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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I'm Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship.

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Speaker 3: And what it's like to be siblings.

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Speaker 2: We are a sibling raivalry. No, no, sibling. You don't

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Speaker 2: do that with your mouth revelry. That's good.

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Speaker 3: Hey, it's me Hi. So I thought I had a

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Speaker 3: heart attack last night? What I thought I was having one?

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Speaker 2: Wait, this happened to me.

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Speaker 3: I was now granted I was, it's about you just

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Speaker 3: then it could be about you in a second. But

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Speaker 3: I smoked. I smoked some married juwan Juan.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is why you were having But I never

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Speaker 2: had heart attack.

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Speaker 3: But I've been having a little bit of an anxiety lately.

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Speaker 3: It's another topic of conversation. But smoked the weed, and

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Speaker 3: all of a sudden, my left arm started to hurt.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I was running hard yesterday. I was. I

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Speaker 3: played a lot of golf in the last few days,

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Speaker 3: so it normally would have just felt like a little

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Speaker 3: pinch nerve right. But then all of a sudden, my

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Speaker 3: mind switches to, oh my god, is this the start

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Speaker 3: of something? So now I start googling, you know, the

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Speaker 3: WebMD vibes like, what does this feel like? So I

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Speaker 3: went down the path and then took like half a

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Speaker 3: bottle of advil and it went away.

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Speaker 1: So also, your wife did just get her calcium thing,

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Speaker 1: so that might have been also in the back, so

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Speaker 1: she went into all her hard stuff. Yes, I'm actually

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Speaker 1: going today to get my calcium scan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you thought you were having a heart attack too, No,

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 2: I had this weird thing.

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Speaker 1: I woke up in the middle of the night and

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Speaker 1: I felt like an over whelming kind of it was

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Speaker 1: almost like I was I woke up sort of shocked

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Speaker 1: out of my mid like deep sleep into what felt

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Speaker 1: like I was about to lose consciousness. So I was

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Speaker 1: like I woke up and then I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to faint. And then I didn't know what

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Speaker 1: what's happening. And then I also had been having some anxiety, but.

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Speaker 2: Not like this. And then so I immediately.

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Speaker 1: Was like, Danny, you know, take me to the hospital,

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Speaker 1: like right now, I don't know what's going on. And

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Speaker 1: on the way to the hospital, I felt like I

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Speaker 1: was going to lose consciousness and I had this feeling like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm I'm I'm literally dying.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to die.

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Speaker 1: And I didn't understand, but I was like, just get

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Speaker 1: to the hospital.

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Speaker 2: Get to the hospital. Get to that. I was like,

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Speaker 2: it was almost like hold on, like in of my

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Speaker 2: own brain and like.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hang on, you can make it. I can

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Speaker 1: make it. Get to the hot and I was like,

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Speaker 1: Danny was like, what's going on. I'm like, I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't communicate at the time what I was feeling

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Speaker 1: because I just needed to focus on staying.

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Speaker 2: In a faint. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I was taking these deep breaths and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm literally about to like just either like like

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Speaker 1: close my eyes and like that's it, or I'm a faint.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. Really scary. I then

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Speaker 1: get to the hospital and I really have to go

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Speaker 2: And then I'm like and then I'm like I got

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Speaker 2: to I went to the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: I'm great.

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Speaker 2: I was like, these guys, thanks for letting me.

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Speaker 3: Is your toilet now?

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Speaker 2: I then have to go to the restroom.

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Speaker 1: I then go through a series of things that's feeling

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Speaker 1: really weird and then I had all this anxiety because

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Speaker 1: I was like, it was like, for me, it was

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Speaker 1: all heart.

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Speaker 2: Of our family.

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Speaker 1: Obviously it's all heart. So you have a little bit

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Speaker 1: of anxiety right anyway.

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Speaker 3: And an aneurism because Grandpa, Yeah, you know, like I

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Speaker 3: did this Instagram post a while back. You know it

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Speaker 3: was made of red light, and I just I have

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Speaker 3: this feeling. I was, I have this feeling when you

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Speaker 3: get that little pain in your head and it's like

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Speaker 3: road so I don't kill anyone if I actually do,

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Speaker 3: you know, And you're like that that sharp pain.

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Speaker 1: That now, that little pain, I know we all get them.

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Speaker 1: That's actually more occipital nerve stuff. But anyway, So so

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Speaker 1: I get to the hospital, they do a ton of

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Speaker 2: I was like, just do them. I just want to know.

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Speaker 1: And then I get home and I feel fine, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, wow, that was really intense.

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Speaker 2: I get home, I.

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Speaker 1: Realized, I don't know, this is so embarrassing, but I'm

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Speaker 1: actually going to allow this to be on the show.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I get home.

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Speaker 1: I really that I had taken Smooth Move, but instead

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Speaker 1: of taking it at like eight o'clock before you go

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Speaker 1: to bed, I took it at like five thirty. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's a tea. It's a it's a tea that has

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Speaker 2: senna in it.

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Speaker 1: It has exactly you know, it has this thing in

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it's great. I love it. Who doesn't love

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Speaker 2: smooth Move? It was just not so smooth? So I

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Speaker 2: what happened?

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Speaker 1: Then I looked it up, and then Danny, of course,

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Speaker 1: being mister researchers, like did you take anything? And I

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh no, I did.

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Speaker 2: I was just at the hospital.

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Speaker 1: We just went through like all of these different doctors

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Speaker 1: I get home, I'm like, oh no, I took smooth

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Speaker 1: Move and it has senna in it, which if you

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Speaker 2: So I had not eaten.

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Speaker 1: like all these gummy vitamins before I went like, I

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Speaker 2: So I just had this crazy weird it's like.

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Speaker 3: A vitamin reaction.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I thought, yeah, but I really needed to

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Speaker 3: So it was a hypochondria runs in the fa I

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Speaker 3: mean in our family if there's a genetic understand if

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Speaker 3: there's a genetic component.

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Speaker 1: I mean even Ronnie has like she's like, mom, there's

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Speaker 1: something wrong with my little middle toe.

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Speaker 3: No, I know. It was same with Wilder. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: same with not real but body a little bit, you know.

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Speaker 3: But but it's is it does it run in the family.

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Speaker 3: Is it a learned behavior or is it mostly a component.

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Speaker 1: something's going to make it feel better, it's like understanding

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Speaker 2: There doesn't mean that something's wrong with you.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh see, I never did that

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Speaker 1: I want to make it better.

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Speaker 2: We're going to do this.

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Speaker 1: It's going to make it better. And it's like I

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Speaker 3: I started to think that, like, it's funny you say

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Speaker 3: because I tell them that, but completely selfishly, I tell

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Speaker 3: them that everything's going to be okay for my own

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Speaker 3: my own anxiety, It's true. I'm like, oh, dude, you're fine,

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Speaker 2: Don't know, yeah, you know, yeah, no, I know exactly.

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Speaker 3: I have anxiety triggers. It's it's it's like having it

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Speaker 3: triggers your It's like it's like it's like someone who

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Speaker 3: I have anxiety reflex, like beyond anything. I feel any

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Speaker 3: Or if I was alone in the woods, would I

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Speaker 2: Well, I think about a man. I think being a

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Speaker 2: man is nothing. I think a manly, I feel like

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Speaker 2: I manly has nothing to do with it.

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Speaker 1: I think this like the strength of think about people

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Speaker 1: who've lost children.

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Speaker 2: It's the most devastating.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to think about those things, but unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: these tragedies happened to many. I think about the people

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Speaker 1: who have their strength and people that I know who've

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Speaker 1: lost children. I mean, I was reading this article the

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Speaker 1: other day. This I'll send it to you.

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Speaker 2: This writer. He wrote about he lost.

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Speaker 1: Both of his children in a car accident, and he

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Speaker 1: wrote about it. I think, I said, I read this,

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Speaker 1: and I've been sending you things that make you cry.

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Speaker 3: I know, I was on vacation on spring break. It

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Speaker 3: is beautiful out tropical. Kate sends me this thing that

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Speaker 3: was just so tragic. I'm like, what are you doing that?

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Speaker 3: This is awful?

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Speaker 2: But it wasn't awful.

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Speaker 1: It was it was beautiful, beautiful because it was like,

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Speaker 1: My point is this that like people either are feeling

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Speaker 1: You know, a thousand different things. Conversation went into stuff

446
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 1: and kids.

447
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 2: He's like, I got three kids. I'm like, are they musical?

448
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,359
Speaker 2: Like actually? We just like it went from that. It's like, oh,

449
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 2: this guy's great.

450
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 3: But that's because it was positive. What if someone said

451
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,199
Speaker 3: how are you and I'm like, not that great. I

452
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 3: have gout and uh, you know, I'm on medication for cool.

453
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 1: Cool, then it would be someone whould be like you

454
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: know that, I know this guy who can help you

455
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 1: with your gout.

456
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,199
Speaker 3: I was going to try that from now and how

457
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 3: like how you doing? Like not good? It's not good,

458
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 3: not really really not that good? Thanks for asking.

459
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 2: Oh my god, oh so funny. That's so great. That

460
00:22:59,280 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 2: was like that.

461
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: I another actor that I saw one time, who a

462
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:07,160
Speaker 1: long time ago, like I remember saying like, hey, I've

463
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:07,679
Speaker 1: been seeing you.

464
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 2: For a while. How are you?

465
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: Was like, it's been really rough, and he was like

466
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 1: dressed up in this weird costume because he's a comedian

467
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 1: and he was like dressed up as a different person.

468
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 3: So and he was like not in your normal everyday life,

469
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 3: like it was in an event.

470
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 1: Of no, it was an event, but he was dressed

471
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: up as someone else. So he looked insane okay, And

472
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: I was like, how are you?

473
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 2: And he's like, it's been really rough.

474
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,479
Speaker 1: I kind of took some time, and I've been up

475
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 1: in the mountains, you know, like trying to figure out

476
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: like what's going on my life. And I was like,

477
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 1: I was like, it made me love him even more

478
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: because he got really vulnerable. But he looked so silly.

479
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:51,719
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, this guy's the best at

480
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: a party and he's like so down and like dressed

481
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: in some crazy outfit. I think he was like half

482
00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,080
Speaker 1: naked and some like net outfit too, like he looked.

483
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 3: Speaking of Rider really quickly though, because he has gone away,

484
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 3: have you just completely Do you still think about him

485
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 3: every day?

486
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,360
Speaker 2: Every day?

487
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 3: You do every day? And do you wonder what he's doing.

488
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 3: Do you picture him sort of like in his dorm

489
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 3: room or at a bar or whatever. Is it sort

490
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 3: of out of sight, out of mind in any way?

491
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 2: No, but we pretty much talk every day. Yeah.

492
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: I mean, if he faced he's a mama's boy, you know,

493
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: he face times me. He facetimed me today, He's like, mom,

494
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: oh my god. So I started playing Octopus's Garden on

495
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: the guitar and he's like walking, you know, and I

496
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: was like, honey, that's great. I'm like, I have a

497
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 1: I have to get off because I gotta do this

498
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: piano thing.

499
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:44,160
Speaker 2: And then and he was like, oh I fine, man.

500
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: I was like, well, honey, I got things I gotta do.

501
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: I can call you later, you know. And he's like, okay, fine, right, And.

502
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 1: So like he's he's like still very connected.

503
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. And and do you worry about his safety?

504
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 2: No?

505
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 3: Not in New York, you don't know.

506
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: I actually think I'd worry more about his safety if

507
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: he was at a school.

508
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 2: Where he was in the car all the time.

509
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: Or where there was a lot of like weather that

510
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: he had to deal with, you know what I mean,

511
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: I'd be more concerned. I mean like tornadoes and stuff

512
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: or yeah, or like blizzards and things where you know

513
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: they have to get from eighth A to Z.

514
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 2: And Rider, you know, I wouldn't worry.

515
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: I think every kid is different, Like Rider, I'd worry

516
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: about in that, whereas being I probably wouldn't. Right, Rider,

517
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: I love that he's like in the city, he walks everywhere.

518
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: It's just you know, they take they either take the

519
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: subway or they are gonna you know, they walk like

520
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: the blocks.

521
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 3: He probably makes decent choices too.

522
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's not like a bit. I'm not worried

523
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 1: about no, no, no, I'm not worried about him. If anything,

524
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 1: I'm more worried about him, like like staying home and

525
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 1: like want he's a homebody, you know, like oh wow,

526
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 1: but no, but he's great like I and I and

527
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 1: he doesn't do like silly party.

528
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 2: He doesn't go like silly stupid party.

529
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 3: Like the New York thing. Makes total sense because I

530
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 3: went to Boulder and there was a million things to

531
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 3: be afraid of.

532
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: I told Ryder if he because he was like, I'm

533
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: gonna go to Boulder. I'm like, if I won't pay

534
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: for your call, I remember, I was like, no, Well,

535
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 1: if you can figure out how to pay to go

536
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: to Boulder.

537
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 3: You probably a smart play. Because I went to Boulder,

538
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 3: and you know, it was there was a lot to

539
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:35,360
Speaker 3: be afraid of, meaning people driving, just that college experience

540
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 3: of just dummies, I know.

541
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: And also we lost somebody. We lost a camp a

542
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: girl that we went to camp with was killed and.

543
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 3: She was car surfing. Yeah, I mean literally on the

544
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 3: top of a car going down a mountain standing on

545
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 3: the roof of the car.

546
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: It's so sad, you know, but but it's I mean

547
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 1: that that's my biggest fear is that, you know, when

548
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,360
Speaker 1: you're young, you.

549
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 2: Do stuff just because everybody else is.

550
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: Doing it and it feels fun and funny at the time,

551
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: and the next thing you know is just it's like

552
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: a nightmare.

553
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 2: You know. I'm always like with the kids, I'm like,

554
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:11,439
Speaker 2: just don't do stupid stuff.

555
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 3: Well, just don't be stupid, But I don't. When do

556
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 3: you When do these kids start understanding what's stupid and

557
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 3: what's not nice. Use this as a segue to talk

558
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 3: about Wilder, because he's in this moment right now of

559
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 3: teenager where our relationship is definitely shifted. Not that he

560
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 3: doesn't love me, I get it. There are so many

561
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 3: different sort of Instagram accounts and things that I read

562
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 3: that are so in line with what I'm feeling with

563
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 3: who teenagers are. Or you feel like they've completely disappeared.

564
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 3: They don't give a shit about you anymore. You know,

565
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:44,959
Speaker 3: they don't tell you the things they used to tell you,

566
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 3: they're not as cuddly with you, and you just feel

567
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 3: like you don't exist and they only come to you

568
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 3: when they want things, you know, blah blah blah. There's

569
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: the moments of where it's like connected and all that. Yeah,

570
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 3: but I am in that phase right now, and even

571
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 3: though cerebrally I know what's going on, it's hard to

572
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 3: stop my emotions from being like like, you need to

573
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 3: talk to me, like you need to tell no, no, no,

574
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 3: it's crazy.

575
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 2: Kids. Kids can sniff all of that in their parents.

576
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: Oh no, I know, you gotta do the other good dude,

577
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: I do you gotta do.

578
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 2: The reverse psychology.

579
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 3: I don't think Ryter will cares. I don't. I try

580
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 3: not to.

581
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 2: You got to. You got to pretend like you don't care.

582
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 2: That's what I did.

583
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 3: As long as Bodi's bodies different, I think it is

584
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 3: gonna be like this is a specific Wilder moving into

585
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 3: teenager stuff where he's always like, you don't even know

586
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 3: me anymore.

587
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 2: I'm like, what are you talking about? And he's poking me.

588
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 3: He knows how to he knows how to get my

589
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 3: goat because he knows he's joking.

590
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: But he says, you just think about you, and so

591
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: MET say that to Aaron, I'm like, you don't even

592
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: love me.

593
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 3: I mean literally, you love me.

594
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: It's like, I remember when you were fifteen years old, Oliver,

595
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: Remember when you punched.

596
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 2: A hole in your room? Oh my god, Oh my god,

597
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 2: I remember.

598
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: I remember feeling like not like I wasn't like sad

599
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: for you were scared.

600
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: It was almost like wow, like always like I almost.

601
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: Was like this is ridiculous, Like you were so you

602
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: were so moody.

603
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 2: I was angry. Are you embarrassed? So angry?

604
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 3: Mom embarrassed me in front of Rebecca ashby you. She

605
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: pulled up in her rabbit in her cabriolet. The top

606
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 3: was down. She was going to be great. I was

607
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 3: gonna get in the car. We were gonna go park,

608
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 3: and Mom's like, where are you going? She had no idea.

609
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, Mom's like, you can't get in a car

610
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 3: with this person. I don't know. She was completely correct,

611
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 3: and I was like, Mom, I was like, sorry, I

612
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 3: can't go. And I was just devastated and I went

613
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 3: and destroyed my room.

614
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you destroyed your room. You punched a hole in

615
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: the wall, and you probably said you.

616
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 2: Don't even know who I am anymore.

617
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm sure you know cute.

618
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 2: I feel like you know what you should say is

619
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: you should say you know what, Wilder, you might be

620
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 2: right I do, and then just walk away.

621
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 3: I was like, I know you're better than you and yourself,

622
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 3: damn it.

623
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 2: And then walk away. And when you're ready to talk,

624
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 2: we're going to talk.

625
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 3: And his love language to me is fighting, like he

626
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 3: just kicks and punches me. Does kickboxing on me? Really yeah,

627
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 3: but like not hard. You can't can't.

628
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 2: Oh that's how he's trying to.

629
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 3: And I'm like, get away from me, just like hug me,

630
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 3: like I don't want your bony elbows.

631
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, You're like, oh, Olliver, this is so.

632
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 3: I was like, just love me. I'm like gonna tell him, like,

633
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 3: will you just like hug me for just once, just

634
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 3: like love me? What?

635
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 2: Well, that's cute, I do. Yeah, that's cute.

636
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 3: It's all in fun meaning like it's not serious. But

637
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 3: at the same time they change. It was part of

638
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 3: it that is like just devastating, I know.

639
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 2: But it'll change. It's like this is a pocket.

640
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: It is because like once they're seventeen, once they know

641
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: college is coming like seventeen, right, they start to get

642
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: that little bit of anxiety. He's going to start like

643
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: you'll feel him like leaning on you more, you'll get

644
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: like the huggling, maybe like because he realizes like he's

645
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: going to be gone.

646
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's like, you know.

647
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: I also think though, that these are important individuations. They

648
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: are so you almost want to lean into that maybe too,

649
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: which is like, you know what it's good for you

650
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: to individual, you know, and if you want me to

651
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: get to know who you're becoming, I want to know,

652
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 1: So just come let me know. Let me in, I say,

653
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: share with me who you are.

654
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 3: Tell me, tell me how you love to know.

655
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: I want to know.

656
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 1: And and in the meantime, I'm going to go hang

657
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: with your brother and your.

658
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 3: That's what I did. S. Part of what I'm expressing

659
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 3: is sort of how I feel on the inside and

660
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 3: what I talked to Aaron about. And then there's those

661
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 3: little snaps of like like come on, dude, just please

662
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 3: love me. But for the most part, it is that

663
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 3: it is me. He's just saying okay. And I always

664
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 3: make a point to at least tell him how much

665
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 3: I love him without needing anything back. And I think

666
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 3: that's important, meaning I'll pop into his room and say

667
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 3: love you kid, blah blah blah, goes love you, Jude,

668
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, bye, you know, why don't you try? Our

669
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 3: rides are just completely silent. I'm like, I get like nervous.

670
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 3: It's like a it's like a first date, you know.

671
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 3: It's like it's like having a bad first blind date

672
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 3: where I'm just sitting there in the car ride to

673
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 3: school and he's just quiet. I'm like, so, how are

674
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 3: things and he's like good, and like, so Pearl his girlfriend,

675
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: you know, things going good. He's like yeah.

676
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, don't know what else to say.

677
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, so, I guess we'll get you into some

678
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 3: kickboxing classes. It's like yeah, dad, like my ass. Like

679
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 3: a couple of times, I'm like okay, and then I

680
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 3: finally drop him off and I'm like I love you

681
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: and he's like I love you, and I'm like, Jesus,

682
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 3: immediately turn on Stern.

683
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, no, wonder you feel like you're having.

684
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 3: Hard I know, I mean, I think that's.

685
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 2: This is totally you're losing your child. You're like, I'm dying.

686
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 2: I'm dying, but it is.

687
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 3: It is really honestly though, it is really amazing to

688
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 3: watch him with someone who he really really likes. A

689
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 3: lot his first girlfriend. It's very real. You know, when

690
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 3: we're on vacation, he's about buying stuff for her, finding

691
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 3: things for her, wanting to give her things, always wanting

692
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 3: to be with her. Twenty four to seven. He's always

693
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 3: into his phone. She is amazing. It's just this really cool.

694
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 2: It's cute.

695
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 3: I know. It's cool to watch your child find love

696
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 3: for somebody else and.

697
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: How they want to show their love.

698
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I love.

699
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 1: Like, I love seeing writer have those moments with his

700
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: girlfriend friend where I can see who he is as

701
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: a boyfriend.

702
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 2: Yes, and then I'm like so proud.

703
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm so happy that he's such a

704
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: good boyfriend.

705
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: That's when the true kid comes out. And when when

706
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 3: she's over at our house and I'm in the room,

707
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 3: it's wilder as I know him, because he's not performing,

708
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 3: you know for me, he's just with her and not

709
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 3: wanting to look bad in a sense, you know, not

710
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 3: wanting to seem like he's this way with his father.

711
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 3: You can see how he is with her and what

712
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 3: a great boyfriend he is, and then her parents like,

713
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 3: your son is incredible. They went to Mammoth together and

714
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 3: he's like all of our bags were at the bottom

715
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 3: of the stairs. He took every bag upstairs to the room.

716
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 3: So I'm like, what he did? What that kid literally

717
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 3: eats cereal and just leaves it. I'm like, put your

718
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 3: sim what are you doing?

719
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 2: So cute because everything else he goes.

720
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 3: He's so talkative, he's so open, he's this, and then

721
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, I mean I love that, yeah, because

722
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 3: that is a reflection upon us.

723
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, of course. Well it means that, like,

724
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 2: no matter how he's.

725
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:14,839
Speaker 1: How he's experiencing his relationship to you guys and his

726
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: own personal individuation from being like his father's son to

727
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: his own man, right, like this is these are important

728
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,919
Speaker 1: moments for kids, especially when it comes to identity. Yeah

729
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: stuff father son, mother daughter. Yes, Aaron's kind of experiencing

730
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: the same thing. He doesn't do it with Aarony too.

731
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 1: He doesn't know a little bit.

732
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 3: But it's funny because he goes to her a little

733
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,320
Speaker 3: bit more than he does to me, which is odd,

734
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 3: which is a bit of a switch, right, you know,

735
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 3: he confides in her a little bit more. I think

736
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 3: because he has this person who he really likes a lot,

737
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 3: not maybe falling in love with the young love or whatever.

738
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 3: He can relate to Aaron because of that, the way

739
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 3: he's feeling about a female, And now he can go

740
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 3: to Aaron and say, what do you think Pearl would like,

741
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 3: what do you think this? I'm doing? This? Is it okay?

742
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 3: If I do this? You know he doesn't do that

743
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 3: with me.

744
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 2: Well, he normally would, so wild Rider.

745
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: With his girlfriend this this this summer. It's like, you know,

746
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 1: how do you feel about you know, my gf coming

747
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 1: on to you know, on our trip.

748
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 2: And I'm like great.

749
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, actually Danny and I

750
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 1: are going to do an adult trip to this place.

751
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: And he's like, am I considering?

752
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 2: Yes you are. He's like can we come? I'm like yeah,

753
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 2: that'll be fun.

754
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, it'll be me and Rider

755
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: and girlfriend and Danny and well it's such a fun.

756
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 2: It's so different. It's so different.

757
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: And now, I mean, look, he's like, you know, he's

758
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: getting his own apartment and he's like scroothing out of

759
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: his dorm.

760
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 2: He's he's starting.

761
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of crazy, it's kind of weird, and

762
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: you have to go through all those steps to get

763
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 1: to that place.

764
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 3: And then I think it changed, and the next one

765
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,720
Speaker 3: will be different. Body will be different, bing will be different,

766
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 3: real will be different. Ronnie will be different.

767
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: Oh like makes my like me all fuzzy inside thinking

768
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: about our kids.

769
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 3: What's Ronnie at fifteen?

770
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: Well, if it's anything like right now, like really challenging,

771
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean she is so funny, I

772
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: mean Ronnie. She's also the most loving and she's very attached.

773
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: So right now it's all like, mommy, are you wearing

774
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: the sweater, the sweater with buttons or no buttons?

775
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 2: And I'll be like with buttons, and so she has

776
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 2: to get the sweater.

777
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 1: Are you wearing your hair in a bun? Are you

778
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 1: wearing a pony tail? And we're in a bus, she

779
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: has to wear her hair in a Yeah. But it's

780
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 1: also like after a while, you're like, honey, you goddamn,

781
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: I want you to express yourself the way you want

782
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 1: to look, you know, And but she's it's very much

783
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 1: like we're not wearing the same thing. And then if

784
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 1: it's and then if she doesn't have she didn't have

785
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: like a black I was wearing a black dress one day,

786
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: she didn't have a black dress, and she just lost

787
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: like wouldn't what didn't want to go out? It was

788
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: like a whole and I.

789
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,919
Speaker 3: Was it's like you we were at a ski trip

790
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 3: when Kate was like a little baby. She didn't go

791
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 3: not a baby baby, but she didn't go out nder

792
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 3: the snow because she didn't like the color white. Like

793
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 3: she literally stayed, no, that's what you.

794
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: Said, Yes, but it was because I didn't want to

795
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 1: get I didn't want to wear pants. Well that was

796
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 1: yet did you get the snowsuit on?

797
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 3: Right? You wanted to wear like a snows I.

798
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: Wanted to wear a dress. I wanted to wear a dress.

799
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 1: And because we were in like sun dance where I

800
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: had to put on a snowsuit, and so I said,

801
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: I'm not going outside.

802
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 2: I just don't like white.

803
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 3: You don't like the color I don't like She wouldn't

804
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 3: go out of the house because he didn't like the

805
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 3: color white the only way and a.

806
00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 1: Lot like because mom knew she knew my secret. She

807
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: knew I didn't want to ever.

808
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 3: Wear pants, right, didn't want to wear pants?

809
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 1: Oh so funny for like for like almost two years. Yes,

810
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't put pants. I would like rather fritterally.

811
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 3: You would just go ski in like a mini.

812
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 2: So funny.

813
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 3: But yeah, do you remember that trip because you were

814
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 3: really little. I do remember. I remember. You know.

815
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 2: What I remember from that trip was some room with

816
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: a bunch of ball pit.

817
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, ball What was that crazy ballpit?

818
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all I remember. It was inside the.

819
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 3: House, inside the house. I remember the house. I don't know.

820
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 3: I think it was in the pool. I think the

821
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,240
Speaker 3: balls were on top of a pool.

822
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 1: No, no, no, it was just yeah, I bet it

823
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: was like a party house.

824
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 2: And we just don't really remember.

825
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 3: We were I'm sure they.

826
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 2: Wasn't Mom's singles and mom was single.

827
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, it was the eighties. They were all going

828
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 3: crazy and we were in the ball pit. Mom. They're like,

829
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 3: they're like, just go in the ball pit.

830
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: Mother.

831
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 3: That's when I fell off a chairlift for the first time,

832
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 3: and I still remember it. Oh.

833
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 1: I was thinking about that the other day when we

834
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: were on a chairlift, you and I together, and remember

835
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: we were thinking about the high alpine chairlift and Caller

836
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 1: and Aspen and how we used to go up there

837
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 1: and there was like no nothing on it.

838
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 2: There was no bar. Yeah, it was like hanging.

839
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 3: From like, oh, it's crazy.

840
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 2: No, I know, I would.

841
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: Never let my kids do that, Like I think about,

842
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: like I if that was the way the chairlifts.

843
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 2: Were now, I would never want my kids to ski.

844
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 3: My problem is the boys all go skiing now on

845
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 3: their own with their friends, and they don't put the

846
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 3: bar down because they think it's like cool, and I'm like,

847
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 3: put the bar down. What's the difference? Yeah, and they

848
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 3: don't think it's cool, so they'd like leave it up.

849
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: I did that too, though, Remember I don't when they

850
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: first started the bar, we didn't put the bar down

851
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,720
Speaker 1: because we were cool.

852
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 3: Whenever I go on a lift with other people, I

853
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 3: get insecure about wanting to put the bar down because

854
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 3: I don't want them to think I'm like scared. So

855
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 3: I'm like, we get like halfway up, I'm like put

856
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,439
Speaker 3: it down, like coming down, just like say it, try

857
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 3: to say it with authority, like coming down.

858
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 2: It's so funny.

859
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: I don't have any of those issues now I do.

860
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: It's weird, like and what is that? Why do you

861
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: not have the fear when you're younger, but you do

862
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 1: have the fear when you're older.

863
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,280
Speaker 3: There's more at stake falling off the lift and dying.

864
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 3: There's more you're leaving behind. I guess my problem is

865
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 3: if I don't put the bar down, I have this

866
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: equal fear that I'm gonna I'm gonna fall, and then

867
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 3: and then on the other side like that I'm gonna jump.

868
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 3: Like I get this weird feeling like I'm gonna go.

869
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:03,919
Speaker 3: I have that feeling like it's weird sense of like.

870
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: See, I do things like every time I'm on and

871
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, so if this falls, if the bars down

872
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: and we're we're falling, what do I do?

873
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 3: Do you mean the whole thing comes off the cable? Yeah,

874
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 3: oh you're dead. Anyway, you're gonna break something.

875
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 2: I mean depending on how not if you not, if

876
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 2: you can figure out.

877
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 3: From the time you fall the time you.

878
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 2: Hit the ground, however your reflexes are.

879
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 1: Fast, well maybe you could because jumping, Like think about

880
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: how long in your brain it is when you jump.

881
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 1: What would if you had to jump from there to there?

882
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 1: That would take a long time. But what would you

883
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 1: do if the bar was up the down? Just scream

884
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: and fall? No, the thing is it's all about the bar.

885
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: You have to figure out how to get the bar

886
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: up fast.

887
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 3: But if you hit the ground, whether the bar is

888
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 3: down or up, you're still going to splat.

889
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 2: Well, no, you have to like you have to like

890
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 2: roll into it.

891
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 3: You're talking, But you know, I just skied in Snowbird

892
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 3: and we heard this story which I think has made

893
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 3: the boys put the bar down so recently. This this happened,

894
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 3: a tree fell and hit the cable and the guy

895
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 3: didn't have a bar down and it catapulted. Was clean,

896
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 3: and everyone else with the bars down just got like

897
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 3: they hit the bar and they were still in their thing.

898
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,280
Speaker 3: But the guy didn't got catapulted out of the whole

899
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 3: thing in the ground and I didn't die. Oh no.

900
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 3: And did you ever see that rush that that video

901
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 3: in Russia?

902
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 2: No I know, no, no, no, no, no, no no.

903
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 3: The chair lift it's going backwards, going.

904
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 2: Crazy.

905
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 3: It's crazy.

906
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: How does not even happen?

907
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just malfunctioned. Kept going back like

908
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 3: a thousand miles an hour. People are flying off that

909
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 3: thing and they just called it they stacking up jack.

910
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: I would have literally jumped, That's what I'm saying. I

911
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: think about this. You're like, okay, what do you do?

912
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 1: You have to jump?

913
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 3: If the chair lift started to go backwards like really

914
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 3: fast like that but I was near the top, I

915
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 3: would the bar would be down, you got your place,

916
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 3: you put your feet on. I would keep my skis on,

917
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: hang off the bar, going towards, going in the same direction,

918
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 3: find the right place, and then drop. And then it's

919
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 3: like you have a momentum going down.

920
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 2: Watch her. That's a great idea.

921
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's what I would do. And then and

922
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 3: then and then we gotta go soon. But I'm gonna

923
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 3: leave you with this.

924
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta go because I have to take I

925
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: gotta get it.

926
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I gotta go to But there's also stuff that

927
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 3: this season, like Big Sky some other places where the

928
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 3: wind is blowing so hard and these people are on

929
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 3: these chair lifts and it's like insane.

930
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 2: Really, why didn't they close the well?

931
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 3: These little squalls come up where these one hundred mile

932
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 3: an hour winds are blowing and people are just they

933
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 3: must be freaking.

934
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I never go skiking again.

935
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was freaking out.

936
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: I wouldn't go skiing again unless it was like the

937
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: most perfect if.

938
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 2: I like, I have to have a SnowCat. This is

939
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 2: my personal snow cat.

940
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 3: It's called Katie Cat. Bringing the Katie Cat well listen.

941
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm excited for this season. I loved starting with the Bushes.

942
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: That was really fun. They're so personable. We've got a

943
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: lot of good stuff happening, and and I feel like

944
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:35,800
Speaker 1: this was a really good catchup Sash.

945
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 3: It was great. It was fun, and we'll do.

946
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 2: Another one yeah throughout the season.

947
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

948
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 1: Also, just for all of our listeners out there, don't

949
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: forget that to follow our show. We love doing this

950
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: for you. So there's a lot of things that you

951
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:53,919
Speaker 1: could do to help us out.

952
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 2: Send in a really awesome review.

953
00:45:56,480 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 3: We would love that and hit the like button. And

954
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 3: I probably not even a like, but that's just what

955
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 3: all the YouTubers say.

956
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 2: I know, I'm just doing what Russell Brand does.

957
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 3: What he does.

958
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, don't forget, don't forget to hit follow, subscribe,

959
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 2: come to like some chinas. What does he called? What

960
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,439
Speaker 2: do they call himself? Oh, don't forget the little bell?

961
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: What is what does he call his like peepsation?

962
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 3: Do we need to come up with? Does he have

963
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 3: a name for his followers like this something?

964
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like the Enlighteners or something.

965
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 3: Again, we still have to come up with enlightenment.

966
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: What is the what is the Hey, researcher Dan. What

967
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: is Russell Brands call his his listeners?

968
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 2: God, researcher Dan, can you.

969
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 3: Fire immediately?

970
00:46:54,920 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: We like fires like researcher jet, Like what Jesus's fire

971
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: that guy too?

972
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 3: While researcher dance looking that up? What what would we

973
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 3: call our listeners?

974
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: Remember we didn't, Brad, didn't my publicist come up with

975
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: a good name.

976
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 3: The revelers, the revelers, the rests revelers.

977
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 2: It sounds like like a Mormon fundamental totally welcome to

978
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 2: the church, the Church of the Revelers.

979
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:30,359
Speaker 3: It really does.

980
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:34,880
Speaker 1: It literally is forgetting the wrap up signal because the

981
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: wrap up other things to be doing.

982
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 2: What is he?

983
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: What does Russell Brand call his listeners? Literally just asked

984
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: that it will answer it. No, you don't, you need

985
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: to google it?

986
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 3: What does Russell Brand call his listeners?

987
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: Watch this?

988
00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:59,439
Speaker 3: All right? Well we'll get back to you.

989
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:04,720
Speaker 1: Whats trying to figure it out?

990
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 3: Did Russell have a sibling?

991
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,240
Speaker 2: He'd be great, I would I would love.

992
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 3: I would love him on this show.

993
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 2: Interesting, he's the best.

994
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 3: We should DM him.

995
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: Okay, well we'll figure it out. We're look, guys, send

996
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: in emails. This is what I was trying to say,

997
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: hit the follow button wherever you listen to podcasts. We

998
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 1: would love to get any reviews and uh on feedback

999
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: and also don't forget honey Daniel totally firing, okay, And

1000
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 1: we would really love for you to email us. We

1001
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: love reading your emails. We definitely want to do an

1002
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: email episode again this year this season. Uh, maybe we'll

1003
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 1: get one in there uh and next season, so don't

1004
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 1: forget to write in it's siblings submission at gmail dot

1005
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 1: com and we'll see you.

1006
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 3: On on the episode.

1007
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 2: On the flip side.

1008
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,720
Speaker 3: Sibling Revelry is executive produced by Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson.

1009
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 2: Producer is Alison, President.

1010
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: Editor is Josh Wendish.

1011
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 2: Music by Mark Hudson a k a. Uncle Mark.

1012
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 3: If you want to show us some love, rate the

1013
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 3: show and leave us a review. This show is powered

1014
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