1 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: Hello, my love, Welcome back to the Gift Them La 2 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: La Podcast. It is hump Day, which is like one 3 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: of my most favorite days of the week, mostly because 4 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: I get to listen to myself yet again. I have 5 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: a really fun guest and I learned about you on 6 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: Watch What Happens Live. Yeah, with friend I have Tyler Cameron, 7 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: and we were just talking about how the trolls were 8 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: out to play because when I had Brinn on, I said, 9 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,239 Speaker 1: it was very random that you were from Florida. And 10 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: are they called Floridians Floridians. Yeah, the Floridians came for me. 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: First of all, Hi, how are you doing? 12 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: Great? Great to be here. 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 3: We just shove it right in no loop here. 14 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 2: That's great? Great? 15 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 3: Oh my god, down and dutch it. I love it. 16 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 3: Right A boy hasn't made me blush in a long time. 17 00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: Right you may you are on more Flordians? 18 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: Oh, lett him go. I don't know about that, Maybe 19 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: just you, Okay. 20 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 3: Why you were telling me? 21 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: If I learned who was from Jupiter Florida, it wouldn't 22 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: be so random. 23 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think Jupiter has like completely exploded like recent years, 24 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 2: like Michael Jordan Tiger Woods being a Serena. Like every 25 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 2: golfer you could think of lives there. Nick Saban just 26 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 2: bought a house, Like a lot of NFL coaches lived there, 27 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: like some like Slimianni used to live there, Like Jupiter's 28 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 2: a crazy place. 29 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 3: Where in Florida? 30 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 2: Is this just above Palm Beach? 31 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 3: Oh? So it's like fabulous, fabulous? 32 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 4: Yes, don't they have amazing golf courses out there? 33 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 2: To amazing golf courses we have like the best inter 34 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 2: coastal waterways, like the best boating. 35 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 3: I love all of those things. 36 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: You like it, I would love it because coming from Utah, 37 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: that's very random. So I feel like I'm allowed to 38 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: tell someone like WHOA where you're from is random? Because 39 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: when you come from Utah, it's. 40 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: Like, or you should just get out of La More, 41 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: or I should. 42 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: Get out of La More. I've been here ten years 43 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: and it's suffocating. You spend a lot of time here, No, 44 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: you're so lucky. 45 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 5: I like to think, so why don't you spend a 46 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 5: lot of time here? Do you spend a lot of 47 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 5: time in New York? 48 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 2: La is great? I think it's grown on me. My 49 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 2: first experience here was awful. They put me in a 50 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 2: hotel for like three months in downtown Lay. 51 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 3: Why. 52 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 2: I was shooting a show, like a Quibie show back 53 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 2: in the day, Okay, And so I was like, well, 54 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: I don't ever want to live in this place ever again, 55 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: you know. But I think in recent years I've had 56 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 2: some friends from back home moved to like Venice Beach 57 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 2: and stuff like that, and I hang around those areas. 58 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 2: I can get down with that more totally. 59 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, the West Side is where it's at. But we 60 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: were talking about how you used to go. You call 61 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: it Zion. I call it Zion. You wrote about that 62 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: place in your book, which is in southern Utah. 63 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 3: Yep, I have never been. 64 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 2: It's crazy you're from there. I'm from the place apparently 65 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: in St. George, like right around the corner, Like what are. 66 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 3: You doing right around the corner? 67 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: And people always ask me about all these great places 68 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: in Utah, the skiing. 69 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 3: I feel like, where you're. 70 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: From, that's where I should have been, because I just 71 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: want to be on a boat and cover myself in 72 00:02:58,160 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: sunscreen every single day. 73 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 2: Thrived. 74 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 3: I would have thrived. 75 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: Well, never know, never know, unless we get married and 76 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: have babies, all right, Well, which then I'll make you 77 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: sign something that says you must go away after is that? 78 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 2: Okay? I think it might be positive for our relationships, 79 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 2: So it goes that way. 80 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 5: He's down. 81 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 3: Okay. 82 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: So for you first stepped onto this scene, were you 83 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: the bachelor or were you a contestant? 84 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: What was that like for you? 85 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 2: It was a blast? You know. I see a lot 86 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,679 Speaker 2: of stuff about how hard reality television can be, and 87 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 2: I think it takes a special person to get into 88 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: that space and really do it. For me, it was 89 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: it was a lot of fun. I don't take myself 90 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: too seriously. I have fun. And it was me and 91 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 2: a bunch of dudes in a house playing spades every day, 92 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: drinking beer, having fun, and we get to talk to 93 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: a girl every now and then, and we get to 94 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 2: try and build a relationship with her like it and 95 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 2: travel the world. Like what's not cool or fun about that? 96 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: Right? I think the hardest part would be getting out 97 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 3: of that limo. 98 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I blacked out. Yeah when I came out 99 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 2: of that limo, I had no idea I had this 100 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: whole thing I was gonna say. I remember, I was like, 101 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: I traveled all these miles just to see you smile, 102 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 2: like some corny shit. 103 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 3: Like that, you know, so they don't they don't give 104 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 3: you what you have to say. 105 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: They try to help you, you know, so you don't 106 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: completely like look like a complete bore, you know. And 107 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: so I had the whole line. I was the last 108 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,559 Speaker 2: person to go. So I watched everybody go. I watched 109 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: everybody do their thing. It was like twelve thirty by 110 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 2: a time I got to go, I was and I 111 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: still came out there and like blacked out and like 112 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 2: I had no idea what. 113 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 3: I was saying, Oh, you lost all your game. 114 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 2: No, never lose my game. But never that it went 115 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 2: the robot mode. 116 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: It just it just kept going, oh, really, yeah, because 117 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: some of those moments are cringey. Like I've I have 118 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: to be honest, I've never watched The Bachelor or Bachelorette. 119 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: I watched the first episode of the Golden Bachelor, and 120 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, Mom, if this guy appeared in your life, 121 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: I would be totally fine calling him step dad, like 122 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: he's amazing. But some of those women coming out, I'm like, 123 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: this feels like the hardest part, and it was like 124 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: a little cringey. 125 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 3: But because they're like kind of older, it's sweet. 126 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 2: But so like, here's the thing I think like when 127 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 2: you come out, they're going to give you some crazy 128 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: ideas to do, you know, and some people they pitch 129 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 2: them to and and they can come out like an idiot, 130 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 2: and it's on you just say yes or no to things. 131 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: And I think you try and balance this line of 132 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: like I'm trying to do good by the producers because 133 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 2: you think they're gonna help you stay on and stay 134 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 2: alive longer, you know, So like the producers will come 135 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 2: up with the ideas all the time, you should do this, 136 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 2: you do that. I'm like, no, I'm not gonna do that. 137 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 2: And then I see someone else do it. I'm like, 138 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 2: thank god, I didn't do that. And then like they 139 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 2: were like, let's go grab flowers. I was like, I'll 140 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 2: do that, Like that's something I would do, you know. 141 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 2: And so but I guess maybe I was a little 142 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 2: bit of a bore to them, but because I didn't 143 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 2: do all the crazy dumb stuff they wanted me to do. 144 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: I would do some funny shit, but like I wouldn't 145 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 2: have to do with her. 146 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 5: But you made it pretty far right. 147 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 6: This is Hannah Brown season, by the way, which I 148 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 6: didn't watch, but I've seen clips from and that was 149 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 6: a great season. 150 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 5: You made it too. It was number two, number two? 151 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: Got it? 152 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: Oh you didn't do they give roses on the Bachelorette? Yes, 153 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 1: So you just didn't. 154 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 3: Get the rows. 155 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: I didn't get the last one. 156 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 3: Why do you think that was? 157 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 2: I think I don't think she believed. I think we 158 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 2: really liked each other a lot. I think she I 159 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 2: was always the like kind of the guy coming from behind, 160 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 2: like the guy she had. The relationship was always a 161 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 2: strong relationship from the start, and our relationship didn't get 162 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: stronger towards the end. And uh, probably because I was 163 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 2: a little bit shy at first. Okay, like I didn't 164 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 2: I didn't speak to it for like the first two days. Really, Yeah, 165 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: and then I don't know, when it comes to like 166 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 2: crazy settings, I kind of like take a step back, 167 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 2: and then like I introduced to myself slowly. 168 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 3: Oh you you retreat? 169 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, when you signed up to do that show, like 170 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: were you looking for love? 171 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 3: Like? 172 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: How old were you looking for an adventure? I was 173 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: twenty six, so you. 174 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 3: Were How old are you now? 175 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 2: Thirty? 176 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so you you were a baby then you're still 177 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: kind of a baby now. Men mature much differently than. 178 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 2: Women, I'd say I agree with that. 179 00:06:56,120 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: Yes, I think most people would. So you were looking 180 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: for an adventure. You didn't know if you'd find love, 181 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: but you were just kind of throwing it to the universe. 182 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, And like it was. If I it happened 183 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 2: and I started like this girl on the show, it 184 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 2: then great, I chase it, and that's what did happen. 185 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 2: Like I really did like this girl. I think there 186 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 2: could have been a future, and I chased it, you know, 187 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: and I gave it. I gave her my all, gave 188 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 2: the show my all. I just put it like I 189 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 2: don't like to do anything calculated or contrived, Like I 190 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: just if I'm gonna do something and do something. 191 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 3: I love that commitment. It's hard to find it is. 192 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: Do they allow men or women to be a contestant 193 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: if they have been married before and have children? 194 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, they do, because that can get sticky. 195 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 2: You can't. 196 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 3: Right. 197 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 2: That's good TV, isn't it. 198 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 3: It's great TV? 199 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: But I feel like if I'm going onto a show, 200 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: whether I'm competing or I'm making the choice, like I 201 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that for any other reason than I 202 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: have tried to find love. 203 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 3: And it's just not happening. 204 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 2: I thought I've heard of like engagements being broken off 205 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: to go on the show, or like people like like 206 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 2: getting in the middle of a divorce going on the show. 207 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 2: Like I think things like that have happened. 208 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 6: I'm sure crazy, And don't they bring them on this. 209 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 6: You don't have to confirm or deny this because it 210 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 6: might be a little spicy of a question. But I've 211 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 6: heard that they really pry into your life before casting 212 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 6: you officially on the show. 213 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 5: I'm talking like bank account like. 214 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 3: Oh they do, like do they do hot ground? 215 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 2: They didn't do my bank account. They heard of me 216 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: quick really yeah, like two hundred bucks to my name. 217 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 2: I would have not been. 218 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 6: The guy for that really, like credit checks all. 219 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 5: That they don't know. 220 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 2: They do like a deep dive, like making sure you 221 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,839 Speaker 2: haven't done any like serious crimes or done anything wrong 222 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 2: like that. But yeah, I was broke as a joke 223 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 2: going on that show. I was like, yeah, I'm a 224 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 2: general contract I got my license, I haven't made a 225 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 2: dollar doing it yet. I was in the middle of 226 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:51,839 Speaker 2: building my first house. 227 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 3: Well that's great for people to know. 228 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 1: You don't have to be rich to go like you 229 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 1: can just be like an average Tyler to go on the. 230 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 3: Show that right. 231 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, So where are you at now with love? 232 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 3: Are you searching for it? Are you in a relationship. 233 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 2: I'm definitely putting myself back out there in dating, and 234 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: you know, but I'm doing it back home like I'm 235 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 2: doing it in Jupiter. 236 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 237 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 2: You know, I've kind of built my whole world ever 238 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 2: since COVID happened. I came back to Jupiter. I was 239 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 2: living in New York City and came back to Jupiter 240 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 2: and I kind of just settled down there and I 241 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 2: realized that this is where I need to be. Not 242 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: want to be, but I need to be here for 243 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 2: just like my own sanity, and like I need to 244 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 2: work every day. I need to have a job, like 245 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 2: I have my construction company again, I have restaurants, I 246 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 2: have my foundation. So like I'm always doing something damn 247 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 2: every day. And if I wasn't, like in New York, LA, 248 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 2: I'd just be waiting for the next gig or the 249 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: next job, and I couldn't do it right. I would 250 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 2: be in the streets. 251 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 6: And you just just because I creeped your Instagram, you 252 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 6: just bought a house to flip, right, Yep, that's cool. 253 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 5: So you're doing that under your construction company. 254 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So, I mean I'm probably gonna live in 255 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 2: it for a few years, but it's my next project. 256 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:58,599 Speaker 2: I just did nine renovations. 257 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 3: Wow, so that's a lot. 258 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a beast kicked my ass. 259 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 3: And then what's your foundation? 260 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 2: I started a foundation on my mother. She passed away 261 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 2: right before COVID happened. And so now we give out 262 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,719 Speaker 2: full scholarships to students. Somebody do some community redevelopment that 263 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 2: we're about to dive into. But we just we just 264 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 2: added up, we gave out We've gone out one hundred 265 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 2: and seventy five thousand dollars in scholarships in the past 266 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: two years. We got we have five girls now in 267 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:29,199 Speaker 2: her full scholarship. To our first girls are like like 268 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:30,839 Speaker 2: three quarters of the ways of scholarship. 269 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: Wow. 270 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 2: And so this year we're hoping to give tim more 271 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 2: kids full tuition. 272 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: And what what are like the guidelines? Is there something 273 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: that they have to follow in order to get the scholarship? 274 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 2: Well, uh, you know, I made it so like someone 275 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: like me can get it, you know, yeah, because I 276 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 2: was no good student. So like you got to have 277 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 2: like a three zero, which is like a B average, 278 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 2: you know, but community service, be a leader and interview. 279 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 3: Well that's so incredible. 280 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's my pride and joy. 281 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 3: Well as it should be. 282 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: That's really amazing. I was never great in school. Can 283 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 1: I tell you, Like, first of all, I don't listen. 284 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 1: I'm listening to you, but like you put me in 285 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: a school setting and I check out, and then if 286 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: you asked me to read something and then retain what 287 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: I read, And that's just when someone tells me they 288 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,199 Speaker 1: went to college, I'm like, so you can retain knowledge 289 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: and I respect that. 290 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 3: Did you go to college? 291 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 2: Where'd you go? I went to Wake Forest undergrad and 292 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 2: then FA for grad school. 293 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 3: Amazing. 294 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 2: But I was never like a good student. I just 295 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 2: like learned to be. I had like I had to 296 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 2: because I wanted to play football and that was my drink. 297 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 3: Oh you're a football player, I was. Yeah, you were a. 298 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 2: College played college ball, got cut by the Ravens twice. 299 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 2: Got then I got hurt trying to go back into 300 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 2: the league and that was it. 301 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 4: Got it there. 302 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing. 303 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, you audition or whatever audition. 304 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 2: I did my little dance for cheerleading. 305 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: Easton, and I grew up in a household that his 306 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: brother's sister. Yeah, this is my brother the Ravens. Because 307 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 1: I was obsessed with Ray Lewis the Man, the Man. 308 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: So we grew up in a household where it was 309 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: like we were Utons who were like, go Ravens. 310 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 3: How random is that? 311 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 4: I think? 312 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 2: So? Do we even stranger? 313 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 5: I don't love Utahon. 314 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 3: It is a uh. 315 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: In fact, there was a point in time where I 316 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 1: said my next baby was going to be named Utah, 317 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: and then I presented this to my friends and they were. 318 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,839 Speaker 3: All like, Vito that I like the name. 319 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 5: I do too. 320 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 3: Isn't it kind of sick? 321 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 2: I think? Isn't like, isn't there a movie with God? 322 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 2: What's his name? We got from Dirty Dancing where he 323 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 2: was Nam and then the guy who everyone loves. I 324 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 2: think his name is like Johnny Utah? 325 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 3: Yes, that is absolutely what's that movie? Correct? 326 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: I don't know the movie, but I break point break 327 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: there we go. Yes, so someone did make it cool, 328 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: but my friends didn't dig it. Do you want children, 329 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 1: I want a lot of them. I want to like 330 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: create a football team. 331 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 2: That's a lot. That's eleven players, So I need I 332 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 2: need to start in five. 333 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 3: I need a basketball team, basketball team. 334 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, And and when you think about your life, right, 335 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: everything that's happened so far, is there someone that you 336 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: have in mind where you're like, this is the girl 337 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: that will forever be the one that got away, Like 338 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 1: if timing would have been different or if we could 339 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: have just changed this. 340 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 2: No, I'm glad they all went away. 341 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 5: Really, look at that good read egg. 342 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 2: No, yeah, I'm glad they all went away. Really, So 343 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: when I look back now, I'm like, thank god it 344 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 2: didn't work out, because I wouldn't be where I am today. 345 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: I think every rejection or failure like it's all gotten 346 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 2: me to a better place. 347 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 3: Wow. 348 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: I really didn't expect you to say that there's no 349 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 1: one that I'm like, damn, I wish you know. 350 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 2: No, And I've I've gone back and tried to check 351 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 2: those boxes and those boxes don't check. 352 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 3: Really. Yeah, the math don't mask math and math and 353 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 3: no more so, then. 354 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 5: What are you looking for? Tyler? 355 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:52,959 Speaker 6: What's your ideal? What you're talking about? Checking boxes? That 356 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 6: made me think of are there? Do you have a list? 357 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 2: No, it's not necessarily a list. I live in Jupiter forty, 358 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: like I'm going to live there. My whole life. Like, 359 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 2: unless you have some crazy life that's gonna uproot me 360 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 2: in something, it's gonna blow whatever I have away. You 361 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 2: know that it's gonna be a lot to take me 362 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 2: out of Jupiter because I love my town, I love 363 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 2: my people, I love my community. I want to be 364 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 2: the high school fooball coach of Jupiter High School. 365 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 3: That is fucking adorable. 366 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 2: That is that's dope, that's yeah, It's what made me 367 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 2: and I want to just I always want to be 368 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 2: around it. You know. I got my family there. So 369 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 2: someone that wants to be in Jupiter is part of it, 370 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: you know. And it's kind of hard to find somebody 371 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: you're dating in New York earl like that wants to 372 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 2: do that. It sounds good when you're forty or fifty, 373 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 2: but not when you're in your twenties and thirties. 374 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 4: Is that a make or break. 375 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 2: Kind of it's not really necessarily a make or break. 376 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 2: Like I date outside of it, you know, But I 377 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 2: know now because I have all my work in Jupiter, 378 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 2: all my folks in jubiter, it's hard to really date 379 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 2: or talk to Like, I feel bad talking to anybody 380 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 2: outside of Jupiter because I don't give it as much. 381 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 2: If it's not on my face, I can't really do 382 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 2: much money. 383 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, long distance is very very hard. So let's just 384 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: say you find this girl who's like, go Jupiter, never 385 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: want to leave, got it tatted on my back? What 386 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 1: else does she have to bring to the table besides 387 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: living in Jupiter? 388 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: You know, I think the one mantra I live by 389 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 2: is I through love, serve one another. And someone who's 390 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: just like willing to go out and serve and help 391 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 2: and take care of you know, whether it's the kids, 392 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 2: you know, the community, whoever it is, he's ready to go, 393 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 2: ready to help. But then also someone is ready for an adventure. 394 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 2: I love to go, I love to be out. And 395 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 2: then I don't know, I just wanted someone to build 396 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,479 Speaker 2: something with, you know, I want someone to be alongside 397 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 2: of me when I'm renovating these houses and building this 398 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 2: business and trying to do these things. Like that's what 399 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:37,000 Speaker 2: I want. 400 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 3: I love that. 401 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 5: That's beautiful. 402 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 3: Does she have to want a lot of kids? 403 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: No? I mean I always have as many kids as 404 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 2: I'm allowed to have, Okay, but then I'll probably start adopting. 405 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: Oh that's going to take a very special woman to 406 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: be like, I'll only pop out too, and then you 407 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: can adopt as many as you know. But I'm over here. 408 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: I only want to claim the two, all right. And 409 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 1: then does she need to work? Does she need to 410 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: have a job or could she be like a stay 411 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: at home wife and mama? 412 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 2: She she can be whatever she wants to be passionate about. 413 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 2: I think, if you want to be a stay at 414 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 2: home mom, be the best stay at home mom there is. 415 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 2: If you want to work, be the best work and 416 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 2: whatever you know it is. I think if you don't 417 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 2: do anything, if you don't have passion anything, you're going 418 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 2: to live a lifeless life. And I think then you 419 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: start looking to your partner for life, and that's a 420 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 2: terrible place to be. And so I would look, if 421 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 2: they want to work, be the best you can be 422 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 2: and I'll support it. If you want to be a mom, 423 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: be the best mom you can be, and I'll support it. 424 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 6: You're so cute, You're so cute, and you're so the 425 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 6: way you speak, and sitting on that couch, I'm looking 426 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 6: at you and I'm like, you know who you'd be 427 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 6: great with. 428 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 5: Brent. 429 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 3: He's just about to cut you. It's going to cut you. 430 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 5: Why didn't this work appen? Are you pursuing Brent? Is 431 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 5: she pursuing you? Or is it just like you guys 432 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 5: are chilling. I'm really out. 433 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 2: I think we're chilling. We're chilling right now. 434 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, what does that mean? Like you just text and stuff. 435 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 2: I mean we talked little bit once like we had 436 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 2: all the wild run. But I said, it's so hard 437 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 2: for me to keep up because I'm I'm buried. I'm 438 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: buried with work. I'm buried with everything I'm doing back home. 439 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 2: I can't give myself really, I can't give anyone what 440 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 2: they deserve truly. 441 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 3: And she don't live in Jupiter. The number one on the. 442 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 2: List, number one, you got to be ready to come home. 443 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: You know, she didn't even make the first point the 444 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: check off. 445 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 2: But no, she is incredible and I loved like doing 446 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 2: that show at Brendan getting to know braink like we 447 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 2: had we had drinks and stuff afterwards. We had a 448 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 2: lot of fun and like Brin's a great girl. 449 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 5: She's great. 450 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 2: Brent could be that person, you know. But yeah, you know, 451 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 2: like I said, like I just I haven't given anything 452 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 2: any energy unless it's like around here in front of me, 453 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 2: just because I'm swamped. 454 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 1: You've got a lot to be swamped by. I mean, 455 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: you're on Special Forces this season. And by the way, 456 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:58,400 Speaker 1: I just watched last season and my jaw was on 457 00:17:58,440 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: the floor. 458 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, number one, this show is so good. 459 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: For a second, it was a turn off because I 460 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 1: had never heard of Special Forces, and then it was 461 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: like special Forces Tom Sandaval and I was like, you know, 462 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: I don't. 463 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 3: Know about this. 464 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: But then I watched the first season and was like, 465 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: this is so good and became obsessed. And you guys 466 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: are what two three episodes into your season? 467 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 2: Night will be our third episode. 468 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't wait to watch. Okay, when 469 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: this came to you, had you seen the show before? 470 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: Did you know what you were getting into? 471 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 2: So they came to me about like a week and 472 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 2: a half before we're supposed to leave for the show, 473 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 2: and they're like, yeah, we want you this show, and 474 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 2: I was I was into it, Like I just got 475 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 2: done working on like a big project and I was 476 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 2: beating up. I was like, all right, this will be 477 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 2: like a vacation for me. And because every time I 478 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 2: get like these chances to go do like these shows, 479 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is this is fun. This is not work, 480 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: you know. And so so I was like, I'm out, 481 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 2: I'll go I'll go to this show. My agent was like, no, 482 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 2: I don't think you should do it. It's a competition show. 483 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 2: You don't want to be known for doing competition shows 484 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:02,159 Speaker 2: all the time. And I was like, all right, well, 485 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 2: let me let me watch the show. Let me get 486 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 2: back to you. Watch the show. I was like, this 487 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 2: is easy. I got this, like, this is just Hollywood 488 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 2: foo foo. This ain't gonna be that hard. Told my agent, 489 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 2: Like we talked that the next day. We kind of 490 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:16,360 Speaker 2: got a whole different opinion about the show after seeing it. 491 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 2: It's not it's not a competition show. It's it's not 492 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:22,360 Speaker 2: that it's a completely different genre. And so when when 493 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 2: I said yes, I was like, yeah, I mean it's 494 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 2: not gonna be that hard either, Like it's just foof 495 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 2: foo Hollywood la, Like they just drive around in cars. 496 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,439 Speaker 2: They're not really running, they're not really actually doing hard stuff. 497 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 2: I was fucking wrong. It's the hardest damn thing I've 498 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 2: ever did. And I was a football guy, Like I've 499 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 2: done crazy training, I've you know, gone to I puked 500 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 2: and they killed me and all these things. Nah, this 501 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 2: was a whole other level. 502 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 5: It's insane. 503 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 6: I'm obsessed with this season, by the way, absolutely obsessed, 504 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 6: and I'm blown away by like Jojo c was on 505 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 6: at Savannah Chris Lee des Bryant. 506 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna spoil anything for anyone, but. 507 00:19:56,600 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 6: I'm already shocked at who's gone home and who's stayed 508 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 6: and who's like really done amazing at the challenges because 509 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 6: I you see a show like this, you watch season 510 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 6: one and I'm like, Oh, the strong men are going 511 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 6: to come out on top. 512 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 5: That's just how it's going to be. It's all about strength. 513 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 5: But it's not. 514 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 2: There's the women. 515 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 3: Who I mean, women push life out of their career. 516 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 2: All right, y'all have a mental engine that just doesn't stop. 517 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 7: And this is a mental game from what I've seen, 518 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 7: Like there's some things that you got to go through, 519 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 7: but like a lot of it is mental toughness and health. 520 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 7: Like yeah, like you would say, do to endure mentally. 521 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 2: Because only only reason why you want to quit at 522 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 2: things like because the physical stuff is hard, it's because 523 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 2: your mind's quitting. But what the staff shows you and 524 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 2: teaches you is there's so much more in the tank 525 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 2: than you ever put out there and like they've got 526 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 2: like like I can't wait for I want to see 527 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,199 Speaker 2: next episode because they've gotten more out of me than 528 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 2: I've ever gotten out of myself. Really yeah, And but 529 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 2: it's because there's mental limitations you put on yourself. 530 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 6: So this you're talking episode three. So by the time 531 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 6: this airs, episode three will have come out. But obviously 532 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 6: you can't spoil anything. 533 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: But who's gone home so far? Oh, Black China or 534 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 1: Angela Angela Tara? 535 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 2: And does Bryant Tara Reid? 536 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 6: Does Bryant? That's who I was shocked on. I guess 537 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 6: we're spoiling. I was shocked. Does Bryant Tara Reid? By 538 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 6: the way, I don't know why I feel this way 539 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 6: toward her? She seems like an angel of a human 540 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 6: And you were you helped her out right, like you 541 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 6: carried her bag? How is she in real life? Is 542 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 6: she a sweet angel? 543 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: She is sweet, you know, And it's I feel like 544 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 2: she's had just the hardest time, you know, in Hollywood, 545 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 2: And I feel like it's it's a machine to choose 546 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 2: you up, to spit you out, you know. And I 547 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 2: feel like she's suffered through a lot of bullying, a 548 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,880 Speaker 2: lot of you know, it's it's hard. I think we've 549 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 2: all been through these moments in the light where the 550 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 2: people come after you, you know, and she's probably had 551 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 2: way more than a lot of us have. 552 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 3: The trolls are alive, and yeah, like. 553 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 2: People read this. Everyone will tell you they don't read 554 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 2: people will read it, you know, and that's no matter what. 555 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 2: That messes with your mind. 556 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: And I saw a lot of things on socials that 557 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: people were saying about Tarry and I'm like, how could 558 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 1: someone like write this about another human being? So I'm 559 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 1: sure you got to meet a lot of people on 560 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,680 Speaker 1: this show, and did you have any like going into 561 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 1: it where you're like, oh, this person I know was 562 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: going to be this way. This person, I mean Scandival 563 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,880 Speaker 1: was happening you met, you met him, I kept want 564 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to call him Scandabal because he's not Scannabal. 565 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 3: Sand of all, I'm like getting all tongue tied. 566 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 1: Did you know that that existed? Were you balls deep 567 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,400 Speaker 1: in that before you got to know him? 568 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 2: Just a tip I was not balls I knew a 569 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 2: little bit about it. 570 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 4: Did you get balls deep? 571 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 2: Everyone else around? I was kind of like association, I 572 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 2: guess we're a gang banging Tom about it, you know everything. 573 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 3: People have a lot of questions for him. 574 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was talked about a ton you know, 575 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 2: like like just for instance, like they didn't show us 576 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 2: part but it was so funny, like we are just 577 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 2: getting on the vans to meet each other and we're 578 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 2: all doing intros of each other and Tom goes, I'm 579 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 2: Tom Sandoval and Jack Osborne goes, oh, looks like we 580 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 2: have a scandalbal but not. But then he goes, then 581 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 2: Tom kind of like She's like, yep, yeah, I was 582 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 2: involved in the scandal. And then he didn't. 583 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 3: But you are a scandal. You were just in all buddy, 584 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 3: did Jack know? 585 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 2: But Jack didn't even know Sanda Bal was scandalbal. He 586 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 2: just thought like he just knew the word and then 587 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,919 Speaker 2: knew Tom sandal but and I just said it to 588 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 2: be funny, but never knew the correlation of the two. 589 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 5: That's hilarious. 590 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 6: Jack Osborne is fucking hilarious, by the way, so funny 591 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 6: like also killing it, also killing it on the show. 592 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 2: He was like he was like the there was like 593 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,479 Speaker 2: two dads of the show, him and Body Miller, and 594 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 2: those are the guys who like knew how to do 595 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:55,720 Speaker 2: survival stuff, knew how to make the fire. I was useless. 596 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 4: I don't know how to do anything. 597 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 6: So there's survival stuff coming up because we I mean, 598 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 6: obviously it's all survival. But what we've seen so far 599 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 6: is I call it the cold plunge. It obviously was 600 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 6: a lot worse than that. But you're a fit guy. 601 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 6: Had you cold plunged before? So that challenge was like, eh, no. 602 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 2: I mean that challenge that sounds sucks no matter what. 603 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, I don't think I could do that. 604 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 2: You could? 605 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 4: I could. 606 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 6: I want you to go on Special Forces so bad 607 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 6: because I think you'd shock yourself. 608 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 2: You're gonna do it in Utah next year? They said too, 609 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 2: it'd be great homecoming. Oh you could go home? 610 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 5: Are you serious? 611 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,440 Speaker 4: No, you're lying home court advantage. 612 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 5: No, I think you'd surprise yourself. I think a lot 613 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 5: of people on that show will end up surprising themselves. 614 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 4: Do you have to tie a lot of ropes on 615 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 4: that or no? What do you mean like anything like rope? 616 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 2: I had. There was this one course that we had 617 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 2: to do and I had to They put it's a 618 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 2: sled and we had to tie all these things to 619 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 2: the sled and we got we got to race other teams, 620 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 2: and so I'm like, I hook my partner up to 621 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 2: the sled. I'm tying everything up, you know. Yeah, And 622 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 2: as soon as we kick off, my nots come on. 623 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 2: Shit goes everywhere. Do they teach you how to go 624 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 2: right to last place? 625 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:03,439 Speaker 1: Like? 626 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 2: By far? I'm like, and they're just ripping me apart. 627 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 4: When it comes to knots, I hand it off to 628 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 4: somebody else. 629 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 3: Wait, do they teach you how to tie a proper knock? 630 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 1: For? 631 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,639 Speaker 5: They don't teach you shit know how to you are? 632 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, being a thirty old man, you should know how 633 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 2: to tie a not. 634 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: I think I could tie a pretty solid knot honestly, until. 635 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 2: You have until you got to wrap things around it, 636 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 2: make things stick together. 637 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,199 Speaker 6: Yeah, what are we doing in life where we need 638 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 6: to tie not someone tells me to, I'm going, I'm 639 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 6: doing a bow. 640 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 2: And I had a friend who started with his shoelaces 641 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 2: and he's thirty, so you're right, he can't double not 642 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 2: it sketch the bunniers. 643 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,640 Speaker 1: The bunniers can fuck you sometimes the bunniers can. I'm 644 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 1: fantastic at tying up a boat. 645 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 3: Oh, that's good. 646 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can hang in Jupiter. 647 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 1: Then oh yeah, I whipped that thing around like nobody's business. 648 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 3: Is that the kind of knot you had to do? 649 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 2: No, I wish, I wish I'd be all right, that 650 00:25:59,400 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 2: wasn't the case. 651 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 3: What is the hardest challenge you have done so far 652 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 3: that we've seen that we've seen. I don't want it. 653 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 3: I don't want your team to be mad at me 654 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 3: for spoiling anything. 655 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 2: The hardest things we've done so far that like episode 656 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 2: one was the trenasium. Yeah, that one. I was the 657 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 2: most scared of the whole time. And that's probably and 658 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 2: I passed. And I was, I mean, you're three hundred 659 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,120 Speaker 2: and fifty feet in the air, looking down over this river, 660 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 2: walking on two metal bars, and I was so scared, 661 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 2: like you look down your disoriented. I was so scared 662 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 2: so I couldn't fail. Like fear was more like like 663 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 2: it was what made me pass it. And I would 664 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:38,959 Speaker 2: blocked everything out, looked at like a little rock all 665 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 2: the way across the mountain and just I mean, but 666 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 2: I was shipped my pants. 667 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 5: Did you see it? 668 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:43,479 Speaker 3: Lot? 669 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 5: It's horrible. 670 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 3: It's just talking about it. It feels like an elephant just 671 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 3: sat on my chest. 672 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 4: I don't like it. 673 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't not do that. 674 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,119 Speaker 6: And and you're and then you get to the like 675 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 6: the middle, and there's something you have to step. 676 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,360 Speaker 2: Over, the eupmember a wooden plank, which like you don't 677 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 2: look down and see what you're stepping over, you know 678 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 2: where it'll put your foot. So you're just. 679 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 6: Guessing and staff is are they because this is what 680 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 6: I wanted to ask. They are obviously hard on you guys, 681 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 6: but they also seem to be like guiding you and 682 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 6: rooting for you. Were are they looking at you in 683 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 6: that challenge and being like you got this? 684 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 5: Come on? I couldn't really tell you know. 685 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 2: That they're they're just setting us every second of the way. 686 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 2: They're they're they're analyzing us. They talk about us. You know, 687 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 2: they have a deep brief that they do afterwards, and 688 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 2: and they just go through each person for about thirty 689 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 2: minutes about the whole day. Wow, but they got to 690 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 2: attack on this person because they're trying to find out weaknesses, 691 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 2: they're trying to exploit them, and they're trying to make 692 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 2: us better for them. Okay, And so so I mean like, yeah, 693 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,439 Speaker 2: I mean they're ripping us. Yeah, and then sometimes you'll 694 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 2: get a little taste of a human out of them. 695 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 5: That's what I see. 696 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 6: That's what And they're like great job or something, and 697 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, staff, because they're all like ex marines 698 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,439 Speaker 6: x X whatever, and. 699 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 2: Like, like, I think one of the big driving forces 700 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,439 Speaker 2: for me was earning their respect. You know, I wanted 701 00:27:58,440 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 2: to have their respect. 702 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 5: By the end of all, did you earn it? 703 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 3: You're not allowed to stay tuned, stay tuned. I'm very excited. 704 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,479 Speaker 1: I have to ask you, do you believe in a 705 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: higher power like God, universe, whatever it may be. So 706 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: when you're doing this, did you ever punt it off? 707 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 1: Because I know you said it was more than just 708 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: a competition. This was like to build you build more characters, 709 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 1: See what strength you didn't know existed. Was there a 710 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: time throughout this process where you were like, I have 711 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 1: to hand it over because you're a fucking athlete, right 712 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: where you had to punt it to a higher power 713 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 1: to be like, I literally cannot do this and something 714 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 1: else needs to take over. 715 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 2: I'm crazy and stupid out to think I can do anything. Okay, 716 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 2: you know, but there was moments in time where I'm 717 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 2: in it, and I'm just you know, I'm struggling, and 718 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 2: you just got to figure out like your why and 719 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 2: what's your reason for, you know. And I think for me, 720 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 2: a lot of my reasons why I was as I 721 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 2: felt like since football, since coming into a little bit 722 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 2: of family, I lost my edge a little bit. I 723 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 2: lost what made me who I was. And because they're comfortable, 724 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 2: you know, it's easy to get comfortable, and I wanted 725 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 2: to find that dog again. And so I mean I 726 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 2: was pushing myself to the brink, you know, over and 727 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 2: over and over again. And I do remember this. I 728 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: was like, because only there's like two ways to go out. 729 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 2: You get hurt or you quit. And I was like 730 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 2: running full spreed down this mountain. I would not mind 731 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 2: tripping and like breaking my collarbone right now my leg 732 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 2: snaps like you but like, like that's how brutal it was. 733 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 1: I heard from Sandoval. I was on a gondola with him. 734 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 1: I won't tell you why. You'll see it next season. 735 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 5: No God, no, Tyler. 736 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 3: Some of that absolutely not. 737 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: You got to check all the boxes, which, by the way, 738 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: I have made side note, I've done this thing where 739 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what they have all of these things, 740 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 1: so I'm gonna let these things slide. At this point 741 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: in my life. If there's even one box that you 742 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: did not check, even if it's all physical, you gotta go. 743 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 3: That's gat you gotta go. That's crazy. 744 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 2: It's crazy. 745 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 5: I hear you that. 746 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 3: That's what trauma will do to you. 747 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 2: Really. 748 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you experience something, you take a thirty thousand foot 749 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 1: view on your life and you're like, fuck it, I'll 750 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 1: be by myself if you don't check every box. 751 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 3: I don't have to check every box, but you must 752 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 3: check every box. 753 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 2: I guarantee the person you married doesn't check everybody. 754 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 6: I guarantee you too. This is gonna go away. This 755 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 6: is just this is just the temporary. I know you 756 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 6: feel like it's not. 757 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 5: But it all right. 758 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 4: Here we go. 759 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 3: You you all are psychoanalyzing and doing all the things. 760 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 3: This is what I'm saying. I would never ever touch that. 761 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 2: People talk about boxes because. 762 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,960 Speaker 1: Everything except when you've been open to everything and you're like, 763 00:30:58,160 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: then you look at your life and you're like, you know, 764 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 1: being open to everything did not quite serve me the 765 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: way I thought it would. Like a tight box, a 766 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 1: tight he eat like the tight box. 767 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 4: Like a tight box. 768 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 5: Wait, can I ask? Because I really want to know. 769 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 6: Speaking of tight boxes, did anyone on the show hook up? 770 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 6: Was there any Because you're sleeping on cots next to 771 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 6: each other. 772 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 5: Also, though you're in a room where you've just sweat all. 773 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 6: Day, I feel like it probably smells and it's disgusting 774 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 6: your shower. 775 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: I feel like you don't know if it stinks because 776 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 1: you all smell the same way. It's like if you 777 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 1: eat garlic, but someone else eats garlic and it like 778 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 1: counteracts the garlic. 779 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 2: I showered twice, Like you showered twice a day. No 780 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,600 Speaker 2: one's no one's hot, right, you know. 781 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 3: You showered twice a day period. 782 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 2: Period, Tyler, Is that all you're allowed? Or is that 783 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 2: we had like time and energy for. 784 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 5: I couldn't see. 785 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 4: I wouldn't shower either, just lay the shower. 786 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 2: You got to go outside, Yeah, and go into this shower. 787 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 2: That's you know, the shower actually had hot water, but 788 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 2: we couldn't. No one could figure it out for the 789 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 2: first two days. So once we figured out the hot water, 790 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 2: then that was like Applaus. But we'd go out and 791 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 2: shower and then like but you're doing it on like time. 792 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 2: We could possibly be sleeping and so it's like a 793 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 2: trade off and like you're just gonna get shitty again 794 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 2: the next day. So what's the point? 795 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 3: The point? 796 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 5: So no one hooked up or you can't tell us 797 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 5: no one? No one hooked up? Okay, what about somebody? 798 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 4: Something's telling me somebody hooked up. 799 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 6: I know, I feel like there's so little hanky panky, 800 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 6: but I guess something's telling me that. 801 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 5: The Okay, well what about fights? 802 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 6: So we can't know that either, Like you guys are 803 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 6: sleeping next to each other. We already saw a little 804 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 6: tension between Brian Austin Green and and uh Black China 805 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 6: aka Angela White. 806 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 5: We saw some tension there. 807 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 2: Yep, that came out of nowhere. 808 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 3: That was why? 809 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 4: What was it? 810 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 3: What was it? 811 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 5: It was? 812 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 2: It was like Brian poking. 813 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 6: Brian was poking and you don't poke Angela White, Black China, 814 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 6: and she was done with it and she's like, are 815 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 6: you trying to step don't like she. 816 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 5: Said I'm not the one and I said that's lala. 817 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: I wish I wish that was She's a badass. 818 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 5: But yeah, there was some So are we gonna see 819 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 5: more drama? 820 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 3: Maybe? 821 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 2: You know, there's probably some drama here, so there's probably 822 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 2: bickering that I didn't really know about. I'm not really 823 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 2: a drama person. 824 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 3: I didn't need the drama, by the way. 825 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's enough for me to watch you three 826 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty feet in the air walking on a 827 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: tight rope like that is enough drama. 828 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 3: But for me, I. 829 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 2: Think the show it strips everyone to their core, so 830 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 2: you kind of get the like, the vulnerable, real side 831 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:33,719 Speaker 2: of them. You don't get much druma. We get more 832 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 2: people helping each other than you get. Yeah, some people 833 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,239 Speaker 2: get pissed off and annoyed of each other, and like 834 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 2: I got pissed off at everybody at a certain points, 835 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, shut up, you know, to multiple people. 836 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 2: You know. 837 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a mental even even. 838 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 2: Jojo, who I love the most, probably like since leaving 839 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 2: the show, she'd pissed me off sometimes because she'd be 840 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 2: on my ass about my outfit, about about wearing the 841 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,239 Speaker 2: right shit, you know, and I'm like, Jojo, I just 842 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 2: want to sit in my bed and do nothing. Leave me. 843 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 2: But but then like I'll get called out and I'd 844 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 2: be late because I'd be getting dressed. I'm like, damn it. 845 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 2: Jojo is right. 846 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 1: That's when men get the most pissed off is when 847 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 1: they're told to do something and then the woman's right. 848 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 5: And generally that happens a lot. 849 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,720 Speaker 3: So you bonded with Jojo the most? 850 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I say Jojo Aaron Jackson, I bonded with a ton. 851 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 2: She was like the bunk next to me, Nick Vail 852 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 2: and I got close Nick Vye, Tody Miller, like, those 853 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 2: were probably people talk to the most. 854 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 3: What were your thoughts on Tom Sanderval? Did you talk 855 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 3: to him at all? 856 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean he was the bunk to my to 857 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 2: my right. 858 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,120 Speaker 3: So what did you gather from him? 859 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 1: An outsider who doesn't know much, keeps out of the drama. 860 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:43,320 Speaker 3: What are your thoughts? 861 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,720 Speaker 2: I think Tom lives in Tom's world? 862 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 3: Okay? 863 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 2: He I mean like, so Tom, first day, I'm like, 864 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 2: and I know, scanned upon. Now I'm like some kind 865 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 2: of keep my honest guy. I'm like, what is this 866 00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 2: guy going to do? You know? First day, somehow his 867 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 2: clothes on my clothes get mixed up. So I'm wearing 868 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,600 Speaker 2: like size smalls on everything, and I might did I 869 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 2: might trapped in my clothes. You know, I couldn't barely 870 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 2: like move my legs and anything, and he's wearing my 871 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 2: stuff and he's like flapping his arms in the wind. 872 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, no, it wasn't that bad. But so 873 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 2: so he's like, yo, I think you have my clothes. 874 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 2: Let's switch. I was like, thank god, because you know, 875 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 2: so we go in the back and we're switching, and 876 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 2: we're switching like in like a warm area. All of 877 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 2: a sudden staff comes in. What the hell you doing? 878 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 2: Is this some country club yaller and blah blah blah. 879 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,720 Speaker 2: And I'm like, man, this dude already got me in trouble. 880 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 2: You know, he is just as bad as they say. 881 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,320 Speaker 2: And then like he got in trouble later because like 882 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 2: he didn't listen about like the pouring the water with 883 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 2: Jojo and all that, and they're doing uptowns. I'm like, damn, 884 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 2: he just gets in trouble everywhere he goes. You know. 885 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 1: Wow, it's so interesting to hear your perspective on it, 886 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 1: because from his point of view, he was killing the game. 887 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 2: But no, but no, but let me go, okay, keep going, 888 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,440 Speaker 2: keep going. But then like you get to see Tom 889 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 2: around you know all of us. Tom was always helpful, 890 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:06,799 Speaker 2: was always helping people out like he cared and he 891 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,759 Speaker 2: can tell he gave his full efforts, like he was 892 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 2: a beast. I'm not gonna lie like he beasted these challenges, 893 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 2: like he was very impressive when it came to all 894 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 2: the missions, everything we did. 895 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 3: I'm shocked. Yeah, I'm actually not. 896 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 5: Wow. 897 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:26,319 Speaker 1: He's never been my most favorite person, right, and just 898 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,799 Speaker 1: in my own journey of healing, I've had to let 899 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 1: a lot go, not only because it wasn't serving me, 900 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 1: but just I'm not going to get in, like I'll. 901 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:37,479 Speaker 3: Talk myself into a hole. 902 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 1: But with him, he's always given a lot too, whether 903 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 1: it's putting a costume together or if he's competing in 904 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 1: something like small I remember we played dodgeball for one 905 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 1: of our seasons and he freaking killed that, Like he 906 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 1: just knows how when you take. 907 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 3: Someone who went through what he went through. 908 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: Granted he put it on himself, right, but the world 909 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,919 Speaker 1: turned against him. It was like public enemy number one, 910 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: you mentally have to get right. He would go out 911 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 1: and still play shows knowing that people were gonna boo him, 912 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: hit on him, and still give a performance even if 913 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 1: it sounded like nails on a chalkboard. He fucking came 914 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 1: in and did his thing. So that does not shock 915 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 1: me that he showed up and killed everything he did. 916 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow. I think everyone needs to have their own 917 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,959 Speaker 2: belief in themselves, like Tom does, you know, like Tom 918 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 2: full blown just goes is in Tom's world and just 919 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 2: goes for it, you know. Yeah, And it's like a 920 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 2: good thing and a bad thing, you know, because sometimes 921 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 2: you don't have awareness for others, you know, and that 922 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 2: could hurt you in team atmospheres or whatnot. But I'll 923 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 2: give it to Tom. He laid it all online and 924 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,560 Speaker 2: I can respect. Like what I love about the show 925 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,360 Speaker 2: is this show peels back all the layers and you 926 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 2: get to see the real, raw version of that person. 927 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 2: We get to see even more because we're living next 928 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 2: to it every day, but you all get to get 929 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 2: a taste of it. And so I think everyone who 930 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 2: goes on the show leads to show a better person 931 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 2: and they can reflect because you do a lot of reflection, 932 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,160 Speaker 2: You do a lot of talking about what you've gone 933 00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,360 Speaker 2: through in your past, and there's a lot of growth 934 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,440 Speaker 2: when you leave. So I think, you know, I said, 935 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,399 Speaker 2: did everyone a chance on this show? No? 936 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: I Like, I told you, I love it, and I 937 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: loved I'm going to go back to last season because 938 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:19,879 Speaker 1: that's the one that we've completed, and I don't want 939 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,320 Speaker 1: to spoil anything. I don't want to get phone calls 940 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 1: from who was it Fox telling me that I had 941 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 1: unfucked up Bramo's enough for me. I got enough on 942 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: my plate. 943 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:29,440 Speaker 2: But when. 944 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:34,240 Speaker 1: Jamie Lynn spears, they had to do a water challenge 945 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 1: and then they called her into the room where she 946 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 1: talked to the coaches, and she broke down because she. 947 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:42,479 Speaker 3: Has a fear of water. 948 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: It takes her back to when her daughter was drowning 949 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 1: and she had to save her and it was like 950 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:49,800 Speaker 1: gut wrenching. 951 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 3: So I know how it works. 952 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 1: Obviously we don't get to see everything, but I can 953 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 1: only imagine how much you guys have to break down 954 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 1: to your very core to get through this. 955 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 2: And I mean that, and then you have to rely 956 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,959 Speaker 2: on each other. So like, no matter how bad y'all 957 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,840 Speaker 2: may think Tom is in that world out here in 958 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 2: this world, I had to rely on him and he 959 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:17,360 Speaker 2: had to show up, you know, or else we're pissed 960 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 2: at him. The staff's pissed at him, you know. So 961 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,359 Speaker 2: you leave with a different respect for each other because 962 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 2: you went through some shit together. 963 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, and they don't even let you, or at least 964 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 6: it seems from what I've seen, it's not like like 965 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:29,279 Speaker 6: I think. 966 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 5: Tara or Tara did she say? 967 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 6: Tara Reid was the leader of the line in the 968 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 6: second episode challenge, and it's not like they let the 969 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 6: team members pass her. So she's struggling with her bag 970 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 6: and she's up in front and they're in a line, 971 00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,920 Speaker 6: and if she's going slow, everyone has to go slower 972 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 6: behind her. So that's when Tyler, you have to stay 973 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 6: with the person who's the slowest. 974 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 2: Well, all of you great. It was like, I mean, 975 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 2: because like you know, you got Tara, you know, leading 976 00:39:58,560 --> 00:39:59,839 Speaker 2: the way, so I was like, I can go at 977 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:02,840 Speaker 2: this forever, you know. And then so like it was always, 978 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,720 Speaker 2: but once those people started gett eliminated, it gets tougher 979 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 2: and tougher and tougher. 980 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,799 Speaker 6: Sure, that's I also want to ask, because I just 981 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 6: looked in my phone. So there's a shot in either 982 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 6: first or second episode of a rat. 983 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:17,800 Speaker 5: A rat. 984 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 1: A rat doesn't walking to New York City because she's 985 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 1: afraid of We had this one. 986 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 2: Rat that we kept trying to catch. 987 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 5: That is fucking disgusting. Can I take back everything. 988 00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 6: It was a goal to be It was a goal 989 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,680 Speaker 6: to be on Special Forces of mine. One day, that's 990 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 6: not a goal anymore because there was a rat crawling 991 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 6: on a boot and they shot it. By the way 992 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:40,839 Speaker 6: they had it, it was a shot and. 993 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no one's shooting anything. They got 994 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 3: a shot. 995 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 6: They got a shot of it, and I freaked out immediately. 996 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 5: So I need to know is was there just one rat? 997 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,439 Speaker 2: So there was one rat that kept coming in and out, 998 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 2: and how do you know one? Well, we think is 999 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,239 Speaker 2: just one. But we tried to make a weak. We 1000 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 2: didn't have much eyes, so we like took tape and 1001 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 2: put it like you know tape, not tape, but like 1002 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 2: band aids and put like the sticky side up. So 1003 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,239 Speaker 2: we're hoping we'll like step on it and catch it, 1004 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:08,440 Speaker 2: you know. 1005 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 3: And what would you do with it once you caught it? 1006 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:12,840 Speaker 2: We would probably cooked it or something. 1007 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:17,480 Speaker 5: No, that's horrible. 1008 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 2: I would have made Jack Osborne and like Body Miller 1009 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:21,799 Speaker 2: the dads of the group handler, because that'd be where 1010 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 2: you are. 1011 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,360 Speaker 3: No, we can just let him chill. 1012 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 5: No, do you know. 1013 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:29,359 Speaker 2: You're chill crawls on you like Body One time woke 1014 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 2: up because you thought he felt it, you know, like 1015 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 2: we all were paranoid because of it. 1016 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 5: No, i'd be out. 1017 00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 6: Don't put me underwater for five minutes, make me crawl 1018 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,359 Speaker 6: on the thing. But you I see a rat, I'm out, 1019 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 6: I'm going home, goodbye. 1020 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,319 Speaker 5: That was wild. That was the wildest part of the 1021 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:45,799 Speaker 5: entire show that I've seen so far. 1022 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 3: That's crazy, and that's the wildest part. 1023 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 6: Just it was two seconds of a rat crawling and 1024 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 6: I said, I'm done, I'm out, I'm going home, Send 1025 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 6: me home. 1026 00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,839 Speaker 3: It was horrific. No, it was bad. 1027 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:04,760 Speaker 6: Chose I yes, no, anyway, But I'm at some point 1028 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 6: I would like to talk about SNL with you. 1029 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,319 Speaker 3: Oh well, we were getting to that. That's in my notes. 1030 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,320 Speaker 1: Let's let's let's leave it on the rat note and venturing. 1031 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 1: You were the only person that's done SNL from Bachelor 1032 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 1: Nation with Kim Kardashian. Did you lose your goddamn mind? 1033 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: You seem so chill, like, what were you even like 1034 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:25,880 Speaker 1: doing it? 1035 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,479 Speaker 2: It was cool, It was cool. 1036 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,400 Speaker 5: It was so relaxed. 1037 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 2: What what did Kelsey? Did you see Travis Kelsey's mom 1038 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 2: get in trouble the other day? She said something about 1039 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 2: how I was hanging out with Taylor stuff. It was okay, 1040 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:40,839 Speaker 2: you know what a. 1041 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 3: Bad ass she's going in drags Kardashians. 1042 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 2: It was okay, No, I no, it was great. So 1043 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,520 Speaker 2: I was literally at a wedding the like the pre 1044 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,400 Speaker 2: wedding party Friday in South Carolina, got the call and 1045 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, this has got to be bullshit, you know. 1046 00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 2: So I sent it to my managers at the time, 1047 00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 2: and now that's the real deal, like do you you 1048 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 2: should do it? I'm like, damn, I'm about to miss 1049 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:03,880 Speaker 2: my boy's wedding. 1050 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,240 Speaker 3: You know who cares get married again? 1051 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Like and like I'm like consulting like my 1052 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,799 Speaker 2: like really country friend and his wife, you know, like 1053 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 2: asking them for like you know, what I should do. 1054 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,360 Speaker 3: And she's like, she was like, you gotta do with 1055 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 3: kem Garden. 1056 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 2: No. No, she was like She's like, Tyler, this is 1057 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 2: their biggest night of their life, this is their wedding. 1058 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,399 Speaker 2: You can't miss this. This is gonna be like their 1059 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 2: biggest moment, Like you need to be here. And so 1060 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:30,719 Speaker 2: I was like, damn, I feel bad. 1061 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 1: I say, sixty seven percent of people get divorced, so 1062 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:34,960 Speaker 1: like we'll be here again I should have. 1063 00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 2: I should have and I was and I was like, 1064 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 2: you're gonna trap get at it and so and so 1065 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 2: I went to my boy who's getting married. I was like, hey, man, 1066 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 2: like I got invited to go do sn L, like 1067 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,320 Speaker 2: I would have to miss your wedding, Like what's your thoughts? 1068 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,560 Speaker 2: He's like, dude, go yeah you know. So I was like, 1069 00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 2: all right, cool, I'm out. 1070 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,279 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah. I always ask the dude. Never asked the woman. 1071 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 2: No, no, which I don't think the wife would have 1072 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 2: cared either. She was she was cool, just my friend's wife. 1073 00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,919 Speaker 2: She's just so country. They're going to work. 1074 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,800 Speaker 6: So you found out right before like Friday. Wait, Friday, 1075 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:05,799 Speaker 6: Friday before Saturday Night Live. 1076 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:07,239 Speaker 3: That's how the week works. 1077 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,000 Speaker 5: Wait, how did you? I thought it was like a 1078 00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 5: week of rehearsal. You had what one rehearsal I had? 1079 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like we all have like very minimal lines. 1080 00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1081 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,280 Speaker 2: What was so cool? So we're in this like backstage 1082 00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 2: room and it's all the cast members and like we're 1083 00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 2: all playing poker with sugar packets. You know. I'm sitting 1084 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,040 Speaker 2: there like playing with Amy Schumer, Chris Rock all these people. 1085 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 3: Who are they? 1086 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,839 Speaker 2: And uh, It's so funny because that these writers would 1087 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 2: come in and Chris Rock's like, no, no, no, I'm going 1088 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,320 Speaker 2: to say this, and Amy Schumer's like I'm going to 1089 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 2: say that, and I'm just like, I'll just take whatever 1090 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 2: you get. 1091 00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 4: Whatever you wrote for. 1092 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:41,440 Speaker 2: You know. 1093 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 5: Can you imagine if he was like, yeah, no, no, no, 1094 00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,880 Speaker 5: I'm going to say this. Did you meet Lauren Lauren Michael? 1095 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 2: Laura Michael's no, he just spoke to all of us, 1096 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:50,000 Speaker 2: So you. 1097 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,240 Speaker 5: Saw him, though, Yeah. 1098 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 3: Didn't you go to a taping of SNL? 1099 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:55,399 Speaker 5: I sure did. 1100 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,839 Speaker 6: Last it was the last I think it was the 1101 00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,280 Speaker 6: finale or whatever they call it. 1102 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:00,800 Speaker 5: It was great. 1103 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 3: I bailed on it. 1104 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,839 Speaker 5: Michael Chay is hot in person, so is Colin Joe. 1105 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,879 Speaker 3: Just what is the coolest thing you've done so far? 1106 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,000 Speaker 2: Oh, the coolest thing I've done? 1107 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 1: And don't make it be something like moved back to Jupiter, 1108 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 1: Florida and it's something that we could all. 1109 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 4: Be like laugh, how chill you are? What gets you growing? 1110 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like it's things that I'm like, damn, 1111 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,560 Speaker 2: Like even like this, like the Saturday Night Live was cool, 1112 00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 2: you know, I was like, damn, this is like the 1113 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,680 Speaker 2: magnitude of what it was. Kim Kardashian's episode, like sitting 1114 00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:40,120 Speaker 2: with Chris Rock and like, you know, my dad was like, 1115 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 2: just give me Chris Rock's autograph, you know what. I'm 1116 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 2: like you I'm like, yeah, I was like I was 1117 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 2: like I was like Chris, like my dad's a huge fan, 1118 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 2: and he's like and he wrote like two, Dad, be cool, Chris, 1119 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,319 Speaker 2: you know, and like on the script, you know, and 1120 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 2: I got a frame from my pops and everything like 1121 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,439 Speaker 2: like like almost like that are cool, and like there's 1122 00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,239 Speaker 2: like a few times like where I'm like, damn, I 1123 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,319 Speaker 2: was my mom cless and those like the moments like 1124 00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:03,840 Speaker 2: you know, even like Special Forces like this is like 1125 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,920 Speaker 2: there was times where I wanted to go home. But 1126 00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,359 Speaker 2: this is the coolest shit I've ever done. Like we're 1127 00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,759 Speaker 2: ripping through helicopters through a mountain like about to hit it. 1128 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 2: Then we go up and we go over. I'm over 1129 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 2: and I'm in the back yelling everyone else is cool shit. 1130 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 2: You know I'm over here like a you know, like 1131 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 2: there's just things throughout this whole experience that I've done. 1132 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,920 Speaker 2: It's been amazing. You know, Like I look at we 1133 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 2: used to do like New York City runs back on 1134 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 2: the day and there'd be like three hundred girls at 1135 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,360 Speaker 2: our runs like that just left. It would be like 1136 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:31,560 Speaker 2: six o'clock. They would be running in like their heels 1137 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 2: and their jeans and they're they're there, you know, and 1138 00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, we've run like two miles and like in 1139 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,960 Speaker 2: Central Park, and I'd be like it's I'm like, this 1140 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:42,240 Speaker 2: is crazy, you know, like like this experience has happened 1141 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,680 Speaker 2: and my life has changed. And there's been moments like 1142 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 2: that for sure where I'm just like, Wow. 1143 00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,760 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you take a beat in the moment 1144 00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:54,240 Speaker 1: to realize how cool your life is. Because I've noticed 1145 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 1: recently and I've been this way for a while where 1146 00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,839 Speaker 1: I treat my life like a to do lit where 1147 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,839 Speaker 1: I think about something and I'm like, let's just get 1148 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,759 Speaker 1: it checked off, and I have to actively tell myself 1149 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 1: in this moment. Like a couple of weeks ago, I 1150 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,839 Speaker 1: was on Capitol Hill and we were trying to get 1151 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 1: the Humane Cosmetics Act, you know, in front of Congress 1152 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:21,640 Speaker 1: for co sponsors, and I was so nervous because it's 1153 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: something I believe in tremendously, but I was like, I 1154 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,759 Speaker 1: just I want it to go well, and I just 1155 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,040 Speaker 1: want to get it done because I was so nervous, 1156 00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: and I did have to check myself and go like, 1157 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 1: this is amazing, Like try to look around you and 1158 00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 1: make a mental note of this, to never forget that 1159 00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,799 Speaker 1: you were here, because there's gonna be a day in 1160 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 1: an hour from now it's going to be over, and 1161 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna wish it's gonna be an impeccable day, and 1162 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:45,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna wish you would have sat. 1163 00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,320 Speaker 3: Back and said, this is amazing. 1164 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 2: No, that's true. 1165 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 1: So I'm thrilled that you're doing that, especially at your 1166 00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 1: you see much older actually than thirty, not much older, 1167 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 1: but you seem very mature in the way that you 1168 00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:57,600 Speaker 1: carry yourself. And I'm happy at the age of thirty 1169 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 1: that you can take a step back from your life 1170 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,480 Speaker 1: and realize how amazing it is. 1171 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I mean I've been blessed. I said, I 1172 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,400 Speaker 2: was like a kid who came from two hundred bucks 1173 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 2: and like a construction job dream, and you know, I 1174 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:11,880 Speaker 2: just like went on this just for an adventure and 1175 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,080 Speaker 2: fun and just and it's unfolded to so many things 1176 00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 2: and I think it's sped up what I was ever 1177 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 2: trying to do. You know, I'm back to doing what 1178 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 2: I was going to do anyways, you know, right. And 1179 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,960 Speaker 2: so to me, every time I get to go do 1180 00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,400 Speaker 2: it like a job in this industry or do something, 1181 00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 2: to me like it's like exciting, it's great. I'm grateful. 1182 00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,719 Speaker 2: To me, it's vacations to get out of what I 1183 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 2: do every day. And so it's it's an honor, Like 1184 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,400 Speaker 2: I love it because I've been able to do things 1185 00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,120 Speaker 2: where I've been able to put my friends on, my dad, 1186 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 2: on my people. Like, to me, that's like if you 1187 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,440 Speaker 2: don't if you can't share with the people you love, 1188 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 2: and what's the point. 1189 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:48,000 Speaker 1: What is the point? There is no point put the 1190 00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 1: family on payroll, live the dream? He no, my brother, Yeah, 1191 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 1: sometimes just don't work here. So we do a thing 1192 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,799 Speaker 1: on this show called the Ache and Relief of the Week. 1193 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 1: So whatever is like the high point and whatever? 1194 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,399 Speaker 3: It was kind of like the bummer. Do you want 1195 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 3: us to give you a minute to think about it? 1196 00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? So is it? I guess it's Monday, so I 1197 00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:17,240 Speaker 2: got to think about last week? Huh. Yeah, the ache 1198 00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:18,200 Speaker 2: in the relief of. 1199 00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,600 Speaker 1: The week, And it doesn't have to be intense. It 1200 00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 1: could be like someone cut you off on the freeway. 1201 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:26,279 Speaker 2: No, I think, you know, I put myself under a 1202 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:30,640 Speaker 2: lot of pressure with work, with with everything I'm doing. 1203 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 2: You know, I'm in restaurants, I'm in a lot of 1204 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:36,120 Speaker 2: these you know, construction and all these things, and I 1205 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 2: get so stressed out about you know, keeping keeping it going, 1206 00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 2: you know, keeping I have employees that I'm responsible for now, 1207 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,080 Speaker 2: you know, and I'm looking at some of the jobs 1208 00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,160 Speaker 2: right now like I'm getting my ass kicked, you know, 1209 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,440 Speaker 2: like I'm losing money on these jobs. I'm like, fuck, 1210 00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 2: you know. And like last week I looked at like 1211 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 2: the bank account for one of the jobs. I'm like, 1212 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,400 Speaker 2: this ship is not going good. And like that was 1213 00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 2: like a huge eight. I'm like, you know, I don't 1214 00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:01,520 Speaker 2: want a fire. I don't want to get rid of people. 1215 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 2: So it's like how do I keep it going? And 1216 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,200 Speaker 2: I think that's like the constant stress and like ache. 1217 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 2: It's like it's like a every week ache, you know. Yeah, 1218 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 2: And and like then like the relief to it was 1219 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:16,440 Speaker 2: is like, oh, I got this job came through, so 1220 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,759 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, well I can take from here 1221 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,640 Speaker 2: to cover up for this, you know what I mean. 1222 00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,880 Speaker 2: And a lot of these things that are hurting me 1223 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,799 Speaker 2: right now are going to be like the things that are 1224 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,120 Speaker 2: going to help me and propel me down the road. 1225 00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,320 Speaker 2: So I think it's like, uh, I don't know. I'm 1226 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 2: excited for what's coming, but it's taking a lot out 1227 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:33,399 Speaker 2: of me to get there. 1228 00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:37,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like that's the that's what makes things worth having, 1229 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 1: like so great, right. 1230 00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like this past year I put myself through like 1231 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:44,399 Speaker 2: like since twenty six going on the show, it's been fun. 1232 00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:47,600 Speaker 2: It's been appearances, getting paid this and and doing social 1233 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 2: media this and getting paid that and like doing all 1234 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,440 Speaker 2: these crazy fun things. But then this last year I 1235 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,919 Speaker 2: was like, I want to like I started a construction company. 1236 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to put myself to the test, did all 1237 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 2: these things, and I put myself to the test, and 1238 00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 2: I'm paying for it, you know her And it was brutal, 1239 00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:03,919 Speaker 2: But I know like a year from now, it's gonna 1240 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:04,600 Speaker 2: be a different story. 1241 00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 3: Of course. 1242 00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:06,960 Speaker 2: Well, you just have to keep plugging away at it. 1243 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,040 Speaker 1: You got a good attitude, Yeah, I dig it just 1244 00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,800 Speaker 1: because your ache the rat you saw on special. 1245 00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 5: For no, but that should be No. 1246 00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,719 Speaker 6: My relief is and I've been I'm so excited to 1247 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 6: share this so everyone knows about my gold jewelry adventure. 1248 00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:24,440 Speaker 5: Looked through all my dms. 1249 00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 6: Thank you guys so much for the recommendations found Darling gems. 1250 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 5: She sends me this, she sends me these. 1251 00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,920 Speaker 6: Oh dam sends me this, She sends Lala, she sends 1252 00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 6: me this, She sends. 1253 00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 5: Lalla eleven eleven. 1254 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,880 Speaker 6: The jewelry is phenomenal, all thirty dollars, most thirty dollars 1255 00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,440 Speaker 6: or less, and I just love it. And I want 1256 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,359 Speaker 6: to thank her because I was so kind. I never 1257 00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 6: expect by the way gifts. I was literally truly looking 1258 00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,480 Speaker 6: for recommendations. But Veronica, I love you. You're a freaking angel. 1259 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 5: And my ache is gonna be. 1260 00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:55,120 Speaker 2: A little. 1261 00:51:56,440 --> 00:52:02,320 Speaker 5: Darker, a lot darker. But my ache is freaking Israel 1262 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 5: under attack by true terrorists. It's horrifying. 1263 00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,319 Speaker 6: Not going to get emotional talking about it, but I mean, 1264 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 6: obviously it's something to get emotional about. It's horrifying, mother's 1265 00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:19,239 Speaker 6: children's families being held hostage. It's just these videos are 1266 00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 6: heart wrenching, and it's I believe it's happening, and it 1267 00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 6: is happening, and we can't ignore it, and we just 1268 00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:26,080 Speaker 6: have to amplify it. 1269 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 5: But that's Yeah, that's my ache. 1270 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,839 Speaker 3: Of the week. I share your age. 1271 00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,040 Speaker 1: If we get too deep into it, I will be 1272 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 1: sobbing on the floor. 1273 00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:36,800 Speaker 5: Same. 1274 00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:38,280 Speaker 3: That is my ache. 1275 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:44,759 Speaker 1: My relief, Oh, my relief is that I get to 1276 00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:46,680 Speaker 1: kind of have some alone time and if I want 1277 00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 1: to masturbate, I don't have to worry about my you know, Yes. 1278 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:53,400 Speaker 3: And my mom are headed to Utah. 1279 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 1: Bye, I'm about to have a hay Dame and myself and. 1280 00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,480 Speaker 5: I whoa, we're going on. 1281 00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:05,120 Speaker 3: We're gonna that is my I'll miss you guys, But 1282 00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:13,680 Speaker 3: what is your please don't got here. 1283 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm excited to be two states away while you're 1284 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:21,040 Speaker 7: your ass. I'm excited to go to Utah. And uh, 1285 00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,640 Speaker 7: that's my relief and ache all in one. 1286 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:28,400 Speaker 1: Oh, we're all the same. I dig that TC. It 1287 00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,120 Speaker 1: was the best time ever having you on the pod. 1288 00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:34,560 Speaker 1: You're looking gorgeous. We hope you and Britain pro create 1289 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 1: and she moves to Jupiter. 1290 00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 2: You gotta get her signed up for Jupiter. 1291 00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 3: I guess we gotta get her signed up for Jupiter. Hey, 1292 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,640 Speaker 3: you sold all of us, so I think that I'll. 1293 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,320 Speaker 7: Even put a good word in, and that's saying something 1294 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,400 Speaker 7: are we going to be fighting, but down to you. 1295 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:52,319 Speaker 3: Oh he's a guys. Guy you guys. 1296 00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 1: I want to thank you so much for listening to 1297 00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 1: another episode of the Give Them podcast Tyler. 1298 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 3: Where can we catch Special Forces. 1299 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 2: Fox Monday nights at nine or next day on the 1300 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 2: Love It. 1301 00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:06,840 Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much. I love you. Drink responsively 1302 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,920 Speaker 3: on this hump day. We'll catch you next week.