WEBVTT - Donkey of the Day Goes To Khrys Devoe For Filter Surgery

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<v Speaker 1>It don't be a dusty because right now you are

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<v Speaker 1>It's time for Donkey of the Day. So if we

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<v Speaker 1>ever feel I need to be a donkey man with

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<v Speaker 1>the hero. Did she get the name? Please tell me

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<v Speaker 1>I had become Donkey of the dayte club bitches. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Sonkey today for Wednesday May fifteenth goes to Christavo. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't know who Christovo is, he goes by

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<v Speaker 1>the name Tugsy on Instagram. And I want everyone out

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<v Speaker 1>there to know that this donkey the day is being

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<v Speaker 1>done with love. Okay, I actually genuinely feel sorry for

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<v Speaker 1>this young man. I feel sorry for other people who

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<v Speaker 1>are in this man's position, who have this man's mind state. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Christovo he makes his living off Instagram. Okay. He is

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<v Speaker 1>a social media influencer, and like many people in this era,

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<v Speaker 1>social media rules everything around them. Okay, I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why people put their livelihoods in the social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you don't own social media, so social media decided

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<v Speaker 1>to ban you are cancel your account for whatever reason.

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<v Speaker 1>You're done out here. Not to mention, social media is

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<v Speaker 1>creating this unattainable, underreachable goal of physical perfection that simply

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<v Speaker 1>does not exist all right? Social media is everybody's highlight reel,

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<v Speaker 1>and you are comparing your real, everyday life to the

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<v Speaker 1>carefully cultivated and filtered world of social media. Okay, dropping

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<v Speaker 1>on a cool's boss from My Man Past to Stephen

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<v Speaker 1>Furdike has a great sermon on that by the way

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<v Speaker 1>Moss Corner zone. But that doesn't stop people like Kristavo

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<v Speaker 1>from trying to chase the unattainable. Okay, let's go to

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<v Speaker 1>wca xcbspre for the report. Police. Selfie culture is putting

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on beauty standards, and according to plastic surgeons, it's

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<v Speaker 1>driving many young people to seek cosmetic procedures. With almost

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<v Speaker 1>half a million followers, Kyrie de Vaux makes his living

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<v Speaker 1>through Instagram. We all want to have smooth skin, we

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<v Speaker 1>all want to have you know, high cheat phones. We

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<v Speaker 1>all want to have like frozen faces. We just want

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<v Speaker 1>to look perfect. Kyrie spends at least an hour editing

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<v Speaker 1>each selfie. I want to be a prestol. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a living prastol. Why do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>look less human because adults effects? I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>like selfie ready all the time. Kyrie even gets regular

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<v Speaker 1>cosmetic procedures done to look more like his edited selfies.

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<v Speaker 1>Leading plastic surgeon doctor Dirk Kramer says he's noticed his

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<v Speaker 1>clientele get younger and younger. Most of the time, come

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<v Speaker 1>with a phone with a phone and show me pictureself

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<v Speaker 1>and that's how I get most likes and most follow us.

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<v Speaker 1>Could we do that in reality? Oh, it's just said.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it is Mental Health Awareness month, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hear you already, Charlemagne. Everything is not a mental health issue.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right. Everything isn't a mental health issue, but some

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<v Speaker 1>of this is. And this is exactly why I ordered

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<v Speaker 1>phone cases from my wife and oldest daughter that say

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<v Speaker 1>social media ruins your mental health because you will never

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<v Speaker 1>be happy chasing the lives that are being told on

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<v Speaker 1>social media. Okay, you out here living in your real life,

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<v Speaker 1>living in your truth, knowing fully to the world and

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<v Speaker 1>people in it aren't perfect. But then you go on

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<v Speaker 1>the Graham and see people, you know, everybody giving the

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<v Speaker 1>perception of perfection, right, all right, and you chase that.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's literally like a dog chasing its own tail.

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<v Speaker 1>You would never catch it. Therefore you would never truly

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<v Speaker 1>be happy, and that can lead to body dysmorphia. Which

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<v Speaker 1>is indeed a mental health issue. We don't listen to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's hear from the experts. Back to wa xtvspre for

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<v Speaker 1>the report police. This obsession with personal appearance that selfie

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<v Speaker 1>culture encourages may have darker implications for mental health. In

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<v Speaker 1>those people who have that psychological vulnerability, it can be

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<v Speaker 1>particularly concerning. They are constantly bombarded with the image and

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<v Speaker 1>constantly referencing their own image in a way that was

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<v Speaker 1>not seen before. And it's the most extreme. This fixation

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<v Speaker 1>on appearance can manifest in a mental health condition known

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<v Speaker 1>as body dysmorphic disorder or BDD. EGO. Vanity and validation

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be the death of this error. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how can you tell you know kids that their first, last,

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<v Speaker 1>and best love is self love and they are being

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<v Speaker 1>born into a culture that makes you feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>worth your value, How you think of yourself, how you

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<v Speaker 1>love yourself as in the hands of others. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care how many likes you get. Do you like yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what's important. When you depend on people to build

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<v Speaker 1>you up, they'll have the same power to break you down.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need anybody on social media's validation to know

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<v Speaker 1>your worth. How do we get these kids did not

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<v Speaker 1>have psychological vulnerability and build up their confidence? Okay? True

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<v Speaker 1>confidence is knowing that you are enough without the need

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<v Speaker 1>for anyone else's validation. How do you get that through

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<v Speaker 1>the kids in twenty nineteen when everything is about constant validation? Christo,

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<v Speaker 1>vote my brother, stop while you are ahead. Okay. Anybody

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<v Speaker 1>out there that can hear my voice who thinks they

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<v Speaker 1>have to make permanent plastic surgery decisions based off temporary

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<v Speaker 1>social media feelings stop? All right? You can't live an illusion.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Focus on things that matter, like your spirit,

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<v Speaker 1>your personality. If the world was blind, how many people

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<v Speaker 1>would you impress? All right? Spending all this money to

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<v Speaker 1>impress people that don't like you anyway? Come on, man,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the moral of the story. Stop trying to impress people.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop trying to impress people by being something you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. At the end, you have a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>followers who don't really we care about you, and you

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<v Speaker 1>will lose yourself. That's what's happening in these situations. Christovo,

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<v Speaker 1>love yours, the life you save, maybe your own. Please

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<v Speaker 1>give Christovo the biggest he hall and the crazy thing is.

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't have any solutions to this problem because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really trying to figure out how do you make

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<v Speaker 1>a generation to kids realize that their first, last, and

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<v Speaker 1>best love is self love when they're born into an

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<v Speaker 1>era that tells them the only way to receive true

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<v Speaker 1>love is by getting it from other people. I know

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<v Speaker 1>he's so young to be getting all those but it's

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<v Speaker 1>difficult because a lot of the celebrities are doing at

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<v Speaker 1>a young ages, and these kids to following celebrities, and

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<v Speaker 1>not only the celebrities. They're watching people on social media

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<v Speaker 1>with all of these filters and these face tunes and

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<v Speaker 1>all this other stuff, and then they see you in

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<v Speaker 1>real life. Yes, it's one thing. When you got to

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<v Speaker 1>computer the celebrity, you can be like, I get this

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<v Speaker 1>money and then I'm a while out. But now you're

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<v Speaker 1>next door neighbor looking perfect too. My god, trust me, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you can go from ugly to being handsome.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at me. Damn, No, validation got so quiet. Nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like my tweet. Nobody's gonna tell me my hands

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<v Speaker 1>No I didn't retweet that, bro. Crazy now comes down

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<v Speaker 1>on that. You don't need y'all. Well, you did become

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<v Speaker 1>a facing welcome filter? That's about it? Tell me my hand? Alright?

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<v Speaker 1>I felt what you say? He is the X pro.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe the filter was the ex bront filter paid you on.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me look at your filters? Which sight is that?

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<v Speaker 1>I would call it? I'm handsome, I'll call it the

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<v Speaker 1>bitch bleach. You're like the Gingham filter? Hell is that?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that? You know when you're going on Instagram? Gingham?

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<v Speaker 1>So if you filter, he turned into the Gingham filter.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even like him, all you know? Damn boy?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, ask is next? Eight hundred five five

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five one. If you need relationship advice or

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<v Speaker 1>any type of advice, calling you now eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five did I don't know? Eight hundred now eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred making filter on your accent? You put the fire

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<v Speaker 1>filter on you? Calling you now eight hundred five and

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<v Speaker 1>five one on five one stretch the Breakfast Club