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Speaker 1: your girl? Dry and a call, and you are tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Pull Mine.

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Speaker 2: Whereas drunk Mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm never on this couch. I'm always here.

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Speaker 1: We women having the guests coming through.

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Speaker 2: We had to give y'all a little solo, a little

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Speaker 2: two on one time. Right, how are you doing, Bookie?

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Speaker 2: I'm good girl, I am.

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Speaker 1: You know it's crazy. I'm a little tomboid all too that.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to be comfy today. I've been back

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Speaker 1: and forth to Houston a lot, turning up having a

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Speaker 1: good old time. My hair is it's not doing what

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Speaker 1: I needed to do, but it's okay.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna push through today. Yeah, mine neither. I watched

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Speaker 3: Yeah child, So y'all don't be in the comments next.

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Speaker 1: Look now, it's been it's been a little rough couple

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Speaker 2: So other than that, what you.

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Speaker 3: Know, I was trying to give a little.

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Speaker 2: Lady, said porter Rick on Rick on Okay, something that

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Speaker 2: was like going viral on. Like she said, Betty, Betty,

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Speaker 2: I think I'm giving a little.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: All right, okay, But because.

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Speaker 2: I've just been trying to figure out my birthdays coming up.

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Speaker 2: So I've been trying to figure out what I want

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Speaker 2: That's fine. What you got, girlspital Tea. I got some shoes,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, you know, I'm excited any of my birthday coming.

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Speaker 2: These ain't even birthday gears, yes, the gifts on gifts

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Speaker 2: And you gotta work out too though, because that makes

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Speaker 2: Working hard, Yeah, I do. I be going to Orange

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Speaker 2: Let me know something. But I can't guarantee nothing. All right,

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Speaker 2: So what were drinking today, miss talk? Because this is

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we gonna go ahead and get into these

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Speaker 2: What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 1: It's your girl LEXP and I have a very special announcement.

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Speaker 1: Well I already announced it, but I'm gonna let y'all

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Speaker 5: We are going on tour.

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Speaker 3: It's starting in June, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Look, we announced it extra early, so y'all got time

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Speaker 3: No excuses.

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Speaker 1: We got La Philly, Chicago, Atlanta, Houston. Now listen to

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Speaker 1: me because I know how y'all get. We are still

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Speaker 1: adding dates. I repeat, we are still adding dates. But

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Speaker 1: We still coming, Okay, So make sure y'all go to

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Speaker 2: VIP meet and greets we on sorry pool.

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Speaker 1: And so before we get into this first topic, let

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Speaker 1: me just let y'all know, you know, this is our opinions,

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Speaker 2: Because you know how the folks get you know how

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Speaker 2: Miss Drea. I almost said your last name. Why the

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Speaker 2: go ahead. So for this first topic, I had saw

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Speaker 2: That's why we got to bring back motherfuck to shame.

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Speaker 2: to go sit on somebody's couch and make an announcement

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Speaker 1: a couch just to announce like, oh, I want to

436
00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 1: be in love and I want to be married and

437
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:11,720
Speaker 1: I want to have children with a person just because

438
00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:13,920
Speaker 1: they're the same sex. That's absolutely crazy to me. Like,

439
00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 1: you know, we don't have to come out and say, hey,

440
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 1: I'm straight, Like you know what I'm saying. Like, I

441
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,840
Speaker 1: just think people just leave people alone and let them

442
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,479
Speaker 1: live their lives. And like I said, on the other

443
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:24,920
Speaker 1: end of it, I think if you want to be

444
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,200
Speaker 1: lame and go on a blog or a platform and

445
00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,920
Speaker 1: talk about your sexual experience, just talk about it. Don't

446
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 1: try to like essentially, like I said, out someone that's

447
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 1: not your position to do that.

448
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 2: That's not fair. Yeah, I mean I agree with that.

449
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,439
Speaker 2: I don't see when I think of coming out the closet,

450
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,400
Speaker 2: I don't more. And so think it's like people having

451
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,960
Speaker 2: to explain they feel for making it like a big thing.

452
00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,679
Speaker 2: But it's like if everybody around you thinks that you're straight,

453
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 2: and then you date another person of the same sex,

454
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,160
Speaker 2: and then you come around with that person you're coming

455
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,359
Speaker 2: out of the closet. It's not that you're making a

456
00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 2: big thing about it. But right, it's like, oh okay, right,

457
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 2: we're like, okay, this is what you know, what I'm saying. Yeah,

458
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 2: but like, and I agree with you as far as saying,

459
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 2: like it should be normal and it should be, but

460
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 2: like being fucking for real to a lot of people's

461
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 2: not right. And like I'm not saying that that's okay,

462
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,680
Speaker 2: Like that's just the reality of this, which is that's

463
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,240
Speaker 2: why we have these type of conversations surrounding these topics. Right,

464
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 2: it should be more normalized, it should be more normal.

465
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:24,959
Speaker 1: But it's nice and it's so crazy because like, bro,

466
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 1: people have been gay since the beginning literally of time,

467
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: Like yeah, but it was always hidden, right, And it's

468
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,239
Speaker 1: just but I feel like it's twenty It's like, bro,

469
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 1: it's twenty twenty.

470
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,200
Speaker 2: Because people would get killed and shit, I mean people

471
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 2: unfortunately that's still happening these days too, still, but back

472
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 2: in the day, it was just like an automatic like

473
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:45,640
Speaker 2: you out of there.

474
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 1: Bro, that's crazy. And like I said, I just feel

475
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 1: like it's twenty twenty three. Why are we still like

476
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 1: shocked or why is it a topic of conversation, Like

477
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 1: there is no reason that it's just.

478
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 2: Very hard for me to like wrap my brain around

479
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 2: things like that, just because I feel like I grew

480
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: up in a very open minded household, you know what

481
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 2: I mean, Like my mom, like I have cousins that

482
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 2: are gay, like openly gave me, openly gave my whole life.

483
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 2: And my mom never care. My dad never cared neither,

484
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 2: Like they never treated anybody differently. They never told me

485
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 2: I couldn't have friends that liked people of the same sex,

486
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 2: even when I was actually dating a girl. I talked

487
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 2: to my mom about it at one point, What letter

488
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 2: are you?

489
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 3: What do you mean on the lgpt q's what letter

490
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 3: are you?

491
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 2: Plus? Okay plus? What's the plus stand for?

492
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I am okay period period.

493
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess b though bisexual? So you are? Do

494
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 2: you identify by certify as bisexual? No, because I think

495
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 2: that for a long period of time now, I have

496
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 2: only strictly been dated strictly thanks lately lately. But at

497
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 2: the same time, like I dated women for so I

498
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 2: feel like I can't really just call myself a hetero

499
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 2: sexual woman. So that's somebody that's only had experiences with men. No,

500
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: I do not at all. Vagina be craving me though

501
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 2: I'm good. Oh okay, bro, this is why I don't

502
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: deal with you. Okay, So let us know how y'all

503
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: feel about that topic, because, like I said, it was

504
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 2: very It was very interesting to me, you know, things

505
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 2: just very interesting. It was very interesting, like and it

506
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 2: shout out to ts Matters and we really love her

507
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 2: over here, y squirrel for sure. So for the next topic,

508
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 2: I thought this was very interesting because, you know, my

509
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 2: last relationship.

510
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: I was in obviously didn't work out. But it ain't

511
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 1: no bad blood, you know, that's my dog. But I

512
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: was like trying to figure out, you know, what was

513
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: going so wrong because we were trying to fix it

514
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 1: for a while and it was just like we just

515
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 1: could not get on the same page. And so I

516
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 1: was like doing research on it, you know, I was

517
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: talking to my therapist about it, and I realized, you know, well,

518
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: she actually educated me on it. We had an anxious

519
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: attachment versus an avoidant attachment, and that shit is fucked

520
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 1: up when you really get fucking deep into it, and

521
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: what and a lot of things I realized. So I'm

522
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: gonna speak personally for a second. I have recently developed

523
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 1: an anxious attachment style. I can say that because I

524
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: went through some trauma last year with my mom passing,

525
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,199
Speaker 1: So it developed like it just like because I used

526
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: to not be the person that had those characteristics.

527
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 3: So you have them right there, the anxious attachment.

528
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 2: So read to the class some signs that show that

529
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: you have an ancient anxious Why can I keep saying

530
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: ancient anxious attachment style? Go ahead, right? So number one

531
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 2: is signs of codependency, intense emotional discomfort or avoidance of

532
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 2: being the lone, difficulty setting boundaries, fear of abandonment, feeling

533
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 2: like you're unworthy of love, tendency to feel our act

534
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 2: jelly's people, pleasing tendencies, low self esteem, tolerating unhealthy behaviors

535
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 2: and relationships, and it's some more. It's just it's literally

536
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 2: like a holy So a lot of it is like

537
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you all perfect example, like when you're

538
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 2: texting someone and like you text them and they don't

539
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 2: text you immediately back. So what my therapist actually told

540
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 2: me it was like when you have that codependency, you

541
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 2: get at dopamine levels. Right, So when you get a

542
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 2: text from that person, Dopamine is released into your brain,

543
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 2: so you attach yourself to this person makes me feel good.

544
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: So that's when you start to become dependent on this

545
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 2: person just to make your day. So you people out

546
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 2: there that be like I didn't hear from him today,

547
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 2: I had a terrible day.

548
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 3: And you're upset because it's just been one day and you.

549
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: Don't hear from somebody, you probably have anxious attachment.

550
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 2: And somebody who's avoidant, Oh, they on the whole other

551
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 2: end of the spectrum.

552
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 1: Because you have to realize anxious attachment people have grown

553
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 1: up with a lot of emotional love, so they're so

554
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 1: overstimulated with emotion where they overthink and they actually do

555
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 1: too a little too much, like they need to relax

556
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 1: a little bit. Avoidant people never have that emotional love.

557
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 1: Like if you want to know an avoid a nigga,

558
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: he gonna say, oh, me and my mom never said

559
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: I love you growing up, or I'm not an affectionate person,

560
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: or you know, they don't really tell they homeboys, I love.

561
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: You like me and my friends we all like we

562
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 2: say I love you all the time. Yeah, But I

563
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 2: have to disagree with that because I'm like that's what

564
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 2: avoidant is. Well, I understand, but I'm just saying that

565
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 2: might not be the case for everybody. I feel like

566
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 2: you can be a person with an avoiding attachment styling.

567
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: That doesn't necessarily mean that you didn't grow up getting

568
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 2: love and affection, Cause I feel like I grew up

569
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 2: getting a lot of love and addiction. I'm just an

570
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 2: avoiding person, like I don't really care to like deal

571
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 2: with emotions and she a lot of the time is right,

572
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,959
Speaker 2: Like I don't feel like talking about these right now.

573
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 2: I don't feel like dealing with these right now, so

574
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 2: I'm avoid the situation. But it has nothing to do

575
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 2: with my upbringing.

576
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 3: Well, I'll say this when you're not and.

577
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 2: More so to me, I definitely feel like it's kind

578
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 2: of the same thing or similar to like love languages

579
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 2: and what we've talked about love languages on the show.

580
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,479
Speaker 2: I think, just like with love languages, you should date

581
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 2: somebody who exactly has the same type of style asy

582
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 2: because it's just not gonna work.

583
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: Well, let me say what you just said, because what

584
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: you said is like you be like, Okay, I don't

585
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: want to deal with this, I don't want.

586
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 2: To see about dealing with that shit. But you'll eventually

587
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 2: deal with it. You'll lay still being avoidant. But no, listen,

588
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 2: listen to what I'm telling you. Avoidance will actually completely

589
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: ignore it, suppress it.

590
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 3: They want to sweep it under the rug.

591
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: They'll let a lot of time go by.

592
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 3: Then they'll hit you up like what you doing tonight?

593
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: Or they'll send a fun they'll send a funny meme

594
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: or a funny gift. They're not talking at all about it.

595
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: That's why I said, I wouldn't even category categorize you

596
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: as an avoidant because you're eventually you're an emotionally intelligent Drea.

597
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: So you're avoidant. People are not emotionally intelligent. They're not

598
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: even addressing it ever. That's what I'm saying is the difference. Right, So,

599
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,719
Speaker 1: avoidant people are going to they're the people that are

600
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: hot and cold, you know, like one day they're like,

601
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I love you, I want to be

602
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: with you, I want to spend the rest of my

603
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 1: life with you. And then a person that's anxious is

604
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: gonna be like, Okay, we're here. I finally did it,

605
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: I finally proved myself and then'm.

606
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 2: Like, oh wait, you you really wanted to be together.

607
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: That means I have to commit to you. So anxious

608
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 2: attachment people they like, right, Like they like consistency, they

609
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: like consistent you know, they want to like this is

610
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: what I need. But you can only be one or

611
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 2: one of them. No, they're actually more out there. But

612
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: these are the two most common. These are the two

613
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 2: most common.

614
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: So avoidant people are like they basically say shit, they

615
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: don't mean They'll tell you they love.

616
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: You and they don't mean it, or they might mean it,

617
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 2: but they don't want to be held up to that standard.

618
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 2: So so say me and you are basically y'all it's

619
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 2: for attachment style. Yeah, it's more than that you have.

620
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 2: Well yeah, no, no, I'm That's why I'm saying more

621
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 2: than these two. Yeah. So it says secure attachment, anxious

622
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 2: ambivalent attachment, or anxious attachment, dismissive avoiding attachment or avoiding attachment,

623
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 2: and then fearful avoiding attachment or disorganized attachment. Yeah, all

624
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: of them gets super super deep. Right, So that's why

625
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: I said I wanted to you know, so you could

626
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: do your So. Yeah, ones like, yeah, I'm probably one

627
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: of the other ones because I'm like, if it's only

628
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 2: too anxious and avoiding definitely ain't anxious. Yeah, So, like,

629
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 2: say me and you're in a relationship and you're like,

630
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 2: you know what, Alex, I love you, so now me,

631
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, we're in love now, so I'm holding

632
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 2: you as a at a certain standard of a person

633
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 2: who loves me. But now that you told me you

634
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: loved me, I'm expecting a certain treatment or I'm expecting.

635
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 3: Things to be like this, ABCDE.

636
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 1: And you're like, oh wait, I love you, but I

637
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: don't want know expectations, Like I just love you. I

638
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: can I just love you without expectations. But it's like,

639
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: that's not how an anxious person can be loved.

640
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 2: But also we gotta heal on both sides, y'all. When

641
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: I tell y'all, it gets really deep and really crazy.

642
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 2: So that's crazy that I mean.

643
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 1: I know, you know, you probably identify with one of those,

644
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: but I really feel like y'all need to identify what's.

645
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 2: Probably number four was a fearful avoiding attachment or disorganized attachment.

646
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 2: You may face inner conflicts between wanting intimacy and having

647
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 2: a fear of getting too close. They enjoy being alone,

648
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 2: like to the point to where.

649
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 1: Anxious attachment people find joy in sharing space and you know,

650
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: having a person, and they thrive and being alone, like

651
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: if they feel like if they got somebody against them,

652
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: they feel like the world is against them. Avoiding people

653
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: usually do they feel like they are enemy number one.

654
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: They don't trust people, they don't do nothing. So that's

655
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Speaker 1: why it's so hard for this two people to meet

656
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: in the middle because neither one of them feels like

657
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: they need to heal. They anxious people feel like, oh

658
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: I'm perfect, and avoiding people be like, oh, this is normal.

659
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 2: So I know that my shit has recently developed.

660
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: Like I said, for my trauma and going through things,

661
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: I just became dependent, not even on that relationship, just

662
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: on a lot of toxic behaviors and.

663
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Speaker 2: A lot of times like you always been like a

664
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Speaker 2: person like a relationship person that needs to be in relation.

665
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: Now that's to me, that's still but that's but that's

666
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: not anxious. It's not like I was gonna have a

667
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: like a good day regard like I wasn't. I've never

668
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: been that person like, oh my god, he didn't text

669
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: me today because you know me, I used to be

670
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: like okay, well, i'm'a just you know, talk to this

671
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: person or talk to that person. I actually developed like

672
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: an unhealthy dependency on somebody like and I've never done that,

673
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: Like I've never been that person. Like I've always been like, oh,

674
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,479
Speaker 1: let me stay busy, Oh forget about him, I'll move

675
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: on and do this and do that, you know, being young.

676
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: And having fun.

677
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: But I realized, like, Okay, this is unhealthy because I'm

678
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: trying to feel a void of something and I'm instead

679
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 1: of healing and recognizing that, I'm trying to feel it

680
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: with things that are not healthy for me, you know

681
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And so it started to become that like,

682
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: oh my god, I gotta talk to this person. I

683
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: gotta talk to this I got to talk to this person,

684
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying to where it's like

685
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: it got physical with my body. I started feeling weird,

686
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like feeling sick or couldn't

687
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: sleep and things like that. I'm like, bro, i feel

688
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: like out of my body, like I'm in a different shell.

689
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: So yes, I've always had like a certain like attachment

690
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: style because I'm a relationship girl. I get like I

691
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: just always have been that girl in relationships. But like

692
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: I said, this past situation, I can take a lot

693
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: of accountability on that just because, like I said, I was,

694
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: I have developed anxiety so bad this past year, Like

695
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: I actually talked to you about that before.

696
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Speaker 2: Like, my anxiety is so bad. I feel like I'm

697
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 2: just now getting control over it, you know what I'm saying.

698
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Speaker 1: So it's just things that I know that I have

699
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: to work through and get control of it. But I

700
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Speaker 1: wanted to talk about this because I really really want

701
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: y'all to identify the type of person you are and

702
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: try to identify the type of person that you're dating.

703
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 2: And y'all need to have a conversation. I don't even

704
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 2: think y'all need to have y'all are like going at it.

705
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: I I mean, yeah, but if I just feel like

706
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 2: I don't y'all, I don't know. I just feel like

707
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 2: if you always constantly not getting along with somebody, that

708
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: is an unhealthy relationship period a healthy relationship you are

709
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: not constantly going at it with right with somebody, and

710
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 2: y'all don't understand each other. I think that people who

711
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 2: have similar type of relationship styles and shit should date

712
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: each other. Then if you don't. Y'all shouldn't date each

713
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: other because it's gonna be very toxic and y'all gonna

714
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: be arguing and along all the time and he's just

715
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Speaker 2: never gonna work.

716
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Speaker 1: Well, I say this in a way was I was

717
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Speaker 1: talking like I because I'm trying to be thinking like broad.

718
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Speaker 1: So I wasn't talking about necessarily like just a relationship

719
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: type things. I mean like if you have a friendship

720
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: or sister. This is not just selected to a man

721
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 1: and a woman, or you not two people dating if

722
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Speaker 1: you have.

723
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Speaker 5: A baby daddy.

724
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 2: But we weren't specifically we're talking about dating. Yeah, yeah,

725
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: we're talking about dating. But that's why, Yeah that as

726
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 2: far as dating goes.

727
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: So so yeah, you're correct on that as dating, because

728
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: I one hundred percent of dating shouldn't be that hard.

729
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 2: I think the same thing with friendships too. I think

730
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 2: the same thing I think relationships period. If you and

731
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 2: somebody do not get along, y'all are constantly arguing and

732
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: bickering and y'all just don't see out of eye, then

733
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 2: maybe that's just not a compatible relationship. And maybe that

734
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 2: goes into play with me kind of being the type

735
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 2: of person where I be cool on people like, I'm

736
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 2: cool with walking away from people I'm not working. I

737
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 2: don't care how long we've been cool. I don't care

738
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: how long we've been dating. I don't care about none

739
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: of that shit. I will walk away from a situation

740
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 2: if it feels toxic, because if you're somebody that I'm

741
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 2: choosing to have in my life, because we choose to

742
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 2: have friends, we choose to have partners, we choose to

743
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 2: have relationships. Right the only people that are in our

744
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 2: life that we did not choose use and even and

745
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 2: despite popular belief, once you become an adult, you can

746
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 2: choose if you want your family in your life too.

747
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 2: That's what I was about. At the end of the day.

748
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 2: If you getting on my fucking carves and you I

749
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: can't stand you when we're not getting along, or you

750
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,399
Speaker 2: seem like you don't never want to see things my way,

751
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 2: or we don't see out of eye, I'm cutting it off.

752
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna try to understand your style because these

753
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 2: other people out there that are compatible for you.

754
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 1: But like I said, in certain situations, like I said,

755
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: some people, well no, I mean like cause I know

756
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: we're at.

757
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Speaker 2: Today and age when people feel like people will cut

758
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Speaker 2: their own mom.

759
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Speaker 3: Off, which that's understanding.

760
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Speaker 1: But I'm sometimes people, you know, for the people who

761
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,760
Speaker 1: do want to work it out, because sometimes two people

762
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Speaker 1: they're not seeing out of I like, remember we had

763
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Speaker 1: that conversation when Michelle Obama said her and Obama.

764
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Speaker 2: Weren't getting along for eight years. Yes, but they're married.

765
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Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, But it also has to

766
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Speaker 2: Try it, y'all. You won't regret it, period. So I

789
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Speaker 2: was just saying, like, for people that want this is

790
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Speaker 2: for people who want to work it out on both ends,

791
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: Like yes, like say you and your.

792
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 1: Baby daddy and not getting along. Y'all have kids, y'all

793
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: have to talk. So this is for y'all for the

794
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: people who want to work it out on both sides.

795
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: Like like you said, I'm agreeing with you, But this

796
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 1: is for the people who do want to work it

797
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: out on both sides. I think a conversation needs to

798
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Speaker 1: be had if y'all both wanted and y'all are both

799
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 1: willing to try.

800
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 2: But if you feel like fuck that nigga girl for that,

801
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 2: that's not just say it needs to be mutual, yeah

802
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 2: for sure. Yeah, So now it's time to get into

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Speaker 2: the bed. The bed a bow bow a bow bow bow.

804
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Speaker 1: All right, this is actually an interesting topic because child,

805
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: when I tell y'all that the boys have been wild

806
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: and lately, so today we're gonna talk about passport brothers.

807
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 2: What you think we're gonna get into this for a second. So, Drea,

808
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 2: have you ever had a male friend or even somebody

809
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 2: that you knew that would travel out the country to

810
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 2: have sex? No?

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Speaker 6: I have not.

812
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 2: Nobody. No, never went to the d Bottle little puffser

813
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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if they did. It wasn't

814
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Speaker 2: something that they disclose to me. I told me about,

815
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: but like, not nobody that I was close to with

816
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 2: to No, they weren't traveling out of the country specifically

817
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 2: to source pussy, right, That's not why they was going.

818
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 2: Like if they went and they happened to have sex

819
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Speaker 2: with the young lady that was.

820
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Speaker 5: There, then okay.

821
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Speaker 2: I mean, well, then okay, because those type of things happen.

822
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 2: People go on vacation all the time and end up

823
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Speaker 2: having sex with like the locals or whatever the case

824
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Speaker 2: they mean. But that's completely different from going somewhere specifically

825
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Speaker 2: to fine some pussy.

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Speaker 7: Right.

827
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Speaker 2: No, I don't know anybody that that desperate I'm glad

828
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Speaker 2: you said that.

829
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Speaker 3: I do not desperate is the key word here.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the things that I've seen from the Passport brothers is, oh,

831
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Speaker 1: these American women they want too much.

832
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Speaker 2: If y'all want to be loved on, y'all want to

833
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Speaker 2: be x y Z.

834
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Speaker 1: But also I'm seeing that the women there are like

835
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Speaker 1: a lot of times don't even want them there. Y'all

836
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Speaker 1: are not only getting rejected in America, y'all are going

837
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Speaker 1: over there and getting rejected as well. A lot of

838
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 1: videos have gone viral where like men be out there

839
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,399
Speaker 1: spending they last and can't even get home. I feel

840
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: like this, wherever country you're in, I don't care where

841
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Speaker 1: you are. If you literally have to fly out of

842
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Speaker 1: your you gotta get a passport. Because they're they're they're saying,

843
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Speaker 1: is get a passport. Get a passport, brothers.

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Speaker 2: If you have to go, get a passport, get your

845
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Speaker 2: ass on a Spirit flight because you know they be

846
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Speaker 2: flying Spirit.

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Speaker 3: Baby, they ain't on Delta one hund.

848
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Speaker 2: I don't know because Spirit don't go everywhere.

849
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Speaker 3: They go to the dr that's where they're going.

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Speaker 2: They be going to the place. No, they be going

851
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Speaker 2: to other places. But because I don't see some of

852
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: the passport. Bro, I'm about to say, they be going

853
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Speaker 2: to Thailand, they be going to different places in Asia,

854
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Speaker 2: and I don't think Spirit is going No, Spirit not

855
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Speaker 2: going there.

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Speaker 1: But that plane might break down, break it's given the

857
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Speaker 1: greyhound of the sky.

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Speaker 2: That plane might break down over what's the sea called

859
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Speaker 2: this over there? Is it the not the Mediterranean Seed?

860
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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 9: Is not.

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00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 2: Drunking her own goddamn drink howagally? But yes, like that,

863
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Speaker 2: that's sucking, playing on breakdown. I wouldn't trespeard to give

864
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Speaker 2: me that for it. But yeah, a lot of them

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Speaker 2: changing planes and ship hell no, hell now I got

866
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: a mom. I'm gonna share that story. But anyways, Yeah,

867
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 2: if you have to go get a passport, Mediterranean Medrane

868
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 2: and the Red Seed, we're both right.

869
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 3: And I was wrong because I was about persisting.

870
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 2: Anyways. So it's just over there on the West coast.

871
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: I keep sipping the butterfly pee.

872
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: So if you have to get your ass a passport,

873
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 1: hop by a flight, hop your ass on a plane,

874
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,280
Speaker 1: fly to another country just for a woman to entertain

875
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: you that.

876
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 2: You are low key, not even low key, that you're.

877
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 1: Straight up paying for You need to do some internal

878
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: healing and searching and get yourself together because you just lang.

879
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 2: I just think it's weird because I think that for

880
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: whatever reason, a lot of like the passport bros. They'll

881
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 2: go to these other countries and you know, find these

882
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 2: women and then want to marry them and bring them

883
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 2: back to the United States and like take care of

884
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 2: them and pay all a bulls and they don't have

885
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 2: to work and all of these stuff. But then they

886
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 2: talk down on American women for essentially wanting and doing

887
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 2: the same thing. So like, what's the difference is it?

888
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 2: Like is she more worth because inflation? But no, but

889
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 2: pussy isn't flatd here. You could buy forty dollars pussy

890
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 2: in the DR. I'm not you can about forty dollars

891
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 2: pussy here. That's why I beg toen Well, I'm saying,

892
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 2: but the forty I'm not gonna lie to. The forty

893
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 2: dollars pussy in DR is different from the forty dollars

894
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 2: pussy here, easy, Yeah it is. I'm it's different.

895
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: You can get some forty dollars pussy and she got

896
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: a bbl in DR and she walking down I'm serious.

897
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 2: If you having sex for forty dollars and you were smart,

898
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 2: like not smart, but if you was able to pay,

899
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 2: they called your slipping. They called if you could find somebody,

900
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: if you could find somebody to pay for your BBL

901
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: or you can get care credited, or you gotta scam

902
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,359
Speaker 2: or whatever you did. You can't scam another four thousand dollars.

903
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: Why are you having sex for forty They probably had

904
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 2: sex mans, but the forty dollar pussy. Yeah, that's probably

905
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 2: how they got there. Yeah, you don't have any niggas,

906
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: You got to have six sweep. Lola Broke said that

907
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 2: what Lola Brook said in that song, you fucked like

908
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:55,359
Speaker 2: one hundred niggas honey beans, exactly that right there.

909
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: But what I'm telling you, look at Lola brook math

910
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 1: a hundred niggas for a hundred bands, So that means

911
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 1: the pussy is going for a thousand dollars. A thousand

912
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: dollars texts they going over there for the discount. You're

913
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: not finding though, you can find some. You can low key,

914
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. She maybe ain't ship,

915
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 1: but she gonna be fine. You can get some thousand

916
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: dollar pussy.

917
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 2: Leg you can. I don't know. Bro she gonna be.

918
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: She gonna be a trash ass person. She's gonna be broke,

919
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 2: but she gonna look good. She's gonna lure a little

920
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 2: one two. So we know a girl that sold it

921
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 2: for one thousand dollars. But if she but if she

922
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 2: made a hundred bands, no, we.

923
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 3: Just being dramatic ause of Lola Brook.

924
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:40,800
Speaker 2: That means she fucked a thousand niggas. Wait, what was

925
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 2: the math? She said, hundred niggas for a hundred.

926
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: Oh well wait, I can't remember the math that she said.

927
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I don't know

928
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:47,879
Speaker 1: how many.

929
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,959
Speaker 2: I don't know. She sucked a lot, but the math

930
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 2: wasn't folded dollars. I'm telling you you can go to

931
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 2: d R and find and this is no shade of

932
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:58,439
Speaker 2: the women in DR. I'm just saying this is what's

933
00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 2: going on.

934
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: This is the truth, because I've seen the videos, like

935
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: they're literally going and they're paying forty dollars.

936
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 2: And I'm not lying to you. If you got one

937
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 2: hundred dollars, you can get like four of them. They

938
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 2: were hauling up hot tub together and I see he

939
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 2: talking about I heard the HIV rate is real high

940
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 2: out there too. Yes, I did hear. Yeah, I'm really

941
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 2: not being funny about this. Oh my god, when you

942
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:30,479
Speaker 2: burn that up, you're not supposed to be playing fuck

943
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: ax geez, we're about to do ax griller, you know.

944
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 2: Always I always have a lot of fun fast, a

945
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 2: little fun fast, and I'm weak. So yes, I feel

946
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 2: like the Passport brothers. I feel like, you know, do

947
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 2: what you want to do.

948
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: I don't you know if that's your type, you know

949
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: you want somebody for whatever. I don't care because but

950
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: I have never dated. I can honestly say I've never

951
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: dated a man. I've never been with a man who

952
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: couldn't get American women or couldn't date here. Like when

953
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 1: they go on vacation, they're solely just going on vacation

954
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: to turn up and have a good time.

955
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 2: They're not going out there searching for a partner. But

956
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 2: I don't even think it's that these niggas can't get

957
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 2: American women. They can get American women, they just don't

958
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: want what comes with having.

959
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:11,880
Speaker 3: To date the responsibility.

960
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: Yes, because I'm so sorry, and I mean it's in

961
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 2: the nicest possible way that I can say, But remember

962
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 2: that show that we was we used to watch with

963
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 2: that man that ain't have no nick. Yeah, everybody knows

964
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 2: who I'm talking about, the man, the little man, a

965
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 2: little short her again And no, no he didn't. He's

966
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 2: a passport, bro, Yes, he is a past port. Where

967
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 2: he married that I can't remember what country they was in,

968
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 2: so I don't want to say. I want to in

969
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 2: the Philippines. It was, Yeah, you might be right, you

970
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 2: might be it was the Philippines and he married that

971
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 2: Filipino girl. They were taking showers with chickens. Now, if

972
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 2: you go get somebody that's living like that, yeah, she's

973
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 2: gonna put up with any thing, of course. And she

974
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 2: but she didn't. She left him.

975
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 3: She did.

976
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 2: Imagine, Oh my god, I don't even want to say,

977
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 2: look at the material. I would have left that nigga too.

978
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 2: Oh he was sweet, he was controlled. He was mean.

979
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 2: Remember he told her control. He said her breath stunk

980
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 2: and she needed to shave her. Well, if you with chickens,

981
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 2: I don't put it past you.

982
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 3: It almost made me spu my changage.

983
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 2: Probably he shower room with chickens is wild. Yeah, it

984
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 2: was a wild episode. Oh my god.

985
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 3: I was tuned in.

986
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,280
Speaker 2: That was That was a good quote. And I barely

987
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:40,320
Speaker 2: ever watched reality shows, but that was a good Do

988
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 2: you remember that other Man season?

989
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 1: He got kicked off because remember he was dating the

990
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: Russian girl and she didn't want to settle down on him,

991
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: and she decided that she did, and she flew from

992
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: Russia to where he was and she knocked on the

993
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:53,879
Speaker 1: door and another woman answered the door.

994
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 2: That was the same season.

995
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 1: Remember this tea got hot, y'all and come to find out,

996
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: he was a feeling y'all and he did something he

997
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 1: was and.

998
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 2: They had to kick him off the show. I said, oh,

999
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: look what that money make a bitch do. So yeah,

1000
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 2: Passport Brothers, I feel like I think it's half and half.

1001
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 2: I think it's half of them don't want to have

1002
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 2: the you know, bring to the table what American women

1003
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 2: A lot of American women.

1004
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 3: Require, but a lot of them they don't have it.

1005
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 3: Because I'm not gonna lie like the video.

1006
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 2: Do you think that they're in cells?

1007
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, a lot of a lot of Passport Brothers are, yes.

1008
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: Because they're gonna, you know what they're gonna do. They're

1009
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: gonna find this and they're gonna bust it into a clip.

1010
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 1: They're about to rip us apart.

1011
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 2: Oh they are. I'm telling you what they're gonna. They

1012
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 2: can't rip me a pary know what I'm saying. In

1013
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 2: their world, In their world, they're gonna like they don't

1014
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,720
Speaker 2: think that they ate that you can't rip me apart.

1015
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 2: I got more than forty dollars. I seen a man

1016
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 2: get stuck out there, Drea. He spent all his money.

1017
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 3: She rented up on his ass.

1018
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: He spent all his money in the dr. He was

1019
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 1: literally trying to start a gofund me to get back home.

1020
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: He was in the I don't know then. NAS didn't

1021
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 2: find out because I was like, I got money, I

1022
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 2: bet you won't it a life of a passport brother.

1023
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 2: So if you're a passport brother, honestly, we're not attacking.

1024
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 2: Why are you passport brothers? Isn't that what they are?

1025
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 2: I just be seeing passport bro. I'm trying to be

1026
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 2: politically correct. This girl's talking about passport brothers. I cannot believe.

1027
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 2: What's that man name with a no neck? I don't

1028
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: want to call him no neck, dang. I don't know.

1029
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 2: Somebody's look at somebody google him Big The original Passport.

1030
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 2: His name really big Big Ed or did you just

1031
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 2: add that? Damn shout out to the original Passport? But

1032
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 2: I you know, I'm like maybe a thad being around

1033
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,760
Speaker 2: us for so long. He trying to be not calling

1034
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 2: that bad about stand up? Now you know how we

1035
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:03,760
Speaker 2: always be like adding big in front of people. Okay,

1036
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 2: So if honestly, if you're a Passport brother, leave a

1037
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 2: We want to know what y'all got to say, because

1038
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 2: I know you'll about to stitch this video and talk

1039
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 2: about us anyway. So uh now we're gonna get into

1040
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 2: dub dubut this my second drink me too. Are you

1041
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 2: feeling that? Yes? I am. Why did you ask?

1042
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: Because I was just like this butterfly teeth and it

1043
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: made me fly this but a butterfly pee.

1044
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 6: I do.

1045
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:43,439
Speaker 2: It was one of them littles. Okay, So my bob

1046
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 2: this week is gotta do another episode. Heard it. I

1047
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 2: was having a ball.

1048
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 5: I don't know about you.

1049
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 2: So my bop is a song called Hydration by David

1050
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 2: Michael Wyatt.

1051
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 3: It is such a vibe y'all, it's crazy.

1052
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to say his name wrong because it

1053
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 1: was written by Toby and Wue.

1054
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 3: The Houston rapper. He's really popular.

1055
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 2: It's just a vibe like I really love songs.

1056
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 1: I really want us to get back to the good lyrics.

1057
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:16,800
Speaker 1: And y'all know I'm a lyric person. I'm trying to

1058
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 1: hear what you're talking about.

1059
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 2: So yeah. Hydration by David Michael White. Y'all. I know

1060
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 2: y'all like my bops and y'all be downloading them, but

1061
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 2: please download this song and listen to it. It is

1062
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 2: so good.

1063
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: Side note I got a side note bop of the week. Uh,

1064
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: Tony Braxton let it flow. Oh my god, shit, babyface

1065
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 1: got in his big bag when he wrote that because

1066
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: it was so real, like you just gotta let it.

1067
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 2: Slow, let it go, let it go, let it go.

1068
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 2: Everything's gonna work out, right, man. I was listening to that.

1069
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 1: I said, oh, Tony hits they sing. I mean that

1070
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: deep register was different. The girls are not singing like Tony, bro.

1071
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: They not ain't got it. Maybe we should do a

1072
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 2: Tony song today so I can do my Tony impression.

1073
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 3: Let's give us a little sample.

1074
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 2: Nope, you gotta wait till it's times. I gotta I

1075
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 2: gotta save my vocals, letting my vocal chords Risks. Okay,

1076
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 2: So my boy of the Week is I feel like

1077
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 2: I haven't had this nigga as my boaye put the

1078
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 2: week in a long ass time. And like I last summer, well,

1079
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,280
Speaker 2: two summers ago, I was really fucking with EStG.

1080
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: Like god, I won't no, I'm just I've seen a

1081
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: picture of him the other day and he just looks

1082
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: so different now he do.

1083
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 2: He looks good. He looks different. I really liked his

1084
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,439
Speaker 2: music two summers ago. Like I was in the gym

1085
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 2: working out every day and like that album. That album

1086
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 2: really got me through my workouts. Said ship, it was

1087
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 2: just like a lit summer fifty degrees. That was my song,

1088
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 2: Like it was, bro, if I heard that ship one

1089
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 2: more time, you was every time you would get in

1090
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 2: my car and I had just got that car, so

1091
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 2: it was a fund somewhere good time. So yes, y'all.

1092
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: So is TG got the song called the One and Only,

1093
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 2: and I like it. It's not cute, it's yeah, I

1094
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 2: always hyodyself. Okay, Yeah, I shouldn't say he's cute though,

1095
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:24,720
Speaker 2: so that ain't. He don't make cute music. He real nigga.

1096
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 2: He make gangster music for the hood. Niggas like me. So, yeah,

1097
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 2: you are a hood negro. I am and even and

1098
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 2: even by definition. If you look up a hood negro,

1099
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 2: dragonna be like this.

1100
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: Well, okay, so for the id of the week this week,

1101
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: we can read it behind my back.

1102
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:51,399
Speaker 2: But I gotta reach down in my per so y'all,

1103
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 2: y'all know, I am a skincare in my head, Guru.

1104
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 2: I love my skincare. I'm not gonna lie.

1105
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,200
Speaker 1: I fell off for a little bit, but I got

1106
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 1: back on it. I started using my retino again. If

1107
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,959
Speaker 1: you know, if you use retinall, it makes your skin peel.

1108
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 1: You know, it prevents wrinkles.

1109
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 2: Retinol. It's so good for you, y'all. Like if you

1110
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: if you're in your thirties.

1111
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: And you haven't incorporated retinol in your skincare routine, man

1112
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: or woman or whatever, please do it works?

1113
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,320
Speaker 2: Wonders y'all always be asking me legs, y'all, skin is

1114
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,439
Speaker 2: so good, Like what do you do? Like, I don't

1115
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 2: care what you use. Make sure you use sunscreen, vitamin C.

1116
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 2: You rotate that with the retina and retinall. You can't

1117
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,800
Speaker 2: use vitamin C and retinol the same day, especially you

1118
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 2: have sensitive skin. But honestly, don't listen to me. Go

1119
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 2: to your institution and you are you are your dermatologists.

1120
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 2: But so yeah, so I started using my Retino again.

1121
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 2: I started peeling really bad. So I'm doing my makeup

1122
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 2: and I don't know if y'all noticed, like a few

1123
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 2: of the episodes, I haven't been wearing a lot of

1124
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 2: makeup lately because, like I was putting my makeup on,

1125
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, my skin is so dry. I'm trying to

1126
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 2: like prep my skin. I do the same thing and

1127
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,839
Speaker 2: it's just not working. Like cause I like a Matt face.

1128
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 2: I don't really care for the dewey look unless I

1129
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 2: have no makeup on.

1130
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: So I was just like on a win buying everything

1131
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: from OL to y'all know I shop till I drop

1132
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 1: when I go on to Alta, So I just grab this.

1133
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: I just wanted to try it. It's all to Beauty's

1134
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: moisturizing primer spray, So you just spray this on before

1135
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: obviously you know you do your makeup, y'all. When I

1136
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: tell y'all, this is the best product ever. Like, if

1137
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: you have dry skin and you want to do a

1138
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: Matt look, or you don't even not even a matt look.

1139
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: You know, you just want your makeup to be smooth

1140
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: and your skin is peeling. Whatever you got going on,

1141
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:35,320
Speaker 1: please use this cause you know the girls are applying

1142
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 1: their makeup when it's.

1143
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 2: Low key kind of wet, and I've been seeing that.

1144
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 2: So this gonna spray it up.

1145
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: Spray up, apply your makeup like usual, and it's.

1146
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:44,240
Speaker 3: Gonna be smooth.

1147
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: It's butter okay, So yes, alta beauty primer spray. I'm

1148
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: gonna make make sure we do like an Amazon list

1149
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 1: and stuff and link it below.

1150
00:54:53,360 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, fine, fa huh period period pool time to

1151
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 2: get into our favorite stigment of the show, which is

1152
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 2: pour your heart out. So you know, if you have

1153
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 2: any questions, you can always send them to ask poor

1154
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 2: Minds at gmail dot com. That's as kp o U

1155
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 2: r in my nds at gmail dot com. Send in

1156
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 2: your questions, sending in your testimonials and yup, let's go ahead,

1157
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 2: get his party store. All right, back at that name,

1158
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 2: all right, question number one. Who Oh, I'm from the

1159
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:31,439
Speaker 2: Bay Area. My name is Ninni or Nana. Oh girl,

1160
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 2: Oh my bad, she said, any any h Then she

1161
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 2: put in Nna so i guess she's telling me how

1162
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 2: to pronounce in my bed. I'm twenty four and I

1163
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 2: know what I want in life, and I'm currently working

1164
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,800
Speaker 2: towards my dream job. At the moment, I found the

1165
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 2: love of my life. But he a street nigga. He

1166
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 2: told me he's twenty eight, but his driver's license say

1167
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 2: he was born in nineteen eighty five. Okay, that happened

1168
00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 2: to me before. This is crazy. He all the time,

1169
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 2: but I don't know. But no I don't care because

1170
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 2: I know when he lying. I met him in October,

1171
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 2: but before we had sex in December, he said he

1172
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,759
Speaker 2: wanted to be my boyfriend, and I said, no, let's

1173
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 2: just see where this goes because I was only down

1174
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 2: to fuck. He's six three slinking fast forward a year

1175
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 2: and I'm in love now and I want him to

1176
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 2: be my husband. I ain't never went on a date

1177
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,720
Speaker 2: with this man. We only kissed a handful of times.

1178
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 2: Why do I love this man so much? He blocked

1179
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 2: me for three months, then started talking to me normally

1180
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 2: as if we friends. What should I do to make

1181
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 2: him mind for life? Because I'm really in love with

1182
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 2: the dick too?

1183
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 5: Can fuck?

1184
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,439
Speaker 2: Buddy's really turning to husband and wife. If why don't

1185
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 2: get his twisted ladies. I have three niggas on the

1186
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 2: back burner. I'm young and the sheep, and I go

1187
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,479
Speaker 2: on dates with different niggas every other weekend. My age

1188
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 2: are older. Men in California are really broken. I can't

1189
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 2: get down with anybody who doesn't love they family. I

1190
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 2: feel like my soon to be husband, this nigga is

1191
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 2: the solid and the one helped me. Sisters.

1192
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 1: First, all, you know, he's a liar you're talking about.

1193
00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 1: You can tell when he lies. That nigga old as fuck.

1194
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 1: That nigga's literally probably old enough to be your grandpa.

1195
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: That was his fake idea.

1196
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 2: Hey, he was born in eighty five and I'm thirty

1197
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,320
Speaker 2: one and I was born in ninety one, Then that

1198
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 2: means damn Hicks. No, that means he like thirty seven,

1199
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 2: right he thirty seven? Thirty eight? Yeah, he definitely way

1200
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 2: older than you.

1201
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: He's way older than you, and honestly he's running game

1202
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: on you a man at that age. Like, I'm not

1203
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 1: gonna say he necessarily knows what you want because I

1204
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: can't speak for this stranger. I don't know, but like, girl,

1205
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: you young, you're twenty four I always tell y'all this

1206
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: sometimes when you know you know, So I'm not telling

1207
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 1: girls like if you're twenty four and dating somebody, just leave.

1208
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: But if you're in an area of uncertainty, somebody who

1209
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: really loves you is never gonna have you in a

1210
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 1: gray area and an area of certain uncertainty alone, Like

1211
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: when you know you know, and y'all know together, so

1212
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 1: y'all gonna be working together.

1213
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 2: And furthermore too, like she said that he ain't never

1214
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 2: even took her on a date, Like they ain't never

1215
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 2: went on no dates. It's like, girl, go to your

1216
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 2: other three niggas and yeah, like I feel like if

1217
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 2: you if you was telling the story or painting the

1218
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 2: scenario and I was like, okay, that's cute, like he

1219
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 2: treats you real nice and stuff, like I could get

1220
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 2: past the fact that you was twenty four. But you

1221
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:17,440
Speaker 2: said he a street nigga. He lied to you by

1222
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 2: his age and he's gonna be taking you on dates

1223
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:23,919
Speaker 2: and I don't like that, and you still be dating

1224
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 2: other niggas, so clearly you don't like him like this, Yeah,

1225
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 2: you're not investing because if you was really feeling this

1226
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 2: nigga and really fucking with this nigga like that, you

1227
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 2: wouldn't be dating nobody else, but she would be invested

1228
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 2: if he was invested, and obviously he's not invested, so

1229
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 2: that's why it's just like a but even now, but

1230
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 2: even if he wasn't invested in us, as women, we

1231
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 2: can't help but naturally, like if you really like somebody,

1232
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 2: you really only be into their person.

1233
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 5: Unfortunately.

1234
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's just an n eight thing as

1235
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 2: a woman. So it's just like, yeah, you ain't really

1236
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 2: feeling him like they girl, he just got their good deeds.

1237
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 1: I been there at twenty four. Yeah, so you live

1238
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: and you learn, girl, you ain't. I don't like this

1239
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: nigga two years from now. Let's move on. Okay, So

1240
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 1: question number two, Hey Lexendrea, I love y'all so much.

1241
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 2: Y'all are so beautiful.

1242
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: I will try to explain this to the best of

1243
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: my ability without sounding negative. I notice whenever I go

1244
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: out with a group of friends, guys always try to

1245
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,920
Speaker 1: talk to my friends, which I absolutely don't have a

1246
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: problem with as long as they are not on no

1247
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: weird stuff.

1248
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 2: However, if things don't work out with them, then they.

1249
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: Try to holler at me I don't understand what makes

1250
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 1: guys think that I would be okay with being a

1251
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: second option. Every one of my friends is beautiful in

1252
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 1: their own way, and I know that I'm beautiful too,

1253
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: but it feels like every time I go out with them,

1254
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 1: I start doubting myself and have negative thoughts.

1255
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 2: I know that I shouldn't judge my att attractiveness.

1256
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: Based on who guys are trying to holler at, but

1257
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: for once, I would like to be approached first. I

1258
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: don't know if either of you can relate to the situation,

1259
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 1: but I do.

1260
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 2: Want to know your thoughts.

1261
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 7: Well.

1262
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 2: I can't relate. I can't relate. I'm always the first way.

1263
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:07,439
Speaker 2: But I just feel like, you know, you shouldn't place

1264
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 2: your self value on what people like. How men are

1265
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 2: trying to holleranate your friends. You know what I mean,

1266
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 2: Because just because a nigga trying to hoilight your friend girl,

1267
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 2: that nigga might be ain't she, Or that nigga might

1268
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 2: not even be your type, So who cares that he

1269
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 2: trying to talk to your friend? You know what I mean?

1270
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 2: Unless well, I mean, even if it's somebody that you

1271
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 2: think you might be interested in, this is not a

1272
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 2: page out of my book. But a lot of people

1273
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 2: have told me what works for them is like actually

1274
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 2: saying something to the people that they attracted to, or

1275
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 2: the people that they feel like they want to try

1276
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 2: to talk to or get their attention. If a man

1277
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 2: isn't coming to you and you out and you think

1278
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 2: he cute, maybe you should say something to him, and Zebo,

1279
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 2: our sound engineer is shaking his head. Yes, So obviously

1280
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 2: there are men who would love for women, I think

1281
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 2: to approach them more so, I think maybe you should

1282
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 2: try doing that, you know what I mean.

1283
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: But not only that, I know you're not trying to

1284
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: be negative, but you even having this question just lets

1285
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: me know.

1286
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 2: A lot men can literally smell confidence, they can see it.

1287
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 2: If you're a confident woman, it oozes out of you.

1288
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: So your friends are probably getting picked first, not even

1289
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: because they look better than you, because they probably walking

1290
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:23,560
Speaker 1: in the club not paying attention to them. Niggas, you're

1291
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 1: the one that's probably.

1292
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 2: Looking and you see them, You looking at them, and

1293
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 2: they looking at them because you paying too much attention

1294
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 2: to them. You know what I'm saying, Like, sometimes just

1295
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 2: walk in a spot and have fun, exude your energy

1296
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 2: and be a bright light and just have fun, and

1297
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 2: even if that was going on, you wouldn't even notice it,

1298
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 2: because if that's going on, you're not even gonna notice

1299
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 2: it because guess what, this man about to come up

1300
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 2: and approach you. So you're not even noticing that this

1301
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 2: man then chose her first. So it's like if you

1302
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 2: go on a spy, you have that confidence and you

1303
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 2: feeling yourself and you know you that bitch, They gonna

1304
01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 2: know you that bitch, and they about to come up

1305
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 2: to you. You not even gonna know what that's going

1306
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 2: on because the own your own little crew coming towards you.

1307
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1308
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: I feel like when me and my friends go out,

1309
01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I put this on everything.

1310
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 2: Last time I went to the club when I was

1311
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 2: in Houston, I was actually I had so many drinks

1312
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 2: in my hand because so many niggas was buy me drinks.

1313
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 2: It happens. Sometimes it be hood night, sometimes it be

1314
01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 2: my night. That but guess what we all pulling. I

1315
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck who get the drinks.

1316
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 1: Just give me a goddamn drink, bitch, and I'm about

1317
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: to pass these os out so don't even worry about

1318
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 1: that and pay attention to that. I think you need

1319
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 1: to work on your confidence a little bit and just

1320
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: get in your bag, sir, getting.

1321
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 2: Your bag and approach niggas more people. If I ever

1322
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 2: end up single again, you wanna approach your man maybe

1323
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 2: if I'm interested. I don't think that's any different. I

1324
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 2: don't think that's any different from like liking niggas pictures

1325
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 2: when you want them to slide in your It's the same.

1326
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: What you gonna say, person, what you gonna say when

1327
01:02:57,880 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 1: you when you approach your nigga.

1328
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna say nothing, probably knowing me because I

1329
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 2: don't really got the same with itach. I'm gonna just

1330
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 2: walk over there and like just you know, like no,

1331
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna even touch him. I'm just gone probably

1332
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 2: just you know, if he at the bar or something,

1333
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 2: just walk to the bar and like sit there and

1334
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 2: just sit there.

1335
01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 3: Okay, that's you approaching the man.

1336
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 2: I might buy him a drink or something. You were

1337
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:21,480
Speaker 2: not buying a nigga at drink. I will buy a

1338
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 2: nigga drink. You should sing t Paine while you do it.

1339
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 2: I might buy him drink. Be like cinema. What are

1340
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 2: niggas like to drink?

1341
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 5: Oh?

1342
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 2: Fashion need old fast? What drink like? I feel like

1343
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 2: that's a a sophisticated me and order at the bar.

1344
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 2: Me an old fashioned meat? Do you like a nigga

1345
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 2: in the club and a suit? In two thousand and seven,

1346
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 2: we used to wear our businessiness casual like they was

1347
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 2: in that Usher video member caught up? Was that the

1348
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 2: video where he was like dressed up like you? Was

1349
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:01,400
Speaker 2: dressing like that too, Bro, I used to go to

1350
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 2: the club in a fucking blazer. Yes, I used to

1351
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:05,919
Speaker 2: have a blazer on. I might have had a tie

1352
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 2: on too.

1353
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 5: You never know, Bro, I.

1354
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 3: Could literally leave the club and go to work. That's

1355
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 3: how my opposition.

1356
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 2: We used to be wearing in pencil skirts. Ooh and

1357
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 2: with this little slid on the side.

1358
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 3: Ba man, don't let me pull out the Steve Madden.

1359
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 2: Just getting real nasty to night. We used to be

1360
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 2: some real steppers. This crazy but it's from the reset

1361
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 2: A section. It's funny because we really wasn't but you

1362
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 2: could not tell us. We was like stepping big then

1363
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 2: the big bills. We used to have on I shadow,

1364
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 2: no makeup, no no other makeup, just red lipstick, no liner,

1365
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 2: like you can literally leave your desk and go to

1366
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 2: the section, like you could leave your desk.

1367
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 3: And go to like who's the popping athletes?

1368
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 2: Back then? Kareema Bouja Lor what's his name, bitch, Kareem

1369
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 2: Abdul Jabbar was not popping when I've been an adult.

1370
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: I don't know when what club you were? I oh, y'all,

1371
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 2: grandma what. I don't know what clubs he was going to?

1372
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 2: But he was not at the clubs I was in.

1373
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,640
Speaker 2: And if he was, and if he was, the police

1374
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:10,600
Speaker 2: needed to be called.

1375
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 6: I was.

1376
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 2: I was outside. What's that? Because at eighteen? Why Kareem,

1377
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:18,440
Speaker 2: why are you here? Because I used to be at

1378
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:21,959
Speaker 2: the eighteen and up clubs? First, I fucking I don't

1379
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 2: like that, Okay, all right, all right, I used to

1380
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 2: be outside. I told you, I've been outside since diapers.

1381
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 2: I mean I was born six to eight. Of course

1382
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:36,800
Speaker 2: when I go out to the club, because we were

1383
01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 2: still doing the sketch. That wasn't even doing a sketch.

1384
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 2: That's how I know you just be saying anything because

1385
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 2: they weren't even scatting in nineteen sixty eight. That's when

1386
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 2: Smokey Robinson was popping my do baby. Speaking of him,

1387
01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 2: did you see that video of him dancing?

1388
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 5: It was so cute.

1389
01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 2: The girls used to little Smokey back in the day, shim.

1390
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 2: He needs to have him on the couch. We sing,

1391
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:06,440
Speaker 2: what's the song? I love vand wind Weird cruising?

1392
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want a cruise with I think he got

1393
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 3: some stories.

1394
01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:13,040
Speaker 2: What was that song? He got the moves too? What

1395
01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 2: was that commercial he said he had?

1396
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:16,920
Speaker 3: What he was like talking about crack?

1397
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:18,439
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1398
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 5: What he said?

1399
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 2: He said something like, no gang banging, no crack, something

1400
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 2: like that. She was putting out a ps safe for

1401
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 2: the people. Okay, I didn't get that one. Yeah, he

1402
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:31,439
Speaker 2: was good.

1403
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 3: I told y'am old, now come on right back with that.

1404
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 2: So we're finna get in karaoke.

1405
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 1: If y'a ain't got y'all tickets to the tour, poor

1406
01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: minds dot com. We on the road, We outside, uh

1407
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: we end. We got a voicemail if y'allin't left y'all voicemail,

1408
01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 1: leave y'all voicemail.

1409
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 2: No mind, y'all.

1410
01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 3: This is different from pour your heart out. We want

1411
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:52,439
Speaker 3: to hear y'all.

1412
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:54,479
Speaker 1: You know, get whatever you gotta get off your chas.

1413
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna put the number below. See y'all, make sure

1414
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 1: y'all call the number.

1415
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 2: Get something off, y'all check, let us know how we

1416
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:03,040
Speaker 2: how y'all feel about us. Well, we need to add

1417
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 2: to the show, which we're gonna to take away from

1418
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 2: the show. All right, if you just want to vent

1419
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,600
Speaker 2: about something, but keep it short, please. We need a

1420
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 2: We need like a little single. It's called shot line.

1421
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 2: A jingle. That's what I mean. A jingle. We need

1422
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 2: a jingle.

1423
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, we need to We're gonna think of something.

1424
01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 5: No, we don't know.

1425
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 2: I don't want to do it. I think somebody should.

1426
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 2: I think y'all should submit jingle and.

1427
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:27,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put it to the top.

1428
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, we're gonna pick this one. Why do

1429
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,160
Speaker 2: you Why would you have to submit your jingle for

1430
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:33,080
Speaker 2: your show? If you know I did it, you're not

1431
01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 2: gonna I'm gonna know you did it. Once I hear it.

1432
01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, hell no, I'm gonna put all the

1433
01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 2: tune on it. This is a shot line. Dad, play

1434
01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 2: the voice, smel hey, y'all.

1435
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 7: I hope y'all having a good day. Basically, I just

1436
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 7: want to get this off my texts. I've been thinking

1437
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 7: about it a lot, and I don't know what to do.

1438
01:07:54,880 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 7: So basically, I've been talking to this guy for like

1439
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 7: two years. We've been like basically, he's my sneak drink.

1440
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 7: I recently told him I liked him, and I guess

1441
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 7: he didn't really say he liked me, jack, he was

1442
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 7: just I don't know if I'm just a sneak drink

1443
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 7: or whatever. But I tell him I really liked him,

1444
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 7: and then he came over like a week after and

1445
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:24,960
Speaker 7: we just had sex, and then the vibes.

1446
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 2: Are really good.

1447
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 7: So I don't know where I stand with him, and

1448
01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:29,360
Speaker 7: my ass is too shy to act, and I know

1449
01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 7: I should ask, but it's like, I don't know. I

1450
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 7: want to be something more and I feel like he

1451
01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:38,879
Speaker 7: likes me, but he just doesn't want to show his emotions.

1452
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 7: It's weird, but I don't know what I should do

1453
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 7: because I really like him and the sex is good,

1454
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 7: everything's good. It's just he's he's acting so stand off

1455
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:50,760
Speaker 7: fish a little bit, like he doesn't text me sometimes,

1456
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 7: or he ignores my DMS if I try to DM

1457
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 7: him and text me. Just he's weird, but you know,

1458
01:08:57,920 --> 01:08:59,640
Speaker 7: he's a pisce heats. But yeah, I don't know what

1459
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:01,600
Speaker 7: I should do, so can you help me?

1460
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 2: Oh girl, he a pisces. That man don't like you.

1461
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 2: Pisces are so open and emotional. They're a water signed baby.

1462
01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 2: That man don't like you. Let me tell you some

1463
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:13,559
Speaker 2: of the last pisces. IM messing with that niggas still

1464
01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:16,280
Speaker 2: won't let me alone. No, that man don't like you.

1465
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 2: He don't like you.

1466
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 1: Friend, I'm so sorry. You're a sneaky link. I am

1467
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,759
Speaker 1: so sorry because I know it's a hard pill to swallow.

1468
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean that you're you know, not worthy,

1469
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:27,479
Speaker 1: or you're not or you're.

1470
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 2: Less of a woman. That's just not your match.

1471
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:33,040
Speaker 1: He don't like you, said, I agreed, because Pisce's men

1472
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: are Oh they're old.

1473
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 2: They they a little too much like that's just water

1474
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:43,720
Speaker 2: signed men in general, like cancers, scorpios and pisces, they

1475
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 2: are just like very emotional, like if they like you,

1476
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:50,679
Speaker 2: vier please hobbyer, what's your sign?

1477
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:51,559
Speaker 4: Hang it up?

1478
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:55,840
Speaker 1: Flat, scoot both of Oh oh, hobby be in the

1479
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: bed making love to his woman period.

1480
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 2: If he really like you, he'd be acting crazy.

1481
01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, so yes, he might be just a sneaky link.

1482
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 2: But that's okay.

1483
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:07,719
Speaker 3: We've all had sneaky links in our life.

1484
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 2: It's okay.

1485
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 1: Move on because if a relationship is what you want,

1486
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get it from that man.

1487
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:14,960
Speaker 2: Because let me tell you something about water science. Baby,

1488
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 2: they gonna love zong all right.

1489
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 3: Have you heard to sing a little karaoke?

1490
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,639
Speaker 2: Let's do it. Yes, her.

1491
01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 4: My, don't leave me in its pain. Don't leave me,

1492
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 4: hold in the.

1493
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:51,679
Speaker 2: Yes. Come back and bring back my smile.

1494
01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 6: Come and take these tiaseways. I need your to hold

1495
01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 6: me now, the nice, the soul, and come bring back

1496
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 6: those nights when I held you beside me, unbreak mynd.

1497
01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 2: Say love me again.

1498
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 5: Undue this.

1499
01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 2: Couse when you walk out the door and walk down

1500
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 2: of my life on crity, see cry so many nights,

1501
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 2: unbreak my.

1502
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:55,799
Speaker 9: Take back to selbye, bring back.

1503
01:11:55,680 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 2: The joy of my life. Tony me here with.

1504
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:04,760
Speaker 5: Disease, Come and take the spain always.

1505
01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 2: I have the day.

1506
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:18,320
Speaker 5: Time is so God life is so cruel.

1507
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 9: Without you here beside me, on Bregma, see love me again.

1508
01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 5: On this as you comes where.

1509
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 2: You walk out the door and walk out of my life.

1510
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 2: He adry uncrady. It's a crap A man said, unbreakma oh.

1511
01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 2: First of all, Tony, bring us on a tow as

1512
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 2: we ready poor minds. Twenty twenty three, we outside get

1513
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:11,600
Speaker 2: y'all tour tickets period. Let's Lex Braxton