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Speaker 1: It's now time for Cannabis Talk one oh one with

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Speaker 1: Blue Joe Grande and Mark and Craig Wasserman the Pot

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Speaker 1: Brothers at Law. We're the world's number one podcast for

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Speaker 1: everything cannabis. Hey, what's up. It's Cannabis Talk one on

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Speaker 1: one with Blue Joe Grande and Mark and Craig Washerman,

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Speaker 1: the Pop Brothers at Law. I hope you guys are

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Speaker 1: having a great time wherever you're at, and thank you

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Speaker 1: all for listening to the podcast on this special edition.

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Speaker 1: You guys, we just wanted to play a podcast that

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Speaker 1: Mark and I recorded about how I Joe Grande met

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Speaker 1: my wife Chanel. I mean, it has nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with cannabis, just like you heard the one with Mark

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Speaker 1: met Janet. Well, this is how Joe met Chanel. It's

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Speaker 1: Cannabis Talk one on one. Hope you enjoy getting to

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Speaker 1: know us a little better. This is from the Grande

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Speaker 1: wass preview. It's the Grande Dame Wash Show. Welcome back.

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Speaker 1: We are glad to be here in beautiful Warren County.

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Speaker 1: Rancho Santa Margarita, Joe, how you just give up my

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Speaker 1: full address? One find the only Mexican that has a

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Speaker 1: big house out there and you'll go and come to

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Speaker 1: a studio. All you gotta do is grab the lawnmower

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Speaker 1: pickup truck, and that's the house where he lives in Joe,

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Speaker 1: It's it's beautiful. Your house is beautiful, your kids are beautiful,

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Speaker 1: and you have a you have a beautiful wife. I'm

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Speaker 1: wondering why, how, what? What? What did she not know? What?

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Speaker 1: Who did you know? What she did? Where? She come

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Speaker 1: from Idaho? You know, Kansas actually someone where she did

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Speaker 1: never hurt of you? I mean, did you meet your spouse.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny because everything you're saying is so true

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Speaker 1: about that. She is not from Idaho, but she's from Kansas,

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Speaker 1: and she has never heard of me when she came

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Speaker 1: out here, and probably people listening going, I've never heard

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Speaker 1: of you either, your fat bastard. Who are you? You're You're, you're,

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Speaker 1: you're You're I'm finding out more and more. Pretty famous

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Speaker 1: in your own right. Big Joe grind name from Big

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Speaker 1: Boy's neighborhood, Ryan's Secret Right shows even in San Francisco.

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Speaker 1: The show called The Doghouse who was the highest rated

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Speaker 1: Howard Sterns asked out there as well. So I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, history of radio and more shows. No proudness

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Speaker 1: actually because Howard Sterns demand So I say that with proudness,

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Speaker 1: not I say it with amish like going to Howard. Wow,

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Speaker 1: especially now with this new book and everything out coming

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Speaker 1: about I mean to retire. We got to get on

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Speaker 1: just not even caring anymore. But it's funny. Market. You

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Speaker 1: asked how I did meet my wife? Tell me Chanelle

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Speaker 1: and I um met. She was in her third year

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Speaker 1: Were you what were you washing dishes over there? No? No,

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Speaker 1: good bond, right, learning about each other to ours. The

422
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 1: longest I've ever had to wait to hook up with somebody,

423
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 1: I know how that is exactly. Somebody got a ring

424
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 1: before you got some tail crazy. I can't want to

425
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 1: leave Janet did that. I can't wait and be like

426
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:37,400
Speaker 1: you got that story is unbelievable, Janet. Anyways, so mine

427
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,280
Speaker 1: wasn't like that. But you know, I'm a little smoother

428
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:45,200
Speaker 1: than us because I have to shave exactly. She comes

429
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 1: back home, we hang out, we end up eventually hooking up,

430
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: and then we're going out, we're dating, and then again

431
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 1: the next semester break, she's getting ready to go to

432
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 1: another clinical in Arizona. And as she goes into this

433
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 1: clinical in Arizona, she decides to hey, do you think

434
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 1: I can move all my stuff from my apartment in

435
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,920
Speaker 1: Pasadena to your home in Santa Clarita. You have this nice,

436
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 1: big home. Why not? I couldn't say no, could you?

437
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,920
Speaker 1: Of course not? Damn I didn't. I didn't. I was

438
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,199
Speaker 1: gonna go like this, right, how about a drawer? Why not? Right?

439
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 1: And by the way when I'm gone, You think my

440
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 1: sister can come and save down here from Kansas. She's

441
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: gonna come out here and wait for me to get here.

442
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 1: There's gonna be a couple of weeks and maybe you

443
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 1: can find her a job. You know what, a nice

444
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,920
Speaker 1: tall blonde. Let me find some nice legs. Right. So

445
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 1: I was a member at t p C. Valencia, at

446
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 1: the country club. I got her job as the cart girl. Right.

447
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 1: My buddy was one of the head pros, and so

448
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 1: he gives her a car, and everybody loved her because

449
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: she was nicknamed Legs. She brought Hey, where's legs? And

450
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 1: Legs come out and bring some beers. No hashtag me too?

451
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 1: Back then, Oh yeah, that's funny. It wasn't. So time

452
00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 1: goes by and I said the headpro was a good

453
00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,199
Speaker 1: friend of my. Head pro was one of my buddies.

454
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: We him and another buddy of mine, we all go

455
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 1: on a trip to the Dominican. And as we're planning

456
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 1: this trip to the Dominican, I go, you know what,

457
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna propose to her. So I'm gonna

458
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 1: I'm setting my mind up. Oh before I proposed her,

459
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 1: I've always told you. Now, I'm not going to ask

460
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 1: you for your hand in marriage until I talk to

461
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 1: your parents. I need to ask your dad. It's just

462
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 1: mandatory in my book, right, Yes, it is. I mean,

463
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:23,919
Speaker 1: you got to teach the kids to ask for the

464
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,919
Speaker 1: hand in marriage. It's just what you gotta do. So

465
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:28,920
Speaker 1: I tell her, I'm gonna go on a trip. I'm

466
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,879
Speaker 1: going to go golfing in Palm Springs, and I'm not

467
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 1: gonna be around my phone, so don't call me. If

468
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 1: you call, it's gonna go to voicemailks, I'm out a

469
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 1: country clip. Sorry, my story is boring you, But look

470
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 1: how I felt earlier when you told me yours. Actually

471
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 1: yours had a lot of definity. It was killing me

472
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 1: the story. For God's sakes, you're ruining homes and stuff.

473
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: You're a home wreckerd. Of course your story was more

474
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: intense than mine. But this is where it kind of

475
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 1: gets cool. I tell her I'm gonna go golfing, I

476
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 1: fly to Kansas. I asked her dog for her hand

477
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 1: in marriage, which to be silly, I asked the mom.

478
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 1: And I say this because that filmed at all. And

479
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 1: you can go to my YouTube page and see the

480
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 1: whole proposal, right, So I sit there with the dad.

481
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: The funniest part is when the dad walks in from

482
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: playing cards at night. He goes, Joe, what are you

483
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 1: doing here? Like, hey, you know, saw shocked, And I go,

484
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm here to do the honorable thing and ask you

485
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: for your daughter's hand in marriage. First thing out of

486
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: his mouth was, well, what's the difference between this and

487
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: your other three marriages? I go, well, boom, First off, Kenny,

488
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't three, it was one, and yeah, exactly, and

489
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: she took enough from me for three. But yeah, and

490
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,120
Speaker 1: the other illegitimate child was just a two week relationship.

491
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 1: And I don't know where the other marriage you're thinking is,

492
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 1: but let me explain everything. And I's set there and

493
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: talked with them for like three four straight hours, if

494
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: not five, of just explaining I was a drug addict,

495
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: a drunk and alcoholic, just this and that, a thief,

496
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: a lie, womanizer. You could ask this and find this

497
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: out about everybody you don't want your daughter to be

498
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,479
Speaker 1: with that, that's what would you was me and I

499
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: And I said, so you may hear these stories. I

500
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: doubt you will because you're not gonna ever probably run

501
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: into these people, but you probably could have you searched

502
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: hard enough, right, But I'm not that person because I've

503
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 1: been sober aunt. Yeah, exactly. You might find a girl

504
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 1: blowing a candle out of my ass in one picture

505
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: here and there, but she was famous, so it's okay.

506
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: Are a picture of a midget doing something to me? Whatever?

507
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,360
Speaker 1: There's there's things out there online and everything else that

508
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 1: you know you can if you search hard enough, you'll

509
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: find things about me that you know. I'll tell you

510
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: if you ask. I'm not embarrassed about it. It's part

511
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 1: of my history and I was did a lot of

512
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 1: things in the name of entertainment, and a lot of

513
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,959
Speaker 1: things are to be crazy. So he sat there and

514
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: he loved it because I didn't hide anything, and I said,

515
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: that's not who I am now, and you know, moving forward,

516
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: this is the type of guy I want to be

517
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 1: with your daughter. And from values to believes, and we

518
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: have conflicting beliefs. He's from Kansas but America. You know,

519
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: we're on the different sides of the polls, which is cool.

520
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: They really don't, Oh they really didn't. I mean, I

521
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: can tell you the story about that one when he

522
00:24:56,119 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: first met me. One of those Yeah, because I'm sure

523
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: we both have the Filipinos and yeah, and I'm sure

524
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 1: the Filipinos didn't like to choose that I was the

525
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: Jewish attorney. So I beginning, Yeah, it was your mom

526
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: and dad going who is she? Did you meet her

527
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 1: at a massage? Oh? My god? So we we end

528
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: up talking about he ends up loving me to the

529
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: point where me and him are the best of friends.

530
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: And uh, we talked like no other where Chanelle is going, Dude,

531
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,400
Speaker 1: I don't hear my dad ever talked to anybody like that. Yeah,

532
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: because I treat him like with respect and a dude

533
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,439
Speaker 1: like a man, Like hey, dude, it's like me and

534
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: you like get a buddy talking to your dad I respectfully,

535
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: but you want to treat you like my buddy or

536
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: like hey father danking Like now, man, I'm gonna treat

537
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: I'm grown ass man and my dad's dead. I don't

538
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: need to sit here and I want to kiss my

539
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: dad's ass like that, like there's no reason to. I'm

540
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: gonna be who I am respectfully and have fun with you.

541
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 1: And if you don't like it, but then here's there's

542
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: the door man. You don't need to be I don't

543
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: need to do anything that's not me with you. So

544
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,440
Speaker 1: it's funny when she now hears her dad cuss because

545
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: he only cusses when he talks to me, which is weird.

546
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: You bring that out, and I do, which is awesome.

547
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 1: I love it. So I get the approval. Mom sitting

548
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: there phoning asleep with her head on the floor, and

549
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 1: all this other good stuff, and I fly back home.

550
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: We go back to the Dominican Republic. Not back. I

551
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: go to the Dominican Republic in a couple of weeks.

552
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: My buddies are they're they're joking with me, like, oh,

553
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a big trip on jan bottom line.

554
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 1: I get to the hotel. I've already had prearranged flowers

555
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 1: set up there with a note that said, you know,

556
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 1: looking forward to this trip, Chanelle. I'm so excited. I

557
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: love you so much. There's only one thing missing. And

558
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 1: she reads that and she goes, what's the one thing missing?

559
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: And as she turns around, I'm already down on my

560
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 1: knee and I go for me to introduce you as

561
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: my fiance for the rest of the trip and where

562
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: you marry me? And she just, oh, did you ask

563
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 1: my dad yes. Mark. The first thing ever mouth was, oh,

564
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 1: did you ask my dad? And I was like, oh,

565
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 1: my god, did I sit down and watched this video?

566
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,360
Speaker 1: So I showed the video of me flying to Kansas

567
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: and asking her dad for a hand in marriage, and

568
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: she cried and I go, well, can I get an

569
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: answer now? Yes, that's beautiful. So it was great. And

570
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: then we walk out and all the guys were like,

571
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: did you do it? And the girls. So the rest

572
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 1: of the trip was, you know, our engagement trip and

573
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: until this day too, was one of the best vacations

574
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: we've ever had. Plus it was before we had the

575
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: two little ones with when it was a real good trip. Yes,

576
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 1: before the kids ruined everything. You didn't get a chance

577
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 1: to get any real good trips in with your wife. No,

578
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: never had that, No, no, no, no, you gotta wait

579
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 1: to We talked about, we talked so much about we're

580
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,919
Speaker 1: gonna be, We're gonna be, We're gonna two years of

581
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: our marriage. We're gonna go here, We're gonna go there.

582
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: I mean, my wife she had a job back then

583
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: and she was you know, she was pulling in you know,

584
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,119
Speaker 1: six figures, and we were you guys need money, We

585
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 1: were blah blah blah blah, and then the kid comes

586
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 1: and the second one comes and she stops working. You know,

587
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: I said, hey, if you don't want to work, you

588
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: don't have to work. But to yeah, those kids, man,

589
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,199
Speaker 1: they really uh well that's another show, you know. But

590
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: who would have thought that you and me are both

591
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: couple of sappy, hopeless romantics. Isn't that great? That's what

592
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there looking at you. When you do things

593
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 1: like that, that's what matters, because you know, honestly, Mark,

594
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: when I hear about guys, who are the stories of well, yeah,

595
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: he just asked me. He didn't ask for my parents

596
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: or like at least you know, Janet's dad wasn't in

597
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: the picture when you asked the mom. And that's the point.

598
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: It's funny how that tradition is not strong anymore. I

599
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: think it should be. You know, I have very um

600
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: my wife even says that old fashioned values when it

601
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: comes to relationship, and man, woman almost almost kid. You

602
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: don't let her out of the house. Can you make

603
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: sure you're dinners are always ready? Well, listen tonight, she's

604
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: actually going out with her sister, her aunts, big girls. No,

605
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: she doesn't cook oh, then your tradition. She she her

606
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: sister doesn't does all for you guys the family. Sometimes

607
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: she'll she'll actually take the kids go over to her

608
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: sister's house so so they can eat. I'm actually off

609
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: the Filipino food because I'm on a diet. Now. You

610
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: can't eat that stuff. You know, you can't eat that stuff.

611
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: Um too much starts, but it's good, starts grease, it

612
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: is all that. All that is is very good. But

613
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 1: they're having those traditions and those old school ways. Me too.

614
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: And the funny thing is is I'm the cook in

615
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: the family, so it's not like I'm Mr. Hardcore old

616
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: school traditional dude where my hunt. My wife actually made

617
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: last night the first time made dinner, but I had

618
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: I had everything out, but my son stayed last night. No,

619
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: she do some salmon in the oven and had some asparagus,

620
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: so like we had salmon and asparagus for dinner. But

621
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: she made it, and I swear to guard the last time.

622
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: I can't tell you what the last mill she made

623
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: before that was, but I mean it was already right there,

624
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: ready to do well. And that's the same. Same with

625
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: my wife. Every once in a while and when when

626
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: they're going out tonight. She tells me last night, she goes,

627
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be wearing something that's gonna show some cleavage.

628
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: She says that to your head of time. Yeah, and

629
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 1: I think you well, and usually I'm going with And

630
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: I said, well, no you're not. Oh I'm not gonna

631
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Speaker 1: be there. I'll go with. But you know, you know

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Speaker 1: you cover up when I'm not around. No, you did not,

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Speaker 1: did you really did? And she's she's gonna change that.

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Speaker 1: We'll see, probably not, she'll probably be Yeah, higher skirts.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I bought them. Yeah, I thought it funny,

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Speaker 1: as I thought. She did one at the Christmas part.

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Speaker 1: I'm going cheez, three kids in your boobs look like that,

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Speaker 1: that must be a great bra. Well, so, so before

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Speaker 1: we were married, before we met she she had gotten

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Speaker 1: a boob job herself. She herself and then somewhere after

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Speaker 1: the first kid, before the second. Uh, we we woke

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Speaker 1: up one morning and one of them was deflated. It

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Speaker 1: was that, and so okay, let's go get that fixed.

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Speaker 1: And I said, well, now I'm paying for it double d. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I see my wife. He's gotta get some su She's

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Speaker 1: down for it too. She's like oh yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: I told her already. Let's just go get him now,

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Speaker 1: why not do it? We have a good guy the

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Speaker 1: name by Mr. Song. He's already said he doing for

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Speaker 1: It's always funny when your buddy's a doctor who doesn't

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Speaker 1: he's gonna put his hands all over your wife's breast.

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Speaker 1: He has so many I don't care. I'm like, babe,

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Speaker 1: show him now, now, get him out of your pocket

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Speaker 1: and sho oh, I love it. It's so good that

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Speaker 1: we're romantics like that. The Loss and Grand Show. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for listening and we appreciate you. Guys, have a

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