1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: My late ex husband had a secret affair baby, and 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: I want to expose him now that he's dead. A 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: am I the ahole? And this is okop where we 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: read the craziest true stories on Earth. I'm John and 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: uh sammy boy? 6 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 2: Should he be exposed? 7 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: Should as he be exposed? And it would op be 8 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: the a hole for doing so? 9 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: Should be exposed one? Uh? Probly probably probably probably because 10 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:32,840 Speaker 2: the child also should grow up knowing the shoe wation? 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: Should the child grow no up growing? 12 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: Oh? 13 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: Uh? 14 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 1: Tough one, right, tough one. 15 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 2: I who I need to know? All right? I didn't 16 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 2: know who who they are exposing this information to? 17 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: Oh? 18 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 2: Good qu I think in general, cheating should be exposed. 19 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 2: Lie should be exposed. So I'm going to say not 20 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 2: the asshole for exposing the cheating. 21 00:00:54,920 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: Yes, And also like he's dead, so so well. 22 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: Then the only person that could be hurt is the kid. 23 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: Is the kid? Yeah. So it's like so but like 24 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: one point in the again in favor is like a 25 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: you you know, cheating should be exposed, and it's like 26 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 1: you can't really embarrass him with it anymore, you know, 27 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: so what but there's there is someone else involved in this. 28 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 2: There's other there's another involved husband. 29 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: You know, can't embarrass him anymore. 30 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 2: You cannot embarrass that's right, you can. You can short 31 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 2: the memory, but you can't embarrass it. 32 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: Can't embarrass him. But you know what, there's only one 33 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: way to get into it. So let's let's read the 34 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,559 Speaker 1: story and find out. He also said, spill that team. 35 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: All right, we know how you hate it. Yeah, we 36 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: changed up, guys. Thanks for the feedback. So disastrous. Two 37 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: five sixty seven says my forty three ex husband, Duke 38 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: fifty four, and I divorced because he habitually cheated on me. 39 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: Dang habitually. There's some sadness behind me. 40 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: Yeah right, I mean, oh painful. We were divorced a 41 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: little over two years when he passed away in a 42 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: motorcycle accident. I paid for his funeral because of my 43 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: daughter fifteen, and despite everything, he was her father and 44 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: I didn't want the state to bury him. 45 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 2: This was for my state bury you. 46 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: I guess. I didn't know that, I guess, so, yeah, Riley, 47 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: I'd be curious to see that. 48 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 2: But I what happened to Yeah? What happens to your 49 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 2: body if you die and no one is. 50 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess if there's nothing else. That does kind 51 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: of make sense. So when someone dies without the financial 52 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: means for a funeral, or if there are no known 53 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: family members or friends to arrange and pay for a funeral, 54 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: the state or local government may step into handle the 55 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: burial or cremation. 56 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,239 Speaker 2: I never knew that there's cremate. Yeah, I mean that 57 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 2: makes I never knew that they do with the ashes. 58 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: Here we go, what's I feel like we're about to 59 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 2: like just re veal something super sad? 60 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a this is a not fun rabbit 61 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: hole maybe to go down. Let's see here. So, when 62 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: the state of local government handles the cremation of an 63 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: individual who has no one to claim the remains, the 64 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: disposition of the ashes can vary. Okay, So in some 65 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: cases the ashes might be buried in a common grave 66 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: or a plot designed for unclaimed remains, which I mean 67 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: it kind of makes sense. 68 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I'm okay with that. Yeah, which is 69 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: kind of good. 70 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you don't want bodies just lying around, So 71 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: that's actually a good government service. 72 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 2: I had no idea idea that happened. 73 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: Wow, we learned so much on this show. It's really 74 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: truly incredible. Thanks for thanks for learning with those guys. Yeah, 75 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: Riley educating us out here. So this was four months ago, 76 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: and my daughter is now doing well. I applied for 77 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: survivors benefits for her shortly after his funeral and have 78 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: been receiving monthly payments. I'm at least glad to hear that, 79 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: you know, small silver lining there. Yeah, yesterday I received 80 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: a phone call from my caseworker at the Social Security 81 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: office informing me that a woman called claiming that she 82 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: had a three year old son by my ex husband. 83 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 2: Oh, and she's coming for that money. 84 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: She's coming for the money, which understandable, understandable. I wonder 85 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: where still we still don't know yet. Does this woman 86 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: even know that he was married? You know what if 87 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 1: he lied to her, he's like, oh, you're my family, 88 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: that old three year old kid. 89 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 2: Okay, So then that means they broke up two years ago, right, Oh? Yes, yes, yes, 90 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 2: there was an overlapping of a year. Is that is 91 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 2: that true? 92 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: That's the question. Yeah, which, and that was the kid 93 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: was born actually four so four years exactly, so they 94 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: were at least, you know, blinking four years ago. 95 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, so habitually habitually definitely, are you definitely cheating on 96 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 2: the bitch. 97 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, good gravy. Now, however, the woman had no proof 98 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 1: that this boy is actually my ex husband's son, and 99 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: there's no DNA not signed on the birth certificate and 100 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 1: no DNA test, nothing, nothing, nothing. So here's the question 101 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 1: everyone watching Sam and Riley. Do you get the DNA 102 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: test at this point? 103 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 2: Can you there's no body? Is it burned? 104 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: You know what you could probably do? 105 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: Uh, dig up the grave? 106 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: If there's other I mean maybe Riley, can you look 107 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: that up real quick? 108 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: Can you dig up a grave you're trying to see? Oh, yeah, 109 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: that's yeah. So if they prove that they're like half 110 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 2: that's siblings then, which I mean that is one path, 111 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: but yeah, probably like you know. 112 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: Or can you dig up someone's Can you dig up 113 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: the grave? Because they could they could DNA test the sibling. 114 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 2: I'm sure I want to know. Can you probably need 115 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 2: every single Can you dig up a grave for a 116 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: DNA test? 117 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? That that is the question we're trying to answer. 118 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: Well looking that up? 119 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:14,679 Speaker 1: Yeah? 120 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 2: Or actually right, can you read the sibling stuff too? 121 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 3: If you get a DNA test, can use a sibling 122 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 3: to help identify the parents? 123 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 2: Yes? 124 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: Using a siblings. DNA can help identify parents, as siblings 125 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 3: share a significant amount of genetic material inherited from the parents. 126 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 3: So you can't use take Can you dig up a 127 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 3: grave for a dNaM test? Assuming a grave for DNA 128 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 3: tests possible but subject to strict legal process. 129 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you can't just go and just dig up 130 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: a grave. Yeah. 131 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 2: Well, it says or family or request over DNA testing 132 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 2: as one of the things. What meaning what So if 133 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 2: your family request over a DNA testing, then you probably 134 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 2: could do it, right, right? Do you? Does the family 135 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 2: kind of own the body when the person dies, because 136 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 2: I've seen all those like have you seen like those 137 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 2: wild funerals where it's like they get them taxidermied and 138 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 2: they like put them in their house or something. 139 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 3: I have a story about this. 140 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: I actually story time we got we got a coold 141 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: one for the end. I don't know if I want 142 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: to hear it, but we will. 143 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 3: It's like a it's like a five out of ten, 144 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 3: nothing crazy. 145 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, all right, So now we're getting some 146 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: info on if the family does own the body after 147 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: a person's death. The body is not considered a property 148 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: in the traditional sense, so it's not owned by the family. However, 149 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: the family typically has the legal right and responsibility to 150 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: make decisions about the deceased's body. 151 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 2: Okay, which one of those to like taxidermy? 152 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: It's possible, but you might have a lot of legal 153 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: hoops to jump through. 154 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 2: Well, I wonder how hard is it? Like you know, 155 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: how like people will like go bear hunting and then 156 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 2: taxijeremy the bear and then put it in the corner, 157 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: like that's the bear that I've gotten ninety seven? You know, 158 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: could you do that with your like ex husban? 159 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: What is what is the rabbit hole we just went down? 160 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: This is one of a fun rabbit hole, crazy burials, 161 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: crazy bial funerals. 162 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:09,239 Speaker 1: That's true. 163 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 3: Wait, okay, connection my grandpa dies. We're gonna text during 164 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 3: Riley's grandfather. 165 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: Oh goodness, we're bringing we brought Riley's grandfather back to life. 166 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what are YouTube videos? 167 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: Oh goodness, Well, guys, I'm pulling us out of a 168 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: rabbit hole. Getting back to the story. So, the caseworker 169 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: asked me if I was willing to allow my daughter 170 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: to do a DA test to prove the child's fraternity. 171 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: So exactly what I've always said, what do you think, 172 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: what do you think the mom's going to say? 173 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: No? 174 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 1: I refused. I did the math and this child was 175 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 1: definitely conceived while my ex and I were still married. Furthermore, 176 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: at the time of conception, I had gone through a 177 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: very traumatic hysterectomy, which is removing the uterus so you 178 00:08:55,160 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: can't have children anymore, with major setbacks that nearly killed me. 179 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: I suspect I know who this woman is and she 180 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: definitely knew my ex husband and I were still married. 181 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:11,959 Speaker 1: I'm mad as hell, and I'm not sure if I'm 182 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: doing the right thing by refusing. But I was humiliated 183 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: enough but my ex when he was alive, and I 184 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: feel even more embarrassed now at it now. I wrote 185 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 1: this wrong over a year ago, and when I first 186 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: found out about the situation, I tried to post another group, 187 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: but they wouldn't let me. I'm posting this here now 188 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: because I came across it in my posting history and 189 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: really wanted to know what others think. So thanks in 190 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 1: advance for any help you can suggest. We have an updates? 191 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so what? 192 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: Oh? 193 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 3: Sorry? So this was made in December of twenty twenty two. 194 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 3: That update is in December of twenty twenty three. 195 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: Wow, so a year later and just a few weeks 196 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: ago from when we're recording this. 197 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 2: And so the question OP is asking, is am I 198 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 2: the a hole for basically saying no to the DNA 199 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 2: test and essentially robbing this mother of financial security provided 200 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 2: by the person that impregnated her. 201 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: Here's a question, and Riley, maybe you can look up 202 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 1: of true. Here's the real question. Yeah, wow, I really 203 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: do do this. This is good for me to be exposed. 204 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: I am, I am. I know, I just asked the question. 205 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 1: Every time Sam asked a question, I just asked a 206 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 1: totally different question and just ignore it or. 207 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 2: Sometimes the exact say those are those are the best? 208 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: Oh man, So what I'm putting mine on hold, ladies 209 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, I'm taking accountability. 210 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 2: But the real question or whatever Sam fucking shit is. 211 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 2: So my question was, I mean, the question of OP. 212 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: Is OP the a hole for basically robbing this mother? 213 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:03,719 Speaker 2: And robbing is too harsh of a word, but I'm 214 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 2: gonna use it anyway, robbing this mother of the financial 215 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 2: security provided by the guy that impregnated her. Right, so, 216 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:15,959 Speaker 2: like like, oh, he's fairly certain that this child is 217 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 2: her ex husband's biological child, and she is saying you 218 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: do not deserve financial support because you cheated you were 219 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 2: his affair partner. I think that, and I want to 220 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 2: know what all of you think. Yes, please, but I 221 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 2: want to know, like what like you all like really think, 222 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 2: like the like the real answers to this question. But 223 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:39,199 Speaker 2: we'll dude with John's answer for the one time exactly 224 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 2: the kids answer, But for now, here's my BS response. 225 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 2: I think to be clear, John and I are not beefing. 226 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 2: Everyone is thinking that we're beefing in the comments. We 227 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 2: love each other very much. 228 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: We love very much, and we're we've been kind of busy, 229 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: so we've been recording separate episodes. 230 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 2: So just just just the call the bet we were 231 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: watching the bequatching and also we are in the same room, 232 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 2: like look I'm holding. 233 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 1: His hand in his thing. There you go, we're here together. Oh, 234 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: you guys are funny. Make me laugh. 235 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 3: I may have made a Twitter account like exposing some. 236 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: So crazy. I love that though, dude, dude, right, Riley's 237 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: fake stoking the beef is really legendary. Wow, you know what, 238 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: go give it long enough to where we totally forget 239 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: and then run it up again. Sometimes that's really funny, 240 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: you know what kind of back to the question, kind 241 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: of bahole, I think, because I don't know if it splits, 242 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: like does the check get split? 243 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 2: Imagine it would, Yeah, it would, it would split among 244 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 2: the like. And also I imagine OP is only entitled 245 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 2: to the money for three more years as their daughter 246 00:12:58,280 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 2: is fifteen. 247 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: Off? 248 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 3: Can you pass off? Was that an option? 249 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 1: I just want to. 250 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 3: I think they should team up. Figures this out there, man, 251 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 3: unless unless the affair partner is like, isn't love with 252 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 3: the X? Then whatever? But say like no girl power 253 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 3: and they team up and they figured this out. 254 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 2: Wants to do any sort yeah, reconciliation with this person? 255 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,479 Speaker 1: Well, Op, maybe is the ahole? And I guess I'll 256 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: say the a hole just to have an answer. I 257 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: totally understand her response. The gut reaction is like, f 258 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,319 Speaker 1: you you cheated on my husband or cheated you know 259 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: you cheated. So it's like, I totally understand her gut react. 260 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: You were the thing that my husband was cheating on 261 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 2: me with and you knew, and you and you knew. Yeah, terrible, terrible. 262 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 2: What do you think? Okay? Well, to be clear, the 263 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 2: people who were cheating with each other? Are the a 264 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 2: holes bingo first and foremost? And are the biggers a holes? 265 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 2: This feels if it was just punishing the affair partner, 266 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 2: then it would be like deserved. Not the A hole 267 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: makes sense. The thing is it's punishing the kid too, 268 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 2: the innocent kid, And I think that's where I would 269 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 2: I struggle a little bit to be like like uh uh, 270 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 2: not like completely like not the A hole because it's 271 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 2: hurting the kid potentially. I would love to know what 272 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: all of you think. You guys might chew us out 273 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 2: in the comments. 274 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: As you do. 275 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 2: Sometimes that's right. Sometimes we deserve it. 276 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 3: Sam but loves it. 277 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, I'm like, what could I do I 278 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 2: bring it off? Yeah? I think I agree with you. 279 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 2: I think it is a little bit of an asshole move, 280 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: but I understand. Do we have any comments from that 281 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 2: first one? I would love to know what people are Yeah, yeah, 282 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 2: I would love to know, Like I got check of 283 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 2: what Reddit generally? Thanks? 284 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: What say the people? So this comes from Raquel eight 285 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 1: eight to two. H might have already been said. But 286 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: if the mother knew the kid was his, why did 287 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: she wait three years to claim support from the father? 288 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: Interesting because he died two years ago. Yeah, Yeah, but 289 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: he died two years ago. Yeah, so it's like, why 290 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: not do it two years ago. 291 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 3: But claim support still from child support and everything? Yeah, 292 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 3: while he was alive. 293 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: Yes, any mother who has a child is entitled to 294 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: them and deserves every penny. But it's a huge red 295 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 1: flag when she waits till she knows there's survivor's benefits 296 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: going to his other child. I'm guessing someone told her 297 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: that she's missing out on a nice paycheck and now 298 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: she's wanting a piece of it. And then Cassaway thirty 299 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: two responds could be that she was receiving money off 300 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: the books from the AX. 301 00:15:58,720 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 2: That's probably likely. 302 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I doubt he would have agreed to do a 303 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: DNA test or formal child support while sharing a bank 304 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: account with OP. 305 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 2: Yep, Yeah, that totally makes sense. Yeah, totally makes sense. 306 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 2: But I still think she's entitled to that money, totally. 307 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think, you know, if the baby's innocent, baby's 308 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, that's the thing. So yeah, 309 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: but I get a tough position to be an OP. 310 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 2: But yeah, we understand why you did it. We understand 311 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:28,479 Speaker 2: why can I do a quick, quick conspiracy. 312 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: Here we go, here we go. Ten hats everybody, boom. 313 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 2: I think there could be a scenario where the affair 314 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 2: partner secretly goes directly to the kid because the kid 315 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 2: is the DNA that she needs, which would be fucked 316 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 2: up super I think that could be what happens. 317 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: You're right, and they're like fifteen or whatever. So do 318 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: you go and be like, hey, you know, don't do 319 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: this to my baby, like let me do whatever. 320 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, come to our like high school or something. 321 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. Speaking of which, I have a okay story time. 322 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 2: We have two okay storytime stand two. 323 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: Two okay story times for you. We have an update. 324 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 1: First of all, i'd like to thank everyone for their 325 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: comments and advice. You're welcome. As I stated in my 326 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 1: edit on the original post, this happened over a year ago, 327 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: and for whatever reason, I wasn't allowed to post it 328 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,400 Speaker 1: in the thread I originally tried to. But now onto 329 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 1: the update. About a month after I found out about 330 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 1: this little boy, I did intend to tell my daughter, 331 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 1: who is now seventeen by the way, okay, which also 332 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: like quickly approaching legal adulthood too, so that maybe throws 333 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: another wrench. 334 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: Which maybe oh he could or the a fair partner 335 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 2: could legally require the kid to date a test nine 336 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 2: attention is gracious. 337 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 1: She was shocked, as you can imagine, and very hurt 338 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 1: by her dad's actions. I explained to her the full situation, 339 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: and she didn't want to do it then, So the 340 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 1: daughter's basically refusing to do the DNA testiness point. She 341 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 1: said that she needed time, so that's what I gave her. Incidentally, 342 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 1: she has been in the therapy since before, during and 343 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: after the divorce. He the father, and her were never 344 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: closed because he had a kids are to be seen 345 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: and not heard mentality, which caused a lot of problems 346 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 1: even when we were still together. 347 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,919 Speaker 2: That's theft terrible. I mean, that's old school, that's howrible. 348 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, super old school toxic mindset. The woman who had 349 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: an affair with my husband was a work colleague slash friend. 350 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: We all worked together at the same place. That is awful, 351 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 1: brutal awful. We both still work there, just in different areas. 352 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 2: They're still working at. 353 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: The same company. Oh my god. After I got the 354 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: call from my caseworker, several mutual acquaintances approached me and 355 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 1: told me that she wanted to sit down and talk 356 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: with me about her problem. I thought about that for 357 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 1: a few days and ultimately decided to meet up with her. 358 00:18:58,240 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 2: I think that's an empathetic move. 359 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: What do you think is gonna happen? I say, and 360 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 1: everyone watching back to tinfoil conspiracy baby, hit me, what 361 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:08,400 Speaker 1: do you got? 362 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:12,120 Speaker 2: I think maybe there's gonna be some kind of sob story. Yeah, 363 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 2: it's gonna be some kind of sob story. 364 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: I kind of feel like OP is going to ultimately 365 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: give the given given and yeah, give. 366 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 2: How the thing is, it's not up to OP anymore, 367 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 2: it's up to the daughter. 368 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right. 369 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 2: So it's not even kind of it's kind of like, 370 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 2: in a way, the responsibility has been lifted from OP 371 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 2: and now has been put on the daughter. 372 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: You're right. 373 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 2: So it's like, oh, he can't really even do anything. 374 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 1: I I I for whatever reason. But with so so 375 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 1: now it's a great point both OP and the daughter. 376 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 1: I feel like both of I don't know why. I 377 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: just got a conspiracy toful how I got feeling that 378 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 1: they're gonna agree and help get the payment for them 379 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 1: the child. 380 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 2: Let's let's let's see what the story is. 381 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 1: We met at a coffee shop buy our job on 382 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 1: a Saturday. What if they literally just got in a 383 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: conference room. 384 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, let's just reserve the conference room between 385 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 4: our desks. She told me that she and my ex 386 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 4: started out as friends. At first, he would give her 387 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 4: advice on how to deal with her other two kids father. 388 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 1: She said, it very quickly turned into flirting and hanging 389 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: out and eventually a full on affair. By this time, 390 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 1: he's telling her I was getting suspicious that something was 391 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: going on, and she was already pregnant. 392 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 2: Why don't you just wear protection? Man? 393 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 1: People are crazy, it's a fun. 394 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 2: Probably was like, wait until we find out about all 395 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 2: the secret I really children that are running about. 396 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 1: Oh dude, all the all the little proteins man shooting 397 00:20:54,680 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: little proteins every single night. Ye Actually, which is this 398 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: is ten times more hilarious because Riley is the sweetest 399 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: guy ever, and he's like, dude, I don't know if 400 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: I can just run around. I just want to be 401 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,439 Speaker 1: with and support a woman. He literally told me that 402 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 1: last night, literally told me that last night. Another reason 403 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 1: for all of you who love him in the comments 404 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: to love him even more. So there you go. Now, 405 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: the affair partner had told him about the pregnancy and 406 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 1: he told her that he wouldn't be leaving me, but 407 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: he would assist her with whatever the child needed. She 408 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: was hurt and angry, but stuck with the situation as 409 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: she was already struggling with two kids that she had 410 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: and she needed the help. Who called that off the books? 411 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 2: Off the books was inspired by a comment Yes. 412 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 1: There you go, so given given the credit words, we agree, 413 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 1: we agree. She went on to say that he was 414 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: very much in love with me and that she was 415 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: jealous of me for having him. Oh what a what 416 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: an f situation? Just yeah, that guy's like just hurting 417 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 1: people on both sides literally awful one time? Was this 418 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 1: woman re worseful? No apologies, nothing, I asked her, did 419 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 1: she even care what their affair did to my daughter? 420 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,959 Speaker 1: And she replied no because she had enough on her 421 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,479 Speaker 1: plate with her own children and quite frankly, she didn't 422 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 1: care about mine. Well, if you don't care about my children. 423 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 2: I don't care about I don't. 424 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 1: Care about yours. I mean, why not even just lot 425 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: like yeah. 426 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:33,399 Speaker 2: Just lot some self preservation, you know, I mean, I 427 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 2: guess good on you for just being upfront and honest, 428 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 2: but like god, dang, oh wait, yeah, I feel like 429 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 2: after that confession, op, be like, I don't care about 430 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 2: your kady either likewise likewise. 431 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: That's word for word, by the way, wow wow wowow. 432 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: But at this point I told her that I have 433 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: informed my daughter about her son and she is currently 434 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: not interested in participating in the scenario aka doing the 435 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: DNA test to help you know the affair. Baby, get 436 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,479 Speaker 1: some get some bread. She got outraged by that, telling 437 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 1: me that I have to make my daughter do this 438 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 1: I mean no, that she is only part time at 439 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 1: our work and her and her kids cannot survive on 440 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 1: her income alone. I told her that she was a 441 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 1: beach damn. If she felt even a little bit of guilt, 442 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: I might have been able to talk my daughter around, 443 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 1: but her lack of respect for my daughter's feelings is 444 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: why I won't. I left her there yelling at me 445 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: as I walked away to my car. She has since 446 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: quit working at our job. 447 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 2: Wow wow. 448 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,479 Speaker 1: So now she doesn't even have the part time income. 449 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 2: Why would she do that unless she's thought she could 450 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 2: find something better. 451 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, or maybe she's just so just 452 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: insane that. 453 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 3: She's saying or to like in a way, she was 454 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 3: put in a tight situation with the affair partner that 455 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,679 Speaker 3: she's like, I'm not gonna be dealing with this anymore. 456 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna speak my mind because it's so unfair. 457 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: What if, going back into conspiracy mode tinfoil idea, they 458 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:22,159 Speaker 1: both work at the same job, Rumors spread, rumor spread. 459 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: If the affair partner is like, I have kind of 460 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 1: two roles, two things I could play out. I could 461 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 1: either sit back and wait for the rumor to get 462 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: spread around and maybe me get fired from the job. 463 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 1: Or I take control into my own hands and I 464 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: quit on my own terms and have a You know, 465 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: I can make up some reason for a future. 466 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 2: But I can't imagine that the rumor hasn't already spread 467 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 2: at this point. Right, that's a good point. I would 468 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,879 Speaker 2: assume that everyone kind of knows. 469 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe not, maybe not maybe, dude, I mean, there's 470 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 5: just not I feel like op probably has some other 471 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 5: She has lots of friends at work, Like she like 472 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:03,360 Speaker 5: mentioned multiple. 473 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 2: Times, they exist in the same circles. There's no way 474 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 2: the whole company doesn't, like know a little bit of 475 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 2: what's going on. 476 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,199 Speaker 1: Why aren't you inviting Stacy to drinks after work? 477 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 2: She slept with my dead husband and has a baby 478 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 2: and hates my kids. So is that enough reason? Sharon? 479 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: Oh god, wow, But that's that's my tinfoil. So we'll see. 480 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 1: We'll see. Over the past year, I have addressed the 481 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,640 Speaker 1: situation with my daughter and she still does not want. 482 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 2: To do it. 483 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: I've told her it's her decision either way, and I 484 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,439 Speaker 1: support what she wants, and I'm guessing maybe now. At 485 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 1: this point, we're quickly approaching eighteen as well, which again 486 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 1: changes everything. My ex's parents are both deceased and his 487 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 1: one sister has also passed away. He has an older brother, 488 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,360 Speaker 1: but they haven't communicated in decades because of the brother's 489 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 1: drug issues. I tried to find out about him when 490 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 1: my ex passed away, but I couldn't find anything. My 491 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 1: ex was dead two full days before the police finally 492 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: got in contact with me. It was a shock. I 493 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 1: never hated him, I hated what he did. There is 494 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: a difference. I guess that's the update. If there's any 495 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: other questions that you guys would like me to answer, 496 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 1: I'll be around. Feel free to ask. Thank you for 497 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 1: your time, and stay blessed and Sam. We have one 498 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: more final, concluding update to this story. 499 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 2: Conspiracy theory that the affair partner is going to reappear 500 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 2: and come crawling back for the money somehow. Yeah, doing 501 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 2: something crazy like steal the DNA of the kid. 502 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think. 503 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: And at eighteen, can you legally request like can you 504 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 2: make a legal request for DNA? 505 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 1: Yeah? 506 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,479 Speaker 2: Is that that might be something that happens. I don't know. 507 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 2: Riley's about to look it up. 508 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 1: Okay, So we're just reading this straight from the response. 509 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 1: Requesting a DNHS for child support purpose is after the 510 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 1: child turns eighteen can be complex and is subject to 511 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,719 Speaker 1: legal guidelines that vary by jurisdiction, but generally, child support 512 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: obligations are determined before the child reaches the age of maturity. 513 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: If a paternity test has not been established before the 514 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 1: child turns eighteen, it might be more challenging to initiate 515 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: a paternity test for support. Legal advice is recommended for 516 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: understanding the options to do well. 517 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 2: I think what it's what it's doing is it's thinking 518 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 2: about the baby. The baby we're asking about like a 519 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: different child, like can you test it? May tell chat GBT. 520 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 2: I'm actually talking about a child from a separate marriage 521 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 2: of the baby daddy from a separate affair, a separate 522 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,439 Speaker 2: affair from a separate affair of the baby daddy, so 523 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,360 Speaker 2: to be used to establish paternity. So like, basically I'm 524 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 2: actually talking about DNA test of a stepchild of the 525 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,200 Speaker 2: child a step sibling, rather. 526 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 1: From a separate affair, all right. In legal terms, if 527 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 1: you're seeking to establish the paternity of a child or 528 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:02,199 Speaker 1: child support for other legal reasons, DNA testing can be 529 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 1: requested through the courts. In the case of proving a 530 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: relationship between half sibbings to determine paternity, a DNA test 531 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 1: can be sought out for one or both children. The 532 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: process of the process generally requires legal proceedings, and the 533 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: court's permission is needed to conduct such tests, especially if 534 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 1: the individuals involved are miners. If the test is being 535 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: requested after the child has reached legal adulthood, legal counsel 536 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 1: is recommended. So basically, it's sounding like, even with Op's 537 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: daughter turning eighteen, they could still go to the courts 538 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: and push for it. 539 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it is possible. It seems like it's more 540 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 2: possible when the daughter turns eighty. 541 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, because now it's like, Okay, you're a legal adult 542 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: and subject to more you know, subject to more now 543 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: basically because of that. But Tim foil hats off, We're 544 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 1: going to see what we got going on in this 545 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: final concluding update. First of all, let me say I 546 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: do not hate my husband. Hell I don't even hate 547 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: his affair partner. For those who think I'm trying to 548 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: get some half assed revenge on a toddler, just let 549 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: me say you're insane to feel that way. In the 550 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: moment when this all happened, I was in shock and 551 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 1: total disbelief. I reacted without any real thought, which is 552 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: totally understandable in my opinion. I challenge anyone on here 553 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 1: to say that they haven't responded angrily with unwanted or 554 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: unexpected news. However, I am not a person who does 555 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 1: not think of consequences to my actions, and that is 556 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: why I sat down, calmed down, and figured out how 557 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 1: to proceed. I talked to both my mom and my 558 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 1: brothers before I talked to my daughter. They were also shocked, 559 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: but they urged me to talk to my daughter and 560 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: get her input on this situation. As I said in 561 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: my first update, my daughter has been in therapy before, during, 562 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: and still after the divorce. I suggested to her to 563 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 1: talk to her therapist about this, which she did. Based 564 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: on my daughter's feelings of being adamantly opposed to being involved, 565 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 1: her therapist suggested that I give her time, and I have. 566 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: My daughter is such a sweetheart, and I'm not saying 567 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 1: this about her because she's mine, but it has been 568 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: a lot for her to deal with this all at 569 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 1: one time. I'm sure in the end she will change 570 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: her mind, but I refuse to bully her into it. 571 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 1: It has to be one hundred percent her own decision. 572 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: So it's sounding like, as of right now, the daughter 573 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 1: is still like, no, I don't want to do this. 574 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: The mom is like, I do ultimately want her to 575 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: that is my personal opinion, but I am not going 576 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: to force her into this. I'm gonna let it play 577 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 1: out and let her be an adult, Yeah, and make 578 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 1: a decision on her own. 579 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 2: Because we could ask, is the daughter of the a 580 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 2: hole for now refusing the fraternity time? 581 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 1: That sounds like the real question. 582 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the real question. And let us know the 583 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 2: comments what you think, but we'll keep going through. 584 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 1: Some of you think I hate my ex husband and 585 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,479 Speaker 1: I'm using the situation to get back at him. I 586 00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 1: do not. I hated what he did. That is all 587 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 1: my exit. I talked at least twice a week. We 588 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 1: had disagreements, sure, like other people do. I wish you 589 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,480 Speaker 1: would have told me, honestly, the affair long had been 590 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 1: out of the bag. I'm not gonna say I would 591 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: have enjoyed hearing it, but at least we would have known. See, 592 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 1: we're too busy living and oftentimes we subconsciously think everything 593 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: will work out for the best. If you would have 594 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: told us, we could have long gotten over any of 595 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: the shocker, hurt or resentment, and possibly the kids could 596 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: have met each other long ago. I would have known 597 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: about the boy, and we all would have been better 598 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 1: prepared for when my husband eventually passed away. Who knows, 599 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: But I am no longer angrier, hurt. Please believe me 600 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 1: when I tell you that I want an amicable solution 601 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 1: to this as much as you do. That day in 602 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 1: the coffee shop with her, I once again reacted, But 603 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: I'm human with feelings and emotions, just like all of you. 604 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: My ex husband had no one else but us. As 605 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: I said, he has a brother who's on drugs who 606 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: I spent weeks trying to locate, and I couldn't. I 607 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: would never have let him be buried by the state 608 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, we still loved him. 609 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 1: I was married to him for seventeen years. And that 610 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: is the conclusion of this story. 611 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 2: Which it feels somewhat like I feel like I didn't 612 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 2: get quite the answers that I wanted. 613 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 1: No, a resolution has not been reached. You could say, 614 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 1: like the resolution as of right now is they're not 615 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:37,320 Speaker 1: going to help the affair baby. 616 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I guess that is the resolute Yeah, I 617 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 2: would agree with you. So, I mean, what do you 618 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 2: think that the daughter is the a hole for not 619 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 2: agreeing to a paternity test. 620 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to say no. And here's why I think 621 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: me and op are kind of in this mindset here 622 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 1: with this still like seventeen eighteen years old, you grieved 623 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 1: your dad passing, You're now going through this whole process. 624 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: I mean I would just be beside myself. Yeah, I mean, 625 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 1: you're a a kid. 626 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 2: You're a kid. 627 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: You're a kid, even as like adult now I'm like 628 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 1: twenty seven. Now, this would be so so much to 629 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 1: deal with. So I think what's happening right now and 630 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: what what ope seems to be hinting at as far 631 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 1: as a prediction is that with time and age and 632 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 1: like going through I guess, kind of like another grieving process, 633 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: Opie's predicting that the daughter will eventually agree to do 634 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 1: the paternity test to help the kid. But right now 635 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 1: it's still kind of raw, and you know that the 636 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: daughter just kind of needs time, and you know, fair 637 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: enough the daughter should reach that conclusion on her own. 638 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: So for that reason, I'm going to say, not the ahole, 639 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 1: And I'm kind of assuming here that the daughter will 640 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: eventually change her mind. 641 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I agree. I agree, like the a hole, 642 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 2: I think the most angelic way to go about it, Yeah, 643 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:10,360 Speaker 2: would be to get do the paternity test. But I 644 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 2: totally understand with so many things going on not doing that. 645 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:17,400 Speaker 1: I honestly think that the daughter really should at some point, 646 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 1: at some point, because you know, at the end of 647 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: the day, there's an innocent child, and you know what, 648 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 1: the mom's a piece of work. She sucks, but out 649 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 1: of a crappy, terrible situation and all helps. You know. 650 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 2: Also, I don't think it takes away from the money 651 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 2: that they'd get, because at eighteen, I imagined that support from 652 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,359 Speaker 2: the state runs out that's such a good point, and 653 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,360 Speaker 2: it would just only benefit them because then the support 654 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 2: from the state would go to them as well. 655 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 1: So at that point when it's like, hey, I can't 656 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 1: even benefit from this anyways, you might as well. I 657 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 1: do truly think that the especially with that. If that 658 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,319 Speaker 1: is the case, I definitely think the daughter should do that. 659 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, but we'd love to know what you think. Put 660 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 2: your answers in the comments below. But John, yes, you 661 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 2: know what I think. What do you think? I think 662 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 2: you should listen while I tell you this next story? 663 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: Well, I think you should listen while we tell you 664 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: these okay story times. Oh shit, flipping it back, baby, Riley. 665 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 1: Start off with the burial. What do we got burial? 666 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,240 Speaker 3: We said, Like some weird things people do while burying 667 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 3: the dead. 668 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like taxidermy their spouse and like put them 669 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,839 Speaker 2: in front of like an eagle or something. 670 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 3: Okay, that's a ten, I'm bringing down to like a five. 671 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:28,359 Speaker 2: All right, alright three. 672 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 6: Uh. 673 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 3: There's this couple in my hometown that they wanted to 674 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 3: be kind of close to the mother that died. So 675 00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 3: what the father did was in their backyard, fenced in 676 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 3: like an area of their backyard and buried her in 677 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:50,319 Speaker 3: the backyard. Like whenever you guys come and visit, we'll 678 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 3: go by and like see it. 679 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 2: You can see it from the road, So it's like 680 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 2: a mini graveyard. 681 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, just for the in there in their own backyard. 682 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,160 Speaker 2: I honestly don't find that's super weird. 683 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that. 684 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, So like, if your mom dies, you want to 685 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 3: bury in the backyard, I'm kind of sweet. 686 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really don't. 687 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, Okay, where we are you get a part of 688 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 6: a church, to become a member of a church, and 689 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,799 Speaker 6: then from there they give you a burial spot and 690 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,760 Speaker 6: then you are buried there at the church like graveyard. 691 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 3: That's what that's how Like I have a. 692 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,359 Speaker 2: Spot, Me and my wife have a spot, And like 693 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,719 Speaker 2: I believe in. 694 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 1: Islam, you're meant to be buried. The family is meant 695 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 1: to be buried together, unless someone in the family does 696 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 1: something like haram and basically like you know, kind of 697 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: gets cast ousted from that. But yeah, there are like 698 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:46,400 Speaker 1: different religions and situations where but just me personally, I 699 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,319 Speaker 1: kind of like the idea of like. 700 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 2: Are my roommate, our roommate Christian has his name on 701 00:36:55,600 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 2: a gravestone already. Yeah, he's like, he has a burial 702 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 2: plot and he has his spot. 703 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 3: My great grandpa does too. 704 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 1: That's kind of wild. Yeah, damn, I mean get I 705 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 1: get great Grandpa. I don't want Christian to go. Don't 706 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: do that. 707 00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 2: I kind of grave stole your name on it. Kid. 708 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 1: Oh goodness, we'll get Christian's feet back on the podcast. 709 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 1: By the way, any super O g O k O 710 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 1: P fans will remember his feet while he was sleeping 711 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 1: in like episode. 712 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 2: Eleven, there's an episode that is going to feature the 713 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 2: whole gang. Yes, coming out. We're gonna film at this this. 714 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 1: We will get there. We will get there. You know, 715 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,800 Speaker 1: I have an okay story time, but I kind of 716 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 1: I kind of want to I kind of want to 717 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 1: tease you guys. 718 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 2: He's okay, So the me like, I just like a 719 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 2: little teaser. 720 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 721 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 722 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 1: I was involved and coerced in a lawsuit as a minor. 723 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 2: John has told me this story once before, but I've 724 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 2: forgotten it, and so. 725 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,440 Speaker 1: It's a it's a little two first. So yeah, it's good. 726 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 1: It's a good one. It's a good one. I'm excited, 727 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 1: So stick around to the end.