1 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: and everybody. 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 2: You know, if you don't lie about that? Right, Hey, 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 2: y'all with up. 5 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: It's Laura Rosa and this is another episode of the 6 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: Latest with Lauren Rosa. This is your daily digg on 7 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: all things pop culture, entertainment, news, and all of the 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: conversations that shake the room. Baby now today joining us 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: here for the Latest is you know, honestly, I would 10 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: say she is the latest news, but I mean you 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: I feel like Candy Burns has been. 12 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: You've literally been the topic. 13 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,599 Speaker 3: Of discussion in so many different ways my like full life. 14 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: I was thinking about this as I was preparing, like 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: I've never I've never not known since I've been working 16 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: in entertainment, I've never had a year where I'm. 17 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 3: Pitching news stories. I'm comfort news or breaking exclusives. 18 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: And Candy was not one of the artists that the 19 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: outlet or the newsroom care for, Like I literally never, 20 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: You've always been in the cycle. 21 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 3: How does that feel? 22 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes it's a good thing, sometimes it's a 23 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 4: bad thing. 24 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: So I guess, you know, I guess it's good. I 25 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 2: don't know, I got what they say. 26 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 4: I ain't nobody talking about you, then you ain't doing 27 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 4: nothing so exactly. 28 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I guess we could get right on 29 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 3: into it. Today. 30 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 1: Uh, there was news that broke that your divorce from 31 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: Todd was finalized. 32 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 3: So how are you today? 33 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: I've seen interviews where you said some days you're up, 34 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: some days you're down. How are you feeling today with 35 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: you know, the find the news hitting today. 36 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 2: I'm okay. 37 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 4: You know, it was a little weird for me, you know, 38 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 4: when my lawyer hit me and said it was final 39 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 4: I was like, it feels awkward, you know what I'm saying. 40 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 4: It's kind of strange because it's like, you know, we've 41 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 4: been married for over ten years now and we're still 42 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 4: you know, communicating. 43 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 44 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 4: So it just feels weird that, you know, like we're 45 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 4: really not together, I guess, and that I'm not like 46 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 4: planning for the future no more. 47 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: It's like crazy, what. 48 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: So I want to back up a bit before we 49 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: get into the settlement that has you know, been discussed 50 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: in the news, because that has also been a very 51 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: big part of what we know about Candy for a 52 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: lot of the time, right from Real Housewives to you know, 53 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: candy coded nights, to your businesses, to your beautiful family. 54 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: Todd has always been a part of that conversation with you, 55 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: how did we get here? 56 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 2: Like I haven't seen you say. 57 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: I saw you say, like there was an event that happened, 58 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: but like I to this day, I'm still like, what 59 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:44,399 Speaker 1: the hell happened? 60 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: Brands? 61 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 4: You know what I will say is I'll discuss more 62 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 4: about it and the one woman show that I'm doing 63 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 4: and that I do, I did, I don't. I'm definitely 64 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 4: gonna address it there, Like I don't want to give 65 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 4: away too much now as far as like the details 66 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 4: of that, you know what I mean. Obviously there are 67 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 4: certain things that came of our divorce I guess in 68 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 4: the day or yesterday that was more public. But like 69 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 4: my personal feelings and why how I got to this point, 70 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 4: I'm gonna share that in that moment because I kind 71 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 4: of feel like me I'm always doing, like the way 72 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 4: I vent, I always vent creatively, you know what I'm saying, 73 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 4: whether it's through some of. 74 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 2: The songs I wrote, you know that I've used. 75 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 4: The event passed frustrations or relationships or you know, maybe 76 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 4: some of the times well even like when I did 77 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 4: a Mother's Love play, you know, that was what was 78 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 4: going on at time, or the Dungeon tour that was 79 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 4: you know, the event team from a situation that happened. 80 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 4: So I always vent creatively, So I want to say 81 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 4: that for that experience I'm putting together. 82 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: So when it comes to like the settlement itself, I 83 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: know you said that you were fighting to keep all 84 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: of the seals, so y'all don't have to end answer 85 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: to media or not even that you've got an answer to, 86 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: but just so. 87 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 2: We wouldn't know everything right. 88 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 3: Like why would the other side, why would tie side 89 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 3: not want it to be sealed? 90 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 2: I couldn't understand it for a minute, you know what 91 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: I mean? 92 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 4: But I think you know the way he explained it 93 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 4: to me was that he wanted it to be clear, 94 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 4: like he wasn't trying to take me for everything I 95 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 4: had or something like that, you. 96 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: Know what I mean, because I think you know, obviously 97 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 2: that is the narrative. 98 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 4: You know, always, you know, people always want to like 99 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 4: as far as even when our relationship the whole time 100 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 4: we've been together is like. 101 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 2: That's the narrative, you know what I mean? And although 102 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: you know there were things you. 103 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 4: Know that were I guess said as I don't know, 104 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 4: I don't want to say threats, but as you know, 105 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 4: possibilities of things that could happen when they were first 106 00:04:58,440 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 4: violent things. 107 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 2: That was never him fighting a prenup. 108 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 4: Was never a conversation they had with me, or never 109 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: a conversation that was had with my attorney. So I 110 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 4: think overall, I guess at the end of the day, 111 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 4: when it was all said and done, I wanted I 112 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 4: guess he just felt like he wanted it to be clear, 113 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 4: like you know, he didn't try. 114 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: To make anything financially for what I mean, there is 115 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: there So in this settlement, there's a lump sum. 116 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 3: It's a little bit over four hundred thousand dollars, and 117 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 3: then there's like you guys split up cards and real estate. 118 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 3: It doesn't mention anything about your businesses. 119 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: But so. 120 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: How do you guys then get to that? So we 121 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: saw this was this was hard, right. It was like 122 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 1: in real life. I'm watching you guys, and I saw 123 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: he came over, not came over. I mean, it's your 124 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: child's father, your children's father. I saw you guys were 125 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: together for the holidays. I saw when you posted your 126 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: one woman show he jokingly supported that and said, you know, yeah, 127 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: I saint done laugh all out support my girl, right like, 128 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: But then when the docs are filed, it seems like 129 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 1: there's an argument about, you know, custody and how that 130 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: works in the settlement. It seems like you guys are 131 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 1: fifty to fifty down the middle, but there's an argument 132 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 1: about custody. It seems like there was an argument about 133 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: you know what about there. 134 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 2: Well, at the end of the day, I mean. 135 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 4: As far as our custody is gonna we are joint custody. 136 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 4: You know, everybody said they tried to report something else 137 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 4: last week, which was not true. Okay, like we would 138 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 4: still be in court that was if it was anything else. 139 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 2: Let me just say that. 140 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 4: That's it was confusing because people were reporting lies last week, gotcha, okay, 141 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 4: And so that was I think that was That's also 142 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 4: a thing for me that was so frustrating through this 143 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 4: whole process. It's like whenever anything is open, it leads 144 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 4: it to people's interpretation. And you got bloggers who really 145 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 4: want to just be the first to report a story, 146 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 4: so they'll just say anything. 147 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 2: Without without any type of real information. 148 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 4: They'll make up stuff and go to the public, and 149 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 4: people be so quick to want to be first to 150 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 4: post that they'll just run with whatever they heard. Now, 151 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 4: what was actually reporting in the filing at the end 152 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 4: of the day, the final thing that is what is real. 153 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: Like all that other stuff, it's fake news. 154 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 4: As they say, we are joint you know, everything is 155 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 4: split evenly, even when it comes to the financial part 156 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 4: of it. We had properties together that we had to 157 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 4: split equally, and you know, you know, basically it's just 158 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 4: so we just have to end up with equal equity. 159 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 4: And so you know, as far as like I mean, 160 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 4: I guess it said who got we properties? You know, 161 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 4: if I ended up with one more, I just had 162 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 4: to pay the difference up. 163 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: So we are still equal in what we got. 164 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 4: It's just because I ended up with more on the 165 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 4: property side, then I just pay the different stuff. 166 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 2: So it's not like I had to pay him. You 167 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 2: get know what I'm saying, I got you what was 168 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 2: that but that? 169 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: But I mean, but in the settlement, from what T 170 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm going off for what T and D is reporting, 171 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: and from what they're reporting, they're reporting a number. I 172 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: believe it's like four hundred, four hundred twenty six thousand dollars. 173 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: Right. 174 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 4: What I'm saying is, if you read the whole thing, 175 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 4: which I guess it's open to the public, we we 176 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 4: have to be equal in the equity that we have 177 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 4: in the properties that we own together. 178 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 3: Got you okay, So that's separate. 179 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 4: We have to be equal and what we both take 180 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 4: out of the properties. So if I if we didn't 181 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 4: sell the properties and we just did it based off well, 182 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 4: I'm gonna take these two, you take whatever, but my 183 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 4: properties may be worth more than I have to pay 184 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 4: the difference so that we're both still equal. 185 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 2: Got to do. 186 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: And then when you talk about like you talk about 187 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,199 Speaker 1: like people reporting things right. 188 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 3: I noticed that adventure at first because I was watching 189 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 3: you You're. 190 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: Gonna Get your Amazon Live show that you do, and 191 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: you you were very much like you just didn't want 192 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: to talk about it at the time, but the fans 193 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: were there, they were asking questions in the comments, and 194 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: you didn't get into it. But then you kind of 195 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: started to, you know, talk a bit more, and I 196 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: know you said it was because things were being reported wrong. 197 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,719 Speaker 3: What was like the craziest thing that. 198 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: You saw throughout this whole time where you were like, 199 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 1: this is the dumb shit like this is why I. 200 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 3: Didn't want to end up here in the first place. 201 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 3: Like what was the craziest thing you saw? 202 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 4: Man? 203 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 2: It was so much crazy stuff. 204 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 4: Like I said, you know, overall, I'm gonna I will 205 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 4: even address some of them bloggers in that one woman. 206 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: Show that I'm dying. 207 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, yes, but I, like I said, I'm really 208 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 4: gonna put it all into that show. So you know, 209 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 4: we're gonna take it to multiple cities and people will 210 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 4: be able to see for themselves. But I mean, just still, 211 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 4: you know, just in fairness to speak on what is 212 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 4: factual that you just saw, Yeah, I mean, you. 213 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 2: Know, and the difference of this week and last week. 214 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 2: You know, last week they saying that they were saying 215 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 2: I was paying two million dollars. You know, you commented 216 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 2: on that. 217 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: I saw you commented on that one, right, was that 218 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: the one you commented on You commented on something and 219 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: was like this is not true, or you came out 220 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: and mentioned like maybe that was I saw your interview. 221 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 2: Maybe I did. Maybe I did it on one. I 222 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 2: don't know who's there's so many people reported it. Yeah. 223 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 4: I was so annoyed, and in fairness, he was annoyed too, 224 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. 225 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: It wasn't like I was the only one annoyed. We 226 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 2: both were annoyed that. 227 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 4: You know, that's what people were running with because it 228 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 4: was just like totally made up, you know what I mean. 229 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 4: But throughout the situation, you know, people, it was one time, 230 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 4: like I had said something about it was like an 231 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 4: AI video, an AI of my voice talking like if 232 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 4: it was a statement I was making, and they was 233 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 4: like flashing pictures of us together and. 234 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 2: I was like, whoa, Like it really sounded like me, 235 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 236 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 4: So I had think I posted like I think I 237 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 4: said something about how like I was so frustrated with this. 238 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: Whole AI thing. 239 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 4: And it's so crazy to me how people will be like, yeah, 240 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 4: well you the one that's talking about and I'm like, yeah, 241 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 4: it's such a catch twenty two situation because if you don't. 242 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 2: Say anything, then like if one blot reports it, then 243 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 2: all of them pick it up and it's everywhere. You know, my. 244 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 3: Mama and I have to answer to my mama, you 245 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 3: know what I mean. 246 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 2: My Mama's like why these people saying and I'm like, 247 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, soney, she you have to answer to her. 248 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 4: Okay, right, but I'm just saying it's like she's been 249 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 4: supportive thro this situation. Say that, but it's just kind 250 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 4: of like it's a catch twenty two. So if you 251 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:48,719 Speaker 4: don't really reply, then you know, people are spreading. 252 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: The wrong narrative. And then if you do, then it's just. 253 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 4: Kind of like then people like, oh, why she always 254 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 4: gotta feel like she gotta respond, And then it's just like, 255 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 4: you know what, I can't win. 256 00:11:58,800 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 2: For losing in the situation. 257 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 4: But at the end of the day, we're you know, 258 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:10,319 Speaker 4: we're gonna try to still come away from this situation 259 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 4: and be the best co parents that we could be, 260 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. 261 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 2: It's like we had our personal. 262 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 4: Drama, which you know, obviously that wasn't as public because 263 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 4: neither one of us really spoke on the details of that. 264 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 3: But. 265 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 4: Just publicly, you know, at the end of the day, 266 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 4: we're still going to try to be cool, still do things, 267 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 4: you know, with our kids together, you know, because we 268 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 4: want our kids to be happy, you know, we still 269 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,679 Speaker 4: want them to feel connected on both sides. 270 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 2: You know, what is that for you? 271 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: For both of you guys, emotionally, don't because like you said, 272 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: you you were talking about as recent as I mean 273 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: as soon as spring break. 274 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 3: That's in a couple of weeks, right on our anniversary. Yes, 275 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 3: So how does Todd and Candy, who have been this 276 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 3: unit through. 277 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: Good, bad, up, down, left right for all of these years, 278 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: just casually get together and do spring break with the 279 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: kids and then not being in a emotional rollercoaster, even 280 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: if behind the closed doors away. 281 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:14,719 Speaker 2: From the kids. 282 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 4: Realistically, we're still figuring it out. Like that's all I 283 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 4: can say because I don't really have an answer on that. 284 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, so how does it work now with like cause 285 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: you know, there was a whole guest house living in 286 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: the guest house conversation. He needed to leave the guest house, 287 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: and they said Candy was up there evicted people. That's 288 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: how they were reporting the documents and seeing out. 289 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 2: Once again. 290 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 4: I'm definitely gonna have to a dress. I will address 291 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 4: all of that in my one woman show. 292 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: But you know, it's just kind of like it is 293 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 2: what it is, you know. 294 00:13:56,280 --> 00:14:01,559 Speaker 4: I think for me, it was like, Okay, it's a 295 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 4: gradual separation, okay, meaning't like you know you mad. So 296 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 4: you know it's like you as a woman. You know 297 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 4: a lot of women just first off, like get out, 298 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 4: da da, da take out, you know all that stuff, right, 299 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 4: But then on the other side of that coin is like, 300 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 4: I got kids, So how do we do this in 301 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 4: a way to where it's not a drastic change for them? So, 302 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 4: you know, figuring all that stuff out is you know, 303 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to say that. You know, 304 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 4: we know all the right things to do, just like 305 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 4: anybody that's going through a divorce. Well, now our divorce 306 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 4: is final, but like anybody that's going through a divorce, 307 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 4: that was something that we were trying to figure out 308 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 4: what's the best way to go about it, and that 309 00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 4: was just the way we went about it. 310 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 1: Have you had conversations with I know your kids are young, 311 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: Ace Blades, you know, another young, but like, have you 312 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: had conversations with them yet or you guys have started 313 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: to at all about kind of what that would look like, 314 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 1: you know, because it will be so different for them. 315 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 4: Todd and I are gonna be discussing that. How we're 316 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 4: gonna do the talk, like you know, how to navigate 317 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 4: next steps basically. 318 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 319 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 4: Like I said, we don't really we don't know the 320 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 4: perfect way to go about it. We're in the process 321 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 4: of figuring out, like even this conversation right now would be. 322 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 2: You as way too, SOILK you know what I mean. 323 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: At any time, if you feel like this is triggering 324 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: for you, we can definitely stop down. You know, it's 325 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: no pressure, you know what I mean? 326 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I don't you know, I'm not I'm 327 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 2: not like that, but yeah it is. 328 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I guess, yeah, it would be kind of 329 00:15:56,040 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 4: triggering that points, you know what I'm saying. So yeah, 330 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 4: I mean I don't want to keep going deep into it. 331 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 4: I think I said pretty much what I needed to 332 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 4: say about the situation is like at the end of 333 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 4: the day, and I are definitely trying to figure this 334 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 4: out overall. You know, I personally wouldn't have wanted every 335 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 4: single thing to play out in front of the public 336 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 4: the way it did. 337 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 2: But it is what it is. I mean, I don't 338 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 2: really know how. I don't know how we could have 339 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 2: done it differently. 340 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you can't harp on that though at 341 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: this one, you know, y'all here you just gotta like 342 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: keep yourself together. I just feel for you because I 343 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 1: started the interview with talking about you know, how much 344 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: of a topic and a conversation you your life, your businesses, 345 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: your marriage, your family has been for all of these 346 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: decades to kind of, you know, get back here at 347 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: the end of it, to say, I think a lot 348 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: of us feel for you. 349 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 3: I feel for both of y'all because we watched both 350 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 3: of you guys together. Because it is so public and 351 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 3: everyone's so attached to. 352 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: Your life, and this is something that if you could choose, 353 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure you would want people to disattach and you 354 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: can kind of just go through it. But we've everyone's 355 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: been so attached for so long, so there's like there's 356 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 1: probably a whole nother layer of like, oh my god, 357 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: you know, like you gotta get up, like everybody just 358 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 1: it's just it's a lot. It's a lot of noise, 359 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: a lot of people. 360 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 2: So you know, I understand it. 361 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 4: I mean, that's what somebody said to me, and they 362 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 4: were like, Candy, you know, everybody's been watching your journey 363 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 4: the whole time. So yes, you know, you can't feel 364 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 4: away because everybody you know, want to is invested. 365 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 2: You know, I'm like true. So with that being said, 366 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:48,959 Speaker 2: you know, I'm not you know, I'm not overly. 367 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,719 Speaker 4: You know, upset or anything. It's just like it is 368 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 4: upsetting when you're going through something and then you know 369 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:00,120 Speaker 4: people like taking information and making up. 370 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 2: Stuff, and like I said, for me, I'll just be 371 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 2: feeling like, well, what was the point in making that up? 372 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 4: Like it's just to me, it's not like it was 373 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 4: so they could be the first to report something because 374 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 4: clearly at the time they were seeing that stuff last week. 375 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 2: Just to use that part as an example, because it's 376 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 2: been stuff seid the whole time. This was the twenty 377 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 2: dollars thing, yeah, that and the child support. 378 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 4: All that, like we don't even we're not even doing 379 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 4: child support. But it's just like our stuff haven't hadn't 380 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 4: even been filed. The final thing hadn't even filed with 381 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,479 Speaker 4: the court, and they was reporting that the day before. 382 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:36,399 Speaker 2: So it's just like, huh, where you getting this wrong? 383 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 2: What you're reading off of? 384 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:40,199 Speaker 1: When I saw the final settlement, I was like, this 385 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 1: is so different than what I thought. Because I'm like 386 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: everybody else, you know, and I'm trying to like talk 387 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: directly to you, but you know, I respect if y'all 388 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 1: are like not right now. I respect that, but try 389 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:52,679 Speaker 1: and do as much as I can to kind of 390 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: see through the noise. 391 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, I was so confused. 392 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, the settlement seems like very amlicable 393 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 1: and like fair in fifty to fifty, But everything leading 394 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 1: up to this point, it was like is it not? 395 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 1: Like are they like we were? It was being reported 396 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 1: all over the place, so I was very confused. Like, 397 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: but I did see the fields too, because when I 398 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: saw I saw no stous of support, no child support. 399 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 2: It was a fifty fifty split on the custody. I'm like, 400 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 2: that sounds like. 401 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: They both came together and were adults and y'all, y'all good, 402 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,880 Speaker 1: y'all are good enough at least to understand what needs 403 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 1: to be done. 404 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think overall, you know, out of respect to 405 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 4: the marriage, I would say that, you know, he and 406 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 4: I we did some great things together, you know what 407 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 4: I'm saying. We had some great success together. 408 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 2: So with that being said, like for us, we need 409 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 2: to just split that, you know what I mean? And 410 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 2: I know, and I feel. 411 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 4: Like some people just wanted it, Like some people just 412 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 4: wanted him to go for everything I had in life. 413 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 2: Some people wanted all of that to happen. 414 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean, realistically it was that was never 415 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 4: a conversation, you know what I mean, And yeah, that's 416 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 4: all I mean, that's all I'll say about that for now. 417 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 4: I mean, do we have disagreements about certain things? Well, 418 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,679 Speaker 4: probably one thing that was like really going back and 419 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 4: forth about. 420 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: But I mean overall, I can't tell us that that's 421 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 1: gonna be in the One Woman Show too. 422 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 2: Yup, it's gonna be. I'm sorry to do it like that, 423 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 2: but like overall, like you know, I didn't really even like. 424 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 4: Plan to even talk about it more prior to them. 425 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:40,400 Speaker 2: But obviously, to be. 426 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 1: Fair, you didn't plan the divorce either. I saw you 427 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: say you you were planning for the rest of your life. 428 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 2: This case you did not. 429 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 1: This wasn't It's not like there were things that just 430 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: got here. You were not planning for this at all 431 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 1: this time last year. 432 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 4: So now this time last year that that was the 433 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 4: last thing on my mind, Like this time last year, 434 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 4: we was living our best life, planning our future. Like yeah, 435 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 4: so that's when you ask me, how do I feel 436 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 4: about it? I think about, dang, in one year, how 437 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:09,679 Speaker 4: my life has changed, you know. 438 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's triggering. 439 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 4: So with that, I don't want to talk about it 440 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 4: all right, Well, I appreciate you for joining me. 441 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 3: I do hope you guys take it to other cities 442 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 3: because I know. 443 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 1: You're doing it and you're doing your one woman showing 444 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:22,720 Speaker 1: Atlanta at the City Winery. 445 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 3: It's yeah already though, right are you adding more night? 446 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 4: It already saw that, but we are adding more dates, 447 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 4: so I would say everybody be on the lookout. 448 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 2: I am having more. 449 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 4: Dates for that right now. I'm super excited. It's it's 450 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 4: gonna be so good, a y'all. I can't wait for 451 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 4: you to see it. But adding more dates to I do? 452 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 4: I did, I'm don't Monday. The production that I'm producing 453 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 4: on August Wilson's in August Wilson's Joe Turners, to Come 454 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 4: and Gone starring Taraji p Henson, Centrity. 455 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 2: And to Turn In direct Dubai Debbie Allen, and that 456 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 2: starts on Monday. So that's going on? 457 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: Is that Broadway? 458 00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, because she can't start. 459 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 3: Showman was telling us about the new show that she 460 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 3: was doing. 461 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 2: She remember that. Yeah, okay, I got a couple less 462 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 2: to have her as the director. I'm a producer on that, 463 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:09,280 Speaker 2: you know. 464 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 1: So are you gonna be at the shows in New 465 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: York too? While it's happening, or do you kind of 466 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:14,479 Speaker 1: produce it. 467 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, as a producer, I don't have to be at 468 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 2: every show. 469 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 4: So I'll come to some of them, but yeah, I 470 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 4: don't have to be at all of them. 471 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 2: They ain't the same as being in it. Shout out 472 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 2: to Saraji and Sidric. I'm I'm gonna be there. But yeah, 473 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: so that and then also the Next Move meet up 474 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 2: is what I'm doing with. 475 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 4: It's like people who about their business, you don't want 476 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 4: to talk about more about opportunities and and and how 477 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 4: to just take things on their next move. 478 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 2: Shoot, hell, I'm one of those. When you were here 479 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 2: in New York, didn't you the Next Move met up? No? 480 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 4: Well I did it virtually. 481 00:22:58,520 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw something. 482 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 4: We are We may possibly do that in other cities, 483 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 4: but virtually we're gonna be meet up every month. I 484 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 4: was like, realistically, all this stuff talking about divorce, we 485 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 4: might have to have a meetup on how to. 486 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 2: Protect yourself and all those different things too. You know 487 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:16,120 Speaker 2: what I mean? 488 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:20,680 Speaker 1: The girls, Okay, this is this is it's it's very 489 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: unfortunate to have to watch you guys go through this. 490 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: But I think a lot of people are also watching 491 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 1: you too, because we've always known you to be a 492 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 1: woman about her business, like you know, like that's you've 493 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: been that way for so long, So watching you kind 494 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: of navigate the space, not even just like protecting your money, 495 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: but of course that are protecting yourself, not to make 496 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 1: him the enemy, but more so just like how you've 497 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: been carrying it, Like even when you have conversations about it, 498 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 1: it's still very much like it's you, it's your truth, 499 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,679 Speaker 1: but it's very respectful the situation. And you know, I 500 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: think that's definitely something that people that are going through 501 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: the situation is going to watch and be like, you know, 502 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 1: this is why we love candy so well. 503 00:23:55,920 --> 00:24:00,040 Speaker 4: Overall, what I will say, what I can say that 504 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 4: you ain't got to worry about waiting to say, is 505 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 4: that you. 506 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 2: Know, realistically, I would love. 507 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 4: For us all to be mature about how we handle breakups, 508 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, because. 509 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 2: At the end of the day, it's like, obviously. 510 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 4: As business women, as businessmen, you gotta protect yourself. 511 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 2: That's straight up, right off the top. 512 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell anybody that protect yourself right off 513 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 4: the rip because that kind of limits the conversation of 514 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 4: what we got a debate about you get what I'm saying. 515 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 4: And then also it's like try to be even if 516 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,919 Speaker 4: you have personal fallouts, especially if you have kids, like 517 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 4: we got grown kids, a little kids, you know what 518 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 4: I mean, So we gotta be we gotta be respectful 519 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,639 Speaker 4: of how we handle it because all our kids, we 520 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 4: want to they're all sisters and brothers that we want 521 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 4: them to still feel like connected, still like feel like family, 522 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 4: and we don't want our drama to spill over into 523 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 4: how they're feeling. 524 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 2: You know, that's true. 525 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 4: So you know, I just I would say to anybody 526 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 4: that's going through a breakup or divorce, whatever it may be, 527 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 4: try to be very mature on how you move you 528 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, because at the end of the day, that's. 529 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:19,400 Speaker 2: Affecting your kids. So yeah, I might be mad, right, 530 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 2: I might be active. 531 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 4: Full of at times, but they don't ever need to 532 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 4: see They never need to see that, you know, or 533 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 4: and it shouldn't affect them. So that's how I'm move 534 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 4: in and I hope you know, if anybody takes something 535 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 4: from the situation looking out from the outside looking in, 536 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 4: I would say take that. 537 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:44,919 Speaker 1: One more, one more question, because I didn't even think 538 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: about Kayla and am I saying Kayla's name right? Yea, 539 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 1: Kayla and Riley? Right, because yeah, like the older not 540 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: being babies, your older daughters. They're out in the world. 541 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,919 Speaker 1: You know, Riley has her show, they're on social media, 542 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 1: they're doing press for certain things. 543 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 2: On the carpet. 544 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 1: Like yeah, like that's a whole different other side of 545 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:10,199 Speaker 1: it because they're you can't even hide anything at that 546 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: point because they're in the world themselves. So when these 547 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,440 Speaker 1: reports and those things are happening, like, I mean, I'll 548 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 1: take it all the way back to the very beginning 549 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: when things are being reported. There was the report of infidelity, right, 550 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: and you have your two older women, not women, but 551 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess do you consider them women yet? 552 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 2: Like are you considered them? They're women to the world. 553 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 2: They still out there, but you know how that goes. 554 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, But okay, so you have your two girls who 555 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: that's a different conversation for them with dad and for 556 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,640 Speaker 1: them with mom and like whether it's true or. 557 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 3: Not, how that has to be like even. 558 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,639 Speaker 1: More challenging than trying to figure out the conversation with 559 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: the babies because you don't have a choice. 560 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 3: It kind of is like out there for them. Yeah, 561 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 3: I don't. 562 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: I don't really know. 563 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 4: What Todd's conversation was with our older daughters really realistically, 564 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 4: but I know overall, I just try to just say, hey, y'all, 565 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 4: you know, we don't want y'all to feel effective about 566 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 4: what's going on with us. You know, let's you know, 567 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 4: let's try to move forward, and we got to still, 568 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 4: you know, be respectful of each other, and it's gonna 569 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 4: be fine. 570 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 2: Let us deal with it, you know what I mean. Yeah, so. 571 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, look, keep me posted on the dates I 572 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: want to come to the show so I can be 573 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: I want you to come. 574 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, we tried to put one together in New York too, 575 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 4: so the dates will be coming very soon. I did. 576 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: And I know you mentioned when you add more dates 577 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 1: for the people to look out. Where do they look at? 578 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,679 Speaker 1: I mean, of course they're following they're following you on 579 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 1: on socials, but there's their website for THEE one Woman Show. 580 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 1: Where do do you have a personal site? 581 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 2: I do have a personal site. It's candy dot com 582 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 2: ka n d I dot com. But also, you know, 583 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 2: follow me on all. 584 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 4: Socials and I'll be telling people to text me on 585 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 4: my phone number because I always text my text family first, 586 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 4: and that is easy. You could just text me at 587 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 4: four zero four or four five eight nine four six 588 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 4: four four zero four four five eight nine four six 589 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 4: four and I always send them the text witness come 590 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 4: in to let them know. Like I told my text group, 591 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 4: like I would say my text family. Ill, I told 592 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 4: them like two days before the tickets went on sale 593 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 4: that it was gonna be a one woman show coming. 594 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 4: So maybe that's why the tickets went so quick. 595 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 1: Yes, cause I'm like, dang, we ain't even have a 596 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: shy well. 597 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 2: I didn't even post it. 598 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 4: I just sent it to my text family first and 599 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 4: then Facebook, and I didn't even post it like on Instagram. 600 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 3: And oh but I mean, I think the budget, you know, 601 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 3: the people are locked in. It's just that. 602 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 2: Too, y'all. Y'all got understand. 603 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 4: I feel like I appreciate the love, but you gotta 604 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 4: understand sometimes when you're really going through something, it'd. 605 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 2: Be a lot of negativity and a lot of hate 606 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 2: to be online, and you know, and and then you see. 607 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 4: Like when something's negative posted, it seemed like some people 608 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 4: get excited about that. Like some people really was like 609 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 4: out here acting like they was excited that they thought that, 610 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 4: oh he gonna. 611 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 2: Do this, he gonna do that. It is said you 612 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 2: what where to who? Yeah? But anyway, let me say 613 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 2: much love to side. 614 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 4: I feel like I'm so glad that this little part 615 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 4: is done because I feel like he and I are 616 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 4: really gonna be the. 617 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 2: Best of co parents and we were gonna be cool. 618 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 4: Like I I'm really a chill person and he is too, 619 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 4: So I feel like we're gonna be cool, especially now 620 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 4: that everything. 621 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 2: Is you know, is what it is, you. 622 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: Know what I mean, And it's like no emotion, we 623 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 1: never so we're not gonna see y'all, like, there's no 624 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 1: doubling back. 625 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 3: It's just it's done, just co parenting. 626 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 2: Like I'm such guitarist, gotcha hurt. 627 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 1: For those of you who don't know what that means, 628 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 1: that means when you're locked in, you're locked in and 629 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: when you are done, baby, that person has never existed, 630 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: well besides. 631 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 4: Hearing normally it's like that, yeah, they never existed, But 632 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 4: in this situation, you know, because you know, we're still 633 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 4: going to be connected life, so you know, we're always 634 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 4: going to be friends, We're always gonna be communicating, We're 635 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 4: always going to be good right, you know on that, 636 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 4: but no spending the block, y'all. 637 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 2: Okay, it's not going to happen. Well, I thank you 638 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 2: for joining me. 639 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 1: I know you got a lot going on right now, 640 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: and I'm probably last person you wanted to, you know, 641 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: hear from right now. 642 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 2: Like what are we doing? 643 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 3: I appreciate it, And look, this is just me trying 644 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 3: to make sure we have. 645 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 2: All correct information. 646 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: And I appreciate the record club on the podcast, like 647 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: I try my hardest, yo, people will. 648 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,719 Speaker 3: Be like you always No, I'm just trying to make 649 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 3: sure I got it right. 650 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 2: I appreciate for. 651 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 4: The people who really was really trying not to just 652 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 4: report anything about our situation. I appreciate y'all, and I'm 653 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 4: thankful for that because I thought it probably was hard 654 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 4: because I'm like some people just doing it just to 655 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 4: get clicks and you know, they. 656 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 2: Don't care what they say about us. 657 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,479 Speaker 4: But the people who really kind of like you know what, 658 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 4: I'm not really finna say anything until we have real information. 659 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. 660 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 1: Well, We've always hold you down and you gotta come. 661 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: When you add the more dates, make sure you gotta 662 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: come to the show. They want you to come in 663 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 1: the studio, so. 664 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 3: You know, yeah, we will talk to you soon. 665 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 2: Appreciate you, y'all. 666 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 3: This has been another episode of the Latest with One 667 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 3: and the Girls. 668 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: I tell you, guys, every single episode, y'all could be 669 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: anywhere with any old body talking about over the things, 670 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: but y'all choose to be right here with me. And 671 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 1: I appreciate you, guys, My low Riders. Candy, you know 672 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: I always appreciate you, and you're joining the conversation and 673 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 1: just you just being so nice to me. 674 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 3: You don't know me from a campaign, but you've always 675 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 3: been so nice to me. Appreciate that as well. 676 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: So thanks for joining and I'll see you next time. 677 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 2: So thanks. 678 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 3: So this has been another episode of the Latest with 679 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 3: Laura Rosa. I am your host, Laura Rosa. 680 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 2: I tell you, guys, every episode, y'all could be anywhere 681 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:29,920 Speaker 2: with anybody. 682 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 1: Talking about all of these things, that y'all choose to 683 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 1: be right here with me, my low Riders. 684 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all.