1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight. Here it is a strawberry letter. 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we probably guys need to do a disclaimer 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 1: on this letter. So if your parents with your children 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: in the car, you don't want them to hear this. Okay, yeah, 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: I put the keys out right now, stay in the car. 6 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: You don't want to miss it. Yeah. There, and had 7 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: to put him in there. Yeah that, Oh, there's that 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: all right. Here we go. Subject my girlfriend's husband's baby. 9 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty one year old 10 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: female and I've been dating a thirty six year old 11 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: married woman for two years. Recently, she and her husband 12 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: were having serious financial problems, so I offered to move 13 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: in with them and help out with the mortgage and 14 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: the bills. Yeah. Yeah. We told her husband that I 15 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: was just a co worker that needed a place to 16 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: live temporarily, and he bought it. So I moved in. 17 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: When the husband is at work or hanging out on 18 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: the weekend, me and my girlfriend would be getting it 19 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: on in their bedroom. After a while, the husband figured 20 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: out what was going on. One day when he and 21 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: I were home alone, he confronted me and told me 22 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: that he knew about me and his wife. He said 23 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: he was attracted to me too, that's why he agreed 24 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:24,199 Speaker 1: to let me move in. So that day we ended 25 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: up making sweet love in their bedroom. Now yeah, yeah, yeah, 26 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: I told us. Now would you think now, whenever my 27 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: girlfriend is out, I hook up with her husband. I 28 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: love my girlfriend, but there is nothing like being with 29 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: a man that puts it down the way he does. 30 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: Now I see why she doesn't want to leave this man. 31 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: So here's my problem. I just found out that I 32 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: am pregnant by my girlfriend's husband. Goney, my girlfriend would 33 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: freak out if she found out I was having sex 34 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: with a man. Her husband is secretly excited about the baby, 35 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: and he thinks we can all live as one big, 36 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: happy family. But but, but that sounds crazy to me. 37 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: Should I move out and be honest with my girlfriend? 38 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: Or should I give my baby a good home life 39 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: with a daddy and a second mom? Please advise? What? 40 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: Or should I give my baby a good home life 41 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 1: with a daddy and a second mom? Yeah? Yeah, so 42 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: she would just stay there with them, have the baby 43 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: be right there with the daddy, and you know his 44 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: wife would be her second to baby's second mom. Uh? 45 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: Why oh, why just didn't you use protection. I mean, 46 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: we gotta start right here. I mean, were you trying 47 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: to get pregnant here? I mean, because what did you 48 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: think was gonna happen when you're having sex with your 49 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: girlfriend's husband? What do you think is gonna happen if 50 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 1: you if you're doing it unprotected? First? Yes, yeah, I'm 51 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: sure you've heard this before. Though, once you start with 52 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: the lie, then you have to tell another lie, than 53 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: another lie, than another lie, and now you have an 54 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: innocent baby on your hands. This is so irresponsible, This 55 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 1: is so trifling, all of your foul for your roles 56 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: in this mess. But I blame you the most, letter writer, 57 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: because you were in this just to get what you 58 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: could get out of it. I don't care if you 59 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: did say you moved in to help them out with 60 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: the bills or whatever. You just wanted sex. I mean, 61 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: that's it. You want to sex with the WIFEI you 62 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: want to sex with the husband who puts it down. 63 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: And you see now why she won't leave this man. 64 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: This is a mess, and I say you need to 65 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: leave their home. You have made a mess of everything. 66 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: You need to fix it. The baby deserves the best 67 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: life you can give her. You and the father can 68 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: give her. And yes, someone is going to get hurt, 69 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: most likely the wife. The wife is going to have 70 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: to find out. I'm sorry because her husband is the father. 71 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: You need to woman, and you gotta tell her. You 72 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: have to tell her because an innocent baby is at 73 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: steak here and you don't want anything to happen to 74 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: this baby. You want this baby to have the best life, 75 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: like I said, that the baby can possibly have, and 76 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: because of your mistakes, you know it may not. It 77 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: may not because of that, Steve Well, this letter from 78 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: the very first line. I'm a thirty one year old female. 79 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: I'm dating a thirty six year old married female woman 80 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: for two years. They had a husband having some financial troubles, 81 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: so you decided to move in with him and help 82 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 1: out with the mortgage and the bills. You and hug 83 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: got together and told her husband that it was your 84 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: co worker and needed a place to stay temporarily. He 85 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: bought it. You moved in when the husband at work, 86 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 1: hanging out on weekend, Me and her we in the 87 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: bed room. We're getting it on. Then after a while 88 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 1: out the husband figured out what's going on. He come 89 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: back home. He'd been playing golf. He come back home. 90 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: He'd been down there with the boys on the basketball weekend. 91 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 1: He come back on the trip. Ain't nobody else shit. 92 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: He walked in the door. Hey, I'm here.