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Speaker 1: don't want to seem over eager. Now I hate that rule. Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know exactly what your goal is here. But

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Speaker 1: Why wait two months? Well? Okay, so I think I'm

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Speaker 1: I went out with this girl, Kathy two months ago,

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Speaker 1: tuning in for today's second date update, we have Goldilocks

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Speaker 1: He's been in the dating world and most of his

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. A radio show, yeah yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I meant like, thank you for helping me figure out

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he'd be shocked to know that that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just I can't believe this. You're telling

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Speaker 1: There's a big thing wrong. Well there's a thing wrong

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Speaker 1: I texted you that, you know, just thanking you for

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Speaker 1: I mean, you didn't text me back, so I figured, oh, great,

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Speaker 1: that was still kind of a lie. Then, right, you

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Speaker 1: you actually but her about this? Yeah? Of course I am, Like,

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Speaker 1: So Jason, you're saying that you are just God's gift

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Speaker 1: just think it's it's a pretty good story, you know

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Speaker 1: because we had been having this conversation about you know,

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Speaker 1: such an epiphany on our date that yeah, I texted

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Speaker 1: he could have been my wingman for the waitress. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I did introduce you some of my friends, like, I'm

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Speaker 1: open to that. Well, Kathy, what would you say to

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Speaker 1: I would say, if he wants a wingman to help

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Speaker 1: Jason deserves you might have got a second date. I

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Speaker 1: big realization on my next date. Broken up in the morning,