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Speaker 1: What's up a slip service.

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Speaker 2: I'm into the ye.

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Speaker 3: I'm Maguire, I'm Stephanie Santiago.

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Speaker 1: Oh and I'm Kiki set So Gina Monroe and we're

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Speaker 1: in cocktail.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're ready to have some dirty discussions now. Listen.

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Speaker 2: I saw somewhere where y'all said, well, you know, we're

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Speaker 2: trying to, you know, tame it down and clean up

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Speaker 2: your act. That's just her, you know what.

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Speaker 4: I keep slipping and failing because I'll be trying and

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Speaker 4: she's like, what I think about it might not be

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Speaker 4: that clean.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair enough turned down for what I know.

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Speaker 2: I'm both of y'all just have birthdays too, Yeah, oh wow,

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Speaker 2: have youthday.

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Speaker 3: Or Virgo and Nebro Virgo.

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Speaker 1: And Libro though, because I'm on the cuts. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: you steel you're Virgo again, that's cud. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So first of all, I love that you guys are

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Speaker 2: in New York and I know you had said you

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Speaker 2: were going to start taking the train and you did.

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Speaker 5: Yes, you did, I did, he said, you did.

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Speaker 1: I've done the train in New York before, and I

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Speaker 1: went to Howard and so when I was at Howard,

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Speaker 1: I used to train all the time. I don't like

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Speaker 1: being down there under there with the turtles and the

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Speaker 1: rats and the people could Yeah, that's what I was

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Speaker 4: I'm super excited to be here in New York kicking

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Speaker 4: off our third tour. We were at Sony Hall last

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Speaker 4: night and it was a flood but exciting.

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Speaker 1: Well still made it out.

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Speaker 6: I was surprised, and that's the ready show up.

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Speaker 2: That's dedication. And I know I'm sure some people couldn't

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Speaker 2: because you couldn't even get an uber the train was

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Speaker 2: shut down. But like I was saying, that's memorable for

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Speaker 2: the people who were there to be like remember when

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Speaker 2: they had that big flood and right, and.

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Speaker 1: Y'all still came out to listen to talk whole shit,

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Speaker 1: Like it's amazing.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny to me because I think, like the

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Speaker 2: way we started lip service and then what you guys

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Speaker 2: do with cocktails, people sometimes have like a judgment against

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Speaker 2: depending on who it is, you know, some people love

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Speaker 2: it and then some people be like why is that

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Speaker 2: all y'all talk about? Like we talk about a lot.

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Speaker 5: Of never going to get married, who would ever want

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Speaker 6: Well, how do you think you got here?

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Speaker 7: Girl?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: You got here seven.

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Speaker 6: It's like when Bag and your dad okay and he's

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Speaker 6: slipped up, and.

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Speaker 1: It's like, this is a show, and we do talk

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Speaker 1: about sex. So if you want to watch something else

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Speaker 1: or listen to something else, there's plenty of other shows.

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Speaker 1: There's millions of podcasts out there, change it. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to listen to us.

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Speaker 6: Why do y'all think that people feel so shameful when

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I try to figure that out. It's like,

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Speaker 1: what is it? It's just like something that people have

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Speaker 1: have to have sex for society to continue. So it's like,

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Speaker 1: why why be ashamed of finding pleasure and happiness in

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I also think it's it's it looks like they

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like when senators have issues but gabe

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Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly, have you got a problem with thee but

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Speaker 6: you got to see your whole inside?

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Speaker 4: You don't know how you want to try some stuff,

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Speaker 4: and you don't have the confidence to try certain things

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you something because I had thought about this, right,

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Speaker 2: but everybody talking about AI and things that could happen.

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Speaker 2: If it was a potential that like, let's just say,

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Speaker 2: much your spot is?

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Speaker 1: Would you try it?

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Speaker 2: Hell?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I use a vibrator like daily, So I mean

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to really want to give you. Also

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Speaker 4: About sex is touching bodies, like feeling all those things

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Speaker 2: But if he looked real and he was like touching you.

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Speaker 6: That's weird.

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Speaker 6: Been living in the Jetsons, but I don't want to

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Speaker 7: Pictured a robot, not that what I was thinking of,

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Speaker 7: Like an EI intelligence vibrator. It would be like a

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Speaker 7: vibrator bok like knows you you're like connected to your phone,

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Speaker 7: you put your finger print or some ship.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm pictured.

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Speaker 2: Exactly like squirting today or a regular.

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Speaker 5: It's crazy you would try it.

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Speaker 1: I would try, but I don't want the one that

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Speaker 1: already knows. I don't have to keep pushing the button

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Speaker 2: It's just program, you know, when you get in the

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Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly. I don't know to be onto something.

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Speaker 2: With that teating Like if you were with the guy

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Speaker 1: The robot looks like a person though, Yes, because why

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Speaker 5: Like like who it looked like?

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Speaker 1: Right? Is it like your celebrity crushes? It look like

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Speaker 3: It's cheating?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now none of the timely. Thing that just happened,

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Speaker 2: Thing with Maya been Bury right, that's the woman that

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Speaker 2: She's like, I see him talking about this relationship publicly,

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Speaker 4: Because at the end of the day, it's like you

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Speaker 4: It's not your business no more. And I don't know

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Speaker 4: I would go out of my way to be like,

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Speaker 4: we're looking corny. We are old women.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I mess you vibe I want with

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Speaker 6: I mean, sometimes you just gotta let it wreck.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes this is personal.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you think you want girl.

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Speaker 5: But maybe that focused on you. You're so worried about

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's funny though, because like she's been doing interviews

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Speaker 1: Everybody's like, girl, like.

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Speaker 5: Do you have coming up? Do you have some business?

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Speaker 4: But let me ask you all this, have you ever

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Speaker 4: Like I'm going to contact the girl and tell her how.

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Speaker 2: Well, I contacted a girl. So my boyfriend, my ex

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Speaker 4: You because sometimes like looking at it with a different eye,

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Speaker 4: I've done. It wasn't the same exact situation, but there

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Speaker 5: Let him tell it. He wasn't, but he was.

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Speaker 4: I was so and I was I couldn't believe that

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Speaker 4: he's he is crazy. So I contacted the girl. My

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Speaker 4: I contacted her, not messy, not anything. I was like,

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Speaker 4: and she was okay with being the side chick, but

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Speaker 4: I would love to talk.

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Speaker 4: We had an amazing conversation and we actually did a

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Speaker 5: Her and I talked about our experience with this man.

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Speaker 4: He ended up doing something really dirty to her, and

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Speaker 6: Was Calvin, Wow, still working McDonald's. You can move up

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Speaker 2: But you know something interesting you had said before. It

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Speaker 5: Like what types of dates you're going on, you just won't.

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Speaker 4: You're dating and you're sad and you don't know why,

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Speaker 5: That your standards might be low and you just might

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Speaker 6: Not have any standards and you need to have had them. Yea,

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Speaker 5: You need to maybe raise up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I think far too often people will just accept whatever

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Speaker 6: Lipped and I just told the man he might learn

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Speaker 1: And it's not your business. It has nothing to do

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Speaker 6: Reading a diary, and it's like a guy that you're

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Speaker 3: Right, And you're a good person for even explaining it

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Speaker 7: I just be telling them, like listen, I'm lying, I'm lie.

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Speaker 6: But you know, and even when.

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Speaker 7: I'm so mad, I've had problems in every single relationship

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Speaker 7: I've been in since I've done this show, every relationship

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Speaker 5: What is their problem?

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Speaker 6: Their problem is that.

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Speaker 7: I'm sitting on the show talking about having sex next

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Speaker 3: Yeah, next to men.

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Speaker 2: What if a guy you were dating was had his

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Speaker 4: I'm I would never date somebody who's doing this, that's

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Speaker 5: It's like, really, I don't think I might.

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Speaker 2: Make it kind of fun. Then you'll end up doing

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Speaker 4: Then we break up and everybody's now everybody's talking about it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I didn't know if you show like this will

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Speaker 5: It's more acceptable for me because I do.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I would be upset. I understand this

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Speaker 4: It's like, I actually commend you for taking talking about

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that. That's amazing. I don't need to

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Speaker 7: Never thought about getting a guy who's on a podcast,

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Speaker 6: Like I'm lying to and exactly and you hear me exactly.

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Speaker 7: But like literally, we do the show, Angel and you

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you might get some flowers or something. Okay, would you.

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Speaker 5: Didn't come to your.

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Speaker 4: The live show?

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Speaker 6: Invited I don't care a guy to come like here incident,

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Speaker 2: Boyfriend wanted her to do this show when I first started.

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Speaker 2: He was like, that's how when I first started this,

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Speaker 1: Yea, we are.

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Speaker 3: Yeah relations.

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Speaker 4: But I also wanted to add in about like men

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Speaker 4: I do think if you meet somebody that you really

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Speaker 4: It's like we are I don't know about y'all, But

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Speaker 4: to you about certain things. If I really care about

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Speaker 4: you and I respect you, I'm okay with discussing certain things.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 4: It's not I don't always look at it like you're insecure.

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Speaker 4: It's like my booty hall is cussing you.

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Speaker 1: Want to talk.

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Speaker 6: I agree with that, you know what I meant to me.

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Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, we usually speak

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Speaker 2: once and things that we're interested in educational and it's

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Speaker 4: That when we're putting the show together, they don't know

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Speaker 4: can we talk about it?

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Speaker 5: Because I do kind of want to. When did happen?

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Speaker 2: Are you at the and your relationships?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 2: Mediki? Who's more of the I need to talk? Can

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Speaker 8: Wait, can we talk about our issue which is more

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Speaker 4: In our relationship our relationship with men, but men, oh

447
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,120
Speaker 4: me and my boyfriend are both like that. And say,

448
00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,600
Speaker 4: because I told myself the next relationship I was in,

449
00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,840
Speaker 4: I really wanted to aim for healthy relationships and for that,

450
00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,760
Speaker 4: it's a lot of communication. A lot of communication around

451
00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,560
Speaker 4: things that you didn't even think was going to have

452
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,240
Speaker 4: to be an issue. And so like we do therapy.

453
00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,760
Speaker 4: We're not married, but that's the goal, but it's like

454
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,800
Speaker 4: we communication is really important to me and to him.

455
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,600
Speaker 5: So we both are constantly like, do we.

456
00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,360
Speaker 4: Need to talk about that? Do we take that joke

457
00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,960
Speaker 4: too far? Did you get upset the way I had? Like,

458
00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 4: I just want to make sure we're good. A lot

459
00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 4: of times in relationships, people just harbor on feelings and

460
00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,200
Speaker 4: it might be small, but now that's growing.

461
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:35,520
Speaker 3: And you mad.

462
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,760
Speaker 2: So that's something you learned because you didn't do that

463
00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 2: in your previous relationship.

464
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Speaker 5: I didn't do it a lot.

465
00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 4: It would be something small that bothered me, and I'm

466
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,119
Speaker 4: just like, I'm not gonna bring it up because this

467
00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:44,720
Speaker 4: is stupid.

468
00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:45,879
Speaker 6: But at least that's everything.

469
00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, we need to talk about everything. Why do you

470
00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:49,280
Speaker 5: keep no?

471
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:49,879
Speaker 2: For me?

472
00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:53,120
Speaker 1: It's usually they're bringing an issue to me, and I'm

473
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,040
Speaker 1: okay with talking about it if it's going to be

474
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,720
Speaker 1: a discussion. But what I don't like is when somebody's

475
00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,920
Speaker 1: like just running down a list of all the things

476
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,840
Speaker 1: that you're not doing right because you chose to hold

477
00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:04,119
Speaker 1: on to it, I'm okay with talking about it, And

478
00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 1: I find that usually I'm okay with a lot more

479
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:10,880
Speaker 1: things than he is, and so he's usually the one

480
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,560
Speaker 1: and it's usually the show that's a big part of it.

481
00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 1: And it's like when I say something. I also don't

482
00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,160
Speaker 1: like repeating myself too many times. So if I've brought

483
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,440
Speaker 1: up an issue, I'll bring it up if it's an issue,

484
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,159
Speaker 1: and if I bring it up three times after that,

485
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:25,160
Speaker 1: well I'm moving on. Ran Yeah, I don't like doing

486
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 1: that because I feel like, Okay, we're doing all of

487
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 1: this talking, but we're talking in circles. Why do we

488
00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,640
Speaker 1: need to keep having a discussion about the same issue.

489
00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 1: And the things that I'm asking for that I'm bringing

490
00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,520
Speaker 1: up is not a big deal. Like a guy I

491
00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 1: was seeing recently something was I was like, you keep

492
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,639
Speaker 1: trying to do like these big, grand things for me,

493
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:45,439
Speaker 1: and I never asked that. I don't know if my

494
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,200
Speaker 1: friends are putting that in your ear. I don't know

495
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,679
Speaker 1: if you're spending too much time on Instagram. I literally

496
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 1: need you to help me with little things, like on

497
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 1: a daily basis, like take some of the load off

498
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,840
Speaker 1: of me. I have a lot to do every day,

499
00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 1: if you could do like something small. You're at my

500
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 1: house and you see I did some laundry and the

501
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:03,399
Speaker 1: towels aren't folded.

502
00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,879
Speaker 6: Fold them right, Okay. It's very simple.

503
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 1: And it's like if I'm saying, if I brought this

504
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,200
Speaker 1: up to you already, and I've said it three times now,

505
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,360
Speaker 1: don't be mad when I'm done, But.

506
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,360
Speaker 2: They wouldn't be over just you don't like the big

507
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:16,560
Speaker 2: grand gestures like.

508
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't mind them. But it's like the grand gesture

509
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 1: doesn't make me forget that you won't do the small

510
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,479
Speaker 1: thing that I actually ask for, okay, Because it's the

511
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 1: little things that really matter. It's the little things that

512
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 1: make me appreciate somebody and make somebody stand out, then

513
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 1: the big stuff, because the big stuff, while it might

514
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,679
Speaker 1: be pricier to me, that's easier, it takes It's very

515
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,160
Speaker 1: easy to spend money, it's so much easier to do that.

516
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 1: It takes time. That's why I didn't fold the damn towels.

517
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 1: So can you help me out now, you know?

518
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 2: Would you say that in your experience in relationships, opposites

519
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 2: attract or you like somebody that's similar to you.

520
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 4: For me, I think it depends on at the moment,

521
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,160
Speaker 4: like what I'm dating for. Because now since a little

522
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 4: bit more serious and I want a family and I

523
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:03,160
Speaker 4: want a husband, I look at those family values. So

524
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,360
Speaker 4: it's like, I like, I needn't opposite. Yeah, it can't

525
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 4: be opposite. It needs to be like we have this

526
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,719
Speaker 4: at our core. We want the same things for kids,

527
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 4: we want the same thing for a household.

528
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 5: That's really important.

529
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 4: A lot of times I look at people's relationships now,

530
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 4: and that's normally like where people end up falling out

531
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 4: over things. It's like like core values, core values, or

532
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 4: it's like you're looking at somebody it's like could you

533
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 4: be the could you be somebody's father?

534
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 5: Because I'm like, oh.

535
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 6: My god, oh my god, what doing single.

536
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:38,959
Speaker 3: Baby like?

537
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 5: And that's your dad, Yetta, tell my kids that's.

538
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 2: Your dad, your daddy's face on this child.

539
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: Day. I like somebody who kind of balances me out.

540
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 1: So maybe where I'm weak at you can be good

541
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: at that. But we do need to have a lot

542
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 1: of similarities. Okay, I think that having somebody that's laid back.

543
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: I've dated guys who want to go go all the time.

544
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 1: I don't like that you're gonna annoy me and be stressed.

545
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 1: I don't want to do stuff all the time. I

546
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 1: like being able to be comfortable around somebody enough where

547
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: we can just be at home and chill. Sometimes everything

548
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be a party, it doesn't have to

549
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: be a big day, it doesn't have to be all

550
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 1: of that.

551
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 6: Like, can I actually enjoy your company without all of the.

552
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: Things at it? Because if it's all about these experience,

553
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: I can do that with somebody else. It's not really

554
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: about you.

555
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 5: Then, so that's not really real life.

556
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 4: Instagram will really have you creating a whole dream life

557
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,199
Speaker 4: that is not your real life. To be with somebody

558
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 4: married and every day we find the turks. There's gonna

559
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 4: be some days where we are just having a normal life.

560
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 5: We're going to the grocery store right.

561
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: To do that.

562
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 4: The makeup is gone, lashes ain't done. Ray can we

563
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 4: sit down and be regular?

564
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 2: And sometimes people relationships look so perfect and then you

565
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 2: find out they get a divorce, like they put up

566
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 2: stuff and it's like this is amazing this person And

567
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 2: the next thing you know is like what the fuck happens?

568
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 5: Because everybody some shit going on, even healthy relationships.

569
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 4: Everybody has there's like an underlying continuous argument about something.

570
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 4: You either learn how to work it out or you

571
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 4: get the people where it's like we've been faking it

572
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 4: for too long and we got to let this go.

573
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 2: Have you ever argued about sex in a relationship, like

574
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 2: not enough sex or not like being able to orgasm

575
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: or not like has that ever been a situation?

576
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 5: I had an argument in one of them.

577
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say an argument, but it was an uncomfortable talk,

578
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 4: like all the time, to the point where I just

579
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 4: ended up. I was like, I'm just not going to

580
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 4: be having sex with you. And we lived in the.

581
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 3: Same and.

582
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 5: I was going to say so much was the issue.

583
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 4: It was just I started I wasn't attracted to him anymore,

584
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 4: and I feel so bad. But again, these are some

585
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 4: of those conversations you have to have them. I was like,

586
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 4: I don't want to offend anybody, and this was my situation.

587
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 5: He had just gained entirely too much weight.

588
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm dying under here, like I can't even

589
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 4: he's sweat dripping sweat in my nose.

590
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 6: This is sweat dripped in I'm trying.

591
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 5: Here, but it's like I can't do this anymore, like,

592
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 5: do you know who? I could be fucking like? I

593
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 5: didn't say that, but it was just like, yeah, you.

594
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 4: Don't say mean things, but there were moments where it

595
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 4: doesn't seem like you like it. I was like, I don't,

596
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, and I felt so could be a great guy.

597
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 4: But the sex part just wasn't.

598
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 2: Was he just eating too like had it? Or was

599
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: there anything going on?

600
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

601
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 4: I do think there was maybe like some depression going on.

602
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 4: He had been through a lot in life, but that

603
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 4: was another and nothing. You don't have to go through

604
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 4: those things with people like this sounds really hard somebody

605
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 4: listening to bitch is real. But I just at the

606
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 4: moment in my life, I wasn't the I'm not I

607
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 4: didn't love him enough to be like I'm gonna rock

608
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:42,199
Speaker 4: this out with you.

609
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 5: I don't want to. I was young and happy and

610
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 5: free and like, I don't really want.

611
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: To be a professional. Like you're not profession you're not

612
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: the lady. Okay, you need to go talk to the

613
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: lady because what can you really do? And then that's

614
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 1: just gonna bring you down that herd.

615
00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 2: That's a burden when somebody is not happy. I told you,

616
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 2: I dated this guy and he lost his job and

617
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 2: it was kind of early on and he was so

618
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,199
Speaker 2: depressed and like angry all the time, and I was like,

619
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 2: I can't do this. I would do I was like,

620
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: cause it's one thing if like you fall in some

621
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 2: hard times, but you're working on it and at least

622
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: we're still having a good time. But he was not

623
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 2: fun at all. I mean it was every time I

624
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 2: was around him, it was like my spirit was like, yeah,

625
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 2: And it's one thing.

626
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 4: Also when you I think that's when you also realize

627
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 4: that I don't really care about you. I care about you,

628
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 4: but I don't care about you enough to want to

629
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 4: do these things. Because I could see it where it's

630
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 4: like you love somebody to the point where.

631
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 5: Will you will go?

632
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: But then it's like it's the thing gonna get thinner

633
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: and thinner? Is it ever gonna get back thick? Because

634
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: sometimes I think that people like to just stay in

635
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 1: that place or they won't do the things that they

636
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 1: need to do to get out of it. And it's like,

637
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: how long do you expect me to ride?

638
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, while you're like this.

639
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 4: If you're not going to anything trying to But I

640
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 4: also you've got to try those types of so people

641
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,959
Speaker 4: they show you that they don't fix problems before you

642
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 4: marry them, Like, there are so many different signs. Whe're like,

643
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:07,959
Speaker 4: we already know if we probably if you go through

644
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 4: some hardshap when we get married, you've been not accomplishing anything,

645
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 4: So you don't be shocked when he fall on hard

646
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 4: You still married and you still continue to do this

647
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 4: relationship him and you saw him not checking off not

648
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 4: nam boxes.

649
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't do it, okay.

650
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 2: So how important is sex in a relationship?

651
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: Very okay, I mean it's not the most important, but

652
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 1: it's very important.

653
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 2: You know, they act like women like we're not. You know,

654
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 2: that's always secondary to us. Have you ever been with

655
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: somebody who you only like them because of sex?

656
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 7: Oh?

657
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? To me, sex is like the easiest part of

658
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: the relationship.

659
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 6: It's the other stuff that becomes the issue.

660
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: Sore. I've definitely held on to way too many people

661
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 1: because the sex was great, and it's like I don't

662
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: even really want to talk to him because when he

663
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: starts talking, I'm annoyed. Or having sex, I'm in love again.

664
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 5: Have you ever known that someone was only with you

665
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 5: for sex?

666
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they didn't like when I was talking you

667
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:05,719
Speaker 1: know what, you know, it's like it was a mutual

668
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 1: decision and it's fine, like you just discuss it.

669
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 2: I don't know if I like, I feel like every

670
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 2: guy that I've been with at least acts like they

671
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 2: like to be around you.

672
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 1: Disrespect Yeah, like nice, but you can just tell, like

673
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 1: when the conversations are not ever really having any substance,

674
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: and it's just like little things, you know, like if

675
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 1: they're not taking you out to eat and we'll eat,

676
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 1: like ask me about my future, asking about my family,

677
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: checking in on people, or asking what I want out

678
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 1: of life. It's just like we can go, we can eat,

679
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: we can do the things. You can drink and after this.

680
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, what makes sex great to you?

681
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: Oh? The passion, the eye contact. I just like the

682
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: smell of a man.

683
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 2: Are pasturbating right now?

684
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 5: Use my best friend?

685
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: I almost warm mind today. But yeah, I think it's

686
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: that and just being able to look at somebody and

687
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 1: just every sexual experience is different and the people that

688
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: you're with is different. But when you can really connect

689
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: with somebody and both of you are pleasing each other

690
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: and it's not like one sided, it's great.

691
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 2: Have you ever had sex with somebody who didn't even

692
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 2: really like, like as a person.

693
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, I stopped doing that.

694
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 5: But sex was good or the sex was bad, or

695
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 5: you're like, don't you.

696
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 2: Know, like the sex is good? Person, Yeah, I.

697
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 5: Don't want where's my stuff.

698
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 3: For a person I didn't like?

699
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 7: But I used to like them and then I ended

700
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 7: up having sex with them later and didn't like them.

701
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 3: My thoughts on right the feeling one away.

702
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 2: Like if you circle back, like it was good at

703
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: first and then you like, let me revisit that years later, and.

704
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: Then you like, I think I raised my standards because

705
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: I thought it.

706
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 2: Was there you go, there was this. This happened to

707
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 2: me one time. This is so embarrassing as I learned

708
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 2: not to do this. But this guy was at my

709
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 2: house and he was really good at like in and pussy.

710
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: That was all that I really I didn't really like

711
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: him that much. And then one day he just would

712
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 2: not leave, and I was like, oh my god, if

713
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 2: he Because you know when somebody's at your house and

714
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: you don't really like them and you can't wait for

715
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 2: them to leave and you don't want to be rude

716
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: and you don't know how to be like this is

717
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 2: before Ubers existed, so you can't.

718
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 4: This is why women are so great, because women we

719
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 4: all like, I don't want to be rude.

720
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 6: Oh man, out of here?

721
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 5: What you want to go to work?

722
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

723
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 6: I got, I got, I got moved the man.

724
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 4: I got.

725
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 5: Worried about that.

726
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 2: Finally he left right and I closed the door behind him,

727
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god, thank god he

728
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: left and he heard me, but I closed the doors.

729
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 6: I didn't know he terrified.

730
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 2: He called me and was like, wow, you couldn't wait

731
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 2: for me to leave, and I was like.

732
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 6: Wow, I really, I'm sorry.

733
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 5: Did he still come up with each.

734
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 2: I think after that I probably was too bad. But

735
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: I also just didn't like him any I didn't even

736
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 2: really like him. I don't even know why.

737
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 4: I was like, when you feel that way about man, like,

738
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 4: what is normally like the underlying factor that you don't like?

739
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 4: Because for me, it could be something like slight like you,

740
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 4: maybe you when you swallow it's too.

741
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 5: Loud and it's like, well, I don't understand why you.

742
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 6: So it was a guy that I didn't like. I

743
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 6: couldn't really just get into because he was like highly unintelligent.

744
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 6: Yeah that's a deal break because I like everything was

745
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 6: so cool.

746
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: But he.

747
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 7: Think I was somebody for a long time whose sex

748
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 7: was just incredible.

749
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 3: It was just really whole. You know, everything sucks mm hm.

750
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: But he was a little girl.

751
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, and see I never had like you didn't even

752
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 6: get there.

753
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 7: And like I, he and I almost every time we

754
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 7: spoke it was like if we had a long conversation,

755
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 7: we were either like having a jokey conversation or I

756
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:08,959
Speaker 7: was teaching him something.

757
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 6: You're like beat alone with men, it out with it.

758
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 4: It was the sex was great and he was fine,

759
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 4: but he just I'm not even like a health freak.

760
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 5: I'm really not. I do the normals.

761
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 4: I'll do my vitamins, I drink a lot of water,

762
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 4: I have my vegetables all that stuff.

763
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 5: I'm normal healthy. He was like, I don't like water,

764
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 5: and I was.

765
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: Like, oh.

766
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 6: Coming out fried.

767
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 5: It was drowning the lettuce and ranch.

768
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: I can't so I know he didn't taste good.

769
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 6: That's the steps.

770
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 3: Have a good diet. I couldn't get.

771
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: With no water.

772
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 6: Like, no, I don't like water. You don't like yourself.

773
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 6: You don't like water. That's the body is what happened.

774
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know anybody who doesn't drink water. I

775
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 2: don't think. I have no idea.

776
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 6: I don't drink.

777
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: They were.

778
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 5: Always look unhealthy, something look like, yeah, I don't like water.

779
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: So maybe what is overrated?

780
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 6: No, it's not.

781
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: I have the question, y'all.

782
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 6: This didn't happen to me, but it happened to a

783
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 6: close friend of mine, and I want to get y'all's

784
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 6: opinion on it. So imagine your day in the sky

785
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 6: and things are getting serious and you invite him over.

786
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 6: He's from out of town, and you're like, when you visit,

787
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 6: you can just stay at my house and he goes, Now,

788
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 6: I'm ready to get a hotel because I don't know

789
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 6: who slept in that bed. How would you react to that?

790
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 4: Okay, my reaction will be I can't believe you said

791
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 4: to me, But I also get it. So then I'm

792
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 4: looking at whoever he said that to you? Will Is

793
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 4: there a reason why he do a lot of.

794
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 6: Well, so personally because I know the guy and not

795
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 6: the girl. So personally for him, he just feels like

796
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 6: he don't want to sleep in the bed that she

797
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 6: another man fucked her. But changing the mattress don't change

798
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 6: her pussy. You're still gonna sit on the toilet. You

799
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,720
Speaker 6: still want to eat off the forks in the place.

800
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 6: You're still in the house.

801
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 3: Excuse first, right.

802
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 5: Now, there have been times when I don't want to stay.

803
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 2: I was gonna say if you did he had never

804
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 2: even been to her time that you go like visit him.

805
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to stay in his house either. I'd

806
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 2: rather get a hotel and maybe go to your house.

807
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 6: It was the worst time they were. They were getting

808
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 6: serious and she's like, you no longer have to get hotels.

809
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 6: You can start staying with me, and he's like not.

810
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 6: He said, I'll buy you a new mattress first, but

811
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 6: not well, I mean, but that's just oh you know

812
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 6: I I told him he was being ridiculous, and he's

813
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 6: like the real nigga before, because the real nigga go

814
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 6: swap out your mattress. You might out every DWN, but

815
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 6: you can't swap out as the pussy. Yeah, I mean,

816
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 6: I can see like a new pillows.

817
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 2: But she's okay with you, then you know if she's.

818
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 6: This, this is what I want to know. And I'm

819
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 6: gonna ask him because I just thought of this in

820
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 6: this moment when your break up because eventually you're probably

821
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 6: gonna break up with her. You'll might not make it.

822
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 6: You're taking the mattress or you letting her keep it

823
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 6: for the next nigga.

824
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 3: So she.

825
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 5: Trying to carry out mattress.

826
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 2: You want to hear something crazy. I dated this guy.

827
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 2: This is the only person before that I ever very

828
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 2: briefly lived with for like two months, you know, And

829
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 2: when we broke up, he tried to take the mattress

830
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 2: with him. Like wrong, He's like, but he had no

831
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 2: place to go with it. I was like, if you

832
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 2: don't just take this.

833
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 6: Wait, it's a video flirting the round of a guy

834
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 6: trying to look the mattress onto the train here in

835
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 6: New York. I just saw it today.

836
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 2: And I had just graduated from college. So it wasn't

837
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 2: like a good mattress. It was from a Kia, so

838
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 2: he was extra petty.

839
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, he liked try to take it.

840
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 2: And he was like trying to take it and drag

841
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 2: it down, and I was like, I mean, I don't hear. No,

842
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 2: he didn't because he didn't really have nowhere to go.

843
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: He couldn't get it down the steps. But I think

844
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 2: he was just that is so embarrassing.

845
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: Imagine you're struggling with the mattress, you can't eat, and

846
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: I was looking like, are you just stuck this clown

847
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 1: right here?

848
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 5: We sit here and talk about clown ass niggas.

849
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 4: There used to be a dude that I was fucking

850
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 4: with and he he wasn't even my boyfriend.

851
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 5: We were just like dating for a moment. He was crazy.

852
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 5: I will never date another Libraman ever again.

853
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 6: In my life.

854
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 1: That's my brother.

855
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 2: He's a Libra.

856
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 5: I'm a lib to, but the brother.

857
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 6: Brian cool.

858
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 4: He ended up writing a Google doc, a six page

859
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 4: Google doc about me, and it had like an intro

860
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 4: and heading, and he wrote this Google doc about everything

861
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 4: that he didn't like that I did, and he put

862
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 4: bullet points. When we were out, you could have suggested

863
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 4: that you were going to pay for the extra, the

864
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 4: extra who could call? Or hey baby, I'm going to

865
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 4: pick you up from the airport this week. It was

866
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 4: so detailed. I'll show you all after the show.

867
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 5: It was crazy.

868
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 4: He made a Google doc. Not only did he make

869
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 4: the Google doc, he got on Instagram, found my mom,

870
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 4: found my older brother, my older sister, and my best friend,

871
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 4: and he sent them the Google doc. I didn't even

872
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 4: know it had been created. My sister calls me like

873
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 4: eight am on a Sunday morning. I'm like, what's going on?

874
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 4: She was like, I just sent a Google doc and

875
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 4: he sent it to mom.

876
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 5: He sent it to you.

877
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, I go to my email.

878
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 4: He emailed it to me because I had blocked him.

879
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 4: I was so embarrassed the depths that these men will

880
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 4: go I'm gonna show you.

881
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 5: I'm gonna show you.

882
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 2: I was.

883
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 4: I couldn't believe that he did this. And it was detailed.

884
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 4: It was like a dissertation. He had all these details.

885
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 4: Every date, he put dates what I should have said,

886
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 4: examples of what I should have said.

887
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 2: Was any of this in your opinion? Maybe he was right?

888
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 3: You know, so.

889
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 4: You in the moment because he came like he really

890
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Speaker 4: give me to the point where now and I date,

891
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,240
Speaker 4: I guess I should look at it as a positive.

892
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 4: I'm hyper sensitive to like how I treat people because

893
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 4: I had no idea he felt this way.

894
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 5: But this was ignorant. I couldn't believe he did this.

895
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 2: God, you know, I'm not gonna lie. When you break

896
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 2: up with somebody, would you like a Google doc of

897
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: like what you could have done.

898
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 6: Talk to me when it happening, how you diegue everything?

899
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: And you like about time? I would like it a thing.

900
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: You should create a document for people to fill out.

901
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a little.

902
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 3: Because a Google document of what he wants me to do.

903
00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, let's be because we would You said it's

904
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: perfect at the end, when it's over.

905
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 2: Maybe it would be good to have, like some feedback.

906
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: I would like to do that, because you know, I

907
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: would my mom.

908
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 6: What your mom said almost like baby.

909
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 5: I just want you to know I did not open

910
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 5: it and read it, and I always she read it.

911
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: She said, she did.

912
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 2: You know what she?

913
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 4: He titled it, Hey, smiley face, Why would you do

914
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 4: this to someone utterly embarrassed?

915
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: That is ridiculous.

916
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,919
Speaker 2: I think this is not a bad idea. I don't

917
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 2: think we should really create sometimes. I would like and

918
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 2: it's six pages. May enjoyed your week?

919
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: I like that.

920
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 2: He said, it's currently Friday, No.

921
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 6: Five thirty timestamps.

922
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 2: He actually, it's it's well written. From experience, I've noticed

923
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 2: you don't do well with constructive feedback. So I'm also

924
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 2: helping you curate your cantability cluster. Hence why he's the

925
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 2: where hens while others in your personal circle are included.

926
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 2: We often say feedback is the breakfast of champions, and

927
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 2: without accountability, there's liability.

928
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Speaker 1: I've never seen it.

929
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I've noticed position he forgot an s here. I've

930
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 2: noticed position you've taken on social media as quote being

931
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 2: stood up or quote wanting.

932
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 5: Over those particular situations that happen.

933
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 2: So here's some factual critique to truly add validity to

934
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Speaker 2: the narrative as well as share best practices in dating

935
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 2: so you don't continue fumbling.

936
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Speaker 6: Good man, what does this man do for a living?

937
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 4: You use a financial advisor? He made to the point

938
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 4: where I'll never date a financial advisor ever again.

939
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: And even if not with me, I genuinely want and

940
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 2: wish the best for you and your love life because

941
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 2: I believe you're an amazing woman that may just need

942
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: a little coaching or a glimpse from another perspective besides

943
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Speaker 2: your I'm so far it's not bad a one personal

944
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Speaker 2: accountability and communication made. It wasn't until Friday October twenty nine,

945
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Speaker 2: at three forty five that you finally share logistics about

946
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 2: the party that evening. Not to mention, I am the

947
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 2: one that had to reach out to you at that

948
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 2: time when you finally texted be at your house at

949
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 2: six pm, I called immediately to let you know i'd

950
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Speaker 2: be running behind something.

951
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 4: That's a whole issue with this is y'all won't undertand

952
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 4: because it's a whole situation and he didn't be to it.

953
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh yeah, he drove out of Alpharetta. See. I

954
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 2: thought back to the week prior where a similar situation happened.

955
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 2: It was Sunday. He has a date, so he has

956
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 2: a diary.

957
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Speaker 3: He has he has.

958
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 2: Started telling me in the moment it's like a contract.

959
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: All right, comment relation moment.

960
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 2: I got to tell you how he starts up to

961
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Speaker 2: a as aforementioned.

962
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 6: Let's remain ur my last email, right ooh, he said.

963
00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 2: Purpose of this interaction was to express my concerned with

964
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: the relationship deposits or lack thereof. I felt we're being

965
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 2: made on your end during the discussion. You took that

966
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: as me saying you don't spend money on me. That's

967
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 2: not at all what I look exactly what he said.

968
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 2: I'll share some examples of what we mean by relationship deposits.

969
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 2: I haven't never heard.

970
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 1: Of relationship relationship therapist, right, I.

971
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 4: Know we go out of home, so we were not

972
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 4: in a relationship that I'm this man for one girl.

973
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 4: I knew him for one Did you guys describe knew

974
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 4: him for one month?

975
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,240
Speaker 2: He would have described your cooking skills.

976
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 4: No, he's sort of saying he wanted me to cook

977
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 4: for him, and I was like, Okay, one day I

978
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 4: was making some chicken wings and I was like, you

979
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 4: could come over it.

980
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 5: Again, he's not my boyfriend.

981
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 2: Okay, you did make him wings that one time. He

982
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 2: said they were good.

983
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 4: He was playing, he was I was really looking at

984
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 4: this email to my brother.

985
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 6: You got it, girl.

986
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 2: He wanted you to just say this hookah cole refill.

987
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,919
Speaker 4: Is on me now we start. But you talk about

988
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 4: it wasn't about.

989
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 2: How much ten dollars I want you to be like,

990
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 2: I got us a shot.

991
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 4: He left out everything that I actually did do for

992
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 4: him that was financial, which is crazy to me. That's

993
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 4: why this accountability thing, it's like put in your part

994
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 4: in it also.

995
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 3: Though, But what did you do that he's not mentioned.

996
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 4: He's not mentioning the Dior cologne for his birthday. Again,

997
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 4: I knew him for one month, and I was like, oh,

998
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 4: he's really sweet.

999
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: Surprised. That's a sugar.

1000
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 2: You're not good at listening, he.

1001
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 4: Said, I did a scavenger hunt around his place, like

1002
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 4: I was like a rob romantic.

1003
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Speaker 6: On this.

1004
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 2: This is amazing by listening is number three and the

1005
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 2: book Never Split the Difference author describes listening as the

1006
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 2: greatest form of currency you can give a person. I

1007
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 2: don't believe it's productive to list the countless examples of

1008
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 2: where I told you something and you just flat out

1009
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 2: forget or attempt to explain to me that I never

1010
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: said it.

1011
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: That's so mean.

1012
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 2: I will forget some ship now, okay.

1013
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:05,440
Speaker 4: Especially and told me that I need to allow him

1014
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 4: to spend the night in my house during the week

1015
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 4: days because I live in the city and his office

1016
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 4: was in the city and he lived in bumba.

1017
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:11,919
Speaker 2: Fuck.

1018
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 6: I don't know how much how much you have to drive,

1019
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 6: so you're paying my rent and right, And he started

1020
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 6: really having me believed that.

1021
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 5: I was doing they so I was like, okay, maybe

1022
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 5: you should. I was dumb.

1023
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 2: Was the last question?

1024
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: Did you call him corny? I did good.

1025
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 6: I lived from the airport and my boyfriend at the

1026
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 6: hour and a half from the airport, so he would

1027
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 6: come to my house and like use my house as

1028
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 6: to jump off point to go to the airport when

1029
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 6: he had to travel. And after a while I was

1030
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 6: just like, is this the only time I'm going to

1031
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 6: see you?

1032
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: Right? Yeah?

1033
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 2: Well he did say you're amazing. Okay, after all that,

1034
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 2: he said, YO, always attractive man.

1035
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:52,760
Speaker 6: He said he was a good woman.

1036
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 2: You even shared or insinuated with me over text that

1037
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:57,720
Speaker 2: you haven't moved on, go speed racer.

1038
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 6: You know what? So was there anything that she was like,

1039
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 6: did you from this constructive criticism?

1040
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 5: There was.

1041
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: There anything?

1042
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,439
Speaker 2: Quote, let me just do this quote. I've been called

1043
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,839
Speaker 2: a lot of things in my days, but never corny.

1044
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 5: I should have had a big booty. He also had

1045
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:16,879
Speaker 5: a big old block.

1046
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 6: I'm not like.

1047
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 1: Big, like like you can have a little football.

1048
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 4: And he better be glad that I didn't take my

1049
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 4: platform and really rip them apart.

1050
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 5: I could have happened. I was like, I'm not even

1051
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 5: gonna do that. He wasn't a little bit.

1052
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: I wish she would. I wish you would have.

1053
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 2: I would.

1054
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 5: Booty anybody. Glad I didn't contact his company.

1055
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 4: There's just so much that could have been done, because

1056
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 4: now it turned into harassment.

1057
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 5: Like what are you doing.

1058
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 4: He didn't stop contact together. Yeah, it's like, bro, what

1059
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 4: are you doing? Take the L and move on.

1060
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:53,919
Speaker 1: Period. That was a lot.

1061
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: It was about a couple of grammdical errors. I'm an

1062
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 2: English major. But other than that, it was but I

1063
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 2: take that.

1064
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 4: You know what, I'm not gonna I did because it

1065
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 4: made me think about and when he was talking about like, oh,

1066
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 4: like you're not offering things, you're not things and you're

1067
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 4: not doing relationship deposits. First of all, I didn't really

1068
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 4: like him like that, so I thought that was wek

1069
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 4: I knew him for months. I was still getting to

1070
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 4: know you, and so it made me realize that, Yeah,

1071
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 4: but for me, if I really do care about somebody

1072
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 4: making sure I am offering certain things and at least

1073
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 4: even if you don't want me to. But he gave me,

1074
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 4: like literally he made me be like super high hyper

1075
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 4: sensitive to where like even in my relationship now, I'm

1076
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 4: always like do.

1077
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 5: You want me to get this? Do you want me

1078
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 5: to get my way?

1079
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: And you like trying.

1080
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,760
Speaker 2: To ladies, let's talk about that for a second, because

1081
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 2: you've already had to cope with this in me, Dina,

1082
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 2: But Kiki, do you do relationship deposits.

1083
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 1: If I like you, Okay, if I care, I have

1084
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 1: no problem doing it. But sometimes I think that men

1085
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: get confused and they think that we like them more

1086
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: than we do, and it's like, this is just a

1087
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: good time right now, So don't expect me to give

1088
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: a lot. But I have no problem giving. I find

1089
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: that really I give too much sometimes if.

1090
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 2: I like I saw on TikTok this went viral where

1091
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 2: a woman was filming herself. She was on a date

1092
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: and the guy I guess didn't have enough money to

1093
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 2: pay for dinner dishes yeah, and he was like, I

1094
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 2: can wash the dishes, and she was just kind of

1095
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 2: like she.

1096
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: Was just filming.

1097
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 2: People were like, why didn't she offer? What did you

1098
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 2: think about that.

1099
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 6: Didn't have it to offer?

1100
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: That's what I saw herself.

1101
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 2: To pay for herself, at least, because I've always been

1102
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 2: to it since I was young. Don't go out with

1103
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 2: the guy if you don't have money to take care

1104
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 2: of yourself in case something happens.

1105
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: I was taught that.

1106
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 6: I didn't always do that. Yeah, but yeah, this is

1107
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 6: definitely where I was talking.

1108
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: I would think that if she had it, she would

1109
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: be like, well, I can at least pay my part,

1110
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: but it seems also you wanted to have a moment

1111
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: she tried to do. But then I'm like, well, why

1112
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: were you all ordering if you had the money, what

1113
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: is that point? Yeah, and if it's none, it was

1114
00:47:58,400 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 1: ninety seven dollars.

1115
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were times in my life they probably didn't

1116
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 2: have ninety.

1117
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 6: Dollars either, But I'm not about to be.

1118
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: Sick and crazy. I this time when I first when

1119
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 2: I was working at Serious And I don't think he'll

1120
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 2: mind me telling this story because I've he's discussed it before.

1121
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 2: But when Bob first signed to Atlantic Records, he was

1122
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 2: managed by b Rich member be Rich and him and

1123
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 2: TJ they were managing Bob. They were like, you know,

1124
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,399
Speaker 2: after they had did my show, they were like, let's

1125
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 2: go get something to eat. And I was like okay,

1126
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 2: And they told me way later that when I ordered

1127
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,479
Speaker 2: a second drink, they didn't have enough money to even

1128
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 2: pay because they had just signed a deal and they

1129
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 2: were like, look, we had spent all of our money

1130
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 2: like trying to get all this done. And then that's

1131
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 2: why no one else got a drink but me, because

1132
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 2: they were like, oh, you know, we're going to take

1133
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 2: you out and I was like, okay, cool. You know,

1134
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: we went a couple of blocks from the station as serious,

1135
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 2: and they just didn't have it at that time. And

1136
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 2: clearly things got better after that, but they in retrospect

1137
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 2: were looking back and they were like, I just remember

1138
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 2: being like, oh my god, how are we going to

1139
00:48:58,320 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 2: pay for this?

1140
00:48:58,800 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 5: How they paid for it?

1141
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 2: They managed. They just didn't get drinks either, like they

1142
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 2: realized they had just enough.

1143
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 4: Like they definitely been in situations like that, especially when

1144
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 4: it's like you tend to be a guy.

1145
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's any situation.

1146
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 4: It's tough because even if it's not like a romantic situation,

1147
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 4: if you are like in the entertainment industry, and you

1148
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 4: meet somebody that you do look up through you want

1149
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 4: to work with and you maybe need a moment with

1150
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 4: him and you want to take them out, you're not

1151
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 4: going to be like, I really don't have any money

1152
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 4: to take you out, but I want to take you

1153
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 4: outcause I wanted to maybe like pick your brain about

1154
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 4: something we all know, like the protocols you're supposed to

1155
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 4: do and the points's I've done that before, and it's

1156
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 4: like I I hope.

1157
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:32,839
Speaker 5: This don't I hope she don't be trying to order

1158
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 5: too much, right.

1159
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 2: We saw that on thesod The Happiness. Remember in the

1160
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 2: movie The Happiness where his boss was like he was

1161
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 2: entered in and he borrows some money from him. He

1162
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 2: was like, shit, that was a lot for him. I

1163
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 2: think we got to call this episode of relationship deposit no.

1164
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,919
Speaker 7: Seeing of relationship deposits. I feel like I made too

1165
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 7: many relationship deposits. I'd be spending money on my boyfriend.

1166
00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:00,320
Speaker 7: I deposit the whole relationship when i'm but I'm in

1167
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 7: a relationship. When I go shopping, I buy my man's

1168
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 7: shoes and clothes, and I bring them food.

1169
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 5: But I don't.

1170
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 7: One thing I have to say is that I have

1171
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 7: not ever been I've sat at the table with a

1172
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 7: man who made me pay for my food.

1173
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 3: Ever happened.

1174
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 4: And what I do want people to take but I

1175
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 4: would if I had to, I would I pay for

1176
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 4: both of us.

1177
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 3: I'm I'm trick, mama.

1178
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 4: The relationship deposits don't have don't always have money, right,

1179
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,399
Speaker 4: because I will say there are some there. Sometimes it's

1180
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 4: just like sometimes a man just wants you to People

1181
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 4: just want you to know. I want to know, like

1182
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 4: you care about my well being man. It's you walk

1183
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 4: me to the door at night, or you walk me

1184
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 4: to the car, you open my car door, Like there

1185
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 4: are just certain things you don't you talk about what

1186
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 4: you need and what you want to take out my

1187
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 4: trash and fold the town for me. Yeah, Like it's

1188
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 4: not always so if somebody's listening, they're like, dang, I

1189
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 4: only got seven dollars.

1190
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 2: It's nice for a guy to cook for you, because

1191
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 2: especially guys, you don't know how to guy except it

1192
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 2: might be a nasty but a nice gesture.

1193
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: It's a nice gesture. I had a man I remember

1194
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: in college, but he was bragging about his cooking skills.

1195
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 1: So when I got to this, it was not there,

1196
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 1: and I was like, this is truly a college struggle meal.

1197
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: And why why did you invite me all the way

1198
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: out here to come do this? Because he didn't go

1199
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: to school with me. He was at like University of Maryland.

1200
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 1: So I drove my ass down to Maryland from DC.

1201
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: But it probably got the ticket on the way. Craft

1202
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: mac and cheese. It wasn't even real.

1203
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 6: Spaghetti mac and cheese you're discussing it was.

1204
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 1: It was pasta. I thought it was gonna be like

1205
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 1: real spaghetti, but it was like some pasta noodles and

1206
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: like a jar of sauce that he didn't even hook up.

1207
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 6: I saw him sprinkle a dobo in it, and that.

1208
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: Was it, and I'm like, that's the play. It probably was,

1209
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: and I was just like moving. I said, I can't

1210
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 1: do this. It's buffalo while wing still open. I'm hungry.

1211
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 1: We need to eat something I can't like order he

1212
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: did and his films were.

1213
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 6: But I'm like, I'm hungry.

1214
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:54,280
Speaker 2: Hear what type of letter he had written about you?

1215
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 6: You should have appreciated the fact that I opened up

1216
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 6: the jar and I don't have any food, but I

1217
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 6: gave you my last year. I gave you my last jars.

1218
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I did not shouldn't have been bragging about

1219
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 7: that cooking.

1220
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 2: That was the part where he before guys who like

1221
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 2: think they can cook, but can't. They cannot make tacos

1222
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 2: and spaghetti. Those are like the breakfast.

1223
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1224
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:24,919
Speaker 3: Usually my father he made me steak and baked potatoes.

1225
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1226
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 3: I gave him a baby after that.

1227
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 2: Now did you see Tarall Owens talking with Sinko on

1228
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 2: on Live and he was.

1229
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 6: Saying that I was talking about it this morning.

1230
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so He was saying that he basically had stopped

1231
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 2: dating black his experiences dating black women wasn't so good,

1232
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 2: and that they were kind of like did you see it?

1233
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 6: He was saying that when he was younger that the

1234
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 6: black girls didn't like him. They talked about him being

1235
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 6: too dark, and they just he wasn't attractive, and that

1236
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 6: kind of pushed him more towards other races women especially,

1237
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 6: and he's like, you know me now and he gets

1238
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 6: shunned upond because that's what he prefers. But it's just

1239
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 6: like back then, you ain't want me. Now I'm hot,

1240
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 6: y'all me Like, what am I supposed to do? I mean,

1241
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 6: to each their own.

1242
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 4: I mean, when people are honest and they're not, you're

1243
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 4: not trying to like just offend somebody with your words.

1244
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 5: That's his honest story.

1245
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: You lie.

1246
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 2: Have you had experiences dating like outside your race?

1247
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: Yea, No. I tried one time and I was like,

1248
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 1: I just I can't.

1249
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 6: Relationship with a Caucasian man. I've been in a relationship

1250
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 6: with an Indian man, and I've been in a relationship

1251
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 6: with some what are Jamaican.

1252
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 2: But did any of them make you feel like I

1253
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:47,760
Speaker 2: would never date this whatever.

1254
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 1: Dan, I felt like he was kind of having a

1255
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 1: little bit of a fetish because he it was always

1256
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 1: about black stuff, and it's like, I don't talk about

1257
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 1: black shit all day every day. We don't have to

1258
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: just have a conversation.

1259
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 6: I would date a white man. I feel like that

1260
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 6: I will probably eventually end up marrying. Really, yeah, just

1261
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 6: from past experiences that I've always I've always had the

1262
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 6: best times when I was in those relationships. They just

1263
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 6: treat you better. It's weird.

1264
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: Did it feel any type of fetishization at all?

1265
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 6: Did it feel like fetish to me?

1266
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1267
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 4: No, I've dated the rainbow, and it all comes down to,

1268
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 4: like how we were talking about earlier, I have got

1269
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 4: to feel like my favorite way to be looking in

1270
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 4: the house is ugly, Like I like being in my

1271
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 4: hair looking crazy, and I just I have learned that

1272
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 4: when I've dated outside of my race, I don't feel

1273
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 4: not that they did anything to me, it's just the

1274
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 4: cultural differences.

1275
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:44,320
Speaker 5: I don't want those in my household.

1276
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 4: I want you to understand that I might look totally

1277
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 4: different tomorrow, and I don't want you ask.

1278
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 2: Some questions like.

1279
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 5: What are we doing.

1280
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 4: I've got great experiences dating outside of my race. So

1281
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 4: when it comes down to that, that core again the family

1282
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 4: values I don't want to have. I don't want to

1283
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:03,800
Speaker 4: have to explain to your white mother why she can't

1284
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 4: say the N word.

1285
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 5: You know what, I don't want to like, I just

1286
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 5: don't want.

1287
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 4: To have why she's I just don't want to have

1288
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 4: to deal with that.

1289
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 6: I just knew it wasn't the future with him, Like

1290
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 6: after a while, I was just like, this isn't going

1291
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 6: to go past where it is now. And he was

1292
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 6: telling cheep, he had a lot of money, but he

1293
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 6: always want to get something on discount, and some relationships

1294
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 6: I always wanted, like.

1295
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 1: I was gonna forget that. I like that.

1296
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 4: I want us all to go home to tonight and

1297
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 4: do some relationship deposits somebody you love or like.

1298
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 5: Already for all of us.

1299
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 2: To be able to do things like that. I'm not

1300
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 2: mad at it.

1301
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1302
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 6: You know, relationship deposits.

1303
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 2: Now, let me ask you this. Let's just say you

1304
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 2: were in love, you've been in love before, like he

1305
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 2: was going to get married.

1306
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 1: Maybe I thought that and I shouldn't have thought that,

1307
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: but yes, I have okay, and not good at first,

1308
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: I didn't last.

1309
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 2: But yeah, what happened.

1310
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 1: He cheated, he had a baby with somebody else, He

1311
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 1: had a whole another girlfriend.

1312
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:12,320
Speaker 7: So how did you find out?

1313
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: His best friend's wife came to me and told me what.

1314
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 1: She was like, I really hit me up on it

1315
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: was like Facebook, you need to know and.

1316
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 6: She was like I know that.

1317
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. She was like you need to know this, and

1318
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 1: I was like I need to know what. She was like,

1319
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: call me. So I called because I want to know,

1320
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: like what's going on? You have anything to do with anything?

1321
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: Like what's going on? So when I called her, she

1322
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: was like, he's having a baby and he hasn't told you,

1323
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: but they were talking about it last night. Yes, And

1324
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 1: I loved her message. Yeah, And she's like they're talking

1325
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:46,879
Speaker 1: about it and I want you to know. I did

1326
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: say you need to tell her and if you don't

1327
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 1: tell her, I will. And I don't seem like he

1328
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: told you because I appreciate.

1329
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:55,799
Speaker 5: You every Sunday, so.

1330
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: Like I appreciated that, and I'm glad she told me.

1331
00:56:58,200 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: I did leave Alona for that, because like, this is

1332
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: many you're all to have a life with. And it

1333
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: just made me wake up and realize this is not

1334
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,439
Speaker 1: your person. Well one, he's not trying to be your person.

1335
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: He's trying to be everybody's person. And it's not gonna

1336
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 1: match up because you're gonna be mad at that baby. Like,

1337
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't know how people are able to stay in

1338
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: relationships with somebody when they have a baby with somebody else,

1339
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: like to eat their own. And if you love that

1340
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 1: man real bad and you can do it, but I

1341
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 1: know I would be mad every day looking at that

1342
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: child and the child didn't do anything.

1343
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 2: To do so, And then also have to know that

1344
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 2: you have to deal with the mom.

1345
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I still have to deal with you. And

1346
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 1: then I'm always gonna wonder I couldn't.

1347
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 3: I couldn't do it.

1348
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 5: Why is Natasha in the corner not eating with everyone else?

1349
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 5: Were differently?

1350
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 6: No, I was put on a pedestal. I was the

1351
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 6: you got extra child. I was I was the golden

1352
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 6: ticket child.

1353
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 2: You know, when you're in that situation when they come

1354
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 2: into a little baby, if the other mom can be okay,

1355
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 2: you can grow to love and be like okay.

1356
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 1: But because that's the.

1357
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 2: Other mom is a crazy person, then that's a that's

1358
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 2: the real obstacle.

1359
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can't because you're now a part of my life.

1360
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: And I think it's also different if like you had

1361
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: a baby with somebody you were in another relationship with,

1362
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 1: or if it was just like a y'all were having

1363
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: sex and this girl got broke, Yeah, that's different, but

1364
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: you got a whole another relationship.

1365
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 2: Now, Like what if you started dating somebody you really

1366
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: liked them, and then they had a baby on the

1367
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 2: way with somebody they weren't with, could you continue to

1368
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 2: pursue that relationship.

1369
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I might be able to do that.

1370
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 7: I have, I've got that, I've been what I've started

1371
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 7: with a guy who has a baby on the way.

1372
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we still.

1373
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 4: Because there's already so much that goes into again, a

1374
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 4: healthy relationship. If you're not worried about that, then cool,

1375
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 4: the same for you. But like if you are, it's.

1376
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 5: Like, now we have a whole other dynamically.

1377
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 3: But like you said, I was, I feel like it

1378
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 3: was in my younger years.

1379
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 7: And yeah, and my younger years, I wasn't even the

1380
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 7: furthest I was thinking about the future was maybe the

1381
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 7: next twenty minute.

1382
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 5: What are we eating?

1383
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 7: But you know, I don't I don't know.

1384
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 2: If sometimes we stayed way too long and we got

1385
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 2: those signs really on it, but like I know, baby

1386
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 2: on me.

1387
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 6: We was in an open relationship and he got the

1388
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 6: next girl pregnant and I found out because his best

1389
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 6: friend thought I knew and was like something something something,

1390
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 6: the baby, and I'm like, what baby. You know what's

1391
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 6: hard for guys too, because sometimes they be thinking they

1392
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 6: don't know if it's theirs or not until.

1393
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: That's what he tried to tell Sometimes they try to wait.

1394
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 6: And they'd be like, that was an excuse. When I

1395
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 6: asked him, I guess what he said, Well, guess guess

1396
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 6: what was happening. The baby had a name, his name no,

1397
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 6: but very close to his name because he already had

1398
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 6: a junior. The baby had a name that started with

1399
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 6: the same initial, and he was transforming the library across

1400
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 6: the hall to a nursery. So how are you doing

1401
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 6: all this and.

1402
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 5: The baby and you don't you know?

1403
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 1: I would rather like tell me that you think you

1404
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 1: might have a baby, but you don't know, and let's

1405
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 1: get to damn test communication not getting DNA tests like

1406
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: you said, No.

1407
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

1408
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 7: After the baby came, there was a little problem in

1409
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 7: between time and the meantime that we had to get over.

1410
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 3: We had to move on from out.

1411
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 4: Because there's so many Because then you look at it like, Okay,

1412
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 4: I'm with you, you have the baby.

1413
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 5: You have to be president in the baby.

1414
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: I can't be.

1415
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 3: You know, I can't be mad because I knew it

1416
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 3: was coming.

1417
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 6: So what if he was like, I really want you

1418
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 6: to also like step in.

1419
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 1: Step mama.

1420
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a different thing.

1421
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 2: There, Like what if the guy wanted to meet his baby.

1422
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 4: That's happened that guy that sent that Google doc. That

1423
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 4: was one of the reasons why I had to leave

1424
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 4: on because he kept trying to force his kid on me.

1425
01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 3: Child.

1426
01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 5: I don't want to The baby was five. I didn't

1427
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 5: want to meet him though, so I was like, I

1428
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 5: don't need to meet him. Why do I need to

1429
01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 5: meet your child? I personally don't think that's appropriate when

1430
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 5: anybody has a baby. You just everybody do you dating

1431
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 5: is meeting a child?

1432
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 4: Do?

1433
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: I don't.

1434
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 5: I'm not comfortable with it.

1435
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 6: I don't know that littlenigga Bye, I don't even want

1436
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 6: to meet your kid unless I know we're about to

1437
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 6: get married.

1438
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: That's a big stead.

1439
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 5: Because why we're going to do that to the kids

1440
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 5: and I love kids. I'm good with kids. I play

1441
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 5: with na I'm gonna.

1442
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 3: Happen after that. You don't know where Stephanie, She's gone.

1443
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And you created.

1444
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 5: A little monster for someone's daughter to meet and Mary

1445
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 5: one day. No, I don't need to meet the baby.

1446
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 1: Or I was glad that I met him with the kid,

1447
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: and I met everybody, and now I see how you

1448
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 1: are with the kids, so I can really see, like

1449
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: how you really are. I can't just listen to what

1450
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 1: you say, and.

1451
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 6: You might complain about your baby mama, and you might

1452
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 6: complain about.

1453
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: Things, But then what I can see, and I can

1454
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 1: speak to him myself or speak to her myself, I

1455
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: can really get my own opinion. But I need to

1456
01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:01,280
Speaker 1: know you well and I need to a feeling that

1457
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: it's more solid than just somebody. I'm just stating. I'm

1458
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 1: at a dude's mama and his son. They came down

1459
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: one time. We had only been talking for a little while,

1460
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why are we on a family outing?

1461
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 6: I did not know so crazy?

1462
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 1: Why are we doing this? This is weird? And it's like,

1463
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 1: do you introduce your son to every woman that you

1464
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 1: deal with?

1465
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 4: But then again that goes back to the whole again,

1466
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 4: if that's something that you don't think needs to be communicated.

1467
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 4: Now in my adult years, I realized I can't be

1468
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 4: with somebody that doesn't think a conversation needs to be

1469
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 4: had about meeting something your whole offspring.

1470
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 6: Right right, and your mother and your man.

1471
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 2: When I was in college, this guy I was with

1472
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 2: he had a kid. His kid was was only like

1473
01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 2: three years old, and him and the mom were not

1474
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 2: on good terms. And I was living in a dorm

1475
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 2: in Manhattan. This is when I was at school at

1476
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 2: Barnard and I was thought I was going to be

1477
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 2: a teacher, so I was taking these classes at thanks

1478
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 2: She College and Education. He left his son with me

1479
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 2: one day, becau because the mom left a note and

1480
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 2: was like I can't take it anymore. Yeah, she didn't

1481
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 2: want to be a mother. She was like I can't

1482
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 2: handle it. Left the kid home alone with the note,

1483
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 2: and then he went over there. I guess she called

1484
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 2: or had somebody to call to tell him. Nobody knew

1485
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 2: where she went, and so he went to go pick

1486
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 2: up his son. But then he was like, man, he

1487
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 2: played in like some little basketball league that was like

1488
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 2: some It was no real one. Yeah, some recreational thing

1489
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 2: with his parents, and he left the kid with me

1490
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 2: for like overnight day yeah, And I was like, this

1491
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 2: is the time for you to be spending some time

1492
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:38,919
Speaker 2: with your child, the mom.

1493
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 4: You're a good person, and it's like you're just like,

1494
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:47,840
Speaker 4: I'm gonna leave you with this stranger.

1495
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: In my dorm room. That's weird.

1496
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 2: And then he was like, he goes to me, man,

1497
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm gonna take him to a foster home.

1498
01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 2: He was like, I'm not doing this. I Am not

1499
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 2: with a person who even thinks like that. Yeah, even

1500
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 2: not like he was like, I can't handle this. I'm

1501
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 2: taking to a fus at home. And I get that

1502
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 2: he was mad at the mind for just up and

1503
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 2: leaving like that, but it was really hard for her,

1504
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 2: Like I don't know what.

1505
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 6: He was ready to take the baby to the foster

1506
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:18,680
Speaker 6: home from day one, and that means he already wouldn't

1507
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:19,479
Speaker 6: doing his job as if.

1508
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 1: And then he already wasn't playing Angel was.

1509
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 2: I'm in the dorm room, but he was.

1510
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:29,320
Speaker 1: The baby.

1511
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:33,439
Speaker 2: I don't even I remember I took him to the park.

1512
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 2: I just remember walking with him in the park and

1513
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 2: then being like what am I don't know what to do.

1514
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 1: About That's study that right.

1515
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 7: I feel like at this point in my life, I

1516
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 7: don't want to be with a man that has a

1517
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 7: small child, right, yeah I will.

1518
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 3: I don't mind kids, but I like them grown like mine.

1519
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 1: Okay, like a little adult.

1520
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think I'm old enough to date a man

1521
01:04:57,600 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 7: who has a twenty year old kid.

1522
01:04:58,840 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know what I mean.

1523
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 7: Be and your son be like cool, we go to

1524
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 7: dinner all of us.

1525
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 2: Do you think that you're more like in a relationship,

1526
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,200
Speaker 2: you're more maternal to your man or he's more paternal

1527
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 2: to you?

1528
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 6: Like, are you more of the person that he's definitely

1529
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 6: the me too.

1530
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 7: I think I'm more maternal towards my boyfriend. But then

1531
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 7: when I get into like my mode if I'm crying,

1532
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 7: I want to be like rock to sleep rod turn

1533
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 7: into a baby.

1534
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 3: So I don't know.

1535
01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 6: Maybe I'm a mix switch back and forth.

1536
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:34,919
Speaker 4: What do you Me and my boyfriend are like, He's

1537
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 4: what I need a man to be for me as

1538
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 4: a woman, and I am I'm definitely the maternal Like

1539
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 4: what do you need? What can we do in the

1540
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 4: house to make things more comfortable for both of us?

1541
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, what about you.

1542
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm more maternal. Yeah, and that's why I say I

1543
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: give too much sometimes. But I think I would like

1544
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 1: somebody who is more paternal. I guess I would like

1545
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: try that a few times.

1546
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 2: Be taking care of like I like that.

1547
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 4: Knows how to lead. And it's not like me too.

1548
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 4: He just knows, like because a.

1549
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 1: Lot of men will stream about it, you don't listen,

1550
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 1: but it's like you don't leave. What am I listening to?

1551
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 6: An idiot?

1552
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 3: Like mind?

1553
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 7: You know, being the boss of things that men are

1554
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:22,520
Speaker 7: a little when like I could take care of banking

1555
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 7: and things in the house and you know, keeping up

1556
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 7: with the tissue and the napkins and the normal womanly

1557
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 7: things in the in the home, doing.

1558
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 3: That exactly.

1559
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 2: The times Like I can't tell my man this is

1560
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:41,560
Speaker 2: because he's going to be so mad that he might

1561
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 2: like wild out, you know, like about somebody else, like

1562
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 2: if somebody did something to you, and you like, if

1563
01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 2: I tell my man, is he about to.

1564
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 6: Be I like that I still haven't.

1565
01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 7: Any of my personal relationship business because he gets in

1566
01:06:58,160 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 7: his feelings.

1567
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 3: I got to be like, oh, it's trying right.

1568
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:01,720
Speaker 1: Let's this.

1569
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 2: I've been talking to all right, ladies, some cocktails, dirty

1570
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 2: discussions and by the way, they are on tour right now,

1571
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 2: so make sure you check them out because you got

1572
01:07:09,600 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 2: y'all kicked it off in New York. So we came

1573
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 2: in on a SAT today and she's flying back out

1574
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 2: tonight to be able to sit thank you, you know,

1575
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:25,440
Speaker 2: to be able to be here for for this episode today. Okay, So,

1576
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 2: what is one thing that you have to hide and

1577
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 2: do from your significant other in the house and you

1578
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 2: don't want him to know that you do this? Besides

1579
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 2: taking the ship, if that is one thing, what is

1580
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 2: one thing that you don't want a man to know

1581
01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 2: that you do?

1582
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 4: Right?

1583
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 1: Always?

1584
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 5: No, I'm thinking I.

1585
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 6: Don't want them to know every time I'm master every

1586
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 6: time I think, yeah, I don't want.

1587
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 2: Yeah a couple, have you ever masturbated while he's there?

1588
01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 1: But like if you won't leave, you don't live, You

1589
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 1: gotta go. I mean I got to.

1590
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 6: Be when he was watching football, Yeah, like in this.

1591
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:07,959
Speaker 7: Sport exciting about that anyway, Like, oh, let me see

1592
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 7: it's like this is my personal moment.

1593
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want you to.

1594
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 3: Give me a blanket.

1595
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm hiding under the cover.

1596
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 4: Mine would be this is so embarrassing. I sometimes act

1597
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 4: out these random scenes that are not real. It's just

1598
01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:26,759
Speaker 4: like I'll think of something and be like, I'm gonna

1599
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 4: fake cry, but I have to obviously be by myself,

1600
01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 4: and I'll be like acting like something dramatic happening really

1601
01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 4: like I'm in a movie, and I.

1602
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:33,559
Speaker 5: Just do it at random.

1603
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 4: Most like I might be in the shower and be like,

1604
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:37,840
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, he really did that to me, and

1605
01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 4: like acting out this whole lie of a scene. If

1606
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 4: he ever walked in on me doing that, would be embarrassed.

1607
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 5: We have to break up.

1608
01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:55,480
Speaker 2: He can't hear you though, Okay, yeah they can't.

1609
01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 6: At least if he walks in, he won't be surprised.

1610
01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 6: He won't be You don't know what you're doing.

1611
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 2: You would say masturbation absolutely, okay, I see. For me,

1612
01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:07,640
Speaker 2: I wouldn't think you would say that. I would think

1613
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 2: you would be like, what, I'm masturbating?

1614
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 6: Well, no, because I do it a lot, so it's like,

1615
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:18,040
Speaker 6: damn again, you're still in there. So yeah, there's been

1616
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:19,720
Speaker 6: times when I like would be on the phone with

1617
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 6: my guy and be like, Okay, I'm gonna go back

1618
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:21,639
Speaker 6: to eat.

1619
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:24,840
Speaker 2: What about you?

1620
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:28,200
Speaker 3: Stephanie for me waxing my mustache.

1621
01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 7: Like imagine you wax your mustache and then your boyfriend

1622
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:35,720
Speaker 7: comes in and you got like the redding like that, or.

1623
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:37,840
Speaker 5: Like you're trimming you need a wax, but you can't

1624
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 5: make it there trimming the head.

1625
01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:43,679
Speaker 3: See me like all in my box with the razor.

1626
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't.

1627
01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:49,960
Speaker 7: I gotta really be comfortable with a man to smoke

1628
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:52,839
Speaker 7: around them, Okay, Like I have to be really really

1629
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 7: comfortable because after I smoke weed, I look at everything differently.

1630
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 7: I'll start noticing ship, like what is that mark his nose?

1631
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 7: Like why does he breathe like that? Why is he talking?

1632
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 7: I gotta go, So I don't like like smoking weed

1633
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 7: and I smoke. You know, I smoke pretty much every day,

1634
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 7: he knows a lot of times.

1635
01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 5: So that's what.

1636
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 2: I was thinking about that met when somebody was like,

1637
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 2: they were like, your boyfriend leaves you alone in his

1638
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 2: his apartment. What are you doing? And they were like,

1639
01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 2: I'm fighting and shipping and hilarious. Don't do when he's there.

1640
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 2: But he's there, right, That's when you know you get

1641
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:40,480
Speaker 2: to a good place in your relationship.

1642
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:42,760
Speaker 1: Before you get there, I'm definitely waiting till you. Yeah,

1643
01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: questions there.

1644
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 2: And you'd be like's not here yet, Harry, do you

1645
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:54,160
Speaker 2: want me to call one for you? All right, well listen, ladies,

1646
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 2: thank y'all so much for coming through. We had a

1647
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 2: really great time and chill, and we are definitely gonna

1648
01:10:57,520 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 2: do it again in Atlanta. All right, that's a plan

1649
01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:03,599
Speaker 2: because Gj's in Atlanta too, So yes, I am in Atlanta.

1650
01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I got my companion pass so I can fly

1651
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 3: everywhere everywhere?

1652
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 1: Are you?

1653
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:10,560
Speaker 5: I just want to say thank you.

1654
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 4: We have been able to this time in New York

1655
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 4: check off a bunch of goals. Sony was one of them.

1656
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 4: That's where our life show was, and coming on lip

1657
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 4: Service was directly after it. So we're really happy to

1658
01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 4: be taking a train, taking the train.

1659
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 1: When I was in college, my one of my best

1660
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 1: friends Nia, she put me onto lip Service when it

1661
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 1: was on serious Oh yep, and lip Service. Honestly, listening

1662
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:32,280
Speaker 1: to it in college and all this stuff, I was like,

1663
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 1: I should do a show like this but with real people,

1664
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:38,320
Speaker 1: well not real people, but regularly regular and it kind

1665
01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: of inspired and so I was like, this is a

1666
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 1: full service moment. Can you drive faster and the uber

1667
01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: we got to I love it. You know.

1668
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 2: When I started lip service, it wasn't with celebrities. It

1669
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:52,599
Speaker 2: was actually a segment on serious Costs sled it out.

1670
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 2: It was once a week and on the show that

1671
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 2: Cipher Sounds had, I was his host, his co host,

1672
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:00,679
Speaker 2: and so I had a little segment. But the segment

1673
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 2: did so well and it was like regular people. It

1674
01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:05,679
Speaker 2: was like the receptionist. We had a doctor on one time,

1675
01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:07,880
Speaker 2: and then they gave me my own show because the

1676
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 2: segment did so well, and that's how people.

1677
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: Want to know.

1678
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 4: People like talking about set. Yeah, I also wanted to

1679
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:18,320
Speaker 4: and I came out with a card game. It's called

1680
01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:21,720
Speaker 4: I'm Curious to Me. We should have we were both

1681
01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 4: rushing around. I was like, when you go out in

1682
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:24,600
Speaker 4: New York, you really don't have time to go back to.

1683
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:26,559
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1684
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 4: I was like, so we will definitely like whenever we

1685
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 4: meet again, or maybe we can send you one of

1686
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 4: the games. So we would love to see the description

1687
01:12:32,120 --> 01:12:33,439
Speaker 4: so that your listeners can purchase.

1688
01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 5: It has a cookbook. We're on tour and thank you

1689
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 5: so much, so much.

1690
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: You got to put in the cookbook too.

1691
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:53,960
Speaker 2: It relationship, but ladies, I appreciate it, and I love

1692
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 2: the entrepreneurship that y'all have going on to I think

1693
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 2: it's amazing. You know, we fully support that up here,

1694
01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:01,480
Speaker 2: absolutely all right, it is lipserviyes