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Speaker 1: too to say, Miss Day Hello, Delana. Are you there?

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Speaker 1: Holidays, We're very, very lucky. Sometimes I wish we were

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Speaker 1: Let's get it started. Okay, let's jump into the show.

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Speaker 1: What is it? My friends? It is tea time, So

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Speaker 1: King Charles absolutely refuses to strip Harry and Meghan of

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Speaker 1: their royal titles. So they are the Duke and the

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Speaker 1: to try and strip them of their titles. Sources are

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Speaker 1: now telling the Telegraph that this absolutely will not happen.

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Speaker 1: Once I said the following quote, Charles never wants to

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Speaker 1: humiliate them. Plus they all are saying that this title,

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Speaker 1: this title was given to them by his mom, Queen Elizabeth.

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Speaker 1: So on their wedding day, Queen Elizabeth made them the

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Speaker 1: Queen elizabbirth iiO. Now, if you remember when they stepped

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Speaker 1: four years ago, mister, they did retain their Duke and

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Speaker 1: retain their hr H that is His Royal Highness, Her

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Speaker 1: Royal Highness. They did not retain them. Now, insiders are

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Speaker 1: saying the king is not a mean man, and he

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Speaker 1: he would not consider. He would not consider it if

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Speaker 1: they did lose their titles. Though I did a little

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Speaker 1: bit of research here, you know, I love all the

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Speaker 1: details about the royal family. He's a prince and that

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Speaker 1: can never be taken away from him. So he's always

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Speaker 1: going to be Prince Harry. And because she because Meghan

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Speaker 1: her husband's name. Harry is not his name. His name

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Speaker 1: I'm glad though, that Charles is taking the high road

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Speaker 2: What do you think That's just what I was gonna say.

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Speaker 2: To take away the title is just going to open

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Speaker 2: more doors of just all this admiring that's going on

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Speaker 2: like I'm a king I got much more important things

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Speaker 2: So I think it's smart. And why would he change

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Speaker 2: be interesting is when Prince William becomes King William, what

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Speaker 2: I would absolutely agree. And let's not forget this is

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Speaker 1: Yes, whatever kings do, which brings us to our pole

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Speaker 1: question of the day. King Charles absolutely refuses to strip

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Speaker 1: Mister did that just the second a go? He is

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Speaker 1: their dad? Is daddy making the right decision? What do

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Speaker 1: you think? Go? Vote yes or no? Got a Twitter

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Speaker 1: page at Naughty nine Rob or a Facebook page Nordy

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Speaker 1: Gossip and be sure to check back tomorrow to hear

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Speaker 1: your results. Hey, miss, what are you working on?

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Speaker 2: Well? I might not be taking dating advice from Kristin

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Speaker 2: So a fan asked her, how long should we wait

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Speaker 2: getting busy, rob, So Kristin Cavalery. Obviously she's been single

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Speaker 2: she's been making her suitors wait about three or four

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Speaker 2: and she says, I don't think it effing matters. I

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Speaker 2: Several commenters were not happy with this. They somebody said,

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Speaker 2: trash advice respectfully, and another person said, this is the

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Speaker 2: So Rob, hmm, what do you think about this?

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Speaker 1: Fascinating Now you know that I'm a bit of a

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Speaker 1: It's not right for me, and I don't think there's

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Speaker 1: I take a little while. It's been a long time

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Speaker 1: When I first met Bruce, it was a while. It

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Speaker 1: It's not probably right for me. But where are you

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Speaker 2: Well, chemistry is instant, right you see that person across

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