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Speaker 1: We got a double dose of Second Date Update, you know,

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Speaker 1: to go with your advilentyland all ye that you're probably

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Speaker 1: taking today. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Having barbecue chicken for a choice.

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Speaker 1: Delicious cold still too. I appreciate that about you, Hey,

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Speaker 1: thank you for being here. I hope you had a

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Speaker 1: great week and we will be back Monday with a

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Speaker 1: brand new Second Date Update. But enjoy some of the

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Speaker 1: classics right now. Some of them you may heard, some

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Speaker 1: you may have not. So let's see it starts now.

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Speaker 3: It takes a lot to make me embarrassed. Yeah, because

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Speaker 3: when you grow up with a mom who sends every

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Speaker 3: person you date photos from your actual circumcision, if you

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Speaker 3: develop a pretty hard.

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Speaker 1: Emotion that makes sense, that checks out.

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Speaker 2: It's harder between the flap and the real one. But

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Speaker 2: look it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a very straight line.

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Speaker 3: Am I Right, honey, she showed you guys the pictures.

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Speaker 3: But today we heard something that got me actually read

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Speaker 3: in the face because a very awkward and puzzling fact

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Speaker 3: about one of our listeners gets exposed right here on

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Speaker 3: the show, and it made everybody in the room instantly uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: Oh now, he swears that it's really common for men

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Speaker 3: to have this, but all the women in the room

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Speaker 3: agreed it was an instant dating deal breaking. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: this was to happen, oh a.

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Speaker 2: Woman, because I agree.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're gonna hear it in your second date update

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Speaker 3: right after this second date update. You know, we have

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Speaker 3: rules on this show, and people tend to abuse those rules.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean.

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Speaker 1: I don't really like the rules, but.

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Speaker 3: Looking at several individuals in this room specifically, come.

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Speaker 1: On, Jeff, don't be such a hall monitor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, screw the FCC whatever. Yeah, but you know, we

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Speaker 3: did get an email for a second date update recently

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Speaker 3: from a guy named Blake, who says, you really should

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Speaker 3: contact me because even though I technically went on two dates,

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Speaker 3: it should only count as one because they were both

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Speaker 3: super short.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay dates regular sounds like two bad dates if

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Speaker 3: Maybe, Blake, why were your dates so short?

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, so it's not my fault.

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Speaker 5: I don't think it's a few different things.

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Speaker 2: I don't think, of.

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Speaker 4: Course, I mean it could be my fault.

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Speaker 5: We just went to two different restaurants, and I researched

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Speaker 5: them and went to ones that were like the highest

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Speaker 4: Like super super good service.

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Speaker 5: But the problem is, and what I don't really want

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Speaker 5: to complain about, you know, but also it just came

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Speaker 5: out too quick, Like we order in boom, food comes out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, when you're at a fast food restaurant, that's

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Speaker 5: We went to a five star pizza place first, and

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Speaker 5: then I just wanted to be casual, you know, but

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Speaker 5: then I ordered out that I ordered the pizza in Boom.

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Speaker 6: It was there.

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Speaker 3: Oh, let's rewind a little bit before we get into

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Speaker 3: the food and the horribly fast.

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Speaker 4: What works.

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Speaker 3: What's the name of the girl that you went out with?

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Speaker 4: Her name is Kate?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we always just guess assume you met her on

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we did.

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Speaker 5: We met on a dating app.

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Speaker 3: Okay, nice?

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Speaker 1: And did she stand out for a particular reason?

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Speaker 5: Her profile was kind of like quirky, Like it seemed

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Speaker 1: Cool.

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Speaker 3: So I mean, it's good that you went on two

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Speaker 5: So the first one was the pizza place, and then

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Speaker 4: Like bar food, soul food type of thing.

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Speaker 5: So I ordered mac and cheese, and again it came

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Speaker 4: Food came out and mac and cheese.

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Speaker 5: You don't want to let it get cold and hard,

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Speaker 4: Again.

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Speaker 2: It was like the one time you wanted the service

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Speaker 1: But even if it came out fast, like you would

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Speaker 1: parlay that into Oh, I keep want to keep hanging

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Speaker 1: I didn't plan before.

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Speaker 5: And also I don't want to push it, you know,

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Speaker 5: You know, it's not like a whole like let's paint

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Speaker 1: So how is the feeling of each other out?

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Speaker 3: How did she feel?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't know yet.

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Speaker 5: I don't know yet, but no, I mean I think

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Speaker 5: it went really well she's really funny and she's cute,

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Speaker 5: like I said, And I mean, the conversation went seemed

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Speaker 5: Her conversation was just like effortless.

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Speaker 2: You know, Oh that's so good.

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Speaker 7: It's like the date can take an hour and you

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Speaker 2: It's like, wow, we've covered so many things.

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Speaker 5: So it really felt like thirty seconds whenever it took

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Speaker 1: Yeah, can I ask? Because now you have two dates

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Speaker 1: out on a second date, so the first date full success? Right,

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Speaker 1: was the end of the second date different? Did you

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Speaker 5: I mean it was a little bit awkward because it

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Speaker 5: should I go in for a kiss yet? So it

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Speaker 3: See this, you.

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Speaker 7: Should have just kept ordering food, like, oh, can I

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 2: Can I get this. That way, you're like meal prepping

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Speaker 3: You're buying more time, and then you look like a

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Speaker 1: Dollars shit, a competitive eater.

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Speaker 3: Like Joey Chestnut over there.

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Speaker 5: She might not want to get into a long term

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean it sounds like the biggest problem for you.

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Speaker 3: What you're saying is that everything went too quickly. You

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Speaker 5: Dates, right it Well, like I said, it went too quickly.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes you kind of want one of those awkward pauses

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Speaker 3: That's your problem. Isn't that the service is too fast,

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Speaker 3: the conversation is too good.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You're traffic in that short of a time.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know that there's like somebody who's

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Speaker 7: Gonna sound weird, but I kind of kind of see

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Speaker 7: that because if there's not he said, there's nothing memorable

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Speaker 3: That it was just too Yeah. I mean, if we're

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Speaker 5: I was gonna say, I was thinking about a baseball game,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, an hour and a half now, yeah, nice, So.

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Speaker 5: They'll try to get me a gift card for the

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Speaker 5: slowest restaurant in sound Yeah, okay, it also.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you talk really fast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that's what it is. Okay, I'm excited, you know.

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Speaker 2: He's like, okay, so hi, how are you? What's your name?

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Speaker 4: All right, but it's charming and fast, that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: I could see. All right, Well, we're gonna try and

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Speaker 3: next second date update, two dinner dates, both at record speed.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we should play faster music.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm afraid to do that just because of what

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Speaker 3: one was pizza, one was mac and cheese, and Blake

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Speaker 7: The date was over y.

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Speaker 3: That's why he did two of them. But both times

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Speaker 3: the service was just too quick. And I mean, here's

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Speaker 3: what I think we need to do. We kind of

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Speaker 3: need to game plan as a show before we make

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Speaker 3: this call. I think that we shouldn't say that everything

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Speaker 1: It's usually not a negative thing, right, Like, if you

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Speaker 1: feel like time passes quickly, it usually means that you

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Speaker 1: had a great experience.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but he did. He didn't say that they ever

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Speaker 3: actually talked about that. That was just his perception that

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Speaker 3: the wait staff moved too quickly, right, fact, so I

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Speaker 3: think we asked her open ended questions. How do you

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Speaker 3: feel about that? Blake?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to see what she thought too.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm just like looking at it

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Speaker 1: Do you know we never asked you? Are you guys

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Speaker 5: I mean, I've reached out to her a couple of

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Speaker 5: times and chook on and just be polite.

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Speaker 1: But okay, you're getting cold from her via messages.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's why I came to you guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Well, let's swoop in like the waiters at

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Speaker 1: You're going to have such a hard time not mentioning that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you are the phone better one time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, thanks for having confidence in me. Here we go.

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Speaker 3: I don't remember right now.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it is.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Kate. What's up? We're brooking Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 9: Here, you're from the radio. I don't know who you are.

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Speaker 1: We also do a podcast so that's cool.

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Speaker 2: Didn't help.

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Speaker 3: We do a segment on our show to help people

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Speaker 3: you're calling me, Well.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to help. Someone you went out with

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Speaker 3: Right, you're great at dating. That's what we've heard from

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, rightsy question. All we want to know is like,

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Speaker 9: I mean, he was nice, Probably not the person for me,

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, did.

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Speaker 2: You like not have fun on the dates?

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Speaker 9: What strange?

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Speaker 3: These are normal questions that radio hosts always ask it

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Speaker 10: The length of the date was a normal length. I

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you have to tell her why you

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, because the reason that I'm asking is when

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Speaker 1: Like he felt like maybe the date was rushed and

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Speaker 10: Like the service was good, but both times that we

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, imagine going to dinner with the cookie monster.

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Speaker 10: Okay, it's thirty seconds, there's crumbs everywhere, and then they're done, Like.

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Speaker 2: How was he even picking anything up with those giant hands?

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Speaker 3: And then he tries to teach you about letters afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Remember the macaroni and cheese. When we talked to him,

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Speaker 10: Yeah, he said that he would gag if the temperature

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Speaker 6: Gag.

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Speaker 1: Not really though, Like he just meant he didn't like

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Speaker 10: No, No, he meant he physically couldn't handle it, like

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Speaker 1: It was a texture thing.

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Speaker 3: N How do you feel about that explanation?

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Speaker 10: I mean it got worse to be honest with you,

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Speaker 10: Like what really, Well, it started this really odd conversation

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Speaker 5: Oh people.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it just got me thinking, like I'm looking at

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Speaker 9: Well, what would that be?

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Speaker 3: Like, Well, I do think it's good that you are

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Speaker 9: I'm not anymore.

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Speaker 1: Through this. Is it just a little speed bumps? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Popy right over that speed bump and connect you to

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Speaker 3: Blake right now because he's on the other line listening

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Speaker 3: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that that's that weird.

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Speaker 5: People have textures, people have likes and days.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you start with a high coming in?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry we kind of hurt my feelings a little bit.

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Speaker 4: I mean people are just let people beat.

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Speaker 5: People, you know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, why is that? We had a great time

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Speaker 5: The conversations were great. I thinks like we were both

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Speaker 1: Did she hang up.

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Speaker 3: There? Okay?

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Speaker 6: No, he was on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Sorry, that's how these work. Okay, But I'll go

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Speaker 4: I think it's a normal thing. People have preferences.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it's a little. Like I said, I'm not trying

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Speaker 5: I don't think that only when you talk about that

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Speaker 1: What's that, Blake? You can't leave us in the dark

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Speaker 1: on stuff that sounds important.

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Speaker 4: I just prefer not to have it out.

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Speaker 5: In the open.

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Speaker 1: Is it more embarrassing than you not being able to

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Speaker 4: I don't think it's embarrassing. I think it's normal.

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Speaker 5: Okay, then it's a more private kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: Oh, there's a texture that you can't handle.

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Speaker 5: It is the texture that I can't handle.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: The picture of someone's lips, like you'll never kiss her.

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Speaker 3: If it's what I'm thinking that it is. Maybe he's

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Speaker 1: I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: I don't get it either, But he thinks it's normal.

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Speaker 1: What do you think that it is? No, Jeffrey, like,

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Speaker 1: are you thinking something dirty?

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Speaker 5: It's a little dirty.

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Speaker 3: I think there's a part all right?

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Speaker 2: Anyway, that's just that's too bad for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, are we right? Are we in the ballpark?

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Speaker 10: I'm just gonna say to me, I know he has

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Speaker 1: Why waste talking about people time to find a woman

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Speaker 1: to date? Delivering that type of information.

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Speaker 5: On the first day that was the second date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know it's it's like a partnership, you give

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Speaker 3: Okay, So maybe Kate's willing to go without that part

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Speaker 3: would pay for the third date that you and Blake

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Speaker 3: went on to a place that doesn't serve any cheese whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: Kate, are you interested still because I think everybody here

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are.

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Speaker 9: I mean, you wouldn't want me to live a life

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Speaker 3: You guys are.

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Speaker 1: Something. What I tell my kids with food is that

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Speaker 8: Don't don't don't talk about your kids.

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Speaker 3: Let's call the therapist before.

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Speaker 2: Watch list.

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Speaker 3: God, Blake, I am so sorry, but this technically is

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Speaker 3: all your fault and you do have some walk to

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Speaker 4: I'll do my best.

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Speaker 8: I'll try, Okay, looking Jeffrey in the morning, this is

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Speaker 1: I don't ever want to know how it goes for

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I will say after we recorded it, Blake

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Speaker 3: I would if I could not.

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Speaker 1: Your response, maybe you're just not interested in women.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't think it's not his fault. Did you

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Speaker 2: It's a thing this man is.

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Speaker 3: Just as tortured inside as she is. I feel for

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Speaker 1: Down the excuse I would if I could.

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Speaker 3: That's a sweet thing to say to someone. Yeah, we

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Speaker 3: trends and new inventions. Scientists better be working on this,

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Speaker 3: make a pill for it or something they need to

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Speaker 1: It's really not a rampant problem. I'm just telling you.

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Speaker 3: It is a big problem though for him. He's going

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Speaker 3: if they don't do something about it. But remember, you

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Speaker 3: can always hear all of our second date updates on

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Speaker 3: our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey. Go check it out.

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Speaker 3: Make sure you follow and subscribe.

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Speaker 1: Yes please, Yeah, so you never miss us.

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Speaker 3: Texture when you listen is perfect.

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: If there was a Guinness World Record Book for dating,

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Speaker 3: Alexis would probably be in it for fastest to ask

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Speaker 3: to see a W two forma. Jose would hold the

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 3: Started and Brooke holds them for most cousin ears nibbled

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Speaker 11: Competition her whole family is the competition, but one of

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Speaker 11: for quickest time to ruin a date yo, because he

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Speaker 2: Whoa wow.

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Speaker 3: And it all started when he invited her up and

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Speaker 3: You're going to hear what happened in your second date

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Speaker 3: update next second date up. Date is something my dad

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Speaker 3: always used to say to me growing up, was you

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Speaker 3: can control all delete a computer virus from an adult

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Speaker 3: Chinese website, but you can't control all delete a bad

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Speaker 12: That is, it's wise, I know, for very wise stuff

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Speaker 12: from my father super Man, your dad, Yeah you say that,

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Speaker 1: Do you screw up in the first minute?

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Speaker 3: We're going to find out, Kyle. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Good morning. How's it going guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you haven't messed this up yet, so congrats.

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Speaker 3: Well we're not Yeah, we're not through the full minute

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Speaker 3: judgment and we'll get to your screw up here in

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Speaker 3: that you went out with. What's their name?

454
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Speaker 6: Her name is Rebecca and we actually met off of

455
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Speaker 6: a dating app.

456
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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, great? What did you like about Rebecca?

457
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 6: Honestly? I mean, she's beautiful and we really just kind

458
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,400
Speaker 6: of had a very natural vibright off the beginning, and

459
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,920
Speaker 6: it was easy, you know, and a lot of a

460
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,240
Speaker 6: lot of the times it's not easy, and that's usually

461
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 6: when it's like, why am I trying?

462
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Speaker 3: Everybody loves easy women. That's great, So that's what I

463
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 3: like to hear.

464
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Speaker 1: Jeffrey, he too easy?

465
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 3: Almost. So what did you and Rebecca do for a date?

466
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Speaker 1: You got to get to the minute of screw up?

467
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Speaker 4: Right?

468
00:20:57,880 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 1: Isn't that where we're at now?

469
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Speaker 3: How does that happen in the first just a minute?

470
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Speaker 6: So the day of our date, my car actually had

471
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Speaker 6: to be taken to the shop last minute, so Rebecca

472
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 6: had offered to pick me up. So she got there,

473
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Speaker 6: I invited her in, I introduced her to my roommate. Okay,

474
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,239
Speaker 6: and I should have probably left it at that, but

475
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Speaker 6: I was one hundred percent honest with her from the

476
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 6: beginning and told her that my roommate and I used

477
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Speaker 6: to date and that we had broke up two weeks ago.

478
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:28,439
Speaker 1: Two weeks whoa weeks ago? I thought you were going

479
00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 1: to say, like you were high school, you.

480
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Speaker 7: Were introducing them, I'd be like moved out by then.

481
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Speaker 1: I'm having a panic attack for you.

482
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Speaker 6: I don't know what I Honestly, I don't know what

483
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 6: I was thinking in the moment. I really felt like

484
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,159
Speaker 6: if I'm just kind of honest. Also, this had been

485
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 6: a breakup that was like a long time coming.

486
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Speaker 1: So can I ask though, were you still in a

487
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Speaker 1: one bedroom apartment or you guys are you sleeping in

488
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 1: different rooms?

489
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:52,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

490
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Speaker 6: At this point, like we were pretty much sleeping in

491
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Speaker 6: different rooms.

492
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Speaker 3: So I think it's a good thing you're that honest. Well, no,

493
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 3: you're you're showing Rebecca, like look what I was working

494
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 3: with last time. See now you have.

495
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: Don't think anyone's yeah.

496
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Speaker 3: It's like now, look I've moved on to something better.

497
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Speaker 1: You're honest. You were just doing this to make your

498
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Speaker 1: ex jealous.

499
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 6: No, actually, I really that was not the case, because

500
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Speaker 6: I'm the one who wanted to end the relationship.

501
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 5: So some people like to.

502
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 2: Rub in their new relationships and other people's faces.

503
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 3: Though too sounds like an honest mistake that could have

504
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 3: happened to anybody. So what did you do for you do?

505
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 3: It's so specific?

506
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 6: I thought it was funny. Clearly no one else in

507
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 6: the room thought it was funny. So I nearly just

508
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 6: said we're going to be late for the reservation and

509
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 6: we laughed.

510
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

511
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: Wait, did Rebecca not ask any other questions, like in

512
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Speaker 1: the car when you guys are driving to the restaurant.

513
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was a little funny about it. She was like, oh, wow,

514
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 6: I didn't know you were living with your ex and

515
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 6: you never said that.

516
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Speaker 3: And it's not fun.

517
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Speaker 2: That's normal reaction.

518
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get past let's get past the X slash

519
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 3: room made and get to the restaurant. As how that one?

520
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 1: I don't think I can get past it.

521
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 6: So so we're driving to the restaurant and it's in

522
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 6: an area I'm usually never in, and like, I see this,

523
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 6: I see a best boy. So in the moment, I

524
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 6: was just like, oh, can we stop here for a

525
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 6: few minutes?

526
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 3: Up another TV?

527
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 2: There's a CD I want to buy.

528
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: Why would you have a running age with you?

529
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 6: Well, there's this camera standing there that I wanted to

530
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 6: buy for six months and I've never round this best buy.

531
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Speaker 6: We weren't we weren't actually running late for the reservation.

532
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 6: I just wished to, like trying to get out of

533
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 6: the awkwardness of the situation.

534
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: So geek squad.

535
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 3: My ex says that we need to mount the camera

536
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 3: next time. So this up.

537
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 6: It actually ended up being fun. We got to look around,

538
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 6: you know, we got a chance to talk about like photography,

539
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 6: which is something that we both care about and tell't

540
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 6: know why, you know, camera stand they're all different in

541
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 6: the nuances. And then we look at you.

542
00:23:55,080 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 1: Know, thrilling. I can't believe she's hungry waiting for a

543
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: dinner reservation.

544
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 3: At any point do we end up getting to the

545
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 3: restaurant or does it?

546
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 6: Yeah, so then we we leave. You know, at this point,

547
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 6: we both were ready for dinner. I based out the

548
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 6: reservation and we actually couldn't get in when we get there.

549
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 6: So I'm just like, what the hell's going on?

550
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 2: What happened?

551
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: What happened with the reservation.

552
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 6: So I guess when I booked the reservation, I had,

553
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:27,119
Speaker 6: you know, booked it for a different time, but.

554
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 1: I thought you said, we're an hour in and it's

555
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: all bad.

556
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Speaker 3: I disagree, Kyle. I think you're hitting it out of

557
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 3: the park with this. Keep going.

558
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 6: Thank you, Thank you for your encouragement. You know, obviously

559
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 6: it was all going downhill at that point. Yeah, like

560
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 6: what the flow? You know, we made the best of it.

561
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 6: We ended up hanging out at the place next door.

562
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 6: We drank a decent amount because we both were just

563
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 6: probably trying to get like, you know, John Kep's point

564
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,400
Speaker 6: and I I can drink a lot. Anyways, she ended

565
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 6: up driving me home after dinner. No kiss. Yeah, but

566
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 6: I really do want to make up for the first impression.

567
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 6: I feel like I really screwed it up, and I

568
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 6: that's why I'm trying to get another shot at it.

569
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: Can we tell her, like when we talked to her,

570
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 1: do you have plans to move out with the apartment

571
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: with your.

572
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 6: Worse Of course, our lease is ending in two more months.

573
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: And I get it, I get it. That's hard.

574
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, good for her for sticking out the

575
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 3: entire date. She could have just barreled out of her

576
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 3: car while she was driving home.

577
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Speaker 1: I was going to say, leave him a best buy Jeffrey.

578
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 3: Out, but she didn't, so maybe there's hope here. We're

579
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 3: gonna call Rebecca and try and get you your second

580
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 3: date update thinks right after this.

581
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 12: Date if you're just.

582
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 3: Joining us for the second date update. Really hard to

583
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 3: find any red flax file.

584
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't see any.

585
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 3: Let's just recap his story really quick. He introduced her

586
00:25:55,840 --> 00:26:00,160
Speaker 3: to his roommate aka ex girlfriend, who he still lives.

587
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 1: With he broke up with two weeks ago.

588
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 3: Well, sticky situation in little details. Yeah, and then on

589
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 3: the way to the restaurant, they stopped at a Best

590
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 3: Buy to pick up a camera stand that he really

591
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 3: really needed. They ended up missing their dinner reservation, so

592
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 3: to make up for it, hit up a bar where

593
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 3: he drank heavily and totally redeemed himself.

594
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, she had to drive him home.

595
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's such a cute look.

596
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 3: If anything, maybe there were a couple of hiccups. But Kyle,

597
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 3: the good news here is Brooke has dated much much worse.

598
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 2: We can always rely on that.

599
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 3: Including the dude in Mexico who actually tried to harvest

600
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 3: her kidney after they hooked up. So I'm giving you

601
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 3: a fifty to fifty shot here.

602
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: That was kind of sweet of all the kidneys you

603
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,479
Speaker 1: chose my I mean we didn't ask you have you

604
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 1: reached out and apologized to her for what a train

605
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 1: wreck your guys' first date was.

606
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 4: I actually didn't.

607
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 6: Think it was a train wreck. I you know, I

608
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 6: basically reached out and was just like trying to focus

609
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 6: on the positive and all the good things that came

610
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 6: out of that.

611
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 2: That's good.

612
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 3: I like that attitude. And Brook is always trying to

613
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 3: get men to apologize for everything that they do.

614
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 1: But it doesn't sound like she responded to him, so.

615
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, that's rude of her. Maybe she should apologize

616
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 3: for not responding.

617
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: Jeff apology as.

618
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 3: Soon as she picks up the phone. Let's what a

619
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 3: rude woman? Here we go?

620
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 4: Oh?

621
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 3: Hi is this Rebecca?

622
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

623
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 3: Hey Rebecca. My name is Jeff from a radio show

624
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 3: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi Rebecca, Hey

625
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 3: have you ever heard of us before?

626
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 13: That's okay, I think my mom.

627
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 2: Thanks for lying spurs our feelings.

628
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 3: Your mom sounds like a good person, because we do.

629
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 3: We do something on the show called a second Date Update,

630
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 3: and we'd like you to be a part of one

631
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 3: right now.

632
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 6: I what's that?

633
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 3: It's basically where listeners ask us to reach out to

634
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 3: a person they went on a date with recently to

635
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 3: try and figure out why a second date hasn't happened yet. Okay,

636
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 3: and you went out with a guy named Kyle the

637
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 3: other night who's a little curious what's going on?

638
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 4: Okay?

639
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: Oh you're laughing? Is that a good laugh? Or like

640
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: Kyle should know laugh?

641
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 13: Did he talk to you already?

642
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 4: Yeah?

643
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, weird a little bit from Kyle.

644
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, just quick summary.

645
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 3: Nothing too bad though not in our opinion. Was anything

646
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 3: bad in yours?

647
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: Jeffrey's opinion Alexis and I saw a couple of red

648
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: flags when he was describing the date. I would love

649
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: to hear your side of the story of the first

650
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: like thirty minutes.

651
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like give us the start from your eyes.

652
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 6: Okay.

653
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 13: So yeah, I went to pick him up, and you know,

654
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 13: as a normal person, you text me like I'm here

655
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 13: and they come out and he was like, oh, come

656
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 13: in of like.

657
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: And when you went into his apartment, what'd you think.

658
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 13: The apartment was fined? But like he was like, oh,

659
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 13: this is my roommate, blah bah blah. And then he goes, yeah,

660
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 13: like we used to date and and then I find

661
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 13: out it broke up like two weeks ago.

662
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was going through your head?

663
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 3: Catch?

664
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 13: I was just like, never met an ex in the

665
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 13: first minute or really at all on a date. And

666
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 13: my second thought was, she's really pretty Like is that's

667
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 13: what he what he meant when he had car trouble?

668
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 5: He just wants me to meet his ex?

669
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 13: Because there were other moments where it was just he

670
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 13: just kind of felt like he was posturing or whatever.

671
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 3: What do you mean what moments?

672
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: Does sound pretty convenient?

673
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 13: Well, I would say this is my own thing with

674
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 13: people pleasing or whatever. I was like, okay, like I

675
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 13: can live on from this. So like to get in

676
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 13: the car and we're driving, and then you say, oh,

677
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 13: can we go to best Buy? And I need to

678
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 13: get this camera stand or whatever, and I was like, uh, okay,

679
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 13: second thing, that's super weird.

680
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Speaker 2: But will you sound very patient and nice so far?

681
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Speaker 1: Just so you know again, she said it's her people

682
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Speaker 1: pleasing problem.

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Speaker 13: Thank you. It's probably not for the best.

684
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: So what did something weird happen at best Buy? I mean,

685
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: besides just going there.

686
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 13: Besides just going there, he takes about an hour looking

687
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 13: at camera stands and man explaining to me, and I'm like,

688
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 13: I'm not the one buying a camera stand.

689
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Speaker 4: I don't care.

690
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 3: But if you think about it, that's an hour of

691
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Speaker 3: free electronic education that he gifted to.

692
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Speaker 1: Your well wanted.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that. I don't like the energy that

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00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 3: I'm getting in this moment. Let's move on. Tell us

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Speaker 3: about what happened when you and Kyle were over at

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Speaker 3: the bar together.

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Speaker 13: Oh so you already know that we didn't even go

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Speaker 13: to the restaurant.

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00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean we're calling that a little hiccup.

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Speaker 13: Go ahead, So like a bar nearby, So we just

701
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 13: walked over to the bar. He's getting drinks. I don't

702
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 13: want to drink that much because obviously I'm driving, and

703
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 13: he goes when you know that, like I have a

704
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 13: blood condition or I can handle a lot of alcohol. God,

705
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 13: And I was like okay, and he takes like six

706
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 13: shots and within like thirty.

707
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 4: Minutes, he's face down on the bar.

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00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

709
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: I can't believe you drove him home.

710
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 5: I wish I didn't.

711
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 13: You're so right, but like so I'm like basicly dragging

712
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 13: him back to my car and he's like, you're so pretty.

713
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 13: You know that I'm a Navy deal in training, and

714
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 13: I'm like, what does this amazing?

715
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just trying that just even feels like a lie,

716
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: Like it's.

717
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 6: Hello, I am a Navy feeling training. What are you

718
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 6: talking about? Oh?

719
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 10: Wait, what the heck?

720
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, Rebecca Kylesman on the other line listening this entire time.

721
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 3: It was supposed to wait till we called him in,

722
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 3: But honestly.

723
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 13: I feel like this is something you should tell the

724
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 13: people right away.

725
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: Yes, you're right, you were just so caught up in

726
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: the terrible stories that you were sharing.

727
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 3: I didn't get terrible from anything that She's Kyle. On

728
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 3: top of all of his other positive qualities, he wants

729
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 3: to surprise her too.

730
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: After hearing all of.

731
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 6: That, I think it was more positive than negative, To

732
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 6: be honest, I did. I think there are a lot

733
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 6: of hiccups at the beginning, but I thought it ended

734
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 6: on a good note.

735
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: Would you sloppy drunk in her car?

736
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 4: Le?

737
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 3: Clearly they're not understanding this. Why don't you man explain

738
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 3: all the positive things that happened during the king?

739
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 6: Well, initially, you know, when we talked about photography and everything,

740
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 6: like you seemed really into it. So I thought when

741
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 6: we were at Best Buys. You seemed pretty engaged. You laugh.

742
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 6: I got a couple of laughs and smiles out of you,

743
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 6: and we were there for a while, and I thought

744
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 6: that was pretty positive.

745
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 13: I mean, what was I supposed to say? I feel

746
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 13: like it would have been rude for me to be like, well,

747
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 13: this is boring, let's go.

748
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 5: Yeah.

749
00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 6: I guess that's fair. But I didn't see it that way, and.

750
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 13: You didn't see anything as rude because you were like, here,

751
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 13: pick me up, here, meet my roommate, here, meet my

752
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 13: ex here, let's go to Best Buying.

753
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 5: Here, let's our reservation.

754
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 3: And that's a lot of things that he did for you. There,

755
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 3: What's something that you did for him?

756
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 4: Kyle?

757
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: Jeff sarcastic right now? I mean that that is all

758
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: really selfish stuff.

759
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 9: Man.

760
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: Were you ever thinking of her?

761
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 6: Yeah? I mean yeah, I told her she was pretty

762
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 6: I was thinking about her.

763
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Speaker 13: Are you serious? Like, I think I'm speechless.

764
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 3: Good work, Kyle. You got a.

765
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: Speechless by that, because Kyle is so clueless.

766
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Speaker 6: Honestly, I disagree with you guys. Like Jess said, I

767
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 6: gave her like an hour of education on cameras, and

768
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 6: I feel pretty good about that.

769
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to pay for that most places.

770
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Speaker 1: I mean, Kyle, were you training with to be a

771
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 1: Navy seal?

772
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 6: I'm looking at like YouTube videos?

773
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Speaker 13: You know, Wait a minute, are you kidding me?

774
00:33:55,880 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 7: Beyond it's intense training, you can't just learn to hold

775
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 7: your breath for two minutes.

776
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 3: Kyle's gonna prove you wrong on that one.

777
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 13: Jose does, just like he proved me wrong with his

778
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 13: blood condition that he could drink six shots in a row.

779
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 3: Rebecca, I'm going to ask you a question here, and

780
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 3: I really hope that you don't turn down a future

781
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,839
Speaker 3: Navy seal on a second date that we will pay for.

782
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 3: And I promise you that on the date, he'll prove

783
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 3: that he can hold his breath for two minutes in

784
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 3: the bathtub while's X watching, Yeah, watches classic Navy seal

785
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 3: training with that mounted camera that you helped buy. Circle.

786
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 3: What do you say, Rebecca? What an opportunity, Rebecca, do

787
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: the hero a chance?

788
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 13: It means that is a very enticing offer. But he's

789
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,479
Speaker 13: proven everything and I never want to see him again.

790
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, good job for back and finding some boundaries.

791
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 13: Yeah, oh yeah, I'm sweating bullets over here. I'm about

792
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 13: to hang up and just hyper battling.

793
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: Oh, you'll be good.

794
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 3: You'll be good.

795
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 1: You're a great sport.

796
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: Everybody understand.

797
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: And I think Kyle, like, once he does some reflection,

798
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: has learned, will kind of soak in some of this.

799
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 3: Hopefully when he's taken down the next bin.

800
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Speaker 8: Laden, for sure, you're just a drunk guy trying his way.

801
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 6: I'm calling you back just so you.

802
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 3: Know, all right, Well happy, I was coming up. Brooke

803
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,439
Speaker 3: needs somebody to I'm good.

804
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: Kyle's not my type. Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,

805
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:38,839
Speaker 1: and I.

806
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 3: Was hoping we'd be able to get a second date.

807
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 3: So well, just so Kyle could go back to her

808
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 3: apartment and gather intelligence behind enemy lines, because that's what

809
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 3: a Navy sealed does.

810
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: Oh, I got that very Jeffrey. Jeffrey, people do not

811
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: always pick up on your sarcasm everywhere.

812
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's uh, that's their problem. That's not my fault.

813
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 12: That was a disaster conversation to go a little whiskey tango,

814
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 12: emphasis on the whiskey and terrorist one that round of day.

815
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 1: No fox trot there, no no.

816
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 3: But at the very end Kyle did say he would

817
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 3: be calling us back.

818
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 7: At least you can't understand me. Maybe he did anything wrong.

819
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 7: He's like, oh, I'll be back.

820
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 3: Well, I think the missing context of that is I'm

821
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 3: definitely going to ruin a future date coming. Sure you

822
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 3: saved my email in your contact me up again.

823
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: He's got two months of being in a roomy with

824
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: his ex, so I think there's gonna be plenty of

825
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: bad dates in his future.

826
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe we're going to do an awkward Tuesday to

827
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 3: finally kick her out. Oh god, But if you ever

828
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 3: need help with your dating life, email the show. We

829
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,919
Speaker 3: can call that person who isn't calling you back, help

830
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 3: you out.

831
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: Jeffrey will stick up for you, no matter how dumb

832
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: you are.

833
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's we guarantee.

834
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a hero this time than that.

835
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Speaker 5: Moon