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Speaker 1: It's a French show. The company that makes his microphones

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Speaker 1: makes they're the ones that gave it to him gold.

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Speaker 1: And he's the only one that had. Everyone else in

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Speaker 1: the studio has you know, black ones, and his is gold.

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Speaker 1: And everybody get if I get if I'm spray painting

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Speaker 1: this one, everybody gets a gold microphone. I could get

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Speaker 1: a gold plate for you. Yeah, that's what my dad does.

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Speaker 1: He's a really engineer. Yeah, hollow. He changed all of

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Speaker 1: our in our in our house, he changed like he

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Speaker 1: gold plated all the fawcets in the bathroom. Really silver

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Speaker 1: took gold. How did you know that's what he did? Ye,

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Speaker 1: he's a chemical engineer. It would mean so much more

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Speaker 1: to me if if mister Santiago did that for us.

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Speaker 1: And he's incredible dating. You know, we haven't had him

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Speaker 1: on in a while. We probably need to get your

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Speaker 1: dad on a little while because I mean the last

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Speaker 1: time he had controversial dating advice. But he can say

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Speaker 1: that because he was you know, he can get away

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Speaker 1: with that. I can't say that, but um, what did

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Speaker 1: he say? I need a data? An Asian woman and

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Speaker 1: Philip yes, yeah he did, because they're trainable. He did

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Speaker 1: say that name. They're trainable. Okay, whatever, there's your dad.

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Speaker 1: And then you would have married a Hispanic woman who

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Speaker 1: is white I thought, I thought, No, she thought she was. No,

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Speaker 1: her last name makes it seem like she's Hispanic. That's

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Speaker 1: why I thought that. No, she she's Italian and Polish.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was. I thought she had some Hispanic

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Speaker 1: at her. No, it's just her last name looks like

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Speaker 1: that's why I thought that. Right now, all right, well

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Speaker 1: anyway you married, Well my point was you didn't marry

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Speaker 1: a Filippino. That was That was where I was going

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Speaker 1: with this. I did not, And she got like that,

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Speaker 1: curls and looking thought, this is why I don't play

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Speaker 1: that game. This is why I don't play that game.

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Speaker 1: She white. Yeah, I learned a long time ago when

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Speaker 1: I when I moved here, like about Eastern European people,

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Speaker 1: like when Eastern European peop were like, guess where I

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Speaker 1: guess where I'm like, no, no, I'm not doing it

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Speaker 1: because because then you guess the wrong country in Eastern

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Speaker 1: Europe and it turns out that's like a rival country

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Speaker 1: or like like warm withthy I'm like, no, I don't

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Nope, that's dumb. They can't get in the

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Speaker 1: head if you guess the wrong one. You're playing this

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Speaker 1: little game. Like I bet I see you see it

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Speaker 1: all this time, I thought like it matters, But I

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Speaker 1: all this time, you didn't just meet you know here, No,

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Speaker 1: but you just said like the hair and the last

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Speaker 1: name and stuff. That's why I thought that. But I

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Speaker 1: like I keep an inventory in my head of them.

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Speaker 1: I can make double check, but I don't think you

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Speaker 1: would you make double check because I my spidy said self.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not even going never. I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: get on this road because you never know. Oh Fred,

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Speaker 1: what do you mean, oh friend? You never know? No,

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Speaker 1: you're funny, you're what do you think? Well? You know

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Speaker 1: what I am? Well, because you told us your part German? Right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you're not strange. I can see that because like

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Speaker 1: features I know, I really do, But that's my point

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Speaker 1: is like there's a lady on TikTok, a girl on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: She has red hair like she looks irish, but her

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Speaker 1: Good morning, do you guys? Maybe probably not, you can't

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Speaker 1: relate to this, But I'm forty one years old. My

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Speaker 1: lesson that my mom taught me. But like when we

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Speaker 1: get the build. But to this day, I'm conditioned to

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Speaker 1: like overthink purchases and then call my mom and basically

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Speaker 1: what expensive stuff that you buy? It's not even expensive

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Speaker 1: I don't need. It's like anything, it didn't it has

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Speaker 1: And you're like, Mom, do I need this? Because like,

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Speaker 1: Maybe yes, like you you're calling her to be like

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Speaker 1: product in question. No, it's not one thing. It's not

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Speaker 1: just like a basic thing that people do. I still

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Speaker 1: And then I also want to know what she thinks

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Speaker 1: about like the choice. Yeah, and my dad. My dad

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Speaker 1: do you, Jason? Do you call her? Yeah? So I

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Speaker 1: I know you're way, I know, call the wrong way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it's interesting because like my dad, they are close too.

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Speaker 1: But if I call him and go, what do you

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Speaker 1: But my mom will be like, you do it or

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Speaker 1: The only time that I like do that is they're

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Speaker 1: But other than that, I don't really I'll do the

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Speaker 1: opposite of what people tell me to do. Purpose you

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Speaker 1: My questions are more like how do I boil eggs?

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Speaker 1: You know? How do I do this? How do I clean?

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Speaker 1: And what's that? Oh God? And looking for It's almost

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Speaker 1: like I'm looking for approval to spend my own money. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and a pocket or something. Okay, all right, I've seen

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Speaker 1: people do that with um, Like you take pictures of

425
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 1: like this is no different than taking a picture of

426
00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,119
Speaker 1: a wine label that you liked, you know, and you

427
00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:18,920
Speaker 1: have a little small collection like people on their phone,

428
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,040
Speaker 1: I didn't take pictures of you know, food and wine

429
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 1: and drink that they like and then they can remember

430
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 1: to go buy it later. But anyway, all right, Cody,

431
00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. Hey, thank you. I mean,

432
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,359
Speaker 1: if you have a purpose for this stuff, then fine.

433
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 1: But it's the thing is you find that most people

434
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Speaker 1: who are collecting things like that that they don't know

435
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 1: what they're gonna do with it, Like there's no to

436
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 1: the corks of wine, and then they make like a

437
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,359
Speaker 1: corkboard or something out of it. Or like in college,

438
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 1: you remember when we used to like keep the Jack

439
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 1: Daniels empty bottles and then just play them on top

440
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 1: of the yeah, on top of the uh, the cabinet

441
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,159
Speaker 1: tree and a highlighter. For some reason, that was the

442
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,040
Speaker 1: thing to do. It was like you'd walk into some

443
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 1: frat guys out so that it would be like, you know,

444
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 1: four hundred bottles of ever Clear or something, and they

445
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 1: were always on top of the captains. I don't know why,

446
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,199
Speaker 1: it was like that was what that was what we

447
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:07,680
Speaker 1: did Noel Hi, Noel Hi, how are you? Oh God,

448
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 1: I love you guys so loyal thirteen. Oh my god,

449
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,200
Speaker 1: we love you. Thank you so much for that. What

450
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 1: do you find yourself holding on too? And you can't

451
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 1: really explain it? Um like face wash boxes or like

452
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,360
Speaker 1: makeup boxes. So, like, I know, my girl Kalin can

453
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 1: relate to this. If you buy expensive makeup or face wash,

454
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 1: it comes in like really fancy boxes, and I keep

455
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,120
Speaker 1: them because I'm afraid, like three months later, I'm gonna

456
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I actually don't like this, so I

457
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,199
Speaker 1: want to like return it, and you have to like

458
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 1: have the box to return it. So in my like

459
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,400
Speaker 1: utility closet, I have like a ton of face wash

460
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 1: and makeup boxes where I've already used the face wash.

461
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,880
Speaker 1: So it's kind of stupid. Well how to ask, though,

462
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 1: how old are you? I am? Thirty three? Okay, thirty

463
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 1: four next month. It's a generational thing, I think, because

464
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 1: I really think that there's a certain generation that was

465
00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 1: trained that you have to keep the box because if

466
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: you throw the box away and then it breaks, you

467
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 1: couldn't return. Now, I think you can most places, like

468
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: I send stuff back to Amazon where the packaging is destroyed,

469
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 1: and I actually couldn't believe they took it back, like

470
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 1: I just stick it in the thing and in the bag,

471
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 1: or you know, even even worse, like do you ever

472
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 1: try to return something to Amazon and they they accept

473
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 1: it like a a UPS store or whatever, and then

474
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,440
Speaker 1: they deal with the I've walked into the UPS store

475
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 1: it with like like stuff that there's no packaging. I've

476
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 1: been like here and I'm waiting for them to be like,

477
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: We're not going to take that, but they don't care.

478
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 1: They put it in the box and put the end,

479
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,879
Speaker 1: send it away. Then I get my money back, and

480
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 1: I can't believe it. Sometimes, Um, I feel like I

481
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: have trained me, like when you were talking about the boxes,

482
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: like I keep my boxes to everything. One day, four

483
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 1: years later, I'm gonna want to return it. I have

484
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,919
Speaker 1: to have the box. Yeah, exactly, Thank you, Noell, have

485
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,719
Speaker 1: a good day, a great day, but thank you, love

486
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 1: you too. If you look at my one of my

487
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: kitchen cabinets right now, you'll find like three iPhone boxes

488
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 1: from three phones and that have had over ten years

489
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 1: or whatever. And so the one phone that doesn't even

490
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 1: it's like should be in the Smithsonian by now. Maybe

491
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 1: the box is worth something now because it's so old.

492
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: Chargers in their true Let me get one of those things. No,

493
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't, But it doesn't matter because

494
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 1: every single time they do a new iPhone, you gotta

495
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 1: buy something new. And you know, the last iPhone I got,

496
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: the most recent one, I've noticed they stopped giving you

497
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff. They don't give you. They don't

498
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 1: give you anything. They don't give you They give you

499
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: a charging chord, but they don't give you the little

500
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 1: thing anymore that plugs you in the wall. Or headphones.

501
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 1: They don't give the headphones. They stopped taking that. Yeah,

502
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: all this stuff. You know they used to get headphones.

503
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: You used to get that. Not only did you get

504
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: the wire, but you also got the little adapted that

505
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 1: went in the wall. They don't give you anything to

506
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: buy that now. And then they change a little chord,

507
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: you know, they change the other end of it. So

508
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: any Yeah, anything you do have doesn't work with that

509
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 1: anymore because that now you're gonna go bace Space guys

510
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 1: so rude, but no, they know what they're doing. I'm

511
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: gonna throw away all these on I'm gonna go home

512
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: and throw a moll once and for all be liberating

513
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 1: my iPad one. I still love the budch for that.

514
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't mean another please, because if anyone

515
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: has to clean up. I had to clean out Nana's apartment.

516
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: Oh Jesus, she saved every to go thing, all the silverware,

517
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 1: every single bag. I was like, lady, I feel like

518
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: it's for me. It's my parents were trained by my

519
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: grandparents who went through a recession. So my parent, my mom,

520
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: will argue that she lived through a recession, but she

521
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 1: lived through the same recession we owed it in two

522
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,439
Speaker 1: thousand and eight. But then she trained us, you know,

523
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 1: not to be wasteful. And now I find myself holding

524
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 1: onto things, not wanting to be wasteful. It's like this

525
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: famous junk closet that I tell you about. I haven't

526
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 1: taken anything out of that closet in years. I only

527
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: add things to it, which means that there's nothing in

528
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: there I need, which means it literally somebody could go

529
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: in and throw away every single thing in that closet

530
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 1: and it wouldn't affect my life at all. But for

531
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: whatever reason in my mind, I feel wasteful throwing away

532
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: stuff that I don't use anymore. You need to do

533
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 1: alive and like get drunk and clean it out. Well,

534
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: it's better than it was when you were there roofield,

535
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: but the cost roof you had to go right for

536
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: it and you could barely get the door open in there.

537
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 1: I had to see. Yeah, yeah, I gave it to her.

538
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 1: I gave a rmous place online. He went through all

539
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: my stuff, open everything. Yea, what I do? Do you

540
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: find anything good? No? Just just that bag that I want,

541
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: you know, when he upgrades his travel bag, that one

542
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: bag I want. I think you're getting you think somebody

543
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 1: give him my old luggage? What's going on? You know? Please?

544
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: Just simply it's junk Fred, It's in the junk away, Okay. Yeah.

545
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: Three five Kids FM, Chicago's number one hit music station,

546
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: The Fred Shows Here. Hi Megan, good morning, HIHI, good morning, Megan.

547
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're listening. Thanks for having us on it,

548
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: for calling. What do you want to say? Please? I

549
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: just wanted to time and what I keep that I

550
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: for no real reason is every birthday card in Christmas

551
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: card of my really? So how many would you say

552
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 1: you have? How long have you been doing this? Um?

553
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 1: Probably pleas at least college, so about fifteen years. That's cool.

554
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: That is kind of cool, But I mean how much

555
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: space would you say that takes up? Well, they're ain't

556
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: it a handful over in the birthday bad that I have?

557
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: So as soon as I happy birthday had, they don't

558
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,199
Speaker 1: throwing them in there every year. Okay, so you'll go

559
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 1: back some day, you'll go back and read them and

560
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: be like, oh I remember this this person or that person.

561
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,360
Speaker 1: That's how you'll do that, I'm pretty much. And then

562
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: actually one came in handy because it was from my

563
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 1: dad and he passed away in September, so I got

564
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: his handwriting a pat on my arm and I used that.

565
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 1: But I love dad. Interesting, that's the same thing. I'm

566
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: turning happy I had that interesting. Yeah, yeah, I did

567
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 1: something like I had something with my grandfather's signature on

568
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: it that my mom used to get his signature on

569
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: her wrist. So yeah, yeah, I mean it's good to

570
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: hang on to some of that stuff. I just wonder

571
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: over the years, like you're talking probably about hundreds of cars,

572
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: maybe thousands. I mean, it's a lot of stuff to

573
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 1: lug around. Yeah, I mean, I'm definitely gonna have to

574
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 1: get rid of them. Obviously, I was gonna say one

575
00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 1: person as a guy who's lived in five shitties. Uh yeah,

576
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff. I wish i'd kept it.

577
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 1: I just didn't because I'm like, I'm not lugging this

578
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: to wherever. But thank you, Megan, have a great day.

579
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: Thank you. Do you ruf it? You have stuff with

580
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: your mom's handwriting? Yeah, Like, I have a birthday card

581
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: from my mom, and that's what I'm gonna use it

582
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 1: just as love mom. And my brother and I are

583
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 1: gonna get it soon. We're gonna get a tattooed in

584
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 1: our arm. That's good. Yeah, So yeah, you gotta hang

585
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 1: onto something like that. Yeah. Yeah. My sister has her

586
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: her father's signature tattooed. Nice. Yeah that's cool. So yeah,

587
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: maybe think about it that you hang on. But I

588
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: don't know if I'd hang on to all of them.

589
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: I started like, because I save all my cards too,

590
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 1: But if people don't like write anything other than just

591
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: like love so and so, then I started throwing those

592
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 1: ones out. But if people write a message, I've been

593
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: saving them. I need to be a better a better

594
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: card writer. I'm not I'm not much of a gift.

595
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: I don't do really do cards? My dad a long card? Yeah,

596
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 1: you always write something, always do I? Oh, maybe I'm

597
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 1: good at it and I didn't know. Maybe that's a

598
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 1: hidden talent. I thought just signed fred, I thought I

599
00:27:55,720 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: could do better. That's yeah, I don't know that could

600
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: be as true. No, you could work for Hallmark, like

601
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 1: you write a message, could work for a homemark. Get

602
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 1: a room card. You do. Your penmanship is really nice too. Yeah,

603
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: it makes me nervous to write things these days, because

604
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: like you only get one shot, one opportunity, Like, honestly,

605
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: because we're in we live in a world now where

606
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: you don't have to know how to spell anything. If

607
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: you write something that's not right, you could just delete it.

608
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: So when I go buy a card and I spent

609
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: four dollars on the card or whatever, and scratching stuff

610
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: out annoys me. So like I go very slow. It's

611
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: you would. It's almost if I'm engraving something like I

612
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: go very slowly when I'm writing in people's like cards,

613
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: or if I'm writing somebody a No, I don't want

614
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: to start over again. Oh my god, I always have

615
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: scratches and then I write oops, sorry, and then I

616
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: spilled something on it. I write, oops, sorry, I I

617
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: just like, don't you. Yeah, I'm such like my handwriting

618
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 1: is terrible. Like I have to sit in front of

619
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: a computer or a phone because there are words sometimes

620
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: that I don't know how to spell anymore because yours

621
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: are perfect. I just it's crazy. It's crazy stuff that

622
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: you use every day, and it's not making you smarter.

623
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: Texting is not making as smarter because you don't have

624
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: to use proper grammar, you don't have to use pronunciation,

625
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: you don't have to capitalize anything, you don't have to

626
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: even know how to spell anything. I let the card

627
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: do all the work I try to find, like, oh

628
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: that's the first buy a card, Then what's the point?

629
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: Like I read it and be like this is how

630
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: I feel. This is this is exactly not sign it

631
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: happy birthday the incide of the card and say let's

632
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: or the other thing is Lately, I don't know who's

633
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: writing these cards, but it's harder and harder to find,

634
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: like clever ones. Sometimes I'm like you, this is mass produced,

635
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: like that that really someone uses for people stupid, That's

636
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. My nana always writes that or wrote

637
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: the date in the top right corner, and so I

638
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: adopted that from her. And people have been saying they like,

639
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: really like that because you don't know which birthday is

640
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: from or whatever. That is a good idea. Sometimes I

641
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: just grab a card that has nothing to do with

642
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: anything and I give that like or I get one

643
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 1: and like another language, and I'll give that to somebody. Yeah,

644
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: and I don't know what it could be, like sorry

645
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: you died card and I don't even know because I

646
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: don't know what it says, you know, but like I

647
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 1: don't know, happy ninetieth birthday. I'll give that to my

648
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: dad or something. It's like, you know, it's not easy

649
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: on ninety or I don't know, congratulations on the thing. Yeah,

650
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: you know me. I'm way show chicagom and I heart

651
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: radio station. It's a show. I got some messages and

652
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: people yesterday about our our tangent. It was truly a

653
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: tangent off air, uncentered podcast, and they're like, yeah, I

654
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: listened all the way all the way through, even the

655
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: part where you were talking about where you're having for lunch.

656
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that was the kind of day we

657
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: were having yesterday. The tangent was partially about what was

658
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: for lunch. It was something else. We covered a lot

659
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: of ground, Paulina. We covered literally everything pigs, pigs, animal souls, um,

660
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: dream jobs, right or what jobs would do if we

661
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: didn't do this? You potentially not eating certain kind of

662
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: meat anyway. Oh yeah, No, that's a thing diet bring industry.

663
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: I haven't had. I haven't had pig all week. People

664
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: call it pork, but I call it big as a

665
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: reminder of the little soul that I met on Sunday. Really, yeah,

666
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: I can't do it. I can't do it. I'm gonna

667
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: tell you why. This the big the big thing changed

668
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: me a little bit. And I don't know how long

669
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: it's gonna last. But we talked. We talked yesterday about

670
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: like moderation, but you know, I wanted to have a

671
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 1: little cheeta yesterday. I be eating a whole week this

672
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 1: and garbanzo being that and god knows what else. Lost

673
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: five pounds, Paulie, and I heard you'd lost four. I

674
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: lost four pounds you guys from last week. Yea motivating

675
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: that is when you see that it's little, I know,

676
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: but then it's like so big to you because then

677
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: the numbers start falling, and that's a lot, a lot

678
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: in a week. Yeah, I mean technically I lost four,

679
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: but I was wearing clothes, so I it's a pound. Ye,

680
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: as far as that's a pound, and myself phone may

681
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: have been in my pockets, so that's probably two pounds.

682
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 1: So maybe I was six, Maybe I'm at six. But

683
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: this is a kind of justification that I do. I

684
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: do to myself. But nonetheless, Um, I was gonna have

685
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: a little McDonald's breakfast yesterday, but you know what, the

686
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: thing I like to get there has sausage on it.

687
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: I didn't get it. And then yesterday I did go

688
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: to Burrito Beach and it has bacon on it and

689
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: I didn't get it. Wow, I know I can't. Don't worry.

690
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm not going old. You know, I'm not, you know,

691
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: going vegan on everybody. So I can come on the

692
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: radio everyday until everybody about my vegan lifestyle, because no

693
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: one who's vegan doesn't let you know that they're vegan.

694
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: It's inart taste though, because you were really concerned that

695
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: without the bacon it would just not be good at all.

696
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: It tasted fun. Yeah, Okay, here's my thing about meat

697
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: like I could cut out a lot of meat, I

698
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't have it. Like it it sound like I don't

699
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: crave meat. You know, I'm not like I gotta have

700
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: a I gotta have a steak or a slab a pig.

701
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: You know, it's not like that. It's just on stuff

702
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: and it tastes good, so I eat it. But the

703
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: pig change me, The pig change me? Watch the first

704
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: episode of Black Mirror. That'll change you too? Really, yep,

705
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't need to be changed anymore

706
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: this week. That's enough. You will probably not eat pig anymore.

707
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: But kaylin you you had a good point, like you

708
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: even if you even if I ate less of it,

709
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: I suppose that's better. Yeah, it's not black or white.

710
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: Just try your best and keep on keeping one. I mean,

711
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: there are many people who would argue it is, but

712
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: I hear you that. You know moderation would be better

713
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: than one less meal with pig, and you made a change.

714
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: But you know my justification is has been well, it's

715
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: already here, like the damage is done. The meat is

716
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,239
Speaker 1: in the restaurant, like it's already happened, so somebody may

717
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: as well consume it. Because otherwise it goes to waste,

718
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: and that's worse supply and demand. But then you know,

719
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: over the long term, then supplying to man anyway, the

720
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: pig changed me. And then I keep getting pictures of

721
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: him and he's like a little person, and I just

722
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: can't I can't do it. For some reason, I've gotten

723
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: soft on the pig stuff. I don't know how it

724
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: starts more firm for me. I know, I know, I know,

725
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: I know. Good Hit up the Thread show on one

726
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: h three at eight five five five nine one one

727
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 1: three five. Good morning, Hi, Lisa, how are you? How

728
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: are you? Lisa? Let's talking about let's talk about what's

729
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: going on with you. We call this stay or go

730
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: um little rusty on stair go here. But let's let's

731
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: try it. You have been seeing Matt for a year

732
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 1: and a half and that's where we begin. So phill

733
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: Us in Okay. So I've been seeing this incredible guy

734
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,959
Speaker 1: for a year and a half. I love this guy.

735
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I never knew how good a relationship could

736
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: be till I met Matt. How's that like? What's that like?

737
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,800
Speaker 1: To never know how good it could be until it happens?

738
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: What's it like? I wish Matt we'd clone himself, so

739
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 1: everybody could have a Mollah. Everybody could have a Matt.

740
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: You know, Cale could have a Matt. Paulina could have

741
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: a Matt. Jason could even have that, you know. Okay,

742
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 1: So he's that good, So so okay, why are we here? Okay, listen.

743
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 1: The other day I was Marie condoing the heck out

744
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: of my whole apartment, bringing yourself joy, bringing ark joy,

745
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: and I've found something that didn't spark joy. I found

746
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: an engagement ring and he had it in a box

747
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: hidden in the bottom of his closet. And anybody else

748
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: would be ecstatic about this, but you guys, I had

749
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:36,720
Speaker 1: the worst first marriage, Like it ended really really badly, lying, cheating,

750
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: he stole money for me. It was a disaster, and

751
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: it took me years of therapy to like be able

752
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 1: to trust again and even want a new relationship. Now.

753
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: I've been completely honest with Matt about this that I

754
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: never wanted to get married again, and he always said

755
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: he was okay with it, Like we used to joke

756
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: we were Goldie haunting her Russell. You know. Okay, So

757
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 1: you and for those who don't get the reference, you

758
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: just be together forever, be partnered, life partners, but never

759
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: get married. And everything works great. Yeah, like it's it's

760
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: so good, And now it looks like he's going to propose,

761
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: and I'm terrified because I don't want to hurt him.

762
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: But if I say no, I could lose the best

763
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: guy in the world. What should I do? If he's

764
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: that good, then I guess what's the harm in saying yes?

765
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,359
Speaker 1: I have a lot of thoughts here. I'm not sure

766
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: which one I'm going with, But my first thought is

767
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: if he's this amazing, that he's nothing like the old guy,

768
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: so why punish him? If he feels that way about you,

769
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 1: and it sounds like you kind of fundamentally feel that

770
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: way about him, then what's the harm? You know? I

771
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: just feel like things are so good. I don't want

772
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: to rock the boat. Like I just feel like, why

773
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: can't we You know, we're committed. We're committed as any

774
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: other married couple than I know, even more so, like

775
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: I think we have a better relationship than a lot

776
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: of our married friends. So I don't know why he

777
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: feels the need to do that when he knows that

778
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: I had such a bad experience. Yeah, I also don't

779
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: love that, Like he heard you out and you're like,

780
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 1: this is not something I want and then he just

781
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: decided for you that you didn't really mean that, you know,

782
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:10,879
Speaker 1: I mean you shared that with him and he said

783
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: he was on board, and then he just went and

784
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: bought a ring. I feel like that's minimizing, you know,

785
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,919
Speaker 1: he didn't take you seriously. Is that that's not great

786
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 1: in a relationship. And to your point, Lisa, I do

787
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:23,879
Speaker 1: you see this happen all the time. We've talked about

788
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: it before where and I think about it too as

789
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: an unmarried guy, never been married at this point in

790
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: my life. You see these people who they have this

791
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: great relationship, they then move in together that seems to

792
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: be going well, that goes on for a while, they

793
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: get engaged, they get married, and then a couple of

794
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: years later they're divorced and you're like, wait a minute,

795
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: everything seemed fine and like the balance of your relationship

796
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 1: was mostly good before marriage. Then you get married, nothing changed,

797
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: and then it falls apart. So there's there is some

798
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 1: kind of a mental shift that must happen with married

799
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: people that doesn't always work out, you know, and sometimes

800
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: it's blissful for people and I'm happy for them, But

801
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: for me, my ex husband changed and I don't know why.

802
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I still question it because

803
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 1: prior to us getting married, we seemed so great too.

804
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 1: So I'm just really scared about it, and I wish

805
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: he would have talked to me and not just bought

806
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: the ring. I hear that, Lisa. If he proposes to

807
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: you and you say no, can you recover from that?

808
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think that you can stay

809
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: with him knowing that he didn't really listen to you,

810
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 1: that he proposed to you anyway you now have said no?

811
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 1: Do you think that he could be like, Okay, well

812
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: was worth the shot, and then we carry on into

813
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: the sunset like everything's okay. You know I can stay.

814
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: I have no problem with it. What I'm afraid about

815
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: is if I were him and I can understand this,

816
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 1: He's probably thinking everything. You know, he didn't have a

817
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: bad first marriage. She's probably thinking everything's so great, why

818
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:57,439
Speaker 1: not why not do this? Like to him, he's doing

819
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: everything right. So it's a real disc connect and I'm

820
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: really scared of losing him. Ruthie, how do you know

821
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 1: that the ring is for you? Like it wasn't an

822
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 1: old ring, like maybe maybe he bought maybe he bought

823
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,280
Speaker 1: the ring for an ex and then it never happened.

824
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm bringing in another Lisa. I'm bringing in Lisa. You

825
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: have the same point we got. We got two Lisa's

826
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: on the phone. What if the ring is like left over? Yeah?

827
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:34,240
Speaker 1: Wha yeah girlfriend left over? Yeah right, Lisa, I have that. Wow.

828
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: I mean it could be I didn't say anything to him,

829
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: so there could be an explanation. You know, that was

830
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: Lisa number one, Lisa number two, so you think it

831
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: might be a leftover ring. But then then, Lisa number two,

832
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: don't we have to ask the question, why don't we

833
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: know about that? Like? Yeah, what I mean, I'm went

834
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: rousio And I shuddered to even say that, but I'm

835
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: sometimes I appreciate it. The feeling. Yeah, I felt mad.

836
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 1: I mean, what was she doing? I don't understand that

837
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: they lived together. What was she doing going through the closet,

838
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: Like I don't Lisa, why are you going through the closet?

839
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: It's COVID. I was marine contoing like dead rid of stuff.

840
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: Lisa number two, she was organizing. I mean, do they

841
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 1: live together, Lisa number one, you live together, right, Lisa

842
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: number two? Yes, okay, I mean like that part was

843
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: kind of left out. I don't know if he has

844
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 1: time to carry on with someone else that the rinks

845
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: a possibly before or could this be like the Bobby

846
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 1: Brady episode, they're not my cigarettes, like he's holding the

847
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 1: ring for some interesting reference. Yeah, okay, all right, thank

848
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 1: you Lisa. Yeah, yeah, alright, Lisa number one back to you.

849
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 1: Um So then I would have to ask the question, either,

850
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: I don't get the impression it's a ring for another

851
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: woman now, but it has would you be upset to

852
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,240
Speaker 1: find out that he had wanted to propose to another

853
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: woman before you and you never knew that, you know what.

854
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 1: Everybody's got a pass, you know what I mean at

855
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: this point in our lives. We've all had a lot

856
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: of loves and I had a pass, So I would

857
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,359
Speaker 1: rather The weird thing is, why would he be hanging

858
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: on to it? This is confusing? Yeah, would you be

859
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: upset to say, say the ring is for you? Would

860
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: you be upset if he just wants to put a

861
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 1: ring on it but there's no marriage or there's no

862
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 1: official you know, wedding or anything like that. That's a

863
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,320
Speaker 1: good point, Yeah, don't even think about that. That's a

864
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: good point. I mean, you know, I guess I have

865
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: to just bite the bullet and bring it up and say,

866
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: I think you got to get out ahead of it.

867
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: I think you got to get out ahead of it.

868
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: I think you got to tell him you found it,

869
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: that you didn't mean to find it, but you found it,

870
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 1: and get an explanation. Because if that dude plans a

871
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: proposal and gets on one knee and then you either

872
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: say yes and no later or you shut him now,

873
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: that's gonna be hard to recover from. And you especially,

874
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 1: And how are you gonna go on every day knowing

875
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 1: that there's this ring that you don't want? I know, Yeah, okay,

876
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: this is this is tricky. Let's see what people think.

877
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: Have your radio one. A bunch of people want to

878
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: talk about it. So thank you, Lisa, good luck, have

879
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: a good day. Hey eight five, five, five, nine one

880
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: one three five. Generally a stay or go? You know,

881
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: does she stay or go? Or what does? What does

882
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 1: Lisa do here? Because she's with this guy that she

883
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 1: raves about, but she doesn't want the ring she found

884
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 1: is the ring even for her? What do you do

885
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: with this information? Eight five five five nine one one

886
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: on three to five Back in a second, Kiss Smart

887
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,760
Speaker 1: Fred Show one on three five Kiss FM. Good morning everybody,

888
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: Hello Amber, how are you Ambro? I want to recap

889
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: great thanks for asking on it. I want to recap here.

890
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 1: Lisa goes, I don't know about how great this guy

891
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,399
Speaker 1: is that she's been dating for a year and a half,

892
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: claim she was organizing the house, found a ring, but

893
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 1: they had discussed never getting married because of a bad

894
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 1: first marriage that she has, so they were just gonna

895
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: be together forever and be happy. She finds his ring,

896
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: doesn't know what to do. What do you do? Amber?

897
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 1: I say, if you proposed to take the ring, what's

898
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 1: the worst thing that could happen? You just stay engaged forever.

899
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: You don't have to get married, I'm saying. I mean

900
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: that's a good point. I mean, right, you never have

901
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 1: to get married. She gets a ring out of the

902
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: deal he made me feels like he locked it up

903
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: in some way, or like made a commitment, or maybe

904
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: he wants other people to know that she's off the market.

905
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know which is all on him,

906
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 1: and it's not being sensitive to what she asked for.

907
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: I do think the paper Sometimes when you're in a

908
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: relationship to at mom, the paper does room thing. So

909
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: just keep the ring. Say yes, you don't have to

910
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,839
Speaker 1: follow through, all right, Amber, thank you, have a good day.

911
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: It's better than you're saying no, Like yeah, it's not

912
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: on one knee. She goes, no, she's got to get

913
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: out ahead of this man. She's got to ask you

914
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: to tell him. She has a cop to it. I

915
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: found this. What are we doing here? Angela High? Good morning, guys,

916
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: how are you? Good morning? Glad you called? Thanks for listening.

917
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: What do you think? Sorry? I think she should say, honestly,

918
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: and I think that she should bring it up to him.

919
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: I think he just bought it because over time his

920
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: feelings grew so much, because it sounds like it's going

921
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: so great that he just wants to put a stamp

922
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 1: on it. He just wants to put his mark on

923
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: it and tell everybody, I love this woman so much,

924
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: that her and I are so committed. You know, I

925
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 1: bought this piece of jewelry that means so much. But

926
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 1: there's no wedding. He's no kurt feelings into consideration. He's

927
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 1: not gonna make her have a wedding. But just put

928
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: a lock on it and say we're together forever, and

929
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: then I want to show it. Hearing you describe this,

930
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: Angelai goes from being like sounding bad sounding good. You're like,

931
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,399
Speaker 1: he just wants to put a mark on it because

932
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 1: he loves her so much and he wants everyone to know.

933
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: He wants to stamp it. It's like bad, good, that's ownership.

934
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: Good again, thank you, Angela, have a good day. Just

935
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 1: hear people screaming he does know and you're oh, that's sweet.

936
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah again, No, Kelly, yes, hi, Kelly. What do you

937
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: think sterego good morning from morning guys? I think she

938
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: should stay. I mean, don't punish him for something that

939
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: you went through and he had a mirrorage before you,

940
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: so I'm sure he knows how to be a good man. Like,

941
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: do not punish this man for something that he did

942
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: not do to you. Yeah. But to Kaylin's point, she

943
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: doesn't want to get married, and why is there a ring?

944
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: Like shouldn't he be listening? I don't. I'm sure when

945
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: she said she didn't want to ring that at the beginning,

946
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 1: but this man is in love with her now it

947
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 1: is different. But why do you have to be married

948
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: to be in love. You absolutely don't ask me married

949
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: to be in love. But maybe he wants to marry

950
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: her and show her that he can't be a good husband,

951
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: that she can't have everything she's ever wanted. Oh, I've

952
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 1: been down that road before, where you want to do

953
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: all the stuff that the person told you that they

954
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: didn't like because they didn't have it before, you know,

955
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: And you're like, oh, but if I do it right,

956
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: they'll love it. Right. I think should I think she

957
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: should stay. I think he's a great guy. Don't give

958
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: him to somebody else. Girl, take that ring and a man. Damn.

959
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: Kelly he here, Kelly Thrank, Kelly, all right, Kelly, have

960
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: a good day. Thank you. Kelly, got it all figured out. Tank?

961
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: What's up? Your name is, big Tank? How you doing? Oh?

962
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 1: You know one? This is truth? Brady? You know who

963
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: this shy? Yeah, let's hear truch ever. Brad spent a minute.

964
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 1: Go ahead, truch ever. Friendy. First of all, what the

965
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: hell wom I anniot? I've been going for a long time,

966
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: but I said, let me get to the point here.

967
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: There's plenty here, went through my man stuff. Come on,

968
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: my dad ring with it. I say, let Nancy True

969
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 1: listen to the clue ship ya. Oh you should have

970
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: when you should have them? Lady live friend live, can't

971
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: man man before? The one woman is not gonna want

972
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: to make work on her fingers. Think about that. She

973
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: was snooping thing stuff. What woman doesn't want to big?

974
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:09,839
Speaker 1: What a dream? And I found my ring? I le dirt,

975
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, Big Terry, Big tank ak a

976
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: truck driver Brett. I haven't heard from him in a minute. Yeah,

977
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 1: it's been a while. You up to phil Angie's split pace,

978
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's interesting we haven't I received a

979
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: resume for Annie m Bike good morning. Hey, can you

980
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: follow that up with some sex please? I appreciate that.

981
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 1: What I was going to say, she should talk to him.

982
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: The most important thing in any relationship is communication. And

983
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: I've been with my husband twenty five years. It's not

984
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: always easy to have a stressful conversation, but that's what

985
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: makes your relationship become strong. And so you go so

986
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: over to you, Heather, You go to this dude and

987
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: you go, hey, look I found this ring. I didn't

988
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: mean to find this ring. What is it? What is

989
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: this about? Because I thought we talked about this and

990
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: you know, I just I don't want to take this stuff,

991
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 1: and then he can explain absolutely, yeah, no that the

992
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 1: like I said, the most important thing is going to

993
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: be you have to get that off your chest. You

994
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: have to say, I want to know what's up. I

995
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: want to make sure we're clearer together, because that's how

996
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: a relationship will work. Yeah, that's what I hear. But

997
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: thank you. Hey, Brittany, Yeah, Brittny, what do you think

998
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: stare goo? I mean, I think obviously she should have

999
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: a conversation about it, and I'm not really towards saying

1000
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: that she should go. But I do have one idea

1001
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: that it could possibly be a fairly heirloom he's holding.

1002
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: I know my boyfriend has an heirloom too, that's true.

1003
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: That's a good point. It could be Grandma's just keeping

1004
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: it from memories. Yeah, yeah, it's it's real. Yeah, or

1005
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 1: even for when he does close in the future, like

1006
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: a pass down ring. It very well could be. So

1007
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: probably worth the conversation because you know that's weighing on her.

1008
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 1: It's weighing on her enough to recall a radio show,

1009
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 1: so this is the way to affect her day to

1010
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: day thinking, why are you laughing. Ky. It's just so

1011
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 1: funny to me that, like this woman is like, I

1012
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: don't want to get married. It's like, oh, stop it,

1013
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: yes you do? You know, Like nobody's like, okay, you know,

1014
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: it's just like everyone's trying to convince her should get married.

1015
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny that a lot of people are

1016
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: saying that, Brittany. But Brittany's not saying that. No, I'm

1017
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 1: just saying in general, it's just like, what about what

1018
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: she wants? I don't know. Thank you, Brittany. Have a

1019
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: good day either. Yeah, I mean it is it is interesting.

1020
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: It's silly, but stop it. It is funny, like not

1021
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 1: one woman has called up here, well one woman called him,

1022
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 1: said to communicate, right, but the rest are like, no,

1023
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: take it in doing it. You're just being silly that

1024
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 1: you could just put a ring on it, but not

1025
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: getting mad. That's true. Like what if she doesn't want

1026
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 1: any of that? I don't. I don't know she's saying

1027
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,799
Speaker 1: she doesn't. I don't understand why everyone doesn't. Why does

1028
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: she get a choice? M Hey Marissa, Okay there Marissa,

1029
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: what do you think? Good morning? Good morning? Well my

1030
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: first thought is is anyone thinking it maybe a promised ring,

1031
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: because I know I have a diamond promise ring that

1032
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: my boyfriend gave me, and we're not engaged or not married.

1033
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 1: It's just kind of a sign of commitment, which it

1034
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: sounds like the two of them wants together, and I

1035
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: know promising there's something that's more popular these days. So

1036
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: maybe it's not even an engagement ring at all. Maybe

1037
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: it's just a diamond cross. Why does she get a choice? Um? Hey, Marissa,

1038
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: Okay there Marissa, what do you think? Good morning? Good morning?

1039
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: Well my first thought is is anyone thinking it maybe

1040
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: a promise ring? Because I know I have a diamond

1041
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: promise ring that my boyfriend gave me and we're not

1042
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: engaged or not Mary, it's just kind of a sign

1043
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 1: of commitment, which it sounds like the two of them

1044
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: wants together, and I know promising there's something that's more

1045
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 1: popular these days. So maybe it's not even an engagement

1046
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: ring at all. Maybe it's just a diamond promise ring.

1047
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 1: Oh it could be, But again it's Kaylin's point. What

1048
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: if she doesn't want to ring at all? I mean,

1049
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: she doesn't want a diamond ring. Well, it's like, so

1050
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 1: watch who doesn't want a diamond ring. You're a good point.

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00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: You go. Okay, what if what if she wears it

1052
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: on a on a middle finger like NFL players wear

1053
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: they're super Bowl ring, but she wants to watch I

1054
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 1: don't know, a watch. Yeah, what if she would like

1055
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,240
Speaker 1: a Rolex should like diamonds? I mean, come on, point, Marissa,

1056
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 1: thank you, have a great day. Thank you. Okay, finally

1057
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 1: we have a dissenting opinion. Um, Jenny, yes, Jenny, your

1058
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: thoughts and let me just recap quickly here. Then we

1059
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 1: got to go. But lisaid, this woman who called us

1060
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: some sterego is, wrote this guy for a year and

1061
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,279
Speaker 1: a half. She thinks he's great, but they have this

1062
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: deal where she had a bad first marriage and she

1063
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 1: just wants to be with him forever, but no marriage,

1064
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: no rings or proposals or whatever. And then she finds

1065
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: a ring going through his stuff organizing whatever she was doing,

1066
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: and that's just no what to do. Let me tell you,

1067
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: this is going to ruin the entire relationship that happened

1068
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 1: to me. And I was I just think that same thing.

1069
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: I told the man I did not want to get

1070
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 1: married ever. He proposed anyways, and I accepted it, but

1071
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: he said it's just kind of like a promised ring,

1072
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: but it was definitely like a two carrot engagement ring.

1073
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: And then that turned in two years later, would you

1074
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 1: accept the ring? And I penned with joke. Now my

1075
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: friend's deskol were getting married, so it turned into a

1076
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 1: huge problem. M So he always had the intention of

1077
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: trying to convince you to get married, even though he

1078
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: said when he gave you the ring that it wasn't

1079
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 1: about that. He tricked me. I was totletely tricked into

1080
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: taking this drink, that it was some kindly more like

1081
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 1: a promise ring. And then what did you do? Did you?

1082
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 1: Did you? Did you keep the ring and dump him

1083
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: and hawk it and go on a Hawaiian vacation or

1084
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: what what happens? No, we're still engage fifteen years later

1085
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: and he brings it up to me all the time.

1086
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: But that's still you're still with this guy. Yes, it

1087
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 1: ruined the relationship. That is not good though. It is

1088
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: like every time come down to TV for fifteen years,

1089
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm like changing the days. Oh my god, this is

1090
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 1: not the way I saw this story ending. Cough ones.

1091
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: If you need help telling you, don't take the ring

1092
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: under any kind of following. This is a woman who is,

1093
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, our our promise rings for middle schoolers too, Like,

1094
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: why are we prising that was tricked? I was tried.

1095
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 1: You're in a relationship for fifteen years for the guy,

1096
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: and now you're talking on the radio about how you're tricked.

1097
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 1: Why don't you just bail because he's such a good Yeah? Oh,

1098
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 1: put that stamp on it. Oh my god, ny drinking Jenny.

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00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 1: There's a lot that we'd like to hear more. I

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Speaker 1: need more. I have a good day, Jenny. I'm gonna

1101
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Speaker 1: let you go. Thank you doctor. He tried me a

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Speaker 1: we exhibit each morning here on one or three point

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Speaker 1: five FM for that ass um But but I study

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Speaker 1: came out today. This is from the University of Michigan,

1113
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Speaker 1: and it talks I know, I know you need In fact,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't even sure if you trust him gonna be

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Speaker 1: I don't, but Michigan, that's right, that's right, the guy

1116
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Speaker 1: who's killing everybody in the basement exactly. It's a great

1117
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: book by the way, to long read. But in the

1118
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: words of tiny tiny tiny in the paperback, but it's

1119
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 1: a good read. I actually judge that. I like hoping

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Speaker 1: a book and be how long is he gonna take

1121
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 1: me to read? And if if it's already thick and

1122
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: the wordsest moll, I'm like, oh god, I'm leaving for

1123
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Speaker 1: the movie with Leonardo Di Caprio. Yeah, well, the book,

1124
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 1: the book's gonna it's way it's more like historical, it

1125
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: goes in, it's gonna go way deeper than that, right, Um.

1126
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 1: But they have done research on how much your life

1127
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: is shortened by certain foods that you eat. And so

1128
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 1: my question is eight five one three five. Is there

1129
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: a food that you know is not good for you,

1130
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 1: but you are you refuse, You're You're just gonna eat it.

1131
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: You just take the l on it. And you know,

1132
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: as you know right now, if you've been listening this week.

1133
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 1: I'm having a really hard time with Pork, A very

1134
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 1: dipole time with Pork. I flew the rescue pig on

1135
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: on Sunday. The pig touch me a pig by the

1136
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 1: way out of surgery. The hernia went well, no diseases.

1137
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: He's in thirty days of quarantine now before he's introduced

1138
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 1: to his little brother, little tiny pig. They're gonna grow

1139
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 1: up together at the Canada Farm Sanctuary and Westlufaea, Indiana.

1140
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,360
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you this little guy, he had a

1141
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 1: soul in the I don't know. I can't. I can't

1142
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 1: look at bacon the same way. For the time being.

1143
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm having a very difficult time. But for a lot

1144
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: of people, baking would be that thing because it's not

1145
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: good for you, but it is so tasty. Yeah, but

1146
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: if you had you have to cut out everything, but

1147
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 1: you you're just not for some people, which say soda

1148
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: for example. For some people like diet coke. You know,

1149
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 1: it's like, look, I work out, I eat well, you know,

1150
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 1: I'm worried about my health whatever, But like I drink

1151
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: diet coke. That's the way it coad. Now, this isn't

1152
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: me because I don't. But I'm just saying, like it

1153
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: tiny coke is refreshing sometimes, by the way, I will say,

1154
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: but if anything, soda might be the one for me.

1155
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,479
Speaker 1: Every now and again, I want to coke, a full fat,

1156
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 1: cold diet coke. I want it, yeah, every now and again.

1157
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: And it's like, you know, I used to drink probably

1158
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:07,400
Speaker 1: a six pack a day. I had to cut that

1159
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 1: out because I have my metabolism. Is that what it

1160
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaker 1: once was? But what is it for you? Yeah? You

1161
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,479
Speaker 1: gotta live healthfully. But what we're that's this whole diet

1162
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 1: is yeah, everything, every nothing I eat is healthy for me.

1163
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: Like I eat fast food all the time. I'm in

1164
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 1: this candy bowl here at work. Sweet. It's definitely sweets

1165
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: for me. I always have to have something sweet, Like

1166
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: my coffee's got to have cream and sugar and it

1167
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,880
Speaker 1: I just can't do like black coffee, drink black coffee

1168
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: now like it's it's I just have that sweet soda

1169
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: like pop that's sweet to me. Like everything it's just

1170
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: sweets anything chocolate. One about sodas if you give it

1171
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: up for a while, which I have, Uh, it's it

1172
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 1: gets really sweet. Like when you drink a six pack

1173
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: a day. It's not that sweet. But now when I

1174
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,959
Speaker 1: do have a coke or diet coker or whatever, it's

1175
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:59,279
Speaker 1: I mean, it's shockingly sweet. You do coke or diet, Yeah,

1176
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 1: it depends sometimes diet if it's like really hot outside,

1177
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 1: because I find it like it's lighter, more refreshing, you know,

1178
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: I can drink it like I don't know, because coke

1179
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 1: can be kind of heavy. But I like coke too

1180
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 1: when it burns going down exactly. But the thing for

1181
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: me about it has more to do with what I'm eaning, like, yeah,

1182
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: well it burns going down nostrils. You're not supposed to

1183
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: huff Coca cola doesn't go there. Okay, I might be

1184
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: doing wrong, but doesn't go there either. Heay, Claire, damn it, Claire,

1185
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Your name is good? How are

1186
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: you good morning? You're not giving this food up. It

1187
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: doesn't matter how unhealthy it is for you. And this,

1188
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: by the way, is one of the worst offenders. But please,

1189
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: dogs don't care. Hot dogs don't care. So here's the thing, Claire,

1190
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: I think, don't think so it does. So a hot

1191
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 1: dog shortens your life span by thirty six minutes, according

1192
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Speaker 1: to the University of Michigan, the experts calculated health burden

1193
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: of different foods, becoming the first to put concrete scores

1194
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: on your favorite snacks. Um, a portion of nuts can

1195
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 1: add a twenty six minutes to your life's to your life,

1196
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: but a hot dog eaten shortened lifespan by thirty six minutes.

1197
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: So Claire already. Well, I mean, Joe chest will be

1198
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Speaker 1: eating seventy a year. I mean that's true. That dude's

1199
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Speaker 1: gonna leave, He's gonna diet. Um, Claire, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening to you guys. Yeah,

1201
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 1: I mean, and caffeine. I think caffeine in general, for

1202
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: a lot of people is the thing. It's like, it's

1203
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: not great. I don't think it's great for you in

1204
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 1: excessive quantity, and a lot of people just it's like

1205
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: whatever I needed too much. Lewis. Lewis, it doesn't matter

1206
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,440
Speaker 1: how unhealthy it is, you're not giving it up. Right. Chicken,

1207
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 1: what's the what is the best chicken sandwich out there? Lewis? Oh? Yeah, honestly,

1208
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 1: I've been eating a day's hot chicken quite frequently. Uh

1209
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: heat to Lucy's. But um, other than that, I brieofusly.

1210
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I always still go with Popeyes because

1211
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: it's so accessible. A lot of people like the Popeye

1212
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: chicken said, a lot of people think that Popeyees fried

1213
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 1: chicken is the best among all the choices. I think

1214
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: it was Bourdaine. Anthony Bourdaine used to say that a

1215
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: Popeyees fried chicken was his favorite, and that dude dated

1216
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 1: all over the world. Have you had fry the coup?

1217
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 1: Have you had fry the coup? No? I haven't. You

1218
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: need to have fry the coup? That is there several locations.

1219
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: I'm not being paid to say that. It's delicious. Thank you.

1220
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 1: Just be careful. That's another thing. If you go to

1221
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: fry the coup and you're like, you think you're a

1222
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: spicy guy, go down one because they and they're not

1223
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: playing with you over there. I made that mistake before

1224
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 1: in places, Yeah, this place, and they'll even tell you like,

1225
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 1: we're not playing with this. Ain't vanity sizing over here.

1226
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like you you don't, don't

1227
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: be a hero today. That's what they're trying to say

1228
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Speaker 1: to you. Thank you, Lewis, have a good one. Glad

1229
00:59:55,480 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: you called Elaine High, Elaine, How you doing, Elaine? So

1230
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 1: it's coca cola for you, huh Coca cola and also

1231
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: Rubio might Now this is fun um adobo. So I'm

1232
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 1: still okay. Yeah, I just I'm a fat vadobo and

1233
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: I know it's not agree for you because I'm like

1234
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 1: the salt and everything, but my good advo. What is

1235
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 1: to have it? Every time? I like that? Right? Yeah,

1236
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: I've told you what is it? It's a looking old food.

1237
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 1: M hmm. It's like it could either be chicken or yeh.

1238
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: It's like soy sauce. It's like it's like a it's

1239
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 1: like a stew that you put over a rice kind

1240
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: of like it's you know, it's it's you've got the

1241
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: it's got some veggies in it, but it's ago. It's

1242
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 1: mainly uh yeah, fatty chicken or fatty pork. Right, well

1243
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:53,959
Speaker 1: yeah's delicious. Yeah yeah, moderation, thank you, Elane. I'm having

1244
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: a good jay. It's like this guy Gideon, who I'm

1245
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: trying to hire to be my trainer. It's like when

1246
01:00:57,640 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: we have when we talk, I'm gonna be this is

1247
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 1: the same thing with April was the same way. It's

1248
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: like look, I'm not going to be a supermodel. I'm

1249
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: not going to be a weightlifter. I'm not going to

1250
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 1: be an Abercrombie model. You're not anymore. I once was,

1251
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: as you know, Yeah, I used to be that guy

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Speaker 1: with the abs. They never used my face, which upset me.

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01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 1: But like when you used to check out It's Abercrombie,

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01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: when you'd like go there and they had like the

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01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 1: mirror that was like two side if you're looking at

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01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 1: the cash register, that those were my abs. Yeah yeah,

1257
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: but it really upset me though, because I'm like, why

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01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: don't even put my face in there. They're like, well,

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01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: they use your body for the fierce model that was you,

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Speaker 1: wasn't it. That's also exactly yeah, that's exactly right. Okay,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, they wanted to use me for the ads.

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Speaker 1: I actually I actually one of my fraternity brothers in

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Speaker 1: college was the worthy abs, but they used his face too,

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01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 1: uh an Abercrombie, Yeah, he was the whole thing. I

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01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:52,560
Speaker 1: walked it one day and I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: is that? Oh my god, they're coming back. Like I

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01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 1: was at Woodfield Mollula they and they used to have

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01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 1: a store there, but it's gone but now I saw

1269
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 1: signs like coming. I was like, oh no, me and

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01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 1: my friends only buy herself from Abercamie now like they

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01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: did major, Yeah they did, and yeah they're coming back.

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01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 1: They're going back in stores. Yeah they're not putting like

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01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 1: their ugly logos exactly what really? And I give us

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01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: six months, we'll be wearing seven polos different colors. You

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01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: know what's funny about Abercrombie is I remember going in

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01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: there and the people that work there, Like if you

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01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: got a job there, it was almost like a model casting,

1278
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: like they thought they were better than you, and they

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01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 1: a lot of them wouldn't even help you. It's like

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01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 1: I'm here to work, Like no, I'm here to look

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01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 1: good in the cloth. And then you remember when you

1282
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: used to walk in there was a shirtless guy that

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01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:39,919
Speaker 1: was stand there. Absolutely Oh my god. My poor Nanna

1284
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: used to get an asthma tech every time we went

1285
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: in there because it was so strong because they spray

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01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: fierce or whatever. Yeah, if I don't want to take

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01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: you there, um, okay, let's see Kayer ice Cream, Chris

1288
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 1: Chocolate Milk, Nicole, uh, Starbucks, Jordan Esmeralda both said a

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Speaker 1: hot Cheetos but just so you know, bacon takes twenty

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01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: six minutes. If your life according to this study, at

1291
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 1: cheeseburger eight point eight minutes, soft drinks twelve point four minutes,

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01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 1: and package snacks and bread various reductions in lifespan. If

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01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 1: you want to add to your life span, peanut butter

1294
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:16,640
Speaker 1: and jam is I guess better than jelling thirty three minutes?

1295
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: That adds big salmon thirteen minutes, banana thirteen minutes, tomatoes

1296
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 1: four minutes, and avocados one point five minutes adds to

1297
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: your lifespan. If you're curious about that, I don't know

1298
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: if it works. Like if I eat a hot dog

1299
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 1: and then like thirty six avocados. If it's like, yeah,

1300
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's how it goes, then you know,

1301
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 1: we'll see. Or if I eat like a hot dog

1302
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:40,480
Speaker 1: with peanut butter and jam on it, is it like

1303
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 1: a Net zero Chicago Sta hot dog that has tomatoes

1304
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 1: on it? Exactly? Are we like equal? Yeah? Put a

1305
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: banana on there? You ahead of the game. You guys

1306
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: cracked the code. Good morning, It's the French Show on

1307
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: one h three five Kiss FM. You ever had a

1308
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 1: fantasy about living in a place that's like a non

1309
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 1: traditional place like man, I would love to live in

1310
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 1: a don't know, an art museum, like have a house

1311
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 1: in an art museum, or I don't know, um, like

1312
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: to have your home just built connected to costco. Right,

1313
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:13,959
Speaker 1: you need just oh you know what, I need paper

1314
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,919
Speaker 1: towels and go get yourself a nice crate of them. Yeah,

1315
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 1: or palette. I'm hungry. Let me just go get all

1316
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:21,840
Speaker 1: these samples. Let's get the sample city over here. I

1317
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 1: bring this up because this story has gone viral and

1318
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: Indiana couple spent twenty years turning a high school basketball

1319
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:32,640
Speaker 1: gym into a house, an actual high school basketball gym

1320
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 1: that you can now live in for two hundred ninety

1321
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: nine thousand dollars. And the agent says it still smells

1322
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 1: like a gym. Two distinct tabs. One looks like a

1323
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 1: home and the other half is still a gym. So

1324
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 1: it used to be part of a high school. It

1325
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 1: sits on a three point six acred lot at the

1326
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 1: edge of town in eastern Hancock. I don't know wherever

1327
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 1: that in somewhere Indiana. It comes to the half of

1328
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 1: the original basketball court. So they bought this thing in

1329
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 1: two thousand and two for eighty five grand. They've fixed

1330
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 1: it up and you can now live in it, and

1331
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 1: you can see this at Fredshire Radio dot com. It

1332
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: literally has the bleachers in it still, it has the

1333
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 1: basketball hoop in it, It has half the court really

1334
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 1: really old. Um. Yeah, they built like a like a

1335
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:23,680
Speaker 1: little house on the on the end of the court.

1336
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 1: Basically new living space is a kitchen, bathrooms, bedrooms, windows

1337
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 1: and doors that leads to the other half of the building.

1338
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 1: I mean it kind of looks like a modern It's

1339
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 1: all wide and has kind of modern windows in there.

1340
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 1: And then and then part of the living space is

1341
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 1: still the basketball court with the lines um the buildings

1342
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: were built in nineteen twenty two, and you could live

1343
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 1: in this thing a nice looking house. And then your

1344
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 1: outside is They just left the other part of the

1345
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: gym just the same, but like the kitchen still has

1346
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 1: the key right like where the basketball and then I

1347
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: don't know, literally he can live in a basketball gym.

1348
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 1: Half of it looks like a normal house. Forty minutes

1349
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 1: from Indianapolis. I don't know, I'll be kind of cool.

1350
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm gonna do with that, but

1351
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 1: I'm not going to buy it. But I also sent

1352
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: me that TikTok that one time that guy that's converted

1353
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 1: the whole like school, elementary school, he bought an element

1354
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: he bought it and he bought an old school. Yes,

1355
01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 1: that's crazy. The other day I saw on tick everything

1356
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 1: is on TikTok. I feel like I am the socially isolated,

1357
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 1: depressed guy that sits on TikTok all day. A woman

1358
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 1: pointed out she's a flight attendant and she was staying

1359
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: in a hotel in some city, and she believed that

1360
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 1: it was an old hospital that had been turned into

1361
01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 1: a hotel because of the way the building was built

1362
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 1: and the size of the rooms and like certain features

1363
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,720
Speaker 1: of the rooms. She contends, and like, you know how

1364
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: the hospitals have the emergency room and like that little

1365
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: whatever that thing is the easement or whatever another easement,

1366
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: but the thing where the ambulance would pull in, you

1367
01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: know that has like the extends from the building, and

1368
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 1: well like that, like yeah, it's I don't even know

1369
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 1: what it is, like yeah that thing yeah where they

1370
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 1: would dress circle yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, So that was there,

1371
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 1: and so she's like this and then like the dimensions

1372
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 1: worked that there could have been two hospital beds in

1373
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: the room. It was just such an oversize room that

1374
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 1: would freak me out. Hell yeah, I would not like that.

1375
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:24,919
Speaker 1: I got you know, you want to talk about energy

1376
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:26,880
Speaker 1: and like weird vibes. I don't think I want to

1377
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 1: stay in a hotel room that was once an old hospital,

1378
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 1: Like you gotta tear that thing down and rebuild it.

1379
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 1: Even I'm not even sure if I want to. And

1380
01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm sure it's happened, but I don't even know if

1381
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: I want to be on the same land, you know,

1382
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,120
Speaker 1: because yeah, people who got healed there and stuff, but

1383
01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 1: then also people didn't you know, get healed there, Right,

1384
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 1: I don't think I want to be in there, and

1385
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: I think I have a right to know. I think

1386
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 1: they should have to tell you if some if the

1387
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 1: space was converted from it, like I don't know, if

1388
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: it was like a I don't know, I don't know.

1389
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 1: Like every time I go to town, I'm like, there

1390
01:07:57,680 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 1: were dead people in here. I don't know, And I'll

1391
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: make a time I go to towel a lot and

1392
01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 1: I know I don't want and I've only been a

1393
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:08,440
Speaker 1: twel like twice, but even then I walk in, I'm

1394
01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 1: like what's going on here? Like it said this is

1395
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: a Morgi at one point, like this is weird Chicago

1396
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:24,639
Speaker 1: m an i Heeart radio station. It's show. Um, I've

1397
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 1: got some talk back from the iHeartRadio app to talk

1398
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:28,760
Speaker 1: back Mike. If you listen to us there, you can

1399
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 1: click on that leave us a message and we'll get

1400
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: to it when we do. UM. Also you can always call.

1401
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 1: That's how you get ahold of us immediately. But we

1402
01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:37,560
Speaker 1: do check these pretty regularly. Here's one. Let's see what

1403
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:39,720
Speaker 1: we have Heay Fred show. It's Jenna. Just wanted to

1404
01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:43,800
Speaker 1: say thank you for all of the chanpions you've been recording.

1405
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 1: It's been really nice to listen to them. And I

1406
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 1: just want to say that it does not go unnoticed

1407
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 1: since I know sometimes you feel you've said all you

1408
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: need to say on the show and don't necessarily have

1409
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 1: anything for the tangent. So I just wanted to say

1410
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:01,640
Speaker 1: I see you, I appreciate you, and think you for

1411
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 1: a nice of you. Yeah. I do feel like sometimes

1412
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:06,600
Speaker 1: we use all of our words before ten am, and

1413
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:08,439
Speaker 1: then there aren't any words lesson and we don't want

1414
01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:11,000
Speaker 1: to put crap on the tangent like we did yesterday.

1415
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 1: For the most part, it wasn't all crap. I would

1416
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 1: say it was like seventy percent not crap and thirty

1417
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:19,280
Speaker 1: percent complete crap. Yeah. At one point Caitlin actually said,

1418
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 1: this is horrible, yeah about the tangents that we recorded.

1419
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:28,639
Speaker 1: But yeah, I agreed vote second. But anyway, it's there,

1420
01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 1: and you know, so if you like the show, then

1421
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:33,680
Speaker 1: a little bit of extra content on the tangent on

1422
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 1: the IHAT radio app, here's another talk back as a

1423
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 1: resident of this planes, Rufio, thank you for correcting Fred.

1424
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm want to properly say this plane I was cringing

1425
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: as he said, Okaya. Of course, of course Rufio sent

1426
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: me that. Yeah, I want someone else in charge of

1427
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 1: the talkbacks because I don't I'd like to know when

1428
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 1: Rufio screw something up, if if there's a talk back

1429
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: about that that I don't wind up getting um because

1430
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 1: I haven't really that I don't. I have a feeling

1431
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: that I don't and just because it's on my desktop.

1432
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,559
Speaker 1: My favorite talk back ever, let's listen to that shaw

1433
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,679
Speaker 1: mister Nasty the truck driver. I'm gonna have to agree

1434
01:10:12,720 --> 01:10:14,639
Speaker 1: with Rufrey on this one. All Man, I think once

1435
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 1: you're married for so long, little things like that don't

1436
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: matter because I got me a little sexy, hunting thirty

1437
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:23,640
Speaker 1: pound cuban dying yees, and my wife farms like a

1438
01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 1: four hundred pound man. That don't FaZe me. Man, I'm

1439
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 1: still playing at boody hole. There is un Let's talk

1440
01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 1: back in a while where you're at, mister Nass. I mean,

1441
01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:37,640
Speaker 1: don't force it, mister nasty. But when something comes to you,

1442
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:42,599
Speaker 1: it's the show in the money? Why where you left?

1443
01:10:42,800 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone? Rachel's here? How are you Rachel? Yeah? Great,

1444
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: thank you, Welcome to the show. This is waiting by

1445
01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:52,640
Speaker 1: the phone, of course, and we're trying to help you

1446
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,519
Speaker 1: out with a guy named Christopher. It looks like, tell

1447
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:56,560
Speaker 1: us all about give us a background. I'm Christopher, and

1448
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 1: what's going on in dates and worth think Sam now

1449
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 1: and all of that. Yeah. So we met on Hinge

1450
01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 1: and we had a great conversation. We exchanged numbers, and

1451
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:10,840
Speaker 1: then we went out and had a great date. I

1452
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 1: had a really nice time and now he's ghosting me,

1453
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:17,639
Speaker 1: so what the hell? So looking back on this date,

1454
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:22,080
Speaker 1: really it went smoothly. No weird anything. No, I don't

1455
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: know no actuals show up. No, you didn't bring your

1456
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 1: kids with you. I don't. I'm trying to think of

1457
01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 1: all the millions of excuses that we've heard over time

1458
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:32,760
Speaker 1: that the things that didn't work out. No, I mean

1459
01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:36,759
Speaker 1: I think it was great. Like we had a nice time,

1460
01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: you know, and like drove back to my apartment, you know,

1461
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: like that was it. Like, Okay, I haven't heard from him,

1462
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: so you thought it went smoothly and you fully expected

1463
01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 1: to hear from him again, and he's ghosting you, and

1464
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 1: it's annoying you as it would most people, and you

1465
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 1: want to know why. Yeah, Okay, we're gonna call Christopher.

1466
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:54,720
Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll see what we can

1467
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 1: find out for you. At some point, you're welcome to

1468
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,639
Speaker 1: jump in on the call and hopefully we can straighten

1469
01:11:58,680 --> 01:12:00,920
Speaker 1: this out and get you guys set up on another

1470
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,600
Speaker 1: date that we pay four. Okay, can you hang on

1471
01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 1: for just a second, all right, say right here, let's

1472
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:07,720
Speaker 1: find out what's going on. Part two of waiting by

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1481
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:33,000
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1482
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 1: this Rachel, Hey, welcome back. Let's call Christopher. You met

1483
01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:39,600
Speaker 1: on hinge, you went out, had a good time. You

1484
01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: thought the date went really smoothly, and you expected to

1485
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 1: hear from him and thought you guys would be going

1486
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,439
Speaker 1: on another date. And he's ghosting you and you want

1487
01:12:46,479 --> 01:12:49,120
Speaker 1: to know what's up? Ye, all right, we're gonna call

1488
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 1: him right now. Good luck? Thank Hello? Is this Christopher?

1489
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 1: Is this hi Christopher? It's Fred and Kale and the

1490
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:06,040
Speaker 1: Fred Show on one or three five Kiss FM in Chicago.

1491
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: Started to bother. But I do have to tell you

1492
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:09,840
Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now and I

1493
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 1: need your consent to continue with the calls. That okay,

1494
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:14,720
Speaker 1: if we talked for a couple of minutes, yeah, why not.

1495
01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:18,640
Speaker 1: Thank you. We appreciate that we're calling on behalf of

1496
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 1: a woman named rachels that she met you on Hinge

1497
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:22,880
Speaker 1: and you guys talk for a bit and then went

1498
01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 1: on a date. You remember her, Yeah, yeah, as you

1499
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:29,320
Speaker 1: might imagine, she she, well, maybe you don't know what's up.

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01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 1: She thought that they went well and had a really

1501
01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: good time and was hoping to hear from you again.

1502
01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:35,040
Speaker 1: Says that you've ghosted her, and she was kind of

1503
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 1: hoping that we could figure out why. Sure. Yeah, well well,

1504
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:41,400
Speaker 1: I mean honestly, the date and the date was fine.

1505
01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 1: I thought she was really sweet. Yeah. We took her

1506
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:46,479
Speaker 1: home in an Uber and uh and she was. She

1507
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 1: was just crazy rude to the driver, like insanely rude,

1508
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 1: like ordering him around, demanding he switched the radio station,

1509
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:56,280
Speaker 1: like turn here, speed up, like it was disgusting, like

1510
01:13:56,360 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 1: at one point she even reached over to try and

1511
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 1: turn the radio or self ridiculous if you're going like

1512
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 1: if you're going to be an uber driver and chocosoo

1513
01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:06,920
Speaker 1: know where you're going. Well that's Rachel by the way, Rachel,

1514
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:09,439
Speaker 1: you guys know each other. Yeah, go ahead jumping so

1515
01:14:09,600 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: you um, Christopher, she was rude to the Uber driver.

1516
01:14:12,479 --> 01:14:14,720
Speaker 1: That turns you off. Rachel, you didn't feel like you

1517
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 1: were being rude to him, he should know where he's going.

1518
01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 1: He's drive, like his job is to drive around the city.

1519
01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:22,240
Speaker 1: And the guy did not know where he was going

1520
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:25,120
Speaker 1: even at the GPS on and he was not doing

1521
01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:27,760
Speaker 1: he's not doing what it said, like, come on, let

1522
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 1: let him. Don't worry about it, like you you like,

1523
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,280
Speaker 1: even if he didn't know where it's going, there's no

1524
01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:36,599
Speaker 1: reason you need to be a bitch to it all right,

1525
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: like I was not doing. There's no reason for it. No,

1526
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:42,600
Speaker 1: he deserved that, like he it was crazy. No, No,

1527
01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:45,160
Speaker 1: he didn't know where he was going. He deserves no, Rachel,

1528
01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 1: he didn't deserve that. He didn't deserve that. He said,

1529
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:49,920
Speaker 1: there another way to handle that, like either I don't know,

1530
01:14:49,960 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 1: if it's that bad, then just cancel the uber and

1531
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,840
Speaker 1: get out, or like make a friendly suggestion. But as

1532
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,599
Speaker 1: far as like changing his radio and yelling at him

1533
01:14:57,720 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: or whatever, I mean, that's probably not a great way

1534
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:04,600
Speaker 1: to handle any sort of service situation. He like it

1535
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 1: was it was crazy, like he was it was so bad,

1536
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 1: like it was too loud, and then like uh, like

1537
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 1: it was, yeah, but you don't get it. Yeah, there's

1538
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 1: a way, I mean, there's a way to ask for

1539
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 1: things and handle that. That's a little bit more respectful

1540
01:15:19,080 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 1: than like reaching over him or telling him to speed up.

1541
01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:25,599
Speaker 1: You know, I mean, your life is in this driver's hands.

1542
01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 1: You want to be nice and so Christopher, what was

1543
01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:29,120
Speaker 1: it like you didn't like the way that she was

1544
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:32,800
Speaker 1: treating someone who was providing a service, like as maybe

1545
01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 1: she felt that he was beneath her. Yeah, that's exactly it.

1546
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 1: It was suddenly like a switch went off and she

1547
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:43,840
Speaker 1: went from like super sweet nice to like you're gonna

1548
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 1: do this. You're gonna do this my way because I'm

1549
01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 1: paying you to do this and there's no alternative. Like

1550
01:15:48,920 --> 01:15:52,560
Speaker 1: it was so disrespectful. It was like I couldn't I

1551
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,719
Speaker 1: couldn't help but be just completely turned off and disgusted

1552
01:15:55,840 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 1: by it. Where I call an uber he works for me,

1553
01:15:58,360 --> 01:16:01,240
Speaker 1: Like that's that's how it. So then let me ask

1554
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: you this, anytime you're paying for anything, you feel that

1555
01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 1: you can treat people however you want. Rachel, I mean, yeah,

1556
01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 1: like that's that's your job, Like do your job, ye major,

1557
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 1: I think I get it, Christopher. So look, it doesn't

1558
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:17,960
Speaker 1: sound like this was a one time of occurrence. It

1559
01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:20,040
Speaker 1: kind of sounds like an edit an overall attitude. So

1560
01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 1: no second date for you, Christopher, if we pay for it,

1561
01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 1: not a chance. I'm sorry, Okay, Rachel, I'm sorry at

1562
01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 1: least you know, yeah, I mean I wish you the best. Maybe,

1563
01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 1: you know, consider being a little more friendly with people

1564
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 1: who are providing you a service, because I think other

1565
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 1: people would see that and feel the same way. Well,

1566
01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:40,559
Speaker 1: I feel like I was totally justified. Good luck, guys.

1567
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 1: Thank you. Look on your face, Chase, and you're appalled. Girl,

1568
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:46,600
Speaker 1: you're appalled by this. That is not it. That is

1569
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 1: not an editude to have. Anyone says you work for

1570
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 1: me or for nobody out here. That's what I would say. Well,

1571
01:16:56,840 --> 01:17:00,640
Speaker 1: hold on. So okay, if you're in a newer and

1572
01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 1: the person is not following the GPS, or they're not

1573
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, they're I don't know the condition of

1574
01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:11,840
Speaker 1: the inside of the car is bad, or they're you know,

1575
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 1: I've been in an uber before and the guy's talking

1576
01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 1: on the speaker phone like super loud, I got to

1577
01:17:15,400 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: hear the whole conversation. Or I don't know, they don't

1578
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,800
Speaker 1: they won't adjust the climate or or something like that.

1579
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:22,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. If something goes wrong, then what do you.

1580
01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:24,760
Speaker 1: I mean you you say nicely to them, do this,

1581
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 1: and then if they don't do it, then what do

1582
01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 1: you do? Cancel the uber and get out. I mean

1583
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm very non confrontational, so I would just sit and

1584
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 1: suffer until I gets I would too. It's like, oh,

1585
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 1: I was meant to go this way. Something was maybe

1586
01:17:36,200 --> 01:17:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm meant to see something or the scenic route or

1587
01:17:38,960 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 1: something along the way. But but that's what the rating

1588
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:44,160
Speaker 1: systems for. Like if if car is not clean, if

1589
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:48,000
Speaker 1: they're not doing the right direction, then you lower their

1590
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:50,080
Speaker 1: score and then they you know, then they'll fix it.

1591
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,479
Speaker 1: So then you give them a bad rating. You'll never

1592
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 1: see them again. They get a bad rating, you had

1593
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 1: a bad ride, everybody loses, right because like nothing nothing

1594
01:17:57,560 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 1: was changed. But you got to worry you can't get

1595
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: a bad It's like you don't see anything in the car.

1596
01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 1: How is that I can give you? No? I mean,

1597
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:04,960
Speaker 1: you're giving them a bad rating, but it doesn't change

1598
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,720
Speaker 1: anything for you and your ride. So like what do

1599
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:10,639
Speaker 1: you You say something one time and if they don't change,

1600
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 1: then you don't say anything. No, I just I just

1601
01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 1: run its course. Man, you just accept a bad ride? Yeah? Man,

1602
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:20,960
Speaker 1: that gets driving me. That's true, I'm supposed to sweat

1603
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:24,560
Speaker 1: this one out. Yeah, everything happens for I mean, I

1604
01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:26,599
Speaker 1: don't complain either. And I'm the guy that won't complain

1605
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:28,080
Speaker 1: about food. I mean for the food. If I go

1606
01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 1: to a restaurant and foods bad, it's gotta be really

1607
01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:32,240
Speaker 1: like inedible, it's gotta be really bad for me to

1608
01:18:32,320 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 1: say something. Yeah, and then I'll decide later if I'm

1609
01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: gonna go back or not. Same with service, Like if

1610
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: service is really bad, I'll tip my twenty and then

1611
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,360
Speaker 1: I'll get out and I'm they or may not go back.

1612
01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:45,400
Speaker 1: But like I'm not saying you know what I Yeah,

1613
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:47,840
Speaker 1: I'm the guy that doesn't say anything, which makes you know,

1614
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:50,200
Speaker 1: these drivers, some of them driving you home like I

1615
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:52,320
Speaker 1: don't want to know what's like, I don't want to

1616
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:54,000
Speaker 1: complain me Like, yeah, this is my house right there,

1617
01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:59,559
Speaker 1: see you later, I'm floor to do. The other day,

1618
01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:02,680
Speaker 1: I get in, Barny goes how much Carlo's costs there?

1619
01:19:02,840 --> 01:19:11,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't know. I forgot happened to

1620
01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 1: me in Michigan. It was scary. The guy was creepy

1621
01:19:14,200 --> 01:19:16,799
Speaker 1: and he's like, how much is this house? Are you single?

1622
01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:19,760
Speaker 1: Do you live alone? I was terrified. Yeah, don't ask

1623
01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:22,720
Speaker 1: those questions like that's how you wind up to watch this? Yeah,

1624
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:26,639
Speaker 1: I know, I was in my friend's house. I don't

1625
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: think I live here right now. One or three five

1626
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,800
Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. Good morning,

1627
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 1: It's the Friend Show. I meant to play this yesterday,

1628
01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:43,600
Speaker 1: but my other audio clip today. Jennifer Coolidge who was

1629
01:19:43,640 --> 01:19:46,280
Speaker 1: an American Pie. She was the milf stifflish mom in

1630
01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:49,600
Speaker 1: American Pie all these years ago. She claims um in

1631
01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:53,479
Speaker 1: a recent interview that the American Pie movie helped her

1632
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:56,240
Speaker 1: get with a lot more people in her life. Her

1633
01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 1: body cow went up exponentially because she was the hot

1634
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,720
Speaker 1: mom in American Pye. There were so many benefits to

1635
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:05,760
Speaker 1: doing that movie. Women. There would be like like two

1636
01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:10,160
Speaker 1: hundred people that I would never have slept with taking

1637
01:20:10,200 --> 01:20:13,719
Speaker 1: the job. Mass she got with two hundred more people

1638
01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:15,760
Speaker 1: because she was the hot mom in that movie. Wasn't

1639
01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:18,000
Speaker 1: she Wasn't she dating like two twins at the same thing.

1640
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:22,320
Speaker 1: Yeah she was. Yeah, And they didn't know until they did.

1641
01:20:23,280 --> 01:20:25,920
Speaker 1: I didn't know that. Yeah. She told a really funny story.

1642
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:27,960
Speaker 1: She's really honest about that stuff. And she was dating

1643
01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:31,560
Speaker 1: literal twins and like not telling them how old is

1644
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:34,720
Speaker 1: she now? For cool fifties, I would guess, let's see, oh,

1645
01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:37,799
Speaker 1: I've been older than that. Really, maybe she looks amazing.

1646
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:40,360
Speaker 1: She was. I think she was in her fifties. Sixty yeah,

1647
01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:44,920
Speaker 1: I got motus right, Yeah, she's so good in White Lotus.

1648
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 1: If she's sixty now, then she would have only been

1649
01:20:47,640 --> 01:20:51,720
Speaker 1: like late well, mid forties, yeah, which she seemed older

1650
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:55,719
Speaker 1: than that to me in that movie American Bye. Yeah. Wow. Anyway,

1651
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:57,639
Speaker 1: so those are the benefits of being the hot mom

1652
01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:00,920
Speaker 1: in in a big movie. I remember um going to

1653
01:21:01,040 --> 01:21:03,160
Speaker 1: that movie with someone and I didn't I didn't know

1654
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:06,080
Speaker 1: what it was like, I didn't I didn't know what

1655
01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:07,680
Speaker 1: we were going to see. And she picked it this

1656
01:21:07,880 --> 01:21:09,680
Speaker 1: I was in college and freshman in college, and this

1657
01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:11,920
Speaker 1: girl picked it. She's go see American Pie. And she

1658
01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,160
Speaker 1: was a pretty conservative girl. And I'm like okay, and

1659
01:21:14,200 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 1: then like you know, homeboys doing the pie and the

1660
01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 1: and I just remember she was mortified, and I'm just

1661
01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:23,400
Speaker 1: looking at her and I'm like, I remember I apologizing

1662
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:24,800
Speaker 1: in the middle of the movie. I'm like, I'm sorry,

1663
01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:27,759
Speaker 1: but you picked it. The whole movie, like would be awkward,

1664
01:21:27,920 --> 01:21:29,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. There's so many parts, like

1665
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:31,320
Speaker 1: when he in the notebook on how to do with

1666
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:34,040
Speaker 1: Terry read right, or when he's he starts dancing for

1667
01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:39,400
Speaker 1: the for the model girl in his room. He doesn't

1668
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:42,760
Speaker 1: know he's on his webcare Yeah exactly, Yeah, to throw

1669
01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:44,960
Speaker 1: the shirt over it. Yeah. She's like, let's go see

1670
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 1: American Pie. I'm like okay, And for whatever reason, I

1671
01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:48,960
Speaker 1: didn't know what it was about. And then we came

1672
01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 1: in there and it's like, I just remember laughing so

1673
01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: hard at that movie. Huh, I like your she was

1674
01:21:57,600 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 1: so hot. And you know what's his name? Um Levy.

1675
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:05,680
Speaker 1: He looks exactly the same now as he did then.

1676
01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:08,519
Speaker 1: The guy will never age. He looks old then or

1677
01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:10,639
Speaker 1: not old. I don't know. He looked like he did then,

1678
01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 1: looks like he does now. Yeah, And I didn't know

1679
01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:16,000
Speaker 1: who he was. And that guy was like a famous

1680
01:22:16,040 --> 01:22:19,560
Speaker 1: comedic actor before, well known by so many people before that.

1681
01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 1: But that's like the movie that seems to have made it.

1682
01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:24,160
Speaker 1: That was the turning plate because him having to have

1683
01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:29,919
Speaker 1: the chat in the kitchen with his son about it afterwards.

1684
01:22:30,760 --> 01:22:35,040
Speaker 1: Tried to pine no, um, I never ample pie again. Actually,

1685
01:22:35,400 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 1: could I ever try you, like getting with an ample

1686
01:22:38,280 --> 01:22:40,960
Speaker 1: pie or anything, because I feel like you guys no

1687
01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 1: things that they've tried to. Yeah, no, I would use

1688
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:52,759
Speaker 1: the other hand because it felt different. You could always

1689
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:55,160
Speaker 1: sit on it, make it down. And they call that

1690
01:22:55,280 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 1: the stranger. They're like reverse you over your hands away.

1691
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:05,920
Speaker 1: So I didn't. I didn't it so early. I did

1692
01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:09,880
Speaker 1: one thing. I'm sorry I did show how do I describe?

1693
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:14,160
Speaker 1: You can tell me off there? No, no, no, it

1694
01:23:14,280 --> 01:23:15,960
Speaker 1: wasn't that bad. But when I was like, you know,

1695
01:23:16,040 --> 01:23:19,360
Speaker 1: when I think I was twelve, when my mom bought

1696
01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:22,200
Speaker 1: me contraception, you know, and she my mom used to

1697
01:23:22,280 --> 01:23:25,200
Speaker 1: do the laundry, and so she the laundry. We there'd

1698
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 1: be little stack of laundry on my bed, you know,

1699
01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:28,120
Speaker 1: when she did it or whatever. And I walked in

1700
01:23:28,200 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 1: my bedroom twelve years old, and there's a box of Magnums.

1701
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be like over you know, little she

1702
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:35,920
Speaker 1: really believed you didn't Yeah, and it was just so

1703
01:23:36,200 --> 01:23:38,160
Speaker 1: rich a little Does she know that thing collected does

1704
01:23:38,200 --> 01:23:42,240
Speaker 1: for eight years before? Yeah, I still have them. I

1705
01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 1: still have some left. There's still a few left in there. Things. Yeah,

1706
01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:49,920
Speaker 1: when slow, No, I've taken them with me. Ever your

1707
01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:52,400
Speaker 1: rise moved. I should have kept that. That would have

1708
01:23:52,439 --> 01:23:56,080
Speaker 1: been funny. I actually, um, but I do remember at

1709
01:23:56,160 --> 01:24:01,200
Speaker 1: one point wanting to know the difference when you Warren that.

1710
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:05,479
Speaker 1: So I may have done something around along those lines

1711
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 1: to be like, well, how is it different? I may

1712
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 1: have done that, and I learned earlier on that it's

1713
01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:12,639
Speaker 1: very varied that you never want to use one again,

1714
01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 1: and you never did. That's not true. That's another story

1715
01:24:17,439 --> 01:24:21,519
Speaker 1: for the tangent. I guess another day, like you put

1716
01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:25,519
Speaker 1: them on. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, as you show, Yeah,

1717
01:24:25,760 --> 01:24:28,240
Speaker 1: you don't want in the moment like fiddling and funneling

1718
01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:30,360
Speaker 1: over here. Yeah. But even out of this day, sometimes

1719
01:24:30,400 --> 01:24:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, well, what is this? You're having a party?

1720
01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:42,439
Speaker 1: Get morning? It's the French show on one or three

1721
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:45,880
Speaker 1: five Kiss FM. My mom hates it when I say this,

1722
01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:47,719
Speaker 1: but like, and there's another way to say it, because

1723
01:24:47,720 --> 01:24:49,560
Speaker 1: it's not really what I mean. But but you know,

1724
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:52,639
Speaker 1: on the on the previous topic, and you were asking

1725
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:56,479
Speaker 1: about like my mom, I feared my parents. I didn't

1726
01:24:56,560 --> 01:24:59,000
Speaker 1: fear them like they were gonna like be mean to

1727
01:24:59,120 --> 01:25:00,920
Speaker 1: me or something like used me or said it wasn't

1728
01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:03,720
Speaker 1: like that it was I feared disappointing them. They were

1729
01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:08,240
Speaker 1: they were masters at like making me feel like certain

1730
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 1: things were bad really really like like you know, it

1731
01:25:11,120 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 1: was like it was like they were intense, but yet

1732
01:25:13,800 --> 01:25:16,519
Speaker 1: they were also like I don't know, it's hard to describe,

1733
01:25:16,600 --> 01:25:18,280
Speaker 1: but but yeah, they had me convinced that I was

1734
01:25:18,320 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 1: going to get somebody pregnant if I did anything bad.

1735
01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:22,800
Speaker 1: And it wasn't like scare tactic. It was just yeah,

1736
01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 1: well you know, you gotta got so I told them,

1737
01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:28,400
Speaker 1: as you know, I told the line for a very

1738
01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:31,840
Speaker 1: long time, very long time. I experienced many things that

1739
01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:35,680
Speaker 1: people experienced Jason Brown experienced. Did it thirteen? Right? My

1740
01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:37,800
Speaker 1: parents did the opposite. They were like, I think they

1741
01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:39,360
Speaker 1: were like, we don't need to worry about him getting

1742
01:25:39,360 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 1: ayone pregnant? Well did he know wild thirst or fourteen? Okay, yeah,

1743
01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:49,880
Speaker 1: I didn't do that until I was probably like twenty eight.

1744
01:25:51,680 --> 01:25:57,240
Speaker 1: I was too late. College conversation for another day, but like,

1745
01:25:57,360 --> 01:26:00,200
Speaker 1: I uh, and then again my mom will call, they go,

1746
01:26:00,200 --> 01:26:01,639
Speaker 1: why do you tell people that, why do you stay

1747
01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:02,960
Speaker 1: on the radio that you feared us? I'm like, it

1748
01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:05,000
Speaker 1: wasn't that, it was just that they were really good

1749
01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 1: at convincing me that, you know, and they were right.

1750
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:11,080
Speaker 1: You know. It was like, don't they did a good job.

1751
01:26:11,200 --> 01:26:13,240
Speaker 1: Don't drink and drive, you know, don't get anybody. And

1752
01:26:13,320 --> 01:26:18,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't it wasn't necessarily don't don't have relations with women.

1753
01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:20,639
Speaker 1: It was just you know, here, here's how bad it's

1754
01:26:20,640 --> 01:26:23,240
Speaker 1: going to be for you if this happens. And uh,

1755
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:25,320
Speaker 1: And it was more that I didn't want to ever

1756
01:26:25,400 --> 01:26:27,360
Speaker 1: have to go and tell them that I did that thing,

1757
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:29,320
Speaker 1: or that I or that I made that mistake, or

1758
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:31,519
Speaker 1: that we had an issue. It was just I feared

1759
01:26:31,600 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 1: disappointing them exactly, and that's what I was about to say.

1760
01:26:34,640 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 1: And so and it worked, you know. But I think

1761
01:26:37,320 --> 01:26:38,960
Speaker 1: a lot of people you might hear some like how

1762
01:26:39,000 --> 01:26:42,080
Speaker 1: I didn't do a lot of things. One in particular

1763
01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 1: thing that we were discussing until I was twenty one

1764
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 1: years old, and people were like, wow, did you grow

1765
01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:47,920
Speaker 1: up with a religious family or were your parents like

1766
01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:51,560
Speaker 1: super strict? No, no, no, it was just it was no,

1767
01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:53,800
Speaker 1: I don't think I am. It was I thought I

1768
01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:55,599
Speaker 1: was Morman. There was no way. Yeah, have you met

1769
01:26:55,640 --> 01:26:59,000
Speaker 1: my mom met Morman? Yeah? Yeah, No, I didn't. I

1770
01:26:59,040 --> 01:27:01,599
Speaker 1: don't know any way, anyone who wanted to torture them? Well,

1771
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:04,920
Speaker 1: I certainly did. And how long was it the first time?

1772
01:27:05,720 --> 01:27:08,600
Speaker 1: A long time, A long time. Well, I don't know.

1773
01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:11,200
Speaker 1: I was so nervous. I just had it going on.

1774
01:27:12,360 --> 01:27:16,240
Speaker 1: You know, a lot of practice subsequent times, like moves.

1775
01:27:16,320 --> 01:27:17,680
Speaker 1: Did you know what to do? I don't know, you

1776
01:27:17,760 --> 01:27:20,800
Speaker 1: know where to put things? Where? I know? Anyway? Good morning?

1777
01:27:22,400 --> 01:27:29,040
Speaker 1: Um remember her name? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I do. That's

1778
01:27:29,080 --> 01:27:32,840
Speaker 1: another story, but I can't tell. She was the step

1779
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 1: sister of my closest friend at the time. She was younger. No, no, no,

1780
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:43,160
Speaker 1: he no, no. This is the worst part is he

1781
01:27:43,840 --> 01:27:49,960
Speaker 1: encouraged it. Oh that's sick. Well, let me explain. Let me.

1782
01:27:50,320 --> 01:27:53,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm really trying to be like not obvious,

1783
01:27:53,960 --> 01:27:56,040
Speaker 1: Like I'm trying to keep this conversation like, you know,

1784
01:27:57,120 --> 01:27:58,920
Speaker 1: thirty thousand foot levels so that if people don't know

1785
01:27:58,920 --> 01:28:00,519
Speaker 1: what we're talking about, they don't know we're talking like

1786
01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:03,120
Speaker 1: kids or I'm not trying to whatever. But um, this

1787
01:28:03,240 --> 01:28:05,920
Speaker 1: guy was my buddy. We both worked at a cigar

1788
01:28:06,000 --> 01:28:10,200
Speaker 1: store together. I was freshman, No, it was it was

1789
01:28:10,280 --> 01:28:13,559
Speaker 1: a summer between my senior year of college and freshman year.

1790
01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:16,519
Speaker 1: I worked at a cigar store with him, and he

1791
01:28:16,800 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 1: was I was whatever. That was eighteen and he was

1792
01:28:20,240 --> 01:28:23,120
Speaker 1: like twenty five. And when when he was like twenty,

1793
01:28:23,280 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 1: his parents were divorced, and so when he was like

1794
01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:28,000
Speaker 1: twenty three, his mom calls him and says, come over

1795
01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:29,719
Speaker 1: to the house. I want you to meet my new boyfriend.

1796
01:28:30,200 --> 01:28:32,240
Speaker 1: So he goes over to the house. Never met this guy.

1797
01:28:32,439 --> 01:28:36,400
Speaker 1: He walks in and there he is now fiance, they

1798
01:28:36,439 --> 01:28:39,880
Speaker 1: got engaged, and his mom and his now soon to

1799
01:28:39,920 --> 01:28:42,920
Speaker 1: be stepsister who's my age eighteen years old and hot,

1800
01:28:43,280 --> 01:28:46,280
Speaker 1: And he's like, are you serious right now? Like this

1801
01:28:46,600 --> 01:28:49,320
Speaker 1: is my stepsister. Like they didn't know each other, they've

1802
01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:51,920
Speaker 1: never even met, you know, until this moment and and

1803
01:28:51,960 --> 01:28:57,280
Speaker 1: the se video before exactly, and so he's like, this

1804
01:28:57,520 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 1: is awful, Like one of the odds that my mom

1805
01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:01,680
Speaker 1: would pick the guy with the you know hot I mean,

1806
01:29:01,800 --> 01:29:05,839
Speaker 1: come on right, so anyway, I can't do it, you can. Basically,

1807
01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:08,160
Speaker 1: it was like you should meet my step sister. You

1808
01:29:08,200 --> 01:29:16,800
Speaker 1: should meet my step sister, you know yeah, yeah yeah,

1809
01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:21,360
Speaker 1: did you give him the death Yeah? Did you say

1810
01:29:21,400 --> 01:29:24,240
Speaker 1: I gotta go excuse myself? I mean it was I

1811
01:29:25,240 --> 01:29:27,200
Speaker 1: feel for the guy, though, and because it's not like

1812
01:29:27,320 --> 01:29:33,880
Speaker 1: they're married now, well they weren't blood relative. So I mean,

1813
01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:36,320
Speaker 1: but I felt bad for the I mean, honestly like

1814
01:29:36,479 --> 01:29:40,599
Speaker 1: to think that God forbid my parents ever got divorced again.

1815
01:29:41,040 --> 01:29:43,760
Speaker 1: Uh and and my mom met some guy, and you know,

1816
01:29:44,439 --> 01:29:47,439
Speaker 1: my now stepsister is whatever, here's a here's a crazy

1817
01:29:47,520 --> 01:29:50,439
Speaker 1: story you And I'm not trying to air too much

1818
01:29:50,479 --> 01:29:52,439
Speaker 1: dirty lodgy here, but my father and I are strange.

1819
01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:53,920
Speaker 1: I haven't talked to a guy in a very long time,

1820
01:29:53,960 --> 01:29:58,439
Speaker 1: I mean thirty years something like that. He has a

1821
01:29:58,479 --> 01:30:00,800
Speaker 1: sort of history of being married to various people, people

1822
01:30:00,840 --> 01:30:03,120
Speaker 1: that we know, and he's now married to a woman

1823
01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:06,479
Speaker 1: whose kid I went to to up until eighth grade with.

1824
01:30:07,160 --> 01:30:08,960
Speaker 1: So my stepsister is a girl that I went to

1825
01:30:09,080 --> 01:30:14,280
Speaker 1: kindergarten three, eighth grade with, apparently supposedly allegedly, this is

1826
01:30:14,320 --> 01:30:15,800
Speaker 1: what I'm told, This is what my this is what

1827
01:30:15,880 --> 01:30:18,160
Speaker 1: the authorities have told me. I mean, So, I mean,

1828
01:30:18,200 --> 01:30:20,920
Speaker 1: who knows if another four years and this girl and

1829
01:30:20,960 --> 01:30:22,880
Speaker 1: I could have dated, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1830
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:24,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, it didn't normally dates to eighth grade.

1831
01:30:24,720 --> 01:30:26,240
Speaker 1: I think we went to them all together one time,

1832
01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:28,160
Speaker 1: you know, but I'm saying, like a couple of years later,

1833
01:30:28,200 --> 01:30:30,040
Speaker 1: we could have gone a prom together and now she's

1834
01:30:30,400 --> 01:30:32,880
Speaker 1: apparently she's my stepsister. That would have been a little weird,

1835
01:30:33,000 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 1: and it would have been you know, I'm bennounced to us.

1836
01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:37,839
Speaker 1: We never would have known. You didn't know. But that happens,

1837
01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:41,280
Speaker 1: doesn't It Like where doesn't happened? Where Like people meet

1838
01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:45,800
Speaker 1: like they're they're dating, Like boy and girl are dating,

1839
01:30:46,200 --> 01:30:49,360
Speaker 1: and then the parents meet and get married. Hasn't happened before,

1840
01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:52,080
Speaker 1: and it's like waiting, but now we're like relatives. You know.

1841
01:30:52,360 --> 01:30:54,840
Speaker 1: I've heard stories about that. Oh. I think it's common

1842
01:30:54,960 --> 01:30:58,160
Speaker 1: that like either kids start dating and the parents start

1843
01:30:58,320 --> 01:31:01,320
Speaker 1: dating or vice versa too. That happening a lot. I

1844
01:31:01,360 --> 01:31:04,439
Speaker 1: would be so mad. I would be so mad if like,

1845
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:08,920
Speaker 1: I'm dating a woman and and my parents meet and

1846
01:31:09,040 --> 01:31:10,840
Speaker 1: they're like, you know what, we should be together, I'm like,

1847
01:31:10,920 --> 01:31:16,000
Speaker 1: you can't know, you can't, Like, you guys can be

1848
01:31:17,120 --> 01:31:20,920
Speaker 1: I hit it first. It's like you guys, you guys

1849
01:31:20,960 --> 01:31:23,160
Speaker 1: can be like together forever if you want, But you

1850
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:25,720
Speaker 1: cannot make this official because then all of a sudden, no,

1851
01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:38,400
Speaker 1: I can't. I gotta marry my stepsister. Oh, boy, are

1852
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:45,600
Speaker 1: so bad, Prlena, you paid attention, you know, could this

1853
01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:47,400
Speaker 1: could come up? You know, you never know when this

1854
01:31:47,439 --> 01:31:52,519
Speaker 1: could come up? Did you know you might notice that

1855
01:31:52,640 --> 01:31:56,200
Speaker 1: when you sweat, like right after you take a shower,

1856
01:31:56,560 --> 01:31:58,200
Speaker 1: for example, Like I don't know, if you ever get

1857
01:31:58,200 --> 01:31:59,879
Speaker 1: out of the shower and you sort of still perspire,

1858
01:32:01,080 --> 01:32:03,120
Speaker 1: it doesn't smell that bad. In fact, it doesn't smell

1859
01:32:03,160 --> 01:32:07,320
Speaker 1: at all. That's because your sweat itself is not stinky.

1860
01:32:07,960 --> 01:32:11,360
Speaker 1: It's the bacteria on your skin that breaks the sweat

1861
01:32:11,560 --> 01:32:16,439
Speaker 1: down that causes bo So Additionally, you'll find it the

1862
01:32:16,479 --> 01:32:18,800
Speaker 1: sweat on your arms and legs doesn't smell as bad

1863
01:32:19,160 --> 01:32:22,320
Speaker 1: as the sweat in your armpits. That because sweat glands

1864
01:32:22,360 --> 01:32:25,919
Speaker 1: in your armpits secrete more protein into a dark, damp environment,

1865
01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:31,959
Speaker 1: the perfect place and food for bacteria. So sweat itself

1866
01:32:32,960 --> 01:32:40,120
Speaker 1: not actually stinky. Your body makes it stinky. Y'all need

1867
01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:47,960
Speaker 1: to learn. Get is the worst? Yeah, it's like salty. Yeah. Yes,

1868
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Speaker 1: and here Morning Friend Show one h three five Kids

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01:32:56,880 --> 01:32:59,800
Speaker 1: f M, Chicago's number one hit music station. I was

1870
01:33:00,040 --> 01:33:03,840
Speaker 1: late less that I'm obsessed with the show alone on Well,

1871
01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:07,760
Speaker 1: is it them them feeling? You know? That's what show

1872
01:33:11,360 --> 01:33:18,120
Speaker 1: because you're always alon. I watch myself. We know what

1873
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:22,880
Speaker 1: you mean. She filled in the ba for you don't

1874
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:26,559
Speaker 1: play tomb now comes what I meant? You're so popular.

1875
01:33:28,080 --> 01:33:31,519
Speaker 1: That's exactly what you want. Yes, I'm watching myself on

1876
01:33:31,640 --> 01:33:33,759
Speaker 1: TV all the time. It makes me feel less alone.

1877
01:33:35,000 --> 01:33:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm an innocent little flower. I watch the show about you,

1878
01:33:40,200 --> 01:33:52,400
Speaker 1: what's called Dick, the show about you that I wants like,

1879
01:33:53,240 --> 01:34:00,920
Speaker 1: I'll give you my Hulu pass words, haven't now you

1880
01:34:01,040 --> 01:34:04,439
Speaker 1: didn't take long New Week and New New Week, same

1881
01:34:04,520 --> 01:34:08,280
Speaker 1: Rufio Rose did in The Boss. I'll keep that in

1882
01:34:08,360 --> 01:34:10,439
Speaker 1: mind on your employment reviewers, that I have nothing to

1883
01:34:10,520 --> 01:34:16,840
Speaker 1: do with you anything, not really no, no, no around here,

1884
01:34:19,280 --> 01:34:22,000
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what was that happen? You guys would

1885
01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:24,559
Speaker 1: all be loaded. If you were, it should be broke.

1886
01:34:26,040 --> 01:34:28,880
Speaker 1: You would operate a deficit. Everybody walking around her rolls

1887
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:34,639
Speaker 1: Royce to be like everybody. Yeah, I would be such.

1888
01:34:34,720 --> 01:34:38,240
Speaker 1: I would be kissing up too so hard. I don't

1889
01:34:38,240 --> 01:34:41,479
Speaker 1: think you would if you were in charge of like

1890
01:34:41,600 --> 01:34:44,439
Speaker 1: money in vacation, Oh my god, I don't think. I

1891
01:34:44,479 --> 01:34:46,439
Speaker 1: don't think that wouldn't make any difference. I think you'd

1892
01:34:46,479 --> 01:34:48,200
Speaker 1: just be tailor and that's fine, that's the way we

1893
01:34:48,280 --> 01:34:50,599
Speaker 1: want it. So the show about me, it's called Alone.

1894
01:34:51,640 --> 01:34:53,920
Speaker 1: I got hooked on it on Netflix, which is only

1895
01:34:53,960 --> 01:34:56,720
Speaker 1: the last season, I guess because I had to go

1896
01:34:56,760 --> 01:34:58,519
Speaker 1: to Hulu. I don't know, maybe I'm messing this up,

1897
01:34:58,520 --> 01:34:59,960
Speaker 1: but I had to go to Hulu this I started

1898
01:35:00,040 --> 01:35:02,920
Speaker 1: season one. And the premise of this show is that

1899
01:35:03,080 --> 01:35:05,519
Speaker 1: it's like what all these other survival shows, except they're

1900
01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:08,400
Speaker 1: not naked in this one. Damn it. I know, I know.

1901
01:35:08,600 --> 01:35:12,920
Speaker 1: But they they give them like ten survival survival tools.

1902
01:35:12,960 --> 01:35:15,040
Speaker 1: It's on a History channel on this show, and they

1903
01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:17,680
Speaker 1: like eight people or ten people. They put them out

1904
01:35:17,680 --> 01:35:20,720
Speaker 1: in the middle of nowhere, um, and they monitor them,

1905
01:35:20,880 --> 01:35:24,320
Speaker 1: but they they're alone. They have their ten tools, their clothes,

1906
01:35:24,520 --> 01:35:27,479
Speaker 1: and then they're just there and at any point you

1907
01:35:27,560 --> 01:35:29,640
Speaker 1: can call and say I'm done, like I want to go.

1908
01:35:30,400 --> 01:35:34,080
Speaker 1: And then the object is to last the longest, and

1909
01:35:34,400 --> 01:35:36,519
Speaker 1: like seas the last season whichever one six I think

1910
01:35:36,640 --> 01:35:38,559
Speaker 1: was what I just watched, they last. The guy lasted

1911
01:35:38,600 --> 01:35:41,799
Speaker 1: almost one hundred days. But you don't know what anybody

1912
01:35:41,840 --> 01:35:43,960
Speaker 1: else is doing either, So you don't know if you're

1913
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:46,040
Speaker 1: the longest out there, how do you find out they

1914
01:35:46,080 --> 01:35:48,040
Speaker 1: find they come to you, so they gave you, They

1915
01:35:48,120 --> 01:35:50,960
Speaker 1: give you a m they give you a satellite phone.

1916
01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:53,040
Speaker 1: They come. I think it's I don't know, it's once

1917
01:35:53,080 --> 01:35:55,040
Speaker 1: a week. They come a certain period of time in

1918
01:35:55,160 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 1: intervals to check your health. Um, they weigh you and stuff.

1919
01:35:58,439 --> 01:36:00,040
Speaker 1: They don't give you anything though, They just come to

1920
01:36:00,080 --> 01:36:02,000
Speaker 1: see if you're alive, basically like if a bear has

1921
01:36:02,040 --> 01:36:04,439
Speaker 1: eating you or whatever, and they can pull you for

1922
01:36:04,560 --> 01:36:06,840
Speaker 1: medical reasons, like they did that in the season I

1923
01:36:06,920 --> 01:36:09,800
Speaker 1: watch on Netflix. Like if people get way below weight

1924
01:36:10,479 --> 01:36:13,280
Speaker 1: or like their heart rates messed up or you know,

1925
01:36:13,360 --> 01:36:16,639
Speaker 1: if whatever, then they can be like, yo, you're coming

1926
01:36:16,680 --> 01:36:19,040
Speaker 1: with us. You're done. But it's pretty wild like some

1927
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:22,559
Speaker 1: of these people, I mean the in the I watched

1928
01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:25,320
Speaker 1: season I'm watching season one now because I went backwards.

1929
01:36:25,720 --> 01:36:28,320
Speaker 1: I want to say season six. It's on Netflix, whatever

1930
01:36:28,360 --> 01:36:30,479
Speaker 1: the latest season is. And these some of these people

1931
01:36:30,520 --> 01:36:33,720
Speaker 1: are like they build these cabins and they build all

1932
01:36:33,800 --> 01:36:37,960
Speaker 1: their own like tools and furniture, and because they're big

1933
01:36:38,080 --> 01:36:39,960
Speaker 1: enoughing to do for one hundred days, they're just out

1934
01:36:40,040 --> 01:36:43,000
Speaker 1: there and then they don't eat for days and all

1935
01:36:43,040 --> 01:36:45,720
Speaker 1: this stuff. But I wouldn't last. I don't think I

1936
01:36:45,760 --> 01:36:48,800
Speaker 1: would last maybe two days whenever. As soon as I

1937
01:36:48,840 --> 01:36:50,439
Speaker 1: get hungry, I'd be like, I'm not eating this, because

1938
01:36:50,439 --> 01:36:52,639
Speaker 1: then you've got to eat whatever's out there. They eat

1939
01:36:52,640 --> 01:36:55,080
Speaker 1: anything they'll find, like a dead fish on the beach.

1940
01:36:55,160 --> 01:36:56,840
Speaker 1: They'll be like, I don't know how long has it

1941
01:36:56,920 --> 01:36:58,519
Speaker 1: been dead. I'm not sure. I haven't eaten in a week,

1942
01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:02,320
Speaker 1: so I guess I'll dry it or whatever. It's wild.

1943
01:37:02,600 --> 01:37:05,120
Speaker 1: Is it always like normal conditions or is it like

1944
01:37:05,680 --> 01:37:08,200
Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, no, no, Like it's different. They

1945
01:37:08,280 --> 01:37:15,000
Speaker 1: pick different environments. So like the last season was I

1946
01:37:15,040 --> 01:37:16,760
Speaker 1: don't know, it was supposedly the worst of them. I

1947
01:37:16,800 --> 01:37:18,600
Speaker 1: don't know where they were this last season, but like

1948
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:21,719
Speaker 1: the first season, they're in British Columbia, somewhere of Vancouver,

1949
01:37:22,320 --> 01:37:25,880
Speaker 1: and it's like cold and rainy and no son and

1950
01:37:26,560 --> 01:37:30,240
Speaker 1: their wet all the time. And but it's like the

1951
01:37:30,439 --> 01:37:34,120
Speaker 1: mental part. I could to your point, Rufio, I would

1952
01:37:34,160 --> 01:37:37,120
Speaker 1: have no issue being alone for that period of time.

1953
01:37:37,160 --> 01:37:39,400
Speaker 1: I think I could do it. That's but for some

1954
01:37:39,520 --> 01:37:42,800
Speaker 1: people they break down, like mentally they can't handle it. Now.

1955
01:37:43,240 --> 01:37:46,479
Speaker 1: Most of them have families, kids, young kids. Some of

1956
01:37:46,520 --> 01:37:48,880
Speaker 1: these guys go off. Their wives are pregnant while they're

1957
01:37:48,920 --> 01:37:51,240
Speaker 1: pregnant because they can win five hundred thousand dollars if

1958
01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:54,760
Speaker 1: they if they do it. But um, but some of

1959
01:37:54,800 --> 01:37:56,280
Speaker 1: these guys, they just get to a certain point where

1960
01:37:56,280 --> 01:37:57,800
Speaker 1: like I can't handle it anymore. And then they call

1961
01:37:57,880 --> 01:38:00,519
Speaker 1: and they leaves and they're doing fine, Like they got

1962
01:38:00,560 --> 01:38:03,080
Speaker 1: their their fourth that they built their shelter, and they

1963
01:38:03,160 --> 01:38:05,960
Speaker 1: got plenty of food. They make these like fish traps

1964
01:38:06,080 --> 01:38:09,960
Speaker 1: and make their own nets. And but I don't. I

1965
01:38:10,040 --> 01:38:12,320
Speaker 1: just think I would get hungry, you know, and I'd

1966
01:38:12,320 --> 01:38:14,479
Speaker 1: be like I'm not eating a snail, you know what

1967
01:38:14,520 --> 01:38:16,200
Speaker 1: I mean. I mean, like this isn't real. I can

1968
01:38:16,520 --> 01:38:18,000
Speaker 1: get out of here anytime I want. I don't have

1969
01:38:18,080 --> 01:38:20,160
Speaker 1: to eat this. Are they so far apart? They never

1970
01:38:20,200 --> 01:38:22,320
Speaker 1: see each other, They never see each other. No, they're

1971
01:38:22,360 --> 01:38:24,760
Speaker 1: like miles and miles apart, and they don't know how

1972
01:38:24,840 --> 01:38:27,840
Speaker 1: many people are left. So finally one day like so

1973
01:38:28,000 --> 01:38:29,720
Speaker 1: you can't even be like, all right, there's only one

1974
01:38:29,760 --> 01:38:32,479
Speaker 1: guy left. I gotta you know, outstay him. No, Like

1975
01:38:32,880 --> 01:38:35,479
Speaker 1: you just go and you have no idea what if

1976
01:38:35,479 --> 01:38:37,360
Speaker 1: anyone else is tapped out? And then one day they

1977
01:38:37,439 --> 01:38:40,400
Speaker 1: just show up and they go how you feeling, You're like, uh,

1978
01:38:41,000 --> 01:38:44,880
Speaker 1: I'm all right. They're like, well get one. It's five grand.

1979
01:38:44,880 --> 01:38:47,479
Speaker 1: There you go. And it was obviously very emotional because

1980
01:38:47,520 --> 01:38:50,040
Speaker 1: it's a hard thing to do. Yeah, if anything, I

1981
01:38:50,120 --> 01:38:52,280
Speaker 1: think physically it's hard, but emotionally I think it'd be

1982
01:38:52,280 --> 01:38:55,920
Speaker 1: even more difficult. So yeah, season one, this first season,

1983
01:38:56,000 --> 01:38:58,160
Speaker 1: these guys are like they're they're tapping out like crazy

1984
01:38:58,160 --> 01:39:00,840
Speaker 1: because they lose their minds, like the silence and they

1985
01:39:00,880 --> 01:39:03,280
Speaker 1: came whatever. And then one guy tapped that after one

1986
01:39:03,360 --> 01:39:06,200
Speaker 1: night because there are bears in his camp and he's like,

1987
01:39:06,720 --> 01:39:08,280
Speaker 1: you know what, no, And they give you a like

1988
01:39:08,400 --> 01:39:12,519
Speaker 1: a like a horn and bear spray and a flare

1989
01:39:12,720 --> 01:39:15,080
Speaker 1: for defense and a phone. And the other thing is

1990
01:39:15,120 --> 01:39:16,920
Speaker 1: like they don't it's hard for him to get there

1991
01:39:16,920 --> 01:39:18,240
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night. So like basically, if

1992
01:39:18,280 --> 01:39:19,680
Speaker 1: you're getting attacked in the middle of the night, like

1993
01:39:19,720 --> 01:39:21,759
Speaker 1: you don't have a gun or anything, you've got an axe.

1994
01:39:22,000 --> 01:39:24,559
Speaker 1: I mean, like that's it, so that it's not they

1995
01:39:24,560 --> 01:39:26,760
Speaker 1: can just take some like hours and hours and hours

1996
01:39:26,800 --> 01:39:28,200
Speaker 1: and hours in the middle of the night to get there.

1997
01:39:28,520 --> 01:39:30,519
Speaker 1: During the day, they can come on a helicopter or

1998
01:39:30,560 --> 01:39:32,599
Speaker 1: they can come on a boat, but at night they

1999
01:39:32,680 --> 01:39:35,920
Speaker 1: gotta like drive on these logging trails, and so you

2000
01:39:36,040 --> 01:39:37,720
Speaker 1: basically if you're gonna attack to the middle of the night,

2001
01:39:37,720 --> 01:39:41,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna die. There's no like a challenge, like we

2002
01:39:41,800 --> 01:39:44,920
Speaker 1: put a carcass in the middle of the field, so

2003
01:39:45,120 --> 01:39:50,680
Speaker 1: nobody's growing road Rules or Real World. That's what's his name,

2004
01:39:50,760 --> 01:39:52,639
Speaker 1: the guy that hosts And that's I noticed that shows

2005
01:39:52,640 --> 01:39:56,120
Speaker 1: like that showsn't CBS now is the Life? That's a

2006
01:39:56,240 --> 01:39:59,120
Speaker 1: network show now on MTV anymore now that now it's

2007
01:39:59,160 --> 01:40:01,960
Speaker 1: just called the cha Lench has its paramounts and it's

2008
01:40:02,000 --> 01:40:04,120
Speaker 1: on the network now. They like took it off MTV.

2009
01:40:04,200 --> 01:40:06,640
Speaker 1: They're like, screw it. No, wow, I just recently gave up.

2010
01:40:06,680 --> 01:40:08,720
Speaker 1: But he gets to travel everywhere and just like tell

2011
01:40:08,800 --> 01:40:10,640
Speaker 1: them about a challenge and then go back to know.

2012
01:40:11,000 --> 01:40:12,439
Speaker 1: I mean, he has the best job in the world.

2013
01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:14,240
Speaker 1: That's the gig you gotta get is where you got

2014
01:40:14,320 --> 01:40:16,519
Speaker 1: to show this but on for thirty seasons like Jeff Probe,

2015
01:40:16,600 --> 01:40:17,920
Speaker 1: same deal, but he's got to go out in the

2016
01:40:18,000 --> 01:40:20,960
Speaker 1: middle and god knows where, right, Yeah, Chris Harrison had

2017
01:40:21,000 --> 01:40:22,599
Speaker 1: the gig. All he had to worry about was maybe

2018
01:40:22,680 --> 01:40:24,280
Speaker 1: her pies. That was it. And it's saying it was

2019
01:40:24,360 --> 01:40:26,920
Speaker 1: the final rose. Yeah you know that. He literally that

2020
01:40:27,000 --> 01:40:28,880
Speaker 1: dude would have had a job for another fifty years.

2021
01:40:28,880 --> 01:40:32,880
Speaker 1: He must watch that and be like, ah, yeah, that's wild. Anyway,

2022
01:40:33,000 --> 01:40:35,479
Speaker 1: So my thought was, though, which one of us on

2023
01:40:35,600 --> 01:40:39,679
Speaker 1: this show would survive the longest? I would I would

2024
01:40:39,800 --> 01:40:45,160
Speaker 1: say Rufio or Paulina. I would say um, because Paulina,

2025
01:40:45,200 --> 01:40:48,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. You're pretty stubborn, you're pretty, like you're pretty.

2026
01:40:48,920 --> 01:40:50,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you if you didn't have

2027
01:40:50,880 --> 01:40:53,120
Speaker 1: a I think it would be you. It wouldn't be me,

2028
01:40:53,720 --> 01:40:56,120
Speaker 1: you know, it's crazy, it would be me. But I

2029
01:40:56,160 --> 01:40:58,280
Speaker 1: feel like my dumbasters get eaten really quick. Like I

2030
01:40:58,320 --> 01:40:59,920
Speaker 1: would just make one wrong move and it would be

2031
01:41:00,120 --> 01:41:04,120
Speaker 1: That's the reason I'm out one wrong move. Wanted to

2032
01:41:04,200 --> 01:41:07,000
Speaker 1: a bear's mouth, Like it wouldn't be you, friend. I

2033
01:41:07,080 --> 01:41:09,920
Speaker 1: thought you could reason with wild animals. No, No, I'm

2034
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:12,679
Speaker 1: not well I can. I'm not worried about the wild animals.

2035
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm not eating like I'm not eating dead fish that

2036
01:41:16,800 --> 01:41:18,280
Speaker 1: have been dead for I don't know how long. Like

2037
01:41:18,360 --> 01:41:21,120
Speaker 1: these guys will just eat anything, any source of protein.

2038
01:41:21,200 --> 01:41:27,080
Speaker 1: They just eat. I mean, no no seasoning, no loweries

2039
01:41:27,080 --> 01:41:34,040
Speaker 1: out here, no God, no somebody growing out the wild,

2040
01:41:34,640 --> 01:41:36,200
Speaker 1: forget about it, Man Right Show