1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rev An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in and today we have 3 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: a very exciting couple in studio with us. Taylor Lautner 4 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: is most famously known for his starring role in The 5 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 1: Twilight Saga and has since gone on to start in 6 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: numerous movies and series. His wife, who is also named Taylor, 7 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: is a nurse and mental health advocate. She also launched 8 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: a nonprofit organization called Lemons by Tay. They both host 9 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: a podcast called The Squeeze, which is relationship goals, super cute. 10 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: I was just on it and they just recently tied 11 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: the knot on November eleventh, twenty twenty two, and we 12 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: could not be more excited to welcome the Lautner's. Yes, 13 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: what a welcome. Welcome to the podcast where we scrub in. Yeah, 14 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: welcome to the R. Welcome to the R. I've been 15 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: wanting to come on this for years, So thanks for 16 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: finally happening. True it is that feels like that should 17 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: have happened, if it definitely should have. But here we are. Here, 18 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: we are to Taylor Lautner's sitting in front of us. 19 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: You know when people say Taylor, do we both turn 20 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: your head? Yeah? Yeah. People have gotten pretty good at 21 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: like either. I mean, if they know us, then it's 22 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: like she's Tay and I'm Taylor, or she's girl Tay, 23 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: I'm boy ta um. But yeah, if we're in public 24 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: or something and somebody else Taylor will both snap our head. Yeah. 25 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: Or Actually, I feel like I've learned to not respond 26 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: to Taylor because if if we're out in public and 27 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: someone's like Taylor, then if we turn around, then I'm 28 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: with him, So then they do know that it is Taylor. 29 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: So now if someone else Taylor in public, I just 30 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: like keep walking. I'm like, it's not my name, they're 31 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: not calling me, so I just keep walking. Oh smart, 32 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: So that's actually, yeah, you're training yourself and the people 33 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: you're training the people. Yes, you will not answer to 34 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: Taylor no longer. We have put that life behind you now, ma'am. 35 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: I Tonya wanted to talk about y'all's lives before you 36 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: met and started dating, because I feel like y'all knew 37 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: each other. I wanted them to share the kind of 38 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: the how they met because you guys have a podcast now, 39 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: The Squeeze, which is I do want to get into 40 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: talk to working with your significant other, because I think 41 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: there's something so interesting about that dynamic. But I wanted 42 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: to talk about how you guys met because I didn't 43 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: hear the story until recently. Okay me yeah. Um My 44 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: sister called me up one day a little over five 45 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: years ago and I was like, I met your future wife. 46 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: And I was like, really, okay, we'll see you about that. 47 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: And she was like, no, like really, I met this 48 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: great girl. They had only my sister met her once 49 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: in Nashville and once back here in la um so 50 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: she had only met her twice. And she's like, you know, 51 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 1: I just matter, but she's awesome and I think you'd 52 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: really like her. She did just get out of a relationship, 53 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: so now is the time to swoop in. And I 54 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: was like, okay, well, why don't I throw like a 55 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: game night at the house. You guys have been to 56 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: game nights. Smooth, move, smooth. And I told my sister, like, 57 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: you know, invite a few of your friends spring a 58 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: group and have this Taylor girl just be one of them. 59 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: It'll be organic. Um. So that's what happened. And I 60 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: was not privy too knowing about the setup. I just 61 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: thought we were going over there for a game night, 62 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: and I met McKenna, Taylor's sister through my closest friends, 63 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: Alexa and McKenna texted Alexa and I was like, Hey, 64 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: I want to come to my brothers for a game night. 65 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: And Alex and I were like, this is weird because 66 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: McKenna obviously is like so protective of Taylor and very 67 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: private with him, and Alexa and I are both like, 68 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: why am I invited? Like alexis on McKenna for years. 69 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: I was like, I've met her twice. Like we were 70 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: both like why am I invited? And we're like, oh, oh, well, 71 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: let's just go. She still didn't put that one together. Yeah, 72 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: We're both infused in the moment, like okay, well, I 73 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: guess she knows that I'm not a crazy person. So 74 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: we hit it off a game night, Yeah, had you 75 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: with a group? Come back over like a few days later. Again, 76 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: I get your number. We start texting during the day 77 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: and stuff. She still thinks that I'm just being nice 78 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: to my sister's friend. Now, she didn't know that you were, 79 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: like she spitting game. I was definitely chicken. I like 80 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: didn't make any old moves, but I thought me like, 81 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,119 Speaker 1: I definitely was like touchy when she was like over 82 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 1: and like got her number and would text her during 83 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: the day and I thought she would put that together, 84 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: but she didn't. And it's kind of sweet though. It 85 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: was very sweet. And then yeah, I New Year's was 86 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: the first time we I made my move? How long 87 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: after how long after the game night was New Year's? Yeah? 88 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe three because there was also Christmas? Okay in there, Yeah, 89 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: like two or three weeks. What was your bold move 90 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: that you thought you were making. It wasn't so bold. 91 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: It literally took three weeks for me to kiss super bold. Honestly, 92 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I was the one that we were 93 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: like really close, and I just went into it because 94 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, we're we're here. Yeah, I don't 95 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 1: want to I don't want to sit here and make 96 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: excuses and defend myself. But there definitely was an aspect 97 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 1: of like, she's my sister's friend. Like she's my sister 98 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: six years younger than me. He's five, and I was like, 99 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't want my sister to be mad. 100 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 1: I didn't want her to think that I'm like this 101 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: creepy older brother, and I think same for me. I 102 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: was like, I don't want McKenna thinking I'm just like 103 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: friends with her because of a brother, you know. So 104 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not reading into this. I also 105 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: did just get out of a relationship, so I wasn't 106 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: even like. I was like, I'm gonna start nursing school. 107 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be dating. I'm just gonna do 108 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: me And that did not happen to Ergo. Yeah, yeah, 109 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: but the rest is history. But how soon did you 110 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: realize like, oh, he's into me, he's pursuing me. So 111 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,919 Speaker 1: actually it was my dad that realized first because he like, 112 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: so it's so random. But we were visiting family over 113 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: Christmas and Taylor had followed me on Instagram and my 114 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: dad was like, he likes you. And I was like, which, 115 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 1: my dad is like, never talked to me like this before, 116 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: so it was really cute that he was saying it. 117 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: I was like, Dad, no, he doesn't like me. He's like, no, 118 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: he does, Like he asked you for your number or 119 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: he put your number in in your phone. Um, he 120 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: followed you on Instagram. He likes you. I was like, Dad, no, Like, 121 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: he does not like me. I'm just one of McKennis 122 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: friends and he's like okay, and then like a week 123 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: later or whatever, I was like, okay, you were you 124 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: were right, dad, That's so fun. I know. It's really 125 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: so impressed that your dad's like on on the up 126 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: and up. My dad doesn't even he knows who Instagram is, 127 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: but like, bless his heart, just no clue how to 128 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: watch or anything. Yeah, yeah that's my parents. But yeah, 129 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 1: parents are super young. They just turned fifty one and 130 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: they act like they're in their twenties in a good way. Yeah, 131 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: right right, you're very very cool. That's fun. Yeah. I 132 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: was at one of those game nights, yeah, and you were. 133 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: I had just met you. You were there and Taylor 134 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: comes up to me and I'm like, she's so cute 135 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: and he's like, I really I really like her, but 136 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: she's she's young. She's she's like my sister's friend. And 137 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: I was like, well, I mean, maturity wise, I think 138 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: that's gonna be the telling factor. And she seems very 139 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: I never I literally never tell anyone my age. I 140 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: was trying to think it's literally just a number. Like honestly, 141 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: to me, age is like I know, I'll be It's 142 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: like a full blown conversation with someone. They're like, we'll 143 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: be talking about something, They're like, how old are you? 144 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: I'm like twenty five. Hey, I'm almost twenty six. You're 145 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: almost in turning. You're late twenties, almost there, and they're like, 146 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I thought you were in your thirties. 147 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, well, now you're gonna think different than me, right, 148 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: there's like this judgment like you're young, and like whatever, Yeah, no, 149 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 1: I do want to know starting because how old were 150 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: you when y'all started dating? Twenty? Okay, so you're twenty 151 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:56,719 Speaker 1: years old. You're getting invited to Taylor Loutner's house one 152 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: of them. I mean, I was team Jacob my whole life. 153 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: I was like, you're the only one in this room. Yeah, 154 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 1: there's really are like kindred spirits. I figured that last 155 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 1: week so I could get into that later too. I 156 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: read the books and I was team Edward, and then 157 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: the movies came out and I was team Jacob. Taylor 158 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: converted me. But you're twenty years old, your goal, you're 159 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: being invited to his house. You're trying to I don't know, 160 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: like if you were playing it cool or if you 161 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 1: just are cool. I would not like, I don't know 162 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: that i'd play that cool. She's very cool, like annoyingly cool. 163 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:32,719 Speaker 1: So were you like unfit? Were you just kind of like, well, 164 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: it's my friend's brother. Yeah, I just I was not Yeah, 165 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just saim like very not whatever 166 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: about things. But I just felt very comfortable going over there. Yeah, 167 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: and was not. Also, Taylor's like not an intimidating person, 168 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,959 Speaker 1: so like meeting him, you're like, okay, like he's nice. 169 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 1: You get that vibe. And I was with your friends 170 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: that I knew and the friends that you'd over were 171 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: and I so, yeah, I was. Everyone asked me that, 172 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: and I'm like it's just like I don't yeah, but 173 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: it wasn't just that. Let's I'll speak. She's very cool. 174 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: Like since then, over the years she has met many 175 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: people that like she was massive fans of growing up, 176 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: and she just cooler than me. I mean, I fret 177 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: over people. You came up to me after The Bachelor, 178 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, I was like Taylor laws introducing himself. 179 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: He watched The Bachelor, while that's who he really freaks out. 180 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 1: If you're on the Bachelor franchise, I am you're never 181 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: one fan. I'll never forget. I was at jingle Ball 182 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: and I turned around and I was like, it was 183 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: the iHeart Festival in Vegas, and I was like sitting 184 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: by myself. I was so intimidated and I was just like, 185 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: what am I doing here? And I turned someone dapty 186 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: on the shoulder and I turned and I was like, oh, 187 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 1: oh my god, he's like, hi, Becca, I'm Taylor of 188 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: was like, huh, yes, yes, four pitches higher. But he 189 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: I was listening to y'all's podcast that y'all. I think 190 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:16,199 Speaker 1: it was one of your first podcasts that y'all did together, 191 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: and you were saying he's the worst famous person ever 192 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: in this sense that he's so normal and kind and 193 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,599 Speaker 1: like not intimidating to be around, which I think is 194 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 1: such a compliment to you, because I want to say 195 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: I think so too, because I remember when I met you, 196 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 1: I felt the same way. You know, like you don't 197 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: and I guess I don't know how else you would care, 198 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: because you just you are who you are. But you're 199 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 1: very very sweet, Like your core is very sweet. No, 200 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: it's like very it's very nice. It's very disarming, you know, 201 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:47,719 Speaker 1: like when you meet. When I met you, I was 202 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: very much like, oh my gosh, like you're just the 203 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: coolest thing ever. Did we meet at that same one 204 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: or did I meet you? I don't know. It was 205 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: one of those. Has got to be one of those. 206 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: But I was you or escort. Yeah, it's such a 207 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: weird name for it, now, I was. I was your handler. 208 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 1: This is story. Yeah I did tell you about this, right, yeah. Yeah. 209 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: So I was their handler and there was this whole 210 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: group of guys and they were so fun and I 211 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 1: just had the best time. It became like this tradition 212 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: every year that we would like all just like hang out. 213 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: I was your handler every time and until I wasn't, 214 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: but it was until I got passed off, passed off. 215 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: But I just had the best time with you guys, 216 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 1: and like, yeah, I don't know, yeah, you're very very 217 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 1: sweet and fun. And so I can see that, you know, 218 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: like you come you just show up at his house 219 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: and he's just like you really are very normal. Thank you. 220 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: Yeah you alcome the same about you too. Well, you know, 221 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: we do what we can. After the Bachelor franchise, I 222 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: wanted to talk about the podcast because y'all are doing 223 00:12:56,040 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: it together. And you're approaching topics that I was specifically 224 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:05,319 Speaker 1: listening to this part about mental health when it comes 225 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: to males and talking about it because I know, like 226 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: we are always talking about therapy and how helpful it is, 227 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: but you're approaching a topic that isn't talked about often, 228 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: and you're opening up Taylor and being vulnerable about the 229 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: struggles you've had since being you know, in this massive spotlight. 230 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: And was that a goal when you started the podcast? 231 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: Was that like a focus of what you wanted to 232 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: chat about. Yeah, that's definitely something that one I am 233 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: super passionate about. Throughout my life. I never like encountered 234 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: mental health struggles personally until I worked in the hospital, 235 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: which was only a few years ago. But every encounter 236 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:48,719 Speaker 1: I've had in my life, whether it was addiction, by 237 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: polar disorder, it was all males. I'd never had a 238 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: female really that struggled with it. And now like being 239 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: married to Taylor and him living this life that very 240 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: few people ever will. Yeah, it's something that is so 241 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: important to me and something that I'm just like, I 242 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: honestly just think this podcast is just like a passion 243 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: project for me, Like it's something that I love to 244 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 1: talk about and something that needs to be talked about. 245 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: And it's fun for me to talk about men's mental 246 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: health because I know there's a lot of guys out 247 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: there that can relate to it, and even females listening 248 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: like with their guy friend, with their spouse, like whatever 249 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: it may be. It's definitely a topic that needs to 250 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: be discussed more. Yeah, yeah, I wasn't really. I think 251 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: like for me, I've always been like pretty pretty guarded 252 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: and don't really talk about my private life a lot. 253 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: But I've definitely like started breaking down those walls in 254 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: the last couple years. I love it and I'm still 255 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: not there, still very you know, new to it. But 256 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: I think what it was for me is about a 257 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: year ago this time, I did an interview with my 258 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: best friend Jason for the Today Show. It was like 259 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: the first time that I ever really openly talked about 260 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: any struggles before then. I just like I think growing 261 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: up just it was always just trying to pretend like 262 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: you're perfect, like everything is great and just get on 263 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: the red carpet and smile and nothing's wrong. And a 264 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: year ago, in that interview with him, we talked about 265 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: some things, but it wasn't like crazy deep, but it 266 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: was the reaction from that interview and seeing so many 267 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: people like reach out and be like, it just means 268 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: so much that you're like talking about this because it's 269 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: just like I, you know, struggle with the same thing 270 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 1: and I feel like it's something I can't really openly 271 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: talk about. And I think it was seeing that response 272 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 1: that was like, Okay, I want to like dive a 273 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: little deeper into this. And you know, a podcast with 274 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: my wife is definitely as comfortable as it's gonna get. 275 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's uncomfortable, you know, And I think there 276 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: is so much beauty and the most more vulnerable you are, 277 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: that's where people feel less alone. And I think that's 278 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: like the biggest blessing in life is community and being 279 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 1: able to kind of reach out and feel like, oh, 280 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 1: somebody else feels the same way I do. And I 281 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 1: think that's why to me, like music I think is 282 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: such a powerful medium because you know, these singers, these 283 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: people that are you know, they again they're living this 284 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: this world that a lot of people don't know and 285 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: won't understand. But we all have the same feelings. Yeah, 286 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: we all have the same exact feelings and so and 287 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: that's universal. We can all relate to it, and I 288 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: feel like that's what connects people so much. Yeah, so 289 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm really happy that you're opening up. It's been great. 290 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: And then we have, you know, our friends. I mean, 291 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: so far, it's been a lot of just like our 292 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: our personal friends that we've had on. But we're starting 293 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: to have some people on soon that we've never met before. 294 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: And we've just had like great conversations with people, and 295 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: it's very intentional conversation we try to provide. We film 296 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: the podcast in our house, so we you know, are 297 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: inviting everyone into our home. We want it to feel 298 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: super safe and comfortable and just it's honestly, it's taught 299 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: us a lot about ourselves too. Like we have these 300 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 1: people on that are like talking about something they've gone through, 301 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: and I've been like, wow, maybe that's maybe that's why 302 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 1: I do that, And like, I'm learning so much from 303 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 1: these conversations. It's crazy. I do think we learn a 304 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: lot about ourselves through other people's of vulnerability, because when 305 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,959 Speaker 1: someone's able to play words to a feeling and share it, 306 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: when it's in the feeling, the feeling, if you can 307 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,199 Speaker 1: put words to the feeling, I think it gives you 308 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: a chance to look deeper in and go, like you said, like, oh, 309 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: maybe that's why I react that way or respond that 310 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 1: way to certain things. Yeah, did you have a moment 311 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: where you because what you've talked about as far as 312 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: like mental health and some of the things you've battled 313 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: with is the pressure of maintaining like your physical shape 314 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: and from when you were held were sixteen or sixteen 315 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 1: in the first one, Yeah, and just like so but 316 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: off to have that physique, like it wasn't a natural 317 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: thing that you experience. At what age did you realize 318 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 1: like that really affected my mental health? It took a while. 319 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: I think when like shortly after the franchise was over, 320 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 1: I knew that I just never wanted to see a 321 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 1: gym again because I literally lived in a gym for 322 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 1: five years straight. And but that's all I knew. I 323 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,400 Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, so I'm like rebelling against the gym, 324 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 1: you know, because of this like whatever. And then I 325 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: think it it took like rebelling against that and um, 326 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 1: you know, just letting myself go a little bit like 327 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: I did. But um, I also you know, I wasn't 328 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: working out all the time. I you know, lost a 329 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:31,640 Speaker 1: lot of you know, my eating habits, and it took 330 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: you know, putting a little weight on and looking at 331 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: myself in the mirror. And then I you know, this 332 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,920 Speaker 1: was probably in my mid twenties, um, just being like, 333 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: oh man, like this is like I'm sad, like and 334 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: then ever since, it's it's been a it's been a 335 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 1: struggle ever since. Like after that then like I would 336 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: like get in shape again, and then I then the 337 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 1: same thing would happen. It's like a roller coaster. And 338 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: but I think I think I've found a place now 339 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: where I'm like, Okay, sure I don't look like I 340 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 1: did when I was eighteen nineteen years old, and I'm 341 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 1: never going to again. But I'm healthy. My body is healthy, 342 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm treating my body the right way, and I'm totally 343 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 1: fine with the fact that I will never look like 344 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: that again. Um. So it definitely it's a journey and 345 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: it took a while and I'm still on it, but 346 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 1: I feel better now than I did a few years ago. Yeah, 347 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 1: I too will never look like I did at eighteen 348 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: or nineteen, I know. But it's the thing is is 349 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 1: I think anybody, any age gender, doesn't even matter. I 350 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: think everybody has some sort of body insecurities, like everybody 351 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 1: has them. But I feel like what you experienced was 352 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: like on a hole. I mean, you're seeing billboards of 353 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 1: yourself like you're abs or like ten times the size 354 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: on like a billboard, and you're people are constantly sending 355 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: you photos of that, and like it's got to that's 356 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like that's going to have 357 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: an impact on you. You know what I mean, Like 358 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 1: I couldn't even imagine going through that. Yeah, I feel 359 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: like that's like I think a big thing that we 360 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 1: are learning is like Taylor being known for that. I 361 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: think also being such a young age, that's like how 362 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 1: he identified Like that's like that was his identity was 363 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: Like being known for his body was his identity. Yeah, 364 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: whether it like like I'll literally I'll meet people today 365 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 1: and they'll literally open with do you still have abs? 366 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: Like right, No, that's so what people like attached to me, 367 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 1: And that's like sometimes their first question. I'm like, bro, 368 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: So when he gets older and isn't like going in 369 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 1: the gym, like you almost like it's not even just 370 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 1: that I don't like the way I look, it's who 371 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 1: am I? Because that's who I am known for, and 372 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm not like that. Who am I? Like, there's definitely 373 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 1: a level like of that too that you've had to 374 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: work through that's been like, yeah, like re finding yourself 375 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: who you are? What do you want to be known for? Right? 376 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: Known for my abs T nine No. But it's I 377 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,360 Speaker 1: think a lot of people people listening experience that too, 378 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 1: because I think you know some people that attach themselves 379 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 1: to a job or a career or something they give 380 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 1: their one hundred and ten percent too, and they're like 381 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: walking around like I am this, I am this company, 382 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 1: you know, and then they get fired and then that's 383 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: their whole identity is gone. You know. I had a 384 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 1: friend that worked at the station and she was missstationed. 385 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,880 Speaker 1: That's all she that was like her brand. And then 386 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 1: she was no longer at the station anymore, and she 387 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: was like who am I? And it was like this 388 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 1: really wild ride of emotions because it's like you attach 389 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: yourself to something so specific and when that goes away, 390 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,120 Speaker 1: you don't know who you are anymore and you're dealing 391 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: with a lot of feelings. Like it's really rough. Yeah, 392 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: I went through that coming off the Bachelor because my 393 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 1: whole identity was attached to being a virgin, because that's 394 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: kind of what the storyline was for me. And remember 395 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 1: how like wild that was when you weren't anymore you 396 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 1: were like but people would come up to me and 397 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 1: be like, are you still a virgin? And I remember 398 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: I was dating Robert and he was like, why do 399 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 1: people think that they can approach you an asset? Like 400 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: why do they think they have access to that? Yeah? 401 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,919 Speaker 1: And I was like, well, it's the show. And I 402 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 1: remember when I lost my virginity. My brain wasn't like 403 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,879 Speaker 1: how are you feeling? Like why are you feeling? I 404 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 1: was like what am I? What are people going to think? 405 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, what a sad twist that, Like 406 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: my world became about what people's expectations were of me. Yeah, 407 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: it's like a weird it's kind of like a sad reality. 408 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 1: It was a sad reality for me when I had 409 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,439 Speaker 1: that moment if like you said, like looking at me 410 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,719 Speaker 1: or not being like, oh man, I wish I had abs, 411 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: but like what are people going to think of me 412 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: without the abs? Yeah? Yeah, yeah exactly. But like what 413 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 1: a beautiful breakthrough to be able to have at that 414 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 1: point in your life, because now I think you learn 415 00:23:58,320 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: from all these things, you know what I mean, So, like, 416 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 1: moving forward, you're not going to do that. You will 417 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: not attach yourself to like these specific things. You're You're 418 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: going to know that you're more than just X, Y 419 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: Z or whatever. Yeah, it teaches you, you know, what 420 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 1: you should be putting your values into. Yeah, and sometimes 421 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: you got to go through that to learn that. Um. 422 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, moving forward, that's a that's a huge thing 423 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 1: to know. Not to put your value, your worth in 424 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,239 Speaker 1: what you know people think of you and what you 425 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 1: look like in the mirror, what your bringing is telling 426 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: you know these what's that quote? I like, uh, we 427 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: find value where we put our value. Oh it's good. 428 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, exactly, It's very true. So true. How long 429 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: were you all together before you went public? Almost? Yeah, 430 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 1: almost a year? Nice? Was there conversation like, were there rumors? 431 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 1: Were there conversations about it of like how are we 432 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: going to do this? Or did it just naturally happen 433 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 1: that you decided to be public with your relationship? I 434 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 1: think we, I mean, obviously we had talked about it, 435 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,640 Speaker 1: and I think in the beginning you were we were 436 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 1: like I just want to make sure that like this 437 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: is like like there is something more than just like 438 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: us dating for a couple of months. He was like, 439 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: I want to make sure this is like a legit 440 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: thing in a relationship before like I publicly commit to 441 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 1: that because this was also like Taylor's relationships have been everywhere, 442 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 1: you know, So I I understood that of you, and 443 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: we just kind of kept I mean we would still 444 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,199 Speaker 1: go out though, like we went on dates and like 445 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: we're photographing. Nothing really yeah came of it, but I 446 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 1: mean you could talk about when we decided to go. 447 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: I don't know it was it was a post from Halloween, right, 448 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: I don't remember why we decided to do that. You're 449 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: just ready, here we go. I remember, okay, yeah, you 450 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:07,679 Speaker 1: came to me in the morning after, and it was 451 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: the party like just went great. Like obviously we were vibing. 452 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,679 Speaker 1: We were together for quite a few months, but like 453 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: it was like we were hosting together, like Taylor was 454 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,959 Speaker 1: over here with these people. These people we'd say hi 455 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: for a minute and then we'd like go our other ways, 456 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: hosting doing everything, and it was just like that friends 457 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: of mine that you had, and I met friends of 458 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,400 Speaker 1: yours that I hadn't. Because it was like a big party. Yeah, 459 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: it's just like there's a lot of good flow going 460 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 1: on between us and Synergy, yes hosting together, and it 461 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: was like the first thing we had really done like together. 462 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: And then the next morning, Taylor came to me and 463 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,159 Speaker 1: he was like, last night, last night was so fun, 464 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: Like he was like, it made me feel starting speaking 465 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 1: for you, it made me feel like so secure in 466 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: us because he wanted to make sure it was like 467 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: an actual thing before posting about it, and he was like, 468 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 1: I think I want to post now like last night, 469 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,199 Speaker 1: like we just like I don't think we've reached a 470 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,360 Speaker 1: level in our relationship, but I mean we kind of did. 471 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 1: Like that was the first time we did something together 472 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: publicly with all these people, and you were like I'm 473 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 1: ready to posts and I was like, great, sounds good. 474 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: It was. It was actually like a really sweet moment. 475 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,479 Speaker 1: I remember, like I think I teared up because I 476 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 1: was like it was just it was just like a 477 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 1: tender and obviously I was I didn't want to rush 478 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 1: him like whenever he was ready for that, like he 479 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 1: always made me feel still to this day makes me 480 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 1: feel so secure in our relationship, so I didn't need 481 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 1: like the public validation for that. Um, so I was like, 482 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: whenever you're ready, you you just let me know. So yeah, 483 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 1: that was That was the first time we went public 484 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: and it was fun to finally because a lot of 485 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: people knew, but it wasn't like yeah, also because I 486 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: don't have like a name attached to me, so it 487 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,439 Speaker 1: wasn't like when we were hanging out. It wasn't like 488 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 1: picked up or posted everywhere until Taylor made the actual 489 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: post and then that was an adjustment too, saying my 490 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:06,679 Speaker 1: face on yeah, I'm sure, question like what was that 491 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,400 Speaker 1: because I remember when I went public with my relationship 492 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 1: it had been four years and I was like, my 493 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 1: stomach wasn't like not because I was like, oh my gosh, 494 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: are we about to do this? Like what's going to happen? 495 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: And I'm curious how you felt like when he said 496 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 1: I know, there was that feeling of like, oh my gosh, 497 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: this means so much to me. But was there also 498 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 1: this like reality is going to change a little bit 499 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: because now I am gonna be there's gonna be photos 500 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,640 Speaker 1: of me, and I'm gonna be in the press and 501 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: people are gonna be talking about it. Pretty nervous or 502 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: I mean I think I was maybe a little. I 503 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: also just like didn't know like what to expect in 504 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 1: a sense too, because I feel like it's been really 505 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: great our relationship. Taylor like he'll somewhat prepped me with 506 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: some things, but other things he'll he'll just let me 507 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: experience it and like live it out or like I 508 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: always say, our first date, we were leaving and there 509 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: was like paparazzi came in front of the car and 510 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 1: they're like snapping photos and we get in and like 511 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: I get invice heat. Taylor gets in his and he 512 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: just puts the sunshade down, backs up, and I was like, 513 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 1: why'd you put the shade down? He's like blocks to 514 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 1: flash and he's like backing up the car like so cool, 515 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like like things like that, Like I like, 516 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: he's not like we're gonna go out if there's paparazzi, 517 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 1: you gotta do this, this this, like he just lets 518 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 1: it happen. So I feel like that's been a lot 519 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: of our relationship even to this day. We have been 520 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: like on an interview we did, I didn't answer a 521 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: question how I wanted to answer it, And after on 522 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 1: the next interview we did Taylor answered the question the 523 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 1: way I should have answered the question, not that it 524 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 1: was bad, but like it's you're letting me learn, you know, 525 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: you're not I'll take you no. Like I just feel 526 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 1: like the whole like entertainment industry is such a like 527 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain the best word. It's 528 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 1: like circus. It's this total circle is of just like things. 529 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 1: And I think when you're in it, you don't realize 530 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 1: how weird it is until, like you when you're when 531 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: you're with someone that's newly in it, they're like, what 532 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: is what is all this? Like it's so yeah. So 533 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 1: I imagine when you went walked into it, it was 534 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: probably like you were like a deer neat lights, like 535 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: what is all this? You know? Yeah? Yeah, yeah. There's 536 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: like some things that you can like prep and some 537 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 1: you just need to experience. But I think, like I 538 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 1: think I just didn't want. The biggest thing from you 539 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 1: is I didn't want to give it more attention than 540 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 1: it deserved. Yeah, I was like, you know, yeah, these 541 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 1: things are going to happen, but that's not what our 542 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 1: relationship is about. So it doesn't freaking matter. Yeah, you know, 543 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to sit you down and be like 544 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 1: this is gonna happen, like it's stupid. Sid. I think 545 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 1: that's why like we've been able or why it's been 546 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 1: so easy. Why has it been like super hard for me? 547 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 1: Because Taylor doesn't put value into that, you know, like 548 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,959 Speaker 1: obviously it's very much part of his life has been 549 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 1: for a long time and now we'll be a part 550 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 1: of our lives for forever, and he just doesn't like 551 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 1: put pressure of value onto it. So I think it's 552 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 1: been very easy for me to adjust in certain ways too. Yeah, 553 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: like if he was like anxious every time you'll went out. Yeah, 554 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: But I do want to talk about the dynamic of 555 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: working with your husband wife. Have you guys got like 556 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: it's different because I feel like when you are in 557 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: a relationship and you're like you're running a household and 558 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: you guys have a dog together, so you are like 559 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,959 Speaker 1: allocating responsibility here and there, But when you're working together 560 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: to like add a new level of something to your relationship, 561 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: did you guys get into any fights while you were 562 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: working really yet? I mean yeah, for me, right, I'm 563 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: reserving that for me. I think the biggest thing is 564 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: it just so far is added a level of respect 565 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: for I mean I already respected the crap out of 566 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 1: pay and who she is as a person and what 567 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: she's done with her life so far, Um, a lot more. 568 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: She's done a lot more meaningful things in her life 569 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 1: than I have. Um. But seeing her like work in 570 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 1: just become like a bad businesswoman is like very attractive 571 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 1: and impressive. Like honestly, like I I learned from it. 572 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: I learned so much from day and um, I strive 573 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: to be more like her every day. Mute. Yeah, I mean, honestly, 574 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: it's it's fun. It's fun. It's obviously we'll like butt 575 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: heads about something, but we don't we don't even really 576 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 1: argue in life that much because we communicate really well. 577 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 1: So um, but it's it's been really fun. He'll bring ideas, 578 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 1: Like when we did our first announcement of the podcast, 579 00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, we're gonna do this. He was like, 580 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: why are we doing that? We should be doing this. 581 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, absolutely, we should be doing your idea. My 582 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: idea was not the right way. So it's like, well, 583 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: we'll each bring an idea to the table and it's 584 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 1: it's it's great because I I don't really know what 585 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm doing. Half the time, I'm just doing it. Nobody does. 586 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, it's been it's been fun 587 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: when the two of you argue who's the first to apologize, 588 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 1: typically it's funny. We're we're just asked that recently and 589 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 1: we um, we had a disagreement on the answer. Um, no, 590 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 1: we both The good news is we both are really 591 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: good about that. That's really great. So I yeah, I 592 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: don't know. It could be either one of us, depending 593 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: on the situation, but we're both very much the mindset like, 594 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 1: whatever this argument it is, it's not it's not worth it. Yeah, 595 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: let's so let's apologize. Let's start loving each other again 596 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 1: and move on. Yeah. Wow, I do think it'd be fun. Like, 597 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 1: I don't know, there's something fun about working with your 598 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: significant other that I think is I could never really 599 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 1: what you always kind of did You've done like music 600 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 1: videos together. I was there for like thirty seconds and 601 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:31,479 Speaker 1: I gotta upset because I only got two takes. That 602 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 1: was amazing. It was tough. I was like, how did 603 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 1: I look? She's like, great, Great, we gotta move on. 604 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, but I am curious career wise, like, do 605 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:48,359 Speaker 1: you feel pressure that you'll never have a role like 606 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: shark boy again, Yeah I do. Yeah, were you expecting 607 00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:03,359 Speaker 1: shark Boy? But I'm happy you went there. Um, it's 608 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 1: definitely one of my more prouder moments. No, what do you? 609 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:12,839 Speaker 1: What do you want to do? Yeah that was more 610 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: just a joke. But what is next for both of you? 611 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 1: I know you're just like you're doing everything that You're like, 612 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,400 Speaker 1: I want to do this and I'm going to do it. 613 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,759 Speaker 1: And I remember when I talked to you. I want 614 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 1: to say, y'all, did y'all do renovations on your house 615 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 1: or you? Yeah? And you were like, yeah, we're changing 616 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,280 Speaker 1: some things. I didn't like it. I'm like, what a boss? 617 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 1: She just was like getting at rub off on me. Same. 618 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 1: You guys are so similar. I'm like Taylor needed that 619 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: he needed a woman, Like yeah, yeah, I definitely did. 620 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: But career wise, like what do you are? You kind 621 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,399 Speaker 1: of wanting to move in a different direction? Are you? 622 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 1: What's your goal? Where do you see yourself? Um? I 623 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 1: don't know, and I'm and I've gotten to a place 624 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 1: where I'm totally fine with that. Um. What I know 625 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 1: is I want to be doing things that are meaningful 626 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 1: to me and things that I'm passionate about. Um, So 627 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 1: I don't feel I don't want to work like in 628 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:19,839 Speaker 1: the industry just to work. Um. So, if there is 629 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: a project that you know comes up that I'm passionate about, 630 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: I love it's somebody I really want to work with. Um, 631 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 1: I'm totally open to it. But I don't. I'm loving. 632 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,719 Speaker 1: I'm loving so much what you know we're doing in 633 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 1: our personal lives. Um, and I don't. I don't want 634 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,799 Speaker 1: to leave that just just to work on something that 635 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 1: is meaningless to me. Yes, so I'm cut. Yeah, I mean, 636 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 1: we we have a lot going on in our personal 637 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 1: lives that is also work and it's empowering and um, 638 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 1: I feel great about So I'm I'm happy there. And 639 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: if the right opportunity presents itself, UM, then I'm game. 640 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm very blessed that I get to 641 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,879 Speaker 1: be in that position where you know, I can pick 642 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,839 Speaker 1: and choose, Yeah, to do things that are meaningful to me. 643 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: Who's your dream costar? Who's your dream costar for him 644 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:19,799 Speaker 1: to work with that you would be like, I can't 645 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: believe I get to meet this Person's funny, Oh wow, 646 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,240 Speaker 1: do you know what she's so cool. She's so cool. 647 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: I feel like I have one for you. She's like 648 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 1: obsessed with Ben Affleck. Oh tay, that is not the 649 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 1: direction I was thinking. I love like Batman Ben Affleck. Okay, Okay, 650 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: you don't like the town you enjoy him in that 651 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,279 Speaker 1: as well? Okay, yeah, maybe that would be that would 652 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,880 Speaker 1: just be a fun moment for for me. I know, 653 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,440 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of, like, yeah, who else do 654 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 1: you love? I do feel like like movie. I mean, 655 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: that would be epic for you to be co starred 656 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,720 Speaker 1: with him, right for you, like as an actor? For sure, 657 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:17,359 Speaker 1: that was very unexpected. I didn't think, well, I don't 658 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,479 Speaker 1: even think you're gonna say that. Oh yeah, surprise, Okay. 659 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,640 Speaker 1: I mean for me, I feel like my answer and 660 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 1: I feel like you would agree with this just because 661 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 1: we love him so much. Um And I'm thankful that 662 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,800 Speaker 1: I've done it a couple times already and I will 663 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: continue doing it for the rest of my career if 664 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,760 Speaker 1: I could. Is working Withoutam SAMs Oh, I was gonna 665 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 1: say Adam Sandler, Yeah, that like that's the projects I'm 666 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 1: talking about, where like he is just one of the 667 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:53,400 Speaker 1: best guys I've ever known. Um, and uh, you know, 668 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,480 Speaker 1: not only every time I work with him or speak 669 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 1: with him, do I learn so much about him, you know, 670 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 1: as an actor and professionally, But like the thing, the thing, 671 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: and I told him this recently, the thing I respect 672 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 1: most about him is how good of a father he is. Um, 673 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:15,760 Speaker 1: He's an unbelievable father and husband, and I just yeah, 674 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,959 Speaker 1: he's as loyal as they come. Yeah, he seems so 675 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 1: loyal because he always has that same crew like he 676 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 1: brings in and I'm like, I think that's you don't 677 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 1: see that often in Hollywood, and I think that's so cool. 678 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 1: When you're working on a set of his, it doesn't 679 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 1: feel like work, and that's you know, that's that's a 680 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:38,359 Speaker 1: great goal, right. Yeah, So it's it's pretty fricking fun 681 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 1: to work with sand Sandler and um, yeah, if I 682 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 1: if he could be my co star for the rest 683 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,319 Speaker 1: of my life, I'd be game. I can't wait for 684 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 1: the movie with You've Been Afflecked and Adam Sandlers expected 685 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 1: but putting it out there all involved, if I could 686 00:39:55,200 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 1: come on sea, Um, it sounds a random, but yeah, 687 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 1: maybe it's like a Friend's reboot. Yeah, yeah, a very 688 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 1: grave crossover. Friends Batman reboot. Everyone's been dying for it, 689 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 1: so it feels like we're on the right track. You 690 00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 1: brought up a good point about him being a good father, 691 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:27,799 Speaker 1: which I was curious, babies, is this a conversation? Do 692 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,239 Speaker 1: we want? We talked about this all the time on 693 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:34,439 Speaker 1: the podcast, so this isn't You're not targeting. Yeah, don't 694 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 1: feel targeted. No, definitely want. Yeah, we do want, but 695 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 1: I think we we you know, we would be fine 696 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 1: if it happened, um, you know, sooner than later, but 697 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:49,839 Speaker 1: I think, you know, I think we might wait on 698 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,920 Speaker 1: it for a sack. Yeah, I'm definitely the hold up, 699 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: which is so funny because I never thought I would 700 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 1: be the hold up. But yeah, I'm like, I feel 701 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:02,360 Speaker 1: like this year is like my first year to like 702 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 1: really like work in my career and like you know, 703 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: like go on like my journey together, but my journey 704 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 1: of figuring out like what I'm doing career wise and 705 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:17,120 Speaker 1: just like building this brand that i have in this 706 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 1: Passion project and figuring that stuff out. And I've been 707 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 1: like so excited because I'm like, there's some more weddings, 708 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,279 Speaker 1: there's no more moving, there's no more there's no more 709 00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,120 Speaker 1: nothing like I'm just focusing on this and that's like 710 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 1: my goal. So I really admire you because I think 711 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 1: I think a lot of times and I don't want 712 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,239 Speaker 1: to speak on anyone else's behalf, but you see someone 713 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,439 Speaker 1: who gets into a relationship with someone like you who've 714 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,120 Speaker 1: had who's had so much success, and you could easily 715 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 1: kind of just go like, yeah, I'm just staying at 716 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 1: home and I'm Taylor's life. And I admire you so 717 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,320 Speaker 1: much for saying, like, I'm on my journey obviously together, 718 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 1: but like knowing that you have your own passions and 719 00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 1: the things that you want to focus on and continue 720 00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,839 Speaker 1: to build, Like that's such an amazing quality to have, 721 00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,960 Speaker 1: because it could be very easy to go, well, I'm good, 722 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 1: Yeah got the house unlock, and yeah you're doing it 723 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,759 Speaker 1: and it's really cool. I really admire that. Yeah, she's 724 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 1: very driven, very driven. Well, I do think it's like 725 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,040 Speaker 1: so important when you're in a relationship that you have 726 00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,960 Speaker 1: two different lives, Like obviously you're living one life together, 727 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 1: but I think that and I think there's like a 728 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 1: nice balance that comes with two people really kind of 729 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,200 Speaker 1: going after pursuing their passions and things that they love. 730 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 1: And I think you know, I think it's something that 731 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 1: I think is not talked about enough when it comes 732 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,720 Speaker 1: to relationships, because you know, people always talk about money 733 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:40,880 Speaker 1: and that kind of stuff, but it's not even about money. 734 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,640 Speaker 1: Like I'm like, even if you your passion is to 735 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 1: give your time and to donate your time and you 736 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 1: want to do that somewhere, like just having a sense 737 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,280 Speaker 1: of self, I think outside of your relationship is gonna 738 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 1: be so beneficial with I think in the long run. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, 739 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,520 Speaker 1: what can you tell us some more about your non problem? Yeah? 740 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 1: But I'm so excited because I'm finally I was very 741 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,400 Speaker 1: firm with myself this past year. I literally I launched 742 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 1: my like brand, which was like a blog wellness website, 743 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: Lemons by Tay, and then a few months later launched 744 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 1: the nonprofit. And then we also moved, we got married, 745 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,840 Speaker 1: and that was like all last year that might give whoam? 746 00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,800 Speaker 1: I literally just piled it on. But I told myself, 747 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:28,240 Speaker 1: I was like, we're not doing any events right now, 748 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: like for the nonprofit because I want to do a 749 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: lot of like outreach stuff. I was like, we're not 750 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 1: doing anything, Taylor. You need to just you need to 751 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 1: sit you need to plan this wedding and then you 752 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,839 Speaker 1: need to take a moment to breathe, and then New 753 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: Year you can start planning stuff. So we've officially started 754 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 1: planning some things that I'm so excited about. But basically, 755 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 1: the Lemons Foundation is just about building a community that 756 00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 1: provides resources, tips, tricks, encourages people like in helping them 757 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 1: support their mental health, also supporting others how to have 758 00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:01,280 Speaker 1: conversations with friends, a family member, whoever it may be. Um, 759 00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:05,399 Speaker 1: but yeah, that's that's kind of our goal. We have 760 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 1: an Instagram Lemons by ta and we share all of 761 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,839 Speaker 1: the fun content of just uplifting stuff and really just 762 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,560 Speaker 1: adding good content to the feed that is gonna help 763 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,839 Speaker 1: your mind, your soul. Um. And it's so cool that 764 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:23,799 Speaker 1: that is like my job, that that's like my little 765 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,520 Speaker 1: baby that I get to take care of. Is it 766 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,960 Speaker 1: in turn like helps me stuff like make sure like 767 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 1: I can't be preaching all this mental health stuff if 768 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,879 Speaker 1: I'm not figuring it out. Yeah, yeah, so it helps 769 00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 1: keeps me, keeps me accountable. Uh but yeah, that's also 770 00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 1: Lemons by Tay. And then your podcast is the Squeeze, 771 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 1: Like we had we had to keep it on brand 772 00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 1: like a girl after my own part. I really discovered 773 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:57,719 Speaker 1: that we are the organizers. We are the Yeah, yes, 774 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:03,280 Speaker 1: very much so, and I am the ones to anyone. 775 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 1: You two over there are similar and that's too over here, 776 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:17,240 Speaker 1: very similar, right, that's right baby to Jacob where Wolf. Yeah, Well, 777 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,120 Speaker 1: we appreciate y'all so much, coming so much. I'm just 778 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,319 Speaker 1: like so like proud and watching y'all just flourish and 779 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,839 Speaker 1: everything you do is really cool and it's really cool 780 00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 1: to like you know. Actually, I was thinking every time 781 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,479 Speaker 1: Adam Sandler's brought up, I go, he's a great guy 782 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,480 Speaker 1: I've heard and I think it's from you. I always 783 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,440 Speaker 1: I never met him. Wait from watching that movie the 784 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 1: it's Escape, the name is escaping me right now? No, no, yes, 785 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:48,920 Speaker 1: it was you. I texted you a picture and I 786 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 1: was like, I'm watching you, right, I was like a 787 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: Saturday night. Yeah, it's Ridiculous six. That's what the kids 788 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:58,360 Speaker 1: the kids? Yeah, Home Team. No, No, no, no, that 789 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,600 Speaker 1: one too, that one too, But the I'm talking about 790 00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,640 Speaker 1: Ridiculous six. We did watch that one too, and I 791 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,239 Speaker 1: always feel cool with in front of the kids because 792 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I know him. But that one. I loved 793 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 1: that movie and I do love you and Adam Sandler. Hey, 794 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:19,560 Speaker 1: I do too. We put it out there already manifested. 795 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,920 Speaker 1: I was going somewhere else and it totally escaped me, 796 00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:24,520 Speaker 1: like I had a thought and then it just like 797 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 1: went out my brain. It happens. No, when we were 798 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 1: just talking about Team Jacob, team yeah, team Jacob. Okay. Um, 799 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 1: so we're gonna have a ping punk tournament. Oh and 800 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,560 Speaker 1: I want you guys to come. Oh great, where is this? 801 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 1: Do you play ping Pung? I can I do? I'm 802 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:50,880 Speaker 1: not incredible, but I'm not sucky. Okay. Her dad is 803 00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,800 Speaker 1: like a freaking master embarrasses for me. I don't know, 804 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 1: because I don't know. I feel like I want to. 805 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, like we're making some couples things. Yeah, 806 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,800 Speaker 1: I want to do the ping punk tournament with Audrey. 807 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm so into into the ping Pong tournament. Yeah yeah, Okay, 808 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,279 Speaker 1: we didn't have to be a ping punk tournament, but 809 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:11,320 Speaker 1: something like that I get together might happen. Tell the 810 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,680 Speaker 1: Ping Pong tournament happens. Let's throw a game night again. 811 00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:20,280 Speaker 1: Game Nights Running Charade still my favorite game. It's so good. Um. Anyways, 812 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,279 Speaker 1: I'm so proud to know you both as a couple 813 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,359 Speaker 1: and as individuals. And thank y'all so much for scrubbing in. Yeah, 814 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:28,359 Speaker 1: I really really appreciate everybody. Check out The Squeeze, their 815 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 1: podcast and anything else anywhere anywhere else you want to 816 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:34,640 Speaker 1: direct people too. Yeah, we got the Squeeze on Instagram. 817 00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 1: We're at the Squeeze. Also on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, all 818 00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 1: the all the listening platforms and Lemons by Lemons by 819 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:46,520 Speaker 1: Tay Tay Lautner on Instagram. Taylor Lautner on Instagram, Smart 820 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: TikTok are y'all on TikTok. Yeah they are. I just yes, 821 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,840 Speaker 1: Tay squeezes Lemons. Okay, it's me Lemons by Tay and 822 00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 1: the Squeeze so oh nice. It's like it's I have it, 823 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: but I just like post all of our content that's fun, 824 00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 1: videos that we may suck me into it. Oh my gosh, 825 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,320 Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, I'm time admitting that I love it. 826 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 1: But I didn't want to love it for so long, 827 00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,000 Speaker 1: but I was the same. She's gotten me to do 828 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,839 Speaker 1: a few videos and I feel like I'm hooked. Yeah, 829 00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 1: it's fun. It's fun to do at night when we're 830 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 1: it's like seven pm and we're just sitting around. We're like, 831 00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: what should we do. I just see Taylor being like, 832 00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:29,120 Speaker 1: told me doing a back play. Yeah, always incorated. If 833 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: I had that in my back pocket, I would do 834 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 1: that every ting time. Like I would be right here 835 00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,680 Speaker 1: in the corner being like watch this yeah, to tell 836 00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:41,080 Speaker 1: me yeah. Thank you guys, we love you both. Thank you.