1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Talking to Death is released every Friday and brought to 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: you absolutely free. But if you want ad free listening 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: and exclusive bonuses, subscribe to tenderfoot Plus at tenderfootplus dot 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: com or on Apple Podcasts. 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 2: Talking to Death is a production of tenderfoot TV and 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: iHeart Podcasts. Listener discretion is advised. Where you at my key? 7 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 3: I am in my house. Where are you at? Well? 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 3: You got your bed right there? Is that your bed? 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: It's no, it's not it's a Airbnb bed. Oh, the 10 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: hot water stopped working. And I took a cold shower 11 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: this morning and that was not cool. It's good for 12 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: amazing how much they suck. There's it's just might as 13 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: well just not take a shower. 14 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 3: No, it's good for you. It closes the pores. I 15 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 3: think you sweat less. 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: I'm still cold. That was like four hours ago. 17 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,959 Speaker 4: Well we are. We're back on Talking to Day. 18 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: We wanted to jumpstart the episodes post up in Vanish, 19 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: which we'll come back to that same formula in June 20 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 1: when the next eight episodes come out. But today's guest 21 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: is one of the funniest guys I've ever met in person. 22 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 4: Also super kind. We recorded this in New. 23 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: York a few weeks ago, and he is one of 24 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: the stars of the show Impractical Jokers. And if you 25 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: haven't heard of that show, I don't know, you must 26 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 1: not own a television or you've never been to a 27 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: hotel or prison, because it plays everywhere on cable TV. 28 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: Joe Gatto is his name, And to be honest, I 29 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: mean I love all of the guys Impractical Jokers sal 30 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: mercu I've always been a fan of that show. 31 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 2: I think it's hilarious. They do the craziest shit to. 32 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: Each other, but he is actually my favorite because I 33 00:01:55,720 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: think that his ability to get people to convey to 34 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: pretty much anything is unmatched. Like he hands down wins 35 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:11,239 Speaker 1: almost every challenge. It seems like just convincing some person 36 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: in the supermarket to do whatever. He's masterful with that, 37 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: which I just admired that. I think it's a weird, 38 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: quirky skill. But yeah, we met and he was so nice. Actually, 39 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: he brought us cupcakes, remember that, Mike. 40 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 3: I do. He's he's so humble, he's so nice. No 41 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 3: one's ever done that, by the way, no one's ever 42 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 3: brought cupcakes to us. 43 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 4: And like I don't, I don't know. 44 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: Joe like that this this is the first time we've 45 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: ever met, and you know, he's more famous than me. 46 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: He like, I should have had cupcakes for him, but 47 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 1: I didn't. But he came in with delicious cupcakes and 48 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: that was super nice. 49 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 2: Or maybe he just left them in his car. 50 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: And he was like, oh shit, maybe she just bring 51 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 1: these to them. Still a nice gesture because it. 52 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 3: Could have been somebody get just gave them to him. 53 00:02:59,320 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 3: I don't want these. 54 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: Just the ultimate like regift timing, like ah shit, what 55 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: should I do with these? 56 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 4: Oh? 57 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: Bring in with those podcasts? Guys. 58 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, regifting is isn't bad. 59 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 3: No, you still thought about it though you didn't forget 60 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 3: to get anything. You just went, hey, I have this 61 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 3: thing that I'm not using. Maybe somebody else could use it. 62 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's if you've used it that it's better. 63 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 3: You can't do that. You can't do that. No prechewed cupcakes. 64 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 4: No, there's sometimes it's bad. 65 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: I mean I gave my brother Mason for Christmas one year, 66 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: like a nice bottle of whiskey, and then for my 67 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: birthday he gave me the same bottle of whiskey back like, 68 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: and he had forgot that I'd given it to him. 69 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: I was like, bro, like, is this the one that 70 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: I gave you? He's like, oh wait, was it you 71 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: who gave me that? I'm like, yes, the fuck. 72 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, but he aged it for you. 73 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 4: He did. 74 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: Yep, he just kept it away from me for six months. 75 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: Appreciate that. Yeah, that's the wrong way to do it. 76 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: Just don't get caught regifting, is the thing, I guess right. Well, 77 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: today's guest is Joe Gatto from Impractical Jokers. He's also 78 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: a talented stand up comedian and he's been touring the 79 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: country doing huge shows. He also has his own podcasts 80 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: called Two Cool Moms, which is hilarious, so please go 81 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: check that out. Super glad that I got to meet 82 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: with him and talk to him, and, to be honest, 83 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: the whole interview, I was like, I feel like I 84 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 1: was laughing the whole time. 85 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 2: It was just funny from the get. 86 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: Go, and we were able to talk about you know, 87 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: family and life and the struggles of being in this 88 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: business and some deeper things too. But he was an 89 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: open book and even funnier in person. I hit him 90 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: with a nice fun icebreaker question. I'm not going to 91 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: spoil it for you, but I wanted to set the tone, 92 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: but he hit me right back and put me on 93 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: the spot. But yeah, this is Talking to Death and 94 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: his name is Joe Gatto. It supposed to be super 95 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: chill fun. I've been a fan of yours forever. My 96 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 1: podcast is called Talking to Death. I mean, I've been 97 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: doing true crime shows forever. And eventually I just broke 98 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: and said, okay, I'll just do like a regular podcasts 99 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: in like, when you say podcasts, people think this is 100 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: what it is, but there's so many different versions of 101 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 1: a podcast, guy. And so it's just been cool meeting 102 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: people and just shooting shit, talking about life and so 103 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: many fun questions for you. 104 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 2: So thanks again for being here, Thank you for having 105 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 2: me in this your New York studio. 106 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, it's called Roxy Hotel. 107 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 4: And I hope you don't catch us. 108 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: I don't. 109 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 4: We didn't get a permit. 110 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 2: I don't think. So fine, it's just two friends talking 111 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: to micro it is. This is just for fine. Yeah, 112 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 2: this is a business of all. 113 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: So I was thinking last night I wanted to I 114 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: wanted to like open up this interview with a fun 115 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: icebreaker question and hopefully you haven't been asked it before. 116 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 2: So I'm just gonna. I'm gonna do it. You're like, no, 117 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 2: I have I haven't found him. 118 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 4: Yeah. Uh so I want to play fun Mary Kill? 119 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and not in real life? 120 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 4: Uh no, okay, Yeah, I'm I'm bringing three people were 121 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 4: three Pop. 122 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: We're gonna play it love. 123 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 124 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna cut the cameras off. Yeah, fuck Mary Kill? 125 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 4: Yeah? You ready for this? 126 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 2: Ye? 127 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 4: Should we wait for the story to go or is 128 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 4: it too loud? 129 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 2: It gives you the ambiance in New York. We're New 130 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 2: York City, baby, were playing fun Mary Kill? Sounds like the. 131 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 4: Soundtrack Fuck Mary Kill? 132 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, sal m or instantly you know mar is the 133 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 2: one we kill because it's Mary and you have to 134 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 2: kill Mark? 135 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 4: Uh no, but why though? 136 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 2: You just have to? We don't go into detail about it, 137 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 2: just he has like this guy has to go. 138 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 4: Okay, I must go delete him? 139 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: Uh No? I I I mean Sal, I probably you know, 140 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 2: I probably Sal looks like he could be a provider 141 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 2: in ways and a lover, a generous lover, so I 142 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 2: would probably I would probably go with him to marry 143 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 2: throughout my life. And then Q looks like a fun romp. 144 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: I would go cue for a I would f Q 145 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 2: probably that would probably be my roundout. Yeah, so it 146 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: would be f f Q and it sounds like a 147 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 2: letter game now, f qaya Mary Sal And I would 148 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 2: kill Mark okay, yeah? Should I do mine? No? 149 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, go ahead, okay, put me in it, put you 150 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 4: in it. Yeah, I'm gonna fuck you. 151 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right at the hotel. 152 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: I think if I throw you in the mix. Okay, uh, 153 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: fucking Joe. I thought about marrying maybe because he seems 154 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: like it's a stable. 155 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 4: He might take care of me. 156 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: I would either kill I might kill Sal too. I 157 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: love Sal, but I'm sorry, but if we have to 158 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: play this. 159 00:07:56,120 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 2: Game, well, so would be fun to kill you know, 160 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 2: I don't do it. I'll please stop it, and it'd 161 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 2: be easy to right you just like throw a cat 162 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: out of it. 163 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 4: But he just died. Oh my god. Devil wasn't part 164 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 4: of the big yet. 165 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,559 Speaker 2: Didn't even mean it ourself. It's only a kitten. 166 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: So you started you were guys in a comedy troupe 167 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: years ago, and then you you got the show in 168 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: Practical Jokers, which is over a decade ago, right, and 169 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: so tell me about how you like when you go 170 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: to that pilot season. 171 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 4: What'd you guys, think this was going to be what 172 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 4: were you wanted to do? 173 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 2: We were hoping to get episode two. We had no 174 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 2: idea what it was, so was it just a pilot 175 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 2: episode one that you know we had gotten the order 176 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 2: for the first series. But I mean, if you look 177 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 2: at the first episode versus what it turned into, it's 178 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 2: basically just a quick kick clip show of just us 179 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 2: run around saying like Punchline d evolved into a show finally. 180 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,599 Speaker 2: I mean, I think season one, I think some of 181 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: our episodes insanely had like five challenges and a punishment 182 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: in it in twenty two minutes, like nothing could be 183 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 2: set up or in or whatever. You know. So a 184 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 2: big change for us came in season two when we 185 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: decided to let everything breathe and we were like, look, 186 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 2: it can't be more than three challenges, and three even 187 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 2: felt like a lot. I mean, there's something that had 188 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: five in that it was just you say something funny, 189 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 2: it would cut out like that was it. You don't 190 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 2: get the living in it. And that's what the show 191 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 2: really became about. The awkwardness, uncomfortable of making your friends 192 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: feel weird, you know. So I think that was a 193 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 2: big part of what happened, and eventually that's what the 194 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 2: show became, and more so it became on if we 195 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 2: peel back the curtain even more was when you realize 196 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: there was a show about friendship and that's really what 197 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 2: it was, is just watching your friends make each other laugh. 198 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 2: And that's what people really responded to. And I really 199 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 2: think that's when the show really hit its stride. It's 200 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 2: when we got to show the world. But I remember 201 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 2: one of the moments that that happened was I always did. 202 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 2: I was always very involved in the show, from writing 203 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 2: all the way to editing, executive producing. You know, I 204 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 2: quit my job. I was the first one to quit 205 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 2: my job out of it and full committee because the 206 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: other guys that they were able to do because Q 207 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 2: was a fireman, so he was able to do his 208 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 2: night shifts and they would come to work. Sal was 209 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,599 Speaker 2: a bartender and owned a bar in Staten Island, so 210 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 2: he would be able to juggle both. Mart was working 211 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 2: for the production company that produced the show, so he 212 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 2: was at work while he was working, and I worked 213 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 2: as a baby store salesman at a place called Giggle 214 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: that was a couple of blocks from here. 215 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 4: Baby source, Yes, baby source salesman. 216 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I stilled the high baby and high end on 217 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 2: the market, high end furniture and baby gear. Okay, like 218 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 2: for like it was. I was a personal shopper here 219 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 2: in Soho. I was like, you know, she she uh brand, 220 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 2: which was it was interesting and fun. But I had 221 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 2: a two week vacation that I took to shoot the pilot. 222 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: Then when they picked it up, I was like, hey, 223 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 2: I need a six month hiatus and CEO I was like, 224 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 2: so you're quitting. 225 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 4: I was like, well that was a hiatus. 226 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: It means you're quitting. 227 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 4: Yeah. 228 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 2: She was like, well, come back if you need to, 229 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 2: but you're out. And I was like, okay, So I 230 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 2: love that. Yeah. So when I jumped in, it was like, okay, 231 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 2: how's this thing working? And I always wanted to be 232 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 2: a writer and director, so I really loved the production 233 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 2: part of it. So I jumped in and learned and 234 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 2: loved that. So over the decade, I really you know, 235 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 2: really filled up my you know, acumen for that. And 236 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 2: then so when we were doing it, I was like, oh, okay, 237 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: so now the first I had submitted a cut to 238 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 2: the to the network where we were working in a 239 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 2: store or something, and nothing really stacked fun fun was 240 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 2: having somebody's turn, but I forgot it was on the floor. 241 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 2: Might he was either cure me and murrs Salt to 242 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 2: borrow accust to borrow his chapstick. And they got into 243 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 2: this ridiculous debate that it was just funny to watch 244 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 2: and was fun and I was watching it and I 245 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 2: was like, this is funnier than anything that's happened. I 246 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 2: was like, I'm putting this in. So we put it in, 247 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 2: and I was and I sent in the clip and 248 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 2: then the notes came back and the network was like, Hey, 249 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 2: this is great, but this is kind of weird that 250 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 2: we're just watching you guys talk. And then I said, 251 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 2: and you know, got on the phone with them. I 252 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 2: was like, this is the funniest thing that happened that day. 253 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: People really like it. Just give it a shot. And 254 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 2: I sent them those side by side of what it 255 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 2: looked like with the other stuff in it. I was like, 256 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 2: you can't tell me objectively, this is funny. Look, this 257 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,199 Speaker 2: is better than what's better? What's the better? Cutting like, 258 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: you're right, this better. So we put it in and 259 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: then from that moment on, all of a sudden, everybody 260 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 2: started to be like, oh, South's that kind of guy, 261 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 2: and Murrs that kind of guy. Joe's that kind of guy. 262 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 2: Because I got to see us talking and being ourselves 263 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 2: because we didn't play characters. We were us, you know, 264 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 2: and we had very distinct personality. So it really was 265 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 2: nice to make that come together and we just had 266 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 2: that fire with different tactics to show us have more conversations, 267 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: be it walk around the park. When we're doing these 268 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 2: bits for a while, we would just get a topic, 269 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 2: they would film us for a day and we'd do 270 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 2: circles in the park and just talk and whatever was funny. 271 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 2: We would just take out and put it in between challenges, 272 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 2: and then you got to see our personality. And then 273 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 2: eventually it came down to two challenges, a show with 274 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: a punishment, with a lot of time spent with us 275 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 2: just talking and doing all these crazy things where people 276 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:24,839 Speaker 2: got to see us be us. 277 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: You know, you realized early on that really, at least 278 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: half of this show, this concept is is your true 279 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: friendship and your reactions and like you guys being in 280 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: a group watching and saying, how can we mess with 281 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: this guy right now? 282 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, the concept was from the jump was we 283 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 2: had tried. We had tried and failed multiple times with 284 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 2: shows okay and like he make sketch shows, sketch comedy, 285 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 2: stuff that was based on our real life but exaggerated forms, 286 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 2: like I was a salesman, he was a fireman, but 287 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,559 Speaker 2: we had this weird, crazy world we were living in 288 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: and stuff like that we put which were scripted and 289 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: it was good. It was actually why we ended up 290 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 2: getting our agents and stuff because we submitted this. We 291 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 2: submitted a there was a it was a crazy story. 292 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 2: We won the most money ever on a failed pilot. 293 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: There was this pilot for Fox called It's Your Show 294 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 2: where this happened back in like twenty ten, I guess 295 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 2: two thousand and nine, where people were trying to figure 296 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 2: out how Hi everybody like the Internet became big and 297 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 2: everybody was like, but TV's the medium, So how do 298 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 2: we put all these funny sketch people that are on 299 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 2: the Internet on TV? Everybody should be So they came 300 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 2: up with this formula for this show called It's Your Show, 301 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 2: where it was hosted by Carson Daily and it was 302 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 2: basically America's funniest home videos for sketch troops. They would 303 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 2: give you a concept and you'd have to make a 304 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 2: sketch about it, and they would show all the sketches. 305 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 2: Carson would do a thing. It was a glossy studio 306 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 2: with an audience. They would watch the sketches live and 307 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 2: then people would vote on who they would want to win. 308 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 2: So in the beginning, before they had the studio audience, 309 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 2: they did it on the internet. And we had been 310 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: performing live in New York, had a huge mailing list, 311 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 2: had a big following. So they started giving you these 312 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: subjects and you had to say, Okay, here's an idea, Okay, 313 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 2: an invention. Make a funny thing about an invention. So 314 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 2: we would make a sketch, submit it. People would vote 315 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 2: and you win a thousand bucks, and we won thirteen 316 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 2: of those, so we won thirteen thousand. We were crushing. 317 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 2: They were funny and we got momentum. This is when 318 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 2: I don't know if you know YouTube. 319 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 4: Ah, but you've heard of that yeh Google thing. 320 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 2: They were just starting them in MySpace, were just starting 321 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 2: and they both found us funny. And this was back 322 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 2: in the day when there was no algorithms. There was 323 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 2: people that were like, hey, we should put this on 324 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: the homepage, Hey we should do this and we had 325 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 2: gotten fans inside those networks and they had started putting 326 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 2: us and featuring us and blah blahlah. So we caught fire. 327 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: So then they do the pilot for It's Your Show 328 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: hosted by Carson Daily, and it's one hundred thousand dollars 329 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 2: to the winner, and we end up winning and the 330 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 2: pilot doesn't happen, but they have to pay us. 331 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 4: So we got one. 332 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 2: All the ways, we won all of it, and it 333 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 2: never saw the light of day. But the guys who 334 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 2: produced that show saw us, and we had to submit 335 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 2: a tape that talked about us. So we did a 336 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 2: really funny sketch tape, eight minute tape with a little 337 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 2: bit of personality about us, and they were like, these 338 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 2: guys are a show. They should have their own show. 339 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 2: And we started our Meet the tender Loins because our 340 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 2: name where Troop was the tender Loins. It was called 341 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 2: Meet the tender Loins and it was basically just an 342 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 2: exaggerated version of us, and we did a scripted show. 343 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 2: It went for Spike, it didn't take, and then they passed, 344 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 2: and then we tried another thing, didn't take. Then we 345 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: tried another thing, didn't take, and then we were like 346 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 2: at our wits end, and I was like, we're all 347 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 2: together and we haven't sandwhich is me and Mury lived together. 348 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: We haven't in our apartment. We were eating, The four 349 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 2: of us were over, and they were like, let's just 350 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 2: do a show that like shows us making each other laugh. 351 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 2: So we grabbed our cell phones and we did a 352 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: sizzle tape of us out and about just this embarrassment 353 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 2: comedies always all I made these guys laugh. That's so iPhone, yeah, four, 354 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 2: maybe five, And we went uh in standard definition, and 355 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 2: we went into uh. It was Tyler Perry Presents something 356 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 2: in Times Square, and I just stood up in the 357 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 2: middle of the place and announced everybody that I farted, 358 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 2: and then excused myself and apologized and walked down the 359 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 2: middle of the thing. Not that I didn't go down. 360 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 2: I just pretended like I went right down the front. 361 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: And the place went nuts and erupted and started laughing 362 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 2: and clapping, and I like turned the whole place to 363 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 2: be champions of myself, you know. And then we just 364 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 2: did this whole sizzle tape and then we submitted it 365 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 2: and eventually we got Jokers Are True, and then it 366 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 2: just kept going going and that's it. 367 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: It's funny you mentioned the whole, you know, the YouTube 368 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: MySpace days, because I was around putting content like on 369 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: the internet back in those days, long time. 370 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 2: Ago, before I did any true crime. I was doing. 371 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: I was in a band and I made my own 372 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 1: music videos, and I remember my Space being a big 373 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: one right like there was. 374 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: A well, especially even for music. 375 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: MySpace was huge, for sure, but they would feature videos 376 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: and if you were one of those featured videos, you 377 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 1: were it, and that was that. 378 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 2: Was the equivalent of the viral video now, like it 379 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 2: was no other way. 380 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: And I had a few of my videos featured on 381 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: MySpace and then we're like, hey, maybe this we could 382 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: do something with this. We started making our own music, 383 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: and you know, the Internet and social media has changed 384 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: so much since then. But I just kind of I 385 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: like your journey from throwing stuff out there on the 386 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: early days, I mean, night and day from what it 387 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 1: is today. 388 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 4: Sure, but it seems. 389 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: Like you know, you did so many things before one 390 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: thing worked that took over, and you just did more 391 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: even after that. So tell me about I guess I 392 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: don't want to really call them struggles, but they're just uh, 393 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,360 Speaker 1: getting well, they're struggles, you're getting your reps and like, yeah, 394 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:24,880 Speaker 1: this didn't happen over. 395 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 2: Eighteen year overnight success. That's a joke always made. I 396 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 2: didn't get on TV till I was thirty four years old, exactly, 397 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 398 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,479 Speaker 1: Let's talk about that though, So like what is that 399 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:35,919 Speaker 1: to you? And what misconceptions are there about success in 400 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: that way? Maybe you saw me for the first time 401 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 1: on this TV show, but about the fourteen years before that. 402 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah, for sure. I think the biggest misconception 403 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 2: for everybody is that there's a defined path. There's not. 404 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 2: I mean you look at people that are, you know, 405 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 2: justin Bieber twelve years old, you know, getting crushing it 406 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 2: and crushing it for his life, you know what I mean. 407 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 2: Or there's people that sing their first song on stage, 408 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: you know, when they're way later in life, you know, 409 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,360 Speaker 2: in their thirties, and then all of a sudden were star. 410 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 2: So I think it's like, there's no defined paths, so 411 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 2: don't land by define it for you. That was the 412 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 2: biggest thing for me. It was like, do what you love. 413 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 2: I love to make people laugh, always did it on 414 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 2: the side as a hobby. I knew there was enough 415 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: for there to keep it going for me where it'd 416 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: be my second job. I always said I had my 417 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 2: nine to five and my five to nine, and it 418 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 2: was always just my five to nine was how can 419 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 2: I make people laugh. I was editing videos, I was 420 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 2: doing improv comedy shows here in the city. I was 421 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 2: doing whatever I needed to do to feed my soul, 422 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 2: you know. So I think that's a big thing for everybody. 423 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 2: It was just like, how did they do it? How'd 424 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 2: they do it? There's no answer, man, It's just keep 425 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 2: doing it and genuinely like what you're doing, you know. 426 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 2: Big thing for me was with the guys, we always 427 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,120 Speaker 2: had fun doing it. It's impossible to watch people who 428 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 2: were having fun and not have fun yourself. So we 429 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 2: always put on something that we thought was fun, and 430 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 2: if people liked it, they liked it, and if they didn't, 431 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 2: they didn't. So even with our show, some people will 432 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 2: be like, my husband loves your show. I didn't really 433 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 2: get it until I sat down and I started watching, 434 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 2: you know, because on paper, it's like these four old men, 435 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 2: you know, middle aged guys, making fart jokes at whatever 436 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 2: they're doing. But then when you sit down and look 437 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 2: at it's like, oh, my friends like that. Oh I 438 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: know a sal I know, you know, and it really 439 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 2: is a different thing. You just have to give it its time. 440 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 2: So I think that's really a big part of it 441 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 2: was just do what you love and just don't worry 442 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 2: about like how you're gonna get there. Just get there. 443 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: Do you think part of your drive in the early 444 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: days was just if I can do what I love 445 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,439 Speaker 1: and be sustainable, then that's all I want. 446 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, in the beginning, it wasn't for money, right, 447 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 2: Zoe's the job, you know, that's the Yeah. So when 448 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 2: I had to make the decision of look, I'm leaving this, 449 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 2: I built this career for over. You know. I was 450 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 2: with that company for eight years. I worked my way 451 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 2: into the corporate position. I had a four to one k. 452 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 2: Like it was like, well you can do this, to 453 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 2: go take a chance on a thing that's going to fail. 454 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 2: The numbers say it's going statistically, statistically it's failing. Yeah, 455 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 2: you know, there's no way you're on this small network. 456 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 2: In between two tow truck shows, by the way, we were, 457 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 2: but after Lizard Lick Towing, before South Beach Tow we 458 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:52,719 Speaker 2: were at the comedy show on the tow truck Network, 459 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 2: swear to God. So we're like, it's like, this is 460 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 2: there's no way this is going to work. And I 461 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 2: was like, I was like, you're gonna give it a shot. Yeah, 462 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 2: So I think that's I think that's part of it. It 463 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 2: was really just like, hmm, all right, it's time to 464 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 2: give it a shot. And if it doesn't I'll recover, 465 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 2: you know, and if I make a move and if 466 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 2: it doesn't work, I'll make a move back, you know. 467 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 4: So you wanted the risk, you were willing to take 468 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 4: the risk. 469 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 2: Sure, sure, you know, and everything is a risk because 470 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 2: you get fired from your job tomorrow, I tell you 471 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 2: know what I mean. So it's like, what is that? 472 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 2: What did that job? That that company could have went 473 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,919 Speaker 2: under the next day and I'd be a square one anyway. 474 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 2: So yeah, I think that's part of it. 475 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: Do you feel like, cause you mentioned that you always 476 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: knew that you liked to make people laugh? For sure, 477 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 1: what's the earliest memory you have of I mean, were 478 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: you always were you that kid? Were the class clown? 479 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: Were you, you know, when you were five years old? 480 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 1: Were you making your parents laugh? 481 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 3: Or you? 482 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 4: Like? What is like the the youngest version of you 483 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 4: where you were that funny guy in. 484 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,199 Speaker 2: Easter Sunday nineteen eighty six, Staten Island, the bell Avita 485 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 2: two cafe. Me my family are in this Italian, big 486 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 2: Italian restaurant having our early lunch Sunday dinner. We're hanging out. 487 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 2: I'm with my sister. At that point, she's thirteen years old, 488 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 2: I'm ten. We hate each other. Now she's my best friend. 489 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 2: I love Okay, we're in Back in the day you 490 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 2: were able to smoke in restaurants. My parents were smokers 491 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: the good days. Yes they were good days. Now they 492 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 2: were ruined with health. So there was a It was 493 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 2: so weird. They put you behind this glass door. So 494 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 2: you're in a cased room where I feel like the 495 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 2: cancer just amplified itself. The kids were getting catch it, 496 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 2: so you had to open a door to walk out. 497 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 2: So I'm walking out and were going down. I had 498 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 2: to go to the bathroom. My dad sends my sister 499 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 2: with me. We're walking through this packed restaurant in Staten Island. 500 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,439 Speaker 2: I missed a step. I fall smack hit hard record 501 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 2: scratch moment the place. Oh like one of those hits, right, 502 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 2: So I sit down. My sister above me goes ha ha, 503 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 2: like laughing at me, and I remember just jumping up 504 00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 2: and going tada, and the whole place lost it and 505 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 2: they started clapping. And I looked at my sister and 506 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 2: I flipped her off, and I was like, oh, I 507 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 2: can make people laugh and that was fun. I remember 508 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 2: that moment, and I've really also that helped tweak my 509 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 2: shame Jean, where I'm not really get embarrassed easy or 510 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 2: anything anymore. You know, who cares what people are thinking 511 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 2: as long as I'm I like what I'm doing and 512 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,159 Speaker 2: I'm happy about it. So at that moment for me 513 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 2: was like a moment in life that definitely changed my brain. 514 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: Honestly, I mean kind of hearing that moment, I see 515 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 1: a lot of similarities in your humor as a comedian 516 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: today and all the stunts and stuff you did in 517 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: Physical Gopal Jokers, you like, in a split second just 518 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 1: said gotcha right and just embraced it, versus being like, 519 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 1: oh no, when I've like I've seen I mean, I 520 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: don't even know how many episodes there are of impactal 521 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm on, you even know, I'm like three hundred of them? 522 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, three million? 523 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and nine and a half seasons I did, so 524 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 2: I was like, it was like three hundred episodes almost. 525 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were always my favorite to watch because and 526 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: I mean this genuinely, and I would even point out 527 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: to my friends. I was even telling, you know, this 528 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: is Mike and Dylan, their producers with me at Tenderfoot, 529 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, this is actually my favorite, uh 530 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: of the Impractical Jokers in terms of the skits that 531 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: they do, because I feel like he can convince any 532 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: one of anything salesman. Yeah, and just just the confidence 533 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: level that you exude. It's like, if you keep pushing 534 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: it further, even when you think internally there's no way 535 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 1: they're going to buy this, that almost becomes crazier than 536 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 1: it being fake. 537 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 2: I remember, I remember it like I remember early on 538 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 2: when we were like, these people aren't gonna believe this, 539 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 2: and then I remember I was like, you know what, 540 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 2: they will if we make it the reality. And we 541 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 2: just did this whole thing where it was like it 542 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 2: was all really a social experiment thing in the beginning. 543 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 2: So then I remember there was just one challenge that 544 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 2: we had on paper, and it took us a while 545 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 2: to try it. We had it on paper, like we 546 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 2: don't think it's going to work, and I think it's work. 547 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 2: We forgot about it, and then seasons later are like, 548 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 2: what about that one? Because we've been in the public enough, 549 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 2: we figured it out. We're like, oh, yeah, to work. 550 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 2: So it was when we were we played janitors in 551 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 2: a supermarket and we had to convince people to make 552 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 2: a mess because we were up for our we couldn't 553 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 2: leave for our break until a mess was cleaned up. 554 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 2: So we had to talk people into spilling gallons of 555 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 2: milk or breaking eggs or whatever. So I remember there 556 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 2: was this one woman and it was my turn, and 557 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 2: I went first that day, and I was like, I 558 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 2: was like, uh, And they gave you the sentence to 559 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: say of why you had to do it, And the 560 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 2: sense I gave me was, come on, shorty, do the naughty. 561 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 2: And that's what I had to say to this woman. Right. 562 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 2: So I go to this woman. I go, hey, I 563 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 2: have the mop I look very believable. I have a 564 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 2: security like vesta. I have like a moping bucket. Why 565 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,879 Speaker 2: else would this guy be. I'm in the middle of that. 566 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 2: There's nobody else around us. So this woman walks over 567 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 2: and she's looking. I said, listen, you gotta do me 568 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 2: a solid shorty, and they all of a sudden they 569 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 2: stopped laughing and she's like what. I was like, listen, 570 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 2: I gotta do the naughty and I need you to 571 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 2: do a naughty for me so I could get out 572 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 2: of here. And I was like, she's like, what are 573 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 2: you talking about. I said, just drop this gallon of 574 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 2: milk for me, and if you do it, I get 575 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 2: to go on my break. And she's like really, and 576 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 2: like she looked at me soon, and I'm like, you 577 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 2: got to help me on. Please help me out, shorty, 578 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 2: and she goes, okay, I'll do the naughty and I said, okay, 579 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 2: well look this what I need to do, and she goes, 580 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 2: I got it. She figures it out on herself. She 581 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 2: picks up the guy on the milk and goes, oh, 582 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 2: drops it and it makes a big splash and we erupted. 583 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, I cannot believe that worked. And it was 584 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 2: so easy. It was so easy at that point because 585 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 2: people want to help people. People like when you're out 586 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 2: there like you feel it, and when you feel that, 587 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 2: like as terrible as the world could be, sometimes when 588 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 2: you're on a human level talking to somebody and you 589 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:19,959 Speaker 2: put it out there, people like, sure, I'm really dead 590 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: for it. So we just meet. We tore apart that 591 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 2: super market for the next half hour. It was unbelievable. 592 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 2: So I remember seeing things like that and being like, oh, 593 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 2: you have to sell it. You have to really get 594 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 2: into it. And people didn't see on TV a lot 595 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 2: we always got in the beginning this is planned. People 596 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 2: know them, blah blah blah, and it's like, no, people didn't. 597 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,919 Speaker 2: And the way pop that's just so serious. It is 598 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 2: all that stuff. It's like they knew this guy was 599 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,199 Speaker 2: on this episode blah blah blah. But it was the 600 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 2: big thing was for us is that we would talk 601 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 2: to people for ten minutes on that park bench normally 602 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 2: before we started being weird of course, so like it 603 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: was always like you because you wanted also then to 604 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 2: be a good person for the show, so you had 605 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:53,880 Speaker 2: to feel them out. Are they gonna be a person 606 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 2: that's going to give you Comedy're they're gonna be somebody 607 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 2: to be like, ah, clam up and walk away exactly. 608 00:25:58,520 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 2: So that was a that was a big thing, and 609 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 2: we don't always took risks with that stuff. One of 610 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 2: my favorite moments that ed did it on the show. 611 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 2: Was when they gave me a punishment where they gave 612 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 2: me sunscreen. They said you have to get sunscreen from 613 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 2: top to bottom by strangers in the park. That was it, 614 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 2: just how strangers rubbed me. I was like, okay, fine, 615 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 2: we'll do it. So we go out there and as 616 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 2: we start this, I'm sitting there in the park. We 617 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 2: just get set up. I'm by myself. I'm in a thong, 618 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 2: I think, and I'm hanging out there and here comes 619 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 2: this kid that goes to NYU comes flying over. He's like, Joe, 620 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 2: I'm a huge fan. I was like, I was like, 621 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 2: hey man, could you get my back just to him 622 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 2: and knowing he's a fan, and in my ear, so goes, oh, 623 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 2: you know what if you get him to empty the 624 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 2: whole thing and do your whole body, this would be hysterical. 625 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 2: But you can't let him know where film and I 626 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 2: said okay, So we start working it out in real 627 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:43,119 Speaker 2: time like that. I'm like this what I'm gonna do. 628 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: I'm gonna make this kid do it the whole time. 629 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 2: So like that, and then we figured it out. Okay, 630 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,640 Speaker 2: but it all happened so fast that our producers don't 631 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: even realize it. One of our producers comes over to 632 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 2: get rid of the person. Yeah, and it's Pete McPartland, 633 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,680 Speaker 2: who's he's been on the show a bunch, yeah, yeah, 634 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 2: and he was our showrunner and he's a great guy. 635 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: And Pete comes over to be like, hey, excuse me, 636 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,680 Speaker 2: and Pete doesn't hasn't heard because he's off Walkie, hasn't 637 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,119 Speaker 2: heard me make the call. So I go to Pete, no, hey, buddy, 638 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 2: good to see you. And Pete picks up on it 639 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 2: because he knows me, and he goes, hey, man. I 640 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,199 Speaker 2: was like, oh, yeah, good, I'll see you back at 641 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 2: the office and he walks away. 642 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 4: This is often. 643 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 2: Then the kid goes, oh, wait, Pete's here. I go, yeah, 644 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 2: office is right there. I'm right here on break right now. 645 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 2: And he goes and I know, I see it's coming. 646 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 2: And he goes no, and he's like no, And I 647 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 2: took out the earpiece and I put it under my leg. 648 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 2: I go, yeah, I'm just hanging out in the park 649 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 2: at in ten. He goes no, and he goes to 650 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 2: look at my ear and the earpiece is out. I go, yeah, 651 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 2: I'm not and he goes, oh really, and I'm like, oh, so, 652 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:31,719 Speaker 2: where are you from? And then I put it back 653 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 2: in and now we're off to the races. And this kid, 654 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 2: for the next forty five minutes put put sunscreen on 655 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: me from head to toe, doing my in the thigh 656 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 2: as I'm talking to him about his major and he 657 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 2: just kept and I had to keep convincing him that 658 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 2: he's not on the show, right, And it was one 659 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 2: of the best moments. But those are the kind of 660 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 2: things that you were able to do when you got 661 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 2: to talk to people and immerse yourself in this weird 662 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 2: reality and people just came along for the ride. 663 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 3: Man. 664 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 2: It was really really cool. That's one of my favorite 665 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:54,919 Speaker 2: things that ever happened. 666 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: Those are like very interesting micro micro infranced, micro in 667 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 1: sinces that happened that built up to the end result 668 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 1: that you see, because there's no we could ever pack 669 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 1: all that into a thirty minute show. 670 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 2: But that was a six minute thing on TV and 671 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 2: it was it was yr day. It was an hour 672 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 2: and a half. 673 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 4: That was the day. 674 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's amazing. So you have gone on tour, 675 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 1: You've hit all fifty states. 676 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 2: All fifty perform live comedy in all fifty states. Okay, 677 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 2: so I was a bucket listing for me last and 678 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,360 Speaker 2: I hit it last year. I finished in Fargo, North Dakota. 679 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 2: That was my last show. 680 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 4: That's actually a cool place to end it. 681 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was cool. It's cool. Two shows. It was great. 682 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 1: Tell me why you wanted to hit all fifty states 683 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: as a stand up comedian. 684 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 2: Well, I was close with the guys. We almost I 685 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 2: had done forty four. I was missing six states and 686 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, come on, I can't be at 687 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 2: this school. So and then I started torn solo and 688 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, let me. I talked 689 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 2: to my agent. I said this six states I haven't 690 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 2: been to. Let's see if we could put it together. 691 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 2: And he started putting it together. One of them was 692 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 2: I was going through some stuff personally and I was 693 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 2: taking a break with my wife and I was working 694 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 2: all that out and I would never been Alaska. So 695 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 2: I was also took like a trip to be like, 696 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just going to Alaska. And as 697 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 2: I was going to Alaska, my agent COLLI, He's like, hey, 698 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 2: He's like, this is weird. We got to offer from 699 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 2: the comedy club for you to do a show in Alaska. 700 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, I'm gonna be an Anchorage. 701 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 2: He's like. I was like, could they do it? Then 702 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 2: he said yeah, So I got to perform in Anchorage. 703 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 2: I spent four days in Anchorage or really cool. And 704 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 2: then I was like, oh, now I got to do it. 705 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 2: I had already done Hawaii, I said, did Alaska? The 706 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 2: rest is here. I was like, come on, we got 707 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 2: to hit all these. So I ended up doing Montana, 708 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 2: Wyoming and North Dakota's my last one. And then I 709 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 2: ended up doing North Dakota and that was my fiftieth one. 710 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 2: And it was really just a cool thing to be 711 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 2: like immersed with the people in these towns that don't 712 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 2: really get big comedy acts that come through sometimes and 713 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 2: just make people laugh. So that was really fun. 714 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 4: I mean, that's badass. 715 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 2: Oh thanks man, thank you. 716 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: Also, Anchorage, we've so the next season of my true 717 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 1: crime show Called Up and Vanished about Missing persons cases, 718 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: takes place in Alaska. 719 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 2: Actually comes down a couple of weeks. 720 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,280 Speaker 1: Oh so we spent I mean almost the better part 721 00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 1: of a year going back and forth to Anchorage the 722 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: other that's a heck of a trek. So, but say, like, 723 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 1: can we talk about how far away Alaska really is. 724 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: You don't realize it's like eight hours first in Russia. 725 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 1: I know, I know, it's insane. 726 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 2: I couldn't believe because they were like, oh, you're gonna 727 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 2: go to Juno because you know that's way closer to Seattle. 728 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 2: And I was like no, I said, I had my 729 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 2: heart's going to Anchorage. You're like, oh, that's that's up there, 730 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 2: and then you look on a map. I'm like, it's 731 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 2: not up there, it's up and over there. It's crazy. 732 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 2: It's Santa Claus. I know it really is. And I 733 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 2: was almost one of those messing people and anchory I got. 734 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 2: I went walking around. I put one of the best 735 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 2: stunts ever on my sisters, like I'm really tight with 736 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 2: my sister. And they were really nervous that I was 737 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 2: going to Anchorage by myself because they worry about me, 738 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 2: the two older Italian sisters, and they're like, share your location. 739 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, you're gonna come to Anchorage and get me. 740 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 2: Like if I get lost, it'll take too long, I'll 741 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 2: be missing. I'll be gone. So they had this animal rescue. 742 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 2: I'm being an animal rescue and they have this animal 743 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 2: sanctuary out there in anchorage and I was like, oh, 744 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 2: I go check out this animal sanctuary. And they had 745 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 2: all these it was a great way to see all 746 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 2: the animals, you know, moose and and and they had 747 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 2: these bears and they had this bearing closure. But the 748 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 2: the bear and closure was was there was a you 749 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 2: drove through this like big preserve, which was amazing. It 750 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 2: was like hundreds of acres and the way it situated, 751 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 2: the parking lot was lower than the mountain that the 752 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 2: bears were on, so I don't know, it was weird. 753 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 2: But there was these big fences so you were stopping 754 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 2: from them. So I stood on the hood of my 755 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 2: car and I did a selfie video and it looked 756 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 2: like I was just out in the wild and I 757 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 2: was like, and I'm just I'm ignoring this bear that's 758 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 2: over my shoulder. And I go, hey, I'm just telling 759 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 2: you how gorgeous Alaska's And I said a selfievideer and 760 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 2: my sister I'm like, it's so I was like, oh 761 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 2: shit was And then I stopped recording and I said, 762 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 2: I said it to my sisters right like, and then 763 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 2: it starts and lingering, what up, Joe, Oh my god, 764 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 2: there's a bear behond you like I didn't see it right, 765 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 2: so that I'm hysterical laughing, and I let it sit 766 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 2: for a good two three minutes. I'm like, I camp 767 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 2: fit too long because I got too nervous. Yeah, and 768 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 2: then I get I dropped down and I take a 769 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 2: picture a selfie with the fence and the bear behind me, 770 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 2: going gotcha whatever, And they cursed me out so bad. 771 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 2: When I came back home, I said to hit me. 772 00:31:58,280 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 2: She's like, what are you doing? Tell you get eaten 773 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 2: by bear? Like, first of all, look at me, I'm 774 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 2: not going anywhere close to bears. Yeah. I'm not built 775 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 2: for that. 776 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. I'll be the first to go. Yeah. 777 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was, but it was crazy, Like the 778 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 2: bald eagles up there are like pigeons. They're all over 779 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 2: the place. It's so nuts. 780 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: They're also I saw the biggest birds like wait were they? 781 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 2: Like? 782 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 4: Were they crows? The crows are the size that I 783 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 4: have small people. Yeah up there. 784 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, they steal children. 785 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 1: They still have kids, like hey, yeah that yeah, they 786 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: steal babies, like out of the baby, just like it's 787 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: not a joke. 788 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, how many siblings do you have? 789 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 2: I have two older sisters Okay, I'm the youngest brother. Okay, 790 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 2: that's actually my sister right here. Ah, there you go, 791 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 2: older and younger younger. Okay, I got a big bro. 792 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 2: That's nice. Yeah, I have I wanted I have two kids, 793 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 2: and I wanted a girl first because I like having 794 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 2: an older sister. I think it. I think it changed 795 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 2: in a different way to think and understand the uh 796 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 2: species that is woman. But yeah, for real, right or 797 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 2: we be because we're cave that's And then also I 798 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 2: think also it helps you with like with your social 799 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 2: to see your sister's friends and like get mixed into 800 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 2: with older girls instead of younger girls. I feel like 801 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 2: you understand, like because they mature quicker, and I think 802 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 2: it helps raise you a little bit. So it's nothing. 803 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm clearly the I'm the exemplary mature guy. 804 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 2: But you know, just like I think it helps the 805 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 2: way you think. So I really wanted to girl first, 806 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 2: and I think later in life it's nice to have, 807 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 2: you know, an older sister, like a mom figure to 808 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 2: help you out. So but also bro's cool too because 809 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 2: they get kicked but if you need him to, right right, Yeah, yeah, 810 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 2: But I think my I think my son's gonna be 811 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 2: way bigger than my daughter. My son is like my 812 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 2: dad was six three, uh, and I'm not. I'm like 813 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,840 Speaker 2: five ten. And then my wife just took my son 814 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 2: to the doctor. I said, oh, he's gonna be like 815 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 2: six three six four. I'm like, so he's gonna be 816 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 2: the big little brother, he's gonna be the monster. 817 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, And they're usually right because I have a I'm 818 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 1: the oldest, I have two younger sisters and a younger brother. 819 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 1: I'm seven years older than him. And at one point 820 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,719 Speaker 1: the doctor when he was like ten, he's like, he's 821 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 1: gonna be tall than You're. 822 00:33:55,600 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 4: Like, Noah are tall and he is stupid, like he's 823 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 4: still my little brother. 824 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 2: That's funny. 825 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 4: What excites you day to day these days? 826 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 2: Like what? Like? 827 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: What is you seem like someone who is good at 828 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 1: driving yourself? But we all go through, you know, our 829 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: own mental states and peaks and valleys. But you know, 830 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,840 Speaker 1: what is your thing that keeps you motivated to to 831 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 1: keep working as hard as you do because you you 832 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 1: do so much and you do so well at it? 833 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 4: What does that come? 834 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:33,440 Speaker 2: Where does that come from? I mean part of it 835 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 2: is really I'm a results driven kind of guy. So 836 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,760 Speaker 2: if I give myself like a goal to like do something, 837 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 2: I think that's part of it. It's like, okay, I 838 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 2: want to like so I sid her I left the show. 839 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I can't do this now, but 840 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 2: I still need to put food on the table, take 841 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,359 Speaker 2: care of my family. I live to make people laugh, 842 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 2: So what can I do here? And and I was 843 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 2: like okay. So I talked to my team and my 844 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 2: agent was like, he's like, you know, you could you 845 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 2: stand up and perform and live your whole life just 846 00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 2: you got to learn that art. And I was like, oh, 847 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 2: all right, so I'll do this now. So I started 848 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 2: that and I quickly learned. You know, I had never 849 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,319 Speaker 2: been on stage by myself, so that was a big 850 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 2: thing for me to be like, okay, So I think 851 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:09,839 Speaker 2: the challenge of like, Okay, how do I put something 852 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,800 Speaker 2: that I'm proud of out there, not just a money grab. 853 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 2: I didn't want to just be like, come out and 854 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: see Joe and I'll tell you stories about jokers Like 855 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 2: That's not what I wanted to do. And I want 856 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:17,320 Speaker 2: to do a Q and A. I wanted to have 857 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,359 Speaker 2: original content that you're going to laugh at and get 858 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 2: to know me more. The benefit of that was that 859 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 2: people saw me as me on the TV show, So 860 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:24,879 Speaker 2: if you came to see me, you came to see 861 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 2: the guy you knew. 862 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 4: So that was a wink, it's right, yeah, yeah, you 863 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 4: get acknowledge that. 864 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, I do your product right yeaheah. But also 865 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 2: a lot of my stories doing you know, they're my 866 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 2: best friends still are you know? I know them thirty 867 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 2: plus years. I have plenty of stories to share, so 868 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 2: I have stuff to talk about, so I talk about 869 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 2: that too. But I also wanted to enhance it with 870 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 2: you know, my perspective on things, and then also more 871 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,560 Speaker 2: about me being a parent, or you know, my dog 872 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 2: adoption craziness, or you know, my growing up with a 873 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 2: crazy Italian mother in Staten Island. You know, all these 874 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 2: things which really formed me. So I figured out what 875 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,399 Speaker 2: I wanted my night a comedy to be. But most 876 00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,360 Speaker 2: of all, it was going through a time when I 877 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 2: was going through some shit. The world has been going 878 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:00,480 Speaker 2: through a bunch of shit. I was like, how can 879 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 2: we just forget about all that for a minute, hang 880 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 2: out and laugh for an hour and a half. So 881 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,919 Speaker 2: that's really what I was like, Okay, that's my goal. 882 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 2: Put something together that people are just going to be 883 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 2: in these four walls for ninety minutes and have fun. 884 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 2: So that's what I tried to build, and I was happy. 885 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 2: I'm happy with what has happened and people have definitely 886 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 2: taken to it and it's been it's been great. So 887 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,760 Speaker 2: I think when I'm like I want to do something, 888 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 2: that's it. I'm like, this is what I want to do. 889 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 2: So I try to do that at the beginning of 890 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 2: every year, to be like, let's do that this year. 891 00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 2: So so you see your results driven a results driven 892 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 2: and so what if you know this year I'm going 893 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 2: to do this. 894 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: You get to the end of the year and you 895 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,439 Speaker 1: haven't done that yet. Are you one of those people 896 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 1: who just keeps going until you get it? Or do 897 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 1: you pivot or does it drive you crazy? 898 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 4: Do you get all? Is it your tip or what 899 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 4: is it? Right? 900 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 3: Yeah? 901 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm pretty self analytical to where I'll I'll dissect 902 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,479 Speaker 2: to why it didn't happen where a lot of people 903 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 2: are like, oh, it didn't happen whole home, but I'll 904 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 2: be like, why what could I have done different? Or yesh, 905 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 2: literally literally why I did not have what did I 906 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 2: do wrong? What did I do right? What could I do? 907 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:00,360 Speaker 2: You know? So a lot of fun because over the 908 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,800 Speaker 2: last couple of years have been my personal life and 909 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 2: try to get that stuff back on track, which I'm 910 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 2: proud of what I was able to accomplish there. So 911 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,359 Speaker 2: then now I'm figuring, Okay, now the next professional thing. 912 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,440 Speaker 2: What did I want to do and all that. So, 913 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I had written during COVID, I had written 914 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 2: a kid's book, and I was like, I want to 915 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 2: get this published. I want to be I love kids books. 916 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 2: I've been doing kids books for a while. 917 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:20,759 Speaker 4: Why do you want to do this? 918 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 2: Because I had a fun story with my son and 919 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,640 Speaker 2: I was like, it'd be really cool to immortalize this 920 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 2: with my son. 921 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 4: Yeah about it. 922 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 2: It's called Where's Barry? Where he lost one of his 923 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,720 Speaker 2: stuffies one night and he couldn't get a shit together 924 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,320 Speaker 2: and he was getting totally overwhelmed by it and we 925 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 2: went on a hunt for it, and I just made 926 00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 2: the story into like a thing and it's a play 927 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 2: on Where's Larry because I've always looking for Larry. We 928 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,879 Speaker 2: named it Barry. So it was like, you know, kind 929 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 2: of fun like that, and I was like you know, 930 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 2: this is a cool story, and I was like, you 931 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 2: know what, I want to I want to be that 932 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 2: for families because I read to my kids. I love that. 933 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:48,719 Speaker 2: I think that's super cool. I was like, to be 934 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 2: that book, to be a book in somebody's house. It's 935 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 2: a different way for me, me to be part of 936 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 2: a household. And I was always driven by that because 937 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,720 Speaker 2: I lost my dad when I was nineteen. He always 938 00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,759 Speaker 2: watched TV and stuff together. We watched Home Improvement with 939 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 2: Tim Allen, the first comedy special Life. It's always Tim Allen. 940 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 2: That is amazing, you know, and my dad introduced and 941 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,160 Speaker 2: we laugh together. And that's some of the memories I 942 00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 2: have my father that I love. So now when I 943 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,839 Speaker 2: meet families that I'm multi generational, being like we watch 944 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 2: your show together, I'm like, this is awesome, like to 945 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 2: be part of that. So that always resonated with me, 946 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 2: so that I think it becomes a lot is I'm 947 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 2: really focused on legacy. I'm really focused on how to 948 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 2: bring joy in the world that needs it, you know, 949 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 2: or people that need to laugh to help themselves. So 950 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 2: that really drives me a lot, I think, is I 951 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 2: always keep that in the back of my mind. Like, 952 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 2: what can I do to keep providing that? 953 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: How did the loss of your dad at nineteen impact 954 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 1: your drive and your growth from that point forward. 955 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 2: In a lot of ways, I would say, I will 956 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,399 Speaker 2: say my dad, And you don't know. It's funny because 957 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 2: you don't know about this when you think about this, 958 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 2: When you think about your parents, A lot of people 959 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 2: are romanticize the way people perceive them, right, like you 960 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,959 Speaker 2: always think like or you're not a lot some people 961 00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 2: have bad experience with their parents, and people have good, 962 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 2: but the people have good ones. I think sometimes it's 963 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,719 Speaker 2: always like you think there was all like roses and 964 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 2: everything all the time, you know. And then with my dad, 965 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 2: I always thought that. And then after he had passed, 966 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 2: and the more I talk to people in his world, 967 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 2: I realized that genuinely was true. My father was not 968 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 2: not liked by anyone. He was, but he didn't try. 969 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 2: He was just genuinely himself and just a nice guy. 970 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,719 Speaker 2: He's like one of those nice guys that provided for 971 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,879 Speaker 2: his family, liked being a dad, like that was his thing, 972 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, Like he was. He was a He 973 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 2: was a vice president of a insurance sales company. They 974 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,839 Speaker 2: offered him the presidency twice. He said no both times 975 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,480 Speaker 2: because we had to travel. He didn't want to leave 976 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,279 Speaker 2: his kids, which is which is a lesson I learned 977 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 2: the hard way. Yeah, super respectable. Didn't chase the dollar, 978 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 2: you know, chase the life. And I was like, you know, 979 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,879 Speaker 2: so that was a cool thing to be to line 980 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 2: up the stars on that with him. But then it 981 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,360 Speaker 2: was like, you know he when I lost him, I 982 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 2: was like, ah, I was like, oh, I want to 983 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,880 Speaker 2: be like him. And that's always when I raise my kids, 984 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,280 Speaker 2: Like when I go, I'm very very like about your mortality. 985 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 2: When you lose your parents young, you're like very aware 986 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 2: of it from that moment on. You're like, I'm going 987 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 2: to die someday, you know. I see, Like do you 988 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 2: know that as a fact? You don't forget that, right? 989 00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 2: So what your kids, I feel like it raises you, 990 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:05,560 Speaker 2: makes you raise your kids in a different way. I 991 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 2: want to have impact as much as I can with 992 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,920 Speaker 2: that stuff, and so I think that really is a 993 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 2: way that it helps me. It's like makes me be 994 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,840 Speaker 2: a dad who likes to make memories and things that 995 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,799 Speaker 2: could visit and keep me alive in their mind, the 996 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,239 Speaker 2: same way I do with my dad. I feel like 997 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,120 Speaker 2: my dad. I feel like I lost my dad yesterday 998 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 2: because I always am thinking about him doing that. 999 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you feel like like you as you've gotten 1000 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 1: older and going through different hard ghips and tribulations that 1001 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 1: you continue to have like uh connections like oh, that 1002 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 1: that's what my dad would probably do, right, like did 1003 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: it never stop? 1004 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 2: I'll find myself some points that I want to do 1005 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 2: something like I get it now? Yeah, yeah, like that, 1006 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,719 Speaker 2: you know, I believe that things like that. But my 1007 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,799 Speaker 2: dad like like my dad was one of those dads 1008 00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 2: that like he loved playing video games. We played Nintendo together, 1009 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 2: and now I'm playing the Switch with my son and 1010 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is so awesome, Like to do that 1011 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,319 Speaker 2: kind that's amazing now. Yeah. So it's like little things 1012 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,160 Speaker 2: like that where you get the thing. But I think 1013 00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 2: that the most important thing is like you get what 1014 00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,520 Speaker 2: it means to make memories with your kids. For me, 1015 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:01,799 Speaker 2: that was the biggest thing in it. So as soon 1016 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,319 Speaker 2: as I had kids, it was like, all right, how 1017 00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,120 Speaker 2: do we make memories together? And now I'm super aware 1018 00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,440 Speaker 2: of that, and uh, I wasn't very aware of that 1019 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 2: in the beginning. I was still learning how to be 1020 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,920 Speaker 2: a parent, how to be a partner and all that, 1021 00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:13,920 Speaker 2: and it just took me some time to figure that 1022 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:14,319 Speaker 2: part out. 1023 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 1: Well, it's talk about making memories. I mean people to 1024 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,080 Speaker 1: say that that's like a you know, it's. 1025 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 2: Like an idiom almost. 1026 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 4: But what is making memories mean to you? 1027 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 2: The number one thing I do is my kids asked 1028 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 2: me to play. I stop what I'm doing and I 1029 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 2: play with them. Really cal we play, yes, okay whenever 1030 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:31,359 Speaker 2: whatever I'm doing. Good? 1031 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 4: Wait, what do you guys play? 1032 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 2: Will you play? I was a very geeky child, and 1033 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 2: I know what. I had a very I know, crazy 1034 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,239 Speaker 2: but I was like I was like on the math team, 1035 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,359 Speaker 2: I was an athlete. Like yeah, like that, I so 1036 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,480 Speaker 2: I did. I did like a lot of creative My 1037 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 2: first foray into creativity was creative writing. I wrote short stories. 1038 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 2: I used to get my parents and needs to read them, 1039 00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 2: and they were actually pretty good. And my parents always 1040 00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 2: were like, oh, this, you should do this, this is 1041 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,360 Speaker 2: great and always encourage that, right, And it made me 1042 00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 2: actually tell a lot of short stories. And I started 1043 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 2: playing this game in my neighborhood with my friends called 1044 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:12,359 Speaker 2: adventure games, where I would narrate a whimsical tale of 1045 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 2: something imagine like a Willow or a Lord of the Rings, 1046 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 2: where we're fighting theselves and everything was in our minds 1047 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:18,799 Speaker 2: and I would just narrate these stories and we did 1048 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 2: that for a full summer. It was one of my 1049 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 2: favorite things. So now with my kids, they'll say to 1050 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,239 Speaker 2: these things like let's play Pirates. Like I remember this 1051 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,080 Speaker 2: very vividly. My daughter goes, let's play Pirates. She's four 1052 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,399 Speaker 2: years old. I said, sure, let's play Pirates. I don't 1053 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 2: know how to play pirates. She doesn't know how to 1054 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,000 Speaker 2: play pirates. We're gonna play Pirates. But to find out, 1055 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 2: I was like, well, this looks like a boat. We 1056 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 2: helped on this show. I said, this is a boat. 1057 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 2: Come on, we're on a boat. And then I got 1058 00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,359 Speaker 2: some of our stuffed animals. I'm like, there's the bad guys. 1059 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,360 Speaker 2: We have to get them, and here's a treasure map whatever. 1060 00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 2: And I remember like my daughter like I just started 1061 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 2: to take control of then I just stopped and I 1062 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 2: let her take control of it. And then we went 1063 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:49,759 Speaker 2: back and forth and I just stopped talking and I 1064 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 2: let her start talking, and she goes, I was just like, 1065 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 2: we had to get the treasure over there. I'm like Okay, 1066 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 2: we gotta be careful though, because if somebody's gonna stop us. 1067 00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 2: And she goes a dragon that was dragons with pirates 1068 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 2: and they go your world. And I'd never been as 1069 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 2: proud of my daughter in this moment. I looked at 1070 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 2: it and I said, well, I said, it's gonna be 1071 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 2: hard to get past that dragon. And she goes, no, 1072 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,200 Speaker 2: it's not that. I go. Why she goes, we have 1073 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 2: ninjas and I didn't even know she knew what a 1074 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 2: ninja was. And I was like, that's my girl. And 1075 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,640 Speaker 2: we kicked those pirates ass with our ninja's in the dragon. 1076 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 2: So it was unbelievable to see that. And then I 1077 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,400 Speaker 2: was like, that's a really cool thing. So like for 1078 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 2: me those moments, like I know she's going to remember 1079 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 2: that stuff. But even like my son, like when we 1080 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 2: go on vacation and stuff like if he wants to, 1081 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 2: he's much more meeker my son than my daughter. My 1082 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,919 Speaker 2: daughter is an animal. She's like, Dad, look, I could 1083 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 2: do a flip and jumps in the pool. And I 1084 00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,719 Speaker 2: said to my wife is she I didn't know she 1085 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,840 Speaker 2: could do that? Okay? And my son is very like 1086 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 2: it's the water colt like it's the water, you know, 1087 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 2: like one of those. So like I'll take time and 1088 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,719 Speaker 2: I'll play with him differently, and I feel like you 1089 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 2: make memories in different ways. My son loves if I 1090 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,480 Speaker 2: sit there with him as he's like building, like just 1091 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,279 Speaker 2: not even building a sandcast, just like digging in the 1092 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,479 Speaker 2: sand in counting. He loves. He's like me. He's a geek. 1093 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 2: He's like math. He is, Yeah, he loves. He knows 1094 00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:59,839 Speaker 2: his times tables A three, like he's crazy. And he's 1095 00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,799 Speaker 2: just like doing like the digging whatever and counting. And 1096 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 2: I'll just be sitting there and here just take my 1097 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,279 Speaker 2: hand and kiss it and like I swear, and I'm like, 1098 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,280 Speaker 2: this is unbelievable. I know, it's so crazy. It's amazing, 1099 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 2: you know. So those kind of things for me, and 1100 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,360 Speaker 2: it's like making it together, like I remember that stuff, 1101 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 2: and they remember that stuff, and they're gonna remember that 1102 00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 2: when I'm gone. You know. 1103 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:19,920 Speaker 1: I also feel like it's so important to like, like 1104 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,480 Speaker 1: like you say, like when your daughter mentioned that now 1105 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:26,240 Speaker 1: there's a dragon and she's using her imagination now building 1106 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: this world. I think that, you know, just in life, 1107 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:32,280 Speaker 1: it's so easy to fall into this, you know, garbage, 1108 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 1: job or whatever it is, and like you forget about 1109 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,720 Speaker 1: the magic that you can create in your own head. 1110 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 1: And I think just being abled or being allowed to 1111 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,040 Speaker 1: do that as a kid, and that being encouraged and 1112 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 1: supported no matter what you do, you won't have to 1113 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:53,040 Speaker 1: be a stand up comedy, just like being imaginative in 1114 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:56,600 Speaker 1: life and being able to explore and wanting to look 1115 00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 1: beyond what's right in front of you. Like if you 1116 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 1: feel you're building the those things, I think so they'll 1117 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:02,280 Speaker 1: be their own people. 1118 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,239 Speaker 2: It's crazy. Yeah. I mean, my daughter's really into music, right, 1119 00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,160 Speaker 2: and when everybody, every little girl right wants to be 1120 00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,959 Speaker 2: a singer, right, you think like you hear that all times. 1121 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,760 Speaker 2: I want to be I want to be tails blah blah. 1122 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 2: Me and my daughter are talking and I'm like, I'm like, 1123 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 2: you like musical a lot. What do you want her? 1124 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,799 Speaker 2: She goes, I want to be a DJ. She's eight 1125 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 2: years old, Like okay, you can be DJ. DJ realized 1126 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 2: like okay cool. She's like yeah, I was like, you 1127 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 2: don't want to be She goes, I said, you don't 1128 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:23,920 Speaker 2: want to be a singer. You don't want to sing, 1129 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:27,200 Speaker 2: and she goes, I'm not really good at that I'm like, 1130 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:28,799 Speaker 2: you're eight, you don't know what you're good at yet, 1131 00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 2: but also you have a passion to be a DJ. Now, Like, okay, cool, 1132 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 2: so we buy this really cool little dj uh toy. 1133 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:36,640 Speaker 2: Santa brought her a little cool little DJ toy. Yeah, 1134 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,279 Speaker 2: and she just rocks out and like DJ. She makes 1135 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,360 Speaker 2: the playlist in the car when we go on road trips, 1136 00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 2: like she like just loves music. And I was like, oh, 1137 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,799 Speaker 2: that's pretty cool that she's found something she's passionate about. 1138 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 4: Amazing. 1139 00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, which is really cool, you know, But I think 1140 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 2: I think a lot of it is I've learned to 1141 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 2: get out of their own way. My parents were very 1142 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,880 Speaker 2: embraced me in that way, whereas like, figure out what 1143 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 2: you're gonna do, go ahead and try it, you know, 1144 00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 2: go ahead, and you know you're gonna suck at something 1145 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 2: and if you do. But my mom was great to 1146 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:01,759 Speaker 2: give me a timeline. I remember when I told her 1147 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,560 Speaker 2: I was moving to LA. So I moved to LA 1148 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 2: in two thousand and three to chase the dream of 1149 00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 2: being a film director and screenwriter just because that's what 1150 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:09,920 Speaker 2: people did. That's it I wanted. That's where you had 1151 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 2: to that's the town you had to be in. It 1152 00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,319 Speaker 2: was two thousand and three, right, and I ended up 1153 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,800 Speaker 2: selling men's pants at Nordstrom. But my mom from Baby's 1154 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,680 Speaker 2: Pasts and midspants did that's all I did. So I 1155 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 2: started there. But when I left, I remember taking my 1156 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,400 Speaker 2: mom to dinner and I was like, Mom, I'm going 1157 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 2: to move to LA and she goes, okay, how long 1158 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,760 Speaker 2: you going to be? That's what her answer. And I said, 1159 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 2: I said, I said, I don't know. She goes, Nope, 1160 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 2: three years and I was like, okay, and now just 1161 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:36,360 Speaker 2: talking to you right now, I guess I realized a 1162 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,680 Speaker 2: lot of my driven timeline stuff comes from my mother. 1163 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:40,600 Speaker 2: She put a cat. She goes, she goes three years. 1164 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:42,759 Speaker 2: She's like, you're I go out there and spend your wheels. 1165 00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 2: That's it. She goes, you got three years to do 1166 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 2: what you got to do out there, and if you don't 1167 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 2: make it happen in three years, you come back home 1168 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,000 Speaker 2: to your family. That was what. That was her answer 1169 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:52,240 Speaker 2: over our you know stuff. Shehells, and I was like okay, 1170 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,160 Speaker 2: and that was it. So and I went out there 1171 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:55,839 Speaker 2: with in my head that I'd be out there three years, 1172 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 2: which is crazy. 1173 00:46:56,640 --> 00:47:00,319 Speaker 4: So so was it like you know, to your past, 1174 00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:04,000 Speaker 4: you go. She got to hear that up coming. 1175 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:05,880 Speaker 2: It openned out eventually, but I guess that happens to 1176 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,839 Speaker 2: what was supposed to happen. But I ended up coming 1177 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,640 Speaker 2: to home. My mom had become a widow at the 1178 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,160 Speaker 2: same time as my grandmother because they both my grandfather 1179 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 2: and father had died within three days of each other. 1180 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 2: So my mom went through some shit, but she always 1181 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,240 Speaker 2: had Grandma, and Grandma looked across the street. Then Grandma 1182 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,080 Speaker 2: got sick and passed away. So I came home for 1183 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 2: Grandma's funeral and I just I don't even know why 1184 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:27,440 Speaker 2: I said it, but now I guess at this point, 1185 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,440 Speaker 2: as I'm soul searching, I was meant to say it. 1186 00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 2: I just said to her, I said, you know what, 1187 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 2: maybe I'll come home for Like in my mind, I 1188 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:33,880 Speaker 2: just said, I don't even know why I just put it. 1189 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 2: I said, you know what, maybe I'll just come home 1190 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:36,800 Speaker 2: for a little bit. And she cried and hugged and 1191 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 2: said thank you, thank you, thank you. I was like, well, 1192 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 2: I guess I'm coming back. 1193 00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,040 Speaker 4: Wow. 1194 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 2: And that was like a two years and I was like, 1195 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:42,800 Speaker 2: all right, you know what, I'll just come back for 1196 00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:44,839 Speaker 2: a minute, I'll figure it out. And I moved back home. 1197 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 2: I came home h thirty years old, living in mom's basement. 1198 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 2: Hey I was there. Yeah, yeah, we all get there, right. 1199 00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,279 Speaker 2: And then yeah, it was just it was just a 1200 00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,120 Speaker 2: weird thing. And then it actually just put me on 1201 00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,359 Speaker 2: the track to be back with the boys here doing 1202 00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 2: it again. Because when I was living in LA I 1203 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,839 Speaker 2: was just coming home for shows. And whenever I came home, 1204 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:05,680 Speaker 2: I was like, hey, I'll be home in May, and 1205 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,680 Speaker 2: Martin would be like, you want to put an improv show, 1206 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:08,920 Speaker 2: let's do it, and we just put up our own 1207 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,239 Speaker 2: self produced show. So I just always working with them 1208 00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 2: when I came home, you know. And then when I 1209 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:14,320 Speaker 2: moved home, I was like, I'm moving back to like, 1210 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 2: all right, let's perform more and let's do more together. 1211 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 2: And that's when it started that I was back in 1212 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 2: the mix. We started doing the video stuff, you know, 1213 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 2: started getting stuff sketch comedy and things like that. 1214 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,279 Speaker 4: So and that's that's that's super cool. 1215 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: It's funny that you were talking about how as a 1216 00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,880 Speaker 1: kid you used to do a creative writing that was 1217 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: always actually my outlet too. 1218 00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,000 Speaker 2: I wasn't I was the I was the kid who 1219 00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 2: you know. 1220 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,480 Speaker 1: I was in first grade and my dad had introduced 1221 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 1: me to this book. 1222 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 4: It's called Into Thin Air. It's the same author that 1223 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:45,920 Speaker 4: did Into the Wild, which made a movie about It's 1224 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:47,839 Speaker 4: John Krackauer, I think it's his name. 1225 00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,839 Speaker 1: And my dad was like, you read this book, and like, 1226 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 1: I just never really liked reading, and so, I mean 1227 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,759 Speaker 1: I probably half read it, and I was like, do 1228 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,800 Speaker 1: I want to write my own story in this setting? 1229 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,440 Speaker 1: And I ended up reading it on my uh like 1230 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,239 Speaker 1: morning announcements as at my school, and I just kept 1231 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,799 Speaker 1: doing that over and over again at I told my 1232 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:09,560 Speaker 1: mom over Christmas and she was like, you know, back then, 1233 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 1: we didn't really know. We were asking our you know, 1234 00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,680 Speaker 1: our our our friends that had kids, like do you 1235 00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 1: are your kids doing this ship? 1236 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,000 Speaker 2: They're like, no, a little nerd of there, you don't 1237 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,560 Speaker 2: have it. Still the story I have. 1238 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,560 Speaker 4: I have all of them. My mom kept all this stuff. 1239 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,719 Speaker 2: I love moms for that man, that's so great. 1240 00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 4: And she recorded all the videos and then it went 1241 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:28,520 Speaker 4: from that. 1242 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,240 Speaker 2: To use video series You Got You Got. 1243 00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 1: Like she was she was all of my actresses, as 1244 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:35,319 Speaker 1: all my siblings were doing. 1245 00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 4: Of course on the ship. 1246 00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:41,120 Speaker 1: Ever, right, It's just funny though, how all those things evolved. 1247 00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 1: And I feel like you have a similar story where 1248 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,239 Speaker 1: you you you've always been that guy and you kind 1249 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,720 Speaker 1: of realized that yourself and you've evolved that in terms 1250 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,360 Speaker 1: of your the career, like the success of your career. 1251 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,480 Speaker 1: Is there any sort of moment or time period where 1252 00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:59,560 Speaker 1: you remember with the guys on IM Practical Jokers where 1253 00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:02,720 Speaker 1: you looked around and said, hey, man, like we're doing 1254 00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:06,359 Speaker 1: something here, yeah, and like and it It probably kept 1255 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 1: going from there, but what was that point where you go, 1256 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 1: holy shit, y'all? 1257 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 2: There was so many because it's always it always built, 1258 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,440 Speaker 2: which was insanity to think about, Like to be on 1259 00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:17,800 Speaker 2: to be you know, ten years on TV is crazy 1260 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 2: to think about that. I mean, most people get a 1261 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 2: second episode. It's not like it just doesn't happen, you know. 1262 00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,720 Speaker 2: So it was like, this is crazy for it to happen. 1263 00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,879 Speaker 2: But I remember we had gone, I we The thing 1264 00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 2: that happened that was weird was when season two came out. 1265 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,239 Speaker 2: That's when people knew us. We were filming all season one. 1266 00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,040 Speaker 2: Nobody knew the who we were, so it was easy. 1267 00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,560 Speaker 2: Season two comes out when it one hits and now's 1268 00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:39,760 Speaker 2: on air and we're filming too. It's like, oh, people 1269 00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:41,680 Speaker 2: now kind of recognizing us as we're going. That's a 1270 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:45,719 Speaker 2: little weird. But on Long Island, we love wrestling, right 1271 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 2: sound Q. Specifically, there's a wrestling event at Westbury in 1272 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:50,800 Speaker 2: the Round. I don't know if you guys know this venue, 1273 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 2: but it's a it's in Westbury, Long Island. It's in 1274 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,160 Speaker 2: the round. So there's the wrestling matches in the middle, 1275 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 2: and then there's all these fans like a real wrestling yeah, 1276 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,759 Speaker 2: people with broken Yeah, no, it's but yeah, it was 1277 00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:01,880 Speaker 2: like a wrestling an event for WWE or whoever. It 1278 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,279 Speaker 2: was okay, so we're like, hey, let's go. So we 1279 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 2: decided to go. We get invited, We go, and I 1280 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,040 Speaker 2: picked the guys up in my car. We go, we drive, 1281 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:11,600 Speaker 2: we park, we get out, we walk in, and we're 1282 00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,320 Speaker 2: sitting there and we're just watching it, and all of 1283 00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 2: a sudden, like one head turns, and then two heads turn, 1284 00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:17,479 Speaker 2: and then three heads turn, and then the whole place 1285 00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:22,040 Speaker 2: turns and we're in the round and I'm like, people 1286 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,480 Speaker 2: are recognizing us in a big way here. Yeah, And 1287 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:27,920 Speaker 2: people are like, no, I know what. And then the 1288 00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:29,880 Speaker 2: match ends because they do the middle match things. You know, 1289 00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 2: there's like an intermission, and the place turned around and 1290 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 2: fucking pins us against the wall and there is I'm 1291 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 2: not kidding, three thousand people screaming want to take pictures 1292 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,000 Speaker 2: with us, and I'm like, oh, how the fuck do 1293 00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:41,799 Speaker 2: we get out of this? This is insanity. So we're 1294 00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 2: literally pinned in the corner and we're all looking at 1295 00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:47,759 Speaker 2: each other, and I was like, uh, and I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, 1296 00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:49,919 Speaker 2: and it starts getting closed and anyway, and it starts 1297 00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 2: getting like getting pushed around, and I'll like and then 1298 00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,400 Speaker 2: I was looking on and I showed the exit behind us, 1299 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:55,759 Speaker 2: and I was like, we gotta get tell out of here. 1300 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,839 Speaker 2: Come on, I was like, Larry, and everybody starts laughing 1301 00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:01,440 Speaker 2: at and we just fucking ran. Yeah, legit. People like 1302 00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:03,799 Speaker 2: came with us, like into the parking lot. We got 1303 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:05,839 Speaker 2: in my car and like people like around my car 1304 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:07,400 Speaker 2: and we drove away and got out of there, and 1305 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:09,560 Speaker 2: we were like, what the fuck was that? Like, it 1306 00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,799 Speaker 2: was insanity. I was like, I'd never seen anything like that. 1307 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,279 Speaker 2: And we told our we told our you know, our 1308 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 2: management at the time, and then they had talked to 1309 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 2: the people at the wrestling event. They're like why and 1310 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,120 Speaker 2: you tell us we were there because we're huge vans 1311 00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,319 Speaker 2: and it was like, oh, even the wrestlers want to see. 1312 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 2: It's like we could have been part of the bit. 1313 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:25,720 Speaker 2: But that was like the first moment I was like, wow, 1314 00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,239 Speaker 2: we're pretty famous. Yeah, that was a moment where it 1315 00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,120 Speaker 2: was like because I was also like nervous for my 1316 00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,200 Speaker 2: safety and it was like and it was like a 1317 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,520 Speaker 2: really weird thing and everybody was looking at you. Yeah, 1318 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,440 Speaker 2: so it was really weird. But I like things like that. 1319 00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,359 Speaker 2: But then, of course, like taking the stage at Radio City. 1320 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,800 Speaker 2: I remember taking the stage there and looking out a 1321 00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 2: sh at a theater where me and the boys had 1322 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,160 Speaker 2: gone watching stuff, and we stood there for a minute 1323 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:47,799 Speaker 2: where a crowd was going, that's not even be able 1324 00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 2: to talk. We're all overwhelmed with emotion standing there being 1325 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,880 Speaker 2: New York Is on Radio City stage and we're all like, 1326 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,279 Speaker 2: who's going to talk first because they're so choked up, 1327 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,239 Speaker 2: you know. And we're all doing it together, which is 1328 00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 2: such a great thing, Like you don't have to tell 1329 00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:00,839 Speaker 2: your friends what you're doing. You're doing with them, there's 1330 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 2: no jealousy. Everybody's on the come up together. You don't 1331 00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:05,440 Speaker 2: have to explain what your life is. You know, people 1332 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,799 Speaker 2: get it. So those moments always happened for over and over, 1333 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:10,359 Speaker 2: Like we did a cruise and like what the fuck 1334 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:11,560 Speaker 2: are we doing with the cruise? Nobody's got to come 1335 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:13,880 Speaker 2: on the cruise sold out every time, and it's like, 1336 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 2: what is who's coming on the boat? Who's going on 1337 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 2: vacation with us? Like that's what it was. I wouldn't 1338 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,160 Speaker 2: even go, like I barely I'm barely going, you know. 1339 00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:21,960 Speaker 2: So it's like things like that, that little things like 1340 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 2: that to just keep happening and happening, you know, and 1341 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 2: then we do the meat greets of the show. You 1342 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,400 Speaker 2: hear these people's stories about you got me through this. 1343 00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,400 Speaker 2: People find us mostly in hospitals, in prisons. That is 1344 00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,959 Speaker 2: a true statistic. That's where true TV plays. It plays 1345 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,799 Speaker 2: in hospital, they play cable TV. Still, that's people. That's 1346 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,359 Speaker 2: where it and they're at the hotel points and they're 1347 00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:40,319 Speaker 2: like at their low points, right they're at like you know, 1348 00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,879 Speaker 2: they're they're stuck in this whole hospital worried about the health, 1349 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 2: and they find us with laughter. I've met so many 1350 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,239 Speaker 2: people that have come out of prison and told me 1351 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,960 Speaker 2: that I got this happened. I'm not giming you. Two 1352 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 2: months ago, I'm in Los Angeles. My rental car breaks down. 1353 00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:55,719 Speaker 2: The rental car guy shows up the tow truck. They 1354 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 2: have to tell it to lax. The guy gets out. 1355 00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:59,799 Speaker 2: He's a stout dude comes over. He's like, hey man. 1356 00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:01,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, he goes, Holy shit, Joe. I go yeah, 1357 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:03,799 Speaker 2: he goes, I just got out of prison three months ago. 1358 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:05,799 Speaker 2: I watched them all the time. I'm like, hey, dude, 1359 00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,680 Speaker 2: you like I have to say it, Like how sticks? 1360 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 2: He's like doing way better now, Like great, he took 1361 00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:12,640 Speaker 2: a selfie and lefts of the night. I'm like, and 1362 00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:13,719 Speaker 2: I'm like, that's my life. 1363 00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:14,760 Speaker 4: This is sitting in the matrix? 1364 00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,839 Speaker 2: Is weird? Is you know? So it's like those things 1365 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:19,800 Speaker 2: like that that always just build up and you always 1366 00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:21,920 Speaker 2: get reminded of what you mean to people, and it's 1367 00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,400 Speaker 2: the fuel for the fire to keep on doing what 1368 00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:26,880 Speaker 2: you're doing, you know. So that's like, really the takeaway 1369 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:27,440 Speaker 2: from me for that. 1370 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:28,839 Speaker 1: Do you think that at the end of the day, 1371 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,320 Speaker 1: no matter how hard it is or what your personal 1372 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:36,400 Speaker 1: drive is, that interactions like that and other people's stories 1373 00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:41,400 Speaker 1: are are just really important in terms of just why 1374 00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,200 Speaker 1: this should be important to you anymore? Like me, because 1375 00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,120 Speaker 1: like what's why would you want to keep going at all? 1376 00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you still don't. You don't get numb to it. 1377 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:51,319 Speaker 2: You don't get numb to it, like it no matter 1378 00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:52,839 Speaker 2: how many times you hear about it, and even if 1379 00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:54,759 Speaker 2: it feels like the same story because you've heard it 1380 00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,920 Speaker 2: from you know, over ten years. I've met how many fans, right, 1381 00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 2: you know, hundreds of thousands of people just always tell 1382 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,759 Speaker 2: me these stories. It's always feels like the first time, 1383 00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:03,520 Speaker 2: and I always give the attention it deserves, you know, 1384 00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,799 Speaker 2: And I really feel like that's that's important because I 1385 00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:07,359 Speaker 2: grew up, like I said, Like, I didn't start till 1386 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:09,040 Speaker 2: I was thirty four, right, I was a fan of 1387 00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,920 Speaker 2: people before I was famous. I was a fantasye Like 1388 00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,800 Speaker 2: I remember, like working in Nordstrom's. I sold Vince Vaughan pants. 1389 00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:16,640 Speaker 2: It was like the highlight of my life. I was like, 1390 00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,400 Speaker 2: that's pretty bad story. I love Vince Vaughan. I've never 1391 00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:22,440 Speaker 2: told him and I'm friends with him, like I met him. Yeah, 1392 00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:25,480 Speaker 2: we did the We did the Nashville Comedy Festival in 1393 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,719 Speaker 2: two thousand and fifteen or sixteen and he was producing it, 1394 00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:30,839 Speaker 2: so we got invited to come do it and I 1395 00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,799 Speaker 2: met him. And then when I met him, I was like, uh, 1396 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,239 Speaker 2: I don't want to bring this up, might be weird. 1397 00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,960 Speaker 2: But I sold your pants and he goes, what I said, 1398 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,279 Speaker 2: I worked at Nordstrom in the grove. I said, you 1399 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:40,759 Speaker 2: bought a pair of pants for me, And I said 1400 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:42,399 Speaker 2: it was the highlight of my career. He goes, well, 1401 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:43,839 Speaker 2: hopefully you were doing much better now. 1402 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 4: You still saize thirty four. 1403 00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 2: We had thirty six and see but I told drinkle 1404 00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,040 Speaker 2: of water, but he's, uh, you know it was. It 1405 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:52,560 Speaker 2: was like things like that where I grew up as 1406 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,200 Speaker 2: a fan of people. So it's never lost on me 1407 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,680 Speaker 2: when somebody sees me and it's like, oh my god, 1408 00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:58,759 Speaker 2: I'm a fan of you, like and because I've been 1409 00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:00,359 Speaker 2: on the other side, which I honestly I think it's 1410 00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 2: a better side. I love being a fan of people. 1411 00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:02,799 Speaker 4: It's great. 1412 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,600 Speaker 2: It's so great to do that, you know what I mean. 1413 00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 2: So to have that, I'm still fan of people now, 1414 00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 2: Like I'll go out to events as a fan of 1415 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,279 Speaker 2: things and then I find out they're fans of me, 1416 00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:12,560 Speaker 2: and I'll be like, how do you even know me, 1417 00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:14,520 Speaker 2: It's still like it's so weird, Like, how am I 1418 00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:15,680 Speaker 2: even on your radar? You know? 1419 00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, who are you fans of? If you don't mind 1420 00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:21,440 Speaker 1: me asking, who would you be? Starsucker around Taylor Swift? 1421 00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:21,839 Speaker 2: Hands down? 1422 00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:23,360 Speaker 4: I mean, of course, yeah, of course t Swift. 1423 00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:24,879 Speaker 2: But yeah, I went to I went to the Taylor 1424 00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:26,600 Speaker 2: Swift concert with my daughter in met life talking about 1425 00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,359 Speaker 2: making memories. Oh, I saw a cool memory on her 1426 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,440 Speaker 2: face as she screamed when she took the stage and 1427 00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:33,040 Speaker 2: realized Taylor Swift is right here into my face, like 1428 00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:36,240 Speaker 2: it was crazy. That was great. Yeah, but uh, Bruno 1429 00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:37,520 Speaker 2: Mars was a huge one for me. I didn't know 1430 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:39,120 Speaker 2: Bruno was a fan of ours, and I'm a huge 1431 00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,239 Speaker 2: fan of Bruno's Music's amazing. He's the best. It puts 1432 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:42,880 Speaker 2: on a great show, you know. And he invited us 1433 00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 2: to a show in Albany and we went and they're like, oh, 1434 00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:48,160 Speaker 2: you want to come back, stating to me brow like yeah, 1435 00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,880 Speaker 2: And he talked to us for like twenty five minutes, 1436 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,960 Speaker 2: like quoting stuff from the show. I'm like, how do 1437 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 2: you like even know the show? And he's like he's 1438 00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 2: liked We watched on the door bus He's like, you know, 1439 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,360 Speaker 2: we just watched we binge watch it and then that's it. 1440 00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,799 Speaker 2: And he's like a true fan and a super nice guy. 1441 00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:01,480 Speaker 2: So was like things like that, Like but like Vince 1442 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,480 Speaker 2: like people that were like my idols like knowing me 1443 00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:06,880 Speaker 2: and I've had the chance to make laugh Adam Sandler, 1444 00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:09,319 Speaker 2: It's like crazy, It's just be Jim Carrey like people 1445 00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,000 Speaker 2: that I grew up being like this is why I 1446 00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 2: want to do comedy are like, oh, you're funny. 1447 00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,120 Speaker 4: I'm like what, Yeah, what does that do? 1448 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:16,600 Speaker 2: I mean? 1449 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,400 Speaker 1: Cause it's it's it's it's like a dream come true, 1450 00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 1: but you're also still out here chasing your dreams. 1451 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 2: Yeah's so weird. It's weird. How does it fit in 1452 00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:24,919 Speaker 2: washing machine? 1453 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:25,080 Speaker 3: Right? 1454 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 2: I'm yeah, it's like just running into the start, like 1455 00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:28,680 Speaker 2: little half the wheel and there is it? 1456 00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:30,920 Speaker 4: Like do you feel like there's a made it point? 1457 00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,080 Speaker 4: Or is or is it not about that? 1458 00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:34,200 Speaker 2: It's not about that anymore? 1459 00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:36,160 Speaker 4: Yeah? Same here that's what like but me here, what 1460 00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:37,240 Speaker 4: your what your take is on that? 1461 00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:40,680 Speaker 2: I think people haven't made it. You haven't made it 1462 00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:42,120 Speaker 2: point when you don't know what you're trying to make. 1463 00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 2: I think you're like just in your mind, You've set 1464 00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 2: up this what it feels like to be made, you know, 1465 00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,520 Speaker 2: like I've done it. But then just looking at the mirror, 1466 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,919 Speaker 2: like would you quit right now? Right? Nobody nobody's gonna 1467 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,680 Speaker 2: say yeah to that pretty much if you're doing what 1468 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,400 Speaker 2: you love, yeah, right. So that was like the big 1469 00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:58,000 Speaker 2: thing for me. So I was like, oh, I'm doing 1470 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,880 Speaker 2: what I'm supposed to do, so making it is just 1471 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:02,600 Speaker 2: to keep doing it, you know kind of thing. You know. 1472 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,480 Speaker 2: I just think the balance changes, the shift of focus, 1473 00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 2: the how much you dedicate to it. I think that 1474 00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:09,840 Speaker 2: really is the thing for me. So if the big 1475 00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:11,440 Speaker 2: thing for me was how much time I was dedicating 1476 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 2: to one thing and how much time I was neglecting 1477 00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:15,960 Speaker 2: from another. And then it's realizing, oh, this is we're 1478 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:17,360 Speaker 2: way too much in the red zone here, We're going 1479 00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,720 Speaker 2: to bring dialot back, or this is not enough. You're 1480 00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:22,520 Speaker 2: not doing enough to satisfy what's making you happy, to 1481 00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:24,680 Speaker 2: make you a better person and all that. So it 1482 00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:26,480 Speaker 2: is a cycle that way. I think that's the biggest 1483 00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 2: part is that balance is so hard, so hard. Which 1484 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:31,920 Speaker 2: part of the balance, like trying to figure out like 1485 00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:33,800 Speaker 2: if you're being good enough in every aspect where you're 1486 00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,280 Speaker 2: trying to be good good enough father, good enough entertainer, 1487 00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,360 Speaker 2: good enough husband, you know, good enough family member, you know, 1488 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:42,720 Speaker 2: whatever it is, whatever you define as you know what 1489 00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:43,960 Speaker 2: it is to be good at something. 1490 00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:45,920 Speaker 1: Because they can kind of pull against each other. Sometimes 1491 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 1: they don't kind of they do the direct right. It's 1492 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 1: just like, sometimes it's impossible to be the best at 1493 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,280 Speaker 1: everything in one exact moment in time. 1494 00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:54,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, so you have to it. 1495 00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 2: The biggest realization is that you can't be the best 1496 00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:00,439 Speaker 2: at everything at once. You have to decide which're gonna 1497 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,040 Speaker 2: be the best at right now. And I think that's 1498 00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:03,840 Speaker 2: the biggest learning point for me over the past couple 1499 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 2: of years, was like what am I gonna be the 1500 00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:06,920 Speaker 2: best at right now? And not feel the guilt of 1501 00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:08,600 Speaker 2: it one way or the other. It's like, this is 1502 00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:10,800 Speaker 2: what I'm doing right now, but you did this here, now, 1503 00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:12,280 Speaker 2: you owe this one the best. You got to come 1504 00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,360 Speaker 2: back over here. You got to balance it out. So 1505 00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:15,640 Speaker 2: I think a lot of it was like I'm gonna 1506 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 2: do the best of this, but I wasn't doing much 1507 00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:19,360 Speaker 2: over here. I remember right before COVID, my daughter said 1508 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:20,760 Speaker 2: to me when I came home, I hadn't been home 1509 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:22,720 Speaker 2: for like twelve days. She said, Daddy, I love when 1510 00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,440 Speaker 2: you come to visit, which is so funny. You're hurtful 1511 00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,800 Speaker 2: at the same time, like it's like I'm doing something wrong. 1512 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:29,360 Speaker 2: My four year old daughter tells me she loves when 1513 00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,720 Speaker 2: I come to visit. Will always I don't what you 1514 00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 2: talk about it, I'm like, and then I was like, 1515 00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:34,680 Speaker 2: you're gonna be dead soon, Like you better do something here, 1516 00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like it's just a weird, 1517 00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:38,560 Speaker 2: like weird thing to be like, oh, you know, but 1518 00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,760 Speaker 2: you're out there getting all the admiration and making people left, 1519 00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 2: making other people feel good, but your daughter's missing you, 1520 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:44,520 Speaker 2: you know. But then you spend too much time here 1521 00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,240 Speaker 2: and you feel like neglecting what you're supposed to do, 1522 00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,680 Speaker 2: and you're not feeling fulfilled, so you're not being as 1523 00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:50,600 Speaker 2: good as you are supposed to be here. So it's 1524 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:53,120 Speaker 2: just a weird balance and you're still you'll never master 1525 00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:55,640 Speaker 2: You said to do your best to manage it. I 1526 00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 2: guess is the best word. 1527 00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to ask the you overly asked a dumb, 1528 01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,480 Speaker 1: boring question at this point about you leaving in practical jokers, 1529 01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna appreciate that. 1530 01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:07,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, also because it's like. 1531 01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:11,080 Speaker 1: I already kind of assumed that it was what you're 1532 01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:14,800 Speaker 1: kind of saying right now, where it's like you're prioritizing things. Also, 1533 01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:18,120 Speaker 1: what's cool that I've noticed is like you're also living 1534 01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:21,080 Speaker 1: out your dreams too as the guy who started this 1535 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:25,080 Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, So it's not like even like that. Yeah, 1536 01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,840 Speaker 1: I mean TMZ would want it to be that way, 1537 01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:31,640 Speaker 1: but like like, was there a moment where you said, hey, 1538 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 1: I want to start prioritizing X y Z and then 1539 01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:37,240 Speaker 1: you have to start of taken action on those things though, 1540 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:41,240 Speaker 1: right Well yeah, I mean the which might feel uncomfortable 1541 01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:42,920 Speaker 1: and scary, it's weird, and you got to let people 1542 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:43,880 Speaker 1: know stuff, and it's like. 1543 01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:45,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's going through it all in the 1544 01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:47,480 Speaker 2: public eye is the hardest part. I Look, there's a 1545 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,040 Speaker 2: lot of personal things that I'm not going to discuss 1546 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,400 Speaker 2: with anybody because I don't even want to do that, 1547 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,120 Speaker 2: which I appreciate too. But it's more of like it's 1548 01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:56,560 Speaker 2: like when you're you know, like your whole family's falling 1549 01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:58,280 Speaker 2: apart and you've got things that you have to deal 1550 01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:00,640 Speaker 2: with and all that, it's like, well, this is what's happening, 1551 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:02,800 Speaker 2: and then you know, sorry if you don't like it, 1552 01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:05,320 Speaker 2: but this is what's happening. I'm a real person, so 1553 01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:08,760 Speaker 2: does what happens? Yeah, all right, so that's it. And 1554 01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:10,600 Speaker 2: then you know, and then when you're able to like 1555 01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 2: take your time and feel like you've made some strides 1556 01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,800 Speaker 2: and do things and like you don't have to know 1557 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 2: what's next, and you don't have to know what the 1558 01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,200 Speaker 2: next piece is, you know, and people are always like, oh, well, 1559 01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:20,440 Speaker 2: what are you doing? Are you gonna And I'm like, 1560 01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:22,360 Speaker 2: I don't know what's happening next, and I'm fine with that. 1561 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:23,680 Speaker 2: So you need to be fine with it. You know. 1562 01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,720 Speaker 2: It's like I don't know that to anybody, and I 1563 01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:28,040 Speaker 2: just need to do what I think is best at 1564 01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,080 Speaker 2: the moment, and that's what I'm doing. So that's a 1565 01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:32,240 Speaker 2: hard that's a hard lesson to learn as a person 1566 01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:35,680 Speaker 2: who is trying to be an entertainer and be in 1567 01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:37,520 Speaker 2: this world where it's had to be a little bit 1568 01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,920 Speaker 2: selfish with like, look, it's okay to not know and 1569 01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 2: we'll see what happens. I kind of feel, you know. 1570 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,680 Speaker 4: So, so like where's your headspace now? 1571 01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:48,760 Speaker 1: It seems like you're very family focused with like and so, 1572 01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 1: and you know, things evolve, kids grow up, and kind 1573 01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,840 Speaker 1: of shifting back towards your career in the future of 1574 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,400 Speaker 1: you know, all the wonderful things I'm sure you're still 1575 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:03,440 Speaker 1: going to do in your life. What are some of 1576 01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:09,440 Speaker 1: those goals that you'd like to have accomplished as an entertainer. 1577 01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:10,640 Speaker 2: Well, one of them one of them for me. Another 1578 01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:12,280 Speaker 2: medium that's awesome is podcasts. 1579 01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:14,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I do. Yes, I have podcast and I've 1580 01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 4: also been a fan of it great. 1581 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I love Later that podcast and it's really 1582 01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:20,560 Speaker 2: been really fun and I'm looking forward to like giving 1583 01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 2: that the time and attention to love it needs after 1584 01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:24,320 Speaker 2: the tour ends and I'll have some there and me 1585 01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:25,880 Speaker 2: and Steve are really excited about it and love and 1586 01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:27,800 Speaker 2: I love the format because it gives back, you know, 1587 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:29,960 Speaker 2: as funny as it is, it's really about helping people 1588 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,280 Speaker 2: with their dilemmas as best weekend, you know, and making 1589 01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:35,360 Speaker 2: people shine light into that stuff. So, you know, the 1590 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,720 Speaker 2: two cool Moms. It's really fun. It's named after it's 1591 01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:39,480 Speaker 2: an omash to our mothers, which is great. I love 1592 01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,120 Speaker 2: my mom, you know, you know, so it's great to 1593 01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:43,680 Speaker 2: have her live on in that and I get to 1594 01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:45,960 Speaker 2: relive memories of her and keep her alive in my 1595 01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:48,959 Speaker 2: mind every day. So like things like that is really 1596 01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,080 Speaker 2: fun and to work with. We're doing it with iHeart too, 1597 01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:53,080 Speaker 2: which is just I've always I grew up in New York. 1598 01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:55,000 Speaker 2: I know, I love that brand. I was just like, 1599 01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:56,520 Speaker 2: it's it's cool to be a part of that like 1600 01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:58,480 Speaker 2: kind of family, which is really fun. I don't know 1601 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:03,000 Speaker 2: if I'm okay to say that. So it's actually nightheard shows. 1602 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 2: Oh is it okay? So it worked out? 1603 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:04,520 Speaker 3: Ye? 1604 01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:07,040 Speaker 2: Good? Uh yeah, so like to be you know what 1605 01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:08,680 Speaker 2: that's like like to actually feel like be part of 1606 01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,000 Speaker 2: that family and stuff like I grew up going to 1607 01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 2: jingle balls and they still slap yeah, you know, I 1608 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,440 Speaker 2: take my kids to them. So but you know, to 1609 01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,400 Speaker 2: do that that was like a medium. I was like, Okay, 1610 01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:21,760 Speaker 2: I want to do I want to do something that 1611 01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,840 Speaker 2: I'm proud of here in that space too. So Two 1612 01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:25,920 Speaker 2: Cool Moms is becoming something that I'm going to focus 1613 01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:27,880 Speaker 2: on to make it what I think could be really 1614 01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:30,200 Speaker 2: the best version of it and being steeper excited about that. 1615 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 2: So that's definitely on the horizon. The Kids Book that 1616 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,280 Speaker 2: I have coming out. That's another thing where I like, 1617 01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:35,920 Speaker 2: I had a lot of fun making it, and I 1618 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:37,800 Speaker 2: made it just kind of like because I was like, oh, 1619 01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:39,560 Speaker 2: I'll make this, but then I had so much fun 1620 01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:42,160 Speaker 2: with the process, with the illustrator, working with the illustrators, 1621 01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,120 Speaker 2: stuff like, it was so fun. 1622 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,320 Speaker 1: Can you describe what it might look like at all? 1623 01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,920 Speaker 1: Without giving it? We can cut this if you don't 1624 01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:50,480 Speaker 1: want it to be out Yeteah, I'm just curious that. 1625 01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:53,040 Speaker 2: No, no, it's it's uh yeah, it's more like I 1626 01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,520 Speaker 2: gave it to the nostalgia of I actually gave them 1627 01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,560 Speaker 2: pictures of my bear growing up. Okay, you like, yeah, 1628 01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,919 Speaker 2: my bay that I still have my bear, still have it? Yeah, yeah, 1629 01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,640 Speaker 2: I still like that he's in storage and in the post. 1630 01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:05,360 Speaker 2: But I sleep with him right now. And again, I'm 1631 01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:07,280 Speaker 2: not gonna lie, man lie. A couple of years ago, 1632 01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:08,360 Speaker 2: I took him out of the closet and I was 1633 01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:11,840 Speaker 2: out hugging him for a minute. But the yes, I 1634 01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 2: send pictures of me and the bear, and he did 1635 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,480 Speaker 2: a version of my son, like a cartoon version of 1636 01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:17,200 Speaker 2: my son and a cartoon version of my bear. So 1637 01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:18,840 Speaker 2: it's kind of cool like that, So cool it's just 1638 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:21,200 Speaker 2: really fun and a couple of cartoon versions of one 1639 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:24,919 Speaker 2: of my favorite dogs that's in the book. So yeah, 1640 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:26,640 Speaker 2: so that that that was cool, and I was like, oh, 1641 01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:28,680 Speaker 2: this is fun. I actually want to do this again 1642 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,080 Speaker 2: with a different lens, right, because it's all evolving to 1643 01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:32,440 Speaker 2: it like you do the first one, because like, oh, 1644 01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,520 Speaker 2: this is fun. It's like, oh, you know what, but 1645 01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:36,320 Speaker 2: this is actually could be really cool because I have 1646 01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:39,800 Speaker 2: a new, totally different idea because I'm thinking about this now. 1647 01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:42,240 Speaker 2: So it's like, oh, now, what would be another kid's 1648 01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:43,840 Speaker 2: book I would do? And I started thinking about that 1649 01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,200 Speaker 2: and I came up with so many fun ideas. I 1650 01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:46,640 Speaker 2: was like, oh I should do I'm going to do 1651 01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,960 Speaker 2: another one because now I have the lens of not like, 1652 01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,040 Speaker 2: oh I had this idea, could we do this? And 1653 01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:53,160 Speaker 2: now it's like, hey, I did this, what's another way 1654 01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,040 Speaker 2: I could do this and do it better? So I 1655 01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:56,880 Speaker 2: think that's it. That's a cool thing, you know. So 1656 01:04:56,920 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 2: I have goals like that and stuff, you know, but 1657 01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:00,440 Speaker 2: I want to take some trips with the fan and 1658 01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:01,560 Speaker 2: you know, do things like that. 1659 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:05,440 Speaker 1: So it's funny that you said that you had this 1660 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:09,120 Speaker 1: idea for a children's book and which is something brand 1661 01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:13,000 Speaker 1: new for you. But and you're you're making this it's happening, 1662 01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,520 Speaker 1: and then it made you think that you wanted to 1663 01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:19,560 Speaker 1: look at this through a different lens. And I took 1664 01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:23,440 Speaker 1: that as Okay, I did this, how do I build 1665 01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:23,800 Speaker 1: on that? 1666 01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:26,440 Speaker 4: Versus just do that again? 1667 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:27,880 Speaker 2: Tick a box? Right? 1668 01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:29,120 Speaker 4: So what is that to you? 1669 01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:32,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it's too when you do it the 1670 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:34,800 Speaker 2: first time, people are like, oh, you learn the lessons 1671 01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:37,040 Speaker 2: and you move forward. I look at it more like 1672 01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:38,840 Speaker 2: you don't make the same mistakes when you do something 1673 01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,960 Speaker 2: the first time, right, So it's not like a lesson learned. 1674 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,960 Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, these are the things because at the 1675 01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:45,200 Speaker 2: end of the day, you accomplished it. Great good work. 1676 01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:47,560 Speaker 2: Who doesn't don't forget, you know, you can be like, oh, 1677 01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:49,040 Speaker 2: I could have done that better. Like people say that 1678 01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,120 Speaker 2: all the time now, as one hundred percent of people 1679 01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:53,080 Speaker 2: I like New Year's resolutions, people say that all the time. 1680 01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,120 Speaker 2: And I heard this thing that recently and it was like, 1681 01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:56,920 Speaker 2: don't forget to thank the person who got through you 1682 01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 2: through last year before you tell them what they did wrong. 1683 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:01,600 Speaker 2: And I was like, that is a huge thing that 1684 01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:03,880 Speaker 2: really resonated with me. Which is really cool. So I 1685 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,920 Speaker 2: think the same thing with any project you do. It's like, oh, 1686 01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:07,479 Speaker 2: I could have done this better, this better, this better? 1687 01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:10,160 Speaker 2: Fuck that you did it? Yeah, you did great. What 1688 01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:12,240 Speaker 2: could you do different? What could you would you learn? 1689 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,000 Speaker 2: What would the mistakes that you wouldn't make again? And 1690 01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:15,800 Speaker 2: I think that's the way to look at it instead, 1691 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,440 Speaker 2: it's go from a place of positivity. So for me, 1692 01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:19,880 Speaker 2: it's like, Okay, this was a kid's book. I had 1693 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 2: a cool idea. It kind of just slapped together and 1694 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:23,600 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this is actually when I saw 1695 01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:25,560 Speaker 2: the first drawing, I went back to the words and 1696 01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:27,440 Speaker 2: I was like, let me, let me fix this and 1697 01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:29,280 Speaker 2: make it cooler. And I did, and I had a 1698 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:30,440 Speaker 2: second draft and I was like, you don't need a 1699 01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,160 Speaker 2: second draft. This is approved. I'm like, yeah, but I 1700 01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:33,920 Speaker 2: want one. And I went and I did that, and 1701 01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,400 Speaker 2: I was like, now now it feels like it's something yeah, yeah, 1702 01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:39,160 Speaker 2: that you know. So I think that's a look at 1703 01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,240 Speaker 2: the lens of how to make it better instead of 1704 01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:42,040 Speaker 2: what I did. 1705 01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:44,480 Speaker 1: Wrong or dwelling on the past. You could look at 1706 01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,000 Speaker 1: the first pilot episode of A Practical Jokers. 1707 01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:47,800 Speaker 2: And say it's atrocious. 1708 01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:49,800 Speaker 1: Well, you would do everything differently, I know, But how 1709 01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:51,880 Speaker 1: do you even know that you would if you hadn't 1710 01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,000 Speaker 1: gone through all those things? You only know that now. 1711 01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:57,480 Speaker 1: That's it, right, That's that's a hindsight thought. So you 1712 01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:01,200 Speaker 1: can look back and regret or you know whatever, or 1713 01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 1: just keep applying to the next thing, right, Man. 1714 01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:05,360 Speaker 2: I like it. 1715 01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:09,200 Speaker 1: When I make a podcast, I'll listen to it, usually 1716 01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:15,320 Speaker 1: one time, like when it's too late. I'll listen to 1717 01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:17,080 Speaker 1: it in my car on the way to the office, 1718 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:17,880 Speaker 1: when I know that. 1719 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:19,439 Speaker 2: It's been published four hours ago. 1720 01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:22,240 Speaker 4: And then I'll never do it again. 1721 01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:25,440 Speaker 1: Great, but almost as an exercise just to be like, Okay, 1722 01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:28,440 Speaker 1: I'll remember what I wanted to change. I'll never forget it, 1723 01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:31,000 Speaker 1: to be honest, but just apply to the next thing. Yeah, sure, 1724 01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,320 Speaker 1: keep building it, right, Yeah, it's all about building. It's 1725 01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:36,120 Speaker 1: all about building you know ever thought about And this may 1726 01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:38,480 Speaker 1: be a too early with a conversation, but this, this 1727 01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:44,800 Speaker 1: children's book sounds so cool, like a like a movie 1728 01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,320 Speaker 1: imagination of this or something like Yeah, like that'd be 1729 01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:49,760 Speaker 1: super bad as you're talking about how you were a 1730 01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:53,120 Speaker 1: writer a creator in that way. I mean, obviously those 1731 01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:55,160 Speaker 1: are hard things to do, but that would be a 1732 01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:56,720 Speaker 1: sickth for sure. 1733 01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:59,080 Speaker 2: I don't know like everything, maybe do you think like that? Yeah, 1734 01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:01,040 Speaker 2: well I have. Like I told you in the beginning, 1735 01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:02,480 Speaker 2: I was I want to be a writer director when 1736 01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:03,640 Speaker 2: I grew up. That's always what I want to do. 1737 01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:05,720 Speaker 2: So I have a movie script i'm working on now 1738 01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:08,160 Speaker 2: which is a live action movie, which so I've been more. 1739 01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,920 Speaker 2: It's a it's an action comedy. So I'm out working 1740 01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:13,200 Speaker 2: with that now and hopefully going to get that made 1741 01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:15,160 Speaker 2: and directed this year. That's what I'm that's my goal 1742 01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:17,840 Speaker 2: for this year, A big one for me. But you know, 1743 01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,360 Speaker 2: it was like, you know, Jokers. I loved it was great, 1744 01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:21,960 Speaker 2: but it felt like sometimes it feels like a ten 1745 01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:24,840 Speaker 2: year tangent because it was like, oh, I wasn't Oh 1746 01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,800 Speaker 2: I did this, this is great and it was great, 1747 01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:28,439 Speaker 2: But I always wanted to write and direct and it 1748 01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:30,439 Speaker 2: was like I learned a lot from that and I 1749 01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:31,800 Speaker 2: could actually move it and I was like, oh, let 1750 01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:35,559 Speaker 2: me apply everything I know now to directing. So absolutely, yeah, 1751 01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:37,320 Speaker 2: which is really cool. I got to do the Jokers movie, 1752 01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:39,200 Speaker 2: which is so great to do a movie. 1753 01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:44,479 Speaker 1: How it looked different stylistically, yeah, you know, I mean like, yeah, 1754 01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:46,960 Speaker 1: I was like this is cool, a great idea. 1755 01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,200 Speaker 2: That was fun, and we got to like check off 1756 01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:49,960 Speaker 2: some major because a lot of ideas were like this 1757 01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:52,320 Speaker 2: would be great to do, but the TV screen is 1758 01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:55,040 Speaker 2: too small. Yeah, we need something to make more time. Yeah, 1759 01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,599 Speaker 2: time and like you know, real estate on the screen. 1760 01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:59,240 Speaker 2: You know. So it was it was fun to be 1761 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,800 Speaker 2: able to do that, but like things like that, so 1762 01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:03,680 Speaker 2: so to be able to do this the movie is 1763 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,800 Speaker 2: like the next that's probably my next biggest thing. It's like, 1764 01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:08,000 Speaker 2: this is what I want to do. I want to 1765 01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:09,000 Speaker 2: write and direct the film. 1766 01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,880 Speaker 1: So, uh, there's a thing that I've sort of learned 1767 01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:16,080 Speaker 1: where I mean creative people or people who have creative endeavors, dreams, 1768 01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,439 Speaker 1: reliics of how old you are, where you are in 1769 01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:22,680 Speaker 1: your career. You know, it can be a very intimidating path, right, 1770 01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:26,400 Speaker 1: Like what advice would you give to somebody who is 1771 01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:30,639 Speaker 1: just struggling with how difficult it can be and where 1772 01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:34,160 Speaker 1: to go next? Because you've probably felt that more times 1773 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:38,120 Speaker 1: than a lot of people. Yeah, and you found yourself 1774 01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:40,720 Speaker 1: somewhere else and what did you to get there? 1775 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:42,200 Speaker 4: How'd you change it? 1776 01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,400 Speaker 2: In your brain? And yeah, I think I mean a 1777 01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:46,160 Speaker 2: lot of it comes with age to be honest, because 1778 01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:48,920 Speaker 2: I don't know, like if it happened younger, how I 1779 01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:50,479 Speaker 2: would handle lot of it all. But I think the 1780 01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:52,439 Speaker 2: biggest thing for me is like nothing gets started till 1781 01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:54,360 Speaker 2: it gets started. So and the only person that could 1782 01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:55,880 Speaker 2: start something is yourself, right. So a lot of people 1783 01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:57,960 Speaker 2: get in their own way. They look at the ways 1784 01:09:58,040 --> 01:09:59,720 Speaker 2: people do things and how they've done it and what's 1785 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:02,400 Speaker 2: the right steps, and there's no plan for anybody. Everything 1786 01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:04,960 Speaker 2: happens by accident. You could look at a thousand different 1787 01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:07,439 Speaker 2: famous people or a thousand people that you look up 1788 01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:09,759 Speaker 2: to in your industry, say you want to be an actor, 1789 01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:12,320 Speaker 2: and how those people got there is a thousand different stories. 1790 01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:15,280 Speaker 2: There's no The only thing that's the same is that 1791 01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:17,479 Speaker 2: they wanted to do it. So if you want to 1792 01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:18,880 Speaker 2: do it, you just have to start doing it. So 1793 01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:21,719 Speaker 2: for me, it was like when I wanted to start 1794 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:24,040 Speaker 2: writing stories, I just sat down and started writing story. 1795 01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:26,120 Speaker 2: When I wanted to try out a kids book, I 1796 01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:27,760 Speaker 2: sat down and started writing what I thought what kids 1797 01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:29,519 Speaker 2: book would look like. When I wanted to you know, 1798 01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:31,479 Speaker 2: when I wanted to write a movie script, I was like, 1799 01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,320 Speaker 2: here's an idea for a movie. Let me flesh this out. 1800 01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:35,679 Speaker 2: But then the other thing I always think that helps 1801 01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:38,160 Speaker 2: is to find people to help you if you don't 1802 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,479 Speaker 2: know what you're doing, that are good at what they do. 1803 01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:43,479 Speaker 2: So like for me with comedy, me and the guys 1804 01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:45,920 Speaker 2: were always very strong together because we always knew how 1805 01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:47,800 Speaker 2: to make each other funny and we knew how to 1806 01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:49,600 Speaker 2: help each other with that. So I think that was 1807 01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:51,439 Speaker 2: a big thing, even creating our live show, when our 1808 01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:54,200 Speaker 2: first did our live show to go out as the 1809 01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:57,320 Speaker 2: Jokers in Bradegal Jokers Live. When we first started touring 1810 01:10:57,520 --> 01:11:01,479 Speaker 2: eight years ago as a true it wasn't just like, hey, 1811 01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:03,320 Speaker 2: we're gonna go on the road and talk about being jokers. 1812 01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:05,679 Speaker 2: It was like, what's our show. We built a show, 1813 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:07,559 Speaker 2: and we analyzed it and we said you should say 1814 01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:09,080 Speaker 2: this and you should do that, and we all work 1815 01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:11,880 Speaker 2: together before one hundred percent, so like we were literally 1816 01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:13,760 Speaker 2: performing it to no one and working on this thing 1817 01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:16,080 Speaker 2: for a long time. And then you know, when I 1818 01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:18,200 Speaker 2: wrote my screenplay, it was like, all right, I know 1819 01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:20,439 Speaker 2: my story, but I don't know how to really write screenplay. 1820 01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:21,960 Speaker 2: So I've worked talked to my agents and stuff, and 1821 01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:24,080 Speaker 2: they found me a great co writer and he helped 1822 01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:27,320 Speaker 2: me with all about how it goes and this and 1823 01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:29,160 Speaker 2: the one you should be hitting each thing in nact 1824 01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:31,040 Speaker 2: stuff I didn't know, and I learned that from him 1825 01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:33,600 Speaker 2: and got better at that. So I got out of 1826 01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:35,040 Speaker 2: my own way, because if I just sat down tried 1827 01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:36,200 Speaker 2: to write a script and be like, I don't even 1828 01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:38,000 Speaker 2: know the hell I'm doing, you know, but I had 1829 01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:40,120 Speaker 2: the story, so like, okay, how do I tell the story? 1830 01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:40,479 Speaker 4: Help me? 1831 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:42,760 Speaker 1: And you get somebody right, and you acknowledged the one 1832 01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:45,680 Speaker 1: hundred percent. There's also like you said, Okay, I want 1833 01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:47,160 Speaker 1: to write a kid's book. I'm gonna sit down and 1834 01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:49,000 Speaker 1: write a kid's book. And obviously you knew that you 1835 01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:51,320 Speaker 1: need to help with certain aspects of it. But it's 1836 01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:53,880 Speaker 1: I would imagine for some people would be very easy 1837 01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:56,679 Speaker 1: to say, Okay, the whole just do it line is fine, 1838 01:11:57,040 --> 01:12:00,479 Speaker 1: But then there's a moment there where I'm sure that 1839 01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:04,160 Speaker 1: you're questioning, like, man, like is this the right thing 1840 01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 1: in the moment and it takes a minute to get 1841 01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:12,160 Speaker 1: some sort of validation that you're going somewhere okay, yeah, 1842 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:14,080 Speaker 1: and so how do you like keep it yeah, going 1843 01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:14,759 Speaker 1: in that wayeah? 1844 01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:16,479 Speaker 2: I mean, well, I mean just look if you look 1845 01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:18,479 Speaker 2: at my comedy career, like eighteen years of doing comedy 1846 01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:20,479 Speaker 2: before I was even anybody knew who I was or 1847 01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:23,120 Speaker 2: got paid to do it in any real way. Sure, 1848 01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:24,800 Speaker 2: I mean, so that was just doing it because I 1849 01:12:24,800 --> 01:12:27,240 Speaker 2: felt like that's what I should be doing, and there 1850 01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:28,640 Speaker 2: was no right way to do it, a wrong way 1851 01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:29,960 Speaker 2: to do it, and I wouldn't change any of it, 1852 01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:33,200 Speaker 2: you know. But we were putting up shows for fifty 1853 01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:35,559 Speaker 2: people here in Manhattan that twenty, you know, twenty people 1854 01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:37,640 Speaker 2: would show up and we'd have to we'd end up 1855 01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:40,760 Speaker 2: like losing money, right, having to pay the venue of 1856 01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,640 Speaker 2: twenty dollars at the end of the day too well, 1857 01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:44,439 Speaker 2: because you didn't tell them, thinks. But it was more like, 1858 01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:48,080 Speaker 2: just if you're looking for the validation, and if it's 1859 01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:49,960 Speaker 2: not coming from yourself, I really think you're doing the 1860 01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:52,760 Speaker 2: wrong thing. So what is the validation for you? It's 1861 01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:56,280 Speaker 2: that when I feel inside that I've made somebody smile, 1862 01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:58,920 Speaker 2: or if I feel somebody I made something funny or 1863 01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:02,800 Speaker 2: something that I guess sparks what I felt growing up 1864 01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 2: is really like the navigator for me. So if i 1865 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:08,960 Speaker 2: feel like I'm able to, you know, make either somebody laugh, 1866 01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,600 Speaker 2: or feel good or forget how terrible life is, or 1867 01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:13,639 Speaker 2: do whatever it is in that moment that I get 1868 01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:14,960 Speaker 2: out to do. I think that's a big part of 1869 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:16,879 Speaker 2: it for me. It's like I feel like I've provided 1870 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:18,439 Speaker 2: something to the world that made it a little bit. 1871 01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:21,880 Speaker 1: Better outside of that which is amazing. Is there any 1872 01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:25,400 Speaker 1: sort of hey, I'm proud of myself. There was that 1873 01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:28,559 Speaker 1: for a while, or just like they not in the 1874 01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:32,160 Speaker 1: sense of I checked the box, I achieved the objective, 1875 01:13:32,200 --> 01:13:35,240 Speaker 1: I got the results. Yeah, for your own personal regiment 1876 01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:36,800 Speaker 1: or something, or what is that to you now? 1877 01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:38,680 Speaker 2: There was, Yeah, there's some like when I got that, 1878 01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:40,599 Speaker 2: when I got that fiftieth state and I had put 1879 01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:43,320 Speaker 2: that on my think that's really cool just for you man, 1880 01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:46,960 Speaker 2: that means nothing to anybody, right, Yeah, that was you know, 1881 01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:49,640 Speaker 2: I don't have that. But it was more like, you 1882 01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:51,679 Speaker 2: know what I'm gonna I set that goal for myself 1883 01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:53,400 Speaker 2: that doesn't really no one cares about that. I was like, 1884 01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:54,800 Speaker 2: you know, I'm just gonna do it. And when I 1885 01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:56,040 Speaker 2: did that, I was like, that's pretty cool. I was 1886 01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:58,559 Speaker 2: able to do that. But you know, it's it's either 1887 01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:00,640 Speaker 2: little moments or a huge mile stones And I've been 1888 01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 2: fortunate enough to have them across the board, you know, 1889 01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:06,080 Speaker 2: you know, playing the O two theater, you know, in 1890 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,599 Speaker 2: in London, playing the O two Arena five times sold 1891 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:13,160 Speaker 2: out across the world. It's crazy that we were able 1892 01:14:13,160 --> 01:14:15,000 Speaker 2: to do that. And then it's like it's not to now, 1893 01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:16,920 Speaker 2: Like I'm like, the first time I was able to 1894 01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:18,879 Speaker 2: do a stand up comedy show by myself in Appleton, 1895 01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,519 Speaker 2: Wisconsin in front of two hundred people has the same 1896 01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,719 Speaker 2: kind of merit because it feels like I accomplished something 1897 01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:26,720 Speaker 2: that was seemed insurmountable to me, whereas like, how the 1898 01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:28,000 Speaker 2: hell am I going to do a stand up comedy 1899 01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:29,840 Speaker 2: show by myself? I don't really necessarily know what I'm 1900 01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:32,080 Speaker 2: doing yet it sounds terrifying, it says, Yeah, and then 1901 01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:33,599 Speaker 2: being like, what the hell am I doing this arena? 1902 01:14:33,880 --> 01:14:36,040 Speaker 2: You know, I've Impasta syndrome on like it taking the stage? 1903 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:39,280 Speaker 2: You kidding me this, you know, and it just feels 1904 01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:42,200 Speaker 2: a little nutty. And you have those moments all across 1905 01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:42,559 Speaker 2: the way. 1906 01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:45,920 Speaker 1: So in the green room getting ready with that first 1907 01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,840 Speaker 1: one and you've prepped and you you're still like, I 1908 01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:52,080 Speaker 1: don't know this, Yeah, yeah, what's that feel like? 1909 01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,360 Speaker 2: In that moment. I mean, I was fortunate enough. I 1910 01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:57,439 Speaker 2: had Steve Byrne with me and Jiggy who's my other comic. 1911 01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,160 Speaker 2: He's my comic, and Tor Managery he opens for me. 1912 01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:02,360 Speaker 2: He's phenomenal, and they're both really good at stand up comedy. 1913 01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:04,720 Speaker 2: And like I said, if I don't know, if I 1914 01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:06,120 Speaker 2: know I want to do something, I need people to 1915 01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:07,640 Speaker 2: help me get there. I take the best with me. 1916 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:10,200 Speaker 2: So I was like, you know what, I'm gonna do 1917 01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:12,120 Speaker 2: it first my first show, it's gonna be an hour 1918 01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:15,760 Speaker 2: and twenty minute show. You guys do thirty minutes each 1919 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:18,120 Speaker 2: and then on cop pop and do thirty five minutes. 1920 01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:20,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's a love of material. Yeah. 1921 01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:22,080 Speaker 2: So I was like, I'll do thirty five minutes for 1922 01:15:22,120 --> 01:15:23,160 Speaker 2: my first time. So I got up there and I 1923 01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:26,559 Speaker 2: did thirty. I ended up doing thirty thirty, like thirty 1924 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:28,160 Speaker 2: seven minutes of my first one. And then I got 1925 01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:30,360 Speaker 2: off stage and I came back to Steve. And Steve's 1926 01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:32,120 Speaker 2: one of my best friends. He's a great guy. And 1927 01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:33,880 Speaker 2: I just said he's been doing the stand up comedy 1928 01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:36,240 Speaker 2: forever and I remember this explicit you're sitting there. He 1929 01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:38,040 Speaker 2: had a Rocks class. He was drinking a Scotch and 1930 01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:40,720 Speaker 2: I go so he goes, fuck you and he took 1931 01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:41,240 Speaker 2: it seven eyes. 1932 01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:41,559 Speaker 4: I laid. 1933 01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:43,240 Speaker 2: He goes, I've been doing this for twenty years. Like 1934 01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:45,240 Speaker 2: you just get up there and you talk for forty 1935 01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:47,800 Speaker 2: minutes and everybody laughs. He's like, just shut out and 1936 01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:50,040 Speaker 2: we started laughing. I'm like, seriously, he goes, he goes Joe. 1937 01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:51,640 Speaker 2: He's like honestly, he's like, you just you got it. 1938 01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:53,360 Speaker 2: You just got to find out what more you're gonna say. 1939 01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:54,920 Speaker 2: So I was like all right, and he goes Tomorrow. 1940 01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:57,120 Speaker 2: He's like, we're only doing ten minutes each and I 1941 01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:59,479 Speaker 2: said no, I said do fifteen. So the fifteen I 1942 01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:02,160 Speaker 2: end up going for like forty five. And it was 1943 01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:03,559 Speaker 2: like really cool that he was like, he was like 1944 01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:05,080 Speaker 2: do it. He's like, you could do it. Just keep talking, 1945 01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:07,080 Speaker 2: you'll find what to say. And I did that and 1946 01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:09,240 Speaker 2: I started going and after I came back, I had 1947 01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:11,000 Speaker 2: my notes and I was writing up everything, and we 1948 01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:13,920 Speaker 2: just kept building, building building, and I started these little 1949 01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:16,160 Speaker 2: comedy clubs and then people started coming out and I 1950 01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:19,120 Speaker 2: ended up doing all these shows because they sold out. 1951 01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,400 Speaker 2: And I was like, and my managers like, you could 1952 01:16:21,439 --> 01:16:23,679 Speaker 2: do theaters. He's like, you could do spend one night 1953 01:16:24,000 --> 01:16:26,760 Speaker 2: in you know, in Boise instead of being at the 1954 01:16:26,760 --> 01:16:28,160 Speaker 2: comedy club all weekend. And he's like, and then we 1955 01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:29,960 Speaker 2: can move you along if you want start doing that, 1956 01:16:29,960 --> 01:16:31,600 Speaker 2: if you're ready for that. And I was like, I 1957 01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:32,800 Speaker 2: was like, I don't know if I'm ready for that. 1958 01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:34,760 Speaker 2: And he's like, well, he's like the world. He's like 1959 01:16:34,800 --> 01:16:36,599 Speaker 2: people want it. He's like, so you're the only one 1960 01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:38,360 Speaker 2: getting in your own way. And I remember that and 1961 01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:39,920 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't want to get my own way. Wow. 1962 01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:41,160 Speaker 2: I said, all right, let's do it. And then when 1963 01:16:41,160 --> 01:16:43,439 Speaker 2: I got on a theater stage. I was more comfortable 1964 01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:45,600 Speaker 2: on theaters because I'm a very physical comedian, as you know. 1965 01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:47,840 Speaker 2: So when I had I was on a comedy club stage, 1966 01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:49,640 Speaker 2: I was like a caged bird. I was like, I 1967 01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 2: couldn't do it. I was afraid of falling off people. 1968 01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:55,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't stop right, HiT's right. 1969 01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm a panther up there. Man, I'm all 1970 01:16:58,040 --> 01:17:00,120 Speaker 2: over the place, you know, I don't stop moving. When 1971 01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:01,920 Speaker 2: I got on a theater, I actually think I got better. 1972 01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:04,280 Speaker 2: I was on a more comfortable space for me. I 1973 01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 2: was able to use my body. I came up with 1974 01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,080 Speaker 2: three or four jokes. I was doing full blowing like 1975 01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:10,599 Speaker 2: runs and like doing weird body things, and I was like, oh, 1976 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,719 Speaker 2: I couldn't do these in the comicals. There were different tags. 1977 01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:14,840 Speaker 2: It just made me better and I was like, Oh, 1978 01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:17,400 Speaker 2: that's what I needed. I needed this kind of thing. 1979 01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:21,000 Speaker 2: So to do that and be like nervous in the 1980 01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:23,760 Speaker 2: back but also feel prepared was a weird feeling for me. 1981 01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:25,960 Speaker 2: So in the green room, I'm like super nervous, but 1982 01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:28,120 Speaker 2: I feel like I've done the work, and it's like 1983 01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:30,120 Speaker 2: when you get off stage, it was like, oh, you 1984 01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:32,320 Speaker 2: did it. You were right, you were prepared and you 1985 01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:33,160 Speaker 2: could get better at this. 1986 01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:33,639 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1987 01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:36,320 Speaker 1: So it's nervousness right before it starts, and there's a 1988 01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:38,160 Speaker 1: lot of it's just in anticipation, right. 1989 01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:40,120 Speaker 2: It's more of the anticipation, I think, because I'm not 1990 01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:42,120 Speaker 2: a nervous person and I hadn't been nervous for a 1991 01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:44,040 Speaker 2: long time, but yeah, I was even with the big shows. 1992 01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:46,320 Speaker 1: This is important to you as well, yeah, and so, 1993 01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:48,839 Speaker 1: and you're kind of in that sort of headspace. 1994 01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:51,719 Speaker 4: I went by yourself for the first time, by yourself. 1995 01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:53,760 Speaker 2: If you bomb, you're bombing. There's nobody to turn to. 1996 01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:55,720 Speaker 2: It was no one to say, right, yeah, look at 1997 01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:58,920 Speaker 2: this guy. You know what I mean, you can do it? 1998 01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:01,679 Speaker 2: So yeah, that's it. That's what. That was the biggest 1999 01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:03,519 Speaker 2: obstacle for me was being by myself on stage. 2000 01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:05,320 Speaker 1: So when did you go away? Did you hit the 2001 01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:07,240 Speaker 1: stage and all of a sudden you just are you 2002 01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:10,840 Speaker 1: just going? Yeah, and you lean into your like black 2003 01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:14,000 Speaker 1: from just like hey, what just happened back there? 2004 01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:16,400 Speaker 2: The stories I did, I felt like that. Yeah, it 2005 01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:19,080 Speaker 2: was like story a whirlwind of like just going. When 2006 01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:21,040 Speaker 2: you get the last they start coming, they start building, 2007 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:22,680 Speaker 2: they laughing more, and you're like, oh, you got this, 2008 01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:24,519 Speaker 2: and then before you know it, you look up and 2009 01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:26,360 Speaker 2: times up and it's like, oh shit, that's a crazy 2010 01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:28,360 Speaker 2: you have all these you know, I'm sure jokes and 2011 01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:30,599 Speaker 2: story stories. Yeah. The good thing about is like being 2012 01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:32,840 Speaker 2: a storyteller. I feel was easier for me because I'm 2013 01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:34,920 Speaker 2: a storyteller and I love I tell a funny story, 2014 01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:37,680 Speaker 2: like yeah, you're you're one of the ghosts, dude, Oh 2015 01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:40,120 Speaker 2: thank you. I appreciate that. So I just know I'm 2016 01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:41,479 Speaker 2: confident in that. So I'm like, all right, if I 2017 01:18:41,520 --> 01:18:44,200 Speaker 2: find stuff that's interesting enough to talk about, I could 2018 01:18:44,240 --> 01:18:46,080 Speaker 2: do it, and so that I just started lining up. 2019 01:18:46,080 --> 01:18:47,479 Speaker 2: And then when I look at my life, I'm like, 2020 01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:50,160 Speaker 2: I have so many fucking stories? Are you kidding me? 2021 01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:51,840 Speaker 2: So it's like, oh, okay, so which ones am I 2022 01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:52,519 Speaker 2: not going to tell you? 2023 01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:53,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 2024 01:18:53,120 --> 01:18:54,720 Speaker 2: So that that was really I think that was a 2025 01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:56,000 Speaker 2: big turn point for me to be like, this is 2026 01:18:56,040 --> 01:18:58,439 Speaker 2: my very this is the Joe Gato version of stand up. 2027 01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:01,720 Speaker 2: This is my stand up is I'm telling stories and 2028 01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:03,600 Speaker 2: give my perspective on them. So I think that's what 2029 01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:06,320 Speaker 2: when I realized that it got way smoother real quick. 2030 01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:09,480 Speaker 4: Before we head out, tell me about your podcast. 2031 01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:12,320 Speaker 2: Two Cool Moms. It's a podcast with me and Steve 2032 01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:15,479 Speaker 2: Burne where we basically had two cool mothers and we 2033 01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:17,880 Speaker 2: like to who gave great maternal advice and we like 2034 01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:20,960 Speaker 2: to think we inherited that gene. So we spend the 2035 01:19:20,960 --> 01:19:23,400 Speaker 2: first half of the podcast talking about anything and everything 2036 01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:26,160 Speaker 2: in between because we're two comedians, so we talk about life, 2037 01:19:26,200 --> 01:19:28,479 Speaker 2: growing up, our kids, whatever it is. And then the 2038 01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:31,400 Speaker 2: second half we take fans submitted dilemmas and solve them 2039 01:19:31,400 --> 01:19:34,360 Speaker 2: to the best of our abilities, and good or bad 2040 01:19:34,479 --> 01:19:35,720 Speaker 2: or always funny. 2041 01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:37,680 Speaker 1: Just like yeah, girlfriend stuff or like a lot a 2042 01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:38,920 Speaker 1: lot of relationship stuff we get. 2043 01:19:38,920 --> 01:19:40,320 Speaker 2: But one of the biggest ones we've been getting a 2044 01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:42,920 Speaker 2: lot was how do I make friends as a grown 2045 01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:45,160 Speaker 2: up if I don't have kids? And that's a big one, 2046 01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:47,160 Speaker 2: and a lot of people have been singing. I was like, 2047 01:19:47,200 --> 01:19:50,160 Speaker 2: you don't, Yeah, that's your kid, You're gonna dialogue. I 2048 01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:53,120 Speaker 2: just and we always talk about that for in depth 2049 01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:55,640 Speaker 2: and people will give their like, you know, life experiences 2050 01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:57,280 Speaker 2: about it and stuff too, and will help them with that. 2051 01:19:57,320 --> 01:19:58,840 Speaker 2: But one of the big ones is like it all 2052 01:19:58,880 --> 01:20:01,559 Speaker 2: starts with talking to strangers, because every best friend starts 2053 01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:03,840 Speaker 2: as a stranger, and like that's really what it is, 2054 01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:05,160 Speaker 2: you know. So it's like you just have to get 2055 01:20:05,200 --> 01:20:06,840 Speaker 2: out of your comfort zone talk to people. It may 2056 01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:08,719 Speaker 2: be weird, you might be talking to the wrong people. 2057 01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:10,360 Speaker 2: And then the other thing people have to come up 2058 01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:12,200 Speaker 2: with too, is that not everybody's going to be a friend. 2059 01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:13,760 Speaker 2: So I'm being able to just being a question. Also, 2060 01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:16,360 Speaker 2: just just go through more people suck, you know, so 2061 01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:18,320 Speaker 2: you you're also interviewing people if you want them to 2062 01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,080 Speaker 2: be in your life, you know. But I think that's 2063 01:20:20,080 --> 01:20:21,639 Speaker 2: a big part is just get out of your comfort zone, 2064 01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:23,760 Speaker 2: talk to strangers and you never know who you're gonna 2065 01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:26,840 Speaker 2: be friends with. Yeah, absolutely, and yeah we're excited to 2066 01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:28,559 Speaker 2: get back at it because it's been so much fun, awesome. 2067 01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:30,880 Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear it man, And honestly, I'm 2068 01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:33,519 Speaker 1: honored to have this man. You're great, like for real, 2069 01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:36,200 Speaker 1: the best, big fan man. Thank you for coming. I 2070 01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:37,440 Speaker 1: appreciate it. Thanks. 2071 01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:42,640 Speaker 3: Talking to Death is a production of Tenderfoot TV and 2072 01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:47,519 Speaker 3: iHeart Podcasts, created and hosted by Payne Lindsay. For Tenderfoot TV, 2073 01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:52,000 Speaker 3: executive producers are Payne Lindsay and Donald Albright. Co executive 2074 01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:56,320 Speaker 3: producer is Mike Rooney. 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