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Speaker 1: dating world, everybody has their techniques for finding out if
Speaker 1: a person you're going on a date with is crazy
Speaker 1: or not. Little tests like I invite everybody I've been
Speaker 1: on a date with on a robbery spree. If they
Speaker 1: say no, obviously they're crazy. If they say yes, let's
Speaker 1: have a good time. It's kind of how I do it.
Speaker 1: But Kyle, who's on the phone today for a second
Speaker 1: date up date, apparently has a different, more boring method.
Speaker 1: I think we'll find out about that in just a second.
Speaker 1: But first, Kyle, what's up man? How are you hey?
Speaker 1: How's it gun? Not bad? So before we get into
Speaker 1: your little technique on how you find out if a
Speaker 1: girl is crazy or not? Where do you mean the
Speaker 1: girl you want to call today? What's her name? Her
Speaker 1: name's Virginia, but she also goes by Ginny okay and
Speaker 1: better on Tinder? All right, there you go crazy, that's
Speaker 1: not what he would also be crazy. If everyone on
Speaker 1: tender's crazy, then they're all dating the crazy dating. Great,
Speaker 1: that's what's happening right now. Well that's fine, all right.
Speaker 1: So you said in your email that you have like
Speaker 1: a standard first date. That's kind of a test for
Speaker 1: people you go out with. What did you guys do? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we went to coffee And some people might think
Speaker 1: that's kind of boring, but I think you can tell
Speaker 1: a lot by what someone orders for coffee. And if
Speaker 1: it's like a Grande I sugar free vanilla latte with soy,
Speaker 1: they're probably a high maintenance person. I mean, maybe they're
Speaker 1: lockhouse intolerant. But so wait, you're you're judging people based
Speaker 1: on their coffee drinks a little bit. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: you can get a good read for personality, Like, okay,
Speaker 1: so I think you can. I mean, anytime I've been
Speaker 1: at a coffee place and there's someone just arguing about
Speaker 1: like it's not one hundred and twenty four and a
Speaker 1: half degrees, I'm like, that person is way too eyestrong. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: I want to know what the best coffee drink a
Speaker 1: date can order in your mind, just coffee, just a
Speaker 1: hot coffee, okay, well maintenance again, boring or basic. I mean,
Speaker 1: you could do whatever you want with it at the
Speaker 1: little prep bar, but that's your own prerogative. If you're
Speaker 1: just getting coffee, why go to a coffee shop. You
Speaker 1: can make that at home. It's fun, it's I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't think many people get asked to coffee dates anymore. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: the environment right. So guessing Virginia, who you went on
Speaker 1: on a date with, passed your test because you want
Speaker 1: to call her for another date. Yeah, she just got
Speaker 1: a regular lattech. Okay, that's more than just coffee. I
Speaker 1: thought you were talking just black okay, And how is
Speaker 1: your actual date with her? It was fun. Another thing
Speaker 1: I did a I bought two little bottles of Bailies
Speaker 1: for us and brought it to the coffee place. So
Speaker 1: you're going to a coffee shop and trying to still
Speaker 1: get drunk. That's awesome. It's not just go to a bar.
Speaker 1: I don't understand you, because the bar doesn't have good coffee.
Speaker 1: At least I got a coffee shop, all right. The
Speaker 1: alcoholic in the room knows what Yeah, I know what's up?
Speaker 1: So did you guys drink the bailies or yes, she
Speaker 1: actually wanted something, which I mean that's a good clue.
Speaker 1: And everything went well and we were discussing what we like,
Speaker 1: our hobbies and everything, and actually have something in common
Speaker 1: with her grandpa. I collect campaign buttons from all over
Speaker 1: the world, really and yeah, and I was like, I'd
Speaker 1: love to see his and you wanted to be mine?
Speaker 1: Is that the reason you want to call her is
Speaker 1: you just want to meet her grandpa? So you guys
Speaker 1: can compare campaign buttons. Yeah, I'm using her for grandpa.
Speaker 1: I actually have one of Fidel Castro from way back when,
Speaker 1: in like the early fifties. Is that your most prize button?
Speaker 1: It is cool? Is it worth a lot of money?
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I haven't checked that out. It's
Speaker 1: not doing it for the money, You're doing it for
Speaker 1: the love. Okay. They actually don't allow Castro's face on
Speaker 1: any pins in Cuba, so it's pretty rare to find one.
Speaker 1: And I have one. That's cool, I know, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: how many people do you know that have Fidel Castro
Speaker 1: campaign buttons? Only one? Yeah, I don't know many for
Speaker 1: Del Castro fans, so well, I'm not saying I'm a fan.
Speaker 1: I have his button that turner on. You know, I
Speaker 1: could have you wanted to come over and see it
Speaker 1: to your house after the coffee day we did? Yes? Wow, okay,
Speaker 1: so things were going real Well how was that? I mean,
Speaker 1: this is where it gets kind of wonky for me.
Speaker 1: She was at my place and she hadn't been checking
Speaker 1: her phone or anything when we were getting coffee, but
Speaker 1: then she was just pretty much always on her phone
Speaker 1: when she was at my place, and I was like,
Speaker 1: is everything okay? And she said a friend of hers
Speaker 1: was having a meltdown and that she needed to go
Speaker 1: and would like to reschedule the whole castro viewing. But
Speaker 1: it's now been over a week and I'm only getting
Speaker 1: kind of short cold text back, and that's why I'm here.
Speaker 1: I'd like to your help figuring out what to do next. Well,
Speaker 1: what's your sense on the meltdown? Was it an excuse
Speaker 1: or did you believe her? I couldn't really get a
Speaker 1: read for it. Okay, Yeah, but the fact that she's
Speaker 1: not really being responsive to you sounds like she might
Speaker 1: have just used an excuse. Yeah, exactly. Can you think
Speaker 1: of anything weird that happened no other than everything that
Speaker 1: she was already down to do. You don't have any
Speaker 1: other strange collections in your house, right, little collection of dust?
Speaker 1: But okay, yeah, I think that's okay. All right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: well we'll try to figure it out. We'll play a
Speaker 1: song and then come back and call her and get
Speaker 1: your second day update. Okay, great, thank you? All right, Hey,
Speaker 1: rucking jubil in the morning date. You know, a lot
Speaker 1: of guys will try to impress girls are on a
Speaker 1: date with with their car or their nice Rolex watch.
Speaker 1: But not Kyle, who's on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today. He tries to impress women with his
Speaker 1: vintage political campaign buttons crushing at a retirement homes for sure,
Speaker 1: And that's exactly what happened on his first date. He
Speaker 1: met a girl named Virginia on tender. They went out
Speaker 1: for coffee and then went back to his place because
Speaker 1: he brought up during his date that he collects vintage
Speaker 1: political campaign buttons and she said, oh, my grandpa does too,
Speaker 1: and so he wanted to show her some of his.
Speaker 1: They went to his place, then she said she had
Speaker 1: an emergency and had to leave, and he hasn't really
Speaker 1: heard from her. Since we're gonna try to go on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out why. And for the record,
Speaker 1: if it's the political campaign buttons that turned her off,
Speaker 1: she's lame, like it's cool when people have really interesting,
Speaker 1: quirky hobbies. Thank you. Yeah, I'm on your side, that's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. If you guys want to ever come
Speaker 1: by and see them yourself, I'm happy to let you
Speaker 1: in and show you a route. Yeah. I support you
Speaker 1: not that much. Maybe tweet me maybe I'll have you back.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna dial her phone right now, Okay,
Speaker 1: you ready? Yeah? All right, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: may I speak to Virginia please? This is she. Hey Virginia,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who did you say that you were?
Speaker 1: Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show. Have you ever heard it? Now? Okay? You
Speaker 1: any friends that have heard it? I don't know. Okay,
Speaker 1: do you ever google it? No? Probably not, Okay, I'll
Speaker 1: just get to the point. It's a radio show called
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the Morning, and we got an
Speaker 1: email about you from somebody who does listen to the show. Wait,
Speaker 1: what you got an email about me. Yes, we do
Speaker 1: a segment on our show. It's called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them back after
Speaker 1: or wanting to see him again, they can email us
Speaker 1: to get you on the phone and find out what happened.
Speaker 1: So we got an email about you from a dude
Speaker 1: named Kyle. What the hell? I know, That's what I said,
Speaker 1: right Hello, you said, don't understand what's happening. So Kyle
Speaker 1: emailed us because he told us about your date. He
Speaker 1: said that he really enjoyed going out with you, but
Speaker 1: now it's pretty obvious that you don't want to see
Speaker 1: him again, and he wanted us to talk to you
Speaker 1: and see if we can find out Why. Does that
Speaker 1: make sense? Now? Yeah, this is just like really weird.
Speaker 1: You mind telling us about your date. I don't really
Speaker 1: know what to say. Like it sounded like, I mean
Speaker 1: from his description that you guys really hit it off
Speaker 1: at coffee and that you went back to his place,
Speaker 1: which is always a good sign that you were interested
Speaker 1: to some degree during the date. Yeah. Um, he's the
Speaker 1: kind of guy that, like you think he's one way,
Speaker 1: but then you find out that he's just a completely
Speaker 1: different person. Okay, can you explain a little more detail
Speaker 1: for us? He sounds like a pretty mild mannered guy.
Speaker 1: I mean he said he collects political campaign buttons. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't usually call those guys wild and crazy, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Maybe just start with like what
Speaker 1: you thought he was to begin with. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I thought he was like a normal, nice guy. Maybe
Speaker 1: I should have picked up on there were signs like
Speaker 1: he brought like airplane alcohol bottles to a coffee shop.
Speaker 1: I thought he was trying to be but it was
Speaker 1: I guess that's a red flag. Probably I should have
Speaker 1: known it. Yeah, do you drink a lot in your
Speaker 1: like Jose, So maybe it is a red flag if
Speaker 1: you don't want to date a heavy drinker. Yeah, that was, like,
Speaker 1: I guess, the first weird thing. But we went back
Speaker 1: to his place and I had to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: And I went to his bathroom and there was a
Speaker 1: shyringe just like laying out on the counter. Wait, and
Speaker 1: then I walked by his bedroom on the way back
Speaker 1: and there was another syringe on his bedside table. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're you think that he's a bit of a partier. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And then we were looking at this button collection that
Speaker 1: he has, which was cool. But then there was like
Speaker 1: a knock at the door and he went to answer
Speaker 1: it and this guy was there, and they like they
Speaker 1: really said hello to each other. The guy just like
Speaker 1: handed in a bag and he was like cool, thanks man,
Speaker 1: and then he closed the door. So this guy you
Speaker 1: think he's into whoa? So yeah, is that what you're saying.
Speaker 1: You're saying that you think Kyle is like a like
Speaker 1: a big drug user or I don't know, I don't
Speaker 1: know why he's into, but it was clear to me
Speaker 1: that he was into some obviously bad stuff. And oh,
Speaker 1: I just like faked at a conversation with my friend. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's a pretty big jump though, that you're making. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, look at the evidence, and if he's like
Speaker 1: dealing with some issues or something, that's you know, that's
Speaker 1: his own battle. But I just it's not something I
Speaker 1: personally want to get involved in, you know what I mean? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're not into doing heroin on a first day? What
Speaker 1: a prude? Yeah? No, no, well when you like to
Speaker 1: find out what all that stuff was about. Not really,
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like, my instincts are pretty dead
Speaker 1: on thinking about it, though, if he was a drug dealer,
Speaker 1: who wouldn't contact us? I don't know that. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: I don't know that either, because there's a lot of
Speaker 1: people who listen to show that do drugs and are
Speaker 1: drug dealers, so they probably could contact us. But I
Speaker 1: was going to say, Virginia, the best way to find
Speaker 1: out it was probably just to ask him. And he's
Speaker 1: actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk it. Okay, it's a little
Speaker 1: too late, Kyle. Are you there? Yeah, Hi, this has
Speaker 1: been a huge misunderstanding. Okay, the syringes are for insulin.
Speaker 1: I'm a diabetic. Oh sure, are you serious? I mean,
Speaker 1: I can't believe you thought I was a drug addict.
Speaker 1: We like, there were syringes in like multiple places around
Speaker 1: your apartment, and a guy came to your door that
Speaker 1: you barely spoke to. The knock at the door was
Speaker 1: an Amazon delivery and I'm not gonna talk with him
Speaker 1: and get to know him. I didn't even think. I
Speaker 1: didn't even think of an Amazon guy dropping off stuff.
Speaker 1: I automatically thought some dude was dropping off drugs to you. Wait,
Speaker 1: what about you had like cleaning products like all over
Speaker 1: your apartment? And I went home and I googled that
Speaker 1: and it said that sometimes like drug dealers use cleaning
Speaker 1: products to like make their their stuff. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I cleaned my house earlier that day, from like top
Speaker 1: to bottom. I just didn't put them away. That's a
Speaker 1: big assumption to go from cleaning products to meth lab. Well,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have started there. But there's like ten other signs,
Speaker 1: Like I just there's just too many red flags, Kyle, like,
Speaker 1: I'm not buying it. I'm sorry. Oh you still don't
Speaker 1: believe them? Like you brought alcohol to a copy date,
Speaker 1: Like what, you can't get through your day without? I
Speaker 1: can very much get through my day. That was just
Speaker 1: to you know, have some fun on a coffee date.
Speaker 1: You gotta believe me. This is crazy. I'm not Walter White.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna trying to judge you at all your lifestyle.
Speaker 1: But like I watch a lot of documentaries, I just
Speaker 1: feel like I know my instincts are right here. If
Speaker 1: he could produce like a medical card that says that
Speaker 1: he is diabetic, would that be good enough for you?
Speaker 1: I don't need to produce a medical card to be believed.
Speaker 1: You just gotta trust me. I mean, I'm a diabetic.
Speaker 1: I don't have to trust you, and I really honestly
Speaker 1: don't trust you. I've seen it a million times. You like,
Speaker 1: learn me in your apartment, you get me high on drugs,
Speaker 1: if you like, try and sell me out to prostitution. Damn, Kyle,
Speaker 1: I had no idea you were into somebody. You're really
Speaker 1: like a drug dealer, You're human trafficking. You're doing all that.
Speaker 1: I'm not like an innocent dude who wanted coffee and
Speaker 1: likes to collect buttons. But this is insane. I was wrong.
Speaker 1: Women that don't read the room. Can I get involved
Speaker 1: in some messed up stuff? I'm not interested, But Virginia,
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, you've watched too many true crime
Speaker 1: documentaries like on this case. I think, why would he
Speaker 1: contact us? If he was ready to do all this illegal,
Speaker 1: shady stuff, he'd be a horrible criminal who would have
Speaker 1: gotten caught already. I don't know, but I'm sure I
Speaker 1: don't make a really interesting documentary, and I'm not interested
Speaker 1: in being part of it. This is crazy. I don't
Speaker 1: know what else I could have done. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: a diabetic. Have you ever done hard drugs before? Kyle?
Speaker 1: Uh not? Look at that pause? Yeah, now you could
Speaker 1: drive a tractor that pause. Virginia, would you like to
Speaker 1: go on a second date with Kyle? Will pay for it?
Speaker 1: Absolutely not? No, No, I'm not getting a second date
Speaker 1: because she thinks I'm a drug dealer. Yeah. Yeah, a
Speaker 1: drug dealer who's gonna get her high and prostitute her.
Speaker 1: I'm a diabetic who it's collecting campaign buttons. I'm not
Speaker 1: buying it, dude, you better start covering your tracks more.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and pick up some checks on the
Speaker 1: street and sell them out. Yeah. Sounds like a perfect
Speaker 1: front to me. Kyle, I'm sorry, man, be sorry. When
Speaker 1: we see his mug shot one day ago. Maybe everything
Speaker 1: you're saying is true, Maybe you are a diabetic and
Speaker 1: it was just cleaning products, but I'm just not willing
Speaker 1: to take that risk with my life, like this is
Speaker 1: it's my life. Wow. Wow, good luck hiding under your
Speaker 1: blanket at home. Well, Kyle, I'm sorry, no second day,
Speaker 1: but it sounds like actually you might want to be
Speaker 1: thankful about that. Wow. All right? Can I go now? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Going now? And be safe. It's really dangerous out there.
Speaker 1: Hey Kyle. Yeah, I didn't not expect it to go
Speaker 1: down like that. Man, I'm sorry. I guess I need
Speaker 1: to hide my syringes better. Yeah, I better. I remember
Speaker 1: you said earlier we could come check out your campaign
Speaker 1: button collection. Now that we know a little more about you,
Speaker 1: I'm more interested coming over to check out the other
Speaker 1: stuff you got. Line around hit me up, yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: come on down. I'll give you the Big Drug Tour.
Speaker 1: Yeah you can tell he's totally a drug addict. Give
Speaker 1: you the Big Drug Tour. Broken jewel in the morning,