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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen a hot. There were distinct advantages to

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Speaker 1: black atheism, to a disbelief in dreams and moral appeal. First,

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Speaker 1: it removed the way of believing that white people quotes

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Speaker 1: around it in Mass were interested in listen. We're interested listeners.

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Speaker 1: White people in Mass are not. They're like any other people,

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Speaker 1: mostly self interested, which is why mass appeals to conscience

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Speaker 1: minus some compelling existential threat generally end in disappointment.

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Speaker 2: But I was armed against disappointment.

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Speaker 1: Because in defiance, I had no expectations of white people

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Speaker 1: at all. Hey, welcome to the Black Autels Podcast. Your

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Speaker 1: hosts Rod Ed and we're live on a Saturday, ready

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Speaker 1: to do some feedback. You can find us on iTunes,

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Speaker 1: Stitch or potomatically its firestar reviews. We're gonna read them

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Speaker 1: today no matter where they're from, all over the planet,

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Speaker 1: and we will also take some time out to you know,

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Speaker 1: check out your comments on our website, your votes in

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Speaker 1: our polls, your voicemails that you leave at our voicemail

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Speaker 2: To leave two voicemails because they always get cut off.

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Speaker 2: So I don't think this week's any exception.

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Speaker 1: We'll find out. But yeah, you can do all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: You can email us. The Blackouts has at Gmail. I

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Speaker 1: don't remember if I said that, And yeah, all these

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Speaker 1: ways to get in contact with the show, we love them,

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Speaker 1: Yes we do.

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Speaker 2: And we read that stuff today. That's what today is about.

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Speaker 1: It's about you and the feedback that you left and

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Speaker 1: the stuff that we talked about. The excerpt that I

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Speaker 1: read is from We Were eight Years in Power in

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Speaker 1: American Tragedy by Tannahose Coats, and that's just a small

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Speaker 1: paragraph that I remember highlighting at the time because that

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Speaker 1: is the closest I can get to explain in the

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Speaker 1: way I view race and race struggles in America.

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Speaker 2: And some people think it's too pessimistic. Some people don't

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not saying I'm always right. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of times where I'm wrong, and I'm happy to

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Speaker 1: be wrong. But I wouldn't even describe what I feel

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Speaker 2: I feel is realism.

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Speaker 1: You look at the history of this country, you look

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Speaker 1: at how fucked up it is, and you looked at

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Speaker 1: how it's being fucked up, and this is like one

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Speaker 1: of those things where you can't ever be too Maybe

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Speaker 1: I'm just protecting myself from being too disappointed, but I

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Speaker 1: just don't believe in this general idea that white people

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Speaker 1: just need to be informed of the black plight and

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Speaker 1: then things will change in this country, because people have been.

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Speaker 2: Trying that for centuries and.

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Speaker 1: You find out quickly that it's not so much that

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Speaker 3: Correct correct, and and and and the thing is because

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Speaker 3: the problem, at the end of the day is white supremacy,

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Speaker 3: and that is something that's extremely hard to tackle because

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't think a lot of our teachings

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Speaker 1: And then most of the cases where you see progress

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Speaker 1: It came from Boycot, it came from weld in our

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Speaker 1: Like it's always been at force that we have pushed

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Speaker 2: I just don't have faith.

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Speaker 1: But next year we write back to the same spot.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying there's no racist white people.

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Speaker 2: I think you can be racist and not.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't necessarily excuse your racism, but I do think

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Speaker 1: there's something to be said about I don't think white

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Speaker 3: No, they don't. They don't because when shit happens, a

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Speaker 3: lot of times be like, ooh, it's my bad. We

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Speaker 3: that the things that we care about and we're concerned

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's almost more hurtful in a way that they

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Speaker 1: It's almost like I wish i'd rather you intentionally say

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Speaker 1: there's nothing offensive about that, and you don't know why

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Speaker 1: I got so upset, Right, I'd rather you just call.

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Speaker 2: Me a nigga too much, But just call the niggas.

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Speaker 3: You know, right, And It's also one of those things

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Speaker 3: god damn, we never crossed your mind. But we all

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Speaker 3: always have to consider you, guys, every fucking thing we do.

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Speaker 3: We all there's nothing in America being black or brown

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Speaker 3: or a modulized person that you don't have to consider

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Speaker 3: are like do do do do?

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna tap out at Old. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 2: tap out, Just go ahead. It's just like Tim Duncktt

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Speaker 2: So uh on TikTok, TikTok. It looks like kind of

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Speaker 2: like Vionner almost like that. It looks like yeah, because

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Speaker 3: That's that's funny, like like like I've seen him. They're hilarious,

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Speaker 1: So some woman and she is she had she appears

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Speaker 2: So to me, it just wasn't funny. Then the second

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Speaker 1: I went to her Twitter page because I'm like, she

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Speaker 1: The second thing is actually something else. The second thing

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that they were wrong for that, but

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Speaker 1: But forty eight hours later, people still making jokes, like

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Speaker 2: Comments, right, And so then that's when what I was

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Speaker 1: They actually cover black movies too, unlike other shows who

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Speaker 1: love listening around the cannon.

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Speaker 2: They're reading rainbows. Five stars. Oh, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to play read a rainbow theme after we

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Speaker 1: read today. Uh two years later as the next one

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Speaker 1: by uh oh, I'm sorry. The last one was by

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Speaker 1: Sweet Nasts ninety eight. This one was by Kwan Pie,

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Speaker 1: who says two years later five stars.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,399
Speaker 1: I think I've been listening for about two years, but

447
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,639
Speaker 1: some of y'all been listening for way long and just

448
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: now wrote your reviews. Also, I just got my first iPhone,

449
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,160
Speaker 1: so it's easier to review in the purple app While

450
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,479
Speaker 1: I heard a couple of podcasts Night Veil and Cereal

451
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 1: before Yours and Tea with Queen and Jay are the

452
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 1: first podcast I listened to regularly and I continue to

453
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Speaker 1: love to them.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to Tea with Queen and Jack.

455
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Speaker 1: I'm also a regular listener and I continue to love

456
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,159
Speaker 1: both I'm a drive and spend my days and not

457
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 1: ord nights over the road with my play cousins. While

458
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 1: I have been since, I since branched out to just

459
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 1: the two podcasts I found when I Google black podcasts.

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00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: Oh from just the two. Yeah, I don't blame you.

461
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 1: Uh so you got more in your repertoire. It's a

462
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 1: new podcast every day, it is. I never am lacking

463
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 1: for content from my two phases, especially since I went

464
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Speaker 1: premium with y'all.

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Speaker 2: Cure it the good work, Peace Quan, thank.

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Speaker 3: You, Kwan, and stay staye out there on them roads.

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Speaker 2: Reading Rainbowing Uh.

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Speaker 1: This by Allegra a shout out to your girl legor

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Speaker 1: five stars and says, though my our list of crap

470
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: I need to read is not loving it.

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Speaker 2: I love the opening Rainbow.

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Speaker 1: Reading Rainbow as a history buffer a person who loves

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Speaker 1: learning and growing.

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00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 2: Keep the book excerpts coming.

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00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 1: I appreciate Karen Rod's pinyon about on what they're reading

476
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: the current events.

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00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you best. It's normally what Rod's reading.

478
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:18,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

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00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: Best podcast in the known universe, not hyperbably hyperbole. This

480
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: is by Shady Dame, who says five stars, keep up

481
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 1: the good work guys. The new reading Rainbow segment is amazing.

482
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: It helps get you get your mind right and prove

483
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 1: that you aren't a complete garbage pile by laughing during

484
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,360
Speaker 1: Guess the Race or ratchetness and all the other topics.

485
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 1: I simply adore that Rod and Care are black voices

486
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 1: that aren't pepper with misogynal or or hole temperary.

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Speaker 2: Thank you again for all that you do, guys, Thank you,

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00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 2: thank you. Uh you know, we try, We try, man,

489
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 2: we try.

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00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's still you have to untrain your mind. Sometimes.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I got no hotel shit didn't mean, but.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I got no help to Tepp even

493
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 3: that shits giving me in college. I looked at their

494
00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 3: five percent of my nah, dog, I'm good. I don't know,

495
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 3: but the hell that is, I don't want nothing.

496
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Speaker 2: Simply the best, better than all the rest.

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Speaker 1: Five Stars by Uncle Ebenezer, who says, I've been listening

498
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: to this podcast for about four years now, and it

499
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: is still the best in the game. Caring to her

500
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 1: husband Ross, that's a new one. No one's done that

501
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 1: one yet. Have not only provided me with countless hours

502
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: of joy and laughter, but have also helped me become

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Speaker 1: a better person in so many ways as a white man.

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00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: They have helped me understand racism, sexism, and other forms

505
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 1: of systemic oppression that I will never experience directly, as

506
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: well as many overlook stories of black history in the US.

507
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 1: I've also really loved the recent emphasis on self care

508
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: and navigating the world of social media, where everyone has

509
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: an agenda, tendency towards faux outrage, and all the other

510
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: problematic aspects of our current climate. Plus, they consistently emphasize listening, understanding, empathy,

511
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: and forgiveness, all things we should strive for in our

512
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 1: interactions with others, except for except for the red hat

513
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 1: fashions of course. Lest yeah, yeah, you know, I have

514
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: my limits. Uh Less you think this podcast is all

515
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 1: warm and fuzzy learning, it's also hilarious as hell. Riding

516
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: Care are both incredibly funny and have such a great

517
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: time that when what they with, what they do is

518
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: positively infectious. They even managed to make some of the

519
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: most truly awful news stories enjoyable by mocking the utter

520
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: ridiculousness of them. Karen Yo come on rivals that of Serena. Serena,

521
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 1: do be hitting that come on during them. She do

522
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 1: be hitting that come on during the matches. It always

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00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: fires me up. Ride love your jamming improv style singing

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00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: for guests the race Corey Glove better watch out.

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00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:38,439
Speaker 2: You don't want to hear that.

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Speaker 3: He ain't got nothing to worry about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he'll be fine.

528
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 3: He has nothing to write, sir, you still got the crown.

529
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 3: We are not coming for it anyways.

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Speaker 1: For anyone looking for a great podcast, what are you

531
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Speaker 1: waiting for? Check this out and come join the fun.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you baby.

533
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 2: That was that was very nice. It was all right.

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Speaker 2: That's all the five star reviews for this week. We

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00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,360
Speaker 2: appreciate you. Let's get into the comments on the website.

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00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: Our first episode last week was called Dot's Comrades I Believe,

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00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: which is oh wait, no, no, no, actually no, that.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't the first episode.

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00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: First episode was great, but Dot Dot episode nineteen ninety five,

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Speaker 1: speaking of what you know today is episode two thousand.

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Speaker 3: What it is?

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Speaker 2: It's episode two thousand.

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00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 3: Y'all know, I don't be paying a teacher.

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00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: I know everybody you're gonna do something special. I'm like,

545
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: what does a podcast do special? For episode?

546
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 2: We're gonna do black Guy test the musical blank this

547
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:35,479
Speaker 2: is it?

548
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: We do the podcast anyway, Miko says, hey, I cracked

549
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: up with Rod said he and Karen were white women

550
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: of color from different areas, Karen being from the South,

551
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 1: the southern races and him being from Maine.

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00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: I think white women of color. Rod comes out in

553
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: full force in the fall and winter. It is my

554
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 2: birth time.

555
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: It's like a white blanket to protect this delicate brown

556
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Speaker 1: screen from the harsh code Nigga talking about having an

557
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: African violet. He only brings out while he reads while

558
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: sitting on the patio with his ugs and fluffy scarf,

559
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 1: sipping his lattee, being unapologetically unbothered.

560
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 2: Clearly I'm jealous.

561
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, also pretty out there too. It's relaxing.

562
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

563
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: Also, I did mess up and kill my average valet

564
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 1: because I accidentally left it out over night one time.

565
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 2: And so it's not a plant that can freeze.

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00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 3: You have to do that in the spring.

567
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like there's certain succulents you can have outdoors like that.

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00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 3: But uh yeah, clearly, yeah, we don't know nothing about

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Speaker 3: no plants.

570
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 2: Though it's clearly not a good move on your boy's part.

571
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,959
Speaker 3: This is gonna be a learning as we go experience.

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00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 2: So, uh, that plant is dead.

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Speaker 3: We had to get another one.

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Speaker 2: I did buy. Go to trade to Jones and buy

575
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 2: me a succulent aka snake plant.

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00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 3: Oh that's what that is. A snake plant.

577
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: That's what the column.

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Speaker 1: And it doesn't need as much water, and it does

579
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 1: need a lot of light, but it can do indoors light.

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00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna be taking care of that one, and

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00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: hopefully I won't kill it. So you don't water I

582
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: order it, I'll take care of it.

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Speaker 3: Oh good, because don't be depended on me.

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00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 2: I know, I know the last one you said you

585
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 2: was watering and then it didn't do too good. So no,

586
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna word it myself.

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00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't depend don't be y'all just people talk about

588
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 3: why don't you have no pints?

589
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: Also, Roy, we have a similar issue a gift. As

590
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: soon as someone tells me they're bothered by something that

591
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: is a non issue. Unfortunately, I now have to make

592
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: jokes about it and bring it up sarcastically as much

593
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,880
Speaker 1: as possible, no matter the consequences, because it's their fault

594
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: for bringing it up.

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00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 2: Anyway.

596
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: Glad I took a minute to comment while listening, because

597
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: I always want to, but the moment passes, I forget

598
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: to go back and do it.

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00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 2: Love to show, take care, thank you, makeup, make up? Hey, Yeah, that.

600
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: Is my love language. So if you like jokes and

601
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: human is my love language. I mean, some people are

602
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: just not gonna be your friend, you know what I'm saying, Like,

603
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: not everybody's capable of being my friend because of that.

604
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, if you say or do something that's kind

605
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 2: of funny, I'm not and I'm not really mean.

606
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: About it, but yeah, like I can't take that.

607
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have no sense of humor, right, That's what

608
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 2: that boils down to. One thing.

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00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: That definitely one of the patterns I noticed in my life.

610
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: The people that I really typically fall out with or.

611
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: Don't I'm not gonna be able to be friends with

612
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: them are the control freak type of people that only

613
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 1: let you joke when they quote unquote allow you to

614
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 1: make a joke, and they never feel comfortable around me

615
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: because I'm kind of a loose cannon or a wild card.

616
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: I'm not over the top, I'm not mean, but it's

617
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: just the fact that you know, if you say something silly,

618
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: I might be like, remember that silly thing you said,

619
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: and that's you know, that's that's the joke.

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00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 2: You know.

621
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: So hopefully the fans that you know write in stuff

622
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: like I don't like this segment or whatever, you know,

623
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Speaker 1: four stars or whatever.

624
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: I hopefully they can.

625
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 3: Take the joke, man, because it's all it is a joke.

626
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: It's not like I'm trying to like go find them

627
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: or sick people on them or something. I'm just making

628
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: a joke of Like it's kind of silly, isn't it.

629
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: You know, Ramsey pussy Bowl says five Stars. I knew

630
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: when Rod started reading the four star feedback. I sat

631
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: in the light, like, this is their show and they're

632
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: gonna do whatever they want to do. I enjoyed a

633
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: variety of openings that Rod does. However, it's the black

634
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: Out Test, reading Raye, whether it's the black go Out tips,

635
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: reading Rainbow or rap lyrics, et cetera.

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00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, it's been I mean it's been a bunch

637
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 2: of different stuff.

638
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. We did poetry one time.

639
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, quotes, I mean, it's a bunch of different stuff.

640
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 3: Man, you bounce it around.

641
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: I'm sure this will pass too, uh, sim Simmer says,

642
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm convinced.

643
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 2: That Rod and Karen is trying to kill people.

644
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: Rod made me choke when he started that Maga freestyle Epstein.

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00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love y'all for real care. I've

646
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: been meaning the right to compliment your pun game. You

647
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: have been making work and mundane household chars a treat.

648
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, have you stepped it up?

649
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: Though, I'm glad and I'm glad you appreciate those making

650
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: America Great Again bars. I don't know if my man

651
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: appreciate him, because he never wrote back in to say

652
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: if he was cold, if a red crypto might have

653
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: been insulted, I don't know.

654
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: I hope not, baby, you know, hopefully he'll just old

655
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Speaker 2: beats and.

656
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 3: Sod and making beats and hadn't had a chance to

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Speaker 3: come in.

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Speaker 1: When I come out with the Make America Great Again mixtape,

659
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Speaker 1: you know, I'll just send it to him first, sofa

660
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: king him approof, says Buddy at the Wire. Sounds like

661
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: Homie from Harlem Nice talking about Sugar Ray. Better give

662
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: him back the dice so he could roll again. Well,

663
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: he was demanding that you hand the pen over. You

664
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: should have been like, well, I.

665
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 2: Guess you're gonna have to stick us because I ain't

666
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 2: giving you shit.

667
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna die with this wiveca basketball.

668
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 3: Right.

669
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 1: He ain't showed up in a week now. I'm like, damn,

670
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: he must be embarrassed because my ass is still there

671
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: having fun.

672
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 3: Right, you've been looking at You do know we all

673
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 3: are paying. Nobody's paying us to be here. We're paying

674
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 3: to this location.

675
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: Jamelle Scorpio says, I have been a listener since back

676
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: with Steven Richards and Trell used to call or probably chill,

677
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: And yes, I do miss some of the things on

678
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: the old episodes like ball Alert and bonding with y'all

679
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: and Justice recapping True Blood, but change is necessary to

680
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: keep the show fresh with new ideas. Maybe one day

681
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 1: the rap lyrics will come back. But the reading of

682
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: the book exerts work. I like the chance y'all took

683
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 1: with it. Some of these books I've read myself, and

684
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: lots of the passages you've read struck a chord with

685
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 1: me when I read them, too. Keep what the good work,

686
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: and I tipped my hat to y'all always improving, evolve

687
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: and working on becoming a better show.

688
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 2: Thank you.

689
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: It's a process, man, you know, like this is a

690
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: inside the podcast or studio kind of you know, feedback show.

691
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes we talk about the inner workings, so I'll tell you,

692
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: like my thought process behind the stuff. But one of

693
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: the main reasons that I like the book Excert Things

694
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: is because it's something that Karen likes to contribute to. Sometimes.

695
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: You know, if I do rapt lrics, Karen's not normally

696
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: going to say anything.

697
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: If I do.

698
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:38,959
Speaker 1: Opening with a poem or or or a quote, she

699
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 1: normally doesn't contribute. But you know, and I didn't prompt

700
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: her to do this or whatever. But when I started

701
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: reading the book quotes, Karen started being like, oh, yeah,

702
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 1: this is how I relate to this quote. And I said, well, shit,

703
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna start reading more of these, cause you know,

704
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: I do want to know what.

705
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 2: She thinks about these things that I'm reading.

706
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: But then also, if you're listening to this podcast, hopefully

707
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: you care about what.

708
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 2: Haring thinks as much as me.

709
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: So a lot of the times and What's Real is

710
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: like a lot of times we're giving you like things

711
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: about our personal lives and not growing up and our

712
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: upbringing in our personal views from that, and it's no

713
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: different than giving you that from what the latest thing

714
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: with Donald Trump is, or what the latest thing with

715
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: this Twitter topic is.

716
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 2: You know what you get as well.

717
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 1: But you know, I feel like a lot of times,

718
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: you know, we're giving game or relaying in our lives

719
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: or relaying our point of view through these moments, and

720
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: I think, you know, it has to be edifying to

721
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: some people, and not everybody's gonna even like it.

722
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: But hey, I didn't make a podcast for everybody, like

723
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 2: that's true.

724
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 3: And also it's one of those and I think my experience,

725
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 3: there aren't people out there that are prolific readers like

726
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 3: most of these books, they're gonna be a group of

727
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 3: people who are really into and whoever read it. But

728
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 3: I don't guarantee you a lot of people are like me,

729
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 3: never read them, some people never heard of them before.

730
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 3: And so a lot of times I'm hearing these things,

731
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 3: these quotes for the first time, and so I'm responding

732
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 3: to what they're triggering me and how they make me

733
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 3: feel and thinking about, oh, my childhood and things like that.

734
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 3: And I think it's just a wonderful experience to get

735
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 3: people to search these books out, hunt these books, read

736
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 3: these books for the first time. Because a lot of people.

737
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people that are prolific

738
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 3: readers sometimes have a tendency to forget that everybody don't

739
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 3: read like them, Like everybody ain't on top all the

740
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 3: black of the black black black black thing like that.

741
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,439
Speaker 1: And also people listening to podcasts and they like, I'm

742
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: getting what I want. It's like a jukebox. I just

743
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: stick to the things I would like you to talk about.

744
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: Just do the things I want to hear, just talk about,

745
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 1: you know. And I'm unfortunately I'm not a fucking playlist,

746
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

747
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: I'm not Spotify. I'm a human being.

748
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: The podcast is mostly for what the fuck we interested

749
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: in at that point in time.

750
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: So that's what you get.

751
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: You know, And I understand, you know, and I definitely

752
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: hear and understand that that's gonna not make everyone happy,

753
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: right right.

754
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 3: And but the thing is, you know, like everybody else,

755
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 3: we grow, we evolve, we change, and I actually really

756
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 3: enjoy and, like like I said, like talking to you,

757
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 3: like sharing with the audience some of the things that

758
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 3: I know for the other people they be hearing for

759
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 3: the first time too, Like I'm looking like I can't

760
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 3: be the only one hearing this for the first time.

761
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: That's the other part. I didn't learn these things necessarily

762
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: in school, right. A lot of the stuff that I

763
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: did learn was the stuff that my parents encouraged me

764
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 1: to read.

765
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 2: But I didn't learn a lot of stuff in school.

766
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: And I know it's never too late to learn. And

767
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 1: I hope no one's ever ashamed of hearing these things

768
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 1: because my personal belief is we should never be ashamed

769
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: of our history and our past because it's not you know.

770
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: And also some of the topics are contemporary topics, like

771
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: how we treat each other and via the internet, how

772
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 1: we treat each other in real life family stuff, like

773
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: it's not all just woe is Me slavery shit, but

774
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: it's you know, I'm just trying to let people be,

775
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: you know, hip to something else, you know. And and

776
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: also do's not other shows doing this, So deal with it, agreed.

777
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 3: And I know for me, like I said, I'm gonna

778
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 3: opostion into the spectrum of that. And I've shared that

779
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 3: before where we didn't do a lot of reading, So

780
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 3: you know, a lot of this is, like I said,

781
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,240
Speaker 3: it's new to me and even being taught.

782
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: But even what I'm saying, what I'm saying, is even

783
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: some of the stuff I'm reading to y'all is new

784
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: to me too.

785
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 2: It's not all.

786
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: Shit that I grew up knowing. Like a lot of

787
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: this stuff to me is affirming. So you know, maybe

788
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: people feel like comfortable that some of the topics may

789
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 1: be based on old black civil rights and experiences and

790
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 1: shit too bad, Like we need to get over that

791
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 1: in order to get comfortable with the idea. You know,

792
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: some of these ideas. It's not our fault and it's

793
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 1: not something to be ashamed of, and it's not a burden,

794
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: Like it's good.

795
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: It's good to know.

796
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 3: And also it's a good way to kind of let

797
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 3: me know, and like I say, confirming me that it's

798
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 3: nothing new on the sun, Like a lot of people

799
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 3: think the ship we're doing now it's just new where

800
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 3: you go. No, no, no, no, baby, nothing that We've

801
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 3: done everything. Every idea that you can think of, somebody

802
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 3: has tried it in some way shape form of fashion.

803
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 3: It just went from face to face to a digital format.

804
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 3: But the tactics are still the same.

805
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, But mostly I like reading it because, as I said, Kring,

806
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 1: like well, stop hop in and contribute to the show

807
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: right away. Like, I don't have to wait till I

808
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: find an article that interest her or random thought that

809
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: she likes or something like that. We just start to

810
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: show off and she's immediately engaged. And that's really the big,

811
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: the big, you know secret make my brain tick even

812
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 1: he says, I really like the edition of the new

813
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: other book excerpts. I learned some things I may not

814
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: heard before, and I like this added reading Rainbow music.

815
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:47,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

816
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 3: Uh.

817
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 1: And then the poll was have you ever kept driving

818
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: a car despite the engine like staying on m HM

819
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: can It says yes, yes and for a long time.

820
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 2: Yes, but just until I can stop the car or no, so.

821
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 3: Cam just for a long particular hours broke, I didn't

822
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 3: have a choice. Yeah, I'm gonna drive that motherfucking too,

823
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,320
Speaker 3: and I can get the change to go get it fixed.

824
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm in the first category. Yes, and for a

825
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 2: long time.

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00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 1: Sixty one percent of y'all also have had this experience

827
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: that Karen and I.

828
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 3: Have had, because if you ain't got the money, you're like,

829
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 3: the fuck, I'm gonna take it somewhere and then they're

830
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 3: gonna try me money that I ain't got.

831
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 2: Yes, but only until I can stop the car twenty

832
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:31,240
Speaker 2: nine percent. Mm, it must be so good to have money.

833
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 3: Negg, that's a good life.

834
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: And no, not eleven percent. Let's see what the comments.

835
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: Shady Day said. Shady Dame says, you guys have a

836
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: whole motherfucking word today with the opening book excerpt, I

837
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: had to pause and the episode the event, you are

838
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: so right, feminism is different for black women. We couldn't

839
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,760
Speaker 1: join in the brid burning free love and all that shit.

840
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: We can't burn our bris because we have to worry

841
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: about respectability from both sides. And the same applies for

842
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: free love. White women burn and join free love to

843
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: take their power back. That wasn't the case for black

844
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: women because as soon as we hit puberty we are

845
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 1: seen as being fully grown, sexually available adults. Shit Before that,

846
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: even white women are even often coddle and protected. For them,

847
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 1: rebuking that shit is empowering for us. We are desperate

848
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: to be coddle and protected. Broad burning and free love

849
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:20,720
Speaker 1: just don't bring that.

850
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 2: To the table.

851
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: The same applies for women's rights and how white women

852
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: were fighting to get into the workplace when Black women

853
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: have been working since we were fucking kidnapped and bright

854
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: here what is what is heaven for one is hell

855
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: for the other.

856
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 2: And that's one of the.

857
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: Biggest things, Like when people talk about feminism and people

858
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: talk about white feminism or you know, black women having

859
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 1: womanism and all.

860
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 2: These different branches of stuff.

861
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 1: Is because women in masks don't all want the same shit,

862
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 1: and the definitions of how they define certain shit is

863
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: not the same. Like what is equality to a marginalized

864
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: to a woman of color, it's different from a white woman.

865
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 1: What's equality for different women of different colors? Right, it's

866
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: different as well, you know, like cultural backgrounds and things

867
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 1: of this nature. Is it changes, you know, And that's

868
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: before you even get to other experiences among the like

869
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: sexuality spectrum and.

870
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:23,720
Speaker 2: All this stuff.

871
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 1: Like there's so many different things, and yet we always

872
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: throw stuff under one banner, one label, you know, feminism

873
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 1: or this, that or the other, and it's like not everybody

874
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 1: in that agrees on what the goals are or how

875
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: to define the goals or how to attain the goals.

876
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 3: Right, when people do that because it's easier because a

877
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 3: lot of times they're at the top, so it's easier,

878
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 3: and people go no, no, no, no no, and then they

879
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 3: get you wrong with you go, oh, we got to

880
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,320
Speaker 3: break off because we actually don't believe the same things.

881
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the patriarchy affects people differently, Yes, it does.

882
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,439
Speaker 2: You know, it's one of the I'm sure we've talked

883
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 2: about it before.

884
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:57,720
Speaker 1: But one of the reasons that people found Beyonce's self

885
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: titled album to be so like uplifting and enriching when

886
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: it kind of advocated a lot of stuff that white

887
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: women have been off of and feeling to be confining,

888
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: was that she was talking about a very specific black type,

889
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 1: black woman's centric feminism and that and there's also black

890
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 1: women that have problems with Beyonce's feminism of a certain type.

891
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: You know, whether it's the the aesthetic, whether it's the uh,

892
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 1: you know, the idea of marriage being this freeing thing

893
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: and being coveted by this man being this free like

894
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of fucking there's a it's like a

895
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 1: diaspora of feminism. It's not all the same people agreeing

896
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 1: on all the same shit. So but yeah, what that

897
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: free love shit and the hippie stuff. You know, you

898
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: had black women going through black power at the same time, afrocentricness,

899
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: at the same time as the hippies going through. You know,

900
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: let's let's be dirty, playing the mud and fuck all day.

901
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, we black women were trying to get

902
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: away from that type of negative stereotype that they have

903
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: been heeping on black people for for a fucking centuries,

904
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 1: that they were staying the mud, dirty ass ah blah.

905
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: White people get the privilege of saying, I'm rebelling, let's

906
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: go get dirty.

907
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 3: Let's go get there.

908
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's fuck, let's do drugs. We're rebelling black people.

909
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 1: It's like they call us dirty drug dealing, lazy blah

910
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: blah blah, regardless or not right anyway, at least you

911
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: says nigga, Have I have my two thousand and four

912
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: contour and drove that bitch to the wheels fell off.

913
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 2: Literally, I drove two years with the light on. FOD

914
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 2: died on me.

915
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,720
Speaker 1: I had a O two sensor issue, Ain't that, Howard?

916
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: Be It always some weird ass sensor to make the whole.

917
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 2: Engine light come on. You go get it looked at,

918
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 2: and they're like, well, it's.

919
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 1: Just a sensor, nothing's wrong with the car, but it's

920
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: gonna cost you seven hundred dollars.

921
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: Like Beach just a sensor, right, and then then when.

922
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 1: You have critical engine failure, right, you're like, oh, I

923
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: guess it wasn't a sensor.

924
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 2: No more, did the whole.

925
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: Unplugged the battery white fifteen, and it's then plug it

926
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: back in. Hurry up and get my omissions. The struggle

927
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 1: is real. Yeah, oh man, when they start telling you

928
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: tricks to get you to pass inspection, I said, you

929
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: know you need a new car.

930
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 2: Come, oh, Kim says, I'm with Alicia.

931
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: I've done a wing and a prayer driving for a

932
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,479
Speaker 1: good part of my earlier driving life. I seriously thought

933
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 1: that was a rhetorical question. I'm also concerned that Karen

934
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: had bad chicken gizzards.

935
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 2: What the what?

936
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: I literally went out and bought two packs and had

937
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 1: one and fit to eat the second on the day.

938
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: Yummy question mark, question mark question mark, y'all keep me laughing.

939
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: I enjoy it so much. I'm glad you enjoyed, Kim.

940
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 3: I'm glad, but I did not enjoy them gizzets.

941
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 2: Karen doesn't eat chicken gizzets.

942
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 3: Kim.

943
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: Okay, it's kind of that thing where like you could

944
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: have inserted chitlings in that sentence. Hog Malls fat back

945
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: whatever thing that it is. Like, there are hog malls

946
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 1: people and there are people that just aren't hog mass people.

947
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 3: Correct, you know, commit me too.

948
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,879
Speaker 2: But I understand when I say the words I eat

949
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 2: living mush. I haven't in a long time.

950
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: But when I eat living I understand, is that someone

951
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 1: out there being completely fucking disgusted as they should be, as.

952
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 3: They should be. Right, I don't even know what the

953
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 3: fuck is in living mush.

954
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 2: It's mush, whatever the hell that is. It's no way

955
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 2: that that has healthy one and it's probably more than

956
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,399
Speaker 2: just liver. Yeah, it's no it's mush and liver. It's

957
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 2: no way. It's okay, no way. Nothing about that sounds.

958
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 3: That's why I don't eat it often.

959
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 2: So if I make me.

960
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: A living mush American cheese, because you gotta make American cheese.

961
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 2: You can't get fancy.

962
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 3: You gotta do America anything else, you'd be like, the

963
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 3: fuck is this?

964
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 2: They gotta be doing craft single slices.

965
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:36,720
Speaker 1: Come on craft and some mayonnaise and some bread sandwich.

966
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,919
Speaker 1: I do mustard, ough by mustard. Okay, yes, that's even better.

967
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: Mustard and some bread sandwich. If you do that, that's

968
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: someone out there right now, going that's disgusting, and most

969
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: people probably think that's discussed.

970
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 2: And if I'm real fancy, I toast the bread.

971
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: But the big but the major point is this, I

972
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 1: don't get to be like you have some liver mush

973
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: that was disgusting when someone says it disgusting, because I'm

974
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:04,959
Speaker 1: understanding objectively, I'm the one for taking into disgusting things.

975
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: So I say all that to say, chicken livers are disgusting,

976
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: chicken gizzards are disgusting.

977
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 2: And you just enjoy them.

978
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: And I was okay, and I respect that, Kim, but

979
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: don't you try to flip the polarity, like like chicken

980
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 1: gizzets on every fucking menu because they so delicious. Not okay,

981
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 1: you can't go get chicken gizzards over at Buffalo Wild

982
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: Wings and they got all the chicken up in there.

983
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: You ain't got no gizzards. And you know why because

984
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: it ain't nobody ordering that shit. They know you at

985
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: the chicken gives at place. Kim, be honest, pound the

986
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: chicken gizzards, Kim. H yep, most my chicken givesus, thank.

987
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 3: You, But like, what was so sad? This sweet they're

988
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 3: don'na drop the prices per pounds.

989
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: Try to act like try, try to act like you

990
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: can just go get a pound of chicken gizzards from

991
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 1: everywhere if they ain't how that work?

992
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, me and Rojie the only people why they got

993
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 3: a little much in the grocery store, because you know what,

994
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 3: they ain't got in the restaurants a little much? Well,

995
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 3: they they do down here.

996
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: Nah, they don't have it in a lot and they

997
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: and they definitely don't have it in the grocery store

998
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: for us because we don't buy it. We haven't had

999
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 1: living much in I don't know when the last time

1000
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: I had a little much. I think last time, because

1001
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 1: it's down at Eddie Place, Eddie's Place, the last time

1002
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: I had a living much.

1003
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1004
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 1: So I mean, I'm not gonna lie to y'all, Okay,

1005
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: I'll keep it real on here. Ms Bard seventy two says,

1006
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: the level of the now when I see the engine light,

1007
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 1: ain't it. I went through so many cars and processes

1008
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: in the same A bunch of prayer, the stress of

1009
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: dealing with a mechanic where I am getting the money?

1010
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: How can I get to work? A bunch of sweat

1011
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: and just a bunch of stress when I see that.

1012
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 1: Damn light on, ain't it? That thing will take you

1013
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: right back, won't it. I'm like, now we're doing better,

1014
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,799
Speaker 1: like Karen got a better job the podcast, you know,

1015
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: like the business is doing well, and you know, definitely

1016
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: managing the money and stuff like you know, through all

1017
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: the apps and programs and client all the shit. You know,

1018
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 1: so like we're doing well, paying off a lot of debt,

1019
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 1: all this different stuff.

1020
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 2: Man. But let me tell y'all, well, I definitely has it,

1021
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: Like this is fairly new for us. It's you know,

1022
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 2: we're not white people. Guys took us a lordy just

1023
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 2: to be able to be like, oh so this what

1024
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 2: it's like to go out to eat whenever you want. Okay, right,

1025
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 2: but anyway, that's not my point. I'm not trying to

1026
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 2: do struggle Olympic shit here. What I'm trying to say

1027
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 2: is we're doing better now. And there are still times

1028
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 2: when something's on my car and I'm like, oh.

1029
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: Fuck right, like I forget that I got it now,

1030
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: Like I forgot that.

1031
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 3: I'm nervous, and Roger got to get on me, like.

1032
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 2: I actually do have it.

1033
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 1: I need to take I want to be driving. I

1034
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: want to be safe. I want my wife's car to

1035
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: be safe. I have it to go ahead and take

1036
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: care of it, and.

1037
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 3: Like it's been on two weeks. I'm like, yeah, it's

1038
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 3: been on two weeks.

1039
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: It's not like we drive like nice fancy cars and

1040
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:53,720
Speaker 1: no shit, like we drive regular cars if anything, older model,

1041
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 1: not fancy cars at all. And I'll still be like,

1042
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: I gotta go to the shop. And then I'm like, wait,

1043
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: I actually have it in my bank account. I should

1044
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: actually go get these hires like that.

1045
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 2: You know, so anyway, it only takes one thing to

1046
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 2: take you right back. As my point, broke.

1047
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: PTSD, come on, sober king says that bank balance for

1048
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: your motherfucker. I've had to drive for months of the

1049
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,240
Speaker 1: engine light on because.

1050
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 2: The repair simply one in the budget. I've been there.

1051
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 2: I've been there. My thing was. I used to go

1052
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: there and try to be like, so, can we just

1053
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 2: put some used on it like that?

1054
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, can I get one re Like, sir,

1055
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,280
Speaker 3: we can't give you one thread of the tires.

1056
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: They like, sir, you need a whole new engine. Y'all

1057
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: got any used whole new engines?

1058
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 3: Come on us, whole engines. They're like, yeah, but we

1059
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 3: can't guarantee it.

1060
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: Cool, it's not gonna work, sir, Just go it's not

1061
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 2: going to work. Can y'all put some used oil for this?

1062
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 2: All change?

1063
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 3: Bs?

1064
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,880
Speaker 2: You can't know, you can't.

1065
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: Come on, We're not gonna drive down to the junk yard,

1066
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 1: find a car that got total and get the brakes

1067
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: off of it.

1068
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 2: Sir, just trust us, Just pay the extra money. I'm like, okay,

1069
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 2: well cool then, okay, cool, cool. How about it? Put

1070
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 2: one break on the which break is the worst? Come by?

1071
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 3: Which break is? Which tie is the worst?

1072
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 2: Sir?

1073
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: We have to put brakes on their pairs? Okay, all right,

1074
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 1: the left side on the right side. Okay, So like,

1075
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:15,280
Speaker 1: what's what's the cheapest pair? You know what I'm saying. Okay,

1076
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 1: how about this? Put some back breaks on the front,

1077
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, So then we.

1078
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 3: Can see y'all rotate my breaks around. They'll be like, sir,

1079
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 3: come on, come.

1080
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 2: On now, cars don't work this way.

1081
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 3: They'd be like, can I do one tie? They'd be like, well,

1082
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 3: you know if you no, no, no, no, I can't buy two.

1083
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 3: I can't do the buy one, get one.

1084
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:30,399
Speaker 2: I can't I can't.

1085
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 3: I can't do that. I can't buy three, get one free.

1086
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 3: I want one tire.

1087
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: I took my car to the shop for some work

1088
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: that I thought I had just got the work done,

1089
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: and it was all my breaks and stuff.

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Speaker 2: And when I got my oil.

1091
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: Change at the oil change place, that was like, sir,

1092
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 1: your breaks are squeaking. You want us to look at

1093
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: your breaks? I said, I think I just got them done.

1094
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: Don't touch nothing like change the oil. I'll take it

1095
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:51,959
Speaker 1: back to the shop that worked on my break.

1096
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 3: Right.

1097
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,399
Speaker 1: So we took it there, and I was expecting them

1098
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: to be like, hey man, so because this is what

1099
00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 1: I feel like they always do. It's like, I'm like,

1100
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: the work you did is kind of shoddy, because hey,

1101
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: this you know it's still acting up. I always expect

1102
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: them to line and be like, oh, that's not the breaks,

1103
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: that's the flux's capacity to doll that's gonna be another

1104
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,760
Speaker 1: four hundred dollars or whatever, right, But budd he really

1105
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, it's covered under the warranty.

1106
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:16,959
Speaker 2: I don't know what happened to the break.

1107
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:18,720
Speaker 3: I love that warranty.

1108
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: Boom Like it was like, come picked the call. In

1109
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: a couple hours, brand new free.

1110
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 3: They were like, oh, oh yeah, it's under warranty because

1111
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 3: they be shocked when we bring them older. Couse, They're

1112
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 3: be like, y'all still fixing these old guys. I'm like,

1113
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 3: it ain't no cop pay man.

1114
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,240
Speaker 2: What do we talk about? You learn that from my parents?

1115
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: Come on anyway, next episode nineteen ninety six Dots Comrades,

1116
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: we had seven comments and says the presidence of fake

1117
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: black Twitter accounts was discovered shortly after the twenty sixteen election.

1118
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: There were articles about it that didn't get a lot

1119
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: of attention. I don't know how long you've been listening in,

1120
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: but we covered that.

1121
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 2: I appreciate you.

1122
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: Uh right then though, but we definitely covered the fake

1123
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 1: woke Twitter accounts and the fucking the There was like

1124
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: a black twitterunt activism account that a lot of your

1125
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 1: phase was following and retweeting, and shit, it's so easy

1126
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: to infiltrate this shit because I know people hate this phrase,

1127
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 1: but the Internet's not actually real.

1128
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:12,280
Speaker 2: And by that I mean.

1129
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: You can just do some shit like be a fake

1130
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: black activist account and be a hub for people and

1131
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: everything and be boughted by Russia. Not have a black

1132
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 1: person associated with it like it's crazy.

1133
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 2: Man, the lens these motherfuckers are going through.

1134
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: She also linked to the to a Slate dot com

1135
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: article about the black feminis who saw the alt right

1136
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: threat coming before a game of Game before twenty sixteen election,

1137
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,959
Speaker 1: they launch campaigning its Twitter throw trolls masquerading as women

1138
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 1: of color. If only more people are paid attention, Yeah,

1139
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: they never do. There's also one of the reasons, though,

1140
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: that I think people should be careful about the shit

1141
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: that they talk about with what they expect to happen

1142
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,800
Speaker 1: on social media, because if we know that these places

1143
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: are rite for this type of deception, maybe we can't

1144
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: just go around trusting any and everything we read from

1145
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 1: the Internet. The cover of Tendency Whiskey played for White

1146
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 1: People News is pretty good, but Kiki White murdered that song,

1147
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 1: says Steven were good for her.

1148
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 2: I'm not clicking on it.

1149
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,799
Speaker 1: I'll add it to my collection of covers and we

1150
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: will save it for a day when we need to

1151
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:27,439
Speaker 1: do some white people News. So thank you, Steven feed

1152
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: us as oh I already corrected it. But the host

1153
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: of Ladies Like Us podcasts are two non black women

1154
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: to color with names and start with it end, but

1155
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: neath Uranessa Collin's girlfriend and Less something has changed. I

1156
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: don't keep on Colin Kaeviernick like that shrug emoji, and

1157
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 1: I said, thanks for the correction, I'll make sure to

1158
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,919
Speaker 1: bring it up on the show, and I did. Miss

1159
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: Anderson says The Warmth of other Sons is one of

1160
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: my favorite books. I read it last year, and the

1161
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: best thing about the book is that it left me

1162
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: with so many questions from my grandparents who came up

1163
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 1: to New York from Virginia, questions that never even crossed

1164
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 1: my mind to ask. I gained so much information about

1165
00:52:59,920 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: it our history that I can pass down to my children.

1166
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 2: I loved it. Great book.

1167
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: I'm not done yet, obviously, I'm only like seventeen percent in,

1168
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:14,280
Speaker 1: but still reading it that it's good. Did Cabernets workout

1169
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: change your mind? Yes, I feel differently about the situation

1170
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: though now I was never paying attention or No, I

1171
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:24,280
Speaker 1: still feel as I did before.

1172
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 3: The workout, still feels as I did before.

1173
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I still feel the same.

1174
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: Sixty nine percent agree with us, twenty nine percent say

1175
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 1: they weren't even paying attention before or after this, and

1176
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: two percent.

1177
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 2: Say yes, I do feel differently about the situation now.

1178
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: And mine says, I don't watch football, so I was

1179
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: never invested in that story.

1180
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 2: That invested in the story.

1181
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: It seems like he's doing fine despite not having a

1182
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: position on the team. I see stories about things he's

1183
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: doing to educate young people about their rights. If he

1184
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,919
Speaker 1: kept playing football and was never fired, I probably would

1185
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 1: never know his name. Shrug Kem says, I'm not a

1186
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: football fan. I never understood it. However, in junior high,

1187
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 1: high school, in college, I stayed going to a game

1188
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 1: strictly for the purposes of mixing and mngland. Plus I

1189
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: don't understand the specifics and the goal post. Keep moving,

1190
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 1: Monique says, I noticed that in people's commentary on of

1191
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 1: his workout, they're still bringing up the troops veterans in

1192
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: the flag.

1193
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,720
Speaker 2: What the fuck? Yoh, it's a broken record.

1194
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,360
Speaker 1: He's a superior athlete, far superior than some of the

1195
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: starting quarterbacks in the league. I mean, come on, now,

1196
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: I take him in a hardbat over Ron Fitzpatrick or

1197
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: Dwayne Haskins. He runs like a cornerback. He's a gun

1198
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: of an arm. He should be playing on the team

1199
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: that needs a quarterback right now. Like oh, I don't

1200
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 1: know Detroit. He's definitely better than Mason Rudolph. I could

1201
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: go on and on, but here we are. I feel

1202
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: like Jay's deal with the NFL will not last two years.

1203
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 1: He's taken too many l's. It's being nothing but egglessness

1204
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: for him since he announced this.

1205
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 2: I hope for the best for all parties involved. Yeah.

1206
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, at least the one thing that came to this,

1207
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: and I don't expect anyone in the backtrack or say

1208
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 1: they were wrong, because it's just not what people do.

1209
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,359
Speaker 2: But the one thing that came to this does seem

1210
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 2: to be that.

1211
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: Jay Z actually did want to get him a job.

1212
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: You know, at least if the rumors are true. He's

1213
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:04,359
Speaker 1: not talking obviously, so maybe it's all bullshit. But if

1214
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 1: it's true that he's the part of the reason that

1215
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 1: Goodell felt pressured in the you know, making this work,

1216
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 1: trying to give get calling the Kaepernick An opportunity, then

1217
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: I mean that kind of proves a lot of people

1218
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: what they said about Jay was a little presumptuous. Calling

1219
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: the audible was the next podcast ev he says, I

1220
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: it wasn't the armies that made you sick, it was

1221
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: the hate in your heart, They got the meats.

1222
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 2: Can't wait to see your Christmas present.

1223
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 3: Gonna think around, she gonna get you, she gonna see

1224
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 3: you an obvious plushy.

1225
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like Ev thinks I'm Henry. You know,

1226
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: it's like you like, do you hate me as well?

1227
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 2: Is that what?

1228
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: I'm the Henry of this show? You just keep watching

1229
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: helping I die? Will you eat Chick fil A? Once

1230
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: they stopped donating to homophobic charities? Yes, this is what

1231
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 1: I've been waiting on. No, I'm never going back or

1232
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: I never stopped stop em Seventy six percent of the

1233
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 1: audists never stop eating there at least y'all honest?

1234
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:05,839
Speaker 3: Uh.

1235
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: Nineteen cent says no, I'm never going back, and six

1236
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 1: percent said yes, That's why I've.

1237
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 2: Been waiting on. Y'all.

1238
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: Keep wondering what number of people are they really hoping

1239
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 1: to like to get by not contributing to the charities.

1240
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: At this point, I feel like it can't be a

1241
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 1: majority of people, because they continue to do great business

1242
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: without without you know, coming off of them charities.

1243
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, just they just try to being protested. They just

1244
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 3: want to go and put it in places without having

1245
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 3: to do with pickatons.

1246
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'll talk about the update on that tomorrow

1247
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: I think, or sometime this week when we do LGBT news,

1248
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: because I'm pretty sure that they went back on that

1249
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: or didn't confirm it. So this is just like two

1250
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 1: years ago when they said they were gonna stop, and

1251
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: then so and asked them again. They was like, well,

1252
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,359
Speaker 1: we didn't say we would stop stop. Like what AMM says,

1253
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 1: I need a fourth choice of going back after the

1254
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: election because they're donating the Trumps campaign. See negroes eating

1255
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 1: pop up might have helped bring about change. Uh, that's

1256
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 1: what I said.

1257
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 2: Even he says I never ate Chick fil A on Sundays,

1258
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, if you eat Arbies, it's no

1259
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 2: way you don't eat Chick fil A. I mean, come on,

1260
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 2: you have no standards all, let's just keep it honest.

1261
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 2: Oh man. Up nineteen ninety eight was Judge Joe Brown

1262
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 2: as a hotel. I was shocked.

1263
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: Shout out to y'all that weren't shocked at all. I

1264
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: don't know how y'all weren't shocked, but people was all

1265
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: on my Facebook page let me know they wasn't shocked.

1266
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know that shit was Stepod

1267
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: that blew me. It's like this nigga, come on. Stephen

1268
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: Thompson says, love the show as usual. The fuck it

1269
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 1: with Black People and Judge Joe Brown story had me dying.

1270
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 1: I am not at all surprised he expressed some hole

1271
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 1: tel opinions in part in the past. But I guess

1272
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: nothing ever really went viral as oh, is that what

1273
00:57:57,440 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: it was?

1274
00:57:58,000 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 3: Because I was like on the mask, I was like,

1275
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 3: I've never heard what has happened to them?

1276
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 2: Yeah? I guess I don't know. I probably may not

1277
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:04,320
Speaker 2: watch the show.

1278
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 3: And I didn't like not like that.

1279
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: As a semi impath, I try to understand what he's

1280
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: been going through a lot during He's been going through

1281
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: a lot in the last few years. He's gotten a

1282
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 1: divorce and he's it has been prevented from practicing law

1283
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: in his home state of Tennessee because of a disability

1284
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: complications from his diabetes. On top of that, he is

1285
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 1: my frat brother, So I don't like to throw stones

1286
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: at public, but brother, come on, yeah, that was terrible.

1287
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 1: That was no excuse for the shit he was saying.

1288
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: And Mom says, hey, y'all, this is a super fun

1289
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: This is a super fun episode. One, I love how

1290
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 1: y'all are trolling that four star review. Never stopped singing

1291
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 1: Butterflies in the sky car. I love it haha.

1292
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 2: And two, I think this is the most shocked I've

1293
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 2: ever heard rid b after that Judge Joe Brown clip.

1294
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 1: Karen didn't sound surprised at all, laughing my butt. She

1295
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 1: was only surprised that doctor Umar was a voice of reason.

1296
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: I died loved y'all aman.

1297
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 3: I was shocked. I was like, if he divorced the

1298
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 3: reason oooh, somebody checked the road.

1299
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 2: It was kind of just both at the same time,

1300
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 2: census overload.

1301
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: I can't believe it was really him. I kept thinking

1302
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: of an impersonator or something. Pacola Nieks says really enjoyed

1303
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:13,040
Speaker 1: this episode. Karen, I'm a VET, and I think you're

1304
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 1: right on point about us bonding over trauma the way

1305
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: veterans do. I've sat in plenty of VA waiting rooms

1306
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 1: where veterans of all generations bond to laugh about many

1307
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 1: traumatic experiences of being a VET, whether it's a zoda,

1308
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 1: war zones or just terrible treatment by commanding officers, VA

1309
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: medical facilities, or the military institution as a whole. It

1310
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: is very similar to the way I've joked with family

1311
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: about what I know now is abuse keyboard the good work.

1312
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 2: Love you too, Wow, thank you. Yeah, you was on

1313
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 2: point with that one.

1314
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 1: Karen Brooklyn Shoebay says, Okay born and bred New Yorker.

1315
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 1: First off, New York may be a blue state, but

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00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 1: we have had Republican governors and a majority of Republican

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00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: state Congress.

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00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 2: New York City has.

1319
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 1: No problem voting in a Republican mayor because of racism.

1320
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: The war on drugs that lingered since the nineteen eighties

1321
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: and nineteen nineties still influence his voters. Staten Island is

1322
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 1: a whole borough built on white flight immigrants also had

1323
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: a tendency to lean Republican because of the false narrative

1324
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: that the black Americans and Hispanics are drowning New York

1325
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 1: City and crime. Shaking my head the paraphrase Chris from

1326
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 1: MTR Mike Bloomberg throwing his hat into the presidential racist

1327
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: Democrat as a Democrat as the height of whose man's

1328
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: this and she re writes plus and why I didn't

1329
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 1: have early voting.

1330
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Speaker 2: Until this year.

1331
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: Wow, wow, And you know black people early vote. That's crazy.

1332
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 3: That's why they be trying to get rid of it

1333
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 3: and wipe it out because they know we will actually

1334
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 3: utilize that because we wanted a few nations that are

1335
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 3: like elect you Day, not a national holiday. The fuck

1336
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:43,040
Speaker 3: you don't want people to vote.

1337
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 1: Then I finally get it now, guys, and I want

1338
01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: you all black people up north to know I understand

1339
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 1: y'all let them say, y'all, let the other brown people

1340
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: call y'all nigga because y'all need to help it the pose.

1341
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 2: I get it now.

1342
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: I didn't see the playing the long plan that y'all

1343
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 1: was running because I was like, whyle y'all up there

1344
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 1: letting them call y'all a nigga like that, like just

1345
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: fucking slap them out side of the head and then

1346
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 1: they'll stop. But I see it now. You need Fat Joe,

1347
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You need Cardi b. You

1348
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: need what Cardy is kind of and she like afro

1349
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: looktin anyway, you need these, You need these other people,

1350
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 1: and so you gotta let them slide a little bit

1351
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 1: because if not, you know what chance did y'all have

1352
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 1: when it comes to stopping frisk That's smart, well played

1353
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:33,040
Speaker 1: Blacks well player. I should have known that y'all had

1354
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: something savvy.

1355
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 3: You gotta be a strategy, a strategy behind it.

1356
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I knew.

1357
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: I just didn't understand the way y'all was doing it,

1358
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 1: because it's the only way that it makes sense. Y'all

1359
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: got a lot going on against you, and it's like,

1360
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: either we get four more years of Bloomberg or I

1361
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: go ahead and let you know, I go ahead and.

1362
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,720
Speaker 2: Let Fat Joe say, lean back, Nigga, lean back. I

1363
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 2: get it.

1364
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 1: Ramsey pussy Bowl says five Stars that Joe Brown Michael

1365
01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 1: Bloomberg segments were priceless, even he says, Joe Brown's show

1366
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 1: has been canceled for a while, but he's not the

1367
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 1: one who calls people crackheads.

1368
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 2: That's Judge Matthews. Judge Joe Brown's thing was.

1369
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: Telling people be a man. You're not a real man,

1370
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: so it doesn't surprise. And he's a hotel.

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Speaker 2: But I can't go that the audio tape though maybe

1372
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 2: I got him confused. I don't know.

1373
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 1: Maybe Mathews is doing Joe Brown sounded like mister doug

1374
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 1: By says, but Joe Brown sounded like Mister's father from

1375
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: the Color Purple. It would be nice to have a

1376
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 1: celebrity Brown in the news, not on some stupid shit.

1377
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 2: Oh well, I guess the Browns have had it down.

1378
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 3: Unless you Cleveland Brown. That's the only one.

1379
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 2: No, the Cleveland Browns are suck too.

1380
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, the Cleveland I'm sorry.

1381
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 2: Oh Cleveland Brown. Oh yeah, that's not a real black man.

1382
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 2: Uh F. The poe was, do you want to see

1383
01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 2: t I on go on Red Table Talk? Yes?

1384
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 3: No?

1385
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 2: Or I don't really watch Red Table Talk anyway.

1386
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 3: I don't really watch it.

1387
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: Sixty seven cent don't really watch it, So I'm taking

1388
01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 1: them out of the pole. Twenty five say yes and

1389
01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 1: a percent say no. So that's a vast majority of

1390
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 1: people that would like to see you know, like to

1391
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: see him go on there.

1392
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 2: That the ore the ones who watch it.

1393
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: I would like to see it, Aman says, I'm definitely

1394
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 1: going to watch it, but I'm not expecting a dragon

1395
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 1: or anything. I'm expecting a lot of side eyes from

1396
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: Jada's mom and Willow making her concerned, third our open face,

1397
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 1: and a lot of them as all three of from

1398
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 1: all three of them.

1399
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. That's but see, that's the thing.

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01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: A lot of people, in my opinion value the dragging

1401
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: idea too hard.

1402
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:34,919
Speaker 2: They value it too much.

1403
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: They do like they keep thinking the whole goal is

1404
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: to bring someone on TV and fuss at them and

1405
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: yell at them, and you know, and that'll make them

1406
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: look stupid and then you'll win the fight. And I

1407
01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 1: think that that may be good TV, but I think

1408
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:51,439
Speaker 1: that's bad for people.

1409
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 3: Don't learn. Nobody's getting educated. Don't lie to yourself. I

1410
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 3: don't know why people think people you don't get the

1411
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 3: person listening right now? Do you learn when somebody comes

1412
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 3: and get your ass and fusses and holler at you know,

1413
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 3: you're immediately turned off and you get defensive. So why

1414
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 3: don't you think they do too?

1415
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: I blame cable news for this because cable news for

1416
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 1: years operate on the premise of let's bring two people

1417
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: on who are diametrically approsed to something and have them

1418
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: yell at each other and then we'll say one of

1419
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: them went one or not, and then all the coverage

1420
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 1: on all the blogs and websites are like, watch so

1421
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: and so destroy so and so on this topic, and

1422
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: you know, and to me, I'm like, that's not necessarily helpful.

1423
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: I like when people go on these shows where someone's

1424
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: actually trying to like reason with them, hear them out

1425
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 1: and give them the facts. Now, they may choose to

1426
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 1: reject these things, but yelling at them wasn't gonna make

1427
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: them accept them anymore. And not yelling at them doesn't

1428
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 1: mean they're right. And so I just appreciate that. That's

1429
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 1: the kind of vibe that I try to cultivate.

1430
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 2: I try not to.

1431
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: We have had a few shows that turn into like,

1432
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 1: you know, pretty passionate back and forth with people, but

1433
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 1: I try.

1434
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 2: Not to do that on purpose. And you know, maybe

1435
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:08,000
Speaker 2: it'll turn into that.

1436
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:10,280
Speaker 1: If someone is so ignorant on Red Table, maybe it

1437
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 1: will turn into that one day.

1438
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:12,439
Speaker 2: Monique says.

1439
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 1: Red Table talk floats in and out of the out

1440
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 1: of legitimacy with the guests they invited to sit down.

1441
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 1: Some are legit and some of them been stunt laden,

1442
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: and some are both at the same time. The Jordan

1443
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 1: Woodsiger comes to mind. What I would be on board

1444
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: with is to invite both of her parents, because this

1445
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: young lady's mother has been a race from this entire issue.

1446
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 1: I would love to know her thoughts, how she handles

1447
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 1: his behavior as a father, how she is comforting her

1448
01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:35,640
Speaker 1: daughter at this tumultuous time. Perhaps there was some insight

1449
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 1: here that could actually be help parenting dynamics in the

1450
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: midst of the mess. I mean says, you want the

1451
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: public all up in your family's business. I've never really

1452
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: seen TII crowforceannig is even now ever he, Heaven's sake,

1453
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 1: publicly apologize to your daughter.

1454
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 2: She deserves so much more.

1455
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:52,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, the thing with everything you just said is if

1456
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: he's willing to do all that shit, You're like, if

1457
01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 1: you like it's like me saying I'm gonna have ta

1458
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: on the podcast that i want to talk to him

1459
01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 1: about this, and then you're like, i'd be willing if

1460
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 1: the mom comes and then he apologizes that he does,

1461
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm like you not as a person with the platform,

1462
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be able to get to tell him

1463
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 1: you're coming here and you're gonna do all that shit,

1464
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:13,919
Speaker 1: and he didn't.

1465
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 3: He just want to come right, And who knows if

1466
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 3: the mom wants to say anything, she might even if

1467
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 3: she disagrees with him. It's one of those things where

1468
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 3: people underestimate the spotlight and she's like, no, no, no, no, no,

1469
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 3: y'all not pulling me out here for people to recognize

1470
01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 3: me and for me to be attacked.

1471
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 2: What would be super scary is if she did agree.

1472
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 3: With him correct and now we don't.

1473
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 2: Something we don't really want to assume.

1474
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 1: The other thing, of course, and all this is I

1475
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 1: would love to know what she thinks, if if she

1476
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 1: feels up to talking about that kind of thing, you know,

1477
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:44,200
Speaker 1: and I think Red Table Talk would be a great

1478
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:47,919
Speaker 1: place to have her talk, you know. But the other

1479
01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 1: part of all this shit, man, you gotta realize it's

1480
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: all a product. So sir is promoting his own podcast,

1481
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:57,440
Speaker 1: which is why he's even going on these other people's podcasts.

1482
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 1: Like it's all a game and it's all a rigged

1483
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 1: so something. He's gonna get something from this no matter

1484
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 1: how it shakes out. Mark says, I can't think of

1485
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 1: a better place for him to go, someplace where the

1486
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 1: host will let him tell his side his story, but

1487
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 1: will step in with her thoughts too. Maybe Gail King,

1488
01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 1: but that's CBS, and that's network has its own issues.

1489
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 1: I don't know where to find the show, but I

1490
01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 1: would definitely get feedback.

1491
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, go to just go. It's on Facebook, Facebook even,

1492
01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:26,880
Speaker 2: he says, I will watch just the cout how many

1493
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 2: times Willow says, Wow, she did.

1494
01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 1: Be blown by these motherfuckers. But yeah, so we'll see

1495
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:36,920
Speaker 1: what happens with that man. I do want to see it.

1496
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,680
Speaker 1: I hope it's good. I hope they check them and

1497
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 1: at least or at least get the other side of this.

1498
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 1: Because one of the sad parts about this man and

1499
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: this is this really does make me kind of sad.

1500
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: How few fucking prominent black outlets there are where a

1501
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: guy like t I could go on and they actually

1502
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 1: would be like, we.

1503
01:07:57,200 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 2: Disagree and that's wrong. There's so few you. Yeah, Like

1504
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 2: they might go you wild boy, you crazy.

1505
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:07,440
Speaker 1: They might even laugh at it or or shit or

1506
01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 1: flat out just agree, go ahead and agree with him.

1507
01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 1: But there's not a lot of people out there that

1508
01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: I trust to really say to that dude, brother, this

1509
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: is wrong.

1510
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 3: Right, because they're gonna let him ride because of who

1511
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 3: he is.

1512
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, not more than just who he is, just is

1513
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:25,280
Speaker 2: they low key agree with a lot of this shit.

1514
01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, and a lot of people agree with it.

1515
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 2: As much as people fight against that, there are a

1516
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 2: lot of people that actually agree with everything.

1517
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 1: Like they might think he went too far, but they

1518
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 1: think a protective father and a black and you know,

1519
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 1: the bars kind of low for black father. As long

1520
01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 1: as you around, then they don't like, Yeah, he was around,

1521
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:43,560
Speaker 1: but he was beating and abusing me.

1522
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 2: Well he was around. At least you had a daddy,

1523
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 2: you know that kind of shit.

1524
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 1: So long as the bars that low, I think him

1525
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 1: being like this is for a lot of people is

1526
01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: not a deal breaker at all, you know.

1527
01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:54,679
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1528
01:08:55,479 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 1: The last one is Doctor Sleeperhold nineteen ninety nine. Great

1529
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 1: walker Dady recap Imon says, a great episode. Y'all love

1530
01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:05,640
Speaker 1: to reading Rainbow sagment. It took me back to my

1531
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 1: school days.

1532
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 2: When I did ride the bus to school.

1533
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:10,639
Speaker 1: I often pretend that I was asleep to make sure

1534
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: I had something distracting to do, or make sure I

1535
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,679
Speaker 1: had something distracted distracting to do, like make those braces

1536
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 1: with the plastic string or have a book, so folks

1537
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't bother me. But once my younger brother started riding

1538
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 1: with me, he couldn't ignore the taunting, and I was

1539
01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 1: a lame big sister at the time.

1540
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,200
Speaker 2: I didn't want those problems, so we stopped riding the bus.

1541
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:31,800
Speaker 1: I've only been in two fights through my matriculation from

1542
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:34,719
Speaker 1: elementary to high school, and each time I was inspired

1543
01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 1: by a book on how to solve my problem. Roll

1544
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,839
Speaker 1: of Thunder, Hear My Cry. Mildred Detailer by Mildred Detailer

1545
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:42,760
Speaker 1: helped me in my first fight when I was nine.

1546
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:47,680
Speaker 1: The Cask of Amontillado by Edgar Allen Poe helped me

1547
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 1: in a fight in eighth grade. No one's going to

1548
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 1: believe that a honor roll to Goodie. Two shoes of

1549
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:55,040
Speaker 1: mine beat you up in the woods by the school,

1550
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 1: and you'll be too embarrassed to tell them. Don't mess

1551
01:09:57,320 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: with my family home anyway, I think might. Yeah, I

1552
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 1: haven't read either of those books, but I you know,

1553
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: I have had to. I've gotten to had I got

1554
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 1: in so many fights as a kid. It was it

1555
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: was really ridiculous, Like part of it was just having

1556
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,360
Speaker 1: a smart mouth, and part of it was just being

1557
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:20,560
Speaker 1: a nerd that people thought they could pick on.

1558
01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 2: And like the only thing that ever got people to

1559
01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 2: leave me alone was fighting them. I didn't even have

1560
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:28,679
Speaker 2: to win to fight, but if I fought.

1561
01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,760
Speaker 1: Them, normally they leave me alone because it's just like, wow,

1562
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 1: I want I was trying to pick on easy prey,

1563
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 1: and you turned out to be somebody that you know,

1564
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: will stand up for themselves. So yeah, we don't want

1565
01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:40,680
Speaker 1: to actually put in the effort. We just want to

1566
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:43,720
Speaker 1: joke you and just keep it moving anyway. I think

1567
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 1: Dante made that clicking noise on purpose to trigger the deep.

1568
01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 1: Once Adeg figured out the water situation, he was going

1569
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:52,280
Speaker 1: to kill him. I also think that Dante probably infiltrated

1570
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 1: right after the barn massacre, and alf It wasn't saying

1571
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 1: she killed Lydia until way after that, so I don't

1572
01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 1: think Dante knew that info.

1573
01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 2: Curious as to Oh but.

1574
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 1: But even with that though, he would have probably pulled

1575
01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,680
Speaker 1: Lydia to the side, like we both infiltrated, right, You

1576
01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. Even if he didn't know she

1577
01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 1: was supposed to be dead, he would probably be like,

1578
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 1: so then we must be wank wink, doing the same

1579
01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: shit we both over here, you know, trying.

1580
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 2: To like sabotage the society, you know, because he does

1581
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 2: know that's Lydia, you know. So I don't know, it's

1582
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:33,440
Speaker 2: just interesting answer that question.

1583
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 1: Right, I do I need an answer, because once Lydia

1584
01:11:36,880 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 1: recognized that other dude, it'slike, so they do be knowing

1585
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,720
Speaker 1: sometimes who these people are, So why doesn't she know

1586
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:43,360
Speaker 1: who he is?

1587
01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:48,160
Speaker 2: And also why doesn't he you know, why doesn't he

1588
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 2: reach out or do something to blow his cover with Lydia?

1589
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1590
01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 1: Uh okay, so I don't think Dante knew that info.

1591
01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm curious as to how they were getting information between

1592
01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: Whispers and Dante and now thinking that Alpha Male send

1593
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 1: spies to each community after the fair, no one knew

1594
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: everyone something King Zeke said has said last season, so

1595
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:12,800
Speaker 1: it would be easy just saying spies back when all

1596
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 1: the communities went back home, yup. Like no one even

1597
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 1: asked where Dante came from. He just accept They just

1598
01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:19,680
Speaker 1: said that it was a new person and face of

1599
01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 1: the group. Everyone was traumatized. No one double check. I'm

1600
01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 1: excited to see what's to come. Yeah, they even had

1601
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: they had the highwaymen people joined the group too, so

1602
01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: it could have been like he infiltrated because he was

1603
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:33,599
Speaker 1: in the highwayman or something.

1604
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 2: Who knows.

1605
01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 3: You never know.

1606
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 2: I would love to see them explain.

1607
01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:39,880
Speaker 1: Heavyweight says great episode hearing y'all discussed the back of

1608
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: the Bus cult.

1609
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 2: It took me back.

1610
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:44,000
Speaker 1: It was such a delicate balance that anything could have said,

1611
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: I ended up in a fight once because someone else

1612
01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:48,519
Speaker 1: bet this guy that he couldn't whoop me.

1613
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 2: I'm over here, I'm over here.

1614
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 1: The over exaggeration of the things this guy's gonna do,

1615
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 1: and all I want to do is read my Calvin

1616
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 1: and Hobbes comic book until my stop.

1617
01:12:57,720 --> 01:12:59,200
Speaker 2: I really enjoyed the floor of the show.

1618
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 1: I did why Gamma never turned though, I mean she

1619
01:13:02,479 --> 01:13:04,240
Speaker 1: sliced her hand pretty deep with a knife.

1620
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:07,439
Speaker 2: She was using the stab of zombie. Why didn't she turn, Nigga?

1621
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 2: You know why? Convenience zombie shit.

1622
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 1: Also, I also wonder why that, uh, that one zombie

1623
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 1: guts in the water system would affect the whole community.

1624
01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 1: But Sadik discovered the water filtration tamp tempering was such

1625
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 1: a nice touch, which brings me to dude bro Dante

1626
01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 1: shaking my head.

1627
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:28,200
Speaker 2: They got me with the swerve. I really started believing

1628
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,760
Speaker 2: this guy rewatching. He really did. He did really make

1629
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:32,120
Speaker 2: the clicking noise in real time.

1630
01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 1: I think he was stressed because of the whispers uh

1631
01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 1: he had to kill and Sadik finding the problem, and

1632
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 1: he lost focus for a second. I'm confident Sadik did

1633
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 1: tell others about the water because he found out and

1634
01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:47,320
Speaker 1: flipped it flipped out of such in the middle of

1635
01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:49,160
Speaker 1: the day, he and Dante are talking to night and

1636
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: he wasn't surprised that Dante mentioned the water. I honestly

1637
01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:54,560
Speaker 1: don't think Dante wanted to have to kill him, but

1638
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 1: his hands were forced by Carol Bauer. She had the whispers,

1639
01:13:57,640 --> 01:14:00,679
Speaker 1: lips shaking like Pooki and New Jack City. It's funny

1640
01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 1: to me that he whispered, he that he threatens her

1641
01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 1: about what he do to her if they were out there,

1642
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:08,559
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking, dude, didn't she capture you out there exactly?

1643
01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:12,760
Speaker 1: Men right, trash damn. Now she's about to beat your ass.

1644
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to the inevitable Carol versus out

1645
01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:15,759
Speaker 1: for showdown.

1646
01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 2: Keep up the great recaps. We shall keep up the

1647
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:20,439
Speaker 2: great recaps. Thank you.

1648
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:25,679
Speaker 3: And I don't think that told anybody. I really don't

1649
01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 3: think he told anyone about that water because he didn't.

1650
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:33,080
Speaker 3: He didn't figure out the water until the uh unto

1651
01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:36,679
Speaker 3: the conversation, and it was like he was like, okay,

1652
01:14:36,960 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 3: something that right, it gotta.

1653
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 2: Be the water.

1654
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:43,400
Speaker 1: We'll see even he says, just think of me as

1655
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:45,639
Speaker 1: that little girl in the mean that says, I told you, niggas,

1656
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:47,600
Speaker 1: I told you, niggas, I told you. I told you

1657
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 1: that dude was sus because he came out of nowhere.

1658
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 1: Dante needed to go fuck that dude. And I love

1659
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 1: me some, Carol, Lord knows I do, but I laughed

1660
01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:58,439
Speaker 1: and laughed when Lydia shoved that staff hit Carol's stomach,

1661
01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 1: and I oop, I need to see more Kniga next episode.

1662
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,599
Speaker 1: And bodies, mostly Whisperer's bodies.

1663
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 3: I hear you, we might not because they're going to

1664
01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:08,400
Speaker 3: ocean sides, so we'll.

1665
01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 2: See you was dead right though on that.

1666
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:13,080
Speaker 1: I mean you might listen, you might work for Arby's

1667
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 1: on the low, but that don't necessarily mean you don't

1668
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 1: be right once in a while.

1669
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 2: So shout out to you, Sha. Carol.

1670
01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:23,880
Speaker 1: Have let Lydia in on the plan yes or no Yes,

1671
01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:26,840
Speaker 1: sixty five percent of people say yes and thirty five

1672
01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 1: percent say no. Y'all feel like Lydia would have went

1673
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:30,840
Speaker 1: along with the planner she knew if.

1674
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:33,559
Speaker 3: She that's the thing. If she would have known, Hey,

1675
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:35,479
Speaker 3: this is what we're doing. We're going to keep you informed.

1676
01:15:35,520 --> 01:15:38,360
Speaker 3: But you not giving her that option made her feel

1677
01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:41,280
Speaker 3: like you don't trust her, and we.

1678
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 1: Got to let's see, sixty five percent say yes, thirty

1679
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:46,320
Speaker 1: five percent say no. We got two comments and mom

1680
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,680
Speaker 1: says yes, Why wouldn't you tell her?

1681
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 2: It made no sense.

1682
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,360
Speaker 1: Hey, Lydia, this guy told us your mom killed you.

1683
01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 1: We have to show them she's a liar. It would

1684
01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:57,640
Speaker 1: at least let Lydia know that you trust her and

1685
01:15:57,840 --> 01:15:58,240
Speaker 1: see her.

1686
01:15:58,200 --> 01:15:58,920
Speaker 2: As part of the group.

1687
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:01,080
Speaker 1: I don't think they really tried to integrate her to

1688
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 1: the community all that well, and really only kept her

1689
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:06,719
Speaker 1: around because of Henry guilt. Right, and no Name says,

1690
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 1: I don't trust that bitch. First of all, No name,

1691
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:10,559
Speaker 1: didn't you quit Twitter?

1692
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:13,680
Speaker 2: What are you doing on here? I think that's my

1693
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:18,360
Speaker 2: bad different no name? Okay, but yeah, so all right,

1694
01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 2: let's get into the voicemails. We got a couple.

1695
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:23,759
Speaker 4: Hey, Rod, Hey.

1696
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 5: Karen Kelly from New York. Don't I don't know why

1697
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:31,040
Speaker 5: I say that, Thus Shi is not why Anyway, I'm

1698
01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:34,000
Speaker 5: listening to episode I had.

1699
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 3: A pause it.

1700
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:38,759
Speaker 5: I'm listening to episode nineteen. Hey, that's your younger a husband.

1701
01:16:40,360 --> 01:16:46,599
Speaker 6: Anyway, the song You're White People, that whiskey song or something.

1702
01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:50,559
Speaker 4: I believe you're playing the original song right now.

1703
01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 5: The one that was remade.

1704
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 2: But I think that song.

1705
01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 4: Takes the tune from an ataging song that I'm really

1706
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:03,840
Speaker 4: familiar with hu not definamiliar because I can't remember the name,

1707
01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:07,640
Speaker 4: but that is the same melody and the same like

1708
01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 4: riff and the same beef bass whatever beat whatever that

1709
01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 4: edit Jane's uses in another song, So tactically, I don't

1710
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:21,720
Speaker 4: know if that means that song has just been I

1711
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 4: don't know what the hell's going on, but find the

1712
01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 4: song by edit Jane.

1713
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:33,759
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm off.

1714
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:34,200
Speaker 2: I'm late.

1715
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:37,400
Speaker 6: Oh I'd rather go blind by edit Jane.

1716
01:17:37,560 --> 01:17:39,160
Speaker 7: Listen to it the same song from.

1717
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:40,680
Speaker 3: White people knew that you thought was.

1718
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 6: The white guys song but turned out I should be

1719
01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 6: a black and the song okay, love you guys, talk

1720
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 6: to you about.

1721
01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:48,000
Speaker 2: To Spike, thank you, thank you.

1722
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:50,479
Speaker 1: All right, I'll try to look that up on my

1723
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:53,840
Speaker 1: own time and find out what's going on with that.

1724
01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 1: Maybe the white man stole it from editor and then

1725
01:17:58,960 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 1: the black people just stole back, really got some reparation

1726
01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 1: singing were digging it back? Uh the voice on line

1727
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:11,200
Speaker 1: seven O four five five seven zero one eighty six, Hey.

1728
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 7: RODDI Karrence Shelley again.

1729
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:14,760
Speaker 8: Sorry, just want to be sure I was absolutely right

1730
01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 8: and I was thanks betending soul lass song from Edna

1731
01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:21,840
Speaker 8: James when I sold well, you know what back then,

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Speaker 8: probably his ass was born in nineteen seventy eight and

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01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:28,880
Speaker 8: her song sabut in nineteen sixty seven.

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Speaker 7: I'm just saying, ah, I'm not trying to suck up

1735
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:34,640
Speaker 7: your flow because the black version of his song was

1736
01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:35,599
Speaker 7: definitely better.

1737
01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:37,639
Speaker 3: But let's all sit.

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01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 7: Down in Unison and just acknowledge the effected. Sister James

1739
01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 7: did its first and did its very well, I might

1740
01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:48,080
Speaker 7: add still good. I mean, I mean, I like the

1741
01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:50,040
Speaker 7: song song as Okay, I have to go.

1742
01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:52,760
Speaker 4: I'm I'm supposed to get lunch and I'm bullshitting.

1743
01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:53,680
Speaker 3: I love you.

1744
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:55,519
Speaker 5: Guys helped me back to the rest of this day.

1745
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 3: Thank you. Last by.

1746
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:01,600
Speaker 2: Thank you Shelley. We appreciate you.

1747
01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:06,120
Speaker 1: And the update on the white thievery that was going

1748
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 1: on with Christlton and Eda Jays.

1749
01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying it's true, don't sue me.

1750
01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 1: It was out there listening, but that's interesting that you

1751
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:16,879
Speaker 1: found those parallels between the songs.

1752
01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 2: I personally don't feel like listening to his version again,

1753
01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:22,280
Speaker 2: so he got it. You know what I'm saying.

1754
01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 9: He won, Hi, Rod and Karen, It's so let gret

1755
01:19:27,360 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 9: I am. I had to call because I talked to

1756
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,120
Speaker 9: you guys like you guys are right in front of

1757
01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 9: me when I'm listening to your podcast. I am listening

1758
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:43,400
Speaker 9: to the Judge Joe Brown episode, and you guys were

1759
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 9: talking about that poor little baby I put to work

1760
01:19:46,560 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 9: at pop Bit sick in. I'm such a terrible person.

1761
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:53,840
Speaker 2: But that's me laughing for a good ten to fifteen minutes.

1762
01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:56,960
Speaker 9: Clearly, I'm still laughing because I can't. I'm barely making

1763
01:19:57,000 --> 01:20:04,080
Speaker 9: it through. Its Oh my turn was like that baby

1764
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 9: of cockdamn nerves that killed me. Oh my god, you

1765
01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:11,040
Speaker 9: guys are hilarious. Thank you so much.

1766
01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:12,680
Speaker 3: I needed that lass, And.

1767
01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:15,839
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm just terrible.

1768
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 2: Does the baby get breaks? You know what I mean?

1769
01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 3: They don't get no breaks like you know the.

1770
01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:26,760
Speaker 2: Other employees get like fifteen minute breaks.

1771
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:30,560
Speaker 1: I went by pop Eyes the other day just to

1772
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,639
Speaker 1: see if what the line looked like for the sandwich,

1773
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 1: and uh what I trove dad employee come outside. He

1774
01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:41,280
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, man, the drive through machine broke and

1775
01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:46,480
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, y'all have really one up. McDonald's

1776
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:51,280
Speaker 1: the ice cream machine down, which broke the drive through machine.

1777
01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:54,680
Speaker 2: You gotta come inside and order. I'm like, nigga, you know,

1778
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 2: ain't no fucking such steak as a drive through machine?

1779
01:20:58,400 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 2: What is a drive through machine?

1780
01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:03,200
Speaker 3: Dog like them niggas like, look something wrong. So somebody

1781
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:04,640
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, something wrong with the voice box. Give

1782
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:05,519
Speaker 3: me the drive through machine.

1783
01:21:05,560 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 2: But that's the thing.

1784
01:21:06,640 --> 01:21:09,439
Speaker 1: It gave me the voice box because it's two voice

1785
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:11,560
Speaker 1: boxes at the Pope viobs, Oh, I didn't know that

1786
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 1: you use the other one.

1787
01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:14,920
Speaker 3: If it was just that, He was like, no, we'renn

1788
01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:16,439
Speaker 3: supposed to be to bring their asses in, right.

1789
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:18,240
Speaker 2: They were like, man, were tired of the fucking cars

1790
01:21:18,240 --> 01:21:21,840
Speaker 2: wrapped around the goddamn block, Like y'all bring y'all punk

1791
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 2: ass inside if you want to eat.

1792
01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 3: So you ain't. You ain't willing to come in. You

1793
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:26,679
Speaker 3: don't want it bad enough.

1794
01:21:26,760 --> 01:21:29,360
Speaker 2: I said, Man, I can't even blame y'all, just laugh

1795
01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:33,080
Speaker 2: and drove off. He laughed too. He knew, right, all right,

1796
01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 2: we got some co and what's so funny everybody probably

1797
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:36,679
Speaker 2: knew exactly what he was talking about.

1798
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:37,960
Speaker 3: He didn't need to call it the right thing.

1799
01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:41,200
Speaker 1: Uh No, I'm not No, nobody knows exactly what he

1800
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 1: was talking to. Drive through machine, Yeah, nobody know what

1801
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:44,840
Speaker 1: he was talking about.

1802
01:21:45,280 --> 01:21:48,960
Speaker 2: The what machine? Can the cash register? The like what

1803
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:51,280
Speaker 2: which which? Which machine?

1804
01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 3: I almost sum it was the outside one.

1805
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:55,720
Speaker 1: Right, So, like I said, you don't know what he's

1806
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:59,200
Speaker 1: talking about because nobody knows the the drive through machine

1807
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 1: machine it no one knows.

1808
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 2: What that is. What he was saying was it is

1809
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 2: working perfectly. Fine, take your black ass inside. We tired.

1810
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 2: We tired, y'all stressing us the funk out.

1811
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:11,559
Speaker 1: And I don't blame him, I said, all right, brother,

1812
01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:15,559
Speaker 1: I feel you. We got emails from the blackout tests

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Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Oh man, you know, I just

1814
01:22:19,560 --> 01:22:23,640
Speaker 1: realized it's almost time for Christmas stuff. So at some

1815
01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:26,599
Speaker 1: point I got to start putting our Amazon wish lists

1816
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 1: in the show notes for people that you know.

1817
01:22:30,400 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 2: It's not saying you have to if you.

1818
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: Feel so inclined, you know some people, Yeah, people, I

1819
01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:40,160
Speaker 1: will put it in the show notes.

1820
01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:42,320
Speaker 2: I've been putting my good Reads link.

1821
01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:44,160
Speaker 1: In the show notes the last couple of feedback shows,

1822
01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 1: but this time I'll start putting the Amazon wish lists

1823
01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 1: in the show notes for you guys that feel like

1824
01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: you know, hooking us up with a book or DVD.

1825
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 1: It finally let me add candlebooks to that ship, Thank

1826
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:56,160
Speaker 1: fucking god.

1827
01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 2: It was like, I'm like, why can't I just add

1828
01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 2: a kendlebook. People be like read this book.

1829
01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:02,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'll read it, and then they send

1830
01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 1: me a physical copy of book. I'm like, I'm probably

1831
01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:08,720
Speaker 1: not gonna read that, like no offense, but Kendo is

1832
01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:12,879
Speaker 1: just easier for me. Anyway, Let's get to your emails.

1833
01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:16,640
Speaker 1: Donna Wright saying love the podcast. Dear Rody Karen. I

1834
01:23:16,760 --> 01:23:19,479
Speaker 1: found you on the Game of Thrones interview on Serious

1835
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:22,599
Speaker 1: Radio a few months ago, and I thoroughly loved your show.

1836
01:23:22,800 --> 01:23:28,000
Speaker 2: Wow remember that interview we did. That was so fun. Man,

1837
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:30,280
Speaker 2: You just you just never know.

1838
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:34,240
Speaker 1: It has turned into a delightful part time job just

1839
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:37,439
Speaker 1: looking up things of what you speak, movie shows, books, albums,

1840
01:23:37,680 --> 01:23:40,360
Speaker 1: and the scavenger hunt to find the origin of your

1841
01:23:40,479 --> 01:23:42,880
Speaker 1: sound drops. Please tell me where you found the sword

1842
01:23:42,960 --> 01:23:46,679
Speaker 1: ratchinges intro. My guess is it is Prince's Bride. Well

1843
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:50,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna be surprised because that's not where it came from.

1844
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:53,920
Speaker 1: I just found that that particular one is sword fight

1845
01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:57,080
Speaker 1: to the Death on Spotify by Stanley R.

1846
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Speaker 2: Fields.

1847
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Speaker 1: I just search sword Fight to the Death sword Fight

1848
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Speaker 1: and it's looked up at all that like, because sometimes

1849
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,960
Speaker 1: they have Spotify doesn't just have music and shit, it

1850
01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:12,200
Speaker 1: has like sound effects and all kinds of stuff. One

1851
01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:14,519
Speaker 1: of my favorite things to do for a little while. Anyway,

1852
01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:18,600
Speaker 1: a few days was I used to look up the

1853
01:24:18,720 --> 01:24:22,240
Speaker 1: Fart sound effects and play that album when Karen got

1854
01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:24,200
Speaker 1: in the car and just be like, oh my God, Karen,

1855
01:24:24,240 --> 01:24:25,200
Speaker 1: what are you doing now?

1856
01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:26,800
Speaker 3: You Like that was not mean, what are you doing?

1857
01:24:26,960 --> 01:24:29,640
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ? Are you okay? Some of you eight you know?

1858
01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:32,639
Speaker 1: But anyway, and I will do it on the show

1859
01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:36,280
Speaker 1: too sometimes. Nineteen ninety six Dots Comrades Feedback. This is

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01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,479
Speaker 1: by Desiree, who says, hi Rod and Karen, I really

1861
01:24:39,560 --> 01:24:40,560
Speaker 1: enjoyed Sundays.

1862
01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:42,280
Speaker 2: Reading Rainbow, and I'm looking forward to reading the warmth

1863
01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:43,080
Speaker 2: of other suns.

1864
01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:45,320
Speaker 1: I think Karen is right that we do not talk

1865
01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:47,680
Speaker 1: enough about racism in the North, especially since it has

1866
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: a longer history than the South. I'm from New York

1867
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,599
Speaker 1: and most people here do not know American chattel slavery

1868
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 1: beginning in New York City as part of the Dutch

1869
01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:55,839
Speaker 1: slave trade in the sixteen hundreds.

1870
01:24:56,360 --> 01:24:59,400
Speaker 2: Slaves were, among other things, used to clear and.

1871
01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:02,560
Speaker 1: Why didn't of America trail we now called Broadway and

1872
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 1: to build the wall and walk that wall street is

1873
01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:08,519
Speaker 1: named after. At a one time, New York City was

1874
01:25:08,600 --> 01:25:10,760
Speaker 1: second only to Charleston, South Carolina, as the city with

1875
01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:12,880
Speaker 1: the most slaves per household. I did not know that

1876
01:25:13,560 --> 01:25:17,000
Speaker 1: the African Burial Ground in Lower Manhattan has an outstanding

1877
01:25:17,080 --> 01:25:19,160
Speaker 1: tour about the lives of slaves and free black people

1878
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 1: in early.

1879
01:25:19,560 --> 01:25:23,599
Speaker 2: New York City history, as well as.

1880
01:25:24,040 --> 01:25:29,920
Speaker 1: The remains of over fifteen thousand plus slaves wow from

1881
01:25:29,960 --> 01:25:32,599
Speaker 1: the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries. If you're playing the trip here,

1882
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Speaker 1: I would definitely recommend it. Thanks for another great show, Desiree.

1883
01:25:35,360 --> 01:25:38,080
Speaker 2: Thank you. That's I did not know that.

1884
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:41,759
Speaker 3: And the more you think about it's like, okay, the harbor,

1885
01:25:41,920 --> 01:25:43,680
Speaker 3: like you're right at the water. It's like it was

1886
01:25:43,760 --> 01:25:45,600
Speaker 3: a quick way to drop people off and keep and

1887
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:46,840
Speaker 3: go back out and get some more.

1888
01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1889
01:25:47,280 --> 01:25:49,479
Speaker 2: The reason they didn't have as many slaves up northn

1890
01:25:49,479 --> 01:25:50,479
Speaker 2: because you can't grow.

1891
01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:52,320
Speaker 3: Shit right concrete.

1892
01:25:52,400 --> 01:25:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, they could grow not even none of them. It

1893
01:25:55,360 --> 01:25:56,000
Speaker 2: wasn't concrete.

1894
01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:58,960
Speaker 1: Back then they just couldn't grow ship back then because

1895
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:02,679
Speaker 1: to the climate right right.

1896
01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:04,679
Speaker 3: As he was saying, yeah, they have very harsh windows.

1897
01:26:04,720 --> 01:26:07,439
Speaker 1: Yes, if they could have fucking grew cotton up there

1898
01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:11,920
Speaker 1: and made it sustainable, they would have agreed. Let's see Beth,

1899
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 1: how about Beth writs in Dear Rod and Karen, I've

1900
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 1: been meaning to write you both, you especially right to

1901
01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:20,000
Speaker 1: thank you for looking out for me when I was

1902
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:22,560
Speaker 1: going through it in winter twenty seventeen. I was so

1903
01:26:22,720 --> 01:26:25,360
Speaker 1: paranoid about my own fears and smoking that I blocked

1904
01:26:25,360 --> 01:26:29,519
Speaker 1: a lot of people during that time. I was entirely overwhelmed,

1905
01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:32,479
Speaker 1: under equipped. I was really broken and hilariously in denial

1906
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 1: of it. I felt compelled to say something, but having

1907
01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:37,000
Speaker 1: known how to broach it with you, I'm sorry I

1908
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:39,880
Speaker 1: ducked with no notice and appreciate you deeply for being

1909
01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:43,280
Speaker 1: witness for existence and for your concern and your humanity.

1910
01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:49,000
Speaker 1: You and Karen have been an intimitable source of joy, kindness,

1911
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Speaker 1: and information.

1912
01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:52,040
Speaker 2: It has been rougher than rough, and I'm on my

1913
01:26:52,120 --> 01:26:52,719
Speaker 2: way to healing.

1914
01:26:53,000 --> 01:26:54,800
Speaker 1: When I was in the hospital last year for months

1915
01:26:54,840 --> 01:26:57,599
Speaker 1: so in ironically due the physical rather than mental illness

1916
01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:00,600
Speaker 1: with the exception of my ex boyfriend. It was the

1917
01:27:00,640 --> 01:27:03,280
Speaker 1: Blackout Tips who kept me from losing my mind. I

1918
01:27:03,320 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 1: couldn't have done it without you.

1919
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Speaker 3: You.

1920
01:27:04,880 --> 01:27:07,519
Speaker 1: We are as slash. I am lucky as fuck to

1921
01:27:07,600 --> 01:27:09,960
Speaker 1: have you, your love for each other, your perspectives in

1922
01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:12,840
Speaker 1: my life. You've encouraged me to find the goodness in

1923
01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:16,280
Speaker 1: myself again, grow and be strengthened by it without feeling

1924
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 1: like I have to be a bigger person or jaded

1925
01:27:18,240 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 1: by it.

1926
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:20,960
Speaker 2: Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Beth. How

1927
01:27:21,000 --> 01:27:22,120
Speaker 2: about beath ps.

1928
01:27:22,320 --> 01:27:24,680
Speaker 1: I know you don't discuss your growth to be celebrated,

1929
01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:26,360
Speaker 1: but I've been listening to black Out Tips since twenty

1930
01:27:26,439 --> 01:27:29,080
Speaker 1: fifteen twenty sixteen, and your growth and honesty when speaking

1931
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 1: about your challenges of trumps is a thing of beauty.

1932
01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:33,160
Speaker 2: Thank you for sharing it with us. Oh, thank you.

1933
01:27:33,560 --> 01:27:37,360
Speaker 2: That was really nice, Beth. Thank you so much. And yeah,

1934
01:27:37,400 --> 01:27:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you're you know, doing better and healing

1935
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:45,040
Speaker 2: and you know. And to be fair, I don't really.

1936
01:27:45,560 --> 01:27:47,840
Speaker 1: Hold it against anybody if they have to like drop

1937
01:27:47,960 --> 01:27:51,360
Speaker 1: off or just stop listening or whatever. It's so much

1938
01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:54,000
Speaker 1: shit going on in people's lives and with social media

1939
01:27:54,040 --> 01:27:56,439
Speaker 1: and stuff. We only really know what people tell us

1940
01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:56,800
Speaker 1: and what.

1941
01:27:56,880 --> 01:27:59,880
Speaker 2: They share, and not everything is to be shared, you

1942
01:28:00,040 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

1943
01:28:00,560 --> 01:28:03,320
Speaker 1: So like I totally get like, if you're going through

1944
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Speaker 1: something really personal, we're just people at a podcast, Like,

1945
01:28:06,680 --> 01:28:08,680
Speaker 1: there's only so much we can know and do for

1946
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Speaker 1: people anyway, And if you go through some real shit,

1947
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Speaker 1: I'm happy that our show is there to help people

1948
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:16,840
Speaker 1: in times of need like that.

1949
01:28:17,479 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 2: But at the same time, you don't ever feel bad

1950
01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:22,120
Speaker 2: about having to fall back and take care of yourself.

1951
01:28:22,280 --> 01:28:23,519
Speaker 2: That's just that's just life.

1952
01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:28,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, things happen. People get sick, jobs come go, family situations,

1953
01:28:29,000 --> 01:28:32,840
Speaker 3: people get divorced, people get married, people lose children, like

1954
01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:36,400
Speaker 3: spouses like we it's people get sick, cancer, There's a

1955
01:28:36,439 --> 01:28:38,400
Speaker 3: lot of shit that happens. So no, no, no, baby,

1956
01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:42,440
Speaker 3: We never take those things personal. We understand that relationships

1957
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:44,760
Speaker 3: are seasonal, and we know we have seasonal fans. There's

1958
01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:47,200
Speaker 3: nothing personal. They just kind of dipping it out. We're

1959
01:28:47,240 --> 01:28:47,800
Speaker 3: content with that.

1960
01:28:48,400 --> 01:28:52,599
Speaker 1: Rebecca writes Kanye has a cognitive dissonance disorder. Hello Riding

1961
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:55,439
Speaker 1: carry your silence after playing the Kanye clips, says it all.

1962
01:28:55,520 --> 01:28:57,439
Speaker 1: I understand that this man might need help because the

1963
01:28:57,520 --> 01:29:00,240
Speaker 1: lack of self awareness is alarming. When he's talking about

1964
01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:02,160
Speaker 1: feeding the image of consumption with a straight face and

1965
01:29:02,240 --> 01:29:04,560
Speaker 1: knowing who he's married to. Is the level of cognitizant

1966
01:29:04,960 --> 01:29:07,680
Speaker 1: cognitive dissonance. I don't even think Trump can top He

1967
01:29:07,840 --> 01:29:10,400
Speaker 1: does not know who he's married to or her family

1968
01:29:10,439 --> 01:29:14,479
Speaker 1: a kaf family built on image and consumption, right, I

1969
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:16,360
Speaker 1: mean he is attacking their own lifestyle.

1970
01:29:16,520 --> 01:29:19,479
Speaker 2: They make bank on our consumption of image. That is

1971
01:29:19,680 --> 01:29:20,880
Speaker 2: all Kim is.

1972
01:29:21,080 --> 01:29:23,400
Speaker 1: His ego is getting the better of him, for sure.

1973
01:29:23,760 --> 01:29:25,120
Speaker 1: I don't think there could be a man with a

1974
01:29:25,160 --> 01:29:28,880
Speaker 1: bigger ego than Trump. But when Kanye opened his mouth, well,

1975
01:29:29,000 --> 01:29:32,960
Speaker 1: the other thing too, though, is he seems to be

1976
01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 1: trying to make him conform and level her shit down.

1977
01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:37,840
Speaker 2: Don't know if you saw the picture.

1978
01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:40,320
Speaker 1: Of them getting ready for him to go up on

1979
01:29:40,439 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 1: in Joe Ostein's church, but he had that covered up

1980
01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:45,400
Speaker 1: like a motherfucking she must if be wearing sack cloth

1981
01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 1: compared you know what I'm saying, It's like a Steve

1982
01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:48,080
Speaker 1: Harvey suit she was in.

1983
01:29:48,760 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, man, like he really like, I can't.

1984
01:29:52,840 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 1: Imagine the head trip of what this means he must

1985
01:29:55,040 --> 01:29:58,320
Speaker 1: think about the whole industry of what the kar cash

1986
01:29:58,520 --> 01:30:02,280
Speaker 1: is are. If he is mister strip club is sex trafficking,

1987
01:30:03,120 --> 01:30:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm saved and all this shit. And it's such a

1988
01:30:05,479 --> 01:30:08,760
Speaker 1: weird turn because when he got with him, he was

1989
01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:12,400
Speaker 1: rapping out the strip club and I am a I

1990
01:30:12,520 --> 01:30:14,400
Speaker 1: am God, I am a God.

1991
01:30:14,320 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 2: And all this shit. And now he's mister Jesus gonna

1992
01:30:17,600 --> 01:30:20,560
Speaker 2: save us and I don't know, I don't know what

1993
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:21,800
Speaker 2: the hell that family's dealing with.

1994
01:30:22,080 --> 01:30:24,519
Speaker 1: Nope, and then he's gonna say, going to the strip

1995
01:30:24,560 --> 01:30:27,040
Speaker 1: club as a king and supported sex trafficking. I know

1996
01:30:27,160 --> 01:30:29,960
Speaker 1: all kinds of I know all kinds are crazy, but

1997
01:30:30,080 --> 01:30:34,040
Speaker 1: this mind, this mind bending comparison really takes the cake. Hell,

1998
01:30:34,160 --> 01:30:35,840
Speaker 1: even the people in the audience for half of the

1999
01:30:35,880 --> 01:30:38,439
Speaker 1: second were like, whoa man, we like strip clubs.

2000
01:30:38,560 --> 01:30:40,920
Speaker 2: Let's take back a step, let's take this back and step.

2001
01:30:41,200 --> 01:30:44,080
Speaker 1: And he was at a televangelist church, a church stepped

2002
01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:46,960
Speaker 1: in for the prophet while maintaining a nonprofit tax exemption.

2003
01:30:47,120 --> 01:30:49,839
Speaker 2: Just while I can't. The mind just boggles.

2004
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:52,400
Speaker 1: He needs to handwrite a letter to every plant on

2005
01:30:52,479 --> 01:30:55,559
Speaker 1: this earth apologizing for wasting the precious air that they

2006
01:30:55,640 --> 01:30:58,800
Speaker 1: take make him, for him to breathe. I was done

2007
01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:02,200
Speaker 1: with Kanye before us, but so I'm so done with

2008
01:31:02,439 --> 01:31:04,800
Speaker 1: like Kanye who, I don't know this man.

2009
01:31:05,040 --> 01:31:08,920
Speaker 2: I feel sorry for him. Love it, folks, Rebecca, Yeah,

2010
01:31:09,040 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 2: I still go back.

2011
01:31:09,960 --> 01:31:13,599
Speaker 1: To and I like, I'm probably just beating a dead

2012
01:31:13,640 --> 01:31:15,559
Speaker 1: horse here, But I'm just not sure that that man

2013
01:31:15,720 --> 01:31:17,400
Speaker 1: is okay mentally.

2014
01:31:17,680 --> 01:31:18,840
Speaker 2: And I just don't think that.

2015
01:31:20,320 --> 01:31:23,080
Speaker 1: I think people propping him up just because of who

2016
01:31:23,160 --> 01:31:26,720
Speaker 1: he is and hoping they'll get some uh what do

2017
01:31:26,800 --> 01:31:29,680
Speaker 1: you call it, like some runoff profit and attention from

2018
01:31:29,720 --> 01:31:34,839
Speaker 1: popping him up. I think, yeah, residual, some residual attention

2019
01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:36,519
Speaker 1: or profit or whatever from him.

2020
01:31:36,720 --> 01:31:37,760
Speaker 2: I think that's just bad.

2021
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 1: And it's just proof that people will watch you spiral

2022
01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:43,400
Speaker 1: out of control and won't do and say shit, they

2023
01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:46,840
Speaker 1: don't really care about people. And and the thing is,

2024
01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:49,599
Speaker 1: they claim to have integrity, they claim that they would

2025
01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:51,599
Speaker 1: they don't agree with this, They claim the things he's

2026
01:31:51,600 --> 01:31:53,240
Speaker 1: saying is dangerous, and then they put him, put a

2027
01:31:53,320 --> 01:31:55,880
Speaker 1: microphone in his face and put them on stage all

2028
01:31:55,960 --> 01:31:56,840
Speaker 1: the goddamn time.

2029
01:31:56,960 --> 01:31:59,120
Speaker 2: Man Like it's kind of sad.

2030
01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:02,160
Speaker 3: Spiral and control them to your death and then be

2031
01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:03,120
Speaker 3: like both things.

2032
01:32:03,200 --> 01:32:05,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, if he dies somehow or something. Then they'll be like,

2033
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:09,840
Speaker 1: why were we putting him giving him all his attention?

2034
01:32:09,880 --> 01:32:11,800
Speaker 1: Why weren't we asking him to get help? Why weren't

2035
01:32:11,840 --> 01:32:14,040
Speaker 1: we And it's like, because you guys knew better and

2036
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:14,599
Speaker 1: you didn't care.

2037
01:32:15,080 --> 01:32:19,400
Speaker 2: Nope, Alicia says My journey of beating my son's ass.

2038
01:32:20,200 --> 01:32:22,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for this long ass email. I feel like

2039
01:32:22,280 --> 01:32:24,240
Speaker 1: I write in every week, but I wanted to share my.

2040
01:32:24,240 --> 01:32:25,759
Speaker 2: Experience with you in the Tippers.

2041
01:32:26,000 --> 01:32:28,160
Speaker 1: First, I noticed that my child only started hitting as

2042
01:32:28,160 --> 01:32:30,439
Speaker 1: a toddler when I stopped popping him for being bad,

2043
01:32:30,760 --> 01:32:32,479
Speaker 1: So he learned from me. When a person is not

2044
01:32:32,560 --> 01:32:34,880
Speaker 1: behaving the way you like, you hit the ass fast.

2045
01:32:34,920 --> 01:32:37,560
Speaker 1: Four years later, my son explodes over small shit and

2046
01:32:37,720 --> 01:32:39,840
Speaker 1: likes to negotiate and talk back to me. So yes,

2047
01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:41,920
Speaker 1: I whooped him a lot at first. He even hit

2048
01:32:42,040 --> 01:32:43,800
Speaker 1: me back a few times, and of course I body

2049
01:32:43,840 --> 01:32:45,840
Speaker 1: slam him when he cried in my room about it.

2050
01:32:46,360 --> 01:32:48,560
Speaker 1: That is not the relationship I want to have with

2051
01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:50,920
Speaker 1: one of the most important people in my life. And

2052
01:32:51,040 --> 01:32:53,439
Speaker 1: what I realized was beating him causing to have resentments

2053
01:32:53,479 --> 01:32:56,080
Speaker 1: towards me and push him away from me. By listening

2054
01:32:56,160 --> 01:32:57,920
Speaker 1: you talk about how your dad would sit down and

2055
01:32:57,960 --> 01:33:00,479
Speaker 1: actually talk things through with you, and reading some parents books.

2056
01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:02,439
Speaker 1: I decided to give that a shot. And let me

2057
01:33:02,520 --> 01:33:04,479
Speaker 1: tell you, our relationship is a perfect but it's gotten

2058
01:33:04,560 --> 01:33:07,200
Speaker 1: so much better. If he do something bad, I sit

2059
01:33:07,360 --> 01:33:09,679
Speaker 1: him down and talk and he actually tells me the truth,

2060
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:12,200
Speaker 1: well most of the time. I mean the kids you

2061
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:14,799
Speaker 1: know they're gone, but I do still have to remind

2062
01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:16,960
Speaker 1: him myself that, yes, he is a whole person, his

2063
01:33:17,040 --> 01:33:18,640
Speaker 1: feelings and thoughts deserved to be heard too.

2064
01:33:19,040 --> 01:33:20,400
Speaker 2: Right, this shit is hard, y'all.

2065
01:33:20,640 --> 01:33:22,719
Speaker 1: And yes, when I was a kid, I wasn't concerned

2066
01:33:22,760 --> 01:33:25,400
Speaker 1: about the cops a school administration, but I was afraid

2067
01:33:25,400 --> 01:33:27,120
Speaker 1: of my well my mama would do if she found

2068
01:33:27,160 --> 01:33:30,719
Speaker 1: out I was acting up. Just imagine the typical runaway

2069
01:33:30,800 --> 01:33:32,760
Speaker 1: slave with big eyes, breathing hard.

2070
01:33:32,840 --> 01:33:35,240
Speaker 2: That was me. When my mama found out, I tried to.

2071
01:33:35,240 --> 01:33:37,680
Speaker 1: Give myself the t bo's haircut at elementary school, and

2072
01:33:37,760 --> 01:33:40,960
Speaker 1: she got my ass beat. I was a tomboy and

2073
01:33:41,080 --> 01:33:44,759
Speaker 1: always got whoopings for getting my dresses in school clothes dirty.

2074
01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:47,800
Speaker 1: I snuck and used older sister CD player elementary school

2075
01:33:47,800 --> 01:33:49,960
Speaker 1: and got my ass beat because they don't want me

2076
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:51,000
Speaker 1: scratching up CDs.

2077
01:33:51,360 --> 01:33:53,280
Speaker 2: I couldn't go I could go on, but I want

2078
01:33:53,360 --> 01:33:55,880
Speaker 2: to love y'all and wanted to leave y'all with this.

2079
01:33:56,200 --> 01:33:57,800
Speaker 1: And it was a picture of the ooh, I'm telling

2080
01:33:57,920 --> 01:34:01,479
Speaker 1: starter pack and it was hold on, I can show

2081
01:34:01,479 --> 01:34:07,120
Speaker 1: you a a picture. But it's like the black girl

2082
01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:10,840
Speaker 1: hair bees what the little black girls wear for their hair,

2083
01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:18,679
Speaker 1: and the running nose and the little girl flip flop shoes,

2084
01:34:18,760 --> 01:34:22,479
Speaker 1: the pengues that you wearing. I don't know what the

2085
01:34:22,560 --> 01:34:24,400
Speaker 1: bottle right one is though, I don't know what that

2086
01:34:24,479 --> 01:34:28,320
Speaker 1: blue thing is, if it's a necklace or what. But yeah,

2087
01:34:28,439 --> 01:34:33,160
Speaker 1: that is the tailing ass cousin and sister starter pack

2088
01:34:33,240 --> 01:34:37,840
Speaker 1: over there. But yeah, what you say, man, I actually

2089
01:34:37,880 --> 01:34:42,160
Speaker 1: love to hear that because for two reasons. One, I

2090
01:34:42,280 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 1: think a lot of people hit their kids and still

2091
01:34:45,520 --> 01:34:48,360
Speaker 1: hit their kids, and they don't talk about it. And

2092
01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:51,760
Speaker 1: in order to get better, you have to admit where

2093
01:34:51,840 --> 01:34:54,800
Speaker 1: you were wrong. And everyone wants to start off with

2094
01:34:55,000 --> 01:34:57,800
Speaker 1: I just did great all the time. And I think

2095
01:34:58,000 --> 01:35:02,640
Speaker 1: parents are not stay they will, you know, immovable, immutable

2096
01:35:02,680 --> 01:35:04,720
Speaker 1: beings the way that we feel when their kids when

2097
01:35:04,760 --> 01:35:05,320
Speaker 1: we're kids.

2098
01:35:05,520 --> 01:35:08,439
Speaker 2: But the truth is they're learning too and as they

2099
01:35:08,520 --> 01:35:09,680
Speaker 2: get better at parenting us.

2100
01:35:09,720 --> 01:35:12,240
Speaker 1: They get more research and get more time to learn

2101
01:35:12,680 --> 01:35:14,960
Speaker 1: and undo and unwork a lot of the harm that

2102
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:15,719
Speaker 1: they've absorbed.

2103
01:35:16,240 --> 01:35:18,839
Speaker 2: Hopefully they use that to become better at parenting.

2104
01:35:19,520 --> 01:35:23,479
Speaker 1: And it means a lot to me that you that,

2105
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:27,160
Speaker 1: you know, you said that it was me talking about

2106
01:35:27,600 --> 01:35:29,400
Speaker 1: how my dad used to sit down and talk to

2107
01:35:29,520 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 1: us that did that.

2108
01:35:31,800 --> 01:35:34,400
Speaker 2: And you're not the only person. Like someone else hit

2109
01:35:34,439 --> 01:35:37,320
Speaker 2: me up on Instagram and told me a very similar

2110
01:35:37,439 --> 01:35:39,880
Speaker 2: story and said that, you know, at one point they

2111
01:35:39,920 --> 01:35:42,960
Speaker 2: almost lost custody of their kids, like they had to

2112
01:35:43,120 --> 01:35:46,280
Speaker 2: rebuild how they think of parenting from the ground up.

2113
01:35:46,439 --> 01:35:49,479
Speaker 1: Correct, because the ship that we are taught and that

2114
01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:53,000
Speaker 1: has passed down to us. If we don't break these cycles,

2115
01:35:53,160 --> 01:35:57,040
Speaker 1: we're actually putting our kids in worse situations. And these

2116
01:35:57,080 --> 01:36:00,280
Speaker 1: are black children, and these black children already have the

2117
01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:02,680
Speaker 1: world against them, and the last place they need to

2118
01:36:02,720 --> 01:36:05,160
Speaker 1: feel like that is at the house. You know, the

2119
01:36:05,280 --> 01:36:07,200
Speaker 1: last person they need to feel isn't on their side

2120
01:36:07,280 --> 01:36:08,400
Speaker 1: is the person that's in charge.

2121
01:36:08,280 --> 01:36:09,000
Speaker 2: Of protecting them.

2122
01:36:09,400 --> 01:36:11,640
Speaker 1: Now, I know it's probably easier said than done, and

2123
01:36:11,720 --> 01:36:14,640
Speaker 1: I understand that corporal punishment is probably a shortcut for

2124
01:36:14,800 --> 01:36:17,400
Speaker 1: a lot of parents, you know, And I'm not gonna

2125
01:36:17,600 --> 01:36:20,240
Speaker 1: I'm trying my best not to sound mean.

2126
01:36:19,800 --> 01:36:21,920
Speaker 2: And judgment or and call people like you lazy and

2127
01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:22,439
Speaker 2: all the shit.

2128
01:36:22,920 --> 01:36:26,320
Speaker 1: I think when you're taught something you in a lot

2129
01:36:26,360 --> 01:36:29,880
Speaker 1: of cases, you don't recognize it's wrong until until it's

2130
01:36:29,920 --> 01:36:32,880
Speaker 1: too late, you know. But if you're listening to the

2131
01:36:32,960 --> 01:36:35,080
Speaker 1: sound of my voice, it's not too late. If you

2132
01:36:35,200 --> 01:36:37,080
Speaker 1: have kids, it's not too late.

2133
01:36:37,040 --> 01:36:39,400
Speaker 2: To reform how you deal with your children.

2134
01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:42,759
Speaker 1: It's not too late to unteach yourself and thereby unteach

2135
01:36:42,840 --> 01:36:45,640
Speaker 1: your kids, you know, because that's the other thing. Your

2136
01:36:45,720 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 1: kids gonna go to school and how they're gonna solve

2137
01:36:47,560 --> 01:36:51,400
Speaker 1: their problems with violence. See, we don't talk about that

2138
01:36:51,520 --> 01:36:53,599
Speaker 1: part of We talk about how we're gonna keep them

2139
01:36:53,640 --> 01:36:56,479
Speaker 1: in line with violence. But I'm also teaching them that

2140
01:36:56,680 --> 01:36:59,400
Speaker 1: you can control the world through your violence. And so

2141
01:36:59,520 --> 01:37:01,240
Speaker 1: when they go the school and they have a disagreement

2142
01:37:01,280 --> 01:37:03,880
Speaker 1: with a classmate and they get violent, well, then what

2143
01:37:04,040 --> 01:37:06,240
Speaker 1: is that inviting into that kid's life in the prison,

2144
01:37:06,600 --> 01:37:09,600
Speaker 1: the school, the prison pipeline a black child, normally, what

2145
01:37:09,680 --> 01:37:12,920
Speaker 1: are we inviting into that life? What authority, what punishment?

2146
01:37:13,320 --> 01:37:16,160
Speaker 1: What risk are you putting a child at so, and

2147
01:37:16,240 --> 01:37:17,880
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this is a lecture of us. I'm

2148
01:37:17,920 --> 01:37:20,360
Speaker 1: saying this in general, just like I want people to

2149
01:37:20,400 --> 01:37:22,599
Speaker 1: be thinking about this shit because we can break these cycles.

2150
01:37:22,760 --> 01:37:26,240
Speaker 1: There's no there's no need for us to continue to

2151
01:37:26,360 --> 01:37:29,720
Speaker 1: allow this. And we know it doesn't come from a

2152
01:37:29,880 --> 01:37:33,000
Speaker 1: positive place as far as how we as a as

2153
01:37:33,040 --> 01:37:35,639
Speaker 1: a as a race received these.

2154
01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:38,720
Speaker 2: Lessons on how this is how you discipline someone. So

2155
01:37:40,040 --> 01:37:42,960
Speaker 2: I love these stories, man, I really do. I don't

2156
01:37:42,960 --> 01:37:43,720
Speaker 2: get tired of them.

2157
01:37:43,720 --> 01:37:47,240
Speaker 1: And I understand that it's a lot because you have

2158
01:37:47,320 --> 01:37:49,120
Speaker 1: to be vulnerable to even admit you are wrong, and

2159
01:37:49,200 --> 01:37:51,160
Speaker 1: nobody likes admitting there wrong anymore.

2160
01:37:51,360 --> 01:37:53,920
Speaker 3: No, right, No, we live in society, well people don't

2161
01:37:54,040 --> 01:37:56,280
Speaker 3: like to do that. And the way I feel is

2162
01:37:56,479 --> 01:37:59,160
Speaker 3: every day is a day to get it right. And

2163
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Speaker 3: a lot of people don't view the world like that.

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01:38:01,800 --> 01:38:04,200
Speaker 3: But everybody fucked up, and everybody's flawed in some way,

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01:38:04,240 --> 01:38:06,760
Speaker 3: shape from a fashion, but every day it's a day

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01:38:07,040 --> 01:38:10,360
Speaker 3: to get it right. So you decided today was today

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01:38:10,520 --> 01:38:13,120
Speaker 3: that I'm going to get it right. And the thing

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01:38:13,360 --> 01:38:15,560
Speaker 3: is it's a slow process, and nobody wants to go

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01:38:15,640 --> 01:38:17,280
Speaker 3: through the slow process. So, like you said, a lot

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Speaker 3: of people use still struck cuts, and I know we

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01:38:20,560 --> 01:38:23,280
Speaker 3: we laugh and joke at your dad about about how

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01:38:23,320 --> 01:38:25,120
Speaker 3: he talks and things like that, you know, because as

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01:38:25,120 --> 01:38:26,559
Speaker 3: a kid, you're like, oh my god, I'm boyd to death.

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Speaker 3: But actually they're listening. They might that's the thing. Children

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01:38:29,520 --> 01:38:31,800
Speaker 3: are actually listening. Adults look at their faces and go,

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Speaker 3: are you even listening to me? They are listening. Just

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Speaker 3: just just let them make their faces, let them do

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Speaker 3: their thing.

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Speaker 1: Well, they're listening even when they don't know they're listening,

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01:38:38,840 --> 01:38:41,479
Speaker 1: because I know, I know shit that my parents told

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01:38:41,520 --> 01:38:44,000
Speaker 1: me when I was like, I ain't listening to that shit,

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01:38:44,120 --> 01:38:46,040
Speaker 1: and then now as an adult, I'm like, I remember

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01:38:46,040 --> 01:38:46,920
Speaker 1: when they told me that shit.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what came to pass.

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01:38:48,600 --> 01:38:52,160
Speaker 1: You know, like you're always passing down knowledge, but you

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01:38:52,280 --> 01:38:55,600
Speaker 1: know you're also passing down how you resolve situations. And

2187
01:38:55,920 --> 01:38:57,519
Speaker 1: you know, one of the ways we pass that down

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01:38:57,640 --> 01:38:59,600
Speaker 1: is with that physical violence. And then your kid has

2189
01:38:59,680 --> 01:39:01,680
Speaker 1: to un work that, and I work that. And I

2190
01:39:01,760 --> 01:39:04,559
Speaker 1: feel like the main responsibility we had at each generation

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01:39:05,080 --> 01:39:07,120
Speaker 1: is to do more right by them than what was

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01:39:07,200 --> 01:39:10,680
Speaker 1: done by us, you know what I'm saying, And so everyone.

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01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:12,439
Speaker 2: And that should be. Your parents should want you to

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01:39:12,520 --> 01:39:14,960
Speaker 2: be better, and you should want your child to be

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01:39:15,080 --> 01:39:15,720
Speaker 2: better than you are.

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01:39:16,000 --> 01:39:18,600
Speaker 1: That's the whole point. And it's very difficult in this

2197
01:39:18,800 --> 01:39:23,000
Speaker 1: rigged fucking system, this rigged country. When it comes to blackness,

2198
01:39:23,040 --> 01:39:26,560
Speaker 1: it's so fucking it's such a head trip. You know,

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01:39:26,840 --> 01:39:29,559
Speaker 1: they got us tricked into thinking we saving each other

2200
01:39:29,640 --> 01:39:31,479
Speaker 1: by hitting each other, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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01:39:31,600 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 1: they got us tricked into thinking that shit. But it's

2202
01:39:34,439 --> 01:39:37,519
Speaker 1: not like but in order to break the cycle now,

2203
01:39:37,640 --> 01:39:39,960
Speaker 1: we have to recognize the progress that we've made as

2204
01:39:39,960 --> 01:39:43,080
Speaker 1: a country and as a race to say maybe the

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01:39:43,200 --> 01:39:44,559
Speaker 1: old ways aren't the best.

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01:39:44,400 --> 01:39:45,880
Speaker 2: Ways, right.

2207
01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:48,000
Speaker 3: And the thing is, you know when you say that,

2208
01:39:48,120 --> 01:39:50,360
Speaker 3: people go, well, you're just not disciplining your children. No,

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Speaker 3: we're not saying don't discipline your children.

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01:39:52,200 --> 01:39:53,800
Speaker 1: There's a bunch of shit you can do besides hitting

2211
01:39:53,800 --> 01:39:55,800
Speaker 1: the kids, right, There are other methods, but a lot

2212
01:39:55,800 --> 01:39:58,120
Speaker 1: of people are just too lazy to actually learn or

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01:39:58,240 --> 01:40:00,759
Speaker 1: actually betrain themselves to learn these of the methods.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so, so yeah, let's get into the next email.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Raphael who says, hello Roding Karen, the

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01:40:11,439 --> 01:40:13,120
Speaker 1: host of the best podcast in the world.

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01:40:13,640 --> 01:40:15,439
Speaker 2: I will always be grateful that I found you guys.

2218
01:40:15,520 --> 01:40:17,439
Speaker 1: Both of you continue to help me on my journey

2219
01:40:17,479 --> 01:40:19,719
Speaker 1: of growth in life as a veteran of the US

2220
01:40:19,880 --> 01:40:22,200
Speaker 1: Navy and someone who not only got beat as a

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01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:25,320
Speaker 1: child by my family in Nigeria, also at school where

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01:40:25,439 --> 01:40:26,560
Speaker 1: flogging was acceptable.

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01:40:26,880 --> 01:40:29,560
Speaker 2: I guess it's double PTSD for me. Ha ha ha ha.

2224
01:40:31,600 --> 01:40:32,960
Speaker 3: That bonding, we bonding.

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01:40:33,040 --> 01:40:36,559
Speaker 1: See yep, yes, you guys all right. Veterans do talk

2226
01:40:36,600 --> 01:40:39,200
Speaker 1: about lots of shit. We find common grounding and are

2227
01:40:39,240 --> 01:40:42,240
Speaker 1: able to pour our emotions into hens, our love for

2228
01:40:42,360 --> 01:40:45,559
Speaker 1: dark humor, similar to survivors of trauma, physical and emotional

2229
01:40:45,640 --> 01:40:48,639
Speaker 1: abuses from parents and teachers, sharing the laugh over the past.

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01:40:48,720 --> 01:40:51,040
Speaker 1: Not long ago, I was a guest. I was with

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01:40:51,160 --> 01:40:53,880
Speaker 1: a guest who appeared on my podcast. He was born

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01:40:53,960 --> 01:40:55,920
Speaker 1: and raised in India. We started laughing about how we

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01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:58,160
Speaker 1: used to get flogged at primary and secondary schools.

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Speaker 3: What is flogging?

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01:41:00,200 --> 01:41:02,040
Speaker 2: I think it's like hit with like almost like a

2236
01:41:02,120 --> 01:41:04,439
Speaker 2: whip or something like that. Not a whipper.

2237
01:41:05,600 --> 01:41:08,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually I think it is a whip. Let

2238
01:41:08,479 --> 01:41:11,040
Speaker 1: mean google this. I feel like it is like a

2239
01:41:11,080 --> 01:41:13,439
Speaker 1: whip looking thing. It's not like a whip like a

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Speaker 1: fucking horse whip.

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01:41:14,960 --> 01:41:20,280
Speaker 2: But it's like a you remember when we watched It's

2242
01:41:20,320 --> 01:41:23,719
Speaker 2: that terrible fucking movie we hated during Tom Hanks.

2243
01:41:24,880 --> 01:41:27,879
Speaker 3: Oh, yes, the one about the Bible.

2244
01:41:29,400 --> 01:41:32,360
Speaker 2: Yes, remember that dude that was hitting itself over the

2245
01:41:32,479 --> 01:41:35,760
Speaker 2: back with that thing. Yes, that's called flogging. They don't

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01:41:36,640 --> 01:41:37,400
Speaker 2: with the medals.

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01:41:37,600 --> 01:41:41,599
Speaker 1: Yes, flogging, flagellation, flogging, whipping, or lashing is the act

2248
01:41:41,640 --> 01:41:44,799
Speaker 1: of beating the human body with special implements such as whips, lashes,

2249
01:41:44,880 --> 01:41:49,200
Speaker 1: rod switches, the catany tails, the stem jock at the nut,

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Speaker 1: et cetera. So yeah, just getting beat with something. Yeah,

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01:41:54,800 --> 01:41:58,360
Speaker 1: but you know what they beat kids down here at school,

2252
01:41:58,479 --> 01:42:00,439
Speaker 1: You get paddling, spanking family.

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01:42:00,800 --> 01:42:04,840
Speaker 2: Uh So, Like that's not saying I'm not trying to

2254
01:42:04,960 --> 01:42:07,040
Speaker 2: minimize it, but I'm saying, like, that ain't just a

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Speaker 2: Nigeria thing. It's not Catholic schools. They hit you at

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01:42:10,800 --> 01:42:13,439
Speaker 2: rulers and shiit in my part of Nigeria.

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01:42:13,479 --> 01:42:14,920
Speaker 1: You showed up the school at the beginning of the

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01:42:14,920 --> 01:42:17,000
Speaker 1: semester with a bunch of canes for teachers and at

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01:42:17,040 --> 01:42:19,720
Speaker 1: the quality. And keep in mind what you said, that's

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01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:21,600
Speaker 1: this learn less It came from right. I believe you

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01:42:21,600 --> 01:42:22,920
Speaker 1: said he went to a Catholic school.

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01:42:24,040 --> 01:42:28,320
Speaker 2: I think that's what he said teachers. I can't remember

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01:42:28,320 --> 01:42:30,800
Speaker 2: what he said, but yeah, But anyway, a lot of

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01:42:30,920 --> 01:42:34,400
Speaker 2: home in Nigeria. But I'm just saying, I wonder if

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01:42:34,479 --> 01:42:35,120
Speaker 2: I wonder what.

2266
01:42:35,840 --> 01:42:39,120
Speaker 1: If that was a religious school too, because a lot

2267
01:42:39,120 --> 01:42:42,559
Speaker 1: of time, a lot of shit come from religion anyway, Nigeria.

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01:42:42,720 --> 01:42:44,400
Speaker 1: In my partner Jeria, you showed up the school at

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01:42:44,400 --> 01:42:46,040
Speaker 1: the beginning of the semester with a bunch of canes

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01:42:46,080 --> 01:42:46,639
Speaker 1: for teachers.

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01:42:46,960 --> 01:42:49,200
Speaker 2: If the quality wasn't good, you were already in trouble.

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01:42:49,240 --> 01:42:51,639
Speaker 2: The canes, so y'all had to pick y'all switches.

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01:42:51,720 --> 01:42:54,200
Speaker 1: The canes were the same used the weave baskets and chairs,

2274
01:42:54,240 --> 01:42:57,280
Speaker 1: but the weavers so long specials for whooping kids, and

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01:42:57,360 --> 01:43:00,479
Speaker 1: extra specials called water cane that you soaked in water

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01:43:00,560 --> 01:43:02,960
Speaker 1: before flogging the kid. In the end, by the time

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01:43:03,240 --> 01:43:05,400
Speaker 1: it was I was thirteen, we were already discovering that

2278
01:43:05,520 --> 01:43:08,639
Speaker 1: all of us had all that All they had over

2279
01:43:08,800 --> 01:43:10,880
Speaker 1: us was just the beating and nothing more. We began

2280
01:43:10,960 --> 01:43:13,719
Speaker 1: to embrace to the beatings and it became a competition

2281
01:43:13,800 --> 01:43:16,439
Speaker 1: to see who could get fliged without flinching. We flipped

2282
01:43:16,439 --> 01:43:20,000
Speaker 1: our collars at we flipped our collars and the school

2283
01:43:20,080 --> 01:43:22,439
Speaker 1: yest we got flogged in front of the whole school.

2284
01:43:22,520 --> 01:43:27,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes or class started cheering, which got teachers mad at home.

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01:43:27,720 --> 01:43:30,400
Speaker 1: The moment one got beyond the flogging stage, uncles said,

2286
01:43:30,400 --> 01:43:32,120
Speaker 1: aunts got tired of using belts and whatnot.

2287
01:43:32,400 --> 01:43:36,000
Speaker 2: We challenged family and stated our minds. Did I overdo it? Sometimes?

2288
01:43:36,120 --> 01:43:38,840
Speaker 1: Heck yes, But that's what happened the moment one's being

2289
01:43:38,920 --> 01:43:42,679
Speaker 1: ruled over with fear discovered when ones will be who's

2290
01:43:42,680 --> 01:43:45,320
Speaker 1: been ruled over with fear discovers that they can overcome it.

2291
01:43:45,680 --> 01:43:47,960
Speaker 2: And the person throwing fear at them has nothing else

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01:43:48,040 --> 01:43:48,679
Speaker 2: to offer.

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01:43:49,600 --> 01:43:53,280
Speaker 3: Correct, correct, and and and that's the thing if all

2294
01:43:53,360 --> 01:43:56,120
Speaker 3: you have is fear. And then the person realized, oh,

2295
01:43:56,240 --> 01:43:57,880
Speaker 3: all you got is fear, and you really don't have

2296
01:43:58,000 --> 01:44:00,280
Speaker 3: no power. What do I have to feed year but

2297
01:44:00,360 --> 01:44:04,200
Speaker 3: fear itself kind of almost and they start rebellion. And

2298
01:44:04,320 --> 01:44:07,360
Speaker 3: when they start rebelling, people in the power, particularly if

2299
01:44:07,360 --> 01:44:10,000
Speaker 3: they can't really enforce anything, they don't know how to respond.

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01:44:10,040 --> 01:44:11,200
Speaker 3: They don't know how to react a lot of times

2301
01:44:11,200 --> 01:44:13,040
Speaker 3: the punishment gets worse because they go, all I know

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01:44:13,200 --> 01:44:16,559
Speaker 3: is quote unquote punishment, But you know, and then all

2303
01:44:16,560 --> 01:44:18,080
Speaker 3: you do is start a revolution because, like I said,

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01:44:18,160 --> 01:44:20,439
Speaker 3: children started cheering yet because all of them are going

2305
01:44:20,520 --> 01:44:22,559
Speaker 3: through this, so they were like, good, somebody is fucking

2306
01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:23,920
Speaker 3: fighting this fucked up system.

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01:44:24,600 --> 01:44:26,760
Speaker 1: And that's the other thing too, is like, these are

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01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:28,600
Speaker 1: adults that are supposed to be taking care of you,

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01:44:29,040 --> 01:44:31,400
Speaker 1: who are telling you they're doing this for your own good, right.

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01:44:31,560 --> 01:44:34,680
Speaker 3: So what's the difference. What's the difference between this and

2311
01:44:34,840 --> 01:44:39,280
Speaker 3: marginalized groups that protests after a while fear nothing but

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01:44:39,360 --> 01:44:42,080
Speaker 3: fear itself. So while they're like, hey, you know what

2313
01:44:42,200 --> 01:44:45,400
Speaker 3: you're going through me with death, I'm possibly gonna die anyway,

2314
01:44:45,600 --> 01:44:47,200
Speaker 3: so what the fuck is this? And all of a

2315
01:44:47,240 --> 01:44:49,880
Speaker 3: sudden it starts these uprisings, then nobody knows how to

2316
01:44:49,960 --> 01:44:52,200
Speaker 3: control acts them. Over there on the other side of

2317
01:44:52,240 --> 01:44:53,800
Speaker 3: the world. What's happening right now? And the people are

2318
01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:54,679
Speaker 3: tired of being oppressed.

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01:44:55,600 --> 01:44:58,120
Speaker 1: Lots of the teachers that flagged me back in the

2320
01:44:58,200 --> 01:45:00,960
Speaker 1: day weren't paid for months. They we're frustrated with life

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01:45:00,960 --> 01:45:03,320
Speaker 1: and took it out on us today. The most danger,

2322
01:45:03,520 --> 01:45:05,120
Speaker 1: the most damage done is from.

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01:45:05,560 --> 01:45:06,479
Speaker 2: My math teachers.

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01:45:07,200 --> 01:45:09,479
Speaker 1: Every one of them had flogged me crazy the most

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01:45:09,720 --> 01:45:11,479
Speaker 1: and at the one stage, I gave up learning the

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01:45:11,479 --> 01:45:15,200
Speaker 1: subject until I moved here. When I began taking college classes,

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01:45:15,520 --> 01:45:17,439
Speaker 1: you should have seen how much panic attacks I was

2328
01:45:17,479 --> 01:45:20,120
Speaker 1: suffering from struggling with all levels of math classes. A

2329
01:45:20,200 --> 01:45:22,400
Speaker 1: good friend helped me pass. But I don't think that

2330
01:45:22,560 --> 01:45:25,560
Speaker 1: I want to go near ANYNY class again. It is

2331
01:45:25,640 --> 01:45:28,439
Speaker 1: kryptonite to me. I'm like the second to the last

2332
01:45:28,479 --> 01:45:31,200
Speaker 1: to finish during exams. I'll be sweating extra. Now that

2333
01:45:31,280 --> 01:45:32,960
Speaker 1: I have a daughter, I'm glad that her mom is

2334
01:45:33,040 --> 01:45:35,439
Speaker 1: great in the math field because I was already having

2335
01:45:35,479 --> 01:45:38,400
Speaker 1: sleepless nights thinking about that. Her mom also helped me

2336
01:45:38,439 --> 01:45:41,000
Speaker 1: with mine too, and there won't be any beatings, floggings

2337
01:45:41,080 --> 01:45:44,000
Speaker 1: or spankings in this house. I learned how to lead

2338
01:45:44,160 --> 01:45:46,920
Speaker 1: in the Navy and through volunteering in my community without

2339
01:45:46,920 --> 01:45:47,679
Speaker 1: resorting to force.

2340
01:45:48,080 --> 01:45:50,200
Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy too? Though? Like you would think, like,

2341
01:45:51,360 --> 01:45:53,800
Speaker 2: this dude is in the Navy, and you're like, yes,

2342
01:45:53,960 --> 01:45:54,240
Speaker 2: So the.

2343
01:45:54,280 --> 01:45:56,320
Speaker 1: Shit that I had to do to become, like to

2344
01:45:56,439 --> 01:46:00,240
Speaker 1: get out of high school was more abusive than the

2345
01:46:00,240 --> 01:46:02,400
Speaker 1: shit I had to do to become to be part

2346
01:46:02,439 --> 01:46:03,080
Speaker 1: of the Navy.

2347
01:46:03,360 --> 01:46:04,040
Speaker 2: Like that's wow.

2348
01:46:05,040 --> 01:46:07,320
Speaker 1: I shall be diplomatic with my kid and I hope

2349
01:46:07,360 --> 01:46:09,679
Speaker 1: to have the required patience part in the long ride,

2350
01:46:09,680 --> 01:46:13,720
Speaker 1: and thanks for the awesomeness of a podcastspectfully Raphael Yo

2351
01:46:14,280 --> 01:46:16,200
Speaker 1: that I mean, I.

2352
01:46:16,240 --> 01:46:18,240
Speaker 2: Didn't I'm be frank when we talked about this. I

2353
01:46:18,280 --> 01:46:20,040
Speaker 2: did not expect this kind of response from people.

2354
01:46:20,400 --> 01:46:23,120
Speaker 3: I didn't like this thing. You never know. And the

2355
01:46:23,240 --> 01:46:26,400
Speaker 3: thing is more, people do need to be diplomatic with

2356
01:46:26,479 --> 01:46:29,720
Speaker 3: their children, because the thing about it, when you're diplomatic,

2357
01:46:29,920 --> 01:46:32,400
Speaker 3: you forced them to use their words, You forced them

2358
01:46:32,439 --> 01:46:35,200
Speaker 3: to use critical thinking skills. You actually forced them to

2359
01:46:35,320 --> 01:46:37,960
Speaker 3: speak more clearly. You forced them to tap into their

2360
01:46:38,040 --> 01:46:42,480
Speaker 3: feelings and tap into their emotions and better express themselves.

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01:46:44,160 --> 01:46:47,200
Speaker 2: So, yeah, man, that was a lot. You know, glad

2362
01:46:47,240 --> 01:46:48,160
Speaker 2: to see you know you.

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01:46:48,240 --> 01:46:50,760
Speaker 3: Made it out of that, and you know, glad to

2364
01:46:50,920 --> 01:46:53,320
Speaker 3: baby because that sounds like that's a lot, sweetie.

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01:46:53,600 --> 01:46:55,720
Speaker 2: And the other thing, too, is that you made me think.

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01:46:55,840 --> 01:46:57,479
Speaker 1: I think a part of a reason that a lot

2367
01:46:57,520 --> 01:47:00,160
Speaker 1: of blackness is about Gallow's humor is probably because that

2368
01:47:00,880 --> 01:47:04,000
Speaker 1: because we were subjugated for so long that that's all

2369
01:47:04,080 --> 01:47:04,439
Speaker 1: we had.

2370
01:47:05,120 --> 01:47:06,519
Speaker 2: And I think that's why it's still kind of like

2371
01:47:06,560 --> 01:47:07,559
Speaker 2: a rite of passage.

2372
01:47:07,800 --> 01:47:07,960
Speaker 3: You know.

2373
01:47:08,080 --> 01:47:09,800
Speaker 1: I think a lot of this stuff not knocking it

2374
01:47:09,840 --> 01:47:11,600
Speaker 1: and not saying this back. But a lot of this

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Speaker 1: stuff we see now with a lot of black people

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Speaker 1: kind of trying to I don't know what the best

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Speaker 1: word is for. I don't want to say imitate white

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01:47:22,320 --> 01:47:25,400
Speaker 1: women in this way, but like kind of embrace this

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Speaker 1: definition of we're gonna push all the problematic jokes and

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01:47:30,200 --> 01:47:33,320
Speaker 1: the problematic tropes and the we're not you know, and

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01:47:33,439 --> 01:47:36,040
Speaker 1: the like trying to push that out of the community,

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Speaker 1: which I respect and I understand, but I feel like

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01:47:39,560 --> 01:47:41,639
Speaker 1: they have an uphill bat on their hands because unlike

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01:47:41,680 --> 01:47:45,200
Speaker 1: white people, we actually have had it hard. So there's

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01:47:45,280 --> 01:47:47,640
Speaker 1: like a right of passage of we make fun at

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01:47:47,680 --> 01:47:49,800
Speaker 1: our plight, so we get to make fun of everyone's plight,

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01:47:49,840 --> 01:47:52,360
Speaker 1: and of course everyone's finding out that that's.

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01:47:52,280 --> 01:47:53,400
Speaker 2: Not necessarily true.

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Speaker 1: I mean, look at Dave Chappelle in the response that

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Speaker 1: he's been receiving. But that's one of the reasons I'm

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01:47:58,760 --> 01:48:00,680
Speaker 1: just figuring this out talking to you right now on

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01:48:00,760 --> 01:48:02,760
Speaker 1: the air. But I feel like that might be one

2393
01:48:02,760 --> 01:48:05,240
Speaker 1: of the reasons for the rebellious spirit of certain black

2394
01:48:05,320 --> 01:48:12,960
Speaker 1: comedians is that forever before recently it being black and

2395
01:48:13,080 --> 01:48:16,320
Speaker 1: oppressed was good enough to be able to comment on anything,

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01:48:16,520 --> 01:48:20,439
Speaker 1: anything and make fun of anyone and everybody. And now

2397
01:48:20,760 --> 01:48:26,719
Speaker 1: because we're getting into the depth, the deep with levels

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01:48:26,760 --> 01:48:31,320
Speaker 1: of privilege and intersectional feminism and stuff. Now that we're

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01:48:31,320 --> 01:48:33,680
Speaker 1: getting into that, you're having people be like, well, hold up,

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01:48:34,000 --> 01:48:38,000
Speaker 1: you're making fun of gay people, you're not gay, and

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01:48:38,240 --> 01:48:40,880
Speaker 1: black people are being like, but I am black. So

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01:48:41,600 --> 01:48:43,479
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, but you don't get to make that joke.

2403
01:48:43,520 --> 01:48:45,680
Speaker 1: You're black, but you're not gay. And so now we're

2404
01:48:45,680 --> 01:48:48,800
Speaker 1: getting into these like into the weeds of it, which

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01:48:48,880 --> 01:48:54,240
Speaker 1: is what progression is about everything that people think take

2406
01:48:54,320 --> 01:48:56,840
Speaker 1: for granted. Now at some point was a contentious issue,

2407
01:48:57,160 --> 01:48:59,519
Speaker 1: you know, so you can't let it scare you.

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01:48:59,640 --> 01:49:02,280
Speaker 2: But that's not but that, like I said, I'm not

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01:49:02,680 --> 01:49:04,320
Speaker 2: I'm really thinking of this shit on the fly.

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01:49:04,520 --> 01:49:07,360
Speaker 1: I haven't really fully formaated my formatting my thoughts on this,

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01:49:07,520 --> 01:49:10,760
Speaker 1: but formulating my thoughts on this, But it feels like

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01:49:11,080 --> 01:49:13,439
Speaker 1: that's probably what a lot of this shit is, where

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01:49:14,000 --> 01:49:17,760
Speaker 1: people feel like they're giving up ground because hey, this

2414
01:49:17,880 --> 01:49:19,960
Speaker 1: is a rite of passage, this is a love language.

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01:49:20,040 --> 01:49:21,480
Speaker 2: This is actually acceptance.

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01:49:22,000 --> 01:49:24,720
Speaker 1: Me picking on you is acceptance because I pick on me,

2417
01:49:25,200 --> 01:49:27,559
Speaker 1: and the world picks on me, and this is how

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01:49:27,600 --> 01:49:29,479
Speaker 1: I have to deal with it, not saying that's right,

2419
01:49:29,600 --> 01:49:32,760
Speaker 1: but at least I can kind of understand a little

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01:49:32,800 --> 01:49:35,000
Speaker 1: bit better that point of view, even though I don't

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01:49:35,000 --> 01:49:39,719
Speaker 1: agree with it. And lastly, you self, right, Sam, yearly subscription.

2422
01:49:39,880 --> 01:49:43,160
Speaker 1: I've been listening to your podcast for a really long time.

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01:49:43,520 --> 01:49:47,280
Speaker 1: In all caps, this month, I've finally become so good

2424
01:49:47,320 --> 01:49:49,719
Speaker 1: at my job that I can finally support you guys

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01:49:49,760 --> 01:49:53,760
Speaker 1: with consistent patronage. The amount of grinding sessions and RPGs

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01:49:53,840 --> 01:49:56,759
Speaker 1: you guys have gotten me through Fable Persona three, Kingdom

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01:49:56,800 --> 01:50:01,439
Speaker 1: of Amalar, Hackslash, gu Final Fantasy thirteen, et cetera.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty happy to do this. You guys are awesome.

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01:50:03,479 --> 01:50:03,720
Speaker 2: Thank you.

2430
01:50:04,160 --> 01:50:07,200
Speaker 1: I also listen to podcasts when I grind. That's one

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01:50:07,240 --> 01:50:11,000
Speaker 1: of my biggest things for RPGs. I love, I love,

2432
01:50:11,439 --> 01:50:13,600
Speaker 1: I love turn based RPGs because I could throw a

2433
01:50:13,680 --> 01:50:16,880
Speaker 1: podcast on and still listen to it while also you know,

2434
01:50:17,080 --> 01:50:20,280
Speaker 1: playing through the battles and stuff and getting stronger. So hey,

2435
01:50:20,560 --> 01:50:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm glad that we can help you out, and I'm

2436
01:50:22,040 --> 01:50:25,200
Speaker 1: glad to thank you for coming premium. You know, thank you,

2437
01:50:25,680 --> 01:50:28,360
Speaker 1: Like that's the thing man like in the past, we've

2438
01:50:28,400 --> 01:50:30,160
Speaker 1: had people that kind of like might come at us

2439
01:50:30,200 --> 01:50:32,280
Speaker 1: sideways or they don't like something we said or did,

2440
01:50:32,960 --> 01:50:35,760
Speaker 1: and they'll make a big fucking like ordeal of how

2441
01:50:35,800 --> 01:50:37,360
Speaker 1: they're not gonna be premium.

2442
01:50:37,040 --> 01:50:38,920
Speaker 2: No more, you know whatever.

2443
01:50:39,200 --> 01:50:41,760
Speaker 1: And I never get upset because it's always someone else

2444
01:50:41,800 --> 01:50:44,640
Speaker 1: hopping on joining the party, being like, hey man, I

2445
01:50:44,840 --> 01:50:46,040
Speaker 1: like what you do and I want.

2446
01:50:45,920 --> 01:50:50,200
Speaker 2: To support it, and you know, thank you, you know,

2447
01:50:50,400 --> 01:50:52,240
Speaker 2: so I just concentrate on that, and.

2448
01:50:52,439 --> 01:50:55,080
Speaker 3: That buys back down to not taking things personal because

2449
01:50:55,160 --> 01:50:56,840
Speaker 3: people going to subscribe and people going to.

2450
01:50:57,000 --> 01:50:59,040
Speaker 2: Know I'm talking about when it's meant for us to take.

2451
01:50:59,000 --> 01:51:01,920
Speaker 3: First personal okay, will be okay. Well, people's purpose, okay,

2452
01:51:02,080 --> 01:51:02,759
Speaker 3: is to get our attention.

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01:51:03,040 --> 01:51:05,680
Speaker 2: Like I've had people that specifically wanted me to be

2454
01:51:05,800 --> 01:51:08,479
Speaker 2: like damn, like and now I'm canceling, you know, and

2455
01:51:08,560 --> 01:51:12,880
Speaker 2: it's like, all right, that's you're right. I never thought

2456
01:51:13,040 --> 01:51:15,760
Speaker 2: I never assumed we were friends. I just assume you

2457
01:51:16,000 --> 01:51:16,719
Speaker 2: like this content.

2458
01:51:16,880 --> 01:51:20,400
Speaker 1: And also, at the same time, if you don't listen

2459
01:51:20,560 --> 01:51:22,679
Speaker 1: or whatever, that doesn't mean we're not friends, like agreed.

2460
01:51:23,080 --> 01:51:23,360
Speaker 2: I just.

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01:51:25,080 --> 01:51:26,760
Speaker 1: I have a certain understanding of what we do for

2462
01:51:26,840 --> 01:51:29,400
Speaker 1: a living. So all right, we'll be back. I don't

2463
01:51:29,479 --> 01:51:32,000
Speaker 1: know how much we'll be back this week. It's Thanksgiving week.

2464
01:51:34,479 --> 01:51:36,800
Speaker 1: I know I have a doctor's.

2465
01:51:36,439 --> 01:51:39,880
Speaker 2: Appointment on Tuesday afternoon, so that you know, it'll be

2466
01:51:39,960 --> 01:51:43,400
Speaker 2: a hectic to even get the show done that night,

2467
01:51:44,120 --> 01:51:46,240
Speaker 2: just because I think that appointment is later in the afternoon.

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01:51:48,400 --> 01:51:50,240
Speaker 2: And then I know Justin can't.

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01:51:50,040 --> 01:51:54,640
Speaker 1: Do Balls Deep Thursday or Friday, so I don't know.

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01:51:54,760 --> 01:51:57,960
Speaker 1: We might be taking the week off and from some

2471
01:51:58,080 --> 01:51:59,960
Speaker 1: of the stuff. I do want to do a show tomorrow,

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01:52:00,200 --> 01:52:03,880
Speaker 1: but I can't promise anything beyond like tomorrow. So and

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01:52:03,920 --> 01:52:06,840
Speaker 1: then of course Walking Dead is it's gonna still have

2474
01:52:06,960 --> 01:52:08,479
Speaker 1: their episode, so we'll try to do the.

2475
01:52:08,520 --> 01:52:09,360
Speaker 2: Recap at some point.

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01:52:09,640 --> 01:52:12,800
Speaker 1: We got a Hornets game, yeah, so it's gonna be

2477
01:52:12,800 --> 01:52:15,479
Speaker 1: a lot going on, y'all. We'll see how everything works out,

2478
01:52:16,000 --> 01:52:18,360
Speaker 1: all right, All right, y'all, shit, we got one tonight.

2479
01:52:18,160 --> 01:52:19,000
Speaker 2: To play the Bulls.

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01:52:20,120 --> 01:52:23,120
Speaker 1: So anyway, thank y'all for listening, Thank you everybody that

2481
01:52:23,240 --> 01:52:24,280
Speaker 1: listened live in the chat.

2482
01:52:25,640 --> 01:52:29,000
Speaker 2: And we'll be back, like I said, tomorrow for sure.

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01:52:29,160 --> 01:52:31,120
Speaker 2: We'll see about the rest of the week. Until then,

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Speaker 2: I love you.