Speaker 1: I don't want to say we're shocked when people stay
Speaker 1: together after they do a second time update with us,
Speaker 1: but it is always a little surprising.
Speaker 2: That's the point.
Speaker 1: Ye and Berg and Jeffrey and this is your second
Speaker 1: date podcast. Today we have an update update that means
Speaker 1: we will play you the original, so everybody's on the
Speaker 1: same page, and then we're gonna have the couple back
Speaker 1: on the phone to hear what's happened since they were
Speaker 1: on the show. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta stay through it all to hear it.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure they'll be at least one complaint in
Speaker 1: this It says this is a rerun.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, just wait till the end. Yeah, and I'll
Speaker 4: talk to the ad. You're gonna hear a little ad
Speaker 4: right before. We're preparing you for everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what's ahead.
Speaker 3: It's brand new.
Speaker 5: Uh.
Speaker 3: What are some comments?
Speaker 4: Dan said, I hate my buddy for introducing me to
Speaker 4: the show. I hate myself for continuing to listen to it.
Speaker 3: Self loathing. We love that here, but welcome to the show. Dan.
Speaker 1: Whether you like it or not, you're stuck with us.
Speaker 1: Your update update starts right now.
Speaker 2: Sometimes in the dating world, hearts can be broken.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Other times you're breaking literal bones and ligaments.
Speaker 3: I hope not.
Speaker 2: Heck, and that is a pretty close description of what
Speaker 2: happened when two of our listeners decided to go on
Speaker 2: a hike for their first meet up. Okay, it was
Speaker 2: a disaster date that turned into one of our most
Speaker 2: memorable calls of the year. And despite the events that
Speaker 2: unfolded that fateful day, the couples reached out saying they
Speaker 2: need to come back on the show for a special
Speaker 2: second date update update. You're gonna hear it coming up
Speaker 2: right after this second date updated. She's back, return callers
Speaker 2: of the second date update. That's fine Laura. You may
Speaker 2: remember her. She was the avid Jim goer who roasted
Speaker 2: her date when she found out he tried to use
Speaker 2: a cube on at nobu. Oh yeah, because he claimed
Speaker 2: he didn't know that sushi could be that expensive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, came out, you came back, Laura.
Speaker 2: Something about Laura. She's got high end taste and I'm
Speaker 2: guessing that she is totally worth it. But you know,
Speaker 2: those types of ladies can be a little bit hard
Speaker 2: to please. And now there's another guy who's ghosting her,
Speaker 2: probably because he's so intimidated by you, Laura, That's what
Speaker 2: I would guess. But welcome back to our show. It's
Speaker 2: nice to have you on.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 2: So apparently this is a new guy that you want
Speaker 2: us to call today, right, what's his name?
Speaker 5: His name's Troy, Troy Troy. Okay, So I'm at this guy, Troy.
Speaker 5: I was kind of like on the download for a
Speaker 5: little while, and I was like, all right, I'm gonna
Speaker 5: try this again.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: So you took some time off of dating enough after
Speaker 1: having to recover from your experience.
Speaker 5: With us from the Nobu coupon.
Speaker 2: Good for you for deciding to get back out there.
Speaker 3: You meet Troy online on an app.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I liked his profile because it shows him
Speaker 5: being like super active. He's like into swimming and their activities,
Speaker 5: hiking and things like that, and that's really important for me.
Speaker 2: He just like a big fan of one hundred dollars
Speaker 2: bills in his hand, just like.
Speaker 5: No, it was just like the activity stuff, and you know,
Speaker 5: his body and his book.
Speaker 3: That was the only thing that LESS just perked up to.
Speaker 2: Obviously this body okay, oh yeah, hot body active Troy.
Speaker 1: So did you initiate conversation with him?
Speaker 5: It was like a mutual thing, and we just kind
Speaker 5: of had good conversation and talked about working out. So
Speaker 5: I found this thing online and it was the most
Speaker 5: incredible view and the perfect selfie spot.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So you're picking your hiking based on the
Speaker 1: quality of picture you're going to get from it.
Speaker 5: Of course, because work girl doesn't want to look like
Speaker 5: a professional hiker standing on a rock.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, okay, but hiking is a fun activity.
Speaker 3: He's active, guys.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, it's about the Instagram photo,
Speaker 2: about the hike.
Speaker 5: So he was for down and we had a really
Speaker 5: nice hike and the pictures came out amazing.
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's cute.
Speaker 3: You got cute pictures. Did you take pictures together?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we did some selfies and then we took picts
Speaker 5: of each other and we got some really good shots.
Speaker 3: Cool. That sounds good, It sounds yeah.
Speaker 5: Okay, So this is the fun part. The way down,
Speaker 5: Troy slips, falls down and sprains his ankle.
Speaker 2: Probably saw like a cool chipmunk, and you like didn't
Speaker 2: know where.
Speaker 3: I'm that's terrible.
Speaker 5: So basically you can't walk down the mountain. So I
Speaker 5: didn't know what to do. I kind of had a
Speaker 5: little meltdown, and I was like, all right, let me
Speaker 5: see if my phone actually has service and I can
Speaker 5: call somebody to get help.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you're gonna call in park rangers or what.
Speaker 5: I tried reaching out to a lot of people, like friends,
Speaker 5: emergency services, I mean basically anyone who could like help
Speaker 5: get him down the mountain.
Speaker 3: Did someone come help?
Speaker 5: Eventually medics showed up and came and helped.
Speaker 3: Whoa, oh wow.
Speaker 5: But the good news is on that avenue that it
Speaker 5: wasn't like the perfect end to a perfect date, but
Speaker 5: at least we got to like sit and chat and
Speaker 5: we had a ton of really intimate talk times.
Speaker 3: Well he's wind suited page.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, we always say.
Speaker 1: This, but this is another cute story where if things
Speaker 1: work out for you, it's kind of like, yeah, you've
Speaker 1: sprained his ankle, arms.
Speaker 5: Date right, right?
Speaker 2: And what did you take more pictures of each other
Speaker 2: while he was sitting down on the ground.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of wild that he hasn't I'm
Speaker 1: assuming he hasn't called you at all.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's why I called it, because like he was
Speaker 5: talking a ton and now he's not talking at all,
Speaker 5: and I don't understand and like, if it's because he
Speaker 5: got hurt, that's really kind of dumb.
Speaker 2: He's not embarrassed because getting hurt as an accident, you know,
Speaker 2: he could be.
Speaker 3: Like if he's a big buffy, do you think he's like, oh.
Speaker 2: No, I slip on a rock. I mean, this is
Speaker 2: a little bit unlike our typical dates that we talk
Speaker 2: about on the show, where it's like really quick, you'd
Speaker 2: like coffee chat and then you're gone. This is the
Speaker 2: two of them sitting on a mountain to get there
Speaker 2: for an hour with nothing to do but talk, Yeah, right,
Speaker 2: and take pictures of each other. Was there anything in
Speaker 2: the conversation that happened there that might be a little
Speaker 2: bit of a red flag for him?
Speaker 5: I don't think so. I mean we were talking about
Speaker 5: all different topics, like a lot of gym talk, you know,
Speaker 5: just experience in the gym and what kind of different
Speaker 5: activities we like, and a little bit about family stuff,
Speaker 5: and I mean we weren't talking about like getting married
Speaker 5: and having kids, if that's what you mean, Oh why not?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you sprayed your ankle, how many kids do
Speaker 3: you want to?
Speaker 2: Well, okay, this is going to be an interesting one.
Speaker 2: We're going to call Troy for you, and first I
Speaker 2: mean see if he answers the phone, well, just.
Speaker 3: See if he needs his little boobooz kissed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe that's where Yes, hopefully, thank you.
Speaker 2: Maybe hopefully this phone is within reaching distance and we're
Speaker 2: gonna find out reach out right after this second date update.
Speaker 4: You're in the middle of.
Speaker 1: A second date update update, and we're gonna find out
Speaker 1: how the couple is doing right after you here part two.
Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, we're in the middle of
Speaker 2: a tense, heart pumping, ankle throbbing second date update with Laura.
Speaker 2: Heart pumping because she went on a romantic mountain hike
Speaker 2: with a guy named Troy. Ankle throbbing because Troy fell
Speaker 2: and sprained his ankle on the walk down the hill.
Speaker 2: Troy it was so bad he couldn't make it down
Speaker 2: on his own, so Laura had to call out for
Speaker 2: help until medics could arrive. Stayed with him the whole time,
Speaker 2: kept him calm, gave him mouth to mouth, and after
Speaker 2: all of that, after saving his life and snatching him
Speaker 2: from the jaws of death, Troy has the gall to
Speaker 2: ghost her.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 1: Wow, maybe she had bad breath during that mouth to
Speaker 1: mouth session.
Speaker 2: I don't care. I'm just gonna say it. Troy is
Speaker 2: a giant bee, big baby, okay, and I am dying
Speaker 2: to hear what he has to say. And he why
Speaker 2: to Jeff, what if any kute woodland animal he saw
Speaker 2: it has to report on? Or are you with me?
Speaker 5: I don't think he's like a big baby.
Speaker 1: He got hurt, come on, gosh, so forgiving as anyone thought.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's upset that you talked all this big talk
Speaker 1: about the gym, but then we're too weak to piggyback
Speaker 1: him all the way back to the car.
Speaker 2: You can expect that we're dragging him down.
Speaker 1: I don't know I would have done it, my dad says,
Speaker 1: I'm good German working stock. I'm built to carry heavy things.
Speaker 2: Why do you have to work that into every single
Speaker 2: second date update that we do. And we're not even
Speaker 2: going to bring that up to Troy if he answers
Speaker 2: the phone, because we don't want to get too excited
Speaker 2: about it. But let's see if he picks up, we're
Speaker 2: gonna dial his number right now here we go.
Speaker 5: Thanks you guys.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey is this Troy? It is Oh Troy?
Speaker 1: Wow, job, you'd be nice Troy.
Speaker 5: Hello, confusing.
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding, man. We're we're doing something on our show.
Speaker 2: We hope you'll stick around and be a part of it.
Speaker 2: It's called second Date Update okay before No, I haven't okay.
Speaker 2: It's where we help out our listeners who have gone
Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and a second meetup
Speaker 2: hasn't happened yet. We try and help facilitate it or
Speaker 2: figure out why the other person doesn't want to okay,
Speaker 2: And that seems to be the situation, at least according
Speaker 2: to one of our listeners named Laura. You met the
Speaker 2: other day.
Speaker 6: She reached out to you.
Speaker 1: Yes, dude, it sounds like you had a crazy hike
Speaker 1: where you got injured.
Speaker 3: We heard all about it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she's been texting me a whole bunch.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm feeling.
Speaker 6: It, to be honest with you, that's kind of why
Speaker 6: I didn't reach back out to her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what she was a why. That's the confusing
Speaker 2: part to her because she essentially saved you from the
Speaker 2: brink of death.
Speaker 3: She did not say that.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying that the thought crossed her
Speaker 2: mind to leave you on that mountain to fend for yourself,
Speaker 2: but she did do a lot to help.
Speaker 3: She did after you sprained your ankle.
Speaker 6: I think you guys have the story wrong. It's that's
Speaker 6: what you guys really think happened.
Speaker 2: Okay, well wrong exactly. Sorry, I'm understanding part. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: just frustrated because we're we're friends of Laura's and we
Speaker 2: really just want to help her out. So if you
Speaker 2: could maybe explain your side of it.
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know what she told you exactly, but
Speaker 6: my ankle was banged up. I mean, you guys are
Speaker 6: laughing about it, but it was pretty bad, like.
Speaker 5: It was swollen immediately I couldn't knock on it.
Speaker 1: She said that she felt really bad for you. I
Speaker 1: know we're laughing, but that's just because that's what we do.
Speaker 2: Obvious you couldn't even hobble bro.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's why she called everybody she knew.
Speaker 3: Got emergency services.
Speaker 6: Up there, yeah, kind of. She didn't have service or whatever,
Speaker 6: and neither did I. So she said she's gonna walk
Speaker 6: down the trail a little bit until she gets serviced.
Speaker 6: She disappeared for at least a half an hour. She
Speaker 6: came back. She was all excited and I was like, okay, good,
Speaker 6: did you find somebody on the trail. She said, no, no, no,
Speaker 6: I called an uber.
Speaker 3: You don't need a car, you someone to carry you down.
Speaker 6: Yeah, one hundred percent, that's what I said to her,
Speaker 6: and she basically was like, oh I didn't think about that.
Speaker 6: Was like, yeah, I can't drive up the mountain to
Speaker 6: just come pick me up in the cars. That's not
Speaker 6: how this works.
Speaker 1: Oh, come on, give her the benefit. You know, some
Speaker 1: people don't think well in emergency situations.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we were talking about it, and basically I was
Speaker 6: trying to advise her, Look, call EMTs, call emergency service.
Speaker 6: So she did do that, which is nice. And while
Speaker 6: we were sitting there waiting, she said that she figured
Speaker 6: out how to make like a homemade tourniquit for my leg.
Speaker 6: So she wanted to get some sticks and branches and
Speaker 6: wrap up my leg.
Speaker 5: Or something like that.
Speaker 6: You know, it was like being stuck out there with
Speaker 6: Nurse Ratchet the mountain.
Speaker 2: Urse Ratchet like she didn't do a good job.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't need a tourniquit. I had a sprain ankle,
Speaker 6: all right. I wasn't losing any blurt or anything like that.
Speaker 2: Sure, but it couldn't hurt.
Speaker 3: It actually could hurt a lot. It cuts off your circulation.
Speaker 2: It was a preventive, a preventative tournique, just in case
Speaker 2: something got worse.
Speaker 3: I mean, at the end of the day, she's trying.
Speaker 3: She's not a medical expert. She's doing her best. You
Speaker 3: can't even give her that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, No, her best was just shockingly bad, that's all.
Speaker 1: Maybe, Okay, Well, I feel.
Speaker 2: Like maybe she was panicked a little freaked out in
Speaker 2: the moment, just like you were doing whatever she could
Speaker 2: think of to try and help you out. And you
Speaker 2: don't have to take that from me. You can listen
Speaker 2: to Laura right now because she's on the other line
Speaker 2: waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 6: Wait, are you serious, she's been listening the whole time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how the segment works.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 5: Sorry, yeah, it's me, nurse Ratchet doing how you feeling.
Speaker 2: She's really a nurse. I'm gonna say sorry now.
Speaker 1: Huh's should not apologize?
Speaker 6: Come on, Laura, you know it was being you were
Speaker 6: in charge of the water. I mean, what was going
Speaker 6: on with the water, remember that?
Speaker 2: What was she doing?
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I was in charge of bringing water on
Speaker 5: the hike and I got a smoothies instead.
Speaker 2: That's nice.
Speaker 5: I drank my smoothie and then it was like so
Speaker 5: yummy that I wound up drinking Choice smoothie too, because
Speaker 5: there was an easy hike and we'd be down the
Speaker 5: mountain pretty quickly and then I could just get water
Speaker 5: when we got to the bottom.
Speaker 2: No big deal, Nurse Ratchet, Well, she needed the extra
Speaker 2: nutrients to go search for help. He was just sitting
Speaker 2: there on the ground.
Speaker 5: I'm not like the best outdoorsman or outdoors woman or
Speaker 5: whatever you call it. I'm not a lumber black. I'm
Speaker 5: not a medic like I did what came to mind
Speaker 5: in the spur of the moment. And also like some
Speaker 5: ubers do have four wheel drives, so like that part's
Speaker 5: not on home.
Speaker 6: This again, the four wheel drive thing again.
Speaker 5: Come on, no they don't.
Speaker 1: It's does that mean you already brought up that point
Speaker 1: while you guys the mountains.
Speaker 6: He talks about it for like ten minutes already.
Speaker 2: When it's gonna be a hummer, they can get all
Speaker 2: over like every type of terrain. Bro this is at
Speaker 2: least endearing, and she's just trying. It's not get it,
Speaker 2: But she's cute.
Speaker 1: She's cute, she's got good energy.
Speaker 6: Come on, Laura, I will say if you do go
Speaker 6: outdoors with any of your friends or family, God help them.
Speaker 2: Oh it's a really sweet thing to say. He basically
Speaker 2: blessed her and her entire family whenever they're gone adventures together. Troy,
Speaker 2: I'm feeling some sort of shift in you, like you're
Speaker 2: wanting to say yes to another date with Laura, especially
Speaker 2: when we offer to pay for it.
Speaker 5: I mean, we can like go to the city and
Speaker 5: like ran a scooter. I'm pretty sure both of us
Speaker 5: can fit on it.
Speaker 3: Injury.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, maybe make a reservation at the er ahead
Speaker 2: of time before the date happens.
Speaker 3: Is that how the works, just in case you know your.
Speaker 2: Reservation in a row.
Speaker 6: Look, I don't want to be mister pessimistic, so if
Speaker 6: we can keep it inside. I did have a good
Speaker 6: time with you at the moment where I was dying,
Speaker 6: So yeah, let's give it another shot.
Speaker 2: That's not funny, that's kind.
Speaker 1: Of cute, Troy.
Speaker 2: You're going on a date with Nurse Ratchet.
Speaker 6: Good for you, I hope not. Oh my god, I hope.
Speaker 5: And I'll bring my tourniquet.
Speaker 3: Well, oh wow, he's not bleeding.
Speaker 2: I think I thin it's kind of a freaky thing
Speaker 2: that she's into. You guys, have.
Speaker 5: Fun, okay, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: That second date update happened months ago, and now Troy
Speaker 2: and Laura are back to give us an update on
Speaker 2: their situation.
Speaker 3: So waiting first.
Speaker 2: Hey, fancy meeting you two here. Welcome back to the show.
Speaker 5: Hi, thank you so good to be back.
Speaker 1: No one's broken, right, everybody's bodies are working the way
Speaker 1: they should.
Speaker 2: That's a normal question.
Speaker 5: Yeah, everything's functional.
Speaker 6: We're all good.
Speaker 2: It's good to hear. So what's new in your relationship?
Speaker 2: What's happened since we last spoke to you.
Speaker 5: So, as you remember, we had a little trouble on
Speaker 5: the mountain last time, but we decided for the next
Speaker 5: couple of dates that we would stay indoors, and we
Speaker 5: did so.
Speaker 1: I like that he gave up on his interests of
Speaker 1: the outdoors and just went inside for you climbing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he lives in a bubble.
Speaker 5: I eventually enticed him to go back outside.
Speaker 3: Oh you did, That's what I want to know. How
Speaker 3: did that go well?
Speaker 5: I did, in fact find another fantastic sealthy spot.
Speaker 2: Oh oh, I was worried.
Speaker 3: That's what I've been stressed about from you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm hoping, I mean, we're all hoping that
Speaker 2: nothing bad happened on that date that required medical attention. Right, No,
Speaker 2: everything went good, good news.
Speaker 6: We definitely didn't need to call the ants. Unfortunately, we
Speaker 6: did have to call the cops by the end of
Speaker 6: the evening.
Speaker 2: Wait what why why?
Speaker 6: Well, we got back from the hike and somebody broke
Speaker 6: into our car.
Speaker 2: I hate that.
Speaker 3: It happens all the time. Yeah, the trailheads. You can't
Speaker 3: leave anything in your car or Brooke.
Speaker 2: Will open your car and take it. There was anything
Speaker 2: taken from your car?
Speaker 5: Well, no, luckily nothing was stolen. I mean I had
Speaker 5: my little purse with me and my selfie six, so
Speaker 5: everything was there.
Speaker 2: Take all the value. So you two sound like you're
Speaker 2: in a in a pretty good place.
Speaker 6: Yeah, everything is going pretty good. But we signed up
Speaker 6: for a E M T CPR class together.
Speaker 3: Smart.
Speaker 1: I thought for sure she was going to enroll you
Speaker 1: in how to take a good selfie class.
Speaker 2: That's probably next.
Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, that's definitely next.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, awesome to hear that you too are still
Speaker 2: together and having a good time and planning for the
Speaker 2: future dates, not to get too much trouble.
Speaker 3: Planning for the future dates and future accidents.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Either way, definitely keep us updated, stay in touch and
Speaker 2: appreciate you guys reaching out well do thank you guys.
Speaker 5: Yeah,