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Speaker 1: Good morning, that's right. Is a day before Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 2: And I wish you were traveling mercies. I hope everybody

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Speaker 1: That's right and alive that's right. Okay. Now today on

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Speaker 1: the show, a very serious show. We haven't I don't

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Speaker 5: was killed nineteen years ago. Cole shot him a shot

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Speaker 1: So she they did a movie, this salute the movie.

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Speaker 5: The movie comes out this Friday, talking about everything that

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Speaker 2: And I mean the thing that I like that the

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Speaker 1: You've been today. That's right.

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Speaker 5: So we're gonna be chopping it up with her in

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Speaker 7: Good morning, New Herd, North Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Up, Jamel, get it off your chest?

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Speaker 8: To god, dj it be that's hilarious. What's happening?

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Speaker 1: All right, man, ain't sounding like a stud. I'm confaring

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Speaker 7: First of all, I want to say good morning. I

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Speaker 1: Happy to have you, no and no y'all. That'd be envy,

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Speaker 13: Man?

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Speaker 1: Lookah, you cut her off already. God damn, damn. That's crazy, yo.

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Speaker 2: So you're disrespectful, disrespectful, the other trying to be funny. Hey,

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Speaker 7: I'm I'm sorry, I can't hear me now.

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Speaker 7: I was saying, I'm tired of these white people who

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Speaker 7: And she goes, oh, I just you had one piece

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Speaker 7: Exactly you walk all the way over to my desk. Instead,

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Speaker 14: You know what you should do. You should be like,

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Speaker 14: I will put my hands to your hair. But I

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Speaker 14: hear you guys have lights. You should do that, and

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Speaker 14: she'll never ever touch your hair again. She'll never even

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Speaker 8: Damn, you're right. I heard.

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Speaker 9: It's a little greasy.

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Speaker 7: I heard a little break.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, say say but but say lights. Oh girl, they

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Speaker 5: Guys, yes, say I hope you could fight desire. That's

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Speaker 7: Well, my mom's from Brooklyn, so you know, I got

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Speaker 2: What that mean when people do that and your city

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Speaker 1: You fight beast right?

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Speaker 15: Yes, yes said Brooklyn Brooklyn in Baltimore, Chicago, Yes, yes,

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Speaker 15: and how mother somebody from Missouri beat y'all glass, you

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Speaker 1: Chicago, Compton, thank.

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Speaker 7: You guys so much.

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Speaker 16: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: Have a great day.

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Speaker 2: One of them grass fed beat people from Kansas that

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Speaker 1: About up from Brooklyn. Shut up. Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 2: My name is Johnny.

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Speaker 12: Good morning, Good.

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Speaker 1: Morning, john Get it off your chest, Johnny, Hey.

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Speaker 10: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: I was just wanting to get off my chest.

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Speaker 17: You know, I'm a I'm a disabled veteran and I

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Speaker 18: I gave her another card.

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Speaker 6: That I had, and so the picked up the car

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Speaker 17: to bring her to work for like four forty five.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, you got a big girlfriend, but you got a

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Speaker 17: I'm trying to see you know, I don't want to

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Speaker 17: it's just too much on me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I think you should cut her off. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Well, my I had a brother who passed away. We

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Speaker 3: My brother passed away, we got really close.

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Speaker 6: We've been together for about four years now. I don't

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Speaker 1: Do you love Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I definitely love her, but you know I'm thinking about

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Speaker 14: Yeah you should do that. Yeah, yeah, No, you're not

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Speaker 14: going to break your heart. It's okay, Well her heart

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Speaker 14: will probably be broken, but you can't do it at

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Speaker 12: You can't stay with us leave her alone.

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Speaker 2: Lets you have you have you had the conversation? Have

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Speaker 2: you told her like, look, man, you're hurting my friends

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Speaker 2: with this. I don't like the way you be blowing

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Speaker 2: my money.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I had the conversation with her.

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Speaker 3: She cried and I kind of get stuck in there.

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Speaker 6: She asked me to her time to fix it.

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Speaker 17: And you know, but it's kind of a while when

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Speaker 19: Net the school because I want to go to school.

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Speaker 1: I have, I have.

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Speaker 12: My job is at home.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 14: I'm getting funded. Anything I want to do is getting funded.

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Speaker 14: Your disabled vet.

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Speaker 1: You got man.

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Speaker 14: Listen, she's a manipulator. That was me years ago. Lee

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Speaker 14: shorty along. She won't be there as long as you

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Speaker 14: break it off. She's not gonna break it off because

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Speaker 14: you're paying for everything you the bank.

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Speaker 2: That's right, you're doing well in life. You're a plumber

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Speaker 2: and you gotta get a disabled veteran check man. You

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Speaker 5: Get it off your chest eight hundred five eight five five.

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Speaker 1: If you need to vent hit it. So now it's

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Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Wake up, y'all.

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Speaker 2: As if you're time to get it off your chest,

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Speaker 2: your man or blessed, we want to hear from you

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Speaker 2: on the breakfast glove.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 12: Who's this?

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Speaker 8: This is Rachel Russa's books.

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Speaker 1: Good morning Rachel, Get it off your chest.

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Speaker 20: Hey, y'all, I just wanted to give y'all your flowers and.

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Speaker 8: Then shout myself out?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 8: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Of course, Okay.

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Speaker 20: I've been watching y'all since I was like twenty, I'm

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Speaker 20: thirty five now, Oh wow.

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Speaker 8: So I've seen the.

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Speaker 20: Breakfast Club in many different ways, and I just want

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Speaker 20: to say, DJ.

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Speaker 6: MV Charlotte and.

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Speaker 8: The God how you guys make an example for black men.

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Speaker 6: You know we need that.

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Speaker 18: Dj angre what you do for the community, Charlotmagne like,

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Speaker 18: how farre you caame?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 20: Like the vulnerabilities and encouraging accountability within black men is.

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Speaker 1: What we need.

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Speaker 19: Just hilarious.

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Speaker 12: Good morning.

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Speaker 7: Are you there this morning?

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Speaker 12: Am wow?

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Speaker 20: Missing the way you have cultivated a voice for yourself

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Speaker 20: and you've carved out a space for your own. Like, Hello,

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Speaker 20: that's what we needed and what we've missed you, Curion

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Speaker 20: as Lauren.

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Speaker 21: Lewis is there, Miss Saying with receipts. Miss Saying was

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Speaker 21: just always keeping us accountable and keeping us up. Today, Hello,

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Speaker 21: the Breakfast Cub has came far and I'm here for

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Speaker 21: it and I'm excited for where you guys are going.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Well, thank you so much. Now

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Speaker 1: shout out yourself. You said you want to shout out yourself.

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Speaker 16: Too, right, Yeah, I want to shout out myself.

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Speaker 22: My name is Rachel Rod and I am in film

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Speaker 22: and TV, so I'm just shouting out, putting out my

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Speaker 22: I G handle if Rachel Ross films, r A C

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Speaker 22: H E L R O S S films s I L.

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Speaker 8: M S and if you need to do.

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Speaker 20: Music videos, live sporting events, corpus events, hitch.

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Speaker 8: Your girl up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 20: Don't worries.

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Speaker 1: Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 9: Hey man?

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Speaker 1: You know you called us man?

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Speaker 12: He had work?

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Speaker 1: Hello? Who's this? Hello? Hello?

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 23: Can you hear me?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 12: Hello, good morning?

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Speaker 1: How old are you?

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Speaker 6: Hi?

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Speaker 18: It's just see I called it yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll get it off your chest.

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Speaker 8: But I kind of got interested yesterday.

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Speaker 7: But once again, I want to say.

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Speaker 11: Every damn that was.

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Speaker 1: That was really mistake.

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Speaker 19: They're making jokes about you hanging up on people.

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Speaker 12: Six soconds everything like he be boofit.

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Speaker 10: That was.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 12: You couldn't even say like, okay, baby, you can't hear you.

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Speaker 12: We're just gonna put you on hold.

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Speaker 5: You said, sorry, Hello, who's this Philly?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Philing? What's happening? Get it off your chest?

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Speaker 3: Call us first off shore, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Some glove man.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody out there listening to y'all? Long day lead.

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Speaker 3: I've been listening y'all since day one, probably twenty fourteen,

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Speaker 3: since I used to do the decision put them in

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Speaker 3: the freez word of everything. Had a fat john call

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Speaker 3: up your Sharrella. Y'all used to bustle on her all

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Speaker 3: the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, big one credit.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just want you to know, thank you for

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Speaker 2: two thousand and fourteen more than day one, sir. Twenty

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Speaker 2: ten was day one.

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Speaker 12: Y'all used to on the fat girl.

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Speaker 1: What's what's new?

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Speaker 18: Y'all?

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Speaker 3: Remember Johnny used to call up Charon y'alled to well

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Speaker 3: Julie school bustling.

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Speaker 2: Speak even all that I don't remember, man, But you

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Speaker 2: know that's not about them, Thank you, brother.

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Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club.

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Speaker 5: Indeed, just Hilarie Charlamage the guy we are the breakfast

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Speaker 5: club law and rust feeling in the jest if you're

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Speaker 5: just joining us eight hundrenk five eight five one oh

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Speaker 5: five when we're asking if you see your friends man

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Speaker 5: or your friend's girl cheating on him or cheating on him,

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Speaker 5: where'd you tell him you were saying.

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Speaker 19: Yes yes to a certain extent.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's that extent?

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Speaker 19: She got to hit that. My sister hit that threshold

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Speaker 19: of like you so stupid, there's nothing I can do.

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Speaker 19: Ain't no coming back. I'm out of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 19: But he also talked about not being able to go

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Speaker 19: over the house at this point. I'm probably not allowed

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Speaker 19: to at your house anyway, because your man hates me

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Speaker 19: because when you're upset, you're calling me to go outside,

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Speaker 19: and he's upset about that because he know I'm the

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Speaker 19: one I told on him.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it depends how close I and with the person.

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Speaker 5: If I'm real close, that's my bro, then.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to let him know.

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Speaker 19: If I'm not close, I'm mind my business.

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Speaker 5: But if it's one of those shaky situations where you

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Speaker 5: had conversations before and they just acted like they don't

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Speaker 5: hear you, then I'm not gonna say nothing my mom

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Speaker 5: my business, and I'm just gonna let it happen because

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Speaker 5: you ain't gonna listen to me anyway, You're gonna call

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Speaker 5: me a hate anyway. I'm just gonna let the tell

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Speaker 5: just gonna be like I told you know, I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: say I told you so, Charlam ain't telling.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I'm telling her that horror. And the reason I'm

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Speaker 2: telling on that horror because women have been telling on

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Speaker 2: hundred and seventy eight. I'm forty six years old, so

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Speaker 2: I'm grown and my friends are grown. So this isn't

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Speaker 2: no boyfriend or girlfriend thing. This is a marriage. And

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Speaker 2: you are breaking vows, vows that you made in front

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Speaker 2: of God.

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Speaker 1: This guy.

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Speaker 2: Therefore, I, being a messenger of God and one of

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Speaker 2: God's greatest public servants, I will do my due diligence

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Speaker 2: and my public service and tell on this now horrible

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Speaker 2: woman who has cheated on her husband, okay, and broken

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Speaker 2: these amazing vows that this man made.

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Speaker 1: I am absolutely positively telling on her.

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Speaker 2: But you, the whole police, you sound like you're the

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Speaker 2: guy who I've been seeing something in.

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Speaker 19: The car police, because I was just ordering groceries for

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Speaker 19: my police, like, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: It depends once again, it depends.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm grown, so my friends are usually married, right,

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Speaker 2: so the people I'm be telling on are married people.

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Speaker 2: I feel it, okay, I'm not telling on you know.

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Speaker 19: I know some people who, because it gets to the

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Speaker 19: point of marriage, will definitely not say anything because they're like,

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Speaker 19: that's her husband, she needs to deal with that. I

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Speaker 19: know people that literally will not They don't.

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Speaker 1: Honestly there because it's married. They're not gonna mind the

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Speaker 2: Rather, if I see my man's wife cheating, I'm going

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Speaker 2: to tell my man immediately. Make sure you go file

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Speaker 2: at the voice. Let them know it's irreconcilable differences. Don't

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Speaker 2: give her nothing. Jesus Christ, you get half for nothing.

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Speaker 2: She was out here cheating on you king, all right,

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Speaker 2: she knows she got a whole family at home.

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Speaker 1: Hello, who's this yo?

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Speaker 10: What's good? And be this Drake from Brooklyn?

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Speaker 1: Drake from Brooklyn. Dra Now you see you see your man's.

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Speaker 5: Girl at Starlin's at the strip club?

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Speaker 1: She would have never do you tell him?

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Speaker 10: I ain't gonna hold you. I don't really like her

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Speaker 10: gossip or stuff like that, or you was word of mouth.

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Speaker 10: I don't want not coming back. Oh you a hater U.

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Speaker 10: So you know what I ain't gonna tell him.

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Speaker 1: You can least get a sneak a little bit and

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Speaker 1: send him a pick.

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Speaker 10: Now listen, So I'm about to tell you I'm not

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Speaker 10: gonna be the one to tell him. The pictures and

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Speaker 10: videos at four K that's what's gonna tell my man.

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Speaker 10: Like you know what I'm saying, sweet talk about it.

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Speaker 10: I'm gonna show you. So you know it's different things.

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Speaker 10: But you know I ain't gonna be the teller. But

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Speaker 10: the pictures of videos wonna tell him.

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Speaker 2: But also what you lying, because if you take a

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Speaker 2: first thing your man gonna hit you back.

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Speaker 1: What's this exactly?

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Speaker 19: You got to explaining now that whole text.

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Speaker 1: Come, I was at the club last night, and this

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Speaker 1: is what I saw.

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Speaker 10: I gotta explain it. The videos and pictures.

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Speaker 1: On it, tag on it. Okay, Hello, who's this at L?

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Speaker 1: That's your name ATL?

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Speaker 6: I know that's right ATR.

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Speaker 1: That's what we all right at L.

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Speaker 5: Now you see you see your girl's man in the club.

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Speaker 5: He had I don't know what's what's one of the

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Speaker 5: spots he had magics or something like that cheetah or

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Speaker 5: he had cheatah wherever he at.

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Speaker 18: You tell him, I am not telling If we know

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Speaker 18: your man is a serial cheeta, why am I getting involved?

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Speaker 1: You minding your business. You're not even gonna take a

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Speaker 18: I'm not I'm not saying anything. But but the second

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Speaker 18: part to that is, why is it that she can

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Speaker 18: cut me off or not tell him, but she don't

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Speaker 18: cut him off of having a fear every quarter?

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Speaker 8: What are we doing that?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: You know I don't like the fact that you're not

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Speaker 2: being honest at YEA. The reason you can't tell your

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Speaker 1: Ain't nothing to talk about.

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Speaker 19: On what when y'all when y'all say they clarify black

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Speaker 19: men don't cheat, Okay, you got to do get some

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Speaker 19: new ones that drop where they at.

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Speaker 18: So you're going to be bringing the phone over to

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Speaker 18: bust this man every quarter or everyone the woman every quarter?

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Speaker 1: Every quarter?

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Speaker 8: You're gonna do that.

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Speaker 2: Well, I would never have to do that to man

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Speaker 2: because black men don't cheat. But for that woman who's

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Speaker 2: out here cheating on her husband.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely black women don't cheat either.

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Speaker 19: We just order the groceries to help our cousins.

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Speaker 8: Giving.

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Speaker 2: You're saying black women don't cheat, as in with a

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Speaker 2: comma like black women comma don't cheat.

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Speaker 1: I like that one. Hello, who's in courage's horse to

462
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Speaker 1: not cheat?

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 8: Hello?

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Speaker 1: What's your name?

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Speaker 8: Bro?

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Speaker 3: This is how does houstons in New Jersey?

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Speaker 5: All right, Pattison the Houston. I So now you're in

469
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Speaker 5: the club, you're Area twenty nine. You see your man's

470
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Speaker 5: girl all over some dude.

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Speaker 2: You're telling them, yes, of course quick, I'm calling like, Yo, dude,

472
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Speaker 2: your girl had such a stutch and I'm taking a

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Speaker 2: picture of sending the tool.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. That's what I'm about.

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Speaker 3: I might do like Charla made and facetied, like, Yo,

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Speaker 3: what's up?

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Speaker 18: I ain't know you was doing it like that?

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Speaker 1: Damn. Yeah, that's right. Damn I'm out there.

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Speaker 3: I even got one better for you.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 10: By my ex was.

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Speaker 3: Cheating with another dude, was cheating on his wife.

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Speaker 9: I found out.

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Speaker 3: I told him, I said, listen, keep cheating on her.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell her, because if you tell her, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: tell your wife. This idiot, hold it messed up, this

487
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Speaker 3: little five piece.

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Speaker 19: I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: First of all, black men don't cheat.

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Speaker 19: Talking about what you're talking about, what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 1: He was clearly Caucasian. Lauryn d drink five eight five

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Speaker 1: one o five one.

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Speaker 5: Ladies, if you see that your your girl's man is cheating,

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Speaker 5: are you telling them? If you see your man's girl cheating,

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Speaker 5: are you telling.

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Speaker 1: That's the question. Let's talk about it. It's the breakfast club.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, the breakfast club.

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Speaker 5: We're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh five

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Speaker 5: to one. If you see your friends man a girl cheating,

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Speaker 5: are you telling her?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 5: This situation comes from Saucy Santana. Play with Saucy Santana, say,

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Speaker 5: let's go.

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Speaker 1: To the phone line.

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Speaker 5: Hello, who's this so talk to us. You see your

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Speaker 5: man's girl cheating, you're.

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Speaker 13: Telling under those cumer fans will not not telling? I mean,

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Speaker 13: why would I hide that from him that's supposed to

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Speaker 13: my boy, because eventually he's gonna find out and then

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Speaker 13: it's gonna be mad at me if I didn't say nothing.

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Speaker 19: Okay, so that's like the first time she caught cheating,

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Speaker 19: But like what if it's like you want a sixth

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Speaker 19: time she's been called?

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Speaker 1: You calling him I'm calling.

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Speaker 2: Not only are we calling him and telling him how

516
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Speaker 2: stupid he is for still being out here with this

517
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Speaker 2: little whore.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, yes, I'm calling everything.

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Speaker 19: It's different.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why I'm calling every time, simply because

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Speaker 2: I need him to know how stupid we know he is.

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Speaker 1: Hello, who's this Erica?

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Speaker 8: Call him from where I'm calling from? Ghana?

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Speaker 1: Oh, Ghana.

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Speaker 8: I thought, I literally stopped. I'm heady to meet the president,

526
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Speaker 8: but I wanted to call in because the topic is

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Speaker 8: as it is every day was so amazing.

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Speaker 19: Right on the President of Ghana.

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Speaker 1: The iHeart radio at works in Ghana. I guess so.

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Speaker 8: So I streamed from my phone. I've been here for

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Speaker 8: fifteen months. They're going to stream the service. So today

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Speaker 8: is the springing and ceremony of Diacterran United States citizens

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Speaker 8: and they've only done it three times. Stevie Wonder did

534
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Speaker 8: it a few months ago, and I'm doing it today.

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Speaker 1: Tell him I want citizenship.

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Speaker 11: Man.

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Speaker 1: It's one twenty five pm and Ghana.

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Speaker 2: If anybody listened to charlamagea go who wants his citizenship

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Speaker 2: for him and his whole family got I have property

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Speaker 2: in Ghana.

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Speaker 1: I love Ghana.

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Speaker 8: I live in a cross, I live in a cry

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Speaker 8: I live in the atomic nuclear area, but I have

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Speaker 8: a property somewhere else as well. So look me up

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Speaker 8: on Hillside Solutions d A D O T testing company

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Speaker 8: on ig So send me a message or give me

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Speaker 8: another number, and I promise you I got you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonnaell.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you our producer get your info. I

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Speaker 2: was gonna buy. I was gonna buy an apartment in

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Speaker 2: Ghana across I still might.

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Speaker 19: Take Charlotte of Ghana. So that way, you know, these

553
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Speaker 19: women who need to help their cousin with the groceries

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Speaker 19: can do it in peace, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, So, ma'am, ma'am, So that you finally got to

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Speaker 5: get connected.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, y'all really got to get connected to Ghana

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Speaker 8: because it's so much sum in here, and it's so

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Speaker 8: much takeover, and we're moving here every single day.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 9: Everything.

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Speaker 8: It is everything to me. It is everything I thought

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Speaker 8: it would be. Go ahead. I'm sorry, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: So well, first of all, would you would you come

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Speaker 1: from what state?

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Speaker 8: I think from. I'm originally from Kentucky, but I came

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Speaker 8: from Tampa, Florida, and I just got tired of racism.

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Speaker 8: I got tired of the bigotry. I got tired of

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Speaker 8: just us not being able to be put in position.

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Speaker 8: No matter how smart you are, no matter what you own,

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Speaker 8: no matter how much money you have, it will never

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Speaker 8: be enough.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha.

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Speaker 5: So not a question. Is you out there in Ghana?

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Speaker 5: You see your girl's man out there dancing with some

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Speaker 5: next check you.

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Speaker 8: Telling dancing is nothing?

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Speaker 1: Cheating?

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Speaker 15: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Cheating cheating kissing?

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Speaker 8: Cheating is a different story. Because I'll say this, because

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Speaker 8: your character should speak for itself, that he would.

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Speaker 9: Have enough sense.

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Speaker 8: Anybody knows me, knows that they can't do certain things

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Speaker 8: in front of me because I stand for something right,

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Speaker 8: he would tell her himself because the pressure will be applied,

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Speaker 8: So heaven, I'm not gonna say anything. I'm gonna just look.

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Speaker 2: At him so he know, he know that. You know now, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I know you gotta do something to react. So hopefully I'm.

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Speaker 8: Gonna have a respectable conversation with him. How would he

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Speaker 8: view that situation if he were me?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 8: Put the shoe on the other foot. So give me

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Speaker 8: the exact same gravity of grace that you would expect

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Speaker 8: to be given.

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Speaker 5: Unto you, O, I with you, Thank you mama, hold on,

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Speaker 5: we gonna put your.

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Speaker 19: Edie get her in pol Okay, So she says, she

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Speaker 19: would have a righteous conversation with.

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Speaker 5: Him, right, or she would just look at him and

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Speaker 5: be like, you know what I'm about to do, so

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Speaker 5: you better do it beforehand, that grace.

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Speaker 1: So what's the morrow of the story? All of the stories?

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Speaker 2: Man, If you're a man and you see your man's

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Speaker 2: wife or your man's girl out there cheating, tell on her,

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Speaker 2: Tell on her, little broke ass. Okay, how did she

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Speaker 2: out here cheating on this man that's taking care of her? Okay,

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Speaker 2: I know how my man's is holding you down and

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Speaker 2: you out here sharing that broke ass box. Okay, you

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Speaker 2: little boot little broke booty. I'm telling on you all right.

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Speaker 2: By the way, God, we got to start doing that

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Speaker 2: the women. Man, start calling women brokers. Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: When women is in the club and they like, yo,

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Speaker 2: I'm here with my girl and my other two girls,

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Speaker 2: we all want to drink, be like, damn for brokey's.

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Speaker 1: Start shaming these women for not.

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Speaker 19: Work for certain women. Because you call certain like my friends,

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Speaker 19: you call them brokes. They probably gonna order some bottles

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Speaker 19: for you, Like, don't play with it.

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Speaker 1: But that's good. They're not broke.

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Speaker 2: We not.

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Speaker 19: But I'm saying, but it might not be hores either.

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Speaker 19: And you calling them horse.

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Speaker 1: Horses just a figure to speaking is literal. Brokes is literal. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you broke.

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Speaker 19: I know you broke, and it's fine, all right, because

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Speaker 19: she need a drink at the But.

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Speaker 2: I want men to start doing the women been done

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Speaker 2: to us for years.

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Speaker 1: You remember, no scrubs we do. Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: So let's start calling women broki's and let's start telling

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Speaker 2: on these women that's out here cheating on their husbands

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Speaker 2: and their boyfriends today.

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Speaker 19: Yeah, you your wife is amazing.

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Speaker 12: Why are you so upset?

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Speaker 1: My wife?

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Speaker 19: But where does this anger?

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Speaker 1: We are trying to clean the world. Broke Horse Times,

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Cloked morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 5: Bell Air is back for a final season on Peacock

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Speaker 5: and in the end it's all love. Will and Carlton

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Speaker 5: start senior year and the rest of the fan faced

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Speaker 5: new chapters of their own stream belt in now.

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Speaker 1: Only on p this morning, everybody in DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamage,

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Speaker 1: the God we are the Breakfast Club. We got a

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Speaker 1: special guest in the building. Yes, indeed were having Nicole

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Speaker 1: Bell welcome.

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Speaker 24: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Are you killing this morning?

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Speaker 24: I'm feeling great, glad to be here.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely got a new movie after Shocked and the Cole

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Speaker 2: Pete Bell Story. What you be in theaters November twenty

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Speaker 2: eight when you decided to tell this story through film?

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Speaker 2: What truth did you feel America still didn't understand about

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Speaker 2: what happened to Sean.

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Speaker 24: I think America doesn't understand what the families really go

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Speaker 24: through behind the scenes. For me, I was twenty two

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Speaker 24: years old, Sean was only twenty three when he was killed,

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Speaker 24: and we had two small daughters. My daughters at the

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Speaker 24: time were baby girls. So going through the years of

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Speaker 24: fighting for justice the levels of government, state, trial, federal investigation,

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Speaker 24: departmental hearings, civil and then reforms. Fighting for reforms that

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Speaker 24: takes a toll. And as a twenty two year old

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Speaker 24: young woman, surrounded by the nation who supported us, my family,

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Speaker 24: the community, it was that's what really empowered me to

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Speaker 24: move forward. And what I think a lot of people

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Speaker 24: need to understand is that many people want to tell

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Speaker 24: their stories. People want their stories heard, and we don't

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Speaker 24: really know how what outlet but I'm blessed to get

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Speaker 24: a chance to meet people like Manny and give us

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Speaker 24: the opportunity to put this real life story now on

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Speaker 24: screens for people to see and see what really happened

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Speaker 24: behind the scenes.

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Speaker 5: If you don't mind, I want to go back a

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Speaker 5: little bit. Yeah, if you don't mind. And the reason

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Speaker 5: being is after watching a movie. I'm from Queens, so

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Speaker 5: you lived it, but you just forget right with everything

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Speaker 5: going on in the world. You forget the ends, the

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Speaker 5: outs and the details and you just assume right like

680
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 5: I'm not even gonna lie. I forgot the cops gotta

681
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 5: quit it, like you forget so many things.

682
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Speaker 1: So hell loo, it's been over twenty year.

683
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 24: So this year, this tomorrow makes nineteen years.

684
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 5: So for people that don't know the Sean Bell story,

685
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 5: just break it down a little bit. You guys were

686
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 5: high school sweethearts. Yeah, you were about to get married

687
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 5: and I'll let you go.

688
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:18,360
Speaker 12: So yes.

689
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 24: So, Sewn and I both went to John Adams High

690
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 24: School in Ozone Park, Queens. We're from Queen's South Side, Jamaica, Queens.

691
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 24: So we met there. Sean played baseball, we met, we

692
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 24: dated just like everyone else. After school, Sean went on

693
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 24: too Nasville Community College. He played baseball for a little there.

694
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 24: When I graduated, we kind of went straight into building

695
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 24: a family. I was a young mom and after the

696
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 24: birth of my second daughter, Sean had surprised me with

697
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 24: a ring and it was Christmas Day, all the family,

698
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 24: we were all together sitting by the tree. He had

699
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 24: a yeah, giving me a shoe box, right, and I thought, oh,

700
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 24: it's a it was another pair of shoes because he

701
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 24: had bought me shoes before. I didn't really like the

702
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 24: shoes that he brought me last time, but he bought

703
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 24: me these shoes and I was like, Okay, we got

704
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 24: another pair of shoes coming. I opened up the shoe box.

705
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 24: Inside the shoe box was a watchbox. I was like, oh, surprise,

706
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 24: I got to watch open up the watchbox and the

707
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 24: watchbox was a ring box. And that was the day that,

708
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 24: you know, we decided to get married. So we hadn't

709
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 24: made any plans. Maybe about a year or so had passed,

710
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:32,439
Speaker 24: and then at that point our daughters were Jada was

711
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 24: three and a half almost four, and Jordan was just born,

712
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 24: so she was about five months old. So sometime in

713
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 24: November of six early November, he had sat me down.

714
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 24: He's like, one day he came home, He's like, hey, come,

715
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 24: let's sit down and talk. We were living in far

716
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 24: Rockaway at the time, and I was kind of nervous,

717
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 24: not sure what he wanted to talk about, because he

718
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 24: wasn't to come sit down and talk to me, the

719
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 24: type of person it was just like he would say

720
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 24: what it is. But he had talked to his mom,

721
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 24: he had talked to my mom, he had talked to

722
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 24: the pastors, and he had planned the wedding. My best

723
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 24: friends knew, and I was just shocked that I didn't know. No,

724
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 24: I hadn't find out, you know. I was kind of

725
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 24: feeling like, how could y'all keep the secret for me?

726
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: That's one of the most stressful things ever play.

727
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 24: Ad what And he had it, he had the church,

728
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 24: he had The only thing he couldn't do was get

729
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 24: my dress. And that's what my best friend told me.

730
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 24: His mother told me, like, he was like, you cannot

731
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 24: buy her dress for her, y'all. He gotta let her

732
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 24: pick out her dress. So that time, that point in

733
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 24: my life, it was really the happiest point in my life.

734
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 24: And it was two weeks before the due date, so

735
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Speaker 24: we had celebrated November twenty third as our anniversary, and

736
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 24: he was like, we're gonna do it on the twenty fifth.

737
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,239
Speaker 24: It was the weekend the family's gonna fly in. I mean,

738
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 24: they had everything together and I went then. So the

739
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 24: eve of the twenty fourth, I went for my bachelorrete

740
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 24: party my mom's house. We did like a little small

741
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 24: intimate bridal shower, and then he went out with some

742
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 24: of the guys from the neighborhood. My brother in law

743
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 24: was there and his father museum And at some point

744
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 24: during the night I got a call it was early morning,

745
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 24: like four am at this point on the wedding day,

746
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 24: that something happened and we needed to get to the hospital.

747
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 5: Now, when that happened, breakdown, because the police tried to lie, right,

748
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 5: It was so many different stories, and like I said,

749
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 5: after watching the movie, you go down this rabbit hole

750
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 5: of google, right, and then you start remembering all the

751
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 5: lies that they did and just trying to break his

752
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 5: character and all that without going too much because some

753
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 5: of it's in the movie, some of it's not. Breakdown

754
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 5: how the family took that, because hey, you got a

755
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 5: young man that did everything right, he went to school,

756
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 5: he got his degree, he was working, he had a

757
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 5: couple of jobs, but now you got the city or

758
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 5: the police officers trying to break his spirit. So how

759
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 5: did the family feel during that time?

760
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 24: It was devastating. It was devastating for his parents. It

761
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 24: was devastating for me. I had to kind of like

762
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 24: isolate myself from like things like social media and I

763
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 24: couldn't read the comments things like that. It was just

764
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 24: kind of getting out of hand. But it was completely

765
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 24: devastating me because we were like just in shock, you know,

766
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 24: and a lot of pain mentally. And then there were

767
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 24: stories coming out like the fourth Man is a fourth man.

768
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,959
Speaker 24: They came out right away with that one, and then

769
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 24: it disappeared right away. It went away, and there was

770
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 24: just a whole smear campaign. And I had come to

771
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 24: find out, just by my attorneys and the leaders like

772
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,239
Speaker 24: Reverend Sharkton and people who are around me, like this

773
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 24: is what happens when and people are killed by police

774
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 24: officers every day.

775
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 5: Which is crazy because you couldn't even grieve. I'm sitting

776
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 5: there and you try and to grieve. You have these

777
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 5: young kids, but then you're trying to protect the name,

778
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 5: and it's like could you even been grieve during that time.

779
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 24: So I went straight into getting active and so the

780
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 24: next day we went to a rally. Day after that,

781
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 24: you know, we did a march, and then after the funeral,

782
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 24: it was just like, now it's time to you know,

783
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 24: let people know, shine of light on exactly what's happening.

784
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 24: So no, grieving didn't happen right away, and I would

785
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 24: go home and cry, you know, I'd come out and

786
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,959
Speaker 24: you know, make it, you know, look as good as

787
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 24: it needs to be. But behind the scenes, I was

788
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 24: a mess. You know, I was a wreck. And my

789
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 24: family really formed like this barrier around me to protect

790
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 24: me and help me with the girls. They were so young,

791
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 24: and that was really that was the whole program. From

792
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 24: that point on. Everywhere I went, I was kind of

793
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 24: surrounded by somebody who was from the family or someone

794
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 24: who was there to kind of, you know, act as like,

795
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 24: all right, if I have to step in help, you know,

796
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 24: we're going to do that. But I tell people all

797
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 24: the time, you know, like there's no specific order in

798
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 24: which you grieve. You know. For me going through this

799
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 24: film and also working on a book, it brings back

800
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 24: every thought, every memory. There's been times when, even recently

801
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 24: I've lost sleep and I had to get back into therapy,

802
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 24: you know, and speak to a therapist. But I'm so grieving.

803
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 24: I mean, you got to grieve and keep it moving.

804
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 24: And that's really what that's what it was about. Back then.

805
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: We got more with Nicle Bell. When we come back,

806
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning.

807
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 5: Everybody is j Envy, Jess HILARI is Charlamagne the God.

808
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 5: We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with

809
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 5: Nicole Bell. Nicole Bell, who is Sewan Bell's wife, has

810
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 5: a movie coming out this Friday called After Shock bew

811
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 5: Sean Bell was shot fifty times, shot at fifty times.

812
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 5: He was killed by police officers as he was leaving

813
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 5: his bachelor party. He was supposed to get married the

814
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 5: next day and he was killed.

815
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,959
Speaker 2: Charlomagne, how did your understanding of grief change over the years,

816
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: Like once the cameras disappeared and life just kept moving.

817
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 24: Yeah, yeah, so you know it's like we're living this,

818
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 24: you know, once the cameras leave and the smoke clears,

819
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 24: this is still my life. This is still and I

820
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 24: still have to find a way to take care of

821
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 24: my daughters. I still have to find a way to work.

822
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 24: I still have to find a way to you know,

823
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 24: keep his memory alive and do all these things at

824
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 24: the same time. So, I mean my understanding of it was,

825
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 24: you know, we just got to keep it moving. I

826
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 24: have to keep going forward, Like I don't know where

827
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 24: this is going, but I know I'm going to keep

828
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 24: pushing forward, and I know eventually we'll get somewhere. And

829
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 24: that's all it was for me, is just keep going,

830
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 24: like I can't think about what's going to happen next month,

831
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 24: but I'm going to take it one day at a time.

832
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 24: And that's really what it's about. It's just pushing forward.

833
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 2: What's something people assume gets easier with time but actually

834
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: becoming more difficult.

835
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Speaker 24: I think even this, you know, this conversation here, Yeah,

836
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 24: I think people think you know that, hey, you know,

837
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 24: maybe you're far removed from it by now, but it's

838
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 24: it's an ongoing thing. Like I just recently, I was

839
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 24: on the phone with my therapist just bawling, you know,

840
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 24: like you know, we everyone you know thinks of this

841
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 24: whole term like you know, being strong and you know,

842
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 24: but this so many ways to look at, you know,

843
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 24: how what that means, and so we get blinded by it,

844
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 24: like I have to be strong. I have to be strong.

845
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 24: But strong is like just one day strong might be

846
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 24: just getting out of bed one day. The next day

847
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 24: strong might be sitting here on a radio station. It

848
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 24: looks different. And to me, that's the way I identify

849
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 24: what like moving forward is and how grief works. There's

850
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 24: no specific order in which that happens and how it comes.

851
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 24: So I mean, and then my daughters, you know, I

852
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 24: can't be far removed from it because my girls are

853
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 24: every day, you know, a part of him. And my

854
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 24: daughters they deal with it in different ways, you know,

855
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 24: from when they were younger, and you know till now.

856
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 5: Now, how was that raising those young those young queens,

857
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 5: because I remember when it happened, right, my dad, who

858
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 5: was a retired police officer.

859
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: Did not want me out right. He already didn't want

860
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 1: me out right.

861
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 25: You know.

862
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 5: It was always like you got to come home, you

863
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 5: got to drive, and the streets during that time was

864
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 5: real dangerous. So I could imagine the anxiety of every

865
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 5: day your daughter just wanting to leave, to go anywhere.

866
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: So how was that?

867
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 24: Absolutely? I mean, there were talks that you know, if

868
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 24: there's ever you know, if you're ever approached, you know

869
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 24: by a police officer, like, remain calm, just you know,

870
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 24: let me handle that. You know, you get as much

871
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 24: information as you can and let me handle that. But

872
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,919
Speaker 24: it was terrifying for one, but not just for them,

873
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 24: you know, for for anyone I loved. You know, I

874
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 24: was worried about my dad. I was worried about you know,

875
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 24: my brother in laws, the men in my life. You know,

876
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 24: just not sure about what's going to happen. But it

877
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 24: was bad back then, and people who supported us were targeted,

878
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 24: you know after, you know, for supporting us. I learned

879
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 24: that from you know, elected officials. I learned that from

880
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 24: artists who support us. And it was bad. It was

881
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 24: really bad, and that was so important. That's why it

882
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 24: was so important for me to show people the human side,

883
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 24: like this is who we are, this is who he was,

884
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 24: and this is the family and that's still what it

885
00:36:59,160 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 24: is even till this.

886
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 2: Let's stay therefore saying what parts of Sean's life and

887
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 2: character did you want this film to reclaim from like all.

888
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 1: The media natives.

889
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 24: So I need people just to know that, you know,

890
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 24: Sean was just like you know, you and you DJ

891
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 24: Mby Like he was a person who like loved his woman,

892
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 24: he loved his family, He loved his mom, his dad.

893
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 24: He wasn't a person who had many close friends. He

894
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 24: the friends that he was very selective about who he

895
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 24: considered his friends and the ones who were, you know,

896
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 24: his friends. He would take care of him. On his

897
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 24: bachelor party night, he was driving his friends, like he

898
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 24: was driving the guys from the neighborhood in my car.

899
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 24: So this is who Sean was. He wasn't you know,

900
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 24: a person that's like, you know, just not you know,

901
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 24: or I guess what the narrative was being pushed out

902
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 24: at some points. If it wasn't for the family, and

903
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 24: if it wasn't for like the advocates and everyone who

904
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 24: stood up, like, I don't know what the image would

905
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 24: have been. But for us, it was important to just

906
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 24: show people who he was, like, this is who he is.

907
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 24: He worked, he had jobs, you know, he he loved

908
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 24: to surprise me, like he had planned a surprise wedding

909
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 24: all by himself and pulled in the family. This is

910
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 24: who he was. This was the guy was, and it

911
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,479
Speaker 24: was just made into this big, you know thing because

912
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 24: there were fifty shots fired by the police officers. That's

913
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 24: really at the bottom line, that's what it was. It

914
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 24: was the fifty shots that were fired by the police

915
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 24: officers on our wedding day, and that was how big

916
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 24: it was. That was that was what made it like sensationalized.

917
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 24: But Sean was just like you and me, Like he

918
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 24: was just like any other person. It was nothing any different,

919
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 24: and he was human like he was a human. He

920
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 24: wasn't just a hashtag. He wasn't just a name. You know,

921
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 24: that's you know, it's not just a headline. It's a

922
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 24: family behind us, and it's a family was grieving.

923
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: What made you come up with the title after shot?

924
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 24: That's production. I don't think. I don't really care about it.

925
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just found an interesting like you know why,

926
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 2: I want to know why was it important for you

927
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 2: to tell that story, like the year's long impact of

928
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 2: the trauma, because I think that's something that people don't

929
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 2: think about.

930
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 24: Yeah, well that that itself, absolutely that is a thing

931
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 24: and that was part of the reason why I wanted

932
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 24: to push forward with the project is because I think

933
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 24: the movie shows a timeframe of like six to twenty

934
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 24: twenty one, and that's a huge part of my life,

935
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 24: you know, And it's like it's it's almost two decades

936
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 24: that we're talking about of trying to keep his memory alive.

937
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 24: But these families have gone through every day. Like there's

938
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 24: so many families like mine, and I know them, and

939
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 24: I just hope that this project will like encourage other

940
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 24: families to tell your stories. There's other ways that we

941
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 24: can get the word out. There's other ways that we

942
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 24: can show people like we we didn't receive the justice

943
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 24: that we were looking for, and really accountability would have

944
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 24: been that in this case, I mean, justice would have

945
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 24: been him still being here. But accountability is what we

946
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 24: were looking for. So this is us holding them accountable.

947
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 5: I wanted to know, like when they were when they

948
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 5: were acquitted, did any of those officers apologize?

949
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 24: There was a public statement that was issued. It wasn't

950
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 24: really directed towards me in the during the court room,

951
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 24: it was very like blatant that you know, they weren't

952
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 24: willing to apologize. After they were acquitted, there was like

953
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 24: a public statement at their press conference, but that was it.

954
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 24: It was nothing personal.

955
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 1: Do we know what happened to those offices? Did they

956
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: lose their jobs? Do we know did they get shipped

957
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 1: to another precinct. Do we know at all or not?

958
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 24: So the the officer who followed who fired their initial shots,

959
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 24: he was terminated. The rest of them, I believe they

960
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 24: were allowed to retire with benefits.

961
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 6: Wow.

962
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 24: Yeah, So I don't know where their life is at

963
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 24: this point, and you know, really, I just hope that

964
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 24: they understand like the weight of what they left behind

965
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 24: and what their actions did that night, and how generationally

966
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 24: how that affects not just me, not just mister and

967
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 24: missus Bell. But we're now, you know, raising my kids

968
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 24: in that, and I'm just My goal was to make

969
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 24: them strong, make them normal, normal girls, you know who

970
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 24: can blend in. And I'm blessed to be able to

971
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 24: say that's the case today. You know, my oldest daughter,

972
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 24: she's like doing her thing, working and has her own apartment.

973
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 24: Jordan's at Howard University, and they're just independent young women.

974
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 24: And I'm so proud. They're like my best friends. They

975
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 24: keep me strong when I feel weak and vice versa.

976
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: We got more with Nicole Bell when we come back,

977
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.

978
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 5: Good Morning Morning, Everybody's DJ Envy, Jess Hilaris Charlamagne to God,

979
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 5: we are the Breakfast Club.

980
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Nicole Bell.

981
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 5: Nicole Bell, who is Sean Bell's wife, has a movie

982
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 5: coming out this Friday called After Their Shock. Now, Sean

983
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 5: Bell was shot fifty times, shot at fifty times. He

984
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 5: was killed by police officers as he was leaving his

985
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 5: bachelor party. He was supposed to get married the next

986
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 5: day and he was killed. One thing that bothered, especially

987
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 5: the community and queens, was that when it first happened,

988
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 5: people automatically thought there was going to be a bunch

989
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 5: of white cops and it was racist, right right, there

990
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:20,240
Speaker 5: was a bunch of it was I think one white

991
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 5: cop and it was minorities.

992
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, how did that feel?

993
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 5: Because you know, you really want to feel like at

994
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 5: least somebody that looks like me understands, right, how did

995
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 5: that feel during that time?

996
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: And was that a thing back then?

997
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 24: And yeah, that was insane? And I think I even

998
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 24: heard that, you know, people like, well, how did he

999
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 24: know it was cops? They were you know, they were white?

1000
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,879
Speaker 24: Like Okay, guys, y'all got to pay attention to read

1001
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 24: the story. This is not that's not what happened. Because

1002
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,879
Speaker 24: growing up in South Jamaica queens. Like you know about

1003
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 24: stopping first, you see that, You see detectives jumping out

1004
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 24: on people. You see you know, the mark cars. You

1005
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 24: know what the culture was back then.

1006
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:54,919
Speaker 18: So.

1007
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 24: We're all aware of it with hyper Like when he

1008
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 24: arrived at the bachelor parte, he was pulled over by

1009
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 24: blue and white, a marked car. He wasn't even given

1010
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 24: a ticket. I found out this information during a trial.

1011
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 24: I didn't even know that. So when he was parking

1012
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 24: to get to the bachelor party he was pulled over,

1013
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 24: they didn't even give him a ticket. They sad, already

1014
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 24: have a good day. Why'd you stop him? When he

1015
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 24: was leaving, he was encountered by the cop who was

1016
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 24: at the club under you know, investigating the club. So

1017
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 24: it was just the community in itself was policed in

1018
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:30,399
Speaker 24: a way that just wasn't there to protect, you know,

1019
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 24: the people who are from the neighborhood, the people who

1020
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,439
Speaker 24: live here, like we go to school here, we work

1021
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 24: our jobs here in the neighborhood was shot up. There

1022
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 24: were homes that were shot, you know, fifty shots. One

1023
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 24: went into the air train above Edge Maka Station and

1024
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 24: nobody was held accountable for that. And that's really part

1025
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 24: of the reason that fuels me because with all of

1026
00:43:53,480 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 24: that devastation, what was the outcome? And you know, and

1027
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 24: I don't know what's going to come next, but all

1028
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 24: I know is, you know, just it's the same message.

1029
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 24: We're going to keep pushing forward. There are so many

1030
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 24: victims who need to be encouraged to tell their stories,

1031
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:11,760
Speaker 24: and they want to be encouraged to tell their stories.

1032
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 24: They don't they're not sure how. And I just hope that,

1033
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 24: you know, this project makes everybody proud.

1034
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 2: And I want to I want to go back to

1035
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 2: your daughters, like how did you protect your daughter's emotional

1036
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: world while the country was just discussing your family is

1037
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 2: just a political case.

1038
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 24: Yeah, because they were watching Disney and Nickelodeon. They were

1039
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 24: doing what kids do. They were going to dance school,

1040
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 24: they were you know, playing sports. They were not involved

1041
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,879
Speaker 24: in that. And when they were small, I would take

1042
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 24: them to the rallies and stuff. But once they were

1043
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 24: old enough to kind of articulate what's going on, you know,

1044
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 24: would make sure they were either with Grandma or they

1045
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 24: were you know, busy doing something else, and just kept

1046
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 24: them focused on what do you want to do? Like,

1047
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 24: do you what do you want to become We're going

1048
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 24: to make you the you know, the best. You know,

1049
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 24: whatever it is you want to do, hair, you want

1050
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 24: to do, make it. Whatever it is you want to

1051
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 24: become a lawyer, you to be the best at it.

1052
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 24: And I think that's where my with my girls, it

1053
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 24: was just important that I keep them normal, like, you know,

1054
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 24: don't I don't read the comments, So I'm not going

1055
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 24: to introduce them, you know what about now.

1056
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 2: Because when the movie comes out, yeah, it's you know,

1057
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 2: start that whole conversation.

1058
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: All over the world.

1059
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 24: So we we do a lot in private. You know,

1060
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 24: we we are very tight. We are very close. My

1061
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 24: girls are very close to his parents. We keep it,

1062
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,240
Speaker 24: you know, really tight. So we've watched it together in private,

1063
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 24: and my girls had a lot of questions and there

1064
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 24: were things that they didn't even know that after watching it,

1065
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 24: you know, I'll get calls like, hey, mom, what did

1066
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 24: this mean? You know what was that about? And I can,

1067
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 24: you know, just remember being twenty two and losing him

1068
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 24: and thinking like, oh my god, how am I going

1069
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 24: to explain this to them one day? And the one

1070
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,839
Speaker 24: day is here and now I'm here and we're having

1071
00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 24: these deep conversations. But now I'm ready to have the

1072
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 24: conversation because if I had tried to do this nineteen

1073
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 24: years ago, I don't think I would have made it.

1074
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: You didn't. You didn't even have no understanding of it.

1075
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,760
Speaker 24: Absolutely, I did not have an understanding of it. Now,

1076
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 24: even though the grief, you know, is still there and

1077
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 24: I'm working with a therapist and you know, we're we're

1078
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 24: dealing with the reality of it. It is. It's just

1079
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 24: a matter of it being like a story that is

1080
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 24: important to our culture, it's important to our history. And

1081
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 24: long after I'm gone, after Shock is going to be here.

1082
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 24: And that's what my goal is, just to create something

1083
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 24: that will last. And you know, we can, you know,

1084
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 24: we can hope that you know, this will make history.

1085
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: Who stood up for you back then?

1086
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 5: You know, we've seen rever now and we heard about

1087
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 5: Jay z Well, who stood up for the community back

1088
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,439
Speaker 5: then when you needed it the most. Right, you support people,

1089
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 5: You support local people who stood up for you during

1090
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 5: that time.

1091
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 24: Anybody, I mean, during that time, there was like you said, Revernde,

1092
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 24: there was a lot of people at nan National Action

1093
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 24: Network was a big deal. Everyone you know, in my community,

1094
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 24: there were a lot of elect every elected official you

1095
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 24: could think of, like some of my friends now who

1096
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 24: are now in politics, like the Queensborough President Donovan Richards,

1097
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:25,399
Speaker 24: and people like Tamika Mallory from Nan. Yeah. And these

1098
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 24: are the people now, right, who are who've come from

1099
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:32,280
Speaker 24: that Sean Bell era and who marched like under Reverend

1100
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 24: now Sharpton, and now they're the leaders of the time

1101
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 24: and saying, hey, this is what we need to do

1102
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 24: because this is what happened in the past. So those

1103
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 24: are some of the people, I mean even right now,

1104
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 24: like Angela Rye, that's my girl. I could text Angela

1105
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 24: right now and she'll give me some you know, great

1106
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,359
Speaker 24: advice or like hey, Nicole, you need to check this.

1107
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 24: You know my attorney, you know, like female black female attorneys.

1108
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 24: I'm surrounded by wonderful people that I can call when

1109
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 24: I'm in need. And I think back then it was

1110
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,720
Speaker 24: the same, you know, there wasn't much of the female presence.

1111
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 24: It was more of like the politicians. It was like

1112
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 24: the revenue Sharpton. But I think everyone recognized that. That's

1113
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 24: that's why you've had like the Mother's Movement who came out.

1114
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 24: Everyone recognized that, right Sabrina Fulton and Gwen Carr, Eric

1115
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 24: Gardner's mother, like the movements that came from it, because

1116
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 24: it was more of like, this is a political thing,

1117
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 24: and it's like, oh, how is it political? You know,

1118
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 24: we're not politicians, but you know, because of the you know,

1119
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 24: the police officers, they deemed it as political. But I

1120
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 24: think the most magnificent thing of that is that all

1121
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 24: of the lives that were affected back then and all

1122
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 24: the greatness that came from it, all of everyone whose

1123
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 24: lives were affected said hey, you know, because of what

1124
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 24: happened to Sean, that's the reason why I became this

1125
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 24: and that means a lot to me.

1126
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: JV did start of trust fling, right, he did?

1127
00:48:58,760 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 12: Yes, he did.

1128
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,240
Speaker 24: Yeah, college fund for my girls?

1129
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 1: Wow?

1130
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,760
Speaker 24: Yeah that was that was back in eight Yeah.

1131
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 19: Yeah.

1132
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 2: Is there a moment public are private that best represents

1133
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 2: the emotional aftershock of losing Sean?

1134
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 24: Public or private? I think that first ever march that

1135
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 24: happened in six down Fifth Avenue, it was massive, right.

1136
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 24: I didn't even know the gravity of how many people

1137
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 24: were affected by it. I thought it was just us.

1138
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 24: And then that first ever march that I attended down

1139
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 24: Fifth Avenue, it was crazy. I mean, we were ending

1140
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 24: the march miles down and we could see all the

1141
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 24: way back the streets would filled with people. People would outraged,

1142
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 24: They were outraged like it was the family member. And

1143
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 24: I think that's what moved me to say, oh wow,

1144
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 24: I'm not alone here. I felt like I was on

1145
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 24: the island, like there was no one who could ever

1146
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 24: relate to what I had gone through losing him on

1147
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 24: my wedding day in that way. But even though you know,

1148
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 24: these people didn't lose him that way, everyone was affected,

1149
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 24: everyone was outraged, and then still there was no justice.

1150
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 24: And I think that's also a part that defines, you know,

1151
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 24: what we're dealing with here, is that no matter how

1152
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 24: the amount of people, the amount of outrage, the the

1153
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 24: amount of shots, there was still no conviction there. And

1154
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 24: you know what are we gonna do with that?

1155
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 5: We have more with Nicole Bell, Sean Bell's wife. When

1156
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 5: we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.

1157
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: Good Morning Morning.

1158
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 5: Everybody is the DJ, Envy, Jess, Hilarius, Charlamagne, the God.

1159
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with

1160
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: Nicole Bell.

1161
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 5: Nicole Bell, who is Sewn Bell's wife, has a movie

1162
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 5: coming out this Friday called after Shock Now. Sean Bell

1163
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 5: was shot fifty times, shot at fifty times. He was

1164
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,760
Speaker 5: killed by police officers as he was leaving his bachelor party.

1165
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 5: He was supposed to get married the next day and

1166
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 5: he was killed.

1167
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 1: About the tobs, Yeah, I remember you believe in the system.

1168
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: After that, I lost.

1169
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 24: My faith in the system after i'ma be honest with you,

1170
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 24: I really did. And now you see family since then

1171
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 24: who've gone through similar things, and it's the steps that

1172
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 24: we have to take as family members, and you got

1173
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 24: to go through these measures just to get somewhere. And

1174
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 24: it's just like we're walking down the same line. Everyone's

1175
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 24: walking down the same line looking for a different outcome.

1176
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:46,320
Speaker 24: And listen, you know, I sat back and kind of watched,

1177
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 24: you know, families go through this. It's painful for everyone

1178
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,279
Speaker 24: to think, you know, okay, this is it, this is

1179
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 24: the time, and then it's the same outcome. We're just

1180
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 24: watching this whole thing just over and over, just like

1181
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:02,760
Speaker 24: a vicious cycle. And for me, I mean, Zora Neilhurston said,

1182
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 24: if you don't talk about your pain, they'll kill you

1183
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 24: and think and say you enjoyed it. And that's what

1184
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 24: AFTERSHOCKA is about We're talking about our pain here, and

1185
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 24: there's so many people who are in pain and people

1186
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 24: who down the line in future might be in pain.

1187
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,439
Speaker 24: But this is a story for all of us.

1188
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 2: How did advocating for justice reshape your identity as a woman,

1189
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 2: a mother, and a leader?

1190
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:31,479
Speaker 24: How did advocate for justice?

1191
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 11: So?

1192
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 24: I feel that it empowered me. It to fined you

1193
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 24: know who I am. It really helps kind of give

1194
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 24: me that strength to push me forward. I learned a

1195
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 24: lot about myself. I learned a lot about our community.

1196
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 24: But advocacy, it's just a never ending thing. It's not

1197
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 24: something that you can do and turn it off. You know,

1198
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 24: there's always something to advocate for it, there's always something

1199
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 24: that needs change. So I feel that the advocacy in itself,

1200
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 24: it kind of defined me as a woman, and it

1201
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 24: made me feel really like badass.

1202
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 5: Really yeah, I was gonna say, what message did you

1203
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 5: want to send you to the world by forgiven the police

1204
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 5: officers that shot or did you even forgive me?

1205
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 24: I was gonna actually whered you read that. I was

1206
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 24: going to ask you, where did you see that? So

1207
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 24: I don't think I've reached that place because I was

1208
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 24: there and I've witnessed and then in real time how

1209
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 24: they felt and like during the trial, how they would

1210
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,320
Speaker 24: pass notes and make jokes. This was like almost like

1211
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 24: a board game, you know. And we were devastated, you know.

1212
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 24: And it takes a lot to say I am forgiven.

1213
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 24: I have to keep it real with y'all, and I

1214
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 24: have to I have to always keep it real. I

1215
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 24: haven't forgave. I can say I'm at peace, but no,

1216
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 24: I haven't forgiven.

1217
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 5: I'm not a forgiving person either. Certain things I just

1218
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 5: don't understand. And he tried to talk to you too,

1219
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 5: but it's just certain things I just can't forgive.

1220
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: And yeah, it is what it is. If I had

1221
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 1: maybe to that point one day in life.

1222
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:20,240
Speaker 24: If I had maybe picked up a hint of remorse somewhere, maybe,

1223
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 24: but I didn't. So I can't put that on them

1224
00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 24: if that's not how they feel. And that's okay, because

1225
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 24: you know, I'll find my way and my girls will

1226
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 24: be We're gonna you know, we're gonna make it. We're

1227
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:32,919
Speaker 24: gonna be strong. We're gonna support his mom, we're gonna

1228
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 24: support his dad. Like where we're gonna be. You know,

1229
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 24: we're gonna be okay. But as far as forgiveness.

1230
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 1: Now, what therapis told me last week.

1231
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 2: You know, if somebody has done you wrong and you

1232
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 2: feel like they've harmed you, it is perfectly healthy to say.

1233
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 12: And that's it.

1234
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: I love that therapist. No, that's how I feel.

1235
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 2: That's an emotion, that's your feeling. Who is who are

1236
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 2: you now compared to who you were before? November twenty fifth,

1237
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 2: two thousand.

1238
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 24: Oh man, who am I now compared to? I mean,

1239
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 24: right now, it's.

1240
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 6: Wow.

1241
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 24: I mean I don't know if I could find the

1242
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 24: words for it, but I think there's really I feel unstoppable.

1243
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 24: I'm gonna be honest with you. I feel like this

1244
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 24: is something that has prepared me for a life I

1245
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 24: never had planned. I was just looking forward to getting

1246
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 24: married to Sean and you know, the love that we

1247
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 24: have for each other, the love he had for our girls,

1248
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 24: that's really what fueled me. And when they took that

1249
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 24: from me, it was if it was extremely personal, you

1250
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 24: know that they did this, and it kind of made

1251
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 24: me look at you know, life differently, absolutely look at

1252
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 24: life differently, cherishing you know, our loved ones, loving on

1253
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:57,879
Speaker 24: everybody around you, appreciating life like I'm not a person

1254
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 24: who complains a lot. I'm not a person who takes

1255
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 24: things for granted. I found the greatness in everything and

1256
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 24: losing Sean, the struggle that we had, all of that

1257
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 24: has made me this person.

1258
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 1: Now, why and when did you decide to do this movie? Like?

1259
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 1: What was the thing that?

1260
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 25: Like?

1261
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: It's time now?

1262
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 24: So I met Mannie Hallie back in twenty seventeen and

1263
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 24: I had a conversation with him that he had My

1264
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 24: mom was with me. Let me rewind a little bit,

1265
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 24: so my mom was with me. My mom was like,

1266
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 24: you know, she's my biggest champion. So she was like, okay,

1267
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 24: this is this the director? Oh hey, you ever thought

1268
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,280
Speaker 24: about doing a movie about Nicole? A movie about Sean?

1269
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:42,839
Speaker 24: We went to a premiere, one of his premiere. Sorry

1270
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 24: I forgot to leave that got to say that. So

1271
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 24: we met Manny. My mom was like, you know on him, like, hey,

1272
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 24: you know, you ever thought about doing this? And was

1273
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 24: like you know, maybe you know, I don't think he

1274
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 24: really knew who we were or whatever. But down the

1275
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 24: line we had more conversations. We talked a little bit more,

1276
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 24: and then production kind of came up with an idea

1277
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 24: of like, Okay, how can we do this? Let's figure

1278
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:06,720
Speaker 24: out how to the best way to make this happen.

1279
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 24: For me, it was always about telling a story. You know,

1280
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:11,879
Speaker 24: I don't know about the creativity side of it. That's

1281
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 24: not I'm not in entertainment, that's not my field. But

1282
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 24: I have a story and it's a story that affected

1283
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 24: a lot of people, and it's a story that's gonna

1284
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 24: change lives. And if there's a way that we can

1285
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 24: get this out there, let's do it. So as far

1286
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 24: as a timeframe, I feel like the best time is now,

1287
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 24: not only because of what we're going through in the community,

1288
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 24: but just because me personally mentally, I wasn't in a

1289
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 24: space to be able to make a movie. Years ago.

1290
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 24: I was raising two little girls, I was mourning, going

1291
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 24: through depression PTSD. I couldn't do a movie. How could

1292
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 24: I find the time? So now it's been almost twenty years,

1293
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 24: I'm able to talk about this without the tears. I'm

1294
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 24: able to, you know, find the therapy. I'm able to

1295
00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 24: talk to my girls and mentor them, and they're in

1296
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 24: and women exactly.

1297
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: You know.

1298
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 24: What I pray for. Now's the time. It's no better

1299
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 24: time than do it right now.

1300
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 2: How can people honor Sean's story in a way that

1301
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 2: leads to action, not just.

1302
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 24: Them, so in a way that leads to action. So

1303
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 24: we need we need everyone to one go out and

1304
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 24: vote for your local elections and your local elections, like

1305
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 24: do what you can do your part, you know, personally,

1306
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 24: this is you know, something that we all have to

1307
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 24: continue to to shine the light on, you know, whether

1308
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 24: it's his story or it's you know, an injustice that

1309
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 24: you know of in your area. Like, let's support each other,

1310
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 24: join an organization. If you don't see an organization that

1311
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 24: that resonates with you, start an organization. There are many

1312
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 24: things that you can do to advocate and it doesn't

1313
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 24: always have to be just in Shawn's name, but get

1314
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 24: be a part of some kind of movement. Get out there,

1315
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 24: be a part of a movement. And you know, for us,

1316
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 24: there there aren't any more legal you know measures that

1317
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Speaker 24: I can take of exhulst those So this is the

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Speaker 24: next step for me, and I want everybody to get

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Speaker 24: out there and go see it, you know, and tell

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Speaker 24: the story, pass the story along, and we're gonna be

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Speaker 24: at colleges, you know, we're gonna we're gonna share the

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Speaker 24: story with the next generation who doesn't know Sean hasn't

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Speaker 24: heard about this story. And that's really it.

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00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 2: And if you Awers walk away with just one lesson

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00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 2: from after shock, what do you hope it is?

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Speaker 24: One lesson for after shock is that you cannot let

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Speaker 24: life like take you out. There are things that's going

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Speaker 24: to happen, and you have to find your way, find

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Speaker 24: your way to make it through. Endurance Resilience is life like.

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Speaker 24: We're all going to get knocked down at some point,

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Speaker 24: right and it may not be to this magnitude, and

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Speaker 24: I pray it's not to this magnitude. But life is

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Speaker 24: gonna come at you and you have to find your way,

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Speaker 24: whatever your way is, to get over it. And to

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Speaker 24: when I say get over it, I mean to get

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Speaker 24: over the ump, not to get you know, not to

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Speaker 24: move out of the way, but to get over that

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Speaker 24: hump and push through and and support your people like

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Speaker 24: you know, this is we need that support. I'm I'm

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Speaker 24: thankful for people like many you know, and his team

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Speaker 24: who are not you know, affiliated with any type of

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Speaker 24: justice you know, organizations or anything, but he said, hey,

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Speaker 24: this is something that's important and we want to get

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Speaker 24: behind you on this. And I'm just really thankful for that,

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Speaker 24: and I think everyone needs to find you know, whatever

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Speaker 24: your source is, what is your source, and and just

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Speaker 24: feed that and keep going and don't give up.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely well, definitely check it out this Friday after shock

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Speaker 5: and Nicole pe bell story and thank you for sharing

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Speaker 5: your story.

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Speaker 24: Thank you, but it's tough.

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Speaker 1: Definitely always sending your healing energy.

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Speaker 5: And Manny, you too. I'm always praying me and my

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Speaker 5: wife is always praying for you, Manny. So we love

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Speaker 5: you and thank you so much for sharing it again.

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Speaker 5: If y'all need anything, please let us know and thank

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Speaker 5: you so much.

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Speaker 24: Lists everywhere AMC Theaters is select AMC theaters nationwide, so

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Speaker 24: if you go on fandangle dot com you'll see it airs.

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Speaker 24: It releases November twenty eighth, and then on digital as

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Speaker 24: of December fifteenth.

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Speaker 1: All right, Nicole Bell, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: you're checking out The Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 5: Bella is back for a final season on Peacock and

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Speaker 5: in the end it's all love. Will and Carlton start

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Speaker 5: senior year and the rest of the fan face new

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Speaker 5: chapters of their own stream Belt air now only on Peacock.

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Speaker 1: Charlotte Maage some Donkey to Day's just shimself. I've been

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Speaker 1: watching Charlotte Man, I was ready for day. I never

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Speaker 1: heard on Donkey other Day.

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Speaker 13: What is it?

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Speaker 1: Say it again, Arla, Yes you are. That's Charlotte Lane

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Speaker 1: the same. It's true.

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Speaker 2: You know, Donkey to Day goes to a woman from

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Speaker 2: Minnesota named Veronica Gas. Now, if you know anything about

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Speaker 2: your uncle Charlott, and you know I got a few

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Speaker 2: screws loose, you.

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Speaker 1: Also know that, yes, shut up. You also know that

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Speaker 1: I'm a big proponent of doing everything I have to

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Speaker 1: do in order to get those screws tightened. Okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm a huge mental health advocate. Yes, I encourage people,

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Speaker 2: especially black men, to go to therapy. Are just to

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Speaker 2: get on some type of healing journey.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: One form of therapy that is great for those of

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Speaker 2: us in relationships is couples therapy. Dropping the clues bombs

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Speaker 2: for couple therapy. Okay, what is couple's therapy exactly?

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Speaker 1: It's simple.

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Speaker 2: Couple therapy is a form of psychotherapy that can help

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Speaker 2: you and your partner improve your relationship.

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Speaker 1: All right, If you are.

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Speaker 2: Having relationship difficulties, you can see couples therapy to help

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Speaker 2: rebuild your relationship. Psychologists say couples therapy you can address

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Speaker 2: a wide range of relationship issues, including recurring conflicts, feelings

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Speaker 2: of disconnection, and a fair issues related to sex.

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Speaker 1: Are just difficulties. Do to stress. Okay.

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Speaker 2: If you and your partner are going through a rough patch,

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Speaker 2: couple's therapy can help you work on your relationship. Your

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Speaker 2: therapist can help you express your feeling, discuss issues with

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Speaker 2: your partner, and resolve conflicts.

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Speaker 1: All right, couples therapy, it's good, all right.

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Speaker 2: It can help increase understanding and respect, affection and intimacy

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Speaker 2: between you and your partner.

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Speaker 1: Which can help you be happier together.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying this for those who don't know, because

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Speaker 2: a lot of times we hear the phrase couple's therapy

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Speaker 2: but don't know what it is. Okay, It's more than

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Speaker 2: just you and your significant other getting up and going

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Speaker 2: to see the lady.

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Speaker 1: Okay. They also got the same types of couple's therapy

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Speaker 1: that you can get in.

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Speaker 2: One on one sessions like CBT, right, cognitive behavioral therapy,

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Speaker 2: emotionally focused therapy. So I'm all for it, Okay. I

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Speaker 2: believe that it can be a major key to a

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Speaker 2: healthy relationship. Hell as I talk, I'm like, shoot, why

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Speaker 2: not go do a couple sessions with the wife my

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Speaker 2: damn self. Not because anything is wrong, but because we

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Speaker 2: want to everything to keep going right.

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Speaker 1: Okay. It's like, don't wait until the doctor tells you

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Speaker 1: that you're sick to change your diet.

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Speaker 2: Don't wait until you look down and can no longer

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Speaker 2: see your penis to start working out. Let's do preventive

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01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 2: maintenance now. Okay, you know, because you know you might

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Speaker 2: get to a point where it's a little too late. Right,

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01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 2: this happens in real life. You stop drinking when you're living,

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01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,160
Speaker 2: has already done. Some people are obese, and you know

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01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 2: they have the massive heart attack and died too late

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Speaker 2: to start eating, eating right and exercise and then and

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Speaker 2: that's what I feel happened in the case of Veronica Gas. Okay,

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Speaker 2: see Veronica and her boyfriend, they were off to see

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Speaker 2: the wizard. By wizard, I mean therapists. Okay, they were

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Speaker 2: on the way the couple's therapy, and they had an

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Speaker 2: argument that morning, and I'm gonna tell you right now,

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Speaker 2: I'm about to gas. Like you, this is another example

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Speaker 2: of why women are the problem. See this man wanted

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Speaker 2: to go see the lady with his woman, Veronica. He

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Speaker 2: was trying to make it work. She's arguing with him.

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Speaker 1: In the morning.

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Speaker 2: They are on the way to go see the wizard.

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Speaker 2: They are on the way to couple's therapy. I'm not

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Speaker 2: making this up. They're on the way to see the wizard.

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Speaker 2: Veronica stops in the middle of the lane and forced

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Speaker 2: her boyfriend to exit the car because she decided right

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Speaker 2: there and there, she didn't even want to go see

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Speaker 2: the lady.

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Speaker 1: She just wanted to break up with him, so he

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Speaker 1: did as asked.

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Speaker 2: He got out the car, and when he got out

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01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 2: the car and passed the front of the car to

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Speaker 2: walk to the sidewalk, the pair made eye contact.

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Speaker 1: So guess what she decided to do. Hit him, Hit

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Speaker 1: the damn gas, hit the gas, and then hit him.

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Speaker 25: Came.

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Speaker 1: They was just arguing and she decided she wanted to

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Speaker 1: break up, so she asked me to get out the car,

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Speaker 1: so he got out the car.

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Speaker 19: The arguments then from somewhere though.

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Speaker 1: See victim blaming. You see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 19: I'm an investigative journalist trying to get to the bottom

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Speaker 19: of it all.

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Speaker 1: I hear is victim blaming.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the man rolled over the hood of the car

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Speaker 2: and shattered the window, and then hold on it gets

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Speaker 2: worse for it. Veronica lies the police and tells police

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Speaker 2: she didn't see her boyfriend, but then eventually admitted to police.

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Speaker 1: That she hit him on purpose. Damn, mind you, they

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Speaker 1: only been together for a year. They was shocking up.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Now, you got your mouth open. Now you're

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Speaker 1: on the man.

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Speaker 19: I can't believe that you said only a year. That's

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Speaker 19: twelve months of her life.

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Speaker 1: How old is she? Thirty?

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Speaker 19: He tried to take the best years of her thirties.

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Speaker 2: They were shocking up, living together for a year, and

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Speaker 2: they already in therapy and she already tried to kill him.

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Speaker 2: Now she facing second degree assault, criminal vehicular operation, bodily harm,

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Speaker 2: gross negligence, and domestic assault. All that for a year relationship.

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Speaker 2: I mean, damn, is that even enough time to really

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Speaker 2: ruin a woman's pH balance? Now, I'm not the highest

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Speaker 2: grade of weed in the dispensary, but I've been around

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Speaker 2: long enough to know that Ayana couldn't fix this life. Okay,

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01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 2: this man was in a relationship with a toxic crusader. Okay,

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Speaker 2: if y'all in therapy. She tried to kill you already

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Speaker 2: and it's only been a year, then you shouldn't be

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Speaker 2: going to therapy. You should be packing your stuff up

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Speaker 2: and going home, or if she's living with you, send

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Speaker 2: her home. Either way, y'all shouldn't be living with each other.

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01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 2: Because if you're in a relationship and all you do

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01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 2: is cry, you need to stop and ask yourself are

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Speaker 2: you dating a human or an onion?

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Speaker 1: Okay, now I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna close with this. Couple's therapy won't work if you

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Speaker 2: haven't addressed.

1494
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 1: Your individual issues.

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01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 2: Sometimes individual issues can overshadow relationship problems. Okay, unresolved trauma,

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Speaker 2: personal mental health issues, addiction, and you know, daddy issues,

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01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 2: mommy issues. They can and will have a huge impact

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Speaker 2: on a partnership, and couple's therapy will be less effective

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01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 2: if these underlying issues are not addressed. The reason couple's

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Speaker 2: therapy wouldn't have worked for Veronica and her Man is simple.

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01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 2: It's because Veronica actually needed an exorcism. Please give Veronica

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Speaker 2: gas the sweet sounds of the Hamiltons. Oh oh.

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Speaker 1: Ye, poor poor poor man.

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Speaker 19: I feel him.

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Speaker 1: Oh now you feel bad for him after you just

1506
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:47,919
Speaker 1: said what did he do after for you to Kate?

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01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 19: No, I feel bad for him because he got paid

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01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 19: for that one shield.

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01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 19: Because why are they arguing? What was arguing about?

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01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: Because it matter? She ran him over with a completely

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Speaker 1: something she did?

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Speaker 19: How do you know that? Though? How can you just

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01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 19: imply that, all.

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01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 1: Right, we want to play a game. Yes, let's play

1516
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:06,720
Speaker 1: a game up?

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01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 11: Yes?

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01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 1: What rac.

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01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 2: All right?

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01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 1: A woman from Minnesota from a town called Ottertail otter Town, Okay.

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01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 2: She was arrested after she struck her boyfriend with her

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01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 2: car water pair was on their way to couple's therapy.

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01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 1: Dj MV. Guess what, Racos.

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Speaker 5: It's a tough one. The reason I'm thinking it's tough

1525
01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 5: because Lauren said.

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Speaker 1: This is what she would do.

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Speaker 19: I didn't say that. I just feel for my city.

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01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:37,160
Speaker 1: But she's from Delaware. She's from Delaware. Always keep that

1529
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:40,520
Speaker 1: in mind when Delaware address whoa whoa white?

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Speaker 25: White?

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01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 2: Lauren Larossa, a woman was arrested Veronica after she struck

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Speaker 2: her boyfriend with her car.

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Speaker 1: Water pair was on their way to couple's therapy. Laura Lorosa, Yes,

1534
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 1: what race is?

1535
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 19: At first I was thinking maybe she's Puerto Rican white?

1536
01:08:57,120 --> 01:08:57,599
Speaker 1: Puerto Rican?

1537
01:08:57,920 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 9: I don't know.

1538
01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 19: It just seemed to be like she reacted really fastly, extensively,

1539
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 19: like you know what.

1540
01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 14: I mean, like Latino glad to know you feel about

1541
01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 14: Porto Rican from the in the Bronx, she's an ottertail Minnesota.

1542
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 19: You said, yes, I stayed there as a flight attendant.

1543
01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:15,200
Speaker 19: I don't know. I feel like not outer tail, but

1544
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 19: in Minnesota. I feel like she could be a sister,

1545
01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 19: just maybe a little like blad.

1546
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:25,439
Speaker 1: Light skin wild, light skin. She what was on your mind? Lord,

1547
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: don't stut it.

1548
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 8: Go like this?

1549
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 19: She called her feelings real fasting light skin like this,

1550
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 19: and feelings toxic because he toxic. He went thro trolling

1551
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:38,560
Speaker 19: me in the comments.

1552
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:42,280
Speaker 1: And against the light skin, which is black.

1553
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 19: You don't feel like there's an emotional difference between the

1554
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 19: two of y'all.

1555
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 1: Know, I just get called that on mine.

1556
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:50,640
Speaker 19: Okay, all right, well I'm just you know that's how

1557
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 19: I feel.

1558
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 1: You think it's the light skin black? Wow, the light

1559
01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: skin black. We need to drink.

1560
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 5: You just throw something that just can't be black and

1561
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 5: light skin black, a light skin we.

1562
01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:05,920
Speaker 1: Need we need a Jake just lynched like what listen,

1563
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: one of you was correct, one of you was wrong.

1564
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,519
Speaker 1: Dj NV, you are absolutely positively correct.

1565
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:21,559
Speaker 19: Yeah, she's the light skin cousin that light skin she's white.

1566
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:26,400
Speaker 1: Lord. Wait for people this morning, go oh stop, what

1567
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: light skinned man hurt you?

1568
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 19: I don't even deal with light skinning for I had

1569
01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 19: like point five, but them y'all be doing too much.

1570
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:33,559
Speaker 1: Light skinned man hurt too.

1571
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 19: I had like a point a point five of a

1572
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 19: light skin man. It was too much. My light skinned

1573
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 19: guy's gotta act dark skin.

1574
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:40,680
Speaker 1: Lord. If you don't want to hear him, say no more,

1575
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 1: you stand on that. Damn it. I witch shout to

1576
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 1: my light skin brothers out there.

1577
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 19: I don't know what she did, yo, Envy Yo, Charlotte.

1578
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 19: At the show, I walked up on Envy to say bye.

1579
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 19: He had It was like a crusade. It was like

1580
01:10:53,439 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 19: thirty dominic kid like, I'm like, yo, don't that's what

1581
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 19: I had? Merch in here like it was. It was crazy.

1582
01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 12: They were all taking one picture there was.

1583
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 1: Not There was no ten It's a Brigada base with

1584
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:14,680
Speaker 1: light skin. It was just black yo. Claim. We have

1585
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:17,000
Speaker 1: to break that. We got to go to therapy about men.

1586
01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 1: You go therapy together.

1587
01:11:19,479 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 25: Time.

1588
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 19: There was no d e I in that photo y'all

1589
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 19: needed some d e. I like y'all needed a brown

1590
01:11:24,160 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 19: slafe friend. And no, don't don't you don't you because

1591
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:35,240
Speaker 19: when they in my comments, you yeah, already under arms,

1592
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:37,599
Speaker 19: it'd be braided like bow wow hair.

1593
01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:40,840
Speaker 5: So this whole show was probably problematic, he said, light

1594
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:42,600
Speaker 5: skinned man looked like pit bulls, and you saying you

1595
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:44,720
Speaker 5: just don't want It's the Breakfast Club.

1596
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:46,959
Speaker 1: Good morning, Happy holidays.

1597
01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:49,200
Speaker 2: You listening to the world's most dangerous morning show, The

1598
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 2: Breakfast Club, The Breakfast Club.

1599
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 5: Warning everybody at the j n V just Hilaris, Charlamagne

1600
01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:00,639
Speaker 5: and the God we Are the Breakfast Club. Thanksgiving tomorrow.

1601
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 5: We had a conversation about are we setting up for

1602
01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:05,960
Speaker 5: Christmas too damn early? Like, are we starting Christmas too

1603
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:09,040
Speaker 5: early before we even get to Thanksgiving? Let's discuss morning

1604
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:13,160
Speaker 5: everybody at eja Envy, Jess, Hilarious, Charlamagne, the guy we

1605
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 5: Are the Breakfast Club, Nephew just joining us, were opening

1606
01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:17,520
Speaker 5: up the phone lines eight hundred.

1607
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 1: Five eighty five, one oh five to one.

1608
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,680
Speaker 5: Now it seems like the holiday season, Christmas is here,

1609
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 5: like lights, Christmas trees, decorations.

1610
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:27,680
Speaker 1: It seems like we just forgot about Thanksgiving. Is it

1611
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 1: too soon? Is the question?

1612
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:32,960
Speaker 12: What are the decorations for Thanksgiving?

1613
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 1: Exactly? Turkeys? Shut up?

1614
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:37,559
Speaker 12: Like you're just gonna have a bunch of turkeys around.

1615
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 5: Your house turkey decorations. And I guess they got pumpkins

1616
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:41,840
Speaker 5: and mums and stuff like that.

1617
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 2: But you don't need that for twenty five days, okay,

1618
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 2: Like Christmas is the season, you know it. Don't nothing

1619
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 2: look better than Christmas lights and the Christmas trees.

1620
01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving is really just a speed.

1621
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:54,280
Speaker 2: Bump at this point, Like there's really nothing to do

1622
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 2: in novembery Like when you think.

1623
01:12:57,200 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 1: About November, there's really nothing to do. Giving is one day,

1624
01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 1: just like Halloween is one day.

1625
01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:05,240
Speaker 2: So the same way they got all of these, you know,

1626
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:07,639
Speaker 2: decorations leading up to Halloween, might as well have those

1627
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:08,160
Speaker 2: for Christmas.

1628
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 6: Now.

1629
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:10,760
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I got my lights in the house, right,

1630
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:13,639
Speaker 1: and they make me happy. That's what I'm gonna say.

1631
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 1: It just makes me happy when I come home and say,

1632
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 1: and the lights is lit. I just get happy. I

1633
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 1: ain't gonna front. I stay outside and look at them.

1634
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:21,479
Speaker 1: The kids love them. It just makes me happy. That

1635
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:25,280
Speaker 1: holiday chair, It just takes me. It expressed any anxiety way,

1636
01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: I just get happy.

1637
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 12: Listen, I leave my Christmas tree up all year round.

1638
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 1: That's a little too far, that's a little too much.

1639
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,679
Speaker 14: I usually put four of them up, but I took

1640
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 14: three of them down and just left one up. So

1641
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 14: that's one last one I got to put up. But yo,

1642
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:43,479
Speaker 14: like I think the day after Halloween, literally midnight November first,

1643
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:44,919
Speaker 14: put that shuta.

1644
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 5: So fourth of July, everybody's coming and it's hot, and

1645
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 5: they come to your Poolbai, you stood got your Chrismas.

1646
01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:50,760
Speaker 1: Tree year I did.

1647
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 12: That's why they need to stay out my house.

1648
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 14: The pool party is outside, damn because your black family

1649
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:56,320
Speaker 14: always want to judge you for stuff like that.

1650
01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 12: Your Christmas tree still up?

1651
01:13:57,920 --> 01:13:59,960
Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, and you still broke.

1652
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:00,160
Speaker 1: You know.

1653
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:01,760
Speaker 14: I'm just just little things that I go back and

1654
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:04,600
Speaker 14: forth with. But yeah, people always joke about that. But

1655
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:07,720
Speaker 14: that's a lot of work putting up a lot of Thanksgiving,

1656
01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 14: I mean, putting up a lot of Christmas decorations. And

1657
01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,479
Speaker 14: when I move into this big ass house, I didn't

1658
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:16,600
Speaker 14: really realize like how hard for cheese would be putting up.

1659
01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 14: But it looks so good when everything's done.

1660
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:20,800
Speaker 2: And that's the crazy part too. You put up all

1661
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,240
Speaker 2: of these Christmas decorations only for a couple of weeks. No,

1662
01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 2: let's ride it out for sixty days, start in November,

1663
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:29,479
Speaker 2: right after Halloween. Let's let's get right into the Christmas season.

1664
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna have it up for July.

1665
01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:32,680
Speaker 2: No, but I'm gonna be honest with you. We can

1666
01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:34,560
Speaker 2: kind of get rid of things giving, bro, but we

1667
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 2: don't need it. What we don't really need things giving

1668
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:37,639
Speaker 2: the food?

1669
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: Don't the food?

1670
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 2: They ain't really what's up a lot of us, you know,

1671
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 2: as we've gotten old that we don't even like things

1672
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 2: giving food.

1673
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:44,760
Speaker 1: I don't like things giving food like that. I don't

1674
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 1: want to see what staks given food to you. I

1675
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 1: don't eat the turkey, you know all that. That's my point.

1676
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 1: You gave it all.

1677
01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, no, I ain't hold you. I do like

1678
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:53,240
Speaker 12: the dark meat of the turkey.

1679
01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:55,960
Speaker 14: But really, for real, Yeah, now that you're saying it,

1680
01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 14: it's like, all right, cool, because I don't like stuff,

1681
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:58,920
Speaker 14: and I don't like the cranberry with the turkey.

1682
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:00,800
Speaker 12: That's white people's stuff. I don't really like that. I

1683
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:02,600
Speaker 12: don't like pumpkin pie. I love the only thing I

1684
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 12: love is mash.

1685
01:15:03,439 --> 01:15:07,800
Speaker 14: I mean not the mister mac and cheese, yams, fried chicken, yeah,

1686
01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 14: and the sweet and say the pie.

1687
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1688
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:12,120
Speaker 5: So we only get the food that we like, so

1689
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:13,519
Speaker 5: we don't do all the turkey stuff. So we do

1690
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 5: the mac and cheese, we do the fried chicken, but

1691
01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 5: then we do ox their we do jerk chicken.

1692
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 1: We do stuff like that too.

1693
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:19,000
Speaker 12: Yeah that sounds good.

1694
01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

1695
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 14: Then my mother does a seafood Christmas. She do the

1696
01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 14: crabs and the scallons and like she she's.

1697
01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 12: Very big on seafood, so she does that.

1698
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

1699
01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 12: We don't need to give it.

1700
01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:31,400
Speaker 2: We need time off though, yeah, but we don't need

1701
01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:33,480
Speaker 2: we don't need things giving. It could be a dead gratitude,

1702
01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 2: but we don't need things giving.

1703
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go to the phone line. We got Leon

1704
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: on the phone. Leon, what's up, bro?

1705
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:39,519
Speaker 12: Trying to get rid of things?

1706
01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 10: What's going on?

1707
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:40,919
Speaker 6: Brothers?

1708
01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:41,599
Speaker 13: Good morning?

1709
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 3: Good more than envy, Charlo made peace?

1710
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 14: No, you said good morning, brothers and then named Darry Biden,

1711
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 14: good morning.

1712
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:55,920
Speaker 12: How you doing.

1713
01:15:56,040 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 1: I'm a sister bro, sister bro, but you think Leon to.

1714
01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:01,160
Speaker 6: Us brother all right?

1715
01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 3: For the Christmas ding, I feel like the Christmas tree,

1716
01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 3: the lights smaller, but like, thank give because you're hosting

1717
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 3: the Thanksgiving party, so you've gotta have the life and

1718
01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:15,040
Speaker 3: everything for the party that you have celebrations. So I

1719
01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:18,000
Speaker 3: feel like before that it might be it might be.

1720
01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 8: A little bit early, but.

1721
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 3: It's a different time where everything moves a little bit fast,

1722
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:25,080
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. But I feel like Thanksgiving

1723
01:16:25,160 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 3: day to day, everything should be ready, like the lights,

1724
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 3: the trees and all that.

1725
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 5: I feel you, le I want you what you think

1726
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 5: about somebody who leaves their Christmas tree up like the

1727
01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:35,679
Speaker 5: whole year, Like fourth of July they got a Christmas

1728
01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 5: tree up, Easter they got a Christmas tree up.

1729
01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:44,720
Speaker 3: That's just being lazy, bro, You like, what's Christmas? What's

1730
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 3: Christmas is over? Like take the tree down, put everything

1731
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,400
Speaker 3: to pack it up, put it back in the garage,

1732
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 3: and wait for the next year.

1733
01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: Yes, Jess, I thank you, brother. Yeah, but that's it. Hello,

1734
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:55,760
Speaker 1: who's in?

1735
01:16:57,600 --> 01:16:57,880
Speaker 8: Hello?

1736
01:16:58,360 --> 01:16:58,880
Speaker 1: What's your name?

1737
01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 8: What's up? Klaie at a key killer?

1738
01:17:04,080 --> 01:17:04,479
Speaker 1: What's up?

1739
01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:04,720
Speaker 6: Talk?

1740
01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:08,160
Speaker 8: First of all, I will say good morn to y'all.

1741
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:09,679
Speaker 8: I love y'all. Listen to y'all everywhere.

1742
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:11,640
Speaker 23: I'm calling from Chicago and y'all know, y'all don't do

1743
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 23: live here, So I just be waking up five in

1744
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:14,879
Speaker 23: the morning.

1745
01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 8: And time in it golleing.

1746
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:22,839
Speaker 23: Y'all appreciate that, But no, I ain't putting up no crystmas.

1747
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 23: You listen, I'm go to Thanksgiving and I gotta deal

1748
01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:28,920
Speaker 23: with that first. I gotta do one headache at a time,

1749
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:31,680
Speaker 23: you know what I'm saying. So after Thanksgiving and.

1750
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 8: Go then we bring out the tree and we put

1751
01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 8: up now you know, snoop on the stoop. Okay, we

1752
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:42,720
Speaker 8: got him. That's where his magic get activated.

1753
01:17:44,040 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 12: With you, with you period.

1754
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 8: So it's like, I gotta do one at a time

1755
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:51,519
Speaker 8: because otherwise, shoot, man, I'll be having high anxiety.

1756
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:55,160
Speaker 2: I'll be overwhelmed thanks Giving. Thanks Giving don't need a

1757
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 2: prep month. Thanksgiving need like a week at mess.

1758
01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 8: Hey, shout out, what's up, Sarah? But I just want

1759
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:05,479
Speaker 8: to say this. You still got to worry about, you know,

1760
01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 8: the cookie and making sure the fool gets together.

1761
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 6: Get that line.

1762
01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 8: You know you got the fame, You got the family

1763
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 8: members that be lay you know, that's what you tell them.

1764
01:18:13,800 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 8: They the ones I got bring the dessert because you

1765
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 8: know the one be on the GC so it's just

1766
01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:19,280
Speaker 8: me trying to organize everything.

1767
01:18:20,720 --> 01:18:22,840
Speaker 14: Maybe maybe you love your energy this morning. I just

1768
01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:24,280
Speaker 14: want to say that your energy.

1769
01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 4: Oh thank you.

1770
01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 19: Listen.

1771
01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:29,040
Speaker 8: I love you guys. Listen, I'll be listen. I gotta

1772
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:31,599
Speaker 8: go wake my chins up, but I be pumped, man.

1773
01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 10: I love you guys.

1774
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 12: I love you YouTube your.

1775
01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 8: Live chat, and I love y'all. Thank y'all for let

1776
01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 8: me talk. But I love you guys, and I really

1777
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:44,400
Speaker 8: want to get in the set and get it off

1778
01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 8: my chest because I got a lot to get off

1779
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:46,240
Speaker 8: my chest.

1780
01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 6: But I know that.

1781
01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:48,400
Speaker 1: No, no, you called the head.

1782
01:18:48,439 --> 01:18:51,799
Speaker 15: You got your time from Chicago's right.

1783
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:54,759
Speaker 1: From Chicago.

1784
01:18:54,960 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 2: The call is already too long. No, you already got

1785
01:18:56,840 --> 01:18:57,800
Speaker 2: your time. How about calling them?

1786
01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:01,519
Speaker 1: Hate up? We love you, but come on, look, you priss,

1787
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 1: proper protocol.

1788
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 8: We not even the usually dam just got it doing me.

1789
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 12: I see how you usually though, I love I love

1790
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 12: Laura La La.

1791
01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:15,720
Speaker 8: I'm done with myself, so you know I'm bringing though

1792
01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 8: you know.

1793
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 12: Oh that's yeah, that's why.

1794
01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:21,360
Speaker 8: But I guess I call him the well get well,

1795
01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:21,800
Speaker 8: get it off.

1796
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 1: My chest up call tomorrow. Yeah, goodbye, that's it. That said.

1797
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,120
Speaker 1: That's why she liked the talk that now.

1798
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:31,439
Speaker 14: I get it, Yoto, he pulled the envy.

1799
01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 12: That's crazy.

1800
01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:37,200
Speaker 5: So you talk to us now, goodbye, She called, We're

1801
01:19:37,200 --> 01:19:39,360
Speaker 5: not even on the Chicago, so she listened on line.

1802
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:44,280
Speaker 1: She's waking up. The kids got to say, what was wrong? Damn, damn.

1803
01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:47,160
Speaker 5: Eight hundred and five eighty five one o five one.

1804
01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:49,839
Speaker 5: We're talking about holiday season right now. He's bought humbug

1805
01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:51,519
Speaker 5: guy right here. She is called, I was on Christmas

1806
01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 5: wish to get it off her chest. He just dead

1807
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:56,120
Speaker 5: it up. But if you were talking about putting up

1808
01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:58,920
Speaker 5: the holiday uh, the Christmas lights and Christmas trees and

1809
01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:00,719
Speaker 5: get into the holiday spas is so early.

1810
01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:03,439
Speaker 1: Should we get into it right now? Or you know,

1811
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:04,960
Speaker 1: or we should we let Thanksgiving a.

1812
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:06,639
Speaker 5: Live a little bit. Let's discuss this the Breakfast Club.

1813
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:12,519
Speaker 5: Good morning, it's topic time.

1814
01:20:15,439 --> 01:20:16,160
Speaker 8: The phone.

1815
01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:19,720
Speaker 5: Called eight hundred and five eight five one five one

1816
01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 5: to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

1817
01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:24,200
Speaker 1: Talk about it morning, everybody.

1818
01:20:24,240 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 5: It's DJ NV, just hilarious, Charlamagne the guide. We are

1819
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:30,479
Speaker 5: the Breakfast Club. If you're just joining us, we open

1820
01:20:30,560 --> 01:20:32,759
Speaker 5: up the phone lines eight hundred and five eight five.

1821
01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 1: One oh five one.

1822
01:20:33,439 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 5: If you've been out and about if you're driving around

1823
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 5: you see the Christmas lights up, you see Christmas trees.

1824
01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 1: Up, you see in decorations. Is it too soon? We

1825
01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:42,679
Speaker 1: got Sharnda on theline, Sharanda, good.

1826
01:20:42,600 --> 01:20:44,760
Speaker 7: Morning, Hi, good morning, how you guys do it?

1827
01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:47,160
Speaker 12: Good morning, Good morning, Sarnda.

1828
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:50,400
Speaker 11: But yes, I've been ready to put my tree after

1829
01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:51,519
Speaker 11: my birthday in October.

1830
01:20:52,040 --> 01:20:53,840
Speaker 19: The mid October made October okay?

1831
01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:57,479
Speaker 11: Yes, and process like the government sat down too, and

1832
01:20:58,520 --> 01:20:59,519
Speaker 11: that does not benefits.

1833
01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:02,160
Speaker 8: I just feel like we just need that pie of spirit.

1834
01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:04,720
Speaker 9: For Christmas, you know, enjoy your spirit, you know, Christmas and.

1835
01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:07,120
Speaker 2: Stuff that's right and and and the other reason that

1836
01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:09,559
Speaker 2: it's okay to put your Christmas stuff up right after

1837
01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:12,040
Speaker 2: Halloween is for the simple fact there really is no

1838
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving decorations. So Halloween everybody, Yeah, everybody goes all out

1839
01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:18,920
Speaker 2: for Halloween. You see the houses decked out for Halloween.

1840
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving is no Thanksgiving decorations, so might as well put

1841
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:22,080
Speaker 2: the Christmas up.

1842
01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: Well, Thanksgiving his pumpkins and do the moms they do

1843
01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 1: stuff like that, you know what the mom is.

1844
01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 12: I know, I'm thinking ting about Halloween flowers.

1845
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:32,560
Speaker 11: I know, put like fall stuff up, and like my

1846
01:21:32,680 --> 01:21:33,800
Speaker 11: father's candles and everything.

1847
01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:35,600
Speaker 9: But I want to skipt that and go straight to

1848
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 9: Christmas stuff. I'm already looking at colors and everything.

1849
01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 11: So this weekend I'm gonna do put up my Christmas stuff.

1850
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 8: JV Man, you know, I'm een stority.

1851
01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 11: For the past couple of weeks, I've met Farling, he said,

1852
01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 11: recuesse the song I met song no answer, you know.

1853
01:21:50,080 --> 01:21:51,760
Speaker 8: Sar a Man right about that, he said, He's not

1854
01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:52,679
Speaker 8: about the answer.

1855
01:21:52,720 --> 01:21:56,599
Speaker 25: The father I've got there and the jingle I've been

1856
01:21:56,600 --> 01:22:00,439
Speaker 25: calling about the jingle board in Atlanta, and I haven't

1857
01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 25: harding nothing about him, nobody winning those jingle ball tickets.

1858
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 1: We did the first the first week we had some

1859
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 1: jingle boll tickets. Where are you calling from?

1860
01:22:08,680 --> 01:22:12,760
Speaker 8: I'm calling from Michigan, Okay. And then and then I

1861
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:13,760
Speaker 8: think I'm thirty.

1862
01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:17,160
Speaker 11: Two because ever since Voice Man and was on the show,

1863
01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 11: I've been playing let it Snow and It's Big Snower.

1864
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:22,960
Speaker 12: That's the best album. That's Christmas album, main't it?

1865
01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:26,599
Speaker 11: Yes, Yes, I've been playing that all weekend. And then

1866
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:30,040
Speaker 11: all of a sudden, I said, oh my god, yes,

1867
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:30,559
Speaker 11: it's snow.

1868
01:22:30,880 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: Okay, Damn, that's what's up.

1869
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:34,400
Speaker 12: Actually, I love snow.

1870
01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:36,360
Speaker 1: I wish I had some tickets for you. I don't

1871
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 1: have tickets.

1872
01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:40,519
Speaker 5: Jingle Boy, if you want to see Little John, if

1873
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 5: you want to see Jermaine Dupree, if you want to

1874
01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:43,559
Speaker 5: see Nelly and the host of others.

1875
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 1: Get your tickets. We're gonna be out there for Atlanta's

1876
01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:47,479
Speaker 1: jingle Boys. She would be a lot of fun. Thank Yeah,

1877
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 1: I'm going. We'll see you there, y'all.

1878
01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:51,439
Speaker 8: Have a good day, all right.

1879
01:22:51,880 --> 01:22:53,680
Speaker 2: Everybody who listen to just on ninety six one to

1880
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:55,479
Speaker 2: beat in Atlanta, y'all, jingle balls are popping.

1881
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:56,640
Speaker 1: People from Michigan want to go.

1882
01:22:56,800 --> 01:22:57,160
Speaker 6: That's right.

1883
01:22:57,720 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 1: Hello.

1884
01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 14: Now I'm saying I need to get down to that

1885
01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:03,600
Speaker 14: Boys and Me and Christmas album. That man, that's a

1886
01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 14: no skip play that get jiggy with your wife?

1887
01:23:06,479 --> 01:23:07,599
Speaker 1: Did gig with your worf? Hello?

1888
01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:08,000
Speaker 2: Who's this?

1889
01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:08,800
Speaker 8: Hello?

1890
01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:11,160
Speaker 1: Can you hear me? I can hear you? Is Monica?

1891
01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:15,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god? I'm sorry?

1892
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 19: Hey him, Charlotte please okay?

1893
01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:29,000
Speaker 9: So here's my thought already, all right, So yes, let's

1894
01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 9: skip right over. Thanksgipping, because I feel like them people

1895
01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 9: that want of the late Christmas is the pumpkins ice people,

1896
01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:38,679
Speaker 9: and the pumpkins people is the people that can't figure

1897
01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:40,080
Speaker 9: out whether or not they want to open up the

1898
01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 9: government or not. So no, no, no, you're gonna skip

1899
01:23:44,240 --> 01:23:44,760
Speaker 9: right over that.

1900
01:23:45,280 --> 01:23:45,439
Speaker 25: Don't.

1901
01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 8: We're going to the States of Christmas and you can

1902
01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:48,320
Speaker 8: get enjoying.

1903
01:23:48,040 --> 01:23:49,880
Speaker 9: Your pumpkins fights. But I take next year, when the

1904
01:23:49,920 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 9: government is open and doing what it's supposed to, go

1905
01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:53,960
Speaker 9: and give these people that snap in the big and

1906
01:23:54,160 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 9: they tell care respect.

1907
01:23:56,760 --> 01:23:59,280
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Monica. I'm with you, man. Thanksgiving

1908
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:00,760
Speaker 1: is a I don't need it.

1909
01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:03,599
Speaker 12: I love pumpkin spice people. That's that's different.

1910
01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 1: Hello, good morning morning ya where you call it from?

1911
01:24:11,520 --> 01:24:12,120
Speaker 6: A little.

1912
01:24:14,360 --> 01:24:15,080
Speaker 1: Lucky I beat it.

1913
01:24:15,160 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 12: Twenty twenty six makes some noise, y'all with the.

1914
01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:21,640
Speaker 5: Talk to a shall what you think about all these

1915
01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 5: Christmas decorations and ornaments and things up so early?

1916
01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:27,800
Speaker 16: Maybe I'm tired it is too early. I am a

1917
01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:30,599
Speaker 16: Halloween girly, so I was already upset they had all

1918
01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:33,639
Speaker 16: the Christmas stuff out filling our times before we even

1919
01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:35,120
Speaker 16: have Michaelson then pop out.

1920
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:35,759
Speaker 6: Damn.

1921
01:24:36,640 --> 01:24:38,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't do it before Halloween. I mean, is

1922
01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 1: that the reason you can?

1923
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:42,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Halloween got his own decorations and got his own energy.

1924
01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:46,040
Speaker 2: People like decorating their houses for Halloween. You can't do that,

1925
01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:47,799
Speaker 2: but Thanksgiving we can stick.

1926
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:49,600
Speaker 1: Skip right over that because they know turkey decorations.

1927
01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:53,280
Speaker 8: I mean, she's so funny, like to cut the.

1928
01:24:53,280 --> 01:24:55,920
Speaker 16: Turkey SIPs before we started, you know, shoving Mariah carrying

1929
01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:58,240
Speaker 16: everybody else down. Why do you all love Mariah?

1930
01:24:58,680 --> 01:24:59,920
Speaker 8: But man, I can wait.

1931
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:01,840
Speaker 16: I can hard for a home much.

1932
01:25:02,520 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 1: I agree with that.

1933
01:25:03,439 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 2: I think that November should be like a pre Christmas thing,

1934
01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:08,960
Speaker 2: Like we shouldn't go all in ye, but it should

1935
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:10,000
Speaker 2: be a lot of times.

1936
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:14,360
Speaker 12: Yeah, give it should be the advertiser and Christmas is

1937
01:25:14,400 --> 01:25:14,840
Speaker 12: the main.

1938
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:16,920
Speaker 16: Pre Christmas.

1939
01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:20,880
Speaker 2: It should be a pre Christmas and then right after

1940
01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:24,479
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving that's when everybody goes full steam ahead with Christmas.

1941
01:25:24,520 --> 01:25:26,960
Speaker 1: But before that is pre Christmas. Yeah, I'm with you.

1942
01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 1: I don't really care about Thanksgiving. I try to tell you,

1943
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 1: I don't.

1944
01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:33,559
Speaker 14: Agree with getting rid of it, but yeah, we could

1945
01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:35,799
Speaker 14: definitely change it from things to give it to pre Christmas.

1946
01:25:35,880 --> 01:25:36,320
Speaker 6: I like that.

1947
01:25:37,080 --> 01:25:39,800
Speaker 14: What about down south? Like what about South Monks going

1948
01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:42,120
Speaker 14: to South Carolina? Don't your family like your momm and

1949
01:25:42,160 --> 01:25:42,800
Speaker 14: your dad like they.

1950
01:25:42,760 --> 01:25:43,280
Speaker 1: Don't know.

1951
01:25:45,920 --> 01:25:49,840
Speaker 2: They still, yes, give me, it's just cool. It's the

1952
01:25:49,920 --> 01:25:51,640
Speaker 2: day of family. It's the day you know, getting with

1953
01:25:51,720 --> 01:25:52,640
Speaker 2: your peoples and kicking it.

1954
01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:53,559
Speaker 1: But nah, you don't.

1955
01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:56,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually look forward to the day after they

1956
01:25:57,000 --> 01:25:59,040
Speaker 2: was given because my aunt cooks crazy the day after

1957
01:25:59,040 --> 01:26:01,160
Speaker 2: they're giving, because she's your witness as well. But she

1958
01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:03,880
Speaker 2: does what your mom does, the seafood, fried fish and

1959
01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:07,360
Speaker 2: fried shrimp and you know, scallops and all.

1960
01:26:07,720 --> 01:26:09,680
Speaker 1: That's what I like. You don't get your mom no

1961
01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:12,559
Speaker 1: Christmas gifts for Christmas. She's a Jehovah witness. Respect her religion.

1962
01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:14,960
Speaker 12: Yeah, they don't accept that. That's crazy. Don't accept it.

1963
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:17,479
Speaker 12: And you're probably only celebrated now because you have children.

1964
01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:20,559
Speaker 1: Yep. And my wife is not your wh witness at

1965
01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:26,599
Speaker 1: your family. No gifts or family your side, are they witness? Yeah, yeah,

1966
01:26:26,640 --> 01:26:27,400
Speaker 1: that's cruel, all of them.

1967
01:26:27,439 --> 01:26:28,800
Speaker 12: They don't except nothing. Don't get him, not.

1968
01:26:28,880 --> 01:26:33,720
Speaker 1: Neither, Nope, not at all. All Right, Well, what's the

1969
01:26:33,760 --> 01:26:34,400
Speaker 1: more of the story.

1970
01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:35,760
Speaker 2: What you want?

1971
01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:40,599
Speaker 14: Do what you want you If you want to put

1972
01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:44,519
Speaker 14: up your decorations the day after Halloween, the day before whatever,

1973
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:46,600
Speaker 14: if you want to put it up on Christmas Eve, do.

1974
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:47,560
Speaker 12: It whatever works for you.

1975
01:26:47,720 --> 01:26:49,639
Speaker 14: I leave my tree up all year around at least

1976
01:26:49,680 --> 01:26:52,160
Speaker 14: one of them, and don't say nothing about it because.

1977
01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:55,360
Speaker 1: You lazy ass. All right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

1978
01:26:59,720 --> 01:27:04,400
Speaker 1: are you getting to them? Thanksgiving? We got more coming

1979
01:27:04,479 --> 01:27:06,559
Speaker 1: up with the best of the Breakfast Club, the Breakfast

1980
01:27:06,640 --> 01:27:09,679
Speaker 1: Club more than everybody.

1981
01:27:09,720 --> 01:27:13,040
Speaker 5: It's DJ M V Jess Hilariy Charlamage God, we are

1982
01:27:13,120 --> 01:27:13,920
Speaker 5: the Breakfast Club.

1983
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:16,439
Speaker 1: Lawn of roses here as well. You know what time

1984
01:27:16,520 --> 01:27:19,640
Speaker 1: it is, It's time to put the cars up in storage.

1985
01:27:20,479 --> 01:27:22,120
Speaker 19: What does that mean? Who stores their cars?

1986
01:27:22,360 --> 01:27:25,400
Speaker 1: Well, when you have these older cars, you don't drive

1987
01:27:25,439 --> 01:27:27,040
Speaker 1: them all year. They're more like summer cars.

1988
01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 5: So to keep your ride in good condition, you need

1989
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:31,760
Speaker 5: to pick up items like battery tenders and.

1990
01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:32,840
Speaker 1: Of course a car cover.

1991
01:27:33,080 --> 01:27:35,720
Speaker 5: Now I find some dope ones on eBay that work

1992
01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:38,519
Speaker 5: pretty damn good. So next summer when I pull the

1993
01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:40,479
Speaker 5: cars out, my cars will be charged and I don't

1994
01:27:40,520 --> 01:27:42,200
Speaker 5: have to worry about cleaning them because the cover I

1995
01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:45,360
Speaker 5: got from eBay and the battery tenders will definitely work.

1996
01:27:45,640 --> 01:27:47,360
Speaker 5: And since my dad likes to drive my cars in

1997
01:27:47,400 --> 01:27:50,400
Speaker 5: the winter, he'll be super duper excited. Because the covers

1998
01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:53,439
Speaker 5: have pictures of Motown classics on them. I got one

1999
01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:56,920
Speaker 5: cover with Smokey Robinson. I got another cover with Jimmy Hendrick,

2000
01:27:57,080 --> 01:27:58,880
Speaker 5: so he'll be super duper excited about it.

2001
01:27:59,000 --> 01:27:59,960
Speaker 19: No sexy red covers.

2002
01:28:00,520 --> 01:28:02,360
Speaker 1: My dad probably does not know who sexy that is.

2003
01:28:02,479 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 1: I don't think he does. Well, make sure you.

2004
01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 5: Shop eBay for millions of finds each of the stories

2005
01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:08,320
Speaker 5: eBay things people Love.

2006
01:28:11,600 --> 01:28:15,640
Speaker 1: Everybody Jay Indeed just hilarious. Charlamagne's guy. We are the

2007
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:19,200
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Thanksgiving tomorrow, you guys enjoy your Thanksgiving. Yeah.

2008
01:28:19,200 --> 01:28:20,800
Speaker 1: I don't know why we lying acting like we're here.

2009
01:28:21,080 --> 01:28:22,680
Speaker 1: We're not here. I'm in Alabama right now.

2010
01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:25,920
Speaker 5: I'm about to DJ for John B and Drew Hill

2011
01:28:25,960 --> 01:28:28,759
Speaker 5: for the R and B Party tonight and Montgomery, Alabama.

2012
01:28:28,840 --> 01:28:31,360
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Yeah, I'm not here. Okay, but you know

2013
01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:36,719
Speaker 1: that is the theater of radio. Well listen. This Friday,

2014
01:28:37,439 --> 01:28:39,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to be in Charleston, South Carolina. I'll be

2015
01:28:39,880 --> 01:28:40,960
Speaker 1: home in the eight four three.

2016
01:28:41,439 --> 01:28:44,240
Speaker 2: My niece Chris Chalen is doing her second live podcast

2017
01:28:44,360 --> 01:28:47,719
Speaker 2: experience at the Magnoli Your Room seven twenty magnoliar Road.

2018
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:51,000
Speaker 1: In Charleston, South Carolina. Cardyer Brown will be there.

2019
01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:54,320
Speaker 2: My goods sist AJ from the We Talk Back podcast

2020
01:28:54,360 --> 01:28:56,760
Speaker 2: will be there and I will be there as well,

2021
01:28:56,880 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 2: So I'll see all this Friday seven, twenty magnol year

2022
01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:05,920
Speaker 2: old Chalk in South Carolina, Chris Kalen's second live podcast experience. Okay,

2023
01:29:06,080 --> 01:29:09,519
Speaker 2: go get your tickets. We are tickets wherever you go.

2024
01:29:09,600 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 2: Get tickets. Go to Chris Kalen page k R k

2025
01:29:12,040 --> 01:29:14,920
Speaker 2: R I S K A Y L I N and

2026
01:29:14,960 --> 01:29:15,759
Speaker 2: I'll see you Friday.

2027
01:29:16,000 --> 01:29:18,080
Speaker 1: All right, now, you got time a positive Nope?

2028
01:29:18,120 --> 01:29:20,760
Speaker 2: Man, listen, man, Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and I know y'all

2029
01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:22,280
Speaker 2: gonna be eating a lot of things. But I want

2030
01:29:22,320 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 2: to tell y'all something from mister Don Miguel Ruiz. You know,

2031
01:29:25,439 --> 01:29:27,000
Speaker 2: I love the Four Agreements. I think it's a book

2032
01:29:27,040 --> 01:29:28,320
Speaker 2: that everybody should read.

2033
01:29:28,560 --> 01:29:29,200
Speaker 1: Within the Four.

2034
01:29:29,120 --> 01:29:33,480
Speaker 2: Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz said, don't take anything personally. Refuse

2035
01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:38,760
Speaker 2: to eat emotional poison. Tomorrow, you're gonna be around that

2036
01:29:38,920 --> 01:29:41,640
Speaker 2: dinner table at Thanksgiving eating a lot of things, and

2037
01:29:41,720 --> 01:29:44,160
Speaker 2: there might even be people at the dinner table that

2038
01:29:44,200 --> 01:29:45,560
Speaker 2: you don't want to be around, and they're gonna be

2039
01:29:45,560 --> 01:29:48,439
Speaker 2: trying to feed you things that you don't want to digest. Okay,

2040
01:29:48,800 --> 01:29:52,000
Speaker 2: don't take those things personally. Okay, Taking things personally makes

2041
01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:54,600
Speaker 2: you pray for predators. They can hook your attention.

2042
01:29:54,560 --> 01:29:56,640
Speaker 1: With one little opinion. Don't fall for it.

2043
01:29:57,080 --> 01:29:59,320
Speaker 2: And once they take your once they hook your attention

2044
01:29:59,400 --> 01:30:01,639
Speaker 2: with that one little opinion, they can feed you whatever

2045
01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 2: poison they want. Refuse to eat the poison. Tomorrow all right,

2046
01:30:07,520 --> 01:30:09,439
Speaker 2: literally and figuratively, have a great day.

2047
01:30:09,840 --> 01:30:12,519
Speaker 12: Breakfast club bitches, you don't finish or y'all done.