right? No, man, lock the goddamn dog. Buy some 485 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: locks for your door, and locked the door before you 486 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 1: do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair 487 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,200 Speaker 1: up behind the door. Something I can in. Put a 488 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 1: chair behind the door. I've done that before. Just put 489 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: the chair just so it makes noise so you know 490 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: what's going on, so they can't sneak up on. Yeah, 491 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 1: that's when you was Paul. Huh, that's a pole all right. 492 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: We got more coming up next with a Breakfast Club. 493 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. 494 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: We have Jill, Marie Jones and the creators Old Monogamy here. 495 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: Welcome guys, Good morning morning. Yeah, it's been two seasons 496 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,719 Speaker 1: of monogamy so far, right, Yeah, yeah, this is our 497 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 1: second season. And there's this swap therapy, yes, that you 498 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: guys do on monogamy to help in your relationships and 499 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: your marriages. Swap therapy. It's basically when you swap spouses 500 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,159 Speaker 1: in an effort to get distance from a relationship, to 501 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,360 Speaker 1: get a perspective on it, to heal it. So it's 502 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: like sanctioned infidelity basically. Well, it's it's more about mirror, 503 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 1: isn't Yeah. I think yeah, it's more about looking into 504 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 1: a mirror and saying the reflection of it that I 505 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 1: see is actually who I want to be. Yes, I'm 506 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: also too characters that think a certain way, um, and 507 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: then they go into the experiment and realize it was 508 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: better at home. They just didn't appreciate it. But then 509 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: there's also two characters that saw what they thought they 510 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 1: saw and then end up finding something new about I 511 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: always say that monogamy should have a question mark at 512 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: the end of it. I always say the well of 513 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 1: what is monogamy? Can one person be your everything? And 514 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: should they? Should they be? For example, and what we 515 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 1: were just talking about, if there was a space where 516 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: my husband could feel attracted to a woman and feel 517 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 1: free enough to come and tell me and we're sharing 518 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 1: that together. Put that lesson the fact that he goes 519 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 1: out and steps out. I mean, it's the secrets and 520 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: you're not giving a platform to be who you are. 521 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: If he's attracted to someone, tell me, babe, let's talk 522 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,120 Speaker 1: about is that real life for you? It's real life? Okay, 523 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 1: so it's it's now got ana be attracted to it. 524 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,159 Speaker 1: Like a man can be attracted to another woman, but 525 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 1: you don't. You're not gonna let them go sleep with 526 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 1: the other people? Do some people what they shoose? That's 527 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: the point is like, do you feel free enough that 528 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: you could come to your wife and say babe, or 529 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: you know, any man or any godless of what happens 530 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: after that. Yeah, Like, do you is there a space 531 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,119 Speaker 1: where you can be who you are? Because we have 532 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: this idea that you get married, you're not attracted to people, 533 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: you shouldn't feel things now there's nothing wrong with honoring 534 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 1: your commitment, because we do honor that, but honor who 535 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: you are as a human, Like we're not dead. We 536 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: feel people were connected to people, were attracted to people, 537 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: So let there be space for that and maybe just 538 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: maybe that'll cut down the lies and the deception. Really, yes, 539 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 1: because I don't think, like I've never thought that that 540 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 1: was a problem being attracted to another woman or a 541 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: woman saying another guy's attractive. That's never a problem. Is 542 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 1: when you actually go act on that and sleep with that. 543 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: I mean, everybody talk about it on the table real 544 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: and I think that's what I mean. Do you feel 545 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 1: like you feel like that it's okay to put that 546 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,479 Speaker 1: on the table in your relationship that that you can 547 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: you I'm not gonna sit around a lust over woman 548 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 1: be like, y'all I want to hit that, but I 549 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 1: might be like, oh, she's pretty up. My wife would 550 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 1: be like, yo, he's handsome, that's cool. So do you 551 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: fight your thoughts if you're exactly because maybe your head, 552 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: do you stop yourself from thinking that? How do you 553 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 1: fight it? Or do you about what you're gonna say 554 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 1: so that you know is at the right time? Is 555 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: it the you know, is it the is he? How 556 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 1: far should I go when I when I speak about this? 557 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 1: So yeah, and a certain women that we both can 558 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: agree all bad. Like you might see Angela Bassett and 559 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 1: you and your wife and be like y'all right right 560 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 1: yeah both for y'all be like that right now. I 561 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: want to talk about y'all relationship though, as creators of 562 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: this show, I want to know what is your relationship like? 563 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 1: And what are your thoughts because watching this show, watching 564 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: monogamy and seeing the aftermath of the whole swap therapy 565 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 1: and uh, seeing the different relationships and you know, the 566 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 1: struggles that people have been having in their marriages. What 567 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: made you guys come up with this? And what is 568 00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:00,719 Speaker 1: your real relationship like? That's that's all love that. How 569 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:05,440 Speaker 1: we first came up with it was basically in the bed, Yeah, 570 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 1: we were The husband annoyed me something like he was 571 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: handling business on the phone. I was like, babe, like 572 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: we have to stop, and he said something like, well, 573 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm sure your perfect dude would put down his phone 574 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 1: and something filling the blank. So it kind of startsed 575 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 1: up that were your perfect woman, would you know would 576 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: allow you to do this on the phone, and then 577 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: I kept talking about it, and we're like, well, you know, 578 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: what would that look like if we evolved that into 579 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: something else? Could we be with other people and our 580 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: marriage withstand that, withhold that, let's hold it. Would we 581 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: be okay? If he and I were put it in 582 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: two separate environments for two months? Could we maintain the 583 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 1: integrity of our two month? Wasn't there at first? We 584 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 1: didn't know that at first, but we just we're thinking 585 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: came we didn't? We have not tried it? How think 586 00:28:54,640 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 1: you guys should know? I was about to say, but 587 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm love you guys so much. I don't want to Yeah, 588 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 1: because I feel like maybe it wouldn't be a bad 589 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: idea to see what that's like because the show now 590 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: where you're putting this an ecosystem, well, because we feel 591 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 1: like I felt like traditional marriage is dying. So what 592 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 1: I really wanted to do was put a different spin 593 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 1: on on what marriage could be. And I just felt 594 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: like marriage doesn't not have to be what the box 595 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: that we put in. I felt like we've put it in. 596 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: There's always a good idea to get a perspective to 597 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: self reflect, and I don't think we do that enough 598 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 1: in relationships. Um intimacy into me you see is about 599 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: like really going deep, and that's the point of marriage. 600 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: So we wanted to create this, this specialized environment where 601 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: couples could do that. And I feel like marriages would 602 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 1: survive and thrive if we actually started to look at 603 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: a lot of our pain points, things that we don't 604 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,479 Speaker 1: want to talk about. For you, jim Y Jones, has 605 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 1: your thoughts on a marriage change if I'm doing if 606 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: I'm doing two seasons of monogamy, have you have your 607 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: thoughts changed? You know, like I don't know if I'll 608 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: ever get married, I mean just by choice, you know, 609 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 1: but maybe if he's worth it, you know, he has 610 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: to come with something, you know, like not marriage for 611 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: the take of just saying you know what marriage because 612 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 1: you went to write and so I mean, I love 613 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 1: the exploration of this. I could never do it, you 614 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: know in my life. You know it's scary about marriage 615 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 1: to me is that I have a lot more friends 616 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 1: who are unhappily married and happily married. Yeah, and I know, Wayne, 617 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 1: way right, Why do you think that is? Like? Why 618 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: I think it is that I don't think you ask 619 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 1: the right questions when you're dating people, Like, it's crazy 620 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: to me that I have friends that they're in like 621 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 1: two year relationships and they don't even know if the 622 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: guy wants kids, if she wants kids, Like I mean, 623 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 1: they're not having like the right conversation. So then they 624 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: are in these relationships that end up lasting, lasting, lasting, 625 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: So you're like three years in and then like, what's next. Okay, 626 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 1: well society says marriage is next. Right, then they proposed, 627 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 1: and they are in this marriage, but they don't really 628 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 1: ask the right questions. They're not really getting to know 629 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 1: the real person. I agree, that's what I think. And 630 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: I also think there's problems that you have when you're 631 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 1: dating that you think if you get married. Same thing 632 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: with kids. It's crazy that Brian White's character on our 633 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: show I actually relate. I didn't know that I would 634 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 1: related to this character. I was like watching I was like, 635 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 1: oh my god, like I relate. That's that was me 636 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: in my twenties, Like I was saving like dudes that 637 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: didn't even ask to be saying that. I was just like, 638 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: I will help you. I will help you through it, 639 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: you know. But I didn't realize how emasculating that can be. 640 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: On the flip side. They say, a great woman can 641 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 1: make a man great, so you don't want to do 642 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: but I would think I was absolutely you feel supported. 643 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 1: If you do it in a way that he does 644 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: not feel supported, then you're not You're not making him great. 645 00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 1: You always making him dependent. Say it again, what yours? 646 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 1: You're making him depend? And that then he takes you 647 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 1: for granted after a while, and then you're just doing 648 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 1: these things and then and then you start feeling like, damn, 649 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: I done did all this? And then right and think 650 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 1: anything exactly what both are fair? Well? I think men 651 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 1: only say that when the woman starts storing it up 652 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 1: in their face. When the woman starts stowing in their 653 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: face everything she's done for him, then the man might say, 654 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 1: but I didn't ask you to do all that. Well, 655 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 1: but I think you appreciate the support if it's real 656 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 1: genuine support. I guess the question is, is it's a 657 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 1: real genuine support? All right? We got more with the 658 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 1: creators Old Monogamy and Jill Marie Jones, who Don't Move 659 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: is the Breakfast Low good morning, everybody is DJ Envy 660 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 1: and jul Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. 661 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: We have Jill, Marie Jones, and the creators Old Monogamy. 662 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 1: Here the best advice I got when I was getting married, 663 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 1: Samian Bernard shout out to her. Um. She said to me, 664 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 1: let it be okay for your husband to say no, right, 665 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 1: And that really hit me that because you know what, 666 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 1: whatever whatever that it should be because the ideas that, well, 667 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: if you love me, you will do blame and if 668 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 1: you don't, then there's an absence of love, and that's 669 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 1: that's unfair. I think sometimes that we put on people. 670 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: I had a hard time with it. We're saying I 671 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 1: had a hard time with saying he did. I'm trying 672 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: to think of a reason why I would say no 673 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 1: to my wife. Exactly. I don't even married. I've been 674 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 1: on my wife for twenty one years, been married for 675 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 1: five okay, so um, for me, it was it would 676 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: be things that would just be something I couldn't do 677 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: or outside of what I what I needed to do 678 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 1: at the moment, or or outside of outside of the 679 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: things that we needed to do even as a couple. 680 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 1: But I would try, I would, you know, in the 681 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: beginning of our relationship, I would always say yes, yes, yes, yes, 682 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: yes yes, And then but then, but then resentment builds 683 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: up because you don't feel like you know, maybe that 684 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: it's really on me. I often think that men aren't 685 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: given the space to know what they want and to 686 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 1: ask for it. I know we've struggle with that. Like 687 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 1: I'm very clear on what I want, and I'll say, honey, 688 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 1: I need this, this and this, Like, do you feel 689 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,960 Speaker 1: like it's okay to say I need this and that 690 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 1: you and that need will be mad. Yes. I'm a 691 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,959 Speaker 1: very expressive person, so you know, I have no problem 692 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: saying exactly how I feel. And I think going to 693 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 1: therapy the past few years is definitely let me be 694 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: able to convey my feelings a whole lot better. So 695 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: I think the biggest arguments me and my wife have 696 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: nowadays are about the kids, and I would even call 697 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:20,759 Speaker 1: them arguments, they're just healthy debates. Now. When I have 698 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 1: discussions with my friends, one of the main things that 699 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 1: comes up is sex and not having enough sex in 700 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,879 Speaker 1: their relationships. And I've heard people say, listen, I've been 701 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 1: with you know, we've been together. We haven't had sex 702 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,320 Speaker 1: in two months. We haven't had sex in this amount 703 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 1: of time. I don't know what's going on in this relationship, 704 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: So what makes you want to run towards that? Right? 705 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 1: But I've heard people say that a lot, like as 706 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 1: they get into especially in marriage, like he sleeps on 707 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 1: the couch, or he's sleeping in the basement and watching TV. 708 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: He's watching porn. I called him doing that. That's a 709 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: miserable friends, and you know, and I get a lot 710 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 1: of ask you questions about it, And I think this 711 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,600 Speaker 1: is a really common problem that people have where they're 712 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,759 Speaker 1: sex drives don't align and don't know why is he 713 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 1: cheating on me? Is he not interested in me anymore? 714 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,319 Speaker 1: Is he not attracted to me? So? Is that something 715 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 1: that's ever been that's not it can never be the woman? 716 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,759 Speaker 1: You know, it happens both ways, because I've definitely had 717 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: guys say and then I think what happens is you 718 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: don't even want to initiate it because you get turned down. 719 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,880 Speaker 1: So then now I don't even feel like doing it anymore, 720 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 1: and then y'all both end up not having You have 721 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 1: to create a culture of closeness and you have to 722 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:29,800 Speaker 1: really really consciously do that, like for your for your marriage, 723 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: like that has to be almost like an appointment. And 724 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: so I go back to for us. We have a 725 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 1: scheduled time that we do that schul schedule for me spontaneous, okay, soutaneous, 726 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,800 Speaker 1: you missed a few. The penetration for me starts mentally 727 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,879 Speaker 1: and emotionally, so we can get that cracking at any point. 728 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 1: And I'm just saying we make a conscious point to 729 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:15,399 Speaker 1: do that. Some guys, when they have sex, they don't 730 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,879 Speaker 1: even care about all that. They just least most women exactly. Yeah, 731 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 1: but men too, I mean I mean married men. I 732 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,879 Speaker 1: think I'm assuming you got married because you want something 733 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 1: beyond just the physical flash for indication right time, not always. 734 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: I said this yesterday. I feel like the best sex 735 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 1: I've ever had is definitely what my wife, and it 736 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: is because of the emotional, spiritual connection. I don't even 737 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: remember those physical the physical altercations. I have a woman, 738 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, No, I don't mean 739 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,760 Speaker 1: like outside your marriage, but I do mean within the marriage, 740 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: within the person that you're Yeah, sometimes you just want 741 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,359 Speaker 1: some times you just want to go at You don't 742 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 1: have to because the emotions are already there. It's always 743 00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: going to be there. Yeah. Yeah. Would you say the 744 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: best sex you've ever had has been with somebody you 745 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: did love. Yeah. Wait, I was over here, like, Okay, 746 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 1: the best sex you ever had has been with somebody 747 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:10,879 Speaker 1: you're in love with? Or can you have great sex 748 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 1: with somebody you're not in love with? Oh? I have 749 00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,520 Speaker 1: a different type of great sex. There's this varying degrees 750 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 1: of great text I think, Yeah, yeah, you know, I 751 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:24,400 Speaker 1: keep really, um, you know what I love Like, you 752 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 1: know what's crazy is that I've been you know, I 753 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 1: have a family member that has not been in the 754 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 1: best health or whatever. So I've been like really like 755 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 1: that's been on my soul and then also to just 756 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 1: work and stuff. So I've been just about Jill, right, 757 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 1: But like about three weeks ago, I was just like, 758 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 1: I think I'm ready for my person again. So I'm like, 759 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: you know, not that I'm actively looking, but I'm you know, 760 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:52,799 Speaker 1: I'm baby now I'm your persons please. But um, I'm 761 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 1: a person who just likes my person, Like I just 762 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 1: want the one person right when of the time. Yeah, 763 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,280 Speaker 1: So I would answer that to say, like, yeah, probably 764 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 1: the best sex that I've ever had is because I 765 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,920 Speaker 1: love them. Yeah. It marriages that times a hundred yes 766 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,080 Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, that's what marriage, That's what it is. 767 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: When you're making love your wife feel like I'm making 768 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 1: a little my wife like a different feeling. Has cheating 769 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: ever helped a marriage? I think it can, which kind 770 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:23,919 Speaker 1: is like friends that they were better after. Yeah, because 771 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: what happens is space opens up where you start getting 772 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,879 Speaker 1: authentic and honest about what you need and what you feel. 773 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,319 Speaker 1: And that goes back to what I was just saying 774 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 1: in the demanding that you don't give ourselves permissions often 775 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 1: for the first first time ever, because that's what makes 776 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: it so real and juicy, is when you can just 777 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 1: show up fully as who you are, so give me 778 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 1: all of you, the good, bad, and the ugly. Yeah. 779 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,839 Speaker 1: And I'm not condoning that you should cheat and stay. 780 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: I'm not condoning you know, domestic vines or anything like that. 781 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: But I am creating a space where we could be 782 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 1: fully who we are. That to me is power and love, 783 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 1: social second chances to be allowed or sometimes third four 784 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 1: fifty sans. I mean it depends situation, but yes, sure, 785 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 1: and nopened up by it if you're which is what 786 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,239 Speaker 1: the in the monogamy in our TV show Some Pipes, 787 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 1: that's it opens opens people. Because but if it doesn't, 788 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,800 Speaker 1: if if it's just if that is an absolute deal breaker, 789 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 1: and I think it's the deception and the betrayal that 790 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:21,439 Speaker 1: comes along with Yeah, but that is so hurtful, it's embarrassing. Though. 791 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:23,960 Speaker 1: Sometimes I would think that the cheating is easier than 792 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 1: having that conversation. Yeah, sometimes the cheating allows you to 793 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,919 Speaker 1: have the conversation. It does. That's what we're talking about. 794 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 1: Do you think do you think that when people cheat, 795 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,280 Speaker 1: or maybe some people cheat, that is that a cry 796 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:41,040 Speaker 1: for help in the relationship that they're in or is 797 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 1: that just just their being guys or girls just wanted 798 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 1: to do I think it means, I usually think is 799 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 1: for ego. You know what I'm saying, Like, we have 800 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 1: wounded egos, we have fragile egos. You know, we're trying 801 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 1: to fill off. We're trying to we're trying to fill 802 00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 1: our cups with something that's just not going to e 803 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: feel because the cup got a hole in the bottom. 804 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 1: So I tell you fix that wounded ego, then you're 805 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,359 Speaker 1: gonna do things like want to cheat. Do you feel 806 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 1: like your marriage has helped you feel that? Move? Absolutely, 807 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: when you're being when you're when you have a good 808 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 1: marriage and you're being the good husband. And what's a 809 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:15,799 Speaker 1: good marriage and a good husband? I mean me doing 810 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to be doing. Like I was a dog. 811 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:18,960 Speaker 1: I was out there running the speech. You know what 812 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Everything now was moving. So when you stop 813 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 1: doing that and you start really committing to your wife 814 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 1: and committing to your kids, there's nothing more fulfilling. Like 815 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 1: that's when you have a beautiful legal instead of a 816 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,920 Speaker 1: wounded eg Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wonder what is that? 817 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,879 Speaker 1: What makes you get to the point where you're saying, 818 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to commit to this woman? Men, what's the 819 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 1: answer to that one? Is that growth? It's just like 820 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: living life and like learning, like because I'm definitely not 821 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,800 Speaker 1: who I was in my twenties, Like you know, you 822 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,239 Speaker 1: couldn't pay me to go back there. Yeah, I hear you, 823 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: And I think five and January fourth, Yeah, I know 824 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 1: it's growth, And I think it's just just realizing, like, yo, 825 00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,279 Speaker 1: this is the closest person to you, this is the 826 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:01,879 Speaker 1: person that you go to. People get to that point 827 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,800 Speaker 1: the point I started feeling when you knew this was 828 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 1: the person, I started feeling like a sucker. I started 829 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 1: feeling disloyal, I started feeling like a liar, you know 830 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 1: what I mean, And like that's not things that I 831 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 1: can do. I can't live with those kind of feelings, 832 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. How I'm more loyal to 833 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,680 Speaker 1: my homies, but I am my woman, you know what 834 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,399 Speaker 1: I mean, like just my best friend, right, how I'm 835 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:20,880 Speaker 1: more loyal than them and won't lie to them and 836 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 1: keep one hundred with them, but doing that to her, Like, man, 837 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 1: that's not a good feeling for me. All right? We 838 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,120 Speaker 1: got more with the creatives of Monogamy and Jill Marie 839 00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 1: Jones who don't move as the Breakfast Loure more than 840 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 1: everybody is DJ Envy and Ngula Yee, Charlomagne the guy 841 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:38,240 Speaker 1: we all the breakfast Club. We have Jill Marie Jones 842 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 1: and the creators of Monogamy. Here is it also a 843 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,319 Speaker 1: feeling that I might lose what I have too? Because 844 00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: I think sometimes guys get to the point where they're like, damn, 845 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: she might really leave? This time? Was right looking fine? 846 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 1: Had for me? How did I get to the point 847 00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:00,480 Speaker 1: where Charlotte is talking about right? Um? For me and you, 848 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,800 Speaker 1: it was about it was about the support. It was 849 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,759 Speaker 1: aout the support that I got from you. It was 850 00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: about that you felt me, and you were me, and 851 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: you were inside me, and you were everything that I had. 852 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: Damn it, let me write this that next time I 853 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 1: get asked that question. That's what happened. I mean me too. 854 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 1: I kissed him on our first date. I just I 855 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,920 Speaker 1: just went in he was talking, and I just I 856 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: knew you. In lines like that, I can see why, 857 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,040 Speaker 1: you know what? Else? For me, she was my wife 858 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,399 Speaker 1: and my father. Like watching my father and my mother 859 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 1: get a divorce and how he got it. They got 860 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,720 Speaker 1: divorced because he was cheating, and watching how that ruined 861 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,319 Speaker 1: my family. I didn't want to do that to my family, right, 862 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:46,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You think you do have 863 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:50,399 Speaker 1: to if your partner has some type of sexual as 864 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: you call it, devancy, Right, do you think you should 865 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 1: make the effort to try even if you're it's not 866 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,839 Speaker 1: something you're you've ever really considered or been into, if 867 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 1: it isn't hard for you, know I mean if, I mean, 868 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: it depends it depends on how long it's your partner. 869 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 1: So I mean, in some ways you got to support 870 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,040 Speaker 1: your partner, right, as long as it's nothing harmful to you, 871 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,839 Speaker 1: but maybe something you never envisioned yourself trying. I mean, 872 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,359 Speaker 1: I definitely think I suggest that you explore with your partner. 873 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,879 Speaker 1: That's the point of marriage, like really going to other 874 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,840 Speaker 1: dimensions sexually. If I don't think Maggie should explore that 875 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:27,720 Speaker 1: with Carson, I mean she couldn't buy it. He Hie's husband. 876 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 1: Well what is it you? I'm not going forward? You say, 877 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:41,960 Speaker 1: But he's still right though. Whether it's sadism, sadism, yeah, 878 00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm stupid. Is that sadism is when you inflict you 879 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 1: get pleasure, pain, pain, pleasure from right and to the 880 00:43:56,080 --> 00:44:01,160 Speaker 1: point where it's to the pinks detrimental, it's danger. You got? 881 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 1: You all men a slight say this story right? Probably? 882 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 1: So you got do you take it a little to 883 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 1: the extreme, like I said, my character can no longer 884 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:19,279 Speaker 1: have children? Extra extreme? Yeah? But the question why are 885 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: you flinching? Like these are real sex scenes you're doing. 886 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: You're just saying I was like, Maggie would like do that? 887 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:31,480 Speaker 1: Where would Maggie go? So Maggie likes a little choking, 888 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: but she don't want to Maggie doesn't know a light choke. 889 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: Let's just say I'm just so happy this season too, 890 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 1: because I feel like Maggie finally has her voice. She 891 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:43,960 Speaker 1: has a lot of hurt on her on her name 892 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,960 Speaker 1: because she made sweet sweet love to her husband before 893 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 1: the experiment, and then she caught a connection and the 894 00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 1: experiment and she's pregnant and she doesn't know who the 895 00:44:55,280 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: baby daddy is. Right, that's Maggie, right, connect not now 896 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:05,360 Speaker 1: one we having to really explain that yet. Right, I 897 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:07,480 Speaker 1: need to start watching monogamy. But even more I think 898 00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,840 Speaker 1: that y'all need to do a monogamy after show. What 899 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:15,360 Speaker 1: y'all do? I'm serious, show a little ya do an 900 00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 1: after show like open it up to other couples and 901 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 1: relationships and the conversations that just to starting now with 902 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 1: my wife. We don't do that, but we do at 903 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,880 Speaker 1: this corner. This is the Capitalcorns. We're not married, just 904 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 1: the married charm over there having a life. I like dating. 905 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if I feel like marriage is the 906 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 1: be all end all, but I could be with somebody 907 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 1: yeah forever and not get married. Happens, right. I can 908 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 1: say that there was definitely a transition from making love 909 00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,799 Speaker 1: as you know boyfriend girlfriends who husband and wife? Yes, 910 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:54,400 Speaker 1: indeed very different. It was just yeah, somebody told me 911 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 1: when I'm gonna say because it was a famous but 912 00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,400 Speaker 1: they were like, don't get married to ruin your whole relationship. 913 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:03,920 Speaker 1: You can't stop talking a miserable I mean it, I 914 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,759 Speaker 1: mean it really. Yeah, but it's also the most life affirming, 915 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 1: life giving. It's the thing. If it's the right person, 916 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,839 Speaker 1: it's the right person to look at. And I think 917 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:14,520 Speaker 1: a lot of relationships look at what they don't have 918 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 1: anymore as supposed to what they have. Now, yeah, they 919 00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 1: don't have any more. It's supposed to what they don't. Yeah, 920 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,440 Speaker 1: Like relationships free you, they should, they should free you, 921 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 1: should be a mirror for you to grow into your 922 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 1: most expanded self. It shouldn't be constrictive and you focus 923 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,799 Speaker 1: on what you're getting. But we do spend too much 924 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,399 Speaker 1: on what we don't get. Yeah, I think we're saying 925 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 1: the same thing that you just said, like like I 926 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,800 Speaker 1: come with a lot, and and you should in the 927 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 1: most beautiful way. So add to that, so like if 928 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,439 Speaker 1: he's worth it, right, I'm down. And also I also 929 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,359 Speaker 1: think you get miserable when people don't learn how to fight. 930 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,200 Speaker 1: You have to learn how to fight, well, don't you 931 00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 1: think so? In a marriage, like you have to or 932 00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 1: any relationship. Yeah, you know you're gonna get as arguments. 933 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 1: You have to be productive and that yeah healthy. Yeah, 934 00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 1: like sometimes you know, are arguments had not been helped 935 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,080 Speaker 1: They weren't. Yeah, so we had to really work on that. 936 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 1: I think you forget that that's your friend. Yeah, you 937 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, you think you guys are 938 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:12,000 Speaker 1: on the same team. Yes, but we are that same thing. 939 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 1: If it's worth it, and I feel like I decide 940 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 1: to do it, let's do it. But if I decide 941 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 1: not to do that's okay too. Yeah, you can be 942 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,840 Speaker 1: happy with without the institution of marriage, you know what 943 00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,200 Speaker 1: I mean. I think you know if you're happy within yourself. 944 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:29,040 Speaker 1: Monogamy Season twos out now. You watch it on you 945 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:32,360 Speaker 1: MC dot tv, dowload the app, or go through Amazon 946 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 1: Prime just so ya know. You can get a free 947 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 1: seven day trial. Yeah that's so true. It'll bring up 948 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 1: some great conversation between you and your booth. So I 949 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 1: love like watching it with friends of mine that are coming. 950 00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,279 Speaker 1: Debates will happen because I literally i'm watching it. I'm 951 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:52,440 Speaker 1: like this because it sparks conversations. All too need to 952 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 1: host the after show. I agree, we're gonna do that. 953 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,840 Speaker 1: Your wife are coming from your words. Craig Ross Junior, 954 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: Karen Walter Ross, Jill, Marie Jones. Yea, thank you for coming. 955 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club having us. Thank you. I was 956 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:11,399 Speaker 1: going to donkey. This is a Donkey of the Decker 957 00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 1: Devil Breakfast Club. Yeah, don't hear the Dave goes to 958 00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,640 Speaker 1: a New jerseyman named Richard Decker. Let's call him Dick. 959 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 1: You know, Dicky short for Richard, so we'll call him 960 00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,840 Speaker 1: Dick Decker. Now we really need to see if Dick's 961 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 1: origin starting Florida, because man, on the scale of one 962 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,520 Speaker 1: to Florida, the level of stupidity and this man's story 963 00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,880 Speaker 1: is absolutely pohokey. I've never been to po Hookey in Florida, 964 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 1: but it's ranked the worst place in Florida, so I'm 965 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,120 Speaker 1: just assuming it has to be pretty bad. And when 966 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 1: I hear what Dick Decker was arrested for, I have 967 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 1: to think to myself, wt F, what the Florida? All right, 968 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry Florida, but you all have reached the level 969 00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: of crazy that when we hear certain stories, we say 970 00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,640 Speaker 1: to ourselves, oh, he must be from Florida. When I 971 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,320 Speaker 1: told the story to the room this morning. It was like, 972 00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 1: what had happened Florida. No, Dick Deckie is not from Florida, 973 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:10,279 Speaker 1: He's from New Jersey, but he's just pulled a Florida move. Now, unfortunately, 974 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 1: there's no news report for this story yet, and I'm 975 00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,720 Speaker 1: highly disappointed because I love when it's news reports about 976 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,280 Speaker 1: nutass news like this scene. According to the New Jersey Herald, 977 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 1: Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, wanted to have sex, 978 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,840 Speaker 1: and I guess there was some fine things on a 979 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,879 Speaker 1: farm in Jersey that caught his eye. Oh. Yes, parts 980 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,080 Speaker 1: of Jersey definitely have farmland. In Sussex County is one 981 00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,680 Speaker 1: of those places. People work on these farms, they live 982 00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 1: on these farms, and Dick Decker was in the need 983 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 1: of some sexual healing. So what Richards started doing, Okay, 984 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 1: what Dick started doing is sending messages to farms and 985 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:50,279 Speaker 1: horse stables in Sussex County asking if he could have sex. Now, 986 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,760 Speaker 1: I know y'all think that sounds creepy, and you should, 987 00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,920 Speaker 1: because it is a random person calling you just asking 988 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:59,040 Speaker 1: for sex. But look, it gets worse because see the 989 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 1: people Decker was calling or animal caregivers. And when he 990 00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 1: was asking to have sex, he wasn't asking to have 991 00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,800 Speaker 1: sex with the animal caregivers. He was asking if he 992 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,359 Speaker 1: could have sex with their horses and cows. They can't 993 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 1: make this kind of stuff up. I'm reading this in 994 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,960 Speaker 1: the New York Post right now. Dick Decker, thirty one 995 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,080 Speaker 1: years old, began sending the messages to Sussex County farms 996 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,840 Speaker 1: and horse They was in twenty eighteen asking the animal 997 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,760 Speaker 1: caregivers if he could have sex with their cows and horses. Question, 998 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,600 Speaker 1: do you think Dick Decker is a vegan? Okay, I'm 999 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 1: thinking of sexy vegan from last week. He was a 1000 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 1: vegan who was sleeping with his dog. But people don't 1001 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 1: eat dogs in America, so that don't count. But if 1002 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 1: you were vegan having sex with cows and horses, something's 1003 00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:44,040 Speaker 1: not adding up all right now. Dick Decker didn't take 1004 00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:48,440 Speaker 1: the rejection kindly. He called these animal caregivers and asked 1005 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 1: for consent to sleep with their cows and horses. He 1006 00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,840 Speaker 1: was rejected by the farmers. So what did Dick Decker do? 1007 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:58,400 Speaker 1: Dick Decker sent threats back and placed homemade metal spikes 1008 00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: on their driveways. To damage their cars. In one case, 1009 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:03,960 Speaker 1: he threatened to beat a farmer's wife with a wooden 1010 00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: stick when denied permission to fornicate with their horses and cows, 1011 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 1: and several of the property owners reported their tires have 1012 00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,719 Speaker 1: been damaged by spikes. And when he was arrested and 1013 00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,200 Speaker 1: police searched his home and he found a homemade twenty 1014 00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:21,760 Speaker 1: two caliber gun, arrows would explosives attached metal spikes similar 1015 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,440 Speaker 1: to those used at the farms and posters of the 1016 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 1: Chick fil a Cow. I'm not making this stuff up people. 1017 00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,400 Speaker 1: You know what, It's time to play a game of 1018 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:40,920 Speaker 1: gus What Rice today now? Richard Dick Decker for thirty 1019 00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 1: one years old, Sussex County, New Jersey called farms and 1020 00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:46,920 Speaker 1: after animal caregivers if he could have sex with their 1021 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,320 Speaker 1: cows and horses, and when he was rejected, resorted to violence. 1022 00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:57,480 Speaker 1: Just what Rice today? Angelie, I will definitely without a hesitation, 1023 00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:02,480 Speaker 1: say he is Oldtown road white. No, actually, old time 1024 00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,560 Speaker 1: rod would be black door right? Well not the remix? No, yes, 1025 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 1: you gotta sit the remix dj V. Richard Dick Decker, 1026 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 1: thirty one years old, Sussex HNY, New Jersey called farms 1027 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,120 Speaker 1: and asked the animal care givers if he could have 1028 00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,440 Speaker 1: sex with take cows and horses. When he was rejected, 1029 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:21,840 Speaker 1: he resorted the violence, Johns, what rights? This one's a 1030 00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: tough one. Okay, that's what's a tough one. I take 1031 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:30,000 Speaker 1: you try to throw me off? Come on, I got 1032 00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:34,200 Speaker 1: him away. I gotta away. I gotta go white. You 1033 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 1: know you know I'm ask Stephen Stephens, the white man 1034 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 1: in the room. Stephen Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, Sussex, 1035 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,719 Speaker 1: called farms and after animal care gives if you could 1036 00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,960 Speaker 1: have sex with day cows and horses. When he was denied, 1037 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,360 Speaker 1: he resorted the violence. Guess what right today? Stephen the 1038 00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 1: white damon? He was white, but we don't claim him. 1039 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,279 Speaker 1: We gave him up in the racial draft of two 1040 00:52:55,320 --> 00:53:01,479 Speaker 1: thousand and nine. Okay, right, this is christ I would 1041 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:04,120 Speaker 1: like Stephen the white Demon, dj MP and Angelie to 1042 00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 1: know that they're all correct. Richard Dick Decker is Caucasian. 1043 00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,240 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. The male ego is fragile 1044 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 1: as it is, but the white male ego, who the 1045 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:19,200 Speaker 1: white male ego is fragile is eggs. That's probably why 1046 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,680 Speaker 1: eggs are white. Because white men have sex with chickens, 1047 00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:23,759 Speaker 1: all right, and then they have the white eggs, all right. 1048 00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,000 Speaker 1: The entitlement and the privilege that comes with being a 1049 00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,600 Speaker 1: white male when you don't get your weight, even if 1050 00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,399 Speaker 1: it's because someone told, you know, Dick, you can't put 1051 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,960 Speaker 1: your Richard and my horses and cows. The level of 1052 00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,560 Speaker 1: entitlement one must have to think that they are wrong 1053 00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 1: for this, and for you to resort to violence. The 1054 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,160 Speaker 1: story really made me think of vanilla icens. You know, 1055 00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,560 Speaker 1: vanilla licenses, those white male domestic terrorists who shoot things 1056 00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,040 Speaker 1: up because they haven't dealt with their trauma properly, so 1057 00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:49,279 Speaker 1: they just redistribute that pain to other people. Don't raise 1058 00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,840 Speaker 1: your hand, Stephen, you're scaring me, all right. The rejection, 1059 00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,759 Speaker 1: the rejection that white men feel from not getting laid 1060 00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:58,040 Speaker 1: usually results in violence. Stephen. Put you don't raise your hand. 1061 00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,839 Speaker 1: You raise your hands twice? Okay, this is y other 1062 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 1: than other reason why Stephen, the white demon our cameraman 1063 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,600 Speaker 1: scared the hell out of me? All right? Please let 1064 00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:08,759 Speaker 1: Kathy Griffin give Richard Dick Decker the biggest Hea Hall. 1065 00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 1: Please give this giant jar of male the biggest he 1066 00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:19,560 Speaker 1: haw Dick Decker. Hello, my name is Dick, and I 1067 00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:22,200 Speaker 1: would like to have sexual relations with your horse and 1068 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:26,359 Speaker 1: your cow. Are they're available around seven thirty tonight too. 1069 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,160 Speaker 1: Definitely sound like our camera guy has done that before. 1070 00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,880 Speaker 1: But anyway, thank you for that dog kay Today. Now 1071 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,560 Speaker 1: this guy Dick Decker in his room with a big 1072 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,000 Speaker 1: bottle of Jergon's Chick fil A posts on the wall 1073 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 1: getting off to the Chick fil a cow. Can you 1074 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,279 Speaker 1: imagine what is wrong with the world? What rong when 1075 00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:47,200 Speaker 1: you were thinking of that man watching old Runs and 1076 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,200 Speaker 1: mister Edge just whacking watching the Kentucky Derby just going 1077 00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:58,920 Speaker 1: at it. Oh my goodness. All right, keep it lock. 1078 00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,040 Speaker 1: We have more coming up now. It's the Breakfast Club, 1079 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:07,960 Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club. It's DJ m vy Angela Yee, Charlomagne 1080 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got some 1081 00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 1: special guests in the building, Carlie Red and Chad braver Man. 1082 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,960 Speaker 1: Welcome guys. Hey, trying to figure out what these bondage 1083 00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,520 Speaker 1: cuss is crazy because they plastic, you can pop y 1084 00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:26,800 Speaker 1: silicone actually silicone all right for people getting into it 1085 00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,000 Speaker 1: because you can get them off on your own, don't 1086 00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,080 Speaker 1: get Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. We played with 1087 00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:33,319 Speaker 1: a lot of lip service, a lot of toys from 1088 00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:35,520 Speaker 1: Doc Johnson on lip service. Just fy. A lot of 1089 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:37,919 Speaker 1: people walked away from that show happy for sure. For sure, 1090 00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:42,319 Speaker 1: Young Ami got herself some new toys up there as well. Yes, 1091 00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 1: with with you, I'm seeing there's no keys. He's testing 1092 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:56,239 Speaker 1: out the product, the handcuffs scale. You know what I'm saying, 1093 00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,120 Speaker 1: Cause you gotta really trust the parson. You can slide 1094 00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,799 Speaker 1: on for so you can like slide them off, get 1095 00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,400 Speaker 1: them off easy if you need to, so you're not 1096 00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:05,600 Speaker 1: relying on someone else. I thought you should probably be 1097 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:07,880 Speaker 1: sleeping with someone you don't trust. I know what that was? 1098 00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:12,719 Speaker 1: All these toys? Some people do it every day, right, Yeah, 1099 00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,640 Speaker 1: you're right. Why you got all these toys with you today? 1100 00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,360 Speaker 1: What's going on? Well, as you guys know, I did 1101 00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 1: a deal with Johnny Johnson and I'm happy. And um, 1102 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,520 Speaker 1: where does that go? Charlie? The tryst TST TST? What 1103 00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,680 Speaker 1: is this? It's pleasurable for a guy and a woman. 1104 00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:34,920 Speaker 1: The two things right here scimulates the couturius and this 1105 00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,399 Speaker 1: right here you can put the penis through right there 1106 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,120 Speaker 1: so or you can just have the girl use it. 1107 00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 1: It's different, and you didn't have any kind of trust 1108 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:46,680 Speaker 1: you want. Yeah, but the stimulation is through every you 1109 00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 1: have your own toys. No, explain what the carly redline 1110 00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,640 Speaker 1: is from that. I don't know if he knows. But 1111 00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:55,919 Speaker 1: I got the mold done. Yeah, I got the mold done. 1112 00:56:56,000 --> 00:57:01,200 Speaker 1: So your vagina of my vagina and my ass your vagina. No, 1113 00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 1: I know, you just gonna say that, is it weird 1114 00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,080 Speaker 1: to you that people are having sex with you? Well, 1115 00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:13,759 Speaker 1: actually they're not having sex with my insides. But yeah, 1116 00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:18,440 Speaker 1: it's imaginable, but it's exted. It's just very very similar. 1117 00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:21,400 Speaker 1: It's almost just like me. Yeah, I mean, you know, yeah, 1118 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,280 Speaker 1: it's part of the fantasy, you know. So I mean, 1119 00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:25,400 Speaker 1: like I think that, like what she did is cool 1120 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:28,120 Speaker 1: because she's like definitely one of the most mainstream people 1121 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 1: to ever do a product like this. So, I mean, 1122 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 1: you know, it's we talked about it, like it's uh, 1123 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:34,960 Speaker 1: it's part of the fantasy that someone can like bring home. 1124 00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:36,840 Speaker 1: So if they see carly Red, they know carly Red. 1125 00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:39,120 Speaker 1: But now this is like just an extra, an extra 1126 00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 1: part of it. How did you How did it feel 1127 00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:43,200 Speaker 1: to you, Carly Like did you test yourself and then 1128 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:46,400 Speaker 1: test the product to make sure it felt similar. No, 1129 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:49,479 Speaker 1: I literally I literally got the mode and I haven't 1130 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 1: tested it the inside of it yet, but um, it 1131 00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 1: should be outwood in the next like the next couple 1132 00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:58,320 Speaker 1: of months, next couple of months. Call me stupid motiv vagina. 1133 00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:00,960 Speaker 1: So I went to the Doc Johnson in offices and 1134 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,640 Speaker 1: basically they put a mold on me, like, um, like clay. 1135 00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 1: Kind of yeah, it's kind of like almost like a wet, 1136 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,760 Speaker 1: silly putty put out. No, it doesn't go inside, it 1137 00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:12,200 Speaker 1: just goes outside. Because that beauty of vagina. I don't 1138 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:16,240 Speaker 1: know if y'all know, but the beauty of vagina the inside, inside, inside, 1139 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,400 Speaker 1: that's true. Actually some people would disagree. The beauty and 1140 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,600 Speaker 1: the uniqueness is sometimes on the outside as well. I mean, actually, 1141 00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:24,920 Speaker 1: we make the inside I think even better because we 1142 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:26,520 Speaker 1: can texturize it and we can do a whole bunch 1143 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 1: of different stuff on the inside. So it's not the 1144 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:31,240 Speaker 1: inside of a vagina that you okay, No, it's the outside. 1145 00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,040 Speaker 1: It's the look you know of the vagina that is 1146 00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,120 Speaker 1: that is perfectly cast it off of carly. But the 1147 00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,040 Speaker 1: inside is like textured and different things that we do 1148 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:40,640 Speaker 1: like that when you're holding right, there as a certain 1149 00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,000 Speaker 1: texture on the inside that's going to be different from 1150 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:44,680 Speaker 1: like Carly's or some of the other ones that we 1151 00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:48,160 Speaker 1: do is just based off of that's that's actually not 1152 00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:57,280 Speaker 1: a vagina, that's just a hole vagina shaped person for 1153 00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:59,880 Speaker 1: certain customers that just kind of want to use the 1154 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,400 Speaker 1: product for other purposes but not necessarily a little like 1155 00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,959 Speaker 1: stimulate sex with a vagina. But you all vaginas feel 1156 00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:09,280 Speaker 1: different to you, Like just say you had your eyes closed, 1157 00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:13,080 Speaker 1: could you tell you know your wife's vagina as opposed 1158 00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,120 Speaker 1: to somebody else's. Do our all vagina is different? That 1159 00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:17,840 Speaker 1: is such a good question we should ask them in 1160 00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 1: that contract contractedly obligator to say yes to that. I 1161 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 1: think my wife's vagina, but I didn't know. I mean, 1162 00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:28,000 Speaker 1: there's definitely different feels, you know, and there's definitely different looks. 1163 00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:31,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, I feel like, you know, tight vaginas. 1164 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 1: I don't think you got a loose vagina. Drive vagina, 1165 00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:41,240 Speaker 1: drive vagina. I think when you're emotionally connected to a person, 1166 00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:44,080 Speaker 1: that's spiritually connected to a person, spiritually connects to a person, 1167 00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:47,000 Speaker 1: that makes the vagina that much better. Because I don't 1168 00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:49,640 Speaker 1: even honestly remember any other woman I've had sex with 1169 00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 1: or how it felt. And I'm just being I'm being honest, 1170 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,240 Speaker 1: like just with sex with my wife, you know that feeling. 1171 00:59:55,320 --> 01:00:00,040 Speaker 1: I don't remember anything with other woman. Carli answer, what 1172 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 1: kind of toys do you use? I use? Um if 1173 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:07,440 Speaker 1: you had to recommend something for all the women listening. Okay, 1174 01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:14,040 Speaker 1: So what do you just do? I love the Okay, 1175 01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:21,160 Speaker 1: you know, so what does that? What does that do? Yeah, 1176 01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 1: it's the room. It acts like a numbing and it 1177 01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:29,080 Speaker 1: um you know, it's great for the gag reflects. So 1178 01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:32,240 Speaker 1: just you know, you could take it all the way down. Okay. 1179 01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:35,720 Speaker 1: And then I love the trist Okay. So this is 1180 01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:38,040 Speaker 1: basically a bag that you kind of put together of 1181 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:41,200 Speaker 1: things that are your favorite toys from Doc Johnson. Okay, 1182 01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,680 Speaker 1: and what Chad put together? Wait? What is this though? 1183 01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:46,880 Speaker 1: Why do you have? The two sided? Publican is my 1184 01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:51,680 Speaker 1: favorite too? What is the two sided? What's this? That's 1185 01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 1: the main tweeze? I think right? Yes? Or have someone 1186 01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 1: help you with it? Right? You know you can use 1187 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,080 Speaker 1: it with a partner as well. Can test that later 1188 01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:03,240 Speaker 1: because of the texture in it, and also you can 1189 01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,320 Speaker 1: that has like a pressure gauge on it, so you 1190 01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 1: can kind of like squeeze it when you're using it 1191 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 1: as well, saying is blues. You can pretend you're getting 1192 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:17,240 Speaker 1: tough by avatar facts. That's future can be about pre 1193 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,440 Speaker 1: order Carly Red's mold. Yeah, you can go on to 1194 01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:22,680 Speaker 1: doc Johnson dot com and you can go on to 1195 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:24,520 Speaker 1: Carly's product and you can and you can put your name. 1196 01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:27,439 Speaker 1: Y'all playing though holiday season, this is little. I was thinking, 1197 01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:31,960 Speaker 1: I like sex toys. I don't much. I enjoy them, 1198 01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:36,800 Speaker 1: like me and my wife sex toys. What do you 1199 01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:40,600 Speaker 1: what do you use me? I use just a vibrator, 1200 01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 1: and I like the use vibrator. Though I use it, 1201 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:46,600 Speaker 1: be careful you don't want to hack into it. I 1202 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,520 Speaker 1: love you your wife. What kind of who else would 1203 01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 1: I be using? Man said, I don't know this man. 1204 01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:56,040 Speaker 1: You know, but women do tend to use sex toys 1205 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:58,400 Speaker 1: more than men. Yeah, I would say men get intimidated 1206 01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 1: sometimes by sex toys. And we've discuss that too. In 1207 01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:03,120 Speaker 1: the bedroom. Sometimes guys are a little like, oh, what 1208 01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,360 Speaker 1: you need a toy for? When I'm here? But I'll 1209 01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,400 Speaker 1: see Charlomagne's using the perfect products. Like if a guy 1210 01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 1: were to ask me, I would say, use a vibrator 1211 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,000 Speaker 1: or something small or something that you can bring into 1212 01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:13,520 Speaker 1: bed and not be intimidated by. And then the ring 1213 01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,080 Speaker 1: I think you're talking about like a c ring, right, yes, 1214 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,680 Speaker 1: when you put on the clotars. Yeah, but it goes 1215 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:24,960 Speaker 1: on on you, right, what ring goes on the clutars? 1216 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,320 Speaker 1: What ring? I mean you just sit there, You just 1217 01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:31,240 Speaker 1: let it sit. Are you talking about like a we 1218 01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:32,560 Speaker 1: vibe or something like that. It's kind of like a 1219 01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:35,120 Speaker 1: little clip. Yeah, okay, yeah, so that's a different product. 1220 01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:36,480 Speaker 1: But like a c ring is something that I would 1221 01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:38,160 Speaker 1: tell someone to definitely use as well, because like a 1222 01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:41,600 Speaker 1: guy can wear it. It's not intimidating. It delivers pressure, 1223 01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:44,280 Speaker 1: it delivers pleasure to the guy, but you know, definitely 1224 01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:47,640 Speaker 1: to the girl as well. I saw something, yea, this 1225 01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:50,520 Speaker 1: is that this boom? Yeah, this is a liquid vibrator. 1226 01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:52,960 Speaker 1: It's um you just put it on and it buzzes 1227 01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:55,520 Speaker 1: so without even it's like a cream, but without even 1228 01:02:55,640 --> 01:02:58,760 Speaker 1: using a vibrator really, so it's a cream. You put 1229 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:00,600 Speaker 1: it on the clitars. Yes, if you put some on 1230 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,000 Speaker 1: your lips, you will feel it like it will start 1231 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,840 Speaker 1: to vibrate your lift up your lips. It won't plump 1232 01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 1: up a little bit on. Don't too much. I did 1233 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:15,919 Speaker 1: this a little Yeah, No, it's good. Try it. It'll 1234 01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:22,320 Speaker 1: vibrate your lips. It'll start to vibrate your lips. You'll 1235 01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:26,440 Speaker 1: feel we're gonna start shaking. Don't, don't do too much, 1236 01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:29,360 Speaker 1: but you'll definitely start to feel like the tingling sensation. 1237 01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 1: All right, we have more with Carle read when we 1238 01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 1: come back. Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club the Morning Morning. 1239 01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:38,400 Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We 1240 01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:41,520 Speaker 1: all the Breakfast Club. We have Carly Red and Chad 1241 01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,160 Speaker 1: Braverman here. Now, Carly, we can't not we can't have 1242 01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:45,680 Speaker 1: you up here. And I ask you about loving hip 1243 01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:49,200 Speaker 1: hop and what's happening. So, yeah, I thought you gave that. 1244 01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,920 Speaker 1: I thought you was doing it. Nah, I'm stilling, damn 1245 01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,919 Speaker 1: still Saints Centers when I was fourth season on Saints 1246 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:57,080 Speaker 1: of Ciniers and still I love and hip hop nine 1247 01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:02,520 Speaker 1: years damn nine long nine. Now let's talk about this 1248 01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 1: because you know, last time you were engaged and then 1249 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:09,280 Speaker 1: that didn't happen. So what's your relationship status? Now? I'm 1250 01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:13,160 Speaker 1: by myself, Okay, I'm having a relationship with my toys exactly. 1251 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,480 Speaker 1: How can you be your relationship with all this back? 1252 01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:19,240 Speaker 1: He accused you of cheating though, No, he never accused 1253 01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 1: me of cheating, which I found him cheating, okay, because 1254 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:23,720 Speaker 1: he was saying usually it's a person that accuses you 1255 01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:26,200 Speaker 1: is a person that's doing it. I found him cheating. Um. 1256 01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:31,400 Speaker 1: I Actually the girl sent me a DM of her 1257 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:38,000 Speaker 1: in my bedroom. That's disrespectful. Can't use your toys? No, 1258 01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:40,120 Speaker 1: that's crazy though, man, really having no reason to cheat 1259 01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:42,120 Speaker 1: on you because you can take you with John anyway 1260 01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:45,040 Speaker 1: he wants to exactly, No, but that's the ultimate because 1261 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,240 Speaker 1: you can't do not add No, she sent me a 1262 01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:51,280 Speaker 1: picture of her in my bed naked. Wow, that is 1263 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:53,960 Speaker 1: so disrespectful. So what was your reaction when that happened? 1264 01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:57,880 Speaker 1: What did you do immediately? You'll see it the rest 1265 01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:59,640 Speaker 1: of it, aren't you know? I can't really get into it, 1266 01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:01,160 Speaker 1: you know, Okay. I didn't know if this was gonna 1267 01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:02,720 Speaker 1: play out on the show or this is because this 1268 01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:05,200 Speaker 1: is real life, right, that happened in real life. So 1269 01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,520 Speaker 1: what about his claims about money bag Yell? When people 1270 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:09,560 Speaker 1: were trying to say that you were dating him I 1271 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,200 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't even know, money bag. I was 1272 01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,440 Speaker 1: on Faith m was on Live and you were and 1273 01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:17,040 Speaker 1: I clicked in, like, hey bro, whatever whatever, and it 1274 01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,880 Speaker 1: was that's right. Never seen him a day of my life, 1275 01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 1: never talked to him a day in my life. Nothing, 1276 01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,200 Speaker 1: all right. So let me ask you this, So rules 1277 01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:27,200 Speaker 1: of being in a relationship, right, would you do that? Like, 1278 01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:29,520 Speaker 1: say you're in a relationship, you're engaged. Do you think 1279 01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:32,560 Speaker 1: that maybe I'm not gonna click in on certain people's 1280 01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:35,440 Speaker 1: lives because we're already over with. Okay, so that was 1281 01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,240 Speaker 1: done already, but he was trying to fix it at 1282 01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:40,400 Speaker 1: the time. He was trying to fix it though. But 1283 01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:44,840 Speaker 1: you can't fix being in your bed. Yeah, that's that. 1284 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:49,000 Speaker 1: You can't get another woman pregnant, Like what you can't 1285 01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,760 Speaker 1: you do throughout the whole bed and move out like this. 1286 01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:55,920 Speaker 1: I never I've never been back to our house. We 1287 01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,360 Speaker 1: got the house together. Now here's something we discussed for 1288 01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,240 Speaker 1: Seanta Waynes, and I'm hoping you can help me with this. Chad. 1289 01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:05,920 Speaker 1: She was saying that she uses um dildos and she's like, 1290 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 1: you know, when I have sex with a different person, 1291 01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:10,880 Speaker 1: am I supposed to use a new dildo or do 1292 01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:13,320 Speaker 1: I just rinse that one off and use it on 1293 01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:17,200 Speaker 1: the next person. What's the etiquette there? I mean, I 1294 01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:20,640 Speaker 1: think I would say use a new one, um, But 1295 01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:22,480 Speaker 1: I think honestly, it depends on what the material the 1296 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:24,320 Speaker 1: product is, because like, for instance, if you're buying something 1297 01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:26,640 Speaker 1: that's made out of silicone, it's not a porous material, 1298 01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:28,600 Speaker 1: so you can clean it completely, you can disinfect it, 1299 01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:30,680 Speaker 1: you can it's like brand new every time you do 1300 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:36,320 Speaker 1: clean it. So for me, I would use. Of course, 1301 01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:42,960 Speaker 1: you would say that the company that makes sex to it. 1302 01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:44,800 Speaker 1: So I mean I wanted to buy new ones every time. 1303 01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,560 Speaker 1: Sanitarily you can. If it's why the name Doc Johnson 1304 01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:52,840 Speaker 1: Um company started in nineteen seventy six. Johnson at the time, 1305 01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:57,840 Speaker 1: it's like, was the second most popular surname, right, But 1306 01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,560 Speaker 1: it really wasn't. I mean I don't know. My dad, 1307 01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:02,960 Speaker 1: who started the company says that's not the case, right, 1308 01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,840 Speaker 1: It was just Johnson's a really popular name. And then Doc. 1309 01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:08,320 Speaker 1: These used to be called Merritle aids back on the day, 1310 01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:13,200 Speaker 1: so there's a family business. Oh yeah, wow, car these 1311 01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:15,840 Speaker 1: vagina if they won't call these vagina and the sex 1312 01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,040 Speaker 1: you can go on doc Johnson dot com. Um and 1313 01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:22,520 Speaker 1: uh go right out there, you know, search like Carly 1314 01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:24,960 Speaker 1: Red and uh get right to the product. And then 1315 01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,080 Speaker 1: the true callie got three hundred grand for her vagina 1316 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:34,200 Speaker 1: sex toys. Sex toys is big, I see your holidays got, 1317 01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:38,760 Speaker 1: mister Vicious. And I'm talking about like actual sex dolls? Yeah, right? 1318 01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:40,920 Speaker 1: Is that big now? And is that expensive? It's a 1319 01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,320 Speaker 1: they're expensive. It's a pretty big business. I mean, we 1320 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:45,360 Speaker 1: don't do it. Actually, we do more of like the 1321 01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:47,400 Speaker 1: strokers and the things that we have here. But um, 1322 01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 1: it's getting more and more popular, and they're they're coming 1323 01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:52,840 Speaker 1: down in price. Like before they used to be like 1324 01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:55,280 Speaker 1: five grand right for like a doll. Now you can 1325 01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: get one for like maybe a thousand bucks or something. 1326 01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:01,760 Speaker 1: When you when you throw off in the do where's 1327 01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:02,920 Speaker 1: it go? You got clean it up? Is there like 1328 01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:09,880 Speaker 1: a little pouch? There's an exit route? All right? It's 1329 01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:11,520 Speaker 1: not something you could pull out of it. I would 1330 01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:13,400 Speaker 1: think and clean and then put it back in. I 1331 01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:15,400 Speaker 1: don't know that would make sense. There's basically just like 1332 01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:17,200 Speaker 1: an exit route, so like you can just kind of 1333 01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:18,479 Speaker 1: clean it through there. I mean, I don't know how 1334 01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:19,840 Speaker 1: to be honest with I've never used a doll and 1335 01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:22,320 Speaker 1: I've never we don't make them. With the strokers, I 1336 01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:24,400 Speaker 1: can tell you can literally flip the thing inside out 1337 01:08:24,479 --> 01:08:26,760 Speaker 1: and clean and clean it properly. There's a stroker. Yeah, 1338 01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:29,720 Speaker 1: that's a stroker. Okay, Well, thank you guys for joining us, 1339 01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:32,759 Speaker 1: Thank you for having website one more time. Doc Johnson 1340 01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:39,760 Speaker 1: dot com thought I was gonna get out of here 1341 01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:44,040 Speaker 1: about that. It's an undisclosed amount, I guess at this point. 1342 01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:45,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I can't talk about different contracts. 1343 01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:49,120 Speaker 1: Is it out No, but it's it'll be out like within. 1344 01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:53,479 Speaker 1: I'm just asking because I was thinking, like, right, you 1345 01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:55,519 Speaker 1: could have a line called Vicious, because when you got 1346 01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:57,920 Speaker 1: caught with the guy or whatever and they said it 1347 01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:00,439 Speaker 1: was a nine half due though, you replied back vicious. 1348 01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:02,360 Speaker 1: So I just think that'd be a dope brand for 1349 01:09:02,520 --> 01:09:05,960 Speaker 1: Envy to half like that Vicious. That would be good. Yes, 1350 01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:09,519 Speaker 1: I like that name. It could be like a first 1351 01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:20,120 Speaker 1: name vicious by Rashawn, These guys a vicious. Yes, would 1352 01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:22,000 Speaker 1: you ever mold yourself? No? You should? You know you 1353 01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:24,599 Speaker 1: should get now. Jason Derillo is hot right now? If 1354 01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:26,680 Speaker 1: you saw that some cats I bought off right here, 1355 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:31,479 Speaker 1: You wouldn't mold yourself. Mold myself? Three hundred grand Collie 1356 01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:34,680 Speaker 1: got undisclosed the mouth for Safari. You're a money guy, 1357 01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:40,240 Speaker 1: right right, But thousand dollars pays for the rest of 1358 01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:42,280 Speaker 1: the kids college. You want to get eight hundred, nine 1359 01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:44,519 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars. You think he's worth more than Carly? 1360 01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:48,680 Speaker 1: Get out of here. Question would you mold yourself? I 1361 01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:54,680 Speaker 1: don't have that kind of penis right button? Because wait, wait, 1362 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:56,880 Speaker 1: what kind of penis do you need? I don't have 1363 01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:58,200 Speaker 1: like a big penis. I don't have a peters. I 1364 01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:00,760 Speaker 1: don't think nobody would want to buy yah. So maybe 1365 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,880 Speaker 1: he could do like a big we ever molded somebody 1366 01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:07,080 Speaker 1: pocket racket. He could do the pocket racket more six 1367 01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,880 Speaker 1: inch dildos than we do ten inch. I'm seven inches 1368 01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:13,879 Speaker 1: three fourth eight When just one pocket ever molded somebody's 1369 01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:21,799 Speaker 1: rare end. Yeah, we probably molded over a thousand formers 1370 01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:24,080 Speaker 1: in the industry over who was to get a mold? 1371 01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:25,960 Speaker 1: How long would it take to get back? Because I 1372 01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:30,840 Speaker 1: gotta get via a birthday present? Now, oh, Christmas present. 1373 01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:35,960 Speaker 1: We're back by Christmas next to me number one? If 1374 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,479 Speaker 1: I can get it back before Christmas. In order to 1375 01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:40,479 Speaker 1: give Envia a birthday present, I will get my ass 1376 01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:42,599 Speaker 1: out of the real material. Like you want a working 1377 01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:49,840 Speaker 1: model is joke. I'm not joking. He's rare. And I'll 1378 01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:53,800 Speaker 1: see a Browns as I'm going to you put it 1379 01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:57,479 Speaker 1: on the table and his would be like a gaping hole. 1380 01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:04,120 Speaker 1: Yeah we can do that. Yeah, we appreciate you. Guys. 1381 01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:08,240 Speaker 1: Have no ask for me. Man, That's what I'm saying. 1382 01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:13,040 Speaker 1: I've died. It's carly Red Chadd. We're gonna talk to 1383 01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:24,360 Speaker 1: Chad for Christmas. Better not breakfasting for business. The Breakfast 1384 01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:31,360 Speaker 1: Club the Morning, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, 1385 01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:34,880 Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, 1386 01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:37,160 Speaker 1: if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever 1387 01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:40,320 Speaker 1: caught your parents having sex at or have your kids 1388 01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:42,519 Speaker 1: ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from 1389 01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:44,920 Speaker 1: Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and 1390 01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:49,080 Speaker 1: Waxes played audio have you ever been caught by plenty plenty? 1391 01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:50,760 Speaker 1: I got called plenty of that. I gotta called my 1392 01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:56,240 Speaker 1: mom's grandmom's brothers. So with my friend two o'clock in 1393 01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:57,760 Speaker 1: the morning, I was just saying I was in a 1394 01:11:57,840 --> 01:11:59,880 Speaker 1: room with a door that was in locked. My son 1395 01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:02,439 Speaker 1: comes in because I guess he heard some noise. All 1396 01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:06,160 Speaker 1: I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I'm calling 1397 01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:09,880 Speaker 1: my mom. Good did your friends say? He was like? 1398 01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:11,920 Speaker 1: He was like, you should have yelled at him so 1399 01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:14,719 Speaker 1: he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I was in shock. 1400 01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:17,479 Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five five one oh five. 1401 01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:19,320 Speaker 1: One of my kids have never walked in and caught us, 1402 01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:21,880 Speaker 1: but my daughter has texted us as the guys, I'm 1403 01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:25,240 Speaker 1: still up. Guys, you checked your text during sex. Now 1404 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:27,080 Speaker 1: this was after when we checked in. You can see 1405 01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:28,960 Speaker 1: the text up was like, guys, I'm still up. The 1406 01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:30,960 Speaker 1: next one she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you doing 1407 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:33,200 Speaker 1: the daddy last night? He was making so much noise 1408 01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:36,720 Speaker 1: up it sound like he was in Yeah. Have you 1409 01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:39,960 Speaker 1: ever caught your parent type of sex? I think so. 1410 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:41,920 Speaker 1: I never walked in on them, but I've heard them, 1411 01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:45,320 Speaker 1: and it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house. 1412 01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:47,360 Speaker 1: My room was all the way on the third floor, 1413 01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:50,360 Speaker 1: so I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door 1414 01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:53,160 Speaker 1: was closed and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound 1415 01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:55,120 Speaker 1: like it was fun, though, what conversation did you hear? 1416 01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:57,760 Speaker 1: It sound like they were having sex, but you know 1417 01:12:57,880 --> 01:12:59,439 Speaker 1: how like you're tired and you don't really feel like it. 1418 01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:03,519 Speaker 1: That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No, 1419 01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:07,040 Speaker 1: I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have 1420 01:13:07,080 --> 01:13:08,960 Speaker 1: caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't 1421 01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:11,519 Speaker 1: like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used 1422 01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:14,240 Speaker 1: to have a ranch style house, you know, a monk's corner, 1423 01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:15,560 Speaker 1: and you know, you walk in the door and you 1424 01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:17,479 Speaker 1: peek in and you see them under the covers, and 1425 01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:19,280 Speaker 1: you just back away because you know, you know you're 1426 01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:21,200 Speaker 1: seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my 1427 01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,800 Speaker 1: kids have never called me simply because I'm not poor 1428 01:13:24,080 --> 01:13:26,200 Speaker 1: and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all 1429 01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:28,000 Speaker 1: those who can't afford locks to get your money up. 1430 01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:30,120 Speaker 1: King I right, your kids would have never caught you 1431 01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:33,000 Speaker 1: if you wasn't a Paul asking me who who could 1432 01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,320 Speaker 1: have afford locks? I'm writing, some people out there that 1433 01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:37,479 Speaker 1: could have afford locks, have locks on that doors, Well, 1434 01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 1: then lock the goddamn door in. It's just that simple. 1435 01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:43,040 Speaker 1: Let's go to the full hous. Hello, who's this Hey? 1436 01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:46,120 Speaker 1: It's DJ from Houston. I'm probably CALLI but I live 1437 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,400 Speaker 1: in Houston. What's up, brother? What's going on with you? 1438 01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:51,840 Speaker 1: What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my parents having 1439 01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:53,640 Speaker 1: to take boll It wasn't my parents. It was like 1440 01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:57,000 Speaker 1: my mom's and her boyfriend. Damn. I was like nineteen, 1441 01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:59,759 Speaker 1: I really like to do. But I'm like, I knocked 1442 01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,639 Speaker 1: on the door, like, hey man with like is it cool? 1443 01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:05,519 Speaker 1: Like I gotta ask you a quasure that. She's like, Oh, 1444 01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:10,000 Speaker 1: I'm like I saw just by Wow. So dude, you 1445 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:11,920 Speaker 1: didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that you 1446 01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:14,639 Speaker 1: had that image in your head forever? Was he putting 1447 01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:16,880 Speaker 1: it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I don't 1448 01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:20,880 Speaker 1: know like it sounds like like it see Charlotte Mane. 1449 01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:27,080 Speaker 1: You always gotta ask that man what you mean? Question down? Listen. 1450 01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:30,280 Speaker 1: Mommy gotta have a life too, Bro, I'll feel you 1451 01:14:30,360 --> 01:14:33,160 Speaker 1: on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was 1452 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:38,320 Speaker 1: but she was making noise. She was moaning. Yeah, Bro, Damn, 1453 01:14:39,120 --> 01:14:41,080 Speaker 1: I did knock on the door to kind of break 1454 01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:43,439 Speaker 1: it up real quick. I don't know if you rap, bro, 1455 01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:45,640 Speaker 1: but that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and 1456 01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:48,880 Speaker 1: just the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents 1457 01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:52,519 Speaker 1: having sex. I'm serious, Hello, who's this? Good morning? This 1458 01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:56,120 Speaker 1: is Ricardo Henley Junior from Yanks. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man, 1459 01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:58,080 Speaker 1: you ever walked in on your parents having sex? That's 1460 01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:03,240 Speaker 1: about Ricardo Haley Senior putting it down. Yea, I ain't 1461 01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:05,800 Speaker 1: never seen pops old mom get it in, but I 1462 01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:07,920 Speaker 1: got a one year role. I was giving my shorty 1463 01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:10,960 Speaker 1: some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm 1464 01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:13,880 Speaker 1: talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son. 1465 01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:19,160 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know 1466 01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:22,960 Speaker 1: I was putting that pain in. But I'm saying at 1467 01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:26,400 Speaker 1: the same time, you know, like cool, man, this is love, 1468 01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:30,400 Speaker 1: this is Did you stop? You stopped though? Yeah? Nah. 1469 01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:32,880 Speaker 1: I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him 1470 01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:36,120 Speaker 1: to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah, 1471 01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:37,760 Speaker 1: you gotta tell you to tell him, like, look where 1472 01:15:37,800 --> 01:15:39,599 Speaker 1: you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling. 1473 01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:45,680 Speaker 1: My g too, because I need a babysitter. Man, Oh 1474 01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:49,639 Speaker 1: my god, I brother, Hello, who's this? They ain't Nicia? 1475 01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:52,240 Speaker 1: Do you cut your parents having sexy? Your kids caught you. 1476 01:15:52,960 --> 01:15:57,320 Speaker 1: I put my pans. So what happened? You sound mad too, right? 1477 01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:01,360 Speaker 1: And my mom was all and then she looked me 1478 01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:04,400 Speaker 1: in my eyes. Wait wait wait, you was under the bed. Yeah, 1479 01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:09,240 Speaker 1: the my my mom, I want to know what they 1480 01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:13,040 Speaker 1: were doing here. My mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad, 1481 01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:16,639 Speaker 1: I'm like black called him daddy. And I see why 1482 01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:20,160 Speaker 1: she would saying, hold that day, you sound wild incestual 1483 01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:22,439 Speaker 1: right now, and you wanted to see that because you 1484 01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:24,760 Speaker 1: actually hit under the bed. And what if that man 1485 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:26,599 Speaker 1: would have pulled What if that man would have pulled 1486 01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:30,280 Speaker 1: out and let that let that stuff fall towards the 1487 01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:34,040 Speaker 1: conference and you just happened to be looking up for 1488 01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:38,040 Speaker 1: the hold on, Charlomagne. Let me let me let you 1489 01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:41,320 Speaker 1: know something. First of all, and you're playing the ten 1490 01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:45,040 Speaker 1: doll and you had these we're an apartment build. Our 1491 01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:48,040 Speaker 1: walls is really sading. You're getting stupid noises. You want 1492 01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:50,320 Speaker 1: to be like, wait, hold on, what's going on here? No, 1493 01:16:50,520 --> 01:16:52,880 Speaker 1: you mind your business. That's that goddamn boogeyman your parents 1494 01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:56,600 Speaker 1: keep telling you about, and that little part as the 1495 01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:59,479 Speaker 1: book man. Hello, Well you saw the boogeyman that night. 1496 01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:01,280 Speaker 1: He was book get all over your mama, wasn't it. 1497 01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:06,320 Speaker 1: I was so traumatised, like, oh my god, like, oh 1498 01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:08,240 Speaker 1: my god. And that was your daddy, that was your 1499 01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:11,439 Speaker 1: mama was saying too. And when your dad was oh 1500 01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:20,479 Speaker 1: my god, oh my god. Why are y'all so crazy? 1501 01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:24,719 Speaker 1: Y'all crazy? It's so crazy. What's there? Listen, it's so crazy. 1502 01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:27,400 Speaker 1: I didn't wonder why I'm crazy. What's more, it's your fault. 1503 01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:33,080 Speaker 1: There's no moral of the story. These are the stories. Yeah, 1504 01:17:33,120 --> 01:17:37,320 Speaker 1: lock the goddamn door, your pole ass lots. Ain't that expensive, bro? 1505 01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:41,240 Speaker 1: All right? No, man, locked the goddamn door. Boy, some 1506 01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:42,960 Speaker 1: locks from your door and locked the door before you 1507 01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:45,360 Speaker 1: do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair 1508 01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:47,920 Speaker 1: but behind the door something lock in. Put a chair 1509 01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:50,960 Speaker 1: behind the door. I've done that before. Just put the 1510 01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:52,680 Speaker 1: chair just so it makes noise so you know what's 1511 01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:54,160 Speaker 1: going on, so they can't sneak up on you. That's 1512 01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:57,880 Speaker 1: when you was, Paul, huh. That's when you was a pole. 1513 01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:00,200 Speaker 1: All right. We got more coming up next. At a 1514 01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:04,599 Speaker 1: breakfast club morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne 1515 01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:07,439 Speaker 1: the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now it's time 1516 01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,640 Speaker 1: for that positive notes pressing positivity. Please listen man the 1517 01:18:10,760 --> 01:18:14,800 Speaker 1: positive note. Accept responsibility for your actions. Be accountable for 1518 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:20,000 Speaker 1: your results. Take ownership of your mistakes. Breakfast club potition 1519 01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:20,759 Speaker 1: you don't finish