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Speaker 1: Dear Ryan in siciny is from Ruben and Carson. I

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Speaker 1: met this woman at a friend's wedding. We didn't talk

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Speaker 1: a lot that night, but I definitely remembered her. So

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Speaker 1: when my friend said she wanted she want to go

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Speaker 1: out with me and sent me your number, I was excited.

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Speaker 1: We had dinner and drinks and I thought it went great.

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Speaker 1: But I asked her out again and she literally said,

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Speaker 1: it's very nice of you to ask, but no thank you.

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Speaker 2: Wow. So Ruben's down the line with this.

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Speaker 1: Now, Rubin, do you recall anything that went wrong during

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Speaker 1: the dinner and drinks? Why would she say no thank

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Speaker 1: you so clearly?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. That's what I'm trying to figure out.

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Speaker 5: I don't know ever since, like you know, pandemic people

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Speaker 5: don't communicate as well, So I don't know. I'm trying

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Speaker 5: not to make assumptions, but I want to know because

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Speaker 5: i'd like to see her again.

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Speaker 1: But it's a real about face to reach out to

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Speaker 1: you you go out with her now she's totally disinterested.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, because she asked me out. So that's what

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Speaker 5: I'm like tripping about.

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Speaker 4: Like what.

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Speaker 5: She was.

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Speaker 2: So she was the maid of honor at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: What were you at the wedding?

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Speaker 4: I wasn't shirt. It's I don't know what if I guess.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's a great way to put it is the US.

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Speaker 2: Sure you did make the wedding party, but you got

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Speaker 2: an honorable mention.

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Speaker 5: But it was so much fun. And it was fun

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Speaker 5: because it's my friend, and also even better because you know,

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Speaker 5: meeting Savannah was really nice and you know, I felt

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Speaker 5: like we had a connection. I you know, I made sure.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I'm just gonna let her know that

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Speaker 5: I think that she looks good and she's very attractive,

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Speaker 5: and you know, she seemed receptive to it. But I

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Speaker 5: didn't want to, like, you know, I didn't have the

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I had some fear of just asking

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Speaker 5: her out there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hold tight, we got her number and we're gonna

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Speaker 1: try and get her on the phone. We're going to

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Speaker 1: talk to you about this while you listen and hang on. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of confusing, right, What do you mean what

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Speaker 1: went so wrong?

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Speaker 2: If he has no clue and she did a total

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Speaker 2: one eighty, maybe he has halatosis. That's a random thing

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Speaker 2: to bring up.

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Speaker 5: It happened to me once.

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Speaker 2: I mean it can be bad. I mean there's little

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Speaker 2: things trigger right, it could be a deal breaker, gives

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Speaker 2: you the ick. Alright, let's come back here at Kiss FM.

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Speaker 3: Make the call on a on air with a Ryan Seacrets.

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Speaker 3: Air on air with a Ryan Seacrets.

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Speaker 2: So we're in a second date update.

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Speaker 1: Now, Reuben goes to his friend's wedding and there's a

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Speaker 1: woman there that he you know, meets uh and then

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Speaker 1: she says to the friends, I'd like that guy.

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Speaker 2: I want to go out with him.

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Speaker 1: He gets the number, they trade, they go out, they

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Speaker 1: have dinner, they have drinks, and he wants to go

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Speaker 1: out again, like he's into it. And then she says,

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Speaker 1: had to thanks again for the dinner and drinks, but

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Speaker 1: no thank you for a second date.

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Speaker 2: So what happened? What happened on that day? Like to

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Speaker 2: not know is no clue.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask Ruben. One more thing here, Ruben, good news.

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Speaker 1: I think savannahs agreed to go on the air with us.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do it in a second. She's on the

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Speaker 1: other line. Have you talked to your friend who got

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Speaker 1: married about this? Maybe Savannah told her what went wrong?

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Speaker 4: I mean I asked her, and I don't.

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Speaker 5: She says you know anything about it?

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Speaker 4: She didn't that. Savanna didn't say anything, but I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, let me get to Savan. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to hang up. Ruben.

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Speaker 1: Be very quiet. We're gonna talk to her right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: hold on, Savannah, Thank you so much for holding on.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm good?

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Speaker 2: How are you doing well? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacresis and Tanya, you're on the air with us. Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning at KIS FM. I appreciate you a green

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Speaker 1: to do so. So, just to jump into it a

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Speaker 1: little random, but we're calling about a guy named Ruben

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Speaker 1: you met. Yes, What do you think when I say Ruben?

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Speaker 1: What comes to mind?

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Speaker 6: Well? I went on a date with him the other day,

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Speaker 6: so I guess that's what comes to mine.

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Speaker 2: How'd it go?

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Speaker 4: It was?

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Speaker 6: I mean, it was fine.

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Speaker 2: I guess why so did you you?

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Speaker 1: As we understand it, you kind of liked him and

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Speaker 1: then he asked you out, and you guys went out,

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Speaker 1: and then he wanted to ask you out again and

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's correct.

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Speaker 2: So why weren't you into the second date?

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Speaker 6: Well? It was nothing against him.

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Speaker 2: He was.

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Speaker 6: I mean, he was a really nice guy, but he's

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Speaker 6: just not who I thought he was. How so, well,

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Speaker 6: like literally, he's not who I thought he was.

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Speaker 1: He's not who you thought. Oh so you met him

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Speaker 1: at the wedding, but it wasn't him you were talking

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Speaker 1: about that you wanted to go out with, Like when you.

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Speaker 3: Agreed to go out on the day, you thought it

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Speaker 3: was somebody to guy. Uh.

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Speaker 6: Yes. So my friend Leslie got married and then she

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Speaker 6: asked me if I remember her friend Rubin from her

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Speaker 6: wedding and I was like yeah, and she was like,

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Speaker 6: well he thinks you're hot. And I said, cool, we'll

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Speaker 6: give him my number, and so she did, and I

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Speaker 6: just thought she met someone else because when I got

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Speaker 6: to the restaurant I did not recognize him at all.

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Speaker 2: Oh so, I gotta tell you that happened to me once.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's kind of happened.

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Speaker 1: Well general, I'll use the name Rose, but I I

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Speaker 1: was texting Rose to go out with Rose, and texting

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Speaker 1: him for like three days and like having fun texts,

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Speaker 1: you know, And then I said, well, let's have dinner

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Speaker 1: on Saturday night. And then Rose met me at the restaurant,

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Speaker 1: and it wasn't Rose. But I didn't know what to say,

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Speaker 1: so I had sat through it.

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Speaker 2: So that's what you did, Savannah, You sat through the date.

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Speaker 2: I mean, what are you going to do? Say? Oh, wrong, Rose,

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Speaker 2: I'm wrong.

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Speaker 1: Rub.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean yeah, right, So, oh.

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Speaker 2: My gosh, well I I don't want to tell you this, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Ruben is.

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Speaker 1: Listening to all of oh my god, cringe and I

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Speaker 1: know I'm sorry that we're at this place. So she

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Speaker 1: just got confused. It was a case of the wrong guy, Ruben.

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Speaker 3: But who did you think he was?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 6: I mean, well there was there was another dining.

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Speaker 2: Well, it doesn't matter. Let this is not a part

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Speaker 2: right now, that's not right, it's not important. I think

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Speaker 2: the good news is here. Reuben. You did nothing wrong.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess it was the wrong guy.

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Speaker 2: But wouldn't you rather mean the wrong guy than the

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Speaker 2: guy that went wrong?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Say it again? Say it again?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't understand that question. I'm too upset.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, his feelings are hurt.

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Speaker 4: It's like I wish you would have said something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why didn't you say something right out of the gate, Savannah, Like,

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Speaker 3: why don't you do it?

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Speaker 2: Credit like, oh my god, I mean, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: because how do you say that.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking it out.

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Speaker 2: And realizing, no, it's done. He can't you just.

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Speaker 6: I mean, to be honest, I just really didn't. I

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Speaker 6: just really don't want to hurt his feelings because I mean,

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Speaker 6: he was a nice guy.

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Speaker 5: He just he literally.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't what it wasn't a person the whole individual you

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Speaker 1: were expecting, which this is just an honest mistake, that's

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Speaker 1: all it is. Nobody did anything wrong. That's great. This

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Speaker 1: is a very good second.

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Speaker 2: Except for Reuben was still into Savannah. That was not

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Speaker 2: a mistake. He still liked her.

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Speaker 1: But remember, Ruben, you didn't really talk to her at

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Speaker 1: the wedding. You said, so you were like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I remembered her, but it wasn't like.

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Speaker 2: You spent quality time with her.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: I just think that what I say earlier, wouldn't you

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Speaker 1: rather be the wrong guy than the guy that went wrong?

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Speaker 2: I think? So that's maybe the quote of the day tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, Okay, okay, yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: All right, bro, Well listen, Savannah Rubin. I do appreciate

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Speaker 1: you guys talking with this on it and good luck

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Speaker 1: to both of you all right by bye bye.

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Speaker 2: I think that.

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Speaker 1: We would all do the same thing. You'd sit through

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Speaker 1: it politely, and maybe it goes the right way. Who knows, right,

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Speaker 1: That's what I.

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Speaker 3: Was maybe hoping for, you know, maybe she thought, Okay,

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Speaker 3: let's just give it a try and see if it

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Speaker 3: goes right.

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Speaker 2: I think I would address it in the very beginning though.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh my gosh, I totally mixed you

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Speaker 2: up with somebody else.

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Speaker 6: This is so funny, and I would stay and I

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Speaker 6: would continue the day, but I.

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Speaker 1: Find the best way to do it. But I don't

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Speaker 1: think I would have encouraged you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to be honest up front, and then

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Speaker 3: the whole days alive.

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Speaker 2: I did this with Rose. Why did you say over

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Speaker 2: your unitext?

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Speaker 1: Stephanie