1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Hi, this is Joeln Victoria. Thanks so much for listening 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: to the podcast and thanks. 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 2: For supporting the ministry. 4 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: We believe you're going to have an awesome twenty twenty four, healthy, productive, 5 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: and favor filled. 6 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 2: God bless you today and enjoy the message. Will God 7 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: bless you. 8 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: It is always our joy to come into your homes. 9 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: We love you, We know God has great things in store. 10 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: And if you're ever in the Houston area, I hope 11 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: you'll stop by and be a part of one of 12 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: our services. I promise you will make you feel right 13 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: at home. These are the best people in all of Houston, Texas, 14 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: right here at Lakewood. 15 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 2: So come by and see you sometime. Thanks again for 16 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 2: coming out, Thanks for tuning in. 17 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 1: I like to start with something funny, and I heard 18 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: about these three men that were out walking through the 19 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: wilderness and they came upon this very violent, raging river. 20 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: They needed to get to the other side. The first 21 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: man prayed, God, please give me the strength to make 22 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: it across, and poof God gave him big arms and 23 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: strong legs and he was able to swim across in 24 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: two hours. The next man, seeing this, prayed, God, please 25 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 1: give me the strength and the tools to make it across, 26 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: and poof God gave him a boat. He was able 27 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: to row across in thirty minutes. The next man prayed, God, 28 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: please give me the strength, the tools and the intelligence 29 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: to make it of cross, and poof God turned him 30 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: into a woman. She looked at the map, hiked five 31 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: minutes upstream, and walked across the bridge. And Yes, that 32 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: was sent to me by a woman. Hold up your bible, 33 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. 34 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: I am what it says I am. I have what 35 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: it says I have. I can do what it says 36 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: I can do. Today I will be talked the word 37 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: of God. I boldly confess. My mind is alert, my 38 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus' name, 39 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: God bless you. I want to talk to you today 40 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: about having a good opinion of yourself. Too many people 41 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: go around feeling wrong on the inside. 42 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 2: They don't really like who they are. 43 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: They think that they're not talented, and they don't have 44 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: a good personality. Their nose is too big, They've made 45 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: too many mistakes in their mind. A recording is constantly 46 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: playing I'm unattractive, I'm slow, I'm clumsy, I'm overweight. They 47 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: never see anything they're doing right. They can compliment others, 48 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: but they never compliment themselves. This is the root cause 49 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: of many relationship problems. If you don't love yourself in 50 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 1: a healthy way, you will never be able to love 51 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: others in the way that you should. We all have 52 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: faults and weaknesses, we all have things that we wish 53 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: were different. But God never created us to go through 54 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: life being against ourselves. The opinion you have of yourself 55 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: is the most important opinion that you have. If you 56 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: see your as less than inferior, not talented, not valuable, 57 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: you will become exactly that. You are constantly conveying what's 58 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: on the inside, even subconsciously, you're always sending out certain messages. 59 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: If you feel unattractive inside, you can be the most 60 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: beautiful person around, but you will convey those feelings of unattractiveness. 61 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: It'll push people away and you will miss out on 62 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: great relationships. The problem is on the inside. You carry 63 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: yourself the way you feel about yourself. Now, I've seen 64 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: just the opposite take place. I met a young lady recently, 65 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: and I say this very respectfully, but on the surface, 66 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: she wasn't very attractive. 67 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: She didn't have a lot of. 68 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: Natural beauty, but can I tell you, on the inside, 69 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: she had it going on. She was not irrogant, but 70 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: she was confident. She knew she was made in the 71 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: image of Almighty God. She knew she was crowned with 72 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: honor and favor. She may have looked ordinary, but she 73 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: thought extraordinary. She carried herself like a queen. She walked 74 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: like she was royalty. She smiled like she was Miss America. 75 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: She dressed like she was headed for the runway. She 76 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 1: may have bought it at the discount store, but she 77 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: wore it like it came from sax Fifth. All I 78 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: could say was, you go girl? What was the difference 79 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: On the inside. She sees herself as beautiful, attractive, smart, creative, 80 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: a child of the most time, and what's on the 81 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: inside eventually will show up on the outside. Because she 82 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: had the right opinion of herself. She exudes strength, confidence, ability, beauty. 83 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: Here's the key. 84 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 1: People see you the way you see yourself. If you 85 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: see yourself as talent, creative, with it, that's the way 86 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: people will see you. That's what you're sending out. But 87 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: if you see yourself as less than inferior, not talented. 88 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: That's the way other people will see you in some 89 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: of you. If you would just change the opinion of yourself, 90 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: if you had quit beating yourself up over past failures, 91 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: if you had quit dwelling on every physical trait you 92 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: wish was different, if you'd quit comparing yourself to somebody 93 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: else and start really loving yourself and value in who 94 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: you are and seeing yourself as the masterpiece God created 95 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: you to be. Then as you send out these different messages, 96 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: you're going to see new doors open, new opportunities, new friendships, 97 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: new levels of God's favor. This is exactly what happened 98 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: to the Israelites when the Spies came back from the 99 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 1: Promised Land. They said to Moses, they're in numbers thirteen, 100 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: verse thirty three. 101 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 2: We were in our own. 102 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: Sites as grasshowk hepers, and so we were in their sights. 103 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: Notice they didn't say, Moses, those people insulted us, They 104 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: called us grasshoppers. No, they went in with a grasshopper mentality. 105 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,159 Speaker 1: They said, we were in our. 106 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 2: Own sits as grasshoppers. Notice what happened. 107 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: Notice what they conveyed, here's the principle at work, and 108 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: so we were in their sights. In other words, they 109 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: saw us the same way we saw ourselves. This story 110 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: would have turned out differently if they would have had 111 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: a right opinion of who they are, if they would 112 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: have seen themselves strong, confident, more than conquers, then they 113 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: would have come back like Joshua and Caleb and said, Moses, 114 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: we are well able. Let us go up at once 115 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: and take the land again. The problem was on the inside. 116 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: Growing up, we had a dog named Scooter. He was 117 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: a big german shepherd, very strong, very fast. In fact, 118 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: Scooter was the king of the neighborhood. My father used 119 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: to ride his bicycle for exercise through the subdivision. Scooter 120 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: would follow along beside him. My dad told how proud 121 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: he was of Scooter. Scooter looked like he could fight 122 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: a tiger. But one day, while they were riding about 123 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: fifty yards in front of them, this tiny little Chihuahua 124 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: came bursting out of one of the homes, racing towards 125 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: Scooter ninety miles an hour, barking to the top of 126 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: his lungs. My father thought, you, poor little dog, you 127 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: were messing with the wrong dog. Scooter can put one 128 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: paw on you, and totally finish you off. But when 129 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: that little chihuahua got about twenty yards away, all of 130 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: a sudden, Scooter froze in his tracks. He hung his 131 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: head like he was scared intimidated. When that little chihuahua 132 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: got up to Scooter, still barking as loud as he 133 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: could be, Scooter rolled over on his back and put 134 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: all four legs up in the air. Daddy said, I 135 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: wanted to kick that dog all the way home. 136 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 2: Scooter needed to hear this message. 137 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: But that little dog, he may have been small on 138 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: the outside, but somehow on the inside he saw himself strong, confident, 139 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: well able, and what was on the inside emanated to 140 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: the outside. I thought, if we could just have as 141 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: good of opinion of ourselves as that little dog, if 142 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: we could just be as bold and strong and confident 143 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: on the inside. The problem today is there are too 144 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: many grasshopper believers. They see themselves as weak, defeated, not 145 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: able to and the image on the inside is being 146 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: conveyed to the outside. I've discovered if you send out 147 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: feelings of inferiority, then people are gonna treat you inferior. 148 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: If you send out weak, defeated, washed up made too 149 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: many mistakes feelings, that's exactly the way people are gonna 150 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: treat you. And you may feel, in a sense like 151 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: that little dog. In other words, you're at a disse 152 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: advantage in life. You don't have the size, the talent, 153 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: the looks, the education, the family name. 154 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 2: Listen, none of that matters. 155 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: All that matters is the creator of the universe breathed 156 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: his life into you. He created you as a person 157 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 1: of destiny. You have seeds of greatness on the inside. 158 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 1: You may have made mistakes, People may have tried to 159 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: push you down. You probably have faults and weakness, as 160 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 1: we all do. But let me remind you you are 161 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: not a grasshopper. You are a child of the most 162 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 1: high God. Put your shoulders back, hold your head up higher. 163 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: Don't you dare go through life being against yourself? Shake 164 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,839 Speaker 1: off the inferiority, Shake off the self pity, shake off 165 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: the disappointment, shake off the failure. 166 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 2: Have the attitude. I am who God says, I am. 167 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: I am equipped, I am empowered, I am strong, I 168 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: am highly favored. I am well able to fulfill my destiny. 169 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: I heard a story about this man and his small son. 170 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: They were out walking through the mountains, and at one 171 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: point the little boy slipped and he slid twenty or 172 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: thirty yards down the mountain side, and he was finally 173 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: able to grab onto a tree branch and hold on. 174 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: He screamed out, help me. This voice boom back, help me. 175 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: He looked kind of confused, and he said, who are you? 176 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,439 Speaker 1: The voice boom back, Who are you? He got aggravated. 177 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: He said, you're a fool. The voice came back. You're 178 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: a fool. He said, you're a coward. The voice came back, 179 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: You're a coward. About that time, his father got to me. 180 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: He said, Dad, who is that? His dad laughed and said, son, 181 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: that's called an echo, but really it's called life. He said, 182 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: let me show you something, son. The dad hollered out, 183 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: you're a winner. The voice boom back, You're a winner. 184 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 1: You're talented. 185 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 2: Came back. 186 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: You're talented. He said, you've got what it takes. The 187 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: voice rang out, You've got what it takes. He said, son, 188 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: that's how life is. Whatever you send out always comes 189 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: back to you. Let me ask you, what are you 190 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 1: sending out about yourself. I'm kind of slow, Joel, I'm 191 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: a failure. I've made so many mistakes, nobody wants to 192 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: be around me. No, start sending out I'm strong, I'm talented, 193 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: I'm creative, I'm healthy, I'm fun, i am victorious. What 194 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: you send out is going to come back when you 195 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: wake up in the morning. 196 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 2: One of the. 197 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: Best things you can do is, after you thank God 198 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: for his goodness, start your day off thinking about what's 199 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: right with you. Do not lay in bed thinking about 200 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 1: all the mistakes you've made. 201 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 2: All your faults, all your weaknesses. 202 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: No, on purpose, Dwell on your good qualities, Dwell on 203 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: your victories. 204 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 2: Dwell on what you like about yourself. 205 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: Instead of thinking, oh man, just laying there, I'm so overweghed, 206 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: I'm so out of shape, I don't know what's wrong 207 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: with me. No, dwell on the fact that you've got 208 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: a great personality. People love being around you. You make 209 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: everyone smile. That's going to give you the confidence and 210 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: the desire to improve in those weak areas. The best 211 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: gift that you can give this world is a healthy you. 212 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: When you get up each day excited, confidence, secure, happy, hopeful, 213 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 1: you are giving this world the best that you can 214 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: possibly give. 215 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 2: The gift of you. Now, let me challenge you. 216 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: Don't ever say another negative thing about yourself. You may 217 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: be frustrated, you may be tempted to do it, but 218 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: you've got to bite your tongue. Don't let it come 219 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:39,319 Speaker 1: out of your mouth. When you talk bad about yourself, 220 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: it pushes you down, It steals your confidence, and it 221 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: saddens your spirit. I hear people say often, I'm so clumsy. 222 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,199 Speaker 1: I can't do anything right. Had a lady tell me 223 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 1: last week, Joel, I'm just a terrible mother. I used 224 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,199 Speaker 1: to play basketball with a young man and when he 225 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: would miss a shot, he would call himself by name 226 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: and say, Danny, you idiot, You idiot, you idiot. 227 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: He'd say it like five times. I had a friend 228 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: that called him Danny the idiot. 229 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: So you have to realize when you criticize yourself, you 230 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: are criticizing God's very own creation. You may as well 231 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: look up to the heavens and say, God, you didn't 232 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: do a very good job with me. Now understand, God 233 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: did not make any mistakes when. 234 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: He created you. 235 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: He stepped back and said, I did it again, another masterpiece. 236 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: Now turn it around. Quit seeing the bad and start 237 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: seeing the good. Let me ask you, have you complimented 238 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: yourself lately? I know people they can compliment others, they 239 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: see the best in somebody else, but they never see 240 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: the best in themselves. 241 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 2: But just like you. 242 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: Would tell a friend, hey, you look great today, or 243 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: a coworker, you did excellent on that presentation, you need 244 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 1: to be able to say to yourself, you look good, 245 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: you did great today. It's healthy to compliment yourself. There's 246 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: a young lady on our staff, and she told our 247 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: women's group that when she gets up in the morning, 248 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: she looks at herself in the mirror and says, girl, 249 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: you are looking good today. I saw her not long 250 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: after that, and I asked her if she was still 251 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: doing that. 252 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 2: She said, yeah. 253 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: In fact, Joey, when I got up this morning, I 254 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: looked at myself in the mirror and said, girl, some 255 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: days you look good, but today you're looking really good. 256 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 2: Now. 257 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: I wonder how many of us would be that bold 258 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: to look in the mirror and say, you look great today. 259 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 1: Most people, when they wake up in the morning look 260 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: in the mirror, they think, oh, man, I look terrible, 261 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: and I'm getting so old, and look at all these wrinkles, 262 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: Look how gray my hair is, or where did my 263 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: hair go? 264 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 2: They start their day. 265 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 1: Depressed, discouraged against themselves. 266 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: But I'm gonna give you a challenge. 267 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you an assignment for the next thirty days. 268 00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: When you get up in the morning, look at yoursel 269 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: in the mere, smile real big, and say good morning, you. 270 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 2: Good looking thing. 271 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: You'll not only feel better, but it'll probably give you 272 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: a good laugh. Now, some of you, like my brother Paul, 273 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna be calling the things that are not as 274 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: if they were. Just do it by faith. I couldn't resist. 275 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: It's interesting. In the book of Genesis, when God created 276 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: the heavens and the earth, he said, let there be light. 277 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: And light came and God said that was good. He 278 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: separated the waters from the sky and God said that 279 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: was good. He made the night and the day, and 280 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: God said it again, that was good. 281 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 2: What's my point? 282 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: When God did something good, he praised himself. He looked 283 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: back and said, I like that I did good. We 284 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: need to learn to do the same thing. When you 285 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: accomplish something, when you give it your best, you need 286 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,359 Speaker 1: to look back and say, I'm proud of myself. 287 00:15:58,600 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 2: I did good. 288 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: I know people that are never happy with themselves. They 289 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: can work night and day accomplish something great, but they 290 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: always think if I could have just done it a 291 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: little bit better, if I'd have just had a little 292 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: more time. No quit being overly critical and learned to 293 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: compliment yourself instead of dwelling on all man. I was 294 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: late to work one day this week, and I didn't 295 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: spend enough time with my children. 296 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 2: No turn it around. 297 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: Dwell on the fact that, Hey, I may have been 298 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: late to work one day, but I did go to 299 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: church Sunday that was good. May not have spent enough 300 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: time with my children, but I did make sure they 301 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: had hot meals that was good. May have blown my diet, 302 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: but I did take the stairs instead of the elevator. 303 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 2: That was good. Find the good. 304 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: Think about this. When God created the heavens and the earth, 305 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: and he first said it was good, he had not 306 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:55,119 Speaker 1: yet separated the waters from the sky. It was still chaotic, 307 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: still a great mess. He had not yet made the 308 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: fish in the animals, created the beautiful mountains and the 309 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: beautiful oceans. 310 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 2: Yet. But God still stepped back. 311 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 1: He paused for a moment and said, in a fact, 312 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm not done, it's not finished. 313 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 2: It's not perfect, but so far, so good. 314 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: You may not be exactly where you'd like to be 315 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,199 Speaker 1: in life, but on a regular basis, you need to 316 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 1: pause and say, you know. 317 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: What I've done good. 318 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: May not be living in my dream home just yet, 319 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: but I'm not in that small apartment. 320 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 2: I've done good. Patch yourself on the back. 321 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 1: Maybe you haven't totally overcome that addiction, but you are 322 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: better off than you were last year. 323 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 2: You've cut back some. 324 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 1: Now, take time to compliment yourself. Celebrate what you've accomplished. 325 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 1: Every one of you can look back in life and 326 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: find something where you can say, I'm proud of myself. 327 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 2: I did good. That's what I want you to start. 328 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 1: Dwelling on, not how far you've got to go and 329 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 1: how many mistakes you've made and all your weaknesses. No, 330 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: if you're going to make it to your God given destination, 331 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:06,159 Speaker 1: one way to stay encouraged is by celebrating your small 332 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: victories all along the way. A few months ago, I 333 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: was playing basketball with our son Jonathan. He's fourteen now, 334 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 1: and we played for years, one on one, him versus me. 335 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: For the first time, he beat me fair and square, 336 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: fifteen to fourteen. I gave him a high five and 337 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: then told him he was grounded. But At one point 338 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: during the game, he had gotten around me and went 339 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 1: up for a shot, and I had stumbled and lost 340 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:36,959 Speaker 1: my footing, but I regained it. 341 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 2: He didn't see me. I came from behind. 342 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: Him, jumped as high as I could, timed it just right, 343 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: and I blocked his shot. 344 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 2: I mean I swatted it out of the air. 345 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: I felt like I was Shaquille O'Neill, like a professional. 346 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: A couple of days later, we were at the gym 347 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 1: playing with some friends and Jonathan said, hey, Dad, tell 348 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: everybody what happened the other night. My mind immediately went 349 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: to the block. I said, oh, yeah, Jonathan went up. 350 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: He didn't see me. I timed I must have been 351 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: this high, and I went like He said, no, Dad, 352 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 1: I meant tell him how I beat you for the 353 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: first time. But it's interesting. I didn't remember my defeat. 354 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,439 Speaker 1: I remembered my victory. The first thing that came to 355 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 1: my mind was not that I lost the game, but 356 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: it was the fact that I had done something good. 357 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 1: A lot of people it's just the opposite. Even though 358 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 1: they win the game, they remember all the mistakes they made. 359 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: They never feel good about themselves. They're too busy pushing 360 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: themselves down because of something they didn't do right. Friends, 361 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: it's all in how we've trained ourselves. I don't know 362 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 1: about you, but I am not going to go through 363 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: life being against myself. I'm not gonna stay focused on 364 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 1: my defeats, my failures, my shortcomings. I'm gonna work with 365 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 1: God to improve in those areas. But I'm gonna dwell 366 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: on my good qualities. I'm gonna dwell on what I 367 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: like about myself. I'm gonna remember my victory reads and 368 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: downplay my defense. The scripture says this, our faith is 369 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 1: made effectual when we acknowledge everything good. Notice when our 370 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 1: faith is effective, not when we acknowledge the defeats, the failures, 371 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: the shortcomings, not when we go around focused on everything 372 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:22,360 Speaker 1: we don't like about ourselves. Our faith becomes effective when 373 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 1: we acknowledge the good even though you lost the game, 374 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: when you acknowledge the one shot God helped you to block. 375 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: Your faith becomes effective when you get up in the 376 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,400 Speaker 1: morning and you have a thousand reasons in the natural 377 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,919 Speaker 1: to complain and be negative, but instead you shake it 378 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: all and say, Father, thank you for another beautiful day 379 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: that you've made, thank you that I'm alive and healthy. 380 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 1: Thank you for my family and friends. Thank you for 381 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: the opportunity in front of me. When you do that, 382 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: your faith comes alive. That's what allows God to. 383 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 2: Do great things in your life. So many people go 384 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 2: around doing just. 385 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 1: The opposite, everything that's wrong. And I can't believe that 386 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: person hurt me five years ago. And I wish I 387 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 1: had thick, curly hair. And I don't know why my 388 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: nose is so big. They wonder why they don't see 389 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 1: God's blessings in favor, It's because their faith is not effective. 390 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: They have such a poor. 391 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 2: Opinion of themselves. 392 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: And the sad thing is, I've seen how some people 393 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 1: think that it's holy to go around being down on themselves. 394 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: They think it shows humility to go around saying I'm 395 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: just a weak worm of the dust. I'm just a 396 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 1: poor old sinner, just a fail. You're nothing good in me. 397 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,679 Speaker 1: You need to get rid of that attitude. There is 398 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 1: something good in you. You have the seed of Almighty God. 399 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: You may have been a poor old sinner, but when. 400 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 2: You came to Christ, he made you a new creation. 401 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 1: You may not feel worthy, but He has made you worthy. 402 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: You are no longer a sinner. You are a son, 403 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: a daughter of the Most High God. And it does 404 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: not bring any honor to God God for us to 405 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 1: go around feeling unworthy, inferior, intimidated, insecure. No, if you 406 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 1: want to bring a smile to God's face, if you 407 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: want to see God open doors that no man can shut, 408 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: if you want your faith to become effective, you have 409 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 1: got to put your shoulders back, hold your head up high. 410 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,199 Speaker 1: You are not a grasshopper. You were never created to 411 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 1: have wings but barely be able to get off the ground. 412 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 2: You were created a sword. 413 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 1: God wants to take you places that you've never even 414 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: dreamed of. Don't go through life being against yourself. God 415 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: wants you to feel good about who you are. So 416 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 1: often we can see the best in others, but I'm 417 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: asking you today to start seeing the best in yourself. 418 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 1: A while back, I was in a large auditorium speaking 419 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,400 Speaker 1: at one of our events on the road, and right 420 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 1: in the middle of my message, I heard this voice 421 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: coming from behind me, very very loud. It was a 422 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 1: person speaking very passionately, sounded like it was coming out 423 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: out of the monitor system. 424 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 2: For the band. 425 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: I thought somebody had accidentally turned on a CD, and 426 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 1: I was sure that our technicians were going to stop 427 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: it as quickly as they could, and I did my 428 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: best to ignore. 429 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: It, but finally I had to stop. It was just 430 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 2: too distracting. 431 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: When I did, I heard the voice saying, Joel's message 432 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: is going around the world. They got it corrected and 433 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: I finished my message. And after the service, I was 434 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: talking to some of the team and I said, what 435 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: was that voice? Who was that speaking? They downplayed it 436 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 1: and said, oh, Joel. Somebody brought a little sound system 437 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:33,719 Speaker 1: and set it up in the lobby. 438 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 2: They felt like they had. 439 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: Something to say, and I kind of laughed and said, well, 440 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: at least they were saying something good about me. 441 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 2: Went on. 442 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 1: Well, I found out later they weren't saying something good 443 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: about me. They were telling everything they thought was wrong 444 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:49,880 Speaker 1: with me. But what's funny is I immediately assumed they 445 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: were saying something good. 446 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 2: I assumed the best. 447 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 1: See, I have an interesting philosophy I live by. I 448 00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: think everybody loves me, everybody. 449 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:01,439 Speaker 2: Wants to be my friend. 450 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: I think I have something great to offer, and I 451 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: realize that's naive. 452 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,360 Speaker 2: But can I tell you naive is a great way 453 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 2: to live. 454 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 1: You are not supposed to go around assuming the worst 455 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: you're supposed to assume the best. I know people that 456 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 1: will walk into a room with other people they've never met, 457 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,199 Speaker 1: and they immediately think, well, I'm sure they don't like me. 458 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 1: I'm sure they don't want to hear my opinion. I'm 459 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 1: sure they're probably talking about me right now. No, you 460 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: will never experience God's best being intimidated, insecure, assuming the worst. 461 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 1: Retrain your mind. Let me tell you you have something 462 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: great to offer. Your personality, your gifts, your smile, your love, 463 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 1: your encouragement. That's one of a kind. You have the 464 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 1: fingerprints of God all over you. Be confident in who 465 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 1: God has made you to be. If somebody wants to 466 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: talk bad about you, don't worry about it. They've got 467 00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 1: the problem, not you. If they don't want to be 468 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: your friend, no big deal. It's their loss, not yours. 469 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 1: God will bring you the right friends. But I want 470 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: you to start seeing yourself as the masterpiece God created 471 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: you to be. David said it this way, Psalm one 472 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 1: thirty nine. God, you made me in an amazing way. 473 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: What you have done is wonderful. I wonder how many 474 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: of us would be bold enough to say, like David, 475 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 1: I'm amazing I'm wonderful, I'm a masterpiece. Most people their 476 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 1: mind would never even go in that direction. They're too 477 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: busy beating themselves down. And I'm not talking about being arrogant. 478 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm talking about a quiet confidence. We're deep down in 479 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: your innermost being, you know that, no matter how many 480 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: mistakes you've made, no matter who's tried to push you down, 481 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: no matter how inferior your own thoughts are trying to 482 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,959 Speaker 1: make you feel that is not who you are. The 483 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 1: creator of the universe says you are amazing, you are wonderful, 484 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 1: you are a masterpiece. Now I'm asking you today to 485 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: get in agreement with God. Those negative thoughts may play 486 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: the loudest, they may have been there for year after year, 487 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,919 Speaker 1: but this is a new day. You can change the 488 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: recording all through the day. I want you to start 489 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 1: saying to yourself, I'm strong, I'm healthy, I'm talented, I'm creative, 490 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm amazing, I'm wonderful, I'm a child of the most 491 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 1: High God. Friends, this world needs your gift. When you 492 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: are healthy and whold, not just physically but on the inside. 493 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: That's the best gift you can give this world. Remember, 494 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 1: don't ever say another negative thing about yourself. What you 495 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,479 Speaker 1: send out is always going to come back. Turn it 496 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: around and learn to compliment yourself. Start focusing on your 497 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: good qualities, dwell on your victories. People are going to 498 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: see you the way you see yourself. If you will 499 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 1: learn to have a good opinion of who you are 500 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 1: and develop this habit like the Scripture says, of acknowledging 501 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 1: everything good, then you'll not only be happier and have 502 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: better relation, but your faith will become effective. That's when 503 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 1: God will open doors that no man can shut. You'll 504 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,239 Speaker 1: overcome your obstacles, You'll accomplish your dreams. I believe and 505 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,959 Speaker 1: declare you'll become everything God created you to be, and 506 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,640 Speaker 1: you will have everything God intended for you to have. 507 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,439 Speaker 2: Amen. Do you receive that today? 508 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 1: We never like to close our broadcast without giving you 509 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: an opportunity to make Jesus the lord of your life. 510 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: Would you pray with me? Just say, Lord, Jesus, I 511 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 1: repent of my sins. Come into my heart. I make 512 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 1: you my Lord and savior. Friends, if you prayed that 513 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: simple prayer, we believe you got born again. Get in 514 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: a good Bible based church. Keep God first place. He's 515 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,919 Speaker 1: going to take your places that you've never dreamed of. 516 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 3: Three minutes can such a small amount of time make 517 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 3: a big difference to your day to turn worry into confidence, 518 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:59,959 Speaker 3: frustration to hope, defeat to victory. Maybe you just need 519 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,159 Speaker 3: a boost of faith. 520 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 1: When we put God first place and get our thinking 521 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,719 Speaker 1: in line with his, even a small seed of time 522 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 1: can make a huge difference. We have a new resource 523 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 1: called three minute Mornings. Start your day the blessed way. 524 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: My challenge is when you wake up, before you leave 525 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: the house, take three minutes to speak blessings over your 526 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 1: life and to declare God's favor. Get your mind going 527 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 1: in the right direction. When you do that, you're setting 528 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 1: yourself up for a blessed, victorious day. 529 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 3: As our way of saying thank you for your gift 530 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,119 Speaker 3: of any size to the ministry, this month, Joel and 531 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 3: Victoria would like to send you this just released life 532 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,479 Speaker 3: giving new daily devotional. Before your feet hit the ground 533 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 3: or go out the door, have your heart experience a 534 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 3: bit of heaven, set your mind on the things above 535 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 3: with our new three minute Mornings devotional. With this new 536 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 3: three hundred and sixty five day devotional three Minute Mornings, 537 00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 3: you'll experience God showering down his favor like never before. 538 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 3: You'll focus on the better that is coming and fully 539 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 3: realize the freedom of not worrying about tomorrow. 540 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: Victorian, I pray for you and your family every day. 541 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your prayer and support. You're 542 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: making a difference all over the world. Remember you can 543 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: watch the services online every Sunday morning, download our daily podcast. 544 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 2: Listen on SiriusXM. But until we meet again, mid the 545 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 2: Lord bless you and keep you. 546 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 3: Be sure to request your copy of Three Minute Mornings today. 547 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 3: Visit Joelostein dot com or call eighty eight five six 548 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 3: seven Joel