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Speaker 1: The Fred's show is on. It's stay or go. See

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Speaker 2: Brin, he's your Hi brand, Good morning, how you doing

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Speaker 2: doing great? Thank you so much. I'm still worried about

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Speaker 2: this lake house and this boat. What's in it for us?

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Speaker 2: You know, we're the extended family here and I need

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Speaker 2: it can get a little full. Yeah, so, Britt, I

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Speaker 2: need to know what. I need to know what these

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Speaker 2: this family is like.

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Speaker 1: There's an airport there, fine, so.

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Speaker 2: I need to be because it might come in handy

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Speaker 2: for us. You know, maybe they're not there one weekend.

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Speaker 2: We can use the house and sorry, sorry Bella, but

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Speaker 2: you're gonna have to, you know, do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 2: Be friends with him? Why do you you you're gross?

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Speaker 2: I did not mean anything unsavory. Just be enough friends

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Speaker 2: with him so I can have a key. Uncle Fred

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Speaker 2: needs a place to stay, Brinn, good morning. Tell us

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Speaker 2: what's going on on stay or Go? We have your

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Speaker 2: email about your situation, so tell us what's going on

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Speaker 2: with this dude?

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Speaker 1: Eric?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm Eric and I have been together for

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Speaker 3: like almost two years now, and I in a moment

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Speaker 3: of weakness saw his journal and was like, hmm, I

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Speaker 3: wonder what's going on in here? Oh, no, I know,

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Speaker 3: I know I shouldn't have I can trust me. I

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Speaker 1: I realized you shouldn't try. I realized you shouldn't and

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: If I saw that thing just sitting there, especially if

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Speaker 2: probably won't include me because he didn't know me then.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, continue, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know how old it was until I started

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Speaker 3: flipping through it, and then I saw my name, and

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Speaker 3: I was like, I want to seem to say about me,

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Speaker 3: And I thought it was going to be, you know,

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Speaker 3: just like she's so wonderful and I want to spend

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Speaker 3: no no. Now it was like, I don't even want

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Speaker 1: He wrote in the diary that he was gonna dump

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Speaker 1: you diary. Yeah a year ago. Whoa.

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Speaker 2: But obviously you you didn't know this and you never

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Speaker 2: sensed it. Did you ever sense that things were going downhill? No?

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Speaker 3: And I mean I feel like all of my girlfriends,

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Speaker 3: like when their relationship has like hit a one year mark,

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Speaker 3: like things are you know, just like a little bit

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Speaker 3: like more testy, like maybe you know, like just trying

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Speaker 3: to figure out like is this the person for me?

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Speaker 3: YadA YadA, and so like maybe we had like a

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Speaker 3: was was just like, oh, you know, like one year

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Speaker 3: is like it's like, oh, we've been together for a while,

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Speaker 3: And so that's kind of like what I thought was

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Speaker 3: happening around that time. But apparently he was feeling very differently.

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Speaker 2: So this was a year ago that he wrote this,

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Speaker 2: So it's been two years total, and you didn't You

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Speaker 2: wouldn't have been you were none the wiser. You wouldn't

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Speaker 2: So now things are okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, now things are great, like lovely, Like I

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Speaker 3: like that's kind of what I thought I was going

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Speaker 4: Was like I think going after and rearing not well

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Speaker 4: if you wrote that a year ago, taking his time,

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Speaker 4: But I look at it, okay, So what's the issue?

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Speaker 1: The issue?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I say, what's the issue? But everything's okay.

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Speaker 2: Now you wouldn't have known about this well, but you

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Speaker 2: wouldn't hear me. If you hadn't been so nosy and

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Speaker 2: And everything's fine. So because that's the purpose.

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Speaker 1: Of the journal, I'm know where I am the problem.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I know that, but I'm I'm not chastising you,

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Speaker 2: but I'm saying the purpose of the journal is to

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Speaker 2: an outlet, right, So you would put things there that

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Speaker 2: I guess I don't see the problem here. Like he

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Speaker 2: He wrote it down in his diary. It's a private space.

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Speaker 2: You're not supposed to read it, and you did, so

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Speaker 2: you can't hold it against him.

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Speaker 1: You hurt your own feelings. Yeah, thank you, Pauline.

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Speaker 3: I know it'd hurt my own feelings. But I'm also

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Speaker 3: just like like, I don't know, can you really want

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Speaker 1: Mind, yes, yes, yeah absolutely. In the two years that you've.

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Speaker 2: Been with him, you've never thought, uh, at no point

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Speaker 2: you know, maybe there's something else out there for me.

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Speaker 1: To write it in your journal though, means it's like

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Speaker 1: a real serious thought. I feel like we all have

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Speaker 1: about how you're going to do it, that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but maybe it's like you know how, look

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Speaker 1: Like, ten, I wrote fake stories. I made up like

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Speaker 2: Maybe this is his fiction book, like he was like

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Speaker 2: fictionally writing what he wants to do, but.

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Speaker 4: It's not really five kids, And.

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Speaker 3: You're trying to make me feel better, but.

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Speaker 2: I am, well, I'm not trying to make you feel bad.

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Speaker 2: But what I am saying is that people should be

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Speaker 2: able to write whatever they wanted their diary and it

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Speaker 2: doesn't necessarily mean it's manifesting into real life. And I

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Speaker 2: think the fact that you read it, you know, and

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Speaker 2: something that that you're going to need to get over

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Speaker 3: And it's like I can't be like, hey, are you

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Speaker 1: Oh no, don't do that, you don't.

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Speaker 3: I can't do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it can come clean.

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Speaker 2: Here's the problem, though, is you know this exists, and

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Speaker 2: moving forward not to read it again?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Are you are you committed to never looking in the

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: That's your problem, that's your problem right there.

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Speaker 6: It's nothing wrong with a bally control check every now

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Speaker 1: How control? Yeah, just to keep everything.

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Speaker 6: Oh sure, it's just for him, not you, absolutely, okay, yeah, right,

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Speaker 6: But you also cannot react when you find out something

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Speaker 6: Now what you did survive to live another year?

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Speaker 5: So he eated.

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Speaker 6: You know, he had plans and you out beat the plans,

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Speaker 6: so you should be happy girl.

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Speaker 1: That's going in the right direction. I'd be scared every day.

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Speaker 1: But you can't. You can't use it as animal like

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Speaker 1: did they get into a fight. You can't bring it

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Speaker 2: You can't mention that you read his journal or it's over. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: here's the thing. See this by the way eight five

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Speaker 2: the French show only time you get text and call

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Speaker 2: the same number. You shouldn't know this information. There are

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Speaker 2: things that we all think in our minds in the

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Speaker 2: you know, whether it's whether it's love bomb or the opposite,

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: You don't need to know, right, You don't need to

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Speaker 2: know about the man behind the curtain always, and now

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Speaker 2: so just because he wrote it down doesn't mean that

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Speaker 2: again a year later, you guys are still together and

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Speaker 2: happy is happy enough that you're still together. So whenever

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Speaker 2: am being critical because you can't. You can't betray someone's

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't know what I'm gonna do. You know,

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Speaker 2: It's like I don't know. You probably shouldn't have had

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Speaker 3: Wish I didn't trust.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well, I mean let me go through

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Speaker 2: I wish you the best. I think you're fine. I

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Speaker 1: No. I just if you're looking for something, you're gonna

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Speaker 6: Yes you are. And when you find it, you just

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Speaker 6: got to control how you react. And some you can't

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Speaker 6: go to him and say I read it in your journal,

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Speaker 6: you cad. Just like the ancestors tell me in a

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Speaker 6: dream that you were thinking about leaving me.

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Speaker 1: Let's play a game. How would you break up with me? Pathetically?

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Speaker 1: A game? Break up with You cannot do this. You

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Speaker 1: can't let him know your girl. But you know if

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Speaker 1: you and that's not.

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Speaker 3: To say that you wanted to break up with me,

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Speaker 3: you would never do that though, right.

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Speaker 2: Brin, thank you so much for calling. I really do

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Speaker 2: wish you the best of luck. I hope things work out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, guys, Yeah, need too.

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Speaker 6: And by the.

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Speaker 2: Way, a lot of people are asking Brent, what was

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Speaker 2: there anything. I'm sure you read the rest of the diary,

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Speaker 2: so was everything pretty promising?

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Speaker 1: Moving forward?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I I I stopped.

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Speaker 1: I mean already in there, like will it hurt more?

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Speaker 1: All right? Well, thank you, Brittany. No, no, you don't

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Speaker 1: do not go back every six months, go back?

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Speaker 7: Thank you? Live with that guilt quality control. I don't

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Speaker 7: believe her. I don't believe she won't go back. And look,

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Speaker 7: I don't believe that she can stay out of it

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Speaker 7: now that she knows it exists. There is a gateway

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Speaker 7: to the inside of his brain. And sometimes you don't

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Speaker 1: Never need to know that. That's for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like if if somebody were a fly

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Speaker 2: that's just me venting. That's me releasing all these thoughts

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. That's not for you to hear because

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Speaker 2: it's raw, you know what I'm saying. That's a that's

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Speaker 2: a that's a rough draft. That's not the paper I'm

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Speaker 2: and I have a right to say them and communicate

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Speaker 2: product once they've worked through it. I don't like this

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Speaker 2: at all. Hey Michael, good morning, Hey, good morning. What'd

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Speaker 5: I think she should should stay My girlfriend now wife

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Speaker 5: at the time for over ten years, is gonna break

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Speaker 5: up with me about a year in to dating and

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Speaker 5: now we're married, So you know, it's a say things

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Speaker 5: are going goes she used to stay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right there you go, everything's fine. So you may

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Speaker 2: have you may have the fleeting moment where you were

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Speaker 2: a rough to. Everyone has rough times in relationships, but

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Speaker 2: then we work through them and you don't then go

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Speaker 2: back hopefully you know, a year later. Remember the time

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Speaker 2: you wanted to break up with me. People do it,

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Speaker 2: but it's futile because that was then, this is now, right, yep, exactly. Well,

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Speaker 2: thank you, Michael, have a good day. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Hey Xander, good morning, Good morning, Fred, Hey man, what'd

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Speaker 2: you want? You heard the whole Stayer ghost scenario. She

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Speaker 2: read the guy's diary year ago. He wanted to break

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Speaker 2: up with her, he wrote it down. Now a year later,

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Speaker 2: everything's fine. He doesn't know she read it. What do

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Speaker 1: It was a year ago.

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Speaker 3: If he was going to do it, he would have

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Speaker 3: already done it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, No, I agree.

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Speaker 5: That's just that's not it's not her business.

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Speaker 1: Stay out of his business. Can you hear that? Stay

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Speaker 1: out of the business. Oh yeah, he talking to Brian Brand.

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Speaker 6: Stay out of that man business.

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Speaker 1: He's talking to you. Quality control.

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Speaker 2: You gotta get oils, tie rotation and diary checkt.

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Speaker 1: Me get to do it. By the way, is Andrew.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling, have a great day, Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: So I already know the answer. I know the answer.

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Speaker 2: This is a rhetorical question, so big tim. He gets

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Speaker 2: to do a quality control check too.

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Speaker 3: Oh you?

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Speaker 6: Oh, you're not gonna find nothing. The worst thing he

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Speaker 6: can do is listen.

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Speaker 1: To this show. He can come back that right diary

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Speaker 1: right here. I was gonna say, this is the diary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, All he has to do is turn on

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Speaker 1: the I heard.

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Speaker 2: The man out dude, too late you to even listen that? Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Actually, get right? Everyone saved themselves. Very good point.