1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Well, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVEYFM dot 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: com and just click submit Strawberry Letter and we could 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 6 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:21,240 Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now. 7 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 2: Okay, buggle up and hold on tight. We got it 8 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject. I don't think we're really cousins. 10 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. In high school, I liked a girl 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: and she liked me. We talked on the phone and 12 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: hung out together all the time, and her mom and 13 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: my mom were close too, so she always was at 14 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: my house or I was at hers. By the time 15 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: we graduated from high school, we were even closer, and 16 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: I told her that I wanted her to be more 17 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: than my friend. She's always been really close to her 18 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: mom and tells her everything, so she told her mom 19 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: that she and I were dating. Her mom told her 20 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 1: that I was her cousin. When she told me we 21 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: were related, I felt strange because we had kissed a 22 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:09,639 Speaker 1: few times, we never questioned it. Though we stopped dating 23 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: and remained very close cousins, we still did everything together 24 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: and told each other everything, and by the time we 25 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: were in our mid twenties, we had both had a 26 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: bunch of bad relationships and always ended up back together. 27 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: I realized that I loved my quote unquote cousin and 28 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 1: she's a perfect woman for me. So I finally asked 29 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: my mom if we were really related. My mom said, 30 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: we're related somewhere down the line, but there is no 31 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: way for us to find out now because all of 32 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: the older relatives are deceased. I told my mom that 33 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: I'm in love with her and I want to be 34 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: with her. My mom told me to follow my heart. 35 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: I couldn't wait to tell my cousin how I really felt, 36 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: and I was relieved when she told me she's been 37 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: in love with me forever. Since then, we've made love 38 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: a few times, and I asked her to marry me. 39 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: She wants to do a search of our family tree first. 40 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: I don't think we're cousins and this is only postponing 41 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: our happiness. Should we search for answers or not? Well, 42 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: I'm with you on this one. I don't know. I 43 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: just don't believe your guys are cousins. I don't believe. 44 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: I think maybe you know, her mom told her that 45 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: because she didn't want you guys dating for whatever reason. 46 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: And you know, I don't want you guys, not because 47 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: I don't want it to be true or anything. I 48 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: just don't believe your mom. Both of them are telling 49 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: the truth. Even your mom said you were related somewhere 50 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: down the line, she didn't even know, and she said 51 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: there's no one in your family to validate it. But 52 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: I mean, there are ways you can search to find out. 53 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: It's just, I don't know, suspicious the way they handled 54 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 1: everything and the way they told you, And for that 55 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: very reason, Yes, I think you should find out if 56 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: you're related. I think you should do the search. I mean, 57 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: knowledgeous power. The truth will set you're free. What if 58 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: you want to have children down the line, you know 59 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: this is something you should know, whether or not you're related. 60 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: There's a lot to consider. You need a fact so 61 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: you can make an informed, a clear headed, right decision, 62 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: and nothing just based on your emotions. Like your mom 63 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: told you, just to follow your heart. It sounds like 64 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: you don't care though, if your cousins are not, and 65 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: your mom certainly doesn't care, but your girl wants to 66 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: know and it's important to her. So I think you 67 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: should do the search, and you know, whatever you guys 68 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: find out, let the chips fall, you know where they may. 69 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: I don't think you're really cousins. I don't know, and 70 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: if you find out that you're not, then you can 71 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: move forward. 72 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 3: Steve, Well, this is a short response for me because 73 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 3: I don't even understand. There's no advice to give in 74 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 3: this letter, like you don't normally have sections. Why I 75 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 3: break down what somebody said and what the other person said. 76 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:53,839 Speaker 2: Is none of that in here? 77 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: And he just wants to know should they search? That's 78 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: his question. 79 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 2: Anyway, It ain't about that to me. 80 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 3: If your mother if the woman that she's really close to, 81 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 3: and y'all been over each other's house, if that ain't 82 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 3: your mother's sister, and that woman that's not the sister 83 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 3: this girl that you're dating, and okay, let me put it. 84 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 3: The woman and your mama are not sisters, and then 85 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 3: her daughter is the woman you love. 86 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 2: That ain't your cousin. So now that's. 87 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 3: Established right there. Now, this y'all cousin somewhere down the line. 88 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 3: Black people know what's happening. How far you get, lad 89 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 3: if all of them is dead, Black people know what's 90 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 3: happening now. What didn't happen is one of the men 91 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: in the family and strayed off somewhere, had a child. 92 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 3: Lot of wed locke and one of your aunts or 93 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 3: mama's is them now? 94 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 2: Everybody dead? Stuff? Y'all got bibles, Open up them with 95 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: old bibles and. 96 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:12,239 Speaker 1: Read who who? 97 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 3: You ain't gonna see your name in there now once 98 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 3: you don't see your name, Just open and shut case 99 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 3: they know all the old people dead? Well, hot man, 100 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 3: So what are we talking about here? 101 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: So? 102 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 2: I don't really think it's a case of. 103 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 3: If you do the search, what you're gonna find, you're 104 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 3: not gonna find anything. And already you were in love 105 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 3: with the girl. She in love with the girl, I mean, 106 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: she in love with you. I mean, what if. 107 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 1: They want kids? They're too far down the line for 108 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: that to affect anything you're saying. 109 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 3: I think they're way way down the line. Let me 110 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 3: tell you something. It was something dangerous. The boy's mother 111 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 3: would not have said follow your. 112 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: Heart, but the other mother was the one that said 113 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: their cousins. I think she said it because she didn't 114 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: want them to date. 115 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 3: She just said that, well, okay, tell her mama, ask 116 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 3: or ask her mama how uh huh. But she didn't 117 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 3: even tell how these She can't even tell how these 118 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 3: other two is related, the two women. 119 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: What's their relationship? 120 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: They're just they're just really close, you know, only. 121 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 2: Okay, cousins. 122 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but they did it. 123 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:38,679 Speaker 2: You do know they did it right. 124 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: Yes, it's in the letter. 125 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 2: They said it in the letter. 126 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: Yes, in the letter. We'll have part two of Steve 127 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the our subject, 128 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 1: I don't think we're really cousins. We'll get back into 129 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. All right, 130 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today's interesting Strawberry Letters. Subject 131 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 1: I don't think we're really cousins. All right. 132 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 3: This guy was in high school. He liked the girl 133 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: and that she liked him. They talked on the phone, 134 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 3: hung out together all the time. Her mom and my 135 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 3: mom were close too, so she was always at my house. 136 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,559 Speaker 3: Never once in this letter does it say her mom 137 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 3: and his mom was related. By the time they graduated 138 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 3: high school, we were even closer. I told her we 139 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 3: want to be more than friends. She's always been really 140 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 3: close to her mom and tells everything, so she told 141 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 3: her mom she. 142 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: And I were dating. 143 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 3: Her mom told her I was her cousin, but your 144 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 3: mama ain't related to the boys, Mama, they're just so 145 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 3: now where that comes from. When she told me we 146 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 3: were related, I felt strange because I had kissed a 147 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 3: few times we never caught. She told we stopped dating 148 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: and remained close everything together. Then they went through a 149 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: bunch of bad relationships and always ended up back together. 150 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 3: And then he said, I realized I loved my cousin 151 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 3: and she's a perfect woman for me. So this dude 152 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 3: go and ask his mom if they really related. The 153 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 3: mother said, y'all related somewhere down the line, but ain't 154 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 3: no way to find out because all the older relatives 155 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 3: are dead. 156 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 2: You did, well, Okay, when's we talking about this folk? 157 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 3: I told my mom that I'm in love with her 158 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 3: and I want to be with her. My mom told 159 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 3: me to follow my heart. So then he ran and 160 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 3: told the girl who is he thinks his cousin how 161 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 3: it really felt, and he was relieved when she told 162 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 3: me she been in love with me forever. Well then 163 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 3: since then they'd have made love a few times and 164 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 3: I asked her to marry me. Yeah, she wants to 165 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 3: do a search of our family the tree first. 166 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 2: Because she don't want to come up and get in bad. 167 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 2: You know. Then half these people you think it's dead, 168 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 2: gonna show up at the wedding. Well, it ain't this strange. 169 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 2: You know. 170 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 3: I'm Ertrue's least obout all the moon sidey I all have. 171 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 2: Old slave names and everything. 172 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 3: Frederick, you know, Frederick was your uncle, great great great 173 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 3: great uncle, Frederick Frederick Douglas. 174 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: Boy, you got a Afro just like him. You know, 175 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: be a guy. 176 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 3: So she wants to do a search and to think, 177 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 3: and he said, I don't think we cousins, and this 178 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 3: is only postponing our happiness. Should we search for answers 179 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 3: or not? Okay, let me explain something to you, son. 180 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 3: When you get through searching, it ain't gonna change one 181 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 3: thing you feel about this girl. Come on, boy, when 182 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 3: you get through searching, it ain't gonna used the fact 183 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 3: that y'all in love with each other and y'all been together. 184 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: It ain't gonna erase nothing, no matter what the search say. 185 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 3: And if you find out you somewhere way down the line. 186 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 3: How far down the line is it? 187 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 2: Now? How many people got to die? 188 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: Steve? 189 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 3: Well, all your evidence is dead. Down the line is dead. 190 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 3: But your mother and her mother ain't even related. So 191 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 3: what are y'all talking about? 192 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: See? I think her mother didn't want them to date, 193 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: because immediately when she told him that, they stopped dating. 194 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 3: If there's no relation between the two friends, well that 195 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 3: could be happening because maybe they just friends and the 196 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 3: two kids and other families. 197 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, yeah, that's a possibility. You know. That's 198 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: why I don't think their cousin. I don't think it 199 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: will hurt anything to do the search. 200 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 3: Because we see the problem with that is we're talking 201 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 3: about two mothers. 202 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 2: Though. See, once you have mothers involved, it ain't no, 203 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 2: you ain't in the family. 204 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, what you mean? 205 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 3: This woman is the mother of the boy all your 206 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 3: heart is the mother of the girl. Right, So how 207 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 3: are these two kids related? 208 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 2: How am I missing something? 209 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: It could be through? Could it be through mar I 210 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: don't know. 211 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 3: Two women were married to the same brothers or some friends. 212 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 2: That could happen. 213 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: But now, yeah, I don't think there. I just don't 214 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: think they're related. What was that test you take that? 215 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 2: We had that test one time. What is the name? 216 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 2: I think ancestry doctor. That's it right there. 217 00:11:56,800 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: I just did one. I just did a test. I 218 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 1: just did it. 219 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 2: I have people do mine for me. 220 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying. You don't have to have 221 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: living relatives, you know. So his mom said, everybody's dead 222 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: to prove whether or not there. 223 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 3: I can find stuff on my mother's side, but it 224 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 3: goes back to my father and it stops. Oh so 225 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 3: if down the line ain't here, you can still find 226 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 3: out what's going on. 227 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: He love it though, Yeah, yeah, she loves him. She 228 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: wants she's the one that wants to know. I mean, 229 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: you do have to consider you have small children and everything. 230 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 3: You know. 231 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: Are you out, Steve? You're done well. 232 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 2: I told you I'm doing it. 233 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,959 Speaker 1: Because you got awfully quiet right there. 234 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 2: It was hard to raise anyway, don't have it? 235 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: Ain't that the truth? 236 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 2: You said? Well, yeah, you're gonna have a situation with him. 237 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 2: There ain't nothing wrong with him. 238 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: Yes, all right, listen, guys. You can leave your comments 239 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: on Today's letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and 240 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening 241 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 1: to The Harvey Morning Show.