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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, take it away, key with an audio journal,

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Speaker 1: like we're writing in our diaries.

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Speaker 2: Please thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So I try and pride myself. I would argue that

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Speaker 3: it might be one of the most important things to

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Speaker 3: me to be a good friend. It's just it's something

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Speaker 3: that I don't know. I just I hold very close

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Speaker 3: to my heart. All my friends, they're my family. But

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Speaker 3: I am perhaps the worst friend of all time. So,

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Speaker 3: and I'm not going to use names because this isn't

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Speaker 3: like public yet, but one of my friends called me

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Speaker 3: the other day to invite me to lunch and I

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Speaker 3: ended up not being able to make it. And I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh God, I have so much fomo, it's

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Speaker 3: going to be wild.

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Speaker 2: And she was like, nah, everybody's pregnant. You know.

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Speaker 3: So and so's pregnant. So and so's pregnant, and so

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Speaker 3: and so's pregnant. And I was like wait. And one

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Speaker 3: of them was one of our best friends, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: she's pregnant. I'm like, she hasn't told me yet. She's like, God,

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Speaker 3: it's been forever. She's in her second time. I can't

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Speaker 3: believe she's The baby's in college, the baby's driving, and

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Speaker 3: so I was like, oh my god, I guess she's

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Speaker 3: probably waiting till she sees me in.

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Speaker 2: Person to tell me.

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Speaker 3: And I said, okay, well, you know, I obviously won't

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Speaker 3: say anything. You don't say anything, and will let her

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Speaker 3: just tell me whenever she feels ready. That's you know,

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Speaker 3: that's her business. And she'said, God, it's been so long

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Speaker 3: and it's kind of open, everybody knows, and I'm like, well, damn.

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Speaker 2: So thinking about it. Thinking about it. Time goes on and.

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Speaker 3: I get at texts later that night from the pregnant

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Speaker 3: friend and she goes, hey, you know, I just talked

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Speaker 3: to so and so and she mentioned that she told

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Speaker 3: you I was pregnant, and she go, I know, which

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Speaker 3: the plan.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't the plan. Yeah, you said that's the same, right,

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Speaker 2: that was not a plan, right. Well, she wasn't big, yeah,

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Speaker 2: and she was probably drinking whatever.

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Speaker 3: And I and she goes, okay, I told you that

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Speaker 3: I was pregnant. And I'm like, you did, and she's

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Speaker 3: like yeah. And she told me the time. And it

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Speaker 3: was a dinner with friends.

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Speaker 2: I had only a couple of guesses of wine. But

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Speaker 2: at the time it was so early on that it

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Speaker 2: was very.

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Speaker 3: Top secret, so she kind of pulled me aside, and

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Speaker 3: I think, I think what might happen is I put

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Speaker 3: it somewhere in my brain that was like, okay, this

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Speaker 3: is secret information. I cannot blab this. And I put

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Speaker 3: it so far back that I completely forgot. So I

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Speaker 3: haven't checked in with her.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and I forgot a close friend of yours is pregnant.

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Speaker 3: A best friend, and I, oh, I feel like the

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Speaker 3: biggest I've never done anything.

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Speaker 1: Each fewer friends because Camin has like forty friends. She

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Speaker 1: has like forty best friends. It's time to narrow them down.

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Speaker 1: You can't possibly remember all forty when they're pregnant.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you can't. It's impossible. It's too much to ask. Stop.

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Speaker 3: And I'm so good you guys know, like I'll remember

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Speaker 3: things you say, and I have a little notepad, and

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Speaker 3: I can't.

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Speaker 2: Believe that's that's like the biggest mistake I ever made.

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Speaker 2: And then I just feel awful and.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm so sorry, and she's like, it's okay,

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Speaker 3: we both haven't checked in.

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Speaker 2: It's not okay. She doesn't need to be checking in

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Speaker 2: on me. I'm not pregnant.

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Speaker 4: It's good on you like it was a secret you

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Speaker 4: started in the vault.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a secret from you, a secret from yourself.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: We had this whole moment and now I remember, we

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Speaker 3: got excited.

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Speaker 2: It was emotional, you know. But I said, and she's like, girl,

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Speaker 2: I already told you. I forgot she was pregnant.

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Speaker 3: This is her first baby. And she goes and by

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Speaker 3: the way, we just found out that it's a girl.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I even feel worse. I know, So

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Speaker 2: how do I how do I make this up?

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Speaker 1: Rufia is pregnant. Well, his wife's having a baby. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: probably forgot about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I didn't. I didn't forget about anyone's pregnant.

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Speaker 2: What do I do?

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Speaker 4: I have four kids? He probably forgot about all that

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Speaker 4: lunch because you would have been like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: you're pregnant. Well that would have been embarrassing. You are

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Speaker 4: in front of everybody.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm like, wow, that's really really bad,

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Speaker 2: Like it's been eating me alive. Wow, I forgot someone

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Speaker 2: was pregnant.

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Speaker 4: Wow taking a lunch?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh man, just don't add like, don't order wine

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Speaker 1: for her or anything. Hey, she's pregnant.

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Speaker 3: Gonna go horseback riding and ride some Mulla coaster.

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Speaker 1: No sushi okay because she's pregnant.