1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: First Date to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: Attorneys online. 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 2: At dot com. 4 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: Lauren is on the phone today for our first day 5 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sammy. 6 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: So in a few minutes we'll call him and Seefa 7 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: tells why is ghosting her and maybe get her another date. 8 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: But first, Lauren, how long has it been since you 9 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: heard from Sammy? 10 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: Oh it's been like a week or two. 11 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: Now. 12 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 3: Have you reached out to him in that time? 13 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I definitely have, although I don't think he 14 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: knows that I have. I'll probably have to explain that 15 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 2: to you a little bit a weird situation, okay, but 16 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm saying. It's that the date was 17 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: actually like amazing, and it's so rare that I meet 18 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 2: anyone's letters, you know, IRL or online where it's like 19 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 2: especially online to say, because you know, we'll text and 20 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 2: like I think that there could be a possibility of 21 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 2: that going somewhere, and then like, I don't know, we 22 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: meet up and it's just not what I expected. But 23 00:00:55,520 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: in this case, the text chemistry absolutely translated to real life. 24 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 2: We spent like several hours together wasn't just at one spot. 25 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 2: We were like kind of hopping all around one venue 26 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 2: to the next, and believe it or not, even I 27 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: got to know some of his friends and they came 28 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: awesome as well, And the night ended up at his place, 29 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: which I don't expect. But yeah, I know, you know 30 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 2: talk in the radio, so something happened at our you know, 31 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 2: PG thirteen rated R. So I stayed the night there 32 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 2: and then we decided to meet up for state number two, 33 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: which was just casual but so much fun, like downtown 34 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 2: after work, you know, not my neighborhood where I live, 35 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 2: but it was just a great time. 36 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 3: Did you go back with him after date number two? Too? 37 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: Well? I texted him and just got no response, like 38 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 2: I didn't know where he was, so sitting there like what. 39 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: And then after fifteen minutes I did something like I 40 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 2: never want to do, like the phone call like hey, 41 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: where are you? That sort of thing awkward. 42 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait wait, I'm sorry he disappeared in the 43 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 3: middle of your date. 44 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: No, I got there and he was nowhere to be found. 45 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 3: Oh got it? 46 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: Yeah again, I really think I like this guy. So 47 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: I'm like, normally, after fifteen minutes, I would just leave, like, Okay, 48 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 2: you're not going to waste my time. I don't even 49 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 2: know you, but I'm like, let me give the chance 50 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 2: that you never know, like what could have happened? Right, 51 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 2: So I call and I miss that My calls are 52 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 2: doing like the same thing every single time. It would 53 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 2: like ring twice and then go straight to voicemail. I 54 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 2: talked this up to like okay, he's in a bad 55 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: service area, that sort of thing, but it happened, I 56 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: want to say, like four times in a row. So 57 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: at that point I just was like, Okay, I'm gonna 58 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 2: go ahead and google, like how do I know if 59 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: someone's blocked me? Because I never could understand the answer 60 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: to this. But it's actually turns out it's really easy 61 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 2: to do that. Apparently, like you could just make your 62 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: number anonymous. Yeah, to block people can just. 63 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: To find out if you're locked or to be blocked, 64 00:02:59,120 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: to be blocked. 65 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 2: Okay, Like this was a lesson for me because like 66 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 2: apparently it's like if it brings more than twice before 67 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 2: the voicemail, that means you're blocked? 68 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 3: It does or does that mean you're getting sent to voicemail? 69 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: It's blocked? 70 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 3: So I mean, okay, either it's not okay. 71 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, well, I wow, this 72 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 2: sucks right, And I just went back to my car 73 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: and I was sulking there, like I couldn't even building 74 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 2: myself to drive home. I was still bummed out. 75 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 3: Oh that's really a number. I would be frustrated about that, 76 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 3: especially if you think the date went so well that's yeah, yeah, you. 77 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: Just want to know why. 78 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 3: Also, you're like, well, did you do something though, Like 79 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 3: if you think back to that first date, is there 80 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 3: any thing that could have happened that would cause the blocking? 81 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,119 Speaker 2: No? And I've asked myself that now, like up and down, 82 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 2: and I'm for me. I thought it was mutual, Like 83 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: you have this an insane chemistry that's super rare. That's 84 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 2: why I'm so disappointed. I can't come up with any 85 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 2: reason why. I like, you know, seeing some more to 86 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: less than you would ghost me, Like why wouldn't you 87 00:03:59,040 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: just say something? 88 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: Okay, well we'll try to figure it out for you. 89 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: Plus on come back and then call him and see 90 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: if you'll tell us why he's ghosting you. Okay, Okay, 91 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: thank you plas, I'll come back get your first day 92 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: follow up next. If you're just joining us for today's 93 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: First Day follow up. Lauren is on the phone and 94 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sammy. So in 95 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: a second, we're gonna call him. Seef'll tell us why 96 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if 97 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: she still wants one. But before we do that, Lauren, 98 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: why don't you catch us up on your situation? 99 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, basically, I had like two really nice dates 100 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 2: with this guy, and I went for date number three 101 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 2: and he was MI I A. And he has not 102 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 2: talked to me whatsoever. And I don't understand why I'm 103 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 2: being ghosted. 104 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: And you think you might be blocked even. 105 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, blocked me? Why I didn't take him for being 106 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 2: like So that's why I'm all right? 107 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:07,559 Speaker 1: You ready for us to call him? It's yeah, okay, 108 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: here we go. Hello him. I as speaking to Sammy. Please. 109 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, this is Sammy. What's up? This is Jewbel. 110 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: My name is Jewbel. I host a radio show. It's 111 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: called the Jubil Show. 112 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 3: How's it going, Sammy? The whole show's here. I'm Nina 113 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 3: Hi and I'm Victoria. 114 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 4: Oh Hi, Hi? 115 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 2: All right? 116 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: You ever listened to the show? 117 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 3: Uh? 118 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I've ever heard you guys on well, have. 119 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: You ever heard of first a follow up before. 120 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 2: I have? 121 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 4: I'm starting to get nervous here, But. 122 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: Don't be nervous because we're calling you because somebody did 123 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: send us an email about you, So maybe you'd be nervous. 124 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. But it's a segment where if you're 125 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: ghosting somebody, they can email us to get you on 126 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we 127 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: got an email about you from somebody. 128 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 4: Okay, I think a problem. Know who you're talking about? 129 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: Do you want to try to take a guess at 130 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: the name the Lauren? Yes, Sammy, you're correct. You've won 131 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: absolutely nothing. But Lauren, do you mind telling us why 132 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: you're ghosting her? 133 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 4: Oh? 134 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,239 Speaker 2: Man? All right? 135 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 4: Look, we we texted for a while. 136 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: It was great. 137 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 4: We meet for the date. Chemistry is there. She's really cool, 138 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 4: she's hot. Everything was good, and then at some point 139 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 4: the conversation turns around to like, you know, relationship stuff. 140 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 4: You know, we're just talking about like relationship things like 141 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 4: you know, we are you ever gonna have kids? Are 142 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 4: you ever gonna get well? I don't know whatever, you know, 143 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 4: just stuff like about relationship Okay, and At one point, 144 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 4: I asked her what her definition of cheating is If 145 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 4: a guy goes to a strip club, is that cheating 146 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 4: that sort of thing? You know what I mean? Yeah, 147 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 4: And let's just say that her perspective is pretty strict. 148 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 4: She said even watching adult movies was cheating. That to 149 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 4: me is like pretty extreme. 150 00:06:58,640 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 1: And nobody's gonna take that from you. 151 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 4: So you're saying, it's not like I watched it all 152 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 4: the time, but it is a part of my life 153 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,359 Speaker 4: and it is okay that I enjoyed. I don't know, 154 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 4: it just feels like that to me is not cheating. 155 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 4: You know, that's just like entertainment. 156 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 3: So did you have that conversation with her and like 157 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 3: express your concern with her line that she drew in 158 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 3: regards to adult film. 159 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 4: Oh, I mean I just kind of got awkward and 160 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 4: it kind of gave me the egg, you know what 161 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 4: I mean. And it's just weird. 162 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 3: I gave you an Okay, that's that's new. 163 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean I don't want to be a cheater, 164 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 4: like if we got together, like I'd be cheating on 165 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 4: her all the time. You know. It's like she can 166 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 4: feel however she wants to feel, and that's totally fine, 167 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 4: but I just kind of realized, like maybe this wasn't 168 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 4: like a long term thing, and I maybe I should 169 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 4: have said something I didn't. I mean, this happened in 170 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 4: like the first forty five minutes of the date, and 171 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: it was like four hours long, and like you know, 172 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 4: you know, she spent the night and it was great, 173 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 4: you know, that was fun. But the whole time I 174 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 4: was just kind of this is in the back of 175 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 4: my mind, and I just I mean, what do you 176 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 4: say to that, you say, like, wait a minute, I 177 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 4: gotta watch don't move. 178 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 3: I feel like I would want to get to the 179 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 3: bottom of it and kind of understand why that was 180 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 3: such a hard line for somebody. Yeah, because I think 181 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 3: we asked those questions in the beginning of a date, 182 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 3: whether it's about the adult film or just like do 183 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 3: you want to get married, but like to understand where 184 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 3: the person comes from, and sometimes that's sometimes that sparks 185 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 3: a conversation that helps the other person see where you're 186 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 3: coming from and you can change your mind a little bit. 187 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 3: She might have been into it if she was like, 188 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 3: it's not cheating if you watch it with me, No. 189 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: Can I just say something right now? It is absolutely 190 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 2: textbook cheating, like no matter who we've watching it with. 191 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 4: Oh, Sammy, wait a minute, Lauren, Wait, Lauren's here. 192 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: Yes, that's Lauren. She's on the phone listening and wants 193 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 1: to talk to you. 194 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 4: Oh man, oh man. 195 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. And I came here to get answers. This was 196 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: not one I was expecting to get of all the 197 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: reasons that could be. But you know, like I have 198 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 2: sort of I'm wondering, like why he was so like 199 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 2: animated during sect And I'm like, maybe he was mimicking 200 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 2: a performance like he had. And you've experienced watching these tutorials, 201 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 2: if you will, you see it can be a good thing. 202 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, And you know, while we're putting everything 203 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 2: out on the table right now, I just want to 204 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 2: ask something like, you know, we went on two dates, 205 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 2: so there was a little bit of time in between, 206 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: you know, Gate one and date two. So what were 207 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: you doing during that time? Were you spending your time 208 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 2: like prepping, you know, watching all these videos cheating? You know, 209 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 2: what were you doing? 210 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I watched some videos in between. 211 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 2: That's the movie people do. Okay, So the gist of 212 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 2: it is you were cheating on me. 213 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 4: We weren't experiences we'd gone on a date. What are 214 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 4: you talking about? 215 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: You know this is cheating again types books cheating. It 216 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 2: should just be between two people. It's to me, it's 217 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: no different than cheating, swinging, watching for it's all the 218 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 2: same group, it all together and hearing had like thinking 219 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 2: that you're amazing. But it turns out I almost been 220 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 2: blinded by something because you could not even stay faithful 221 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 2: to me for two dates. 222 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, look, it wasn't like a watching videos 223 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 4: of girls that looked like you. I was watching videos 224 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 4: of like other types of matter what they look like. Lauren, 225 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 4: we went on two dates. We it's not like we 226 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 4: were engaged. Like, this is wild to me. 227 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 2: Really, you're forgetting in those four Actually it was six 228 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 2: hours that we spent together, not four like you said. 229 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 2: I guess you're forgetting half the things you said to 230 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 2: me during that day. But it's cool, it's fine. 231 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 4: I mean I didn't make commitments and I'm am I 232 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 4: in single white female right now? What's going on? 233 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: Is that another video kind of yeah. 234 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 4: About a crazy girl. I'm scared. I don't know this 235 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 4: is wild, man. 236 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 2: I really don't think you would be acting pretty, nor 237 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: think you'd be pretty crazy if you just found out 238 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 2: you got cheated on too, okay, buddy, if you came. 239 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 4: To me and said, hey, I was watching a bunch 240 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 4: of porn this week, I'd be like, hell, yeah, look 241 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 4: I didn't cheat on you. We weren't together, we went 242 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 4: on two days. This is not okay. 243 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: You can come up with an excuse, have vers, you 244 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 2: try to like, you know, floss it all over and 245 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 2: whatever you want to say, but like, you're a cheater 246 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 2: and I do not ever want to see you again. 247 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 1: Well I haven't asked, Sammy. Would you like to go 248 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: on another day with Lauren? Will pay for it? 249 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 3: Uh? 250 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 4: No, I would like to log into my internet and 251 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 4: watch some art films now, Thank you very much? 252 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 2: Suh Okay. I think that's really just proved my point 253 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 2: that I've been talking about with my friends, like every 254 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 2: single guy out there is a cheater in some way, 255 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 2: shape or form. 256 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 3: I don't know that's a good way to put it. 257 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 4: But sure, all right, Lauren, you know I nobody asked 258 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 4: you to talk 259 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 2: You first date, follow up,