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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, Hello, we are back back bagging the back

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Speaker 2: back back by that bat back bye bye bye bye bye.

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Speaker 3: We're back.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Marie, mm hmmm, and you're supposed to say hey Sidney,

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Speaker 2: Oh hey Sydney.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, okay, hello lovers.

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Speaker 2: We got so much great feedback from last episode.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna do it again with.

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Speaker 2: Just us, just us, just the two of us, two

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Speaker 2: of us.

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Speaker 1: We make feature just the two of us, and and

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Speaker 1: and Andrew as well.

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Speaker 4: I'm here as well.

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Speaker 1: Hello today, Andrew, you're wearing glasses today? Do you uctually

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Speaker 1: have contact lenses?

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Speaker 4: I usually have contact lenses, and it's like, there's a

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Speaker 4: problem with my eye. It's and it's said that you think,

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Speaker 4: I no, not pink eye.

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Speaker 2: It was just I don't know, it's Marie. Why would

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Speaker 2: you think that Andrew, a gay man, has pink eye.

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Speaker 2: That's homophobic?

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Speaker 1: You know, it's because people, Yeah, it's homophobica for you

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Speaker 1: to call it homophobia, that is homophobia, right.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I can't do a gay on gay crime, honey,

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Speaker 2: So that's not happening.

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Speaker 1: You actually can, babe. That's how it was just recorded.

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Speaker 2: You actually, just if you run the tapes back, it's

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Speaker 2: because I'm calling out homophobia, not because it's.

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Speaker 1: Actually because you're homophobic.

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Speaker 2: You just know it's actually because I am not homophobic,

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Speaker 2: and I know, my goodish. What I'm hearing is the

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Speaker 2: homophobia lies within you.

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Speaker 3: You you you.

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Speaker 2: First of all thefected.

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Speaker 1: First of all, first of all, you think you think

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Speaker 1: you think only gave people could get pinker.

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Speaker 2: No, that bitch, bitch, bitch, that's crazy that you would

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Speaker 2: even come in my face and come in my good

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Speaker 1: The bullshot, come in Andrew's faces. How he had to

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Speaker 1: take you bring it back, bitch.

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Speaker 2: See, this is why we're starting off real hot already.

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Speaker 3: I'm loving it.

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Speaker 4: I feel like the homophobia lies within is a good

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Speaker 4: episode title.

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Speaker 2: Strong. He starts so strong in this family. His family

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Speaker 2: is so fucking strong. The way it's built, it's built

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Speaker 1: Okay, this family is stronger than a Tyler Perry movie

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Speaker 1: family that has made it to the end of the

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Speaker 1: film and is crying together and hugging each other.

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Speaker 2: I would I wouldn't even recall of Tyler Perry family

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Speaker 2: being strong because something is always going down.

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Speaker 1: Right, and then at the end they're like at the

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Speaker 1: funeral or at the bakery or at the church scene

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Speaker 1: when the choir is, you know, you're doing the Millie Rock.

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Speaker 1: That's when they like they realize that they need each other.

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Speaker 1: Mind you, I've I haven't watched the tip Parent movie

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Speaker 1: in forever. And also this is the second week in

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's a there's a role coming for

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Speaker 1: And it's me and Tyler Perry in a really bad wig.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, yeah, sure, we'd love to see it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, a sheck is a sheck.

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Speaker 3: A sheck, A sheck is a sheck.

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Speaker 2: Shekels on my feet.

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Speaker 1: That's sck spelled with a que.

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Speaker 2: Shekels on my feet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Andrew's giving Sexy Librarian today, thank you. Sydney's

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Speaker 1: giving love and hip hop beheaded to the reunion pre makeup.

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Speaker 1: You got that bonnet on sis, it's giving uh basketball.

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Speaker 2: Wives, rolling my eyes, thank you. Well, the thing is

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Speaker 1: Which you're still there. So it's not back back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still here, guys, and so it's quite early

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Speaker 1: It's twelve eighteen. It's noon here. It's nine o'clock in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and yet Sidney, you're the one bringing the most

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Speaker 1: What I will it's reminiscent of a crackhead.

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Speaker 1: But a loyalty to the addicts.

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Speaker 1: You had a red Bull for breakfast?

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Speaker 2: I did not, Marie, I actually didn't. I went to bed. No, no,

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Speaker 2: We've been going to bed like around like eleven, ten

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Speaker 2: And she had to go to the DMV again today, Yes, exactly.

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Speaker 2: And I just don't understand why the DMV is such

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Speaker 2: I was in and out. I will say that was what.

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Speaker 1: I think there's this there's a Broad City episode where

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's not good.

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Speaker 2: People don't people know not to go there. But that's

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Speaker 2: when I tell you, I wanted to shoot myself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, babe, what does one do at the Social Security Office?

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Speaker 1: This is sounding like you are in your early sixties.

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Speaker 1: What were you doing at the Social Security.

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Speaker 2: Because I lost I lost my all my inform I had,

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Speaker 2: like threw all my stuff away. I was drunk and

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Speaker 2: just threw my whole wallet everything. Way, did you lose

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Speaker 2: everything in the fire, No, bitch, I was drunk and

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Speaker 2: I had stuff in my wallet and I threw it

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Speaker 2: guard in their Why do you have that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Look at me and Andrew's faces. Never even seen

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Speaker 2: I think social Security in my dare wallet. That's also

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Speaker 1: No, that's for the boomers.

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Speaker 2: I am so exhausted from you too. AnyWho. Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: anytime you go to the DMV or Social Security Office

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Speaker 3: You're gonna be miserable. So I just I'm like, how

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Speaker 1: I think it's because a lot of these people are underpaid,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know they gotta wear them? Do they

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Speaker 2: Well, the thing about being underpaid is, honey, we're all underpaid.

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Speaker 1: That's not true. Some of us are not underpaid, not

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Speaker 2: Well, those people are not listening to this fucking podcast.

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Speaker 2: We're talking.

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Speaker 3: We're speaking for the people who listen.

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Speaker 1: To us, right, But you can't say most people are underpaid.

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Speaker 1: Most government jobs, like low level government jobs, are underpaid.

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Speaker 2: Are firefighters underpaid?

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Speaker 1: Some of them are volunteer, they don't even get paid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. You want to catch me. Couldn't be me, Sis,

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Speaker 2: couldn't be me.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, I'm gonna wait in the truck.

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Speaker 3: But I volunteer to turn the water on for the hosts.

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Speaker 1: I'll do that right right, I'll water du Yeah inside.

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Speaker 3: No, in a fire a whole one.

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Speaker 2: Nah, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'll put the outfit on and take pictures in front

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Speaker 2: You know what, I would volunteer at the firehouse, you know,

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Speaker 2: like when they want a couple cup of noodles, I'll

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Speaker 2: heat them up for them. You know, I'm not cleaning up.

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Speaker 2: I'll turn the TV on. Oh I like cookies, I'll

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Speaker 2: make some cookies. But like, yeah, sid.

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Speaker 1: Can cook at the firehouse. Yeah, you would have. You

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Speaker 1: would burn the fire. Hurry.

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Speaker 3: Why are you so fucking funny, bitch?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I I mean, Sidney, if we do the math, you

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Speaker 1: got like ten hours of sleep too. You got a

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Speaker 1: lot of sleep. Twelve thirty to what time you got up?

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Speaker 2: Don't do that. Don't do that. I got up ten

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Speaker 2: minutes before the podcast, so nine eight point fifty, Sydney,

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Speaker 2: you got nine hours of sleep last night. And that's

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Speaker 2: why I'm on, bitch, So what's the problem.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying, like you're like, I woke up

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Speaker 2: Hours, is what I'm saying. I am underpaid and underappreciated.

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Speaker 1: I think you got somebody that's appreciating you pretty thermoally

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Speaker 2: Less you know it's not lonely. Our emails. Some people

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Speaker 1: Us, Marie, people have emails.

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Speaker 2: Let's fucking get in there, bitch. Marie is really great

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, my god, Maria.

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Speaker 1: be cool. Okay. This email is long. Okay, wow, so

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Speaker 4: Damn well, you see the one paragraph that starts with

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, we don't have to read the miss

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Speaker 2: That was a great episode classics.

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Speaker 1: Suffice to say, we love it to babe. Okay, Now

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Speaker 1: to the main topic of this email. I would like

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Speaker 2: Look, I was like our good sis who's reading this

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Speaker 1: You should stay where you're at, babe, because you know

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's a lot going on there. What do you

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Speaker 1: I'm at a point in my life where I have

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Speaker 1: All those things are not perfect by any means. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: what Andrew? What's this email?

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Speaker 2: Did you?

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Speaker 4: All those things are not perfect by any means for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, I was, do you really listen

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Speaker 1: Goodfriend girl? Why are you listening to this podcast? You

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Speaker 1: got to listen to something else, like the The Nightline

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Speaker 1: as blunt and honest as I would like honest advice.

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Speaker 1: I am attractive and almost regularly replied to only a

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Speaker 3: Well, I love this comfort dance baby a lot?

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Speaker 1: Okay, A lot of people bore me. I am mixed

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Speaker 1: Let's get the rest of the dating profile. I am

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Speaker 1: a clearer academic. Yeah you are. I can challenge most

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Speaker 4: Ye.

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Speaker 1: I cook? Well, okay, I can iron, I can dance.

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Speaker 3: Is that what the question is?

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Speaker 2: I don't think you listen into the right podcast, because

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Speaker 1: Mm I think that what you need to do is travel.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But the black men in New York are different than

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Speaker 3: Come on over to USA, Come on over to Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: So you like people who speak in slang and misspelled

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you got to move here, Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: Wear your good years out with somebody rich.

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Speaker 2: So like you, you have culture, and you have money

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Speaker 1: So right, right, that's that's the advice for your friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And also you never sent a photo, you're right,

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Speaker 4: Name, Uh, Cassander.

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Speaker 2: Gole, I'm gonna call you Cassie. Cassie, if you are listening,

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what Sis was saying, she should be on

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Speaker 1: That's too speaking that too. Send us a real with

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Speaker 2: And also, if you like women, I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: I don't think that she likes women, just based on

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Speaker 2: I know what the email sent, but I'm just saying like,

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Speaker 1: Okay, love that for.

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Speaker 2: You, all right?

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Speaker 1: Well, and that's it. That was our first Uh, and

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Speaker 1: honestly flawlessly handled email with beds we love.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we have another. We have another email from our

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Speaker 2: good old Jesse. Hey Andrew and Marie. Hey Sidney. Oh

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Speaker 2: that's a weird way to break it up.

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Speaker 4: Hey Andrew, Marie, exclamation point, Hey Sydney.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how that feels. Okay. I got out

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Speaker 2: out into the dating scene. Earlier this year, I was

442
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 2: seeing a guy from Grinder. Okay, Jesse's gay. Oh that's

443
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 2: why they said hey Andrew first, because there it's a

444
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 2: gay man.

445
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 3: We went on two dates, right right, Yeah, we went

446
00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 3: on two dates, both of.

447
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: Which he he initiated no sex slash intimacy. It was

448
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 2: kind of on me to set up the third date,

449
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: but I didn't do it. He's a nice guy and cute,

450
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 2: but I, for some reason didn't feel motivated. That was

451
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 2: like two months ago. Since then, he has tapped me

452
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 2: four times on Grinder. Andrew will know.

453
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 1: No, Sandrew will so tap. That's like a reminder, like

454
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: a hey, hey house.

455
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 4: It's like it's like a message, but like it's like

456
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 4: a poke on Facebook. It's just to let you know, like, Hey,

457
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 4: imber a poke on Facebook.

458
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 2: I miss I missed the poking.

459
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,360
Speaker 1: I missed poking too, but not on Facebook.

460
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 2: Okay, work, Okay, no texting or messaging, just tapping. This

461
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 2: is kind of hot to me because I basically rejected

462
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 2: him and he's kind of still pursuing me, so he

463
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 2: must really be into me. Question Mark. Also, I kind

464
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 2: of want to just suck his dick. Any advice should

465
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 2: I ask him out? Or has it been too long?

466
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 2: Love you guys? Jesse from Indiana? Okay, Jesse from Indiana.

467
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 2: You are and we love you.

468
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: No, Jesse, you are not talking. You are Jesse. Next

469
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 1: time you TX taps, you, pops, you whatever, don't ask

470
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: them on another date. Just can I suck your dick?

471
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: Question Mark A. I honestly that all you got to do.

472
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: Yes, I disagree, that's hot.

473
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: Do that and then you don't ever have to see

474
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 1: me again if you.

475
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: Don't want to once the last time you just text somebody, Hey,

476
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 2: I just want to suck your dick. That's not happening.

477
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 2: Do you know who I am? When?

478
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: When? When? Why would I text anybody that I want

479
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: to suck their dick. I don't want to suck their dicks. Hey,

480
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: I want to sit on your face. I've texted people,

481
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: I've texted people things like that. But if what you

482
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: want and what is turning you on is the sex part,

483
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 1: then you're clearly not into this person. Like dating wise,

484
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: you just got out of a four year thing. This

485
00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 1: is going to be a rebound. So rebound like the

486
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: hole that you want to be, and then when you're

487
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: ready to stop doing that, you can meet somebody that

488
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: you actually want to talk to. What is your advice,

489
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 1: Sydney about toxicity?

490
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 2: I mean it seems like, well, when you said that

491
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 2: he's nice, when anybody says nice, that means I'm not

492
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 2: really feeling you, and that's your initial thing. It's like

493
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 2: I'm not you're nice, like you're not a bad person,

494
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 2: but like you're all right, you're not really what it is?

495
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 1: So what's the problem.

496
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 2: The problem is is that now all of a sudden,

497
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 2: because you rejected him now and he's still into you,

498
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 2: you like that. That's weird.

499
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, that's like, that's not weird.

500
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 2: That is weird.

501
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: It's not weird. We like when people like us and

502
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 1: sometimes when people like us, we like them less because.

503
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 3: We're like and that's toxic.

504
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: It's not toxic, it's human nature. It's human nature to

505
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: want people to like you. And sometimes when someone is

506
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: too into you, you're likeugh. Also, two months have passed

507
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: since they hung out. You know, I don't like you,

508
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: but you're still poking me. That means you want to

509
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: poke me in real life, it's not about a relationship

510
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: or a connection. This person is horny too, and he

511
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: didn't say he wanted he wants to provide him a service.

512
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: I just want to suck his dick.

513
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: Do it.

514
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: Be a good person and suck that dug.

515
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 2: But he only wants to suck his dick because he's like, Oh,

516
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 2: I rejected you and you still want me.

517
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: Okay, But it's not babe. I understand what you're trying

518
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: to say here. I understand where you think you're going here.

519
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 1: But this person rejected you and still wants to suck

520
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: your like let them do that.

521
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 2: And I said he can do that, But I'm also like,

522
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 2: that's toxic behavior.

523
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: I don't think that. And what do you think?

524
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 4: I think I'm with Sidney Moore here? Actually, I just

525
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 4: I think that this other person that is pursuing Jesse

526
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 4: might be a little like unwell, if they're not getting

527
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 4: the message across that like it wasn't a date that

528
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 4: went well and they shouldn't like pursue it further. So

529
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 4: I think that if it does sound like a good

530
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 4: idea for like Jesse to get just so go suck

531
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 4: his dick, but like I think that like the guy

532
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 4: would just be so obsessed with like, oh my god,

533
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 4: attention from Jesse, and it would just be taken to

534
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 4: the next level. And it's like you don't want to.

535
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: But that's what the black button is for. Also, restraining

536
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: orders are I think easy, get maim stop.

537
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 3: All of your advice is new man.

538
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: You get you a little Kevin Costner bodyyard and cool

539
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: it a day.

540
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 2: Then the next email, Hey, guys, I'm emailing you from

541
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 2: a bush that I'm hiding because you know, you know

542
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: that man that I sucked his dick, Now he's.

543
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 3: Following me everywhere?

544
00:28:55,680 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 2: What should I do? Love you guys, But Jesse from Indiana.

545
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: But I understand that. But he didn't say that the

546
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: guy is stalking him or shown up at his work.

547
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: He said, but it's like this guy came on grinder

548
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: four times.

549
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 4: This guy is taking the time out of his day

550
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 4: to like continuously pursue It doesn't even matter that it's

551
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 4: a tap. It's like you were continuously pursuing someone that

552
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 4: it just didn't go well with. So it's like, why

553
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 4: are you doing that?

554
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 2: It's a tap.

555
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: It's like, just did it, yes, But they didn't say

556
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: that the dates didn't go well. They said the person

557
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: was nice, and they it was on them to set

558
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,239
Speaker 1: up the third date, and they just never did it.

559
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 4: No. But there's a reason that Jesse's not like he's

560
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 4: he's not feeling great about it. He doesn't want to

561
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 4: do it.

562
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: Jesse doesn't want a man. Jesse just wants to suck

563
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: some pain.

564
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 4: I don't know if this guy's.

565
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 3: All right, Dan, Jesse, didn't you just go on in

566
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 3: the street. Did you know how many people want to

567
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 3: get there? DICKSI get like, you don't have to get

568
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 3: this person this person.

569
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 4: Right, but I don't know how much options.

570
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 3: Indiana, Jesse, you didn't send us a picture.

571
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 2: Hey, moving forward, if you guys ever send us email,

572
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: you should just slide on a photo or just give

573
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 2: us your Instagram handle so we can check you out.

574
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: That would really be helpful, preferably in high res.

575
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't want hate pixelated photos.

576
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 3: That's not not the bee's knees.

577
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: Babe, don't take a picture of the pictures uploaded into

578
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: your scanner and then send no.

579
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and don't send us a photo of all four

580
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: of your friends and you somewhere in there, like I

581
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 2: don't want to be looking, you know, duck duck goose

582
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 2: to figure out who's Jessey from Indiana.

583
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: And if your collar is popped in the photo, we

584
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: will roast you. Not sure why it would be popped

585
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: if you listen to this here podcast, But you.

586
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 2: Know, I think moving forward in twenty twenty one, do

587
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: as you say and say as you do. Like, if

588
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 2: you want to hook up with somebody, message him say hey,

589
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 2: I'm interested. There is no like, stop the tapping, the poking.

590
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: They're like, i'mna like twenty of your photos in two

591
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 2: minutes like that. It's just we've already been through so much.

592
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 2: If you want something, go and get it, and if

593
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 2: they reject you, then let it go.

594
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: Right, you gotta let it go. But also you have

595
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: to do what you do intentionally.

596
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 2: Yep.

597
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: If you just want to hook up with somebody. You

598
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: gotta be intentional about that hook up. Yep, Hey you're cool.

599
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm not ready for a relationship.

600
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like you, dick.

601
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 1: If that's what it is, that's what it is. If

602
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: you want more, if you want a relationship, if you

603
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: are looking for your husband or your future wife or whatever,

604
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: then you gotta be intentional in how you date and

605
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: who you date. Because telling people that you want to

606
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: be in a relationship and then they're like, well, I'm

607
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: not really into that, but we'll see that person is

608
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: not being intentional with you. Don't let them waste your time.

609
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 2: Yep. And also stop thinking that you're gonna change people's mind.

610
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: Oh I'm gonna wear them down, like they don't want

611
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 2: a relationship yet. No, bitch, they didn't told you no,

612
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: they don't want no relationship. So stop trying to think like, oh,

613
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 2: I you know, I got it in the pobblem hands. No,

614
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 2: because then you got a year later and you're like,

615
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 2: I wonder why they haven't asked me to be serious yet.

616
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 2: They're playing games, No, babe, you're playing yourself. They're not

617
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: playing games. You're playing yourself. That's a great title.

618
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, yourself I mean, I don't like

619
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: that more than the other two that we Okay, well,

620
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: I say, but you know right down, you're playing yourself. Sure, okay,

621
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: games play yourself or whatever. It's something like that what

622
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: she said. But yeah, Sidney, I agree with that. I

623
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: think that you know, we at this point have survived

624
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: a global pandemic, and coming out of this, I feel

625
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: like we had a lot of time to reflect on

626
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: who we are and what we've done and what we want. So, like,

627
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 1: you know you, nobody knows you better than you know you.

628
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 2: Yep.

629
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: So if something isn't doesn't align with how you feel

630
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: or making you feel good or whatever whatever.

631
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 2: Just stop, yep.

632
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: But also speak on it because you know, I had

633
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: to block somebody recently with.

634
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,959
Speaker 2: All caps all caps blocks.

635
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: It was but it was like he was sending me

636
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: blocks of text and I was like, I'm not reading

637
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: any of this. I don't have anything to read this.

638
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: I don't care. And when I told him I didn't care,

639
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: he was like, you do care because I care, and

640
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't care either.

641
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 2: Don't have that stops.

642
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,239
Speaker 1: But my only regret in that blockation situation is that

643
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: I did not properly curse this person out.

644
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 2: But what but why why why do you need to

645
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 2: curse people out? You're like, your point is you're moving on,

646
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 2: you know, I think that is. I think that's the

647
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 2: last word you moved in.

648
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: But the word could have been a little bit more mean.

649
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: First of all, this person called me mean in the

650
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: last conversation that we had, and I was like, I

651
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 1: literally have been the nicest that I could possibly be

652
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: to this person that I could have, Like, I agreed

653
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: nicest to him.

654
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: I agree nicest, I will say, as someone who's known

655
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 2: you for I don't know seven years now, that's what

656
00:33:58,040 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

657
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 1: And it was like, so, if you gonna call me,

658
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: I should have just been mean when he said that,

659
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: But I just I didn't even I didn't even have

660
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: it in me to do that. But like, if I

661
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: had been true to myself, then I would have destroyed

662
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: his feelings and then I would have blocked him so

663
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 1: we could never speak to me again.

664
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 2: Okay, well you have the floor analysis without being too specific,

665
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 2: what's something that you would have said, Like, I am

666
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 2: that person, what would you have said to me?

667
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,240
Speaker 1: I'm not actually, I'm having actually a really good morning

668
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: and I'm not coming from a place of positivity.

669
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 2: Okay, good, that's great.

670
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: We have it in me to say any of those

671
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:34,720
Speaker 1: things to you, Sydney.

672
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,919
Speaker 2: But well that's because you love me, right.

673
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: But I mean, I guess at one time I loved him.

674
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 2: Too, so there's also wow.

675
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: But you know, sometimes you have to really love somebody

676
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: to then really hate them, right. Love can turn into hate.

677
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 1: So that's something that we see on TV all the time.

678
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: We've be seeing it in the movies. We've been seeing

679
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 1: it on the documentaries where people murder their wives or whatever. Yeah, anyway, whatever,

680
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 1: That's not what I wanted to talk about. I just

681
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: think if you feel something and it's something that like

682
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 1: you either go to sleep thinking about or wake up

683
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: thinking about, then that means that that that's that's what

684
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: you feel. And sometimes you just gotta tell the person

685
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: that you're with or the people that you're dating, exactly

686
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: how you feel so they know that they can't waste

687
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: your time.

688
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,720
Speaker 2: You know, and without me being too specific about something,

689
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 2: another thing, people can't read your mind. If someone has

690
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 2: hurt your feelings or have done something that you don't like,

691
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:40,959
Speaker 2: you should tell them. You can't just let other people like, hey,

692
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:44,240
Speaker 2: I think such and such is mad at you because

693
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 2: X Y and Z. We are too grown. We are

694
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 2: too grown. Just tell them what happened. Hey, you hurt

695
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: me when you did blah blah blah when you said

696
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: X Y and Z this made me feel this way.

697
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: I mean, these are I don't know why I'm acting

698
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 2: like a thing therapists now, but you know, these are

699
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 2: these are ways that you can open up a conversation,

700
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 2: for a dialogue for things to be solved.

701
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 3: If you don't tell someone you're hurt, how will they know.

702
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: How will they know? They'll never know?

703
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 2: How will they know?

704
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: So you're gonna know.

705
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 2: So moving forward, I want y'all to work on that.

706
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 2: Communication on communication.

707
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: Is key, but also I mean, yes, I feel like

708
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: that's the only way that we should ever live our lives. Like,

709
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 1: you gotta be honest about what you feel, because if

710
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: you're not, Like if someone's like, oh theyd, I pish

711
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: you off and you say no, but you're mad, like that's.

712
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 2: You, it's you problem, that's you.

713
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 3: Now you have to work on that.

714
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 1: Right because they're gonna keep doing that thing that pitched

715
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 1: you off, that you didn't tell them pitched you off.

716
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, people are not mind readers. You really

717
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 2: have to just say that over and over and over again.

718
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: Like people, some people are literally living in a bubble,

719
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 2: and like Marie's living, Marie, Marie is living. She's not

720
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 2: thinking about She's not thinking about every little single thing

721
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 2: that she said or did, so like I have to Yeah,

722
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 2: she smokes copious amounts of weed, so like crazy, Yeah,

723
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 2: she's edibled out. And so sometimes I have to say, hey, Marie,

724
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 2: you know you hurt me when you know you didn't

725
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 2: say I love you back, and She'll she'll laugh and

726
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 2: be like, girl, shut up, you know I hate you.

727
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 2: And then I'll be like, that's Marie. I take her

728
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 2: as she is. This is church you. Yeah. Amen, Amen, Amen,

729
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 2: my sister, my good sis.

730
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 1: Love youllelujah in the saying shit way.

731
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:49,799
Speaker 2: Okay, So I think last week we talked about, you know,

732
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 2: leaving my cats in the house.

733
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: We talked about leaving your cats in a car with

734
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: the window cracked open. We did do that, and he

735
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: said that's illegal, and I said it's not.

736
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 2: I'm wondering, Marie, would you ever, Well, you're not a

737
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: you're not an animal person. The problem is is that

738
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 2: I'm surrounded around people who can do without animals. You know,

739
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 2: I have to get I have to get Carolina on

740
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 2: the line.

741
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: But get Carolina on the line.

742
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 2: If I get Carolina on the line, she'll just be like,

743
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 2: I don't know her. Her cat is her everything now.

744
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 2: I remember when she didn't have any animals and now

745
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 2: she does and it's like her whole instant stories is

746
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,959
Speaker 2: her cats and her husband and her cats.

747
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:37,479
Speaker 1: As a cat I.

748
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: Mean, honestly, truly, yeah, But I'm just have people. People

749
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 2: get pets and the pets become a part of their

750
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:51,839
Speaker 2: family and then you.

751
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: You know, you're attached to your your pet. Now, a

752
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: pet is not the same thing as a child. Now

753
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: some people think that and those people are what unwell

754
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 1: who think it is the same or who is not

755
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 1: the same thing it's the same, and those people are unwell, Well,

756
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: I don't know, Sidney. We be on the phone and

757
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: you'd be like, I'm saying I had a tea ta Marie,

758
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: and I'm like, girl, that is not my niece, Please

759
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 1: get that cat out of my face. And you're like, like,

760
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 1: that's a conversation with another Another segment is Marie, what

761
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 1: would you do so Marie if like, say, for instance,

762
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 1: I was.

763
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 2: Displaced. I was displaced for.

764
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 1: I'm always trying to move in with me on this.

765
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 4: Podcast, you're just guising as a segment.

766
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is this is another Marie. What would you

767
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: do if.

768
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 2: What you do if I was at home? Real?

769
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: Because he's hungry and the only way to feed him,

770
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,359
Speaker 1: mister sleep with a man for a little.

771
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 2: Bit of money. Well, Sydney, what would you do if

772
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 2: I was displaced and I was like, I have nowhere

773
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 2: to go, and I but I have my cats? Can

774
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 2: we stay with you? You know I'm not letting y'all

775
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: stay with me. You would be like, you know, I'm

776
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 2: not letting you stay with me? Okay, you would break

777
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:13,399
Speaker 2: us up.

778
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want anyone. I don't want

779
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:21,720
Speaker 1: a third of y'all to stay here. So not the cat,

780
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: not Jelly, not jam I'm not Sidney. I mean Sidney.

781
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,959
Speaker 1: You can stay for like a day, a weekend, don't

782
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: do that. I live in a small, one bedroom. You

783
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 1: can see my whole house from this zoom screen. So

784
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: that but also if you were displaced, you can't stay

785
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: with Carolina and her cats all trio.

786
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,760
Speaker 2: Well that's it. That's we're just saying, like, if I'm displaced,

787
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 2: that means the whole building was burned down.

788
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 5: Oh burnt down?

789
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 4: No?

790
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 2: No?

791
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 1: No, are you plotting and scheming on yo?

792
00:40:58,600 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 4: No?

793
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: On the record.

794
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 2: Why do I hate y'all?

795
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 4: So obviously a building burned down?

796
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: You said, if I'm displaced, that means obviously the building

797
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: is on the volunteer firefighters all over the building. So

798
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 1: you're so that question is not really the question that

799
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: you wanted to ask, though, I feel like you got

800
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:25,799
Speaker 1: to ask it different.

801
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 2: Andrew. Yes, if I had nowhere to go and it

802
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: was just me and my two cats, would you take

803
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 2: us in?

804
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 4: I think what we need to understand is is that

805
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 4: there are certain friends for certain situations. And I think

806
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 4: that Sydney, I feel like you're asking these questions. You

807
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 4: know what the answer is going to be from both

808
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 4: of us.

809
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 3: But what's the question. What's the answer?

810
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 2: Andrew? I don't I truly don't know.

811
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 1: Is hell No, it's going to be no.

812
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 4: It's going to be no. I would like if if

813
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 4: you were really up with and I would, but I

814
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 4: know that you have you, you would not be coming

815
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 4: to me first.

816
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, if she's coming to you, that means everybody else

817
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:09,280
Speaker 1: already said.

818
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 4: No, oh okay, then.

819
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 2: She's coming to you. Andrew.

820
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: That means how long?

821
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 4: How long until.

822
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 2: You're like, I need a date over you to get

823
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:23,959
Speaker 2: the fuck out.

824
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: He's thrown up a contract before you, before you set

825
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: your bag.

826
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 3: It's clear that people don't want to take in a

827
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 3: woman and cats.

828
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 2: It's women and children, not women children and cats.

829
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: Since if you had kids, I definitely wouldn't take yelling

830
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: here so they could wipe their boggers on my good

831
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 1: my good plates. Look at me like, what's that? Are

832
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: you eating hot chips? Those are not hot to me?

833
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: My mom Sydney said I could eat these chips and

834
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:54,800
Speaker 1: you know your kids would call you Sydney.

835
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: Why are you saying, why are you actually like my

836
00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 2: kids would be bad? I'm not really my hypothe like,

837
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: don't do that.

838
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: Sis. Are your real life cats good? They got a

839
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: bad juices?

840
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 2: No they're not, Marie. I didn't I need you to

841
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 2: take that back?

842
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: Mean, I'm not taking that back. Your cat's one of

843
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: your cats is mean and the other one is a ghost.

844
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 1: So sissus Casper, she got an attitude.

845
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: I'm wondering for the people who are like animals and

846
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 2: in relationships, if you're like trying to shack up with

847
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 2: somebody else and they're like, well, I'm not really a

848
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 2: cat person or not really a dog person. What do

849
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 2: you guys do?

850
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,759
Speaker 4: I would say that, and then in the relationship that

851
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,439
Speaker 4: I'm in right now that it is the person does

852
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 4: have a cat. Oh, it does like affect when yeah, no, not.

853
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 2: The shut up Marie's psycho.

854
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 4: A lot of different things, however, like it. It does

855
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 4: like wake up at like seven am, pause me, you know,

856
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 4: to get fed, you know, because the cat knows that

857
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 4: the other person isn't gonna provide until.

858
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: When you spend in the night. The cat is waking

859
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: you up at seven am.

860
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 4: The cat slept next to me, next to my face

861
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 4: the entire night, and I didn't mind it. It's a

862
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 4: very cute cat. But it does like it is an

863
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 4: alarm clock.

864
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: The cat slept like to your face. That's why you

865
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: got your glasses on that exactly you got in the.

866
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 4: Contactses yep, well and Frank, now well not Frank, what

867
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 4: is your name? No? What is your name? That did

868
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 4: the Nancy drew.

869
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 6: Frank Frank in the mystery Yeah, oh my god, I'm crying.

870
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,479
Speaker 1: So does this person with the cat have.

871
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 4: A roommate, No, it's one bedroom, but doesn't like to

872
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 4: lock the cat out of the bedroom. The cat just

873
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 4: like has like free range of the entire apartment.

874
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 1: This is this is why I can't get with people

875
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: whin they cats. All cats have free range. Okay, I

876
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: was on the phone with my friend the other day

877
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: and the cat was on the kitchen table and we

878
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,839
Speaker 1: were shocked. Yeah. She was like, the cat don't really

879
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 1: get on the table like that, and I was like,

880
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: it's on the table right now.

881
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 2: Well, her husband was letting the cat or.

882
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: The table that yawing word thing that you just did. Sorry,

883
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 1: that's not amr ban.

884
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 2: No, you're right, you're right right.

885
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: Say it again.

886
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 2: Her husband was letting her cat on the table like

887
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 2: he was petting it and everything.

888
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: But most people, like when I talk to them, they're like, yeah,

889
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 1: my cat doesn't like when we close doors.

890
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 4: Here.

891
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: The cat doesn't like close the doors. It's like the

892
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: cat don't pay no bills. So she got to stay

893
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 1: on the other side of the door. Andrew, next time

894
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: you spend the night over there, close to do and

895
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: see what happens.

896
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 4: It's just gonna be out and scratch at the door.

897
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but eventually it's gonna get hired.

898
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 4: I don't know about that.

899
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: And if it's scratching at the door, it's it's like

900
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: filing its close down.

901
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,399
Speaker 4: And I will say that it does make it hard

902
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:10,240
Speaker 4: for like extended like if if he is coming over here,

903
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 4: it's obviously hard because he can't he can't be here

904
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 4: for like more than twelve hours or whatever. What.

905
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 2: That's a lie. The cat can be a cats can

906
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 2: be a home alone for at least two to three days.

907
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 4: Not two toe days.

908
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa, Sidney. When I said that last week, you

909
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: were like, no, you can't leave the cat alone. And

910
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: that's how we got into the conversation about leaving a

911
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: cat in a car. And now you're saying two to

912
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: three days.

913
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 4: Wow.

914
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know, I don't recall. I can't confirm

915
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 2: or than I bib Listen.

916
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: I'm sure Cassie and Jesse were listening last week and

917
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: they could tell you exactly what you have said. But yeah,

918
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: the cat is cock blocking you, Andrew and you.

919
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 4: I think so, But it's I can't come between them.

920
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 2: But you, like this person, you can't come between them now,

921
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 2: I think that if your person you're with, This is

922
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 2: for everybody. If they have a pet, you have.

923
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 3: To consider the pet if you want to be long

924
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 3: term with them.

925
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 2: If you're like I don't really fuck with cats like that,

926
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 2: then don't fall in love with a cat person. M

927
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 2: that's a great title, don't fall in love with a

928
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 2: cat person.

929
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: But I don't think that people choose to fall in

930
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 1: love with a cat person or not fall in love

931
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: with a cat person. But like, if you know that

932
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 1: you are limited in the time, I'm not fighting you

933
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 1: for your cat for your time. I'm not fighting with

934
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: anybody for them to spend time with me over their pet.

935
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: If the pet is more important to you, then I

936
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: guess we gotta wait the fifteen years that the cat

937
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 1: dies and then you can come back into my DMS

938
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 1: or something, because I'm not competing with a four legged

939
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: animal for your time and attention. And if the cat

940
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: is waking me up at seven am, I'm not spending

941
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: a night at your house. I'm not staying there. Or

942
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:58,879
Speaker 1: go ahead close the door.

943
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 4: Yes, how do you feel about automatic feeders? Because that

944
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 4: was something that I was like thinking about getting this person.

945
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 2: It's great, it really does help, but they once they

946
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 2: get the automatic feeder, they they're not as dependent on you.

947
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,839
Speaker 2: But I like, I did a little I did a

948
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 2: little you know test where I stopped using the automatic feeder,

949
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 2: and when I had to feed them, they were more codependent.

950
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 2: They're like in my face all the time. But when

951
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: I use the feeder, they're doing their own thing. They

952
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 2: they're like, Okay, I guess I'll say hi to her,

953
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 2: but they don't need me as much.

954
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 4: And that's what he's concerned about losing, that like dependency.

955
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: Okay, that's weird.

956
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 4: Oh, that's weird.

957
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,280
Speaker 2: That's weird. That's weird.

958
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 1: He's afraid of losing. How old is the cat or

959
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:46,720
Speaker 1: how long has he had this cat for?

960
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,400
Speaker 4: I think like three years.

961
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 2: Oh, he's pretty serious about the cat.

962
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: It's only three years. You can get rid of it

963
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:53,959
Speaker 1: that again.

964
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 2: No, well, I had the cats for five and then

965
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 2: you know, a year by myself now, and I'm pretty

966
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 2: I'm pretty serious with the cats. I'm like, I want

967
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:05,240
Speaker 2: But you.

968
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: Had them for five years and then you didn't have them,

969
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: and you didn't seem to miss him that much, and

970
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 1: then you when they were coming back, you.

971
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 2: Were like, I don't know that's a lie, Marie. Take

972
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 2: that back.

973
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: No, Sydney, I am not taking that back. When you

974
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: when the cats were coming back into your life, you

975
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: were like, I don't know if I want these cats

976
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: in my house.

977
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 2: Marie. That's a lie.

978
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: Sidney, that is not a lie. You were not sure

979
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 1: if you wanted those cats.

980
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 2: You need to stop smoking weed.

981
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sidney, you need to start smoking weed.

982
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 2: What what you stay lying on me?

983
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: Like, damn, girl, I can tell by the way your

984
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: bonnet is hanging off the side of your head that

985
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: you're lying.

986
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:46,720
Speaker 2: I'm not lying.

987
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 3: I swear to you. I never said that.

988
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 2: Well, soon as as soon as Adrian was acting like

989
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 2: I couldn't like take care of the cats and they

990
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: might die, I was like, the fuck I am taking

991
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 2: these cats.

992
00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 1: Yes, But at first you were not doing that whatever.

993
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: Until she was like, well you you'll probably murder them.

994
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,959
Speaker 1: You were like, oh, well, now I want them because

995
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: you had something to prove. But when she first was like, girl,

996
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't want these cats no more, you were like, well,

997
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: I don't know where they're gonna go. And now you're like,

998
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you forgot. It's like childbirth. You

999
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: forget the pain of childbirth and then you want to

1000
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: have another baby. Look at you with your seven cats.

1001
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: AnyWho, I feel like, you know, people's pets are a

1002
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 2: thing that's real touchy, and love is real touchy, and

1003
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 2: there's got to be some kind of compromise if you

1004
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 2: want both.

1005
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, are you gonna give up cats or

1006
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna.

1007
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 3: Give up giving up cat for the cat? Cat for cat?

1008
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: Well, it's giving up cats for the cat. Would you

1009
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: give them up?

1010
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 2: If if I could, if I could just tell people

1011
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 2: they died, I would because I don't want to be

1012
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: that person that's like you gave up, you gave of

1013
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 2: cats for a relationship, and this is not what's going

1014
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 2: on in my life. I'm just saying in general, like

1015
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to be.

1016
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:07,879
Speaker 1: Meaning if you could tell people they died, you could

1017
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: tell people whatever you want. But also, who cares what

1018
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: people think about your situation or your relationship. It goes

1019
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,240
Speaker 1: back to what we were talking about before. You gotta

1020
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: do what is best for you. At the end of

1021
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: the day. The only thing that these cats, they'll miss you, sure,

1022
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 1: but all they care about is food and sleep and sunshine.

1023
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, So.

1024
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: If all you care about is food and sunshine and sleep,

1025
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 1: and then then stay with the cats. But if you

1026
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: want to get more out of your life, if the

1027
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: person that you're in a relationship with is saying, I'm

1028
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: not really I don't have room in my home for these,

1029
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: then you have to make a choice. And also remember

1030
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: that cats don't live as long as people. So you

1031
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 1: gonna have these cats until you know they move on,

1032
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 1: and then what you gonna start again by yourself?

1033
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 2: This is you're not talking about my life. I don't.

1034
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 2: This is you talking to the to the to the listeners,

1035
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: because this is.

1036
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: I'm talking to anybody who's talking about my cats are

1037
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: more important than my relationship were my relationship is getting

1038
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: in the way of my love for my animal like

1039
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:23,799
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. I'm not an animal person,

1040
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: so I'm obviously the wrong person to be talking. It's

1041
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 1: clear you're not an animal, You're not an animal person.

1042
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,240
Speaker 1: You're not a kid person, you're not a person's person.

1043
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm a person's person. Yeah, And you see who didn't

1044
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:38,839
Speaker 1: get offended by it?

1045
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 4: Me?

1046
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 1: But Sidney got offended when I told her the truth

1047
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 1: about what she said when she first was offered these cats.

1048
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:48,320
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm not mean. I'm actually really nice.

1049
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,399
Speaker 2: And yeah there's there's been some talk around the town

1050
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 2: that Marie's mean, so.

1051
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: So okay, cool Sydney.

1052
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 3: First of all, well I don't think you're mean.

1053
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 5: Okay, just no, she's not a cat person, she's not

1054
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 5: a baby person, and she's not a people's person.

1055
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 1: I think that said that.

1056
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, This is when I say that when

1057
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 2: I say she she doesn't like they can come or go,

1058
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 2: she's not. That's what I mean. Like, she's not obsessed

1059
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 2: with cats or like pets. She's not obsessed with babies.

1060
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 2: It's not a deal breaker for her. And she's not,

1061
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 2: I mean when she likes people. But also she doesn't

1062
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 2: have to. She's not like looking for people's friendship or intention.

1063
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:41,879
Speaker 1: That was hard.

1064
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 2: That was no, no, no, don't do that. Marie is

1065
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 2: not begging to be liked or looking for friends. And

1066
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 2: that's good. That's what I mean. That's not that's not

1067
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 2: what the tone. I'm sorry, the tone was wrong, Marie.

1068
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:08,320
Speaker 2: I apologize, Andrew, Okay, I will. I will fight for

1069
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 2: Marie to the to the to the nines. Okay, would

1070
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 2: you give up your cats for me?

1071
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:19,400
Speaker 4: Stop doing this? You're doing this to each other, and

1072
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 4: it's like Sidney wants to move in after her home

1073
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:27,320
Speaker 4: burns down. No, you're putting each other in very difficult.

1074
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: Position now because Sydney can be like, well, we have

1075
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: nowhere to go. Would you take us in?

1076
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 4: Well?

1077
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 1: Would you take would you give up the cats for me?

1078
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 2: Meaning like Marie, you were like, Sidney, I want to

1079
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 2: be with you, and if you're like, honestly, I'm in

1080
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 2: love with you, Sidney, And all this time it was

1081
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 2: like you and these cats, I just you.

1082
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: What would you do if I if I if I

1083
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: came out to you, I love you, I love you.

1084
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:08,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, the title is Marie Loves Sydney. That's the time.

1085
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 4: Okay, we have a list that we're gonna go over

1086
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 4: at the end of the episode.

1087
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, we gotta go over at the end. But Sidney,

1088
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: what would you do? Would you give up your cats

1089
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: for me?

1090
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 2: If you were like, the only way I could be

1091
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:26,919
Speaker 2: with you if you didn't have these cats or girlfriend? Well,

1092
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 2: if I was the first person you're coming out to,

1093
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 2: I couldn't just have you out here just like rejected.

1094
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:36,319
Speaker 1: So is that a yes, you're throwing the cats away?

1095
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 2: Or I would ask Gina if she could hold onto

1096
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Speaker 2: the cats.

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Speaker 4: Oh, hold on, you don't think it's gonna be It's

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Speaker 4: gonna be a permanent thing, right you.

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Speaker 1: Putting an expliration date on our relationship for a few months,

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Speaker 1: she said, hold on till Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, Marie's really fickles. So I don't

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Speaker 2: believe that she would want I think she would change

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Speaker 2: her mind immediately after after the Edible hits.

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Speaker 1: It would be I would change my mind after I

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Speaker 1: had that conversation with you. I would be like, girl,

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Speaker 1: I really love you, and I give to the cats.

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Speaker 1: And then while you were thinking about it, while I'd

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Speaker 1: be like, actually, I'm not really a people person. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go back to my house by myself.

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Speaker 2: Wow. This was a This was a good one. I

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Speaker 2: think it's a segment. There should be a segment of like, Marie,

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Speaker 2: what would you.

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Speaker 1: Do well Sidney, do you have any Sydney facts for

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Speaker 1: us today? Because you haven't shared any sit facts with

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Speaker 1: us for a while.

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Speaker 2: I think there, I think there, if you're gonna do

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Speaker 2: the vaccine, I would they say not, don't do Johnson

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Speaker 2: and Johnson, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: They recalled them. I don't think yeah, right, now.

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Speaker 1: The Center for Disease and Control Sydney City work. You're

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Speaker 1: gonna do a vaccine, they say, don't. I mean you're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was trending on Twitter. Oh my god, wow? Why wow?

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Speaker 2: This has been what a delight, what a treat. Damn

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Speaker 2: we got three ads today. No, no, we did this already.

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Speaker 1: Right, Let's let's wrap up the episode and then you

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Speaker 1: can complain about the ads that they fast forwarded through already. Guys.

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Speaker 1: I hope you guys have a fabulous rest of the week.

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Speaker 1: And you guys keep sending us questions. Please. You know what,

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Speaker 1: even if you don't have a question for us, maybe

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Speaker 1: you could just email us some photos of you so

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Speaker 1: we can see who's listening to the podcast and we

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Speaker 1: can be like, oh yeah, well we'll look at the

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Speaker 1: photos on the on the air.

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Speaker 4: And the email again is unofficial expertise at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 4: That's you n O F F I C I L

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Speaker 4: E X P E r t I s E at

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Speaker 4: gmail dot com. While you read the whole I know expertise.

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Speaker 2: The euse p E r t I s E. And

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna need y'all. This is another thing. This is

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Speaker 2: a crazy ask I'm gonna need some more engagement, guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna need some more engagement on you know, the

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Speaker 2: iTunes reviews and comments. I needed. I need y'all to

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Speaker 2: flood it like it really just takes what one minute

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Speaker 2: of your time, but if you really feel in fancy,

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Speaker 2: maybe two.

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Speaker 3: But the reason why we're not on the charts is, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's y'all. Y'all are not reposting enough. Y'all are not

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Speaker 2: obsessing about us. It's it's y'all. We could be and

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Speaker 2: we all of us be at the top. You could

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Speaker 2: be telling people, yeah, I'm an unofficial expert fan and

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Speaker 2: people would be like, what, me too, But they're not

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Speaker 2: because you're not. You're not spreading the word and it's

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Speaker 2: actually racist and homophobic if you're not really doing that.

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Speaker 2: So I'm just I'm just throwing it out there. We are.

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Speaker 3: We are underrated podcasts, underrated.

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Speaker 1: M thank you Sidney for that. Sarah, can you include

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Speaker 1: Sarah mcgla.

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Speaker 2: I love that. That'll that'll be a great that'll be

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Speaker 2: a great cut and edit.

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Speaker 1: I love that there anyway. As always, it was good

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Speaker 1: to see you guys, Andrew with the glasses sitting with

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Speaker 1: the Bonnet and Marie with the black Heart. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much.

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Speaker 3: We love you, Marie.

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Speaker 2: Life would be terrible without you so and I don't

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Speaker 2: even know if people would listen to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, script right now, this is one of the ads.

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Speaker 3: Damn we got.

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Speaker 2: Bye guys, Bye dog.

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