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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl a lexp.

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Speaker 2: And it's your girls writing a call and you are.

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Speaker 1: Tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine Brad drunk

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Speaker 1: Mine speaks sober thought. We ain't got no gifts today.

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Speaker 1: We ain't got no gifts today. I gotta be happy

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Speaker 1: when they hear that. Not the bankhead bounce.

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Speaker 2: Ain't that used to be?

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Speaker 1: I thought it was like back and forth, That's what

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Speaker 1: I was doing, though. You was going like one two

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Speaker 1: one two, it's one one one one.

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Speaker 2: I it's just one side. It was both sides. That's given,

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Speaker 2: like haarlem shape.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that you know, okay, that's giving? What's

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Speaker 1: that soul food? Do you remember soul food? At the

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Speaker 1: end of the movie when Big Mama was dancing and she.

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Speaker 2: Was like, no, see, that's what your own.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember what I say? You don't talk about

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Speaker 1: what She was dancing at the recession and she was

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Speaker 1: going like this, that's what you was she was, I swear.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it just depends. It was different variations,

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like they definitely had the one one

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Speaker 2: from side to side, but then I feel like they

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Speaker 2: had people used to be like, oh were you Oh

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Speaker 2: they did.

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Speaker 1: They used to bring it around.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what I'm saying it. It was different variations

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Speaker 2: of the bounce, it really was. It just depends on

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Speaker 2: what boie.

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Speaker 1: You brought it around town, around the world, you got

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Speaker 1: funky with it and the speaking of funky Okay, what

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Speaker 1: what for?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: I remember that episode where we was talking about you

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Speaker 2: know that thing being funky back in the day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So I just feel like I have.

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Speaker 2: Further claims to support my theory. Okay, go ahead, because

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Speaker 2: well this is all I'm gonna ask you, because I

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Speaker 2: would really like your uninstapinion. If it wasn't funky, then

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Speaker 2: why did jay Z say that in the song what's

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Speaker 2: that funk? That nasty, that guccy stuff?

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Speaker 1: Jay Z said that he did, but he was and

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Speaker 1: walding an older song.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's fine, But what was they talking about when

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Speaker 2: they said let me take you to funky town?

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Speaker 1: About you take me to funk?

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Speaker 3: It's time?

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Speaker 1: But I don't think funky was like a bad thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't think funky was like a bad thing.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but it probably wasn't a bad thing. But

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Speaker 2: then it's also like, you know, one of them things

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Speaker 2: were like if you don't know no better than funky sign.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, funk it, but listen is cool people used

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Speaker 1: to start and that ain't funk where people started calling

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Speaker 1: people fat but with.

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Speaker 2: P h A T remember fat farm, Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: No, I never.

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Speaker 2: Did believe you.

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Speaker 1: You from Orange exactly. I'm from Orange. I was wearing

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Speaker 1: Hollister and fucking Abercrombie and Fitch.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like the black people. I feel like

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Speaker 2: because the popular the black population in Orange is not

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Speaker 2: the black people was definitely trying to be funky. I

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Speaker 2: mean fat. First of all, I mean fat.

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Speaker 1: I love my black people in Orange tax but I

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Speaker 1: was not around my black people, and I don't know, really,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I really don't.

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Speaker 2: I feel bad for you.

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Speaker 1: I know why. But I was shopping at like Palais Royal.

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Speaker 2: Royal is crazy.

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Speaker 1: I used to love to go on Wieners.

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Speaker 2: So I remember Wiener. It's like what you have to

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Speaker 1: Was that somebody's last name? I think it had to

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Speaker 1: be somebody's last name for sure.

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Speaker 2: Winner as the last name is.

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Speaker 1: You know what's crazy? Too. I also remember the way

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Speaker 1: Weianers used to smell, like, No, it didn't smell like wieners.

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Speaker 1: I love the way it smells. It smelled like wet cement.

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Speaker 1: oh my god, it smells like wieners. But people always

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Speaker 1: think I mean hot dog winder or man wieners.

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Speaker 2: Well, but of all, I feel like man weiers ain't

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Speaker 2: supposed to smell like nothing.

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Speaker 1: Man Weaners have a sense.

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Speaker 2: It's shoulting.

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Speaker 1: It smells like skin.

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Speaker 2: Skin is fine, But like when I smell my arm,

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Speaker 1: But skin has a sense. It's like a body, like body.

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Speaker 2: I don't think man wien are supposed to smell like nothing,

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Speaker 2: But no, man wiener should smell fresh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it smells like you're by unless you wash it.

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Speaker 2: And you got that duck butter.

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Speaker 1: You know about that duck butter.

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Speaker 2: I don't know about it, because I experienced it.

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Speaker 1: I know about it. But with my own two eyes,

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Speaker 1: did you did you scratch? I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Crashing smells?

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I said you need to go take care of.

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Speaker 2: That, and then you took care of you know, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Not too far back, too far. No, I don't forget that.

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Speaker 1: I don't get down with the duck butter.

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Speaker 2: don't know how we got to duckt butter, but somehow

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Speaker 2: we always get off. It's okay, I will say it.

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Speaker 2: I feel bad for you that you didn't experience the

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Speaker 2: city trend's arrow. So you didn't never wear like baby fat.

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Speaker 2: You never wore.

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Speaker 1: I did wear baby fat.

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Speaker 2: You never wore south Pole.

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Speaker 1: I never wore so I did wear fooboo. I wore foobo.

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Speaker 2: Concerns me because I feel like you too young to

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Speaker 2: be You was wearing fooble when you were supposed to

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Speaker 2: be wearing for bah because that was after your era before.

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Speaker 1: No, it wasn't. You don't realize. Yes, I'm older than

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Speaker 1: you dre up, but I still am.

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Speaker 2: Of the rare occasions where I minimize you.

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Speaker 1: Well, all I'm saying is I wore fobo in middle school.

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Speaker 1: Remember when Yellow cool J had that song Fatty Girl,

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Speaker 1: Fatty Girl and they was promoting fob. Okay, maybe I know.

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Speaker 1: This is why you're right, because I don't don't remember

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Speaker 1: Fatty Girl by l O cool J. Fatty Girl, fetty Girl?

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Speaker 2: What else?

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Speaker 1: That's all I know. But it's a real song. I

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Speaker 1: promise no, I believe it's a real song.

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Speaker 2: I think my first introduction to L cool J was

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Speaker 2: uh and I shouldn't have been listening to these with

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Speaker 2: doing it and doing it and doing it well like

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Speaker 2: this he did.

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Speaker 1: He did Why did you do that?

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Speaker 2: And somebody asked him recently I don't know, but it

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Speaker 2: was sexy because he was fine.

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Speaker 1: Yo, what you didn't think?

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Speaker 2: Ill be for real?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not saying that, but I'm saying him doing

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Speaker 1: that was sexy to you, no offense, L I am

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Speaker 2: See this is the problem. This is the problem where

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Speaker 2: black people cannot do what white people do. What Kiss

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Speaker 2: used to put their tongues out all the time, but

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Speaker 2: now it's the problem when ill ill do.

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Speaker 4: No, it was a problem when Kiss get it to

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Speaker 4: me personally, the pain they faced.

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Speaker 2: And nobody talked about this.

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Speaker 1: Oh, they definitely got talked about. They definitely don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't recall I do, but I be hearing the

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Speaker 2: ll slander. People be trying to slander the men all

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Speaker 2: the time, just like they be trying to say nobody

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Speaker 2: called him big Illy. Y'all don't know that they did call.

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Speaker 1: Him big L.

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Speaker 2: You know, nobody did not.

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Speaker 1: Don't know somebody that called him big L.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know him?

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, how that song go? It was one J

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Speaker 1: Low song that she called him big Ellie?

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Speaker 2: No she didn't, Yes, she did?

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Speaker 1: Did? I can't, I can't. I'm gonna think of it

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Speaker 2: On the song with him, I think it was or

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Speaker 2: are you talking about what she said? Are you allie?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? She was talking. That is what she was talking to.

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Speaker 1: You said it. She was asking l O cool J?

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Speaker 1: Are you allie? But I can't remember your name felling.

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Speaker 1: She was asking l O cool J, like are you Ellie?

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Speaker 2: No? Yeah, because I ain't know if it was. I'm

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Speaker 2: trying to make sure we hit that five anymore. No,

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Speaker 2: she was feeling.

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Speaker 1: Rule like, no, did you did you did Jaylo tell

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Speaker 2: What I'm trying to ask you is why would she

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Speaker 2: with Joe Rules.

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Speaker 1: But she might have just finished a session with ll

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Speaker 1: O coo J. Remember they had that other song. It's

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Speaker 1: such a shame, but I believe it exactly. Proud is

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Speaker 1: what you had, baby girl?

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Speaker 2: You know it's all fool song that was going to

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So she was still talking to

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Speaker 1: ll Are you Ellie?

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Speaker 2: She was are you Elly? He was like.

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Speaker 1: Somebody I saw.

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Speaker 2: I saw. Going back to what I was gonna say,

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Speaker 2: he did an interview recently and somebody had asked him

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Speaker 2: why he never came out with a chapstick line, and

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Speaker 2: I agreed because he had some of the most iconic lips.

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Speaker 1: He was always biting apples. Do you remember that in

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Speaker 1: his videos?

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Speaker 2: See this is where it's like eighty nine ninety one.

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Speaker 2: I don't remember.

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Speaker 1: Oh cool J always had a fresh red apple and

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Speaker 1: it always but the biting to him like.

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Speaker 2: This, that's good.

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Speaker 1: You know he had good, good health. He still does

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Speaker 1: moo yes, cause you.

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Speaker 2: Know apples are like they have they're high in fiber.

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Speaker 2: They gonna make you go. So yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but I just feel like if you how did you

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Speaker 2: not wear South Paul. That's so you never had one

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Speaker 2: of the puffy jackets with the fur on the hood.

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Speaker 1: I did it. I did it. That's not what was

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Speaker 1: in style for my school where I went.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so cool, fine, because I will even say me

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Speaker 2: going to a school and like I had a lot

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Speaker 2: of black friends. We even used to wear Hollister in

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Speaker 2: like Apostle and yeah, yeah, yeah, but what kind of

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Speaker 2: hook jackets was y'all wearing? What was y'all wearing?

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Speaker 1: So I mean we would wear the puffy jackets like

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Speaker 1: we would wear puff jackets. We wore a lot of

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Speaker 1: blue jean jackets, a lot of cropped jaw.

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Speaker 2: But it was like no brand, No, it was brand.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, it was like the Hollister, Aeropostal, Abercrombie

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Speaker 1: and Fitch. Old Navy, like old Navy was cool. And

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Speaker 2: First of all. It's it's only one way to.

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Speaker 1: You have to remember American.

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Speaker 1: Because who Kelly. Okay, let me tell y'all. Kelly Clarkson

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Speaker 2: Jennifer can sing, Yeah, she can't. She can't absolutely sing,

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Speaker 1: No way. This is what we're not gonna do. What

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Speaker 2: All I was about to say is Kelly Clarkson really

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Speaker 1: But what I also will say was I didn't like

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Speaker 2: Be funny, but if you could sing, do you gotta prepare?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I'd be prepared all the time.

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Speaker 2: And Niece's why this conversation needs very questionable in debatable,

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Speaker 2: because yeah, like I said, if you gotta sing, well,

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Speaker 2: if you can't sing, doo, you need to be prepared.

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Speaker 1: So I'll say this about put.

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Speaker 2: You on the spot right now.

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Speaker 3: You won't call my girl and my head devotion.

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Speaker 1: He to my loving soul ride on the line. Oh

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Speaker 1: I kind of ate you heard it?

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Speaker 2: Come on, can keep going, keep going?

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Speaker 2: Do you have to prepare?

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Speaker 1: You didn't know that before I came.

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Speaker 2: We roll together, you roll with me. You're lying, you're lying. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we was on FaceTime for like an hour before you

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Speaker 1: Hold on, And the point.

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Speaker 2: That I'm making is again, if you can sing, so

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Speaker 2: I can sing. You can do a little one too.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, but.

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Speaker 2: Clearly you sing better than the song.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't, but let me. The only thing I

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Speaker 1: y'all know the song the big song from dream Girls?

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Speaker 1: When she was singing a Curtis I'm stopping.

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Speaker 2: Right, Oh yeah, I'm not gonna.

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Speaker 1: So one thing I did. Okay, So when that movie

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Speaker 2: But the crazy thing is that was her song.

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Speaker 2: it again. No thirty years ago, Jennifer Hudson, that was

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Speaker 1: It's delicious, delicious, cool, we're gonnallage. Yeah, that is fresh

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Speaker 1: glad because let me tell y'all something.

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Speaker 2: It was gonna be one hundred million comments.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know, Can I just say this for this one second,

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Speaker 1: because I think me and you do a good job

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Speaker 1: of at the end of the day, Yes, I realized

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Speaker 1: because obviously we're not gonna talk about it because I

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Speaker 1: know y'all want us to. But like with the shits

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Speaker 1: and gigs things that happened and everybody was going crazy

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Speaker 1: on social media, I realized, oh shit, like we are are.

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Speaker 1: What we say holds a lot of weight, you know.

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Speaker 1: And that was a big realization for me because honestly,

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Speaker 1: I still feel like we in your living room sitting

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Speaker 1: on the floor and we're not. No I'm saying I

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Speaker 1: feel that way because I feel like I'm just talking

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Speaker 1: to my friend. Work doesn't feel like work, and I

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Speaker 1: think that's why the show is successful. But that moment,

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Speaker 1: it was a realization that I needed before something serious happens,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, before like something really happened.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like we don't.

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Speaker 2: Say nothing bad.

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Speaker 1: We don't.

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Speaker 2: We're very we're very conscious about the things that we say.

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Speaker 1: But what I say, God gonna throw that that grain,

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Speaker 1: So that was our grain and weed that. But what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying is, you know, I see our audience and

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Speaker 1: that helped us see because, like I said, our words

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Speaker 1: hold a lot of weight, which I didn't know. That's

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Say So anyways, I say all that

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Speaker 1: to say in the midst of that, y'all fighting the

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Speaker 1: fighting the war because they're like, where fuck where is tight?

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Speaker 4: And I try not to respond as I respond to

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Speaker 4: it because at the end of the day, like things

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Speaker 4: that we have going on, like Ty is a business woman,

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Speaker 4: she runs her own business.

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Speaker 1: She has a lot going on, so I'm like, it's

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Speaker 1: not y'all business what her schedule is. So we you know,

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Speaker 1: we try not to respond. But it got to the

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Speaker 1: point where people were creating stories time. No, I had

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Speaker 1: to respond somebody, I ain't gonna lie. I did respond

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Speaker 1: to one. I had to.

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Speaker 2: I did respond to one person because they had left

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Speaker 2: the commune because we had did the Act Normal podcast

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Speaker 2: with Jada Indish shout out to to Jada Indiez. But

493
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Speaker 2: we had did their podcast and we talked about an

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Speaker 2: intern that we had on the show, well for the show,

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Speaker 2: and then we ended up like this was like five

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Speaker 2: six years ago before we ever even had like any

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Speaker 2: staff or anything like. She was just then intern.

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Speaker 1: We was not paying her because we had no money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we were talking about how we had to

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Speaker 2: like let her go because it had just got weird

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Speaker 2: or whatever, and somebody left the comment and they was like,

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Speaker 2: I know they said it was an intern, but I

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Speaker 2: think they talking about time nobody and I had a

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Speaker 2: respond back to them. I was just like being fucking

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Speaker 2: for real, y'all just be saying anything anything.

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Speaker 1: It'd be so crazy because I've never.

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Speaker 2: Been the narratives that people in their mind.

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Speaker 1: Narratives like they felt like it was something like the

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Speaker 1: girl is working and she just y'all like I felt,

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Speaker 1: and that's what I was saying. I was like, y'all

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Speaker 1: have to realize, like we are only here two three

512
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Speaker 1: times a month. This is a part time job for

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Speaker 1: a lot of people, for everybody. So I was like, tis, well,

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Speaker 1: we be working though now not wes be working. We

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Speaker 1: be working. We be working so much now you we

516
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Speaker 1: are content queens now because you know what I know

517
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Speaker 1: we we haven't even gotten to these topics. I will

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Speaker 1: say this, I am tired, and I know I am

519
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Speaker 1: tired of seeing these brand trips and me and Dre

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Speaker 1: are not on these brand trips. Look at us, it's

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Speaker 1: so we have hair, always fly, make up always tea

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Speaker 1: fits be tea bodies, tea. We But this is the

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Speaker 1: thing though, because personalities, personalities tea. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: because this is where it comes in at cause y'all

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Speaker 1: see YouTube channels that get millions of views, and yes

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Speaker 1: they have influence, but y'all are still underestimating because it

527
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Speaker 1: can be somebody that has a million views, but how

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Speaker 1: many people are buying what they're selling? And one thing

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Speaker 1: is like, we're honest on this platform. We don't promote

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Speaker 1: nothing that we don't really like. So when we say something,

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Speaker 1: they know like okay, they're not lying like they really

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Speaker 1: like this product. So I feel like we should be

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Speaker 1: on these brand trips.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, and I don't think it's like necessarily a

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Speaker 2: million millions of viewers things, cause I be seeing people

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Speaker 2: who have like smaller platforms than us on brand trips.

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Speaker 1: Well that's because I think they value quick content over

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Speaker 1: long content. We have a show that's an hour and

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Speaker 1: a half, but they don't realize people are sitting and

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Speaker 1: watching this show for an hour and a half versus somebody.

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Speaker 1: Attention span one thing I would say poor mindsets stood

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Speaker 1: the test of time with attention span because people like

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Speaker 1: TikTok videos. It's twenty seconds do I buy this foundation

544
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Speaker 1: or not tell me? And if you don't tell me

545
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Speaker 1: in twenty seconds, I'm scrolling. But we have stood the

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Speaker 1: test of time of people are paying attention to what

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Speaker 1: we say. We know that because Bopa the Week is

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Speaker 1: at the end of the show and they be like, damn, lex,

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Speaker 1: I love this song you put me on, So I

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Speaker 1: know y'all listening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I think that a lot of these brands are

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Speaker 1: passing up the podcasts that are still here that have

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Speaker 1: an audience, and y'all are missing out on a whole

555
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Speaker 1: nother demographic of people. We have these older people that

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Speaker 1: aren't on social media. They have cable and they have

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Speaker 1: YouTube and they be on YouTube scrolling. They don't have Instagram,

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Speaker 1: they don't have TikTok. There are people out there like that.

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Speaker 1: They don't even know I have a TikTok. They don't

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Speaker 1: even know I have an Instagram. They you know what

561
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Speaker 1: I realized. Somebody walked up to me that they said,

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Speaker 1: oh you that girl from Facebook.

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Speaker 2: I don't liam b on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Shaane runs our Facebook, but you know how much mine said,

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to build my personal Facebook. Guess how

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Speaker 1: many followers I got on there? Five hundred, five hundred.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how many followers I have on Facebook.

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Speaker 2: I think I might have like a thousand, but I

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Speaker 2: haven't been active on there since. I was like, so

570
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Speaker 2: I use money, and it's mostly my family and my

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Speaker 2: college friends.

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Speaker 1: My personal Facebook is with my real name. That's for

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Speaker 1: my friends and my family. So I created another one.

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Speaker 1: It's a lex p Facebook.

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Speaker 2: But all, yes, see, I don't have a dragon on

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Speaker 2: call on Facebook. I just have like, why I'm not

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Speaker 2: telling y'all money, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because that's what I'm saying. I didn't realize it's a

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Speaker 1: two different thing. I didn't realize that. So Facebook has

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Speaker 1: a whole other thing you have to create. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, I only have five hundred followers on there.

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Speaker 1: I'll be trying to post. But but that's what I say,

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Speaker 1: Like it'd be so much that we be missing out

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Speaker 1: on cause it be people who have whole careers and

585
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Speaker 1: are making hell of money on Facebook. But you know,

586
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Speaker 1: like I said, Shaye runs that for us. But I

587
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Speaker 1: feel like these brand trips y'all need to start including

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Speaker 1: podcasters on there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like it's a lot of people in this space, like,

591
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Speaker 1: you know, even though it's like a taboo thing. But

592
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Speaker 1: I feel like even with the sex toys, sex toys

593
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594
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595
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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie. I was on Revolve the other

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Speaker 2: Revolve the other day, right and I was like scrawling

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Speaker 1: What's a rabbit?

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Speaker 2: You know what a rabbit is? I don't know have one.

603
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Speaker 1: I don't have a rabbit.

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Speaker 2: You don't have a rabbit.

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Speaker 1: What's a rabbit?

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Speaker 2: I ain't talking about the book, That's what I said.

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Speaker 1: Bugs.

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Speaker 5: No, yeah, a vibrator.

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Speaker 2: But I was like scrawling the new items on Revolved.

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00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: like women who write in on the show, women who

658
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: dm us, our friends, our family, and it's a lot

659
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: of desperation that happens in your thirties, and it's not

660
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: a bad thing. I think it's just the issue that

661
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: we need to address. So I personally feel like, and

662
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: this is going out to the women, because obviously I'm

663
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: a woman. I don't know what goes on with men

664
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: in their thirties and this and that, but this is

665
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:33,959
Speaker 1: a woman conversation. I feel like people are so afraid

666
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: of being lonely and being single, especially in their thirties,

667
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: that they settle for anything. And what I've learned for

668
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: me personally, I have a value of certain things. I

669
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: value being single and happy versus settling for anything because

670
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 1: I'm not lonely. The feeling of being loneliness sucks, but

671
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,959
Speaker 1: being with a partner who sucks is worse. It's a

672
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: hierarchy for me, Yeah, you know what I'm saying, so,

673
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 1: but that's not the same for everyone. Because I did

674
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: have a conversation with a friend of mine and she

675
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: was like, loneliness literally makes me feel like I want

676
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: to jump off a damn bridge. She's like, I can't

677
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 1: do it. I need partnership. I need something there. It

678
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be deep, meaningful, I just I like

679
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: to have somebody next to.

680
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 2: Me at m to see. That's where I feel like

681
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 2: it's a difference between being alone and lonely. Yeah, people

682
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 2: be it's okay to be alone because you need a

683
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 2: long time. Fact, being lonely I feel like for some

684
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: people is like debilitating. But that's where I feel like

685
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 2: you gotta do more in her work because you should

686
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 2: be okay with be abody yourself. You shouldn't need another

687
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 2: person to make you whole because at the end of

688
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: the day, like you were growing into this world. Well

689
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: I didn't want to say that because I know, like

690
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: you know, you got twins and shit. But but like technically,

691
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 2: even with twins like y'all are born at different times.

692
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,879
Speaker 1: Sometimes they be eating each other in the womb.

693
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: Okay, alright, Like I have seen that, but usually the

694
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 2: one that's getting eight don't survive.

695
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So you really you was almost

696
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: born with somebody, but you still born along.

697
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,360
Speaker 2: You was born into this world, Like it's just me.

698
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 2: I got a feeling for myself, all right. So I'm

699
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 2: just saying like I just feel like that's when you

700
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 2: have to do a little more inner word because I

701
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 2: really kind of pride myself on this, Like you have

702
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 2: to be okay with being by yourself. If you cannot

703
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 2: be by yourself and spend time by yourself, something is

704
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 2: wrong if you gotta always be in a relationship, if

705
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 2: you got to always be around somebody, if you had

706
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 2: to always be and it's not even just like a

707
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 2: romantic relationship necessarily to me, it's friendship. It's all type

708
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 2: of relationships. It could be with your parents whoever. But

709
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 2: if you always gotta be around somebody in a long time,

710
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 2: make you nervous. You need to do some more work

711
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 2: because you need to be okay with being alone. I

712
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 2: think that's a problem when people cannot be alone. It's

713
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: I understand yearning for a life partner. I think we

714
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: were all put on this earth, and like I personally

715
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 2: do believe everybody has a soul mate. Do I feel

716
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: like everybody gonna find them? No, it's a topic for

717
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: another time. I just feel like it's so many people

718
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 2: in the world, you may never find your person. Oh

719
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 2: my god, I did watching this show on I just

720
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 2: started watching this show on Netflix cause I was telling

721
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 2: you about it. I feel like the Good Place.

722
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: Yes you did tell me.

723
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. So it's like an interesting, like little quirky show.

724
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,399
Speaker 2: But I love like kind of like dead paining humor

725
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: type of shows, like I'm a big fan of like

726
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 2: The Office and stuff. So The Good Place is like

727
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: a very quirky show. But it's basically like when people die,

728
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: this is where you go. And like on the show

729
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 2: the People, everybody who has died, like you don't meet

730
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 2: your soulvate until you go to the Good Place. So

731
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: even if you didn't meet them on Earth, you meet

732
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 2: them when you die and you go to the Good Place.

733
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 2: So I was just saying it to say, like I

734
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 2: do feel like I don't know, I feel like everybody

735
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 2: has a soul. Maybe I'm not sure if you will

736
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 2: meet them in this lifetime.

737
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: You know what I've realized. I don't mean to interrupt you.

738
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: What I've realized as I gotten older too, Like I

739
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: used to connect with people and I used to be

740
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: like devastated when it didn't go the way I wanted

741
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: to or break up. But what I'm really is realizing

742
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: is I'm such a worldly person. I have a personality

743
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: that gets along with a lot of people. So sometimes

744
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 1: I connect with somebody for a season, or sometimes it

745
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: may be a lifetime bond, whether it's friendship, family, or

746
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: by whatever it may be. So what I'm starting to

747
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 1: learn is I'll get this again. I'll get it again,

748
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: and if it's meant to be forever. That's why I

749
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: always say, am I in love right now? Absolutely? But

750
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 1: if we break up to me, I'm going to be okay.

751
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: And I've learned to be okay with that with like

752
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: I always was like, oh, I feel so stupid because

753
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: I be talking about this and I got a boyfriend

754
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: and then next week we break up, and I'm like,

755
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: now I'm okay with that, because yes, I love I'm

756
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 1: a lover, and I'm okay with that. I love love,

757
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 1: I love being in love. But guess what, I love myself.

758
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 2: And I think people enjoy this type of stuff too

759
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 2: because they be feeling like if they break up with somebody,

760
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 2: they're not gonna find somebody else, so they be wanting

761
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 2: that for you.

762
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's what I had to rap and I

763
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: gotta move on.

764
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna move on and I'm gonna find somebody else

765
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 2: that I'm gonna find somebody else. Then I'm gonna find

766
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 2: somebody else until I find the one.

767
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how much I am that just

768
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: being real.

769
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: Like, however, and to me, finding somebody else doesn't necessarily

770
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 2: mean you have to have all of these sexual partners.

771
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 2: But it's like, if me and somebody break up and

772
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 2: it does not work out, I'm gonna go on a

773
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: date and go on a date and going to day

774
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:04,320
Speaker 2: until I find somebody else that I or get along

775
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 2: with and that I like. I enjoy my me toime

776
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 2: that is, But I think you gotta get to I

777
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 2: think you should get to that point before you start.

778
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, and that's what I was getting at.

779
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,720
Speaker 1: So like I can wake up tomorrow and I'm gonna

780
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: be okay. Like I enjoy writing in my journal. I

781
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: write in my journal every day. I enjoy slaying in

782
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: my bed and watching True Crime did in my bed

783
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 1: lane feeling like I do be slaying in the bed.

784
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 1: But let me tell y'all how much it's like it's

785
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: about having confidence in yourself. Five years ago, I would

786
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: have never posted an HD video of me on Instagram,

787
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: on TikTok, on Twitter, on anything, bare face, don't makeup,

788
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: not a lick of nothing. I be on. I be

789
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,959
Speaker 1: on my ship all the time. Nothing on but muse

790
00:39:56,040 --> 00:40:01,760
Speaker 1: beauty baby. Yes, nothing, fel this is who I am.

791
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: I used to try to quiet my voice down, not

792
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: be so loud. Somebody left a comment on our last

793
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,760
Speaker 1: video and they were like, Lex, stop all that damn laughing.

794
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: It's not that damn funny. Yes the fuck it is.

795
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: Everything is funny to me, bro, and I don't be playing.

796
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: I'll be laughing. Everything is funny. I don't take shit serious.

797
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: Me and Dre could be in the car or get

798
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: pulled over. I'm laughing my ass.

799
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: Funny to me. When people be thinking I'm serious.

800
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: And they be like, oh, look at Drea joining in, bitch,

801
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 1: they'd be like, I love when Drea joins in. What

802
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't be starting at half the time?

803
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 2: What also?

804
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 1: I too?

805
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 2: Take nothing serious? Nothing serious, But.

806
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: That's what I feel like. That's what life is supposed

807
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,879
Speaker 1: to be, Like I'm meant to be enjoyed, like we're

808
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: supposed to have fun. We're supposed to enjoy it, whether

809
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm with friends or not. Let me tell you something.

810
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 1: I be in my house having a ball by myself.

811
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 1: You know what I did this morning? Well, I feel

812
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: like if they.

813
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,720
Speaker 2: Had, like if somebody ever hit a camera in my house,

814
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed. I'll be doing some

815
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 2: embarrassing stuff song this morning.

816
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: Calm me. If you need someone to talk to, calm me. Satisfaction,

817
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: I turn that shit on. I was cleaning up, calm me, okay,

818
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:25,799
Speaker 1: And I had a ball for literally like, no, it's

819
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: not embarrassing. It's not No, that's not embarrassing. But what

820
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying is I have fun alone. You caused that.

821
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 2: You take themselves too serious, like I can't be around you.

822
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I feel like in your thirties, in your thirties,

823
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: I understand women. Trust me as a woman who was

824
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: thirty five, never been married, don't have kids, Do not

825
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 1: get so desperate for partnership and children that you're settling

826
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,439
Speaker 1: for anything. That's what I wanted to say.

827
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 2: But also too, like whatever is for you. I think

828
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 2: when people get in a mindset and really accept that,

829
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 2: like whatever is for you, it's for you, can nobody

830
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 2: stop what's in your past? Can't nobody stop what God

831
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 2: already has ordained for your life. So it's like, once

832
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 2: you really truly believe that and live your life that way,

833
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 2: you are not worried about timelines. I feel like that's

834
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 2: why I can honestly say like at this point in

835
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 2: my life, I don't be worried about timelines, Like, yes,

836
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 2: I still want to have kids, Yes I want to

837
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,720
Speaker 2: get married. Yeah, it's certain career heights and career goals

838
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 2: and stuff that I have that I haven't reached it.

839
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 2: But I'm not worried about it because to me, it's

840
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 2: not a matter of if, it's a matter of when.

841
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: Come on, God, Yeah, it's a matter of when. It's like,

842
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 2: it's not about if it's gonna happen, it's when it's

843
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 2: gonna happen. Because God has showed me time and time

844
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 2: again that whatever it is that I manifest and that

845
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 2: I want for my life, as long as I put

846
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 2: the work in, it's gonna all come to fruition. I

847
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 2: think that people be scared because they ain't got enough

848
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,439
Speaker 2: faith and also a story for another time.

849
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,760
Speaker 1: That is a story for another time. But I also

850
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: feel like y'all like to think that y'all have more

851
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: control than what y'all.

852
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: Do, are more controlled than what God has.

853
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 1: Hello. Yeah, because like I said, y'all know that all

854
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: that stuff that happened, you know, and it was what

855
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:23,760
Speaker 1: we just talked about. It was literally people like, oh,

856
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: cancel Lex and Dre, cancel it. But one thing I

857
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: can say.

858
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 2: Can't cancel mepectfully.

859
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 1: But no, no, no, but.

860
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 4: No.

861
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 1: But let me say this though, because I feel like

862
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: one thing I can say about me and my friend,

863
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: we don't have a malicious bone in our body. I'd

864
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 1: have met people who are literally malicious people and they

865
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: do mean things. So I say all that to say

866
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: is we are so spiritual and we move in that

867
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: so we're gonna learn our lesson. We're gonna learn our lesson.

868
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: But it's not on you to say this is not

869
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: what we're supposed to be doing. They need to be canceled.

870
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: That's not your say.

871
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 2: So you know what I'm saying. Nobody has say so

872
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: over there.

873
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: Yes, but it's very Yeah, a lot of very week

874
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: A lot of people just be very negative, you know

875
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: what I mean, And I feel like they be speaking

876
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: from a place of not being able to do themselves. Yeah,

877
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 1: but I don't know, going back to like being desperate

878
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 1: in your thirties, I definitely feel like women for sure

879
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: get desperate when they get in a thirties and they

880
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: just be settling for anything when it comes to relationships,

881
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 1: when it comes to career choices, when it comes to friendships,

882
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: people are so afraid of being alone. But it's like,

883
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 1: if you find solace and you find peace within yours,

884
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: if you really love yourself, you're not afraid of being alone.

885
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 2: Being alone is the most peaceful place that you could

886
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 2: be if you really love yourself and have a good

887
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 2: relationship with self. Like, it's okay, Like I understand wanting camaraderie,

888
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 2: wanting to be around other people. Liked camaraderie, wanting to fellowship,

889
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 2: Like that's normal. We humans. Like nobody wants to be

890
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 2: by theyself all the time.

891
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to.

892
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 2: Be a.

893
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 1: Sorry but no.

894
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 2: You're right though, Like it's like nobody wants to be

895
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 2: and usher was right too, Nobody want to be alone.

896
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: Oh soon.

897
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 2: So it's fine to want to be around people, but

898
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,839
Speaker 2: it's like if you're depending on those relationships, that's when

899
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 2: it becomes a problem. And then I think a lot

900
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 2: of the time, that's when people start putting up with bullshit.

901
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to get into. Yeah, the bullshit

902
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: you dealing with somebody who is fighting all these demons

903
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: who got their own things going on, problems that they

904
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: need to solve. They have no business being in your bed,

905
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: being in your presence, because a lot of times you

906
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: be like this pot a lot women. I'll say this,

907
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: The number one thing we have people say are people

908
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: that DM me and they say, I was such a

909
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: happy person, I was so positive and then I just

910
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: turned to something out I never I didn't even recognize

911
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: myself anymore. And it's like, yeah, because you are dealing

912
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 1: with something just because you don't want to be by yourself.

913
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 2: And to be fair, can I say these two like,

914
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 2: I hate when people say stuff like that, because nobody

915
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 2: could turn you into the thing.

916
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: You know what I'll say people, can I feel like

917
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: you always?

918
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,720
Speaker 2: But you you always have control over how you respond

919
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 2: and how you react to things. You have control over

920
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 2: how you let things affect you.

921
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 1: True, but somebody can bring just like somebody can bring

922
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: out the good in you, somebody can bring out the

923
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: bad in you. If they if you let them stay

924
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: around long enough. Now, some people are blessed enough to

925
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: recognize those signs, but if you don't and you let

926
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: that person stay in your life, that ugly side is

927
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: gonna come out. So you are not recognizing yourself anymore

928
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: because you've allowed this person to stay in your life.

929
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm talking about because that was me.

930
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: I've been there before of trying to fight for something

931
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: because you think, oh, this is my person. Let me

932
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: tell you how much. I'm not staying with nothing no more.

933
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: But I feel like all the signs be pointing to

934
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 2: that's not your person, and people be trying to be like,

935
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 2: that's my person because it's the desperation.

936
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: And I can say that for myself, Yeah, it was

937
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: the desperation because I was scared to be alone because they'd.

938
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 2: Be like, all the signs is pointing there, this is

939
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 2: not God. God did not say this, He did not

940
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 2: see this. I'd be like, God, whatever show you show me, yeah,

941
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 2: or whatever you believe in, whether it's God, whether it's

942
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 2: the universe, whatever it is that you believe in, Like

943
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 2: they didn't see in this person. And I feel like

944
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 2: the signs be there, but people still be like, no,

945
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 2: I know you. I'm going to prove that it is

946
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:40,240
Speaker 2: my person.

947
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: And no matter how good of a woman you are,

948
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 1: no matter let me say this sah, say this to

949
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 1: the camera, not this sigh. No matter how good of

950
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: a woman you are, If that person is not for you,

951
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: that person is not for you.

952
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 2: And also realize the signs when these niggas don't want

953
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: to when and let me not even say niggas. When

954
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,240
Speaker 2: people don't want to be with you no more, realize

955
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 2: them signs too, because I think sometimes people be trying

956
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 2: to show people that they don't want to be with

957
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 2: the person no more because that they have like nuts.

958
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: They'd be like to be too much in them and

959
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 1: they don't have the they don't they can't let them nut.

960
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 2: Change yeah, the sign and say no, I don't want

961
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 2: you no more. And they'd be like, I can't read men.

962
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 1: And let me tell y'all, women, we like it in

963
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 1: black and white. Men love a good gray. They love

964
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: them gray sweatsuits. Bitch, But that's where what But that's

965
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Men are not gonna tell you. Women,

966
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: be like, if you want to.

967
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:38,319
Speaker 2: Be with me, just tell the men the sign's gonna

968
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 2: tell you they're not.

969
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: A man is never gonna want to tell you. His

970
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: actions are gonna tell you, because a man that wants

971
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: to be with you is gonna look at you in

972
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: your face say hey, I'm gonna I want to be

973
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: with you, but he's gonna show you.

974
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like it's just a lot of things.

975
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 2: You know, women when they get today thirties, they be

976
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 2: like wanting to have kids, they be wanting to get married.

977
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 2: I think that when you're in your twenties, you feel

978
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,959
Speaker 2: like you have so much time, and like nobody talks

979
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 2: about that. But the crazy thing is when you get

980
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 2: to your thirties, you have so much time too, because

981
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 2: like life expectancy is like seventy something eighty something years old,

982
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 2: you have time to have children. But I think that

983
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 2: people have always been taught that, like, oh if you

984
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,879
Speaker 2: don't have because if you look at Halle Barry, look

985
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 2: at Janet, Yeah, look at Helle, look at Helle Barry,

986
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 2: look at Jenny. But I also think when you look

987
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: back to like our grandparents, me too.

988
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: Time.

989
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 2: I think when you also look back to like our grandparents,

990
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,799
Speaker 2: our aunties, our parents, like everybody was having children really

991
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: young and then I feel like our generation, like the Millennials,

992
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 2: really changed this shit. But then I feel like gen

993
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 2: Z back on their bullshit.

994
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this, GenZ, gen Z be popping in

995
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 1: babi Gennials because we care about we care about being

996
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,879
Speaker 1: financially stable. Millennials were the first generation to say, hey,

997
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about this job. I'm moving around,

998
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 1: You're not paying me enough, and I'm gonna tell this

999
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: next job what I want. Our parents were taught to

1000
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: stay there and hold it down. Our parents were saying

1001
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:11,760
Speaker 1: hold it down to everything. Millennials were not holding down.

1002
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 2: Shop, hold it down, pop, hold it down. We ain't

1003
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: holding down nothing, bro. Now we not holding down she

1004
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 2: we not holding down a job. We not hold it

1005
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 2: out on me nothing. We hold it down.

1006
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 1: But that's how you get one line.

1007
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah you do.

1008
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: Now you want to HOLDO. You already know THO you

1009
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: only live once. That's the mottel yo yoo A word

1010
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: a word?

1011
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 2: What's it they said that? I don't know. I just

1012
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 2: feel like it makes me sad because I feel like

1013
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:47,399
Speaker 2: people be feeling like they don't have enough time when

1014
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 2: in reality, I mean, technically that is kind of true,

1015
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:51,839
Speaker 2: because you don't know how much time you have here.

1016
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 2: But that's why you just have to live your life

1017
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 2: like every day is y'r last day. But at the

1018
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 2: end of the day, don't do no shep that you

1019
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 2: don't want to do just because you scared that you

1020
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 2: don't have enough time.

1021
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: Right. And I'll say this, so when I'm imagine if

1022
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 1: it's meant for you, what is your like like when

1023
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 1: you can say I did it, Like what does that

1024
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: look like to you?

1025
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:14,280
Speaker 2: Like life?

1026
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when you were like, Okay, this is what

1027
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:17,760
Speaker 1: I was supposed to do in life.

1028
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 2: I feel like I've said this before, Like I feel

1029
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,879
Speaker 2: like for me, it's just being able to wake up

1030
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 2: every day and do exactly whatever it is that I

1031
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 2: want to do, Like being able to afford whatever I

1032
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 2: want to afford if I want to go somewhere, if

1033
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 2: I want to take my friends somewhere, if I want

1034
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:35,399
Speaker 2: to do something for my mom, I could just wake

1035
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 2: up on a random Tuesday and be like, Okay, I

1036
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 2: did that. So for me, it's that plus for sure,

1037
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 2: like having a family is important to me. Like I

1038
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 2: feel like if something happened to me and I didn't

1039
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 2: never get to have a family, I would be sad

1040
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 2: about that, you know. So I feel like having a family,

1041
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 2: waking up to my waking up to my kids, waking

1042
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 2: up to my husband and our beautiful home, and we

1043
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 2: both extremely accessible and accomplished, and then just also being

1044
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 2: able to do for the people around me and also

1045
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 2: do for other people, because I really want to be

1046
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 2: more like philanthropy the more money I made, like, I

1047
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 2: really want to like give back to the community and

1048
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 2: stuff like that. More so for me, that's when I

1049
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 2: feel like I made it. Yeah, Like it's not necessarily

1050
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 2: a certain number in my bank account. Yeah, I do

1051
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 2: think you need to have a certain number in there, right,

1052
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 2: But but for me, it's not a certain number that

1053
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 2: I need to see. It's more about the things that

1054
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 2: I'll be able to do for other people.

1055
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair. Yeah, I like that. I like that.

1056
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 2: What is it for you?

1057
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: I think for me, I always ask myself this. I

1058
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: ask myself this a lot because sometimes I find myself

1059
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: unhappy and sad or and I'm just like and then

1060
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: I'll get a tweet, or I'll get a DM or

1061
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: you'll call me, your KILLO call me, and it'll lift

1062
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: my spirits up. But what I've realized is everything I've

1063
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: wanted my entire life, I'm doing it now. I think

1064
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 1: I try to find my happiness and other people and

1065
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: materialistic things, and I realized I was sent on here

1066
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: to make people laugh and make people happy, and I'm

1067
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: doing that right now. That's why I say a lot

1068
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 1: of times we're so busy chasing our dreams and you

1069
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:32,320
Speaker 1: don't realize you're living it. And I think for my dream,

1070
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 1: it was like I just want to make people feel good.

1071
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: So I'm like, damn, like I'm living it right now,

1072
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: like I'm doing what I always wanted to do, and

1073
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: that's entertained people.

1074
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think people run from their purpose a lot

1075
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 2: because they be afraid of who that can really be

1076
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 2: if they tap into it.

1077
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1078
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 2: I think you do that for sure. Yeah, and I

1079
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 2: think we both do. I think we both do that,

1080
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: of course, because I think you run away from like

1081
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 2: I feel like you're a giving gifts is like making

1082
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,319
Speaker 2: people laugh, yeah, yeah, like for real, for real, Like

1083
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 2: I feel like everybody has their talents, everybody has that

1084
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 2: thing that God gave them that makes them special that

1085
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,240
Speaker 2: they need to tap into, and that's like your purpose.

1086
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1087
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I feel like for you, your purpose is definitely

1088
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 2: like your humor. It's making people laugh, it's being able

1089
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 2: to put people in a good mood. But I feel

1090
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:30,359
Speaker 2: like you definitely run from me a little bit at

1091
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 2: times cause I feel like you're afraid of the rejection.

1092
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 2: Well no people, but everybody thinks you're so funny.

1093
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 1: Well you know what it is. I think it's because

1094
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: how I want to do it.

1095
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 2: I think in your head, yeah, I know.

1096
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,800
Speaker 1: How I want to do it, and that's what I'm like, Okay,

1097
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: this because I have to listen to myself and I

1098
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: have to listen to like God and what he's leading

1099
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: me to. And I know what I feel comfortable with,

1100
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: so I know that route that I'm taking and what

1101
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: the next steps that I'm doing. But like I said,

1102
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,319
Speaker 1: I think for me, for so long, I thought, oh,

1103
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 1: once I make this amount of money, I'm gonna be

1104
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: happy and everything's gonna be okay. And once I get this,

1105
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 1: everything's gonna be okay. And I got there, and I'm like,

1106
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 1: the thing that makes me happy constantly is coming here

1107
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 1: and being able to have a community that accepts me

1108
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: and that understands me and that sees me. And now

1109
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: I can make them feel good because that makes me

1110
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 1: feel good.

1111
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1112
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: Because I say all that because, like I said, I

1113
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: spent so much time being unhappy and feeling like, oh

1114
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: my god, I just need money. I just need this,

1115
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,399
Speaker 1: Louisvason bag, I just need this. And once I got that,

1116
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,959
Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck is this? You get

1117
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: you get the good man, you get the rich nigga,

1118
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 1: you get the this, and you get to that. I'm like,

1119
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: for me though, I was like, I am a people person.

1120
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: That's why when all that stuff happened, That's why I

1121
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,799
Speaker 1: keep bringing it up, cause I know. But I was

1122
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:05,320
Speaker 1: just like, oh, I know how it feels to feel

1123
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: on the outside and feeling like you don't have nowhere

1124
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: to be. And one thing I can say about poor minds,

1125
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 1: we have done an amazing job of creating a space

1126
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: for black women to come and feel seen, no matter

1127
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 1: how you look, how you dress, your body type, your

1128
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: body shape, your sexual orientation. Like, this is a safe

1129
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 1: space and I never want anybody to feel like you're

1130
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 1: outside of that, because I know how it feels to

1131
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 1: feel on the outside and you don't know where you belong.

1132
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I get it. I think, like I said,

1133
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: like I was going back to what I was saying,

1134
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 2: like I feel like people run from their gifts all

1135
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 2: the time. Like I feel like I'm kind of like

1136
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 2: my power is in like being transparent. But I feel

1137
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 2: like for a very long time, like I ran from

1138
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 2: like transparence. Yeah, sharing myself, like sharing my full self

1139
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,760
Speaker 2: with people. And I feel like, but I'm starting to realize,

1140
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 2: like that's one of the main things that people love

1141
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 2: for me, is like love it my transparency. How I

1142
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 2: alway be saying some real shit. I always got to profit, Okay, stop?

1143
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 2: Profit is such like it. I mean, that's yeah, that's fair,

1144
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's such like a deep word,

1145
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 2: but that holds a lot of meaning behind it, a

1146
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 2: lot of profound things that people need. Yeah, I do.

1147
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: I do. I think that I do say a lot

1148
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 2: of profound things that people need to hear because I've

1149
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 2: been through a lot of shit that I've seen people

1150
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 2: don't really know that I've been through because like again

1151
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 2: I said, I've always ran from kind of like I

1152
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 2: just always feel like I'm almost to keep my busing

1153
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 2: to myself, which is fine to a certain extent. I

1154
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 2: do feel like when you get in the space that

1155
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 2: we're in. It is certain parts of your life that

1156
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 2: you have to keep private, right if you want to

1157
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 2: remain happy and you want to remain sane. But I

1158
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 2: do think it's parts of myself that I don't share

1159
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 2: with people, are having shared with people over the years

1160
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 2: that I've started to finally share, and I feel like

1161
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 2: it really do be helping people. Yeah, so I think

1162
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 2: you know, both of us, like we have to just

1163
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 2: learn to like live in our truth and our truths

1164
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: and our gifts and like, you know, that's what people

1165
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 2: look for us for. But it's scary, it is, but

1166
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 2: that I feel like that should be the desperation in

1167
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: your thirties, the fine self to find your purpose.

1168
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be a man. I get all upset when

1169
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: I see women that I know, women that write in

1170
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: like you have the world at your fingertips just because

1171
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: you're thirty five. I'm not settling for nothing.

1172
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 2: But I do think society makes you can't blame women

1173
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 2: for that, because that's all we've been taught. Like even

1174
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 2: look into my family, like.

1175
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: I have uns right now, Who'll be like we gonna

1176
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 1: have a baby, Yeah, yeah, we're gonna have a baby.

1177
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and it's like cause they had kids

1178
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 2: at like nineteen and twenty and that's cool, but like

1179
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 2: that wasn't my journey, that wasn't my path, and that's okay,

1180
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 2: but look how hard and I didn't want your children

1181
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 2: have to do that.

1182
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:57,919
Speaker 1: When I if I'm blessed with a child, or if

1183
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 1: I ever have a child, I want my child to

1184
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: have an easy life.

1185
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 2: You can't say if you say when i's or if

1186
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:04,959
Speaker 2: for when?

1187
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, But like I said, what no matter

1188
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 1: what I say, if it's in my path, it's gonna

1189
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: have to happen. So I say that because I don't know,

1190
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 1: but I want when I when, or if if when.

1191
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 1: I want my child to be like I can do anything.

1192
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: By the time my oldest nephew graduates high school, I

1193
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:26,720
Speaker 1: want him to be like I can do anything because

1194
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: my aunts he did this X y Z, I got

1195
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: all the connections in the world. Because that's fool. That's

1196
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: all had kids at a young age. But what were

1197
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: your kids able to do off the strength of you?

1198
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 1: And I don't believe that a child's like I don't

1199
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: necessarily like the word legacy because it's not your child's

1200
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: job to carry on your legacy or have that pressure.

1201
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: I hate that. I do hate that, but I do

1202
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 1: feel like they should have the options.

1203
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 2: And I do hate when people be saying stuff like

1204
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 2: that too. Like somebody had actually left the comment under

1205
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 2: one of the episodes we just did recent and they

1206
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 2: was like, well, if y'all gonna have kids, y'all need

1207
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 2: to have them soon.

1208
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: I've seen it, You've seen it all that they said.

1209
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 2: They was like, if y'all gonna have kids, y'all need

1210
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:10,919
Speaker 2: to have them soon because if not, if y'all, y'all

1211
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 2: are gonna be forty having like a five year old

1212
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 2: or a four year old. So if you don't have

1213
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 2: them in the next five years, y'all just shouldn't have them.

1214
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:20,920
Speaker 2: And I'll just be like, okay, well, like should I

1215
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 2: have had one at twenty two like you? And then

1216
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 2: they eighteen and like they don't have a college fund.

1217
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 1: Fun they like the things that I went through in

1218
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 1: my late twenty I'm just saying, like, I hate when

1219
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 1: people try to put those timeframes on people, like, oh,

1220
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be able to run with your kids,

1221
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be able to play with them. Why

1222
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: cause maybe I be in the gym. I be in

1223
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 1: the gym four or five times a week.

1224
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 2: I'm very healthy, I'm very I very much can run

1225
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 2: and hang with my child. Like what are y'all talking about?

1226
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 2: But people try to put that pressure on you because

1227
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:55,439
Speaker 2: it's something that they did. And it's like, I didn't

1228
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 2: need to have a kid at twenty two, and because

1229
01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 2: you had one in twenty two, does that make you

1230
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 2: better than me because you provide for your child more

1231
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 2: than I will be able to provide for mine when

1232
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:04,959
Speaker 2: I have them at forty.

1233
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 1: And also probably not what I went through in my

1234
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 1: late twines.

1235
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 2: Like that too, make you feel bad about that too,

1236
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 2: Like they be like, oh, well, having a nanny, you're

1237
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 2: not really being a prison parent. How am I not

1238
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 2: being a prison parent because I can afford help. Is

1239
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 2: it because you could not afford help that you feel

1240
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 2: that way or it's because you feel like I'm really

1241
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 2: not present because I'm there.

1242
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 1: And let me say something to that too, because people

1243
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: always say it takes a village. It does take a village.

1244
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 1: What's the difference between your baby staying with your sister

1245
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: or the grandmama or me having a nanny. It ain't

1246
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 1: no difference. It takes a village period. So if I

1247
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: can hire help because I don't have, you know, a

1248
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: mother or a sister or a brother to be here,

1249
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 1: it's a village.

1250
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 2: I think sometimes people just be mad at the privilege,

1251
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 2: because honestly, being able to have a child later in

1252
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 2: life is a privilege. And I feel like that's the

1253
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 2: problem that people don't look at it like that and

1254
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:07,439
Speaker 2: acknowledge it like that, because that's what it is. Yeah,

1255
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 2: being able to have a child later in life is

1256
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 2: a privilege. Being able to be financially stable when you

1257
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 2: finally decide to start a family is a privilege. A

1258
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 2: lot of people did not have that privilege, and I

1259
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 2: think it makes people feel some type of way that

1260
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 2: you have the audacity to like both about it, I

1261
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 2: guess to well and be grateful. I don't want to

1262
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 2: say both about it, but just be grateful for the

1263
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:32,480
Speaker 2: fact that because I'm grateful, like no part of me

1264
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 2: the older I get when I was younger, I'm not

1265
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 2: gonna lie like I used to be, like, oh, I

1266
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 2: feel like I missed out on my opportunity to like

1267
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 2: have a baby, because you know, we've talked about these before,

1268
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 2: and like I feel know we both was in situations

1269
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 2: where like when we were younger, we could have had

1270
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 2: kids with people. But and I used to for a

1271
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 2: while feel like, oh I should have did these at

1272
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 2: that moment, But like now that I'm thirty three, I'd

1273
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 2: be like, fuck no, my quality of life would have

1274
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 2: been so fucking fuck up if I would have had

1275
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 2: and not like the quality as far as like material

1276
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 2: or monetary thing, because I would have been straight in

1277
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 2: that lane. But when it comes to my mental the

1278
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 2: ship I would have had to deal with on a

1279
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 2: normal basis, Like I'm so grateful that I decided not

1280
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 2: to want not I decided, but God decided for me

1281
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 2: to not have to take that route, you know what

1282
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 2: I mean, And like it's okay when things and I'm

1283
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 2: comfortable now at thirty three that when things are going

1284
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:32,959
Speaker 2: to happen for me is going to happen, and God

1285
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 2: gonna make sure that it happened with the right person,

1286
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:37,960
Speaker 2: because one thing I know for show at this point

1287
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 2: in my life, my ancestors and God don't play about me,

1288
01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:43,640
Speaker 2: he loo at all.

1289
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: And that's what I said. I can imagine being they

1290
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: don't play God period. How bad I struggled up there

1291
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: doing his beag. That's what I'm saying. Like, being in

1292
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 1: my late twenties, I struggled so bad. I cannot imagine

1293
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: having a child. Yeah, what I was going through and

1294
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 1: trying to find myself, trying to find emotional intelligence, trying

1295
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 1: to be a better person for me, but also while

1296
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 1: raising a child. That's why I say a lot of

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Speaker 1: women and a lot of men, just everybody. A lot

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Speaker 2: And I know so many people who be like fan

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Speaker 2: And to me, that's like, it's not a terrible thing

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Speaker 1: Everybody, I'm not gonna lie to you. Nine out of

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Speaker 2: Kids, and then then like it was right, and then

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Speaker 1: Right, and tell me about you and your baby daddy relationship.

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Speaker 1: That's why it's a baby daddy No shade, no shade,

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Speaker 1: but I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: It's a little shad. No, it's not shade though.

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Speaker 1: But there's nothing wrong with waiting, and it's nothing wrong

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Speaker 1: with working on self. So the desperation in your thirties, hey,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to let the hype die down. I had

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Speaker 1: to let it die down because it's been so much

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Speaker 1: going on and we do not talk about hot topics

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Speaker 1: on this show. But this led to the bed topic

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01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: today because I was having a discussion with somebody and

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Speaker 1: this is why I felt like it was like a

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Speaker 1: little weird. Okay, so obviously it's the bed. We're grown,

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Speaker 1: we're adults, we're talking about Shannon Sharp and what went

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01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 1: on a few weeks ago, a month ago with whenever

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Speaker 1: he was on live having an adult situation with his michelles.

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Speaker 1: His michelles. It's only one, but he said his michelles.

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Speaker 2: I know he said it with one, no apostrophe.

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Speaker 1: He is, Oh, he's gonna add to that. That's on it.

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Speaker 2: Oh michelles, maybe two of them, twin sisters.

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Speaker 1: But a lot of people were coming out saying they

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Speaker 1: felt like it was a PR move because I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying nothing about I don't know nothing about nothing. But

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Speaker 1: they were saying it was a PR move because people

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Speaker 1: be saying whatever about his sexuality.

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Speaker 2: Having sex for a PR move, that's the topic.

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Speaker 1: No pleased, but people do that.

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Speaker 2: That is a good topic.

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Speaker 1: But like a question, I feel like this stop questions

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Speaker 1: people's sexuality unless they talk about it. Yeah, first of all,

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Speaker 1: that's so ain't never said nothing about this in X

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Speaker 1: y Z lead that man alone when it comes to that.

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Speaker 1: But a lot of people were saying they felt like

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Speaker 1: it was a PR move and that's why he was

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Speaker 1: making it sure it was known that it was a woman,

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Speaker 1: and that's why he was saying her name. So I

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Speaker 1: wanted to talk about because the conversation I had with

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Speaker 1: this person.

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Speaker 2: It was like a back and forth.

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Speaker 1: Do men be moaning women's name?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Do they be be like my drill drill.

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Speaker 1: Brow br br.

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Speaker 2: First of all, do they anybody ever moaned my name

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Speaker 2: like that? I would get up and fucking leave. But

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Speaker 2: so no, because, first of all, the way he was

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Speaker 2: moaning that lady name, he sounded like a geriatric senior cee.

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Speaker 2: The scene he was saying it like his name is Odie's,

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Speaker 2: like how Cornelie?

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Speaker 1: He was saying, come on, give us an example. I'm

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Speaker 1: fama ship.

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Speaker 2: Mmm, like I don't know. Don't say my fucking name

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Speaker 2: like that, like fuck what Beyonce was said, don't say

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Speaker 2: my name if you don't say it, don't say my

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Speaker 2: fucking name. If you don't say it like this, don't

1400
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Speaker 2: say it all. Just I'll just be quiet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'll put my hand over a nigga my mouth real quick.

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Speaker 1: No, because I just like men. I think it's more

1404
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 1: of a like have I had a man say my

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01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 1: name before? Yes? But was it something necessarily that turned

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Speaker 1: me on? Not really, I'm more sot of like just

1407
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: say baby na damn like you can say my name,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know. It's just not a thing that

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Speaker 1: I'm just like.

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Speaker 2: No, yeah, let's super into not gonna lot to you.

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Speaker 2: That's not my signature move. If you start saying something

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Speaker 2: that I don't like, I'd be like, oh, like you.

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Speaker 1: Cover their mouth, cover their mouth. Okay, okay, Well I've

1414
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: never had a situation well.

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Speaker 2: No, but I make it sexy. I do it slow.

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Speaker 1: That's you. That's not slow.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it slow and then I'm gonna just grab.

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01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: But no, But do I feel like men be saying

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01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 1: a woman's name a lot? Like I said, I've been.

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Speaker 1: I've had situations where a man said my name, but

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Speaker 1: it wasn't necessarily like oh it turned me on.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I like I know now if they say like like,

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Speaker 2: if you said that the right, you gotta That's why

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Speaker 2: you gotta be with a man who know how to

1425
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:40,040
Speaker 2: like talk and big.

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01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, most men don't know how to do that. Somebody.

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Speaker 2: You gotta be with somebody who knows how to talk

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Speaker 2: about my nigven know how to talk.

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Speaker 1: To me, right.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying, if you get with somebody who

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Speaker 2: know how to do that then like, yeah, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: I love it. It wasn't given that. But what what

1433
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:03,320
Speaker 1: was crazy about it was a lot of women was like, oh,

1434
01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: I wanted to see the tape. I wanted to see it.

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01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:09,240
Speaker 1: Oh he sounded sexy. No he did it. It did

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01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:12,400
Speaker 1: sounds and he sounded like no about the ass out,

1437
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: it's no shade. And I said this on live. But

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Speaker 1: like if it would have been like, oh, Cho Sinko

1439
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:22,719
Speaker 1: and his wife because o't yo fine and his wife fine?

1440
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:26,040
Speaker 1: I think, don't y'all know what he's saying a little bit,

1441
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:29,880
Speaker 1: that would have been more believable. But Shannon, it wasn't

1442
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 1: given when it was supposed to give. Michelle's, Michelle's, Michelle's. No,

1443
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 1: it didn't get it didn't do it for me. So

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01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 1: the girls I was like, oh, Shannon, they was in

1445
01:11:42,880 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 1: the comments like oh, and then he sold this. Yeah.

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01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 2: I wasn't feeling it. I felt like it was like

1447
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:49,200
Speaker 2: nineteen fifty three.

1448
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:51,640
Speaker 1: Yes, like we were trying to hurry him for a

1449
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: master came in.

1450
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 2: Whoa, it wasn't slavery in nineteen fifty three.

1451
01:11:56,680 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: But it was colored. But maybe that's what I'm saying.

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01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:04,679
Speaker 1: It was colors only it was given colors only sex.

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01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 2: It was, well, that's only sex. I don't like.

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01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, okay, outside of that, I'm just saying,

1455
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 1: like I don't mind a man saying my name during sex.

1456
01:12:18,200 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 2: But like you said, do you like for them to

1457
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:21,439
Speaker 2: say a real name or do you like for them

1458
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 2: to call you lex pe?

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01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 1: No, don't call me lex Pi in the bedroom because

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01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:28,640
Speaker 1: it's given fan because every man that I've dated that

1461
01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 1: I've been in a serious situation with, they call me

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01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:34,760
Speaker 1: by my real name. Don't say it like that because

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01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 1: that's how he used to say.

1464
01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 2: I know, I'm just imagining in my head that.

1465
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 1: I hate you for that. But no, so if you

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01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:50,760
Speaker 1: call me lex or LEXP and bed turn off, I

1467
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: don't like that. That's why I said, like you could

1468
01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 1: say my name in bed. It's not like a thing

1469
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:57,640
Speaker 1: that I like. Oh you have to say it. But

1470
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 1: like I said, I like my my like my little

1471
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:02,840
Speaker 1: pet names that we call each other in real life,

1472
01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:03,680
Speaker 1: so you can say that.

1473
01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:06,599
Speaker 2: That's more like you know, I like the pet names.

1474
01:13:06,640 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna ask you what's my name name? Back

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Speaker 2: of ballet s P A C A A and.

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Speaker 1: D E.

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Speaker 2: I E Spack of Valley A. You are so wrong

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Speaker 2: for them spelling shit out here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let us know, do y'all like when a

1480
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:32,120
Speaker 1: man says, y'all now.

1481
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Speaker 2: Like I can, it's sticky, But just not when he

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Speaker 2: got there old men, girl, Oh that's not like sting

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Speaker 3: I know, But if he did, he like drill drill, drill, drill.

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Speaker 1: You can stop now, that's how he was saying. No,

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01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:06,960
Speaker 1: he would not say, I don't even want to picture

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1514
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:32,519
Speaker 1: it's all se get into the bop Hey, the bop

1515
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 1: out the bob Bow Bow Bow Bow Bow. Okay, So

1516
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 1: my Bob of the Week this week is by I

1517
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:43,240
Speaker 1: hope I'm saying this right because I'm be messing up. Everybody.

1518
01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:46,680
Speaker 1: Name is Bob Malayah. She just dropped the project and

1519
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 1: it's called oh damn, I don't know what, but the

1520
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:52,840
Speaker 1: song is called do It out of love. And this

1521
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 1: kind of goes into the topic we were talking today

1522
01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 1: because a lot of times if you heard that title

1523
01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 1: like do what I Love, you would think it's talking

1524
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:03,240
Speaker 1: about doing something for someone out of love. But what

1525
01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: I resonated from this song, and that's why I love music,

1526
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:09,040
Speaker 1: because you can interpret a song however you want to

1527
01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 1: interpret it. So I interpreted it as self love and

1528
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:16,639
Speaker 1: how to love yourself. You're doing everything out of love

1529
01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 1: for yourself. You can't love anybody until you love yourself properly.

1530
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 1: So it is such a beautiful song. She has such

1531
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 1: an amazing voice, It's very rich. It's something about the

1532
01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 1: girls that are just eating up the R and B

1533
01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 1: right now. So Malaya do it out of love? That's

1534
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,200
Speaker 1: my bop of the week. Fire shout out to you, Malia.

1535
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:39,120
Speaker 1: You did your big one.

1536
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 2: Now ain't about love, that's all right, That's all to

1537
01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 2: do with love. So Future, just drop the mix tape

1538
01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 2: you went wait to the album called mixtape Okay, and

1539
01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 2: you know I'm a huge I'm a future saying I

1540
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 2: have been a future staying for a while now, probably

1541
01:17:04,520 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 2: for like the past ten years. Like we go way

1542
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 2: back to peak Coats peak Coat Burt berry and it's

1543
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:15,120
Speaker 2: hurt me coat. Yeah, that was our shit because.

1544
01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:20,679
Speaker 1: It's so crazy because people always put okay, people always

1545
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:22,960
Speaker 1: put March Madness as the number one no.

1546
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:24,720
Speaker 2: But that's how you know they wasn't really in the

1547
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:27,639
Speaker 2: trench man. What peakat was that girl?

1548
01:17:27,760 --> 01:17:32,679
Speaker 1: Because even with itching my fingers day, my mama said,

1549
01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,719
Speaker 1: that's not what I wanted to do a love song.

1550
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 2: Okay, but it's okay, okay, maybe we could do that

1551
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 2: my savagies. Like I'm telling y'all like I've been a

1552
01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,360
Speaker 2: Future staying for real before like all of like the

1553
01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 2: commercial here. So anyways, Future just had an album that

1554
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:54,840
Speaker 2: just drops called Mixtape Pluto. He got this song on

1555
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,519
Speaker 2: there called two Fast. I like this song, okay, I

1556
01:17:57,760 --> 01:18:00,519
Speaker 2: love you know me. I love any song on where

1557
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:04,120
Speaker 2: they be talking about on the girl by.

1558
01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:06,800
Speaker 1: What I do.

1559
01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:11,759
Speaker 2: I love it because I feel like, treat your girl nice,

1560
01:18:11,920 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 2: not on any girl, but y girl. Yeah, treat your

1561
01:18:16,400 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 2: girl nice, like you should do what do for her?

1562
01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:21,120
Speaker 2: And I mean tricking and whatever aspect that mean the

1563
01:18:21,200 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 2: hood like if she like cook Wears, take her to

1564
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:30,840
Speaker 2: home Goods, and she likes Chanelle, take us to Chanil.

1565
01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 1: Let me tell you I'm not gonna lie. See y'all

1566
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 1: if she likes putting them on game right now. If

1567
01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 1: a man took me the home goods and said, go stupid, yeah,

1568
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get that cat, getting that cat immediately.

1569
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 2: Anna, what I'm gonna go stupid? If you take me

1570
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:47,639
Speaker 2: to home you know what means.

1571
01:18:49,280 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 1: You know what means more to me?

1572
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:50,720
Speaker 2: Though?

1573
01:18:51,600 --> 01:18:53,920
Speaker 1: I like Chanel, I got a Chanel, I got it,

1574
01:18:54,040 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 1: I got a couple of Chanels. What means more to me?

1575
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 1: Take me the restoration and say, get a couch for

1576
01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:06,960
Speaker 1: restorational hardware. That a couch from restoration hardware. I know

1577
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:09,960
Speaker 1: if I walk in somebody house, I can see Chanell's

1578
01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:12,479
Speaker 1: all day. I'm not impressed. If I see that rh

1579
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: on the tag underneath, and then you know when you

1580
01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:19,640
Speaker 1: get rh that are why are you lifting people cushions up?

1581
01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 1: Because that's what I do because I'm like, where you

1582
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:25,240
Speaker 1: got this from? This whole is nice. It's the fucking fuck.

1583
01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 1: If I see that rh on there, I know you

1584
01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:29,080
Speaker 1: mean business.

1585
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:34,120
Speaker 2: Yeah That's what I'm saying, So like whatever, whatever, yo, girl,

1586
01:19:34,360 --> 01:19:36,439
Speaker 2: like I feel like you should treat her nice and

1587
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:41,120
Speaker 2: buy it for her soul. Anyways, Yeah, I'm an advocate.

1588
01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:44,320
Speaker 1: Put out the future shout out to restoration hardware.

1589
01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:47,560
Speaker 2: But the whole facts. Somebody, one of y'all need to

1590
01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 2: give us a sponsorship future or restorational harm.

1591
01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:50,800
Speaker 1: I'll take both.

1592
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 2: I take either one or both of them. So yeah,

1593
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 2: I love that song, but the whole, Honestly, the whole,

1594
01:19:58,200 --> 01:20:01,000
Speaker 2: the whole album is good. But I me future albums.

1595
01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:05,200
Speaker 1: I mean, he's a he's a classic. He gives us albums,

1596
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 1: kind of like how Prince does.

1597
01:20:07,120 --> 01:20:10,000
Speaker 2: He really don't think he's like the Sinatra of our generation.

1598
01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 1: Absolutely, I think he is how people feel about Sinatra

1599
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:18,799
Speaker 1: and classical music. It's how people in rap feel about future.

1600
01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:21,679
Speaker 2: It's not even about rap. I feel like, one hundred

1601
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:24,280
Speaker 2: years from now, this is gonna be classical music.

1602
01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:26,600
Speaker 1: I don't think it'll be classical, but I think for

1603
01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:33,600
Speaker 1: the raps stays, future music is legendary. It does it

1604
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 1: ages well. Futures music agees well. There's some rappers who

1605
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 1: are so hot at one time, and I listen to

1606
01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 1: that music don't replay value. Futures replay value is one

1607
01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 1: hundred percent, and there's not a lot of artists that

1608
01:20:51,560 --> 01:20:53,840
Speaker 1: can do that. You know who has replay value Let's

1609
01:20:53,880 --> 01:20:57,799
Speaker 1: Day is an Artists who have replay value Beyonce, Anita Baker,

1610
01:20:57,960 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 1: Anita Baker, Rihanna, Riah Carey, jay Z, Wayne Lord, Wayne Drake, Future.

1611
01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:14,679
Speaker 1: But we're talking we sa Nicki Minaj. These are artists

1612
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:21,679
Speaker 1: who replay value is one hundred Frank, but Frank Ocean.

1613
01:21:21,840 --> 01:21:26,720
Speaker 1: If we're talking about Frank replay value, okay, it's through

1614
01:21:26,880 --> 01:21:29,240
Speaker 1: the roof. I'm talking about if you listen to an

1615
01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 1: album and you can listen to it ten years from now,

1616
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 1: and that whole still slap. What's what's the name of

1617
01:21:37,360 --> 01:21:43,880
Speaker 1: that first Frank Ocean album? God, oh my god, life changing, nostalgia,

1618
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:48,960
Speaker 1: ultra life changing. I can still put that on.

1619
01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:51,559
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell y'all something. I don't care. I'm

1620
01:21:51,560 --> 01:21:54,960
Speaker 2: gonna be ninety years old still listening to Nova Kane.

1621
01:21:56,080 --> 01:22:02,320
Speaker 2: That's my that whole album Forever Swim good, Yes, oh my.

1622
01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:06,879
Speaker 1: God, swim good to this day swim fuck.

1623
01:22:09,280 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 2: No.

1624
01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:11,640
Speaker 1: We said jay Z, Yeah, I said jay Z, I

1625
01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:16,439
Speaker 1: said jay Z, Kanye Kanye. It's it's some people who

1626
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:19,679
Speaker 1: know how to make music that's gonna last for years. Yeah,

1627
01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:23,719
Speaker 1: And I feel like y'all may not like Future because

1628
01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 1: of whatever his personal life is. But I'm telling you

1629
01:22:27,120 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: trap music is something that can last forever. Jez put

1630
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 1: on a j Z album and that music is still

1631
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:39,719
Speaker 1: hard right now. Some people know how to make.

1632
01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 2: Music winter time.

1633
01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:52,000
Speaker 1: Jesus, Like Jesus, what still get the club? Nick?

1634
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:54,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, we shown, we're showing that we used to really

1635
01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 2: be outside.

1636
01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:57,599
Speaker 1: But I'm saying it's a legendary music, and I think

1637
01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:00,680
Speaker 1: Future makes legendary music. We have to put him in

1638
01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:04,720
Speaker 1: that category of legends and people who make music that

1639
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:11,160
Speaker 1: can last for a lifetime. Because I'm telling you, when we.

1640
01:23:11,280 --> 01:23:14,160
Speaker 2: Are in our eighties, I'm gonna be listening to the Future.

1641
01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:15,559
Speaker 1: Still. You sure.

1642
01:23:18,960 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 2: Because you wasn't here. He got a song for that too,

1643
01:23:23,400 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 2: You wasn't here.

1644
01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:26,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's move on. Let's move on.

1645
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:27,800
Speaker 2: Let's move on so real quick.

1646
01:23:28,360 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 1: I know, mother Reek real quick. I just want to

1647
01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:32,720
Speaker 1: shout out this business. I know y'all been in the

1648
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:36,040
Speaker 1: comments talking about man here. I haven't worn straight hair

1649
01:23:36,200 --> 01:23:40,599
Speaker 1: in about two three years. I'm just like a little body.

1650
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:44,720
Speaker 1: But I linked up with a company and she was like,

1651
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:46,640
Speaker 1: I want to send you some wigs. And I was

1652
01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 1: real hesitant at first because I don't like people sending

1653
01:23:49,320 --> 01:23:52,519
Speaker 1: me here and I don't know. I'm just real picky,

1654
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:56,280
Speaker 1: but y'all, this has been one of my favorite units.

1655
01:23:56,400 --> 01:23:58,400
Speaker 1: I've gotten so many compliments on it. I got a

1656
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:01,400
Speaker 1: curly unit from her. That's fire. If y'all follow me

1657
01:24:01,479 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 1: on Instagram, y'all saw it. I got this from Hairfiend

1658
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1659
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Speaker 1: glueless unit. This is glueless so I can take it

1660
01:24:12,520 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 1: off at night. And yeah, this is some hair that

1661
01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:25,559
Speaker 1: I got from her. It's raw bundles, its auge last night.

1662
01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:28,599
Speaker 1: But yeah, she was super sweet. She took the measurements

1663
01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 1: on my head. She got it straight out to me

1664
01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:35,120
Speaker 1: super quick. Hair is raw bundles. It's a breathable cap,

1665
01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:38,360
Speaker 1: so I don't feel hot because one thing I will say,

1666
01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:40,240
Speaker 1: when you get a lot of Lewis units, they're like

1667
01:24:40,920 --> 01:24:43,640
Speaker 1: a cap and it's over your whole head. This is

1668
01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:47,080
Speaker 1: a breathable cap so I can scratch my scalp. I

1669
01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 1: can feel my scalp right now. So yeah, super professional

1670
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Speaker 1: Hairfiend Queens dot Biz. I'm put the link in the bio,

1671
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Speaker 1: so yeah, shout out to you girl, Thank you so much.

1672
01:24:57,320 --> 01:24:59,599
Speaker 1: This is some beautiful hair. This is the raw hair.

1673
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:02,759
Speaker 1: This is the brown that it came in. I actually

1674
01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 1: didn't want to die of black because I'm usually a

1675
01:25:04,560 --> 01:25:06,000
Speaker 1: black girl. No, I like it.

1676
01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:08,240
Speaker 2: And like you remember when you were telling me you

1677
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:10,559
Speaker 2: wanted to diet, I would, but you said you were

1678
01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:13,719
Speaker 2: gonna die lighter. Yeah, but I actually really like the brown.

1679
01:25:13,960 --> 01:25:16,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna actually keep this one. I'm gonna get

1680
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:18,840
Speaker 1: another one from her. I am so yeah, y'all, make

1681
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:22,840
Speaker 1: sure y'all go to hairfiine queens dot biz. You use

1682
01:25:22,960 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 1: code LEXP. I think she has a cold right now.

1683
01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, I like it. I like the straight hair.

1684
01:25:28,880 --> 01:25:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm viobbing with the straight hair.

1685
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:35,040
Speaker 2: It's real cute. It's real cute. So now what's up y'all?

1686
01:25:35,040 --> 01:25:37,920
Speaker 2: As your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the call.

1687
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:40,840
Speaker 1: Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor Minds called

1688
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Speaker 1: Item of the Week. But do you have a product

1689
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1690
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1691
01:25:46,040 --> 01:25:49,719
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1692
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1693
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1694
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Speaker 2: Poor Mind's episode So if you would like to get

1695
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Speaker 2: your product featured for Item of the Week, all you

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1699
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Speaker 2: k P M at gmail dot com. Send us an

1700
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1701
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:20,599
Speaker 2: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

1702
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1703
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1704
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Speaker 2: And a black business said that, but I mean any

1705
01:26:30,960 --> 01:26:34,719
Speaker 2: businesses welcome. How it's time to get into our favorite

1706
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1707
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1708
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1710
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Speaker 1: Thank you, zad.

1711
01:26:51,840 --> 01:26:52,000
Speaker 2: Oh.

1712
01:26:52,080 --> 01:26:57,519
Speaker 3: Okay, I know that's right, right, and.

1713
01:26:57,560 --> 01:27:01,240
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1714
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1715
01:27:03,120 --> 01:27:06,840
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1716
01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 1: let me let me with my whistle, with that whistle.

1717
01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:15,760
Speaker 1: Blow your whistle your what do you remember that thing?

1718
01:27:15,880 --> 01:27:17,559
Speaker 2: I was thinking of? Blow a whistle.

1719
01:27:18,720 --> 01:27:21,080
Speaker 1: I know you are, but that's why people try to

1720
01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:26,040
Speaker 1: play on PD Pablo top PD Pablo's first album was

1721
01:27:26,160 --> 01:27:31,439
Speaker 1: so good anything is about to go down when we

1722
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:36,559
Speaker 1: in the fun fun room, the fun room, y'all don't

1723
01:27:36,600 --> 01:27:39,320
Speaker 1: know about that, because I'm telling you I was in

1724
01:27:39,439 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 1: music staying so bad. I listened to PD Pablo's whole

1725
01:27:43,479 --> 01:27:45,840
Speaker 1: first album. Used to have a something that like this

1726
01:27:46,040 --> 01:27:51,679
Speaker 1: blow blow? What's up? What mean y'all? All I'm saying

1727
01:27:51,840 --> 01:27:57,680
Speaker 1: is he had more than North Carolina? And uh, what

1728
01:27:57,880 --> 01:27:58,400
Speaker 1: was the other one?

1729
01:27:58,560 --> 01:28:00,960
Speaker 2: Let me say something? No, no, no, what was I

1730
01:28:01,000 --> 01:28:06,360
Speaker 2: don't know? Let me say, oh, it was a freaka league, Okay,

1731
01:28:06,400 --> 01:28:10,120
Speaker 2: but freakfully was a national anthem. Whatever you talking about.

1732
01:28:10,280 --> 01:28:14,880
Speaker 1: It was a good song. That's how it be an artist. Chance.

1733
01:28:15,040 --> 01:28:23,960
Speaker 2: Congratulations, congratulations, shout question of one. Hey, y'all. So, I

1734
01:28:24,040 --> 01:28:26,080
Speaker 2: have a close friend of mine and she has this

1735
01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:29,519
Speaker 2: boyfriend's turned situationship going on right now. And since I've

1736
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:32,240
Speaker 2: met her, she's taught me nothing but horrible things about him,

1737
01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:34,599
Speaker 2: and she has told me so much stuff that now

1738
01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:36,880
Speaker 2: when she speaks about him, I tell her that I

1739
01:28:36,920 --> 01:28:38,760
Speaker 2: don't want to hear it because she does, and nothing

1740
01:28:38,840 --> 01:28:41,360
Speaker 2: but goes back to the relationship, and then it comes

1741
01:28:41,439 --> 01:28:44,040
Speaker 2: back and tell me more disrespectful stuff that he's done.

1742
01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:46,760
Speaker 2: I've always been the friend to let my friends been

1743
01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:49,320
Speaker 2: to me all the time, but with her, it's different

1744
01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:51,360
Speaker 2: because at this point I've grown a hate for her

1745
01:28:51,439 --> 01:28:54,040
Speaker 2: man and it asks me to hear stuff about him.

1746
01:28:54,520 --> 01:28:56,840
Speaker 2: I tried to do some self evaluating because I do

1747
01:28:57,000 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 2: feel like I'm being a bit mean, knowing that this

1748
01:28:59,680 --> 01:29:02,840
Speaker 2: is not usually me and friendships. How do you feel

1749
01:29:02,880 --> 01:29:04,800
Speaker 2: about this situation, because I don't know if I'm just

1750
01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:07,439
Speaker 2: being harsh and not a good friend, or am I

1751
01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:10,920
Speaker 2: being reasonable for my actions. Side note, I.

1752
01:29:11,000 --> 01:29:12,720
Speaker 1: Do think it has something to do with me being

1753
01:29:12,760 --> 01:29:15,120
Speaker 1: a little bit older than her, and I've grown out

1754
01:29:15,120 --> 01:29:17,280
Speaker 1: of the face of going through hell and kept going

1755
01:29:17,360 --> 01:29:20,600
Speaker 1: back in a relationship, so seeing her do it is

1756
01:29:20,720 --> 01:29:23,360
Speaker 1: kind of like the signs of disrespect are in her face,

1757
01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:24,839
Speaker 1: and it's upsetting me that she's.

1758
01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:32,000
Speaker 2: Allowing it and going back. Girl. When it comes to

1759
01:29:32,160 --> 01:29:38,160
Speaker 2: like friends, that amen, if you have a real concern,

1760
01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:42,000
Speaker 2: I definitely feel like you should voice your concern. However,

1761
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:44,960
Speaker 2: if you voice your concern and your friend don't take

1762
01:29:45,000 --> 01:29:46,879
Speaker 2: heed and they want to still being in the situation,

1763
01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:49,680
Speaker 2: and you gotta step back and let people learn they

1764
01:29:49,720 --> 01:29:54,720
Speaker 2: life listens on their own. Because my mama always told

1765
01:29:54,800 --> 01:29:57,759
Speaker 2: me to say in my whole life growing up, people

1766
01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:01,120
Speaker 2: know when they've had enough. People know their tolerance level.

1767
01:30:01,200 --> 01:30:03,560
Speaker 2: You don't never know somebody's tolerance level, but people know

1768
01:30:03,640 --> 01:30:06,760
Speaker 2: they're on tolerance level. Trust me, When somebody is good

1769
01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:09,519
Speaker 2: and fed up with some shit, no matter what it is,

1770
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:11,960
Speaker 2: whether it's a nigga, where it's a situation, whether it's

1771
01:30:12,000 --> 01:30:14,720
Speaker 2: a job or career whatever, when people are fed up,

1772
01:30:14,840 --> 01:30:17,600
Speaker 2: they be fed up and they gonna leave. But I

1773
01:30:17,720 --> 01:30:20,680
Speaker 2: feel like people push their friends away by trying to

1774
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:24,000
Speaker 2: pressure their friends to want to do what they want

1775
01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:29,400
Speaker 2: them to do. And I know sometimes even in because

1776
01:30:29,439 --> 01:30:31,240
Speaker 2: I mean, she didn't say it was like a violent

1777
01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 2: situation on that thing, but I just know, especially in

1778
01:30:34,560 --> 01:30:37,600
Speaker 2: like violent situations and stuff, people be always feeling like

1779
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 2: they have to like keep telling their friends what to do.

1780
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:44,840
Speaker 2: I just feel like you have to say your peace

1781
01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:47,920
Speaker 2: and speak your peace and be okay with like stepping

1782
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:52,960
Speaker 2: away and taking a step back because you can't stress

1783
01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:55,519
Speaker 2: yourself with other people affairs because you got your own

1784
01:30:55,600 --> 01:30:56,800
Speaker 2: life to worry about.

1785
01:30:57,240 --> 01:30:57,320
Speaker 4: And.

1786
01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:00,800
Speaker 2: Just pray for them, hope for the best, hope that

1787
01:31:00,920 --> 01:31:04,360
Speaker 2: God keep quivering them and keeping them safe in whatever

1788
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:08,040
Speaker 2: situation in But like, don't stress yourself about somebody else

1789
01:31:08,120 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 2: situation because if they want us to be in a

1790
01:31:10,160 --> 01:31:12,479
Speaker 2: better situation, they will put themselves in a better situation.

1791
01:31:13,040 --> 01:31:15,640
Speaker 1: And I just want to add on to what you

1792
01:31:15,840 --> 01:31:24,080
Speaker 1: said about like tolerance levels. Yeah, because things that she

1793
01:31:24,240 --> 01:31:27,000
Speaker 1: can tolerate may not be things that you can tolerate.

1794
01:31:27,560 --> 01:31:29,200
Speaker 2: But switch the roles.

1795
01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:32,439
Speaker 1: There's things that you have tolerated for men that she

1796
01:31:32,520 --> 01:31:35,400
Speaker 1: would never tolerate. Okay, So I think that's what we

1797
01:31:35,520 --> 01:31:38,639
Speaker 1: have to realize too, because I am in a situation

1798
01:31:38,880 --> 01:31:41,840
Speaker 1: like that right now. So I'll say this. There's things

1799
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:43,400
Speaker 1: that I have been through with men that I have

1800
01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:46,519
Speaker 1: dated that my friends were looking at me like lex,

1801
01:31:46,840 --> 01:31:50,000
Speaker 1: what the actual fuck? And then there were situations where

1802
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:53,240
Speaker 1: I'm looking at them and it was different and I'm like, hey,

1803
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:56,639
Speaker 1: what are you doing? So we have to give people grace.

1804
01:31:57,320 --> 01:32:00,760
Speaker 1: As long as her life is not in danger, all

1805
01:32:00,800 --> 01:32:02,880
Speaker 1: you need to do is be a friend and let

1806
01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:05,679
Speaker 1: her vent. When she's ready to go, she'll be ready

1807
01:32:05,760 --> 01:32:07,680
Speaker 1: to go. Like I said, as long as he's not

1808
01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:12,160
Speaker 1: beating her putting her life in danger. Sometimes you have

1809
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:13,519
Speaker 1: to take a step.

1810
01:32:13,320 --> 01:32:16,120
Speaker 2: Back, agreed, agreed.

1811
01:32:16,479 --> 01:32:20,400
Speaker 1: All right. Question number two. Hi, Drea high Legs. I'm

1812
01:32:20,400 --> 01:32:23,320
Speaker 1: a thirty six year old straight mal. Each time I

1813
01:32:23,439 --> 01:32:27,200
Speaker 1: talk to women and they mentioned my teeth, I have

1814
01:32:27,360 --> 01:32:31,800
Speaker 1: become instantly insecure. My teeth are not the widest and

1815
01:32:31,920 --> 01:32:36,360
Speaker 1: I have crooked things. I brush for loss and use

1816
01:32:36,640 --> 01:32:40,519
Speaker 1: mouthwashed twice a day, but I'm still not picture perfect.

1817
01:32:41,000 --> 01:32:43,840
Speaker 1: I have considered getting braces over the last few years,

1818
01:32:44,120 --> 01:32:48,280
Speaker 1: but I'm always unsure of how people, specifically women, will

1819
01:32:48,360 --> 01:32:51,280
Speaker 1: view an adult man with braces. What are your thoughts.

1820
01:32:51,520 --> 01:32:54,599
Speaker 1: Would you respect someone who is trying to fix their

1821
01:32:54,760 --> 01:32:57,120
Speaker 1: teeth or would you see it as the major turn off?

1822
01:32:58,000 --> 01:33:03,200
Speaker 1: So let me say this. I had braces in middle school.

1823
01:33:03,880 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 1: My bottom teeth are so crooked because I took off

1824
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:09,680
Speaker 1: my retainer, so I have fangs at the bottom. Right.

1825
01:33:11,640 --> 01:33:14,720
Speaker 1: It is honestly one of my biggest insecurities because when

1826
01:33:14,800 --> 01:33:16,960
Speaker 1: I record videos, I'm like, oh my God, my bottom teeth,

1827
01:33:16,960 --> 01:33:18,800
Speaker 1: my bottom teeth. But I talked with my bottom lip.

1828
01:33:19,520 --> 01:33:25,560
Speaker 1: But that doesn't stop me. But I'm saying it's just

1829
01:33:25,640 --> 01:33:29,599
Speaker 1: a personal insecurity. But I whitened my teeth, I brushed

1830
01:33:29,640 --> 01:33:31,560
Speaker 1: my teeth, I flost my teeth so let me say this.

1831
01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:35,120
Speaker 1: First of all, your teeth are not the whitest, but

1832
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:38,519
Speaker 1: I don't care how crooked your teeth are. They can

1833
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:43,040
Speaker 1: be white. They can be white. So if your teeth

1834
01:33:43,080 --> 01:33:48,719
Speaker 1: are like yellow, some crest whitening strips, some crest whitening,

1835
01:33:48,880 --> 01:33:53,200
Speaker 1: mouth washed, could I suggest, I don't care what level

1836
01:33:53,280 --> 01:33:58,120
Speaker 1: your teeth are at, straight crooked, your teeth shouldn't be yellow. Okay,

1837
01:33:59,040 --> 01:34:01,360
Speaker 1: But I will say that any woman that meets you

1838
01:34:01,479 --> 01:34:04,160
Speaker 1: and she's judging you for having bryces if I see

1839
01:34:04,200 --> 01:34:07,439
Speaker 1: a man with bryces in this economy, because if you

1840
01:34:07,520 --> 01:34:10,200
Speaker 1: got braces, unless you're going to one of them bottom

1841
01:34:10,280 --> 01:34:13,559
Speaker 1: people in their basement, you gotta go to dnnis every

1842
01:34:13,640 --> 01:34:16,439
Speaker 1: month for bryces you do, you're not gonna. If a

1843
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:18,720
Speaker 1: woman is judging you because you have braces, that's not

1844
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:19,479
Speaker 1: the woman for you.

1845
01:34:19,920 --> 01:34:22,720
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. I had braces before too,

1846
01:34:22,920 --> 01:34:27,760
Speaker 2: So I've had brace's. Then I had to wear a retainer.

1847
01:34:28,000 --> 01:34:30,040
Speaker 2: And now y'all know I have veneers or whatever. But

1848
01:34:30,120 --> 01:34:32,000
Speaker 2: even with my veneers, I still have to wear a

1849
01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:36,080
Speaker 2: retainer at night sometimes because I used to have like

1850
01:34:36,360 --> 01:34:40,120
Speaker 2: gaps before I had brace's. So if I don't wear

1851
01:34:40,200 --> 01:34:42,240
Speaker 2: retainers for a long period of time. No matter what,

1852
01:34:42,400 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 2: my teeth are always gonna like start to like migrate

1853
01:34:45,640 --> 01:34:49,519
Speaker 2: or whatever. So I just feel like anybody who is

1854
01:34:49,640 --> 01:34:53,000
Speaker 2: interested in bittering themselves and bittering their appearance, I don't

1855
01:34:53,040 --> 01:34:55,160
Speaker 2: think anything is wrong with that, no matter which way

1856
01:34:55,200 --> 01:34:58,160
Speaker 2: you choose to go about it, whether you getting veneers,

1857
01:34:58,520 --> 01:35:01,240
Speaker 2: whether you getting braces, where you're getting a visil line,

1858
01:35:01,520 --> 01:35:04,840
Speaker 2: whatever it is. It's like if you have a problem

1859
01:35:04,920 --> 01:35:08,120
Speaker 2: with something about yourself fixed and nothing is wrong with that,

1860
01:35:08,200 --> 01:35:09,200
Speaker 2: and don't let nobody make.

1861
01:35:09,120 --> 01:35:10,880
Speaker 1: You feel in all type of way about it, because

1862
01:35:10,880 --> 01:35:13,400
Speaker 1: you might feed me a girl who got braces, and hey,

1863
01:35:13,520 --> 01:35:14,000
Speaker 1: y'all like.

1864
01:35:16,080 --> 01:35:16,880
Speaker 2: Brace's game.

1865
01:35:17,160 --> 01:35:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, if I'm thirty five and he said he

1866
01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:22,720
Speaker 1: was thirty six, if I met a thirty six year

1867
01:35:22,760 --> 01:35:25,920
Speaker 1: old man that had braces, it would not bother me.

1868
01:35:26,080 --> 01:35:27,120
Speaker 2: It wouldn't bother me either.

1869
01:35:27,400 --> 01:35:29,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wouldn't bother me at all. You had to

1870
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:32,599
Speaker 1: put a mouth guard on, know when you going downtown. Well,

1871
01:35:32,640 --> 01:35:34,719
Speaker 1: I shouldn't feel your teeth if what you have bracest

1872
01:35:34,800 --> 01:35:36,880
Speaker 1: or not, if you know what you're doing. Yeah, that's

1873
01:35:36,880 --> 01:35:39,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So bracests don't Yeah, braces wouldn't bother me.

1874
01:35:39,640 --> 01:35:41,920
Speaker 2: Theraces ain't stopping us nothing at all.

1875
01:35:42,040 --> 01:35:46,479
Speaker 1: So sorry, get your bracest, get your visiline. Yes the woman.

1876
01:35:47,000 --> 01:35:49,920
Speaker 1: You know what, I've noticed an influx of women online

1877
01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:53,240
Speaker 1: and men too. Y'all are saying some things that are

1878
01:35:53,320 --> 01:35:59,240
Speaker 1: so outrageous just because you know it's gonna get Like

1879
01:35:59,320 --> 01:36:01,120
Speaker 1: one girl said something like, if I see a man

1880
01:36:01,160 --> 01:36:04,000
Speaker 1: pull out a credit card on the date, I know

1881
01:36:04,080 --> 01:36:06,080
Speaker 1: he broke because why are you using credit to pay

1882
01:36:06,160 --> 01:36:07,160
Speaker 1: for a meal so.

1883
01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:08,240
Speaker 2: He can get his points?

1884
01:36:09,000 --> 01:36:10,920
Speaker 1: That's how I know. That's how I know y'all got

1885
01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:13,000
Speaker 1: no credit. That's what I'll be saying, like, stop it.

1886
01:36:13,840 --> 01:36:15,639
Speaker 1: So if a woman is telling you, oh, I don't

1887
01:36:15,720 --> 01:36:18,519
Speaker 1: like you because you got braces, she don't know, she

1888
01:36:18,560 --> 01:36:21,519
Speaker 1: don't know, it's okay boo. So yeah, get y'all braces

1889
01:36:21,560 --> 01:36:25,000
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Speaker 2: So wait, they said, Tata, Yeah, I'm gonna enter the chat.

1909
01:37:25,800 --> 01:37:30,040
Speaker 1: This isn't about me, okay. I have a friend, okay, right, okay,

1910
01:37:30,120 --> 01:37:32,800
Speaker 1: So I ain't got her, worry about that. But I

1911
01:37:32,920 --> 01:37:36,519
Speaker 1: have a friend, okay, And she was she stayed in

1912
01:37:36,600 --> 01:37:39,640
Speaker 1: the sky. He actually recently moved down to Atlanta for

1913
01:37:39,720 --> 01:37:43,280
Speaker 1: her for her. I'm gonna say that they were staying together.

1914
01:37:43,400 --> 01:37:44,559
Speaker 1: But he has his own place now.

1915
01:37:45,479 --> 01:37:48,759
Speaker 2: But she's been noticing some weird things going on between

1916
01:37:48,880 --> 01:37:53,240
Speaker 2: him and her best friend. They're texting each other a lot,

1917
01:37:54,680 --> 01:37:57,400
Speaker 2: They're going to each other's houses and like, we'll tell

1918
01:37:57,520 --> 01:38:00,639
Speaker 2: her when they're there, so like he'll be like, oh yeah,

1919
01:38:00,800 --> 01:38:03,120
Speaker 2: so and so pulling up now, and then she'll be like,

1920
01:38:03,160 --> 01:38:05,439
Speaker 2: oh yeah, I'm about to go poppy and real quick,

1921
01:38:06,200 --> 01:38:07,880
Speaker 2: all of these types of things. This is not the

1922
01:38:07,960 --> 01:38:10,439
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1923
01:38:11,400 --> 01:38:15,439
Speaker 2: and she's feeling it's making her feel uncomfortable. She's supposed

1924
01:38:15,439 --> 01:38:17,280
Speaker 2: to talk to the friend about it, but the friend

1925
01:38:17,280 --> 01:38:20,760
Speaker 2: has been kind of distancing herself. And then when she

1926
01:38:20,960 --> 01:38:23,679
Speaker 2: told the boyfriend that she was going to have dinner

1927
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Speaker 2: and talk to the friend about it, he said, don't

1928
01:38:26,680 --> 01:38:32,040
Speaker 2: bring me up in the conversation. Now me, I wouldn't

1929
01:38:32,040 --> 01:38:35,120
Speaker 2: be going for none of that. That's just me personally,

1930
01:38:35,200 --> 01:38:38,519
Speaker 2: because why are y'all friends? I introduced y'all, Why are

1931
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Speaker 2: y'all now taking this relationship and then being sneaky about

1932
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Speaker 2: it behind my back? So just asking y'all, what would

1933
01:38:44,640 --> 01:38:46,800
Speaker 2: y'all do in that situation? And would you allow your

1934
01:38:46,920 --> 01:38:50,919
Speaker 2: friend to be good friends with your man or your boyfriend.

1935
01:38:51,720 --> 01:38:54,760
Speaker 2: I mean ahead, Well, I was just gonna say, like,

1936
01:38:54,960 --> 01:38:58,360
Speaker 2: I'm cool with my man being friends with my friends

1937
01:38:58,600 --> 01:39:02,280
Speaker 2: without you being there, Yeah, because I feel like I

1938
01:39:02,479 --> 01:39:06,560
Speaker 2: trust my friends and I trust my man. But it's like,

1939
01:39:06,800 --> 01:39:08,599
Speaker 2: cause if I don't trust either one of y'all, why

1940
01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:10,439
Speaker 2: the fuck is y'all in my life? Like if I

1941
01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:12,400
Speaker 2: feel like you're gonna do some weird sit when you

1942
01:39:12,520 --> 01:39:15,280
Speaker 2: around my nigga and I'm not around, not saying that,

1943
01:39:15,439 --> 01:39:19,600
Speaker 2: like y'all could be coordinating like hang out day exactly.

1944
01:39:19,680 --> 01:39:21,720
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like is going on, that's what's

1945
01:39:21,760 --> 01:39:25,400
Speaker 2: going so, yeah, no, absolutely not. But like if y'all

1946
01:39:25,560 --> 01:39:29,280
Speaker 2: like cause like we've had each other's man's phone numbers

1947
01:39:29,320 --> 01:39:30,200
Speaker 2: and stuff before.

1948
01:39:30,080 --> 01:39:34,760
Speaker 1: Well, let me tell you something. I would never be like, y'all,

1949
01:39:34,840 --> 01:39:36,360
Speaker 1: man are never gonna hit you and be like, oh,

1950
01:39:36,439 --> 01:39:38,880
Speaker 1: Le's gonna pull up and you ain't never gonna really

1951
01:39:39,000 --> 01:39:40,840
Speaker 1: call me like, oh I'm pulling up an x Y.

1952
01:39:41,000 --> 01:39:43,040
Speaker 2: But that's but that's what I was about to say.

1953
01:39:43,200 --> 01:39:46,000
Speaker 2: That's when you have to like nip shit in the bud,

1954
01:39:46,120 --> 01:39:49,680
Speaker 2: because why the fuck is y'all being friendly with each

1955
01:39:49,720 --> 01:39:51,960
Speaker 2: other like that? Like it's okay, for y'all to have

1956
01:39:52,160 --> 01:39:54,960
Speaker 2: like a cordial relationship and be cool. And I trust

1957
01:39:55,040 --> 01:39:57,000
Speaker 2: my man and my friend enough to have each other

1958
01:39:57,120 --> 01:39:59,360
Speaker 2: numbers and to be able to communicate with each other,

1959
01:39:59,640 --> 01:40:02,680
Speaker 2: because you just never know what can happen. But it's

1960
01:40:02,720 --> 01:40:05,519
Speaker 2: when all of the friendly and extra shits start going on,

1961
01:40:05,680 --> 01:40:07,280
Speaker 2: like why y'all hanging with each other?

1962
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:10,800
Speaker 1: Eating in each other house?

1963
01:40:10,920 --> 01:40:12,479
Speaker 2: Is crazy being in each other house?

1964
01:40:12,800 --> 01:40:16,840
Speaker 1: Let me say, because I get it. I am a

1965
01:40:16,920 --> 01:40:20,760
Speaker 1: woman who has male friends. I have dated men who

1966
01:40:20,880 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 1: have female friends.

1967
01:40:22,040 --> 01:40:22,800
Speaker 2: But guess what they do.

1968
01:40:23,360 --> 01:40:27,000
Speaker 1: They make sure I'm comfortable. I make sure they comfortable. Hey,

1969
01:40:27,720 --> 01:40:31,760
Speaker 1: we around together even if something happens. Hey babe, I'm

1970
01:40:31,880 --> 01:40:33,599
Speaker 1: letting you know. I know you out of town right now.

1971
01:40:33,760 --> 01:40:36,679
Speaker 1: I need something done. He Abo's gonna help me real quick.

1972
01:40:37,240 --> 01:40:39,400
Speaker 1: It ain't no weird shit. I'm always letting you know

1973
01:40:39,479 --> 01:40:41,840
Speaker 1: when we're in each other's presence or x y Z.

1974
01:40:42,520 --> 01:40:48,519
Speaker 1: So I say all that to say, if I said, Hey,

1975
01:40:48,760 --> 01:40:51,840
Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable with this relationship, I'm about to

1976
01:40:51,880 --> 01:40:54,680
Speaker 1: go out to eat with my best friend and have

1977
01:40:54,800 --> 01:40:58,880
Speaker 1: a conversation, a man should be like, Okay, hey man,

1978
01:40:59,000 --> 01:41:02,120
Speaker 1: do babe, look I told you where I stand and

1979
01:41:02,240 --> 01:41:04,000
Speaker 1: you know me and her don't have nothing going on.

1980
01:41:04,479 --> 01:41:07,000
Speaker 1: Do what you have to do because I'm here for you.

1981
01:41:08,600 --> 01:41:11,640
Speaker 1: He's gaslighting her to try to make her feel like

1982
01:41:11,680 --> 01:41:14,719
Speaker 1: she's crazy. Well, don't bring me up, you tripping, you tripping,

1983
01:41:14,840 --> 01:41:17,040
Speaker 1: because let me say one thing that I have learned

1984
01:41:17,080 --> 01:41:21,360
Speaker 1: about gas lighting too. Because y'all like to make the

1985
01:41:21,560 --> 01:41:24,479
Speaker 1: first word people like to throw out his insecurity. It's

1986
01:41:24,520 --> 01:41:28,240
Speaker 1: not about insecurity because guess what, you can have the

1987
01:41:28,280 --> 01:41:31,800
Speaker 1: most confident woman or man in the world. Why do

1988
01:41:31,960 --> 01:41:34,599
Speaker 1: you want them to feel uncomfortable. She's voiced her opinion

1989
01:41:34,640 --> 01:41:37,479
Speaker 1: that she's uncomfortable as soon as my man, or my

1990
01:41:37,640 --> 01:41:41,479
Speaker 1: partner or my friend. Even if my friend says, hey, lex,

1991
01:41:41,600 --> 01:41:44,839
Speaker 1: this makes me uncomfortable when you do this, I'm changing

1992
01:41:44,920 --> 01:41:46,920
Speaker 1: that shit. Yeah, I don't ever want you to feel

1993
01:41:46,960 --> 01:41:50,760
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with anything I'm doing because i'm your partner, I'm

1994
01:41:50,840 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 1: your friend, so I'm gonna hey, let's knit this in

1995
01:41:53,520 --> 01:41:56,680
Speaker 1: the bud. So if you said I'm uncomfortable with this

1996
01:41:56,840 --> 01:41:59,600
Speaker 1: situation and he's not trying to fix it, that's the

1997
01:41:59,680 --> 01:42:02,519
Speaker 1: red flag something going on. I need to see the

1998
01:42:02,600 --> 01:42:08,640
Speaker 1: motherfucking text mess. Let's grow, Yeah, let's grow what's going on?

1999
01:42:09,720 --> 01:42:15,000
Speaker 1: What's going on? Mm hmmm, because I've been in that situation,

2000
01:42:15,080 --> 01:42:19,519
Speaker 1: but I don't like and was like, oh hey.

2001
01:42:20,320 --> 01:42:22,880
Speaker 2: I was like, oh okay, and y'all can let me

2002
01:42:22,960 --> 01:42:24,920
Speaker 2: know how y'all feel. But I also just feel like

2003
01:42:25,000 --> 01:42:31,280
Speaker 2: that goes into checking a quality control in your friendship

2004
01:42:31,720 --> 01:42:34,759
Speaker 2: correct when a man, Because that's where I see an issue,

2005
01:42:34,960 --> 01:42:36,439
Speaker 2: is like, this is your it's supposed to be your

2006
01:42:36,479 --> 01:42:39,280
Speaker 2: best friend, because that ain't that ain't no best friend

2007
01:42:39,320 --> 01:42:39,719
Speaker 2: of mine.

2008
01:42:40,000 --> 01:42:42,200
Speaker 1: Why are you going to my friends dating somebody and

2009
01:42:42,320 --> 01:42:44,679
Speaker 1: like having sex with somebody there in love with somebody

2010
01:42:44,680 --> 01:42:46,840
Speaker 1: because obviously they're dating, they're in love. They say I

2011
01:42:46,960 --> 01:42:52,479
Speaker 1: love you, You're a brother, your brother to me. As

2012
01:42:52,520 --> 01:42:54,800
Speaker 1: soon as my friend says, hey, I really like this

2013
01:42:55,000 --> 01:42:56,320
Speaker 1: person like.

2014
01:42:56,479 --> 01:42:58,640
Speaker 2: Me and him. That's bro?

2015
01:42:59,760 --> 01:43:02,400
Speaker 1: What up? Bro? You ain't never gonna be in my

2016
01:43:02,439 --> 01:43:05,479
Speaker 1: presence without her, and if you are my person hers

2017
01:43:05,479 --> 01:43:07,880
Speaker 1: because we're planning something for her or.

2018
01:43:08,120 --> 01:43:10,320
Speaker 2: Just because we both happened to be in the same

2019
01:43:10,400 --> 01:43:12,479
Speaker 2: place and we didn't know the you know what I mean,

2020
01:43:12,479 --> 01:43:14,280
Speaker 2: because some times you might go to a club whatever.

2021
01:43:14,560 --> 01:43:18,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like, but my on you yeah, asked

2022
01:43:18,520 --> 01:43:22,519
Speaker 1: up if you want to Yeah, that's what it is.

2023
01:43:24,479 --> 01:43:31,760
Speaker 1: That's what it is. And then my friend and I

2024
01:43:31,920 --> 01:43:34,240
Speaker 1: have never once in my life had a friend, and

2025
01:43:34,360 --> 01:43:36,679
Speaker 1: I introduced her to my man and all of a sudden,

2026
01:43:36,760 --> 01:43:41,040
Speaker 1: they start testing. It's crazy, my man don't have none

2027
01:43:41,080 --> 01:43:44,920
Speaker 1: of my friends numbers? Yeah, because why why?

2028
01:43:45,600 --> 01:43:46,280
Speaker 2: Why what are we?

2029
01:43:46,400 --> 01:43:48,439
Speaker 1: What are y'all talking about? And even if he did,

2030
01:43:48,560 --> 01:43:50,800
Speaker 1: it would be because hey, I'm trying to do something

2031
01:43:50,840 --> 01:43:53,280
Speaker 1: for her. If that was a scenario, No, we.

2032
01:43:53,400 --> 01:43:55,679
Speaker 2: That's gonna say. We had we've had each other men

2033
01:43:55,800 --> 01:43:59,479
Speaker 2: number before. Yeah, But it was more so like and

2034
01:43:59,600 --> 01:44:00,519
Speaker 2: I think it's also this.

2035
01:44:03,880 --> 01:44:06,479
Speaker 1: Bust you, But what I'm saying is more so about like,

2036
01:44:07,160 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 1: let's talk about the person. That's what I'm saying. It's

2037
01:44:10,439 --> 01:44:12,640
Speaker 1: talking about the person they're dating or what's going on.

2038
01:44:12,880 --> 01:44:17,519
Speaker 1: It's not like, oh, let's hang out so your friend

2039
01:44:18,160 --> 01:44:21,200
Speaker 1: these understand your friend. That girl is not your friend.

2040
01:44:21,240 --> 01:44:23,280
Speaker 1: You need to get rid of both of them and

2041
01:44:23,439 --> 01:44:23,880
Speaker 1: let them.

2042
01:44:23,840 --> 01:44:29,240
Speaker 2: Be cut both of them all because they both we tie.

2043
01:44:30,080 --> 01:44:33,080
Speaker 1: That was a good one. That was juicy, all right.

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Speaker 2: Ready, ain't My mama said, fucking nigga, hit the streets

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Speaker 2: and live, got some crack in the corner, and I

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Speaker 2: did what I did. The neighbors they don't like me.

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Speaker 2: Y'all got Jay's at the dog So my grandma, I

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Speaker 2: don't need a bit. I'm sleeping on the floor. Got

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Speaker 2: my tool and my blow, then my tool, main house,

2100
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Speaker 2: me and all my wallst together like the zog Scipa,

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Speaker 2: say who got that? Ya? Fu the low And I

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Speaker 2: keep birds with me like I'm straight out Holly Grove.

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Speaker 1: My fingers ish the ish your fun at paper? My

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Speaker 1: fingers that ish, That is your fun at paper. Riding

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01:48:00,439 --> 01:48:01,720
Speaker 1: around the city, and I.

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01:48:01,800 --> 01:48:05,320
Speaker 2: Got that calculator. I'm a motherfucking monsta. When they come

2107
01:48:05,439 --> 01:48:06,840
Speaker 2: they getting that paper, Hey.

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Speaker 1: Fingers, is it your fuddy fingers? Is it's your fuddy paper?

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01:48:13,960 --> 01:48:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm riding around city, and I got that calculata all

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01:48:17,479 --> 01:48:21,000
Speaker 1: my motherfucking massa way that they're getting that paper.

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Speaker 2: A dog and I eat that dog food. I'm a

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01:48:24,840 --> 01:48:28,160
Speaker 2: g I put red on all my shoes. Come in

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Speaker 2: and see my familiar like I prove and I please,

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Speaker 2: now guilty yourself proof. I got more fastials then shoes.

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Speaker 2: I got chicks in the cool. We got shoe instead

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Speaker 2: of shoe. And to stay on DJ screw when I drop,

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Speaker 2: we coming like screw DJ clue.

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Speaker 1: I go about the school bending to put you on.

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Speaker 1: The dudes that hit that blue place.

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Speaker 2: Hey, ma'am, who got that pig?

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Speaker 1: Now she ain't the man fucking just started rapping too fast?

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Speaker 1: And guess what they ISHU? They it's your fun at paper?

2123
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Speaker 1: My finger? They itching, They it's your fun at paper. Yeah,

2124
01:49:12,320 --> 01:49:17,719
Speaker 1: I got that. I'm at hey.

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Speaker 2: They itching for that papers? They itching, they itching for

2126
01:49:23,720 --> 01:49:26,679
Speaker 2: that paper. Don't ride around the city in I got

2127
01:49:26,720 --> 01:49:29,880
Speaker 2: that CaCu lester. I'm my mother fucking mother when it

2128
01:49:30,040 --> 01:49:32,880
Speaker 2: comes to getting it paper a, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't give a fucking They was real sisters. I'm fucking

2130
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Speaker 1: her too because I'm a real mister. Call me big mister,

2131
01:49:41,080 --> 01:49:44,200
Speaker 1: because I got that big dick, I fuck up so

2132
01:49:44,439 --> 01:49:46,639
Speaker 1: good til she throw up she's sick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all

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Speaker 1: that good stuff. And let me say this before we

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Speaker 1: close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is

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Speaker 1: connected to pour minds. It's p O. You are underscore

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Speaker 1: in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor minds page.

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Speaker 1: If you see at poor minds with no underscore, that

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Speaker 1: is at fake page, do not follow that page. Okay,

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Speaker 1: they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page on

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Speaker 1: both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

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Speaker 1: It is p O. You are underscore in my.

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Speaker 2: Nds, all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook

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Speaker 2: page the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing

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Speaker 2: is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of follow.

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Speaker 1: So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the

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Speaker 1: least amount of file, but one that's not us got

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Speaker 1: like two hundred and fifty. You make if you actually

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Speaker 1: look at the content because the caption is like whoever

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Speaker 1: it is, don't speak English, because their catches are like

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Speaker 1: bumba clad?

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Speaker 2: Should men?

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Speaker 1: Should men pay bill? Should men? Pay bill yes, no

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Speaker 1: check answer lo block block pull pull pull off, Like that's.

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Speaker 2: Literally with the caption, I'm like, what with that? DC

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Speaker 2: is bomba Clademba claude h