WEBVTT - Tyler Cameron 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:07.960 Hello, my love, Welcome back to the Gift Them La 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:11.160 La Podcast. It is hump Day, which is like one 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:13.320 of my most favorite days of the week, mostly because 0:00:13.320 --> 0:00:16.599 I get to listen to myself yet again. I have 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:19.599 a really fun guest and I learned about you on 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:25.760 Watch What Happens Live. Yeah, with friend I have Tyler Cameron, 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:28.680 and we were just talking about how the trolls were 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:31.920 out to play because when I had Brinn on, I said, 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:34.239 it was very random that you were from Florida. And 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:38.720 are they called Floridians Floridians. Yeah, the Floridians came for me. 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:40.600 First of all, Hi, how are you doing? 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:41.680 Great? Great to be here. 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:43.760 We just shove it right in no loop here. 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:45.520 That's great? Great? 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:52.280 Oh my god, down and dutch it. I love it. 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:57.320 Right A boy hasn't made me blush in a long time. 0:00:57.840 --> 0:00:59.640 Right you may you are on more Flordians? 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.600 Oh, lett him go. I don't know about that, Maybe 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:05.240 just you, Okay. 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:06.200 Why you were telling me? 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:10.240 If I learned who was from Jupiter Florida, it wouldn't 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:11.040 be so random. 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:15.200 Yeah. I think Jupiter has like completely exploded like recent years, 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:19.080 like Michael Jordan Tiger Woods being a Serena. Like every 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:21.640 golfer you could think of lives there. Nick Saban just 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:24.320 bought a house, Like a lot of NFL coaches lived there, 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:26.800 like some like Slimianni used to live there, Like Jupiter's 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:27.480 a crazy place. 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:28.840 Where in Florida? 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:30.360 Is this just above Palm Beach? 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:33.760 Oh? So it's like fabulous, fabulous? 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:36.360 Yes, don't they have amazing golf courses out there? 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:38.319 To amazing golf courses we have like the best inter 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:40.200 coastal waterways, like the best boating. 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:41.960 I love all of those things. 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:45.600 You like it, I would love it because coming from Utah, 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:48.160 that's very random. So I feel like I'm allowed to 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:50.680 tell someone like WHOA where you're from is random? Because 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:52.200 when you come from Utah, it's. 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:54.080 Like, or you should just get out of La More, 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:55.320 or I should. 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.160 Get out of La More. I've been here ten years 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:59.520 and it's suffocating. You spend a lot of time here, No, 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:01.520 you're so lucky. 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:03.720 I like to think, so why don't you spend a 0:02:03.760 --> 0:02:04.920 lot of time here? Do you spend a lot of 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:05.520 time in New York? 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:08.360 La is great? I think it's grown on me. My 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:10.640 first experience here was awful. They put me in a 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:13.920 hotel for like three months in downtown Lay. 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:14.639 Why. 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.920 I was shooting a show, like a Quibie show back 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:18.960 in the day, Okay, And so I was like, well, 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:20.760 I don't ever want to live in this place ever again, 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.440 you know. But I think in recent years I've had 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:25.760 some friends from back home moved to like Venice Beach 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:27.799 and stuff like that, and I hang around those areas. 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:29.919 I can get down with that more totally. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:32.560 Yeah, the West Side is where it's at. But we 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:34.799 were talking about how you used to go. You call 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:37.480 it Zion. I call it Zion. You wrote about that 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.200 place in your book, which is in southern Utah. 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:41.760 Yep, I have never been. 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:44.919 It's crazy you're from there. I'm from the place apparently 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:46.600 in St. George, like right around the corner, Like what are. 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:47.840 You doing right around the corner? 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:50.600 And people always ask me about all these great places 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:52.120 in Utah, the skiing. 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:54.240 I feel like, where you're. 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:55.640 From, that's where I should have been, because I just 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:58.080 want to be on a boat and cover myself in 0:02:58.160 --> 0:02:59.519 sunscreen every single day. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:00.400 Thrived. 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:01.639 I would have thrived. 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:04.400 Well, never know, never know, unless we get married and 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.080 have babies, all right, Well, which then I'll make you 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:09.680 sign something that says you must go away after is that? 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:13.720 Okay? I think it might be positive for our relationships, 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:14.359 So it goes that way. 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:15.480 He's down. 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:17.000 Okay. 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:21.720 So for you first stepped onto this scene, were you 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:24.440 the bachelor or were you a contestant? 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:26.040 What was that like for you? 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:28.640 It was a blast? You know. I see a lot 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:31.679 of stuff about how hard reality television can be, and 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:33.600 I think it takes a special person to get into 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:35.960 that space and really do it. For me, it was 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:38.400 it was a lot of fun. I don't take myself 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:41.040 too seriously. I have fun. And it was me and 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:43.200 a bunch of dudes in a house playing spades every day, 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:46.080 drinking beer, having fun, and we get to talk to 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:47.880 a girl every now and then, and we get to 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:49.160 try and build a relationship with her like it and 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.640 travel the world. Like what's not cool or fun about that? 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.080 Right? I think the hardest part would be getting out 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:54.640 of that limo. 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:58.200 Oh yeah, I blacked out. Yeah when I came out 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.360 of that limo, I had no idea I had this 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.000 whole thing I was gonna say. I remember, I was like, 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:04.840 I traveled all these miles just to see you smile, 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.080 like some corny shit. 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:08.560 Like that, you know, so they don't they don't give 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:09.640 you what you have to say. 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:11.480 They try to help you, you know, so you don't 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:14.680 completely like look like a complete bore, you know. And 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:17.120 so I had the whole line. I was the last 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.559 person to go. So I watched everybody go. I watched 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:21.960 everybody do their thing. It was like twelve thirty by 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:23.760 a time I got to go, I was and I 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:25.640 still came out there and like blacked out and like 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:26.919 I had no idea what. 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:28.680 I was saying, Oh, you lost all your game. 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.720 No, never lose my game. But never that it went 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:33.400 the robot mode. 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:36.520 It just it just kept going, oh, really, yeah, because 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.840 some of those moments are cringey. Like I've I have 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.800 to be honest, I've never watched The Bachelor or Bachelorette. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:45.640 I watched the first episode of the Golden Bachelor, and 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:49.120 I'm like, Mom, if this guy appeared in your life, 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:52.440 I would be totally fine calling him step dad, like 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:55.760 he's amazing. But some of those women coming out, I'm like, 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:57.960 this feels like the hardest part, and it was like 0:04:58.000 --> 0:04:58.720 a little cringey. 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:02.040 But because they're like kind of older, it's sweet. 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.160 But so like, here's the thing I think like when 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:06.040 you come out, they're going to give you some crazy 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.240 ideas to do, you know, and some people they pitch 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:11.279 them to and and they can come out like an idiot, 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.520 and it's on you just say yes or no to things. 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:15.560 And I think you try and balance this line of 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:17.320 like I'm trying to do good by the producers because 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:19.560 you think they're gonna help you stay on and stay 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:22.359 alive longer, you know, So like the producers will come 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.039 up with the ideas all the time, you should do this, 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:26.360 you do that. I'm like, no, I'm not gonna do that. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:28.479 And then I see someone else do it. I'm like, 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:31.200 thank god, I didn't do that. And then like they 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.720 were like, let's go grab flowers. I was like, I'll 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:35.599 do that, Like that's something I would do, you know. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.400 And so but I guess maybe I was a little 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.599 bit of a bore to them, but because I didn't 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:42.680 do all the crazy dumb stuff they wanted me to do. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:44.560 I would do some funny shit, but like I wouldn't 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:45.120 have to do with her. 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:47.200 But you made it pretty far right. 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:50.520 This is Hannah Brown season, by the way, which I 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.920 didn't watch, but I've seen clips from and that was 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:53.720 a great season. 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:56.520 You made it too. It was number two, number two? 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:57.120 Got it? 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.880 Oh you didn't do they give roses on the Bachelorette? Yes, 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:01.360 So you just didn't. 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:01.720 Get the rows. 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:03.080 I didn't get the last one. 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:04.159 Why do you think that was? 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:08.400 I think I don't think she believed. I think we 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:11.080 really liked each other a lot. I think she I 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:13.880 was always the like kind of the guy coming from behind, 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.040 like the guy she had. The relationship was always a 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.520 strong relationship from the start, and our relationship didn't get 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:21.360 stronger towards the end. And uh, probably because I was 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:23.479 a little bit shy at first. Okay, like I didn't 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:26.640 I didn't speak to it for like the first two days. Really, Yeah, 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:28.880 and then I don't know, when it comes to like 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.359 crazy settings, I kind of like take a step back, 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:33.120 and then like I introduced to myself slowly. 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:34.600 Oh you you retreat? 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:39.719 Yeah, when you signed up to do that show, like 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:40.920 were you looking for love? 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:41.080 Like? 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:43.240 How old were you looking for an adventure? I was 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:44.640 twenty six, so you. 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:45.760 Were How old are you now? 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:46.280 Thirty? 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.400 Okay, so you you were a baby then you're still 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:54.279 kind of a baby now. Men mature much differently than. 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:55.840 Women, I'd say I agree with that. 0:06:56.120 --> 0:07:00.000 Yes, I think most people would. So you were looking 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.480 for an adventure. You didn't know if you'd find love, 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:04.320 but you were just kind of throwing it to the universe. 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:07.719 Yeah, exactly, And like it was. If I it happened 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:08.960 and I started like this girl on the show, it 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:10.640 then great, I chase it, and that's what did happen. 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:12.640 Like I really did like this girl. I think there 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:14.800 could have been a future, and I chased it, you know, 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:16.480 and I gave it. I gave her my all, gave 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.360 the show my all. I just put it like I 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:21.920 don't like to do anything calculated or contrived, Like I 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.080 just if I'm gonna do something and do something. 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:27.400 I love that commitment. It's hard to find it is. 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:32.160 Do they allow men or women to be a contestant 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:35.560 if they have been married before and have children? 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:39.320 Yeah, they do, because that can get sticky. 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:39.520 You can't. 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:39.960 Right. 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:41.720 That's good TV, isn't it. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:42.640 It's great TV? 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:45.160 But I feel like if I'm going onto a show, 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:50.760 whether I'm competing or I'm making the choice, like I 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:53.560 I'm not doing that for any other reason than I 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:54.920 have tried to find love. 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:56.600 And it's just not happening. 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:58.960 I thought I've heard of like engagements being broken off 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:01.640 to go on the show, or like people like like 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:04.520 getting in the middle of a divorce going on the show. 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:06.400 Like I think things like that have happened. 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:10.960 I'm sure crazy, And don't they bring them on this. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:13.400 You don't have to confirm or deny this because it 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.400 might be a little spicy of a question. But I've 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:19.960 heard that they really pry into your life before casting 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:20.960 you officially on the show. 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:23.800 I'm talking like bank account like. 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:25.680 Oh they do, like do they do hot ground? 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.640 They didn't do my bank account. They heard of me 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:31.920 quick really yeah, like two hundred bucks to my name. 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:33.680 I would have not been. 0:08:33.559 --> 0:08:36.040 The guy for that really, like credit checks all. 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:36.520 That they don't know. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:39.640 They do like a deep dive, like making sure you 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:42.839 haven't done any like serious crimes or done anything wrong 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:45.840 like that. But yeah, I was broke as a joke 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:47.320 going on that show. I was like, yeah, I'm a 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.520 general contract I got my license, I haven't made a 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:50.880 dollar doing it yet. I was in the middle of 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:51.839 building my first house. 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:54.760 Well that's great for people to know. 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:56.600 You don't have to be rich to go like you 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:59.679 can just be like an average Tyler to go on the. 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:02.000 Show that right. 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:05.000 Yeah, So where are you at now with love? 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:07.200 Are you searching for it? Are you in a relationship. 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.360 I'm definitely putting myself back out there in dating, and 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.280 you know, but I'm doing it back home like I'm 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:12.079 doing it in Jupiter. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:13.040 Yeah. 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.120 You know, I've kind of built my whole world ever 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.640 since COVID happened. I came back to Jupiter. I was 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:21.040 living in New York City and came back to Jupiter 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.200 and I kind of just settled down there and I 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:25.120 realized that this is where I need to be. Not 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:27.000 want to be, but I need to be here for 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:29.520 just like my own sanity, and like I need to 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:31.559 work every day. I need to have a job, like 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:34.079 I have my construction company again, I have restaurants, I 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:37.200 have my foundation. So like I'm always doing something damn 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.440 every day. And if I wasn't, like in New York, LA, 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:41.400 I'd just be waiting for the next gig or the 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:44.160 next job, and I couldn't do it right. I would 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:45.319 be in the streets. 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:47.320 And you just just because I creeped your Instagram, you 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:50.240 just bought a house to flip, right, Yep, that's cool. 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:52.559 So you're doing that under your construction company. 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:54.880 Yeah. Yeah, So, I mean I'm probably gonna live in 0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:57.240 it for a few years, but it's my next project. 0:09:57.280 --> 0:09:58.599 I just did nine renovations. 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.880 Wow, so that's a lot. 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:03.760 Yeah, it was a beast kicked my ass. 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:04.880 And then what's your foundation? 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:08.320 I started a foundation on my mother. She passed away 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:11.880 right before COVID happened. And so now we give out 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.719 full scholarships to students. Somebody do some community redevelopment that 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.760 we're about to dive into. But we just we just 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:19.440 added up, we gave out We've gone out one hundred 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:22.000 and seventy five thousand dollars in scholarships in the past 0:10:22.160 --> 0:10:26.600 two years. We got we have five girls now in 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:29.199 her full scholarship. To our first girls are like like 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:30.839 three quarters of the ways of scholarship. 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:31.280 Wow. 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:32.960 And so this year we're hoping to give tim more 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:34.240 kids full tuition. 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:36.920 And what what are like the guidelines? Is there something 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:40.400 that they have to follow in order to get the scholarship? 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:43.600 Well, uh, you know, I made it so like someone 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:45.400 like me can get it, you know, yeah, because I 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:47.280 was no good student. So like you got to have 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:48.960 like a three zero, which is like a B average, 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:52.800 you know, but community service, be a leader and interview. 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:53.920 Well that's so incredible. 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.240 Yeah, so that's my pride and joy. 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.320 Well as it should be. 0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:00.360 That's really amazing. I was never great in school. Can 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.320 I tell you, Like, first of all, I don't listen. 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:05.240 I'm listening to you, but like you put me in 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:09.040 a school setting and I check out, and then if 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:10.960 you asked me to read something and then retain what 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:14.160 I read, And that's just when someone tells me they 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:16.199 went to college, I'm like, so you can retain knowledge 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:17.080 and I respect that. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:18.840 Did you go to college? 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:22.240 Where'd you go? I went to Wake Forest undergrad and 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:23.480 then FA for grad school. 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:24.120 Amazing. 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:25.920 But I was never like a good student. I just 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:28.080 like learned to be. I had like I had to 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.840 because I wanted to play football and that was my drink. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.760 Oh you're a football player, I was. Yeah, you were a. 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:37.360 College played college ball, got cut by the Ravens twice. 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:39.160 Got then I got hurt trying to go back into 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:40.080 the league and that was it. 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:40.680 Got it there. 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:41.840 Yeah, that's amazing. 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:43.800 Yeah, you audition or whatever audition. 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:48.319 I did my little dance for cheerleading. 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:52.640 Easton, and I grew up in a household that his 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:56.120 brother's sister. Yeah, this is my brother the Ravens. Because 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:59.120 I was obsessed with Ray Lewis the Man, the Man. 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:01.320 So we grew up in a household where it was 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:06.720 like we were Utons who were like, go Ravens. 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:07.800 How random is that? 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:10.000 I think? 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:12.240 So? Do we even stranger? 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:14.280 I don't love Utahon. 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:15.480 It is a uh. 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.760 In fact, there was a point in time where I 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:19.959 said my next baby was going to be named Utah, 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:22.440 and then I presented this to my friends and they were. 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:24.839 All like, Vito that I like the name. 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:25.439 I do too. 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:26.520 Isn't it kind of sick? 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:30.440 I think? Isn't like, isn't there a movie with God? 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:32.520 What's his name? We got from Dirty Dancing where he 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:36.520 was Nam and then the guy who everyone loves. I 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:38.160 think his name is like Johnny Utah? 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:40.440 Yes, that is absolutely what's that movie? Correct? 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:42.920 I don't know the movie, but I break point break 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.400 there we go. Yes, so someone did make it cool, 0:12:46.520 --> 0:12:49.040 but my friends didn't dig it. Do you want children, 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:50.839 I want a lot of them. I want to like 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:51.760 create a football team. 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:55.959 That's a lot. That's eleven players, So I need I 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:57.000 need to start in five. 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:58.720 I need a basketball team, basketball team. 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:02.880 Yeah, okay, And and when you think about your life, right, 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:07.720 everything that's happened so far, is there someone that you 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:11.240 have in mind where you're like, this is the girl 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.400 that will forever be the one that got away, Like 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:15.680 if timing would have been different or if we could 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:16.600 have just changed this. 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:18.760 No, I'm glad they all went away. 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:21.360 Really, look at that good read egg. 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:24.600 No, yeah, I'm glad they all went away. Really, So 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:27.000 when I look back now, I'm like, thank god it 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:28.960 didn't work out, because I wouldn't be where I am today. 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:34.160 I think every rejection or failure like it's all gotten 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:35.280 me to a better place. 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:36.079 Wow. 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:38.280 I really didn't expect you to say that there's no 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:39.920 one that I'm like, damn, I wish you know. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:42.160 No, And I've I've gone back and tried to check 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.160 those boxes and those boxes don't check. 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:47.040 Really. Yeah, the math don't mask math and math and 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:48.000 no more so, then. 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:49.280 What are you looking for? Tyler? 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:52.959 What's your ideal? What you're talking about? Checking boxes? That 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.400 made me think of are there? Do you have a list? 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:58.600 No, it's not necessarily a list. I live in Jupiter forty, 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.400 like I'm going to live there. My whole life. Like, 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:03.360 unless you have some crazy life that's gonna uproot me 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:07.040 in something, it's gonna blow whatever I have away. You 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:08.439 know that it's gonna be a lot to take me 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:12.040 out of Jupiter because I love my town, I love 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:13.839 my people, I love my community. I want to be 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.720 the high school fooball coach of Jupiter High School. 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:17.280 That is fucking adorable. 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:20.480 That is that's dope, that's yeah, It's what made me 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:21.840 and I want to just I always want to be 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.160 around it. You know. I got my family there. So 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:27.320 someone that wants to be in Jupiter is part of it, 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:29.880 you know. And it's kind of hard to find somebody 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:31.720 you're dating in New York earl like that wants to 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:33.680 do that. It sounds good when you're forty or fifty, 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:35.960 but not when you're in your twenties and thirties. 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:37.360 Is that a make or break. 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:39.760 Kind of it's not really necessarily a make or break. 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:42.480 Like I date outside of it, you know, But I 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.000 know now because I have all my work in Jupiter, 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:46.920 all my folks in jubiter, it's hard to really date 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.160 or talk to Like, I feel bad talking to anybody 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.960 outside of Jupiter because I don't give it as much. 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:53.440 If it's not on my face, I can't really do 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:53.840 much money. 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:57.960 Yeah, long distance is very very hard. So let's just 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:01.240 say you find this girl who's like, go Jupiter, never 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:03.960 want to leave, got it tatted on my back? What 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:06.840 else does she have to bring to the table besides 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:07.760 living in Jupiter? 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:10.920 You know, I think the one mantra I live by 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:12.960 is I through love, serve one another. And someone who's 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:14.760 just like willing to go out and serve and help 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:18.200 and take care of you know, whether it's the kids, 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:21.200 you know, the community, whoever it is, he's ready to go, 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:24.400 ready to help. But then also someone is ready for an adventure. 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:26.960 I love to go, I love to be out. And 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:29.200 then I don't know, I just wanted someone to build 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:31.479 something with, you know, I want someone to be alongside 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:34.280 of me when I'm renovating these houses and building this 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:36.560 business and trying to do these things. Like that's what 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:37.000 I want. 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:38.040 I love that. 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:38.760