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Speaker 1: Now from Unbreakable, a mental health podcast. This is your

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Speaker 1: mental health check in. Here's Jay Glazer. Welcome in, folks,

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Speaker 1: do another edition of Unbreakable, a mental health podcast with

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Speaker 1: Jay Glazer, and today I want to talk on loyalty.

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Speaker 1: Loyalty is a dying art. Loyalty is one of the

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Speaker 1: tools I've used to get to where I am, and

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Speaker 1: being loyal can meet a lot, but for me, it's give. Give.

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Speaker 1: People always ask me, ma'am white people, why do you

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Speaker 1: have all this loyalty? Like man, how do you have

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Speaker 1: all these relationships? Like Jay? How have you gotten all

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Speaker 1: these scoops over the years? Why do people talk to you?

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Speaker 1: It's loyalty And the art of loyalty is to think

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Speaker 1: about others a when they're not asking for it, and

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Speaker 1: be when they need it. So a lot of you

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Speaker 1: don't know. But on Sundays after games, I call my

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Speaker 1: friends who lose. I normally don't call my friends who win.

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Speaker 1: I call my friends who lose because nobody else will.

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Speaker 1: That's loyalty. Where my friends are struggling, where I think

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Speaker 1: they're struggling, I reach out. That's loyalty without them having

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Speaker 1: to ask, right. But also when my friends make it

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Speaker 1: and they get big. I don't assume they're gonna take

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Speaker 1: me wrong long for the ride, and I don't assume,

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Speaker 1: and I don't ask them to share in their riches.

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Speaker 1: I'm just happy for them. I appreciate what they've done.

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Speaker 1: I know how are and I've worked, so I just

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Speaker 1: appreciate how are they work. So loyalty is give give.

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Speaker 1: It's giving to them without having to be asked for it.

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Speaker 1: It's giving to them where you think that you know what,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna think about this person. I think this may

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Speaker 1: help this person. And if listen, folks, I kind of

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Speaker 1: go around about life where I'm gonna be someone's pall bearer.

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Speaker 1: It sounds a little crazy, right, but think about that.

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Speaker 1: Who's your pall bearers? The people have been most loyal

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Speaker 1: in your life. I'm gonna treat everybody like I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: be there pall bearer. And if I can get ten

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Speaker 1: percent of those people to treat me back the same,

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Speaker 1: I got a pretty damn good little mafia. I get

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Speaker 1: to walk this walk together with the loyalty. It's give give.

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Speaker 1: It's not what could somebody do for you, it's what

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Speaker 1: you could do for somebody else. And don't expect anything

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Speaker 1: in return. Build those bonds. Let's keep walking this walk together.