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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Oh, hello, hello Marie. Oh wow, the voice and you

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Speaker 2: have every year. Once a year your voice changes very deep.

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Speaker 3: Oh is that just the season?

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Speaker 2: Tis the season? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well no, this is this is not seasonal. This is

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Speaker 3: you know. I just I was out the other day

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Speaker 3: screaming at me and it's okay, So me and Sydney went

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Speaker 3: to we outside, okay, we went to a rooftop thing

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Speaker 3: where everybody was very hot. All the men were tall

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Speaker 3: and their beards connected all the way around.

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Speaker 2: Marie couldn't believe it. I text her at me. I said, Marie,

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Speaker 2: you need to get here right now. She's like, Sis,

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Speaker 2: I'm ten minutes away. I was like, everybody's cute. Every

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Speaker 2: single person was hot.

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Speaker 3: Right forty eight minutes later I arrived right and everybody

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Speaker 3: was so attractive and like young and the skin. It

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Speaker 3: was like it was like I said to Sydney, I

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Speaker 3: think I'm gonna write my number on the wall and

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Speaker 3: whoever calls me, you just can't call me.

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Speaker 2: Man, woman or child.

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Speaker 3: Yes, well no children, but there.

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Speaker 2: Were some kids on the roof too, and they were

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Speaker 2: cute kids.

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Speaker 3: But yes, there were kids on the roof, and it

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Speaker 3: was like people really just be bringing their kids with

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Speaker 3: them to stuff.

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Speaker 2: Me as a as a childless woman, you don't understand.

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Speaker 3: I don't have to have children to understand that kids

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Speaker 3: don't need to be nowhere. Actually, me being childless, I

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Speaker 3: understand it better. I understand it better.

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Speaker 2: But sometimes it's sometimes it's hard to get a nanny.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's hard to get a babysitter. Sometimes you don't.

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Speaker 3: Have the Sydney also a childless woman, what's you talking about?

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Speaker 2: The cats? It's yo. You'd be surprised how many people

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Speaker 2: are like, I'm allergic. I'm not gonna be in town.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. I could do one cat, I

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Speaker 2: can't do both. So like I feel for the women

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Speaker 2: who have to bring their animals or children to a party.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm, Sidney, if you ever pull up to any

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Speaker 3: place that I'm at and you got the cats in

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Speaker 3: a little bass in it, I'm gonna roast you until

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Speaker 3: you go home. I'm gonna roast you until you leave.

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Speaker 3: I was. I just read this thing today. This girl

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Speaker 3: was like, my sister doesn't want my newborn baby at

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Speaker 3: her wedding. Should I be upset? And because her sister's

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Speaker 3: having a no a childless wedding and she was so upset,

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Speaker 3: and it was like, girl, you gonna have a newborn

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Speaker 3: at a six month old at a wedding. We definitely

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Speaker 3: don't want that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, what's the return policy on a six month

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Speaker 2: old baby? It's still brand new you. I don't think you.

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Speaker 2: Babies are so unpredictable. Unpredictable, so like people could be

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Speaker 2: doing that vows and everything and then they're just like screaming.

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Speaker 3: Babies are predictable. They crying, they're sleeping, they're pooping, that's it.

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Speaker 2: But you don't know when they're gonna cry.

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Speaker 3: It could be right when she's doing her her vows,

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Speaker 3: she got tears in her eyes and she's like, right,

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Speaker 3: you know, I never and now your baby is teething

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Speaker 3: or whatever. I don't know what babies do with.

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Speaker 2: Something annoying or or if the pastors, like, does anybody

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Speaker 2: object to them getting there? I mean, I understand when

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Speaker 2: you're saying, Marie, but the kids were fine on the roof.

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Speaker 2: I was too busy looking at everybody's moisturized foreheads and

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Speaker 2: beautiful hairlines. M hm hmm.

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Speaker 3: It's the summer of the hairline, I think. So if

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Speaker 3: you're listening to this, get them plugs, get them sharpies,

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Speaker 3: get the that brown lip liner pencil. Just do what

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Speaker 3: you need to do to get the edges to look

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Speaker 3: how we want them to look.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they and they have lace fronts beards for men,

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Speaker 2: so y'all could try those out as well. Do what

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Speaker 2: you need to do, honey.

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Speaker 3: If you gotta do that, then make sure you use

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Speaker 3: the gorilla glue to really hold it to the face.

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Speaker 2: Because imagine, Marie, you take a guy back and if

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Speaker 2: the lights are off and he's like busy taking his

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Speaker 3: Side, he's folding it. Oh my god, I got it

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Speaker 3: to pee in the middle of the night and I

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Speaker 3: step on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's happened with me with my lashes or

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Speaker 2: my wig, so it could definitely happen to a lace front.

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Speaker 3: You stepped on your wig, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it just slides off because I don't have a

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Speaker 2: like a little mannequin head.

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Speaker 3: So it just Sidney takes her wig off and she

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Speaker 3: folds it and she puts it on the couch and

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Speaker 3: jam Be sitting on it.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of Jam, our our guest today is my jam

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Speaker 2: One of my favorite, one of my favorite people in

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Speaker 2: the West West coast, thriving mare, we would say, thriving,

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Speaker 2: living and thriving.

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Speaker 3: The skin looks good. I see the stainless steel refrigerator

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Speaker 3: in the back. The beard is fully connected all the

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Speaker 3: way around.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he's he's one of my most successful friends.

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Speaker 2: That is very humble, and I think it's because of

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Speaker 2: his background. Give it up for Garrick Bernard and he

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Speaker 2: is child of an immigrant or child of immigrant parents, child.

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Speaker 3: Of we can just say immigrant parent. Experts Like what word.

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Speaker 4: Am I writing?

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Speaker 1: Internet parent? Sorry?

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Speaker 3: Immigrant parent? Immigrant parent? He Hi, how you doing, Grek?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you up chilling?

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Speaker 3: We're good? Your teeth are very white? What what's that

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Speaker 3: this is?

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Speaker 1: I use baking soda. I use what is that?

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Speaker 5: Three D white, the cress or Colgate D white.

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Speaker 2: The strips. You don't use the strips to you, No.

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Speaker 5: I don't use the strips, just the brush because.

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Speaker 2: They take off they take off the.

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Speaker 1: Enamel, the enamel. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, But he really needs,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, all of it. Honestly, you

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Speaker 1: need every single like every drop gram, every drop I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry her baking soda, and I was like, oh, let

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Speaker 1: me put in like the Grams drug.

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Speaker 3: We get it.

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Speaker 2: He's a very smart guy. He's a very smart guy. Now, Garret,

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Speaker 2: do you have anything to say about like men wearing

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Speaker 2: lace front beards air lines connecting?

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Speaker 1: All right? Hey, guys, stop it, don't do it, chill out.

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Speaker 1: Don't just just embrace the baldness. Embrace the fact that

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Speaker 1: your beard doesn't connect. I don't have those problems, but

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Speaker 1: I will say, if you know, if my hair goes

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Speaker 1: and all that stuff, I'm gonna get those plugs.

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Speaker 5: Probably I'm gonna get like ten grand or some shit.

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Speaker 1: Get that.

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Speaker 3: You wanna let them go and let them put pubes

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Speaker 3: on your hairline.

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Speaker 5: It's the back of your head.

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Speaker 1: It's they take they take hair from the back of

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Speaker 1: your head, put it on the top and you just

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Speaker 1: you're chilling. Why not?

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Speaker 3: But I feel like you would look good as a

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Speaker 3: bald person because you could look the fact that you

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Speaker 3: have facial hair. You could be completely bald and just

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Speaker 3: get like a red rouse just like yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: James Harden well moisturized moment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to find out if I'm being honest,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to. I just want to.

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Speaker 2: Well, Grek, you're also very young, so you're fine, Like

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Speaker 2: you're not even thirty yet.

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Speaker 1: Right, No, I turned thirty in September. September what fifth?

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Speaker 3: Okay, happy birthday.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I apologize.

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Speaker 3: Birthday is on the twenty third. I don't know why

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Speaker 3: I got so September. Wow, yeah, somebody else that was

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Speaker 3: conceived in January.

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Speaker 1: Okay at the beginning the beginning.

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Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead. Sorry.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, so, you guys have never met

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Speaker 2: each other in real life. This is your first time speaking.

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Speaker 2: But I was, like, I told Yerk, like, oh, you

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Speaker 2: and Marie are going to get along very well because

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Speaker 2: you have some of the same uh backgrounds in terms

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Speaker 2: of immigrant parents, except she's Haitian and your Nigerian Timid daddy.

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Speaker 3: And I was also going to guess Nigerian Sydney night Yearian.

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Speaker 3: Well his name is Bernard, Yeah, Bernard, I guess that's

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Speaker 3: not Nigerian cist. It would have more sorry consonants and vowels.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Everybody's like, hey, you Nigeria, you darkest fun like

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Speaker 1: it's it's it all goes there, and I'm like, hey, man,

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Speaker 3: I would not have Trinidadian you know, neither. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 3: canceled Trinidadians in my life numerous times.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh wow, okay, what happened? Well, if you don't mind.

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Speaker 3: Me as Trinidadian men being Trinidadian men, and that's okay,

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Speaker 3: all right, And that's basically it.

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Speaker 2: So I can't say I can't say anything specific, but

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Speaker 2: I just know that Caribbean men men from the West

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Speaker 2: too much cheating. I just I can't be bothered. Also,

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Speaker 1: Fair enough, Yeah, fair enough. I think I lucked out

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Speaker 1: a little bit. My dad has been married to my

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Speaker 1: I guess, quote unquote one of the better ones. I

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Speaker 1: he's one of the better ones.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if they have a side family in Trinida.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't have a side family. I'm hoping he doesn't

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Speaker 1: have a side family. And if he does, kudos for

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Speaker 1: keeping that a secret.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Honestly, you can't be mad at a dad that

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Speaker 2: whole duration of having a Yes you can. You can.

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Speaker 3: You have a funeral and you're like, who are these

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Speaker 3: other people? These must be cousins with the same exact

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Speaker 3: faces us. You can fully be mad at a dad

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Speaker 2: The only time I would be mad at a dad

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Speaker 2: for not telling you about their other family is if

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Speaker 2: I just so happened to meet, you know, a daughter

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Speaker 2: and we meet up and we link up and now

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Speaker 2: we dating, and now I'm like, wait, that's my stepsister, right,

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Speaker 2: that's doing up?

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Speaker 3: Since this sounds like the plot line of all the

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Speaker 3: soap operas.

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Speaker 1: That have ever existed, Yeah, truly with.

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Speaker 3: The gay twist, with a twist. So Garrick tell us

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Speaker 3: about growing up as Trinidaddian America. Are you first generation?

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Speaker 5: First generation? Yeah, born and raised in LA.

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Speaker 1: It was weird because a lot of a lot of

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Speaker 1: them go to New York.

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Speaker 3: Say Trinidadians are in l a A.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I never heard of that when I.

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Speaker 3: When I lived in LA, I was one of two

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Speaker 3: Haitian people who lived there.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, wow, yeah, there's no West Indians

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Speaker 1: met were like through church, so you know, big church

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Speaker 2: I would never go to.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations congratulations on that. Don't do it. There's there's not

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Speaker 1: enough praise dancing, you know. But yeah, like it was.

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Speaker 3: You just bought like a plate of curry.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, boy, So that's why you.

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Speaker 3: God, still you?

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Speaker 2: So you're telling me that they didn't even try the goat.

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Speaker 1: No, they didn't even try it, because it's excellent. It's

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Speaker 2: It's delicious. But that has it.

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Speaker 3: I don't love it. I don't love goat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, they have to make it, they have to

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Speaker 1: Know, relax, yeah, and if it's like real hard and

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Speaker 2: And you also don't want it gummy. You don't want

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Speaker 1: No? So we didn't have that problem, thank got because uh,

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Speaker 3: I just like, sometimes my mom would cook stuff, like

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Speaker 3: you don't you smell it. It's all your nose hairs, right.

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Speaker 2: People would say that I smelled like my home, But

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Speaker 2: my home smelled like larks cigarettes. My mom would smoke

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I would just call you sick as fuck honestly smoking already. Damn,

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Speaker 1: that's pretty dope, that's pretty wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But like if you come if you come in the

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Speaker 1: that's a big problem, I think, because that's a very

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Speaker 3: For scores looking at night and the windows not open.

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Speaker 3: It's in the sheets.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's literally in you.

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Speaker 3: It's in your poor yes, the cloth, it's on the

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Speaker 5: Homes, it's oh my god, it's.

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Speaker 3: In the daytime. They like have the cross breeze.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, mm hmmm.

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Speaker 2: Here's your personal question. So what did your mom and

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Speaker 1: So my mom was a PA, a physician's assistant, and

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Speaker 1: then my dad was a contractor. So, uh, bottom hills

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh, for those that are not in the know, that's

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Speaker 3: like black people. That was the hills for black folks.

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Speaker 5: It was a hills with black black people. Laguna Beach

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Speaker 5: or like that was like their their take on it.

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Speaker 2: Well, Garret, so it sound like I mean you you

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Speaker 2: you said immigrant parents, but I mean it seems real

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Speaker 1: I don't know, It's okay. So this is where this

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Speaker 1: is where the explanation must come. Yes, we were still

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Speaker 1: let's put all of our funds into this thing to

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Speaker 1: keep our kids from the surrounding areas. And then we

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Speaker 1: There was a whole year where I wore a uniform

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Speaker 3: Paying for these days.

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Speaker 1: I'm not paying for these clothes, you know, we gotta

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Speaker 1: we got a mortgage to the uniform.

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Speaker 2: Still looks good, and she is she's sewing, she's imming

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Speaker 2: the stuff, making sure all the tattered shorts are still

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Speaker 2: like looking neat what.

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Speaker 1: Was then a white shirt with a navy bottom.

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Speaker 3: And in the winter time it was like slacks, and

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Speaker 3: in the summer time it was like little school uniform

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Speaker 3: booty shorts.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no booty shorts.

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Speaker 1: It was pretty much la It's the same temperature the

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Speaker 2: Was there a lot so seasons there wasn't a lot

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Speaker 2: of Trinidadians in your school?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I was the only one.

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Speaker 2: You were the only for.

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Speaker 5: My entire life, probably the entire school career.

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Speaker 2: What any other ethnicities just.

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Speaker 1: I mean there were there were a couple of Nigerians,

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Speaker 3: Pers a couple of Persian folks in l A.

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Speaker 1: Couple, yeah, mostly yeah, and in high school. Yeah, but honestly,

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Speaker 1: I was the only Caribbean kid in school for sure.

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Speaker 3: When you came home from your first day of school,

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Speaker 3: would your mom ask you about the kids in your class?

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Speaker 5: No, she don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 3: That was my mom, My mother's go to anytime I

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Speaker 3: came home from school, she'd be like, how many black

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Speaker 3: I would I would, I would count. I'd be like,

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Speaker 3: it's me Jazz Maine, Like I would count them out,

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Speaker 3: and she'd be like, okay, okay, okay, it's black kids

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so there was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they were very adamant about putting us in black

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Speaker 1: fucking Palisades to go to school there.

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Speaker 2: Why did they do that?

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Speaker 3: College reasons?

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Speaker 5: College reasons.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you get into better colleges and I didn't, so

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Speaker 1: it didn't work. All of my friends that stayed in

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Speaker 1: And I was like, why didn't you just keep me

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Speaker 1: with my friends? Kept shifting me around?

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Speaker 3: You should have stayed at east Side High with Morgan Freeman.

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Speaker 2: But.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I should have. Marie. What did you did

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Speaker 1: you move schools a lot? Did you like switch? No?

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Speaker 2: Not really.

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Speaker 3: And my parents were like, the bus runs right here,

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Speaker 3: You're gonna take that bus to that school?

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Speaker 3: It was like, no, that's it, I'm going to I

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Speaker 3: know they knew the route for the parent teacher conference,

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Speaker 3: that's where they were going, all right. But my parents

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Speaker 3: as an immigrant, you know, everything that he wears is

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Speaker 3: tucked into his pants. Yes, I don't know if you

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Speaker 3: have one of those dads, but like he'll took a

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Speaker 2: Dress shoe, put a hard bottom on with the bottom.

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Speaker 3: But my dad, I home a couple of months ago.

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Speaker 3: He still like buffs and shines his shoes. He is

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Speaker 3: them to go. It's like you want an errands, like

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Speaker 3: you can't throw a dad new balance on No, because

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Speaker 2: Want to look good they I think, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's just like immigrant parents, but

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Speaker 2: it's also just like older parents. They always want to

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Speaker 2: is it I think your best? But like I understand

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Speaker 2: the notion of like polishing your shoes, but I don't

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Speaker 1: This is this is why Monique is coming for you

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Speaker 1: with the hair, with the hair ship. It's just like, yo, chill, Monique, chill.

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Speaker 1: Let me wear my fucking hat. You know. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: It's a bondy.

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Speaker 3: Same thing. But Monique is from a different time as well.

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Speaker 1: She's there, you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know how old Onnique is, but

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Speaker 3: she is from a time when people actually cared about

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Speaker 3: what they looked like, and people were tucking in things

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Speaker 3: and ironing.

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Speaker 2: Things, ironing things such thing as steaming. They were having

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Speaker 2: would hit those corners so.

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Speaker 3: Fucking the pleats on the pants be.

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Speaker 1: Christy Christy, Yeah, I can iron the fuck out of

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Speaker 1: some clothes, honestly, just from learning from my parents, just

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Speaker 1: from them being like, you're not going outside with the

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Speaker 1: I started wearing like straighter suits, you know, like more

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Speaker 1: wanted to have a whole conversation just because I was

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Speaker 1: wearing tighter bluffs.

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Speaker 2: They thought you were gay.

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Speaker 5: They thought I was gay, Yeah, hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: They sat you down and though, uh huh yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: just like so your your your clothes are fitting a

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Speaker 1: little bit more nicely snug. It's more snug, yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, come on, you guys, can we

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Speaker 1: can do better?

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Speaker 3: Like it's the European cut. They're like the.

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Speaker 1: European cut, right, Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 2: That's the style. It's a truly style. But I have

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Speaker 2: to understand that, like they have been through so much,

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Speaker 2: and so if they want to be really particular about

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Speaker 2: what we're wearing, I'll let it slide. Sometimes. Like me,

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Speaker 2: growing up, my skirts had to be so long, yes,

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Speaker 2: because my arms were long. They're like, no lady should

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Speaker 2: You know, no lady should have a skirt shorter than

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00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 2: where her her middle finger hits on the leg. And

442
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 2: I was the one had long as I could hit

443
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 2: the top of a shelf, so long.

444
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: They weren't encounting. They weren't accounting for the reach.

445
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 3: No Sydney, because Sydney can dunk. I've seen it.

446
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I believe it.

447
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 2: They had me looking like a Mormon every single day.

448
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 2: I was like, why is the skirt? This is not

449
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 2: a skirt. You might as well put me in pants.

450
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, No lady would wear pants. No, no, no,

451
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 2: young ladies should wear pants. That's for the men.

452
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 3: So your your great aunts and stuff didn't wear pants.

453
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 2: No, she never wore pants. She always wore skirts. It

454
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 2: didn't matter what the weather was, It didn't matter if

455
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 2: her like vericose veins were popping and she was wearing

456
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 2: her skirts and they she would hit. They would be

457
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 2: so fucking long. I'm like auntie gowns and the beautiful

458
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: girl she would have, she would have a slip underneath

459
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 2: the skirt. She would never wear a dress without a.

460
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 3: Slip and you could see the slip.

461
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

462
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 3: When I was little, my mother wore skirts, and I

463
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 3: remember when she shifted back to pants, because I have

464
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 3: pictures of her in like Europe in short ash jeans

465
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 3: and booty shorts. But when we were young, she only

466
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 3: would wear dresses or skirts, and I used to complain

467
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,479
Speaker 3: about it because she will put me in them for school. Like,

468
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 3: my mom's big thing was the first day of school

469
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 3: every year, right, So on the first day of school,

470
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 3: we had to wear a skirt or a dress, no pants. Yeah,

471
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 3: And that was until I got I think until I

472
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 3: got to high school. It was like, Babe, I'm putting

473
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 3: on these jeans today, and you gotta let me wear

474
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 3: these jeans.

475
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: You gotta let me fly, let me put these jeans,

476
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: all that.

477
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 3: But she wasn't picking my clothes out. I think after

478
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 3: kindergarten I told her I wanted to dress myself and

479
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 3: she let me, but it had to be a skirt

480
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,159
Speaker 3: on the first day. That was like, yeah, there was

481
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 3: no negotiating that. Yeah, And now.

482
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 1: So I will I will say I just started wearing

483
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 1: shorts three years ago. Really like, yeah, because of because

484
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: of like, wearing like that was the move. You gotta

485
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 1: have it either longer or under your knees, uh, your

486
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: shorts under your knees, or just wear pants or whatever,

487
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: because parents would always be like, well, what's going on here?

488
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 1: Your shorts are a little high recently? Yes, yes, it was.

489
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: It's masculinity. Ship is so toxic, dog, I can't even

490
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: I can't even lie. I've been I've been hating humidity

491
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: my entire life. And then I just realized I just

492
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: needed to wear shorts. That's all I needed. Just wear

493
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: shorts and you'd be fine. I'm out. I'm out here

494
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: in that letter right now, and I'm just like, oh,

495
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 1: this is nice. What the fuck? I'm moving through the

496
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,360
Speaker 1: you know, moving through the humidity.

497
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 3: Fine, you got shorts?

498
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: Really realizing I got short.

499
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Garrett, Garrett has good legs, he's got a good vie.

500
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta high, I gotta high fucking high

501
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 1: thigh short on.

502
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, Grek is solid, Like you know, he's not that tall,

503
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 2: but body.

504
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 5: Is not tall at all. You can say I'm not tall.

505
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 2: I didn't want to, you know, I wanted to give

506
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: you the benefit of the babe. You know I didn't

507
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 2: want to sell you under Yeah, that's not it.

508
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 3: You did kind of anyway. You said he's solid, he's

509
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 3: not that tall.

510
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 1: You're right right, you didn't even as soon as you

511
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: bring it up. It's just like, all right, I gotta

512
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 1: I gotta mention it.

513
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 2: He's he's a long five eight, that's what he is.

514
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 3: He's a long longer than the skirts we had to wear.

515
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:42,360
Speaker 2: We love Oh god baby. Okay, so let's get into finances.

516
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 2: Did you have an allowance? And immigrants immigrant parents are

517
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: very about saving but also super cheaper, not cheap, not cheap, frugal.

518
00:26:55,240 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: Bogle frugal. Absolutely not absolutely. I didn't get an allowance

519
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: at all. I didn't know what that meant. I kept

520
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 1: on hearing the kids at school saying like, oh, what

521
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 1: are you spending your allowance on? And I got that

522
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,440
Speaker 1: whole like corny conversation about like you want an allowance,

523
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: I allow you to live under my roof and blah

524
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. Yeah, classic classic, but not never

525
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: never in life. I think I would get like one

526
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: hundred dollars to get close at the beginning of the

527
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: school year in high.

528
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 3: School, Wow, that's actually kind of guess I think. Yeah, yeah,

529
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 3: I mean they were giving you the money and you

530
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 3: could buy what you wanted.

531
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: You can buy it you want it.

532
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, what can you get with one hundred dollars?

533
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 1: I think you can buy a gene? Like one gene.

534
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 3: No, listen, you go to Pretty Girl, you go to Strawberry,

535
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 3: you go to Jimmy Jazz, you go to v IM.

536
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 3: These are I don't know if those are in La.

537
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, none of those places I knew you were in LA.

538
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 3: You can get more than one pair of jeans for

539
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars. I mean, you can't get no shoes.

540
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:06,959
Speaker 3: You can get a pair of sneakers.

541
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 1: So I'm just I'm just the jeans nigga at this point,

542
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 1: you know, just walking around with like three pairs of jeans,

543
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 1: I guess.

544
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 3: But they're they're ironed.

545
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 5: They're very ironed, smooth, very very crisp.

546
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 3: You know.

547
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: No, I never I never got an allowance. I started

548
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: working at like sixteen, Yeah, and just went from there.

549
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,919
Speaker 3: I was at the pool yesterday and this lady was

550
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 3: talking to her kid, and she said she gets her

551
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 3: twenty dollars a week in allowance. I said, are y'all

552
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 3: rich twenty dollars a week. I didn't even have many

553
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:44,239
Speaker 3: dollars a week in college. That is crazy to me. Yeah,

554
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 3: but yeah, I think my parents try to give us

555
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 3: an allowance, like for like a summer, and it lasted

556
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: like three weeks or maybe less than that. Probably we

557
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 3: were getting five dollars right, and then it was I'm.

558
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: Still getting if if I ever gave or if I

559
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: ever asked mom for money, like once I moved out

560
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 1: of the house, she's still hounding me for that, like

561
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars that I might have borrowed a couple

562
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: of years ago.

563
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: Give your mother her money back. You're making so much money, Garrett,

564
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: give her your mother her money back.

565
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 5: I'm never giving it back.

566
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: She owed me this two hundred dollars.

567
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 3: What's your mother's name? Don don Right.

568
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, one strikes fear in a weird way.

569
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 5: She wasn't nice.

570
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 1: Neither of my parents were nice. That's the other course. No, no, no, no,

571
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: no no.

572
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 2: They just started like, did you get hugs, I love

573
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 2: you kisses?

574
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: No no no, no, no, I mean I told you

575
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: this over the phone.

576
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 5: My dad and I just started saying I love you

577
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 5: to each other.

578
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 2: Last year. W Why why is that?

579
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I think I just started saying

580
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: it in conjunction with when I was saying it to

581
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: my mom. I would be like, love you guys, and

582
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: then he would be like he would like or whatever.

583
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 3: He'd be like what. They sat you back there. They

584
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: were like, we need to talk about this. Your clothes

585
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: are tight?

586
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: You you saying I love gods? What is alright? Alright,

587
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: Hollywood didn't change immediately that way.

588
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 3: We need to have another intervention here. This is crazy.

589
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Derek, was that so hard for you?

590
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: Like it's just saying I love you to your friends

591
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 2: or your girlfriends, Like because Chrius Marie is who she's

592
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: a tough cookie, I mean, my god, tough.

593
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean my genuinely my friends, Uh, try

594
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: to come up with a theory that I was gay

595
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: because of how hard it was for me to say

596
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: I love you to my friends. They're like, what's going

597
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: on there? Why? Why do you? Why do you hesitate

598
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: in all this stuff? And it was just like a

599
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: really wild situation. And then I had to like look

600
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: back and it was like, I don't think I've ever

601
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: said I love you to my dad before. Which is

602
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: the first man you should say I love you too.

603
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,719
Speaker 1: And then I just went to my home left one

604
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: day and I was like yelling out, oh, I love

605
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: you Dad, and he's like, oh, I love you too.

606
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: And then it's just it's just been like that ever.

607
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 3: Since I said to my dad, Poppy, I love you.

608
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 3: He would say, all right, all right, close the door.

609
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you. Turns every immigrant father into Steve Harvey.

610
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: He's just like, oh right, yeah right, where's your accent?

611
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 3: Okay?

612
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 2: Well, interesting, Well you have no problem now saying I

613
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: love you. I mean, I think maybe it just rolls

614
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 2: off my tongue too much. But I've definitely said I

615
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,719
Speaker 2: love you before to Gerk and I don't know if

616
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: you said it back, but I felt I felt that

617
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: you felt you felt it.

618
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: I gave I give you a strong pat on the back. Yeah,

619
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 1: that's there, it is. Yeah, it's just.

620
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 3: Now, Sidney. Did people say I love you to you

621
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 3: a lot or do you a lot?

622
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 2: No? Not? Not rarely really, Like my Auntie would like

623
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 2: late night, like right before we're going to bed, before

624
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 2: like she has nodded off reading the Bible and stuff

625
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: like that. But she said whenever she would feel like

626
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 2: I got in trouble and I was internalizing how bad

627
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 2: I am. She's like, now you know I love you.

628
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 2: You know you know I love you. That that's when

629
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 2: she would reassure me that she loves me. But she

630
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 2: wasn't just saying I love you, not like not before.

631
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 2: I would leave the house to go, you know, to school,

632
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 2: or leave the house at all, and I think.

633
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 3: That's foreign to me. You would be eating yourself up,

634
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 3: and she would say, now you know, I love you.

635
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 3: My mother would just let me sit there, shut.

636
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: There in the closet with my arms.

637
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: Throng, and I couldn't. I remember one day I got

638
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 3: in trouble and I wrote on the wall next to

639
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 3: my bed I hate mummy, like I hate my mom,

640
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 3: and I forgot about it. I wrote it in pencil.

641
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 3: I walked through it like and she found it and

642
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 3: she was like, oh what is this? And I was like,

643
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 3: I don't even know. Everything's misspelled. It's height level with

644
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: my pillow. But I'm like I don't Yeah, yeah, damn

645
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 3: sis All right, well look.

646
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 2: I said I say it. I say it a lot.

647
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 2: I say it a lot because you know, you never

648
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: know what's gonna happen. But also it's it's okay to

649
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: say that if that's what you really feel, you know,

650
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: but what is too much?

651
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: Because yeah, what if it loses it's me? What if

652
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: you don't even know what you're saying, just doing a

653
00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: call and repeat.

654
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 2: It's well, I am thirty six years old, so I

655
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: know what the fuck love is. I've been in love,

656
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: I have. I have tons of friends, you know, but

657
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: I do know that the love that I have, I

658
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 2: have abundance of it. I know that I'm good at

659
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 2: I'm great at giving. And when I say something, I

660
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 2: mean it, you know, unless I'm being shady and talking

661
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 2: to Marie about somebody.

662
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 3: But other than that, when you're being shady, you mean that.

663
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 3: Two sis, don't do that.

664
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 1: But what do you mean when you say you mean it?

665
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,359
Speaker 1: Like you're just like, oh, I just mean it, you know,

666
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: Like can you put that into words?

667
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 5: Can you describe the love in the words?

668
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 2: Yes? If if you needed something, I would try to

669
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 2: do what I can to provide. Yeah, somebody that if

670
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 2: something happened to you, I would be very affected. Yeah,

671
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: even though very affected, I would I would absolutely be

672
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: affected if something happened to geth Right.

673
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 5: Now, yes, exactly.

674
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 3: It would be very affected.

675
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 2: Oh God, like me and Garrick. I met him when

676
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 2: I went to when we were at San Francisco for

677
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 2: the up Next Comedy Central, and me and Garrick talked

678
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 2: at the after party for most of the time and

679
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 2: we just like clicked or whatever. And then I always

680
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 2: made sure I kept in contact with him, and you know,

681
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 2: I felt like, oh man, I'm really good at keeping

682
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 2: in contact with people. But he could have been shady

683
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: and been like, I'm busy. You know, I'm in these writers' rooms.

684
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: I don't have time. But he was always cool and

685
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 2: he took me out to lunch, got me ramen.

686
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, soak, I think Okay, So I think that the

687
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: barometer for me is if someone were to kill you

688
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: and I saw them in a courtroom and I didn't

689
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: go like fucking crazy or buck while like in like

690
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 1: those SBU episodes, that means.

691
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 5: That I love you or that means that I don't

692
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 5: love you.

693
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: If I can just watch them walk past and be like, oh, yeah,

694
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 1: that's crazy that they killed my friend. But I mean

695
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: I got to be a witness, you know.

696
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: Well, if you.

697
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 3: Happened in front of you, I think maybe you would

698
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:08,919
Speaker 3: be more emotional. But my thing is this. We hung

699
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 3: out in San Francisco. We've had ramen together a couple

700
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 3: of times. I'm saying I love you.

701
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,439
Speaker 4: Wait, yeah, Sidney, did you say I love you after

702
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 4: that first meeting at the end of that first no, no, no, no.

703
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 2: This is like years later, that's that's been hours ago.

704
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:23,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

705
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 2: I probably said I love you, like you know, two

706
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 2: years after our friends.

707
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's still it's weird to me, babe. I mean

708
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:34,919
Speaker 3: I would watch sid Can Cook and you would say

709
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,919
Speaker 3: love you to everything.

710
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: Everything. You can't do that. It was like, you can't

711
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: do that.

712
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 4: You brought me, you brought me on for a second

713
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 4: for sid Can Cook, and at the end of it,

714
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 4: you say I love you and I just left. I

715
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 4: was like, and then people in the chat were like,

716
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 4: he didn't say it back, and I was like, I don't.

717
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know what to do, right,

718
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 4: But like that's I'm kind of stuck in a bye.

719
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's very funny.

720
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 3: Pressure on other people to say it back, and it's like,

721
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 3: that's not that Andrew. I don't know what your background is,

722
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 3: but I feel like you got one of those moms

723
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 3: that didn't say it a lot, or she didn't say

724
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,800
Speaker 3: it yeah right, So like everybody is not as free

725
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 3: with saying the words I love you. But it's also

726
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 3: different when you say love you as opposed to I

727
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 3: love you, right, or sometimes somebody throw back like a

728
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 3: love you, and then you be like love you, and

729
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 3: you're like love you.

730
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: But it's very nice. I don't want to sound unappreciative.

731
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 2: All your niggas about you.

732
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: Next next time you say love you, I'm just gonna

733
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 1: say why.

734
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 3: I'm going to say, prove it.

735
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: Prove it I did right?

736
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 5: Now, would you avenge me? It's a real question.

737
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 3: How much would you set the limit to my goal fundme?

738
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: Well, I would want it to be realistic, So I

739
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 2: don't want to say, you know, one hundred thousand dollars

740
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: if I know, if I know, your followers ain't got

741
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 2: it like that. But Maria is you know, very verified,

742
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 2: and she has people who are obsessed, so I know

743
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 2: that she would get the money. And Garrick, I mean,

744
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:24,959
Speaker 2: you know nothing but successful people in LA, so they.

745
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: Would would still not give one hundred thousand dollars to my.

746
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 3: Let's set at the thirty six thirty six fields so.

747
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, enough, because it's enough to cover.

748
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 5: The funeral costs. You know, we like that's all I need.

749
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 3: We hold that casket? Is how much? How much is

750
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 3: a casket?

751
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 2: I want my friend. I want my friends going home,

752
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: going away party, dope, Okay. I don't want to skim.

753
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to be cheap. I don't want to

754
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 2: get you a regular old box. You know what I'm saying.

755
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 2: I want you to get to get you nice flowers.

756
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 2: I want to be a good funeral.

757
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 3: Home top shell, embodied fluid.

758
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want that. I want the embombing fluid to

759
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 2: have dul Say in it, you know what I mean?

760
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: Like I just put put me in the ground raw,

761
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:10,720
Speaker 1: like I don't need.

762
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 3: Garbage bags?

763
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 2: Are you serious? No way No.

764
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: I think I want to be cremated.

765
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: But that's expensive too, isn't they up the.

766
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,280
Speaker 2: Car thousands of dollars?

767
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 3: I want to be I want to be cremated, and

768
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 3: I want people to be able to follow along with

769
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 3: the body's journey like a Domino's pizza. Like I want

770
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 3: them to be like they putting they putting the toppings on,

771
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 3: the the lashes on, like I want yeah to be

772
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 3: like Davante is working on the booty neck, like just

773
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 3: that's what I want.

774
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 2: His funeral is a big deal in like like parents

775
00:39:58,760 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 2: who are immigrants.

776
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 3: I'll tell you, I'll tell you what a big deal

777
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: was for me. Church school, That was it. Church and school, Church,

778
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 3: church and school, school, church, family, that's it.

779
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I've never seen a group of people more

780
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: upset about the separation of church and state than immigrants,

781
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 1: you know, like they want they want church to govern

782
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 1: the rest of everybody else's lives.

783
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 5: So like church was the biggest deal.

784
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 3: I feel like you guys went to Sunday school.

785
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: No, you went to school on Saturday, Saturday, Saturday school,

786
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 2: Saturday school.

787
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sucks, I'm sorry. Like it called it Sabbath school.

788
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: So we observed the Sabbath like Jewish people do. So

789
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: Friday nights everything had to be cut off. No secular

790
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:58,800
Speaker 1: activity until suns It was secular noun, secular, no fun, nothing,

791
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 1: nothing at all until Saturday night. So that period of

792
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 1: time sunset to sunset, we were just.

793
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 5: Miserable.

794
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 1: Honestly, y'all were reading what just anything, watching TBN, watching

795
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:23,720
Speaker 1: children's uh fucking Christian activity movies or whatever that details.

796
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 1: Mister bean, we couldn't even watch mister Bean though. I like,

797
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: we couldn't do anything.

798
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 2: And when did y'all when were you able to.

799
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: Escape Saturday night?

800
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 2: No? I mean, I mean like when you didn't have

801
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 2: to do you didn't have to observe any sun down.

802
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: I was out, I was gone. I stopped going fucking

803
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: when I moved out twenty three, So all.

804
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 3: Through high school to go to parties on Friday nights.

805
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: No Friday night parties. So like when everybody was like,

806
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 1: oh man, I can't wait for the weekend, you know,

807
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 1: all that shit, nothing that I was not even excited.

808
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 3: It was just like, well, I got to buy candlelight.

809
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: I've gotta be yes exactly, just like reading the Bible

810
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: and just trying not to get the candle on the

811
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,240
Speaker 1: page and so just burst into flames.

812
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 2: Derek, how are you so cool now? Like you I'm not.

813
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 2: I am not. You've only had a short period to

814
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 2: like get your swag together, get close like you have style,

815
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 2: you know how. I'm sure you lost your virginity late

816
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 2: in the game.

817
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:33,479
Speaker 1: Late in the game. Oh god, I was twenty one, but.

818
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 3: You were so you were still so but you lost

819
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 3: your virginity on Thursday because.

820
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: I couldn't. Yeah, I couldn't go out right, I couldn't

821
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: go out, So.

822
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 2: You were losing your virginity like during the working.

823
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: It sucks. Yeah. It wasn't even like a party situation.

824
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: It was like in a park, fucking I was upset.

825
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 3: You were upset?

826
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: Was she? She was upset as well.

827
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 2: She didn't have a bed to land. What was this

828
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 2: on a park bench?

829
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 1: What this was?

830
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 4: Like?

831
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: We're we're both at home, so it was either her

832
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: place or my place, or her parents place or my

833
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 1: parents place.

834
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 5: We were just like, what about this park?

835
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: And in a in our car, and it's like, let's

836
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: make this as special as possible. And she wasn't. She

837
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 1: wasn't a virgin.

838
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,919
Speaker 2: I was so so a thirty five year old woman?

839
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 2: Were you?

840
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 3: I was taking an I was Oh did she know

841
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 3: you were a virgin before?

842
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: I mean I mean yeah, yeah she did. After she

843
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, why are you? Why are you

844
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: moving like that? Why are you so robotic? What's going on?

845
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 3: Because we're in a Toyota Corolla. That's why I'm moving.

846
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 1: To use the car as an excuse with.

847
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 2: The seat all the way back, so like that's moving

848
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 2: weird m.

849
00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 3: Hm in their acted.

850
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: Please just think there's a backseat of a Pontiac G five.

851
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: So it was a two door and we both had

852
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: to like scrunch into the back and just like that

853
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: sounds try try hard.

854
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 2: You are odd. I'm gonna say that you're odd.

855
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: I I'm glad you're I'm glad you're getting to know me.

856
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 2: Every time I like have hung out with you, or

857
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 2: like I see the stuff that you post him, Like

858
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: you know, he's a very reserve person but fun, but

859
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: like nobody knows your business like that and then they

860
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: know it now, well that's listen to this. Yeah, but

861
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 2: I think that makes you human. I don't like people

862
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 2: who are too secretive and make things like such a

863
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: big deal. And I think that's the problem with like parents.

864
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes they're like they keep things so secretive. So I

865
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 2: know nothing about my mom. I know nothing nothing, how

866
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 2: she grew up, barely know how my grandmother like came

867
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 2: about of even getting pregnant and having my mom. It's like,

868
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 2: tell your story. Your story is important.

869
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't know. Before you said that, I never

870
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 3: even thought about my pregnant.

871
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, I just had to sit here and think

872
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 1: about what my grandma's first name. Was like, it's like,

873
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: what is it? Is it?

874
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 5: It's Elaine.

875
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, it's beautiful and she's Trinidadian. Yeah,

876
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 2: do you speak Trinidadian to your it?

877
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: The sing the sing song comes out when I'm at home.

878
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 2: Can you give us an example?

879
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:48,760
Speaker 3: Absolutely, Pretend you're talking about the garret to the store.

880
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna do that for my

881
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: your fucking thousands of followers.

882
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 3: It's not for you. It's actually it's for us.

883
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, undreds of thousands of followers. I can't

884
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: do this. I'm so sorry. I can't be that guy.

885
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 1: I can't be that person.

886
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 2: I just I don't know any Triadian people. So I

887
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 2: just want to know.

888
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, you can google it.

889
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 5: You gotta know trities. I think, well, they'll let you

890
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 5: know if they're also any.

891
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: Well you didn't, you didn't, you didn't. This is the

892
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 2: first time.

893
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 1: I mean, well, if they're if they're from there, I'm

894
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: from I'm born Los Angeles, so like, I'm not. I'm

895
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 1: not going to come out here and be like, yo,

896
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: I'm dad. I've been in the fucking bad lands all

897
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: that ship. It just doesn't work. It doesn't work. It's

898
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: like you're you're a coon. Do that, you know, say

899
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: you're from where you're from and then let people have,

900
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 1: uh have their origin. You know.

901
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 3: Do you have siblings?

902
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: I do.

903
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 5: I'm the youngest of three of an older sister, older brother. Yeah.

904
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 2: Oh and they're proud of you, they have to.

905
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, they're the ones who were like you should

906
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: probably I dropped out of school. I dropped out a.

907
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know that was a big.

908
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 3: Tim that was trinidaddy, And you dropped a seven day advances.

909
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 2: You Yes, Okay. We're forty seven minutes in the podcast

910
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 2: and Garrett just dropped the bomb on us that he

911
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 2: did not finish school.

912
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,479
Speaker 5: Didn't finish from an.

913
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,720
Speaker 1: College, from an immigrant home. Kept it a secret until

914
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: I moved out.

915
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 2: What happened?

916
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: So I was I was going to school for two

917
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: years doing like mechanical engineering, and that's like you know,

918
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: the thing that can get your parents love or whatever.

919
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, doctor lawyer, engineer.

920
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 1: That's engineering.

921
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 5: That's it's only the three Yeah.

922
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 3: Doing that.

923
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 1: Went to the Improv and just like sat there at

924
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: their open mics on Tuesdays and I was just like,

925
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: maybe I should fucking try doing this and I would

926
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: just go every Tuesday. And then one time I remember

927
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: bringing up that maybe I wanted to switch to be

928
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: a lip major so that I can get like, you know,

929
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 1: the pen game down and all that shit, and they

930
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 1: were like no, and so I uh, I was like,

931
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: all right, let me go back to school. And then

932
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 1: they were like, you have to apply for loans now

933
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: because you're about to declare a major and all that stuff.

934
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't think I want to

935
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 1: do that, and I left and then I lied about

936
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: it for two or three years.

937
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:34,919
Speaker 3: Not two or three years. Yeah, yeah, so how long

938
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 3: were you in school? For a year?

939
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: No, like two years?

940
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,439
Speaker 2: It's fine, that's fine. It took me four years to realize, Yeah,

941
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 2: this shit ain't for me. I mean, my school kicked

942
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 2: me out, but.

943
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,919
Speaker 1: It took me four years, fair enough.

944
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: And it took me four years, and we're like, you know,

945
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:54,319
Speaker 2: maybe this is not really for me at all.

946
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 3: You got a doubt for your last semester.

947
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 2: No, I got kicked out. No, not my last semester.

948
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 2: It was the first semester of my senior year. But

949
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 2: I don't even know if I had enough credits to

950
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 2: be a senior. But I got kicked out for plagiarism.

951
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 5: Oh shit, yeah.

952
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: Everybody plagiarizes, but you got caught.

953
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,320
Speaker 2: I got caught. I was so bad at it. I

954
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 2: had never plagiarized before. This was my first time out

955
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 2: the gate, out in the game of plagiarizing, and I

956
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 2: immediately got caught. And my professor was furious. He's like,

957
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 2: what do you think I'm fucking stupid? Then he said

958
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 2: I was like. I was like, I said, I hope

959
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 2: I can go to the dean and let them know

960
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 2: and maybe this will let me stay here. But no,

961
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 2: they were like, it doesn't matter that he cursed at

962
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: you have you have to get the.

963
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 3: Fun curse because you did something wrong. Yeah, that is

964
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 3: so wild. Plagiarizing. You know, you gotta switch some words around.

965
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 3: You gotta look up synonyms and antonyms, and then if

966
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 3: you google something, you can't go to the first page,

967
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 3: first result. You gotta squaw.

968
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 2: First result. Bitch. Just I was desperate. I just needed

969
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 2: to turn something in.

970
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 3: You know how many people have turned in that exact

971
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 3: paper that you turned in.

972
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 2: That's what he said. He said, I've been doing this

973
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 2: for twenty years. You think I don't know about this,

974
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 2: I said, sir, I've I was in a really bad place.

975
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm depressed. And that was the first

976
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 2: time a white person just had no response to depression.

977
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 3: They were like, that is insane. So, Garrett, where were

978
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 3: you going for those three years you were leaving the

979
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,280
Speaker 3: house to pretend to go to school. Where was you going?

980
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? I was working at j C. Penny trying to get.

981
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 5: Enough money to fucking bove out and wine.

982
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you heeded, but you were still going to

983
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 3: You were going to work.

984
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:49,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, I was like, oh, mom, I'm

985
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: i'm'a fucking work just to like get enough for the

986
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 1: for school and all this stuff and to live and

987
00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: buy clothes and any excuse I could think of. And

988
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 1: then I was just doing like hell of shifts at

989
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: jac Fenny or Cole's or anything that would hire me

990
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: for like the season or something like that. A seasonal

991
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: work ac seasonal? Yes, Yes, well, absolutely.

992
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 2: Well, from j C Pennies to shooting a freaking pilot

993
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 2: in Atlanta. You're like, you're doing great.

994
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: I looked out. Yeah, yeah, yeah, what are you working

995
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: on now?

996
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 3: And how your parents feel about it?

997
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 1: They feel great right now? They're They definitely have brought

998
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: up that I should have stayed in engineering school. I mean,

999
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: you would have been great at it, right, And I

1000
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 1: was like, Mom, I'm I could buy the house right now,

1001
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 1: like I can, I can finish the more you like,

1002
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: we can't listen, But.

1003
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 2: Is that so garys okay?

1004
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: Well no, no, no, no, no, not at all.

1005
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 3: I was.

1006
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: I was one hundred percent trying to flex on my

1007
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: on my mom and she's like, I don't give a fuck.

1008
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why school is so important to

1009
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 3: our parents. I don't know they from a different time.

1010
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 3: But like I was talking to my dad about I

1011
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 3: think Beyonce didn't finish high school and my dad was like, unbelievable,

1012
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 3: she should go back and finished. And I was like,

1013
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 3: she's worth half a billion dollars and he was like,

1014
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 3: she don't know nothing, and I was like, whoa to

1015
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 3: be high? He's gonna come catch it up.

1016
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're coming, and now that they know that, they're

1017
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:29,240
Speaker 1: coming hard.

1018
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 2: But like, good, it's a good thing that she doesn't

1019
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 2: know anything because she doesn't say much either, So she's fine.

1020
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 2: Y'all really left me out there to drive.

1021
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 3: Y'all about to drive? I mean, lots of people didn't

1022
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 3: finish school, and they're they're all richer than us. They're

1023
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 3: richer than most of the population. Actually, they're smarter than

1024
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 3: most of the population. Because staying in school and taking

1025
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 3: out unnecessary loans and stuff that you're paying until you're

1026
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 3: fifty sixty seventy years old is dumb. Which is why that,

1027
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 3: which is why I do not pay. I ignore them

1028
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 3: every I got them on the do not call list.

1029
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,840
Speaker 2: Well, before we get out of here, Garrick, if you

1030
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 2: have like three things that are like misconceptions about like

1031
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 2: immigrant parents or children of immigrant parents, I would love

1032
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 2: to hear misconceptions.

1033
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: Now, y'all got it right for the most part. You

1034
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:28,879
Speaker 1: guys got it right. It's fine.

1035
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 5: No, I uh, gold is great, it's real good.

1036
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: Go eat it ship. We're not lame. I guess do

1037
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: y'all cheat?

1038
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 2: Do they cheat? Y'all cheat a lot. Stop it.

1039
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 5: My niggas cheat. I don't, I don't, he said his nigga.

1040
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 3: Well, you know you are the company.

1041
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 5: My career be niggas.

1042
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 3: Oh, oh, here's I have a question for you before

1043
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 3: you go. Yeah, as as the child of immigrants, did

1044
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 3: you get money from the tooth fairy and how much

1045
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 3: were they giving you because these white kids and some

1046
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 3: of these black kids are getting like they.

1047
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: Cannot I cannot believe that that ship is still going

1048
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: on they were immediately or that's just fake. God is

1049
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 1: the only thing that's real, Santa Claus, all of it.

1050
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 1: I remember my dad because he's in construction. He made

1051
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 1: me take a tape measure, go to the chimney, measure

1052
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: the chimney and say do you think a man could

1053
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 1: fit down there? He put you on the roof and

1054
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:48,359
Speaker 1: its just no, no, no, no underneath yeah, yeah.

1055
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 3: You on the roof.

1056
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,879
Speaker 1: He's like, nobody could fit in here. So of course

1057
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: that's not.

1058
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 3: Too fat to fist.

1059
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: It was nine. It was nine asking for cookies. So

1060
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: to you know, it's like I bought this ship, you know,

1061
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: I bought all of this.

1062
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 3: Yo, that's funny. So you didn't get any money. You

1063
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 3: didn't get like a quarter under the pillow or nothing

1064
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 3: like that like that.

1065
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: I didn't get a quarter. I didn't get any of that.

1066
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: And a lot of my teeth fell out at the

1067
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: same time. So they were going to give you a

1068
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 1: quarter for anyway.

1069
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 3: They said that looked like that, like at least a

1070
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 3: dollar fifty right there, yeah, right right.

1071
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 5: Now, that's going to the mortgage again.

1072
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 3: With my tooth under the pillow. And I woke up,

1073
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 3: the tooth was still.

1074
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: That's real ship like, that's exactly what yo.

1075
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 3: They give me nothing. I was like, ohh and I

1076
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 3: think they had that move where she looked at my

1077
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 3: dad and he looked at her. But both of them

1078
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 3: knew they weren't going to give me money, so nobody

1079
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 3: went into the room to take the.

1080
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 2: Tooth I got. I got money from like my great

1081
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 2: aunt and uncles, but the quarters were so dingy. It

1082
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 2: was like it was like it had been in their

1083
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 2: pockets for years. It was no new money, no new

1084
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 2: money at all. It's just like if they did give

1085
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 2: me a dollar, it was something that had written numbers

1086
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:19,839
Speaker 2: written on it, maybe somebody's address, just real fucked up.

1087
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,879
Speaker 2: They would have like their medication prescription on there. It's

1088
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:28,760
Speaker 2: just real messy with the with the coinage and the dollars.

1089
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 2: But at least I got more money than y'all.

1090
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:32,359
Speaker 1: So that's very true.

1091
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:36,839
Speaker 3: And that's why you're able to live in the lap

1092
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 3: of luxury now, sis, and you can afford all those

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Speaker 3: proud of you. Sis.

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Speaker 2: Thank you here, thank you, thank you Grek for being

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Speaker 3: Yes, Sam okay, booked, busy, blessed, blick, Okay. Well, I

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Speaker 3: think it's time for you to go to work, so

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Speaker 3: I guess we'll let you go. What do we say

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Speaker 3: to Garret before he leaves?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: No, Andrew, that's the wrong answer.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 6: I love you, my guy forever.

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