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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lexp and it's your

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Speaker 1: girl Dread and the call. You are tuned in to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Poor Mine, where a drunk mind speaks

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Speaker 1: sober thought. We ain't got no guests today. We ain't

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Speaker 1: got no guests today. We ain't got no guests. May

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Speaker 1: hold up. I know y'all happy because we've been holding up.

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Speaker 1: We've been holding up with all these gifts. That's all

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Speaker 1: I got. That was kind of good. That was that

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Speaker 1: was good.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I can add today okay without

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Speaker 2: cussing right.

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Speaker 1: Right and like I make sure we bleeped that out.

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Speaker 2: How, I really yeah, I really have been trying to

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Speaker 2: work on that well, not not necessarily not cussing, but

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Speaker 2: saying the N words word. No, you didn't, okay, but

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Speaker 2: I feel like I say the N word like and

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to not say that so much. But I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I can freestyle without saying it, because

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Speaker 2: I feel like, how you gonna give a good freestyle

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Speaker 2: without saying the N words? It's true points for may,

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Speaker 2: but like every hard freestyle you ever heard, they said

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel you, But you know what also going

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Speaker 1: to what you say. Can I tell y'all something I know?

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Speaker 1: Poor minds is a safe space. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I kind of cringe when I watched the clips. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie when I watch the clips and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I hear myself like cursing any words, yes, like not

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Speaker 1: like damn, but like anything else. It just sounds. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound, it doesn't look. I don't know, it just

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Speaker 1: doesn't you know what I'm saying. I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Ain't damn in the Bible? Be down?

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Speaker 1: He did say that? Yeah, Needy be don Who is

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Speaker 1: he that he did? When? When? When? When? Uh? What's

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Speaker 1: that girl name? When Eve bit that out? But he said,

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Speaker 1: I'll be down. I ain't gonna lie and persecuted us,

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Speaker 1: all right? You know I ain't gonna lie. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just feel like certain stuff is okay

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Speaker 2: I don't think I might ever stop cussing, only because

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Speaker 2: some certain times in life call.

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Speaker 1: For a cussword. Yeah, you got to. You have to

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Speaker 1: like sometimes just be oh.

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Speaker 2: I'm five minutes to fast, But you know I'm tired

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Speaker 2: of our video getting flag because we be cussing in

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Speaker 2: the first five minutes.

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Speaker 1: But you know what I love. I love people who

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Speaker 1: can curse good. Do you think I cursed good? I

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Speaker 1: think that we curse like how you're supposed to curse like?

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Speaker 1: You can never like you can predict what we're about

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Speaker 1: to say. You know what I'm saying Like some people

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Speaker 1: that curse good, you never know what's gonna come out,

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Speaker 1: tongue like cool. I'm not gonna lie Tya rick Ros's

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Speaker 1: baby mama, she cursed real good. She'd just be saying stuff,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, how did you think of it?

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Speaker 1: She was born to be a reader? Yeah, but it's

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Speaker 1: not about read. It's not about a read though. It's

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Speaker 1: talking about just curse good like. But what is cursing

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Speaker 2: I feel like, if you cursing, you cursing good like?

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Speaker 1: How do you use it wrong? I can't explain it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you this TikTok though when we get off,

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Speaker 1: y'all know what I'm talking about. In the comics, though,

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Speaker 1: they don't know. They don't know. But cursing good versus

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Speaker 1: just cursing. Like if you say, like, oh, shut y'all up,

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Speaker 1: but good curses thought take out and say and say

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Speaker 1: Like they just add that little so a little seasoning

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Speaker 1: do you feel like you're good in arguments?

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Speaker 2: Like do you feel are you one of those people

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Speaker 1: Have said, because I've been ready for this moment.

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Speaker 2: So you're in an argument, you got your lined up.

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Speaker 2: I think I can culs now. I think copy even

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Speaker 1: That's all right, I have to bleep that one out.

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Speaker 1: First of all. This is why I'm a good person,

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Speaker 1: Like I can argue down because I don't stutter. If

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Speaker 1: the people. Who stutter just because that's they have an ailment.

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, you can't stutter when you read.

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Speaker 2: If I'm not cussing you out, I'm not gonna studter.

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Speaker 2: But like sometimes just in like normal conversation, I don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if I'm like having a calm conversation,

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that anger just sets something off

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Speaker 1: Maybe because it takes a lot for you to get angry,

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Speaker 1: If we're having a heated discussion, don't let me get

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Speaker 1: say some mean because I like to cut a person deep.

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Speaker 1: I like that little dagger in the heart. What if

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Speaker 2: I love to use a big word because everybody ain't

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Speaker 1: But this see, and that's what I don't like arguing

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Speaker 1: I hold on because what the hell happened? But you

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Speaker 1: can't say hold on there? You can't. I'm gonna be good.

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Speaker 1: You lost. I never lose. You lost if you had

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Speaker 1: I be prepared because I talked to you a lot,

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Speaker 1: so I know the words that you be using, like

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Speaker 1: I was stole perplexed. I said, what the hell does

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what it meant. But the next time

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Speaker 2: I was ready for your ass growl goodbye. The thing

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Speaker 1: It just be so dumb.

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like we'll argue for like two or

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you I don't have time for this

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Speaker 2: even no, my nerves, wait you my nerves.

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Speaker 1: I talk to you later. Well. I think it's because

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Speaker 2: But even when he was the younger, because I don't

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Speaker 2: feel like I wouldn't consider myself necessarily an argumentative person.

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Speaker 2: I'm a confronter, but I'm not an argumentative person because

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Speaker 2: I will confront you if you have me missed up.

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Speaker 2: But I ain't trying to argue with you though, because

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Speaker 2: I said what I said. That's recently the type of

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Speaker 2: I ain't trying to or we ain't about to go

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Speaker 1: I said what I said, and that's what I'm standing on.

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Speaker 1: That's my favorite Carlos joke said, that's a classics if

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, But anyways, no, you know what

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Speaker 1: about me that I'm.

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Speaker 2: Not a confronter and at all argumentative. I'm confrontational, but

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Speaker 1: You know. For me, I'm like more so is people

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, I'll try to crack a joke because

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Speaker 1: I know how to do, Like, yeah, I will crack it.

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Speaker 1: My man is like that too. He don't what he do.

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Speaker 2: He either try to crack a joke or he try

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Speaker 1: Not the time nor the place. But see, like you

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Speaker 1: because I've dated guys like that. But I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: I'm like, and you like not right now? You don't

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Speaker 1: What like when I trying to make you laugh, it's

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Speaker 2: Because at this point I know you so well that

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Speaker 1: I don't crack jokes, but I.

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Speaker 2: Like in uncomfortable situations, but like if I know that

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Speaker 2: at me, I start trying to be like overly nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you do do that. Yeah, Like you know. One

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Speaker 1: thing you know that pisces me off about you is

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Speaker 1: when you be running extremely late because I'm late, but

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Speaker 1: you be extremely like so you know when I'll be

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Speaker 1: you be like hey girl, oh hey girl, me girl.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, then I start asking like, how would yoday?

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Speaker 1: What you did today? I'm knowing you don't care, well

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Speaker 1: I do care. I care, I care what you did today.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like, you know, but when a person

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Speaker 2: start asking you those type of questions, you can't help

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Speaker 2: but be in a better mood because it's like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, let me talk about my dad, let me talk

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Speaker 1: about what.

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Speaker 2: Happened or if something bad happened, then you could beg

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Speaker 2: because I'm your sister.

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl, yo, my girl. No why somebody said

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Speaker 1: I could never be beyond the friend, because why are

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Speaker 1: you sitting at this dinner table screaming my business? Why

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Speaker 1: till we talked.

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Speaker 2: About this episode, she was definitely screaming her business.

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Speaker 1: She was take a minute, girl, come sit down now

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Speaker 1: and tell what's been happening. You need to tell us.

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Speaker 1: It's like, girl, be honest.

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Speaker 2: That that was definitely given one of them friends where

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Speaker 2: it's like you don't want to talk to her about

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Speaker 2: your business, but she like, no, you're gonna tell me

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Speaker 1: You know what. I used to be that way, but

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Speaker 2: They told me that Instagram be hating on you back

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Speaker 2: I ain't never seen a player like dangoball. I never

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Speaker 2: We do spell it differently. But then you know, people

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Speaker 1: You know, I love delusional people. I've said this a lot.

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Speaker 2: but your delusion is a healthy delusion. Damn.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say I was delusion. You do be delusional sometimes,

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Speaker 1: You say that? All I said was that I.

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Speaker 2: Think you got to be a certain level of delusional,

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Speaker 2: and you was like, well, I mean you being delusional

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm very delusional, but I live in it, thriving it.

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Speaker 1: I do it the original delusional queen. Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, I be so delusional that I

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Speaker 1: Turns into manifestations that can actually be real. That's why

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Speaker 1: Yeah it be healthy stuff. Yeah it's healthy stuff. Like

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Speaker 1: And that's why I feel like it's very important. If

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Speaker 1: it's growth. But when I'm delusion, I'm talking about things

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Speaker 1: How dare you? I'm just saying, I just think it's

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Speaker 1: y'all be so And I'm like, m because I be

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Speaker 1: be not saying pipe down, but you know I like it,

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Speaker 1: but no, I'm saying not pipe down. But it's like

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Speaker 2: But like if you like feeling yourself and like popping

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Speaker 1: I don't really like that. No is pipe down. It's

427
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Speaker 1: fun because I used to talk about other people to

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Speaker 1: big myself up. Oh okay, that used to be me,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But now I'm just like I

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Speaker 1: talk about myself. I big myself up. But I can

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Speaker 1: do that without down in other people people. Yeah, I

432
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Speaker 1: agree with it. I agree with that. Okay, let's play.

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Speaker 2: Well, before we play the game, I need to ask

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Speaker 2: my good sis Ajah, will we drinking today? This drink

435
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Speaker 2: is good and I'm almost due for a Refield. I

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Speaker 2: see a little lavender, you see me, I'll see you.

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Speaker 1: So tell me what we drinking today.

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Speaker 3: See oh, today's drink of the week. It's called living lavish.

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Speaker 3: Actually it is a lavender lemon drop is made with

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Speaker 3: tequila reposado instead of vodka. But you know you can

441
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Speaker 3: swap it out at home. Of course you have lavender syrup.

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Speaker 3: We got lime juice and then.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is really delicious. And I love a lemon drop.

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Speaker 2: I love a lemon drop, and I love even more

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Speaker 2: than a regular lemon drop.

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Speaker 1: I love a lemon drop with tequila.

447
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Speaker 2: And people be on the internet. I know it's real controversial.

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Speaker 2: People be trying to be like, oh, if you put

449
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Speaker 2: reposado or you put tequila in a limon drop, it

450
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Speaker 2: ain't a lemon drop.

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Speaker 1: No more. Mind Joe business. And worry about your lemon drop.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry about mine, like Lil Wayne said, don't worry

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Speaker 2: about what's in my cub.

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Speaker 1: Got that mm hmm, worry about I hope you enjoy.

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Speaker 1: want to play the game. Let's play the game real quick.

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Speaker 1: Let's break it up. I love a game. I'm a

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Speaker 1: game player. I ain't really here the play no games?

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Speaker 1: Yeah you already? No my name? Yeah ain't no? Yeah

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Speaker 1: not all right. So this is a game called The

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Speaker 1: City Relationship. Do y'all if any of y'all that are

496
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Speaker 1: watching this show know who the owners of these cards are,

497
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Speaker 1: let us know, because because we stole them from Jack Thriller. Yeah,

498
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Speaker 1: shout out to Jack Thriller. He left these cars up here.

499
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Speaker 2: We'll not still, you know, we your family up here,

500
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Speaker 2: we all share. We should Yeah. So so yeah, okay,

501
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go first Okay, but how are we gonna play?

502
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 1: Like, what's the stakes? I don't think there's no stakes.

503
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Speaker 1: I think this may this be like to get to

504
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: know each other. Okay, cool. What's your definition of cheating?

505
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Speaker 1: I already know what you're gonna say, but go ahead. Yeah.

506
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Speaker 1: I feel like cheating is anything that you can't do

507
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Speaker 1: or tell your partner ya a phone conversation alike. M

508
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Speaker 1: If you lie about alike, that's cheating. Did you like

509
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Speaker 1: her picture? Well these days and no points a lot

510
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Speaker 1: because we can see. I know what I'm saying, but

511
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, for example, did you like the girl

512
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Speaker 1: a picture and you go in unlike and be like, no,

513
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Speaker 1: I didn't like it. That's sheeting. Yeah, it's strict. That

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Speaker 1: it's that is streat. That is yeah, I'm strict because

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Speaker 1: I don't give anything. I realized I'm not gonna I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie to y'all. Y'all know crazy. I knew

517
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Speaker 1: I was like not crazy, but I knew I was

518
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Speaker 1: just like the type of girl that's just like I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm always been my men and my men right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: but I've never been the type of girl to be

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Speaker 1: like strict per se because I've always been like, you

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Speaker 1: know what you want to play, I'm gonna play too.

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Speaker 1: You do something, I'm gonna go on a that's false. No,

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Speaker 1: you lie the whole way.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know you strict because you always been

526
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do what I want to do, but then

527
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Speaker 2: as soon as they do it, you be mad as facts.

528
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Speaker 1: So you always been. But no, what I'm saying is

529
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Speaker 1: it's just different. Like me and my Me and my

530
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Speaker 1: man had like our first like kind of bad fight

531
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Speaker 1: ten months and we got in our first like big

532
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Speaker 1: That's when it happened though around that year more. Yeah,

533
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Speaker 1: now we're good, so don't be in the comments trying

534
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 1: to be funny, but yeah, and I was just like

535
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Speaker 1: I realized, like, I know I've been strict in the

536
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Speaker 1: past though, but I'm like super strict with him, but

537
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Speaker 1: he's super strict with me. But we don't really have

538
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Speaker 1: to be because we where we want to be. But

539
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Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my god, I didn't I guess,

540
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Speaker 1: like I knew I was in love with him, but

541
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Speaker 1: when this situation happened, I was like, Oh, I'm like really, yeah,

542
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Speaker 1: I'm down extremely bad.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like you could be down bad when

544
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Speaker 2: you love though we're supposed to be in loved you

545
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Speaker 2: was about to get this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you a question, Dreah, ask you this.

547
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Speaker 1: That was a real taste. What are some traits that

548
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Speaker 1: the person or persons who raised you have passed down

549
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Speaker 1: to you? Trades? Oh, I like being decent? Me see

550
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: mm hmm. Are we talking about like good traits or bad?

551
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,679
Speaker 1: Either one. I would say being dismissive.

552
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Speaker 2: It's probably a bad trait that I got from my mom.

553
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: I would say being caring is a good trait.

554
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Speaker 2: That I got from my mom, or maybe not care.

555
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 2: I do feel like I'm caring, but I'm trying to

556
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Speaker 2: think of another word because I feel.

557
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Speaker 1: Like I go out of my way. Thank you.

558
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Speaker 2: I feel like I go out of my way to

559
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Speaker 2: be there for people that I care about, to like

560
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 2: to my own detriment though, like over yourself, yes yes, yes,

561
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Speaker 2: yes yes, over over extending myself. Maybe like not always

562
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Speaker 2: being able to say no to people? Oh, not giving

563
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Speaker 2: a mm I get that from my daddy. My daddy

564
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Speaker 2: ain't give two three four blue now.

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Speaker 1: Old so much? It's not well. We we now talking

566
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Speaker 1: about us work?

567
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah, my daddy didn't give no,

568
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Speaker 2: and like I feel like being raised by him it

569
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Speaker 2: really made me that way as well, Like because I

570
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Speaker 2: don't when I say these, because I know people probably

571
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Speaker 2: be thinking, like that's a lie.

572
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Speaker 1: You everybody give up? Sometimes I do be giving a yeah,

573
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Speaker 1: but not for long. TikTok. For that man, it's like

574
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Speaker 1: going up to rob him and the old man like

575
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Speaker 1: call an ambulance, calling ambulance, but not for me. That's

576
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Speaker 1: what that's just right, Like I'm just oh my god,

577
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Speaker 1: oh my god, like yeah, sad, like I give, I

578
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Speaker 1: give it me. I'll be giving, but not for long,

579
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Speaker 1: like I'm not gonna care that long. Catch me while

580
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Speaker 1: I care.

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Speaker 2: It's so accurate for me because I'm gonna care for

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Speaker 2: a little while, but I'm really not gonna care that long.

583
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Speaker 1: And I just let me think of another trade more?

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Speaker 1: Are you said? Three? That was three?

585
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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That was good? That was good? Yeah, okay, one more

587
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Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna do one more thing. We wanna

588
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Speaker 1: move on, okay, or you wanna move on, we can

589
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Speaker 1: do more. Let's see, I want to give you a

590
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Speaker 1: good one. You want me to read mine while you

591
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Speaker 1: Oh no, you're gonna be looking are you gonna answer?

592
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Speaker 2: I feel like I have a good one, okay, And

593
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Speaker 2: what situations do you believe people deserve a seaking chance.

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Speaker 1: This I'm glad you asked this. I think is a

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Speaker 1: good question. You know why, because I went on I

596
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Speaker 1: went on live on my TikTok. I'm a TikToker, y'all know,

597
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: I'm a TikToker. And there's a lot of things going on.

598
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Speaker 1: There's this really popular podcast called Canceled Podcast with it's

599
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Speaker 1: like this girl named Tan and this girl named Brook

600
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Speaker 1: and the girl named Brooke. They dug up these old

601
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: racist tweets of hers, right, she was talking about George Floyd.

602
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Speaker 1: She was talking about I'm sorry, I can't think of

603
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Speaker 1: his name cause I'm don't little Trayvon Martin. And it

604
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 1: was just really really bad tweets, right of course, So

605
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Speaker 1: I went on a tangent. I'm like, okay, a lot

606
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: of these like a lot of black creators were speaking out,

607
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, y'all are so upset, but this is

608
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Speaker 1: what this is why we have to support our own

609
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: and you know, like, why do y'all be surprised when

610
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Speaker 1: white people are doing white people things? Now? Of course

611
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Speaker 1: we do have our allies that are cool with us

612
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: and we don't have to worry about but but but honestly,

613
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Speaker 1: it's like I have my white supporters that I mean,

614
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: my white creators that I love. Like I always talk

615
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Speaker 1: about Alex Cooper. But if something came out about her,

616
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: would I be surprised and be up in arms. No,

617
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Speaker 1: I'm just to be like, okay, whatever that this is

618
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Speaker 1: what happened, white people doing white people things. It's like

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Speaker 1: finding you know what I'm saying, Like finding out I

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Speaker 1: sucked big. That's what lex p do. You know what

621
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Speaker 1: I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. But anyways, get

622
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Speaker 1: to get back to the point. So when she released

623
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Speaker 1: her apology and everybody was like up in arms about

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Speaker 1: her apology, and I'm just like, to me, the best

625
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 1: apology is first accountability and changed behavior. That's all you

626
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: can do. It's take accountability. Like one thing about me

627
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: I know that I do is like when somebody catched

628
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: me up and I'm like, you know what I was wrong?

629
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: I used to not do that because it's like, what's

630
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 1: the point of still trying to hold up this facade?

631
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: Like well, you know, because I was raised like this

632
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 1: and I wasn't around, and I wasn't educated, and I

633
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: wasn't you know what that was me? And I did

634
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: that and I realized, now you know how wrong that is.

635
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take the steps to make it better, but

636
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: I can't take that back. If I could, I would,

637
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: but I'm not making no excuses for it. So I

638
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Speaker 1: think a lot of times a person deserves a second

639
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Speaker 1: chance when it's like a sincere apology, or when it's

640
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: just it's like it's acere apology, change behavior. But it's

641
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: also not because you just got caught. A lot of

642
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: people just be sorry they got caught. You know what

643
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because if none of them tweets would have

644
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: came out and somebody would have asked her about like

645
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 1: how she feels about the police and police brutality, her

646
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: answer would be completely different if she wouldn't have got caught.

647
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: And I truly believe that. So I feel like, I

648
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: don't know, it's just hard to see like who deserves

649
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: second chances and who doesn't. But I just feel like

650
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: nobody surprises me anymore. That's why I keep my circle

651
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: small and my people close to me that I know,

652
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: I know your intentions and I know how you move.

653
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 1: That's all I need.

654
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, accountability for me is like a sticky one, because yeah,

655
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 2: you need to take accountability. But accountability is nothing literally

656
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: without change behavior, Like just because you acknowledging that you

657
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,239
Speaker 2: did some shit wrong, I appreciate your acknowledgement what you're

658
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 2: gonna do in the future.

659
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: But again, I mean I was using sorry, I don't

660
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: mean anybody, but to use Brook for an example, I

661
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: was saying she held herself accountable, but she was still

662
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: making excuses. Oh, I was raised like this. I was

663
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 1: raised in a household that was super right. It was

664
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: a right wing household. It was just like you still

665
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,720
Speaker 1: making excuses. So what situa?

666
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 2: So like, in what situations do you feel like people

667
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 2: deserve a second chance change behavior? Like what's an example

668
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 2: of Like some situations that you feel like, okay, if

669
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 2: this happened, then I would feel like a person deserves

670
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 2: a second chance for me, like for example, cheating, Like

671
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 2: some people.

672
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: Feel like, okay, if somebody cheated on me, I can

673
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: get them a second chance.

674
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 2: Lying if you lie to me about something not necessary specific,

675
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 2: but just you know, for some people, lying is a

676
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: deal worker, Like they feel like I a person is

677
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: a liar. I cannot deal with you. No, you cannot

678
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 2: be in my life. You're not getting off second chance whatever.

679
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 2: So for you, what are some examples where this is

680
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 2: a situation where you could see also giving people a

681
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 2: second chance?

682
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 1: I think, like, I'm trying to think of a situation that,

683
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: like I've been in. Okay, perfect example for me. One

684
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: of my longest friends I've had for a long time,

685
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: shot to lindsay. This has been my friend for like

686
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: twenty years, and I remember us having a conversation when

687
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: we were younger, and she was like what we were

688
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: talking about earlier? She's like, I feel like you hurt

689
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: my feelings. And if I tell you hurt my feelings,

690
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: you try to make it funny or make a joke

691
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: out of it, and it's not funny to me. So

692
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: till this day, I always think about that because I

693
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: literally still to this day, will not do that to

694
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 1: her because I'm consciously thinking about that, thinking about that.

695
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's like something that is

696
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: continuously like you know what I'm saying. If you're really

697
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: that's where she gave you a second chance, Yeah, that's

698
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I'm saying, oh, me giving somebody.

699
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, what are some situations where you would give

700
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 2: somebody a second chance?

701
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: Like what offense could somebody make towards you?

702
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 2: And you like, Okay, they made this offense towards me,

703
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: but I know where they heart was, or I know

704
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 2: they didn't mean it, And I'm gonna give you a

705
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 2: second chance because she in that situation.

706
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: She gave you a chance. I think, like, honestly, I'm

707
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I haven't been in that situation where

708
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: I had to really forgive somebody because every time I

709
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: forgiven somebody that did something really detrimental to me, they

710
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: did it again. Wait what every time I've been in

711
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: a situation where they did something detrimental to our friendship,

712
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: our relationship, they did it again when I forgave them.

713
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: So you forgave them, you gave them a second chance. Yeah,

714
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 1: So it was just like cheating or something. I forgave

715
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: him because I thought they weren't gonna do it again,

716
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: but they ended up doing it again.

717
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 2: So like, do you feel like now you won't give

718
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: people a second chance because of that? Because every time

719
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 2: you did, like it didn't work out in your favor.

720
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: I don't judge people off of what another person that's done.

721
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: Life is all about trial and error. We never know

722
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: what the purpose of this shit is at all. So

723
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 1: I can't be like, oh, I'm not gonna forgive him

724
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: because he played me. I'm never gonna live my life

725
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 1: like that. That's why I say I will fall out

726
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: of love tomorrow and be in love next week, because

727
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: I don't believe in making someone else suffer for some

728
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 1: something that somebody else did.

729
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 2: You can forgive people, you just don't have to like

730
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 2: give them access anymore. Like you gotta know when to

731
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 2: cut off access. And I think that's where a lot

732
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 2: of people be fucking. So let's get into that topic.

733
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: So let's get into these topics. So we din't even

734
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 2: got into the first topic.

735
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: Sure, what's up y'all? As your girl likex pee and

736
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: it's your girl draining a call And we have a

737
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: very exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping.

738
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 2: Yes, we have a brand new shout dropping y'all on Patreon.

739
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 2: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.

740
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

741
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 1: gonna be doing challenges.

742
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 2: If you can't go to Bella d'Oche, where the hell

743
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 2: could you go?

744
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: If you can't go to Blanche, what the hell we're

745
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: gonna be doing? Talk to me, chit chat with me.

746
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna be spelling at Little Tea. Oh my girl,

747
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: Now you didn't.

748
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: God everything y'all been wanting to see, We're gonna be

749
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 2: doing it right here on Patreon.

750
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been

751
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's

752
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Y'all know. Poor Minds has grown

753
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 1: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a

754
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 1: lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles. So

755
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: make sure y'all tune in September. Second, it's going down,

756
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: says okay, y'all.

757
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 2: So for the first topic, Well, I guess you could

758
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 2: bring you in the first topic because you said this

759
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 2: is something you had seen on y'all hear something.

760
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 1: Like I've seen y'all know. I'll be on the twitters too.

761
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: I'm a tweeter, so I've seen this tweet. Her Twitter

762
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: name is Patience x x four. Y'all don't like to

763
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: shot the people out when they give me an idea

764
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: of something talk about. She said, don't get me wrong,

765
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: if you break up with somebody and they're in someone

766
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: else's arms in a day or two, yeah they're moving foul.

767
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 1: They were more than likely already talking to this person

768
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: behind your back. But do not crash out over that.

769
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: And one of my good friends, humble Tege, responded, and

770
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: he was basically saying, like, no, if we break up,

771
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: that means I should my what I'm doing is not

772
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,439
Speaker 1: your business. So what's the difference between if I move

773
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: on twenty four hours after we broke up or a

774
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: month later. File is foil if you think it's file

775
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 1: is gonna be file a month from now, and it's

776
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: gonna be filed twenty four hours from now. But what

777
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: do you think is moving on one day after breaking

778
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: up moving file? I feel like the person who.

779
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 2: Got broken up with I can understand them feeling some

780
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 2: type of way. But yeah, if somebody is not we

781
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 2: you no more, then it's just kind of like they

782
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,439
Speaker 2: not weat you no more. So I don't know that's

783
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: maybe a controversial opinion, but I think that like, once

784
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: somebody breaks up with you, both parties can do with that.

785
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if it was like a mutual thing

786
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 2: or not. I think for some people they be feeling like, oh,

787
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,320
Speaker 2: it wasn't mutual, Like he wanted to break up with me. Okay,

788
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 2: he wanted to break up with you, and he did that.

789
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 2: It could have possibly been because and I don't necessarily

790
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: even think it means that he was already fucking with

791
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 2: the girl.

792
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: But it could have been a girl that he already

793
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: had his eye on.

794
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that don't mean he had to have already

795
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 2: been fucking with her.

796
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: But maybe he was peeping. Maybe he was peeping the scene.

797
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 2: And he thought, like, I don't think that's cheating a

798
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,720
Speaker 2: nigga peeping the scene, like him peeping and seeing someone

799
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 2: that he likes. Like for example, it could be a

800
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 2: girl that worked with him. They work at the same club.

801
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 2: They work at the same club. He the bar back cheat,

802
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 2: a bottle girl. Yes, the barback cheat, a bottle girl,

803
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 2: and he work around her all the time. They be

804
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 2: having good conversations. He don't realize they got shit in common.

805
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 2: But it's not a it's not a it's not a

806
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 2: like relationship where it's crossing by in the relationship that

807
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,439
Speaker 2: he's in they just work together and they be having

808
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: conversations and they be kicking it, and he doesn't realize, like, well,

809
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: I kind of like her and him and his girl

810
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 2: at home is having issues, and so he decided, Okay,

811
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 2: I want to break up with HU because it's more

812
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 2: efficient to see I rather date somebody else.

813
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: I don't think that's wrong.

814
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 2: I think if he was to pursue the girl that

815
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 2: he works with while he's still in the relationship, that's

816
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 2: fucking wrong. But if he decides that he does not

817
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 2: want to be with this girl no more because shit

818
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: is not working out any he if his relationship with

819
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 2: the girl at work has made him realize, Okay, it's

820
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: more efficient to see this ain't what I want.

821
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: That is not wrong. Nobody, Oh you shit.

822
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 2: I don't know why people have this idea in relationships

823
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 2: that people owe them something in life. In general, people

824
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 2: only owe shit to theyselves to do what's right for them. Now,

825
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 2: somebody don't need to do you dirty. I think that's

826
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,720
Speaker 2: where people be fucking up. He's doing people dirty. Chitting

827
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 2: is doing somebody dirty. But you deciding this shit don't

828
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 2: work for me. I don't like you. I don't want

829
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 2: to fuck with you no more. In breaking up with

830
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 2: somebody and doing it the right way and then a

831
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 2: week later you're dating somebody else, you are not wrong.

832
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 2: I can understand how the other person is hurt, though,

833
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 2: but that person is not in the wrong because they

834
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: broke up with you and they went through the proper channels.

835
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 1: It's no waiting.

836
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 2: Where's the rulebook on a waiting period to start dating somebody?

837
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: News. Now, I agree with you on a few points. Okay,

838
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 1: so let me let me say the flaw and the logic.

839
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: So I agree with you. You're not wrong if you

840
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: break up and there you go through the proper channels.

841
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: But let me tell you what's wrong with that whole

842
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: Oh I got somebody I'm working with on the bar back.

843
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: I like, how you making them long islands, bitch, and

844
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,320
Speaker 1: you look good. Conversation is like, it's cool, it's fun.

845
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: And my girl at home she nagged me, she getting

846
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: on my nerves. But that mentality of like, I'm rushing

847
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: to go to work to get to my work wife

848
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 1: because she makes me feel so good. Of course she does.

849
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 1: I didn't say any I'm not saying that, but I'm

850
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: telling you how people think because I've been there, I've

851
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 1: been in this situation. You was a work while Hell yeah,

852
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 1: I've been a work wife. I've been the one rushing

853
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: the work. I've been in all these scenarios. I say

854
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: all that to say this is the problem because I

855
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: know we like to think, you know, there is somebody

856
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: for everybody, But sometimes you will really mess up a

857
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 1: good situation and you're going through a rough patch, and

858
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 1: you'll mess it up because you think the grass is

859
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: greener on the other side, because you have a good

860
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: conversation with somebody for thirty minutes or whatever, six hours

861
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: that y'all work together, and you're thinking, oh, this is

862
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: my way out, this is my way out. Then you

863
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: get with her and it's kind of like that was

864
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 1: the fun of it. The fun of it was that

865
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: I get to flirt with somebody who's not my girlfriend

866
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: or not my boyfriend. So I think with that mentality too,

867
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people will just throw in the towel

868
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: because they think they have more options. Now, do I

869
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: believe people are replaceable, Yes, but sometimes you will come

870
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: across somebody that's not fucking replaceable. And I say that

871
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: as somebody who was dealing with somebody who won't go

872
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 1: away because he realized way too late. Hey, maybe maybe

873
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: I fucked up and years and years and years and

874
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 1: years later, you know what I'm saying.

875
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes that is the case. But then

876
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 2: I also think sometimes shit just run its course sometimes

877
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: and sometimes you maybe you conversing with someone at work

878
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,959
Speaker 2: or like, even in a friendly manner, has made you realize, Okay,

879
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 2: I don't want to be in this situation no more.

880
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 2: I don't think that that's wrong. I feel like because

881
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 2: for me being friendly and flirting, that's not cheatings.

882
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: But that shouldn't make the decision of you wanting to

883
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: leave because you just.

884
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 2: Said having a com what if the mind was already

885
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: what if the mind was already made up? But least

886
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,919
Speaker 2: should be made off of whatever you decided up here.

887
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 2: It shouldn't because I had a conversation with Dray and

888
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 2: the cold with threes with that fat ass, But that

889
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 2: was just okay. But that was just a scenario that

890
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 2: I was giving. That was just a scenario that I

891
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 2: was giving. I just feel like, if somebody don't want

892
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 2: to be with you though they don't want to be

893
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 2: with you, and you shouldn't it really shouldn't matter what

894
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 2: the fuck they do once they not with you no more.

895
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 2: That was just a scenario I was giving for why

896
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 2: somebody might not want to be in a relationship anymore,

897
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 2: and then a week later they might be talking to

898
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 2: somebody new. But if somebody breaks up with you and

899
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: then a week later, two weeks later they're dating somebody else,

900
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 2: even if they're not in that type of scenario.

901
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,439
Speaker 1: Twenty four hours, that was the thing it said one day,

902
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: twenty four hours.

903
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 2: It should not matter, agree because you and them are

904
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 2: not together anymore. I s you gotta the problem that

905
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 2: I have with people, and maybe because they strike a

906
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 2: chord for me. It's is a niggas don't me know

907
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 2: how to move on? Move on gone, I don't get

908
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 2: the fuck on.

909
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 1: I do agree with that, but coming from somebody who

910
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: has moved on too quickly, that ain't like such thing, No,

911
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 1: because you do to take that time, especially if you

912
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 1: were in a long term relationship, take some time to heal,

913
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 1: because now you're bringing in old trauma to your new situation.

914
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 1: You not even dating properly, and you you on a

915
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: date checking this other nigga Instagram and y'all doing this

916
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 1: and that I truly believe in healing now just because

917
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: I used to be that person. What if they you?

918
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 2: I think this is where people be fucking up though,

919
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 2: because let's let's play Devil's advocate.

920
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: What if that's what you need to move on?

921
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 2: But what if he didn't even take the situation as

922
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 2: serious as you thought he did, so that's why he

923
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:34,959
Speaker 2: dating somebody else a day later?

924
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: Well, no, we're talking about relationships. I'm talking about relationships.

925
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 2: People be in whole relationships with people and they can

926
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 2: move on a day later because sometimes you just the

927
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 2: placeholder for somebody. They wasn't taking you as serious as

928
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 2: you were taking them, that's all.

929
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: And that's the hard truth.

930
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 2: Sometimes it wasn't for them what it was for you,

931
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: And that's why it's like you're like, oh my god,

932
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 2: my life is over.

933
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, how can I breathe? Let me I'm supposed to

934
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,320
Speaker 1: breathe with new girl? Well, I was singing to market,

935
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: I was you were saying, tell me how can I breathe?

936
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 2: And I was back going, Yeah, it's like some of

937
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 2: y'all be feeling like that after a breakup, and y'all

938
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 2: counterpart me like I'm outside beach I'm outside.

939
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 1: Niggas made me mad. I'm back outside now. I think,

940
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: like younger years, it should be that way. But I

941
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: just believe in, like if you're dating for a purpose,

942
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 1: I do believe in healing and taking your time in

943
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:34,760
Speaker 1: between situations.

944
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 2: Agree, friend, But you don't always got an hour, you

945
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 2: don't always.

946
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 1: I think it's crazy too.

947
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 2: I'm not somebody twenty four hours after I broke up

948
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 2: with somebody. But that's just me. I can't do that.

949
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: But because well for me, it's more so because I

950
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 2: don't even get into relationships with people unless I really

951
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 2: really fuck with you and really care about you and

952
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 2: already have feelings for you. I'm not even getting a

953
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 2: relationship with you, so I definitely can't move on after

954
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 2: twenty four hours.

955
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,720
Speaker 1: That's why I haven't been in a lot of relationships.

956
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, you have to

957
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 2: understand everybody don't look at relationships the same.

958
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 1: For some people, it's just something to do.

959
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,240
Speaker 2: It's plenty of people who get in relationships with people

960
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 2: and they do not be taking that person serious. You

961
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 2: just cool for the moment until something better comes along.

962
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 2: It's sometimes something better done came along, and that's why

963
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 2: they like I buy and in a day later they're

964
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 2: dating someone else. It doesn't necessarily mean that they're cheating

965
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,240
Speaker 2: though something better just might have came along.

966
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 1: And but you don't know if something better came along

967
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: after a day though perception maybe that's stay perception of it,

968
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 1: you know, and then sometimes it and then it'd be

969
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,240
Speaker 1: two weeks like they'd be like they're.

970
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 2: Trying to come home, or two weeks later they be

971
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 2: engaged because they be happening suit. I just feel like,

972
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. Relationships are different for everybody. You can't

973
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 2: expect it because it's you a long time to move

974
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 2: on and he's supposed to take everybody a long time

975
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 2: to move on. And healing is relative, like everybody don't

976
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,720
Speaker 2: need to heal after a relationship because maybe it wasn't

977
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 2: like traumatic to them. Maybe it was traumatic to you.

978
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 2: Maybe he traumatized you, you are traumatized.

979
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. Like I said, I think

980
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: for me, it was like when I used to get

981
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: out of a relationship. Next day, I be on a date,

982
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: you break up with me on Sunday, or we break up,

983
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,399
Speaker 1: I break up with you on Sunday. By Monday I'm

984
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: in Mexico, bitch, Like, literally, that's how I used to be.

985
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 1: When I look back on it, I'm like, damn, you

986
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: weren't going that out, but you were doing that out

987
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: of herd. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. A lot of

988
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: people are doing that out of hurts.

989
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 2: But a lot of people be ready to move the

990
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: fuck home because they don't want to date that person.

991
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 2: Don't they be like, I don't want to fuck with you,

992
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 2: and you're still stalking me, You're still watching me being weird.

993
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm cool on you. Well, I don't think it's about

994
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 1: watching somebody being weird. I think it's more so of like, dang,

995
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: twenty four hours, ain't even clocked by, and you already

996
00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 1: sharing spinish dip. What's a nigga? See that spinish dip

997
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 1: on my story? You already know what it is. You

998
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,399
Speaker 1: could have been with me, we be eating Spanish jew

999
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying all I feel like it's and

1000
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: and I like to post a Spanish gyp just to

1001
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 1: make a nigge you to post the old spinich Dude.

1002
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 1: I don't do that no more. So I feel I

1003
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 1: don't do it no more.

1004
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 2: Y'all had one picture that, and every time I would

1005
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 2: look at her story, I'd be like, this bitch at home.

1006
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: That nigga did. But now I really be outside. Now

1007
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 1: you make me mad. I'm going outside right, Okay? So

1008
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,359
Speaker 1: how long do you think? How long do you take?

1009
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: Like if you and your man broke up today and

1010
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: it was like fine on, y'all broke up? How long

1011
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 1: til you go on another day until I meet somebody

1012
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: I like? Well, if you what if somebody like I.

1013
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 2: Wouldn't meet nobody in a day, bitch, I don't like nobody.

1014
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 2: I don't be liking niggas, So I'm not meeting a

1015
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 2: nigga in a day that I like.

1016
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: Okay, not enough to like go on a date the

1017
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: next day? No, But what is it somebody you kind

1018
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:04,919
Speaker 1: of had a crush on before you met your man

1019
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 1: and y'all just like nothing ever happening, Like he just

1020
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: so happened to slide in your DMS that Monday morning.

1021
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 2: After me and my man broke up. See, I'm not

1022
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 2: gonna lie. I'm too player though, Like.

1023
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: Even if I did go on the day, I'm not

1024
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: posting it. It's not about him post I'm just saying

1025
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: about you going It's not about posting it or them knowing.

1026
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 2: It's just about I just say twenty four hours it's

1027
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 2: too soon. I think that's too soon. I'd be like,

1028
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:35,919
Speaker 2: what about the same time next week? Okay, okay, same

1029
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 2: time next week?

1030
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 1: What do you mean? I just I, like I said,

1031
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,399
Speaker 1: in my younger days, of course, I would be like, oh,

1032
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: you broke up. If you broke up, If me and

1033
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 1: you broke up at ten am, by the end of

1034
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: the work day, I'm fucking the same day somebody else. Yeah,

1035
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: So what was you just saying?

1036
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 2: So okay, pause, cause that's okay, that's very hypocritical because

1037
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 2: you literally just said, hey, hey, you literally just.

1038
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 1: Say twenty four hours is too soon for the old me.

1039
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, I said for anybody. I said, the

1040
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: old man used to move on too quickly. But you

1041
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: said you would be fucking at the end. I was

1042
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 1: joking today old men. Yeah, we're not talking. We talk

1043
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 1: about oh currently today Honestly, like, I'm thinking about the

1044
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: person that I'm with now, like if me and him

1045
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 1: broke up, I'm going to really go through the process

1046
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: of healing and really trying to understand, because, like I said,

1047
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm in a different stage in my life now, though

1048
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm not talking to like the like we always talk

1049
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: to the twenty year olds and the younger girls like

1050
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: I do feel like if you and your man break

1051
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: up and you're twenty one girl, do what you want.

1052
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: You don't even know what the type of man you like.

1053
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,479
Speaker 1: But for like women in our thirties, for the women

1054
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 1: in the thirties that are trying to get married and

1055
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: you know they want to have children, they don't have

1056
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 1: children yet. I feel like for me, I'm gonna go

1057
00:52:56,000 --> 00:53:00,720
Speaker 1: through Okay, what went wrong? What did what? Red flags?

1058
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 1: Did not notice about him? What did I do? I'm

1059
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: going to go through the process of healing so I

1060
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 1: can do better. That's just me personally now. But me

1061
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: and and uh two thy and ten be put on

1062
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,959
Speaker 1: that yin yang twins. Get it old and get it old.

1063
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: I ain't about to play with you that whole fun girl.

1064
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: So no, it's time to getting to the bed. What

1065
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: put it in this? Limit? Drop? No time? No, we

1066
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 1: wait too, were gonna say this for another No, I

1067
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,439
Speaker 1: feel like we need to do Okay, well, we don't

1068
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 1: have to do another topic, but I want to talk

1069
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:44,919
Speaker 1: about It's me and one in fame feminine, okay, because

1070
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: we're supposed to do that. For the Icebreaker, we was,

1071
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 1: we was okay. So you know there's been a clip

1072
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: going around and uh, we you know, we love Raymonde.

1073
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 1: We love Raymonde. So you know there's a clip going

1074
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: around to him saying like basically and he was joking.

1075
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: He was and he said he was joking, but it

1076
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: sparked the conversation that I want to talk about. So

1077
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about what RAYMONDE said because

1078
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 1: he was joking and y'all took it seriously, but it

1079
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: sparked the conversation like, Okay, if a man wants to

1080
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: be an influencer or he wants fame, is that feminine?

1081
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 1: So you know what I think. I think that wanting

1082
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 1: to be famous is a weird trait, no matter what

1083
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: the gender is. I think that if you have a

1084
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: job that draws attention to you that you enjoy, sometimes

1085
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: fame comes with something that you enjoy. You see a

1086
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 1: lot of actors that are literally a list actors, but

1087
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: you never see them in the blogs. Why because they

1088
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 1: love their job, but fame comes with that. They're not

1089
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 1: asking to be in the blogs every day. And this

1090
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,359
Speaker 1: and that. Then you see people who you know they

1091
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 1: want to be famous because oh my god, the paparazzi

1092
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: just so happened to be there while you getting coffee

1093
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 1: on six Street. Be for real. And then there's and

1094
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: the influencers. A lot of influencers they're not doing it

1095
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: because they really like, you know, to tell people. I

1096
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 1: feel like when I grew up in the YouTube days,

1097
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 1: like Jackie ain'ta Wessell, she used to really be doing

1098
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 1: that because she was telling us tips. She was showing

1099
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,799
Speaker 1: us how to lay our edges, peak meal, she was

1100
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,399
Speaker 1: showing us the wigs that we could wear. Peak Meal

1101
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: was that girl. Baby. She was showing us how, you know,

1102
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,439
Speaker 1: if you're a dark skinned black woman, how to wear

1103
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:26,720
Speaker 1: purple hair, how to wear blonde hair. Like they cared

1104
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: about giving us, you know, content because they loved beauty

1105
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 1: or they loved fashion. They didn't care about the fame.

1106
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 1: It just came with it, you know what I'm saying,

1107
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: especially with the influencer era. Yeah, so I think now

1108
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,760
Speaker 1: it's not a feminine trade. It's not a feminine trade.

1109
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: I think it's weird. If you say, oh, I want

1110
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: to be famous, that's weird. If you're chasing fame, I

1111
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: think that's weird.

1112
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:52,720
Speaker 2: People who say they want to be famous. My question

1113
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 2: always be like why why?

1114
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: Why?

1115
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 2: And a lot of the time I feel like if

1116
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 2: you ask people who say they want to be famous

1117
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 2: why they want to be famous, I don't even know why.

1118
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 2: It's just usually because of what they see on the internet.

1119
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 2: I agree with you. I think it's weird. I think

1120
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,720
Speaker 2: it's a weird trait. And I think they cannot be trusty.

1121
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 2: People want to be famous, cannot be trusted anything. Yeah,

1122
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 2: to be seen, to be heard, to get some followers,

1123
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 2: to get some cliques.

1124
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: We be seeing it. You know that, girl, I'll be

1125
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:19,839
Speaker 1: telling you about No you do.

1126
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 2: It's so funny enough, like ironically, something weird happened to

1127
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:28,240
Speaker 2: me recently, that little TikTok for that boy?

1128
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 1: Are you well? I don't want people to don't find

1129
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: it me.

1130
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 2: I don't want people to go find it either, But

1131
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 2: if you want to talk about it, I just.

1132
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: You feel so sensitive. No, I was talking about myself

1133
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:41,240
Speaker 1: because I'm just shook. What do you mean that that happened?

1134
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 2: No, people are so weird and I feel like it's

1135
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 2: a gen z thing. Oh for sure, Like well, I

1136
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,399
Speaker 2: hope we don't either. But at the end of the day,

1137
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 2: the facts are the fags. I feel like it's a

1138
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 2: gen Z thing. Millennials is not moving like that. The

1139
00:56:54,880 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 2: Baby boom was, for sure, go buy a hots do

1140
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 2: not want because what's after us? I mean baby boomers

1141
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 2: is not what's after us. They're actually like two I

1142
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:12,279
Speaker 2: think before us or one before us as fun they

1143
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 2: oh they singing citizen, Oh my god, there's so mean.

1144
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 2: They like in their sixties and seventies now, but it's

1145
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 2: another generation before us.

1146
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 1: I can't remember what it's called.

1147
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 2: But like the generation after US is gen Z, and

1148
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 2: I just feel like gen Z be like cloud chasers,

1149
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 2: anything for fame, like they be wanting to get famous.

1150
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 2: It's the Internet era. Everybody wants to be popular, Nobody

1151
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 2: wants to have a job.

1152
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: Everybody want to be Internet famous.

1153
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 2: Everybody want to be a rapper, baby mama, everybody want

1154
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 2: to do all of this, not not none.

1155
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 1: Why you want to be a rapper bandy mama, you

1156
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: did remember rapper band?

1157
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 2: I had my thoughts, but I'm gonna keep them to

1158
00:57:56,080 --> 00:58:02,439
Speaker 2: myself because I wouldn't consider that okay, But.

1159
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, like I don't know.

1160
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:07,960
Speaker 2: It was just sot, We're so yeah, I have want

1161
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 2: to Target with my mom and like we in Target,

1162
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 2: we shopping, this boy walk.

1163
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: Up to me.

1164
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 2: He trying to ask me for my number. I'm like, no,

1165
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 2: I can't give my number. I got a man and

1166
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 2: he was like, oh, well, can I have your Instagram?

1167
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 2: And like, you know, just having social media and being

1168
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 2: popular quote unquote with the show and like the show

1169
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 2: reaching certain heights.

1170
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: A lot of people know us.

1171
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 2: So I'm always very conscious of how I interact with

1172
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:35,919
Speaker 2: people when I meet them in person, because I never

1173
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 2: want somebody to be able to say, oh I met

1174
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 2: Dreya in person and she was a bitch or she

1175
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 2: wasn't nice. So I'm just always overly going back to

1176
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:46,919
Speaker 2: what I said earlier in the show, overextending myself being nice,

1177
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 2: being friendly. So he asked me, can I put my

1178
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 2: Instagram in his phone? So I put my Instagram in

1179
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 2: the phone. Didn't know he was recording me the whole time,

1180
00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 2: like me and my mom, and it ends up being

1181
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 2: like this video on TikTok and licks and Shade seended

1182
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 2: to like our group check well my.

1183
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 1: Friend Clay shout out to Clay because he's like me

1184
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: and Clay are friends. I love Clay. Diary of Clay,

1185
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: y'all make you y'all follow him. But he said it

1186
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: to me. He was like, oh my god, did you

1187
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: see this? I was like, no else, So he was like,

1188
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: well I was. He was like it was funny at

1189
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: first because I thought that you were in on it.

1190
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 1: Because now I'm looking at this little bo I'm like,

1191
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 1: it's no way. Drea just handed him her phone. I'm like,

1192
00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 1: it's no way. She why I did it? That was

1193
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: his phone? Oh okay, it was my phone. He asked

1194
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: me to put my Instagram in his. It was the

1195
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: way he see the way he edited. I didn't even

1196
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: know that was his phone. Well, I don't feel like

1197
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 1: he edited it like it was my phone. Well, the

1198
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 1: way he edited it was just looking like you passing

1199
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: him a phone, Like I didn't know. That's what I'm saying.

1200
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: You can't tell nothing the way he edited. Because I

1201
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: was like, oh, she had to been in on this,

1202
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 1: like cause I'm like then I'm like her mom.

1203
00:59:57,040 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: But it was like, how well do you know me?

1204
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 2: Why would I have been in a I mean, because

1205
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. Why would I have been like

1206
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'll definitely because that target that we live by.

1207
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: People constantly film there. That is the target. Yeah, target,

1208
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: people are constantly filming. So I didn't know what happened

1209
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 1: or what led up to it. So I was like, oh,

1210
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: this girl being silly or she being I didn't I

1211
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 1: was just like, okay, but.

1212
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 2: Not say but I got more followers than him. How

1213
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 2: would they have benefited me?

1214
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm just saying I didn't know.

1215
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 2: I'm all about shit being being official.

1216
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe she was in a good mood that day.

1217
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 1: I didn't know when I watched it, and then they

1218
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 1: was in the comments and I was just like, what

1219
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: the hell is going on? So that's when I sent

1220
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 1: in to the chat. He was like what the hell?

1221
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 2: I said, Oh yeah, And I had to literally message

1222
01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 2: this boy and tell him to take the shit down

1223
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 2: because what the fuck? Like my mom is in a video.

1224
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 2: I don't want my mom in this video. Even if

1225
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 2: my mom.

1226
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: Wasn't in it, I still would have been annoyed.

1227
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 2: But I basically like, see him a cease and decease

1228
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 2: from my lawyer, like stop playing with me?

1229
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: And what did he say? He ain't saying nothing.

1230
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 2: He took it down and he blurred my after YouTube video.

1231
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, not playing with me, weirdo. But

1232
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like people be wanting to be famous,

1233
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 2: people will literally do anything for.

1234
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 1: Clout and attention.

1235
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 2: And then I feel like he didn't know who I

1236
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 2: truly do believe at first he didn't know who I was,

1237
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 2: and he didn't know about poor Minds. And then when

1238
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 2: people started leaving all of those comments and tagging me

1239
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 2: and stuff, and then he went and looked at my page,

1240
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 2: I feel like that was even more MO to like

1241
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:27,479
Speaker 2: keep it up and not want of the leading because

1242
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 2: he was really giving me a lot of pushback about

1243
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 2: deleting it.

1244
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 1: Before he did.

1245
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 2: He was saying, he was saying he wanted to be compensated.

1246
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I know he access homeboys like y'all.

1247
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 2: He said he wanted to be compensated, and he said

1248
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 2: he know his rights and he would counter suit if

1249
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 2: I'm talking about getting my lawyer, and obviously he don't

1250
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 2: have no no he obviously, but that counter suit with

1251
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 2: what he was saying, he gonna get his legal team

1252
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 2: involved in.

1253
01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:56,919
Speaker 1: I don't have no legal team.

1254
01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 2: Ivis y'all knew he didn't have a legal team, but

1255
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 2: it was just honey going through all that.

1256
01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 1: God, y'all are hilarious.

1257
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 2: And then especially even with us having a YouTube, like

1258
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 2: we know how it is with YouTube, you could literally

1259
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 2: once you upload a YouTube video, you can go in

1260
01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 2: and edit apart out if you don't want to in there,

1261
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 2: and YouTube will leave it up and it won't affix

1262
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 2: your views. So all you had to do was go

1263
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 2: in and delete that forty five seconds that me and

1264
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 2: my mom was iny. But you was giving so much

1265
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 2: pushback about leaving it in because that's literally what you

1266
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,640
Speaker 2: felt like was gonna get people to click on it.

1267
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 1: And then he made me and my mama to tom, you,

1268
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: yeah I've seen, I said, not miss Barber Star Star

1269
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 1: saw star. I said, oh sh not that he got missed.

1270
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 1: But I said, oh no, yeah, that was crazy, No,

1271
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: it was weird. And he was like, yeah, he wanted

1272
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: to be compensated.

1273
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 2: He was like, maybe we can come to a mutual

1274
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 2: agreement and I can get some compensation and then I'll

1275
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 2: take it down. That's when the hood came out. I said, bitch,

1276
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 2: I ain't compensating you for shit. My lawyer will be

1277
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Speaker 2: contacting you.

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01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: Indeed, that's what they don't expect because you don't got

1279
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 1: no legal team. But I do for real and not playing.

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01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm real on retainer. Love that beautiful story. Amen. Amen.

1281
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Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the b bow

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01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 2: Bow dub by a bow bow bow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so can we get We need two shots for

1284
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 1: this game. What's up y'all?

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01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,920
Speaker 2: As your girl XP and it's sugarl tray and a

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01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 2: call and we are back with another live show. Poor

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01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 2: soul karaoke is BA. It's back y'all and y'all know

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01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 2: we doing it again here in Atlanta at City Winery

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01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 2: and we have a special guest host. But we also

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01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 2: have Nab with it. Oh we he y'all love nav

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Speaker 2: and poor minds to get.

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Speaker 1: There, we're gonna have a time. So September twenty first

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Speaker 1: at City Winery. Go get your tickets right now, Citywinery

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Speaker 1: dot Com. Y'all are not gonna want to miss this,

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01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: said Decetember twenty first, we outside pull up on us

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01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: period all right. So for the bed today, we are

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01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: gonna play a game. Y'all know we love a good game.

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01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 1: It's called sex Questions. So if you are watching Poor

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01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 1: Minds with your friends. I know it's Friday night, y'all

1300
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: have a girls night. Maybe you on FaceTime with your friend.

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01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 1: Pause it right now, go get you some shots, some wine, whatever,

1302
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: and we're gonna play a game. So we're gonna go

1303
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 1: back and forth asking each other questions, very personal questions.

1304
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 1: These are maybe things that you don't even know about

1305
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 1: your friend. We can either answer the question now. Obviously

1306
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: we gotta work, so we gonna take a sip. But

1307
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: if you at home, you gotta take a shot. Answer

1308
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: the question or take a shot. That's real simple, real simple.

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01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: Nervous you want to start, you want me to pod?

1310
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 2: You want to start, or you want me to start,

1311
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:55,320
Speaker 2: I'll start, Okay, if you had a dollar for every

1312
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:56,919
Speaker 2: six partner, what could you buy?

1313
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,959
Speaker 1: If I had a dollar for every single person?

1314
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 2: So no, I had said, why is hobby make their smiley?

1315
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 1: People like this? Honestly, I'm kind of cup if i'm

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01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna be honest. If I had

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01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: a dollar for every sex partner, I could I could

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01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: buy like a bottle of water. The case that's still better,

1319
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 1: you know, in case of decided like three dollars, I

1320
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: talk about like alkaline? How clown water? Like six a second?

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01:05:55,280 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: My business.

1322
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 2: A wand like phot dollartle bit? Yeah?

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01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:12,480
Speaker 1: Oh what could I buy? What could I buy? Oh?

1324
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 1: So are we both gonna answer? No? Never mind, okay, okay,

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01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: let me ask, Let me ask. Oh, it's a perfect

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01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: question for you, missus mule.

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01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 2: I hate that that word has I literally hate every

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01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 2: word that blows up on social media. People get on

1329
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 2: my ixpers. It was diabolical. Now it's the mule. Let's go,

1330
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 2: miss demure.

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01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 1: Would you have sex with a stranger for one million dollars? Now?

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01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 1: Have you given that meat up five million? Dad? You're

1333
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 1: giving it up five million? Ashare you giving it up

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01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 1: for a million? No? Oh okay, if that you're giving

1335
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: it up five million. Oh it's a stranger though protected protected.

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01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:09,400
Speaker 1: That wasn't the question, guys, you A recession was not

1337
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 1: in the question. She can use whatever she want to

1338
01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 1: use when she arrived at the location. What if it

1339
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 1: be like absolutely not, that's not the question? Or no? So, Drea,

1340
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 1: would you have sex with a stranger for a million dollar?

1341
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 2: I don't need to, okay, I just ask my nigga

1342
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 2: up out of the question. I'm just saying like no,

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01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 2: at this point in my life, No, I I really

1344
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 2: would not because no, it's just not enough for the

1345
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 2: the safety reasons like getting in.

1346
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 1: This day, fucking taking bits.

1347
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:52,000
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about safety as far as like you

1348
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 2: just I just would be effy about it. Like if

1349
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:57,320
Speaker 2: somebody offering you a million dollars to fuck you, oh

1350
01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 2: my god, you.

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01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 1: Got it's see what you're doing with the question. It's

1352
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,000
Speaker 1: just to get it in and go about your day.

1353
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:09,080
Speaker 1: All I said is you gotta pump, pump, get your

1354
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 1: million dollars and go live like what you're trying to do,

1355
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:15,280
Speaker 1: Like why you want to give me a million dollars?

1356
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 1: I'm being for real.

1357
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 2: If somebody want to say, have sex with you for

1358
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 2: a million dollars, you wouldn't wonder like why.

1359
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 1: First of all, this would never happen. But the question

1360
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: when you go out for free every day, it's just

1361
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:32,679
Speaker 1: would you have sex with a stranger for a million dollars.

1362
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 1: It's no strings attached, it's no diseases, You can you

1363
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 1: whatever makes you feel safe. You literally have sex with

1364
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 1: a man you don't know, and you get a million

1365
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 1: dollars and you go live your happy life. There's no, nothing,

1366
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:50,599
Speaker 1: no weirdness, no nothing. And you're saying, no, yeah, that's fair,

1367
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:54,599
Speaker 1: all right, what would you say? Hell, yeah, you want something.

1368
01:08:54,680 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 1: I'll ask some head on that too. For free question.

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01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 1: I'm jugging the balls, bitch. The head ain't free. I

1370
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: had a hearkey in that motherfuckerich the head ain't free.

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01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 1: He already there a million dollars? Hurk she fuck fuck

1372
01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 1: what you talking about? Bitch? I just don't trustee. Okay,

1373
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 1: next question, next question.

1374
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 2: I don't okay, what's the strangest item you've masturbated with.

1375
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:33,960
Speaker 1: The strangest items that I've masturbated with? M I'm trying

1376
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 1: to think, because I don't think. I'm oh, you're not

1377
01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 1: gonna say because it was during a sex capade, so

1378
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 1: it wasn't like necessary.

1379
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 2: It was so that you're willing to take the shot

1380
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 2: instead of just saying it.

1381
01:09:57,560 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 1: Because it was night No, because it was a night

1382
01:09:59,800 --> 01:10:02,439
Speaker 1: like it wasn't like I was masturbating by myself. But

1383
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 1: I was like me and this guy was like doing something.

1384
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 1: He was like, oh, I want you to play with yourself.

1385
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 1: I was like, well, give me something to play with,

1386
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: and he ain't had nothing for me to play with.

1387
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 1: So he gave me something to play when I was like, oh, Rent, Rent,

1388
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 1: was it a vegetable? No? No, no, bitch, was it

1389
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:26,400
Speaker 1: a fruit? It might have been something juicy. I know

1390
01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 1: what it was.

1391
01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 2: Anyways, I'm taking the shot just because I want to,

1392
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:31,839
Speaker 2: because I would.

1393
01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:34,160
Speaker 1: Say what mine was. I don't care what was yours?

1394
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:38,559
Speaker 1: Toothbrush not? You had to get that plaque out, that pusson.

1395
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: You know. They had the vibrate I don't got flack

1396
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:49,680
Speaker 1: on my pistley beach. I was not.

1397
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 2: I was not using the bristles. Who use a bristle on?

1398
01:10:57,600 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: Now?

1399
01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 2: It was the vibrating toothbrush. Dry.

1400
01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 1: I gotta do what you gotta do. That was the

1401
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 1: hardest on the boulevard. No I want you was dry?

1402
01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 1: Was like this, I will I was. It was kind

1403
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:31,720
Speaker 1: of I was like, okay, you are off of it.

1404
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:36,880
Speaker 1: You're off. They had three different steady what's that you

1405
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:37,639
Speaker 1: put it on?

1406
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:41,560
Speaker 4: Oh?

1407
01:11:41,840 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 1: Ship? And now I literally definitely, oh it's the world. Okay,

1408
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:03,800
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Okay, come on, now we gotta move on.

1409
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 1: It was definitely a super bridsh okay. Okay, so now

1410
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:12,719
Speaker 1: it's time for me to That was a wild time, Okay.

1411
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:20,320
Speaker 1: So you shout out to rob sponsorship way. Have you

1412
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 1: ever had sex with a full bowl? If so, what

1413
01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: did you do? You had to go number two, You

1414
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 1: had to drop the Browns off at the Super Bowl,

1415
01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 1: You had to drop the kids off at the pool.

1416
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,439
Speaker 2: No, I never had sex with a full bowl because

1417
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:38,679
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you have sex with a full bowl,

1418
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 2: you gonna shop.

1419
01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 1: You know what. This is what I've always thought.

1420
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:44,559
Speaker 2: I feel like you're gonna shop because if it's right there,

1421
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 2: y'all know what I'm talking about.

1422
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:48,880
Speaker 1: Whatever you when you be prairie dogging it, when it's

1423
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 1: right there, it's gonna come out.

1424
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 2: All you gotta do is bust a good one and

1425
01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 2: be like and they all gonna shoot out.

1426
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 1: So it's not been about it shooting now. It's more

1427
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 1: so been like I'm want him to be hitting it

1428
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 1: from the back of he stick his thumb in there

1429
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: and touch and pull it off. It's gonna be like

1430
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: we a slew institute bitch.

1431
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:18,560
Speaker 2: He's gonna pull that finger and he's like, it's given mechanics.

1432
01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 1: So the answer is no. And we is in Atlanta,

1433
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 1: it's a neighbor. We just want to go ahead.

1434
01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, have you ever even filatio with mourning bricks, so.

1435
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:43,280
Speaker 1: You nasty as fuck. Let me tell y'all. Though obviously

1436
01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 1: we all brush our teeth before we go to bed, right,

1437
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 1: you know you do a little one two for you

1438
01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 1: go to bed. But I'm not gonna I kind of like,

1439
01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:56,639
Speaker 1: I have never given breath giving head with like full

1440
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:59,880
Speaker 1: morning breath, but sometimes I can. What is full morning?

1441
01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:01,559
Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna tell you how to get half

1442
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 1: morning breath because before I go to sleep, I brush

1443
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 1: my teeth, right, But if I know like I'm finna

1444
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: get freaky as soon as we wake up, I'll like

1445
01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 1: brush my teeth. But I do that listerine. I do

1446
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 1: a good good listhene rents out for some reason. I

1447
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:21,040
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. It's gotta be that old

1448
01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 1: school blue list threen when you wake up in the morning,

1449
01:14:24,200 --> 01:14:26,760
Speaker 1: you really don't have morning breath like that. So that's

1450
01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:29,560
Speaker 1: just a health tip period. I don't know what to do,

1451
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 1: would be killing that ginger vitis or something whole d nigga,

1452
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:36,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, I got prepared and I said, oh, this

1453
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:37,840
Speaker 1: is what I gotta do so I can wake up

1454
01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 1: and get on that turkey meat. I don't woke up

1455
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:43,960
Speaker 1: and got on that turkey meat. It's fresh off that

1456
01:14:44,080 --> 01:14:47,799
Speaker 1: list Thorne if you list therene, but you gotta really

1457
01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:51,479
Speaker 1: wash till it burned to feel that fine. I feel

1458
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: like list thine burning anyway. But what I'm saying is like,

1459
01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 1: you gotta do a good Listerine rints before, right before

1460
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:00,479
Speaker 1: you go to sleep. When you wake up, that morning

1461
01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: breath not gonna be like that. That's what I be saying.

1462
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:05,800
Speaker 2: By drinking chlorophyll water, That's why I gotta drink chlorophyll water.

1463
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 1: You're not even gonna have morning breath. Yeah, hell yeah.

1464
01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 1: I like the long story short. When that cock of

1465
01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:18,160
Speaker 1: doodle doo, I'm finna get on that cock and doodle do.

1466
01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:28,479
Speaker 2: Go ahead, ask your last question please, because it talks

1467
01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:31,519
Speaker 2: for doodle do. Y'all ask the fuck off this couch, Beach.

1468
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:33,799
Speaker 2: What's the last question?

1469
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 1: Okay, drer, last question drink or answer? Have you ever

1470
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 1: stuck your finger in a man's butt?

1471
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 2: I hate questions like these because I feel like if

1472
01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:48,840
Speaker 2: you answer the question, do you telling yobysins? And then

1473
01:15:48,840 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 2: if you drink, you telling your business too? So do

1474
01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 2: it really matter?

1475
01:15:52,680 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, it fucking out, beach, Yes, I have you

1476
01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:06,800
Speaker 1: want to sniffy. Y'all knows long dry ya you stuck

1477
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:08,600
Speaker 1: your finger in the man's butt before.

1478
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,240
Speaker 2: So Future can stick his thumb and beach's butts, but

1479
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 2: I can't. Not equal, right, So it's okay for Future

1480
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:20,840
Speaker 2: to sneak his thumb and host, but okay, but I

1481
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 2: can't sneak.

1482
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 1: That's wild, all right. I hope y'all have fun with

1483
01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:27,879
Speaker 1: the best. Next questions, y'all give it up for everybody

1484
01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:31,639
Speaker 1: at home who participated. Clap it up, Clap it up, bros,

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Speaker 1: Bow bow. Okay, you want to go first, you want

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Speaker 1: to go first, you can go there. Okay. So y'all know,

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01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm a big supporter of the rap girls, love the

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01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:06,479
Speaker 1: rap girlies.

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01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:06,639
Speaker 4: And.

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01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 1: When I heard this song, I've been listening to her.

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01:18:10,280 --> 01:18:13,479
Speaker 1: I like to like stick my toe in the pool

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01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:15,920
Speaker 1: before I really just like dive out there for y'all.

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01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 2: Moon.

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01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: You know you like to stick your phone. You like

1524
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:22,599
Speaker 1: to do that too. This ain't about it. You didn't

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01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:29,240
Speaker 1: ask me b So I heard this song. I was like,

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01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 1: I mean, she been solidified for me, but this like

1527
01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:34,599
Speaker 1: really solidified it for me. And I feel like y'all

1528
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: sleeping on her, and it's actually kind of pissed me off. Dulci.

1529
01:18:38,320 --> 01:18:40,680
Speaker 1: She has a song called Nissan Awesima and when I

1530
01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:43,200
Speaker 1: tell y'all that whole is fire. Oh that was my

1531
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 1: first card, the Nissan Ultimate. That was my sister's like

1532
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:49,000
Speaker 1: third car. That was my first card. I got it

1533
01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 1: when I was sixteen. She has a song called Nissa

1534
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 1: Ultima and Nissan Ultimate. Let me tell y'all, this girl

1535
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:57,479
Speaker 1: is beautiful. She her style, her swag is different. It's

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01:18:57,520 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 1: something you've never seen. Her music is different. It's fresh,

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01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,599
Speaker 1: it's unique. But on top of that, she can really

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01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 1: fucking rap. I like girls who are different, like Doja

1539
01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 1: Cat is different, Like she's a rapper, but she can

1540
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:13,519
Speaker 1: give you whatever genre doci is that she's she's amazing.

1541
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, damn, she can really really really rap.

1542
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:18,479
Speaker 1: Like I was like okay, I'll give her a verse

1543
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 1: of two. Let me see what you do. But yeah,

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01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:26,599
Speaker 1: she can really rap Dauci uh Nissan Ultima. So yeah,

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01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:28,960
Speaker 1: y'all please check her out. She has a song with JC.

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01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:31,720
Speaker 1: I've been drinking. I can't think of the name of it,

1547
01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:35,240
Speaker 1: but that song was fire. J c rapped her ass

1548
01:19:35,240 --> 01:19:37,639
Speaker 1: off on that song too, both of them did. So yeah,

1549
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 1: that's my Bob of the week. Y'all check out doci all.

1550
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:53,080
Speaker 1: Her music is fire. So this has been a pick

1551
01:19:53,200 --> 01:19:57,639
Speaker 1: me off? Why go ahead? Go ahead? What do you know?

1552
01:19:58,080 --> 01:19:59,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. No, I don't know. I don't tell

1553
01:19:59,880 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 1: me what you know. I don't know. Tell me what

1554
01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 1: you know. You can tell me what you know. Tell

1555
01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 1: me what you know. Okay. I don't think you're gonna

1556
01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:14,559
Speaker 1: because they can't find this in the way. It's like

1557
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:19,200
Speaker 1: an unreleased song soleas well. I thought you were wanna

1558
01:20:19,200 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 1: say something about the Yachty and Drake song that everybody okay, okay, okay,

1559
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:29,559
Speaker 1: all right, absolutely, no, okay, okay, So.

1560
01:20:32,200 --> 01:20:34,680
Speaker 2: I was gonna say a lot of just came out

1561
01:20:34,720 --> 01:20:38,919
Speaker 2: with an album, Sugar Honey Iced Tea, which I loved

1562
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:41,360
Speaker 2: the roll out for because it was given.

1563
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:44,080
Speaker 1: Real Lemma real Elema, Yeah.

1564
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:49,040
Speaker 2: For real, for real, like Cascade, it's good, the girl

1565
01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 2: is good, and I love the album, love the album.

1566
01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:56,559
Speaker 2: It's Hella Bangers on the air. But I'm gonna say

1567
01:20:57,439 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 2: one of my faves Brokie.

1568
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:02,759
Speaker 1: See that's how I know you got I got.

1569
01:21:02,600 --> 01:21:06,720
Speaker 2: That ear so Brokie is my song. Like I don't

1570
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 2: really ate the girls up, but my thing is at

1571
01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:13,960
Speaker 2: this point, if we if we're talking about like lyricis,

1572
01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:16,679
Speaker 2: and we're talking about the new rap girls, please put

1573
01:21:16,760 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 2: Lotto like she like top three new girls, new girls,

1574
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:24,360
Speaker 2: top three girl who? But and I don't want to

1575
01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 2: say my top one, two, three, just because I don't

1576
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:29,479
Speaker 2: want to, Like, I don't I don't want to like

1577
01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 2: create a list like it's I feel like she's in

1578
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:34,960
Speaker 2: the top three period, like she's good.

1579
01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 1: If I make that about the lyricists, I won't put

1580
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:40,760
Speaker 1: them in order. But if I'll say it, okay, lyricists

1581
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 1: up there is Lotto agree, Doja Cat? Yeah? Meg? Yeah?

1582
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:52,479
Speaker 1: And but you said three what you said who else?

1583
01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:52,640
Speaker 5: Oh?

1584
01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:54,720
Speaker 1: Okay? So yeah, I don't know what order I would

1585
01:21:54,720 --> 01:22:00,000
Speaker 1: put them in, don't girls lyrics we talk about like lyrics?

1586
01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:02,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, Like I don't know what order I'll

1587
01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:06,800
Speaker 2: put them in either, but Lotto is definitely up there.

1588
01:22:07,360 --> 01:22:10,960
Speaker 2: My girl be snapping on the beat, and Brokie is

1589
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:14,360
Speaker 2: my song like she she said, a few little bars

1590
01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:16,440
Speaker 2: in there, the whole.

1591
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:20,120
Speaker 1: The whole song was that I like that album got quotables.

1592
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:23,800
Speaker 1: I love a quotable album. She said, you gotta away

1593
01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:26,880
Speaker 1: see your birthday to go out of town. I can't

1594
01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:33,559
Speaker 1: relate me, but I love the girls that we are

1595
01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:37,880
Speaker 1: dropping albums with quotables. You know, I don't really drop

1596
01:22:37,960 --> 01:22:41,720
Speaker 1: pictures on Instagram anymore, but I have so many quotables

1597
01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:42,519
Speaker 1: no I have.

1598
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:46,960
Speaker 2: So do you do you say lyrics in your notes

1599
01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:48,559
Speaker 2: for when you drop a fire picture?

1600
01:22:50,240 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 1: I have so many. I have so many, even from

1601
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:55,599
Speaker 1: Meg's album that I haven't dropped yet. Yeah, then now

1602
01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 1: I got post pictures. I don't. That's why I said

1603
01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:01,280
Speaker 1: I don't post pictures anymore. But if I did, I

1604
01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:06,120
Speaker 1: got so many captions. I know you need to share

1605
01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:09,800
Speaker 1: it with me. I will, I will, I will, all right,

1606
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:11,320
Speaker 1: all right, all right, all right, all right, you got

1607
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:12,599
Speaker 1: you got on all white today?

1608
01:23:12,720 --> 01:23:15,439
Speaker 2: I feel like it's given Angel, and you know what's crazy?

1609
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: Angel? And I don't want to call myself a devil

1610
01:23:18,320 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 1: because well, the only reason I wore this because I

1611
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:22,599
Speaker 1: was like, I have not let me tell y'all since

1612
01:23:22,640 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 1: we're being honest, I'm a little tipsy now. I'm literal

1613
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:29,760
Speaker 1: this mental space in the past few days, and like

1614
01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:31,880
Speaker 1: this morning, I was really stressed out and I was

1615
01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:33,280
Speaker 1: on the phone with my man and he could tell

1616
01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 1: like I was aravate, and he was like, what's you wrong, baby,

1617
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh my god, I can't find nothing

1618
01:23:37,200 --> 01:23:39,000
Speaker 1: to wear. I'm like, I don't even want to go

1619
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:41,240
Speaker 1: to work. He was like, well, babe, you know your face.

1620
01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 1: You look good. He was like, what an outfit that

1621
01:23:43,080 --> 01:23:46,360
Speaker 1: I like? Car declines My god. He was like, what

1622
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:49,559
Speaker 1: what I think? I said, Oh this morning? He was like, yeah,

1623
01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:51,760
Speaker 1: I like when you wear that one. I wore this

1624
01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:53,880
Speaker 1: before we went on like a little day day. I

1625
01:23:53,960 --> 01:23:59,120
Speaker 1: was say, okay, I even warned this, So yeah, that's

1626
01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:01,439
Speaker 1: how I picked up my out today. Like I'm in

1627
01:24:01,439 --> 01:24:06,799
Speaker 1: the conversation. It's one of the bab's favorite outfit. It's cute.

1628
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:07,559
Speaker 1: I like it.

1629
01:24:07,560 --> 01:24:11,160
Speaker 2: It's giving Lisa Ray you know, she loved to wear

1630
01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:11,679
Speaker 2: all white.

1631
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:14,800
Speaker 1: I wonder if she would wear all white on her

1632
01:24:14,840 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 1: cycle because she's been doing it since she was don't

1633
01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:21,120
Speaker 1: she's been doing it since she's been in her twenties.

1634
01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:23,960
Speaker 1: She's been doing it for a long time, long time.

1635
01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:26,760
Speaker 1: So wearing white on your cycle is like, you are

1636
01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 1: a risky part, you know what?

1637
01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:30,920
Speaker 2: Though I wear white a lot on my cycle, never

1638
01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:33,679
Speaker 2: I do, but you're that you're in your cup era.

1639
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:37,439
Speaker 2: I am in my cup era, but period, I am

1640
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:38,360
Speaker 2: in my cup era.

1641
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 1: But I just started. Well it's almost been.

1642
01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:43,519
Speaker 2: A year since I started wearing my cousin for a while,

1643
01:24:44,200 --> 01:24:47,120
Speaker 2: but even before that, I would wear white on my period.

1644
01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:49,880
Speaker 2: May I was just a risky girl because I would

1645
01:24:49,960 --> 01:24:54,160
Speaker 2: wear white even then. But well, I mean I was

1646
01:24:54,240 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 2: not trying to get personal.

1647
01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:58,960
Speaker 1: But you know I had a five roid. Yeah, I

1648
01:24:59,080 --> 01:24:59,519
Speaker 1: used to be.

1649
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:02,280
Speaker 2: I used to I had to wear diapers, you did,

1650
01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:04,160
Speaker 2: I did. I had to wear diapers. I got to

1651
01:25:04,240 --> 01:25:06,000
Speaker 2: the point used to sing in the bed with me

1652
01:25:06,120 --> 01:25:07,640
Speaker 2: with it. I used to ask you to change my

1653
01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:10,880
Speaker 2: diaper and you wouldn't because you've grown as fuck.

1654
01:25:11,040 --> 01:25:15,280
Speaker 1: But I'm not. My stomach would be hurting. I'll be like, Dre,

1655
01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 1: can you change my diaper? And you would really tell

1656
01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 1: me no, that's crazy. I would change your diaper if

1657
01:25:21,800 --> 01:25:24,000
Speaker 1: you needed me to and I needed you, if you

1658
01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 1: was in l A, I needed you.

1659
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 2: The only circumstances did y'all watch Charchie, If y'all watched

1660
01:25:32,479 --> 01:25:33,960
Speaker 2: Kem on stage Churchy, I had a.

1661
01:25:33,920 --> 01:25:36,160
Speaker 1: Diaper on in that scene, fun Fast you did.

1662
01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:41,080
Speaker 2: The only circumstances that I could foresee myself changing a

1663
01:25:41,160 --> 01:25:45,760
Speaker 2: grown ass person's diapers. It's them not being able to

1664
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:48,000
Speaker 2: do for themselves, like being disabled.

1665
01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:52,080
Speaker 1: You was not disabled. I'm not changing diaper. My doctor

1666
01:25:52,080 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 1: said my five boy was the size of a grape

1667
01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:55,640
Speaker 1: at that time. We did not know that.

1668
01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:59,679
Speaker 2: But still but and that's fine. But I'm not changing

1669
01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:00,439
Speaker 2: it for diaper.

1670
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:04,120
Speaker 1: That's cool. Let's not happening. You better hoogie your way.

1671
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:08,639
Speaker 1: I'm my mother, I said my line. I'm a big

1672
01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 1: kid now looking at I'm my bed cad. Now y'all

1673
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:16,439
Speaker 1: thought that asked was fat bitch hat on a hoogie

1674
01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:18,080
Speaker 1: supreme on y'all ask.

1675
01:26:40,360 --> 01:26:44,920
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, nice trying to get into our favorite segment

1676
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Speaker 2: of the show.

1677
01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:47,400
Speaker 1: Will is pour your heart out.

1678
01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:49,040
Speaker 2: So you know, if you have any questions, you can

1679
01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:52,240
Speaker 2: always send them to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1680
01:26:52,479 --> 01:26:54,519
Speaker 2: That's a s K p O U R M my

1681
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1682
01:26:59,040 --> 01:27:21,920
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1683
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1684
01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:31,720
Speaker 1: M ready.

1685
01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:35,320
Speaker 2: Question number one? Then Pete Pablosa that calling number one?

1686
01:27:40,439 --> 01:27:46,280
Speaker 2: We the theme song? Question number one Patreon remember, Okay,

1687
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Speaker 2: what's going on? Ladies love the show? Me and my

1688
01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:52,640
Speaker 2: girl watched the show and Patreon. My question is, what

1689
01:27:52,720 --> 01:27:54,640
Speaker 2: are some ways to get a woman to open up

1690
01:27:54,680 --> 01:27:58,400
Speaker 2: a little more emotionally as well as sexual. I've been

1691
01:27:58,400 --> 01:28:05,479
Speaker 2: with my girl for five years and proposed two years ago.

1692
01:28:06,000 --> 01:28:12,840
Speaker 1: Come on, wait, what the fuck was that? You know what?

1693
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Speaker 2: Ever?

1694
01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:20,880
Speaker 1: Said? It go down the wrong bipe? It was a

1695
01:28:20,920 --> 01:28:24,080
Speaker 1: little le Okay.

1696
01:28:26,160 --> 01:28:29,439
Speaker 2: We're planning a destination wedding, which I'm definitely excited about,

1697
01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:31,559
Speaker 2: but before we do that, I want to know different

1698
01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:33,200
Speaker 2: ways I can get her to open up to me.

1699
01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:36,679
Speaker 2: She's a very chill person and doesn't get excited about much,

1700
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:38,439
Speaker 2: including sex with her.

1701
01:28:38,600 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 1: It's cool if.

1702
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:42,080
Speaker 2: We do cool if we don't type attitude, including sex,

1703
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:45,559
Speaker 2: which makes me feel unappreciated at times because I treat

1704
01:28:45,560 --> 01:28:48,639
Speaker 2: her like a real life princess. Her chill attitude makes

1705
01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:51,240
Speaker 2: it seem like she doesn't really care. We have great

1706
01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:54,080
Speaker 2: sex when we do have it, but that's another area,

1707
01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:57,400
Speaker 2: and it's cool if we don't cool cool if we do.

1708
01:28:58,680 --> 01:29:00,559
Speaker 2: How do I get her to be more tended to

1709
01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:02,120
Speaker 2: meet and put forth more effort?

1710
01:29:02,439 --> 01:29:04,840
Speaker 1: I take care of all the mules, get her whatever

1711
01:29:04,880 --> 01:29:05,400
Speaker 1: she wants.

1712
01:29:05,680 --> 01:29:07,800
Speaker 2: I'm the greatest dad on this planet to our son,

1713
01:29:07,920 --> 01:29:09,600
Speaker 2: so I don't believe I could be any more of

1714
01:29:09,640 --> 01:29:10,400
Speaker 2: a man for her.

1715
01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:11,800
Speaker 1: So what else could it be?

1716
01:29:11,880 --> 01:29:14,519
Speaker 2: This going on? Anything else I could do to make

1717
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:18,480
Speaker 2: her feel comfortable enough to unlock the other side of her.

1718
01:29:20,400 --> 01:29:22,200
Speaker 1: You want me to go first, you want to go first,

1719
01:29:22,560 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 1: you can go first, So drink. I think a lot

1720
01:29:27,160 --> 01:29:30,519
Speaker 1: of times that men think that being a provider and

1721
01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:34,200
Speaker 1: being someone who's there, like financially and you're being supportive,

1722
01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:38,720
Speaker 1: they think that's enough. But sometimes like that doesn't. That

1723
01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:42,880
Speaker 1: still doesn't create a safe space emotionally. So I think

1724
01:29:43,280 --> 01:29:50,440
Speaker 1: what helps me open up to somebody is conversation, deep conversation.

1725
01:29:50,920 --> 01:29:53,600
Speaker 1: So it sounds like y'all really don't have deep conversations,

1726
01:29:53,640 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 1: Like even though you feel like you're providing, you're being

1727
01:29:56,160 --> 01:29:59,639
Speaker 1: a good dad or stepdad whatever he said, It's like

1728
01:29:59,800 --> 01:30:03,200
Speaker 1: that that's aw cool, but that has no emotional stimulation.

1729
01:30:03,800 --> 01:30:07,880
Speaker 1: Everything you named I didn't hear any emotional stimulation. So

1730
01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:12,920
Speaker 1: I think if you know how to get her riled

1731
01:30:13,040 --> 01:30:16,040
Speaker 1: up emotionally to where people start talking and flowing at

1732
01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:19,559
Speaker 1: the mouth, like sometimes I meet I like, sometimes I'll

1733
01:30:19,600 --> 01:30:21,240
Speaker 1: have a day with my dude where he'll just say

1734
01:30:21,280 --> 01:30:23,400
Speaker 1: something and it'll just like trigger something and I just

1735
01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:28,120
Speaker 1: we just start talking talking talking talking, and next thing,

1736
01:30:28,160 --> 01:30:33,679
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm okay, I didn't say that.

1737
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:38,639
Speaker 2: I said that, but but I just yeah, go ahead,

1738
01:30:38,680 --> 01:30:40,200
Speaker 2: go ahead.

1739
01:30:41,120 --> 01:30:42,920
Speaker 1: You gotta stimulate her emotionally.

1740
01:30:43,040 --> 01:30:45,360
Speaker 2: I know y'all be getting annoyed with me sometimes because

1741
01:30:45,400 --> 01:30:49,479
Speaker 2: I just always my answer is always like walk away,

1742
01:30:49,720 --> 01:30:55,320
Speaker 2: like try something different. I just feel like maybe she's

1743
01:30:55,360 --> 01:30:58,000
Speaker 2: not that into you, because if you're doing all of

1744
01:30:58,040 --> 01:31:04,479
Speaker 2: these things and y'all language sex, and if sex is

1745
01:31:04,479 --> 01:31:06,360
Speaker 2: not her love language, you need to really tell that

1746
01:31:06,439 --> 01:31:07,920
Speaker 2: how bye bye bye.

1747
01:31:08,240 --> 01:31:11,680
Speaker 1: Physical is not everybody's love language. I'm not being in

1748
01:31:11,720 --> 01:31:13,759
Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody who don't want to fuck.

1749
01:31:17,160 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 2: And that you're right, okay, but I feel like, what

1750
01:31:20,640 --> 01:31:24,240
Speaker 2: if like, because from what he writing, fucking is his

1751
01:31:24,439 --> 01:31:25,320
Speaker 2: love language.

1752
01:31:26,320 --> 01:31:28,520
Speaker 1: Let's not say fucking fucking.

1753
01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:34,599
Speaker 2: Sounds so barbaric, making love making sweet sweet love. So

1754
01:31:36,080 --> 01:31:39,400
Speaker 2: if having sex is not someone's love language, and it's

1755
01:31:39,439 --> 01:31:42,479
Speaker 2: your love language, how could that relationship work? And I

1756
01:31:42,520 --> 01:31:45,840
Speaker 2: found and I feel like that's something that's obviously very

1757
01:31:45,880 --> 01:31:46,800
Speaker 2: important to him.

1758
01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:47,599
Speaker 1: And if you're.

1759
01:31:47,479 --> 01:31:50,960
Speaker 2: Covering all of the other bases, which he said, because

1760
01:31:51,560 --> 01:31:53,479
Speaker 2: it's a few things that he said, which is like

1761
01:31:53,560 --> 01:31:55,040
Speaker 2: I could see you why to Cooch, you would drive

1762
01:31:55,160 --> 01:31:58,080
Speaker 2: up if you wasn't doing no, if you wasn't doing that,

1763
01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:01,839
Speaker 2: but you do all of these things, like you covering

1764
01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:02,879
Speaker 2: all of these bases.

1765
01:32:03,360 --> 01:32:06,080
Speaker 1: And y'all have a child together, Like I don't know.

1766
01:32:06,160 --> 01:32:08,040
Speaker 2: I don't have a child yet, but I just feel

1767
01:32:08,040 --> 01:32:10,639
Speaker 2: like when I do have a child with my man,

1768
01:32:10,760 --> 01:32:12,680
Speaker 2: like with the person that I'm in love with, like

1769
01:32:12,960 --> 01:32:15,920
Speaker 2: it's gonna make me even more in love with you.

1770
01:32:19,880 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 1: Y'a don't feel that way. I don't know. I don't

1771
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:22,840
Speaker 1: have a child, but.

1772
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:24,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying like when you think about like, I don't know,

1773
01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:27,920
Speaker 2: I just especially like seeing him as a good father,

1774
01:32:28,200 --> 01:32:30,799
Speaker 2: like seeing how he takes care of our child, seeing

1775
01:32:30,920 --> 01:32:33,639
Speaker 2: like him pairing, and I don't know, I just feel

1776
01:32:33,640 --> 01:32:35,439
Speaker 2: like it would make me fall even more in love

1777
01:32:35,479 --> 01:32:37,120
Speaker 2: with him and want to give him like some more

1778
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:38,799
Speaker 2: coochie and give him another baby.

1779
01:32:39,520 --> 01:32:42,479
Speaker 1: So I just I don't know.

1780
01:32:42,680 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're doing all of these things,

1781
01:32:45,240 --> 01:32:48,360
Speaker 2: that you least see all of the bills, give her

1782
01:32:48,400 --> 01:32:50,200
Speaker 2: what she want. I'm the greatest dad on the planet

1783
01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:52,439
Speaker 2: to our son. I don't know what else could be

1784
01:32:52,439 --> 01:32:54,840
Speaker 2: going on. And then obviously you're sexually attracted to her,

1785
01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:56,680
Speaker 2: you be wanting to have sex with her, and she

1786
01:32:56,760 --> 01:32:57,680
Speaker 2: just doesn't want it.

1787
01:32:58,000 --> 01:33:01,559
Speaker 1: I just feel like, hmmm, I don't like lex said,

1788
01:33:01,640 --> 01:33:02,200
Speaker 1: it could.

1789
01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:04,120
Speaker 2: Be a love language thing, and if sex it's not

1790
01:33:04,160 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 2: her love language, I'm not.

1791
01:33:06,400 --> 01:33:09,360
Speaker 1: Really sure if the relationship can go the DC things.

1792
01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 1: And I also believe in opening your mouth, we don't

1793
01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:17,760
Speaker 1: and that her to open their mouth. I think that

1794
01:33:17,840 --> 01:33:20,040
Speaker 1: a lot of times we have problems with our spouses

1795
01:33:20,040 --> 01:33:23,759
Speaker 1: and our partners and we don't feel comfortable with talking

1796
01:33:23,760 --> 01:33:26,000
Speaker 1: to them about certain things. But like, one thing that

1797
01:33:26,040 --> 01:33:29,120
Speaker 1: I'm learning is like my man can't fix things that's

1798
01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 1: wrong if I don't tell him, you know what I'm saying.

1799
01:33:31,920 --> 01:33:34,760
Speaker 1: So I think also it's like if you've had conversations

1800
01:33:34,760 --> 01:33:37,720
Speaker 1: with her, nothing has changed, that's different. But tell her

1801
01:33:37,760 --> 01:33:42,400
Speaker 1: what's wrong and see what happens and go from there. Okay,

1802
01:33:43,160 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 1: all right, Question number two. Hi Alexandrea, I love Love Love.

1803
01:33:48,200 --> 01:33:51,160
Speaker 1: Y'all been watching for quite a while now. I'm going

1804
01:33:51,240 --> 01:33:53,360
Speaker 1: to try to make this as short as possible. So

1805
01:33:53,439 --> 01:33:57,360
Speaker 1: I met this guy on TikTok lol. Yes, TikTok. We've

1806
01:33:57,400 --> 01:34:00,200
Speaker 1: been talking for three years now. My first time seeing

1807
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:02,760
Speaker 1: him was a few months ago. So the kick is

1808
01:34:02,840 --> 01:34:05,519
Speaker 1: he has a whole girlfriend. They want me to be

1809
01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:09,080
Speaker 1: their girlfriend, so I'm not totally against it, but this

1810
01:34:09,120 --> 01:34:12,280
Speaker 1: isn't something that I've just been wanting to do. I

1811
01:34:12,320 --> 01:34:15,680
Speaker 1: have been in nothing but monogamous relationships, so sharing a

1812
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:18,559
Speaker 1: man isn't my favorite. I feel like it's something I

1813
01:34:18,600 --> 01:34:22,280
Speaker 1: can adapt to, but I don't see it being forever. Unfortunately,

1814
01:34:22,600 --> 01:34:25,000
Speaker 1: the vibes are always great when I'm around them, but

1815
01:34:25,120 --> 01:34:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm a lot closer to him than her. Me and

1816
01:34:27,720 --> 01:34:30,479
Speaker 1: him talk on the phone and text every day all day.

1817
01:34:30,720 --> 01:34:33,479
Speaker 1: I really do believe, I really do believe he loves

1818
01:34:33,520 --> 01:34:39,720
Speaker 1: me and wants to be with me. We haven't done

1819
01:34:39,760 --> 01:34:42,640
Speaker 1: anything sexual at all. He has done a lot for

1820
01:34:42,680 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 1: me within the time that we have been talking. He

1821
01:34:45,680 --> 01:34:47,800
Speaker 1: just paid for my birthday trip, and this will be

1822
01:34:48,040 --> 01:34:51,920
Speaker 1: my first time introducing this new dynamic to my sister

1823
01:34:52,040 --> 01:34:55,760
Speaker 1: and friends. Basically, my question is, do y'all think I

1824
01:34:55,800 --> 01:34:58,559
Speaker 1: should even continue this situation? If I really don't see

1825
01:34:58,560 --> 01:35:01,960
Speaker 1: any longevity? Should I just continue to vibe and see

1826
01:35:01,960 --> 01:35:05,320
Speaker 1: where it goes? Again? I love y'all, continue to flourish.

1827
01:35:05,600 --> 01:35:08,519
Speaker 1: Y'all will always have support. By the way, I'm twenty

1828
01:35:08,520 --> 01:35:10,880
Speaker 1: four about to be twenty five and he is thirty

1829
01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:12,960
Speaker 1: two and the girlfriend is twenty five.

1830
01:35:14,080 --> 01:35:17,639
Speaker 2: Okay, So I just feel like if you don't see

1831
01:35:17,680 --> 01:35:19,760
Speaker 2: no longevity, like it would be different if you said

1832
01:35:19,920 --> 01:35:21,760
Speaker 2: you wanted to be in any situation and he was

1833
01:35:21,800 --> 01:35:23,559
Speaker 2: having fun and you feel like if you grow up

1834
01:35:23,760 --> 01:35:25,240
Speaker 2: something and all of.

1835
01:35:25,200 --> 01:35:28,160
Speaker 1: That, then I would say, like, keep having fun.

1836
01:35:29,439 --> 01:35:32,200
Speaker 2: But if you know you can't see it growing into anything,

1837
01:35:32,280 --> 01:35:35,760
Speaker 2: then why stay any? Is what I feel. And then

1838
01:35:35,800 --> 01:35:39,479
Speaker 2: I feel like polygamy isn't for everybody. And then ladies,

1839
01:35:39,520 --> 01:35:43,000
Speaker 2: I y'all he loved me. Y'all have to stop forcing

1840
01:35:43,120 --> 01:35:47,120
Speaker 2: y'allselves to be in polygamy situations because y'all feel like

1841
01:35:47,160 --> 01:35:48,680
Speaker 2: that's the only way that y'all going to get the

1842
01:35:48,720 --> 01:35:51,840
Speaker 2: man that y'all desire. It's plenty of men out there

1843
01:35:52,080 --> 01:35:55,040
Speaker 2: who meet all of your requirements, who will give you

1844
01:35:55,160 --> 01:35:58,880
Speaker 2: the life you want, who will be loving, who will

1845
01:35:58,920 --> 01:36:03,439
Speaker 2: be understanding, who will be emotionally supportive, and financially stable,

1846
01:36:03,520 --> 01:36:05,439
Speaker 2: all of the things that I think women are looking for.

1847
01:36:06,280 --> 01:36:07,679
Speaker 1: And they gonna want to be with one woman.

1848
01:36:08,040 --> 01:36:09,720
Speaker 2: And then you got men who do want to be

1849
01:36:10,240 --> 01:36:12,760
Speaker 2: with multiple women or who do want to have a girlfriend.

1850
01:36:12,760 --> 01:36:16,080
Speaker 2: And if I always say this, I used to date

1851
01:36:16,160 --> 01:36:16,840
Speaker 2: girls back.

1852
01:36:16,680 --> 01:36:20,559
Speaker 1: In the day when I was younger, and he's white man,

1853
01:36:22,200 --> 01:36:24,599
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. I did.

1854
01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:26,519
Speaker 2: I used tod girls when I was younger, and like,

1855
01:36:28,560 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be opposed to like having a girlfriend with

1856
01:36:32,280 --> 01:36:36,040
Speaker 2: my men, but that's because that's what I want, like

1857
01:36:36,160 --> 01:36:37,879
Speaker 2: my A man can never.

1858
01:36:37,760 --> 01:36:42,280
Speaker 1: Pressure me into being because you say this every time,

1859
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:44,160
Speaker 1: like you can't wait till he lets you need some

1860
01:36:44,200 --> 01:36:47,000
Speaker 1: cuccie again. I'm not gonna eat it. Let me back

1861
01:36:47,040 --> 01:36:49,080
Speaker 1: in the game, coach. I'm not gonna let I'm not

1862
01:36:49,080 --> 01:36:49,560
Speaker 1: gonna eat it.

1863
01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:55,479
Speaker 2: I don't like the funny okayny, sorry about me, real quick.

1864
01:36:55,640 --> 01:37:00,439
Speaker 1: I don't like eating kouchie. Unfortunately I will I will eat.

1865
01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:07,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll eat it, but I don't want to eat it.

1866
01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm more of a receiver. Oh my god.

1867
01:37:11,520 --> 01:37:20,760
Speaker 2: Okay, but anyways, but if I had a girlfriend, I

1868
01:37:20,760 --> 01:37:22,519
Speaker 2: would do it to my girlfriend because she's my girlfriend.

1869
01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:29,960
Speaker 2: But but anyways, I just feel like having a girlfriend

1870
01:37:30,160 --> 01:37:33,400
Speaker 2: or being in a polygamous relationship with like you and

1871
01:37:33,479 --> 01:37:36,360
Speaker 2: a man and another woman, it needs to be something

1872
01:37:36,400 --> 01:37:37,840
Speaker 2: that you want to do. I feel like so many

1873
01:37:37,880 --> 01:37:40,680
Speaker 2: women be doing that she for monetary reason, and I

1874
01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:43,960
Speaker 2: think or for their livelihood. And y'all don't really like Kuchie.

1875
01:37:44,040 --> 01:37:46,680
Speaker 2: And if you don't really like Coochie because I like Kuchie,

1876
01:37:46,720 --> 01:37:47,600
Speaker 2: I just don't want to eat it.

1877
01:37:48,400 --> 01:37:51,240
Speaker 1: And not only that, stop thinking about that now.

1878
01:37:51,320 --> 01:37:54,760
Speaker 2: Okay, let me refrase. He said, I'll eat it. I

1879
01:37:54,920 --> 01:37:57,160
Speaker 2: just really gotta like you to eat it. Like if

1880
01:37:57,200 --> 01:38:00,960
Speaker 2: I really like you, I eat it for real, eating cauliflower,

1881
01:38:01,040 --> 01:38:02,759
Speaker 2: it's good, but you prefer broccoli.

1882
01:38:03,000 --> 01:38:07,240
Speaker 1: I prefer broccoli. But I will eat That's all they

1883
01:38:07,240 --> 01:38:08,280
Speaker 1: got on the menu.

1884
01:38:08,240 --> 01:38:10,400
Speaker 2: Right, Like if you made me some cauliflower and you

1885
01:38:10,520 --> 01:38:13,160
Speaker 2: seasoned it up real good because I.

1886
01:38:13,120 --> 01:38:17,559
Speaker 1: Love you, I'm gonna eat your cauliflower. That's right. That's right,

1887
01:38:17,600 --> 01:38:19,760
Speaker 1: because Lex made and I love her.

1888
01:38:20,120 --> 01:38:22,240
Speaker 2: So yeah, like so if I had a girlfriend and

1889
01:38:22,280 --> 01:38:27,120
Speaker 2: I loved my girlfriend, I would eat her cauliflower even

1890
01:38:27,120 --> 01:38:29,840
Speaker 2: though I don't like it that much.

1891
01:38:30,479 --> 01:38:32,320
Speaker 1: But let me also say this, because she said he

1892
01:38:32,400 --> 01:38:35,000
Speaker 1: does things for me. We also have to stop realizing

1893
01:38:35,080 --> 01:38:37,880
Speaker 1: it seems like he is financially stable because he has

1894
01:38:37,920 --> 01:38:41,360
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. He's providing for you. We don't know how

1895
01:38:41,400 --> 01:38:43,760
Speaker 1: the girlfriend feels because we're not getting her point of view.

1896
01:38:43,960 --> 01:38:48,080
Speaker 1: But also stop thinking that men because they're doing monetary

1897
01:38:48,160 --> 01:38:49,880
Speaker 1: things for you that they love you or they care

1898
01:38:49,920 --> 01:38:53,240
Speaker 1: about you. Sometimes men that have money or know how

1899
01:38:53,280 --> 01:38:56,040
Speaker 1: to budget themselves, well, they literally have a budget for

1900
01:38:57,080 --> 01:39:00,679
Speaker 1: fun times. Literally, So we need to stop thinking, oh, girl,

1901
01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:02,479
Speaker 1: he did this for me, He did X y Z.

1902
01:39:02,760 --> 01:39:05,200
Speaker 1: They got a whole account, They got a whole account.

1903
01:39:05,360 --> 01:39:09,760
Speaker 1: They really were budget dating into their lifestyle. I had

1904
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:12,320
Speaker 1: a nigga who had a budget for I'm not gonna

1905
01:39:12,400 --> 01:39:15,880
Speaker 1: lie realized that until and I was on his payroll

1906
01:39:16,040 --> 01:39:19,600
Speaker 1: and I had really I used to talk about this

1907
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Speaker 1: on the like, oh.

1908
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Speaker 2: He paid my rent, it's like five years ago. I

1909
01:39:25,680 --> 01:39:27,679
Speaker 2: was just supported the payroll. He had a whole account.

1910
01:39:27,680 --> 01:39:29,479
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to If you date Nigeria, man,

1911
01:39:29,560 --> 01:39:31,920
Speaker 1: you already know they love to ride off a fine

1912
01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 1: hole on their taxes. Bitch, and you ain't even gotta

1913
01:39:34,360 --> 01:39:41,200
Speaker 1: be fine. You could just be a beach hello, okay,

1914
01:39:41,320 --> 01:39:44,680
Speaker 1: a beach with a exactly a beach with bitch with

1915
01:39:44,720 --> 01:39:46,800
Speaker 1: a coochie, a man, if a man got money, if

1916
01:39:46,800 --> 01:39:49,559
Speaker 1: you got to, if you a bitch with a kochie, yeah,

1917
01:39:49,760 --> 01:39:51,799
Speaker 1: because you ain't gotta be fine and have a good kucci.

1918
01:39:52,000 --> 01:39:55,280
Speaker 1: And that's a topic or we're not gonna talk about.

1919
01:39:55,360 --> 01:39:59,599
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean we could though, because it's the truth,

1920
01:39:59,800 --> 01:40:03,080
Speaker 2: Like you could be not that cute, but y'all, coochie

1921
01:40:03,120 --> 01:40:03,920
Speaker 2: could be fired.

1922
01:40:04,479 --> 01:40:05,000
Speaker 1: That's why I.

1923
01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:06,840
Speaker 2: Feel like when girls be like, oh, she don't even

1924
01:40:06,920 --> 01:40:09,240
Speaker 2: look like me, she ain't even on my level, and

1925
01:40:09,280 --> 01:40:10,720
Speaker 2: he be fucking with her, and he be doing n

1926
01:40:10,720 --> 01:40:13,320
Speaker 2: f y Z. She squirked like her greenny Dude, we

1927
01:40:13,400 --> 01:40:15,680
Speaker 2: hit that hurkey. She hit the hurkey. She put that

1928
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Speaker 2: leg behind her.

1929
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Speaker 1: He no, I'll see all right, she got I hope

1930
01:40:20,880 --> 01:40:26,000
Speaker 1: we gave you some good advice, super group trip. We

1931
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Speaker 1: got anything we're gonna add on to the end to

1932
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Speaker 1: the bathroom. I feel like you need a little l

1933
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Speaker 1: all right, y'all, make sure y'all subscribe to love lex P.

1934
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Speaker 1: The link is in the bio. Go ahead, go ahead, No,

1935
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Speaker 1: that's all I said, y'all subscribe to love lex P.

1936
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Speaker 1: That's my personal YouTube channel. All the Shenanigans, all my

1937
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Speaker 1: extra lex P Sheannanigans are over there. We're gonna be

1938
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Speaker 1: talking about all the hottest reality TV, talking all the

1939
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Speaker 1: tea that y'all need. So y'all make sure y'all go

1940
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Speaker 1: subscribe Vibe.

1941
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Speaker 2: And make sure y'all shop Musbautycollection dot com. Get all

1942
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Speaker 2: of your lip glosses, get all of your lipsticks. Make

1943
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Speaker 2: sure y'all follow me on TikTok. Make sure y'all follow

1944
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Speaker 2: my LTK. I'm gonna start putting that in a bio too,

1945
01:41:15,640 --> 01:41:18,680
Speaker 2: because I be linking all of my beauty products, all

1946
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Speaker 2: of my skin, makeup, clothes, everything that y'all want to

1947
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Speaker 2: know about, workout outfits, supplements, everything.

1948
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Speaker 1: It's on my LTK.

1949
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Speaker 2: And I'm also about to launch my YouTube as well.

1950
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Speaker 1: It's Dre and the Call.

1951
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Speaker 2: So make sure y'all follow me, and I'm gonna be

1952
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Speaker 2: posting like get ready with me, chit chats all of

1953
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Speaker 2: that stuff.

1954
01:41:37,560 --> 01:41:41,599
Speaker 1: Well yeah, period, and we'll see y'all next week by y'all,

1955
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Speaker 1: What's up y'all at Your Girl XP and it's Sugarl

1956
01:41:44,960 --> 01:41:47,360
Speaker 1: Drey and the Call. Y'all know, we have a segment

1957
01:41:47,439 --> 01:41:49,800
Speaker 1: on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do

1958
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Speaker 1: you have a product or something that you want to

1959
01:41:51,479 --> 01:41:53,920
Speaker 1: promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds. Your

1960
01:41:53,960 --> 01:41:55,960
Speaker 1: opportunity is here period.

1961
01:41:56,439 --> 01:41:58,479
Speaker 2: If you have an item or you have a business

1962
01:41:58,520 --> 01:42:00,519
Speaker 2: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

1963
01:42:00,560 --> 01:42:03,880
Speaker 2: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1964
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Speaker 2: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1965
01:42:06,280 --> 01:42:08,599
Speaker 2: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1966
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Speaker 2: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1967
01:42:11,880 --> 01:42:15,680
Speaker 2: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1968
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Speaker 2: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

1969
01:42:21,200 --> 01:42:23,479
Speaker 2: Send us an email and we'll work it out. We're

1970
01:42:23,479 --> 01:42:26,800
Speaker 2: gonna figure it out, get your product, get your business sponsored,

1971
01:42:27,320 --> 01:42:28,960
Speaker 2: and yeah, make you some money.

1972
01:42:29,920 --> 01:42:30,800
Speaker 1: We love to some more.

1973
01:42:30,840 --> 01:42:34,000
Speaker 2: A small business man and a black business said that,

1974
01:42:34,240 --> 01:42:39,400
Speaker 2: but I mean, aminad.

1975
01:42:38,400 --> 01:42:39,719
Speaker 1: Any businesses welcome.

1976
01:42:40,520 --> 01:42:46,120
Speaker 6: I know I be young, but I got feelings too

1977
01:42:47,880 --> 01:42:51,360
Speaker 6: and I need to do what I feel like doing.

1978
01:42:52,200 --> 01:42:56,520
Speaker 6: So let me go and just listen all your people.

1979
01:42:56,320 --> 01:43:00,800
Speaker 1: Look at me like I'm let her girl, it be

1980
01:43:01,080 --> 01:43:02,720
Speaker 1: okay for me to set up until the.

1981
01:43:02,920 --> 01:43:08,479
Speaker 4: World always say you, little girl, don't step into the car. Well,

1982
01:43:08,560 --> 01:43:11,120
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to find out why, because dance is

1983
01:43:11,120 --> 01:43:11,880
Speaker 4: what I love.

1984
01:43:13,040 --> 01:43:15,519
Speaker 7: Get it, get it, get it, get it, get it,

1985
01:43:15,560 --> 01:43:18,479
Speaker 7: get it, get it, get it, get it, get it,

1986
01:43:18,520 --> 01:43:18,880
Speaker 7: get it.

1987
01:43:21,400 --> 01:43:25,400
Speaker 4: I know I may come up quiet, may come off shy,

1988
01:43:25,680 --> 01:43:27,880
Speaker 4: but I feel like Look, I feel like dude, I

1989
01:43:27,880 --> 01:43:31,960
Speaker 4: don't want to see this guy. What's practical, it's logical?

1990
01:43:32,360 --> 01:43:33,960
Speaker 1: What the hell? Who cares?

1991
01:43:34,640 --> 01:43:38,040
Speaker 2: All I know is I'm so happy when you're dancing there.

1992
01:43:38,520 --> 01:43:42,360
Speaker 1: Almah se for you.

1993
01:43:43,640 --> 01:43:47,000
Speaker 6: I cannot hold it, I cannot control it.

1994
01:43:47,200 --> 01:43:48,800
Speaker 1: Almah s.

1995
01:43:50,720 --> 01:43:51,240
Speaker 2: For y'all.

1996
01:43:52,400 --> 01:43:56,120
Speaker 1: I won't deny it. I'm not trying to hide it.

1997
01:43:56,160 --> 01:44:05,759
Speaker 4: So, baby, don't you wanna that's upon me? So another timon, Please, baby,

1998
01:44:06,760 --> 01:44:09,720
Speaker 4: don't you wanna that's.

1999
01:44:09,479 --> 01:44:12,960
Speaker 2: Upon mem name and day.

2000
01:44:15,600 --> 01:44:18,920
Speaker 1: Yeah you like it?

2001
01:44:19,880 --> 01:44:24,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, watch me get it, get it, get it, get it,

2002
01:44:28,040 --> 01:44:29,920
Speaker 7: get it, get it.

2003
01:44:30,720 --> 01:44:33,719
Speaker 1: I really want to dance. So now I was there,

2004
01:44:35,040 --> 01:44:37,880
Speaker 1: I really wanted to do what you want to.

2005
01:44:39,439 --> 01:44:43,960
Speaker 2: I really want to dance, So now with you, I

2006
01:44:44,000 --> 01:44:46,560
Speaker 2: really want to do what you want me to.

2007
01:44:47,880 --> 01:44:50,320
Speaker 1: Now watch me, baby.

2008
01:44:50,400 --> 01:44:56,280
Speaker 4: Don't you wanna that's upon me to another time it?

2009
01:44:56,360 --> 01:44:56,759
Speaker 1: Please?

2010
01:44:59,160 --> 01:45:02,400
Speaker 4: Don't you want nah that's upon me?

2011
01:45:03,640 --> 01:45:07,840
Speaker 1: Leave it by name and nay halmah see.

2012
01:45:09,280 --> 01:45:09,640
Speaker 5: For you.

2013
01:45:10,920 --> 01:45:16,960
Speaker 1: I couldn't know. I see.

2014
01:45:18,040 --> 01:45:18,400
Speaker 2: For you.

2015
01:45:19,680 --> 01:45:23,160
Speaker 1: I won't deny it. I'm not trying to hide it.

2016
01:45:23,960 --> 01:45:27,680
Speaker 7: Get again, get it, get it, get it, get it,

2017
01:45:28,600 --> 01:45:30,080
Speaker 7: get it, get it, get it what.

2018
01:45:32,680 --> 01:45:32,960
Speaker 1: Get it?

2019
01:45:33,000 --> 01:45:34,240
Speaker 7: Get it, get it, get it.

2020
01:45:34,360 --> 01:45:36,120
Speaker 1: Oh I get it, get.

2021
01:45:35,920 --> 01:45:38,639
Speaker 7: It, get it, get it, get it, get it.

2022
01:45:38,760 --> 01:45:44,639
Speaker 4: Oh period ow.

2023
01:45:47,520 --> 01:45:52,200
Speaker 1: Y'all, make sure y'all share the content like subscribe, follow

2024
01:45:52,360 --> 01:45:54,040
Speaker 1: all that good stuff. And let me say this before

2025
01:45:54,040 --> 01:45:58,040
Speaker 1: we close out, y'all. There is one Twitter account that

2026
01:45:58,160 --> 01:46:00,679
Speaker 1: is connected to four Minds. It's p oh, you are

2027
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Speaker 1: underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor

2028
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Speaker 1: minds page. If you see at poor minds with no underscore,

2029
01:46:09,000 --> 01:46:11,439
Speaker 1: that is at fake page, do not follow that page. Okay.

2030
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Speaker 1: They block me Andrea and the poor Minds page on

2031
01:46:15,240 --> 01:46:21,480
Speaker 1: both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

2032
01:46:21,720 --> 01:46:25,160
Speaker 1: It is p o. You are underscore in my nds.

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Speaker 2: All right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page

2034
01:46:28,200 --> 01:46:31,360
Speaker 2: the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing is

2035
01:46:31,400 --> 01:46:34,320
Speaker 2: our Facebook page actually have the least amount of filow

2036
01:46:34,600 --> 01:46:37,240
Speaker 2: So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the

2037
01:46:37,320 --> 01:46:39,960
Speaker 2: least amount of file, but one that's not us got

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Speaker 2: like two hundred and fifty.

2039
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Speaker 1: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

2040
01:46:43,880 --> 01:46:47,280
Speaker 1: caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English, because their.

2041
01:46:47,160 --> 01:46:50,759
Speaker 5: Captures are like bumba clad should men? Should men pay bill?

2042
01:46:51,920 --> 01:46:52,920
Speaker 5: Should men pay bill?

2043
01:46:53,080 --> 01:46:53,280
Speaker 1: Yes?

2044
01:46:53,360 --> 01:46:53,400
Speaker 2: No?

2045
01:46:54,680 --> 01:46:59,840
Speaker 5: Check answer below block block pull pull pull like that

2046
01:47:00,160 --> 01:47:02,719
Speaker 1: Literally with the caption, and I'm like, what that DDC

2047
01:47:03,000 --> 01:47:04,519
Speaker 1: bumba cladel