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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? Does he deserve it? Also?

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Speaker 1: Wait really quick? Yes? All right?

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Speaker 2: So we had this. Okay, So we were talking about

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Speaker 2: don't each the age of reason until seven, yep, right,

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Speaker 2: to heaven. Oh, you can't commit any sin. You can't

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Speaker 2: commit until the age age of seven. Age of for

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Speaker 2: seven is the age of reason. I think that's in

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Speaker 2: a lot of Christian tradition. So if you murder every

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Speaker 1: So maybe Op just needs to.

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Speaker 2: Murder his brother before the age of seven, and then

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Speaker 1: You know, I usually open the door, get in the

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Speaker 3: But sometimes Sam.

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Speaker 1: You put me in the car right off the cliff together.

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Speaker 2: One guy is gonna you know, I have to suffered

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Speaker 3: But think of all the kids he'll save. You know,

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Speaker 1: I might have to unbuckle my seat belt and always

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Speaker 3: We should not be saving the children.

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Speaker 1: Child. I don't even know where to go, Guys, I'm

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Speaker 2: I don't believe that any Catholics are Christian in the comments.

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Speaker 1: Let us know what's the fly in my logic here?

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Speaker 1: Throw across and throw across in the comments section for

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Speaker 1: our boy. Okay, okay, let's get into this one.

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Speaker 3: My goodness, my god.

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Speaker 1: Literally, I know this will get a lot of hate,

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Speaker 1: and yes I deserve it. I know I'm not looking

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Speaker 1: aren't we all? Aren't we all? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I have a brother's kidding, good self talk. I'm a

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Speaker 2: great person, I am smart, I am kind, not powerful.

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Speaker 1: Tell him. I have a brother who is two years

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Speaker 1: Oh jeez. There were a few years in his life

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Speaker 1: never know how difficult life is for him. I stopped

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, oh boy, oh pee, this is really fucked. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is like I don't know if this is asshole, baby,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very it's very ver. Yeah, there's there's some

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Speaker 1: It was an asshole move, but it was like kind

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Speaker 3: This is like direct Yeah, this is like vendicta.

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Speaker 1: and he never let me have it. Three weeks ago,

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Speaker 3: I got an annoyed. Yeah, so this is recent.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe OP has just kind of come like an

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm effing crying again, typing all of this out.

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Speaker 1: When did I become an evil, trash human being. I'm

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Speaker 3: I am so ashamed of myself. There is an update,

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Speaker 3: but wow, well still relying.

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Speaker 2: At least sop he is realizing how much of a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think Opie is getting on this

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Speaker 1: But this update, we do have an update. Let's get

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Speaker 3: A lot of people were asking for an update.

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Speaker 1: Here it is. I wrote a long asipology letter that

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Speaker 1: Op did turn it around? I think again, you know,

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Speaker 2: So dang, wow, well, p I think you are turning

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Speaker 2: We support you. But let's get into this next story.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it. My sister has cancer and I couldn't

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Speaker 3: And I told herself, am I the asshole?

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Speaker 1: How how do you come out swinging this hard? Like

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Speaker 1: I just some of the something swing this hard? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Actually seen the clip. I believe of Mike Tyson biting

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Speaker 2: I was adopted at age eight, and she still only

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Speaker 2: I was overweight for most of my childhood and she

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Speaker 2: used to bully me over it a lot.

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Speaker 1: Three.

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Speaker 2: I have a stereotypical girl name. I was named after

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Speaker 2: and she continues to the day to bully me over it.

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Speaker 2: My dad thirty one. My dad's name is Kelly Kelly.

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Speaker 2: Did he get bullied? Probably yeah?

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Speaker 1: Probably.

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Speaker 2: Four She outed me as gay to our entire high

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Speaker 3: Oh I school favor.

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Speaker 2: She says I ruined her life because I encourage her

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Speaker 3: All Right, this chick ain't looking so great. I'm not

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Speaker 3: gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, probably not looking great without that, hey, because you

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm getting out of the car again. Guys, the

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Speaker 1: door is open and I'm rolling out now.

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Speaker 2: I'm kidding you. You just look terrible. On the inside,

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Speaker 2: all is beautiful.

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Speaker 1: There you go. Did I say it? Guys? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. All right.

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Speaker 2: There are many more examples of her being awful, but

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Speaker 2: these are the ones that came to mind first. Last week,

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Speaker 2: Ava called me, my siblings, and my parents and asked

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Speaker 2: over to her house. She won't cook for us, only

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Speaker 2: for her parents, so we drove together. If anyone deserves cancers,

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Speaker 2: this person, oh Jesus. Well we got there. Our parents

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Speaker 2: were already there in the kitchen crying. I asked what happened,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry about that, because I really didn't know what

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Speaker 2: we all basically got into a screaming match. I told

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Speaker 2: Ava what I meant, and I told her the bad

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Speaker 2: thing and I told her bad things happened to bad people.

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Speaker 2: She started sobbing, and I walked right out the front door.

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Speaker 2: My parents have been calling me to say that I

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, but they agree that Ava is awful.

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Speaker 2: I'm starting to feel kind of bad because I know

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Speaker 1: Yikes? Yike, Soapy slam dunk it in? What do you think? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm very curious to hear what what everyone thinks.

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Speaker 1: Definitely put in the comments below. I think we got

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Speaker 1: two a holes here, because the way that you know,

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Speaker 1: the sister treated op earlier in life, total a hole moves,

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Speaker 1: total a whole behavior, locking them out all this stuff, right,

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Speaker 1: But when someone is diagnosed with that is probably it's

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Speaker 1: hard to think of a more vulnerable moment in your life,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't, I don't. I can't even think of

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Speaker 1: one right now. So like, I know you don't like her.

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Speaker 1: I know that she's mistreated you your whole life. That

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Speaker 1: just never a good move. And that is like they're

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Speaker 1: berries and that's low. Ye you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: so well low, like the actual scenario.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, no, I agree, I think I'll piece the

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Speaker 2: a whole. Yes, Ava was terrible. Yeah, but uh, letn't

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Speaker 2: give you the license. Doesn't give you the license to

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Speaker 2: go when she's announced she has cancer and wants support,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, even if you don't feel it, I would say

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Speaker 1: just like say like, oh, you know, I'm so like, do.

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Speaker 3: Your best to put on the show.

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Speaker 1: So to be supportive, and you know, just in that moment,

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Speaker 1: that's that's a pretty that's a pretty tough one.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, what do you think is OPD A hole?

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Speaker 2: Put your answers to the comments below, But let's give

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Speaker 2: us to this next one more sadness. Maybe this is

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