WEBVTT - Let’s Help Brandi Glanville Find A New Man! 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:21.760 Hey, you're back with We're back with I do Part 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:25.279 two and it's your favorites, Susan and Kathy from The 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:29.319 Golden Bachelor. We are here to do part two with 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:33.560 the one and only Brandy Glamville. We covered so much 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:35.520 the first time, but now we're going to dig deep. 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:38.600 So let's dive back into our conversation. 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:41.199 So you've got to give me some good advice. You 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:43.320 got to give listeners. You've learned so much. 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:46.720 What's your colonel, what's your neuggative advice to people that 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:47.720 might be going through this. 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:48.159 Kind of thing. 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:50.920 I mean, honestly, I. 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:57.560 Don't die, don't give up? How about don't give up? 0:00:57.640 --> 0:00:59.040 Better days are coming well? 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:01.760 I mean I had a dark days, Like I was like, 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:05.600 what is my purpose? Like, yes, you know why am 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:08.440 I here? I stay in bed all day. I've just 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:11.600 spent all my money on my savings on doctors, Like 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:16.600 I can't work at the moment, Like what is why? 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:17.400 Why? 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:21.679 In my ear? So now I'm like, I'm hosting dinners 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:26.440 for my son and his girlfriend. I would not you know, baby, baby, 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:30.080 it's gonna be I'm excited, Like I was excited to 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:32.479 put on a pair of type jeans because I've been 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:34.199 like roaming around in my COVID gear. 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:37.840 So I'm just like, are you exercising? 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:40.240 Can you actually get two weeks? 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.000 No? I haven't. But like, I don't want people to 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:45.080 hate me, but I'm just really naturally. 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:47.440 I do hate you right now. 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:51.000 I don't know. I'm like, I hate saying that, but 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:54.440 the doctor actually told me this. He's like, normally I 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:58.080 would want you to gain some weight first, but you're 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:00.840 so thin that we we don't have like we if 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:03.560 we took fat from an area, it would deform that 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:04.880 area to put fat. 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:06.080 Yeah, you can't do that. 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:08.440 Bab Yeah, do you want some of my fat? Brandy, 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:09.519 I've got plenty of share. 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:12.079 I would love she does friends. Have you seen her? 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:12.919 She's like a stick? 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:16.760 Yeah, I don't, wouldn't. Whenever anyone says I'm fat, I'm like. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:20.360 Hooker Ready, I used to wait two hundred pounds. Trust me, 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.720 Now I look like a sharp pay It's tragic. 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.880 Oh my god, Well don't tell me. 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:29.640 I feel like I like I'm ready to like. I 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:33.760 did get a text last night from an old boyfriend. Ha, yes, 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:38.640 randomly he ran into my son. Because the guy is 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:39.919 thirteen years younger than me. 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.280 So you go, girl, Yeah, no, I mean there's. 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.480 Still the only guys that asked me out are younger guys. 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:49.520 Good like I don't like everyone my age is dating 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.720 like a twenty year old. 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:52.680 So trust me. 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:55.840 Can I just tell you, Brandy, it doesn't change shed 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:57.200 just fault there. 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:58.280 I'm very aware. 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:01.160 I keep telling all the gold Olden's who are like, 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:03.720 you know, fifty eight sixty. If you want to get 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:06.120 married or you want to launch a relationship, luck it 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.919 down now because you know the five years they're dating 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:09.880 thirty year olds, right. 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:13.720 Or move to the Midwest, you like, move like somewhere 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.280 where they're I watched like a lot of true crime 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:19.919 and a lot of these cops are hot. 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:25.440 And you move to Queens. Move to Queens, Brandy, you'll 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:26.920 have your you know, you can have all your pick 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:27.520 of cops. 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.480 I don't really. My brother is a cop. I don't 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.120 want to date a cop because he's kind of a dick. 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:35.480 I would never date it police. 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:36.440 No, No, be either. 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:37.520 A firefighter. 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.160 I did date a firefighter that was hot. 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:42.120 My son's a firefighter. He's hot. 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.800 Yeah, they're hot, like they don't but they're like frat boys. 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:47.839 They're like, Hi, I love you, and they're going back 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.360 to the frat house to do for sure and watch 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:52.520 football until there's a fire, hang. 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:56.000 With the boys, right, what type of guy would you want? 0:03:56.080 --> 0:04:01.480 You have a particular look, you know, honestly like self confident. 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:06.120 I need the fun police because I am a little wild, 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:09.560 so I need someone to kind of pull me back. 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:13.640 So and I've had that in the past, and my 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:16.240 friends were like, you know what, Yeah, you do need 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:18.320 a little bit of. 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:24.440 You know what, they say, opposite to track, opposites of track, brandy, 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:25.680 but not too. 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:27.279 Much of an I like, you need to be able 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:30.200 to have a good time, not take yourself so seriously, 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:34.120 take a joke. I love, I love funny people. It's 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:37.600 all about chemistry for me. I mean, I've mostly dated 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:42.359 very attractive men, but but not a comedian. No. God, 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:45.160 I did date a comedian and that was the hell. 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:49.040 It was so dark. I thought comedians aren't very funny 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:49.599 in real life. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:52.640 They're right, And I always think they're big drinkers. Are 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:54.480 they big drinkers? Yes? 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:58.720 I mean not that we're generalizing here at all, of course, no, no, no. 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:02.240 But I mean stereotops to cite our stereotypes for our reason. 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:05.159 I mean that sounds horrible, but yes, like a lot 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:08.240 of comedians are dark, you know, like when they're not 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:12.240 on stage, they yeah, because they have to be They 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:14.799 feel like they have to be funny all of the time, 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:18.920 and so they do isolate, you know. Yes, then they're 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:20.920 like in a bad mood because or do you think 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.640 this is funny? Do you think you know? And it 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:26.000 wasn't fun. I mean, he was very funny, but it 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:28.600 wasn't fun when he wasn't on stage. 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:32.080 All right, So here's what we know so far. Yeah, 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:34.200 you want tall so you can wear your heels. 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:36.880 I don't care about tall. I don't need tall. I 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:40.880 need sense of humor. I need them to be able 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:42.960 to pay for dinner because I'm sicking, a sick of 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:46.480 picking up a check. Like I've dated waiters and uber 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:50.919 drivers like I don't you know, like what's the word? Like, 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.360 I don't discriminate, Like if you don't, like as long 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:57.960 as you're working in hustling, it's fine. But then you know, 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:01.840 I dated a guy that was, you know, looking for 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:05.080 a job, you know, and you know. 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:05.760 I go out. 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:08.720 I wouldn't eat a nice restaurant, So I'm d Once 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:11.240 you start picking up the bill. It never ends, and. 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:13.160 You don't want to go where the guy says, can 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:15.320 we go to happy hour and split an appetizer? 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:16.840 Oh yeah, that's not happening. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:20.960 What about actors? Are they off the table since your ex? 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:23.960 Oh? Yeah, done, I'm done and done. I mean I 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:27.279 dated a few and that was before him, and I 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.240 dated a couple after him that happened to be his 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:30.240 friends on purpose. 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:34.560 That's called retribution right now. 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:37.839 Wait, I read an article recently, Susan, I think you 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:39.599 and I talked about this that women are going to 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:42.800 like medieval themed dinners so they can date the nights. 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:44.680 Would you do that kind of thing? 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:50.640 No, that sounds let's be on desperate to me, like 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:54.640 what I mean the nights, Like, what do they look like? 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:57.719 Yeah, you can't tell under the costume. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:00.360 Oh so now we're down to that. 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:02.479 It look smatter to do You have to have a 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:03.919 physical attraction. 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:05.280 No, I have to have chemistry. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:05.880 Yes. 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:10.480 I met a guy and he at first I was 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:13.520 like I saw him, I'm like nope, I'm out, And 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.280 then I sat through the dinner. I've never like left 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:18.760 a date like I'm not that girl. I think that's 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:24.280 just so horrible but the more we talked, I was like, Okay, 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:27.320 you're really you know, he's really smart. Then I found 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:30.200 out he happened to have a private plane. I'm like, 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.400 and you're my boyfriend. 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:33.880 And how did that work for you? 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:36.480 It was great for a year, and I loved him, 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:42.040 but I wasn't in love. But he literally he saved 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:45.800 my life. It was the year after my divorce, and 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:49.120 he was like so fun. We went to he had 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:52.080 properties everywhere, we were on planes, He's like, bring all 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:52.960 your friends. 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:55.840 I was like, he talked his number. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:08:01.280 Yeah, I think he's dating a twenty year old. Oh god, yeah, so, 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:03.400 I mean, but he was the first. He was like 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:06.680 thirteen years older than me. And he's the only guy 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.240 I've dated that was older than me. I mean my 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:13.320 husband was the same, the same exact age, actually six 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:15.840 months younger. So he always like to throw that out there. 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:17.720 My ex husband did the same thing. 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:21.160 Yeah, like six months, but I was actually. 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:21.800 A few months. 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:23.880 That's a rounding air, but he. 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.560 Would yeah, he would say, that's. 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:27.960 A rounding air. That's like, you know, they got the 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:31.160 dates wrong in the pregnancy test. I mean, who cares. 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:34.600 I told him, like his mom had trouble like getting pregnant, 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:37.360 and so she was on hormones, and so she gave 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:41.640 birth to this like god, and they're like tiny little people. 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:45.360 And he's like six to one, perfect looking. And I'm like, 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:48.000 you know, you're not real. You're like a hormone baby. 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:49.960 It's like that makes it real. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:50.520 Not real? 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:51.840 Yeah, the real. 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:52.320 No. 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:54.920 I just like for him because he's tooken like a 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:58.520 woman scorned. Yeah, no, he is not real yep. 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:03.240 And I told him his dimples were deformities. What if 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:08.800 you look Nonetheless, simples are like deformities, and so I 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:10.199 had to keep them down to keep them. 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:13.680 You know what I have to say, Brandy, If that 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:18.040 is the case, I love me a deformed many. 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:22.000 Hello. I married one and both my boys have dimples. 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:25.319 My son does too, like a dimple, Like I am 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:29.439 a sucker for a dimple, but I I yeah. 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:32.880 Okay, Susan, Brandy's gonna need our help if her main 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:36.280 feature for dating is a guy with the dimple, like 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.120 you and I we got. 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:42.959 To yeah, I'm honestly, like, I'm open. I don't have 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.520 a like I usually go for. I've never dated a 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:48.880 blonde guy like I usually go for a tall, dark 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:53.520 and handsome. Yes, like I'm open. I've dated a couple 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:55.559 of Jewish guys. I really, I really. 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:58.520 Like Jewish guys will treat you like a princess. 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:02.439 Yes, but I'm a and they'll never marry me. So 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:03.839 it's like, I don't know. 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:06.000 My father did oh. 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:07.320 Well, I mean that's rare. 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:08.280 It is. 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:11.400 Well, he had to first marry my mother and then 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:12.920 he was like, I don't care who she is, if 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:13.920 she's normal. 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:16.680 But at this stage of the game, at our ages, 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:19.240 who cares about the marriage part. You want somebody to 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:20.720 enjoy your life. 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:24.400 Yeah, the one that I love that like I could 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:27.160 have I was still in my thirties. It was after 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:31.640 my divorce. I could have, like I was, I loved him, 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:35.640 I would have like like you know, I don't know, 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:38.880 I think that it could have grown into something bigger. 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:41.320 But then he cheated on me and I had. 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:55.560 To go, I mean, you got I imagine you have 0:10:55.840 --> 0:11:01.199 trust issues around cheating, around cheating and around I'm cheating me. 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:06.360 Yes, And I think I've actually scarred my poor boys 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:13.880 because like they are like the biggest gentleman in the world. 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:18.880 And my eighteen year old he's in acting and you know, 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:21.240 he's in his acting classes. Any I said, you know what, 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:23.360 you know what? You know he has a girlfriend as well, 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:28.240 and I said, you know it's not natural, like for 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:32.560 it's really hard to date an actor. Is Maggie going 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:35.760 to be okay with that? And He's like, yeah, I 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:37.640 just can't do any love scenes. I'm like, well, you 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:39.200 need to quit acting right now. 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:41.720 Then I can't do any love scenes. 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:45.000 Yes, And I'm like, but wait a minute, how old 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:45.680 is this sun? 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:46.880 He's eighteen? 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.040 I mean, do you really think this is the one 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:50.720 he's going to end up with? You better hope not. 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:53.680 I am not saying a damn word about that. 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.959 Okay, well I can. I haven't met him. 0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:57.120 They might be listening. 0:11:58.200 --> 0:12:01.880 No, they really don't. Actually, they stop my social media. 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:04.400 They know more than I know, because I don't even 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:07.040 do my own social media. I'm someone that does it 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:11.160 for me because I'm not social right now. This is 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:15.959 kind of my first interview since like the doctor's. 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:18.240 Office and just are we more fun than pulling the 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:19.920 tooth or what? Yeah? 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:23.760 I mean, I mean the anethesia part with the boobs 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:26.320 was pretty fun. I'm not gonna lie until I got 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:28.959 nauseous and had to have the medicine. 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:31.520 Yes, yes, I love that. I call it the Michael 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:34.600 Jackson drug. I go the first time I ever had it, 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:37.440 it was like, do you have any of this to go? Right? 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:40.880 I just don't understand why they don't tell you about 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:43.920 stool softener. It's not to get you know, when I've 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:48.720 had no Seriously, when I had breast lift and faced 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:49.800 on like, they're like. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:51.480 Dear, you know, they don't tell you that. 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:53.720 I mean, I ended up in the hospital having animals 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:54.439 for God's sakes. 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:58.640 It's like it's I mean, I haven't had an issue, 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:02.000 but I didn't take like, I didn't take any pain 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:06.000 pills because they make me so ill. I mean too 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:08.960 they I can't take them. And honestly, it wasn't in pain. 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:11.920 It's just my arms are a little sore because he 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:14.160 had to scrape. He had to scrape my lymph. Notes. 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.560 Okay, when you're not do you go to the gym? 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:16.760 Like? 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.560 I know obviously right now you can. Are you a 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.760 gym rat? What do you do to work out when 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:22.040 you're no? 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:22.920 No, I walk round? 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:23.960 I have to coffee cup? 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:26.280 What about your favorite food? 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:29.480 Wait? You walk your dogs? That's your old exercise? 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:33.360 What I wear five pound ankle weights almost all day long, 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:34.200 every day. 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:35.720 That's called lunch for me. 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:40.440 No, like they really do. Because I did pilates for 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:43.200 thirteen years. I know, like like you know, after babies, 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:45.640 I could probably teach it at this point, but it 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:49.360 is so expensive. It's like, you know, one hundred dollars session. 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.360 I mean when you do privates because I have like 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:54.920 a back issue. You know, I have all these issues, 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:57.680 so I couldn't do the same as everyone else in 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:01.200 the class. So I you know, I did pilates. I 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:04.200 was a gymnast for nine years when I was young, 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:08.440 so I feel like I have muscle memory. So like 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:12.400 during COVID, I did gain twenty pounds and everyone including myself, 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:16.320 was in shock. I was like I didn't know I could. Like, 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:18.679 I was like, this is I mean crazy, And. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.520 Did you feel good? Did you feel good? No? 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:26.200 Because I gained my weight in my mid section only you. 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:29.160 Yeah. 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:32.120 I think it's hereditary, like my mom and my grandma 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:32.440 like that. 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:34.960 It's always after a menopause that's where they tend to 0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:37.480 put it. But here's the thing, men, here's the good 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:41.640 news for you, brandy. Men. I have found don't care 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:45.160 as you get older. Care about they do not care. 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:48.280 They like a little something something. I'm telling you men, 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:53.200 men say that all the time. Not all the time, 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:55.480 but a lot of times. Menals say to me, you're 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:58.200 too thin and I'm not and all my weights in 0:14:58.240 --> 0:14:58.760 my middle. 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:02.960 Well, well everyone right now is so mooty, delicious and 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:06.400 like everyone's all about like curves, and trust me, I 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:09.640 wish I had them. I paid for them and then 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:15.440 they exploded. So I'm like, okay, but I mean, I'm 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:18.240 happy with my body. I'm happy with my figure. I 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:20.720 have a little booty. It's cute. 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:24.200 See there's the confidence coming back right there. 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:28.560 You go there, I'm not like I've always felt lucky 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:35.160 to not have to work out for after babies. I 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:38.000 was like doing pilates because like pabic floor and all 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:38.760 that fun stuff. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:42.000 Yeah, but I'm going to tell you men, I'm telling 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:44.360 you I am older than you, and men like a 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:47.280 fit woman's a fit woman. So get back in the 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.880 gym and start doing pushups when you can. 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:50.800 When you can. 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:54.400 That's hard. No, she won't be doing them for a while. 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:55.880 I said, when you can. 0:15:56.640 --> 0:16:01.480 No, even when I'm not, I have like two pound pink. 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:04.720 Weights, Brandy, I try to do them off the bureau, Okay, 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:07.600 not on the floor working. 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:10.240 Out like I love a horizontal life, like I like, 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:13.600 walk on them, I walk on the beach, I like. 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:15.840 And you know what, she has no shortage of men, 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:18.320 and I work out. I am a gym rat and 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:19.400 I have a dearth of men. 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:21.800 So you know, all I want to say is I 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:24.720 don't know, but stop working out. 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:28.720 You have been It's a delight to meet you. You 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:32.400 have been so transparent both about your health and where 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:36.240 you are when it comes to love right now, and truly, 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:37.760 Susan and I are rooting for you. 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:40.480 You are fabulous. It's been a pleasure to meet you. 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:43.360 Oh thank you. I wish I had more like advice 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.960 for I mean, after my divorce I had if you guys, 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:50.000 get my first book, Drinking and Tweeting, all the advice you. 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:51.920 Need Drinking and Tweeting. 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:54.720 Yes, it's a New York Times number one bestseller. 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:56.760 Oh okay, my. 0:16:56.800 --> 0:17:00.520 Second one was the number nine best seller. Sorry to say, 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:05.480 but that one. Don't get that one is not helpful. 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.960 That was called drinking and Dating, which I realize now 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:13.320 when I read it back, I'm like, yeah, this is 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:17.040 not that's not gonna it's like like learn from my 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:18.359 Mistakes kind of book. 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:21.880 Okay, Okay, I want you to do one thing today 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:23.040 before you go to bed. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:24.720 Okay, I want. 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:28.760 You to look in the mirror and say, I am beautiful, 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:33.520 I am enough, and I'm beautiful and I am worth it. 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:38.160 Just any any iteration of those words every day, every day, 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:39.400 starting to day. 0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:41.479 If you're not going to do pushups for me, then 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:42.159 you got to do that. 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:45.560 I was excited the other day because I put like 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:49.600 this infrared like belt on and I like stood up 0:17:49.600 --> 0:17:52.399 and I was not looking at my body before, and 0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:55.960 I was like, my waist is snatched. I'm like humans, 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:57.360 no where to go. 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:00.360 Oh well you will, though, Brandy, you will. 0:18:00.960 --> 0:18:04.720 I think once I get my confidence up, I will 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:07.560 definitely be out like I have. All my friends they 0:18:07.880 --> 0:18:11.000 want to go out. I'm just I'm getting there. I 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:14.000 just need this ringing in my ear to stop so 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:25.000 that I can hear them. 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:27.520 I do have one question. You did mention that an 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:31.080 ex boyfriend ran into one of your sons and reached 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.800 out to you. What was that about? What was that like? 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:36.359 Do you have a plan to see them or make. 0:18:36.280 --> 0:18:37.359 A fat No? 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:41.480 Okay, best sex of my life and it's a big 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:44.119 fat no three years come. 0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:46.600 On, no, Like, yeah, no. 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:50.840 It was what I've done, possibly tortuous. 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:54.080 I'll just say that, you know what, this is where 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:56.360 the nights kicks and you don't have to listen to them, 0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:57.320 just do them. 0:18:58.160 --> 0:19:01.359 I can't understand them anyways. Friends, I'm like, oh, what 0:19:01.440 --> 0:19:03.240 are you saying? Shut up and do what you're doing. 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:04.440 I know all about that. 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:06.600 Are like Kathy, Yeah, yeah. 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:09.400 I love I love a European man. I do because 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:13.080 they're gentlemen. They open doors for you. Now like the guys, 0:19:13.160 --> 0:19:16.560 they just they don't do it, and I just I 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:17.600 don't want a gentleman. 0:19:18.640 --> 0:19:19.399 Everyone should. 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:22.480 Yeah, and then I get Homie throws me on the bed, 0:19:22.560 --> 0:19:23.440 and yeah. 0:19:23.440 --> 0:19:25.600 Then you can be rough, but in the meantime you're 0:19:25.600 --> 0:19:27.040 a gentleman exactly. 0:19:27.720 --> 0:19:29.920 Well, ladies, it was so good to meet you. And 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:33.560 I did watch the Golden Bachelor, but I like, my 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:37.200 brain is still fogged, but I do remember the one 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:39.720 lady that won, So I'm glad that you told her off. 0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:45.960 No, she's she's fine, she's fine. 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:49.680 You know, we love them all. Everybody's unique in their 0:19:49.720 --> 0:19:50.120