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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: Welcome guys to another episode of horrible decisions. I'm your girl,

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Speaker 1: Mandy b a k A full court punk a pet

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Speaker 1: stallion bitch. Yes, I'm bat like a motherfucker's single lass

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Speaker 1: Hope A k A dad bitch a k A. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna make a do what to do? Baby? Mandy baskets?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Baby? What? What's up? Tell him who you is? Bitch?

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Speaker 1: This is so embarrassing. My name is Wheezy. Um, that's all.

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Speaker 1: I will tell you what it do? Uh, sorry for

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Speaker 1: my guest. It's giving love and hip hop today with

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Speaker 1: Mandy very much. Really, no, it ain't make it do

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Speaker 1: what to do? Baby? Yeah, just giving Jimmy Fox. Why

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Speaker 1: is that? Uh huh? Anyways, our friends from a layer here,

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Speaker 1: so I really don't know why you did all of that. Yes, guys,

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Speaker 1: we are joined today by Erica and Milo, which are

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Speaker 1: the host of Good Mom's Bad Choices. We and I

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Speaker 1: have been having a lot of parenting conversations for some reason,

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Speaker 1: like we spit bitches out of our vaginas and we

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Speaker 1: have it next? Did you guys? Who she next? You

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Speaker 1: both pushed him out. I cut it out. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: cut it off. If I have to pick, I would

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Speaker 1: take like scissors. You would do it. You would do it.

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Speaker 1: No c section. No, that is not something you do optionally.

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Speaker 1: You do it because you absolutely have you have to.

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Speaker 1: People do it, but people can you know what, I

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Speaker 1: I don't recommend it. Mine was not because I wanted that,

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Speaker 1: but that's just what happened. I just want the stork

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Speaker 1: to come drop it off at the porch if I

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Speaker 1: really like, I don't want to go through nonaday. My

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Speaker 1: home girl tell me the other day she was like, girl,

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Speaker 1: bit just be having a postpartum. She was like, I

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Speaker 1: do not want to kill my baby. I just want

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Speaker 1: to have someone else to have it. And she just

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Speaker 1: wants to experience the pregnancy and not have the baby. No. No,

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Speaker 1: she's like, actually really scared to postpartum. Well like she's

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Speaker 1: terrified of like wanting to kill her kid. Did either

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Speaker 1: of experience relax? My mom said she wanted to microwave me.

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Speaker 1: I mean, whoa what didn't say very specific. I think

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Speaker 1: it's I think it's because microwave. She was probably cooking

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Speaker 1: food or something, and she was like I looked at you,

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Speaker 1: and I almost put you in there, and I said

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Speaker 1: I need to call somebody, and then she said, you know,

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Speaker 1: I lasted for about three days and then I want

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Speaker 1: to kill you. Did y'all experience postpartum at all? I did?

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Speaker 1: But I didn't want to kill my baby, Okay, I

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Speaker 1: was just I just was sad. Oh um, I did.

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Speaker 1: I I didn't think I recognized it in the time,

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Speaker 1: but like, you definitely get extremely happy and extremely sad

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Speaker 1: and confused. It's a huge life changing what the funk

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Speaker 1: am I going to do with you forever? Type of feeling.

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Speaker 1: Did you get mad at the baby? I didn't get mad, right,

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Speaker 1: got mad? I got mad, but I also just got overwhelmed.

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Speaker 1: It was more like, oh shit, this is forever. I

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Speaker 1: can't even Like there were times where we're like, walk

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Speaker 1: into somewhere and I'm like, oh, should I got a baby?

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Speaker 1: Like I would forget be walking around the house cleaning up,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm supposed to be doing something like

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Speaker 1: oh the fucking baby, you know, like, m well, you

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Speaker 1: know what the good thing about these conversations is like

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Speaker 1: people are like, oh, having a baby so joyful, It's

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Speaker 1: so beautiful. Nothing ever bad happens, but like, bitch, you

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Speaker 1: need to recognize if you are experiencing I want to

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Speaker 1: kill my baby, so you could drop that baby off.

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Speaker 1: I just told Erica, we just came back from a long,

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Speaker 1: long ass jungle trip to the jungle and Costa Rica,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, bitch, it should be absolutely required,

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Speaker 1: like they talk about baby moons and all this other ship.

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Speaker 1: It should be required that after you give birth, you

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Speaker 1: drop the baby off for at least two weeks and like,

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Speaker 1: give birth. Do you know what's crazy about you saying that? Um, So,

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Speaker 1: my sister just gave gave birth in November. Um, by January,

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Speaker 1: my mom had COVID and so my sister everyone that

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Speaker 1: were at the house for like, I don't know, the

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Speaker 1: ten to fourteen days, and my mom said that when

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Speaker 1: the baby oh so wait, this is a vacation from

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Speaker 1: my mom, not the baby. But it made my sister

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Speaker 1: actually more dependent on my mom so much so that

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Speaker 1: that break from my mom caused her to be closer

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Speaker 1: to her baby. It requires both because you're new in

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Speaker 1: motherhood and you're like, you're like, oh, what do I

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Speaker 1: do if someone else is there to be like, I'll

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Speaker 1: do it. I'll take it. I know what to do.

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Speaker 1: Then you'll kind of lean on that. Then you'll leave

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Speaker 1: if you're alone, you like, I gotta figure this out,

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Speaker 1: and I gotta be good at it, and I gotta

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Speaker 1: you know, like you'll step into your motherhood better. But

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Speaker 1: like I'm not saying immediately after you give a birth,

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Speaker 1: like after you breastfeed, whenever you can get away within

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Speaker 1: like the first year, I highly recommend new moms drop

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Speaker 1: that baby off with that father because he he needs

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Speaker 1: to get acclimated, he needs to figure the funk out.

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Speaker 1: Should have been in my stone. Yeah, you spent the

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Speaker 1: whole last year with the baby. Here you go naked

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Speaker 1: by I got shipped to do. I had the baby

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Speaker 1: for fucking nine months plus. I've been breastfeeding the baby.

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Speaker 1: What the fund have you done? You better take the baby,

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Speaker 1: do some skin to skin. I'll be back in two weeks.

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Speaker 1: It's really you should do it, amen. I think I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna do that when I get my mommy and me makeover. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to get you already planning that. How do

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Speaker 1: you know that you're not gonna be able to snap back?

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Speaker 1: Because apparently all the girls snap back now. I don't really,

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Speaker 1: I don't really care about Jim got it right off

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Speaker 1: the table. I want the same kind of recovery time

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Speaker 1: if Kim got it I needed to. I feel like

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Speaker 1: Kim is really I want to be I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: be a Kim Ridge. That's just like stupid rich. But

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Speaker 1: like if I could get a little bit close to

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Speaker 1: where I could pay for that, mommy me make over

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Speaker 1: right on the table. Just give me the new everything, right,

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Speaker 1: we come off, just lee, I've already got faked tips.

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Speaker 1: Leave them there, hopefully they're still freaky. Are you going

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Speaker 1: to be able to breastfeed? Yeah? I did. I got

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Speaker 1: them under the muscle. Yeah you care that you can

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Speaker 1: breastfeed anatomy, got your science it bit girl, I'm about

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Speaker 1: to get nipped and tucto. But that's not a vacation, bitch,

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Speaker 1: because you don't be in pain. Yeah, you're gonna be

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Speaker 1: like you're not. You're in another vacation after then. But

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Speaker 1: I thought I was going to dr with the girls.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, it's no girl's girl. You're gonna be the

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Speaker 1: recovery house. Yeah, it's recovery house. And they'd be like yeah,

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Speaker 1: where are your where you getting these surgeries? Why are

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Speaker 1: they saying Instagram you're going out the countrybut getting your

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Speaker 1: cheese stune while you're there too? Can wait? Can you

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Speaker 1: tell us about like is it? Were you ever at

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Speaker 1: one point did you feel like I shouldn't be doing

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Speaker 1: like double occupancy, and the women just come and help

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Speaker 1: you get in and out your fab make sure you

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Speaker 1: get your massages, make sure you eat so they cook

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Speaker 1: you your meals the whole day. That's the problem. Though.

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Speaker 1: There were there were women there fresh fresh off the table,

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Speaker 1: ordering Popeyes, and they were literally telling the people like

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Speaker 1: course has always remained small, but when I started getting

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Speaker 1: the way clearly I got up to two, did not

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Speaker 1: let me just turn off my waist of course? Best

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Speaker 1: maybe send to me your news of course? Did Did

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Speaker 1: I not put them? Did I not put them in

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Speaker 1: the group chat? I mean, well, I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: know when we schedule these ships. Um, but I wanted

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Speaker 1: What are y'all's views on the word milk? For sure,

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Speaker 1: you're okay with milf. I'm cool with milf. I feel

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Speaker 1: looking like they look older, I feel like you could

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Speaker 1: We want to know young moms. You right, you right?

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Speaker 1: You know. It's like I feel like it's hard. But

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Speaker 1: would be a look Lisa, and sure be an older

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Speaker 1: see any black MILFs be sprinkled. Yeah you don't. I

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Speaker 1: got to say, I don't think I maybe, but what

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Speaker 1: it's like a website that like basically funnels all the

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Speaker 1: black porns I need because I'm not a soul food restaurant.

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Speaker 1: But I literally type inside just a warning, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: I only like to watch that. Do they have gay

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Speaker 1: porn every type at all? I love black gate porn, tasty,

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Speaker 1: so there's white people. Okay people, okay, only if you

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Speaker 1: at all that, Melanie, Yes, that's what I want to watch.

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Speaker 1: You like weaves? I just told you I watched black

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Speaker 1: gay porn. I don't care about weaves. Now you said

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Speaker 1: Um okay. So I like to take on that, and yes,

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Speaker 1: It is what it is. That's my baby's father. I'm

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, do you know my baby daddy? But see,

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Speaker 1: what what? What? What? What about? That makes it feel

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Speaker 1: like why why does that have to be that way

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Speaker 1: of advice you to give or something you've appreciated with

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Speaker 1: your day for the babysitter. If you want me to

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Speaker 1: because guess what I pay for a whole other person's life,

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Speaker 1: Pay for the babys That's really good. I like that

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Speaker 1: to know, but that happened to me. He wasn't older,

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00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: more mature nigga who was wearing a suit. Maybe he wasn't.

423
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 1: Maybe he was a gentleman. He wasn't gentleman. It was obviously.

424
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,959
Speaker 1: I was talking about a guy in his forties, our

425
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 1: friend of any of the show. He always goes. I

426
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 1: was with an older gentleman last night. He wasn't older.

427
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: He is an older gentleman. And I didn't have to ask.

428
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 1: He just sent it. I'm looking for Arial, Arial to

429
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:53,719
Speaker 1: watch my arieal is hold. I was trying to get

430
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: sexy because I'm saying, did you guys just get fresh good?

431
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 1: Mom's bad choices chats? Yeah, that's so cute, cute, and

432
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 1: we should get bracelets. Mandy, m'm let me get decisions.

433
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 1: Me and Jamie La and platonic loves. Yeah, we're vibes

434
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 1: that don't have sex. What did you guys get high?

435
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 1: When you're in Costa Rica? Do do how you ask

436
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 1: for anything? Trooms mushrooms yet a little bit. Yeah, is

437
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 1: that when you're like, we were born to do this podcast.

438
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 1: We've been born to do the podcast. That was when

439
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,640
Speaker 1: we were like, we should have a baby together. Yeah,

440
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 1: but you know what, you would have another baby. I

441
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 1: was because people always ask me and ask us and

442
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 1: they ask every fucking mom, but you can't have another one?

443
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 1: Like what do you think about having kids? And I'm like,

444
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 1: I don't really know that question. I do, but I'm

445
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: just like I don't know, like I'm open to it,

446
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: but like I know too much now. But not only that.

447
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,360
Speaker 1: You gotta like a nigga first. I know so much.

448
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: That's not for you either, Like you don't even gotta

449
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: like them naked. I gotta you gotta have unicorns purples

450
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 1: coming out your fucking dick. You gotta unicorn spark baby

451
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: Jesus himself, my nag I have. I have postraumatic baby

452
00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: daddy disorder. I do great p t D p t

453
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: t D traumatic baby p t b D. What has yet?

454
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know the fucking the words, but the

455
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: word is post traumatic baby daddy disorder. I'm scared, bitch.

456
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 1: You got to be connected to this nicket forever, so

457
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 1: he should be. Jesus, if you're gonna do it now,

458
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: he should be. I got one more dating question with kids. Okay,

459
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: when you're dating a guy and they have kids, is

460
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: it immediately like, because I'm sure when you make friends,

461
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, we gotta do a play date, they

462
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: don't be at the custody. But when you're dating then girl,

463
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 1: I hope you would date a n decent with the kids.

464
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: Of course. I would never dated bad dad. I don't

465
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 1: even I don't even be friend bitches that I think

466
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 1: are mediocre moms that if you're a shitty to your kid,

467
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: you're definitely not gonna be I hate when I hear

468
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: men like kind of just be whatever. But it's so gross.

469
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 1: But not only because we're at this age and we

470
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: got friends with kids now, but it's just like, what

471
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,640
Speaker 1: kind of nigger are you? If the kids you shout

472
00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 1: out you can't even calm anyway, how soon for the

473
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: play date? Because I know whenever I have two friends

474
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: and they find other kids the same day, oh yeah,

475
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: we got to do a play date. But when you

476
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 1: eat man that you're dating, do you do a play

477
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,719
Speaker 1: date or is the two brother and history. That's never

478
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: happened to me, but I would be definitely down for

479
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 1: the play date because it makes it easier. I recently

480
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 1: dated briefly someone with a child, and his child was older,

481
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 1: like probably like seven years older than um. But we did.

482
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: We we had he took me out for Mother's Day

483
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: and he brought his son. Oh sorry, that la not

484
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: her like way, this is a new story. Um. It

485
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 1: was kind of awkward though. It was like it was awkward,

486
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,360
Speaker 1: like he was like the same my mom was the kid.

487
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: What made it awkward, well because his son is like

488
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: an awkward teenage age so he and then my daughter's

489
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 1: like six, so she's just goofy and ship and then

490
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: like we're kind of like me and him are kind

491
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: of awkward a little bit because we were like still

492
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 1: kind of getting to know each other. So I appreciated

493
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: the effort, but it was kind of the age difference

494
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: does it wasn't close enough for them to like really

495
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: like you know, connect um. But I would say, like

496
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 1: that was the first time I've ever like kind of

497
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: dated someone with a child, and it was appealing to

498
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 1: me because he really understood my parenting, my schedule, like

499
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 1: he he is a single father. Um and and I

500
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 1: mean that like the mother still in his life, but

501
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 1: his son moved across the country to live with him

502
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: and he's the sole provider for his son right now. UM,

503
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: which was appealing to me because I was like, oh, ship,

504
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: like I've never it was. It was hot, made my

505
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: pussy very wet. Um. Although we didn't have sex, but

506
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: we'll talk about that later. UM. Wrong him because you

507
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 1: always got a story about some had nothing to do

508
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 1: with him. It was more me. I was substaining UM,

509
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 1: but I it was appealing and that was the first

510
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: time I had done that. It didn't work out between us,

511
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: but I'm very much open to the idea of dating

512
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: someone with children. I think that it might be like

513
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 1: the best thing for me, but I just haven't. I

514
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: don't suggest moms to maybe like seek other deads. I mean,

515
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: it just depends on the situation. Is like what is

516
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: your relationship with your baby mama? Like, is it gonna

517
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: be toxic? Is a drama? Like I don't want to

518
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: deal with that ship, you know, So sometimes it is

519
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 1: easier to not and you can start your own little life,

520
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: you know, and have your own little babies and ship.

521
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: So I don't really know, um, but I do know

522
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: that I enjoyed that time and it opened up my

523
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: eyes to like, okay, wow, like this person really understands me,

524
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: and like if I cancel thirty minutes before a date,

525
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: like he's not tripping because he knows like ship is.

526
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 1: And also, you know, kids are the best excuse to

527
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: cancel everything. Girl, I've got to tell my homegirl, you

528
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: better stop using that little girl. Oh my god, I

529
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: use my baby. I can't. She's so sick. You don't

530
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 1: want to go to check me. Like, nigga, my kid

531
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: is sick. Shut the funk up. Can't come at home washing.

532
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: You really can't check somebody what they kid. It depends

533
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: on close you are to them. But I tell it

534
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: all of this, so we're gonna get into the Vanilla ship.

535
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: The Vanilla Ship is literally us revisiting two of the

536
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: previous vanillitions we've had, and it's because we think I

537
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 1: gave our opinions on it as nonparents, So I just

538
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: want a parental take on both of these vanillations that

539
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: we talked about. The first one is in regards to

540
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: parents here in New York being enraged over masturbation videos

541
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: being shown to first graders. I wanted to know what

542
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: are your takes on if a masturbation video is shown

543
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: to your children in school without your knowledge or permission

544
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: of the video first, and if you guys think that

545
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: sex being taught that early in school is okay? Um look,

546
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 1: I think that parents deserve to be in control of

547
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 1: their of their children's um, you know, exposure, right, But

548
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 1: I also know that a lot of parents aren't going

549
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,160
Speaker 1: to have the conversations and then and then you grow

550
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: up and then you're you have trauma. You don't understand

551
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: certain ship because mommy and daddy didn't talk to you.

552
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of I'm kind of torn because for me,

553
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: you know, I'm very sex positive. If that happened, I'd

554
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 1: be like, oh ship, great, thank you you you know,

555
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: I would be like yes, please, you know, But I

556
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: understand why parents could be uncomfortable because they haven't had

557
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: those conversations, because they didn't have those conversations with their parents,

558
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: and they have no idea even how to begin the

559
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 1: conversation with their kids. So I mean, I think that

560
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: it's probably something that should have been maybe discussed before.

561
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: But I guarantee you it wouldn't have happened because most

562
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: parents would have said no, like absolutely not, we're not

563
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: showing this, and then it wouldn't have happened. So I

564
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: don't know if the school did it because they knew,

565
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: like if we prefaced this and they're gonna like be pissed,

566
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: new might as well just expose them. And so I

567
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: don't think the school should have that, Like I don't.

568
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: I don't think the school can make the decision in

569
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: that way. I feel like, I feel like you should

570
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: have talked to me first. Um. I'm also a mom

571
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: who's going to have a conversation when it's time to

572
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: have the conversation. I I was masturbating early, like I

573
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: was exposed to like the pleasure and the sensation in

574
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: my body early. And if I would have had guidance

575
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: in a in a in the realm of health in

576
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: a healthy way, I probably would have. I probably would

577
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: have a more healthy relationship with masturbation. As an adult,

578
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: I don't really masturbate that much. I'll use people, but um,

579
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: because okay, I think about my daughter right now, she's

580
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: about to be in Jesus Christum, she's about to be

581
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: in she's about to be six. No, she's about to

582
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: be in first grade. She's not really like, she's not

583
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 1: really exploring her body in that way. She's just like,

584
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: how would you feel? Okay, how do you? How do you?

585
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: How do you know that? I know that because I'm

586
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: I live with my daughter, like I know my daughter.

587
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: I hid my period from my mom for a year.

588
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: Uh fifth grade? Okay, Okay, when you're when you're six,

589
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: you don't even like if that's the thing. When you're

590
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: introduced to the pleasure the sensation that your body brings you,

591
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: you're not even aware yet that there's anything wrong with it.

592
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: It's not sexual, it's not sexual. It's just genuinely, oh,

593
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: this feels good. So I know, like I would, I

594
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: would notice if my daughter was exploring her body, and

595
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: then we could talk about it, like, oh I do it, Mommy,

596
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: doesn't wash your hands, close your door, do it alone.

597
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: No one else does it now. The only thing I

598
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: fear about, like a school setting, introducing it before I

599
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: do is that like then she'll be like, huh should

600
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: I go try that before it naturally comes? So like

601
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: that's the thing. But I agree with Erica. Most parents

602
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: are not going to have the conversation at all, and

603
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: then when they do, it's gonna be like what are

604
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: you doing? But but and then and then forever you like,

605
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 1: don't do that. You know I'm saying you'd like that

606
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: trauma that like that first scare is like, Okay, I

607
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 1: don't need to do that because it already kind of

608
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: feels bad and naughty because like you don't see it,

609
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 1: you don't talk about it. But I do think it's

610
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: the first time I talked about sex d was at

611
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: school in the fifth grade when I was ten, and

612
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: it was about periods and like it wasn't about pleasure.

613
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: It was about it was about the cycle and women

614
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: don't get enough pleasure talk women don't get enough, Like

615
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: it's about your body. It's about like a sixth year

616
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: old deserve that from another adult. Like that's the thing

617
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: it's not about they do scientifically, and that's like I

618
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: have to come to my teacher about questions and I

619
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: just don't trust other adults in regards to like keeping

620
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: my children safe. And I think that that would be

621
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: the craziest part of it. Like now you gotta ask

622
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: this older woman or a man about your vagina and

623
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: touching it. But's be talking about touching it. I think

624
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: that and not someone else. I think that it wasn't

625
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: done properly. I think that I get what they were

626
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,719
Speaker 1: trying to do, possibly maybe if if I have their

627
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: intentions correctly. But I do also think that it's probably

628
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: caused a lot of trauma for certain kids because their

629
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 1: parents aren't ready to have those conversations, and so now

630
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: that they're exposed, their parents are going to then put

631
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: up expose them in a way that's shameful or like

632
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: we don't talk about that, like don't worry about that.

633
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: But unfortunately that's all. But everything is frounding set true.

634
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 1: And I would say, but I would say that I

635
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't necessarily agree with Jamila as far

636
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: as like kids not masturbating at six, Like I remember

637
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: touching myself very young, and I said I did, I

638
00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: said I did. My kid hasn't really like just like

639
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: I did it and my mom wasn't around, but I

640
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: wasn't like mom, mean like like I was alone in

641
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: the room like touching my So what do you think

642
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: the age is both of you for the grade where

643
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: masturbation talk should be had, then yeah, if it's not first,

644
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: I think you have to first like kind of talk

645
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: to your You have to know your kid and be

646
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: in tune with your kid and be like, you know,

647
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: like if if that does that feel good? Because then

648
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: if she'll do ship and I'm like, why are you

649
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: doing that? Does it feel good? Like if you just

650
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: make everything matter? If it's not one conversation, it's it's

651
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: it's an ongoing conversation. I mean, I'm you know, as

652
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: a mother of a daughter, like I've had to teach

653
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: and still teaching my daughter how to properly clean herself, right,

654
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: and we are talking about her vagina and we're show

655
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: I've showed it to her, you know, with a mirror

656
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: at five, you know, like she knows what it looks

657
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: like and like but I can already see that there.

658
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: She's like a little like like shy about it or

659
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: like giggles a little bit. And I don't even know

660
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: where that comes from, Like why is this sillity? Why

661
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: is your body silly to you? And actually could both

662
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 1: of y'all like being naked like right, So I don't know,

663
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: it's I don't feel like there's one big conversation that happens.

664
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: I think if you are have a child that is

665
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: you know, at the age like our kids are and

666
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: it's not too late, but like teaching them about their

667
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: body parts, talking about it, that's how you open up

668
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: the conversation and like normalized, normalized, like just normalized conversations

669
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: that are usually I haven't been tabooed. I asked Luna, like, oh,

670
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: how are you? How is your day? Anybody touched your

671
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: vagina lately? It's like, no, mom, And I keep asking that.

672
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, I just asking, yeah, because like my mom

673
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: would put her hand be like, what would you do

674
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: if someone does this? Well, that's the thing that it's

675
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: all scary, Like, nobody touches you here. You hear me,

676
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: You hear me, look at me. If anyone touches you here,

677
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: you tell me. You know what I mean. That's how

678
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: my mom talked me about it. Actually, no, because a

679
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: lot of people, especially as a child the way you

680
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: don't like to get in trouble. Some children don't want

681
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: to get anyone else in trouble. And so if you

682
00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: know that this is something that makes your even parents angry,

683
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: you may keep it to yourself because then you know,

684
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 1: when that happened to me. I did tell my mom

685
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: same that happened to me too, very young, like three,

686
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: but I remember like, if someone does this, you tell me.

687
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: And then I remember telling you, and I was like,

688
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: you know, I was like this big thing, and honestly,

689
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: I blocked that. I blocked that memory out of my

690
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: mind for like fifteen years. And then when I was

691
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: like sixteen, I was in high school. I was like

692
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: three or four and like an older kid had touched

693
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: my vagina and playing house or some ship, and I

694
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 1: was like sixteen, I had totally totally blocked that that

695
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,879
Speaker 1: memory out of my mind. And we were in Philly

696
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: because that's where my parents are from, and she's like

697
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: my dad was like, remember your grandma used to live

698
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: right there, And as soon as I looked at the house,

699
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: those memories flooded back. But like as children, when you

700
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 1: have traumatic things happened to you or things that are

701
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: like such a big deal at that time, your body

702
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 1: and your subconscious can automatically block that out, you know

703
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's just like regulating things so

704
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: that they're normalized and we're having conversations and then you

705
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: can talk to the person down the street and say,

706
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: I like, you know, she she said this to me

707
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: it's just not this huge, big deal. And even if

708
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: it is a big deal, you kind of like guard

709
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 1: that part from your kids so that you can deal

710
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: with it in an adult manner. But as long as

711
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: the conversation is normal and normalized and calm, just like

712
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: oh you want you want apple jacks or fucking frosted flakes,

713
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: then it's like the kid doesn't feel that energy from you,

714
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: and then there's no fear associated with it, like we're

715
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: having normal conversation, just like when they become teenagers or

716
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: preteens and like, oh Joseph fingerbank me or whatever the

717
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: funk they're doing in these days, we kissed, you know,

718
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: we literally went from them kids to talk to them kids.

719
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: I'm want to talk about really quickly. You really got

720
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: it on my mind. One of my favorite videos, and

721
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: we can cut this part out of you don't want

722
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: to talk about it, But one of my favorite videos

723
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: online is a dude with his nephew, I think or

724
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: his little brother and they're on a pole and exercising,

725
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 1: and I don't know if anyone remembers it, but it's

726
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: adorable because he jumps on him while he's swinging on

727
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,479
Speaker 1: the pole. The man is dressed like with a shirt,

728
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: like he's not like dressed in appropriately, and they're like

729
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: really having fun on the pole. You had a video

730
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 1: with Luna where she was playing around, and like three

731
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: people sent that to me, like you follow this bit,

732
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm really confused. What the fuck

733
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: we following her? What's the wrong? Because everyone sexualizes everything.

734
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. Let're talking about this. People sexualized children,

735
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: and it's putting your adult ideas and perspectives and projecting

736
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,919
Speaker 1: them on children. I have a poll at my house.

737
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 1: Luna is great at it, literally like Mom, look at

738
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: this and like, how did you do that? It's just

739
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 1: like we go. If you go to the park, there's

740
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 1: a poll, there's the pole of the park. You go

741
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: to the park, there's a pole, there's poles. Okay, it's

742
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 1: an apparatus that you you practice on. My daughter dances.

743
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: We dance in my house naked clothes and bitch when

744
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: I tell you that is actually one of the hardest

745
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: forms working out. But it's also gymnastics. Like, my child

746
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: has never been to a strip club. My child is

747
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: not like I'm not putting dollars in her fucking her

748
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: her outfit while she's doing it. She has no perception

749
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: of that this pole means this sexy. She didn't even

750
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,720
Speaker 1: really know what sexual is. I literally heard, I mean Aerica,

751
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: Irene and Lena having a conversation talking about Beyonce and

752
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: like you think she's she's sexy. Huh, And I'm like,

753
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: what the fund are you talking? Like they don't know?

754
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,439
Speaker 1: You know, Like it's it's just we have to really

755
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 1: stop doing that as like in the black community, and

756
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: and and as as adults period, Like I hate that ship, Like,

757
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 1: oh she's grown. Oh she's no bitch. She's mimicking her parents.

758
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: She's mimicking TV. We go down the street right now,

759
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: we turn on the TV. Bitches are gonna be doing

760
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: sexy ship because that's what's what about the media? Can

761
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: we call kids grown? Or can we have those moments

762
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: when like I remember there was a video that came

763
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: out of Uh, what's daughters Joey? Or is that his baby? Momay?

764
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: Her and her daughter dance all the time. I really

765
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 1: love watching them dance. Then there was a video where

766
00:37:55,400 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 1: she started shaking her ass. It's let me go a

767
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: station really quick. When kids start she's what ten? When

768
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,399
Speaker 1: there's TikTok's or videos of kids working. At what point

769
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,760
Speaker 1: do you at all find that it's too far? Because

770
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: I think definitely if it was my kid working and

771
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: shaking her ass, I'd be like, I don't want this

772
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: ship on the internet. But see, no, but it's weird

773
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: because in me growing up, me and my cousins would

774
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: literally that was how we would compete during the cookouts.

775
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: We would all have fucking twork contests like doing the

776
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: like vibrating and all that ship like this is how

777
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 1: we danced in the South. This is like what we did.

778
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: And even if you look at where these type of

779
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: dances come from, they come from an African origin. So

780
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: even the idea of it being again it's sexualized by

781
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 1: adults because yes, they may do it in the strip club.

782
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. If we can all agree to

783
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 1: understand it's a dance and we know men may not

784
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 1: see it that way. Of course, that's a family reunion

785
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: that are in your family. There's creeps on the internet.

786
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: This keeps everywhere. Did you like the adult Yeah, you

787
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 1: within your kid posting videos on their TikTok? I think

788
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: she's nine of her shaking her has no First of all,

789
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: we're gonna have access to the internet at nine where

790
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 1: you can post yourself, okay, like you your ship, like

791
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: we can't. We see videos of Luda and I red

792
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: all types of where she's like, hi, am i I'm little,

793
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: Like where they get this, it's going nowhere, It's going

794
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: on nobody's feed. They have their own podcast, but that

795
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 1: they do. But like, we have to acknowledge that kids

796
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,919
Speaker 1: are literally mimicking what they see. I see a little

797
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: twerk or whatever the fun you wanna call gyrate and

798
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, where are you learning that? You true, that's

799
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: how I dance. Would be mad at you. But like

800
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,320
Speaker 1: also it's just like you can't sexualize children, and you

801
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: have to there's a thin line and where our kids

802
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 1: are only six and we'll get there, you know what

803
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: I'm saying, And there is there is a thin line.

804
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: But one thing is for sure and three things. And

805
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: for certain if you raise a child that is confident

806
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: in their body and I'm like, oh, like, don't touch

807
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: me there, bitch, uh nigger, my mom reel like I

808
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: know my body into my body parts, and I'm confident

809
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: about what I'm doing, So I feel confident in my

810
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 1: body and self aware that I can tell someone no,

811
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: I have to. The only gift we can give our

812
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: kids is having having like full autonomy of themselves. Period.

813
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: You can't control anybody else. There will be creeps, there

814
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: will be weirdos. We were watching a movie. We're watching,

815
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: like The Craft, the Old Craft, and a part came

816
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: on where a guy was like, my shot the valley,

817
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: that's our ship. But a part came on and a

818
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: boy was trying to like come on to one of

819
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 1: the teenage girls and she was like no and started

820
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: running and Luna was like, I was like, what happened?

821
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: She was like he was trying to touch her and

822
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: she don't want him to, so she left. I was like, yep,

823
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, boys be creepy. Sometimes she gets weird. You know,

824
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: you got to tell people know if you don't want something.

825
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: She's like, but like it's just it's instead of like

826
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: remember when you're little and then like a sex scene

827
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: comes on and your mom's like it covers your whole

828
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: You're like, why do I do? Girl? I remember watching

829
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 1: and theater Food and I. The first concert I ever

830
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,280
Speaker 1: went to was the Velvet Rope Tour with Janet Jackson Okay,

831
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: I was like seven years old and like literally my

832
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: mom had I don't even know actually wasn't my mom,

833
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: but my mom. I wanted someone else. They had my

834
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: eyes covered like ninety percent of the time, like why

835
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,439
Speaker 1: did you even bring me? But but that in fact

836
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: and tregued me more. I was just like, what is

837
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: that here? I was like I was the middle school.

838
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: I'll go to the fucking yeah, and I'm looking at

839
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:33,879
Speaker 1: be Th K like you want them? All the things

840
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: that my parents hit for me, I went ten times

841
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: harder to discover. Period. I went, I had to know

842
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: why why are you hiding it? I think, yeah, like

843
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: telling your kids working is bad is one thing. That

844
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: posting it absolutely not. That's the hell. And but here's

845
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 1: the thing I'm telling them is bad? Would made me

846
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: think like why then I probably wanted But even that,

847
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: like I've posted Luna on the pole, like and on

848
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:56,800
Speaker 1: the pole? Was she talking on the wall? She's just

849
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: tirling on the pole. The thing is the video I

850
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: saw when I wasn't crazy. It's not crazy because she's six.

851
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: Nothing she does in the pole it's gonna be so crazy.

852
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: She's not wearing a bikini on the pole and that's

853
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: the thing when people come at me or send my

854
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: ship to friends. But I don't know what you're sitting at.

855
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: T wheezy, She's not my mom. Literally, I was like,

856
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 1: what does this mean? She mark? I sent back and

857
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: then someone unfriendly person wrote me back and put well,

858
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: my bad, y'all cool, like, here's the thing they wanted.

859
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 1: They wanted to keep key and talk some real quick,

860
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 1: not up to you. And as a mom, there was

861
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: a time Luna was on the pole and another mom,

862
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: an older mom, hit me up and I was I

863
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 1: took it down. I got like, I got intimidated. What

864
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: did she say? Just creeps on the internet. Keep in

865
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: mind her daughter, her grown astater, became a stripper. Wait

866
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: wait was this after the video? Watch watch? This was

867
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: like this was years ago and she was on a

868
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: pole and I had posted it like because I thought

869
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: it was funny and cute, and she was like whatever,

870
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: who gives an my business? And another mom, like my

871
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: friend's mom hit me up directly, text me and I

872
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 1: was doing I did her lash as we were close,

873
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 1: and then it made me question, like, damn, am I

874
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: putting my child in a position where creeps or predators

875
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: are looking at her and I took it down and

876
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: I felt bad, like I felt away. But her daughter

877
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: was actually had become a stripper in her adulthood and

878
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: actually had married her trick um, so maybe she was like,

879
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: don't let she was triggered, but she was. However, hence

880
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: the bitch being a stripper. It didn't matter if you

881
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 1: kept her off the pole or on the pole, and

882
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: at one age, bitch did what she wanted to do.

883
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's just like you have

884
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: to be I'm clear in my parenthood, and sometimes I

885
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: don't post her because I don't have time for the

886
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,919
Speaker 1: negative energy. But also, bitch, I don't give a funk

887
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: about your opinion. I'm a grown this is my household,

888
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,800
Speaker 1: and my daughter's innocent and a child and fine, and

889
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm not dropping her off at Magic City to make

890
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: her two dollars for the week. The kids on Poles

891
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: videos like I've seen like once that first video came

892
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 1: out and I'm gonna try to post it like in

893
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: the description. I hope I can remember to do that

894
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 1: because it was one of my favorite videos. It was

895
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:57,919
Speaker 1: so cute and the kid was like do it again,

896
00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: and do it again, and he would jump on him

897
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: while he around the pole. I do think that we're

898
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: so I don't know if it's someone being cautious or

899
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: too nosy. There's this like weird thin line, right, are

900
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 1: you really worried about my fucking kid or want to

901
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 1: shame me? Bored like things? Even our girl Ashley shout

902
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: out to Miss rights Away. She she she got a

903
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: lot of flag a few years ago for being on

904
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: the pole with her baby strapped to her. You know,

905
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: she was doing like beautiful pole work in her house

906
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: and like her baby was strapped to her and people

907
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: were pissed. Either people loved it or they were piste.

908
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: And it's just like, first of all, she wasn't anaked,

909
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: and even if she was, probably she probably is naked.

910
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: And when she does it, when she's breastfeed and beak

911
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: any but your line, I will be the first one

912
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: at soho house and my baby like she likes, oh

913
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,800
Speaker 1: mil yeah, thank you. But you know what, there's just

914
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: so much stigma about women being in tune and in

915
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: touch with their sexuality and their diffemininity and like being

916
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: in control of it. And here I am and here

917
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: on my breast and hey, this is my child, and

918
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: she is aware of herself too. Where you have not

919
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: been taught to own our sexuality. We've been taught that

920
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: be sexy for niggas, but don't be sexual in front

921
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: of by yourself. Comfortable with it, be comfortable with it

922
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 1: like it's very it's very compouching. Yeah, I pride myself

923
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,280
Speaker 1: that I'm intint with my sexuality enough that my child

924
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: will also be like inevitably understand both sides of the

925
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 1: coin and like be more confident and more self aware

926
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: because of it. There's nothing you should not sucking, you

927
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 1: should avoid. Well. I want to get often kids because

928
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: I ain't have none. I just swallow Maam. I had

929
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: another kid question. I want to ask about gays. What

930
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: do you tell your kids about the gates there? They

931
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: love each other, you can love they asked you about

932
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: like boys or not because they've just been around them

933
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: from the beginning, like my my my brother and his

934
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: boyfriend have been around that. She calls him uncle's bash

935
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 1: and uncle Josh. You know my mom said, I never

936
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 1: asked her um. Ever, she's like, you never asked me

937
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 1: about And I wonder you really have to show for

938
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 1: the getting kids don't care about what you're doing behind

939
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: the bedroom. It's only about if you know, when you

940
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: talk about gay people in front of your kids, just

941
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: like if you talk racist ship in front of your kids,

942
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,239
Speaker 1: they'll be racist. It's the same ship. If you're homophobic,

943
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 1: then your kids are gonna think that. Bring that up

944
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 1: because a lot of people out there may not have

945
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: gay friends like all of us, and you know, some

946
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: people may have to have that dialogue with their kids

947
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,359
Speaker 1: just talk about love. It's also now, it's on TV,

948
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: it's in the cartoons. People aren't mad about it him,

949
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 1: but you know you can't. You can't hide forever. I

950
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: wanted to get into our hoar derve where we can

951
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: enjoy some story times. Again, off them got damned kids.

952
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: So the hoar Derve today um is actually suggested from

953
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 1: Sophia franklin Um from her episode thirty seven. She talks

954
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: about rub maps dot com. So rub maps dot com

955
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 1: is actually an app that you can go to to

956
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 1: find places in different cities where you can get happy

957
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: endings for women. For yeah, for women? Is it just

958
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 1: for women? Well? Because I feel like happy endings are

959
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: traditionally normally for men, and that was my problem when

960
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: I was over in Asia. Um, it's like maps alright,

961
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 1: so I found it. It's not rub maps dot com,

962
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: it's rub maps dot c h Um. You have all

963
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: the UH states and cities and ship listed. Um. And

964
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: basically what it looks like is you can find out

965
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: where to get happy endings in your area. It does

966
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: not like differentiate between whether it's woman or man happy endings. Okay, Pine,

967
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: is that what it is? Yeah, it doesn't say whether

968
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: it's man or woman. Yeah, so they always are. So

969
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm glad that. Shout outs to Sophia for bringing this

970
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: to our attention because I ain't know about it, but

971
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: you had a story. Please Erica, please share? Can you share?

972
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: Because as women yet it's hard to find places to

973
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,399
Speaker 1: give happy endings. But you just had a happy ending

974
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: in coast that he got two quick questions, Was he cute?

975
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: And did you come? Uh? He was attracted? It wasn't

976
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: not that attractive and it was I think. She asked me,

977
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 1: you know, you get if we don't have the same type,

978
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 1: and we don't, we're not we don't like the same

979
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: type of speaking the bitches line, because I told her,

980
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: do you even know what he remember? We hired him

981
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 1: again and I did get a good look. At the

982
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: first time, she said, no, I don't evemember to look.

983
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 1: I didn't because I was it wasn't about him, it

984
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: was about me. So the second time when we brought

985
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 1: him back, guys, let me get a good look at

986
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: this man and say what the who he is? And

987
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: she asked him all these type of questions and I

988
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: was like, you asked him many questions. I don't want

989
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: to think about the ship. But anyway, so we were.

990
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 1: We just recently came back from a trip um in

991
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: Costa Rica um a little work cest uh and the

992
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: first night we had a long asked voyage to our house.

993
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: We were in guanacast I don't if anyone's ever been

994
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: to cohostreak is beautiful. But anyway we were. I was like,

995
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 1: we need to get a massage for this. I got

996
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: We called the airbnb host. I was like, can you

997
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: get up a massage to the house and she was

998
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: seen bitches in the profile pitch. It's like, no problem,

999
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: no problem. So we get the massage. He comes and

1000
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 1: he lays out his table. He pulls out this towel

1001
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 1: because you know, you get a massage normally like you

1002
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: have a sheet over you. It was like the tiniest

1003
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 1: towel to cover my whole body. And I told her,

1004
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: I was like she was sitting, she was there. I

1005
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, can you put the towel on me?

1006
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:33,720
Speaker 1: Because maybe it was hot? It was hot? Were you naked?

1007
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: It was a very small time. What did you wear panties? No? Okay,

1008
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: See I wear panties during assage. I don't. I don't.

1009
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't, but like if I've

1010
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: been to the person before, I take him off. But

1011
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 1: generally I will put keep just a thong on and

1012
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:54,919
Speaker 1: then they pulled it down to my cheeks. I don't

1013
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 1: even wear only wear draws. When I'm bleeding. I'm bleeding,

1014
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 1: I am, I just tuck it in, tuck the string in. Um.

1015
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 1: But you see I got rid of the string. Look

1016
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 1: a little to tell us. I realized, like I got

1017
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:12,879
Speaker 1: rid of tampons completely. I realized my period. No, bitch,

1018
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: just a bad I realized my period. I already have

1019
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: a three day period. I have like a two and

1020
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 1: a half day one now, and I don't have the

1021
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: the lingering days of brown like the But I think

1022
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: that's what tampons do because you keep it plugged up.

1023
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: It takes for the oxidized blood. So when it's freebees,

1024
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm ready. I'm ready for Dick again. Yeah, like the

1025
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: path like link like shortened my path and leaves. I

1026
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 1: hate him too, you know what. I've never used the

1027
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: tampon like for real everyone, Like I've had to put

1028
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,720
Speaker 1: it on for maybe moments, but like on like on purpose.

1029
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 1: Like no, it's only because like a friend had it.

1030
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 1: I don't like them, but I will say, I don't know.

1031
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: We did some research a minute ago or someone told

1032
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: me this, but it was about the chemicals in Tampa,

1033
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:06,760
Speaker 1: the chlorine and basically like affecting the length of your cycle.

1034
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: It does so that makes your cramps different. Well, they

1035
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: probably want want your cycle to be a little bit longer,

1036
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,800
Speaker 1: so you have to buy it science. Okay, the bleeding.

1037
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: That's his name, No, Jose, Jose, because it was, um,

1038
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 1: I don't know how costa Rican. Well they're sucked up.

1039
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: Jose his name is Okay, So I'm starting to get

1040
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 1: the massage and he was how was that his bomb?

1041
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: Like he's a really great massus. I was tired as fuck.

1042
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm finally unwinding. I've been wrapped up real tight for

1043
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 1: like the last month, just me and her just been

1044
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: grinding and I was like, bitch, I need this massage.

1045
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 1: So he's starting to just like decompress my body, and

1046
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: I was also wasted a little bit. Yeah, okay, um,

1047
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,880
Speaker 1: And so he has me flipped over and he's massaging

1048
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 1: the back of my leg and he was like he's

1049
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: like getting it, getting in there, getting in there. And

1050
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:09,479
Speaker 1: I'm like suddenly I'm like getting a horny and I'm like, damn,

1051
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 1: like this is really good. My face is covered at

1052
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: this point, but I'm gonna tell you the flip over.

1053
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 1: So he's like grace grazing in the back of my

1054
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: leg and he's getting like kind of close to like

1055
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: you know that this little line. I was like, huh,

1056
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 1: just like so I'm like, okay, I think I want

1057
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: this needs to touch my pussy at this point. So

1058
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 1: I was like and I was like, okay, when I

1059
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,399
Speaker 1: turn over, I'm gonna give him all the space he's

1060
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: going no. So I turned over with this tiny ast

1061
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 1: towels basically like barely covering my big gass ariolas, and

1062
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: he's back to you know, back to my thigh area,

1063
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,360
Speaker 1: and so he's really getting in there, and I'm moaning

1064
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 1: louder just so he knows that, like this is where

1065
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: it feels good. And I slowly like inching my leg open,

1066
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: just started biting my lip, and then finally he starts

1067
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 1: taking the towel and like rubbing my pussy and I'm like, yes,

1068
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 1: thank god. And then finally like put pulls the tower

1069
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: off and then just starts rubbing my pussy and then

1070
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 1: he fingers me. And actually it's so funny because my

1071
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: friend I told my friend about this, or actually I

1072
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 1: posted about it, and she was like, did you give

1073
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: him consent? And I was like, bitch, yes, that that

1074
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,479
Speaker 1: was the consent, the mode and the biting the lip

1075
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: like and and and um, and so then I think

1076
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: jo got a little nervous. Um. So then he kind

1077
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: of stopped and then I finished, you can't wait, you

1078
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 1: finished yourself, finished myself, and then he was there, Yeah,

1079
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: that was the best thing of the week for him.

1080
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 1: And then he continued to massage me afterwards, really respectfully

1081
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: and just like amsuchin and then and then when we

1082
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: were done, like I went to get up, and then

1083
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: he like I don't know if he was like trying

1084
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: to tell me to relax or like I don't know what.

1085
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: But he pushed me back down, and I was like,

1086
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen? Like what's he doing over there? And

1087
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,359
Speaker 1: I like I heard him like rough, like ruffling some ship.

1088
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 1: And so then I ended up falling asleep for at

1089
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 1: least like ten minutes, and then I woke up and

1090
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 1: he was just standing in this like. First of all,

1091
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: I was like, when the fund is taking so long?

1092
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 1: Keep in mind we've traveled for like ten hours for

1093
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 1: the fucking Costa Rican jungle, up a mountain and shipped.

1094
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fund is taking so long? She

1095
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 1: comes back in the room like I'm like, bitch, what

1096
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: the fund looks long? She's like giving me this fucking

1097
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 1: I he keep me happy and I'm like what, no way.

1098
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm bitch, now he's gonna think that's what

1099
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,399
Speaker 1: I wanted. I'm tired. She's like, you should did I said,

1100
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: I was like, you should do it? It was great.

1101
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 1: I was like, it's completes the massage, I think all.

1102
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't believe that. I can't believe.

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00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm just I just have to say, ladies, if you're listening,

1104
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: they're listening. Listen, don't wait any longer. Don't question it,

1105
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 1: don't question, don't question it, just go for it it.

1106
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: Compaty said the same thing, said she didn't want it

1107
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: though no cutty Cutty was looking for it. She said

1108
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 1: the person was like, may I rub your pussy? Him? Please? Please?

1109
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Though? I don't. I don't remember. I

1110
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 1: just said. She was like, oh my god. The person

1111
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: was like begging her to rub her pussy swept. Can

1112
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: I rub your pussy? You don't remember this? I would

1113
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: love it this, I mean, I wasn't ready for it

1114
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:41,879
Speaker 1: that night. I was in the mood. I was too tired,

1115
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 1: and I was pissed she took so long. Thankfully he

1116
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 1: didn't try me. I did try a little moment because

1117
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:48,240
Speaker 1: I did feel good. I was just I was just testing.

1118
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 1: The water didn't work as well for me. I would be, yo,

1119
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: this is a sex in the city. Remember that over

1120
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 1: and bite your look. I didn't by the lip would

1121
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 1: I didn't have 't have energy for that. I didn't

1122
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: have to go the longer, not necessarily. I don't like

1123
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: to be fing or banged. That was a lesbian I wasn't.

1124
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 1: I wasn't into that. That's why I was like, I

1125
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: think I stopped moaning, and he got scared and was like,

1126
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 1: oh ship, did I go too far? And then now

1127
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: and now that I've heard I heard this story four

1128
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 1: times now I want to happy ending. It's the best.

1129
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: I feel like it should be an add on for

1130
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: all massage places I got because I have been turned

1131
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:24,360
Speaker 1: on during massage in a very odd situation. It's just

1132
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 1: like natural, like a nigga. But I was just it

1133
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: wasn't even I don't even know when he looked like

1134
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: it had nothing to do with him. I mean, it

1135
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: has them to do with his hands, but I was

1136
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: being nude with your eyes closed and relaxed. I'm always

1137
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 1: thinking about But you know what, it's also distracting because

1138
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: I had a massage and they got too close to

1139
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 1: the pussy and I was getting turned on. But then

1140
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: he did nothing, and I was pissed. I would have

1141
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: been piss literally frustrated me because I was like, my

1142
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 1: pussy was so I know, it was on the sheets,

1143
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: and he did nothing. He was just rubbing close to

1144
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 1: my pussy and I was super frustrated. It just made

1145
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:54,320
Speaker 1: me more tense. So now I'm ready, well rub maps

1146
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: is here for you, baby. If you ask me, she's ready.

1147
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to email them so they can specify who

1148
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 1: gives women happy ending and the niggas is all on.

1149
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 1: Would you I'm not gonna lie. Even when I was

1150
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: in Thailand, it didn't matter if it was a man

1151
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 1: or a woman massaging me. I wanted a happy ending,

1152
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: and I was fine with either one. You want to

1153
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: eat my pussy. I don't really want the singer. No,

1154
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: I know. I don't want your mouth, your full head.

1155
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:20,919
Speaker 1: I wouldn't either. No, I'm cool with fingers, especially because

1156
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 1: I know they have just but see even the oils

1157
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 1: they if you use peppermint, damn sure, I don't want

1158
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: your fingers. Name. Don't go in me, but just around me. Yeah,

1159
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 1: just like click click, like rub me out. I don't

1160
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: put your fingers. Did you take to finish yourself? And

1161
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: what was he doing? It was quick, he was massaging.

1162
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: He was massaging me like the rest of my body, oh,

1163
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: like my shoulder, and you were rubbing yourself. And then

1164
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: he came back a second time. But and then she

1165
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: started asking so many questions like I guess what, Erica,

1166
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: she has a three month old baby, and I'm like, great,

1167
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 1: I didn't need to know that. If she's recently married,

1168
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 1: that's her job. I had questions and she was taking

1169
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: along from yoga side. She's like, guess wet he has

1170
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: a baby. I was like, YEA, should have gave him

1171
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: a baby daddy T shirt. I was like, we're mom's too.

1172
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for helping me. I did try to get mine.

1173
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 1: I was like, it's my birthday. It's compliannossas Campians. But

1174
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 1: he didn't care, apparently just like fucking Eric. Yeah, she

1175
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: got all that. She played like did you even need

1176
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: to pay him? Did you get an extra? I fell

1177
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: asleep after that, so I back in the rembas was

1178
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:34,919
Speaker 1: knocked the funk out. I was like, here's an extra

1179
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: from my friend. I know you did good. Wife was

1180
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: like you said from my friend. Now, I just tipped

1181
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: him because I knew he rubbed her out. Thank you

1182
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 1: for not talking. I would like to know if anyone

1183
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: listening has ever specifically a woman has had a successful

1184
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: um or actually no, because I've had a good one.

1185
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 1: You've had a good one. I would like the year

1186
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,440
Speaker 1: of maybe the happy ending that wasn't so happy. So

1187
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 1: if you have a whole confession, make sure you send

1188
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: that over to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. We

1189
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: don't have time this week to get into our homemail,

1190
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Speaker 1: but we want to leave you guys off with where

1191
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Speaker 1: you can listen to more of these lovely ladies. Um,

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Speaker 1: so go ahead and let everyone know where they can

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Speaker 1: you can find all our cute ass merch and all

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Speaker 1: I got I got my good Mom's shirt on today,

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Speaker 1: I got we all got our I have my baby

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Speaker 1: Mama airrings on because baby Mama is totally normal and

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Speaker 1: you can and I can't wait till these whenever they

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Speaker 1: those are really really cute. I don't gonna wear a

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Speaker 1: good mom on my tips, but I love baby Mama

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Speaker 1: because that when we have moms, we gotta do some

1205
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Speaker 1: weed over here for mama's flowers because mom's need weed

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Speaker 1: that as he made. My season two isn't up yet.

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Speaker 1: And the episodes had run out. But I really appreciate

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Speaker 1: you guys for watching. And because you guys watched, Fuse

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Speaker 1: every time I'm there and I'm doing a lot for

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Speaker 1: their mouse. I was like, yeah, like these house just

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Speaker 1: love you love House. Don't say we knew all the

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Speaker 1: FUSE viewers were host Actually, speaking of hosts, Mandy and

1256
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Speaker 1: I were walking on the street and a older woman

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Speaker 1: older not what do you call her gentlewoman? And she

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Speaker 1: was just like somebody on tea. She was like he

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Speaker 1: was doing something and I assume, especially when I'm walking

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Speaker 1: my Mandy is horrible. She's like, you were doing so

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Speaker 1: much of feet on TV. Yes I was, ma'am. I

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Speaker 1: guess that was my feet. I check the reruns out

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Speaker 1: for sex cells um and enjoy all those dopest episodes. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: and guys, this has been get another episode of horrible decisions.

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01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: We have a lot of We have a lot of

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Speaker 1: things that pertains to not only our jobs, but the

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01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: lives that we had prior to our partners, and I

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01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: don't think that we realized they have shown up to

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Speaker 1: allow us to be exactly who we are at the

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01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 1: expense of things that they probably have not allowed in

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Speaker 1: previous relationships. Well, I know that the conversation that right

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Speaker 1: when it comes to like you're also dating somebody that's

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Speaker 1: living a different life from the bishes that she was

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Speaker 1: probably with. You know what I'm saying, Like I've had

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Speaker 1: conversations with my l a nigga because we're more casual.

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Speaker 1: And remember he was like, Yeah, what's wild to me

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Speaker 1: how you won't post food or you're where you're at,

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01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,960
Speaker 1: or like like you know and give a funk, like

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Speaker 1: you don't always have to post that ship And he

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Speaker 1: was talking about a girl he was with. He had

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Speaker 1: two hundred followers and acted like she had to report

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Speaker 1: to them all the time. And he was like, maybe

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01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 1: you'd be losing your phone because he as I lock in.

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01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:04,520
Speaker 1: That's me when i'm with when I'm with my partner,

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01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 1: like bitch, p y'all know that I'm with my nig

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Speaker 1: and I'm gona tell you all now when all y'all

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Speaker 1: see on Instagram is like reposts of people posting me,

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01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 1: I don't put where I'm at, what we're doing, or

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01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 1: I'll just be off Instagram. And now we know that

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01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:27,960
Speaker 1: because a crazy baby fucking rolling up on your ass.

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Speaker 1: They're talking about I don't I don't put my location

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Speaker 1: when you leave. How anyway, all right, love bomb and slash.

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Speaker 1: I'm making fun description for this because who knows. Okay,

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01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 1: we do have to um answer the home mail only

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01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: because I told her we would. Okay, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: So this one's interesting. Hi, Wheezy and Mandy love the

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Speaker 1: pod and yes I'm a Patreon member, so if you

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Speaker 1: choose to use this on a bonus episode, um great.

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Speaker 1: I'll get into it. I've been dating a guy for

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Speaker 1: a couple of months now and we're both super kinky.

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Speaker 1: He likes when I dom him, which is something that's

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01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: new to me, but I'm getting into it. He likes

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01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: being degraded and he wants to be my quote unquote

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Speaker 1: slave and wants me to call him that. My last partner,

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01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 1: who was black and kinky, would always tell me how

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01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: it made him really uncomfortable. How kink generally a very

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01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:19,480
Speaker 1: white space, has co opted slave slash master to be

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Speaker 1: used for pleasure when their words that carry so much

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Speaker 1: um race based historical context. Also, after reading slaves Play

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Speaker 1: by JEREMYO. Harris, Wheezy has talked about on the pod.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, y'all should check that out. Since then, hearing

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Speaker 1: white people throw around the word slaves so easily in

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01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 1: the bedroom has made me kind of uncomfortable too. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: it's not my place to tell my new partner what's

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Speaker 1: right or wrong. But at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: I'm white and he's black. But it does make me

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Speaker 1: a bit uncomfortable to call him my slave, even though

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Speaker 1: I enjoy the actions of making him worship me. Do

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Speaker 1: you guys personally think we can separate the historical context

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Speaker 1: of slave master and use it for kink and pleasure

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Speaker 1: even in interracial relationships, or will it always carry an

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Speaker 1: underlying weight like should I ask him if we can

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Speaker 1: find a differ a word or just get over it

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Speaker 1: and call him what he wants? Thanks in advance, mad

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Speaker 1: love to you both. Love this question. I'm gonna post

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01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 1: in the community more this question. It's a very honest question.

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Speaker 1: And you know I won't even talk to my white

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Speaker 1: girl ship. So here's the thing. So many words have

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Speaker 1: multiple meetings and unfortunately that's just how the English language works.

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Speaker 1: But in the times that we are in now, where

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Speaker 1: you do second guest, second question, or you feel the

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01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 1: need to unlearn things. I understand not only why that

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Speaker 1: would be uncomfortable, but girl, even in golf, and I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure if you know this, they're considering changing the

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Speaker 1: Master's tournament because of the word master. Um, even even

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Speaker 1: I was having this conversation. I don't even know if

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Speaker 1: this was on an episode with us, but the master

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Speaker 1: bedroom is not being called the master bedroom in real estate.

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01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: And I'll be honest with you, I think that the

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Speaker 1: face of B D S M, what are you gonna

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01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 1: do with your master's degrees? Like, I'm sorry, but I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie, and I was gonna go there. I

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01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: think that it's an overthought, and I trust me. I

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Speaker 1: am the girl who's cool with us tearing down statues,

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01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: but there's this part of me that does feel like

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Speaker 1: that's a drag. I love the word master for control. However,

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Speaker 1: it is interesting to me to use the word slave,

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Speaker 1: although uncol with master, I do believe master has more

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Speaker 1: of that dynamic. And um, it's a it's a lot

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Speaker 1: more definitions. Like right now, I'll just look it up

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Speaker 1: really quick. Hold on, just just let's just see how

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Speaker 1: many definitions there is for master's male teacher academic degree, ruler, governor,

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01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 1: person licensed to command a ship, um, the employer of

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01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 1: a servant, an owner of an animal, one having control.

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Speaker 1: A youth or boy too young to be called Mr.

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Speaker 1: Used as a title, oh like Master Jeffrey and Master

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Speaker 1: Master who was it on fresh prince emiliar m