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Speaker 1: Tuesday's are heart man, Tuesdays are hard, and Tuesdays after

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Speaker 1: good morning everybody. Klein's here, Hi, Kalin, good morning. Rufio

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Speaker 1: on her? Bon is here present? I had that teacher too,

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Speaker 1: but maybe say present, shut up, you're present? Whatever? Right, yes,

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Speaker 1: And I no, can you? And it's like out of here. Yeah. Well,

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Speaker 1: before we bag on teachers too much, let's talk to Alison.

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Speaker 1: She's not like that at all. No, Alie is not

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Speaker 1: I am. I live in Chicago and I have an

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Speaker 1: and now let's bring Brandon. We'll bring Brandon in. Uh,

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Speaker 1: k Yeah. Rufi was in charge of the buttons today.

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Speaker 1: And then hey, uh, mister k you have any idea,

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Speaker 1: my my amazing girlfriend. Well, I'm sure that many students

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Speaker 1: to a wonderful girlfriend and mister Kay the most amazing teacher.

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Speaker 1: his role as basketball and track coach also, so there

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Speaker 1: you go talking about another role. So many students comment

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Speaker 1: to see why. So, mister Kay, two hundred and fifty

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Speaker 1: is part of this whole image that she's trying to portray,

422
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Speaker 1: And I guess I wonder how much of this he

423
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: probably should have been aware of going into it. Did

424
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Speaker 1: he say like how and I'm sorry if I missed this,

425
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 1: but did he say how how personal or how detailed

426
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 1: she gets about him? Because yeah, they say they know

427
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 1: every fight they have and everything that's okay. It like,

428
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: is it the specifics of the fight or I'm not sure. No,

429
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 1: he just said that we hung up on Trey, so

430
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 1: we were Donald Trey. Yeah, I'm just trying to think, like,

431
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean, did she talk about it?

432
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 1: And also how much money? How much money are we

433
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: talking about here too? Because it's like, yeah, I get it, um,

434
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 1: you know it's probably not. It's her version of events

435
00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 1: and it's probably not uh, you know, an actually portrayal

436
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,399
Speaker 1: of him all the time. He doesn't get to defend himself,

437
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 1: and I'm sure that's annoying, But then again, who cares

438
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: because how many of these people really know him? Very

439
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: few of the people probably even know him anyway, And

440
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,439
Speaker 1: if she's not using his proper name, then he's just

441
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 1: a fictitious character. Just whatever. But at the same time,

442
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 1: like a lot of our listeners know a lot about

443
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: Jess just because I share stuff about you know, the

444
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: two of us, So like like cool with it, right, Yeah,

445
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 1: she is cool. There's there's things that obviously I don't post,

446
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 1: but um, if we go somewhere and like I get recognized,

447
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 1: they know who she is. They know who Ashland is.

448
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 1: So it's it's not like, you know, it's the listeners

449
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,400
Speaker 1: that's they know, you know what I'm saying. They they

450
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: follow our lives, they listen to our lives, so they

451
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 1: know a lot, like just by sharing you and on

452
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Speaker 1: social media, So if she's using him and sharing him

453
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 1: on her platform, then they probably know a lot about him. Well,

454
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Speaker 1: if she's that big that she and I'm not saying

455
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Speaker 1: it were that big, but it's a little different. I mean,

456
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 1: if she's that big on the ground that she's walking

457
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 1: around and everybody knows who is she and this guy

458
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 1: who they are, then um, well, I mean he should

459
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 1: probably be happening and they probably been in a nice

460
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: place and yeah right, I'm telling you he needs to

461
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 1: spit it where he makes income off of this himself.

462
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 1: I mean it's a difference between like we had a

463
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 1: little fight to going into details about the fight, or

464
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: being like he has a heart problem, you know, Like

465
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,399
Speaker 1: it's like wow, Like I don't know. It bums me

466
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 1: out that they can't just compromise because people do like

467
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: that is how you relate to people, like you can't

468
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 1: be like my life is perfect, do you know what

469
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 1: I mean? I do appreciate when people are real on

470
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Speaker 1: social media and I think that you know, followers like

471
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Speaker 1: that also. So I don't know. If she is unwilling

472
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Speaker 1: to compromise at all at all, then she's probably self

473
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Speaker 1: absorbed and it's not the relationship for him. But if

474
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Speaker 1: if if she's if he wants to not be involved

475
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 1: at all, He wants to be erased from this thing.

476
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: And yet he met her, and that's what she was doing,

477
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 1: then he should have known when he was getting into

478
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 1: somewhat as I guess my point. And if he if

479
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: he doesn't want any exposure on there at all, and

480
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Speaker 1: this is what she does, you know, her, her little character,

481
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: her a little alter ego or whatever it is over here,

482
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 1: well then shame on him. He should have set about

483
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 1: the ground rules from the very beginning or not done

484
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: with her. So this is what I was why I

485
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: was trying to get to with the guys. Is this

486
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: something new? Has she like, you know, has she come

487
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: up in the last six months and then whatever this is,

488
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 1: and then and attached to you and now you're the content?

489
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,159
Speaker 1: Or has she everyone she dated is part of this,

490
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 1: as is everybody else. And it's just the way that

491
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: it is. I want to So, if you dated somebody

492
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 1: who had this sort of social media exposure, whether it's

493
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Speaker 1: TikTok or Instagram or whatever, and you're a part of it,

494
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: I mean, and they're unwilling to remove you from it,

495
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 1: do you jump that person? I mean, you break up

496
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Speaker 1: with them? I mean, of course, you attempt to compromise,

497
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 1: but I mean, like, what is this guy gonna do?

498
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 1: Because again, if he knew what he If this is

499
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:47,959
Speaker 1: what she was doing, then he should have known when

500
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Speaker 1: he was getting into And if she's making money doing it,

501
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,479
Speaker 1: then I mean, you're asking her now to adjust her

502
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 1: her revenue stream. And I don't know is he willing

503
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: to supplement that and or is she or is that

504
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 1: more important to her than the relationship? And if the

505
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,679
Speaker 1: Instagram stuff is more important than the relationship, then they

506
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't be together, right true? Yeah, I mean I

507
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: think I think he's screwed either way. Like if they

508
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 1: break up, she's gonna talk about myself show. Yeah that's

509
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: the other thing. Yeah, you know what, Yeah, he needs

510
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: to I agree with all you guys used to get

511
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: his own Graham right and then respond and then they

512
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: can split the proceeds of each how about that? Right?

513
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 1: I might watch that, you know, he said this, and

514
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: then I'd go over there. Yeah, yeah, what would you do?

515
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: Eight five five nine one three five. You you date

516
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: a social media influencer, you did a radio personality and

517
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Speaker 1: you and you find yourself being part of the content.

518
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: I mean, how do you Is it shame on you

519
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: because you knew from the beginning? Is it no compromise?

520
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 1: I'm out, is it? I wouldn't have even done it

521
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: to begin with. Ariana is un now hit us supple

522
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Speaker 1: to the Entertainer Report Next Fred Show one h three five.

523
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Speaker 1: I gotta look up the words to that song I've heard.

524
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: I've heard it like fifty thousand times. Which part are

525
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 1: you having trouble with? The kitchen? What is she doing

526
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: when you go there? Switch positions for you. She's in

527
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 1: the kitchen and she's in the bedroom. Yeah, you need

528
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 1: to go to thirty four thirty five. Friend, you need

529
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: to move on from this song. Oh I love this.

530
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 1: If you had those up adds up to sixty nine. Um,

531
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: but I don't know. Have you listened to the While album?

532
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 1: Because I was blushing and that's very hard to do

533
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: just because she I don't know, I can still see

534
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: her like she's so tiny, Yeah right, I don't know,

535
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: but yeah, she wants I can see it all night,

536
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: every which way. I know, I like, holy right, that

537
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 1: must have been very difficult for h what's his face

538
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: to keep up with? Um? Yeah, Pete Davidson must have

539
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: been very difficult. Heard he is great A great time,

540
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: is that right? Yeah? Her new boyfriend must be enjoying

541
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: life right now, like the real estate dude. I mean,

542
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: if he's in the kitchen, like these songs are written

543
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: for him, I would assume so, wouldn't It wouldn't be

544
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:08,719
Speaker 1: something of it. She's like like lays there like like anyway,

545
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 1: what about this kitchen? What about? What about switching in

546
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: a position? What about that she's up and behind and

547
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: everywhere else else? Thou doth protest too much? U? I

548
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: think I think Shakespeare once said that. Paulina told me that.

549
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: Um no, it's the it's the power where she goes.

550
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: But but I don't know what the hell that part is.

551
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: I can't understand. You know, it gets a little mushy.

552
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: For is it like switching in the kitchen for what?

553
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: Is it? Switching? Switching them positions for you? Switching insition? You?

554
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: Hold on a second, I'm looking at this. Oh that's

555
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 1: what she's I'm in the kitchen and I'm in the bedroom. Yes,

556
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: they're banging in both places. I don't know if you

557
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: got that. But she's never I've seen the video. Everything

558
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: flips around and is it yeah, in the White House too. No,

559
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: I've seen a video. Um, let me see, here's switching

560
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: the positions for you cooking in the kitchen and I'm

561
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. I'm in the Olympics way, I'm jumping

562
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: through hoops. No, my love, infinite nothing. I wouldn't do that.

563
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: I won't do switching for yeah, switch cooking in the end,

564
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: that's what it is. Yep. The high parts are the

565
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: kitchen in the bedroom. I think those are the parts

566
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: that I can't understand. But you know what, with Ariana,

567
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: there are many lyrics I can't understand. Yeah, she's a

568
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: wonderful voice though. Mariah, Hi, Mariah, good morning, how are

569
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: you Hi? I'm good. I'm just going back on this

570
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 1: stair go with trade. Just a second ago, he's dating

571
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: some kind of influencer and he's now part of the

572
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: of the of the narrative of the storyline, and he

573
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: doesn't like it, and she apparently is not willing to

574
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: remove him. So does she stare go or he stare go?

575
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: I don't think that it's really a stay or go.

576
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: I think so I can personally, really, I previously a

577
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: while ago, Days Only had a big following, and I

578
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: also have friends that have a big following, And although

579
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: they do post their significant others on their social media,

580
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: no one goes into that much detail, like no one

581
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: knows about private frights, no one knows about like the habits,

582
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: because I know he was saying that the followers know

583
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: about eighty yeah what he eats. I think, now that's

584
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: too far to see some boundaries and a little bit

585
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: of privacy, because no, you don't want anyone knowing every

586
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: little detail about your relationship and what you're going through.

587
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: But I still think, obviously she is a social media

588
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: influencer that he is going to be a part of

589
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: her page. She just needs to have a little bit

590
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: more privacy. Okay, But I go back to you, and

591
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: this is a number of things that he didn't really

592
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't respond to. How long has she been doing this?

593
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: And is this her game? You know? What does she

594
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: have the is her Instagram channel about about relationships and

595
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: her version of events? Because if it is, well, then

596
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,479
Speaker 1: he should have known. Yeah, then she's different from all

597
00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: the other ones, right right, I exactly, And I think, um,

598
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Obviously she was single before they dated,

599
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: so I'm not sure if he really saw on the

600
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: social media how she was with another with her boyfriend,

601
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: So I believe maybe he saw that she is a

602
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 1: social media influencer, but he never really saw how she

603
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: was with a boyfriend, and I mean as much detail

604
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: that she puts into that, so maybe just wasn't clear,

605
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: But I do think it bottom line is that they

606
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: just probably had to set some boundaries and if he's

607
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: not comfortable, then ultimately he probably does have to leave.

608
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: All right, fair enough, thank you, Maria, have a great day,

609
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: you too. Nick. What's going on? Nick? Good morning? How

610
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: are you doing? Good? Good are you guys doing? Nick? Great? Man?

611
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: You're saying get out of this thing? Yeah, I mean,

612
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: so get out of it. I kind of agree with

613
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: the previous caller who said, you know, you got to

614
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: set up to set up the boundaries and then decide

615
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: if you want to leave or not, because honestly, yes,

616
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: she is an influencer and I'm I'm sure he's seen

617
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: what she does, and so she talks about her personal

618
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: life and so she's gotta, you know, share that she's

619
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: dating or whatever it is. Uh, so he's got to

620
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: put up those boundaries and yeah, explain that this is

621
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: how far I want you to go or not, because

622
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: it's almost the same as you know, guys getting together

623
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: out of the bar and you know, sharing their sex

624
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: life with each other. You don't want to share everything,

625
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk about everything, but you want,

626
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: you know, you want to share some things. You want

627
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: to be open about your life, especially as an influencer.

628
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: But he's got to put up those boundaries. And like

629
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,479
Speaker 1: the kind of work I do, and you know, I'm

630
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: not going to go into too much of it, but

631
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: I have worked with people in the industry, people who

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Speaker 1: are influencers on things like only Fans and okay, all right, Nicky,

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Speaker 1: Nick Nick makes bad news, Buddy, bad bad news, Nick Nick.

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Speaker 1: You just can't do that to us, Buddy. You can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't just set that one down and then walk away.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing with only fans, Nick? No, I

637
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Speaker 1: don't do anything. I'm a I'm a counselor, so I

638
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Speaker 1: do counseling and so like some of the people that

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Speaker 1: I counsel and I meet with their influencers, you know,

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Speaker 1: in a different way. They're not fitness influencers and not

641
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Speaker 1: food influencers. They do something else and they always have

642
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: that boundary. So you have to have that boundary. If not,

643
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: you know, you get out. Yeah, all right, No, I look,

644
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Speaker 1: I agree with you. Thank you, Nick, have a good day.

645
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Speaker 1: I agree with you, But that's why I kept pressing

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Speaker 1: the guy. I'm like, Trey, what what is the content

647
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Speaker 1: on this instagram? Because if I find out that her

648
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Speaker 1: instagram is like I talk about my boyfriend Instagram, you know, well,

649
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Speaker 1: then what if you think was going to happen if

650
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Speaker 1: I find if I find out that her instagram was

651
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Speaker 1: like cooking with Katie and now all of a sudden

652
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Speaker 1: she's talking about how you know he has stinky balls.

653
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Speaker 1: You know she's cooking. Yeah, I mean, well, then that's

654
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Speaker 1: not you know, then it's it's obviously sort of evolving

655
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Speaker 1: into the direction that he's uncomfortable with. Um ay Tanya,

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Speaker 1: Good morning Tanya? How are you fine? How are you time?

657
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Speaker 1: Tell you thanks for listening. You get the final say

658
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Speaker 1: on the stair go in this Instagram influencer dynamic, if

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Speaker 1: there were me and they couldn't respect my wishes, I

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Speaker 1: would go, like I was selling, we have a role

661
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Speaker 1: that there are no phones at the table and we

662
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Speaker 1: can't enjoy time with each other if we're busy worrying

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Speaker 1: about who's seeing that we're enjoying time, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like we need that to ourselves to have

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Speaker 1: that we will be able to have intimate conversations or whatever.

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Speaker 1: We can't be intimated. We're just exposed. If I'm y,

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Speaker 1: you know, saying oh, hey, look at us, we're having

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Speaker 1: a great time, then I'm not spending that time with

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Speaker 1: the person to action. Well, if that's what you do

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Speaker 1: for a living and your partner knows that, then up

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Speaker 1: to a certain point, and wherever that point is, I

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Speaker 1: guess kind of determines or it's determined by what you've

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Speaker 1: been doing. I mean, and you kind of got to

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Speaker 1: see this coming, okay, but I don't think I would

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Speaker 1: because Okay, I understand what your john event, you know,

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Speaker 1: a huge event, and that we're going to post that butterfluence.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking in my head that we're at dinner and

678
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Speaker 1: we can't even order our food because we're on tacial media.

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Speaker 1: It's like my world were going out. We can't have

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Speaker 1: a conversation with each other because social media has to

681
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,479
Speaker 1: be involved in the conversation. It gets to a point

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Speaker 1: where where it's to be too much. You know, I

683
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Speaker 1: understand this is your job, but you know it's like

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Speaker 1: it's like I work in accounting and it's like the

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Speaker 1: account that goes and takes the work home, you know,

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Speaker 1: leave it and everywhere. Yeah, in a place. You know,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Mentalize, you know boundaries, you know

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Speaker 1: I do? It makes sense? Uh, I hear what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Tony, you have a great day YouTube. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I still want to see her Instagram and I kind

691
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Speaker 1: of want to see some of knicks clients. The latest

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Speaker 1: entertainment news is on the Fread Show follow up to

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Speaker 1: the story yesterday, and honestly, I can't believe I'm even

694
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 1: saying this, but Peacock has removed all references to Selena

695
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Speaker 1: Gomez and jokes about her kidney transplant in the Saved

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Speaker 1: by the Belle reboot. Is that not the weirdest sentence

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Speaker 1: you've ever heard? I watched those clips. It doesn't add

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Speaker 1: to the story, doesn't make any sense, And why you

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Speaker 1: even bring it up? So, I guess can you still

700
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: because an edited version is already streaming? So where did you?

701
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: Just like look on you looked on Twitter like people

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Speaker 1: people that are trending and think somebody pulled the clips? One?

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Speaker 1: What am I watching here? Yeah? So Selena has remained silent,

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00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: but her fans were rightfully, in my opinion, pissed when

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Speaker 1: they heard about it over the weekend. The network did

706
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Speaker 1: also apologize and offered to make a donation to her charity.

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Speaker 1: What the hell were they thinking? I don't understand. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: especially like they were they filmed that a while ago.

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Speaker 1: It has to get screened, It has to there's so

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00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: many people thought that joking about a transplant. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: thought the show is to be like I thought. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I didn't think. I think I've seen everything about the

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Speaker 1: Bell episode up until this new thing. It's supposed to

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Speaker 1: be like wholesome and they're supposed to be a meaning

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00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 1: or some mean, why was this even a funny joke? No,

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Speaker 1: who's in charge of like, um, you know, like this

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Speaker 1: is what the kids are talking about, This is what

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Speaker 1: the kids are talking about in school, Selena Gomez and kidneys.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you need to get fired if that's your

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Speaker 1: your consultant of Who's what they're talking about high school nowadays?

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Speaker 1: It was in like twenty seventeen or eight years, three

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Speaker 1: years ago. Yeah, go and just be happy she's alive,

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Speaker 1: you weirdo. Let me you know what, guys, let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something nothing makes me guffaw like a kidney

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Speaker 1: transplant joke. I mean this absolutely hilarious. Like what do

726
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Speaker 1: you think it? It's a real knee slapper. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: This year is just I'm ready for it, like one

728
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Speaker 1: of those things. It's like we did it on purpose,

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00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 1: so now people are gonna watch more. They already took

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Speaker 1: it out well, but they're talking about it every day.

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Speaker 1: They got two days of press out of the deal.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, there's a lot of other ways you

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Speaker 1: could have done that in a more relevant way through girl,

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Speaker 1: um sol Lorie Laughlin. Excuse me, she needs to take

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Speaker 1: notes because Felicity Huffman has already landed her first role

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Speaker 1: since serving time for the college admission scandal. The Desperate

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Speaker 1: Housewives star is returning to ABC for a comedy inspired

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Speaker 1: by a real life story of Susan Savage, who inherited

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Speaker 1: a minor league baseball team, the Sacramento Rivercats, which you said,

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Speaker 1: that's a real team. Rify. Okay, so after her husband's

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Speaker 1: death she got the team. Good for you, girl, I mean,

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Speaker 1: take notes. If you yeah, if you say sorry and

743
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Speaker 1: you own your stuff, like you might get another chance.

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00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: You know. The irony here is I don't know much

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Speaker 1: about Felicity Huffman's career post Desperate Housewives in that show

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Speaker 1: was so big, you know, early mid two thousands, but huge.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that she would have gotten this

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Speaker 1: role on a major network if she hadn't copped to

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Speaker 1: all of this, gotten all the publicosity and gone to jail.

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Speaker 1: Is that I mean, that's that's the interesting part of

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Speaker 1: it is I don't I don't remember her being cast

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Speaker 1: in any leading role. Again, you can correct me on this,

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00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 1: but so like Indie stuff, didn't she maybe, But now

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00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: here she is front and center, um, you know, big

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Speaker 1: network show, and she copped to it, went, you know,

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Speaker 1: took the plea wint of jail, got it done. But

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Speaker 1: the sand's probably gonna happen for Lord Lori Lawlin's gonna

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Speaker 1: wind up right back on the Hallmark Channel doing some

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Speaker 1: kind of redemption movie, you know, about some conciliatory tour

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Speaker 1: about how she's screwed up and then everyone's going to

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Speaker 1: accept her. Oh well she said she was sorry and

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00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: the whole thing. Yeah, I feel like, yeah, I feel

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Speaker 1: like when she gets out of prison, I feel like

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Speaker 1: I think they're gonna be calling like let's tell your story.

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Speaker 1: Let's tell your side of the story. Let's do interviews,

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Speaker 1: let's put your back on TV, because write a book.

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00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: If she still doesn't cop to it, though, it's like

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Speaker 1: your you know, your sentence is longer, and I hope

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Speaker 1: she serves her whole sentence. Like I mean, she's still

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Speaker 1: saying she didn't do one thing wrong. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: like it. I don't like it, but yeah, I just

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, all you gotta do is say you're sorry,

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Speaker 1: Say you did it, say sorry, say you're screwed up,

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Speaker 1: you're and then if not that it's right. But if

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Speaker 1: you play the card I was just trying to do

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Speaker 1: the best thing for my family, for my kids or whatever,

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Speaker 1: it's like, ah, there's angles she could have played. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she usually Felicity was in jail for like a

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Speaker 1: day and now she has a job, I know. So

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Speaker 1: she Felicity put us on retainer and we consulted her

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Speaker 1: and we told her what to do. And look at

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Speaker 1: what's happening right. Oh, you know, Laurie Laughlin, if you

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Speaker 1: would like to be a client of our firm, then

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Speaker 1: you know, for a small retainer, and it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: more expensive now because we got more to clean up. Right,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna it could have been cheaper, but it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be more expensive now. But we can fix this for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and her daughter. I do kind of feel bad for

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Speaker 1: her daughter, so hopefully she gets her step back. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I mean, just wrong on all parts. Um. So,

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Speaker 1: I'm absolutely losing my mind over this couple. But I'm

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Speaker 1: hearing that Rihanna is dating Asabaracky. Really yes, so they've

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Speaker 1: I know they've been They've been friends for a long time.

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Speaker 1: He's been on one of her songs, he's opened up

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Speaker 1: up for her on tour. But now people think it

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Speaker 1: is getting romantic since she split from her boyfriend in January.

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Speaker 1: I guess they were seen having dinner in New York

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Speaker 1: last weekend. I can't find it now, but I follow

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Speaker 1: her on Instagram and she posted um a picture of

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Speaker 1: them hugging and said something like I miss these hugs

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Speaker 1: or something, and I was like, well, that's weird, and

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Speaker 1: then I was like, oh, they're just friends. And then

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Speaker 1: now I can't find it, but we have seen him

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Speaker 1: having um a good time with another lady. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was quite interesting. But they're I mean they're like

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Speaker 1: the hottest couple. If it's true, they would look amazing together.

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Speaker 1: More to check out online today there's a really sad

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Speaker 1: video of Millie Bobby Brown. She's crying her eyes out

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Speaker 1: if you want to see why. That's on Fred Show

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Speaker 1: Radio dot Com. All right, Shelby Shelley, we think we

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Speaker 1: I know what's wrong. Shelley's got the wrong She's got

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Speaker 1: the wrong button press in the wrong dueflage already. I

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Speaker 1: Don't you worry. We'll fix it in just a second

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Speaker 1: you have what it takes? The battle show Bish Shelley

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Speaker 1: in the SHOWBIS Showdown, all right, Showbis Shelley Button, showby Shelley.

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Speaker 1: Is it working okay? Yeah? Everybody people working from home,

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Speaker 1: we got people in the studio, we got this button

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Speaker 1: and that button, and then we got it all figured out. Um,

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Speaker 1: all right, Shelley, good morning, how are you? Hey, good morning?

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Speaker 1: How are you guys? Great? Great? Here we go with

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Speaker 1: the game. Three seventy six and twenty six. That's your

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Speaker 1: overall record? Or is? Jason would say? Twenty six losses

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Speaker 1: and three hundred and seventy six, right, is what you

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Speaker 1: have And let's welcome to Challenger today. Sam is in Oaklawn. Hi, Sam,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you Sam? Great? Thank

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Speaker 1: you for listening, thanks for being here. Tell us about

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Speaker 1: you and I'm a preschool teacher. Oh my gosh, you

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Speaker 1: should come back and play Paulina. Then, oh that was awful,

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Speaker 1: Rufia that you said that. Oh my goodness. Okay, Sam,

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Speaker 1: do you at the end of the day of being

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Speaker 1: with the preschool kids you go home and say like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not having my own you want more? I love kids. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I would think that. You know, you do that all

842
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: day you go home to your own kids. It's just

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00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: like non stop uh fault, you know, focus responsibility. It's

844
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, But then I think like I can

845
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,720
Speaker 1: raise my own so whatever the kids that my school,

846
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 1: do you wrong my kids? So they're like your little

847
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: experiment because they're not yours. So you can see what

848
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: works and what does it and someone else has to

849
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: deal with it. I like it. It's a it's a

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Speaker 1: good plan, all right, Sam. It's five questions against the

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Speaker 1: gorilla and we'll see who wins. Shelley, you got to

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00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: go to your sound booth poof now okay, okay, bye,

853
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:19,359
Speaker 1: good luck, Sam, good luck all right. Shelley makes her

854
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 1: way to the sound booth poof five questions. Here we go.

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00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: Number one, Megan Fox has officially filed for divorce from

856
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: her ex and the father of her children. Name him

857
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 1: um three Brian. I don't know, right, we cannot accept

858
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 1: We cannot accept Brian something okay. I would have accepted

859
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 1: David Silver, but instead. Number two Zoe Kravitz is forty

860
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: two today? Who is her famous father? The reboot of

861
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 1: Saved by the Bell is under fire. After referencing this

862
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: former Disney star twice in a negative light, Drake announced

863
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: he dropped another collab in December with this sportswear brand,

864
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: and Taylor Swift said her boyfriend co wrote some of

865
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: the songs on folklore. Name him um three, I have

866
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 1: no idea Ryan something, David Silver or you got three?

867
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: You got three? Let's bring Shelly back. We're texting. Ok,

868
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: we're texting Shelly to get her back on the air.

869
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 1: She took her headphones off so she can't hear the

870
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:36,399
Speaker 1: questions and we'll just wait. Here's how you know she's

871
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: not listening because we're talking about her and she's not

872
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 1: responding Shelly back? Do you push the Shelly button? Do

873
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: we just give her the wind? What do we do?

874
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 1: We could do that? Mom, mom, dad? Where Shelley? Someone

875
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: text her? Yeah? Yeah, Oh, she just texts me. Her

876
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 1: connection dropped? Oh does that mean that? Does that mean

877
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: that Sam wins? Yeah? I don't know. Hello. Hello. We

878
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: were about to award her with the wind, getting all

879
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: these text messages and I'm like, oh no. I was like,

880
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 1: why can't I hear anybody? You're like the person on

881
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: the zoom call who's like frozen and doesn't know it's you.

882
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 1: That's you? All right? She got three? Okay, she got three? Okay,

883
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 1: here we go. Question number one. Megan Fox has officially

884
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 1: filed for divorce from her ex and the father of

885
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: her children. Name him Brian Austin Greene, Joey Kravis is

886
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: forty two today, who is her famous father Lenny Kravitz.

887
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: The reboot of Save by the Bell is under fire

888
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 1: after referencing this former Disney star twice in a negative light,

889
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 1: Selena Gomez Drake and as he's dropping another collab in

890
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 1: December with this sportswear brand two one oh oh. And finally,

891
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift said her boyfriend co wrote some of the songs.

892
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: Is Nike is the answer? With Nike, settle down over there,

893
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: we can shut you off as quickly as we turned

894
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: you on. Shelly check stripes is what he says, checks okay.

895
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: And finally, Taylor Swift said that her boyfriend co wrote

896
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: some of the songs on Folklore name him Joe Owen,

897
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: Shelly Man, Sam, you were so close, so close, stunning. Yeah,

898
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to say it. My name is Sam.

899
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: I got showed up on the Showdown. My name is Sam.

900
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 1: I got showed up on the Showdown. And I can't

901
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 1: hang with a gorilla. Now wait a minute, and come on,

902
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: come on, I need you to make some effort here.

903
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: Come on. I can't I can't screen a preschooler and

904
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: just just yelling out, Oh no, all right, Sam, I'll

905
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: do it, you cat. Hang, what's I got? Real? That's

906
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 1: all you get? Oh, that's all you get, because you

907
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: know what, as soon as it came out, it came

908
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: out of the wrong tone or wrong key. As soon

909
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: as it came out, I was like, this isn't gonna work.

910
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: It's just I can't I know, as an artist, you

911
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 1: can't have that. Yeah, that's not what I'm saying. As

912
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: an artist, I have a high level of integrity to

913
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: a bold and that wasn't going to work. Um, Sam,

914
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 1: have a great day with the kiddos. We appreciate you

915
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,399
Speaker 1: and thanks for listening. Thanks, guys, have a good one.

916
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 1: All right. Good Um. So Shelley, what's coming up on

917
00:47:57,400 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: your on your program today? Oh? Let's see, I have

918
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: more tickets for the ballet more. Why don't we passes? Um?

919
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,720
Speaker 1: Somebody won a thousand dollars from us over the weekend.

920
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to that person. So yeah, all right,

921
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: Well I'm glad you came back. I mean it was

922
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: half a second away from us just giving her the win.

923
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: It would have gone against you and we should have

924
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,919
Speaker 1: gotten the money. But instead, boom, the connection came through.

925
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: Here we go. If we did that, I know, you

926
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 1: know what, I'm just I'm just giving away the station's

927
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: hundred and three dollars and fifty cents like it's nothing.

928
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, it takes money that we need,

929
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: Shelley to win more than ever before. So um, have

930
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: a great day, Shelley. We'll see what knew it. Okay, okay,

931
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: sounds good bye guys, Bye, good news, positive stories. Next

932
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: it feels good and waiting by the phone show. Turn

933
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: it up to lie from the Windress Studios in America's

934
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: greatest city, Chicago one three fives and my heart radio station.

935
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Good morning everybody. I was just

936
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 1: in my dms here Fred on air, some of Nick's

937
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: clients over there on the Grammy gram. Yeah. No, I'm

938
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: just dming every single television actress that I think is

939
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: attractive to see if I can get responses the way

940
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 1: that I get Oh you got a checkmark? Though, I

941
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 1: was gonna say, I'm gonna start doing that. We were

942
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: talking about that the other day. I actually don't slide

943
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: that often because I'm I don't know, I just don't

944
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen? You got this dremark? Come on,

945
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: I don't think it was right though it does I know,

946
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: get me one of the people inbox. Yeah right, I

947
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: want to get one side. I I did slide though,

948
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 1: as you know, into the DMS of this industry actress.

949
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 1: Look up her name. How old is she again? Paulina three? Whatever?

950
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: Who cares? Age is just a number higher. Marissa Abella

951
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: is her name on industry. Yeah, that show us great.

952
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 1: By the way, you haven't seen her anyway, she responded,

953
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 1: And we've been going back and forth. But she uh

954
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: lives in London and has a boyfriend. But that's not

955
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 1: the points pointing. Does she wish you a happy birthday? Friend? Uh?

956
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: She likes she liked a story. Yeah, she did so indirectly.

957
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that as a that my story, or

958
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: you know, you can like heart it and then it

959
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: goes into your box as a heart. Um. But I

960
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: was reading this page says this was cool. Mister k

961
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: who we met about an hour ago, was my favorite

962
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: teacher ever. He was in May. Definitely well deserved. The

963
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 1: Tokyo project was the best project I've ever done. I've

964
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: been out of middle school. For like twelve years, and

965
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: he's a teacher. I won't ever forget became a teacher

966
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 1: because of amazing teachers like him. Said, yeah, he's a

967
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: history teacher, I think. But he loves the story teacher.

968
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 1: Well yeh, which is hard enough for like kids to

969
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 1: seventh graders to just pay attention to Japan. He always yeah,

970
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: so that makes sense. He's cool. He does a Japan project,

971
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: I guess. And then he gives he gives him the

972
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: Japanese kid cats. That's cool. And then Gabriella Romi and said,

973
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: I guess in reference to stare Goo Snooky was in

974
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,399
Speaker 1: this situation. Look at her social media. She hasn't talked

975
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: to about her husband in months. Maybe people believe that

976
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: they got divorced, but in reality, he just doesn't like

977
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 1: to be in the spotlight and she respected that and

978
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: rarely talks about him. We're close about him, So I

979
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: feel like it's possible for this girl to meet him.

980
00:51:53,560 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 1: Halfway from Staag, he chased her down the streets. Italy

981
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: did here you goni? Um, let's see, we'll get to it.

982
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 1: Feels good. Stories here in just a second, waiting by

983
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: the phone. After that win no second day for this couple.

984
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: Then the entertainmer report with Kaylyn, what do you have

985
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:16,720
Speaker 1: in there? So Millie Bobby Brown, you guys leave her alone.

986
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 1: She was in tears because of what this fan did

987
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 1: to her, and actually I was in tears when we

988
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: listened to the audio. It's sad. I'll tell you about that.

989
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: We'll get to it in just for a second. The

990
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: French Show is on. It feels good. My positive happy

991
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: stories every day we share them on the program. Kaylyn,

992
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,800
Speaker 1: what'd you find? Yeah, so an anonymous secret Santa is

993
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 1: handing out thousands of dollars to the people of Arizona.

994
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: Is it you? Fred? Go find his man? Fred, go

995
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: find he? Thank you. You know, I would never take

996
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 1: credit for something that you're doing that I'm not doing.

997
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: So one woman who received a thousand dollars was really shocked.

998
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: The mysterious donor giving thousands in cash doesn't want to

999
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: be identified, but Sherry Hoover has taken on the role

1000
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: of being his little Santa's Elf, delivering the money to

1001
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: those in need. Hoover said, the man is quote uber

1002
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: bless this year and wanted to pay it forward the

1003
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: way that he could. He is that guy so far

1004
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: this Secret Santa has surprised a mother's shopping at Goodwill

1005
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: and an employee at a grocery warehouse called Shop and Final.

1006
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 1: One couple who was surprised by Secret Santa's generosity said

1007
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,240
Speaker 1: that they would use the money to pay it forward

1008
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: again as a way to thank the donor for his

1009
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: selfless act. So that's pretty cool. Yeah, very cool. Yeah,

1010
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 1: shout out to our friends at Pause. This is a

1011
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: very cool story. Got this from a WGMTV Pause Chicago,

1012
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: the largest no kill animals shelter in the Midwest. His

1013
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: partner with Ikea to display pets in need of a

1014
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: home in Illinois in their stores this Saladay's season. So

1015
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,760
Speaker 1: they're gonna use life size cutouts of dogs and cats.

1016
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 1: But you don't forget about me and pain hopes to

1017
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: inspire shoppers to imagine how a pet can complete their homes. So,

1018
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 1: you know, if you've been to Ikea, you know they're massive.

1019
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 1: You know, they set up the display with you know,

1020
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,280
Speaker 1: how all their products would look in a room setting

1021
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 1: or whatever, and then they have these they have um

1022
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: the stand ups with the pets and a little like

1023
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: they're wearing like a little necklace and the QR code,

1024
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: so you could scan the QR QR code now through

1025
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Speaker 1: Christmas Eve in the stories in Schaumberg and bowling Brook,

1026
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: and then you can, you know, get all the info

1027
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: about the animal that you'd like to adopt and the

1028
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 1: story and all of that. It also helps older animals

1029
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 1: get adopted, as many are likely to stay in the

1030
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,919
Speaker 1: shelter for much longer after being passed over in favor

1031
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: of puppies and kittens. So shout out to IKEA, shout

1032
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: out to our friendship Pause doing awesome work. And then

1033
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:46,799
Speaker 1: of course they were the ones doing the who at

1034
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: the dogs out with their bus a couple of weeks ago,

1035
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: m blastom music all over town. I got to talk

1036
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: to Sarah and see how much they raised with that.

1037
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 1: But I know many of you who listen to us

1038
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 1: were helpful with that campaign too, So very cool. We'll

1039
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: come back, We'll do hitting by the phone. Why no

1040
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: second day for this couple? The Entertainment Report, trending stories

1041
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 1: all in the way in the next twenty minutes, saw

1042
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 1: on the frend Show It's one h three five Fred Show.

1043
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: Why were you left waiting by the phone? Josh, Hi, Josh, Hey,

1044
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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to Fred Nancy, tell us about what's

1045
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: going on with you and Angel, how you met, where

1046
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: you stand everything? Oh man, let me tell you that

1047
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:27,239
Speaker 1: she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. We

1048
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: met through some friends. Wow, I don't a connection, Like

1049
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,280
Speaker 1: why the way? It's amazing to grow out for dinner. Unfortunately,

1050
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 1: my conversation skills are a little lacking, so I decided

1051
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 1: to switch things up. We went to a movie. Everything

1052
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,359
Speaker 1: so great. Your conversation skills were lacking. What does that mean?

1053
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: You were? You were just like so, I don't know,

1054
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: mesmerized by her that the words weren't coming to you,

1055
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 1: or you said something awkward or what does that mean?

1056
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: Like I was a little bit mesmerized with her. Don't

1057
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 1: get their own. She's really beautiful. I usually am good

1058
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: with my words, but with her, I kind of rain

1059
00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: out of things to stay okay, sot, Wow, you went

1060
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: to a movie. Fine, you went to a movie. You

1061
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 1: thought that went well. But let me guess you haven't

1062
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: heard from her since the movie and you want to

1063
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: know what's going on? Yeah, I haven't heard from her.

1064
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm wondering if it was me, if I

1065
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 1: did something wrong, or I'm just like the notes. Well,

1066
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: that's gotta be frustrating, because I'm sure as they sent

1067
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: you saw the most beautiful woman in the world, I

1068
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: would assume you were very excited. And we're hoping to

1069
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 1: hear from her. Oh yeah, I thought this was gonna

1070
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 1: blow into a big, beautiful thing and nothing so far.

1071
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 1: All right, Well, that's where wee coming. We're gonna call

1072
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: her and we'll see what we can find out. You'll

1073
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: be on the phone the whole time, and I don't

1074
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: want you to jumping right at first, but at some

1075
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 1: point definitely coming on the call, and hopefully we can

1076
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:39,479
Speaker 1: figure this out and set you guys up on another

1077
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 1: date and pay for it. Okay, Yeah, stay here, we're

1078
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: back in two minutes. You've got to hear what unfolds

1079
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: after topic breaking me Fred Show one h three five

1080
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:53,439
Speaker 1: Topic it's one h three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number

1081
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: one hit music station. Good morning, it's the Fred Show. Josh, Yeah,

1082
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Angel. You say she's the most

1083
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 1: beautiful woman you've ever seen. You went to dinner, went

1084
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: to a movie, you thought everything went well. You wanted

1085
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: to ask her out again. You've reached out. You haven't

1086
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 1: heard anything, and you want to know why. Absolutely, that

1087
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 1: is correct. Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck

1088
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 1: than you. Hello, Hey is this Angel? Yeah? Hi a Jeli,

1089
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 1: It's Freddy calling from the morning radio show and Kiss FM.

1090
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to bother, but I have to tell you

1091
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: that we are on the radio and I would need

1092
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: your permission to keep talking. Is it okay if we

1093
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 1: keep going? Um? Okay, well, thank you. Um. We're calling

1094
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: about a guy named Josh. He reached out to us,

1095
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: told us about your date, said you guys went to

1096
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: dinner in a movie and he thought it went great.

1097
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 1: He really liked you and he was hoping to hear

1098
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: back from you for another day in an assent, and

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00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: he wants to know why. Can you tell us what's

1100
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: going on? Oh? I also really comfortable talking about that.

1101
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 1: You don't, well, you know, if you tell us, we

1102
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: can tell him and help probably leave you alone. I

1103
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: don't want to make you feel uncomfortable by any means,

1104
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: but you know, he really wants to know why you're

1105
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: not calling. It's bugging him. That's where we come in.

1106
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: So are you you know, are you willing to talk

1107
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: to us about it? I guess what happened. Well, we

1108
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: had a nice dinner, everything well, and then we would

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00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: to a movie, you know, the new movie Wonder He

1110
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 1: cried throughout the whole movie. Well, isn't that a really

1111
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 1: like sad movie. I haven't seen it, but I've heard

1112
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:35,479
Speaker 1: it's like super sad. Yeah, he cried throughout the whole thing. Yeah,

1113
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: I mean it's okay to cry a few times, but

1114
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 1: he cried for the whole whole two hours. I mean

1115
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: like sobbed or what. Yeah, like a little baby. He was,

1116
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 1: like he had anyway to get tissues at everything. It's

1117
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 1: not what's coming out of his nose. And maybe it's

1118
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: way too emotional. He's really just going through some set afraid.

1119
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: He's a sweet guy, you know, he's in touch with

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00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 1: his feeling tweeting. So the fact that he cried and

1121
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: sobbed throughout the movie that it was enough for you

1122
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: to not want anything to do with him. Yeah, I

1123
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 1: can't be with a man like that. Wow, let me

1124
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: bring Josh and I forgot to mention that he is here. Josh,

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00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 1: you cried throughout the whole movie. I mean, come on,

1126
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: what man in twenty seventeen wouldn't cry in the movie

1127
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: like that for what I understand? Yeah, I mean, I

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00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: mean a real man. I can't have a man crying.

1129
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: A real man can cry, maybe not sob throughout the

1130
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: entire two hours of the movie, but I mean, let's

1131
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: you rather have a man with like that's emotional than

1132
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: one that isn't at all? Yeah, what's wrong with the

1133
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: guys showing his emotions? I need to cry more than

1134
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a contest. There's a crying contest that

1135
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 1: like there's a rule? Yeah? Yeah? Is this ridiculous? It's

1136
00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 1: just too much? Wait, so that's too much of a man,

1137
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: too much in touch with his feelings, even though he

1138
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: paid for the dinner in the movie with nothing but gentleman,

1139
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: see you all night. That's too much. Yeah, it's just

1140
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: too much. I'm a strong man. Wow. Wow, So he's

1141
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: not a strong man because he displayed emotion during an

1142
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:02,160
Speaker 1: emotional movie. I just want to be clear. No, No,

1143
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: I mean a strong man. We'll not cry. Okay, Wow,

1144
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: I don't agree with you. But um, so you're not

1145
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 1: interested in another date because we'll pay for another date

1146
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: if you want to go on one. No, he's a

1147
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 1: fee But I wish him good luck and find a

1148
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: girl that can we deal with that? Cry? He might

1149
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:22,479
Speaker 1: be a but you are a bach Wow. I feel

1150
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: that way in my dreams. Well, there you go, Josh's

1151
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 1: your answer. We don't agree with it, but you know

1152
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: we did call for to find out what's going on,

1153
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 1: and that's it now, you know. No. I thank you

1154
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: guys very much for that. Thanks for your time. Angel

1155
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: Kaylyn has up to the second Hollywood News and Gossip.

1156
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: Next in the Entertainment Report, then trending stories bullet points

1157
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: to start you Tuesday in Chicago on The Fred Show

1158
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 1: one O, three five, Kiss Up. The latest entertainment news

1159
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 1: is on the Fred Show. This Creaks My Heart. Millie

1160
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 1: Bobby Brown is feeling disrespected after a strange interaction with

1161
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 1: a fan. She actually wro down crying when describing the

1162
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 1: public harassment she faced while out Christmas shopping with her mom.

1163
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: I just went shopping with my mom for Christmas and

1164
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: a girl came up to me and asked if I

1165
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: was whoever? And I said, you know, yes, and she

1166
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 1: said can I take a video of you? I said no,

1167
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: and she walked past me and began to video me again,

1168
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: and I said, I'm a human being. What more class?

1169
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: From you, I asked her. I asked her and she said,

1170
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: so I can't take a video of a human being

1171
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 1: and I said no, no. When I said no, it

1172
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: just makes me upset when people try to push the boundary,

1173
01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 1: and I just wish people were more respectful. Still trying

1174
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 1: to navigate this all and it's still overwhelming. I will

1175
01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: take a picture with you, but when you push the

1176
01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 1: boundary and try and fight me on it and my

1177
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: rights to say no, I'm making this video to say

1178
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 1: you have to show more respects to others, no matter

1179
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 1: who they are, what they do, show respect human being

1180
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: to human being. So sad. Yeah, fans think that this

1181
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 1: was part of the reason why she deleted her TikTok

1182
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: account recently, and Rufew actually pointed out that the fan

1183
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: might be trying to make one of the TikTok's. I

1184
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 1: guess there's a trend where there's like a bunch of

1185
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: different videos of celebrities looking what does it there look

1186
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 1: sad or something. It's it's not, it's I don't think

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01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 1: that was it that would something to do with I

1188
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 1: think that fan was just like she said that she

1189
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 1: would take a picture with her. Yeah, that's good enough.

1190
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 1: She also told her she would take a video with her.

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01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 1: She just doesn't want to be treated like she's on display,

1192
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 1: which she's completely understandable. She's with her mom. You're lucky

1193
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: that she was even willing, you know, to take anything

1194
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: with you. And she's a young girl. So it breaks

1195
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 1: my heart. She later after those videos, returned to Instagram

1196
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: to assure fans that she's doing better. But I think

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01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 1: it's something to keep in mind, um, you know, just

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01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 1: respect everyone. It's a good message. Sounds like she met Shelby. Shelley,

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01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: that's what it. No, no, no, oh, what sad today.

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01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: I think he saved up shade over the week that

1201
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: we were gone, and now he's like, does know to

1202
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: do themselves? Like he took notes and he's like, I

1203
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: gotta get man. We are all comes to us. I

1204
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 1: think if a little a little girl was with her mum,

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01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: I think she would respect it. If that had been

1206
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 1: one of the hands and brothers, she would have just

1207
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: stolen something. I wouldn't have taken a video whatever it was. Yeah,

1208
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 1: that's a whole. That's a deep cut. Um. So this

1209
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: is sad. Iced Tea is urging fans to take coronavirus seriously.

1210
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 1: After his father in law contracted the virus earlier this

1211
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 1: year and ended up in the hospital, he took to

1212
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: Twitter and wrote, my father in law, Coco's dad was

1213
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 1: a serious no masker. COVID hit him pneumonia in both lungs,

1214
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 1: forty days in the ICU close to now he's on

1215
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:05,480
Speaker 1: oxygen indefinitely. Oh he's a believer. Now COVID is not

1216
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 1: a game and there was a really sad photo to

1217
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 1: go along with it. Now, while we're speaking of COVID,

1218
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 1: Frita or Man all these clubs having to apologize. She

1219
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 1: had to say sorry yesterday for breaking lockdown and holding

1220
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 1: a birthday party. She called it a serious and inexcusable

1221
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 1: era of judgment. The apology came after photos of Rita

1222
01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: and her friends, including Kara and Poppy de Lavine, arriving

1223
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: at Cassa Cruz in London. They have been circulating on

1224
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 1: the web, I guess, even though bars and restaurants are

1225
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: supposed to be closed in London. Cardi b did also

1226
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 1: end up apologizing for doing the same during Thanksgiving. More

1227
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,439
Speaker 1: to check out online today if you want to watch

1228
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 1: the video of Millie crying that's on Fred Show. Radio

1229
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 1: dot Com our frendshow, Medical Minute, and this is for

1230
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 1: you specifically, what's wrong with shooth loss? Ye? Maybe a

1231
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 1: side effect of pre obviously having COVID nineteen. According to

1232
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 1: anecdotal evidence, you just fall out all at once one day.

1233
01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:10,439
Speaker 1: This is from the Sun magazine or newspaper or whatever.

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01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: People have reportedly reported unexpectedly losing adult teeth after suffering

1235
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: from the disease before, suggests dental problems are another problem.

1236
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 1: To addit a list of long COVID symptoms. Fatigue, hair loss,

1237
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 1: brain fog, muscle pain just some of the persistent symptoms

1238
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: reported after surviving. Surviving COVID nineteen dentists that the virus

1239
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 1: may irritate the gums through inflammation or damaging blood vessels

1240
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 1: in the gums. However, the evidence is too vague to

1241
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 1: know for sure if the tooth loss is just anecdotal. Yeah,

1242
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: I think the moral is that, like, it just affects

1243
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 1: everyone so differently, and you don't know how it's going

1244
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: to affect your body. It's very real. I do have

1245
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 1: all of those other symptoms still, the muscle pain, and

1246
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 1: I'm clearly an idiot lately, and I think some of

1247
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 1: that's because of the RONA. Well, I hope you can

1248
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 1: keep your teeth. You know. That's gonna make things real

1249
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 1: difficult on the dating app if they all fall out. No, no,

1250
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 1: oh my god, my guy, he's on for adoption. Serious

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Speaker 1: chet just take him free. Caron comes to work and

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Speaker 1: she can't enunciate it because she doesn't have any teeth.

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Speaker 1: But she's got a boyfriend. It's calin I have a

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Speaker 1: boyfriend now. Yes, my teeth are what's holding me back

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Speaker 1: from just getting the boyfriend. I've always died by knew it.

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Speaker 1: I knew it if you were all lips and gums.

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Speaker 1: This is like barstool. What's this? How are we doing?

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Speaker 1: It's not there some beers. I think it was hysterical

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Speaker 1: on one h three. This is what's trending. I just

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Speaker 1: read Ryan Seacrest is selling his house in Los Angeles

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Speaker 1: for eighty five million dollars. How you doing eighty five

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Speaker 1: million dollars? What does it look like the house? Or

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Speaker 1: eighty five million dollars? Oh, we're gonna we're not gonna

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Speaker 1: see either one of them, so that better. I guess

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Speaker 1: he's got some kind of like resort compound in La somewhere,

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Speaker 1: and uh, something. The guy who created Will and Grace

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Speaker 1: designed it, built it. Then Ellen bought it from that guy,

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Speaker 1: and then he bought it from Allen really for like

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Speaker 1: forty million bucks, and now he's trying to get eighty

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Speaker 1: five for it. Is he like, is he moving to

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Speaker 1: New York permanently? Is that what he's doing? I don't

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Speaker 1: know what's or is he downsizing to a twenty five

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Speaker 1: million dollar house? You know what, guys, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: This really stroyly takes the wind out of my sales movie. Really,

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Speaker 1: I just but all right, good morning, everybody. Trending stories.

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Speaker 1: Chicago's winter parking band goes into effect early this morning.

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Speaker 1: The parking ban is in force regardless of snow, on

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Speaker 1: one hundred and seven miles of main streets throughout the

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Speaker 1: city during the hours of three am and seven am.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if there's snow or not. The DSS

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Speaker 1: Commissioner says their safety is their top priority during winter storms.

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Speaker 1: Residents can help us keep the cities critical roadways safe

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01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 1: by following posted restrictions allowing for snow vehicles to gain

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Speaker 1: immediate access to roads. Violators of the ban will be

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Speaker 1: towed and face a minimum one hundred and fifty dollars

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Speaker 1: towing fees, sixty dollars ticket, and a storage fee of

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Speaker 1: twenty five dollars per day. Been there, done that, so,

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Speaker 1: and then of course you know we're moving into the

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Speaker 1: season where you use lawn chairs and folding tables and

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Speaker 1: whatever else to hold the spots that you had to

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01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 1: dig out of. So we have that to look forward to.

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Speaker 1: Mariam Webster has announced that pandemic is the word of

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Speaker 1: the year. Pandemic defined. We know what it is. I'll

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01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 1: leave you to tell you how it's been defined, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not telling you anyway. That's the word of the year.

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Speaker 1: And oncology nurse in Oregon could potentially end up out

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Speaker 1: of a job after posting a video on TikTok about

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Speaker 1: how she disregards COVID restrictions while she's not at work.

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Speaker 1: That is really one of the dumbest things you could do.

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Speaker 1: In the video, she says, when my coworkers find out

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Speaker 1: that I still travel, don't wear a mask when I'm out,

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01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: and let my kids have play dates. The video has

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01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 1: since been deleted. Others have I guess you, use the

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01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 1: original footage in their videos. The nurse's employer has said

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01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:50,400
Speaker 1: that she's placed on administrative leave. The video displayed cavalier

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01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,639
Speaker 1: disregard for the seriousness of the pandemic and her indifference

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01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 1: towards physical distancing and masking outside of work. The TikTok

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01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 1: video went up Friday, triggered an immediate backlash online, as

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Speaker 1: some comments are demanding that she not only lose her job,

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Speaker 1: but also her nursing license as well. Why would you

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01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:10,960
Speaker 1: do that as a nurse? Like, why would you even

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Speaker 1: if it's not true? I would you even joke about that?

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Speaker 1: For TikTok man, that's what they do it for, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I hope it was worth that, right, Yeah,

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01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 1: So now you don't have a job or any money,

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Speaker 1: so I don't It doesn't make any sense. There are

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Speaker 1: Now there's an online app that circulates or calculates out

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Speaker 1: that the risk of catching the coronavirus in various scenarios.

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01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 1: The guys at MIT Research is there use their complex

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Speaker 1: mathematical equation to work out the risk of catching the

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Speaker 1: virus if one person in a room is infected by

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Speaker 1: COVID nineteen. The tool allows people to change the size

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Speaker 1: of the room, choose if any ventilation is present, selective masks,

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Speaker 1: masks are being worn, and how loud the gregarious people

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01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:55,640
Speaker 1: are being It reveals that the size or type of

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01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 1: the room doesn't matter all that much, but what types

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01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:02,120
Speaker 1: of masks the people occupying it or wearing, and the

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01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:06,559
Speaker 1: ventilation system it's equipped with can dramatically drive risks down.

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Speaker 1: But I would imagine I could sit on this app

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01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 1: all day and come up with different scenarios and by

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01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 1: the end of it be convinced that I have could

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01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 1: be coronavirus and then go get tested, because that's how

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Speaker 1: I feel pretty much at any time I read a

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01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 1: list of symptoms, I'm like, oh, I have those, and

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01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 1: then i want to go get tested. And somehow I've

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Speaker 1: managed to not have the row night yet. The State

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Speaker 1: of Hawaii this is I mean, if you want to

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Speaker 1: move to Hawaii, this is a good deal, I think

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01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 1: announced that it's offering free round trip tickets to Honolulu

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01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 1: to people who work remotely and are willing to dedicate

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01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 1: some of their time toward contributing to the community. The

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Speaker 1: Temporary Residency program offers people who work remotely online the

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Speaker 1: chance to do their jobs from the comforts of Hawaii.

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Speaker 1: Applications for the first, don't even think about it. Reofield.

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Speaker 1: Applications for the first group of temporary residence are being

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Speaker 1: accepted through December fifteenth, and fifty people will be chosen

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Speaker 1: for the first group. Officials say. Absequent applicants will be

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Speaker 1: accepted to the program on a rolling basis. Hawaii currently

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01:12:03,840 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 1: has the lowest rate per capita of COVID infections in

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Speaker 1: the country, making it one of the safest places to

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Speaker 1: live and work. Applicants for the program are being asked

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Speaker 1: to promise to respect the state's culture and natural resources.

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01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: Officials said that the accepted applicants will be asked to

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Speaker 1: dedicate some of their time to local businesses and nonprofits.

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01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 1: One of the program sponsors said that they wanted to

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Speaker 1: help fill the gap from the decrease they've experienced in

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01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 1: the seven day visitors to Hawaii. So you get to

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01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 1: go for free, help out a little, but then I

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01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 1: think you gotta pay for everything while you're there, and

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01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 1: that's not a cheap place to live. It is not

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Speaker 1: because everything's got to come on a boat. So I

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01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: guess you're on your own and the McRib is back tomorrow.

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01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: The company is launching a giveaway this year to help

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01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 1: build the anticipation, the Shave for mcribb Sweepstakes will award

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01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:57,960
Speaker 1: ten thousand free sandwiches. You don't have to be a shaver.

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Speaker 1: To qualify, post a picture of your clean, shaven or

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01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 1: baby smooth face on your public Twitter well yeah, because

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Speaker 1: it takes you six months to grow beard of any

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Speaker 1: kind or public Instagram profile using hashtag shave for mcribb Sweepstakes,

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Speaker 1: and then tag McDonald to code for the free boneless

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01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 1: port sandwich with barbecues also be sent to the first

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Speaker 1: ten thousand entrance through mic delivery with Uber Eats. The

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01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 1: mcribb has been back every single year since nineteen to

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Speaker 1: eighty two to boost customer traffic during the holiday shopping season.

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01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 1: This time, the fast food chain is partnering on the

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01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:34,719
Speaker 1: promotion with a nonprofit that raises money for cancer research

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01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:39,720
Speaker 1: and prevention. No Shave November asks participants to put down

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01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:42,919
Speaker 1: their razors and get harry in the name of cancer awareness.

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Speaker 1: What are we though on the last swol's December first?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so now you're supposed to shave your beard off?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, shave it often and get you a MiG

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Speaker 1: rib I don't know I would do it. I don't

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Speaker 1: think it's worth it though. I don't think people Usually

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01:13:58,400 --> 01:13:59,880
Speaker 1: if I shave my beard off, people are like, hey,

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01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 1: need you grow that back? So I don't. I don't.

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01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:04,600
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm I think I'll pay it for

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Speaker 1: my own mycrib. It's the National Day of Giving National

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01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:12,880
Speaker 1: Pie Day today as well, and Rosa Parks Day. Blogs

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Speaker 1: are next on the friend shod Show. Yeah they talk

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Speaker 1: better than they tie. These are the radio blogs on

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Speaker 1: the Friend Show. Hi guys, audio journals about this time,

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Speaker 1: six to fifty and a fifty We do them Calm

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Speaker 1: what you got, Thank you dear blogs. So I hope

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Speaker 1: this person doesn't mind me sharing. I won't use any

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Speaker 1: names or anything. But um So, a friend of mine

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Speaker 1: had met someone new, super excited about them, you know,

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01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:41,120
Speaker 1: thought like maybe they could be the one. They still

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Speaker 1: might be the one. But she also goes to therapy,

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Speaker 1: as most of us on the show do, um and

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01:14:48,520 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 1: was talking about this new person getting super specific and

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01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 1: the therapist said I have to stop you right there,

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Speaker 1: and she looked up and was like why. And my

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Speaker 1: head was that the therapist had dated this person, but

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01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 1: it wasn't. This person's ex also sees the therapist. Yes,

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01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 1: and you know, good on the therapist because she was like,

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01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 1: this will be a conflict of interest or I don't

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01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 1: know what you would use for that, but like it

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01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't be fair anymore because she already has probably said

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01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 1: everything about that guy to the therapist. I don't know

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01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 1: what she said. I know that there was you know,

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01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 1: there's some other details of the relationship, you know, because

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Speaker 1: she didn't end up bringing it up. The therapist was like,

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Speaker 1: please don't bring it up. She brought it up to

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01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:46,040
Speaker 1: the new person, and um, obviously he I don't know

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01:15:46,200 --> 01:15:48,560
Speaker 1: said some things about his X. But I just I

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01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 1: didn't know if that was something that happens a lot.

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01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a big city, and I mean I've

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01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 1: I've gone to a lot of therapy and never never

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01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:59,120
Speaker 1: had that. But um, well that sucks because you know,

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Speaker 1: anyone who's found and when it's been through therapy knows

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01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:03,720
Speaker 1: that it sometimes can take a while to find a

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Speaker 1: connection with a therapist to have to have a conflict

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01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:09,600
Speaker 1: of interest or to discover that you know that you

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01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:11,679
Speaker 1: might need to go get a fresh set of ears

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01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 1: that that would be disappointing, right, But I'll tell you

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01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:20,679
Speaker 1: my similar story, but not exactly the same. I dated

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Speaker 1: a girl who was going to therapy with her X.

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Speaker 1: At his suggestion, they break up, she continues seeing the

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Speaker 1: therapist who she was seeing with the X, and now

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Speaker 1: this therapist is consulting her on her on the new

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01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:40,360
Speaker 1: relationship with me. And I told my therapist that, and

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Speaker 1: my therapist is like, that's completely unethical. Like if you

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01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:47,640
Speaker 1: go to therapy for a specific purpose in this case, relationship,

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01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:51,080
Speaker 1: you know, counseling, and this person sees you in the

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01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: light and is giving you feedback and is counseling you

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01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:58,080
Speaker 1: in sort of in the in the context of one relationship,

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01:16:58,600 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 1: then she needs to fire herself if you're now coming

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01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:04,880
Speaker 1: to her for a relationship advice on relationship number two,

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01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: because you didn't come there as an individual. And then

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01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: he came in and joined right, But but but it

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01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:15,759
Speaker 1: was your therapist. You went in there together to resolve

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01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:19,160
Speaker 1: a relationship issue, and now you're coming in with a

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01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:22,400
Speaker 1: new relationship. And I don't know, it was just so messy.

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01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:26,120
Speaker 1: And I just remember like saying to this girl that

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01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 1: I'm Danny. I'm like, this woman sees you only in

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01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 1: one way, you know, she sees you in the context

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01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:34,840
Speaker 1: of a former relationship, and you can't like, I don't

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01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 1: care what she says about this relationship because I'm not

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Speaker 1: the same guy. Yeah, and maybe you're and maybe you're

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01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 1: not the same woman. Yes. The key part that makes

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01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:45,320
Speaker 1: it unethical that it wasn't her own therapist exactly exactly.

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01:17:45,360 --> 01:17:48,040
Speaker 1: It was bringing in the boyfriend only for that. It's

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01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 1: like that they started seeing it for one and she

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01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 1: doesn't know her before or after. Because you can see

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Speaker 1: a therapist and date multiple people, that's sure. I've done

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Speaker 1: it for four years. Yeah, yes, my dear, But yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I mean I just I you know, And then yeah,

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01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:04,720
Speaker 1: you're right, that sucks what she doesn't talk about, Like

1459
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: she's saying that she feels like this guy could be

1460
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:10,040
Speaker 1: the one, So why you find a new therapist? Then yeah,

1461
01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:13,280
Speaker 1: she loves her therapist, but it sucks she can't talk

1462
01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:15,600
Speaker 1: about her boyfriend to her therapist. And then if we

1463
01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:18,120
Speaker 1: go back in the you know, into the offices or whatever,

1464
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:21,240
Speaker 1: like in the waiting room, I'd be like, is it her? Like,

1465
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 1: Like what days that she come? Do you see you?

1466
01:18:28,439 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys read that book, I

1467
01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:32,479
Speaker 1: believe I hope I got the title right, but or

1468
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 1: hope I get it right. It's called Maybe You Should

1469
01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:38,280
Speaker 1: talk to Somebody. It's a it's a therapist writing from

1470
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 1: her perspective, not like not only about advising clients, but

1471
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:46,439
Speaker 1: also about her life and dealing with her own issues

1472
01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 1: and then her own sort of journey through therapy. It's

1473
01:18:49,280 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 1: actually a very good book. Um, And she doesn't get

1474
01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:54,400
Speaker 1: specific obviously about people's names, and everybody who's talks about

1475
01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 1: in the book she had permission to talk about. But

1476
01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 1: in one case, she's consulting a woman who met an

1477
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,160
Speaker 1: other one of her clients, if I remember correctly, in

1478
01:19:02,240 --> 01:19:07,720
Speaker 1: the lobby, and so this therapist knows about him and

1479
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 1: knows about her, and now they're dating, and I want

1480
01:19:11,880 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 1: to say that or maybe maybe maybe he was seeing

1481
01:19:15,320 --> 01:19:18,240
Speaker 1: another therapist in the same office. Yeah, but yet those

1482
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:21,240
Speaker 1: two but therapists who work I guess in the same

1483
01:19:21,280 --> 01:19:24,400
Speaker 1: office will oftentimes consult one another on cases. And so

1484
01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 1: in this particular case, they couldn't talk about their clients

1485
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:30,680
Speaker 1: because well, she represents or works with one, and then

1486
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:33,280
Speaker 1: the other therapist works with the other. And it's like, dude,

1487
01:19:33,320 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: don't meet anybody in the office the therapist. Okay, I'd

1488
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:40,599
Speaker 1: find another, find another place to hook up. You know, yeah,

1489
01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:42,679
Speaker 1: that was an episode of Fights in the City. I'd

1490
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 1: be kind of like, if I was there, that was

1491
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:46,760
Speaker 1: my therapist and they're like, you can't talk about this

1492
01:19:46,840 --> 01:19:49,800
Speaker 1: person because I know the person. I'd be kind of

1493
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 1: skeptical that the other person is still talking about you know,

1494
01:19:56,920 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you gotta give me something right, woman

1495
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:01,559
Speaker 1: to woman, which which is why you'd have to find

1496
01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:03,559
Speaker 1: a new therapist, because the whole time you'd just be thinking,

1497
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 1: what does she know? She right? Like, why are you joking?

1498
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:12,320
Speaker 1: What's going on? I don't know. It's just like so

1499
01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 1: crazy because I guess I don't know that. I've never

1500
01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 1: encountered that, and I couldn't imagine like how my mind

1501
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:18,880
Speaker 1: would turn if I just heard and say like I

1502
01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:20,639
Speaker 1: have to stop you. I'd be like, oh my god,

1503
01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 1: you dad him, you banged him? What are you doing? Like,

1504
01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:27,479
Speaker 1: what's happened? What happened my credit card decline? Right? Yeah?

1505
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:30,360
Speaker 1: I think you got to have And I guess I've

1506
01:20:30,400 --> 01:20:31,840
Speaker 1: been going long enough. And I went as a kid,

1507
01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:33,960
Speaker 1: my parents got divorced and a whole thing, and I

1508
01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 1: had a bad experience with that. But then I found

1509
01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:39,200
Speaker 1: this woman and has been great. Um, you know, but

1510
01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:40,880
Speaker 1: but there are a few things I've learned. I guess

1511
01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:44,160
Speaker 1: one is, you know, you gotta if you're going to

1512
01:20:44,280 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 1: therapy and you really expect to gain from it, you

1513
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 1: have to you have to be as objective as is

1514
01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:54,920
Speaker 1: as possible to be about yourself, which I know it

1515
01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:57,479
Speaker 1: is hard to do, but like, I go out of

1516
01:20:57,560 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 1: my way to try and tell both sides of the

1517
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:03,240
Speaker 1: story because if I don't, if I just go in

1518
01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:06,000
Speaker 1: there and tell you my version of events, my twisted

1519
01:21:06,120 --> 01:21:09,639
Speaker 1: version of events, maybe through the filter, then I'm actually

1520
01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:12,760
Speaker 1: there to deal with. Then my therapist, like anyone else,

1521
01:21:12,880 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 1: is just gonna say, oh, well, they're going to respond

1522
01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:18,600
Speaker 1: to you in a way that that is indicative of

1523
01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 1: or or you know, responsive of what the way you

1524
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:24,120
Speaker 1: told the story. Oh, mine doesn't mine kids that Mind's like,

1525
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:25,920
Speaker 1: it doesn't even feel bad for me, even if I'm

1526
01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 1: telling story like it was so me. She's like, nope,

1527
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 1: she's well, but maybe maybe well maybe maybe she's seeing

1528
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 1: some bias in in the way that you're telling the story.

1529
01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:37,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's pretty fiery. I don't know what

1530
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:40,040
Speaker 1: we're doing, but she's probably can't see her. So that's

1531
01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 1: fine if I go in there and maybe there's a

1532
01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:43,200
Speaker 1: theme in that. But if I go in there and

1533
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm the victim of everybody, then my therapist is at

1534
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 1: some point is going to realize that I have a

1535
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 1: victim complex and we're gonna work on that. But if

1536
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 1: I go in there and every single time it's everybody

1537
01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 1: else's fault, I'm not growing unless she's going to point

1538
01:21:55,040 --> 01:21:56,760
Speaker 1: that out. We're gonna work on that, you know. So

1539
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:58,439
Speaker 1: I try and go in there and talk objectively, and

1540
01:21:58,520 --> 01:22:01,439
Speaker 1: so that's why but I bring that up because that's why,

1541
01:22:01,560 --> 01:22:03,320
Speaker 1: you know, she when I when I talk to her

1542
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:07,920
Speaker 1: about the X and her therapy situation, She's like, if

1543
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:10,240
Speaker 1: you brought your X in here or you know, at

1544
01:22:10,280 --> 01:22:12,760
Speaker 1: the time my girlfriend, or you brought your father and here,

1545
01:22:12,800 --> 01:22:14,680
Speaker 1: who we talk about? You know, I'm here for you.

1546
01:22:15,160 --> 01:22:18,719
Speaker 1: So those people have to know that I don't really

1547
01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 1: care about them, you know, I'm here to make sure

1548
01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 1: that you get through that process. And that would be

1549
01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 1: a talk that we would have to have, you know,

1550
01:22:25,040 --> 01:22:29,680
Speaker 1: in just a person sits down, I'm your therapist, i'm

1551
01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,599
Speaker 1: your doctor, I'm your whatever. I'm not there for them.

1552
01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm not there to coddle them. I don't you know,

1553
01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm here to work you through that. And so I

1554
01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:41,560
Speaker 1: guess the point of my rant is, I think, you know,

1555
01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:43,600
Speaker 1: you got to be the whole process has to be

1556
01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 1: as objective as possible without any bias, and if if

1557
01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 1: there's any thing there, I think it's going to distract

1558
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 1: the process. I think she's got to find somebody new.

1559
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:53,560
Speaker 1: Oh totally. Yeah. I mean I'll update you guys on

1560
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:56,000
Speaker 1: what happens. But I just feel bad she does love

1561
01:22:56,080 --> 01:22:58,920
Speaker 1: this therapist speaking of there, like both did you guys

1562
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 1: have to find you? Like both of your therapists are pregnant? Weird,

1563
01:23:01,960 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 1: it's not the same lady. But um, so they offer

1564
01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 1: They'll be like, so here's you know, a B or

1565
01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 1: C if you're having a crisis, if you do want

1566
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:10,160
Speaker 1: to see someone. But I was like, you know what,

1567
01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:12,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give my wallet a break. I'm pretty okay.

1568
01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:15,040
Speaker 1: I think knock on what it's December. Everything that could

1569
01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:17,720
Speaker 1: have happened to me this year did already check check check.

1570
01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:19,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, so they offer someone for if you want

1571
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:21,680
Speaker 1: to see someone suddenly, they kind of leave it up

1572
01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:24,599
Speaker 1: to you, gotcha, Um, so you can find someone new,

1573
01:23:24,640 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 1: they can recommend someone new. What did you do? Fred? Did?

1574
01:23:27,920 --> 01:23:29,640
Speaker 1: That was? That was interesting because Kyle and I have

1575
01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:32,680
Speaker 1: the same situation, different people. But yeah, and um, and

1576
01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 1: the funny thing is, I think I mentioned it would

1577
01:23:34,479 --> 01:23:37,120
Speaker 1: had happened, but I haven't seen my therapist in person

1578
01:23:37,360 --> 01:23:40,160
Speaker 1: in you know, since I guess, and so it's all

1579
01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:42,240
Speaker 1: been on zoom and on zoom, you know, you only

1580
01:23:42,280 --> 01:23:44,760
Speaker 1: see kind of boobs up. Yeah, and so I didn't

1581
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:47,120
Speaker 1: even know she was pregnant, and so she says to

1582
01:23:47,200 --> 01:23:51,840
Speaker 1: me maybe September or August. She's like, hey, you know,

1583
01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:56,800
Speaker 1: heads up, I'm expecting. And then and then what was

1584
01:23:56,880 --> 01:23:59,760
Speaker 1: interesting about that is it she kept bringinging it up

1585
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:01,640
Speaker 1: and wanting to sort of get into any sort of

1586
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: feelings I had about it, and I guess that there were.

1587
01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:08,200
Speaker 1: I what I was able to was that there were

1588
01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:10,080
Speaker 1: people who had an issue with it, like they were

1589
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:12,559
Speaker 1: they were mad at her for being pregnant, or they

1590
01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:14,840
Speaker 1: had a negative reaction to it, and I, on the

1591
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:17,240
Speaker 1: other hand, was like, I don't know. You know, what

1592
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:19,200
Speaker 1: it really did for me was it opened my eyes

1593
01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:22,519
Speaker 1: to how little I know about her, and you know,

1594
01:24:22,640 --> 01:24:25,160
Speaker 1: she's there for me, and I know a good therapist

1595
01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:30,000
Speaker 1: doesn't cloud the sort of you know, the therapeutic value

1596
01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:33,559
Speaker 1: with their own life perspective. But I don't know if

1597
01:24:33,600 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 1: she's married. I don't know, if she's a lesbian. I

1598
01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:38,439
Speaker 1: don't know if she is dating someone. I don't know

1599
01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:40,080
Speaker 1: if the kid was an accident. I don't know. I mean,

1600
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:42,400
Speaker 1: there's like a million different scenarios. And I did talk

1601
01:24:42,439 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 1: to her about that. I'm like, you know all this really,

1602
01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 1: I'm happy for you and I'm cool and I'm you know,

1603
01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 1: this is my favorite time of years. So like I'm

1604
01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:51,280
Speaker 1: just gonna take a break and when you come back,

1605
01:24:51,640 --> 01:24:53,439
Speaker 1: I'll come back to you. And yeah, same thing. She

1606
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 1: gave me a phone number, like if anything goes wrong,

1607
01:24:55,840 --> 01:24:57,920
Speaker 1: you can call this number, and this person's covering for me.

1608
01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:00,800
Speaker 1: But what it really opened my eyes to it was

1609
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:04,920
Speaker 1: just how little I know about her after four years

1610
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:07,479
Speaker 1: and this is a person who I who knows everything

1611
01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:10,479
Speaker 1: about me. Yeah, And so we've spent more time talking

1612
01:25:10,520 --> 01:25:12,080
Speaker 1: about that because she's like, well, what do you want

1613
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:13,640
Speaker 1: to know? You know, maybe I'll answer your questions and

1614
01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:15,840
Speaker 1: maybe I won't, depending on if it's appropriate. I'm like, well, no,

1615
01:25:15,920 --> 01:25:17,680
Speaker 1: we don't have to do that. I guess it's just

1616
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:23,560
Speaker 1: My point is this is such a um uh, you know,

1617
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:25,360
Speaker 1: there's a level of what's the word I'm looking for,

1618
01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:31,879
Speaker 1: there's as it's one way relationship. Well, it's it's somewhat nurturing,

1619
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 1: you know, the environment is somewhat nurturing. But yet we're

1620
01:25:35,280 --> 01:25:39,720
Speaker 1: not friends. You know, she she she cares and expresses

1621
01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:42,680
Speaker 1: care for my you know, well being in my progress

1622
01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 1: and my growth, but yet I don't do a damn

1623
01:25:45,520 --> 01:25:47,360
Speaker 1: thing for her. And it's just I'm not used to

1624
01:25:47,439 --> 01:25:51,040
Speaker 1: relationships like that. I have very few close relationships in

1625
01:25:51,160 --> 01:25:53,960
Speaker 1: my life, and those relationships I think are pretty even right,

1626
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 1: and those people come to me and I go to them,

1627
01:25:56,280 --> 01:25:59,160
Speaker 1: and then there's this other thing over here where um

1628
01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:00,880
Speaker 1: I think. The other thing that throws me off a

1629
01:26:00,920 --> 01:26:02,640
Speaker 1: little bit about my therapist is that she could be

1630
01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:04,960
Speaker 1: a peer because she's I think a year or two

1631
01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:09,240
Speaker 1: younger than I am. And so I guess it's in

1632
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:11,439
Speaker 1: my experience, I've never been able to relate to a

1633
01:26:11,560 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 1: therapist because they've always been so much older than me,

1634
01:26:14,960 --> 01:26:17,800
Speaker 1: and it just seems so far away. And in this case,

1635
01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:19,720
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm interacting with a peer, like if

1636
01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:21,519
Speaker 1: I met this woman at a party. I think we

1637
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 1: would be friends. Yeah, I need that. I need them

1638
01:26:23,880 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 1: to feel like they could be a peer, you know

1639
01:26:25,439 --> 01:26:26,840
Speaker 1: what I mean. I don't know for me, and I

1640
01:26:26,920 --> 01:26:29,040
Speaker 1: need them to let me ask them twenty ques like mine,

1641
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:31,880
Speaker 1: she knows in the beginning, twenty questions like show me

1642
01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:34,920
Speaker 1: your belly, do a turn, how do you have any sicknesses?

1643
01:26:35,320 --> 01:26:38,599
Speaker 1: Like how's your husband? Like she Yeah, so I would

1644
01:26:38,680 --> 01:26:40,960
Speaker 1: need that. Yeah, I didn't do any of that. I

1645
01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:42,640
Speaker 1: didn't do any of that. I mean I asked her

1646
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:44,840
Speaker 1: show I should stand up and show me your belly,

1647
01:26:44,880 --> 01:26:50,679
Speaker 1: but no traffic