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Speaker 1: It's time to go around the room with Elvis Duran

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Speaker 1: in the morning, show.

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Speaker 2: Around the room of the other reason I came to work.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna start with Danielle. Danielle, what's up with you today?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: So last night I'm sitting with my husband. We're chatting

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Speaker 4: and he goes, I am going to be lemonading this situation.

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Speaker 2: And I go what, And.

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Speaker 4: He because you never heard of lemonading?

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Speaker 5: I said no.

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Speaker 4: Apparently lemonading is turning a negative situation into something positive,

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Speaker 4: empowering or creatively fruitful. Comes from making lemonade out of

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Speaker 4: I guess crap.

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Speaker 3: Lemons, lemons.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: You ever heard of lemonading before?

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Speaker 2: Well, I've heard literally make lemonade out of lemons. Never eliminating.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he's lemonading the situation. Okay, honey, you do that,

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Speaker 4: You lemonade that situation.

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Speaker 2: It's a whole new phrase. Let's start using it. I'm eleiminating.

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Speaker 2: All right, what about you, Froggy. Let's go back to

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Speaker 2: your froggy. What's on your mind today?

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Speaker 6: So at home, we have a deal where if Lisa

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Speaker 6: does dishes one night, I do them in the next night,

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Speaker 6: and we just kind of alternate that way, it's much

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Speaker 6: it's it's very fair that way. So I did the

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Speaker 6: dishes the night before last night it was dishtime, Lisa says, Hey,

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Speaker 6: would you mind doing the dishes for me tonight? It's

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Speaker 6: actually gonna save you money. Like what how I got

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Speaker 6: my nails done today and the water's bad for the glue.

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Speaker 6: So if I do the dishes then my nails will

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Speaker 6: pop off. I'll have to get them redone. So could

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Speaker 6: you do the dishes?

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Speaker 2: Wow? You pad some creative bs right there, dude. But

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Speaker 2: I did the dishes. You did it? I did? But

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Speaker 2: is that not the worst ever?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, yeah, I mean if they if it's dry,

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Speaker 2: she's fine. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And she probably could have used rubber gloves to do

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Speaker 4: the dishes. I mean, you know, I always take her side, but.

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Speaker 6: Right, yeah, no, I did them. I said, you know what, honey,

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Speaker 6: I'll do them all right.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Straight name?

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Speaker 5: Okay, So, speaking of expressions, I know Danielle had one

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Speaker 5: that we may not have heard. I know you've heard

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Speaker 5: the one I'm about to talk about, and Elvis, I

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Speaker 5: know you know the story behind it. So we've all

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Speaker 5: heard the expression my name is mud or his name

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Speaker 5: is mud, indicating somebody as a tarnished reputation.

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Speaker 2: This isn't the origin of the phrase.

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Speaker 5: But did you know John Wilkes Booth, after he assassinated

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Speaker 5: President Lincoln, heard his leg. He went and stopped and

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Speaker 5: saw a doctor. The doctor said his leg helped him

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Speaker 5: get back on his feet. That doctor's name doctor Samuel Mud.

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Speaker 5: So from then on that guy's reputation was in the crapper.

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Speaker 5: So that is where the expression now comes from. Name.

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Speaker 2: It has nothing to do with dirt and water. It's

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Speaker 2: a doctor's name. Oh so interesting you brought that up. Scary?

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Speaker 2: What's up with you? Did you know that you cannot

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Speaker 2: hum a song and hold your nose at the same time.

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Speaker 5: Try it?

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Speaker 2: Start humming, Yeah, it doesn't sound very loud. If you do,

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Speaker 2: you can and then start try and hold your nose,

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Speaker 2: you get cut off. We do carry. Did you also

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Speaker 2: know scary?

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Speaker 6: Do you also know that if you put your tongue

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Speaker 6: out and act like you're shaking salt on your tongue

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Speaker 6: tastes it?

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Speaker 2: Do it scary that?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? All the room on. Did you know day, hey,

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Speaker 2: produce your sam what's up? All right?

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Speaker 6: So?

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Speaker 1: I think that reflection is such an important tool. It

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Speaker 1: really helps us process things. It helps us, you know,

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Speaker 1: work through maybe unresolved thoughts. And for me, we know

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Speaker 1: my favorite way to do that is I always recommend

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Speaker 1: therapy for people, but I do have some people in

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Speaker 1: my life that are not ready or willing to talk

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Speaker 1: to a therapist yet, which is fine. So I sent

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Speaker 1: a friend a book that's really been helping her. I

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Speaker 1: just got it on Amazon. It's one deep Idea a day.

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Speaker 1: It's a journal, but it gives you the prompt So

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Speaker 1: maybe if you're in a place where you feel like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I could use a little deeper processing

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Speaker 1: with my own thoughts. But you don't want to go

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Speaker 1: talk to someone, maybe get yourself a little journal where

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Speaker 1: it gives you a question a day and you just

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Speaker 1: write out the answer to yourself and it kind of

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Speaker 1: helps you connect with some things you might not be

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Speaker 1: thinking about Otherwise.

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Speaker 2: She seems to like it, so might be might be helpful.

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Speaker 4: Nice.

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Speaker 2: You know what you always hear every day of your life,

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Speaker 2: you need to write things down. Journal, write things down,

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Speaker 2: have a notepad by the bed, so if you wake

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Speaker 2: up at three am, it's always great write it down.

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Speaker 2: If you say it to yourself and your brain. It evaporates.

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Speaker 2: If you write it down, it helps tattoo it on

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Speaker 2: your dead All right, perfect and gondhy, what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, there's a new episode of the

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Speaker 3: podcast out Sauce on the side, Diamond, and I see this.

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Speaker 2: You guys are addressing a lot of stuff, including like

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Speaker 2: if you take us seriously, if we're mad? Yes, I

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Speaker 2: didn't like that, Yes.

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Speaker 3: But I want you all to know that if you

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Speaker 3: see police in the building shortly, it's because I've called

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Speaker 3: the cops on Josh for a text message.

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Speaker 2: Well no, what did he say?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 2: Something rude? Something rude?

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Speaker 3: So you know, we have our fitness group and one

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Speaker 3: of the guys in our fitness group was recently pretty sick,

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Speaker 3: so he hasn't been able to work out. So Josh

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Speaker 3: decides to text us all Nick now has a valid

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Speaker 3: excuse for being fat. Gandhi, Tommy and Andrew, what are

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Speaker 3: your excuses? Oh God, So I called the cops on Josh,

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Speaker 3: and I just all want you to know what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: Hope they lead him out in handcuffs too. He's such

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Speaker 2: an ass. I love him, he is.

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Speaker 3: It is good motivation. But I'm gonna go find him

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Speaker 3: and poke him.

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Speaker 2: And he's the best and the worst all wrapped into one.

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Speaker 2: And there's her around the room. We're about