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Speaker 1: It's time now for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. We have some good questions from Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: FM dot com. Keep them coming, people, keep them coming,

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Speaker 1: Tyler and Syracruse right, Syracuse Right. I'm a forty two

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Speaker 1: year old woman and I work at a bank by

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Speaker 1: day and I work at a bar at night. I

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Speaker 1: serve the same customers in both places, so I try

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Speaker 1: to remain professional. Last night a coworker from the bank

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Speaker 1: came in the bar and hit on me. He said

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Speaker 1: he sees me differently at the bar, so I look

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Speaker 1: easy because I work at a bar.

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Speaker 2: Baby.

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Speaker 3: All the man said was he see you differently at

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Speaker 3: the bar. It's not saying that you look easy. He

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Speaker 3: keeps it professional at work. Now, y'all ain't at work.

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Speaker 3: You at work, so that old not talking to your

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Speaker 3: co worker is out of his head when he comes

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Speaker 3: to the bar. He just said he sees you differently. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you think he sees you easy, that's not it. He's

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Speaker 3: hoping it's easy.

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Speaker 2: You know if you easy? Hello.

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Speaker 3: But now your problem ain't the fact that he talked

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Speaker 3: to you. You just don't want to appear easy. Obviously, you

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Speaker 3: attracted to it. Hello, I'll be trying to get it

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Speaker 3: at the bank and the barn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's for real. I don't give it to us.

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Speaker 4: Moving on, big Bee. Vicki and Missouri.

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Speaker 1: Bicky and Missouri writes, my husband of four years cheated

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Speaker 1: on me and he won't tell me who the woman is.

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Speaker 1: I found an earring back and lip gloss between her

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Speaker 1: between his car seat, and he said he gave an

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Speaker 1: old friend to ride and that's it. If it is

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Speaker 1: totally innocen, then why can't he tell me her name?

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Speaker 2: Ain't nobody finn to do that? Lady, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: You're saying that your man cheated on you four years ago.

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Speaker 3: Now you're saying he's telling you because you found an ear.

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Speaker 2: Ring in the car, not four years ago. They've been

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Speaker 2: married four years.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you said he cheated on you because you found

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Speaker 3: an ear ring and something in the car. He said

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Speaker 3: it was an old friend. You want a name, He

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Speaker 3: won't give you the name. Now, Shirley is she said

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Speaker 3: she caught him cheating or because of the ear ring

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Speaker 3: in the car he was cheating.

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Speaker 1: No, she didn't say she caught him. She just said

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Speaker 1: he cheated on her. She's presenting this evidence.

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Speaker 3: And that's right, that's that's not earring back then, and

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Speaker 3: that's just what he said.

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Speaker 2: He picked the old friend.

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Speaker 3: Of gave a ride, gave her ear rings fall off

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Speaker 3: all the time.

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Speaker 2: What's her name? I'll be if I give you her name.

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Speaker 4: What happens with the lip gloss? It falls off? It's mine?

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Speaker 2: You know you have in your purse.

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know what you got to put

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Speaker 3: your redo your lips for this show wasn't because we

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Speaker 3: was in here kissing real.

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Speaker 2: Hard or nothing.

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Speaker 3: You can't assume that maybe she's just trying to get

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Speaker 3: ready for her next appointment.

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Speaker 2: But what we not even do is give a name

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Speaker 2: up though I didn't want to tell you that I

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Speaker 2: be crossed. I just did not want to.

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Speaker 3: But hers, I'm allergic to chapstick. I have to use gloss.

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Speaker 4: Really, that was a drive by lip lost throne, and

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Speaker 4: you happen to catch one.

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Speaker 2: And I have them.

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Speaker 3: I have a doctor's excuse for your next Tuesday, So fast.

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Speaker 2: The next question, Shirley, he told.

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Speaker 4: Him a friend or rhyme? All right?

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Speaker 1: Chelsea and Birmingham says, I'm a single mother of a

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Speaker 1: seventeen year old girl, and she is always in the

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Speaker 1: middle of drama with her girlfriends, her best friends call.

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Speaker 1: Her best friend called to tell me that my daughter

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Speaker 1: almost got beat up. So I talked to my daughter.

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Speaker 1: Her first reaction was to go and beat up her

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Speaker 1: friend for calling me. What kind of hell raiser am

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Speaker 1: I raising?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: No, you tell us you raised her?

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Speaker 3: If her idea of conflict resolution is fighting, has she

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Speaker 3: not been taught any other way?

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Speaker 2: You know? Stop all this. Oh I didn't raise her

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Speaker 2: that way? Okay, who raised him? You know?

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Speaker 3: But she's seventeen. She a drama queen. Now what's gonna

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Speaker 3: happen is if she was a boy. This is what

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Speaker 3: would happen. If you're a hell raised at seventeen, you're

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Speaker 3: a boy, you keep drama going, somebody gonna beat your.

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Speaker 2: It's just amount of time. It's no way around that. Now.

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Speaker 2: Let me let me give you an example.

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Speaker 3: I know a kid that works for me that doesn't

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Speaker 3: really you know, just he just nice guy, but he

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Speaker 3: just don't know how to be around a lot of men.

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Speaker 2: And he says.

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Speaker 3: Stuff sometimes because he's never been around men. That's not

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Speaker 3: you know, appropriate, it's just what men don't do well. Now,

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Speaker 3: because he grew up around his mother and stuff. He's

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Speaker 3: never had his actual but he twenty nine. And I

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Speaker 3: try to tell this kid, if you keep going this route, partner,

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Speaker 3: you got to learn the ways of manhood quick because

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Speaker 3: somebody's gonna.

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Speaker 2: Knock you out.

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Speaker 3: You didn't know, how shocking if you ain't never had one.

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Speaker 2: That first one in your twenty eye opener.

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Speaker 4: She may need some counseling. Yeah, I think you want

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Speaker 4: to think out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you she mess her dad all kind It

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Speaker 3: could be daddy issues in here, we don't know, but

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Speaker 3: you got to get her some help because I'm.

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Speaker 2: Wrong with her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 3: Humphrey and called and told you she'd about to got

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Speaker 3: jumped on her go down and whoop her friend.

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Speaker 4: Whoa what is that? That's bullying? And yeah, brand is

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Speaker 4: trying to give her mother heads up girls, arm's way

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Speaker 4: all right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Mignon in Detroit, she says, I'm sixty

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Speaker 1: nine year old retired female and I've been relaxing at

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Speaker 1: home without a braun lately. My husband's friend was at

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Speaker 1: the house for the Super Bowl and my husband told

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Speaker 1: me to put a bra on. I was at home,

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Speaker 1: so why should.

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Speaker 4: I have to be uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: Oh come on, well, come on now, you walking around

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Speaker 3: sixty nine? You know you heavy chested chest. That's old folk.

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Speaker 3: Her she's sixty nine. She didn't hear this before.

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Speaker 2: You had a chick? Put a bra?

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Speaker 3: Why should I be uncomfortable? You say you, well, don't

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Speaker 3: wear a bra all the time? Super Bowl?

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Speaker 2: He got some friends, come over. Put a brown. It's

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Speaker 2: not while you're being uncomfortable. Let's just be respectful.

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Speaker 3: Everybody can't handle us here. You be walking around and stuff.

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Speaker 3: We got all these solo cups on this table. You

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Speaker 3: just knocking solo cups over the brown stewing in here.

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Speaker 3: Look over here, now you all yo, you hanging all

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Speaker 3: in the chip deal?

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Speaker 4: Put a bra on?

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Speaker 3: Asked you sitting up in the hell on all that

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Speaker 3: chicken wing sauce on your breast?

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Speaker 4: Put up braw on. Coming up at the top of

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Speaker 4: the hour. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: C l O.

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Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 2: This is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. I'd like to

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Speaker 2: praise that.

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Speaker 3: I just wish they had the same toe nail polo,

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Speaker 3: if you please, so we can be uniform. They need

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Speaker 3: to be banned, you know, they had them two little

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Speaker 3: boys with the white face on doing mine and stuff.

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Speaker 3: While I was tolerating them. You know, oh the minds

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Speaker 3: good day mind. Yeah, I tolerated there. If there but

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Speaker 3: the praise dancers.

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Speaker 5: Now, first of all, we ain't got room enough for

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Speaker 5: everybody to be up there. I sanctuary at that big y'all.

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Speaker 3: Are you know?

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Speaker 4: We got one pert to go up there in town.

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Speaker 3: And don't heavy people stop coming down the aisle with

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Speaker 3: the two clothes.

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Speaker 2: Get back up there where we can see everybody. All

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Speaker 2: that coming down the oile. I don't all behind me

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Speaker 2: and next to me.

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Speaker 4: Toiling from my grandmother.

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Speaker 2: Laugh.

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Speaker 3: Now need that standing around in these hot white downs

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Speaker 3: and just staying in this funk round this church. Get

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Speaker 3: back up there on the platform where we can see, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you got a bathe before you dance. Now

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Speaker 2: you do have the baby.

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Speaker 5: Everybody can't touch their toes. If if everybody can't touch

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Speaker 5: their toes, don't even do the toe movement

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Speaker 3: In righting show coming up right after you