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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Battery Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Saringa and we.

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Speaker 1: Are here today with none other than Thomas and from

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Speaker 1: Gen season. Thomas just here because they had a great

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Speaker 1: connection and you're a very likable guy and someone that

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Speaker 1: really stood out night one. So Thomas, welcome to Batchery

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. Guys, I appreciate you all of course.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so why don't you just tell us a little

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Speaker 1: bit about where you're from and what you do for

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Speaker 1: a living.

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Speaker 4: So I'm from Atlanta, just outside the city. I'm a

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Speaker 4: retirement advisor. It's kind of like a broad title, but

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Speaker 4: I help people figure out how they can get to

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Speaker 4: retirement and have their money go for the rest of

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Speaker 4: their lives. So, whether it's people in their twenties starting

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Speaker 4: their roth iras or Nancy Sue that's sixty seven and

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Speaker 4: working with Social Security and her pension, I.

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Speaker 3: Do a little bit of everything in between.

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Speaker 1: So wait, is that more of like, are you more

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Speaker 1: of like a finance guy or is it like more

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Speaker 1: like what do you want to do with the rest

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Speaker 1: of your life type of thing?

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Speaker 4: More so finance, we do like a lot of wealth

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Speaker 4: management and financial sales stuff, so I get to work

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Speaker 4: with people all over the country. That's why you see

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Speaker 4: this awesome background is because I work from home, so

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Speaker 4: I can bounce around from time zones to time zones

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Speaker 4: to help people out.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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Speaker 1: And where you're from Atlanta?

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Speaker 4: You said, Yeah, I'm from Atlanta, just outside of the city.

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Speaker 3: And where do you live? Do you live like in

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Speaker 3: the d Tucker, Yeah, I live.

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Speaker 4: So where I'm from where I grew up is in

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Speaker 4: Gwinnett's and Snowville, a little city a little like thirty

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Speaker 4: minutes away from the city. And then you got the

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Speaker 4: main city where everyone knows, like the airport in Atlanta.

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Speaker 4: I live like right in between, like Shambley, Tucker. It's

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Speaker 4: like northeast Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: You know where where do? Where do we? Uh? Where's

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Speaker 1: like the cool like the the newer spot with some

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Speaker 1: of the restaurants and stuff.

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Speaker 2: I have not a single clue.

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Speaker 1: If you say it, I'll know it. Buford Highway No, No,

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Speaker 1: Brookhaven No. You're probably like, it's just going to drive

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Speaker 1: me nuts. There's a lot of restaurants popping up over there.

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Speaker 2: And why did you know this?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean that's what it was gonna be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like where do you hang out?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 1: Where where do you hang out when you go?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like so that that area is like old

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Speaker 4: fourth Ward, Virginia Highlands and Men Park. That's like a

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Speaker 4: pretty like hip and up and coming place right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so definitely that spot.

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Speaker 1: Cool.

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Speaker 2: Wow, look at you, Joe with your Atlanta knowledge.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it.

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Speaker 1: I like Atlanta. I've been there. I've I've filmed the

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Speaker 1: show there for a month and we couldn't leave the house,

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Speaker 1: but I I was in. I've been to Atlanta. I

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Speaker 1: want to say I've been to Atlanta five times.

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Speaker 2: Oh really, Yeah, I've been.

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Speaker 1: There's always like a short period, but I've I've made

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Speaker 1: I've made my time worth it. I've gone out a

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Speaker 1: lot there.

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Speaker 2: I've only been there twice.

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Speaker 3: I went with let me know next time you guys

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Speaker 3: come in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we will.

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Speaker 5: Last time we were there actually was with Zach Shallcross,

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Speaker 5: who was one of the last Bachelors. We filmed a

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Speaker 5: podcast with him there, so that was fine. We spent

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Speaker 1: So Thomas, how uh, how did you get on The Bachelor?

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Speaker 1: Why did you want to do this? Always call on

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Speaker 1: the show The Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: By the way, yeah.

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Speaker 4: So it's actually a really funny story. So two years

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Speaker 4: ago I went through like a pretty bad breakup. I know,

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Speaker 4: I did like a year to kind of work on

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Speaker 4: both with my finances. I had just bought in the house,

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Speaker 1: When you say that, when you say a bad breakup

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Speaker 1: or bad, I'm both ends.

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Speaker 4: I'd probably say it was more so both ends. I

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Speaker 4: wanted to get married and she didn't. So that's the

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Speaker 4: part that was the hardest part was being like, hey,

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Speaker 4: So that was that was hard for for for both

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Speaker 3: I took that.

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Speaker 4: Time to kind of really just do my own thing,

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Speaker 4: you know. And my sister she lives, she goes to Emory,

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Speaker 4: so when she's home for holidays in the summer, she

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Speaker 4: she's like, hey, Thomas, we got to get you back

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Speaker 4: out there. So what better way than to apply you.

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Speaker 4: So one night we popped open a bottle of rose

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Speaker 4: and we just started going after it was that was

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Speaker 4: last summer.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, shout out to my little sister Lily.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Lily, that's so good.

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Speaker 1: Did you watch any of Joey's season hoping that it

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Speaker 1: was going to be one of these girls.

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Speaker 4: I did watch Joey's season. I did all of the

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Speaker 4: bits coming into it. I think I came into it

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Speaker 4: pretty open minded. I don't think anyone really had. Everyone

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Speaker 4: kept telling me what you think is going to happen

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Speaker 4: is not going to happen. So that's kind of like

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Speaker 4: the idea that I came into the house thinking. So

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Speaker 4: I was pretty open minded when I came into it.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 5: I feel like that's the best mentality to go into

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Speaker 5: the show with, is just being open minded, because I

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Speaker 5: feel like so many people go into it with a

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Speaker 5: it just it's never you just don't know until you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I felt like I kind of had a

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Speaker 4: like a leg up, if you will. My brother swam

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Speaker 4: with Robbie Hayes. They went to college together. I think

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Speaker 2: I was like Robbie Hayes was like that's a throwback name.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And so they swam together.

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Speaker 4: I swam with Robbie's younger brothers, and so when this

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Speaker 4: what can I expect if he was like nothing, you

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Speaker 4: don't expect anything to have No, don't go into it

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Speaker 4: like thinking that you know something, because you're not going

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Speaker 3: And so that was probably like the most useful a

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Speaker 1: Well, that's that's interesting. That is actually very that's good advice.

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Speaker 2: That is good advice. Nice job, well, Robbie, so correct

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Speaker 5: Robbie, I believe went really far on JoJo's season of

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Speaker 5: The Bouchtera and then was on he was yeah his

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Speaker 5: runner up, right yeah, and then he was on Paradise

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Speaker 5: I believe as well. So he's done two shows. He's

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Speaker 5: a good part. And a call and say like, hey,

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Speaker 5: what should I expect? So the fact that someone who's

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Speaker 1: But I don't know how he came across on Paradise.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, it might have went a little got

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Speaker 2: Went a little sideways for Robbie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so in Paradise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So let's talk about you're a competitive swimmer

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Speaker 1: or you were a competitive swimmer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was a competitive swimmer.

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Speaker 4: I so all through college I swam, and then I

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Speaker 4: had the opportunity to get dual citizenship. Both my parents

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Speaker 4: in the US, I was the second in the country

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Speaker 4: in Vietnam.

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Speaker 3: So we had the opportunity to get dual citizenship.

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Speaker 4: I tried to make the Olympics in twenty sixteen and

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Speaker 1: So when you swim for Vietnam, how how long are

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Speaker 1: What does what does it? What does that look like?

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Speaker 3: Several months?

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Speaker 4: So yeah, it's the travel day is is more than

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Speaker 4: then from Soeul to Hochi Min city was nine hours,

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Speaker 4: you compete, so they're thirty days early. The meet's usually

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Speaker 1: How beautiful is Vietnam?

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Speaker 3: Stunning?

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Speaker 4: Stunning, It's so awesome, that's what I've heard. Yeah, if

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Speaker 4: your each cities are the best.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So my brother's actually going, he's going on vacation.

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Speaker 1: I think. I think like in the sound, Yeah, where

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Speaker 3: Danang is a beach city. It's d A n A

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Speaker 4: It's it's also pretty touristy as well, so you could

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Speaker 4: the restaurants are awesome, it's like seafood. That's a big

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Speaker 4: and they would cook it right in front of you.

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Speaker 3: So it's it's a it's a super cool spot.

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Speaker 4: Ho Chi Min City is always a classic to go

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Speaker 4: into like the big city spots, but if you want

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Speaker 4: good food, go to the vendors just as much as

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Speaker 4: the four star and five star restaurants.

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Speaker 3: They're they're they're awesome.

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Speaker 2: I want to go so bad, but we have an

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Speaker 2: issue with you.

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Speaker 5: I know, I have a net allergy, a really severe

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Speaker 5: net allergy, So I'm okay with peanuts and almonds, but

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Speaker 5: I'm like deathly allergic to like cashews, stashios, pinets, all those,

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Speaker 5: And it just gets challenging, not all with going places

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Speaker 2: I I would risk.

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Speaker 5: It, but then get nervous. Yeah, two epy beds on

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Speaker 5: stand by a lot of gunna drill, but even and

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Speaker 4: First I could like feel my heartbeat like in my throat,

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Speaker 3: Walk up to her. And then she made it pretty easy.

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Speaker 4: She I'm a huge dad joke guy and puns all day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she is very like warm and open energy, but

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Speaker 4: Right if I had my choice of going out to

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Speaker 5: Were you you were early out of the you were

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Speaker 4: Right, I think I was the fifth or sixth guy

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Speaker 5: Yeah there's like two people standings comes in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it was it was good. The first group

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he was an army ranger. Yeah, he does the

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Speaker 1: For any of the guys kind of like rubbing you

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Speaker 4: I kind of kept to myself, like, like I said,

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Speaker 4: that's not my style. But to each their own. But

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Speaker 1: For sure. Did the guy really streak completely naked or

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Speaker 4: War on I someone someone said that I wasn't I

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Speaker 3: I Oh, someone told me no, I didn't get to

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Speaker 1: No, okay, it was a good thing. Yeah, probably. Okay,

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Speaker 4: It was kind of how I wanted to go, you know,

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Speaker 3: I wanted to be one of three quarters to the

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Speaker 1: You think if if it was a first date, you

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Speaker 3: Probably not. I think that there are things that.

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Speaker 3: Really important to her.

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Speaker 4: It's important to me too, so I felt like it

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Speaker 5: I would imagine too, because you are the only person

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely, And it helps being the only other Vietnamese

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So after that conversation in your head, where do

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Speaker 4: I wish it was seventy five percent. I was still

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Speaker 4: I was still fifty to fifty. You know that that feeling,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was. I was probably fifty fifty.

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Speaker 4: There's just so many guys in that in the house,

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Speaker 5: Did you think though, that you maybe had a chance

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Speaker 4: Yes, I did think I had a chance with the

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Speaker 4: first impression Rose just because of how intense the conversation was.

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Speaker 4: But at the same time, I was like, maybe it

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Speaker 3: Kind of where my head was with bof of that.

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think everyone.

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Speaker 4: Kind of everyone was kind of flexing their muscles in

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Speaker 5: Okay, so Sam m ended up getting the first impression

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Speaker 5: Rose was that were people surprised by it? Where people

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Speaker 4: There were a couple people There are a couple of

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Speaker 2: Right, that makes sense, That does make sense. I feel like.

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Speaker 5: I feel like the way that you are describing me,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you can, you can.

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Speaker 4: Maybe those people were not there after the first night

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Speaker 4: was drawn to as well. A lot of the guys

448
00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,240
Speaker 4: really were drawn to him, and so to see him

449
00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,680
Speaker 4: go night one was definitely shocking. And then I'd probably

450
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:40,159
Speaker 4: say Brett was the other one. He is awesome, you know,

451
00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,600
Speaker 4: just a big band, big personality to match it, and

452
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,760
Speaker 4: so I was shocked with him as well.

453
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,160
Speaker 3: He did the little Truth or Dare.

454
00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,200
Speaker 5: We were shocked by him too. We were really really

455
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:51,440
Speaker 5: surprised he went home night one.

456
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so his his little what is that Dare

457
00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:57,480
Speaker 4: show You're hidden talent? He clears the room out and

458
00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 4: then drops it down into a full on split in

459
00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 4: his suit.

460
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,920
Speaker 3: Was that was one of the ones where I was like, damn,

461
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:04,720
Speaker 3: I've got this guy's got Yeah.

462
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 2: It was yeah.

463
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,280
Speaker 5: It was like it was like a montage of what

464
00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 5: was happening at the Truth or there. And I think

465
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,399
Speaker 5: we literally just saw everyone like him drop the split

466
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 5: in his pan, Like I think I split my parents.

467
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was awesome, he was Saw was shocked that

468
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 4: he went home as well.

469
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 1: So how was your first rose ceremony everything you thought

470
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 1: it was going to be or a much longer experience

471
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 1: than you picture.

472
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,679
Speaker 4: So getting ready for the rose ceremony was nerve wracking.

473
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,879
Speaker 4: We all just stood there in silence, basically like waiting

474
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,800
Speaker 4: for it to get started. And then I'll never forget

475
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,720
Speaker 4: the feeling of pre rose and after rows of of

476
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,159
Speaker 4: kind of how my body was feeling, I could feel

477
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,639
Speaker 4: like one hundred and eighty bpms of like my heart pounding,

478
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,400
Speaker 4: and then when I got my rose, it was from

479
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 4: one eighty to eighty and two seconds, So it felt

480
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:52,960
Speaker 4: pretty good.

481
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, that makes that's actually very true, the tension that

482
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 5: you hold in your body at those things and they're

483
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:03,880
Speaker 5: so long and you're so tired. Yeah, it's a crucial

484
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:04,679
Speaker 5: part of the journey.

485
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,840
Speaker 1: So then Jim drops she drops it at the end

486
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: of this episode that you guys are going to Australia.

487
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 1: What's the mood?

488
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:16,640
Speaker 3: Then that had to be awesome, amazing, amazing. It's it's

489
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 3: like bucket list stuff, right.

490
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 4: Like, Yeah, you don't really ever think, hey, I'm gonna

491
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,879
Speaker 4: go to Australia just for fun. So the fact that

492
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 4: we all got to go on night one was was awesome.

493
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 3: Everyone.

494
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 4: I think not a single guy had ever been to

495
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 4: Australia in the cast, so it was it was.

496
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 2: Cool the way that is so cool.

497
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. It was awesome.

498
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 1: That was cool. What was the because it was you

499
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 1: guys are not at the mansion, what was the house? When?

500
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 1: What was the house? Like, uh, it was in the

501
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 1: front of the front the front of it looked like breath.

502
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 2: Takes the house like beautiful.

503
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. It was stunning.

504
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 4: It was huge, and there was a lot of the

505
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 4: outside back yard space was probably like the coolest spot.

506
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 4: It was just a little cold, but they had like

507
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 4: a couple of bonfires set up for us to kind

508
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 4: of all go out there. The backyard was I think

509
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 4: was the best part because it was like two x

510
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 4: of what the front yard was, you know, when we

511
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 4: walk out a limit, it was like breathtaking in the

512
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,679
Speaker 4: backyard as well. A couple a couple of the pavilions

513
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 4: with like bonfires for us to kind of get set

514
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 4: up at.

515
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:21,399
Speaker 3: It was awesome. Yeah.

516
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 1: Cool. So you mentioned you were in a serious relationship

517
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 1: that ended kind of badly. But since the end of

518
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 1: that relationship, how long has it been from today or

519
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 1: from night one?

520
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 2: Was the timeline?

521
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 1: Timeline?

522
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, between night one and the relationship ending.

523
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, then death then it come across No.

524
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 3: No, yeah, I was thinking two years or a little

525
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:48,920
Speaker 3: bit under two years.

526
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 1: Okay, So then how within that two years were you

527
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 1: dating or what was dating life?

528
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 3: Like? No? Not really.

529
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 4: I did a year where I was not really dating,

530
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 4: just working and kind of doing my thing here, hanging

531
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 4: out with friends. Like I said, everyone in my life,

532
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 4: everyone that's important to me is married with kids.

533
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,880
Speaker 3: So my two thirty two okay.

534
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, so my two of my best friends, I've known

535
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 4: them since I was twelve, so I've watched them and

536
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 4: their families grow. And so when I get the opportunity,

537
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:29,120
Speaker 4: it's uncle Thomas here, Uncle Thomas there. Both my brothers

538
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 4: are married, well actually a younger brother is married. My

539
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,439
Speaker 4: older brother gets married, so we're going out to South America.

540
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,199
Speaker 4: So both of them are in long term relationships. My

541
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 4: best friends are in long term relationships. So when I'm

542
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 4: I'm bored, I just bounce around to be Uncle Thomas.

543
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: Yes. See, single life, single life is way more difficult

544
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 1: when all your friends are in relationships one thousand percent.

545
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So what was kind of your mentality then, Like,

546
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 5: going on this show, you were out of this yeriously

547
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 5: hadn't been dating obviously that's what you're looking for.

548
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 2: What mindset did you go in with?

549
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 4: I think a piece of advice that I got from

550
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 4: my mom was really helpful.

551
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: You didn't say Robbie again.

552
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 3: I was like, no, no, no, no, no, this is this

553
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 3: is what good it was? It was It got me,

554
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 3: It got me there.

555
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 4: She said, people that you love and people that you

556
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 4: care about are going to watch you, and the person

557
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 4: that you end up with, you don't want them to

558
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 4: think that you're someone that you're not. So if you

559
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 4: put on this facade for however long you put it on,

560
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 4: and then you get to the real world and she's like,

561
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 4: this is not you. Or if people watch you and

562
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 4: they're like, hey, that's not you, that's going to be

563
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 4: a harder thing to fix in the real world. And

564
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 4: so I came into it thinking, hey, I'm just going

565
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:48,439
Speaker 4: to be unapologetically authentic, stand on what I believe in,

566
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 4: and put myself out there to be vulnerable and show

567
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,719
Speaker 4: Jen who I really am. As a person, and if

568
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 4: she picks it up, that's awesome, and if she doesn't,

569
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 4: then hopefully there's someone else that's out there for me.

570
00:24:58,520 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 2: That's great advice.

571
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 5: That was always my My biggest fear of potentially meeting

572
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 5: someone on the show was leaving the show and being.

573
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: Like, this is a different person.

574
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: That's not who I thought I was dating.

575
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: And that I'm.

576
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 5: Gonna wake up one day. Joe's gonna drop the facade.

577
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 5: It's gonna be horrible. Yeah, it's a lot harder to

578
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 5: correct down the line than it is to just be

579
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 5: upfront and true to yourself despite the fact that you're

580
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 5: being vulnerable for the world to see.

581
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: Did you prepare yourself or even think about the fact that,

582
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: you know, going on a show like The Bachelorette is

583
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: dating in an unconventional way, and you are potentially going

584
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: to fall in love with somebody who's dating multiple men

585
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: at the same time and catching feelings for multiple people.

586
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, this is a once in a lifetime

587
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 4: opportunity and it's a spot where no one's ever been

588
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,120
Speaker 4: in this spot before. But like before, I if if

589
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 4: we were meant to be and if at the end

590
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 4: of the road, you know she picks me, then I'd

591
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 4: hope that you know, our connection was stronger than anyone else's,

592
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 4: and that she's not just playing me or playing any

593
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 4: other person, and that like what they say, that you're

594
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 4: here for the right reasons, and so I was there

595
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 4: for the right reasons.

596
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, that's I don't know. I don't know. No, No,

597
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: I believe you.

598
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 3: I believe you.

599
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: I believe you're fucking lying, Thomas. I just I know,

600
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 1: like myself, especially when I went on the show, I

601
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: want to say, I I feel the same way you do.

602
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: I just don't know how I would have handled it.

603
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: I do think. I do think it is tough.

604
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 2: Absolutely, it only gets harder as it goes on, too and.

605
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: Like like being the best true that ends up with

606
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,239
Speaker 1: the lead and then watching it back, there's just no

607
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: way that's easy.

608
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 2: No, there's yeah, one hundred percent not.

609
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 5: I mean I never had to do that, thankfully, But

610
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 5: it's definitely bittersweet being like, oh, I've ended up with

611
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 5: this person and we're so happy and in love and

612
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 5: now we get to watch our love story along with

613
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 5: his love story with twenty six other way.

614
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, totally, totally. Yeah.

615
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 2: What was your take?

616
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 5: On the drama between Brian and Jeremy. You know, obviously,

617
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 5: Jeremy came out in this very fancy car, him and

618
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 5: Jenn are having time talking in it, and then we

619
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 5: see Brian come out of the house with the keys

620
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 5: to the car.

621
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 2: Essentially kicks Jeremy out of his own car.

622
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: Well what wait, was it Jeremy's car?

623
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 2: Oh?

624
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, so Joe and I were debating, was do you

625
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 5: know if it was you know, a prop car or

626
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 5: if it was actually Jeremy's car that he drives at home.

627
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 3: So I wasn't there for that either, so I couldn't

628
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 3: tell you about that.

629
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 4: But I've heard the drama when they both came into

630
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 4: the house, but I didn't get to see him take

631
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:54,919
Speaker 4: the keys or go out.

632
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 3: In his car.

633
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 2: So what did what did you overhear? What did we overhear?

634
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: I wasn't there. What did you overhear?

635
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 4: A lot of people their personalities are completely opposite. I

636
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 4: think Jeremy is a really really quiet, you know, kind

637
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 4: of behind the scenes guy, and and Brian is definitely not.

638
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 4: So that I think it kind of made sense of

639
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 4: how those two kind of interacted. It was, Yeah, Brian,

640
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 4: Brian's is a big personality as well.

641
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: So he was one of the he was one of

642
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: the louder.

643
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 5: Also, I just pulled up Jeremy's details and he's from

644
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 5: New York, So there's no way that they shipped his actual.

645
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 2: Cart al shot.

646
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, probably not. Probably not.

647
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say definitely not.

648
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: Probably not, But it's fun to think it was.

649
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: It's fun to think it was his real car.

650
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 5: So would you say that the house skewed more towards

651
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 5: Jeremy's side than Brian's side in that interaction?

652
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,959
Speaker 3: I definitely think so. Jeremy was.

653
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 4: Jeremy's always been super quiet, you know, just kind of calm, cool,

654
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 4: collected behind the scenes, and he didn't really.

655
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: That's funny, kind of a show.

656
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: His limit entrance is it like that?

657
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: Yeah?

658
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: His limo interest is more like hey Jesse. Yeah.

659
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. As I got to know him, it was kind

660
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 3: of the opposite. So that's interesting.

661
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that happens sometimes sometimes people go a little

662
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 5: all out for the entrance and it doesn't always totally

663
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 5: align with who they.

664
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: Are at their Poor Thomas, We're going to play a

665
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: quick game, a little rapid fire, get to know you

666
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: a little better, all right. You want to do it.

667
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: You want me to do it, I'll do it. You

668
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: haven't done rapid Fire in a while.

669
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: No, I've really been getting out of it. Joe's been

670
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 2: handling rapid Fire. It's very easy.

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Speaker 5: All fun, chill questions starting off with what is your

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Speaker 5: go to comfort movie or show?

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Speaker 3: Comfort movie? I'm gonna nerd out a little bit go

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Speaker 3: Lord of the Rings series.

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Speaker 5: I haven't seen Lord of the Rings, which is crazy

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Speaker 5: because I feel like I've seen all the other like major,

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Speaker 5: I love Lord of the Rings. Yeah, if you could

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Speaker 5: have any superpower, what would it be?

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Speaker 3: Flying? But I'm scared of heights. But yeah, flying just

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Speaker 3: to go.

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Speaker 2: Probably why because you wouldn't be as scared if you

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Speaker 2: could fly?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: What's your go to karaoke song?

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Speaker 3: Sorry by Justin Bieber?

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Speaker 2: A classic? What's your favorite ice cream flavor?

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Speaker 3: Cookie?

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Speaker 2: Dough cats or dogs?

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Speaker 3: Dogs? Come on?

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Speaker 2: What's your dream vacation destination?

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm, somewhere on the beach or bora.

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Speaker 2: What's the best concert you've ever been to?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I'm gonna say hang out like a concert at

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Speaker 4: outdoor venue on the beach, music all around.

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Speaker 3: Pretty sweet spot. What is it called Hangout Festival? Where

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Speaker 3: is where is this golf Shores, Alabama.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's like a music festival.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just like it's literally two polar opposite stages

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Speaker 4: like on the beach.

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Speaker 3: So it's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: That's really cool. What's your favorite way to spend a

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Speaker 2: day off?

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Speaker 4: Work out, play fetch with the dogs in the back,

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Speaker 4: and then cook myself from meal?

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Speaker 1: Wow? You you're just You're just the whole Mark movie town.

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Speaker 3: I love cooking.

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Speaker 4: I love I love I love cooking. I'll tell you

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Speaker 4: guys a quick little cliff notes. Both my parents were

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Speaker 4: fostered when they came to the United States, and their

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Speaker 4: parents are Italian and Irish, So I grew up like

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Speaker 4: in an Italian household where my my no one have

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Speaker 4: taught us like all these recipes and we were growing up.

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Speaker 4: So we're a huge food family growing up.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Like, what's your go to? What's your go to

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Speaker 1: dish that you cook?

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Speaker 3: Carbonara? That's my go to?

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Speaker 5: Really Okay, yeah, that's a good way, all right. What

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Speaker 5: is the most adventurous thing you've ever done?

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Speaker 3: Cliff diving?

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Speaker 4: You know, we went out to a place in Italy

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Speaker 4: they took us out to this year. Cliff you climb

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Speaker 4: up like a couple of dozens of feet and then

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Speaker 4: jump off of it.

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Speaker 3: So it's pretty cool.

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Speaker 5: That's so cool. I've done cliff jumping before. But there

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Speaker 5: is a point that you pass where you're like, okay, like,

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Speaker 5: if I do something wrong, I'm going to really be

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Speaker 5: in a lot.

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Speaker 3: Of pay Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 4: And you're when your hands and feet like wiggle for

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Speaker 4: just a little bit too long. That's when you know

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Speaker 4: you're a little bit too high.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Okay. What is one food that you can't stand?

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Speaker 3: Tomatoes?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like like on burgers. I can't do no cold

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Speaker 4: tomatoes on sandwiches.

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Speaker 2: Will you do tomato sauce?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Will you do? Catch up?

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Speaker 4: Just just no cold tomatoes on like a cold tomato

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Speaker 4: on a burger.

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Speaker 2: I'm disgusting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't. I don't totally disagree with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I don't.

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Speaker 1: It depends kind of like tomatoes on my hot dog.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's weird to me. What musician would you love

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Speaker 5: to see live?

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Speaker 3: Chris stapleson.

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Speaker 2: Favorite season.

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Speaker 3: Summer? Definitely?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: And if you could describe this season of the Bachelor

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Speaker 5: in one word, what would it be?

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Speaker 3: Spicy?

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Speaker 2: Spicy?

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Speaker 1: I like that, all right, Thomas, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for coming on. We can't wait to watch the rest

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Speaker 1: of you on this season. And to all our listeners,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys for tuning in.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 5: And if you need any retirement advice, you know who

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Speaker 5: to reach out to Thomas and he will prepare you

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Speaker 5: for your future financially.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate y'all.

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Speaker 2: Don't forget to subscribe.

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Speaker 5: interviews from all of your favorite men coming up. Thanks

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